New Jersey police are still searching for a 32-year-old backup dancer and dance instructor who went missing after leaving her colleagues a mysterious message.
Shirleen Quigley was last seen by her landlord on Saturday, October 22, at approximately 3:00 pm, according to the North Bergen Police Department’s Facebook page.
Police recovered Quigley’s car and her cell phone, which she left behind at a bridal store.
Quigley recently moved to the New York area from Los Angeles. She toured with some of the biggest names in hip hop, including Beyonce, Rihanna, Missy Elliot, Mary J Blige, Jamie Foxx, Ray J, Ashanti, and more.
Rihanna took to Instagram.com on Monday to make an emotional plea for any information on Quigley’s disappearance.
Rap producer Missy Elliott also posted a message on Instagram.com, calling Quigley a “sweet, caring spirit.”
A friend left a Facebook comment saying she saw Quigley “in the area of the Port Authority Bus Terminal in Manhattan on October 23, 2016 at approximately 12:55 am. She was still wearing the same clothing described by her landlord.”
Quigley’s father, who lives in California, said his daughter left a message for her colleagues at a dance studio asking them to substitute for her.
“Get ready, it’s about to happen and I’m going to need you to sub for me,” she wrote.
She didn’t explain what was about to happen.
Quigley’s father, who last spoke to her on Friday, didn’t say whether she had a history of mental illness.
“She’s everything to me, she’s why I live,” he said.
Oh my I know her!!!! (mouth wide opened) I hope good come out of this!
She didn’t happen to get on Jiggas bad side did she ?
She looks like 90’s J-Lo in the pic up top….hope she’s safe
I hope someone finds her safe.
God bless you Shirleen. Call someone sugar. I hope you are safe babes.
Praying for her safe return and her family’s comfort
It’s sounding like she’s had some sort of mental health breakdown. I hope she is found and gets treatment.
Wow. Small world. I hope she’s found safe.
Prays that she needed some time to herself and not in harms way.
I hope she’s found safe and sound. This is sad.
I just read on black & missing foundation that her cell phone was found in a bridal store & her car found in Hertz rental car parking lot. I hope she’s safe. ??
“Get ready, it’s about to happen and I’m going to need you to sub for me,”
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Sounds like somebody knew where she was going. Either way, I hope she’s found safe.
Must be illuminati sacrifice season again …..
Funny, my first thought was Selena.
I thought Selena too
Mine too , Selena and Sade’s kid.
I just saw this on nj.com today. My God, I hope they find her. Hate hearing about things like this.
Off Topic: I need some of you to go back downstairs to the Adrienne Bailon post and explain yourselves. 1st you say the picture was taken years ago — while Israel Houghton was still married. So basically what you’re saying is it’s okay to take boudoir pictures with the daughter of a married man as long as he’s cool with it. But when I say most men cheat, you strongly disagree? Which is it?
Maybe she went off and eloped ….with the phone being found in the bridal store and her car being found at a car rental place. Reaching maybe, but I hope she’s okay.
Oh my! I pray she’s found safe and sound.
Oh shitt. Imma go eat lunch while ya’ll rake leaves. lol.
Right, check my Direct Deposit….nope NO SR payments there.
TUH LOGS ALL THE WAY OFF
And we ain’t topic either. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/95c2f27923e21bb6564c3c6aa1dbd2502aa7ba2d62130be702c87cbabf6d3f27.gif
So someone posted on FB they spotted her at the bus terminal. Did the person call the authorities?
I read that her father said is it odd that she would be at a bridal shop trying on wedding gowns. He stated that she’d been celibate, and if she were about to marry, he’s certain she would tell them.
IN Jesus Name
The landlord did it .
I pray they find her.
I was wondering about that, too. But to just up and leave without at least saying something, worries me. You don’t have to tell all your business, but just enough so folks won’t worry.
So, maybe she eloped?? I sure hope it is something like that.
Some of yall gots some homework and some splaining to do. *giggles*
*goes to be nosy*
Who is their leader?
Yall gots some splaining to do??
That’s outta my pay grade.
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That was my first thought…
I Kant!!!
Hehehe
You was trying so hard to get up and out that post too!!!!!! so funny!!!!!!!!!!! It’s haunting you!
I hope she is found safe and sound.
I done stated my biz in that post. Folks keep either @ me or being passive agreesive and still talking dead to me. Doesn’t matter. I said what I said. Shouts out to Khaki. I woulda been pissed if my ex husband new-new…whom he was rumored to have cheated on me with (this new revelation you speak of says it’s a real ass maybe too) is running round here posting pics of my damn baby yesterday, and our divorce ink is burlee dry from Feb/March! From our 20 year marriage. Blessings to them.
The absolute end.
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This teacher tried it
Yes! I see it
Bitch SHOULD have stopped at the period after “….longer.”
