Update I, 2:24 p.m. ET:
I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday. I’m still on vacay, but I stopped in to update you on legendary rapper Heavy D’s cause of death. As we suspected, he died of blood clots in his lung that traveled from his legs (deep vein thrombosis, or DVT). This is the same clotting disorder that Tamar Braxton’s husband, Vince, was recently hospitalized with. I will update you if there are any further developments…
Originally posted on Nov. 11, 2011 @ 10:18 a.m.
According to the NY Daily News, rapper Heavy D saw a doctor the day before he died tragically at age 44.
Rap legend Heavy D knew something was seriously wrong with his health the day before he suddenly collapsed and died Tuesday, officials told the Daily News.
“He had gone to the doctor the day before,” Ed Winter, Assistant Chief of the Los Angeles County Coroner’s office, told the Daily News. “He had what appeared to be like flu-like symptoms.”
“He was taking medication, so we want to see what the levels were,” Winter said.
Heavy D, whose real name was Dwight Arrington Myers, had just gotten back from a trip to England. “He said he had a touch of pneumonia, maybe from traveling,” is cousin, Ruddy Phillips, told The News.
But Heavy D also could have died from a pulmonary embolism, a fatal consequence of sitting for prolonged periods of time during long distance travel. Pulmonary embolisms are often misdiagnosed as something else — such as pneumonia or cardiac arrest.
In fact, some attorneys base their entire practice around misdiagnosed pulmonary embolism cases.
According to the Daily News, an autopsy was completed Wednesday morning, but a preliminary cause of death won’t be released until toxicology tests are performed. The tests could take up to six weeks to complete.
Source: RWS
THIS IS JUST SOOOOO SAD!
DiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDeeeeeeeee
The conspiracy part of me is raising eyebrows with this pulmonary ish cause it seems everybody is getting it like the H1N1 which we never hear about anymore
Its hard for me to look at Heavy D cause he reminds me sooooo much of my step father…..
But Heavy D used to jam back in the day…and he could move his ass off…
RIP Overweight Lova!!!
NaijaGal says:
The conspiracy part of me is raising eyebrows with this pulmonary ish cause it seems everybody is getting it like the H1N1 which we never hear about anymore
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Its that contaigon chit…..Just like the movie!
ok Sandra imma need a prozac or sumthin messin round with u on my day off all these heavy arse posts this mortink
RIP Heavy
RIP HEAVY D
He was my 1st ‘big boy’ crush!
@NaijaGal I too am beginning to wonder about this pulmonary embolism stuff…
RIP Heavy D
I always liked him and found him sexy. this is so sad to pass at such a young age
I won’t lie, since Sandra started talking about pulmonary embolism, I make sure I stand and walk frequently in my office. i could really sit there for hours
Hold me Pint Size
I still can’t believe he’s gone 
Rest In Love Heavy D
Hey Vero
HBD to lil Vero! & i do love how Sandra drops her medical knowledge on us too 
Still
Thank you fayfay
For real, you can’t deny it can be really informative at times
Ta-Bew
my hubby is the same age Heavy was 
#close2home
YSo

Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:
THIS IS JUST SOOOOO SAD!
DiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDeeeeeeeee
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:hugs: TATTTTTTED!!! I was sooo sad after I read this post, but you brought me back with your “DiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDeeeeeeeee”
we got our own thang
may his soul rest in peace
YSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO :hugs:
happy friday ladies!!!
I’m
Mr. Big Stuff, will be missed.
@ Sandra – “In fact, some attorneys base their entire practice around misdiagnosed pulmonary embolism cases.”
A very close friend of mine died in the same manner, he too had just seen his physican. His family did in deed sue. They used the money to start a foundation at his high school.
It’s not even noon…I need a glass of wine
@ Fay Fay – My sis-in-law is that age and I will be that age in about 8 years….THAT’S TOO YOUNG!
@ NaijaGal and lady_cn:
Good doctors ask a lot of questions, such as “Do you have chest pain, difficulty breathing, pain in your legs? and “Did you just get back from overseas?” If Heavy D was complaining of flu-like symptoms after just getting off a plane from England, a good doctor would have drawn his blood and run a scan on him. Pulmonary embolism often gets misdiagnosed because doctors don’t do the basics such as asking the right questions.
Still in shock, can’t believe it

What’s the deal
I wanna know is this love for real
Or could it be lust that I feel
You got it going on and on like a real fly sex appeal
Physique extra ill sun sweet dress to kill
You got me open like token hot and smokin
Jacuzzi bubble bath laughin joking
Candle light talking about how you and your ex-man fight
Tropical sight beach sand white listen
Seafood dishes wine cooler champagne wishes waterbed head
Fine do with some riches
our loveable hugeable I love the cute
As long as I’m around and down nothin could ever trouble you
I want your body
The way you touch me
Ridin in your Caddie
You could be my big daddy
Take it slowly
Heavy hold me
Ridin in your Caddie
you could be my big daddy
I spend quality time
Cute face haircut like the Hally design
Keep my day laced up with fly gear and makeup
But you should see her when she wake up never could we brake up
Shop till you drop cause the cream dont stop
Buy you a bunch of outfits your sexy your hot
So she could look good for Hev D
Overweight loving MC rub you gently
You know its C big CEO sex-o-pee
Mac game similar next to gold and flex
You might feelme creeping to your room late at night
It’s hell a waterbed so get it right
You be like that its that big nigger we all up tonight
Game ear tight why you caught up in the hype
That’s right that’s miggie, miggie, biggie
Baby your ready for big daddy
@ WCC – that was the jam!!
<— me really doing the prep!
hey therapist, and Naija
Sandra Rose says:
@ NaijaGal and lady_cn:
Good doctors ask a lot of questions, such as “Do you have chest pain, difficulty breathing, pain in your legs? and “Did you just get back from overseas?” If Heavy D was complaining of flu-like symptoms after just getting off a plane from England, a good doctor would have drawn his blood and run a scan on him. Pulmonary embolism often gets misdiagnosed because doctors don’t do the basics such as asking the right questions.
___________________________________________________________that is absoutly the rruth cause they ask me those exact question when i went fro my annual, all those questions to be exact and one i dont understand ” DO I FEEL SAFE IN MY HOME
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:
@ WCC – that was the jam!! <— me really doing the prep!
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caligirl says:
It’s not even noon…I need a glass of wine
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You and Me Both!!!
<—-Razorback Red Wine
***truth***
VERO!! :hugs: x 5
FAYLA!! :hugs:
WCC!!
WCC!
wut it dew bew?
hola sweetness
(consolement)
witcha
Naija!!!!!
CFreezy
Cali
I want your body
The way you touch me
Ridin in your Caddie
You could be my big daddy
Take it slowly
Heavy hold me
Ridin in your Caddie
you could be my big daddy
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ohhhhhhhh shiiiiiiid!
Creamychic says:
Sandra Rose says:
@ NaijaGal and lady_cn:
Good doctors ask a lot of questions, such as “Do you have chest pain, difficulty breathing, pain in your legs? and “Did you just get back from overseas?” If Heavy D was complaining of flu-like symptoms after just getting off a plane from England, a good doctor would have drawn his blood and run a scan on him. Pulmonary embolism often gets misdiagnosed because doctors don’t do the basics such as asking the right questions.
___________________________________________________________that is absoutly the rruth cause they ask me those exact question when i went fro my annual, all those questions to be exact and one i dont understand ” DO I FEEL SAFE IN MY HOME
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Domestic Violence.
I want your body
that song!!!
The way you touch me
Ridin in your Caddie
You could be my big daddy
Take it slowly
Heavy hold me
Ridin in your Caddie
you could be my big daddy
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I used to
@VERO
Oh, and
to your baby!
@ Creamychic: the doctor was assessing your home environment to see if you’re being beaten on the regular by an abusive spouse or boyfriend. That was a good doctor
Sandra Rose says:
@ NaijaGal and lady_cn:
Good doctors ask a lot of questions, such as “Do you have chest pain, difficulty breathing, pain in your legs? and “Did you just get back from overseas?” If Heavy D was complaining of flu-like symptoms after just getting off a plane from England, a good doctor would have drawn his blood and run a scan on him. Pulmonary embolism often gets misdiagnosed because doctors don’t do the basics such as asking the right questions.
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so you think the doctor failed to give him a blood test? Do we know if it was his regular physician?
Goes to youtube to listen to Big Daddy!
@WCC
hey diva
Gooooooooooooooooooood mornin’ everyone!
@ Chiby- Hey lady. What part of Texas are you in?
TaBew me 2 (in bout 8) i mean we have VERY healthy ins. policies for our children & all, but ion want that money i want my MANE nahmean? we both want to die together.
Thank you Yso
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
I want your body
that song!!!
The way you touch me
Ridin in your Caddie
You could be my big daddy
Take it slowly
Heavy hold me
Ridin in your Caddie
you could be my big daddy
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I used to
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Meeeeee toooooo!
CFreezy ALWAYS my breezy, ALWAYS
@lashellebelle GM
Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister says:
TaBew me 2 (in bout 8) i mean we have VERY healthy ins. policies for our children & all, but ion want that money i want my MANE nahmean? we both want to die together.
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You make me sigg, because I all heard was Meth Man!
heeeeey Lashelle
Hey Fayla Boo!
Happy Friday!
Tatts!!! Hey Punkin. This ~~~~~~~~~>
should be YOUR signal.
Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerk!
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
Goes to youtube to listen to Big Daddy!
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thats gone be my friday theme song
@ Sandra and Anna thanks #Helpful, cause I look at her like WHY? Glad I know now
@lashellebelle AND it’s a holiday
chillin like a mug!
HAPPY VETERAN’S DAY TO MY VETS!! s/o to Mr. Fayla
@Lashellebelle
I’m not in Texas…but I’m originally from Dallas….
vero says:
I won’t lie, since Sandra started talking about pulmonary embolism, I make sure I stand and walk frequently in my office. i could really sit there for hours
******
Vero me too! I get up and walk every 30minutes to an hour. I’m even re thinking our drive to New Orleans for the Jay-Z concert.
@ Creamychic: My GYN also ask very detailed questions. At first I was shocked….
What type of realtionship are you in?
What are your methods of contraception, even though you have a tubaliagation.
How long have you been in the realtionship?
Are things going well?
Are you happy?
Is there any abuse?
I was really shocked, but I really enjoy seeing her each year and saving my life earlier this year, when she was preseisnt about a growth of a tumor I had! Gotta love a well trained DOC!
TaBew i can’t say what i really wanna in this here post boutcho gravi, but wait till Sandra brings a

