The Internet is buzzing that soon-to-be divorced actress La La Anthony dissed her cheating husband, Carmelo Anthony while onstage at the Essence Music Festival in New Orleans.
La La, whose humble beginnings includes a stint as a radio station DJ here in Atlanta, allegedly alluded to her estranged husband cheating on her.
The crowd of mostly single ladies roared when La La said, “All my ladies who don’t give a f^%# about a nigga make some noise!”
The 40-year-old single mother added: “This next song is going out to all my independent ladies who don’t need a nigga for sh-t!”
The song she introduced was “Act Up” by City Girls, which starts off with the lyrics:
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Real ass b-tch, give a f–k ’bout a nigga
Big Birkin bag, hold five, six figures
Stripes on my ass so he call this pu$$y Tigger
F–kin’ on a scammin’ ass, rich ass nigga
As you know, Carmelo, 35, was caught slipping with another woman on a yacht off the coast of southern France 2 weeks ago.
I would post those yacht photos again, but someone purchased the rights to all of the yacht photos, effectively halting future sales of the damning photos.
Sandrarose.com was specifically ordered not to post anymore of the embarrassing yacht photos in any future posts (including this post) – under threat of a copyright lawsuit.
As your auntie told you before the news broke, La La visited with her attorneys to execute her exit strategy from her failed marriage. Allegedly, La La and Carmelo never got back together after ‘Melo accidentally fathered a daughter during a one night stand in 2017.
And, allegedly, La La and Carmelo had an agreement not to embarrass each other in public. Allegedly, La La threatened to file for divorce if he was caught creeping in public, or if he fathered another outside child without La La’s permission.
Before you ask, yes that’s La La’s openly butch lesbian “cousin” Dice Dixon standing next to her in the photo. The 2 ladies have been inseparable for years.
Question: Ladies, would you stay married to a cheating man for the sake of your child(ren)? Would your cheating husband drive you into the arms of another woman?
Photos by Raymond Hall/GC Images, Johnny Nunez/WireImage
Why she at the Essence Music Fest? She ain’t DOWN with Black Women only when it’s Convenient for her BRAND. Those “GREEN SHORTS” should be buried somewhere, it shows OFF her FAKE AZZ, literally. #GoSomewhereBytch
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Question: Ladies, would you stay married to a cheating man for the sake of your child(ren)? Would your cheating husband drive you into the arms of another woman?
No and no.
La La please don’t wear shorts any more so we won’t see how misshapen your body is.
Please get with a trainer asap so he can help build up your calves and trim down your midsection and upper leg.
Signed,
Concerned Citizen
Question: Ladies, would you stay married to a cheating man for the sake of your child(ren)? No
Would your cheating husband drive you into the arms of another woman?I love dick. A lot.
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A toast! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/1df344acfac9be6fdeaf73e44ffea5539604b68d265f99886e2149ae590e7f49.gif
I’ll drink to that!?
Acting like a 3 for a dollar chicken wings BIRD. Can one of yall explain to me how yall let ninjas cheat and have babies on you and still act like you couldnt care any less about him? You sound so stupid when you take back a dog and then talk about you dgaf about a ninja bish you lie. I dont gaf about men at all so much so that i stopped dating. Fine men on ig women thirst on are in my dms getring blocked left and right. I take offense at you long suffering babymamas wives and 10 years girlfriends acting like you actually have self esteem when all the evidence point to the contrary. Sit your « this is real love » estupida @$s down! Yall get on my mf nerves! Youre part of the reason why men dont take us seriously. Empty threats head as$es.
Ive never been in that situation,sew I really cannot say… different strokes for different folks….however I dew know some wimmen take byke their cheating huzbin everyday.
This is La La, she stayed for the outside baby. She might as well stay for the yacht chick.
Hell no to both question sandra. And unlike some loud mouth soft bark heaux ( beyonce cardi b lala tiny and em) i mean it.
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Good Morning Roses, I hope everyone had a great and blessed Holiday weekend. I did two shout out on my Instagram page on yesterday. I posted all the food that we cooked. You can check it out at fe_i
She was working, Being an announcer/DJ/VJ and hosting parties is actually what paid her bills for a long time. And the DJ/announcing aspect is what her degree is in. Who is she bothering by working?
Moanin Vegas?
Omg I didn’t get an invite!
Smh at Lala and those ugally asz sneakers
She’s bad built.
