A Spring Valley High School resource officer was placed on administrative leave pending an investigation into a use of force incident against a student.
The incident, which occurred Monday, involved a female student who was reportedly disruptive in class at the Columbia, S.C. high school. The officer, identified as Ben Fields, ordered the student to stand up and leave the room.
When she refused to follow his orders, Fields put the student in a chokehold, flipped her chair over, dragged her caveman style, then bodily hurled the girl against a wall before placing her in handcuffs.
While the officer wrestled with the girl on the floor, the other students cowered in their seats, as if in fear of him.
The incident was caught on cell phone video and quickly went viral Monday evening. Celebrities such as Octavia Spencer, Cher, Ashanti, Talib Kweli, and the Rev. Jesse Jackson expressed their outrage on Twitter.com.
At least 2 cell phone videos have surfaced showing the incident. Both videos are posted below.
i can't unsee what i just saw. #AssaultAtSpringValleyHigh
— octavia spencer (@octaviaspencer) October 26, 2015
RT @EricScCribb: #Retweet &end this madness #AssaultAtSpringValleyHigh pic.twitter.com/K268QtBict @oprah @ashanti @GayleKing?>WOW DISGUSTING
— ASHANTI (@ashanti) October 27, 2015
The police officer should be fired and the police department should be sued. #AssaultAtSpringValleyHigh pic.twitter.com/yOsptB2jlx
— Rev Jesse Jackson Sr (@RevJJackson) October 27, 2015
RT @PinkzPerez: @AlSween @iMadeSmart Cool so she didn't listen. Let's drag her to the ground. sounds like slave master white supremacist
— Talib Kweli Greene (@TalibKweli) October 27, 2015
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggVMqzhkfCk
Jesus Christ that was so not necessary. If she wasn’t violent then he did not need to put his hands on her especially so roughly my god. I hope he gets fired that is not the job for him.
This is repulsive. I had to create a login just to say how disgusted I am at the lack of respect for our lives, children, education, self esteem, justice, financial stability, physical security, etc, etc, etc is shown. I know there are layers to this shyt, but the blatant “give a phukness” is prolific.
I CAN NOT.
JUST Tragic when will others START treating people like they want their mothers, sisters, aunts, wives and grandmothers. This has gone to far for two long. This young lady will be terrified and have issues for the rest of her life. thank God she alive to tell the story how she was treated less than a mange dog.
No one said anything including the teacher … soooo sad. One day I will have to tell my grandchildren about things revolving around skin color that I didn’t see until I was in my thirties. Stories that not even my own grandparents whom lived during the worst of the worst have ever told me .
What are they putting in the donuts? My gawd police are all crazy.
Chile this shyt is ridiculous
How was he supposed to remove her disruptive attitude from the classroom where other students are trying to learn? How?
wow
I’m just asking? Any idea how to get an unruly young adult to listen?
I saw this child just sitting there …. he could have just got her up … thee end … not drag her across the floor toss her into the wall ….. wtf …. but yeah you got that !!!
By the policy written ahead of time- and I doubt that was it. High school has violence. Life has violence. And as an authority figure there are policy & procedures in place to deal with violence, disruption, explosives, self harm. The same way that not every crime requires the discharge of a firearm, a disruptive (I assume before taping) student is not removed by any means necessary.
So if the policy and procedures are what we see here, then policy should be changed. But if he’s making shyt up as he goes…phuk him.
A Spring Valley High School resource officer was placed on administrative leave pending an investigation into a use of force incident against a student. Fields put the student in a chokehold, flipped her chair over, dragged her caveman style, then bodily hurled the girl against a wall before placing her in handcuffs………
The young lady appears to be a student, the teacher considered unruly and needed a higher force than himself, to deal with her. When the teacher asked her to leave, she should have. When the officer asked her to leave, she should have. Again, how was he supposed to impose his authority upon her where she was clear who was the adult and authoritative figure and who is the child?
I can’t imagine the amount anger this girl’s parents is feeling. He needs his arse beat. Fugg firing his azz, beat him till the white meat show.
OK, but how was she supposed to be removed? I’m sincerely asking.
yeah choke her … throw her into the wall break a leg or 2 yeah that’s sounds about right ….. FOH ….
**********
I’m still asking the question of how?
By your logic a whole lot of people who get in trouble for child abuse shouldn’t. If a child is disobedient, unruly, noncompliant whatever word you want to use the next step isn’t to grab them and fling them on the floor. If someone did this same thing to their child in public for not responding they would be arrested. We expect this young girl to have respect so why shouldn’t we expect others to respect her. Being defiant isn’t an excuse for violence because she herself was never violent.
Ben Fields………
Talk to her. A lot of people don’t use the requisite level of patience. Clearly this was a situation where the principal or assistant principal could have come and talk to her. There was no need for a security guard in the first place she is a student not a criminal and she was not attacking anyone.
Chile I answered your question in another response … READ LOVE … or take that azz back to cnn chile FOH
Being defiant used to get us whippings with paddles in kindergarten. Five and six years old used to get spankings. As we get older, spankings with the belt doesn’t work. But the mouth on the child and their disobedience continues. How do we show kids, who has not learn to respect authority and adults to listen to us? These are the same kids killing us at gas stations or breaking into stores with bricks to steal computers or home invasion. Does being in a school environment make a difference to how we respond to disobedience?
Can’t explain this logic with these types …. ADN needs to go to yahoo with the fugg shyt
I asked a question, you supposedly answered what the authority was not supposed to do. That’s not answering the question. But I understand why you can’t answer it because your attitude and reasoning is the same as the young lady in the video. Why can’t people disagree on a subject without using foul language and becoming hostile?
Most times when kids are defiant it is because they themselves feel disrespected or unheard. Talking to her like a human being most likely would have deescalated this whole situation. She is not some wild beast. More likely if someone outside of the teacher had stepped in and said lets talk about whats going on and whats bothering you should would have responded in a much more positive manner.
I wonder if the teacher talked to her before resulting to a cop coming into the room to remove her?
For real…….a freakin’ “High School Resource Officer”….wtf?…..
I don’t even get why the cop was there? I remember people “smelling they piss” when I was in school. The principal would come talk to them outside the classroom or in their office and address what was going on. She is a child not a criminal. This foolishness has to stop. These are kids man.
I’ve set in the junior high and high school classroom with my son because I couldn’t believe the stories he came home with. Disobedience is something that teachers complain about tremendously. They are at a loss to the point where they are turning their licenses in and entering other fields because parents do not understand what they endure on a daily basis. My question was never violence is the answer. My question is how do you control students who are disruptive to the point where talking does not work? But thank you because you offered a suggestion.
Thank you for clearing that up because my little feelings were so hurt when I thought you meant she deserved it.
Nah, you didn’t read ….. I stated clearly that the officer could have gotten her up and that should have been the end …. others suggested verbal communication ….. now furthermore ….. … foul language aye??? ….. here’s another foul one for you fawk off >>>>> when it comes to kids I don’t play …. and when a person takes up for a loser such as this ignoramus up top …. you deserve every cuss foul language there is ….. Go to yahoo with that bullshyt and socialize with your friends on there …. I’m sure they would love your logic ….. and as far as hostile ….. chile hardly …. you have no idea ….. trust …
Lord have mercy.
IONO how many kids have to be mistreated for folks to get past mad, to be willing to do something. ??
Who trained these cats???????
Roses with law enforcement in their family, what’s y’all thought on this?
I don’t know the policy. I don’t have the answer Sway.
I challenge everyone on this post to go to a high school or even elementary school tomorrow and just sit in the back of the classroom. Do it for a couple of days in a row so the kids can adjust to having you there and return to their normal behavior. Do not attend a higher honor class, because they are there to learn. Better yet, go and stand in the hallway of a school during class changes. My question is how do we get these disruptive students to listen to authority, especially the teacher who is there to do a job, so they can help other students preparing for their future?
This some straight up bullshait. This has happened before. The other people in the class sitting there like zombies. Whew my insides is boiling. Lawd I should never watched vid.
I challenge you to log all the way out …… tap your search engine and type in yahoo dot com ….. substitute the (dot) for (.)
Chase….go to bed
You see this mess …. chile
I started typing a response about all the appropriate ways to deal with these kids but thats a waste. This is not about that little girl. This about a grown man acting like a thug. I don’t care if she has an attitude she was harming no one. So with all her attitude you are saying she and all these other kids have the man with badge was still 10 times worse.
Throwing anybody against the wall isn’t right. But I know some fathers who had to throw their sons against the wall for disobeying them or doing something more extreme. Is it right? I suppose it is if the outcome is change in the child.
Well no…I cannot roll with you on that. That is abuse.
But if you had read what my comments were, you would have understood, without assumption I was not supporting his actions.
Listen here…we know kids are unruly. There a couple in here or at least during normal business hours done got kicked out of class and I’ll go even further and say they have picked up they kids from school cause they acted up. But there is no reason in ozone depleting earth that a grown adult that is not mentally retarded to drag a child like a damn durty mop.
Then nobody meaning the slow ass teacher saysaid anything. Likr, Hold up son, that ain’t necessary. going to hold the rest of my tirade until later. But there is nothing she could have done.
mutha suckabet not drag mine. There be another video starring yours truly.
Go lay down.
I’m a black mother of a black male and I understand what the world offers him because of his complexion. However, I raised him to be obedient and to not defy authority. One of the issues we see in this story is not only was she treated roughly, but the girl simply disobeyed the teacher to the point where the principal wasn’t called, but authority. Talking to her did not work.
I’m going …. smh
…………..
This a mess sis.
Hugs. Night
I hear you. But if some of these faced harsher consequences, we may not have 15 and 16 years old shooting and killing a young lady who works and went to school over her rims at the gas station at 1:30am on a school night. I am literally getting sick of these young kids attitudes and actions.
Just heard Kelly Rowland new song (Bubblegum mess) by the way …. the song is called Dumb <<< that's an understatement ….weak …. Chile Jazmine Sullivan's Dumb literally poots diarrhea all over Kelly's song smh
GN bew <3
He treated her like she was a convicted inmate at Rikers with a shank try to stab somebody. He absolutely used excessive force…. He should have received the training on HOW. I was trained on non-violent ways to diffuse situations with adults who were drug offenders. Nothing she was going exhibited violence . She may have been disruptive and still mouthing off but his training was either non existent or he didn’t use what he learned. She could have sustained a head injury…
ok
Sigh…?
This
Getting help like a counselor …. Moved the other students out of the class and suspending her are all other then violently knocking her over , dragging and body slamming her would all be better options. I doubt she was going to stage a sit in and not eat or go to the bathroom …..
This chit. Even the teacher like wtf.
I keep reading students tweets saying that this is common to this officer, it’s just the first time he was caught on video. Also saw one student tweet that the rest of them were in shock watching it and scared that they were next because he put another girl in handcuffs for standing up. And this dude does powerlifting as a hobby! He is too damn strong to be slamming a grown man, let along a teenage girl.
Lord, have mercy! ??
Please pray. Omg.?
You changed your name again?! I can’t keep up with y’all! Thank God for the Mimi gravi.
Name change is for one dumb azz Rose in particularly. Who better find herself something to do.
That was UNNECESSARY! Are u stupid? That CHILD was probably frightened by all she sees on the news involving cops. She has a right to be frightened.
Well, supposedly, police officers are trained to DEESCALATE an issue because they often encounter unruly people. They are taught to handle said people, and I’m sure they are NOT taught to throw one to the ground, unless their lives are in danger and to brutalize them, but apparently, they allow their aggression to get the best of them. They are bullies. Let me ask you something? If a parent was in public and behaved like this beast did, do you not think the parent would’ve been reported? You bet your life he/she would. Kids can be unruly sometimes, but that doesn’t mean you abuse them.
Let me clue you in on something. Your son can be standing on the street, in school, at work, or wherever minding his own business and still get profiled by the police. Remember that tennis player? Perhaps you should revisit his story or check it out if you’ve never seen it. A Black man, woman, or child doesn’t have to do anything for a rabid snake to bite.
Well Sir……
Totally agree. This child unfortunately was failed long before this occurrence. ?Sitting there like a log & refusing 2 obey teachers & Authority. Her behavior was just as repulsive as the cops. Sadly prison will probaby her future. ?
Yours wouldn’t need to be dragged… You take care of that at home. I need to see the account from start to finish. A large majority of my friends are teacher in inner city schools…. These kids are out of control, security regularly has to get them together, they have broken up fights where folks have razor blades , my step daddy has a partial disability from breaking up a fight… These “kids” can be any thing but sometimes
Yeap, I knew it…I said that….
Lol right
Reason 3575797 I wish Ju could stay home. I’d be ready to kill. Jesus fix it….
Her head hit the ground. She was choked and thrown. If she had died, I’m sure that would have been justified to you….. whatever.
You’re wrong. The kids being whipped and abused are the ones “killing us at gas stations or breaking into stores with bricks to steal computers or home invasion.” Just check the stats on inmates who were physically abused as children. When you teach a child that using violence is the way to get what you want, don’t be alarmed when that child does what you taught him to do.
What could this girl could have done while seated, to justify him picking her up and throwing her?
From what I’ve read, this cop has issues with black people and using excessive force. I have a feeling he’ll be looking for a new job next week.
The police depts in this country are responsible for so many human right violations that the United Nations need to get involved. I hate cell phones, until something like this happens.
I second that challenge!
NO… come back
I agree. Something has to give. If this is the cops behavior on a regular basis, & the kids are still acting up or being disruptive, then we have a much bigger problem.
They can’t tell you, because there is no other way to deescalate these type of situations. The girl didn’t want to listen to the teacher or the police officer, so, as authority figures, they’re no backing down & use physical force.
Thank you!!
Please. How many parents spank their child for being noncompliant or disruptive? The reason being is, spankings or physical assaults work when reasoning and logic don’t. Don’t nobody have time to be coddling these kids. That’s the problem with today’s youth now, they’re disrespectful, mouthy, and noncompliant. They think they can do whatever the hell they want and folks are just supposed to “reason with them” or compromise to their disrespectful behavior. Maybe the other kids will take this as a valuable lesson – you act up or refuse to comply with the rules of the classroom – you will be physically assaulted and jailed. Period
It shouldn’t. I’m a firm believer in spankings. They teach a valuable lesson about authority and decision making skills.
This is RAPE this Adult had no right to put his hand on this child. I’m gonna assume this is a False Flag event to whip up racial tension.I can’t believe her mates just sat there , and did nothing he could have broken her back.injured the other student that was behind her.Your natural human instinct would be to help.Has corporate America reached its goal to have us mute on situation’s like this.If so then something is drastically wrong
Can’t smoke cigs in our cars….and now we need to home school our children too? D@mn
This is why we have teacher training days.I know all my students who I work with.I have formed a relationship based on trust.Finally if you treat a person, child whoever with respect; guarantee respect will be given back.Is this the treatment. Parents as tax payers ,who pay their wages shouldn’t expect a worker to treat a child that way. If a parent was filmed head slamming their child into a wall.that child would be removed and put into care. What’s the bet nothing happens to this prison warder .Schools these days are nothing more than Education Containment Centres. or soft prisons.The students looked bored as most of them are these days in school.How many times can you repeat the same old colonialised curriculum
People don’t know the aggressiveness of the inner city students in South Carolina. Teachers are in fear and for real reasons. These days when students do commit violence in school you cant be too careful. This is a bold student to disregard the teacher’s and the officer’s orders. Also it could be a set up where she hoped to provoke an assault for profit from a lawsuit. Racism and black lives matter are big business.
Please pray for the mental well-being of this child. The abuse has forever changed her.
Did it ever occur to you that this student didn’t want to be there.Many children are forced to attend these Education Containment Centres against there wish , that in itself is abuse.With advance technology students shouldn’t be held in these institutions for so long.Many students are now self taught.What they do lack is social care due to Corporate promotion of Gangsta Rap, Reality TV programming.Beyonces Nicky minaj a trois, miles , gaga. Empire. Kardashians etc what hope is there We need our own schools , like the Jews Asians Muslims etc Our kids need to see us doing things for ourselves.
*Miley
Kids are unruly and they have attitudes. They do not always listen. I don’t have kids and I know this. If you cannot handle this without excessive violence then you do not need to be a police officer. If your only option to remove someone who is committing a nonviolent crime and is unarmed is to drag them out by their legs after choke holding them, you have selected the wrong career. Violence should always be a last resort.
When dealing with the police, there are two ways of doing things, the easy way or the hard way.
Parents: If you don’t discipline your children at home, they’ll get disciplined in the streets. And as we can see from this video, the street is a brutal teacher.
Rape?! Wow! Really?! ?
I agree with you 100%!
When I was in high school, I was considering a career in teaching; so, my uncle, who was a principal, got me a job tutoring 5th graders at a south side elementary school in a rough part of Chicago.
While most of my students were little angels, there were a couple of troublemakers in my class. One student was so ignorant and unruly, I had to move his desk and seat him facing the wall.
Prior to separating him from the rest of the class, I told him, “When you are ready to learn, I will gladly welcome you back into the group. You do not have the right to keep other students from learning and if you choose to remain ignorant, you’re only hurting yourself.”
After two days of isolation, he apologized and asked to be part of the group. He turned out to be one of my best students.
Ultimately, I decided there wasn’t enough money in teaching and I didn’t want to deal other people’s brats.
This is beyond disturbing! Why do people think it’s okay to mistreat us in such a terrible manner? This isn’t even about her behavior it’s about a grown man that doesn’t value the life & well being of a young woman of color. If he will do this to a girl I know the boys are truly catching hell. ?
” I don’t care if she has an attitude she was harming no one.”
__________________
If she was being disruptive, she was robbing the other students of their opportunity to learn and thwarting the teacher’s attempts to do his job.
And that couldn’t have been done in this situation? Your action sounded logical… Did you see that happening with this child? Nah you chose to make an assumption based on your own past experiences… Clouding your judgement here…. Glad you stopped teaching! Thank god…. Your statement alone told me you weren’t there to better our youth! You were there simply for a check and probably the summer vacations! We need teachers that want to see a child learn not just there to get a Damn check! ? that shyt!
The pupil in my case, complied by moving his desk and keeping his mouth shut.
Obviously, the girl in that video has no respect for authority. If her parents disciplined her at home, the cops wouldn’t have to discipline her in the street.
