Rapper T.I.’s wife, Tameka “Tiny” Harris explained why she puts up with her husband’s constant cheating with groupies.
Although the 44-year-old mom-of-4 is just like any other wife whose husband steps out on her frequently, she chooses to stay with him because she believes the love they share is worth the sacrifice. Not to mention there are minor children involved.
In an interview with WGCI, Tiny said most of the women who are taunting her for staying with a cheating man have men who cheated on them, too.
“Most of those women that are talking about, ‘Oh you stayed with him after that,’ they still with a man that’s cheating probably everyday and they’re living probably the worst life, [and] have nothing to show,” she said.
Tiny acknowledged that men in the music industry have many options. But she said Love made her stay.
“I am ok. It’s not like you know, ‘I’m okay with you cheating’ but I know that in this industry it’s going to be tough to keep it all the way together. So you know, I feel like if it’s workable, if there’s still some love there, if we feel like this is what we wanna do, this is what we should do.”
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Oh really!
“And they have nothing to show for it” ie their husbands can’t buy them expensive “I’m going to keep fuggin this bish in your face” gifts so I’m in a better situation than you women that are judging me. *snickers*
She staying ’cause she need the MONEY $$$$, and her exposure in the media is more valuable when she is paired up with him.
Basically LOL
She seems like such a beautiful and nice spirit… people always take advantage of the decent black women. Dragging that black woman like that in front of everybody is gross. I expect nothing less from a dude that runs a strip club. She seems like she is doing any and everything she can. She changing herself at the Dr 90210 and everything so it has to take a toll on her self esteem but she seems like she is just NUMB! Wow..
I wonder if it works both ways….can she have a side piece, as long as she is discreet with hers?? Asking for a friend
She did Floyd….
Tiny said most of the women who are taunting her for staying with a cheating man have men who cheated on them, too.
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Thats a fact! I dont like delusional women who think their man doesnt cheat. Get your head out ur butts. All men cheat. So unless you’re gonna be/stay single what Im about to say doesnt apply to you. Better to be with a cheating man where you have something to show for and can live a comfortable life as far as that, than to do worse and deal with a broke ass man you have nothing to show for. I dig it. Just like Hillary Clinton when shit happened with that monica lewinsky shit. Better to be a wife of a President than the ex wife of one. Human nature,we judge others while we do the same shit. All who wanna criticize her for staying majority is staying with a broke ass bum
He probably would have left her ass. Men are more emotional than we are. He definitely wouldn’t have stayed. Wasn’t he all crazy over her and Floyd back then?
she stays because shes weak and insecure PERIODT
“So you know, I feel like if it’s workable, if there’s still some love there, if we feel like this is what we wanna do, this is what we should do.”
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That shat is code for “you know how we enjoy our three-ways — and I don’t mean conference calls — so if three-ways are what we want to do and he’s still down with it and I’m still down with it and he loves, I love.
Trick please. Go pick up your check from the Wizard of Oz. They mad that your munchkin ass walked out on them.——————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————-
Tiny and her illiterate husband couldn’t read their marriage vows so they improvised.
So, money over integrity?
i really want somebody to snatch her up and treat her right cuz Clifford ?? not gnna happen
She stay because she wants to stay.
That is it.
Lmao
Remember when T.I. went to prison? He put a bodyguard on her 24/7. Some people say that’s Love, others say it’s controlling.
So many people seem to have diarrhea of the mouth lately.
Well there you have it. In a nutshell Tiny saying “can’t no woman tell me to leave my husband especially a single woman” lol….I do not blame Tiny. She will leave when she get ready, if she ever gets ready. She know it is few options for her, she might as well stay with someone she knows and still love.
I feel like if it’s workable, if there’s still some love there, if we feel like this is what we wanna do, this is what we should do.”
^^^^^^^
Translation: We good over here. Im good. These kids are good. Do I like it? NO. But hell its worse shit that can happen in a marriage, bc this is not a deal breaker for us.
I was about to say that and you see how he keeps running up on Floyd because he knows she will let Floyd do her anytime.
Tiny stays because she is codependent ….. Periodt …. and do folks truly give AF I mean seriously ….. where ya singles Tiny ??? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/9e84bc4d00611b495c1364bd84a315136e324743c1a47420afc4ff0c97056390.gif
Ain’t nobody’s business. Do u Tiny
If he’s subsidizing her lifestyle and actively involved with the kids, then staying in separate homes is the key. Ladies, you can’t control men and expect them to stay monogamous…only worry about what you are getting out of it. If he was a broke ass ninja that’s one thing but her lifestyle is fully subsidized and he is actively involved in his kids life while he pays for her upgrades…it’s the groupies and their childish antics that make things messy
Basically…in a nut shell. People have different tolerance levels for different things, and usually circumstances determine one’s tolerance. Imma keep it ONE HUNDRED, yall know staying with cheating azz regular degular Leroy who work at Lenovo making 50,000 a year, is different than staying with Larrry that is worth 50 million. Now the STD’s and AIDS you may encounter etc. maybe the SAME, but HEY, some folks look at that as risk versus reward. So imma let Tiny and dem be, chile……she has let it be known on MULTIPLE occasions where she stands on T.I and his friendly, social butterfly, welcoming HOA penis….LOL.