She comes off so desperate and thirsty?She bes be careful though my granny always said how you get them is how you lose them. If he would cheat on his wife of 20 years just what do you think he is going to do to you
But to leave her phone? That’s what gives me pause.
Ok…maybe she eloped
Adrienne has been shady if you ask me. She ain’t new to this.
Wait a freaking minute…..
Right…somebody knows what she was up to. I hope it’s something good…she must’ve planned on returning because she said SUB not REPLACE
I don’t get those vibes. I hope she’s safe.
STAWWP IT! LMAO
Lmao! I Kant even stroll down
She looks like Selena up top.
*giggles in a crunch*
“I said what I said” I read this in Nenes voice. ???
This again I just stop laughing at this u got me started again
So, the student is always late and absent but, still asking for an extension on something they have had all semester to prep for? What I miss?? We mad she/he called him the stereotype?
Unless it is someone they don’t approve of
I see you my Investigation Discovery sistren.
That was my first thought.
YES
???who is this. I can’t tell on my phone.
I can’t wrap my head around that. If she was that concerned with their approval to not tell them about the wedding, I don’t think she would go so far as to get married. Maybe it’s just how my brain works.
Tristen better get it together.
It’s true though…sounds like something I’d tell my child
Rodman
Police recovered Quigley’s car and her cell phone, which she left behind at a bridal store.
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Oh nooooo!! Not taking her cell phone is not a good sign. I hope she is found safe and sound. She seems to be a gentle soul and they are the ones to take things the hardest. Fix it Jesus!
Cam Newton
Really?
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They need to question whoever she sent that message too… sounds like they know something
She could have either said yes or no. Or you are not reaching your fullest potential.
I think her BFF knows the skinny on what her plans were. I can see the eloping especially if the parents are controlling.
Called them dominant. Bish need some bleach to sip
Who is this (having a hissy fit) and the other person? I can’t make out their faces.
The cell phone thing is a lil shaky… She is a beautiful woman… ? she is doin her and not foul play
Told yall only white-r name than Becky…is Heidi. The fact this comes from a cave bish named Heide is no coincidence
What about Heather? Lol.
Hopefully it’s just a case of her forgetting the cell phone in the bridal store and dashing out, running errands and whatnot, and not realizing her phone is gone until she dropped her car off. I know I’ve left my phone a few times in various places. I don’t know. I’m just hoping she’s found safe.
Maybe (hopefully) in all her giddiness about getting hitched, she didn’t consider how this would look.
I don’t think this grown woman eloped. Maybe, but that’s not the feeling I get.
My oldest niece is like this…. excuses excuses. I tell her all the time, you act the stereotype, society will treat you as such. It’s hard enough fighting those issues when you doing right much less when you feed the fire. Be angry at them when you’ve worked to prove them wrong but, you can only be angry with yourself when you’ve made them right.
I agree. You give folks an inch they take a mile. This is why those ohhhh what’s the big deal situations should be nipped…Always…Nothing is ever too small to be addressed. The next student gets called a straight up n*gger if not checked for the so called little things…I shouldn’t, but real quick,,,When I was in college, my Father was God knows where, Sister was in prison (for shooting her abusive boyfriend), Mother had suffered a series of strokes…Oh, and I had custody of my niece. 18 fvcking years old with the weight of the world on my shoulders…Any classes I may have missed, any test I may have had to skip…Had nothing to do with me being a lazy n*gger #IJS yeah,,,Doesn’t mean one or more of my professors didn’t conclude as such tho? That’s their preconceived notions,,,Nothing to do with me?
? da fawk. Mama always says it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.
Wheelchair Jimmy and Brian McKnight
I think her phone was ditched there purposely to throw us off.
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Lot of black Heathers lol. Heather B, Hunter, Hadley. Few Black Beckys too. But Heidi? Only remotely one I ever heard of is mixed. Halle Berry sister is named Heidi. And that traces back to their white mama???
Drake hissy fit. Tyrese telling Future to stop it. (OFFTOPIC)
+1.
They never call jus say… Yea,I saw her ?
Who is the dominant society, who says so, and why is that even part of her response is another issue.
I do agree he needs to stop HIS shat too tho. He is at Fordham I think. Get it together young sir
I also have issue with her asking him why is he so busy. Bish he is in college. He could be working two jobs etc. Or he could be up all night drankin and fukkin. Either way it’s not cho bidness. Yes or no. Keep it simple
Agree how she said it was wrong and very racist (assuming he is black and she is not). If she were a family member giving him a stereotype lesson, I would understand much better; she overstepped her boundaries. On the flip side… because there are always three sides, he seems to have set himself up for being seen as an excuse maker. Fukk her… he needs to better prepare himself for the working world. This wouldn’t fly at most jobs. Excuses get you a box and an escort out the door.
Barbie is another super Sprite name.