@ YSO..about the good report card..what did you decide to do?
@WCC i see you up there doing the Wobble to BIG DADDY ,, Love it
@ Chiby;
OH DANG IT. I thought you were still here. I guess I should pay better attention. I THOUGHT I saw something about you & Dallas. I was going to invite you to my birthday par-tay!
@ TITTs (oooops, I meant TATTS) I’m just SAYIN’!!!!
@ Fayla
And here I am at WORK!!!
Watching this video and seeing all the swag and charisma Heavy D had….he put a lot of “pretty boys and well cut men” to shame!!
caligirl says:
@ Creamychic: My GYN also ask very detailed questions. At first I was shocked….
What type of realtionship are you in?
What are your methods of contraception, even though you have a tubaliagation.
How long have you been in the realtionship?
Are things going well?
Are you happy?
Is there any abuse?
I was really shocked, but I really enjoy seeing her each year and saving my life earlier this year, when she was preseisnt about a growth of a tumor I had! Gotta love a well trained DOC!
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you so right I was like
when my doctor asked 50-11 ? but hey I see that she is doing a good job, so he is #helpful
lashellebelle says:
@ Chiby;
OH DANG IT. I thought you were still here. I guess I should pay better attention. I THOUGHT I saw something about you & Dallas. I was going to invite you to my birthday par-tay!
If I was at home I’d come…
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Thanks for the invite though!
When is your bday?
Fayla
Ms. Ya Ya
Creamy
WCC
Don’t know the name but the guy at the wine store recommended it last week, it a DRY Rose Sparking Moscato. I’ll give you details on Monday. 5:00 can’t come soon enough…
@ Fay Fay – OH REALLY????!!!! Now you got me curious! WAIT :stop:
the presses! I’m not ‘spose to be tawkin’ to you today because you were braggin ’bout having today off!
@ Lashelle – girl…….TRUST ME, I ain’t stopping no traffic….NOT YET! Give me a few months!
FayFay that’s right. Veteran’s day. It’s a big celebration here, even if there are like 1 or 2 left that fought during WWI. (in france i mean).
But I love it because it’s a day off
Flsun i swear, Yesterday I drove for like 1 hour straight (it very long considering the island is small) and I was like wow, I need to get where I go ASAP. I couldn’t to stretch my leg !
@ Chiby
It’s not until the 23rd, but the party is next Friday in Lancaster.
They dont have any rose moscato in philly I gotta check tonight and see again but my friend in NY swears by it…
It’s Friday
@ Chiby
Your hair looks real nice.
Creamychic says:
@WCC i see you up there doing the Wobble to BIG DADDY ,, Love it


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you brought me BACK with that song!!!
:hugs:
aww damn lashelle u makin me wanna go to D-Town! my folks been houndin me bout when i’m comin back
@ Tatts- I don’t believe that. Every time I try to scroll down, I have to do a double take & then keep going.
:wave: hey Yaya.. who’s the guy in your gravi?
@ Fayla-
GET CHO TAIL down here then!
Awwww Lashelle – belle ———YOU DON’T KNOW HOW HARD A BISH IS BLUSHING!
lashellebelle says:
@ Chiby
It’s not until the 23rd, but the party is next Friday in Lancaster.
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See and I usually come home for about a week and half for Thanksgiving…but my parents and sisters are coming here for Thanksgiving….
There is always next year!!!
@Ms Ya Ya
(a bish is really to lazy to come her own hair is what it really is)
Thanks suga….I’m trying something new…Going for an island/exotic look for the winter…..
and morning Everybody
and
‘s
Don’t know the name but the guy at the wine store recommended it last week, it a DRY Rose Sparking Moscato. I’ll give you details on Monday. 5:00 can’t come soon enough…
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*licks lips* um yeah THAT sounds yum-E! please share
@TaBew :stop: u know u couldnt stop speaking to me if u tried

@WCC what’s that FB info again?
@sexyphillygirl – I’m really exicted now. This guy sells me a different type of wine on a regular. We are well stocked through the holidays. Not sure if you like reds, but try Voulet, fizzy red wine. NOT TO BE SHARED.
Heeeey Creamsicle!
@ Fay Fay – quit pullin’ a bish hoe-card in front of ALL DEEZ HERE FOLK!
@ Chiby:
& you’re right! God willing, there’s always next year
@ Tatts:
Hey WCC :wave: That’s my lil quarterback, my heart, and the best son ever. He’s in college playing football now AND he is still maintaining his grades always did keep a strong 4.0 or higher
@Ms Ya Ya
He’s handsome….
@tatted I friggin love it
@ Chiby
I am wearing twist now and I am loving it.
I am the same way. If I can’t take my bonnet off and just shake and go I don’t want it!
SANDRA !!!
– Its almost impossible to misdiagnose a PE (pulmonary embolism).
ex. SOB + hypoxia + clear c-xray + risk factor = PE
Anyone with an MD knows this – doubt he died of a PE.
Trust me- i know.
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
@Ms Ya Ya
He’s handsome….
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Thanks Chiby!
I remember when I flew out to Vegas this past Feb and my legs started hurting I immediately got up and started walking on the plane, I got scared I had a bloodclot forming.
@ Fayla Thanks! I’m proud, especially since I raised him by myself
sexyphillygirl says:
I remember when I flew out to Vegas this past Feb and my legs started hurting I immediately got up and started walking on the plane, I got scared I had a bloodclot forming.
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Your legs were probably just fatigued but you did the right thing!
Dr. O says:
– Its almost impossible to misdiagnose a PE (pulmonary embolism).
ex. SOB + hypoxia + clear c-xray + risk factor = PE
Anyone with an MD knows this – doubt he died of a PE.
Trust me- i know.
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And yet it happens all the time, hun. As for the risk factor, what if the doctor didn’t ask if he had just gotten back from England?
@ Dr. O:
And what if Heavy D wasn’t hypoxic? And what if the doctor didn’t think to get a chest x-ray? You can’t say it’s “impossible” to misdiagnose PE because there are documented cases that proves it happens a lot.
@ Dr. O:
But if you’re a real doctor, then I defer to you.
@ sandra
And yet it happens all the time, hun. As for the risk factor, what if the doctor didn’t ask if he had just gotten back from England?
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-Part of seeing a patient is obtaining a complete and thorough history and physcical.
@ sandra
And what if Heavy D wasn’t hypoxic? And what if the doctor didn’t think to get a chest x-ray? You can’t say it’s “impossible” to misdiagnose PE because there are documented cases that proves it happens a lot.
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If the PE was severe enough to kill him he must have been hypoxic on some level -depending on what type of PE it is ( ex. a saddle PE will kill you quicker than your run of the mill PE)
But I will give you this -I retract my words “impossible” and lets instead use the word improbable if the patient is appropriately examined.
By the way…..I really am a doctor : )
I don’t post often – but I do enjoy your site daily !
Well Welcome back Chiby… whats up
Hey tatted and YSO
Whats going on yall.
IGT
you do realize all dem posts from nov 11’th right>?
The post in here are old Igo. I think we still in the Braylon post
@Ace, Where is our new question?
@ I Go There: You’re responding to old comments. Look at the dates.
By the way, in case you’re all wondering: Heavy D’s survivors might have a good case against the doctor who diagnosed him with pneumonia.
Wow we have a Dr in the house! Do that Auntie! Dr. O!
so sad…welcome back Auntie!
Choco, Getcho azz back in the Braylon post
Ace’s Random Question of the Moment
(this gonna come out weird because my real question more power to you . This question gonna get answered all kinda of wrong as the freak level around here is quite high. so keep in mind this question is not about you personally as we know Everyone here is upstanding SR citizens
)
As a single black man i run into alot of women who say they are looking for a man who isn’t just about sex.
But yet they want a man to have no kids, be “generous”, have his own place, own car, good job, be “generous”;have all these great qualities and expect us to peruse them for what they have to offer. And when a man ask a women what she can provide she get offended. Some women place themselves on pedestal. like they are the prize.so my question is(i think)
Is a Man wrong for asking a women to take her pu$$y off the table and reevaluate her worth(what she has to offer a man)?
(If all that confuses you its because i had a question in my head but couldn’t find the words and if you can’t answer the above try answering the below)
What are you have(other then your pu$$y) to offer a successful man that would give him reason to pursue you?
This still makes me sad.
Hello SR friends and neighbors. Hope everyone is still enjoying their holiday. I, for one, just want a nice little dark corner to curl up in until after the New Year.
well I keep it simple. I dont ask for what I can’t offer. I want to see the repsponses too.
side-eye to all u heffas who are still off work.
Sandra Rose says:
@ I Go There: You’re responding to old comments. Look at the dates.
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yeah I know that now…. After I did it I was like WTF.

:hugs: @YSo
@Ace
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with asking a woman what more she has to offer. I actually have a friend who carries the attitude that she doesn’t need to offer anything besides her “beauty” and “good company” and “pussy”, but when it comes to more tangible things she gets all crazy and says that’s for the MAN to bring…I think her attitude stinks and if more men looked for more in a woman than what’s between her legs I think there would be less gold digging, scandalous, back stabbing situations at hand…
*creates a corner for Yso outta her own dreads*
Ace, good question. Personally I have alot to offer (other than great sex)
If you can get a dude sprung on your thoughts and what your next conversation will be, he’ll continue to be interested. Good sex is just a plus
IMO
@Ace No, you’re not wrong. Not at all. A lot of men would do better if they asked the same question.
@YSo
Where you been?
@ACE
You know they goin say they don’t “persue” men and then proceed to quote from the bible about “…a man finds his wife.”

Trust me.
@ace an equal the drive and dedication to be my own woman be it money or carrer but be able to be his down bish if i had too… basicly dont depend on him bring my own $$ and morals to the table..
HOLD UP DO I WANT TO KNOW??
@iheart wats going on in the old post?
@IGO
U THOUGHT CHI WAS BACK IN HUH?? GOT ALL ESSITED!!
very sad lose
ACE!! :hugs:
How you be?
On to your questions…
Is a Man wrong for asking a women to take her pu$$y off the table and reevaluate her worth(what she has to offer a man)?
No he’s not. Every natural born woman has one so if that’s all you have to offer a man you’re gonna get lost the crowd.
What are you have(other then your pu$$y) to offer a successful man that would give him reason to pursue you? Hm…My sunny disposition? Okay, seriously…My mind, my sense of humor, my honestly and trustworthiness, my fierce loyalty but low threshold for bs…And I can cook. Kinda.
@YSO I MISSD U SUGAR DROP
**SPLENDA DROP SO I CAN TASTE IT!**
Sad about Hev I read about this a few moments ago on another site. Hev is still missed.
*adds that to the list (tessis, sessi)* Too funny!
FEFE!! YALL!! SAM!! LAKER!! Group :hugs:
@PHO
Who’s that fish in your Gravi? Or is that a fish with a stick?
Merry Christmas Knowledge
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@ACE
You know they goin say they don’t “persue” men and then proceed to quote from the bible about “…a man finds his wife.”
Trust me.
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Yep… soon as you said Persue
you got about 40% of em talking about how they dont persue a man. BS
@YALL
U KNOW I GO BY MY LAKEZDICTIONARY 
Yso, did you see you xmas gift I made for you outta your own hair
#nowwheresmygiftyo
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
@IGO U THOUGHT CHI WAS BACK IN HUH?? GOT ALL ESSITED!!
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Whatever… I know YOU not calling anybody that.
LOL
YALLC
:hugs: merry new year and happy xmas to you shawty hope you had a good xmas
@IGO
SHUT UP!!
I WASSS SSCARED NOT EESSITED!!
GET THE SHYT RIGHT!!! 
so um I just figured out what ESSISTED was and…………….
Ace, maybe more guys should ask those questions. I could just imagine the look on some of my friends (really just acquaintances) faces when they figure out what they’re being asked
and how they’d answer. SMH
(If all that confuses you its because i had a question in my head but couldn’t find the words and if you can’t answer the above try answering the below)
What are you have(other then your pu$$y) to offer a successful man that would give him reason to pursue you?
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Welllllll. I am smart. I am kind. I am important.
I have good head to offer. SEE…that is not my hot box. You said…other than puss-cee..
I can cook.
I make my own money and I have secret bank accounts. Plural. And as my now estranged husband said “You thank your azz slick don’t chu? You think I don’t know you get your other statements sent round your momma house?” Nukka I don’t care WHATCHU know. Whatcho azz DON’T know is my balance. GTFOH.
I wouldn’t ask you to be an instant step-dad to my kids. Cause chances are they gonna nignore the fukk outta you anyyyy-t-way. The lil one is waiting on her dad to come home (HA) and the oldest doesn’t really give a fugg. If you let her drive your car she will leave us the hail alone and might een take her SISTER with her.
@LOLITA ESSITED
USE IT EMBRACE IT LOOOVE IT!! 
@YALL
I saw. I’m making your gift right now so don’t peek.
(tells Gravi to strain a little harder to get YALL’s present out)
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I WASSS SSCARED NOT EESSITED!!
Brown, you created a new word that I think is “Existed”.
@ACE
It’s a good question but I’d only ask it in response to a woman asking me something similar.
Like you said, you know they always talkin bout a nigga bein “generous” and chit.
@ the men in the room…
Even though I don’t pursue men, and I think that men should pursue women, I STILL think that women need to have more than a pretty face, smile, nice azz, and a pussy to offer…
I know that I was very focused on getting myself together mentally, spiritually, and emotionally before I met my husband…men also need to know how to recognize when a chick ain’t got it together and move on instead of filling her head up with bullshyt, fcking her repeatedly, and making the situation even more messy…
:cicimiddletoe: @ Yso
#nasty
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
@IGO SHUT UP!! I WASSS SSCARED NOT EESSITED!! GET THE SHYT RIGHT!!!
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NO you got ran off the block
next thing you know you were putting up “50 feet” markers and shait.
just backed up.
**wants to change threads due to Tetra 114’s gravie**

