By Sandra Rose  | 

Samantha Stewart

Police in New York City want to speak to the boyfriend of a nurse who was found strangled in bed in her Queens apartment on Tuesday.

Samantha Stewart's brothers found her body after they couldn't reach her by phone and she failed to show up for work at North Shore Hospital in Manhasset.

Samantha’s 17-year-old brother Keniel told the New York Post that he and his brother discovered their sister's body on the floor in an upstairs bedroom of the family home in Springfield Garden.

Stewart was strangled to death. Her naked body was wrapped in a blanket, and police say her teeth were knocked out.

Stewart's father, Kenneth, said he is "heartbroken and devastated." He said Stewart was one of 7 children. "She was very sweet, beautiful and charming," he told ABC7.

Kenneth said he suspects the killer is her boyfriend -- a man the family has never met.

Surveillance video shows the man arriving to Stewart's home and leaving a few hours before her body was found, according to CrimeOnline.

"Why, why has he done this to us, why, what's his reasoning," said Stewart's aunt Ruby Dixon.

She described Stewart as the "shining star in this family," and she said her patients had "the joy of having a loving nurse" taking care of them.

  • Slickone

    Wow this crazy world??????????

  • tintin

    these abusive men are out of control

  • Yoni7

    Not here for this on a Friday. Bye yall.

  • ?? Kari ?????????

    Very sad! I guess the bf didn’t know that there are video cameras recording. RIP!!!

  • KcoolMuziq
  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    So sad RIP LOVE

  • Ni Ni

    He probably knew, but the demon has no self control & didn't care.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    "Kenneth said he suspects the killer is her boyfriend — a man the family has never met."
    ----
    That's always a red flag to me. Whether a woman's keeping her boyfriend from her family, or he's the one who's stalling, and reluctant to meet her family... either way that's never a good sign in a relationship. That usually indicates there's something shady about him.
    R.I.P. to this poor lady.

  • Kemi

    What a gruesome way to leave the world... RIP young lady. Hope your killer faces justice.

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    Terrible. Such a bright successful woman dealing with a low life. I hope Justice is served.

  • http://www.4flavorsofmecreolemami.com/?m=1 4FlavorsOfMe CreoleMami

    Wow such a beautiful girl :( I hope they find the boyfriend asap she did not deserve this rest in paradise sweet angel

  • Naomi

    It's hard when family is spread out all over the place though. I lived in FL, my Dad lives in KS, my mom lives in GA, brother lives in MO and sister lives in OK. So there wasn't really a chance for my ex to meet my family, but they knew of him.

  • BeUtFullSoul

    My heart goes out to her brothers that found her and to her parents. ..just heartbreaking.. :'(

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    Black Men HATE Black Women!

  • Carrington

    When I read the part about her having a boyfriend that the family didn't know, it was certainly a red flag... but, then I thought about the fact that a lot of people don't want to bring a man around the family unless they feel like he's going to be around for a minute, so that could've been the issue. Either way, I hope they catch whoever it is.

  • Yardgirl

    What a horrible memory for her brothers *sad* RIP Samantha

  • rayne215

    boyfriend 100% did it

  • Rere

    Sounds like one of TV one fatal attraction show's! Damn, sad way to go.

  • Kemi

    RIP it’s sad to read this. She had her life ahead of her. Hope the killer faces justice

  • SummerBaby

    Sad story. RIP??

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    ^^^^^
    Troll alert.

  • Rere

    You wrote a whole book bashing black men that ain't nobody gonna read. Well atleast not me ??

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    Name 1 lie I told!

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    Name 1 lie!

  • Yoni7

    *hugs you* I'm sorry a black man hurt you. Turn your anger into a resource of information. Inform your fellow black women and men about these statistics. Share your story of how you contracted the disease. It doesn't have to be a death sentence, hun. Now that you know your status, serve a purpose and help others.

  • Curry Brandis

    Lucky friend

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I'm just curious...who hurt you?

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    EXACTLY! I told no lies.