*MAD AS PHUCK ALREADY*…..mind u I been up since 3am…for a meeting in Montgomery in which we had to be at 730…anyhoo we meet up at 5 and pack up….its 6 of us from various departments but same fields which is MH…OH…mind u it’s raining cats & dogs…we get down here and these damn folks ain’t got not a piece of nothing ready…mind u it’s about 100 of us in this Marriott lobby and they staff ain’t set up SHYT…I am hungry….got a attitude…*sitting in the lobby in a chair by myself…don’t want nobody to say nothing to me….WHOO!!!!
I saw this this morning, everybody sitting there like this an everyday occurrence…his ass should be fired..he yoked that girl smoove out her desk…#bastard
according to what reports say, she was verbally disruptive and in no way deserved to be yanked out her desk and drug across the floor…
You are making an excuse for the cop and victim blaming. Yes, she should have listened to the officer. However, she did not touch him. She did not say anything to him. She simply refused to do as he said PEACEFULLY. In that case, he should not have put his hands on her. There has to be another repercussion – perhaps asking her to move her desk as you have stated. We don’t see what happened prior to this happening.
The fact of the matter is that kids act up in class. Good students and bad students alike. Guess what, I was an AP Honors Student. Guess what, in my AP US History my friends and I still kee’keed it up some days when we found the teacher who talked in a monotonous voice rather boring. Guess what else? We still got good grades because we did not need her to help us to read our textbooks or recite facts on tests. Either way, if your only option is to resort to violence in a situation like that and further escalate things, you do not need to be an officer or a teacher and your point of view is quite appalling. I understand there are kids who are unreachable, I do. But to justify him manhandling her – he is probably 180 lbs at least and she looked so thin. Like only 100 lbs, that is a gross misuse of force and power.
I agree with you there, assault yes, rape, no…
GM….nah I got to disagree on this….sometimes kids act out during peer pressure…that’s like saying that kids that have two parents in the household, turn out better than those with one…as a wife of someone who is in law enforcement… I don’t care…this should have been handled different…sometimes kids will shock u….u can raise them the best u can BUT they will take they on path…I don’t know this young lady’s story…or how she was raised BUT excessive is excessive..
Somebody feed Z before she turns the table over.
I am sorry for my blunt candor, but this is the dumbest correlation I have ever heard. You are trying to paint behavior as this linear entity where good students only exhibit one type and bad students the other, which is erroneous.
Students are people. People exhibit good and bad behaviors because humans are complex. This does not mean that one person is all bad or vice versa. Also, going into the hallways to view them on their off time doesn’t tell much about how they behave in the classroom. That’s like telling me to go into your home when you are no longer working and observing you with your family or your friends. Perhaps cursing, perhaps making asinine comments, perhaps watching suspect tv shows that don’t align with my narrow subjective views of something “intelligent” people watch, and then making biased judgments based on these small details.
Maybe instead of raising a fist, we can ask questions. We can ask why. Send them to the guidance counselor, earn their trust. There are other avenues than physically harming the student and then possibly not only harming them but causing yourself to get sued.
^^^^^ same here…my mom was the disciplinarian of us….my dad couldn’t do it…*DISCLAIMER: THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DISCIPLINE AND CHILD ABUSE….and I was smart active in school activities….BUT I did act up…ONCE!!!!
Even if she was being verbally disruptive, how does one get to this? She’s sitting in her chair. She wasn’t standing up or physically aggressive in his face when this went down.
Sometimes folks do stuff that’s just out of line. Justify it as you want but it’s out of line. I think this could be a case of that. I can’t see a reason for this at the moment that starts she’s in the chair.
Well said!
Nobody was surprised so this is something that goes down regularly.
In the cop’s defense, he had no way of knowing if she was armed with a weapon. I’d imagine the recent rash of school shootings has most resource officers on edge.
When a subject ignores a police order and is non-compliant, an aggressive takedown is usually the next step.
Yes, thank you. That is straight up abuse. He also doesn’t know her current physical condition. There are people out here with disorders that are invisible to the naked eye. He could have conked her head on the tile and she could have died if angled improperly. You just don’t know.
Lol, I was a mouthy student and a know-it-all. I know couldn’t anybody tell me anything. But I got good grades.
I am sorry for my blunt candor, but this is the dumbest correlation I have ever heard. You are trying to paint behavior as this linear entity where good students only exhibit one type and bad students the other, which is erroneous.
Students are people. People exhibit good and bad behaviors because humans are complex. This does not mean that one person is all bad or vice versa. Also, going into the hallways to view them on their off time doesn’t tell much about how they behave in the classroom. That’s like telling me to go into your home when you are no longer working and observing you with your family or your friends. Perhaps cursing, perhaps making asinine comments, perhaps watching suspect tv shows that don’t align with my narrow subjective views of something “intelligent” people watch, and then making biased judgments based on these small details.
Maybe instead of raising a fist, we can ask questions. We can ask why. Send them to the guidance counselor, earn their trust. There are other avenues than physically harming the student and then possibly not only harming them but causing yourself to get sued.
HEY BABY….my PTSD is on 1-hunnard….
*and just wanted to say…DON’T U change….I LUBS U AND @DUB…. *not branging up old SHYT….
THESE FOLKS JUST BRANGING IN TABLES…THE GM LOOKING CRAZY….WHO IS IN CHARGE OF THIS IS GONNA GET FIRED…OR SHOULD….girl folks leaving going to Mcdonald’s and shyt….IT WAS SUPPOSE TO BE A BREAKFAST AND YA’LL AIN’T EVEN GOT A POT OF COFFEE OUT!!!!!
HEY BOOT….how r u…and the job???
now that’s reaching, thinking she had a weapon and that warranted a hostile takedown…I work in a PRISON, with juvenile inmates who have been sentenced as adults, deemed worst of the worst from society..when they are disruptive in class, they lock-in, have a time out, none have been dragged or man handled, one just got maced in over the year that they have been here…that was only because he put his hands on an officer…ain’t no justifying what this cop did
Well what WOULD you do if your obedient child decides to mouth off and refuse to obey you? Tell us HOW would you discipline him? To be clear I want to know HOW? What would your back up plan be? Who is your support system? HOW would you handle the young lady? Yes Lady…. 140 pound unarmed young lady….
*dat azz would be looking like DaffyDuck…when Elmer Fudd be shooting his beak off…LOL…Z20 tried me when he was 13….that was the day that HE KNEW THERE WUZ A GAWD!!!! THAT SAVES!!!
Thanks dear. They’re tripping. Somebody is going to have some problems. The least they could’ve done is brought out some coffee and a couple pastries while they get their lives together.
hey Zeta, I’m as well as can be expected about to go on vaca to FL this Thursday..still ready to quit…#asap and you??
And this so called cop has no respect fora human being and their body parts!
I just laughed (“What are they putting in the donuts?”) but at the same time this ish just ain’t funny. It’s f’in ri-damn-diculous. They have truly lost they damn minds and rogue.
so true,because hurt people hurt people. What about that folks just dont understand
If you can’t see the possibility of there being something wrong with what happened in this video, you need to figure out who hurt you in your life. Get some counselling so you can find some empathy.
Everyone is entitled to their opinions but some these comments real are head scratchers. I just don’t get it…Maybe I’m watching the wrong the video.
Good Morning,
I was also upset that the other girl was arrested after he asked her if she “wanted some too” and she told him what he did was wrong and he arrested her. The fact that the brother at the front of the class didn’t intervene was troubling too .
If you only knew what black cops are doing to black people on Chicago’s south side….
“A (black) Chicago Police officer was convicted Friday of using excessive force in a beating that was captured by a security camera at a South Side convenience store.
While jurors found Aldo Brown guilty of the assault against a (black) former store clerk, they acquitted him on charges that he lied about the 2012 incident on police reports.
Brown, 38, testified at his trial that he only began throwing punches at Jecque Howard at the Omar Salma shop on East 76th Street after he realized Howard had a handgun in his back pocket.
With that surveillance video as her key tool, Assistant U.S. Attorney Jessica Romero set out to undermine Brown’s claim during her cross-examination of him, showing frame-by-frame photos of Brown’s encounter with Howard.
The jury, which began deliberating late Thursday afternoon, saw the video of Brown punching Howard, who ended up face-down on the ground as Brown recovered a loaded gun from Howard’s rear pocket. Moments later, Brown could be seen kicking the handcuffed suspect.
Assistant U.S. Attorney Lindsay Jenkins told the jury during closing arguments that Howard posed no reasonable threat to Brown when Brown kicked him.
Howard testified that he never tried to flee or attack the officer. But he also admitted on cross examination that he illegally bought and carried a gun in 2012.
Howard said Brown, who came into the store with another officer, asked him to lift his shirt and lower his pants. Howard could be seen on the video raising his shirt, but he said Brown threw his first punch when he repeated the command back to the officer.
“It was a shock,” Howard said. “But it stung.”
Aldo Brown criminal complaint
As the beating continued, Howard said Brown told him, “I know you have something, if you have it, give it to me.” With that, Howard said he pulled out a bag of marijuana out of his pants pocket and gave it to Brown. But as the video continued, Howard wound up on the floor of the convenience store.
“I was going through a lot of pain at that time,” Howard said.
Brown testified earlier this week that he was “very, very scared” during his Sept. 27, 2012, confrontation with Howard.
“I was trying to get to the gun,” Brown , 38, said. “That was my main focus. I was trying not to get shot.”
Joseph D. Fitzpatrick, a spokesman for U.S. Attorney Zachary Fardon, said in a statement Friday: “The vast majority of police officers are honorable public servants, and they deserve our trust and respect for putting their lives on the line. An officer who violates that trust and exceeds his authority will be held accountable.”
MORNING!!!!!
MAF!!!! rhet nah….*read comment above… I love Fl this time of the year…
Thank you for this – but I don’t see where many of the posts were citing color in particular. Few comments took into account him being white. What they had a problem with – and rightfully so – was simply the treatment an officer/law enforcement exhibited against an adolescent small girl. This is about abuse of power by an authoritative figure.
Exactly – I don’t see how you could justify it at all.
Hey boo!
I saw what you going through down there and i’m sorry!
How you doing though? I miss you in here cutting up!!!
It seriously seems like that school is run by police period. Totalitarian dictatorship up in there.
EXACTLY….my bossman done slid ova here…he know how I gets when I get mad….*talking about we going to IHOP…. I AIN’T GOING NOWHERE,,,in dis rain…and NO I DON’T WANT NOTHING BACK…I want this meeting to start so we can get da phuck back to MY CITY…
*rummaging through bag trying to find a snickers bite*
after Veterans Day next month, I will be free more…and I got 2 books I been trying to read for about a month… *oh, here this bish come making “nouncements”….Girl, folks gone to eat…YA’LL I GOTTA STEP OUTSIDE,,,BECAUSE I AM ABOUT TO GET MAD FOR REAL!!!! brb
Yeah, cause I miss thee and sorry about the food thing, I’d mad as chit too!
I agree people are entitled to their opinions. I’ll be the first one to agree but everything isn’t so black and white literally and figuratively.
I’m not one to take up every cause but I do try to see if from all sides. Objectively review evidence and information. I don’t automatically have an answer for it all. Something about this video is very wrong.
*now I’m over here by myself…and dis bish done asked me what kind of shoes “are those”….BISH WHY…and leave me alone right now…u see me typing (hard may I add)….now I answered your question….nah u want to tell me “HOW EXPENSIVE THEY ARE….*ain’t u got some trash to be emptying…. DAMN!!! I should have drove…BUT didn’t because of the weather….let me go back inside…for this heifer ask me what “da name of my blawse iz”….I promise that’s how she talk….
I hear ya. Crazy.
I agree that parents should discipline children at home, however, if he was called in because she was being disruptive, all that extra man handling the police officer was doing, was out of line.
Why are the other kids just looking without flinching…..this happens often there….I can tell
OK….we moving towards the conference room…with over half of the people gone….girl!!!! the Director of this got the Hotel GM and Banquet Manager in a corner….given them the business….he mad a hell…AND I’M HERE FOR IT….TTYL!!!!
PLAY NICE IN DA GARDEN!!!!!!
KEESSSHHHHHH!!!!!
Good Morning good people.
KEYAAAA!!!!! I see u were being “nicety” as usual…. yesterday…how r u???
Morning Boo!
This I agree with, at this point color is NOT the issue.
Yoooooooo!!!! What’s up???? How ya doing/
I pray that you are white. I know you are supposed to be an octoroon or whatever and I promised myself that I would not come on here at any time and personally attack anyone, but you maKe me sick. I know you don’t care but I wanted to let you know. You truly disgust me.
The fact that you believe this is the appropriate response to a mouthy teenager further confirms your malignant mindset. Your initial reaction is to defend the police officer. At all times. No matter the situation. You always resort to the “fear of life/ dangerous threat” mantra. You are a weak and disgusting individual.
*here she go sounding all “white” again….*runs back out….. *runs back in and mess yo hair up….and runs back out…..KMSL!!!
Is there no gray area here? People who do it the easy way also face challenges at times too, right?
idk why you do this with him….
I have a teen, they can be very challenging to say the least with the back talk and the attitude….I’m actually wondering the same thing. she was told to leave, she decided to stay and be grown, so she got thrashed. having seen how awful teenagers can be I’m inclined to not care myself….
OMG!!!! I just bust out laughing…and I think this man thought I was laughing at some shyt he said….
*shares my “piece of snickers with u*…..LOL!!!
1-hunnard….u r really reaching….a weapon…
Morning. I have harassing emails that I don’t who sent it! I will forward them to my local police and FBI!!
TRE’ DUB-YA….. hey luv bug!!!!
nobody has an answer, and I can bet there’speople on here with teenagers that have had to manhandle them as well. this just got caught on tape. I cannot stand a disrespectful , disruptive teenager who thinks that they are GROWN.
Hey babes
Did a lurker email you? What issue could they possibly have with you?
Welp, someone was calling me out for I guess only wanting black women in here….when did I say that I don’t know. However, for the people who lurk all damn day and then comment at night: Please do the education and read the entire conversation before your fingers do all that angry typing. Thanks
WAIT….WHET…..U had to do all that for a e-mail….girl did they threaten u or family with bodily harm….serious question….for u to call in all them…can u tell what it says…I understand if u don’t want too…
Just Keya 18 hours ago
Nope. If you not confirmed you can’t be here. *rolls eyes again* I mean I am not leaving and people will deal. Tuh Edit ViewView in discussion
toni walker 15 hours ago
It’s 2015 and you guys are clowns! Can we please have more diversity. Black women will argue and be bothered over the most stupid things! No wonder America does not like you! Have a seat!
see more Reply ViewView in discussion
Just Keya a few seconds ago
Miss, I am not sure if you read the entire thing, but myself and another Rose were being very sarcastic. Of course diversity is encouraged in here. The point of our banter was because someone else did not see that very point. Now, for all the diversity you are talking about, you then want to turn around and stereotype me because I am a black woman. In the future, please do the education on what the conversation is before you turn on your angry fingers and try to paint me as something you think Black women are. Thank you. And by the way, America might not like Black women, but they for damn sure do everything to be like them. Go figure.
*WELP….TIME TO GO….I gotta feeling….well nevermind….I’M OUT!!!
Nobody cares about Black Women’s guide to what real Black is period! The majority of you are spiteful and hateful Next! I wish more Latina’s, Whites and Asian’s would post we need more diversity on this blog and you nappy headed females can go away (Pease Do!) you guys are wack, tired and played out!
Just Keya a few seconds ago
You want diversity, but then you want us “nappy headed females to go away”. Please make up your mind. Either you want diversity or you don’t. Also if we are so “wack, tired, and played out” why to most women who are not Black, try to do and copy everything we have and do. We have full lips, hips and booties to match. And look what most of the non Black women in America are doing? Going out to have the body manufactured to look like who? Tanning to be brown to look like who? Please don’t confuse it. We all peep game. Now YOU may not care about the Black Women’s guide to what real Black is, and that’s fine, but maybe you should ask your counterparts why they run, hop, skip, and jump to be like us. Again, do the education hun.
Girl.
FIRST, she should have turned off the cell phone as she was directed to do 3 times. Notice the teacher and administrator are standing by. They wanted the girl to leave the room and she wouldn’t.
Lol. I appreciate you sharing your last with me. I’m sick of people.
I like you and all but if you put your hands in my hair again we gone have problems.
Hey girl and bye girl! Have a good day
AND, as a teacher, some of children (and whites too) are so disrespectful to teachers it’s pathetic.
I’m good!!! and you?
She wouldn’t leave the classroom. She wouldn’t turn off her cell phone. “Gang girl?”
Wait whet?! Who said this & why they coming for us so hard?
It’s good to see your font! I am good! How are you? Where have you been?
Yes, the teacher and the administrator asked her to turn off the cell phone and leave the room, she didn’t. Smart-a** kid.
Good morning Roses. I do not know what this girl did. I do not know all the facts. What I do know is that the force he used was unacceptable. Had that young lady landed wrong she could have sustained neck and spinal cord injuries, and his yanking and tossing could have caused her physical harm as well. He used excessive force. It was clear his life and safety were not in danger from her so there are NO justifications for his behavior.
No, the principal (administrator) WAS called. He was in the room with the officer. Girl needed an Arse-whooping.
^^ I totally agree with this. Parents should spend a day at a school — any school — and see how BORED the students are. They wander the halls. It’s like imprisonment.
Girl I don’t even know who that is, but I was just confused. Because clearly they did not A)know the situation and B) read the entire conversation. Just coming in and thinking they were gonna read me I guess. Sorry babes. Not today.
I dont know who they are from. This ain’t grade school and let the police investigate!
Parents are not allowed to do this to their own children. Children act up all the time. You can train your child up in the way that they should go. But they are not robots. They will act up, and do some disrespectful ish sometimes. That is not a reason to whoop someone else’s kid.
Who said the above?
Edit: …Nevermind I see the answer below.
Toni Walker, who ever that is
…please also tell whatever dimwit posted that ignorant diatribe that Latina IS NOT A RACE.
She/he obviously has a huge problem with black women. I read that & the hate is real of all people on the blog she chose you to come for ?. This is gonna be one of those days ?
Nor has it ever been.