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We don’t care at this point Tiny we know your staying put…
I had a child by a cheater that I loved and every time he would cheat, here comes another gift….I’m sorry but that did not make me happy, in fact, it made me fall out of love because to me, in a relationship, quality does not mean how many gifts he can buy or how much money he has. I’m all for forgiving and giving u another chance but if you can’t find self control, imma need to throw out the trash…sorry Tiny u can do better.
TI annoys me. This ninja’s always trying to “encourage the youth” and make it seem like he’s such an advocate for black folk, but he cant stop cheating on his own wife. He need to get his own house in order, then maybe he’ll have more credibility trying to tell other people how to do the right thing.
But would he feel the same way if she cheated? He just seem reckless at times. I know it’s got to be hard as a black man in the music industry to keep it all the way together but he can at least stay respectful of his wife
What was your breaking point?
PeriodT!!
Tiny, do not let your loyalty become slavery, do not cross an ocean for a man who wouldn’t jump over a puddle of water for you. Loves has nothing to do with this because I am convinced he does not love you. He tolerates you! You are the bottom bish who will put with anything but somehow you are mistaken that for love. This woman is setting a poor example for her kids, the boys will cheat and the girls will get cheated on and they will stay because that’s what they were taught to do. Just own ur shit and say u stay because you have low self esteem and thinks nobody would want you because people always clowning your looks. And you also stay because you can’t deal with the thought of him being with someone else openly.
He cheated on me 3x in one week.
or divorce her…
Dam smh with 3 different women or just three different times?
With the same person or 3 people, and how did you find out?
Lol same thing I was wondering
These women are pathetic. Out here eating cootchie and whatnot just to stay with this degenerates that call themselves men. Tiny is a fool.
I cannot stand this Pootie Tang arse nigga either.
lol I read urs right after posting mines.
What’s wrong with eating cootchie?
You know you hit rock bottom when you blame everyone else for husband cheating on you.
Complete strangers should never care more about your well being than your spouse or you.
Sounds like he was an addict
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I think she saying Tiny really doesn’t like woman she was just wanting to please her man by doing it.
she admitted what most women wont, let’s be honest.
Going to strip clubs and acting like one of the fellows just to soothe his ego
Chile… Umm… You mean what is wrong with Women eating coochie or men eating coochie?
With 2 different women….his sister in law and I were close and she would let me know because he would bring them over to her Mother’s house and I was so use to him cheating that I would call the hotel I knew he would frequent and Bingo! It was a mess.
That’s sexiest smh eating cootchie is for everyone
LMAO Ikr!!!
Sandy stop. Those african replacement eyes in the first photo is killing me.??
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This is the reason why women like Nicole Murphy exist because women like Tiny. HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU IF HE’S DESTROYING YOU! RUN FOOL RUN!
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I don’t think either one is a problem
Tiny we know your and TIP have an open marriage arrangement. Where he shares and slangs his peen amongst the community and you have to be faithful and monogamous to TIP. Since they say you sleep with every person your partner has been with then you are racking up quite a number of smashes too. So I guess in a sense you are “getting yours too?” If you like it I love it.
Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding!!! I been saying this for yrs now and it’s why I can’t support him. He was real quick to run up on that young man for wearing Gucci a while back but never approached Young Thug, Kodak or Future. Not to mention, he constantly speaks on things other ppl do but as soon as someone speaks on his marriage then all of a sudden it’s none of their business. Maaaaaaan Clifford is a clown!!!
CooTchie. Never seen it spelled/pronounced like that. I like it tho.
Naw he was a ho. Plain n simple. Tiger came up with that mess when he got caught.
Underrated comment
It’s very VERY wrong for women to eat other women’s cootchies, imo. That’s a friggin HELL NO for me!
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And you gather all that information on how she think and feel from who????? Just asking because from the way you’re talking, you talking like you know them personally. I’m just saying. Pull your feelings out! Its their relationship. What works for her/ them is for them not you. What they do in their marriage should not have you in your feelings. You don’t know what she think….sooo ummmm, SHHHHH! And to throw in that comment about her looks…Stop It, not a good look, grow up. If she do have low esteem ( clearly she dont because regardless what yall say about Tiny….she SLAY in every “Fit” “Shoes” and “Do”) you do not make it no better as a human. Level Up babes…them days off coming for somebody who don’t even know you are played out and wack AF. Continue to type….no one really cares. You just sound like a hater. Calm Down and doing somthing that brings some Love, Peace because you being extra like you know them!
He definitely has character flaws
Her damn life play no significance in mines …. … Tiny take her vows very serious .. so Tip needs to have that same attitude… but he looks like that type … that do him and if you try to do you .. he slapping the hell out of you ..Tiny can separate herself .. but she better not get into a side dude … Tip will not take that lightly.