Is a Man wrong for asking a women to take her pu$$y off the table and reevaluate her worth(what she has to offer a man)?
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No in fact I would want a man thinking like this anyway
What are you have(other then your pu$$y) to offer a successful man that would give him reason to pursue you?
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A nice smile, independence, I know my self worth, support, friendship concern and care
Chief
I think “scared” and “ran off the block” is the same thing
#helpful
@FE FE
“Even though I don’t pursue men, and I think that men should pursue women, I STILL think that women need to have more than a pretty face, smile, nice azz, and a pussy to offer… I know that I was very focused on getting myself together mentally, spiritually, and emotionally before I met my husband…men also need to know how to recognize when a chick ain’t got it together and move on instead of filling her head up with bullshyt, fcking her repeatedly, and making the situation even more messy…”
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Why don’t you feel women should pursue men? Serious question. Seems to me a woman would WANT to be the pursuer since they take on most of the risk in a r/ship.
Is a Man wrong for asking a women to take her pu$$y off the table and reevaluate her worth(what she has to offer a man)?
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Well firsta all she need to have a seat and get her azz/hotbox up off your table anyway. That is bad manners. You not wrong for making her sit elsewhere.
My own personal worth is measured in my life in other ways. My kids, my family, work, church, friends. My 401k statement and my now worthless newspaper stock is not gonna help me.
Leakes will appear on the season premiere of the show January 17, 2012 in an episode entitled “Yes/No” as a swim coach and recently confirmed via twitter that her character’s name on Glee is Coach Roz Washington.
NENE annoys me!
If all yall runnin into is chicks wantin you to be generous then I suggest you look elsewhere.
I’ve never in my life told a niccah I was lookin for someone generous
@Yso, I left you a message in the Braylon post
Igo,Brown and Choco might like to see it too
Brown, I hate when folks don’t say “goodbye” “bye” not even an “aight” etc and just hang up the phone.
No home training! #nooffense
*looks @double L
405
please do not include me in your messiness!
@Man
If a woman WANTS to be the pursuer that’s her prerogative…I said that I don’t pursue men, and it’s mostly because I’ve never had to…even men that I liked from afar ended up approaching me at some point in time…so I’m not really good at it, nor do I think it’s an attractive trait (for me…)
KNOWLEDGE
KNOWLEDGE
KNOWLEDGE
@BROWN
“If all yall runnin into is chicks wantin you to be generous then I suggest you look elsewhere.
I’ve never in my life told a niccah I was lookin for someone generous”
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Most don’t say it outright, but allude to it and do chit indirectly.
It is what it is. Nothing to be upset about.
since that ass continue to stay in the dog house you gon have to do somethin special before you get this again
I’ve never in my life told a niccah I was lookin for someone generous
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Me neither, but HAVE ALWAYS been approached by a chump talmbout he can/will do this or that. #nogame
(The old me) Still took their money, but they never got my respect.
and keep it moving…
Nowadays, I just laugh it off
Not a good look for a woman to pursue a man. Nothing wrong with a woman letting herself know she is interested but pursing him naw not good. The man should do that b/c the chase is more fun when I do it. Letting the woman do it loses it’s effect.
@IGO OH OK I GOT RAN OFF AND GAVE U 50 FEET… WHATS THE POINT? I SAID SSSCARED SO
@FE FE
“If a woman WANTS to be the pursuer that’s her prerogative…I said that I don’t pursue men, and it’s mostly because I’ve never had to…even men that I liked from afar ended up approaching me at some point in time…so I’m not really good at it, nor do I think it’s an attractive trait (for me…)”
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k
man I wasnt gettin upset I was askin a question and makin a statement
I dont approach men but I can’t say that I wouldn’t doesn’t make me feel less attractive or more – just depends
DAMN DOUBLE L 3x with the name love? got me all hot and things
2know the ledge says:
Not a good look for a woman to pursue a man. Nothing wrong with a woman letting herself know she is interested but pursing him naw not good. The man should do that b/c the chase is more fun when I do it. Letting the woman do it loses it’s effect.
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When I was single, successful men pursued me for my looks then they discovered my personality, then my intellect. The later scared off ALOT of them, couldn’t handle a women who was a equal hustler. I would be married, divorced collecting settlements like Kobe’s wife if I kept my mouth shut and spread it low and wide on demand. Kicks rocks
@Yall you just described the telephone skills of my youngest bipolar sister. The baby.
You can still be tawkin to that bish after… “Hey how are ya. Is mom there?”
Her: No.
Your Dumb Azz: Well how are you doing today….hello? Hello?
THEN you are reminded that not only is her azz slow and mental…she rude as a summabish TOO. That heffa has not had a goodbye for anybody since 1989 on the phone. Not sure why it still pisses us all off still.
WTF is pursuing a man tho cuz I think that term is relative
Like my friend I have I didn’t pursue but they way we met I guess you could say I initiated the communication he asked for my number tho so IDK
YALL
I’ve been propositioned planty of times but never took them up on their offer because I never wanted a man to be able to say he did anything for me… in that type of situation anyway
THE MANAGER AND SUPERVISOR ARE GONE TODAY… I WANT TO GO HOME!!
Knowledge
it was a simple mistake
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
@IGO OH OK I GOT RAN OFF AND GAVE U 50 FEET… WHATS THE POINT? I SAID SSSCARED SO
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My point is how can you say what I was doing (which was being nice…cause im always nice) when you were doing worse.
WTF is pursuing a man tho
^^ IS CHRISSY PROPOSING TO JIMMY PURSUING?
Well forget you then Brown *humph* there was no messiness at all
As far as a man being generous I mean isn’t that a given if he has any worth – not a pushover but I mean if we going out on a first date the guy could pay for it IMO it’s not like I would expect that on every date now as far as paying my bills Im blessed to be able to do that for myself
@Choco
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with letting a man know that you are interested, and that can be something as small as smiling at him, winking at him, being extra conversational, etc. But to approach a dude and ask for his number and straight start spitting lines to him would seem a bit “off” to me…but that’s just my take on it…
I would be married, divorced collecting settlements like Kobe’s wife if I kept my mouth shut and spread it low and wide on demand
Kdub,
I say you don’t talk to her on the phone ANYMORE! (overdramatic voice)
You thinking somebody is listening and then realize they are gone! ROAR
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Crickett, I concur. And I know alot of guys who claim to want someone of some substance, but when they meet them it hardly ever works out and he ends up with a hoodrat.
(not all men) But a whole lot of them think they want a strong smart woman, but they really dont know how to deal with/or handle it.
@IGO OH OK MY BAD… U GOOD?
**IDK WTF IS GOING ON**
I SOO HUNGRY!! IM MAD I MISSD THE RE-RUN OF SSCARED SKRAIT!!
My kid’s father routinely tells me my problem is “I think too much”.
This is a “put down” aaparently. Ooh #burn?
But to approach a dude and ask for his number and straight start spitting lines to him would seem a bit “off” to me…but that’s just my take on it…
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Well yeah that’s too much work IMO plus just not my role and hasn’t been
But a whole lot of them think they want a strong smart woman, but they really dont know how to deal with/or handle it.
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Yep I think this is the case with some guys also
This is the 1st time in my life where I don’t need any outside assistance and the feeling is wonderful! I really can’t describe it though
GOD is good…
@kdub sis
no click…
shyt is rude my brother does it and it piss me off dont say by nothing just click..
Scott Disick can’t wait for “Kourtney and Kim Take New York” to end so he can stop pretending with Kourtney.
Anyone who has wasted their time watching Kourtney and Kim Take New Yorkknows that Scott and Kourtney’s relationship is a little on the odd side… they sleep in separate bedrooms, Kourtney can’t stand Scott and he spends a lot of time looking at porn (he even confessed his relationship is a mess to pimpmomager Kris Jenner). Scott actually left Kourtney for a day or two to move in with Jonathan Cheban after the couple stopped speaking over some petty nonsense.
Meanwhile, Kourtney insults Scott and his family, finds everything he does annoying and then looks despondent when her sisters try to counsel her to pay more attention to the man she claims to love. That made it all the more shocking when Kourtney announced she was pregnant with the couple’s second child — still with no plans to get married despite rumors that Scott had bought Kourtney a ring.
Well, it seems Scott may be looking to return that ring and leave Kourt for realz! In Touch Weekly is reporting that “unbeknownst to Kourtney, Scott has hatched a secret plan to ditch her, their son, Mason, 2, and the new baby – and move cross-country to New York.”
“Scott has been reaching out to his old group of buddies in New York and telling them that he can’t wait to get away from Kourtney and her family for a while, start partying again and launch a club in the city,” a close friend of Scott’s tells the mag. “Scott wants a place in New York City where he can escape the family and get some space to do his own thing.”
“He’s talking to potential producers and partners,” the friend adds. “Kourtney thinks the baby changed his mind, but it didn’t.” Even more shocking the friend reveals Scott and Kourtney’s relationship has been been a fake for a while! “His relationship with her isn’t real,” the source reveals. “He’s only still in it because he’s getting paid.”
Jacked from Reality Tea
Ill say this… Nothing wrong with a woman persuing you and vise versa.
If we are compatible and the respect is there im pretty cool with anything. She just have to know that I will make her an important piece of my life but she must do that same… now about spending money. Ill take a woman out and we can have dinner a movie, dancing the whole thing….BUT I will not give women money or pay their bills… You must have my last name in order to get that.
Men like the thrill of the hunt and everything, but maybe they want to chased once and a while too. Why shouldn’t a woman go after what she wants? Within reason, of course. #NoFatalAttraction
That feels like some Disney Princess sht to me, waiting around for my “prince” to come. Blech.
@fefe Its a true statement b/c most men feel it is more worth while chasing after the woman. Some of us have let women do so much and when it comes time to actually purse them it loses its appeal when she is doing everything. That’s just like giving it up the first date. Wow its saying to some of us you a KIM K. Real talk b/c if you gave it to me on the first then you are a great bed tech with other cats and you only good for that. Hell me I rather sleep with you in my head b/c hell all dudes do it but when it comes time to get your breezy on I want to know it was worth it. #IJS
@CHOCO
“As far as a man being generous I mean isn’t that a given if he has any worth – not a pushover but I mean if we going out on a first date the guy could pay for it IMO it’s not like I would expect that on every date now as far as paying my bills Im blessed to be able to do that for myself”
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That’s why I was like it ain’t nothin to trip over. Those basically the rules of the game. Just how it go.
My father (who is a serious male chauvinist) told me that the women’s/feminist movement was a GIFT and a CURSE…that it was necessary because women deserved rights in the same areas as men, but that it really hurt the “role” that men and women played for centuries prior to the movement…he truly thinks that this is the reason why there are so many STRONG women and so many BYTCH-MADE men in the world today…
I don’t need any outside assistance and the feeling is wonderful! I really can’t describe it though
GOD is good…
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And this is what fears me most like would I be able to trust someone else to take care of me and my responsibilities I’ve done it on my own for so long that I know I would have to adjust
@choco they seem so miserable together on the show… and he is totally fed up with her and she is sooo beyond cold to him..
why have another baby tho?
That’s why I was like it ain’t nothin to trip over. Those basically the rules of the game. Just how it go.
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Well this is what Im accustomed to….
why have another baby tho?
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im wondering if this baby thingy is another publicity stunt
YSoSerious says:
Men like the thrill of the hunt and everything, but maybe they want to chased once and a while too. Why shouldn’t a woman go after what she wants? Within reason, of course. #NoFatalAttraction
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Thats what Im talking about… aint nothing wrong with that.
An it doesnt say anything bad about the woman if she does that.
@IGO
Exactly. I would not be cool asking some dude to pay my bills and we aren’t even living together. Cause that leads to him wanting to tell me what I can and can’t do in MY sht cause he’s “contributing”.
@FE FE
“My father (who is a serious male chauvinist) told me that the women’s/feminist movement was a GIFT and a CURSE…that it was necessary because women deserved rights in the same areas as men, but that it really hurt the “role” that men and women played for centuries prior to the movement…he truly thinks that this is the reason why there are so many STRONG women and so many BYTCH-MADE men in the world today…”
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I agree 100%… not only the feminist movement but the “war on povertly” inadvertently “rewarded” families with no male in the household.
Made a lot of bitches and bitch made men.
Yall still crazy says:
Ace, maybe more guys should ask those questions. I could just imagine the look on some of my friends (really just acquaintances) faces when they figure out what they’re being asked
and how they’d answer. SMH
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Ask **** on your next lunch date…LMAO….I j/k ..i j/k…
no for real though..i just get a kick out of meeting women and first thing they say is they aint giving up any …but yet want me to chase them because they “cute”
To me that’s a given, if you ask me out then you’re payin for dinner movies or whatever so I dont consider that bein generous. When I think of generous I think of gifts, shoes, purses, jewlry etc
@CHOCO SOUNDS LIKE IT IS…. BECAUSE KOURTNEY WHEN SHE TALKS TO SCOTT SEEMS DISCUSTED BY HIM BUT SHE LOOVES DOING NAKID YOGA WITH HER AMIGA..
@Fe i agree with your father to an extent and I think its 10xs worse in the Black community because of our history. Black feminisim during that time was really interesting.
I dont think the womens movent hurt us by any means that like saying being freed from slavery hurt us as well JMO
@CHOCO
“That’s why I was like it ain’t nothin to trip over. Those basically the rules of the game. Just how it go.
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Well this is what Im accustomed to….”
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You and ever person over the age of 15. The only difference is some women bold enough to just flat out ask for the money while others expect it indirectly.
It’s all good cause either way they know we doin it for the puzzy anyway.