I’m going to say this then go back to lurking. You guys are really making my clean newly sculpted azz itch with the fighting and the ignorant azz comments. I know some of you are not happy with your lives so you come on here target certain folks, WHOLE ethnicities, act like you have a degree on ever subject or that you KNOW how it feels to be someone bc some how you are clairvoyant but some of ya’ll are a piece of work. I don’t know what happened to you, who hurt you or what kool aid packet you snorted but I’m just going to ignore certain people. Ok? Cool. Stay Fly, Stay Ignorant, Stay Blessed
can you at least agree that a child should stay in a child place, and not GRANDSTAND when adults have asked her to leave class? Nobody has any details. Who knows what kind of student she was. Nobody. Now was the cop excessive, yes, but it’s not like the child was not asked FIRST to leave. He didn’t come in there like Dirty Harry…initially. Does this child have a long history of disciplinary problems? Who knows…nobody knows CHIT, but everyone is acting on emotion. I have to be around teens, they are nowhere near as sweet and innocent as people would like to think, not these days.
They just showed the video on the Today Show.
And she got gall to be Cuban
Toni pops up to educate black women every so often.
…..
You know her? She a long time Rose?
Can we claim today as a peaceful day on the blog? Instead of paying folks dust, can we pay them nothing today? Not a response, or a subliminal? I’m just here to party and bullshyt… can we do just that today?
Ohhh ok. Welp, she got it all wrong yesterday. Reading is always fundamental.
*stop making me laugh….I got my pank/white reading glasses on….trying to look like I work for the government…..looks in mirror and checks my fro’..in case this heifer “mushed it in da back”….”sniggles”….finna log off for real…we getting ready to start…with these folks sitting up breakfast…mine you…trying to whisper….have a great day babes….:kiss:
WHOA! What happened? Do I want to read? *cringe*
She was up in here a month or so ago stirring up mess
smh. sad
or that you KNOW how it feels to be someone bc some how you are clairvoyant —This though.
Never heard of her. LOL
I am bothered by the video. I’m bothered by police brutality. I’m bothered by the lack of training and accountability officers have. I am bothered by the lack of respect they have for people of color, specifically black people.
That being said, I need to hear the audio because I believe that I am going to be most bothered by that male teacher standing up in the middle of the floor and watching that child get body slammed and dragged across the room. It seems to me that the inherent response would be to SAY something. Maybe you wouldn’t do something but you would SAY something. I’m sick of the weakness and cowardice. Sorry not sorry.
RIGHT! Because I am not Anti other races or people. SO why come for me?! And not even read the conversation. It’s cool though. Still I rise lmao.
You know what I notice, whenever the victim of any type of assault is black, the general public wants them to assume some responsibility in the attack. But when the victim is white, everyone wants to protect them. Wrong is wrong. The job should require some type of training to deal with unruly children vs. harden criminals.
Nothing, just the last couple of days have been tew much. Opinions are NOT facts and ppl need to understand you don’t know everything.
NannaDee Rip Corey Jones • 18 minutes ago
Morning. I have harassing emails that I don’t who sent it! I will forward them to my local police and FBI!!
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Oh the email you BEGGED for me to send?
Okay.
Send it.
I’m anti-ignorant and stupid REGARDLESS of race or sex.
Bull, NO…we CAINT have peace EVER.
That’s not reaching. Students bring weapons to school.
I fuggin knew this was about you. #Disclaimer I told WHitt I’m a wait this one out. *sits with cookies and milk*
Maybe its not, lets not jump to conclusions…she did post her email on here several times and you know folks are crazy
Nappy headed though? ??? This dumbazz…
Not like I aint say I was gonna send it.
*hugging Zeta back* I am tired of the Mean Girls Club with a ring leader!! If you don’t like what I say then email me if not have a seat. But as I learn in life chicken shyters won’t email you bc they are too chicken Shyte to do so!!
^^^^^
You know what?
You’ve got mail.
As you love to say…check your notifications.
Me and you about to have us an email come to Jesus.
Tired of you. Not sure why you begging for this email. When you didnt email ME to talk shyt. But I will be MORE THAN HAPPY to hit you up. After that? Dont talk to me. And I wont reference you. And I DONT. And I havent. If I did, then TRUST it wont happen NO MORE.
As far as OLD shyt? I cant talk about WHAT IN THE FUGG I FEEL LIKE.
KISS MY ASS
I want the old garden back!!!!
Where did they ask her to turn the cell phone off? Didn’t see that in the video. Either way, SO WHAT. When I was twelve, I was quiet and kept to myself. Didn’t start any trouble, but I always had a Discman (heyyy throwback) and my headphones on even though they were against school policy. And when the teacher asked to take it from me, I said no. It’s my property and I wasn’t disrupting the class as it was on low. (I would have, however, turned it off and put it away but the teacher did not give this as an option to me either.) I still wouldn’t expect to be bodyslammed because I didn’t want to give up my belongings. That’s more disruptive to the class – taking the time out to address someone who is not interrupting you, not making any noise, and chooses to check out of the class.
The issue is not what the student was doing when said student was nonviolent. Disruptive kids are a freaking given when you are a teacher. Hell, I also have taught adults. Adults who are PAYING to take the class and guess what? They are also disruptive. When they are disruptive and non-compliant (I’ve taught a director of a financial corporation who was always on his cell phone and disruptive to the class even though I’d asked him multiple times to turn his cell off or please leave), I DO NOT GET AN OFFICER TO BODY SLAM THEM.
There were plenty of alternatives. Ask questions. Wait until the class is over to address them. Take a break. As a teacher, it is your job to teach the material but you can’t expect good retention if you are not engaging your students. As a teacher, you should hope to reach every student, and if you are not, perhaps you need to ask ‘What am I doing that my students look bored,’ than punish every student who looks disinterested or is disruptive in a nonviolent manner.
You know what, your voice of reason today is nice. That’s true. Let’s wait this out.
Exactly! Outta all the folks to be mad at she chose you. How Sway?
Morning Mrs. Time
Um…you know what…NVM
Ummm no it is.
Wait, are you my Jada lovin boo?
But why was that song on my Pandora today?! hahahahha. I turned it right off. hahahaha. Morning Dubb
Where is the threat? Yeah, the police and FBI will get right on this. This is code orange, they will prioritize this. It’s right up there with possible terrorist cells.
Hey Boo!!
How you doing this fine morning ?
I mean…Yall know I say it’s no such thing as “good hair” but MY hair has never been nappy….it don’t even like to hold curls. IJS. But if I have to be nappy I will be I guess.
I bet the next time a teacher ask her to leave class she will get up and go. More kids need to be choke slammed. She thought it was OK to not 1) do as asked 2) respect adults or authority. Well she was wrong. If her momma had have handled this defiant behavior at home. Maybe she wouldn’t have been slammed and bammed in cuffs. Kids just do whatever they want these days. Yeah he could have handles it less aggressive. But maybe he been wanted to choke slam her defiant ass. Lesson to be learned. Teach your kids at home the meaning of respect, authority, and good decision making skills. And if necessary choke slam drag their ass to enforce lesson. The the “resource officer” or Mr. Officer will not have too.
+1
At this point I would do too. even if I didn’t get a log in. Good Morning
she gonna learn…
I wasn’t even part of the old garden and I’m liking this status.
Our kids are getting dragged and body slammed (while in a desk) on camera and people been gang banging in emails for three days. What set you claim? “QWERTY”. Shyt sounds dumb.
Nana Dee: I really don’t know who this is. I will forward this email to my local police and FBI for harassment.
Have a nice day !!
Sent from my Verizon Wireless 4G LTE DROID
Me: I Do It For The Blogs wrote:
LOOK DEE. You put my name in an email to another Rose. I truly did NOT appreciate it. It was not needed. You were talking about BULL. And race. Somehow for SOME REASON YOU decided to ADD in me sleeping with ole boy. WHAT THAT HAD TO DO WITH YOUR TOPIC is beyond ME.
I have and have NEVER even SAID anything to you. EVER. I speak to you on the blog. Thats it. Why you would GO ON to say you have ZERO fucks allocated to ME is beyond me. IDGAF. Dont HAVE any.
You also called me a LIAR. WHAT did I lie about and WHAT is it TO YOU PERSONALLY? When like someone said…you SEE me on the blog EACH AND EVERY DAY. You coulda said that to ME directly. NOT through another Rose.
Please bypass me.
I aint NEVER been SCARED to email anyone directly. THAT SOUNDS DUMB. Why would I be afraid OF EMAIL?
Do not talk to me on the blog. I will IN TURN stop the subliminals.
HAVE A GREAT LIFE.
I aint a “MEAN GIRL” until provoked. YOU PROVOKED ME. FOR NO REASON. You have no CLUE who speaks to WHOM off the blog. That was uncalled for. Who is the mean girl NOW?
YOUR scared ass coulda SAID that ON THE BLOG.
FUGG YA.
No threat
Good Morning,
I’d give you my “just in case I got banned one”
what the hell, i am so happy i missed the ignorance that @Just_Keya:disqus had to confront. i sweeear, people these days. also, if you have an issue with black women why are you on a black female owned blog that is populated by black women covering black news? the irony.
I mean she has a concussion in the least from her HEAD hitting that FLOOR. That was the LAST thing I SAW last night. Disturbed
Good Morning Black,
I’m out that email loop! but lordt
I’m just here to party and bullshyt
……….
Thank you ?. This blog drama is for the damn birds. No one knows anyone personally. Why do people get in their feelings over complete strangers?
Seriously, what in the hell is going on?! For what?!
Good morning.
Questions that will never get answers sis.
You sure? LOL
Exactly, but according to reports she is fine. You know you can see a concussion. *sarcasm*
lmaooooooooooo
I like your font.
Good Morning
Quinn, you going to see suicide squad?
Yes child. Since we in here reporting emails…like who has time for this? Why is it that serious? Come on yall.
She the one been emailing folk TALKING about me. Begged me to email her. I did. Now she calling po po.
Imma need her to MEDICATE
Morning Love, please hammer don’t hurt ’em!
lol. thank you
Toni came when we changed.
Same with Nana Dee
i see all sides as well – and i know i don’t have the patience to teach kids (especially those in the inner cities that often are more difficult) nor do i want to be a police officer. i just think that if you actively choose a career path that places you in a position of power over difficult kids, you should use restraint and know the situation. there is just no excuse for violence when none was performed by the offending party.
I once saw this super ignorant (that’s my word of the day, ignorant ) video on Fb where this young Latina chick was like when black girls hate on you just take your hair out of a bun and let it hang. Apparently “we” can’t do that so “we’d” be jealous. I was like, really? People really believe bs like this? Meanwhile my hair was and is longer that the simple trick who made the video ???
*in my Chuck D voice* HOLD IT NOW! What done had happened. WHO sent this? WHO you tambout, sis?
I debated on this topic via IG until after midnight (like a dummy)…the officer’s actions were brutal and unwarranted. This was a young girl who had not committed a crime and was not under arrest. The fact that he, a grown man, could not handle a situation without restraint is disturbing at best, and unjustified.
Race is not the main factor in this. If the young girl was white and the officer white, I would still have an issue with his actions. If the officer was black and the young girl black, I would still have an issue with his actions.
PERIOD.
Hey, I don’t make the rules.
Some cops are highstrung and looking for a reason to rough people up. All I’m saying is, don’t give them a reason to use force.
Getting into a confrontation with an officer isn’t a smart move.
Besides, if the girl in that video had any respect for authority, the teacher wouldn’t have to call a cop into the classroom.
Nope. “He has been wanting to choke slam her defiant ass?” This is insane. My daughter has been defiant at her schools; it’s the way she is sometimes. You know hormones and all. That doesn’t give anyone the right to choke or throw someone’s child across the room. I tell all my daughters teachers; if you have a problem with my child, you need to call/email me and I will take care of it. I don’t need some stranger “enforcing a lesson” when it comes to my child. SMH
I’ll keep hope alive.
Dubb listen. I know she emailing about you. I know. However, what you think the police really gonna say? You don’t know her off the blog, not her name, where she live, where she works, nothing. Let this situation drop dead. If she don’t like you cool. If you don’t like her that’s cool too. Yall don’t have to speak. But calling the FBI and the cops is pushing this too far. Let’s just move on.
thank you. tell them to wiki race, ethnicity, and nationality. or take sociology 101 while they are at it.
You should write a book on how to successfully parent, you’ll make a bundle, especially with the real life examples on how you handled with your children.
hahahahah. People just…I don’t know. I guess though. I guess.
I agree and disagree…cause if this was a parent it would never be OK to do this ish…you would be a child abuser and be locked up. I know for damn sure my momma and daddy told my ass “don’t have them white folks calling me”. They told my ass to always have respect and to follow authority even when the other person is wrong. BUT on another note there was a study that said white folks think Black kids are adults and treat them accordingly…so…
Nana Dee. Chit been going on for DAYS. She was fuggin with BullSweet about being WHITE. For some reason she EMAILED someone about THAT…and proceeds to go in on me. Called me a liar. She has no fuggs allocated towards me. Im fuggin ole boy. All KINDS of chit. So I proceed to joke on her ass subliminally. She BEGGED for an email. So I emailed her.
I am tired of these gatdamn folks. TRULY. I dont do CHIT to nobody. Til I am poked.
*throws bipolar meds at her*
So what you’re saying is because she was being disobedient, she should be placed in the guillotine? Because it reads like you agree that resource officer was justified in trying to take her head off because she was ignoring the orders of 3 adults.
You’re right. It’s about the abuse of power.
Well whoever in here is sending threatening emails to the FBI to investigate, can I get your email address so I can forward you the email someone sent me of their blue waffle? I mean that shyt was months ago and it’s still fukking with my head. I want this dirty bastard found and hung by their fukked up lady parts. I don’t need priority level like you per se, but a quick investigation would be great.
Thanks!
YOUR DUMB ASS ASKED FOLKS TO EMAIL YOU.
“If you don’t like what I say then email me”
I believe he mishandled it. Buther ass need to know its consequenses for bad decisions. Some people lose their life. So she made out OK. Kids need to know respect and doing as asked. If I’m at home and my child openly disrespects me like that girl did the teacher. I would choke slam drag my own. Stay in a child place and learn that behavior can get u effed up.
I bet you don’t want to open that can of worms Niecy of allowing a cop to manhandle student. I have witness a cop deal with a threatening teenager with bi polar disorder with less force. You just don’t get to choke slam and drag a person in a METAL chair across the floor
OH SCHNAP. KEESH
lmfao the sarcasm here.
Speaking of old folks do y’all ever see @WhittyHutton in here? I seen her the first week or so since Daquan, but I haven’t seen her since.
That bish aint calling no FBI or cops.
This is our fault and its gonna continue to happen unless we stop sitting on our hands.
BTW F–K JESSE JACKSON
Whit, give up hun…I went to bed mad last night at some the comments on IG. I just don’t know….
He was not a cop. And he was over zealous. I’m just tired of people letting kids do whatever. It a consequence for bad decisions. And in life you have no control over the consequence.
LOL.. dead. the fbi still trying to figure out who put all us govt folks in the deers/gal out on front street. they do not have time to be tracking down unsightly punkies.
chile its me
dont send me no Blue Waffa email you nut.
You can discipline a child without doing all of that. It was more than mishandling; he was wrong. If an adult is unable to speak with a child and get them to do what they want without placing hands on them; that person may need to rethink their occupation. It was unnecessary. She is a child and she will behave as children behave. This is normal teenage behavior and he treated her like a criminal.
Alright before I fade to black…I love yall. Smooches. Catch yall next e-lifetime.
In other news. Lisa Turtle’s (Lark Voorhies) soon to be ex is shopping a sex tape of them.
OOOHHH really? Same chick that tried to sneak diss somebody a few weeks ago saying that “notice how nobody’s responding to their comments. But I don’t want to start nothing.” Then I politely asked her to put a name on it and to “quit starting sh!t” she got mad. The exchange was funny as hell to me. She called me “new”. LMAO I paid her dust.
You leaving leaving or stepping out and coming back?
See your parents taught you respect and you never needed to be choke slammed. That’s my entire point.
I agree, but if that young girl was a blond hair white girl the entire country would be outraged. It saddens me we doing get the same outrage.
Now see. I knew he was slow. Because WHO wants to see that? WHO? Ain’t nothing sexy about either one of them. Child please
If ONLY you knew. *birdman hand rub*
omg why… unless it’s a halloween special bc w/ her face looking as it does rn it would be a real horror show (word to a clockwork orange lol).
I believe he will get fired.
Seeing that the resource officer didn’t mind expending copious amounts of energy, he could’ve dragged the desk out of the classroom (remove the disruption) and contacted her parents.
Oooouuuuu I bet her sex faces are A W F U L
Yup…and I went to an all white school 7-12. Can’t say I had too many problems although they tried to make out like I did. My momma sure did come into the classroom and pop the ish out of me one day tho. She claims she doesn’t remember lol saying you a lie I woulda been locked up.
Though the amount of force used may be deemed excessive, once again NONE OF THIS would have been necessary or have had the opportunity to happen if she had followed directions. I’m sure that by the time the teacher called the officer in this had been going on for a while, as in multiple requests for her to comply. She tested a higher authority and unfortunately got handle and embarrassed.It still comes to “there is always someone crazier, stronger, badder than you are and if you “test” enough people you WILL find them.
The whole thing is sad, but she could have had a decent day by just following directions in the 1st place
I understand that and it does start at home but I teach my child respect but I don’t drag her across the floor to do it. This isn’t “the streets” is a learning institution, I don’t excuse HER behavior but her having an authority problem is the LEAST of the problems in this video.
lmaooooo!
I love y’all today
I haven’t done chit work related
The resource officer does have a history of using excessive force against students at that school over the past 10 years, so……
Yep the child was wrong . . .Unruly or NOT that was straight excessive use of force and unacceptable.
And I’m sure he’s never been disobedient to an teacher, elder, or person of authority *sarcasm*
AH-SA-MAH-LIK YOBA
I just threw up a little.
So a Halloween sex tape? Interesting.
Exactly. She and her parents would be shopping shows right now to tell “their” story and America would want to know how this criminal (the officer) would be punished….
All these folks keep talking about the girl was wrong, but don’t have a problem with the officer ???
These replies have me shedding real tears ???
Maybe you’re right…then again, maybe not. This exemplary police officer has done this before. In 2005 he body slammed a 10 year army veteran to the ground while investigating a complaint of loud noise. The man’s wife was filming the incident and Fields instructed his partner to “get her black ass” and the phone was confiscated. Charges were later dropped against the couple.
You and quite a few others talk about respect for authority but do you really think this is what she learned here?
i’mma let the teachers make the call. hell i was late to work listened to my child’s school director vent about what she is going through.
Bwahahahaha. Your supporting arguments for the lack of social are is asinine.