  • Yoni7

    This is a person crying out for help. Unfortunately probably contracted HIV and or was left by a black man for a more fair skinned woman. When you encounter folks like THIS, it's a cry for help. So many people would bypass this person as a troll. I, on the other hand, see someone that is hurting. That's just me. It's unfortunate that this has happened, but being mad isn't going to improve the status. CHOOSING to turn the negative into a positive will. I want to save THIS black person. We talk about mental illness in the black community all the time. Well folks, here we have it. We got work to do, fam.

  • Rere

    Why do you keep writing long replies? I don't have the patience to read all of that especially if its DISRESPECTFUL to black men or women.

  • Rere

    I didn't read it??

  • Yoni7

    Who, her or me? Nevermind. Good day.

  • Yoni7

    Yeah ok.

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    I'm sure it will be on there soon enough.

  • Rere

    Right! I just watched the latest episode this morning

  • the guest

    In all fairness, it is not always a personal hurt or betrayal at root of disappointment in black men. Unfortunately and historically black men have not valued and protected black women as it should be natural and inherent for men to do.

    Of course this is not the case of all black men and certainly other races of men are abusive to women, yet it should not be underestimated and overlooked that black men are not regarding and upholding black women as they should.

  • Rere

    My apologies, I thought I replied to the other person

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    I don't feel bad about this .You date black men you should know the consequences!

    Deadbeat dads
    Don't want to pay child support
    Molest and rape girls which is why they target single mothers
    Net worth less than $1
    Black men don't go to the doctor
    They don't save
    Walking around with diseases spreading them to black women
    7 baby mommas
    Gold teeth
    Pants sagging down to their knees
    No money in savings
    Think they can pay for everything in dick
    Many are down low
    Abuse women
    Call us bishes in rap music
    Praise light skin over dark skin
    Never defend black women
    Love embarrassing and berating and bashing black women
    Praise white women and tell them they're better than us
    They bash black women for wearing weave
    They call natural hair ugly
    High domestic violence rates
    High incarceration rates
    Black women you are not smart for dating and mating with black men!

    Then when they're shot by cops, they expect us to March for them. Most black men are just like Stephon Clarke...Black Men HATE Black Women! Stop supporting their asses.

  • Blak

    And of course no one cares about the escalating violence and murders towards black women at the hands of dysfunctional black men. Black lives do not matter.

  • Yoni7

    I don't disagree. But this response/person ALWAYS seems to come from a PERSONAL place of hurt. To find it in your heart to blast this CONSTANTLY and consistently, you can't tell me it's not personal.

  • the guest

    A man who is not worthy to be introduced to your family should not be introduced to your bed. Casual relations are dangerous in these times. I think even for single grown women any age their family should know when they are going on a date, where, etc. in case they go missing and police need to be called. Absolute privacy can be dangerous. This is why there was courtship in the old days. A man met someone from the woman's family on the first date. This women's family should know this man's name, phone number, and address. Seriously.

  • Kanyade

    RIP to the lost. God bless the family. Lord have mercy.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I hope one day you get the help and healing that you need.

    Bless your heart.

  • the guest

    Harsh and too often true.

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    Black men are the ones who need help! They stay killing black women.

  • the guest

    It's vulnerable for women to be far from family but women have a right to independence.

  • Yashara Bat Orion

    Who do you hang out with. There is more to life than being around hood niggas. YOU need to do better.

  • Naomi

    Yeah well, I wasn't living in Kansas for another second lol but if you're smart, you should have a good support system wherever you live...that's how I operate I guess. My very close friends that I trust are my ICE and know where they spare key to my place is.

  • Yoni7

    I think even for single grown women any age their family should know when they are going on a date, where, etc. in case they go missing and police need to be called.
    ______________
    That's what that ONE friend is for. You know the one that you tell ALL yo stuff too. SHE'S the one to be like "Look, I'm slidin' out tonight. I'm with "Dick 5" (because yall know we got names for'em) at the Red Roof over on 16th and 22nd if something happens. I'll TEXT (because yall know folks don't call each other no more) you in the morning, SIS." LOL

    But I totally agree.

  • Yashara Bat Orion

    Or else this person is a white troll.