i just get a kick out of meeting women and first thing they say is they aint giving up any …but yet want me to chase them because they “cute”
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Ace ol buddy any chick that says they ain’t giving up any upfront is a ROLLER in some form or fashion and when I say roller means that trick will give it up at anytime
@OTB
@Choco
Ion really know how to feel about it, on one hand I don’t think it hurt us, but I can see how people feel that it has…it’s kinda like that cause and effect thing, when something CHANGES other things CHANGE with it, even if the initial thing was a “good” change…
It’s all good cause either way they know we doin it for the puzzy anyway.
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Yep and it’s still up to us on whether or not you are getting the pussy – If I wanna fuk you we may not even make it to dinner #REAL
I am ready for somebody to offer to take care of me. Cause I been looking out for hard heads for a long time. Bring your bank roll cause it takes a lot to take care of this. I need hair money, nail money, I need rent, lights, I LOVE to eat…and I drink and I drank expensive sometimes…I shouldn’t have to drank rail likka cause you buying! Cause when buying for myself I am buying off the top shelf. Hail…if you with ME and I am paying for us WE dranking off the top shelf. So why I gotta lower what I do for moi…just cause you ain’t got it?
I had a dude ask me once who took me on a date if I was tryna drink expensive cause HE was buying. Dude I drink this ish at my house (It was JUST yak)! I told the waitress I will pay for my own drink and start me a TAB. And picked up all my shat and moved to the other side of the bar. Nukka when you can take care of me as good as I take care of me…holla.
And lets not forget traveling. Ask my husband what the fugg happens to you when Kdub ready to go to the beach on a Friday afternoon spur of the moment and you ain’t gotCHO money right?? “Since you not going nowhere with ME broke…can you take the kids to my sister house so I can get a jump on traffic? THANKS!”
OTB!!
SUGAWALLS!! :hugs:
I don’t know what to call you anymore!
I feel the same about being generous. Also, I don’t have a problem paying if I’m doing the asking and date planning, etc.
@FE
Yeah but I feel like I’d rather be a female living in today’s times than back then I can say how anyone being liberated has hurt them unless they are sloppy in their actions in which case that is an individual problem
can’t say
FeFe says:
My father (who is a serious male chauvinist) told me that the women’s/feminist movement was a GIFT and a CURSE…that it was necessary because women deserved rights in the same areas as men, but that it really hurt the “role” that men and women played for centuries prior to the movement…he truly thinks that this is the reason why there are so many STRONG women and so many BYTCH-MADE men in the world today…
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There is NOTHING wrong with a strong woman… I like that.
BUT I think some get the Meaning of the “Strong Woman” thing wrong. To me a strong woman means that she can stand and fight through adversity in spite of all the other things going and make it through. Also It means she knows what she wants and is able to let you know that. She knows the deal AND understands her flaws and tries to limit them. Now alot of women thinks a Strong woman means that you have to be confrontational and loud talking and acting a damn fool… Thats not being strong thats being a Bi**cH… There is a difference.
Choc IMO those things are NOTHING alike.
Feminisim did contribute to the break up of families. Women can be as vicious and irresponsible as men. But the msg was that all men have the potential to be rapists and abusive.
DJM
I have been very fortunate to have been with dudes that WANTED to provide, and that’s just the way that it was
#notjudgingthematall
and have never been told what I could or couldn’t do. I am too strong for that #plusiknowhowtoactanyway
And picked up all my shat and moved to the other side of the bar. Nukka when you can take care of me as good as I take care of me…holla.

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(knows one of the reasons I’m single is it’s hard for me to “let the man be the man”)
I’m just so used to having to everything for myself, I don’t know how to let go of some of that control.
@Choco
I agree 100%, I’d rather be a woman in modern times for sure…but I can’t ignore the other variables that seem to have correlated with the change…
@IGo
Of course the word “strong” is relative…I think women have been the stronger sex since the beginning of time when it comes to holding the family together and carrying emotional burdens…but the man has always been the stronger sex when it comes to supporting a household and getting the bread and fighting battles…but nowadays that has changed significantly…
YSoSerious says:
@IGO
Exactly. I would not be cool asking some dude to pay my bills and we aren’t even living together. Cause that leads to him wanting to tell me what I can and can’t do in MY sht cause he’s “contributing”.
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Thats it right there… Dudes that give out loot like that use it as a control thing.
@OTB
Im not gonna say feminism contributed to the break up of my homes that was the actions of my significants others and becuz of feminism I didn’t have to sit back take their chit and muster and pull through Im happier without the significant others in my life
Question for the ladies staying on topic with this: If a guy is being “100” with you and just letting you know he isn’t looking for nothing but if the sex happens its cool and if it’s not it’s still cool do you believe him or just say its BS and keep it moving? Or if a guy tells you he rather be friends with you first do you still believe him?
YSoSerious says:
(knows one of the reasons I’m single is it’s hard for me to “let the man be the man”)
I’m just so used to having to everything for myself, I don’t know how to let go of some of that control.
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and I think there is a conspiracy behind the fact that SO MANY women think and feel this way in modern times…
@YALL
I guess my attitude and my mouth make dudes want to put me in my place and sht. Hasn’t worked yet, obviously.
YSoSerious says:
(knows one of the reasons I’m single is it’s hard for me to “let the man be the man”)
I’m just so used to having to everything for myself, I don’t know how to let go of some of that control
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You not alone its alot of women like that but that. But women have to be that way sometimes because some dudes didnt do thier job.
Dudes that give out loot like that use it as a control thing.
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:takingupforthosethatdidnttrytocontrol:
There are some good guys out there
If a guy is being “100? with you and just letting you know he isn’t looking for nothing but if the sex happens its cool and if it’s not it’s still cool do you believe him or just say its BS and keep it moving? Or if a guy tells you he rather be friends with you first do you still believe him?
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I would believe him until his actions proved otherwise – a lot of guyz have sex and the cooch is good not wanting a relationship but wants the puss all to himself would you be one those guyz who is really playing with his own emotions
@2know
If a guy is only interested in being “friends” with a woman he won’t have to tell her that, he will just BE her friend…
I think that men who say it up front but are also cool with
the woman needs to proceed with caution…those situations always end up being messy…but that can be all good if the woman is looking for just sex as well… 
OK I just remembered somethin I lied to yall before
I did let this old dude fill my tank up right after Katrina when gas went up! He gave me his number and I told him it wasnt a gurantee I was gonna call.
Thought I wasn’t gon see his ass no more and bout 2 months later saw his ass at Walmart and he yelled “Hey you, you never called”
@KNOW
No. Unless he’s gay or otherwise completely not attracted to the woman, I think he’s gonna want sex eventually, even if he doesn’t know it. But he usually does.
@KNOWLEDGE
“Question for the ladies staying on topic with this: If a guy is being “100? with you and just letting you know he isn’t looking for nothing but if the sex happens its cool and if it’s not it’s still cool do you believe him or just say its BS and keep it moving? Or if a guy tells you he rather be friends with you first do you still believe him?”
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I think women view EVERYTHING a nigga say with an eye of skepticism these days.
BUT if they feelin you, they’d hear you out even if they really think it’s just bullchit deep down.
Knowledge, I’m confused
Just tell us what you told her 
and I think there is a conspiracy behind the fact that SO MANY women think and feel this way in modern times…
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I think it’s becuz there are not a lot of men who are established and taking care of their business as much as females….So yeah Im a little paranoid about that especially becuz I rely solely on ME
I’m just so used to having to everything for myself, I don’t know how to let go of some of that control
ITS HARD TO LET GO OF THE CONTROL AND LET ANOTHER PERSON DO FOR ME SINCE I BEEN DOING FOR MYSELF FOR SO LONG..
THEN SOME MEN THINK BECAUSE THEY HELP A LITTLE THEY GOT THAT OVER UR HEAD SO I RATHER DO ME PAY MY BILLS AND DONT HAVE NOBODY TELL ME NOTHING…
Or if a guy tells you he rather be friends with you first do you still believe him?
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How many other folks is he friends with at the current time is MY question.
and we know this person s keepin it “100” how excatly
I’m confused Just tell us what you told her