Well I know a Hispanic one and a black one… but yes it can be viewed as one.
Awwww. One of the Roses is named Barbie, and she isn’t a sprite. If you’re lurking, babe, I miss you!!!!!!!!
Lol. True. I did go to school with a black girl named Heidi, but she’s the only black Heidi I ever met.
This shat too. All of it. I blame him some too below.
“You are only a statistic if you allow yourself to to be one”
My mama
Certainly possible. But I really, really hope you’re wrong. We don’t get enough happy endings in the news.
My first name is like that, but baby my middle name makes up for it. I had the clerk at Walgreens tell me she’s never met an African American with https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/cead3bf3ae35695ea12538fa713a44d1414631045762d936fc3b298b6de246f1.gif my name.
I read more into this story (I can’t shake this sleuthing off me), and it seems that he feels that she had preconceived notions of him and judges him more harshly than his white counterparts. The truth can probably be found in the middle of both their sides.
Damn. Wtf wrong with her folks?
My whole name is nigra. ???
Wtf? Smdh ?
Shame. I get that about my kids though. Smh
Dead
I have a french first name and spanish middle name. You should see folks when I show up for the in-person interview, “So….you’re Butter?” LMBO
I most def have a very common black last name. ?
Hilarious
Ma’am I am not allowed to Holler in this office and I just did
he could be up all night drankin and fukkin.
DEAD
Ain’t no mistake when you read my govt name that I am black lol
My first, middle and maiden last name sounds all over the place together. First name is after an opera, middle is from a white children’s book and last is an object you find outside in the mountains. I appreciate my parents gave me a resume name but, people be so confused putting my name to my face and how I talk. LOL
Mine either. But the kids? Especially the first two. Lol. Not at all
was that her real name???????? I thought that was a blog name.
Yep. It wasn’t in her handle at all. I remember asking if it’s short for Barbara, and she said no. That made me love it even more <3
My former boss tried this when I requested extra bathroom breaks ( I was pregnant) I was like BISH I will pee on this floor..ol’ paleface Angela Landsbury lookin self.
Lol.?
I would of reported her to the school. How did she think this was appropriate?
One of my twins grandma picked her name & it’s not one of my favorite names at all. I see jokes about her name all the time. ?
Omg I am praying for her and that was sweet of Rihanna to put it out there. Beautiful woman.
oh ok… there use to be a “barbie” and it was her blog name.
In her mind she tryna help a wayward black boy. She is giving him a life lesson. Not bein a condescending bissh. She is just trying to help. Promise this is prolly her rationale
Beth
Yep. Love her. ???
Mine too
Bf and his brother have racially ambiguous first middle and last lol. I said yall mom had yall 1980s resume ready didn’t she?
We went to school in an exclusive part of town that was predominantly white and I think her Mom purposely sent her to school there to keep her away from black kids. She seemed to view being black made her ugly. She was very awkward. My Mom made sure we knew we were black and proud growing up in that environment but you had quite a few black kids in those schools who seemed ashamed to be black and ran from anything that had to do with acknowledging their blackness.
Had a middle school classmate named Barbie. Pretty girl. Always thought her name was cute.
See! And named her Heidi. Smdh.
Glad your folks instilled that your black is beautiful
Nothing is ever too small to be addressed. The next student gets called a straight up n*gger if not checked for the so called little things
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Man, listen….
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Boy you so amazing. I think I wanna have yo baby.
I despise jobs you gotta ask to take a piss. What? Uggh. The newspaper was like this at first. Then my long term boss came from another department about 2 months in, and was like fukk dat. Yall ain’t gotta ask bc hell I don’t want to know.
Yeah, I had a boss do that to me…I told me I had to send him a IM (internal) Each time I said I had to defecate
He finally said that enough….When I finally left after two promotions, he gave me a 150 gift card and Ipod. He said I was one of the worse people to try and conform it didn’t work but I was good person and crazy at the same time. BIG GRIN
I just screamed. This is Hilarious
Looks like she was being real with the student. Unfortunately you can’t shake people having stereotypes. You just can’t! If it’s not about color, then its about you being too fat/too skinny, where you live, how you talk, what school you went to… and blah blah blah.
I mean seriously… it is the realest informal message a teacher could have given. Instead of being mad that the teacher stated FACTS. Just do better.
Alright I have to go purge RIF10’s room before she comes home from school and acts like a hoarder not wanting me to throw any of her crap away. This child will keep a piece of lent if she has given it a name. Ya’ll behave.
Yeah this happened to a union a while back, I’mm go find the article. Basically, is BS. I work in offie and ladies come and there and speed pee. I like really. Ma’am did you drain your bladder fully? They barelee wrarnch thier nasty hands off. I bring my lunch in a pail and have clorox wipes in my office. I don’t have time for pissy germs.
We wont??