Now I love me some Tameka Cottle, but that has to be the dumbest shish I ever heard in my life! She sounds like a little girl, which sometimes that is how she dresses too. I can understand how we maintain low self esteem and stay with these ninjas. I could not. I remember when I found out I was the other woman, ninja could not find me not even in the daytime with a flashlight. Maybe because my experience with that was a very dangerous and I think God for covering me because I was young, naive, and unaware.
But my baby love, you don’t have to stay and put up with that. I don’t know why she wants that. TI is not her husband, he acts like her father and she acts like a child. I have no respect for either one of them. They are bad examples for society and their children. I don’t judge the way people live their lives, to each their own, but don’t complain when you publicize things that you don’t want the world to comment on.
If Love decided he wanted another woman or man, he could. He just can’t have me too. I don’t play that mess. I don’t do the sharing because some of these people aren’t clean and even if they were I still wouldn’t. If this is what floats their boat, so be it. Tameka Cottle deserves better. She has earned her place in the industry and she deserves real love.
But the question is… WHY do women tolerate what they dont HAVE to?
Whether the dude is married or not.. NO woman should to stay with a cheating man! The kids shouldn’t have to live in that type of environment because they grow up to disrespect women just like their sorry a$$ daddy! If the roles were reversed, that man would be GONE???
How did you catch him? You actually walked in on him?
I was hoping she would’ve taken a grown azz woman route with her response. We work on our marriage and talk it out and find that forgiveness and love is still here. Stop giving him the green lights Tiny. She is so sweet but a pushover.
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No judgment from me. What’s understood needs no explanation anyhoo
If you think that all (or most) men cheat it becomes something you just accept. I don’t agree or disagree I just understand
Good Lord, you did the right thing.
I won’t pretend like I like mayonnaise to please a man I damn sure won’t pretend to like snatch to impress a man. My man knows not to take me to a strip club because I have stripper “get that bag” mentality. I will see all the ballers throwing around goodt money$$$ and my nigga would go home single with a hard dxck. Tiny was a fool because I would have been team Mayweather with them big contracts Floyd gets. Why settle for the TIP when you can get the whole iceberg.
Wow that is cold. My hat goes off to you.
Yup. It almost seems like she’s not all that mad at his cheating at this point, but she’s more mad that so many people know about it, since TI hasn’t been very discreet with it.
There is a lot more women then men. Technically some women are going to have to tolerate it
She couldn’t even play the Money May game right. I would’ve let TI sweat for a while. Floyd would’ve dumped her or messed over her too.
It’s HER life and HER marriage. Everyone has different deal breakers. She’s right when she talks about ppl judging her. I had a friend (now ex friend) that talked about everybody’s relationship but come to find out her husband was into prostitutes. She made sure to try and keep that info on the low. Hypocrites are the worst!!
????? Tiny needs 2 be ashamed to accept crap from the same man she helped make a come up! ?????
Oh ok… I KNOW it has caused MANY a problems in PLENTY of relationships BUT https://media0.giphy.com/media/ZFQlKpsFdtvDsm7oRn/giphy.gif
She is the one ON A PUBLIC PLATFORM TALKING ABOUT HER MARRIAGE! Not me!! My man keeps his dyck for me I don’t have to do 3somes and get surgery to keep his attention, So I am certainly not in my feelings because Idgaf, I actually feel sorry for her and anyone who can read and can see knows this woman has low self esteem, I am just commenting on post just like you are. If anyone is in their feelings its you because you sound hella angry and that only tells me that you have been cheated on too. Maybe you can take my advice I left above. Love yourself first before you love any man.
Look Tiny DON’T NOBODY ELSE WANT YOU.. YOU ARE NOT THE CATS MEOW! YOU DONE DISTORTED YOUR LIL BODY which is scary to normal guys, you done lick the twats of MANY..YOUR MANS GOT THEN HERPES SORE which you probably break out with. Down befor like all lill white girls do…AND TIP with the Herpes LIP hanging on in there cause it’s cheaper to keep her! So I’ll see you next on the Lil Woman Reality show giving tips on how NOT TO BE SO DAYUM STOOOOPID!
Well said! Doing the most for a man who doesn’t really respect you. Can you even love someone you don’t respect??
Periodt! Codependency in a relationship will always have a shyt show …. and she will always be drained … it binds you into world of disease … extra babies… abuse of all kinds…. sexual attachments that keep you bound … it destroys basically … a lot of women like to be destroyed internally because on the outside at least I got a new car …. Tiny has the maturity of 10 year being abused… long as she get some money or a gift to hide da bruise she thinks she good …. problem is …. she is also destroying others … just like Tip it goes both ways in toxic relationships ….. The abuser and the enabler = Destruction
Sandra, you thought we were gonna be surprised by that? Lol
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ALL of this sis, you the truth!!!!