Well my young child has began to make decisions on her own. She is doing OK and know its consequences for bad decisions and rewards for good ones. And she knows I will choke slam, drag her ass if necessary. I just want them to know attitude is everything. Choose your battles wisely. And don’t cut your nose off to spite your face.
What the fawk did I miss? I’m actually over here working.
This chit is crazy. Unbelievable. Good Morning everyone!! I got issues with my aunt again. I’m so tired of her controlling ways.
Don’t attack me. Attack the problem.
When I was a child, the only officer I ever saw in my classroom was my father, when he showed up on report card day.
If you want to be angry and disgusted with someone, I suggest you set your sights on that little girl’s parent( s).
“And in life you have no control over the consequence.” <— agreed
Call her parent(S) or authorized secondary ER contact, THAT’S HOW. The obvious thing to do first and foremost to minimize police or other adult liability. 2nd, there is a such thing as a police escorts which means the principle and/or assistant principle are within capacity to grab both arms lift student up from the desk, move to it to the hallway until legal guardians arrive while police are present to document or assist IF she became violent, which I DID NOT SEE.
but kids treat school like it IS the streets. i usually become outraged and shyt like this but i’m curiously ok with it. i’m SAD that i’m blase’ about it.
Don’t go into police work if you can’t handle rude behavior or people talking back. Excessive force was not needed , makes you wonder what he would have done if no one was watching
physically assaulted
=======
Does the enforcer go to jail too, because assault is, in fact, a crime.
Well by this theory, if Walter Scott hadn’t ran maybe he wouldn’t have been shot in the BACK. that was wrong by hey its kinda his fault…brutality is brutality..be careful how to justify one thing bc it’ll open the door to justify other things.
She ain’t goin’ nowhere. LOL She’ll be back. They always return to their abusers (the weeds and thorns in the garden).
Right. And I may have some thinking I have actually choke slam mine. One they are to young. But its always an option. My parents use to say they would take me out this world. But they didn’t mean it.
Everything and nothing all at the same time
They comments are considered harrassing and I don’t know if they know who and where I live. It might spill into real life and me and my kids maybe in harm. Filling out the forms for my local police now… At least my local police will know if something happens to me they can trace emails back to the person!
What is it called…C8m shots on Clayface.
Freaking UNBELIEVEABLE!
Good Morning Roses…. yes I agree that what the cop did was 100% wrong. On the flip side, how else was he suppose to get her out of that classroom?
She gone.
i go agree with this. did anyone call the parent? the school resource officer should be the last one involved in the situation. i do find that schools are quick to call in authority before the parents even know what the hell is going on!
1st, the teacher should have called her parent(S) or authorized secondary ER contact to minimize police or other adult liability. 2nd, there is a such thing as a police escorts which means the principle and/or assistant principle are within capacity to minimuze class disruption and could have lifted the student desk up and move it to the hallway until legal guardians arrive while police are present to document or assist IF she became violent, which I DID NOT SEE.
Yes, they should’ve called the parent or suspended her instead of calling the cop, so it really is the teacher fault.
BOOM!
If she is smart yes…but if not she’ll just become worse. If she is smart…she’ll realize this world ain’t made for her and adjust real quick. She’ll sit her ass in the front row and do what she’s supposed to do…
No. I think she may have learned to do as a teacher ask you to do the first time. I’m sure it takes a well placed choke slam from a parent to teach respect for authority. I just kidding. No I’m serious.
Good Morning! What did Auntie do?
God why? I know kids can be hard headed, but really. why so much anger toward blacks?????? My heart hurts, this is soooo heart breaking, at the same time I am angry!!!….
.be careful how to justify one thing bc it’ll open the door to justify other things
^^^^^ and this is the point that people are missing. THANK YOU!
You are right. But she wasn’t mental. Just defiant as hell. He was wrong and she was too. It starts at home. Kids have lost respect for adults, authority, and their selves..
nah, it’s not normal teenage behavior in a school environment. we need to
increase our standards and expectations of OUR children. when we say she’s hormonal, she’s normal, it’s
just another day in the school system, we create an environment for the
powers that be to ENTER and create havoc. his behavior is inexcusable and
he will be punished. however, her behavior towards authority will continue
until she meets the wrong one. and if you think her azz was dragged on that video, just wait.
AND, this morning on the Tom Joyner Morning Show, according to Don Lemon, who spoke to her mom last night by phn, her arm is in a sling.
When I worked with the state with “At Risk” youth, they taught us non invasion moves. its works.
he is a resource officer so i guess they are the third line after the teacher and administrator. we never heard her side so i’m wondering what happened.
It is being said he called the officer because she was chewing gum. I went to school with many of disruptive students, NEVER have I seen or heard of anyone being handled this way. If he was strong enough to yank her like that he is also strong enough to pick her up.
For my birthday I told her that I didn’t want to do an all family dinner. My preference would be to do a one on one with each person (Only two, her and my uncle). She told my uncle that and I’m confused why. So needless to say my uncle didn’t call me on my birthday and she doesnt understand why. Then tried to lean on me saying I can’t tell her what to say!!
I’d imagine the recent rash of school shootings has most resource officers on edge.
===========
Then he should be least threatened by her, because I haven’t read a story of a black girl shooting up schools.
He’s the resource officer so at my kids school that meant a police officer that stayed on school grounds all day. No way am I saying the officer was right, but just trying to explain why I think he was called vs principal.
So because she didn’t turn off her cell she deserved to be treated like that? I wish a b**ch would, it was not warranted at all. She was not violent in the least bit.
True…had an argument with a dumb Asian woman. That it’s OK for the police to just randomly stop people for no reason. She’s saying in some cases it’s OK. I’m like bull either it is or isn’t OK. But either way it’s harassment…I told her good luck with that and left that dumb bish alone.
They are not missing it. They just feel like it’s ok. UNTILL it’s their child who was slammed on the back of the head, in a damn metal chair and thrown across the room. THEN they will want all this shyt done to the officer.
True
I don’t care for messengers because I’m not mute. I speak very well and clearly.
Revenge porn is now illegal. He gonna get sued.
I agree. He was rough, but this could have been avoided. The student had two chances to comply, but SHE decided to escalate the situation.
Based on what I’ve read online, this officer has a rep for being a tough guy and if that wasn’t enough to intimidate that student….
IF she was threatening him then that would be that case. That wasn’t necessary, if that was you child, my HOPE is you wouldn’t be ok with it.
I think he’s mentioned that a close family member is a police officer- his father if memory serves me correctly. For some people, it’s hard to fathom their parents being among the likes of those who misbehave.
because they can…and they will.
I miss the time when it took a village to raise a child and you could spank your neighbors child. Kids knew respect in those days.
I agree this is not normal behavior for teenagers. When does respecting authority start?
according to reports, an administrator tried to talk to her, as well.
Sweet baby Jesus. You do realize that School Resource Officers are present in basically every single school in the nation. You know what… I refuse to do this with you.
You are correct. It is her fault for being disrespectful and carrying a weapon, or possibly carrying a weapon, and being black, not getting out of her desk when told to do so, for being intimidating, and for making threatening gestures with her eyes. The cop’s reaction was clearly cemented in years of crisis management and de-escalation techniques. He is a hero and his actions here should result in him getting a medal. Her parents should be given parenting classes and or stoned. Maybe we should just lynch them and sterilize her; we can ensure that she doesn’t birth any future disrespectful unruly children.
I am sure she had parents….
Right, lol..who didn’t hear that from their parents. I still do.
How could anyone be ok with this? It really saddens me…and saddens me even more to see that black people are saying that she deserved it. Puts me on the verge of tears literally because as a race we don’t fukin get it!!! And for that reason alone we will always be treated like animals and second-rate citizens.
“Few comments took into account him being white.”
____________
Yes, but some people did, and I was addressing the commenters who injected race into the equation.
Damn chewing gum? Sigh…
No, she learned that every negative thing she ever heard about cops is true. As for your humor, keep it. There are children being body slammed and abused every day by their own parents and I find none of this funny.
If it was my child. I would be thinking about my own parenting skills that my child would think it was OK to act this way. When the student saw the security approaching her desk. She should have then gotten up to leave class. So I would think I was not a good parent if this the battle my child choose. At least fight a fight you have a chance of winning.
Slow clap!!! You brought me out of lurking.
Now this statement I do agree with
I can’t. I really can’t… Smdh. These comments.
Listen. MY son is told to respect the teachers at school. Does he get into trouble at school, sometimes yes. Is that his fault? Yes. IF the teacher had to call a police officer and my son did nothing but sit in the chair and not get up, would I then think it’s ok to use all that EXCESSIVE force? NOPE. I’m up at the school, on the phone with the school district, the fox 29 news, the police district the cops is from. ALL OF THAT and then some. Clearly this little girl was not behaving herself, but CLEARLY this officer does not know how to properly handle situations. This could of been handled in a totally different way.
We need a new post. It’s way too much going on in here ?
SO I guess you would have not one problem if your child was handled like this girl was?
IKR…that’s why I’m out…BBL…
They do this all the time young black to women and men I’ve been hemmed up by them b4. Was one of the most embarrassing moments in my life. I was in college, coward flexing on a little girl.
How did she escalate the situation? By not saying a word and not getting up?
THIS I can’t believe. As mother you watch a full grown man DRAG your daughter across floor and your questioning what YOU did wrong for HER to deserve being assaulted? I seriously mean this, I’m going to pray for you bc THAT is sad. Authority doesn’t mean one has a right to abuse.
WAY too much.
So some of y’all are really saying from the age of 13 to 20 you never popped off, at anyone, parent, teachers, friends, friends parents, fast food workers, no one.
So when your body was changing, when hair was coming out of new places, you started to bleed once a month and with all the stress and emotions from that new development, y’all were nice, sweet and always respectful. One time for y’all!!
I was a angry, emotional, pimply and bleeding mess!!
—————
my comment was for the people saying that her not listening isn’t normal teenage behavior.
Oh please believe I a child should stay in a child’s place …. but his actions are inexcusable …… and you don’t use violence in a non violent situation bottom line ….. miss me ….. I am not going to excuse this man’s actions cause we all know if this child was a blonde hair blue eyed young lady … you would have never saw this happen …..
Well. Don’t really matter if you think its funny. We not talking about abused kids of the world. We talking about defiant ass girl who didn’t follow directions. If she learned something about police. It should be to not be in the wrong, do as asked by the proper authority. When you have a problem handle it properly. Like an adult. But since she’s a child she can’t think straight. I bet the next time a teacher ask her to leave class she get up and leave
Yep, that means to get the police throw her across the room …. yep that’s the way to do it …. yep .
Hell naw they were not. AT ALL. But you know how it goes in here so…
The problem is you don’t know how she said this to your uncle. Some people won’t just repeat what you said, they’ll pass along their interpretation of what you said. And that could be all wrong. I’m sorry, your birthday was messed up behind that. That sucks! Does your uncle hold a grudge for long? Have you tried talking to him?
I remember plenty of kids refusing to leave the classroom when I was in school. Not once did anyone get treated like this girl.
Yes she should’ve listened to the teacher. But kids do not always listen nor do as they’re told (he11 some adults don’t) but that does not mean someone in authority gets to assault my child for disobeying. If you did half of that to your child you’d be in jail and dealing with CPS
Chit, I’ll be a angry, emotional, pimply and bleeding mess next damn week
okay the other person who responded told me to “miss them?” so thanks for not being rude at least. now, let’s wait for more details to come out on the teenager as well…knowing how chitty teenagers can be I’m no where near ready to pass judgement on this situation completely.
Happy Belated Birthday!!
Not an excuse to act a fool. Both parties have some culpability here. There is nothing wrong with acknowledging that this young lady was not complying. And we don’t know her school record, we don’t know what precipitated this, we don’t know if she has been trouble before… We don’t know… We have a 7 sec clip… You can acknowledge her misbehavior without diminishing his wrong behavior.
We need to have full authority to parent our children at HOME. The
problem is that the LAW has taken away our ability to parent our
children BEFORE they go out into the world. I am currently raising a 15 teenager (my sister child who passed away) who regularly acts a fool. My concern with disciplining him is will he call the damn cops? When a parent is concerned with consequences of disciplining a child, We have a problem. Do I agree with the actions
of the officer not at all. I do however believe that if this child
FEARED the consequences of her actions at home. The teacher would never
had gotten to the point of requiring assistant to have the child
removed. when I was in school if you got out of line they would break
out the wooden Paddle and pop your behind in FRONT of the class there
was NEVER any confusion about who was in charge. Less Government more
Accountability.
You can acknowledge her misbehavior without diminishing his wrong behavior.
—————————-
THIS!!!!!!
Summer when I tell you I was the worst!!
Thank got it was the 90’s I could have been dead.
I cussed Officer Kenny more than once
“I work in a PRISON, with juvenile inmates who have been sentenced as adults, deemed worst of the worst from society..when they are disruptive in class, they lock-in…”
______________
We are too soft on criminals. If the punishment was as brutal as the offense, maybe the recidivism rate would drop.
I about to say I was like that last week! Nothing can justify this
I just want to take this time to thank God that this wasn’t my child. I live in Miami, I have no angels, and when my 15yr old starts getting besides herself in school, the teacher(s) calls me. I don’t tolerate disrespect or her playing with my education. Once she reaches home, I handle her myself….but still not like in the video.
at the end of the day what does any of that have to do with him dragging her like that ……. I know folks love to read between the lines with things but come on now ….. it is evident on video that his actions was uncalled for smh ….. This is why I can’t stand folks now …
Yeah, I get all that, my comment was for the people saying that her not listening isn’t normal teenage behavior.
Its not about a man and woman…I already acknowledge he was wrong. At the end of the day so was the child. When my child leave the house I don’t know who may do what. So I just want them to be doing right. So when anyone does something inappropriate to them I have a leg to stand on.
Yeah I have a BIG,HUGE,ENORMOUS PROBLEM W/his behavior.
GINORMOUS issue!
It’s NOT Okay. No How No way BOTTOM line!
And look at how afeared the other kids were.
SAD
my comment was for the people saying that her not listening isn’t normal teenage behavior.
I did it I filed a police report in my city on emails and comments. The Officer took the info down on their email address and comments. He did asked was it kids or a grown person by her tone???
I said if anything happens to me that have that person’s info.
I have work to do! Yall have a nice day?
Only way to get through the day is to laugh, else you will go insane lookin’ @ all this mess.
Preach …. he is the adult
Whew, These comments made me realize HOW much I love my mother and blessed to have her. My mom would go to hell and fight the devil for me. She would have saw this video a cried for ME. She would know that I was WRONG but still craved her name in that “cops” azz and She would have handled me accordantly. She would have never allowed ANYBODY to think this was ok. Some of these comments are sad.
Le Sigh
clutch my dollar tree PEARLS!!
Her tone? I thought you said you did not know who the person was? So how do you know if it was a he or she?
I’m going against the grain on this one.
While I do believe we have a definite problem with police brutality against citizens in America, I don’t believe there is much to see here. The police officer didn’t decide to come to the classroom by way of telepathy. She was obviously being disrespectful to the point where the teacher had to call for security. Even in the video I saw, he told her to get up and walk out. These folks are at school now, not at the mall… What would have been the alternative other than having her removed.
One thing I don’t tolerate is some disrespectful azz kids. They no longer have respect for their elders. Had that been me getting body slammed in the video, I would have still caught a two piece from my mama as soon as I walked through the door.
I know what you comment was for and I agreed this is why I liked it …. I was piggy backing off of your comment pretty much
+1
I don’t but I gave the Officer the email address and the persons name on the comments. Oops I meant grown person not lady!;
I’m not a fan of young people not following directions. NOT! The teacher asking her to get up and leave should’ve been enough, but no she wanted to flex for the camera! These kids think they are entitled to do whatever and say whatever and have no respect for authority. I cannot and will not condone that type of behavior b/c if she doesn’t get this in check she’s going to have issues her entire life.
Now, this officer that felt the need to come off the top ropes on a child is RIDICULOUS!!!! He is the trained professional in the situation, not the child. There is a higher level of expectation for his actions as they should be. She’s being a child doing what young people do, but he’s a grown azz man! Surely, there was another way sir. He should be fired!
You can’t acknowledge he is wrong but justify why he did it. but Peace to you.
Not after the way that child acted. I would be upset. But the girl is not bleeding, broke, or dead. Her pride might b hurt. She might be embarrassed. But she’s OK. I would tell child of mine. Next time I send ya ass to school put the damn phone away. Do what the teacher ask. If you have a problem. Call me or take the proper channels to resolve it. If you at work and a manager ask you to leave. You leave. Simple as that.
Pick her up out of the chair, gently, and place handcuffs on her, if she committed a crime. Which, I’m sure she didn’t do much but mouth off to the teacher. I’ve seen police physically p/u, gently, protestors and carry them away because they didn’t want to move. There is a protocol that doesn’t involve WWE moves.
Why am I just seeing this?
This clip just exposes the fact the the school nor the on site police/security have protocol or measures in place to deal with difficult students (which I cannot fact check in this situation by what I saw did not appear that way).
I was a teenager and even had brothers. When my brother pushed his book on the floor in retaliation of the teacher calling him nappy headed, he was not being mischievous but spoken to in a manner unethical of a teacher. The principle and Asst principle came to the classroom and ASKED why he pushed his book and he explained how the teacher taunted him daily. AND guess what?! My mother had him removed to another class AND he NEVER had ANY problems after that.
Sometimes, we always think the worst in these type of situations and no one is the advocate for the CHILDREN. If the laws had of came WHO KNOWS how it would have ended. SMH.
http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/smhp.gif
I was always very chill, but I have my triggers. I’ve had a teacher or a few call my mama back in the day. ?
Morning AJ !
I’m just wondering because you said “her tone”. And why would the officer be so quick to say “her tone”
+1
I was on the payphone (with my mom) and a teacher was yelling at me and another girl to get off, he tapped my nose before they could call my mother she was there, at a school she paid for me to go too monthly. She knew I was not perfect, knew what I was capable of and always had my back! Always! When I was wrong, I was wrong but SHE and my dad, depending on how much I tripped, put me in my place
Since when, though, do we appeal to the logic and reasoning of a child above an adult, and, an adult whose trained, supposedly, to de-esculate situations?
YASSS!!!! Man if a teacher even hinted at calling my mother, I would straighten up! Shidd I’ll take that officer over my mother any day of the week. Parents we have to do better with teaching our children to respect authority. The teacher is the authority figure in the room and she should’ve listened.