  • KiMi0414

    Where are all these trolls coming from?!? I just want enjoy my Sandra Rose comments minus all the negativity. OMG!

  • Yashara Bat Orion

    Or a white troll Russian bot.

  • CocoBabe88

    I hear your frustration. But I think more importantly black women need to take responsibility for their own lives and truly get real about not just the types of men they’re dating, but the people they are inviting into their lives in general. You’re right there are a lot of diabolical black men out there but there are also a lot of black women who love them just the same. That says as much about him as it does her. Black women cannot choose and vet better if they do not upgrade their life, environment, and cultural norms. A lot of black women are happy with black men and the black community just the way it is and I say let them stay there.

  • Yoni7

    That too, who got a hold of a big black d!ck and can barely walk straight anymore.

  • Guest©

    My job requires that I conduct various investigations. I have become very skilled at using public databases to locate and gather information. I am considering using those skills to help ppl (especially women) to determine if a potentional suitor is a predator because I am so sick of hearing stories like this. Something must be done!! I am praying for her family at this devastating time that they find peace.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    That's so true. I've seen situations where the woman is staying overnight at some dude's house, going on weekend trips out of town etc... and their family has never met the man and don't even know his name. That's super-dangerous nowadays.

  • Yardgirl

    Good for you!! I hope you can start your own cyber investigation business because it is NEEDED!!! I am lucky to not be on the market, but if that were the case I would be like a CSI investigator!!

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    Troll is a word to describe someone who you disagree with in most cases. This is a gossip site that also posts late breaking news events! Gossip IS negativity. Most of what's reported on the news is negative! The story in itself is negative. Its talking about a murder! FOH! You want only positivity? Log off and become a nun....or better yet, sleep with a black man. I'm sure you'll be "positive" in no time.

  • http://www.4flavorsofmecreolemami.com/?m=1 4FlavorsOfMe CreoleMami

    That would be AWESOME and a successful business because all women need access to this for their protection and peace of mind to see who they are really dealing with when they start dating a new man..

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Smfh. These ninjas will love yall to death before you learn to leave the mall the way alone. So beautiful so young.

  • Sid

    I just can’t today with this one. Lawd I just can’t

  • CocoBabe88

    Where are her girlfriends, co-workers, any social media? I’m sure they know something about this guy. I’m sure they can subpoena phone records and see text messages between her and the guy. I wonder what his motive was? It won’t be hard to find him.

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    You do disagree. As opposed to keeping it real, you instead tell me that I have HIV and tried to make a joke out of the situation. Black men are killing black women at genocidal rates!

  • KiMi0414

    I’m sorry a black man hurt you. I pray that you can find healing. ??

  • Trace da Ace

    RIP...this mess is crazy.....damn....nothing was worth her losing her life over.

  • Yoni7

    Ok girl.

  • dru and neil

    Yes! Start a business to help women, that’s a wonderful idea. I have someone I know run background checks on folks for me sometimes, but even still, not everyone has a “past” and still may be a danger. Stories like this make me even more paranoid when it comes to men. Who can you trust? God bless this woman’s family, must be hell for them right now.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Most of this Is True.

  • dru and neil

    I agree, there’s very little acknowledgement of these types of violent cases against black women. It’s almost as if people are afraid of potentially painting a black man in a bad light in this climate, at the same time, in this case...we don’t know if her boyfriend was black. If I had to place a bet, yes he would be, but still.

  • dru and neil

    DAMN! You are going hard in the paint today!

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    This is sad...I hope they find the bf or the bastard that did this.

  • dru and neil

    I was up for hours watching Fatal Attraction episodes on YT, the other night. Lots of cases of men murdering their pregnant girlfriends sadly.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    So, the black man that gave you HIV... did you press charges against him?

    Asking or a friend. :-|

  • dru and neil

    I agree with this but to be honest it’s still hard to tell who’s on the up and up and who isn’t, even if they are outwardly good. It’s still a gamble even if your aren’t dating an obvious POS. The man who treated me the worst, was also the most educated, no out of wedlock kids, well to do and ambitious man I ever dated. He was handsome and charming so I fell for him and it ended up being a very degrading situation as he was also condescending, verbally abusive and cruel.