No you’re staying because your entire existence revolves around this man for some damn reason. She could attract so much better once she releases this bs! Stop settling for materialistic shyt and get your aura in order
The first time I called the hotel and asked for him and he was there- 2nd time was at his in laws….the girl was peeking out the window with long airbrushed nails and he was trying to stop me from going in and the straw that broke the camel’s back was when I broke up with him and he said that I was not leaving him and he could come over to my place anytime he felt so I preceded to do the same the next day at his house and there she was, those long airbrushed nails peeking out the window. So, he left his cars unlocked and i kept opening the car door making the alarm come on so he would come out because of course, he’s not opening the door. So, I did what my evil side told me to do and I bust the window and he came out and gave me the beating of my life…my son was only 3 months at the time….I was able to drive myself to the hospital. I was very honest with the nurses and police about busting his window. The nurses and cops said, it doesn’t matter if I busted all his windows he should have called the police instead of jumping on me…I was in pretty bad shape but im thankful to God to have learned from it and live to teach my daughter what not to choose and put up with.
I wish she would STFU and stop putting it out every damn time he cheats then. If she likes it she needs to stop telling that shat to the public cause we are mugfuggin tide of the bullshat!
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Tiny! If you insist on doing these interview, hire a publicist to pre approve or go over the questions with you ..and practice your response
I luv ya!
Secondly, it’s apparent that you and your husband have an arrangement that works for you.. don’t place so much value on what other people think about you’re marriage. Everything don’t need a response!
Lmao now you just trollin
If I were Tiny I would have had a blast spending Mayweather money while the getting was good.
She’s sounds like a GOT DAMN FOOL!!! So basically because she has material things to show for all the ? he puts her through it’s okay? ? She sounds as stupid as she looks. And I hope she’s reading this!???
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Teeny,just hush! ???Please!!!
Can we go back to the days where we not so in people relationship, marriage and what they do in the bed. Whatever floats their boat should be good with everybody, damn!!! If she want to work things out with her husband, that her life. Okay, he did what he did, she did what she did…blah, blah, blah. Apparently, they have moved past it. Humans f*ck up a lot….so there is no room for change??? If she didn’t want to give up on her marriage, who the hell are we to judge? At least, they found some way to work it out and you never know…he might have work on some inner things and know better. All he can do for now, is to do better. Say what you want about him, he never fully walk away or turn his back on her.
Damn, how about we wonder and ask question about her career. Is she going to do another solo project? Will her and T.I do major collaboration? Is there anything she would really want to do outside of singing and songwriting. Lawwwddd, we stay worried about the wrong things!
Hahahah. Some folks like it and others like to have it done. ?
Damn sis, that’s horrible. You should have remembered to bring a knife cause you had to have known he was violent.
She know how stupid she sound cus she caught herself from fully saying it. She fumbled then started talking bout love.
I think she’s one of many women who believe that all men cheat.
I’on even know what to say…
I know a lady whose husband had three babies on her (with 3 different ladies) and she’s still with him. AND he’s still cheating on her.
This mess is happening all the time. I just DO NOT think it could be me!
I’m not putting my mouth on another woman’s cootchie…IDGAF how much I’m getting paid. I’m straight AF.
More power to her. Couldn’t be me.
That’s on Life! (in my Lil James voice)
TI said it worked for MLK….
LOL…y’all don’t kill me…I know how some of you cape for MLK.
As long as she does radio interviews about her marriage, and passive aggressive Instagram posts and songs about him cheating, people will stay up in their business. She should start saying “No comment” or change the subject to her music, business ventures, kids, etc.
He would lose his little a$$ mind if she cheated on him. You saw how he acted to Flyod
I remembered one of my aunts staying with her sorry husband for over 20 years. She claimed it was because of the kids begged her too? The man done slept with her sister (my youngest aunt) and had a son outside the marriage by another woman. I used to always tell myself I would never be like her. So miserable sleeping on the coach just to please the kids.? This is the same aunt that is quick to tell everyone’s business but tries to be hush about hers.?
Exactly
..the answer does not surprise me. I had a feeling it was going to be along the lines of her being in denial & being weak..but let me bring up other females who were cheated on & stayed, I’m not the only one..?
OMG! I hope you pressed charges and got him locked up for that so it can be on record for the next woman. I’m glad you made it out ok, God sometimes puts us through some tough lessons, at least you are able to be here to tell your story.
“Some love” at that! As long as there’s still some love there lol
Girl, just admit you don’t have the confidence to get anyone else, damn.
No babes…I am just wonder where are you getting all of this from. You perception on how she feels and think of herself its like she done came crying to you. You don’t know that woman from a can of paint but you swear she this and that.
I don’t care about your man keeping d1ck for you. Thats great sweetheart. You could have keep that unneeded information to yourself! Is he building something for/with you? Is he securing yall future?
And to fully let you know, I love myself day in and day out. Sh1t, I can be fully of myself at times….but your advice may serve somebody else who may need to hear it….I just don’t LOL. Continue to find that Peace and Love Doll Face…..or maybe your man need hit that thang because its a lot of tension I’m feeling from you…Calm Down!
AND THIS IS WHY I’m happily divorced and happily single…..not going out like that…
Well let’s see what happens when the side babies come.