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I read that chit 3 times
@CHOCO
“a lot of guyz have sex and the cooch is good not wanting a relationship but wants the puss all to himself”
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NO relationships! … but be like this
if you give the puzzy to another nicca!

i almost peed
Choco and Brown
I wanna help
Now WTH yall Tambout???
*wonders if LUSCIOUS is still not speaking to me*
YSo KDub YALL OTB IGo Choco
I won’t lie…I had to read it TWICE!
@Man
Exactly this is why I say he is playing with his own emotions cuz he is the one who will end up trippn off this friend chit
True Story(For the Fellas):
Few Months ago i was giving my cousins friend girl a ride home(she 26).
rewind 8 years
Shes 18 i’m 20 she was a BAD *********** piece of work LSLH body out this world….i lusted for her something bad…but she would just tease me play with my head while letting the Hustlers and Wanna be gangstas Fuck the dog sh!t out of her…
fast forward to present
She lost her shape and dropped a kid or two…any on the way to drop her off(in my benz) she said
“When are we gonna go out? I’m ready to settle down i done had all my fun…and i’m looking for something real…”
My head translated that to “OHH i’m in a Benz! my pu$$y worn out now but i remember you use to want this..and i need to grab you now….!”
This ever happen to any of you guys with a chick from the past trying to give you the time of day years too late?
THEN SOME MEN THINK BECAUSE THEY HELP A LITTLE THEY GOT THAT OVER UR HEAD SO I RATHER DO ME PAY MY BILLS AND DONT HAVE NOBODY TELL ME NOTHING…
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And just cause you paid $35 on a wata bill do NOT mean your azz coming over to 1033 and take a 20 minute shower. Your azz gonna get a knock on the door after 15…just like them kids do!
Or think cause you gave me $40 on some groceries YOUR azz is taking the leftovers to work for lunch!
Yep. That’s okay…I will pay alllll my own ish!
:hugs: @vero
Choc not you personally, women as a whole.
The central msg of fem. was that women needed some type of liberation…that marriage was like a concentration camp or slavery for women.. thats why folks say it “contributed to the demise of the family unit.”
If you’ll recall the fems. had a bunch of pseudo science saying that divorce would be “easy to overcome” for the children involved. We know now that is FAR from true.
Divorce was suppossed to be an easy way out. Thats how no fault divorces came about. Now its easy to get up and walk away. JMO.
Thats why I will tell a woman that I date other women… I just find that women will be cool with that just to get in the door then switch it up.
YALLC no confusion boo, its just a random question b/c some females feel that a dude is BS when he tells you most of them time he is cool if it does or doesn’t happen. Most females YSO put it think dude is gay if he not looking to get into the woman panties. Hell sex is cool no doubt but real talk a dude can smash any chick he wants. If a dude is interested in a woman all the time he isn’t in it to smash. Some of us do want to know the female. SEX doesn’t be the driving force all the time. Its just some think what some of say IS BS and like Choco put it actions speak louder than anything.
#JS
Fay
<—Diddly Dee banner
Fay
I guess I’m speakin to you cuz I feel like bein nice
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
ITS HARD TO LET GO OF THE CONTROL AND LET ANOTHER PERSON DO FOR ME SINCE I BEEN DOING FOR MYSELF FOR SO LONG.. THEN SOME MEN THINK BECAUSE THEY HELP A LITTLE THEY GOT THAT OVER UR HEAD SO I RATHER DO ME PAY MY BILLS AND DONT HAVE NOBODY TELL ME NOTHING…
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Fayla, VERO
@ Yall
@Ace
I know you were posting to the guys but your #261 is OH SO COMMON!
#basicbytches
@ I GO,
I too am all for dating multiple people, no commitment to anyone. Just have fun and date openly.
so you sayin she wanted to give it to you because you were in a benz????
FAYLA!! :hugs:
VERO!! :hugs: x 3012
@ACE
I hope you put that ho out yo car and hosed down the seats for good measure. I don’t like broads like that.
@KDUB
THEY GIVE A FUKN DOLLA WANT TO USE A STACK BISH BOO BYE… MY EX WAS LIKE THAT FILLD UP MY TANK GOING TO CALL ME FOR RIDES ALL FUKN WEEK CUZ UR SHIT DONT WORK… UMMM NO 
A yo, ACE i had that happen to me awhile back had this breezy from the old hood get at me after she saw or heard about my come up and she was the chick in the hood every dude wanted and drop a few seeds and came to give a shout after I was straight and found out I had only one seed and on my come up. I just looked at her like oh really keep it moving girly.
GFTOHWTBS!
“When are we gonna go out? I’m ready to settle down i done had all my fun…and i’m looking for something real…”
My head translated that to “OHH i’m in a Benz! my pu$$y worn out now but i remember you use to want this..and i need to grab you now….!”
This ever happen to any of you guys with a chick from the past trying to give you the time of day years too late?
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Yall be finding chickenheads I wish what a man was driving would make me want him MORE it doesn’t if anything it may even deter me cuz Im thinking this nigg think he got it like that
@KDub, would u be so kind as to a recap?
@ACE
“True Story(For the Fellas):
Few Months ago i was giving my cousins friend girl a ride home(she 26).
rewind 8 years
Shes 18 i’m 20 she was a BAD *********** piece of work LSLH body out this world….i lusted for her something bad…but she would just tease me play with my head while letting the Hustlers and Wanna be gangstas **** the dog sh!t out of her…
fast forward to present
She lost her shape and dropped a kid or two…any on the way to drop her off(in my benz) she said
“When are we gonna go out? I’m ready to settle down i done had all my fun…and i’m looking for something real…”
My head translated that to “OHH i’m in a Benz! my pu$$y worn out now but i remember you use to want this..and i need to grab you now….!”
This ever happen to any of you guys with a chick from the past trying to give you the time of day years too late?”
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YEAH THIS HAPPENED TO ME! Hoe use to clown the chit out of me an er’thang too. Bout 5 years later talkin bout she “always thought I was sorta cute and funny” and chit!
After she had 3 kids in two years claiming 4 different daddies.
laker I thought you and your boo lived together or was that the ex
@KDUB
Exactly.
Hey Er’body
why is my comment awaiting moderation?
Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:
@KDub, would u be so kind as to a recap?

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But on the flip side of the bill paying I MUST say I am an ubber bish and will throw it up in your face when the time arises. Who done seen Kevin Hart when he said his dad was spiteful and do ish like take back all the ish he purchased like the steak and the Xmas tree lights? Well that is Kdub. Your azz in there watching tv and I am mad…oh the DirectTV box going in my car trunk hoss. You put in on this? Watch THAT bish.
I have also taken all the groceries out the house cause male was short or non existent the past two shopping trips. I will take all the groceries to my momma house and stop over there on my way home every day, cook, and bring 3 plates home. Which is ONE short if YOU plan on eating tonight. Or just say fugg the groceries and take me and the kids to eat and come back and eat Taco Bell in your face and not brang you ISH.
@ACE LIKE THE BISH ON CEE-LO FUK U VIDEO… WELL TELL HER FUK UUUUUUUUU!! AND USE PLEANTY OF CLOROX AND FABULOSO TO DISINFECT THAT SEAT
After she had 3 kids in two years claiming 4 different daddies.
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SMH
Ace says:
True Story(For the Fellas):
Few Months ago i was giving my cousins friend girl a ride home(she 26).
rewind 8 years
Shes 18 i’m 20 she was a BAD *********** piece of work LSLH body out this world….i lusted for her something bad…but she would just tease me play with my head while letting the Hustlers and Wanna be gangstas **** the dog sh!t out of her…
fast forward to present
She lost her shape and dropped a kid or two…any on the way to drop her off(in my benz) she said
“When are we gonna go out? I’m ready to settle down i done had all my fun…and i’m looking for something real…”
My head translated that to “OHH i’m in a Benz! my pu$$y worn out now but i remember you use to want this..and i need to grab you now….!”
This ever happen to any of you guys with a chick from the past trying to give you the time of day years too late
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DAWG thats the story of my LIFE….. I gave this chic roses in the 8th grade. I had the biggest crush on her I seen her a few times during my high school years but she never gave me the play…. but would mess with the Thugs something hard. SO I finally get a chance to get with her my Senior year… but she was messing with some other dudes so I aint trip… she gets pregnant by one of the dudes and I was still cool with trying to be with her so when she had the kid I went over to check her out. She was there with her Homegirls and was just straight rude… I dusted it off… NOW soon as I got on FB she was one of the first chics talking about how she wanted to see me and get my number…. the broad has had 4 other kids since… She still trying to holla .
Thats why I will tell a woman that I date other women… I just find that women will be cool with that just to get in the door then switch it up.
Ha. I make it a point to tell ppl Im just dating. BUT they dont let you just date no more.
The problem is the urban community dont know what “dating” is. My white friends go on a date, chit dont work out, they
and keep it moving. If it does, good, they still aint trying to lock you down.
Let me try to date openly around here. IM A HOE. Plain and simple. I dont care or let this bother me myself. But i often wonder what folks are thinking and what kind of judgment is being passed. Yeah.
I have more male friends than female and chit has gotten back to me abou t”being” with so and so. Chit is hardly ever true but what do you do. Rhetorical LOL
RECAP
EAZY!!
Gotcha @ Knowledge
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Too bad, we didn’t have this wonderful thought process twenty yrs ago
IJS
HEYYYY Fe Fe
I had my friend from way back in Jr High School donate to my Cable bill I told him he could write it off
After she had 3 kids in two years claiming 4 different daddies
I had to pull out my math skills for this chit.
FeFe..guhl..y i thought all this time yo gravi was bey??
Vero!!
@YALL “Diddly Dee banner”
&WTH HIS comin back dammit. it’s done been too damn long since i seen her font on SR
@OTB
We really were separated at birf.
:hugs:
@lolita that was the ex he was esstra special with dinero bish had to dismiss him quick… he member a fukn quarter if he gave it to me
i took my cable box and my microwave
mo’fuka couldnt eat or watch t.v take that bish!!
@kdub
Which is ONE short if YOU plan on eating tonight.
Well damn.
OTB
it happens, my cousin had 2 daddies and both of them died within months and when my mama went to the 2nd funeral I asked who it was and she said “that’s so and sos dadyy” I was like didnt he die a few months ago and she said well…………
RECAP!
Yes, I know I been here the whole time. So what.
pointhimout says:
@ I GO,
I too am all for dating multiple people, no commitment to anyone. Just have fun and date openly.
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Yeah that way Im upfront women know whats up off top… and If I find a woman in that mix that I want to be with and cant live without then Ill go that way.
Actually Knowledge my friend said the same thing to me when we initially started talking – like we don’t have to have sex all the time I just like spending time with you okay kool cuz the way I intepreted that chit was your sex drive is too much for me and I can’t keep up but won’t let go
@Fayla
Looka heeea! *OTB close your eyes and ears*
That fierce bish in my gravie ain’t no dayum Be
ce….she’s stuntin’ on all these “new age” hoes! …get that chit right next time and pay attention! 
Choco how could I forget you
we need a (muah) emoji
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This is an old azz post Sandra came out of the vacation woodworks and recycled. IDK what happened other than most of us thought there was a banned person back but it was a false alarm. Thought we was gonna have to put out the mouse traps cause there was a gerbil/hamster on the loose.
ANYHOW Ace posed a question about bishes need to pick they puss-cee up off his table and what is it worth or some shat.
So the topic basically turned to “What have you done for me LATELY EDDDDDIE???” (From “Raw”) and Fugg Nukkas/Get money stories.
Most of the ladies up here though is like fugg re-evaluating my worf…and fugg yew too nuka.
@CHOCO
“I had my friend from way back in Jr High School donate to my Cable bill I told him he could write it off ”
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@Eazy
Hey!…whose that in your gravi?
Choco how could I forget you
or