Dont talk about him Lala. Leave him or keep your mouth shut, continue to collect those coins and live your best life.
I dont think its fair to tell any woman when to end her marriage based off of what YOU would/would not do. To each. People stay for diff. reasons. I have a girlfriend right now who is legit staying with her husband for health benefits for herself and her children. She lost her job, went back to school, and found out he was cheating. She was told by him you leave and Im cutting everyone off and good luck with them braces on yall teeth. She can take him for child support and they can order him to pay for the kids health care but that takes YEARS here. She can quit school and go get a full time job with benefits, but it was hard af to get into her curr. as it WAS and she had to wait 18 months to even get in. I told her I understand. Bc I do.
I don’t understand why La La(whom I use to listen to mid afternoon on 92.3 The beat and kinda worked with in “Soul Plane) is getting so much hate. Am I missing something?
She lying…she definitely give a fuck.
From my perspective she’s staying until her son graduates from high school.
+ 1
Please don’t say, “bad built” and make me have memories of my dearly departed grandmother, Maybell. That’s too much.
You can see it in her eyes in that pic up top she’s been crying and hasn’t been sleeping…talk all that mess you want but the City Girls aint the City Girls with one being knocked up and the other locked up…Meg’s driving the boat this Summer…
You could be correct. She might as well collect the $1m every time he cheats.
Good Morning Alex…That earthquake was felt all the way here.
Lmao at one in jail and one pregnant ???
I’m so sorry. I hope that you enjoy the pics of all the food. All the BBQ is gone. I think it 2 pieces of chicken and a piece of tri-tip and that’s all. We have some crab left over from last night.
I don’t either. I think a lot of people don’t like to see themselves represented in front of the world and tend to hate that which reminds them of their own inability to act. Most women, regardless of how they present for the internet, have cursed their man out, put his a$$ out, tore up his $hit, cussed his mammy out… but let him come back. Maybe they expect more of Lala.
I got a friend who’s so desperate to marry this no good ninja, she has anxiety every day. She begs him to marry her, but he just whispers little sweet nothings in her ear and reels her back in. She knows that he cheats, she has all kinds of proof but is so determined to be the one he chooses. She has just lowered every ounce of dignity she has. I talk to her and have been straight up with her on how she is portraying herself for this no good ninja
Errythang looks ???
Well dámn!! LMAOOOOO ???
A monsoon done came through the DMV this morning. Flash floods, more than 4 in of rain in an hour.
Lala just gon somewhere and sitcho asz down. continue tew relish in the “gifts” yo huzbin gave yew
Right!
LaLa that green fit ain’t it!
Were you all together or separated?
What was all the hoopla about the baby girl not coming around, y’all weren’t living together?
I know it hurts sis, but I learned somethings you gotta keep to yourself, you might take him back next month.
WoW! Be safe
Honestly my mom did it. Married my dad knew about his crazy infidelity and stayed for 20 years. Sister Mary got his retirement, alimony, and etc. She told me after their divorce not to tell her anything about my daddy unless he dead so she can get her check. I may not like it but as a young woman myself I try to understand it.
Wow?…chiiile stay safe
I think women like her need couseling. Its something internally wrong with them to feel like they have to subject themselves to this. I wont tell you to leave but damn if I wont tell you to SEEK DAMN HELP
The situation GRN broke down and this are two diff scenarios, the wife in GRN knows what the deal is who she married to and why she is staying. The situation you describe sounds like self delusion imo.
Its hard to understand. And I actually ended my own marriage to my own no good ass ex husband. So for me to be like girl its okay if you choose your marriage is NOT the norm. Normally divorced women be like girl RUN lmaooo. I just feel like everyone has to make that decision for themselves. Marriage hard enough without outside influences all up in your ear.
It’s always easy for people to say what they would do when they are on the outside looking in. In reality, you don’t know WHAT you would do. When you have feelings involved, kids, obligations, that’s a whole new ballgame.
I’m confused at this body in the neon green short set. She looked fire when she was with Kim. Once you use Photoshop like that you have to keep it up. Don’t play yourself.
I cant stand when someone waste my time but when they beg for you to give them a second chance and all they do is waste even more of your time, is a travesty. It can make you stabby.
Thanks you in the house… they had to do water rescues and everything, cars flooded out etc. I knew I was working from home today.
Thanks, At home where I am going to stay today.