That’s what they always see themselves doing and shocked when you mad.
Oh yes my Mom did not play when it came to that. We weren’t allowed to play with white dolls or wear clothing with white faces, if we wanted a shirt with barbie or something my Mom bought fabric paint and made her black. Lol.
I was thinking she looked like someone i know. Damn it if you aint hit the hammer on the nail with this.
When boss came on she was like why do yall keep calling asking me this? Someone finally told her it was a requirement. She was like are you damn for real??? ????
My thoughs exactly
Grown folks asking to piss.
No thanks.
She probably needed to get away. Sometimes pressure can be a bit much. I hope she is found safe and sound.
Your mom sounds like my bestie’s mom. She has all these figurines she puts out for a “Winter Wonderland,” and she paints the faces of all of the people with various shades of brown.
Heck found a couple
http://abcnews.go.com/Business/regulate-bathroom-work/story?id=24581940
http://articles.latimes.com/1995-01-08/local/me-17826_1_discrimination-complaints
Geraldine Guadalupe ?
I had all kinds of Barbies. But your mom is like my cousin who was raised with us lol. Her daughter (DubNiece27) same thing. Black everything lol. Was not playing one game about it either.?
White Savior
Hello Aida ?
She thought we were hazing her????
chile no.. lol
LMBO. Not quite. My first name does start with a G though.
Well a couple things here…1st, I pray her recovery safe and sound. This sounds like Bi-polar Manic episode. I care for someone who just ups and goes whenever where ever. She is leaving clues which is important. God is a mind regulator, so I am continuing to keep her lifted.
How’s everyone?
and my mammy obviously didn’t know her vowels, because my name should end in an “a” when she put an “i” instead, so try to explain to EVERYONE that your name is Dana even though it is spelled Dani…SMH (that’s not my real name, just giving an example), I promise you I done bout got into fights over this, and was put in ISS and all kinds of detention because teachers would used to try to correct me and then they would get smart with me and I get smart right back. You don’t play with folks and their names…..that’s some sensitive shat. LOL. One time my 10th grade teacher went back and forth with me about MY name and kept telling me it was wrong or somebody made a mistake typing up the roll. She going to say this CANNOT be your name, it is PHONETICALLY impossible, I told her she could take it PHONETICALLY up with my mammy>>>>>off to the office I went. LOL.
Gertrude ?
What’s that movie with Sandra Bullock. Prime example.
Wait. Why would she argue with you over YOUR name?! Like you didn’t name yourself. Bish, I said what I said. Now leave me alone and go teach.
Always.
Exactly!!!!! and that is what I tell people, like ummmm I didn’t chose my name nor the spelling it is what it is…
*tears* Nah, I don’t think I’d ever share my or want to pass it along if it were. I somebody hope to have a little girl and pass it along. She’s be Gen3.
hopefully this turns out well. hopefully this isnt foul play, either way im finna yell at my sisters to go get a CWP NOW and a small weapon for protection. This aint the 80-90s when folk really cared about each other
Yes she does that too. Black Santa, Black Jesus, etc. We weren’t even allowed to take pictures with a white santa at Christmas. Lol. She had us singing Say it loud, I’m black and I’m proud when I was probably around 10. Lol.
LOL #BlackPower
Genevieve? I think that’s a pretty french name.
New post. Madea
I do it now with my girls, just not as extreme. Lol.
Blindside
Well they should question the friend. Sounds like whatever it is was something they’ve discussed before. Hope she’s found if she wants to be found. God be with her family and friends
Alll this! I’ve been telling my son the sad reality since he was in kindergarten …WE have to work 3 times as hard in life and try at all cost to avoid the negative stereotypes while still staying true to who WE are as human beings
Too much ID channel again?? I know I know
I was thinking Sade too .. a thick one
Yep
Prayers for her to be found safely.
the landlord did it…
or maybe she joined ISIS
This makes him look soooooo bad lololololololol I see why Rihanna can never take this dude seriously lol
I think it was her last message to her dad.
I hope she’s safe ?
I pray for her and her family
so never mind the fact that shes RIGHT! No wonder these kids are so entitled these days. You can tell them anything but the truth!
She was just found safe!!!!
I don’t know, seems like the student tried it and failed. And she’s not wrong – the stereotype is that we’re always late. He’s asking permission to be late and she’s telling him how it looks – like he chose to procrastinate and he needs to do better
I’m sorry but I don’t see why the teacher is wrong here. Maybe we’d all benefit from a little truth-telling sometimes.
Oh great! To God be the Glory!
Thanks for the update!
Welcome!!!!
She’s safe. The news reported it about an hour ago.
I hope she found safe….
Yup……very fishy
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Who is that?
I was thinking a breakup gone bad. Maybe she wanted to be married or marriage called off. A bridal shop is a rather odd spot to ditch a phone