we need a (muah) emoji
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Why did I see your roll call and wanted to either
*notices that Easy didnt speak to me*
(chokes on
)
I hate that I love KDub. Truly, I do.
She is I @Ace
Fe we know thats Naomi. Lets just hope she keep that phone where its at, mkay.
@Man
I sent him the link to my account and said use your card as one time only 
That nicca was like how much of a donation
OutsidetheBox says:
Thats why I will tell a woman that I date other women… I just find that women will be cool with that just to get in the door then switch it up.
Ha. I make it a point to tell ppl Im just dating. BUT they dont let you just date no more.
The problem is the urban community dont know what “dating” is. My white friends go on a date, chit dont work out, they and keep it moving. If it does, good, they still aint trying to lock you down.
Let me try to date openly around here. IM A HOE. Plain and simple. I dont care or let this bother me myself. But i often wonder what folks are thinking and what kind of judgment is being passed. Yeah.
I have more male friends than female and chit has gotten back to me abou t”being” with so and so. Chit is hardly ever true but what do you do. Rhetorical LOL
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Thats where I learned it from… I was with some of my white homies and I saw how they did and girls were cool and they were too… I just took it up and went with it. Ive been told Im a player and all of that… But I rather tell a woman I wanna date her an thats it than push up on her with something that I may not be down with.
A hampster on the loose
Fe I thought that was beyaki too
Eazy
@OTB
#bossbytch
How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL
they brains out that one time?
@Eazy..
She is…you…well then…Have you met MzDimplez? i think you two would be great friends….
Goes to change gravie so I can appease the Bey stans…
@EAZY PURRTY PIC
IS THAT U??
Brown!! Hey girl..slight over look
Hey hunny bunny
As long as a guy is upfront about not wanting to be “exclusive” we are cooler than cool. I just hate liars and sneaks.
How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL they brains out that one time?
anymore
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Now that Im wiser I wouldn’t I did that with a younger X and eventually you just can’t
KDub says:
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This is an old azz post Sandra came out of the vacation woodworks and recycled. IDK what happened other than most of us thought there was a banned person back but it was a false alarm. Thought we was gonna have to put out the mouse traps cause there was a gerbil/hamster on the loose.
ANYHOW Ace posed a question about bishes need to pick they puss-cee up off his table and what is it worth or some shat.
So the topic basically turned to “What have you done for me LATELY EDDDDDIE???” (From “Raw”) and Fugg Nukkas/Get money stories.
Most of the ladies up here though is like fugg re-evaluating my worf…and fugg yew too nuka.
TY guhl! you ILL kind!
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*chops off FEFE’s finger* NOOOOOOOOOOO!
Well hello there Easy I was bout to get emo and shyt!
Yall know I’m sensitive
Sht…I been thinking that was Bey the whole time. Oops.
Yesss IGo these folks here used to have me dumbfounded…like, wait, how you working with her after yall been on 3 dates and now you seeing the other girl in marketing too? And yall all cool? Oh ok….
EVERYTIME I “try” a “Black” fella like that, he be like
“Nahhh I only wanna see you. And I only want you to see me…” I politely close the door on anybody who says that. Hence me needing to date outta my comfort zone.
@FEFE THAT AINT BEY?

@ACE
took my cable box and my microwave mo’fuka couldnt eat or watch t.v take that bish!!
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Once in a not so proud moment in my life…I was in a relationship and it had been over for a minute. Dude refused to raise up outta my shat though. And in NC if somebody get MAIL to your shat and been there longer than 30 days you gotta get them legally evicted. Paperwork etc. I paid my entire light bill balance off…had Progress Energy cut them bishes off and flew to ‘Bama for a week with my daughter to visit my grandmother. Needless to say when I got back that dude AND all his shat was gone. Like Mr. Chow in “The Hangover”…you wanna fukk on ME? I can be real nice. Real good to you. But if you fugg over me…
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
@EAZY PURRTY PIC IS THAT U??
thank you dear
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Man, I just don’t care™ says:
How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL
they brains out that one time?
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*pulls lakers aside*
Look ..i need you to set Diabla down some where…we don’t want to be running the pretty girl off….now go find Dimpz we need to make introductions….
YSoSerious says:
As long as a guy is upfront about not wanting to be “exclusive” we are cooler than cool. I just hate liars and sneaks.
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I was suprised when I found women that were cool with it…Cause every now and then you get one or two that think they are different and want to change up you situation…. Its like the dude that meets the stripper in the strip club and then gets mad at her for still strippin.
Yes Ive met MzDimpz…why do you ask @Ace
<—–NAOMI CAMPBELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Fe i just didn’t look at the pic closely enough boo. now love me right
@OTB
But then be tryna fck another btch behind your back. HMPH!
@ACE **REMOVES DIABLA AND WRITES UP A E-SISTER WIFE APPLICATION** I GOT U SHE A LOOKER!!
KDUB
had anukka stya with me once and baby THAT WAS THAT SORRY ASS CRY BABY ASS PISCES!
Well anyway he went o work, I took off and 30 min after he left the locksmith was at the house and his friend across the stree called him at work and was like “Why yo girl changin the locks”
by then i already had his shyt loaded up to take to his mama house
@OTB
“Yesss IGo these folks here used to have me dumbfounded…like, wait, how you working with her after yall been on 3 dates and now you seeing the other girl in marketing too? And yall all cool? Oh ok….
EVERYTIME I “try” a “Black” fella like that, he be like “Nahhh I only wanna see you. And I only want you to see me…” I politely close the door on anybody who says that. Hence me needing to date outta my comfort zone.”
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Well, either way a nigga goin be jealous and possessive of the puzz. That’s the way it goes. Nigga can either:
a. tell you up front he tryin to own the puzz
b. go to your job and do the murder suicide thing (alabaster inclined)
I just hate liars and sneaks.
For real sis. There is little I hate more than a person trying my intelligence. My last exclusive, I caught this fool cheating after he begged to be one on one….didnt tell him right away BUT i did try the I think we should date other ppl line…of course, “he only wanted to see me.”
Eventually I got tired of playing with that fool and let him catch me cheating.
To this day, he be calling me a cheating, lying bish to mutual friends.
@FEFE
It’s alright boo. We don’t really care either way.