I hate to see you think this way. Should shw have gotten up? Yes. Does that excuse the way she was handled? No. There are other ways he could have removed her. Ways that would not have risked her life.
If ever we needed a new post Sandra!!!
I had to submit it to the local police first and was assigned a case number. Now I am contacting FBI. Have a nice day Keya?
I’m blessed and highly favored. How are you?
No amount of trash talking or refusal to get up out of a chair from a child, should warrant THAT KIND OF REACTION from a POLICE OFFICER. His actions are reprehensible.
Well. I see u see it like that. He did over react though. But in life I have no choice in the consequences of my bad decions. She made a poor choice and had no say in how it was handled..
clock out and go home home you’re fired
The FBI …… chile ….. chile why do people .. you know what never damn mind ….
Wait, what? The FBI? What did they say in the email that has you in fear of your life?
Wolf, ok Neicey.
Come through MsV!!!!
Not like that!
That’s what I believed happened. So Sad. Family can be the worst.
Enjoy your day.
The teacher should have moved the class out and let her stay in the classroom by herself – that would REALLY make her angry.
So if Madden was clotheslined by a resource officer for not following orders, you’re just going to be like, “You should’ve gotten up!” The question was rhetorical….
Enlighten me on what other ways? Could she have gotten hurt? Absolutely, and that part is unfortunate. But when you decide to go against the grain and not do what you are told when you should be responding to the adults in the school this is the result
Now I need to go and scrub my comments. At first I just had my IT dept. to worry about. Now the FBI bout to come in here and find out how much I love Mary Jane and that I have the tendency to choke the Mrs during coitus.
They will not have me on a watch list.
Sandra do the police or any other government agency contact YOU directly when we call them about a poster? I am very curious to know if they get you involved.
I don’t know what is going on but my hope is that you really feel your life is threatened and not doing this bc of blog feelings. You have a right to feel what you want but if your hands aren’t clean then you have no fight.
Oh I agree. I have teenagers and I tell them all the time there is no way I could be a high school teacher. I would be on World Star myself. But I cannot condone what is in that video because of what I know kids- acting ignorant- do. There are multiple layers going on. Parents not parenting. Kids raising themselves and feeling grown. Everything being posted online so folks want to put on a show. People looking for a 1 line solution. Societal injustice making people feel like it’s every man for himself. School administrators not supporting teachers who want student removed because it messes with student/classroom attendance and therefore funding. Lawsuits being brought on. Parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins who won’t show for graduation or homework help but will come to the school DEEP to kick a teacher’s arse. The list goes on. Everything above and so much more needs to be addressed for things to change permanently.
But as adults operating in a broken system and choosing to work with kids..we have to rise above the temptation to lay hands. We can’t preach “behave yourself regardless of anger, antagonization, etc. use your words not your hands” and then do this here. I really believe if each person chose regularly to rise above a difference could be made and felt.
Chile … Keya you know what just leave it alone
I believe he will be reassigned.
Fixed that for ya.
This is the same justification that was used for Sandra Bland ending up dead in a jail cell. She didn’t listen. She didn’t comply. Sad to say, ANY movement or what someone who sees themself as judge, jury, and executioner can land you not only in the back of a cruiser, but in the back of a hearst.
It’s too damn much. The FBI for WHAT?! When YOU gave out the email address and told folks to email you. The fugg type shyt? That’s why I asked Sandra will the government contact her first or naw? But now that the law is involved, I’m good on this shyt.
I won’t say and its got to the point where the police and FBI are involved. They take harrassing emails seriously! I said if anything happens to me or my family that should start looking there first. He agreed!!
We need a newpost …. Jeebus
It still doesn’t justify the use of violence against the child. It is not the administrator, nor the officer to hand out an ‘arse-whooping’. They are the adults and educators to boot. You are telling me that that only option they had as to slam a non-complaint child to the ground? I worked a state run military style boot camp for disadvantage teens in the late 90’s and we would have gone to JAIL had this happened. This is in a public school. It is completely unacceptable that a kid who is clearly testing her limits, as kids are want to do, had such an extremely violent reaction from a person in position of authority. The administrator and the teacher failed this child that day. They failed her. Period.
Keya, love, leave it be
Thank God for Mama Butter. To this day, she will let me know when I’m wrong and will never uphold me in it. She will still go to war with anyone who steps out of line with any of her kids or grandchildren. Y’all should’ve seen how she cut up when BroButter39 was involved in a head-on collision, because the other diver was combing her hair.
Ok but do you get upset with the shootings and police brutality going on?
+1,000
Blog feelings, I’m sure of it.
Dang, even my petty thinks this is a bit much.
Sickening just sickening …..
Very sad. As a PARENT. I know my child. So the few times I have been called by the teacher, I knew she was being completely honest with me because I KNOW MY SON. I thanked her, offered my assistance, reinforced my support and dealt with him accordingly. Now, had this happened to my son, I would have dealt with ALL parties accordingly.
My parents did a great job raising me. I graduated with honors, was a first generation college student on both sides of the family, held a job since I was 15, etc. Have I ever popped off at the mouth in school. Best believe. However, my parents were called and I was disciplined at home. What this man did was WRONG. PERIOD.
Keya leave it be. Folks will throw rocks and then hide their hands. You know they type. You’ve been here long enough.
LOL. Hey Luvie!
I said earlier if he is strong enough to yank her he is strong enough to pick her up. I attended the WORST school in my district and NEVER saw or even heard of someone being handled this way.
Ok. I’m out. I’ll be back for the new post.
He could have broken her neck!!! This is out of controll
I am. I’m out. BBL. Have a good one.
I made a comment similar to this and was offered prayer for my sad thinking.
Give us some solutions to the problem. Agree the angry cop went overboard, but what would you do after the teacher & principal tried to get the girl to leave?
*sneaks in*….Lurk….real talk and u know who I work for and MR…this shyt ain’t funny no more…. shyt a bish trying to retire in a couple years….and I don’t need where I meet my bud man at…and I like to “surfboardt” MR…or even HAVING A E-AFFAIR WITH U…u know what….let me get off this “puter” (gub-ment issued)…
OH!!!! was very proud of your baby girl….same situation with me..in college….my daddy was so proud…even though it cost him money….
Otis (our resource officer – RIP) would have NEVER did us like this.
I would hope that most people would handle things like or close to how you do. I’m not looking forward to those teenage years at all.
Chile ain’t nobody contacting no damn FBI (lies) …. speaking from a Fed employee … them folks want even take her call chile …. better off going to the police …. and even they will laugh that azz off …. come on nah
Not denying that, but my point is we protect ourselves by being smart. There was no need to stand her ground to violate a school policy. Had she just followed instructions she would have been fine.
And who wants to pick up someone else’s big rusty child because they don’t have sense enough to follow directions. This is not an Elementary School aged child. She will be in the real world soon. She’d better learn how to act or we will be reading more sad news headlines… SMH
*grabs bullhorn*…..SANDRA PLEASE A NEW POST….
DEAD
LOL
I disagree this is not normal behavior out in public. My parents told me if they weren’t going to beat my ass someone else would. AND that someone else may not be as kind ie white people…like the example up top. They told me DO NOT have them white folks calling them. Hopefully this child learns that being defiant will not work in your favor. Lol defiance only works as a group not as an individual…
These rogue azz cops are outta fuggin control.
Pretty much…
Yes, they can! Lawd knows I have some I don’t ever need to see again! Nevertheless, I love them anyway. Just from a distance.
Honey, my mouth has always been a bit much, but when I hit 12 years old, my mouth got SEW slick. I’ve rolled my eyes, said out of line things, and would flat out ignore adults (mainly Mama Butter’s boyfriend at the time). My horns helped to keep my halo straight.
Absolutely and I wholeheartedly stand as one of those issues. This here is something different
http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/disappointment.gif
It’s not a theory. And each situation is different. She was in a controlled environment being asked to comply with a school rule/policy and refused for no apparent reason. There are rules to living no matter where you go. They apply to all. But if a person of authority asks you to comply with a rule of a place, comply. His level of aggressiveness was unnecessary, but so was her refusal to follow instructions.
But since you want to mention Walter Scott let’s look at the facts:
Driving and unregistered car he was supposedly going to buy (no harm no foul)
Pulled over for a turn signal
Jumps out of the car and runs (seems suspect)
Wrestles with cop when caught and ALLEGEDLY takes the taser after being tased (sounds a little shady)
Court documents reveal that Scott was under the influence of cocaine and alcohol at the time of the incident
He WAS ON DRUGS, DRIVING A CAR ILLEGALLY, RAN, FOUGHT.
Should he have lost his life? NO. Did he PUT himself in a bad predicament? Absolutely
*folks play too much….child I work for the gub-ment…and I ain’t never seen it get this serious on the blog that u contact local/ government officials…something just ain’t right….and I like NanDee..but I LOVE ALL…but when u talk about police reports on blogs and shyt..girllll!!!!
Quit with the lies chile …… and I have the screenshots … do you want me to post them …. maybe not …. thought you was nice until I actually sat down and read those emails … the ones you sent me remember …. with me responding telling you to leave it alone … the ones where you said you looked up Bullsweet and found out she was white ….. <<<, which I still do not get …. what does it matter what race a person is on the blog ….. with that being said …. I hope you told the cops << (yeah right) everything … let me know if you need these screenshots I will be happy to provide them assistance …… I knew something was off when you was begging me to email you smh ….
When I was a kid, I got into trouble for refusing to follow my Spanish teacher’s instructions.
No one in the class had assigned seats, but everday, she would tell me to sit in a different seat. On the fourth day, I refused to play musical chairs.
As a result, I was sent home with a note to my parents. I was the kind of child who loved to learn and ALL of my teachers, with the exception of my Spanish teacher, loved me.
Needless to say, my parents were on my side.
During their parent-teacher conference, my mother, who was a psychiatrist, effortlessly picked my teacher apart and within a matter of minutes, my teacher was literally squirming in her seat.
Basically, my teacher, who was black, had issues with people of mixed heritage and she thought she had found easy prey… until she met my mother. ?
The moral of my story is, yes, anyone can get into trouble at school, but what really matters, is how the situation is handled.
just left my son’s high school for a teacher conference….the teens were a bunch of foul mouthed wild banshees…couldn’t wait to get the hell out of there. and no we do not live in a “bad” environment, teens are just out of control these days! people are in a serious state of denial if they don’t think so. my question stands: why the f*#! didn’t that defiant brat hang up her cell phone and leave the class when asked by administration ?!
oh gee. hey Jenie how’s lil Jenn??
Yea my parents would of…they told my ass all the time do not have them white folks calling me and I never did and neither did my other sibling. We went to all white schools so my parents made sure we knew what was up. They would of consoled me but woulda been like yup I told your Black ass…
Sleepy (our resource officer) would’ve called my Mama SEW quick. And we all know that mamas don’t have time to be off their goodT because we’re acting like we don’t have any home training.
Morning Zeta … how you this morning <3
Should she have been tazed had she verbally “talked backed?”
Should she have been shot if she stood up before the officer made it to her desk?
Where do you draw the line?
Yeah by her parents NOT by a cop!
By refusing to obey her teacher and defying the officer’s orders.
So let me get this srtaight. You are saying that her parents ahould teach her to respect authority at home, but if they did to her what this officer did to her they would be UNDER the jail. Childern/teenagers act out for many reasons, who knows what she is dealing with on a daily basis. This man could have killed this child.
As far as who wants to pick her up, no one, but if it is your JOB you do it. If he doesn’t know any other way to remove her he needs to be retrained. The school is setting themselves up for a lawsuit.
Chile……………………
Doing good hun …. staying busy … How you been !!!
May I give you a bit of advice? Do not ever share your personal information on an open forum such as this.
You’re too emotional to form a rational opinion.
girl…in this meeting…pretending like I’m taking notes…but since folks getting FBI and stuff involved…according to NanDee…I might have to go back to lurking…LOL!!!
but I didn’t think is was as serious as it has gotten….Le’Sigh… How r u btw??? hug and ;kiss:
lies
That is my entire point. The behavior this child displayed can get a person killed. So I want to teach mine how to handle problems, people with authority problems, and sticky situations. I may enforce some discipline at home to help teach them.
That’s the danger in having to deal with the police. Removal is removal and it should not have had to happen period. Could officer have dragged the desk outside with her in it yes. But the discussion is centered around the end result rather than what got them there in the first place. My thought was – these kids are not being taught respect. They see the issues that we face in the news and they think it gives them license to be disrespectful. Had this happened at a mall or while she was walking home my views would be slightly different because it’s a free country out here. But the fact that this happened at a school were his disruption is now taking away from others ability to learn… Not as sensitive. There is a time and a place…
goodt babes.. Lil Jenns getting big aint it?
That’s true also, BUT if this was your child (and ALL children have moments because they are children) you wouldn’t stand for it. Better yet, the next time you make an infraction or mistake at work, just expect your super to slam your ass across your cubicle, ask you to pick up your shuffled paperwork, have security to pick you up by the neck and drawls with toes scraping the ground, and tossed unceremoniously out the door…because you didn’t do as told nonviolently.
Leave me alone as well. Miss me with the bull Shyte. I have a right to file a police report for harassment and I can include you as well. Don’t threaten me with screen shots! Post them if you like and you will be include as well. Have a nice day!;;
So change everyone else because of one nut job? NO
Do u have kids?
Have you ate yet?
Never a time or place for what he did.
The FBI got bigger fish to fry. I remember I got a fake check in the mail a few yrs ago and called myself reporting it to the FBI. The guy at the front desk in his three-piece suit sipped his coffee and asked me why was I wasting their time with “this little shyt”, slipped it in the shredder and told me to have a nice day…went right back to sipping his coffee.
Chile if she get the FBI<< (LIE) she better tell on herself …. IJS My screenshots shows otherwise … this is why I said leave it alone …. and I will too … but something is off chile
And there are means and methods. A just and an unjust, warranted and unwarranted. This child refusing to vacate her seat did not warrant him choke slamming her.
Why should it have taken 3 adults to get her to follow a school rule? Why would she not have enough respect for authority to have it go to that level?
It is but when you are being harassed then it goes to another level. Their are laws on the internet in regards to harassment and more!
but you understand that that’s the SAME argument they use to justify those shootings, right?
Apparently no where when it comes to black children ….
this the problem with our country,we parents are not allowed to touch a buttom on our kids,no disiplinary action can occur but these cops have the power to whoop a grown or someone else kids azz…not cool at all…
Buttahh :muah: what’s going on, I see you be thru here more than a little bit these days.
Ion know what wolf mean. U think I’m crying wolf. I don’t need a hair cut. I always appreciate prayer though. That’s a good thing. But frfr. U lost me on that one.
Why can’t the officers/courts/SW do what they tell parents to do? Because SURELY, if this had been recorded of a parent doing this…
Chile
Did they tell you anything else? Like how your behavior is a reflection upon them. Or maybe how sometimes in life you have to do things you may not like but you are working towards your future goals and the reward will come at the end?
Jenie I have snacks in the :kona; that I was directed to. Won’t you come join me? Did you ever take little J to Six Flags that time? Did yall have fun?
WHAT.
If more parents “handled” their children like we were handled back in the day there would be less of this all the way around! Act up and we were “reminded” who the adult was and how we should act. My son acted like this once. When he saw my wife AND me show up to the class (yes, I left work) he never did it again. And the fact was I never actually got to him. His mom went in.
BTW, he was a freshman in High School
Yaaaasssss…don’t call mama off that goodt job she got!!! LMAO
Did you eat?
Chile the FBI … smh hell the most the police will do is charge your azz 30 bucks to file a restraining order …. and even with that …. you need to provide them with the accusers contact information …… chile what you going to give the gmail (that’s free to anyone by the way) email address …. pathetic
Bullsweet, you YT sis? if you are IDC…I likes you even if you were blue.
I don’t send emails cussing folks out and the constant comments and emails went to another level!! Their are laws involved and if they don’t know when to stop then the police and FBI will tell them to stop!!
I have work to do! Bye
There needs to be some serious disciplinary action with these police officers, this officer right here, needs to be fired, because this is disgusting.
Sandra, here’s a really inspiring article that Serena Williams wrote in “Wire Magazine”, “Love her”.
http://www.wired.com/2015/10/serena-williams-guest-editor-race-gender-equality/
Come through Free!!!!
I love this gif!
I WISH someone would try to stop me from disciplining my child. “My wife had a lady try to comment about us disciplining our child and she told her “I’m going to discipline them now so they aren’t snatching your purse later!”
Beat her. ~Ceely, Color Purple~
What do you suggest?
And that’s what I’m talking about. There are rules of engagement. And because one person (the student) does not follow the rules does not mean anything that happens from that moment forward is her fault. She is at fault for not complying with class rules and the subsequent discipline, but the officer is at fault for his reaction.
Also, if a person (student or otherwise) knows they will be manhandled regardless, please believe they will eventually swing back. If everything results in getting swung on, might as well go out with a bang.
Hey Greg, HRU?.
*Drags dafuk in this piece..flops azz in seat and stare…I need a screen that can read my thoughts..I don’t feel like even typing…Morning Yall..I aint in the mood for shyt tuday
Wait – what in the manufactured crisis hell? Who called the 12 behind a blog post ???
Jiggles…Im in the twilight zone
Morning…you in the wrong place hun…*sips tea*
That wasn’t a threat hun …. that was a fact of what you said …. Matter fact Ima need for you google what threat means ….. expose and threat are too different terms … I don’t make threats love …… I have it all (what you said) You
Hey Whit. No I’m not however if I was I’d have no problem admitting who I am. There is something about my font that makes folks think I am. Whatevs though.
How you doing?
Hey Spilly… Im on my own disaster shyt tuday..so Imma zone with W3…
chile no one!
Bye Chits.. Don’t work to hard.. Take your meds and make sure you sign in as Chits when you come back so we can be frens.
Fuggin Dead
That’s illogical. Just because you aren’t aware of something, doesn’t mean it would never happen.
I recently watched a PBS documentary where a young, black girl brandished a pistol on a school bus. The incident was captured on video.
There’s another case where a Bailey Elementary School student, who happens to be female, was suspended after she brought a .22 caliber handgun to school.
Like I said, how did the officer know she wasn’t armed with a weapon?
Hey My W3 (kiss) Grabs my rocket and zone out with you..