Alla that “Dissin” she doin doesn’t mean shidt…iono who she think she’s foolin
Changes EVERYTHING. Shit be sad.
I know, I was just speaking to how some women stay with no good men no matter what they do,just so they can have somebody . Married or not…
Just when I was about to ask “who is that dude standing beside her?”
I realize I don’t care ?????
Oh PUH-LEASE LaLa!… I think most of us already knew your marriage BEEN over yrs ago!… Like we haven’t seen you and Mello together in FOREVER!…I ain’t hard to put 2 and 2 together… Ain’t nobody stupid!!
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Self love goes a long way, in what you will not allow.
I’m over them
The lack there of goes a long way also.
So you refuse to date out of fear of looking like a bird?
No one. They just love to bash LALA and Ciara on this blog.
She forgot to get ankle implants when she got the butt and breast ones done.
This green outfit looks a straight mess! and put your damn tongue back in your mouth!
I dont eem like neither one of em. But hell let folks alone on how they make their money at least. SHEESH.
HAPPY MONDAY…Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday weekend…I am out tired of reading about other people broken relationships.
Shade… La La’s openly butch lesbian “cousin” Dice Dixon standing next to her in the photo.
BYE!!!
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Lol. That last part!
I refuse to date period.
Strictly dickly.
I’m a Sagittarius so I probably wouldn’t because we’re free spirits and not afraid to be alone. Plus we love hard but will ghost a person and not think twice.
You getting started early and I’m here for it?
Thank you.
Went to see the Ohio Players and they were FUNKY ?
La La’s body looks a mess in that neon green. No thank you.
I would forgive my husband if he messed up but I wouldn’t stay if he kept making the same mistake over and over again.
Everyone has their LIMIT, when I reached mine which took about 9yrs I filed for divorce. I’ll never tell another to do what I did because we all have our breaking point and for some divorce is not an option. I have many family members that constantly whine and complain about their spouses but do nothing. Me personally, I value my peace of mind far too much than to be in the situation I was in.
I don’t see anything wrong with her green outfit just because u are a celeb doesn’t mean u have to be dressed up all the time.
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I think what we’re referring to is her shape.
1. I’m not letting a cheating husband turn me from penis.lol.or run me into a woman’s arms. I’m contemplating even letting my mom/sisters console If the issue arises, since u said that way.
when u need so much photoshop and cosmetics to look like another woman in all ur publicity, you can trust you will learn about your husband’s yacht trips and sidekids with women who appear to be makeup free but gorgeous (on the outside, at least)… Blessings
2. This neon green………..what is this shxt? Some French a**hole put Monsieur Givenchy’s name in a Got d*mn Windbreaker. A gotda*mned #windbreaker.!
& finally, karma is a cute bxtch that ho for me lala
Im a Taurus. Our tendencies to be a straight up asshole at times, rubs folks the wrong way and we dont care if it does leave us alone in the end lmaooo.
I got nothing for Lala.. This is what she chose..
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THIS!
Leos are known for ghosting. Will see u in public n walk right pass u as if we never met. When l say wheres the beef l aint talking bout no wendy s hamburger. I am looking for wendells eggplant.?
I am dealing with this now…Met a great man but he’s been so jaded by women that he’s impossible to get along with..I dont ever wanna be that scorned in life to the point where I’m hissing at men when they even try to date me…
I agree. We’ve all been there. Men go through it too, although most women won’t believe it. That’s why I think it’s interesting that so many women attack other women who stay, particularly when most of them have stayed too. Either Lala hasn’t reached her fill point yet, or Lala has a plan. And the reality is that, without a prenup… let him continue to cheat in public – it works for her in the long run.
I think its because LaLa panders to the way the wind blows…she’s one of those “everything’s fine” chicks whose house is burning up around them but she dont care because she needs another photo op with her bestie “KK”…and the whole lack of acknowledgement of Melo’s other child is cringe worthy…oh and the minute he gets caught she taps back into her “black side” and references City Girls so she can be down…IDK maybe thats in the ball park…
So the question is have u been cursed out and put out b4 Carrington? How do men process this… I’m interested to know. Please enlighten us females on this blog.
I refused to be that person. They will make you bitter playing those games. I will not let a person punish me for the transgressions of their ex. I tell them quickly to go back to the bird that made,you insecure and waster her time.