How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL they brains out that one time?
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I have two. One has been around since 1995. The other has been around since 2001.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL they brains out that one time
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I could hold up my hand to this one…as in count the fingers
OutsidetheBox says:
Yesss IGo these folks here used to have me dumbfounded…like, wait, how you working with her after yall been on 3 dates and now you seeing the other girl in marketing too? And yall all cool? Oh ok….
EVERYTIME I “try” a “Black” fella like that, he be like “Nahhh I only wanna see you. And I only want you to see me…” I politely close the door on anybody who says that. Hence me needing to date outta my comfort zone.
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Yeah I had to do it when I was dating non black women first… once I was able to talk to a few black women about just dating some were on board. But its a trip just finding chics that are REALLY cool with it.
Lakes
Eventually I got tired of playing with that fool and let him catch me cheating.
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When I have to do you this way please NOTE you are NOT CARED FOR!
Easy
have you been added to my email list??????
I do think so
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Well, either way a nigga goin be jealous and possessive of the puzz. That’s the way it goes. Nigga can either:
a. tell you up front he tryin to own the puzz
b. go to your job and do the murder suicide thing (alabaster inclined)
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nah I just want to borrow it for a lil bit… then Im gonna give it right back to you… and you can go on about your business.
@YSo
Thanks for your honesty…
@Fayla
I gotchu bew…
MY RIB
I know I need to let that shyt go but that niccah still owe me a couple hunned
small rile outta the bey stans
*chuckles* Samll is an understatement, Fay.
Everytime someone bombs with that, I wonder if they ever think about it truly…if Bey is lying, all the girls of DC are lying and pretty much everyone who says they grew up w Beyonce in Houston is lying.
Oh and all the home vids…are lying… *snickers*
But I get it girl, Beyonce is great after all. She can turn water to wine.
Nope..im on no email list
How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL they brains out that one time?
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When I was younger I did that out of spite do. That was one of my best smash session. Angry and revenge sex is the best.
Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:
@IGo. i c how u do #hhmph
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Hey Fayla
my bad…. I need to learn how to speak more.
@FAY
HEY LADY!!
Well, either way a nigga goin be jealous and possessive of the puzz.
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This bit of advice you dished a year or so ago has helped me soooo much in understanding the possession versus the emotion becuz unfortunately or not for depending on the circumstance it’s always trying to put the pussy on lockdown
While I was IN Alabama that week I called my momma and was like ride to my house and see if his azz still there. I was like I am going to pay to have these tickets changed if he still there. My boss at the time was like take as much time as you need off. Moms went to the house and said that nukka been gone since Tuesday. Cause it was Friday and the papers was out on the stoop since Tuesday. That mean that nukka got home Monday seen I had the lights axed and left THE NEXT DAY.
@IGO
A lot of women aren’t encouraged to think like that. Especially black women.
We’re told that good, hetero black men are on the verge of extinction so when we find one we have to hold on to him for dear life or end up dying alone.
Oh really knowledge
tell us about this smash session and what made it so good
When I have to do you this way please NOTE you are NOT CARED FOR!
And I promise I tried to rationalize with this man. I would even tell his mama I was out…thinking she would be like, “Boy fukk that bish, move on…”
Nah. She on the back end telling him “dont let that girl get away”.
OutsidetheBox says:
I just hate liars and sneaks.
For real sis. There is little I hate more than a person trying my intelligence. My last exclusive, I caught this fool cheating after he begged to be one on one….didnt tell him right away BUT i did try the I think we should date other ppl line…of course, “he only wanted to see me.”
Eventually I got tired of playing with that fool and let him catch me cheating. To this day, he be calling me a cheating, lying bish to mutual friends
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Damn that was messed up.
How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL they brains out that one time?
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I have 2. One I was too young to be thinking about sitting down and the other was my neighbor’s girl. I was too into her mom (I think she liked me too) and didn’t have the sense to at least try to hide it.
I do have this one chick that I want to
only because my performance was horrible. I don’t have any attraction to her at all, it’s just the episode I had with her sticks in my mind. I think it may have been a blessing though.
YSoSerious says:
@IGO
A lot of women aren’t encouraged to think like that. Especially black women.
We’re told that good, hetero black men are on the verge of extinction so when we find one we have to hold on to him for dear life or end up dying alone.
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This is SOOOOOO true…and I really regret letting that ideology control me for so many years!
Nah. She on the back end telling him “dont let that girl get away”.
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I had that done to me and realized thats cuz they didn’t want to deal with his negligent azz –
@OTB
“Eventually I got tired of playing with that fool and let him catch me cheating.”
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When you ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO GET RID OF SOMEONE! ^^^
YSoSerious says:
@IGO
A lot of women aren’t encouraged to think like that. Especially black women.
We’re told that good, hetero black men are on the verge of extinction so when we find one we have to hold on to him for dear life or end up dying alone.
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Oh that its…
I forgot that we’re the new whooping crane…
One of them types who like to switch cars with ya, and go out with ya.
Just be straight flauging! i dont like that chit. A big part of making it for me is the level of respect we have for each other. Dont have me in the streets looking a fool. Chit irks me.
I put a recorder in my car. And I dont think im too ashamed. I told that fool to leave me alone though. The chit I heard couldve ruined not just his relationship but at least 3 others. Dude was dumb.
My mother hasn’t ever had a conversation with me about a shortage of men – black men , men period it just came to us naturally and it’s a trip cuz all of us are unmarried but not becuz she didn’t tell us how to get or keep a husband we were just born in different times and none of us are really trippn about marriage thats what baffles me at times like now Im wanting to be married but that’s still a few years off
@Man
Well depending on the person sometimes THAT ain’t even enough to get rid of that muhfuggah!
WELL IM OUTIE FOLKS HAVE A GRRRREAT DAY
I put a recorder in my car. And I dont think im too ashamed. I told that fool to leave me alone though. The chit I heard couldve ruined not just his relationship but at least 3 others. Dude was dumb.
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And his own momma knew this
cuz they didn’t want to deal with his negligent azz
OTB
why not just end it instead of goin thru all of that
I’m out too y’all…take care and have a good and peaceful evening!
@OTB
What can I say? I’m a giver.
I’ll make sure not to stay a way too long now that I know I’m helping you to breathe and sht.
Im so lost in this thread
OutsidetheBox says:
@IGo. I know BUT in my defense i tried to reason with that fool.
One of them types who like to switch cars with ya, and go out with ya. Just be straight flauging! i dont like that chit. A big part of making it for me is the level of respect we have for each other. Dont have me in the streets looking a fool. Chit irks me.
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When I stayed in Florida I had a homie that would use my car to do his dirt…. that dude was messing with at least 3 other chics. His wife thought I was the biggest Ho ever cause she would be looking for him and see my car… A few years after they divorced she finally apologized to me for acting like she did. LOL
@OTB
And she was right…. had his aunt all in our relationship I had to tell her Im a grown azz woman the questions you asking me about to get you insulted CLICK and then curse his stupid azz out MOTHUFUKA don’t be having your aunt call me to defend your dumbazz actions WRONG MOVE
@SAM
“I do have this one chick that I want to only because my performance was horrible. I don’t have any attraction to her at all, it’s just the episode I had with her sticks in my mind. I think it may have been a blessing though.”
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I got one of those of too!
She caught a nigga when they stamina “wasn’t the best.”
so JHud, Mariah, AND Janet have weight-loss endorsements…now does this mean Black Girls Rock
or we just fat 
Yep, Choc. She contributed greatly to me knowing that I was outty five thousand with her “excuses”.
He would complain to her, and in turn she would tell me stories about her husband saying “…you have to remember, I didnt raise him, I just married him…”
Eventually i got tired of that bish and txtd her back one time, “Well you DID raise this sack of chit, so what do you have to say for yourself..” I was livid.
I got 10 minutes left
<—messed around and messed with her 1st.
It was not at all as I remembered
#willneverdothatagain
#isthiswhatiwashurtingfromyrsago
Eventually i got tired of that bish and txtd her back one time, “Well you DID raise this sack of chit, so what do you have to say for yourself..” I was livid.
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Girl his family brought the worse and ugly outta of me – first I don’t do all that we family chit cuz I date you we become family in due time so having your folks phone me is gonna get your head MOLLY WHOPPPED the nerve his aunt callin on behalf of her dumbazz nephew! I was like Yall REALLY DON”T KNOW ME! And proceeded with the profanity YEP LOUD GHETTO AND A BISH! When come fuggin with me
@IGO
You a good one for letting dude use your car for that. I would have been afraid of one of them chicks going Jazmine Sullivan on my sht.
@Brown. Please trust me I tried. You know I aint one for sticking around. I have great intuition BUT I thought maybe I was doing something wrong and that I should approach my relationships from a different view. This resulting in him getting a lot of “forgiveness”.
Well, im back to my methods. Dont nobody know whats best for me, but me.
Leaving that fool was one of the hardest things I ever did. I would belittle, talk down, everything. The cheating was the ONLY thing that did it.
I thought I told/asked yall about that! He even had trouble getting it up at one point. I HAD NEVER HAD THIS HAPPEN TO ME. I was personally offended. he blamed it on me too. Saying me being on him was the problem.
I put a recorder in my car. And I dont think im too ashamed. I told that fool to leave me alone though. The chit I heard couldve ruined not just his relationship but at least 3 others. Dude was dumb.
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I put my CELL phone in my car and said “baby drive my car tonight”….and went right in the house and logged into Sprint and tracked MY OWN shat. So when I walked up in the club (when he was suppose to be at his homie house) swinging on his azz I am still not quite sure why he looked so fugging SURPRISED. The young lady he was with did not look NEARLY as surprised as he did….I ain’t NEVA told you to drive my shat EVER…so you didn’t think it was a set up? Dummy.
*waits for Eazy to give me her damn email*
Saying me being on him was the problem
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Bullchit that mofo used his rod until the fuggin thing went slinky
eazye 2250 @ yah
I put my CELL phone in my car and said “baby drive my car tonight”….and went right in the house and logged into Sprint and tracked MY OWN shat. So when I walked up in the club (when he was suppose to be at his homie house) swinging on his azz I am still not quite sure why he looked so fugging SURPRISED. The young lady he was with did not look NEARLY as surprised as he did….I ain’t NEVA told you to drive my shat EVER…so you didn’t think it was a set up? Dummy.

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KDUb
I had a rental car and I was a dummy and let dude borrow it, well that niccah felt the need to turn his phone off so I called the police and told them I fell alseep and he took the keys
put my CELL phone in my car and said “baby drive my car tonight”….and went right in the house and logged into Sprint and tracked MY OWN shat.
These stories >
*hates that i love kdub*
YSoSerious says:
@IGO
You a good one for letting dude use your car for that. I would have been afraid of one of them chicks going Jazmine Sullivan on my sht
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i was in my 20s
I was trying to be a good homie and shyt…but dude was just wrong in everyway. He would get caught an say he was with me. I remember he had a cookout at his house and his wife asked me something about going to the beach… I didnt know what she was talking about… he got caught up that day. LOL
Not a lick of sense! I got the idea from another chick…well, actually from another chick’s man that I was seeing..he didnt tell me about her, but I dint hear from him for a while and I guess that fool mustve forgot he didnt tell me about his lady cause during a catch up convo he mentioned that she put a recorder in his car and heard him talking to me…
I was like aint this bout a bish…but I kept the tip close.
I put my CELL phone in my car and said “baby drive my car tonight”….and went right in the house and logged into Sprint and tracked MY OWN shat. So when I walked up in the club (when he was suppose to be at his homie house) swinging on his azz I am still not quite sure why he looked so fugging SURPRISED. The young lady he was with did not look NEARLY as surprised as he did….I ain’t NEVA told you to drive my shat EVER…so you didn’t think it was a set up? Dummy.

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Has anyone in here had sex with an Asian Man Im so curious but scared to do it myself like the size the smell the size the body
Bullchit that mofo used his rod until the fuggin thing went slinky
:BINGO!:
YALL
I was in a lortab induced sleep when the popos came knockin on my door
but that niccah was tryna be slick and go see the side piece in my shyt!
Sprint was the first company to let you see EVERYTHING on line.
I used to love that Sprint account.
A couple of weeks ago I caught an episode of Cheaters (it was aiight, nobody fought), and on there they advertise products, to catch somebody up. SMH
Choco aka Hippie says:
Has anyone in here had sex with an Asian Man Im so curious but scared to do it myself like the size the smell the size the body
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no but i wanna try a indian one
I guess I neva been in love like y’all been in love. Lenny Williams.
@IGO
And that’s why even though women cheat at least as much as men, we get caught a hell of a lot less. A chick would have called her girl ahead of time and had all that sht worked out and her man would have been none the wiser.
If you think so, youre prolly right. Or youre doing dirt yourself. 99% of the time thats the cases.
FUGGGGG THat Im relying on my intution If I plant a trapping device and you are caught I can’t be responsible for my actions but if I think you are cheating and I leave you just be glad it was a peaceful departure
I feel ya! He gets no sympathy from me Brown
These cats ain’t the wisest yo
Years ago, all we had was the speedometer checking
DUECES FOLKS!
OutsidetheBox says:
Sprint was the first company to let you see EVERYTHING on line.
I used to love that Sprint account.
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LOL…. damn cell phones.
I got a phone call one time and this dude was asking me if i knew his girl cause my nummber was all over his phone bill… I tripped. Too bad I had to drop ole girl she had some come back…LOL
My Indian friend is soo cute, long black hair and all. Im just to scared to ruin the attraction after we decide to go live
If you think so, youre prolly right. Or youre doing dirt yourself. 99% of the time thats the cases.
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My BD told me over the holidays his girl hit him with a keylogger on the computer.
Technology is not a dumb nicca’s friend.
:nightnight: Brown
@CHOCO
I’m with you. I’m not finna go Super Secret Squirrel when I can just get ghost on your ass. Your cheating has already proved you ain’t worth that kind of time or energy in my eyes.
YSoSerious says:
I guess I neva been in love like y’all been in love. Lenny Williams.
@IGO
And that’s why even though women cheat at least as much as men, we get caught a hell of a lot less. A chick would have called her girl ahead of time and had all that sht worked out and her man would have been none the wiser.
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While chics do cheat better they get caught up in they own shait with I find to be very problematic.
Choco, I’ve never been with one, but something tells me that they get all kinds of freaky
Imagine them commanding positions and ish, with the accent 
I can’t be responsible for my actions
But turns out I just laughed and laughed. I felt bad for that fool. Mostly cause he was soooo stupid. And cause it was sad that he really just couldnt man up.
I woulda had so much more respect if he would just kept it 100.
Your cheating has already proved you ain’t worth that kind of time or energy in my eyes.

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Exactly and imagine my fury when I did all that cloak and dagger chit to only confirm what I already knew so now I mad at me and you
He would get caught an say he was with me.
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@Igo I call my BFF and we rehearse our whereabouts EXTENSIVELY where we “said” we was and everything. JUST in case we get nukkas who wanna get chatty at cookouts and shat. Her husband thought he HAD her azz one time… “So you and T went to getchall nails done last week?”
Me: Yes. I got a french. She got hot pink. We both got our eyebrows done and then we went to the Applebees where we stayed and talked for a long time. Actually until they closed.
This bish got her nails done…and then went and laid up at her ova man house til her fat azz husband got off work. Bish nails really WAS pink but I was just following the script SHE gave me.
Eazy Does It says:
My Indian friend is soo cute, long black hair and all. Im just to scared to ruin the attraction after we decide to go live
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<–never been "caught" cheating. Igo, ladies really plan there ish out (produce fake documentation of where you "said" you were, take photos with the girls prior to leaving and send those pics as if they were just being taken etc.)
djm
I feel you YSo and Choc but sometimes folks dont see things in black and white. I told this fool I knew, but he still denied it. And that made me mad.
A huge part of it was me having to prove that I’m smarter.
Yeah you talking trash but you know as well as I what really went down.
That gives me a little satisfaction. DJM. Im still maturing.
My Indian friend is soo cute, long black hair and all. Im just to scared to ruin the attraction after we decide to go live
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Dont know what to say would need more details co-worker?
I woulda had so much more respect if he would just kept it 100.