Can we go back to the days where we not so in people relationship, marriage and what they do in the bed.
The only way to do that is to Cancel Social Media…this is the world we live in…this blog is the mere basis of why we’re all up in their business
Facebook/IG/ Twitter is PUBLIC…..BUT MFS STAY LYING!!!! Just because they have allow you in their homes does not mean 100% is legit. TV is a lie too hun if you have not notice. LOL
As one of my friends would say, she mines well stay with her baby daddy because she knows what to expect from him vs a new dude and that’s not a muthfuckin thang. lmao
She sounds like she is in high school. Just because other people are doing, I am going to do it too. Tameka is legendary and she should be setting trends, not following them
Lololol Sexual addiction is a real thing. It’s existed long before Tiger.
I know that’s right! Good for you!
Before the interview, I’m sure there are certain things they go over. She needs to start telling them that she will not comment on her marriage or personal life.
Why she put that off on the kids? I bet your cousins done grew up and say they don’t want a cheater either.
But she wasn’t on Facebook or Twitter she was giving an interview and these words came straight from her mouth. I personally don’t so social media its enough drama on here. But yes I am very aware of fake news or whatever yall call it.
She playing herself but whatever that is on her. I guess ?
I can relate. I have seen this happen too. I have told myself that I would not be that person either. God shows us other people’s lives sometimes so that we can learn from them
I’m sorry, but what is the “so much” she an attract exactly? 50-11 kids, a washed up recording career &…..she seems really nice though.
Sad that women have to settle for so little when they deserve better. And TI walk around being so critical of other women. Black women too when he so disrespectful to Tiny. Look what she did to herself to keep him. The love she talking bout not worth it. No one shld be deprived of being loved 100 % by someone theyre in a romantic relationship with.
Well, she right….just like Mrs. Clinton and just like Melania. There are some women who are too invested in the man to let a little cheating get in the way.
I understand wanting to make your own choices in regards to your relationship.
But this has never and could never be me.
Tiny, Lela Rochon, and LaLa should get together and start The First Fools Club.
His little ass mind ?????
He is disrespectful because the right woman hasn’t stepped up or he has passed her up. TI is a beast and he needs to be tamed. But he is insecure as a man, that’s why he feels he has to control Tiny. She is a little girl to him. A real woman would not put up with his shenanigans
Well, I hope for her that she would want to chat about more than her marriage issues, if there are issues. I mean, she still was Tiny before T.I came along. I think people forget that at times about her. “She not just his little wife”….( I’m sorry, “Bow Down by Beyonce hit me at that moment”. LOL
Chile they already have an All Girl’s Club that we’re still trying to get the tea on *looks at Sandrita*
In other words or actually her exact words she has something to show for her man cheating he buys her nice things and she don’t gotta worry about her bills being paid. Whereas you broke hoes ain’t got nothing but a wet ass and a pillow full of tears bills piling up and evictions notices meanwhile she good ????? Hey if she like it I love it. But women like this logic is flawed it suggests as long as he pay the bills he can have other women but I bet her eye will get dotted if she wanted to have another man and to me that’s wrong we both should be able to sample other ppl and come home with their essence on our loins because we still loooove each other ? so at night when he don’t come home you sitting there by yourself with your bills paid and your nice things but you can’t call peter or Paul to come scratch your itch you gotta sit there at home and wait your turn. Got it!
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Like so many other black women Tiny suffers from low self-esteem and unless and until she addresses that (if she even wants to do it) she will always be the doormat in any relationship.
If she wants to keep her marriage together, more power to her. I just hope she on that prep by truvada or whatever it’s called for the high risk folk.
Yes, he does fulfill and build with me I wouldn’t be with a man who doesn’t, I know my worth and I don’t waste my time with a man who can’t build with me and can’t be loyal to me, and please remember YOU came at me with the attitude first sweetie telling me to be quiet this and that, And I’m the one angry? lmao! again, I was making a comment because it’s my opinion and this little thing called freedom of speech! Not to mention we are on a BLOG!!! So if I brought up old memories for you I do apologize. I have been posting on here all day and you the only one jumping down my throat like I said something bad about the woman It’s plenty of disrespectful comments on here you could have lashed out at so maybe I said something someone has told you in the past and it triggered your feelings idk, but You need to relax its not that serious. Go and direct your anger to the appropriate party. I am done with this conversation.
I was just thinking about him. he was pissed!!!!!!
Chile u better say it
At least one is already here allegedly!!
Sweet Pea….I am not reading all of that. Whatever you just said….my day still going to fly by beautifully. I see my comments disturb you a little, I apologize if that make you feel better. May you day be fill with your own business to worry about. LOVE & PEACE is out there waiting for you
Trust me, I know. As a married woman, I say that all the time.
Um, Sunshine. I have nothing but non black friends and they ALL all allow you guys to cheat on them. Women IN GENERAL suffer from low self esteem often, just as you all suffer from low confidence and erectile dysfunction. Life is what it is. Ppl choose to do what they want for a variety of reasons. Most likely you’re a bot, so I’ll leave it there.