“The way she’s always payin’ for a debt she never owes”
nope. children are not stupid. I’m not teaching my child growing up in such a household is acceptable.
Im trying not to be…the minute I get comfortable or think its gonna work I get the rug pulled out from under me so I’ve stopped trying…Im getting tired of getting to know people but I will never be bitter…Im just more disappointed in him because of his actions towards me…the biggest jerk I’ve ever met…
Really? Damn
That sounds like a sadistic person. People are so selfish and narcissistic now that I don’t bother once I see their true character is miserable. Life is too short to spend it playing mind games. The person you seek will come but you have to make sure you don’t let these miserable people ruin you first.
Im trying not too I just hate when you get a little hope then its just gone…
My condolences to you. Well, I’m knocking on “50.” I was trying to think of another way to say it, but that’s all I could think of?? That’s what they use to say back in the day, ” bad built or built like a booger.” Lol!! Sorry I gave you flashbacks:)
I know her FAKE Azz. But oh okay. She working. Instead of a BLACK Woman who is actually BLACK, not when it’s convenient.
Thanks! we enjoyed. The Fam was stuff like pigs….We really had a good time.
“…or if he fathered another outside child
without La La’s permission…”Lala will be ok, plus she won $68,000 at a casino in Nola over the weekend. Lucky heffa.
Lala likes the ladies. She is perfectly playing this so she gets all of sympathy and Melo is the perfect fodder.
Chile we’ve been waiting for that ALL GIRLS CLUB tea for years now but Sandra says LaLa has too much on her plate *side eye*
Chile she she cares if she didn’t she wouldn’t have to make an announcement that’s she doesn’t. Ladies and gentlemen it’s ok to be hurt and to feel sad when you were married or in a long term relationship and things end. Some Women try too hard to play tuff like a man and it’s not natural also you don’t have to hurry and get with the next man or woman to hide the hurt take time to heal and love yourself
He’s showing you what he is…believe him. Let him go so that the right one can take his place.
Ludacris wife and Gabrielle Union are the only two women that think their cheating ass making making husbands will remain faithful.
I wonder who bout the pics ???
Love the lime green 2 piece!
Nope and nope…
What kindness of question is this? We can’t control these men. Hell even Beyoncé who is smart, beautiful, and have her own coins is looking like a bird. Same with Halle. Smart bishes will be single, dumb bitches will be out here in the cluck parade and fudging with babies and stds. U do the math Gloria!!! Answer your own dumbazz question… ?
Please keep your tongue in your mouth, not cute at all. . Looking gross AF
If my husband messed up, I would forgive him partially and have me a man romancing me ots, I play the game right hunnie ??!!!! Be coming in the house with new jewelry and clothes and a huge smile. Him: Where did you get that from? Me: Why? ?
Dang! Lucky!
There have been reports that there’s a lime green Dodo bird on the loose at the Essence Festival. Zoo officials and security have been alerted and are on the move to recapture this crazy ass bug-eyed loon.
Thats right la! Boss up on em..your career is better today than before, u lookin spectacular! Forget that bum he cant even get a contract..
NO…I would never deal with a cheating ass man….and NO…I would NEVER stay because of the kids….I want to be an example to my children on what not to tolerate in a relationship as well as being independent……
She has a horrible shape!
Hey ?? Fellow Sagittarius ????
WELL HE DISSED HER ON THAT BOAT!
Whole 40 year old mother. Nice LaLa.
Stabby
No, and no.
No, and no.
Yep exactly. Remember when Tank sang I deserve…. Shoot
Yep exactly. Remember when Tank sang I deserve…. Shoot
Lala comes across as fake & opportunistic. Nothing about her “fame” feels authentic or genuine. Lala was a DJ, rapper, relationship expert (lol), reality star, makeup entrepreneur, fashion icon… and now she’s an actress lol. It just seems like she’s fame hungry and will do anything to get close to someone who has more fame than her (Kim K/Melo). Then, she’s basic in an average sort of way. So, I personally get offended when I have to hear about her fake ass. Lol ?????
But this isn’t his first or second time cheating on her.
Why does this surprise her now? https://media3.giphy.com/media/2JXpNjNChv1ss/giphy.gif
She should have done this when he told her about the baby he had with another woman.
I thought Essence music fest was about empowering women so that’s quite the introduction to come out to. I wish these celebs would deal with their grievances in private and not at music festivals. Stop ruining people’s summer with this ish because you had plenty of opportunity to leave his ass.?