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@Yall
IJS tho you know can’t discriminate but Im just thinking about a swift kick from Karate Man if I don’t move quick enuf
This bish got her nails done…and then went and laid up at her ova man house til her fat azz husband got off work.
@OTB
“I thought I told/asked yall about that! He even had trouble getting it up at one point. I HAD NEVER HAD THIS HAPPEN TO ME. I was personally offended. he blamed it on me too. Saying me being on him was the problem. ”
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How you PERSONALLY offeneded that a nigga dyck couldn’t get hard??? Nigga could have a circulation problem or had too much to drink (alcohol does that you know)! LOOOOOOL
This chit had me dyin over here.
Yall still crazy says:
<–never been "caught" cheating. Igo, ladies really plan there ish out (produce fake documentation of where you "said" you were, take photos with the girls prior to leaving and send those pics as if they were just being taken etc.)
djm
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I agree yall do plan the shait better… I just find it funny.
@Ace yes Im still fishing on that subject, good thing they arent big on sex or he woulda been left my azz alone
Vero
<–15 minutes long
Ladies Ladies Ladies you don’t use your friend as an alibi you use a co-worker he hasn’t met yet and the group is going out for happy hour – chidddd my friend get mad at me and wanna spill the beans one day NAHHHHH Im good! I keep family and friends out of my lies
I spoke to Chi yesterday and she said
to everyone !!
No nasty comments please
@YSO
“And that’s why even though women cheat at least as much as men, we get caught a hell of a lot less.”
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It ain’t that women such “great cheaters.” It’s that men are just lazy cheaters because it’s too much work and half the time we can plead for a second (or 17th) chance…. and get it.

Shuddup Man.
AFTER I researched this yes I knew, but you missed the part about the recorder. He was fukking otha females but couldnt do jack when it came to me. I love oral like the next bish but you eating my pussy for 1.5hrs is not fun after the first coupla times…
And I was personally offended cause I got that snappa and here he was…not snapping. That chit did a number on my self esteem!
@YALL
I feel like I’m missing out sometimes cause I don’t have any good stories like some of you. You know, the whole “It’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all” thing? Well, I’ve never let anything get that serious. My issues have issues, you understand.
we can plead for a second (or 17th) chance…. and get it.
This chit is some truth. I have vowed to not go against me again.
Yall still crazy says:
<–never been "caught" cheating. Igo, ladies really plan there ish out (produce fake documentation of where you "said" you were, take photos with the girls prior to leaving and send those pics as if they were just being taken etc.)
djm
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got to check those timestamps on the file name….
vero says:
I spoke to Chi yesterday and she said
to everyone !!

No nasty comments please
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Okay tell her we said hello
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Choco, I got one bff, and that’s just why. We both hold one another’s “truths”
No nasty comments please
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Wrong Website :hugs:
@YSO
Maybe you aren’t missing out to be honest we just have more stories to tell but if you’re not into sampling then wait for the right one – I’m just to free spirited to not indulge while I wait
That is the trick @OTB…to tell a lil bit of the truff and leave the rest up to well…interpretation.
We did get our nails done.
I did get a french mani.
Her shat was hot pink.
We did get our eye-braws done (@Lakes)
We did eat afterwards. She ate at her man house cause he had cooked for her and I ate at Applebees…Curbside To Go.
And…too bad we did this all in two diff. cities here in NC that are 35 minutes apart. And not even on the SAME DAY…but hey his Fat Albert looking azz did not need to know all of that.
Well, I’ve never let anything get that serious. My issues have issues, you understand
But im an eternal optimist too, so I stay crazy balalnced.
OutsidetheBox says:
I love oral like the next bish but you eating my pussy for 1.5hrs is not fun after the first coupla times…
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after 20 mins I woulda started getting off track…”like what we doing here, or yeah now Im tired”
It ain’t that women such “great cheaters.” It’s that men are just lazy cheaters because it’s too much work and half the time we can plead for a second (or 17th) chance…. and get it.
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I just dont have time to be lying an shait covering up shait and trying to be sneaky…. Cause to be real with yall I aint good at it. I found out very early that playing women was not in my repertoire… LOL
@Yall
THAT NICCA HAD BREAD THO!
Her and I would too we just don’t have the time to update one another so I use someone else all together and then we are both single soooo if were drunk one day someone may get their feelings hurt playing court investigator I had to tell one of her mates don’t you know who you are dealing with he seem confused about his position in her life
at least you didn’t say anything mean
Yall something else !
@OTB
I see where you and others are coming from. I’m just not wired like that. Cross me and I will burning bridge faster than MJ’s Jheri curl.
@OTB
“we can plead for a second (or 17th) chance…. and get it.”
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This chit is some truth. I have vowed to not go against me again.
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If a bytch REALLY love me, she’ll love me til I get this “faithfulness” and “Mahogny” chit right.
Yso, I got oldddd stories, I’s calmed down now
You are just fine!
Ace, you know guys ain’t checking for nothing on a pic text that they think they just got from their boothang
#nottechnolicallysavvy
but hey his Fat Albert looking azz did not need to know all of that.

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YSoSerious says:
@YALL
I feel like I’m missing out sometimes cause I don’t have any good stories like some of you. You know, the whole “It’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all” thing? Well, I’ve never let anything get that serious. My issues have issues, you understand
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Nuff said… I got ya
We did eat afterwards. She ate at her man house cause he had cooked for her
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My red alert light went off right here..
He cooked for her…so who the fuck was there for You..CAUSE YOU AINT THIRD WHEEL FOR NOBODY!!! (start argument
I don’t think Yso said hi to me let me
a little more !
chidddd my friend get mad at me and wanna spill the beans one day NAHHHHH Im good!
I will go and get my 16 yo goddaughter (her daughter) and show her them fuggin Florida Spring Break Girls Gone Wild pics of her momma!
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That bish evvvvvva decide to turn on me and we been down since we was 8…I will tell her momma the shat we did in 1993 she still don’t know about!
“faithfulness” and “Mahogny” chit right.
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Can’t even spell it right so she is fighting a losing battle
@IGO
“It ain’t that women such “great cheaters.” It’s that men are just lazy cheaters because it’s too much work and half the time we can plead for a second (or 17th) chance…. and get it.
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I just dont have time to be lying an shait covering up shait and trying to be sneaky…. ”
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Ima stick with the tried and true “I messed up and it won’t happen again.” It’s usually good for a time or three and you have to do ZERO work.
Ever got a naughty pic from someone and scroll up to see if there was more than 1 recepient???!!
I feel weird now, cause I don’t cheat, never have
Mahogny.
after 20 mins I woulda started getting off track…”like what we doing here, or yeah now Im tired”
Vero, because my arm still hurts from last week’s 18 hour long wave. #topthatyso
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This is now a running joke with dude…
Choco, one of my bff’s dips tries questioning me alot, and I just chortle and give him the “you’re kidding, right” look and change the topic
@VERO
*ahem*
I gave you 3011 :hugs: when I saw your font earlier so…
yourself out. HMPH!
@KDUB
Nahhh my bff wouldn’t spill my tea Im just sorta covering all bases less people who know and chit and really Im so good cuz I don’t cheat really so I could say Im going to to mall and would be good – if he calls I answer even if Im at happy hour or hanging out with friends
NIGGA! I got dawgs that got two cell phones and alternate addresses and old beat up cars as “get-away” vehicles and chit.
Ima stick with the tried and true “I messed up and it won’t happen again.” It’s usually good for a time or three and you have to do ZERO work.
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See thats too much work to get some strange… I rather just keep it straight up and if she down then she’s good…if not… Later.
Florida Spring Break Girls Gone Wild pics of her momma
My kids got into my box of oldies….memba them polaroids on the “strip” hanging outta niggas cars, tooting it up…
I was more embarassed by my hair then anything tho.
And them pics of when I drove my bubble to Daytona. Gawd Im so glad Im different now.
*monagomy*
one of my bff’s dips tries questioning me alot, and I just chortle and give him the “you’re kidding, right” look and change the topic This is now a running joke with dude…
isnt it funny and sometimes sad when they are clueless
Ohhhh amusement at its best – this mofo got caught up on the puss and looks and she has been in his pockets for years and then said she couldn’t stand fuking him anymore
this bish would call me and be like YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
she said she wanted to tell him so bad how he doesn’t please her
In the end the TRUTH PREVAILED 
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I was more embarassed by my hair then anything tho. And them pics of when I drove my bubble to Daytona. Gawd Im so glad Im different now.
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I rode my bike to Daytona… It was some wild shait that went on during that weekend.
I was more embarassed by my hair then anything tho.

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Eazy Does It says:
Ever got a naughty pic from someone and scroll up to see if there was more than 1 recepient???!!
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YEP….
I’m out the bish….
Alright yall Im out… yall have a good one.
speakin of embarrassed! I forgot but a couple of years ago, after the last hurricane came through I went to my Mom’s house to help her clean up.
all my siblings there and chit and we come across this box (get yall minds outta the gutter too cause my momma pure as spring water). Box got ol pics and chit in it, then they had some UNOPNED LETTERS from my Dad that was like 30 years old. So naturally, being
niggaswe read that chit.I hate my father for talkin to my mother so nasty.
(hopes we have a brand new post tomorrow not that I’m complaining)
#LoveMyLogin
I hate my father for talkin to my mother so nasty.

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OTB, them throwback pic are a mess! You swore you were sharB, but when you look at them pics IT IS TOO FUNNY yo!
@MAN
That’s what y’all get for being nosy.
@YALL
All my old pics have been destroyed to my knowledge and the knowledge of anyone who asks.
I think my dad had some sort of issues.
The letter was 3 pages long and he described in vivid detail ALL the things he wanted to do.
I don’t even shake that niggas hand now. Real talk.
I just had a flashback to Man talking about his mother months ago
And yall would not let it rest that day
I think my dad had some sort of issues.
The letter was 3 pages long and he described in vivid detail ALL the things he wanted to do.
I’m go and do something right now so I can have a story for y’all tomorrow.
Nite folks and
YSO and her story telling for tomorrow
Sandra i was so hoping for another post before the end of the day but I guess not
@LANI
Who is that in your Gravi? She looks familiar to me.
@Yso

Please go to the
You know darn well where you’ve seen that face…just with a lot less color and life
11 vero says:
I won’t lie, since Sandra started talking about pulmonary embolism, I make sure I stand and walk frequently in my office. i could really sit there for hours.
to all. I hope everyone enjoyed Christmas. I don’t go back to work until Jan 4th.
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@ Vero I also make sure I get up and walk, stretch, and just move. I can sit at my desk at work 8- 10 hrs. a day. Let’s get moving ppl. Let’s get healthy, and lets make 2012 our best yr. ever. Happy New Year To All, especially to you Sandra, for keeping your “loyal readers, lurkers” in one room.
Morning SR Fam!! Belated Merry Christmas!
Man, that is so sad! RIP Heavy D!
Morning folks!
sandra is on vaca huh?
Awww man…I missed the fun convo yesterday….
Morning fam….
Auntie is tere anyway to get a random post up because the more comments we get in this one the slower the feed will get…please and thanks
Surprised u didnt post anything on the Taylor Lautner fake “coming out” People magazine cover
IM GONNA SUGGEST EVERYONE HEAD TO THE LEBRON BABY MAMA “I DONT KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS” POST SINCE THERE’S ONLY 32 COMMENTS THERE
taylor lautner will have a lot of rich guys coming after him if he came out. come out for what though? to hell with the public, live ur life.
*follows
into the Savannah thread*
would have
Goodmorning Errbody
taylor lautner will have a lot of rich guys coming after him if he came out. come out for what though? to hell with the public, live ur life.
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That he is gay….I was like annnnd…bout time
but apparently it was fake….On to the Savannah post 