Girl yes …. chile starting puberty and everything chile … ugh …. so it begins lol
I still wonder if the parents or legal guardians knew this was going down and also given the chance to get there before these extreme (uneccessary) measures. I would hope if she is being completely quiet and not speaking, a counselor would come (or on-site psychologist even and try to stabilize the situation…we had one at our campus growing up) to dig deeper. Sometimes kids are struggling with intangible issues. NOT saying that is the case but sometimes when a child acts out of character, there are usually signs leading up to shutdown behavior.
I agree…I think its called “a scare tatic….LOL….police..yeah…FBI…;side-eye:
*let me look up…like I’m paying attention…kmsl!!!
Not to mention that Sleepy claimed he had been in love with Mama Butter for over 20 years. He was just waiting on a valid reason to call her. I got into it with a girl at school one day, and I told her that when I saw her in the streets, I was going to fugg her up. He thought by threatening to call Mama Butter would calm me down. I rattled off that phone number with the quickness. He lit up on the inside.
Chile https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/131997844cf6de07f382482ee95d35bb6da86b4581a490333b843890c0fa9f40.jpg
Nerp J on punishment currently found out Six Flags is now open year round … so once she get it together I will lololol
Ain’t nothing going on but the rent. I know I need to focus on work, but I haven’t been able to find a care these days. You still shuffling papers and slamming file cabinet drawers?
What about an attention tactic? Look at me? Do you see me? Pay attention to me?
Yep they sure do! Especially the schools out here in L.A, they be bringing shanks, guns, razors etc….. These kids are crazy these days!
Punishment?! Oh no. Sounds like my little one. smh. He is on restriction from everything. tuh.
What is this FBI business??
*got a plate of pecan waffles and turkey bacon and hashbrowns in front of me right nah….turned this FIASCO into a breakfast meeting…LOL….but I feel much better…*belch*
She is too chile …. one day she will get it together …
She didn’t take it to that level. HE took it to that level when he tried to turn her into the headless horseman just in time for Halloween.
Sandra, we’re withering….
bawhahahahha ….
Ps yall messing with y’all future when y’all names, emails address will be listed on police reports for harassment. Yall won’t be able to get jobs and apts. So keep it coming I am screen shot everything. Yall need to grow the fugg up and LEAVE ME ALONE!!;
she shouldve gotten her asz up.
I’m sorry.
where you beeeean?
Chile nothing … ignore smh
*laughing with real tears* OMG
So folks done gone to the FBI this mean we ain’t getting no shirts or what? DAYUM DAYUM DAYUM flo Evans voice
lol…im messing…The weather is messy, much like this blog AND Im sleepy..but I am well..you?
See….lol a mess
Sans trying to clear the blog without clicking a button
*commere…..sits u on my lap….U R JUST STILL HURTING,,,AND IT CONTROLING YOUR MOOD….*read your story about 6’6 coming over*…I promise I wanna come to the ATL jest to hold u and tell u that u did good, girl u cried behind closed doors…AND ITS OKAY…TRUST U WILL LOVE AGAIN…. *lays your head on my shoulder…and hums Ms Celie blues to u real soft….love u baby girl
She may have been a chitty student with a bad attitude. Who knows? Who knows what her home/school life is like. But up until she becomes a “terrorist” with a weapon, a threat to herself or others, she does not warrant to be slam and manhandled like a 200 lb, ultimate fight club, violent beast.
Listen.. Hear me clearly. MFer’s are dying at alarming rates behind school shootings, church shootings, over zealous little peen cops and all the other fuckery in the world. A responsible grown up does NOT give out their private information on a damn blog and not know anyone. We code shid from all our social media when we DO want to connect.. What you can’t do is blast your email in several post inviting people to contact you then play the victim…. You haven’t watched the ID Channel? Web of Deceit? It’s some 45 year old ex con sitting behind a keyboard getting his Catliyn Jenner on, on this post… Don’t throw rocks and hide your hand. Also if I felt that damn threatened, I wouldn’t be on the site updating my moves. My two cents. This mess has got to stop.. It’s somebody digging in a trash can for a meal and sleeping in a card board box and ya’ll ain’t got shid better to do than argue over fuckery.. Betta thank the good Lord you got WiFi and a computer.. It could be worse..
Chile carry on ……. if you think a gmail is official … chile so glad I kept your original messages …. I knew something was off …. make me wonder if you are a certain poster ….. oh yeah by the way you created 3 different emails within a 2 day span and probably more ….. you think I didn’t notice that …. setting yourself up ….
Serious Question: Is it considered harassment when you openly communicate with the harasser(s)?
Same here. I’d rather be in bed but the way life is set up I’m working. I’m probably about to take my online sabbatical because some of these bad apples around these parts are…. tew murch.
*I just popped my ears….and spit coffee through my nose….OMG…u say somebody done “phucked up the t-shirts for everybody…..I LOVE U SO MERCH!!!!!
lol
Good cause you aren’t you when you’re hungry. Well you are just another you. lol
So anyways who cooking dinner tonight ….. I need ideas
Idk Khakki,, Chits HATES the Po Po…I find it hard to believe
Again last time asking you to leave me alone or I will include your fonts, emails and comments. Your choice!!
Morning Khaki…too blessed to be stressed…you’re right…some don’t get it tho…
You late …. chile … carry on ….
sorry for the typo, im eating with my other hand…lol
make me wonder if you are a certain poster
—-
Survey says (in my Steve Harvey voice) Yup
*takes my shoes off and chase u round the blog….I really do need to be paying attention….but SANDRA ROSE is minimized like a mug on these folks “puter” and I am about to die at these comments about the FBI… Oh where is @TAKE when u need her…cuz mannnnn…..
child
lettuce wraps
Where do I begin with this punk b*tch? Ugh!
Same cry victim BS …. same thing
I didn’t but the Mean Girls Club is going full force with their constant harrassing. This is not high school but grown azz women.
I know they do. I have several officers in my family, and people shouldn’t underestimate how potentially dangerous female students can be.
hey babe
grilled chicken salad for me….home alone
Yup. Same everything. Different name. Wash, rinse, repeat.
J want eat that …. hmm m I don’t want tacos …. Ion know what I will cook
That sounds yummy ….
Can somebody PLEASEEE fill me in? I keep hearing talk about the FBI coming through and I’m going through the comments, but can’t seem to find where all of this is coming from.
tacos sound good right about now though. hummmm
Didn’t Chits say you have Herpes? And you and her got in it where you mentioned her in emails. Thought so! Good Day!!
Don’t throw that shoe! The FEDS are watching!!!
Morning
Manufactured crisis … chile ignore ….. believe me
Im addicted to the Fresh Market: Sriracrha Trail Mix..its 8.99 a POUND and I keep eating it!!
WTF!!!! That is ENOUGH!!!! Just stop it!!! RIGHT NOW!!!
Had tacos yesterday for lunch
OK. lol
Stay out of it sis…and be glad
How did they get your email address?
Mmmmm….what do you put in yours?
Yep it’s her !!!! Bingo
I made a chicken and turkey meatloaf last night and chopped up zucchini and threw it in there
Will do. (backs away from my keyboard with my hands up..lol)
Bingo !!!! Now I know exactly who you are
babygirl is at her deddy’s but she is sew finicky about food..one minute she can’t leave without it, other times she hates..unless is chocolate than that hiefa is always in the mood.
girl I got some grilled chicken breast leftover from last night and cut it up and marinated it in some “honey Dijon packet”…..THATS WHY I AM SO OVER THIS MEETING RIGHT NOW,,,and pretending to be taking notes…hell I done ate nah…I AM RHET TO GO,,,,and its still raining/dark
*Lays head on your shoulder and let go a booger cry…I got a tissue though* Thank you sis…Its like the detox has to start all over again…
Hey gorgeous, i’ve been here, I had a different gravatar, I just changed it back.
Left over chilli
You are everywhere. ?
Yes, like WHY do she keep throwing that up? Like it’s the only thing she think she has on you so she gonna keep saying it. The Fugg?! SHe has a real damn problem. Sandra?! Where is the damn ban stamp? Better yet where is the old garden so she can’t come back. Fugg wrong with folks?!
Ummmmm, WTF is going up on this blog on a fuggin Tuesday???? The fugg I miss???
Depends on who its for.,,.Moms just got her BA in Religion so she requested it…sew probably…turkey meat with thai seasoning, garlic/chili sauce, onions, carrots and bean sprouts with homemade cilantro sauce.
Anybody know what happened to Young Buck from G Unit? My cowrker just randomly asked me rofl!!
It’s turn up Tuesday apparently
hahahahah
You are asking for something that on the surface appears to be simple, but, in reality its not that simple. There was clearly an issue that started with the instructor. The administrator, should have simply asked the student to hallway or office to discuss the issue and resolve it with discipline or return the student to the classroom. We don’t know what happened that caused this situation to spiral so far out of control. Regardless of what I would do, there are other means and methods to deal with non-complaint kids other violence especially in a classroom environment. What does that teach exactly?
new post
*come sit with us*….because I’m still confused….I just want to laugh….GOES TO MY BAG AND BREAKS AWT MY “HOLY ARL WITH THE RED CAP…THAT THE POPE BLESSED THROUGH MY COMPUTER WHEN HE CAME THROUGH..AND WRAPPED IN A PURPLE CLOTH….AND FLINGS IT ON THE BLOG!!!!
jfihfneiklf gvdij…..llalalalalala…esokcefjed…(TYPE HOLY SPIRIT!!!!)
sounds delish
He’s still around he’s back making music with G unit.
Girl ….. hear me when I say nothing that girl says bothers me .. it’s a obsession . you don’t know the half chile .. trust …… mentally unstable …… when I saw all that shyt in her email red flags …. then I thought AWW damn me being nice …. now she got my email …. then I thought about again …. oh well …. that chick will never be a friend of mines ever…. That’s a deeper kind of evil
I think I saw him bussing tables at the Cracker Barrel down the street last week. I can get a message to him if you like.
lol..”wolf” is like Jeez
*seen his azz when I went to Nashville…where my bestie lives….he looked dusty and broke…
Whitty I keep trying to tell you bout that one …. that one is throwed
ROFL!!!!!
“SHAWTY WANNA RIDE WIT’ME*
I can agree with this. ALL my AP classes did the same…acted a FOOL at times and laughed EVERY day. Yes, we had “rebels and revolutionists” who told the teacher exactly what they thought, respectfully. ~LUDA!, rather Christopher Bridges~
What do you mean?
Hitting the grill – Ribeye and Baked Potato. Trying to find out what kind of veggie to grill.
CTFU!!!
Hey doll, i’ve been here, you ladies just didn’t notice
;). I’m good, just living life the best way I can. HRU doing?
ALL. DAY. I had my own ideas and thoughts. That’s the reason I was in school, no?
Since we found Young Buck in Nashville washing dishes at Craker Barrel… Can anybody find Crucial Conflict?
*HE ain’t through with me*….*trying not to laugh..cuz I’m under the “anointing”…let me stop…before I get fired…lol!!!
Sounds yummy !
Looked me up? What? Where she get my government name from? My fake email address?
Morning boo!
Hey Whit!!!… I’m about to do an early retirement on the garden
Morning hun!!
And because you didn’t comply, by your own statements, you should have been yanked out your chair, manhandled, and body slammed on your head, respectfully…sir.
I called it.. told her to go take her meds and sign in under the right name.
sads
?? See… ?
You gotta show the face, Greg…ladies will always notice a cute face…lol
Le, sigh…we wil always have IG
Yes ma’am …your probably the only person who gets my name ???
*comes and get you so u can sit with us at…THE WE DON’T REALLY KNOW WHAT THE HELL GOING ON TABLE….. Morning Hun!!!
Chile a bunch of lies …. don’t even worry about …. I know who we dealing with ….. ignore
He should’ve pushed her chair out of the classroom. He had NO right to touch her. Push chair out of room and call parents..that simple.
She can’t actually font the exact same way. Gotta switch it up some.. But one thing about crazy you can’t contain it for long… Just sit back and let it tell on itself.
Newpost
She probably deserved it, damn unruly kid with no home training!
idk….D.I.D-Dissociative identity disorder
And I imagine with the rash of police misconduct and shooting of unarmed civilians she, along with millions of others, had no idea what to expect from him.
Probably living in that “raggitdity” azz barn they was smoking HAY in…LOL!!!
Gotcha… forget it. Lemme go delete it. I don’t know why I was typing my thoughts.
LOL…well, save me a seat at yall table. (walks on to the next post with my head held low, shoulders slumped, feeling all sad and uninformed..lol)
You know what…I bow out. ?
That would be perfect with this weather
I LUBS U….I TRY NOT TOO…BUT I GOT TO….rofl!!!!U is a nut!!!!
She’s a teenager..come on. She did not deserve that kind of treatment. Push her chair out of the room, call parents, and suspend her little butt.. Would you want someone to treat your child like this? Teenagers are rebellious..
Blushing, you just brighten my day. BIG HUGS & KISSES!
You best have another tucked over there. Smh
gotta go fo’real….bossman getting ready to speak.. and hopefully we will b out of here on our way back home by lunch time….please Lord.
:clicks off…gotta take notes for real..
Especially if their family have a few coins..
Move over.
I brought my own cup. Have some? Come up off that Snickers.
Smh
Turning off a cell phone and being brutally abused like a rag dog – like a grown ass man is not necessary. When I saw this I became enraged and I felt sorry for her… she is a child who was just dragged by a man using excessive force. Turning off the cell phone does not equal this!
Hormones!!! These are children!!
And you deserve your a$$$ to be kicked.
Nope. That’s not what the American education system is. We are no longer grooming are young people to be thinkers, to question, to engage with others and the world around us or to find solutions to problems. We are teaching students to memorize information we feed them. To be quiet and accepting of said norms and customs. We teach blind obedience. This is why we are behind are other super powers in education.
OTHERS don’t see OTHERS as human. They’re taught their ethnic group is superior.
Lmfao that was me. I was argumentative and wanted to debate. Got sent to the principals office quite often for fact checking.
WHOOT
BOL. DON’T TOUCH MY FRO! It clearly states that to the <<<<<left.
Really? Push her chair out of the room..
Not by violence.
I answered your question. Push her chair out! Call her parents and suspend her butt..
Whaaa? Is this real?
What’s baffling is folks are trying to justify this shyt
Regardless of how disrespectful she was, she’s a child and he had no right to choke slam her.
Are you saying that this was okay for it to happen to her?
and you need to be kicked in the damn throat for fonting such stupidity. She wasn’t even unruly *blank stare* he was. She wasn’t violent nor was she a threat. Matter of fact, did you even hear her say anything, swing, etc. She just refused to get up
*here….kiss…I always be missing u…*ease back out…
Thank you! Some of these ppl are acting like they didn’t go to school. No one had the rebellious kid in their school..
…and your mother taught you to be violent person too!
???
Huh? You seem to condone this type of violence. Did your parents teach you the same? He should’ve pushed her chair out.
Her mother should of taught her how to respect authority in a school setting not be a typical mouthy black girl.
“Toni” has been around here (and elsewhere) for a minute.
well A D N kept demanding somebody answer HOW the officer should have handled it…. she said her obedient son would never get hire or in trouble because he is obedient. I asked her the question in reverse….. I know I would have the possibility of looking like Daffy and Daisy Duck so I didn’t try it at home or school!!!
You can miss me with that bull Sh$$$. Your mother didn’t teach you Sh$$$. Now run along.
Ohh. i c now. Thanks. Lol. On another note. Husband returned home with the sad face. The streets don’t love nobody. So baby brewing and husband is trying to get out the dog house. I know u didn’t ask but I told ya.
But if the school cop or security did that to me ….. My parents wouldn’t take it……
Maybe she should have left the classroom after being told too leave and this this incident would never happened!
Right!! His azz has videos bench pressing 600lbs on youtube so he could’ve easily pushed that desk out the room just as easily as he flipped it
I hate to move off the basis of your post
…you got a new, sculpted azz? I do declare. Can you tell us about it?
The most important element of your comment is that your son had an involved mother AND FATHER in his home to administer discipline and teach him how to behave in civilized society. Today, the vast majority of black children (73%) are being raised by single mothers. Those young mothers are more likely to be posting on Instagram and Twitter, than trying to teach their children manners and decorum. Our young black people are a mess, and we have the breakdown of our families to blame for it. That said, I too believe the force appears to have been excessive.
Zeta when I woke up I found emails and comments that I and police said its harassment. A report was made on the individual. In order to file online report my local police has to make their report first. I never knew it would get to this level but it did. I told officer if anything happen to me then they know who this person is.
I notice the person tried to erase the comments but I had them still in my emails. That lets me know they knew it was wrong to make such comments. But I forward everything to the police.
I am online filing a report to the FBI on their comments and email.
I don’t want to miss up anyone’s future but there is a way you can talk to people without intimidation and harassment.
I apologize to SR and the room, but I didn’t start this mess but I am finishing it today!!
WHALE,,Ive been working out and DAT AZZ is shaping real nice…ALL NATURESSSS lol
Not today
If you do not understand teens nor have the patience to work with them………………then DON’T.
lol…forever in the dog house
Would you like the police report number? I don’t make threats just promises! Not a scare tactic but a way for them to leave me alone. I so far have one person but can add others as well.
I like hugs and kisses…lol
lol…
I love it every time I see it.
It went that far. The Mean Girls Club didn’t know its laws in effect for their behavior. If you don’t like someone for the comments then ignore them. You don’t attack them in emails or comments. They will learn today!!
They fine *bams desk*
I shan’t. Not today.
If your child don’t get up from the kitchen table and you snatch him/her like that you would go to jail. I thought police were under the same laws as us.
The only individuals that have the right to “physically assault” you are the police and “no” it’s not illegal.
Sure wish Rev Jackson et. al .were as quick to express “outrage” when black children are not merely “roughed up” but KILLED by BLACK males rather than white officers.. In Cleveland in one month alone, three babies, 5 years old, 3 years old and FIVE MONTHS OLD were shot dead by young black men. Not a peep from a single black “leader”, though this is happening across the country. There is a culture of violence and anarchy among black youth — a culture that says “bucking the system” is funny, shooting into crowds and murdering babies is funny. On a smaller scale, it is the same anarchic attitude displayed by this young woman who feels that she too is above the rules, above the “law” and may do whatever she wants. It is this attitude which has ultimately led to the “OK Corral ” atmosphere in our black communities.