Right.
I hope I’m wrong, but I think they both already have it, and that’s the bond.
Men can dish it out but they can’t take it. A man will f’in kill you for looking at another man or getting a text message, all the while they’re doin your best friend! Men have very little emotional maturity, which is why they run around f’in doorknobs if they could. It’s very lower level behavior from an unevolved person. Anyone who runs around having sex or allowing their partner to do it freely has issues. Her rationale is a flawed as they come. There’s no price on self value. If she’s too short sided to make her own money and provide for herself, then they match perfectly. He likes to keep her around’ he’s as insecure as she is. However, they can do whatever they like. They can f the dog for all I care. I have nothing to say about ppl’s marriages like that. Do you.
Melania is a high priced hooker. She was bought. Hillary married for the partnership of it all. There’s no real relationship there. THey knew they could conquer together and got together to do it. Lela? I have no idea about her, but once you accept a side baby, all bets are off, unless you decide to be one big happy family. In addition, for those ladies who do threesomes and then get pissed when the guy chops down another woman w/o you, go figure?! You are permitting that and men have little gray areas when it comes to sex.
Well I guess this is a “to each its own” deal….cause I REFUSE to be with a man who cheats/disrespect me….PERIOD. I know my worth and my ego alone will not allow me to be treated with disrespect…..ESPECIALLY since I have children. You have to set an example for your kids….whats wrong is wrong. So Tiny…..do you girl….your cooch…your life…your dignity…..
my mother always taught me… A MAN WILL DO WHAT YOU ALLOW HIM TO DO……
I’m sorry, but that’s a pathetic excuse! I’m sure the thing about other women’s men cheating is certainly true, but their regular folk who can’t afford to split assets and pay for separate households and everything with their children. She can afford it! She just has plain low self esteem, and has more options then the rest of women in her situation!
There are women who stay with men who don’t even have a job.
I agree with her. Some of y’all staying with a cheater in a 2 bedroom! If you’re going to tolerate a cheater, tolerate the one who makes it possible for you to hang out with your girls and do nothing while you all compare Chanel bags and Convertibles.
Humph..
Isn’t it the BEST to have been married so you know what it’s like and then you decide it’s not for you? We are so led astray about marriage. 99% of ppl shouldn’t marry and our American men, no matter what race, are not mature enough for monogamous relationships. Our men are emotionally lost and brainwashed. We as their women are too lost and angry. WE have a lot of healing to do between us. I believe we love each other deeply but for men, they need to address how they perceived the “love” they rec’d from their mothers. We need to address the absence of love from our fathers. WE women need to apologize for the absence of love for our sons and men for the absence of love for their daughters. THen and only then will we stop blaming and cutting each other up. We’ll cry, evolve and start loving each other again. Anyone can date whoever they like. IJS we have healing to do.
???? bye
Also I feel like if that’s the arrangement you have with your partner then at least they can be discreet about it but then again you can’t because the other person may catch feelings and put the business out there.
Right! I forgot about that club. I hear LaLa is an honorary member.
Yeah material things aren’t going to cure an std or public embarrassment, but when there is zero real logic going on. Anything goes…
Dam smh sorry that happened to you but glad you removed yourself from that situation.
most of these men in the industry cheat. for years ppl thought jay and bey had this perfect on perfect relationship. u think he cheated once? she didn’t make ring the alarm for nothing and plenty of her die hard fans love it and she’s saying the exact same thing in that song that tiny is saying in this interview. some women breaking points are different than others. some women look at things and have different priorities. its called individuality. some don’t even be hurt and some are complicit. u just never know.
Yep
Weak!
Tiny has changed her eye color, she went and got those HORRID ass shots, AND she’s allowed multiple threesomes with her husband …. and he still cheats. Time to cut them losses and move on.
Men claim sexual addiction. Women cant we r just whores.
See you’re exactly what I am talking about.
Emotional.
Instead of accepting my point you responded with emotion.
Let me clarify.
Unfortunately black women are usually left to rear children in our community alone which means that they are the only consistent role models that their sons and daughters see.
All of Tiny’s children are going to believe that what she and TI are doing is normal and they will repeat that in their relationships.
Instead of putting her foot down and separating herself from the drama she excepts the messiness that she calls a marriage and unfortunately her children will too in their future relationships.
But hey you got to insult me so I hope you feel better.
Sorry that happened to u! I have a lot of respect for women who will stand up for themselves even when its going to hurt, but u did the right thing! I have no respect for Tiny and other women that can easily leave and won’t because of their own insecurities, and are teaching their daughters to tolerate that BS!
So he just gets to eat all his cake, and a hall pass for life….smh…if she likes it who are we to judge…
Very true!
I also look at her fan base …would singing about her much older husband who is consistent, adores her and doesn’t cheat, be as relatable and hot to them?