  • dru and neil

    I agree, I read her long post bashing the Holy Ghost out of black men and it’s clearly from a place of pain. It’s tough on us women sometimes, you have to find a way to heal yourself otherwise you walking around resentful to the point where you can’t even politely converse with folks, she said she avoided all black men at all costs? That’s no way to live. Needs to find peace.

  • Guest©

    Thank you. My heart can't take these stories. I also would not charge women with low income. Also, it would be great to offer referrals for other services women may need (counseling, job training, etc). Often, we are not even prepared to be in a relationship due to our mental health. I just want to use my skills to help in some way. Once again thanks for the encouragement!!

  • Guest©

    Thats true, some ppl know how to stay "under the radar" but for the most part a lot of info is available online. You just need to know the credible sites to use.

  • Dee

    It wont work. Women are too gullible and desperate for a man. Any man. They just won't listen ?

  • dru and neil

    True, no need to send out a notification to the whole family because you are meeting someone for drinks. It may not turn into anything. Most folks have a girlfriend they tell about the date and that’s enough.

  • CocoBabe88

    Was he black? Just curious.

  • Renee26

    RIP so sad... I hope they catch him soon

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    So sad. God bless her soul RIP

  • dru and neil

    It wasn’t mentioned how long they had been seeing each other I don’t think? No need to bring a guy to the family dinner you are not seriously dating, but I don’t know how long they were together. I’m not sure why that’s even in the article with no additional details.

  • dru and neil

    Are you serious about that? Is this a cultural thing for you and your family?

  • dru and neil

    Yes he was black.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Black men don't go to the doctor.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Generalization. My black king goes to the doctor faithfully. He is actually better about it than I am. And his HIV status is negative bc he just got tested July 6th. I got mine back at my physical back in March. But to each.

  • Yoni7

    Trust me, I ALWAYS tell ONE somebody where I'm going and with who. If something goes down, I KNOW she will be on it for me. NO WORRIES AT ALL!

  • Yoni7

    Exactly.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Victim blaming.

  • FukkFolks2018

    You have to hunt them down to pay child support.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^
    You sat up there and made a whole lot of generalizations. My oldest daughter...I have recounted here how he put himself on child support at the urging of his BLACK father. Bc it was the RIGHT THING to do. Some. Yes SOME you have to hunt down. But lady you sat up here and generalized your whole ass off.

  • Quitedeliteful

    How brutal!! Iwonder if this was a fatal attraction situation or if she was pregnant and the guy just snapped. I hope he's found soon and put under the jail because this is horrific.

  • Music

    You automatically assumed the boyfriend is black.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Flagged:

    Targeted harassment — posted or encouraged others to post harassing comments or hate speech targeting me, other individuals, or groups

    I will not allow you to bash a group on here today. Black men. They are a group. Nope. Not on my damn watch. Wont sit up here and talk shit about the black man who lives in my household and helps to raise children alongside me. My brother. My nephew. My brother in law OR my father. Fukk you and the bandwith that brung your ass here.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Targeted harassment — posted or encouraged others to post harassing comments or hate speech targeting me, other individuals, or groups

  • FukkFolks2018

    Targeted harassment — posted or encouraged others to post harassing comments or hate speech targeting me, other individuals, or groups

    Group: Black men. You have hate speech towards a group.

  • Music

    I hate that this happened, and hope there’s Justice. Also, just because some of you have been hurt my men from a a particular race, it doesn’t mean all men from that race are evil. EVERY race has men that are capable of murder. Some of my friend’s husbands have cheated on them with their assistant. Does that mean I stay away from men who have assistants?!...ummm No! Stop generalizing.