What is wrong with teaching your children that SOCIETIES HAVE RULES and “responsible” members of society must follow those rules. We must also teach them that there are ways to address perceived injustices — if she thought she was being unfairly removed from the class, she could have followed whatever procedures were in place for appealing the removal. But black people ALWAYS have to act as if they don’t have a single functioning brain cell in their heads and cannot VERBALIZE their complaints. Having said that, I too believe the force used was excessive. However, NO FORCE would have had to be used has she simply FOLLOWED THE RULES OF THE SCHOOL.
What’s with all the bad language? Thanks for proving me right! You are a violent person!!
Wayment…Did I just catfished…AGAIN???!!!
BOL!
Everyone should’ve ignored him
He was just trolling with his “HOW” question.
Ignorance…
LOL
WHOEVER THINKS this is ok—- needs to go to school, get a couple of degrees and learn how to manage ANY SITUATION… THIS doesn’t solve anything, it actually does more harm
WHOOT
Nope. #papertrail
Won’t nobody getting that “go fund me” scam artist sh!t.
Nenny DePolicia
You betta do it! ??
Lol no…you know Black folk is just too general. I was a smart kid so I knew what it meant. But yes, I will make sure mine FULLY understand.
LOOK! IKR! My teachers could not STAND me at times, but I made them think and question the same way they made me think and question. They did NOT have the answers! I was suppose to come out of one class for a test for 2 points. You know I had the SCHOOL BOARD to pull each and every test of every student of all AP History classes. It didn’t end well…for that teacher. I made sure to sit in front so that I could see them eye to eye EVERY day!
Come on now. Tell it.
True, but I was raised primarily by my mother. My Father (biological) wasn’t around. My Step-Father traveled for work to where we didn’t have a relationship until I was grown. No excuse.
we have got to start taking responsibility for our own actions and then teach our children about action and reaction. Help them see consequences of actions good AND bad.
My oldest daughter and I were just discussing this incident and sadly she was justifying his actions until I reminded her of some of the combative things she did in high school Needless to say she had to get back to work.
“She’s a teenager..come on.”
That comment sums up the world of parenting right now – excuses. The fact is, there would have been no chance of the treatment had she acted like she had sense
Again 3 ADULTS tried to talk to/reason with her and she was still disruptive. One bratty-acting child was keeping 20 from learning.
She took it to an unnecessary level by rebelling. It didn’t (and never does) go well
Lol
Damn I liked crucial conflict lol
Why didn’t they call her parents… BEFORE she was body slammed then flung across the classroom??
I have in almost every comment agreed that the level of force may have been unnecessary, but then again, is this child historically an issue? Is the cop a flunky that was “reduced” to a School Cop for his own history of issues. I don’t know enough of the situation to make a definite determination either way. I know the force looked like it was too much. But I guess my idea is getting to the root. Taking responsibility for our OWN actions BEFORE expecting someone else to be responsible as well.
Everyone wants the cop to be responsible but for the Young Adult, no responsibility?!
I was told to go to the principal’s office and I readily complied.
Okay. Some cops are volatile. All the more reason to obey their orders.
I agree the parents needed to be called, but with a school FULL of hormonally challenged young people, can you imagine how many calls would have to be made? and how long would it take for the parent to get there? What about the children who were acting right and waiting to learn?
There’s an adage: “One monkey doesn’t stop the whole show”. Something needed to be done to allow the day/class to continue.
So had they allowed her attitude to continue and it got violent and someone else’s child ended up getting hit with a desk or chair, would you still think this way? Probably would be asking “why didn’t they do something sooner?”
Sad to say, but I bet the next kid will think twice when the teacher says they’ll call in an officer.
I am SO GLAD to see someone else on the same page as me. Stop pointing at everyone else and educate ourselves and our children!
AMEN Neicey!
I partially agree with you. The officer was not needed in the class ava he used very excessive force. The teacher could’ve ignored the student (which is what I do sometimes in my clad) however, the student was also at fault for not being compliant. There are times when students are so disruptive that others can’t learn and that’s a problem.
Just in case you’re interested in the kids POV….
http://odinsblog.tumblr.com/post/132012047051/13-year-old-girl-wasnt-the-first-officer-ben
I like giving them lol..
I agree; she needs to learn to respect authority? Why did it have to come to a police officer being called into the classroom? If she would have listened, all of this could have been avoided. While the officer was wrong, I will not rally for her. I have better things to do.
No, what needs to happen is her mother needs to slap the taste out of her mouth for being so ignorant and disrespecting adults as well as her peers. Damn pushing a chair!!!
Smh so many white trolls all over this post. If this was a 13 year old white girl, they’d be up in arms demanding this piece of shyt “officer” be arrested.
Thanks, it just supported what so many of us have already said. He had no right to do what he did and if people would think for a minute and stop getting so giddy because his a$$ brought down a teenage girl they would realize he has no right being a cop.
Naw nothing to be sorry for. Not saying what he did was right because I never condone violence when there is a much, much easier solution. BUT Black people need to teach their children that this world is not made for them. Lil white boys and girls can do this ish with no repercussions… I saw it all the time at the school I went to. So I made sure to keep my head down and did not associate with trouble makers. Matter of fact most of the time kept to myself or was the leader of the group. Teach your children that DEFIANCE DOES NOT WORK. Your life is always easier when you comply. Now if he was trying to make her do something that is completely wrong that is an exception. Otherwise teach your children them white mfs have no hesitation laying your ass out….
FBI has opened a Civil Rights investigation.
Reposting this for the ignorant.
http://odinsblog.tumblr.com/post/132012047051/13-year-old-girl-wasnt-the-first-officer-ben
He does need to be arrested for assaulting a child and using excessive force BUT since the child was being defiant (that is the excuse)…it will never happen.
This officer hated the students. This officer was the total opposite of my daughters officer when she was in school. Everybody loved that officer, and his dog. ( including me.) What a shame. He had the ability to help young people, and didn’t.
Black women, not only was the police officer wrong, the teacher was wrong. Black women understand, there is a weakness in the black man nowadays circa 2000 to present, that has never been seen before… black women: YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN.
The FBI has taken the case…. I hope he burns for all of it.
Starts at home and the community…it’s night and day at “minority” schools and white schools. I would hear horror stories at the minority schools my friends went to while meanwhile I went to a white school. The white schools did not have dedicated security while the minority schools did. Why is this? Not saying the police was never called to the school for things white kids did…their ish seemed to be suicide, legal drugs, and bomb threats…while minorities was for serious violence, illegal drugs, and guns.
I went to a white school. We had security. It was in the suburbs of a well to do area. We even had to have the SWAT team come because the white kids were threatening to pull the fire alarm and shoot everyone who walked out. Also this white kid I went to school with was arrested for running a meth lab out of an apartment. I’m not refuting the idea that minority schools are wrought with violence and such, it’s just it’s more overt. There were plenty of fights and violence at the white schools they are just painted differently.
Whom was she hurting with her attitude, your what ifs doesn’t change the way SHE was “dishragged” on that desk. So what if he had harmed someone else’s child while slinging her around the room, or the desk had went flying?
The world is becoming more & more desensitized…look how the kid in the seat next to her, never even moved from the position he’s in…smh! U can tell he’s already become desensitized to violence…
I agree. I have teenagers and had this been one of mine all the teacher would have had to do was hit me on my phone and handed it to my child and believe you ME when they got home…I would have handled that azz. There is no way I would have accepted hands being laid on my child in this situation had I not been contacted first.
Kids now days can be extremely rude and disrespectful but schools need people in place that kids relate to and respect to reach them. A lot of times the teachers themselves ain’t chit. They stay on them cell phones in the class but ask the students to get off theirs, they use profanity, eat in the classrooms, flirt and sex each other all over campus and do the same with the kids ..and let’s not even start on the prejudices. Kids expects adults to at least try to set an example..even troubled kids but teachers these days aren’t doing such a good job.
update***
Jason Carroll, National CNN Corespondent, said that a girl was arrested in the class for protesting the arrest of the girl that was abused. Lord help us. A girl does the job her teacher fails to do. God bless that girl, and I pray for both of the girls families. Both of the girls are seniors.
says a crazy kid…where in la do you live…..
Seems like there are a few more cell phones on in that room…the ones that taped this incident. Call the cops!
This is a very direspectful and defiant generation of young people who have ZERO respect for authority. They also lack discerment and proper discretion in situations that can severely impact their safety and well being. People are horrified by the treatment of this insolent child, but this situation is simply a symptom of a growing problem in our youth and young adults. We’re headed towards Martial Law. Mark my words. Civil disobedience is growing and contempt for authority is at an all time high. These dumb ^ss youth are playing right into it….AND their single mama’s who can’t control them. Did she deserve the treatment? No. But it’s best she learn now that her disrespect for authority, for an institution of learning and for herself will not be tolerated. Period. #TruthHurts
I challenge you to go volunteer at a school for a few months and you too will get an up close and personal view of the fuggery that ensues not so behind the scenes with the staff at these schools. These shenanigans include drunk teachers, high teachers, teachers sexing kids, the principles sexing teachers, stealing from the districts and so on. Don’t think for one minute that kids don’t know this stuff because they definitely do. I agree that kids these days are outrageous but it’s more like the inmates are running the assylum…but it was first an assylum .
This is a very direspectful and defiant generation of young people who have ZERO respect for authority. They also lack discerment and proper discretion in situations that can severely impact their safety and well being. People are horrified by the treatment of this insolent child, but this situation is simply a symptom of a growing problem in our youth and young adults. We’re headed towards Martial Law. Mark my words. Civil disobedience is growing and contempt for authority is at an all time high. These dumb ^ss youth are playing right into it….AND their single mama’s who can’t control them. Did she deserve the treatment? No. But it’s best she learn now that her disrespect for authority, for an institution of learning and for herself will not be tolerated. Period. #TruthHurts
This is a very direspectful and defiant generation of young people who have ZERO respect for authority. They also lack discerment and proper discretion in situations that can severely impact their safety and well being. People are horrified by the treatment of this insolent child, but this situation is simply a symptom of a growing problem in our youth and young adults. We’re headed towards Martial Law. Mark my words. Civil disobedience is growing and contempt for authority is at an all time high. These Ignorant youth are playing right into it….AND their single mama’s who can’t control them. Did she deserve the treatment? No. But it’s best she learn now that her disrespect for authority, for an institution of learning and for herself will not be tolerated. Period. #TruthHurts
What I meant is that I’m sorry you don’t have parents who will stick up for you.
It’s not what you say to a child but how you say it. I personally would’ve left her.Then at the end of the lesson ,rather than embarrassing the student.ask if she’s OK then enquire if things are alright at home. If she’s having an off day.I would remain calm. .Once I’ve gained her trust explain in a calm voice your not allowed your phone in class or headphones. Sometimes kids will make a compromise.They will say if I have my headphones on but complete the school work would that be ok.I then would seat student at the back of the class to avoid distracting others.Many times students have been abused or emotional. This method calms them.If you know your student and they storm out the class let them.Make sure they have a safe place to go.If they feel they are going to have an outburst find a quiet place where they can work in peace.There isons of solutions.The amount of times I’ve rescued fellow teachers from getting a azz whoop because of their approach to our kids. I’ve worked with kids for twenty years I would never dream of treating a student this way ,unless I’m out of Control.If at times I feel frustrated remove myself from the situation. We are humans If you spark a light you will get fire
Many solutions*
The student was being disobedient .. I agree with that but at the same time the officer was using excessive force that was not appropriate to handle the situation. I am appalled to see such behavior by adults towards children.. That was more disruptive to the learning process than the girl who didn’t put her cell phone away. Also I think that it should have been a female officer who dismissed the student not the over aggressive male officer who treated this child like she was holding the class room hostage..
I have teachers as friends. I have also been a bible study youth teacher at a Christian church. On Wednesday evenings, I used to allow the students to come in and talk about school for 20 minutes. Yes, very aware of the teachers’ behavior, including the ones you listed. I don’t condone bad behavior from anyone.
Thanks for telling your side. Nope at my school it was usually just bomb threats. We locked down the school a few times a year. But yes, you’re right who knows they may have covered up a lot. That is what they like to do…But I know for damn sure we didn’t have permanent security at the school and I never saw drugs, guns, or violence in any of my classes. Not like I heard at the minority schools from my friends. Lol I know a few instances where the police was called and it was on my damn relatives! One reason why I left that city and will NEVER be back. Not about to mix me up in their bull. We all look alike anyway…
I can never understand why people can not disagree on a subject with out making insults to one another. However, my comment focused on how some parents are unaware of what is happening in the school environment related to student behavior. To understand, one has to visit a school to gather insight.
No my parents stuck up for me even when I was wrong but later they would get on my ass. It’s the passiveness…”my baby does no wrong” that will get your child killed or seriously harmed.
Sometimes they are just as bad.
Yes, it is the passiveness of “my baby does no wrong” and “everyone wins” that is messing us up.
I hear many teachers share your experience and reasons why they choose to leave the educational system for other fields. After reading some of these comments from adults, these are the same type of students you would have had to deal with and struggle to teach. Adults using foul language and resulting to violence to express their opinion on subjects are so unfortunate. And they are the same adults in the workplace with other adults displaying the same behavior as the disruptive student.
Thank you. You don’t get to use violence on a child because they did not obey an order. If we did that to our own child we would be arrested for child abuse.
The cop abused this child and should be arrested.
Ten years of using excessive force? Where are the teachers and parents to protest his employment at a school? If true, he should not be in his field of employment!
so you’re saying if she just listened, complied, or assimilated this would have never happened to her?
Totally agree if the student was another ethnic background, this would not be a topic… even if the officer was black and the student is black.
What the he’ll does her putting the phone down have to do with it? Obviously, she wasn’t following orders and should have left as asked, but that doesn’t warrant being assaulted like that! I’ve seen plenty of students restrained because of bad behavior, but not like this, there are protocols and pulling out a MMA move because you’re pissed doesn’t fit within those guidelines in any state, anywhere!
What the he’ll does her putting the phone down have to do with it? Obviously, she wasn’t following orders and should have left as asked several times to do so, but that doesn’t warrant being assaulted like that! I’ve seen plenty of students restrained because of bad behavior, but not like this, there are protocols and pulling out a MMA move because you’re pissed doesn’t fit within those guidelines in any state, anywhere!
I actually burst out laughing when I read your comment. Then I immediately was saddened. Obedience and assimilation does not mean your child will not be treated the same way. In a perfect world maybe…but not this world,unfortunately.
It’s sad that very few commenters suggested the student should have obeyed her teacher.
I have drawn the conclusion that bad behavior in children grow up to become bad behavior adults. The two are alike…same individual. Bible states, when I became an adult, I put away childish ways. Many are adult aged and undeveloped children who were never taught or accepted from an adult what is appropriate behavior in society.
Her bad behavior Is already clear, but WHAT does that have to do with this cop’s actions? You don’t get to beat down a student because you are pissed. There are WAYS to restrain AND remove disruptive kids from class, happens All The Time across America and we don’t hear about it. What doesn’t happen in the classroom, What’s not supposed to happen is this level of physical violence!
I agree that my son’s skin color doesn’t exempt him from racial profiling not just from cops, but everyday citizens in an elevator or customer service at the local mall. I witness this everyday when the two of us are together and how I am able to walk in a store and get services, whereas he is never asked. Breaks my heart to the point where I want to react and carry out my own sense of justice. However, this is a separate issue you brought up. My comment is about no matter how you are treated, remain respectful to the adult…always. Defend yourself with words, respectfully and never disrespect an adult. Respect self first.
I can not justify violence in this case.
You’ve raised possible social issues students faced behavioral problems. I agree that the concerns in the school environment just isn’t based upon one issue.
So schools are allowed to physically discipline students when they don’t follow instructions??? If he was her parent he would’ve been investigated by CPS. I get that she was being disobedient but HE lost control….
No one is making insults at you personally. I don’t understand why people cannot accept that they sometimes say things others deem dumb. Because I stated that your correlation was stupid does not mean I find you dumb. We are all capable of being intelligent and saying profoundly stupid things sometimes. Myself included. When someone points this out, this does not mean they have a vendetta against you. I understand what you were trying to say – visit a school to see the behavior, but then you reached drastically in your attempts to paint this girl whom you know nothing of as a criminal or delinquent. This is the same thing that white media does to black youth in similar incidents and your train of thought helps excuse police who should be held accountable. Because the fact of the matter is that no matter if minorities or any other law abiding person (as this country has police that brutalize ALL people consistently if you look at statistics) follow directions, there are police that still abuse their power either way.
This along with you stating we should see how these ‘disruptive kids’ act in the hallway – is what I took issue with, not the idea behind your words. Hence the word ‘correlation.’ You presumably gave us a profile to utilize in identifying who these disruptive kids were. “Not the ones in the honors class,” which was a silly thing to say being as I indicated below I fit your ‘good kids’ profile and still was disruptive. Not all of the time, but some of the time, because kids are disruptive period. They have short attention spans, they have bad days, and not everyone wants to sit in lecture for eight hours of the day and be preached to.
I would say – and you may disagree or also think this is stupid and that is fine – that the parents who don’t know how their students behave could be why the kid is acting out in the first place. Perhaps they are not getting the attention they would like at home. Perhaps they are being abused. Perhaps they are just frustrated with their current situation and angry. Either way, beating them over the head or yelling at them probably isn’t going to get you too far nor does it help you get to the root of the problem. It’s a temporary fix, that will likely need to be reenacted countless times.
Why not call her parents? Maybe she was being a brat but he lost his shit…The school doesn’t cosign with what he did hence the suspension….
What I don’t get is most of these posters don’t think this young lady has any culpability in this matter..it boggles the mind..what happen to respecting authority..I don’t get it..
Ask another cop on campus to pick her up out of the chair and remove her from the classroom. If she would resist, take her in the chair from the classroom. However, this would possible risk injury to her and myself as well, in addition to the other students because what if she tried to get out of the chair while we are moving her. What we saw in the video wasn’t an officer trying to remove her, but send a message to her that this is the consequence for disobedience to adults and authority. Very unfortunate nonetheless.
A D N, I was raised to respect adults as well. I do believe children today lack respect for authority. With that said, adults need to handle themselves like adults. Some adults do not deserve respect.
Never said he didn’t… he should be. But my comment still stands…thinking your child does no wrong will get your child hurt.
and if parents dont correct the behavior, society will. this is why I don’t understand why this teenager’s actions are being disregarded, everyone is just laying into the out of control cop, she was NOT just “minding her business,” there is blame for both individuals and that young lady is old enough to accept some reaponsibility. this is a high school kid not elementary. she was showing out and got her behind handed to her.