Jay Z has had simple whores at his disposable for a long time, that can get old to a man who is seriously about his paper…the fact he didn’t marry one makes me think he is discerning & could be like some men who have learned to control their urges and are more strategic and purposeful with their romantic life since that could affect their finances in a major way.
The only reason I get why she’s staying is because I can understand that she will never love anyone else the same, ever. It’s a terrible feeling.
I know this … you pick a person becuase you WANT them but you can’t want her AND me too ..when you compromise your standards respect will be evasive ….. and that’s one to grow on
Yes, he gets to eat his cake while she sits at home and waits. This is why love is so dangerous, it can strangle you for life.
Sounds like she’s saying he’s allowed to have his Kate and Edith too!! And as long as she can join in on the fun it’s all good ??????
I’m cracking up at you. Shoot, Basically that’s what she said. Lol
in other words, “he rich so idc as long as im good.”
How she runs her marriage is how she runs her marriage.
So that’s what she’s telling herself. Oh okay?
Right. No woman should stay but a LOT will, and many more would stay than they are willing to admit. women can scream all day and night about this femisnt BS and women empowerment, but at the end of the day, if MANY were in tiny’s position MANY would stay too. ppl act like the sexes are the same but the reality is women and men are wired differently. women are wired emotionally and are naturally drawn to wealth and security. its easier to get over when a man is powerful with money and resources…men are ego driven and visual hence finding their woman cheating on them is a blow to their ego/they can drop an older woman for a younger woman with the drop of a hat. Women are born with their value, men build their value throughout their life. a lot of people today try to change this truth but these are the facts. is it sad that these women stay? yes, but the reality is the more things change, the more they will stay the same.
She just needs to find her look . She’s not ugly like people try to make it out to be ! You can tell she’s in a number stage and this is just her life
Hollywierd ?!!!l…they can have that life….she went through all them alterations and still aint loved completely..all that money …still broke inside…have a family and a husband..yet quietly miserable!! Celebrities lead the biggest fraudulent lifestyles ?….
She stays, because she’s insure and she doesn’t think she can do anything better.
I say do what’s best for YOU. At the end of the day, if that’s what YOU choose to take then take the consequences as well. I never understood why adults care so much about the choices other adults make ESPECIALLY if its not affecting them or a child?
She is satisfied with a 70/30 marriage. I’m sure no one would be able to convince her that she deserves better.
Lol Yep, in a nutshell that’s what she said.
Ain’t no amount of money or dang alang good enough for me to put up with such foolishness….
No woman should stay but a LOT will, and many more would stay than they are willing to admit. women can scream all day and night about this feminist BS and women empowerment, but at the end of the day, if MANY were in tiny’s position MANY would stay too. ppl act like the sexes are the same but the reality is women and men are wired differently. women are wired emotionally and are naturally drawn to wealth and security. its easier to get over when a man is powerful with money and resources…men are ego driven and visual hence finding their woman cheating on them is a blow to their ego/they can drop an older woman for a younger woman with the drop of a hat. Women are born with their value, men build their value throughout their life. a lot of people today try to change this truth but these are the facts. is it sad that these women stay? yes, but the reality is the more things change, the more they will stay the same. And the usual deal breaker for a lot of women is an outside baby, not the cheating itself smh.
raising fucknxggxs was just on my mind. It definitely starts at home w/the parents.
& Chanel was a bought and paid for girlfriend to whomever funded her brand’s startup , so the numerous women who choose to be bought with her bags is full circle.imo
something is going to change and he’s going to have holy hell to pay…thanks to the Laws of Karma https://media3.giphy.com/media/XHGd6ClgLgQDmKZ2Ga/giphy.gif
He a poverty pimp. He is tryn to make money off of those who feel downtrodden while he lives in McMansions, openly cheats on his wife and gets black security guards fired because they don’t let him in the gate at 3am when he drunk, belligerent and has no gate pass.
Marriage was never started for love and respect. It’s origins are slavery, exchange sex and children for money/economic assistance.
Truth!…He is doing the most…I dumped a dude for snoring too loud ….ain’t no way in hell I put up with this crap..
To me she deserves what she wants & it may not be 100% exactly how she imagined, but I am sure her pros are outweighing her cons. I believe they both have real love & respect for another & if they can find a way to make that work, kudos to them. For me & mine, no cheating & no abuse (no one should EVER be okay with abuse) are MY NO COMPROMISE rules, but then again my man only makes about $40,000 a year, not 4 million….and the money may be the deciding factor for her.
thank you. its hard to walk away from something u had for so many years. ppl have all these sayings and really don’t understand a marriage that lasts for 60+ yrs had some problems but back then ppl didn’t have social media that aired out the family business.
Part of what she’s saying is true. Many women stay with broke, cheating ass bums but they stay for the same reasons she stays, feelings of worthlessness. I was married for a long time, very successful, had my own money, a solid education and great career but I can’t handle the blatant disrespect from a man who decides to cheat on me. There’s something in my soul that says, I’m better than that and I had to divorce his ass. I believe Tiny stays with TI because she believes he’s the best she can do and that’s a shame.