  • Carrington

    Dating someone doesn't automatically qualify him for an introduction to the family - that's number 1. Dating is a filtering process and she may go on 3 dates per week - that doesn't mean that she's having SEX with three guys. She could not be having sex with anyone and dating to figure out which one of those three she might EVENTUALLY want to date seriously, or have sex with at some point. Maybe she's not interested in introducing her father to three separate men.
    Times are no different today than they've ever been. Men have been killing, raping, abusing women forever... the only difference today is that we have access to it via the internet and cable news whereas we didn't before. Back in the day if a woman was killed and attacked, if it wasn't local, or regional, you didn't hear about it because local papers covered local news for the most part. You think you'd be hearing about this woman be it not for Sandra Rose?
    We can stop acting like crazy men (or women) and vulnerable women are new things. They're not... we just have easier access to news about murders in New Jersey all the way in Houston. I ain't saying don't tell someone, but it doesn't have to be family. It can be a girlfriend. The reality is that he HAS to know that there is at least one person she told, so the odds of him being found out either through that person, or phone records/emails are pretty good... and he STILL killed her (allegedly) so, what would introducing him to the family have done to change his crazy? Men are married to women for 20 years and kill them.

  • joel adams

    Women cray cray too
    Good idea tho

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Right...
    Because white men & men of other races never kill their wives and girlfriends. Only black men do that.

  • Enoughsaid2020

    Sad. I hope they find him, and feed him to the maggots!

  • Anunnaki

    I got real tears you said "and the bandwith that brought your azz hea". Oh my https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/eb33ee53fe8c0742ea84a8f492cf596280193bec6c567118d68eadba3a36e491.gif

  • mona q

    I thought a troll was a word used to describe someone who just comes on social media to make aggressive, divisive or politically incorrect comments (usually anonymously). It's not so much as a troll is someone you disagree with...it's that a troll is someone who is intentionally posting things to get a rise out of or purposefully annoy people...

  • mona q

    A troll is someone who comes on a black blog site and constantly says things such as this! You are a troll.

  • mona q

    Deadbeat dads - BECAUSE THAT'S A BLACK MAN THING...DUMB
    Don't want to pay child support-DUMB
    Molest and rape girls which is why they target single mothers-WOW...YOU ARE DUMB
    Net worth less than $1-STUPID
    Black men don't go to the doctor-WOW...
    They don't save-WOW...
    Walking around with diseases spreading them to black women-WHO HURT YOU?
    7 baby mommas-YEAH...OK
    Gold teeth - THIS IS DUMB
    Pants sagging down to their knees - YEP BECAUSE EVERY BLACK MAN DOES THIS...I WONDER WHERE YOU LIVE..
    No money in savings-THE MEN I KNOW HAVE SAVINGS BUT THIS IS THE SAME AS "THEY DON'T SAVE"...
    Think they can pay for everything in dick - LIES
    Many are down low - LIES
    Abuse women - SO BLACK MEN ONLY ABUSE WOMEN?
    Call us bishes in rap music - TRUE
    Praise light skin over dark skin - THIS IS DUMB-NOT ALL
    Never defend black women-DUMB
    Love embarrassing and berating and bashing black women-??
    CAUSE WHITE MEN DON'T DO THIS! GTFOH
    Praise white women and tell them they're better than us-GENERALIZING AGAIN..DUMB
    They bash black women for wearing weave-IF A MAN HAS A PREFERENCE FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T WEAR A WEAVE, IT ISN'T BASHING
    They call natural hair ugly-LIES
    High domestic violence rates-LIES
    High incarceration rates-WHITE PEOPLE GET LESS/NO TIME FOR THE SAME CRIMES AS BLACKS SOOOO..THIS IS DUMB
    Black women you are not smart for dating and mating with black men! YOU ARE NOT SMART FOR POSTING SUCH A PEJORATIVE STATEMENT GENERALIZING A WHOLE RACE OF MEN...

    Then when they're shot by cops, they expect us to March for them. Most black men are just like Stephon Clarke...Black Men HATE Black Women! Stop supporting their asses.

    PLEASE GET HELP.

  • mona q

    I wonder what men you date...that you think are golden.

  • mona q

    IT'S CLEAR THAT THIS IS A TROLL...nobody is this bitter and ignorant. Most likely white. If not, a self-hating woman.

  • Yardgirl

    Welcome!! ??????