No, I would never stay with a cheating man. No, I would never stay for the children. I don’t recommend that to anyone. That life isn’t a happy life at all.
Is Lala pregnant?
“ Lala was a DJ, rapper, relationship expert (lol), reality star, makeup entrepreneur, fashion icon…VEE-JAY and now she’s an actress“
That sounds like an ambitious successful black woman to me.
Yea that was a diss to him, but she ain’t going nowhere.
Where is the video of side piece’s family????
Lol #mood
“I really don’t though. I really don’t though”
Lala stfu. You sound stupid. Trying to make a buzz on stage. Don’t even sound convincing. There’s so much I could say about this chick but I won’t.
Ladies stop letting those married idiots tell you that you don’t need no man and how you’re independent. Black women are the least married in America. This whole independent/ strong thing have got to go. That’s why they treat us like crap and think we are masculine. It’s okay to not be strong. It’s okay to take a backseat and let a man do the work. It’s ok to act like you’re weak and ask for help.
What has the essence festival become?
Lol you equate success with failure? The only one that stuck was actress. She failed miserably at the others. And is only mildly successful in the current one.
Black Women are not married based on stereotypes. And non-black American men do not want to marry American Black Women. American Black Women have a negative connotation.
What about Beyonce!
Beyonce did!
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Exactly they run when we too strong. Sandra make a post about it!
Thank you. Tell Wendy and Lala.
Yes she married Carmelo and continues to let him embarrass her with his transgressions. Even if she is drama free he keeps bringing shame to her name and she stays.
Yea I like her she seems sweet but basic af
I sure do lol. My older cousin was playing it when I was a little girl and I was like oooohhh that’s wussup
They both too old for the nonsense its Embarrassing
I agree with you, the biggest drama LA LA has had is how many people dislike her! SOME people went in on her being called a “Black-tina ” until they saw her mom!
She’s made the most of her access to Hollywood, started working in high school at a radio station, so she always had career goals in the entertainment industry. You MUST reinvent yourself in almost any business, and in life as you EVOLVE, hopefully!
She makes her own money instead of collecting cp checks!
Her body is hers and I thinks she’s GORGEOUS, flawed body parts and all, like myself, and many other women!
Her cheating husband is not uncommon for us commoners or celebs (many women have stayed)! Hers is publicized because of celebrity and ZMT!
Failure is when you give up, and I know your standards of winning is quite different, but if La La is the face of failure, many would gladly take her lot in life!
No one said she’s the MOST successful, many reserve that honor for Oprah, but La La is having a pretty good career, in such a fickle business by my definition of success!
This is so true …married and agreeing with you. I think because we have to put on and we cant cry at work or anywhere else it just Carrie’s over into the home…..chile, black girl got to be strong at everything. Crazy!
I agree with most of what you posted except “Black women are the least married in America”… Please STOP believing these false statistics. They try to sell ppl on that as a means to further demean the Black woman and play on her self esteem, along with other demonic agendas. The Black Woman is the most adored woman on planet Earth AND the most married. PLEASE STOP BUYING INTO THESE SO CALLED STUDIES OF THE MEDIA . Why do we ALWAYS believe ppl when they use the words, statistics, study shows, or survey says? It’s crazy to me that we buy into the bullshit and hype and never question it. We just go around quoting this shit as facts. PLEASE STOP REGURGITATING THEIR BULLSHIT.
She’s way too old for this crap. I bet she wouldn’t have made that silly ghetto ass move at an event that was predominantly white people. This is a prime example that misery loves company and money don’t buy class. Because she’s broken, she wants all the other black women to denounce black men and join in with her broken spirit. Ladies, you need to be very leery of women like her. You can be happy in your relationship and her bad spirit comes along and convince you that you’re unhappy. Spirits and chants are real. They should’ve booed her ass and told her, “Don’t bring your family drama up in here. We’re grown women with class, not heart broken bitter girls. We paid money to have a good time, not join in on your misery. NOW GO SIT YOUR UNHAPPY, UNFULFILLED, WANT EVERYONE ELSE TO BE UNHAPPY, BAD ENERGY ASS DOWN SOMEWHERE”…
She still care cause she trying to prove too hard that she doesnt. Silence is golden.
She looks cute in that yellow.
Why did Laila and Trina fall out? I wanna know/