Atlanta socialite Monyetta Shaw reportedly got engaged to her football player bew. The 38-year-old former reality TV star is the ex-wife of singer/songwriter Ne-Yo.

Your auntie spotted Monyetta and one of her bridesmaids shopping at Saks Fifth Avenue last weekend. Monyetta made a beeline for the men’s department when she saw me staring looking.

I don’t know if she recognized me or not. I’ve only seen her once in person — when she and Ne-Yo were still together and he took her on a shopping spree at Saks. She was sitting down trying on shoes, so I had no idea how tall she was (she looks 5-10 in heels).

Ne-Yo and Monyetta share two gorgeous children Madilyn, who turns 7 in November, and Mason, who turn 6 in October.

Congrats to Monyetta (and whoever the guy is). Everyone deserves to be happy — at least until the Dopamine wears off. Then the trouble begins if a couple isn’t equally yoked. Couples should make sure they are equally yoked before taking that big step toward matrimony. Especially if there are young children involved.

Monyetta is pictured below with television personalities Lena Danielle Chenier, center, and Tammie Reed (TalkingtoTami.com) at the Atlanta TRANSFORMERS: THE LAST KNIGHT premiere on June 19.

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