  • itsjismemelly

    this is so sad

  • millz

    I travel solo a lot if I go anywhere I need a drivers license I take a picture and I send it to my mom I even tell someone at the front desk I’m traveling alone so that even if something happens someone will know

  • mona q

    I saw this on the news and actually many news sites. I think this is dangerous. At the very least a few family members need to know and meet who you are dating - even if casually. They need to know name, address, etc...for safety sake.

  • mona q

    True...but my family sends location info whenever we are doing something out of the ordinary or in a different area than we usually do.

  • Guest©

    Lol, it's for everybody.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Like really. Being an ignorant headache

  • the guest

    Women have to let at least someone know where they are. Even longtime boyfriends flip out. Women have to be safe in these crazy times. Even on the honeymoon cruise end up overboard. Crazy crazy people today. I’m so sad her family has no info on this murderer. Thank goodness they at least have video surveillance tape.

  • the guest

    Amen.

  • the guest

    Not qualifying to meet the family. I mean a simple introduction, shake hands, not necessarily have over for dinner or family function. I just feel especially as tight as her family sounds, that man should have least met someone. It would NOT change his being psychopathic but her family would know his description and a lot can be gleaned from 2 min small talk in an introduction.

    Uber has an add on where you can connect your account with a third party who can track your whereabouts for safety purposes.

  • the guest

    Exactly. These are crazy times.

  • the guest

    Please do this project! It is so needed. Every other day a tragedy like this is in the news.

  • the guest

    AMEN

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    Hilarious!

  • the guest

    I feel the same way for sons. There are devious and dangerous women in the world. Bet no one thought petite Jodi Arias could overpower, torture, and kill a full grown muscular man. But she did.

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    Of course child support. Black men are more comfortable with being "fathers" before husbands. SMH. No wonder so many single mothers exist in our community. It's problematic!

  • the guest

    I mean for a woman to live in a city with no family nearby is vulnerable. It’s good to have relatives in the same city. But there are many women on their own without family nearby and thriving.

  • the guest

    And her family doesn’t know even his first name.

  • bella28498 .

    Most likely her boyfriend was married and she was pregnant.

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    I spoke the truth! If truth is divisive and aggressive, blame the ones committing the acts. BM are to blame, not me. If they treated us well, there wouldn't be any divisive and "aggressive" statements to make in the 1st place. I'm not making up any of what I said.

  • BlackMenHATEBlackWomen

    Of course he was

  • mona q

    It’s clear this person is bitter, jaded and welcomes negativity but blames others. I’ve blocked this clown. I don’t care what it’s opinions are on black men. Because they’re just that. OPINIONS. NOT FACTS. THEIR LIMITED PERSPECTIVE of them.

  • ConjureBae

    Yeah. Other races of men do kill.

    But statistically, Black men kill Black women almost 4 times more than White men kill White women.

    Also...why do we care what White men are doing? Are they your moral barometer?

  • ConjureBae

    Statistically?

    He probably is.

  • guest

    I bet he was married

  • Stationarity

    It’s easy to generalized and intellectually lazy.

  • Strappyheels

    Just Evil!!!

  • Strappyheels

    This is True!!! I cannot tell you how many times a ranting and raving black lunatic has verbally accosted me.. Do not get me started on sexualization.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Bet this ninja was a bum ass Negroe and she lowered her standards to be with him...

  • Wayup!

    Listen for IF I do date a black man.. He got his own business..
    I find that most chicks in her profession date down...
    He ain't got nothing to be jealous of if he has his own....

  • laidbackgal4real

    RIP to that beautiful woman ?

  • Sha

    Someone did not get any sleep ????

  • Sha

    Time for your nap, it's 12 o'clock

  • Sha

    You hungry? What's wrong. Smile you are on candid camera??????

  • Solstice

    ???? Not funny but funny!! ??

  • Kimberly King

    RIP ! Beautiful !!

  • PynkCloudz

    This pisses me off. So many educated successful black women and up w/ low life scum.

  • Yashara Bat Orion

    Bahahahahaw!

  • Yashara Bat Orion

    I’d sure like to know where those statistics come from?

  • the watcher

    so are you saying that men who have their own business don't commit crimes? i don't know this dude and think he should be put in prison. but who's to say that she was dating down?