Exactly that cop was out of order. Violence like he displayed insights mistrust and fear of authority . It’s very sad… the young lady was already going through something . Possibly it was a small matter of just mouthyness…they consider that disruptive. It is disruptive yes but this treatment of her was absolutely uncalled for .
Omg UPPPPPPPP VOTE!
And charged with assault…
And convicted and banned from jobs like this!
Yep! I thought they were trying to illicit s response…. Today seems like they have gotten that the Roses didn’t like the tone or questions….
Your right though ….?
??????
Lmaoooooo ! !!!!
I don’t care if she refused to leave the classroom or turn off her cell phone he had no right to put his hands on that child. Let’s be honest he felt that was acceptable because he is white man and she was black female child.. Racism is alive
According to local news reports, this officer was recently acknowledged for his “professionalism” and students at the school have praised his work.
In the past, the officer was accused of using excessive force while investigating a noise complaint, but the court sided with the cop.
Lol, we had bomb threats too. Stink bombs as well. I never understood the point since we never got to leave school. Just have to walk the halls smelling the funk. The drugs I noticed were prescription drugs passed around at school. Taken at parties usually or during school events such as dances, sporting events/trips, and field trips. I think sometimes – with the minorities – some of their issues are blown up a bit too. It’s rarely the majority of the school that is acting a fool, and usually just a select few. I agree though, the reasons are likely from an unstable home life. And for this reason, you may have to go the extra mile to get your point across with them versus answering every issue with a fist. Sorry for your troubles in your city, that is definitely unfortunate. I’m glad you were able to get out and find peace from that.
LOL LOL I’m just sayin these folks need to get this crap together!
IF we were to do this to our own child, child services would be involved. We cant hit our own but they can hit, maim, shoot and kill our children and its ok? What type of world and country are we living in. If this was a white child would the same tactics would have been used, especially a white girl, hell no! A white boy still would not have been handled this way! They would of calmly been asked to leave, parents called and they would of walked out of that class without incident, why not the same for this young black child.
Several students have come forward stating they did not get up nor help due to the fear on knowing they can be next. This officer has had several complaints put on him for excessive force to bodily harm. BUT, because of the shield he carries nothing has been done to him.
This is what happens when 2 HOTT heads get together. If I was her parents I would not sue because that what her daughter gets by being stupid. And he should be fired because he’s stupid to. 2 stupid people being stupid. I mean what do u think going to happen.
Nope never could leave school, had a ninja scared to death of these crazy white kids lol. And after Columbine…Chile! Stink bombs tho? Naw…but my dad retired from a rich white high school in the burbs. They used to taunt the minorities and destroy the bathrooms. No serious violence that I could ever recall there either. Lol my dad used to bring home trinkets that these rich kids left and could care less about though.
Lol. Were you in the Deep South? Pardon my ignorance/stupid question – I have never really been there save for Austin, TX and New Orleans so I always think of just really overt racism that I’m not used to. I’m from the north so you know it’s a bit more low key and passive aggressive. (I.e. “Wow, your hair is so long. Is that a weave?” Or “Where are you from..ORIGINALLY”). That sucks though. The most I got was stupid questions like I’m supposed to know every black person or am the authority on every black issue. Most of it wasn’t hostile though – more sheer ignorance and once I was like…. You do realize we went to elementary school together and I have no idea what that rap lyric is supposed to mean yes lol they were fine. No one uses the N word and most of us were very well integrated thankfully. I feel blessed in that way.
Yes, he’s been disobedient but only when I asked him to clean his room. Of course, but never disrespectful in his words or attitude toward me or any adult. I’m proud to call him my son.
I can’t believe everyone thinks his actions were okay because she didn’t give up her cellphone to the teacher. None of her disruption were verbal or physical, it was not paying attention by being on her cellphone. There is no justification for his reaction. The second student arrested was arrested for protesting the young girl’s treatment and being manhandled. I know teens can be vulgar, disrespectful, rude, bad, or all types of attitude but guess what it’s not a crime. She’s not a criminal, we are allowing our children to be treated differently because they have an attitude. She’s culpable for her actions but at end of day it was not criminal and his response to her was not called for at ALL. You need a special training to work with children, especially teens, he obviously don’t have it and should not be working with students.
Nope Cali…it’s that way too. And yup I know what you mean as I’ve lived in the Northeast too. Funny because I knew a girl from Virginia and she said she had never experienced as much racism until she went farther up North. They blatantly told her she could not come in the club because she was Black.
Seriously? I’ve only ever visited Cali and never encountered issues. That’s one place I wouldn’t expect there to be so much racism since politically it tends to be more progressive and left wing. Which part if you don’t mind me asking and what have you encountered in your adult life? It was on my list of places to consider moving to. I’m from northern Virginia as well so I can relate to her experience. That’s sad about the club. I haven’t had that happen to me yet.
I’m not from SF or LA so next biggest city after that in the valley lol. I’ve lived in all the major cities in Cali and I would kill to live in LA again. There is no place like it, but it’s too expensive. I may not have the excitement of LA but my finances are a lot better where I am now. Hell, pretty much rich as I make more than a family of 4 here. If money was no object, I would move back in a heart beat. But I would like to settle down, have children, own a home one day and that’s just not possible in LA without making a lot of money. I was lucky in that I had a small house that I rented for a damn good price BUT it had no A/C so I just about died during the summer. I also didn’t live IN LA but the burbs about a 20 min drive or 45 min ride on the train to downtown. Everybody I knew in LA had a side hustle or two including myself. I got tired of pounding the pavement just to make rent so I left.
And no I never felt mistreated in any of the cities I’ve lived in in Cali (except the one I’m from lol) as they are rich cities and are more concerned about how much money you have. NOT saying race doesn’t play in, but I don’t think as much. Because in SF/LA you could have a lot of money and spend a lot of money in different places and people WANT your money so they treat right. There are always other places you can go to to spend that money. But dressing the part does come into play too. I noticed when I dressed “basic” (shorts, tennis shoes/sandals, tank top) I got treated way different than if I had just got off work with my business clothes on.
Lol.. I live in Europe for awhile and some of the buildings in the country I was in had no A/C too since they were old. I actually got used to it because if you opened the windows you received a cross breeze as long as you pulled the steel blinds down during the day. I don’t blame you with getting tired. I think right now I’m at that crossroads trying to decide if I’d like to purchase a house or not. Not sure about the settling down – I kind of don’t want to deal with the kids as I like to travel and want to make sure I absolutely adore my career. I like my lifestyle as I make a fairly good sum of money being as young as I am. I think the only reason I’d want a kid or hubby at this pt is for the tax write off lmao. Maybe after I finish my book and write a screenplay. My dream place to live is France. Which sucks since they’re pretty racist there too lol.
Ain’t no breeze in LA! That’s the damn desert! I’m sure most of Europe is like the Northeast…dreary days, overcasts, and can count hot days on one hand. That IS NOT California and especially not southern Cali. There is no such thing as seasons in southern Cali. That song…”it never rains in southern California” is true! I can count on one hand as many times it rained when I lived there. I didn’t miss having seasons after living in the Northeast but I did miss the trees and flowers blooming all over the place from back home. My mom pissed me off sending me a pic of the backyard tree blooming lol. If you live closer to the ocean it’s not as bad but I lived at the base of the mountains so it got HOT. Might be a few cities/neighborhoods that have blooming flowers but it’s not very much in LA as my city was not that bad and had trees blooming.
I’m curious how you made it out of the US? What industry do you work in? I figure I got 4 years before I can make the transition overseas. But I have to get a little bit more work experience and cash flow going. I’m praying to move with my job as I can go pretty much anywhere in the world.
I worked for the state department at the time. I work for the govt still but I am in IT right now. It’s hella boring and not what I went to school for so while I love the design aspects of it, it just doesn’t hold my interest much. Plus I mostly telework which has made me kind of lazy lol. Of course the money in IT is always great, and you don’t even have to do your job that well. But I have always been more artistic. I’m really trying to be brave enough to separate myself from the material, live a more minimalistic lifestyle and do more traveling and gain more experience. I’ve got into stocks now for secondary income and to fund some dreams. I don’t want to be one of those older people who gave up.
Oh ok, yes State Dept or DOD is where it’s at if you wanna get overseas. Yup that’s my plan to move with the feds. Naw I don’t love or hate audit, but I know it pays well and you can do it anywhere in the world and work from home lol. That’s why I chose it.
That’s great on the investment part. I’m too scary to put anything in there so I have my money in safer investments. And no I’m sure your parents are VERY proud of you. Hell you’ve done more than most Black people have ever done just by leaving the country. So pat yourself on the back
And I don’t know if my comments are popping up or not because I’m not seeing some of them…so yea lol
What kind of investments do you prefer? I’m trying to diversify. Lol, thanks for the well wishes but it’s not a big deal. My mother was a director of a nonprofit and travelled frequently – actually took her with me (not my dad as he hates planes lol), so that’s actually where I got the travel bug. Lol most of the black people in this area are well travelled, I’m minor leagues in comparison tbh. Disqus is weird like that but they are here.
O ok well my parents been in the same city since birth. My family and relatives thought I was insane when I left the city. Most people I’ve met have never lived anywhere else or they usually lived somewhere ice cold and moved to a sunnier place and never left lol. Can’t say the government has never done anything for me as I’ve lived in all those places thanks to them.
But I would say commodities (gold, silver, etc). The price of them shot up during the bad years and fell back down. Of course it will happen again soon. I figure like this I can’t tie my whole life savings up in stocks and bonds. That is for someone who can lose whatever they put in and not think twice about it. I put in 5% to get the match and that’s it for me.
Lol as a person who prefers hot weather, I can’t say I blame them. Hmm, thank you! Something to keep in mind. I keep telling my parents yes these luxe handbags will help me out in a time of need lol. I really wish my mother would have saved all of her damn comic books smh. She had first edition X-Men and all kind of crap. I definitely understand where you’re coming from. That’s why I don’t like to gamble. Friends hitting casinos dropping thou and I’m like… that’s a new bag or rent. Couldn’t be me.
Naw a bag isn’t going to help you lol. You need REAL stuff that can be traded in in a time of need. Something that will ALWAYS be valuable. If you’re gonna buy luxury stuff then jewelry is your best bet.
I wish I had gone to some of those estate sales in the Northeast. Man I KNOW they had some good ass stuff. LA had some too…my neighbor worked some every now and then. Good ol heirloom stuff from hundreds of years ago…hoping I’ll stumble upon something worth millions lol.
What I’m saying is if the children are to held to a higher standard then the staff must be as well..after all they ARE the adults AND this is the chosen profession that they were schooled and trained to do. I saw no training from that school employee but what I did see was a man who eithier took his anger, prejudice or frustration out on that girl and that’s just not right.
Well, kid or not, too aggressive or not, you can’t disregard authority and then become offended by the way you’re handled for doing so. I just want black folks to start being equally concerned and attentive when it’s black on black incidents. Who has that much time? Yeah, I know.
When you go to school to show your ass for your friends, this is what happens. Right or wrong isn’t my call. If you’re engrossed with getting your education while class is in session, you have no time for your cell phone. She was either asked to put the phone away or I’ll take it, or there are clear rules of no cell phones.
Her parents can get over it. They have no case at all. She wanted to do her own thing, the school cop addressed it. Again, stop going to school to put on a show for your friends then cry victim when you contribute to the bs.
I’m going with the unpopular opinion that she should have respected authority. Granted it was extreme; however, the numerous WorldStar videos and such displaying youths with extreme bad behavior makes me question her parenting. If the administrators could rely on HER Parents to cone and correct her…there would be NO need for that resource officer! Youths are mouthy, sassy, and disrespectful…see it everyday. Jesse needs to take his curly headed butt on…where’s the outcry when we are the ones dragging folks on YouTube videos for laughs?
Exactly!!! Hell no!!
High fiving your correct assessment!
As a teacher, let me start by saying that in NO WAY is what the officer did correct. It appears that if you have ANY opinion other than the popular one in this case, people think that you are condoning what the officer did. I had a knock down drag out on my FB page and someone told myself and several teachers that we weren’t shyt and that we needed to find another job. I was like REALLY dude??? People in education see the tape and we all agree that it was excessive, but we also are in the trenches and know exactly what this looks like on a daily basis. For 3 authority figures to tell her to leave and she refused, says a lot about what is going on. The reality is she probably would have gotten her phone back at the end of class with a stiff talking to. Trust me……most teachers aren’t trying to fight that battle.
That’s the question I have been asking. People keep saying she was just sitting there. Yes, she was sitting there being defiant. That sends a hell of a message to the other kids in the room. I say someone said call her parents. I’ve called every phone number on file before and none of them worked. I’ve called and had parents tell me Ms. Howard he/she is with you now, handle it. I’ve also had, I wish the school would stop calling me. THESE are the realities for us in the trenches.
I also saw someone said that the other kids should have left the room. Really? Logistically, that makes no sense!!
First off, THANK YOU for being a teacher these days. Literally, I could not do it. I don’t understand how anyone can with the lack of support and full blame being pointed your way.
I have walked the high school hallways and heard how “kids” talk. The profanity, vulgarity, blasting music, the fighting. And I know it happens in the classroom as well. Utube is full of the videos. So my question is this: What do you do in that situation? The system is clearly broken. The kids are a mess. The rules are unsupported. But vigilante bodyslams ARE NOT the solution and actually create setbacks (for the “kid” and for future regulations on how staff handle situations).
Sway, please tell me…what is we gone do?
You are entitled to your opinion but I think it’s Bull Sh$$$. She did not obey an order that is correct, do you handle your child that way when they disobey you. Do you use violence toget your point across?
Oh they will sue and win. Like the Sheriff said its cut and dry. The girl was wrong but the cop took it too far. He did not handle the situation like he should have therefore he will pay and the police department will too,
Bingo I couldn’t have said it better. I don’t know what’s wrong with these fools condoning what the cop did.
WORD!!!!
This is exactly how I feel about this whole situation! Thanks!
I would have called the principal as well. I can honestly say that if it got out of hand, the principal would have called the police officer on campus as well. I think that the teacher and the principal were in complete shock as well. I gotta say that in the 15 years that I have had a few push my buttons, but for the most part they KNOW Ms. Howard is crazy and don’t play. The system is terribly broken and the unfortunate thing is that parents and educators are not working together anymore for the betterment of their child. I could go on and on, because when something like this happens it becomes an attack on teachers or a racial thing and as a teacher, I see it just as it is. An unruly student and an ass of a cop that really should not have had any interaction on that day.
“assimilated” is not the word. No one is trying to change her culture, etc. But “listened and complied” (especially being these are school rules) applies. If she had, would the teacher have called an Administrator? If she had complied with the Administrator would they have a called the Officer?
No and No
This doesn’t absolve the cop for his actions, but the issue started with her and frankly should never have had to go that far.
Agree.
Agree.
Exactly.
Exactly.
They are a mess and this student is an example of that. The world will not love and tolerate your child as you do. Not every person in the world is patient and kind. If your kids mouth off at and disrespects authority they might get talked to or they might just get assaulted. It’s a cold hard fact. This teacher didn’t owe this near grown senior in HS special treatment. Turning bad kids into victims to be celebrated with rallies is a dangerous turn for society.
They are a mess and this student is an example of that. The world will not love and tolerate your child as you do. Not every person in the world is patient and kind. If your kids mouth off at and disrespects authority they might get talked to or they might just get assaulted. It’s a cold hard fact. This teacher didn’t owe this near grown senior in HS special treatment. Turning bad kids into victims to be celebrated with rallies is a dangerous turn for society.
Yeah, I can see your point. Emotionally, it is hard to separate this and treat is as individual when the larger picture is so prevalent. Many cop on black scenarios have simple elements, but added up an undeniable trend emerges.
So I guess calling her parents instead was out of the question? I heard that his fellow officers refer to him as Officer Slam. How ironic?
You do need to do what cops tell you.
Absolutely not. But as a kid and an adult now, I didn’t act like these kids. I have so many associates that teach for a living and the stories they tell…. Everybody’s buying into her back story, but the fact remains you were in class on your cellphone. Is it an alternative school? The other kids had no reaction what so ever as it all happened, so is this the norm for the school or is this how she always behaves?
She refused to do what the teacher told her to do. Then she refused to do what the principal told her to do. So a trained security officer had to be called. When she refused to do what she was told, what are you going to do? Spend all day wheedling and cajoling her to please do as she is told? There was a very simple way for her to have avoided this incident. She was obviously not going to do what she had been told. Had the officer not done it the way he did, there might have been a longer struggle and she could have been injured. She obviously wasn’t injured beyond maybe a bruise or two. It’s obvious she was not taught any respect for authority and was, in my opinion, almost begging for this incident to occur. It looks to me as if the child has been ignored and is begging for attention. She got it and will hopefully be removed from the home situation that would raise her to think she can do whatever she wants regardless of how it might affect other people around her. Rules are made for a reason. If you don’t like the rules, there are proper ways to go about trying to change the rules. If YOU don’t like the fact that your child has to follow rules in a public setting such as a public classroom, then go to the school board meetings and do what you have to do to try to change the rules. Or home school your child. But this altercation never should have had to happen and I blame it solely on the child’s parents and the child. And a society today that would make it necessary for this to have had to go all the way to a security officer.
Some of you guys really need to look up more information on these articles before deciding to condone certain things and comment on these pages! (cough)Doink_Ahanahue, DHoward1913, Neicey, etc..(cough). If ya’ll would have gotten some more information on the story you would know the little girl is in foster care and was going through some emotional distress at the time that this happened (and is now going through even more because of this). When a lot of kids act up it is because they are going through something. If people decide to be teachers they need to realize that there are kids who are going through things and kids that are going to disrupt the class. What you need to do is keep teaching the class because really, if i am playing candy crush saga on my phone with no to little volume is it really annoying everyone in the class that much that you have to stop teaching to talk to me. You can talk after class. This little girl did not need to be thrown around like that. The teacher knew better. He or she knew they should have just kept teaching the class and definitely should have stopped the police officer from touching that girl. If you were really annoyed with her being on her phone you should go to a different class (and yes Doink_Ahanahue, DHoward1913 it is not going to kill anyone to move there butts to a different class in 1-2 minutes). The police officer should definitely get fired. That is some ignorant and excessive shit that he pulled. He needs to get fired. Schools do not normally even have police. My schools had S.O.’s that stayed in the school (1 or 2) and they would never put there hands on you unless you were fighting another student but they would never go that far.
He had no right to do that. He’s not her parent..