The sad part about all of this is eventually, he’ll fall in love with someone much younger and Tiny will find herself at 55 or 60, alone and realizing she wasted so much of her life with someone who wasn’t really worth it. She is deceiving herself because it’s easier for her to believe he’ll eventually get it together then for her to develop the courage to leave him. I don’t know how she can deal with the tossing & turn, crying out her eyes and wondering if he’s coming home or who is he sleeping with tonight. I can’t do it.
Ladies, don’t waste your youth on a man who is unwilling to be totally committed to you, cause you can’t get that time back.
they just renewed their vows since the twins because of the cheating, he hasn’t learned to control nothing. that whole cheating reveal was to get in front of it and do damage control. a seriously private couple tells about cheating and still haven’t talked about the elevator. i think that incident lead to lemonade cuz ppl weren’t letting it go.
Her marriage her rules. I respect her.
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When he fucks her over the next time and worse then she’ll be boo hooing and looking for sympathy from the public for her pathetic decisions, she should be an example to her daughters that love is NOT enough if a man is willing to degrade you like that in public with no care for your physical or mental well-being.
NYTimes#1Bestseller …Repeat that for those that didn’t hear it in the back!
?..TI needs his az beat for being so trifflin ….
The origin of marriage is NOT slavery. Where are you getting your info from?
If she likes it, I love it. Her and T.I use to have sex with women together, they might still do. Whatever works for them. Not going to judge her or call her insecure over it. She knows what she is doing.
Raquel again all men cheat so unless you are going to stay single you have to choose the better pick. A man who cheats but is financially stablr and helps with the household and really the only flaw is cheating. Or a man who cheats whos broke, you beats your ass or waits for you to start your own business then hires someone to kill you. Like that other fool in the other post from a few days ago.
And that’s what the real difference is, we know everybody’s business these days because of smart phones and social media. I mean how many people would know that TI is seeing that girl from Green Leaf if they hadn’t been seen/filmed relaxing together? Folks have been taking their man back forever without nobody knowing he even messed around, before social media.
I personally feel bad for Tiny but I also know what it’s like to have nobody else compare to one man. It’s tough.
All the butt implants face surgery and etc and he still does not want you?
Right LMAO LOL
EXACTLY
BOOM!!! ?
you said it best “Whatever works for them”
couldn’t be my household.. but I don’t pay nary bill over there and I sleep very well at night so I wish her all the best with, that.
If love is there then why is he cheating in the first place? That’s her man but I’m so tired of folks making excuses for this type of mess. Monogamy is a choice and yes sometimes it’s a hard choice but it’s a choice you make because you love someone and you’ve made a commitment.
The best way to beat the odds, stop inserting yourself in a man life who doesn’t really want you, don’t like u, or may be using you. T.I was an upcoming rapper who used tiny money and clout for studio time and promotion.
He never wanted her. He used her.
Tiny is a good woman. If she accepts TI for who he is (a philanderer) then I don’t see a problem. It’s her life and her vag. Hope he wrapping that thing up or at least have side pieces that are faithful to him.
Exactly! Well said!
She my friend in my head, I just want the best for her. But Chile no way in hell I’m staying with a cheater. If my hubby cheats one time, or if I found out he cheated,-hey I’m realistic, I’m gone! Monogamy is a choice. Chose well.
Kate and Edith too?! Lol, good one!
Very true! Endangering her health is really what this is about but he already has done that. Damaging her self esteem, however, she also did that to herself too. Sad for Tiny.
Tiny is staying with TI for the same reasons Lala stays with Carmelo, insecurities. All the surgery, make up, threesomes and he still cheats? He never wanted you in the first place. Staying for the kids? Stop it, they see the pain & hurt their father inflicts on you, leave his ass!
A friend said he is a fierce protector of his D and wraps it up. Probably why he doesn’t have any outside kids.
Well rumor has it that he has herpes and an outside kid sooo…
However I want to believe what you have indicated.
Yessssss….. Stacey J….. U have expressed my same sentiments….. ??
Well said….. ??
what a nice D it is. Whew I still remember watching that thang flap around in his athletic attire.
He’s not going to stop cheating and she’s grown accustomed to it. It’s probably not a big deal to her anymore. She’s in a place emotionally where she can handle it. She just does not want to be publicly humiliated. As long as he keeps it behind closed doors she can live with it. She has gotten all that surgery to be more appealing to him and it wasn’t enough. As long as she has some love left for herself and she’s found a way to be happy then more power to her.
Wash. Rinse. Repeat.
I like Tiny I really do I just dont wanna read or hear her say shyt else when he getting to acting up again. Let this mean cheat in piece and just stfu. Now we know why u staying if it’s cool with u it’s cool with us ?
He had an outside kid Dasia was conceived while he was with Tiny.
Dajah was concieved when he was with his 1st bm. Her and Da’Money are the same age.
Girl bye! Your insecure. The public is going to talk about you because you put ALL your business out there on a tv show.
It must make her feel good to say all the women taunting her are getting cheated on as well. No dummy! We are getting loved and treated like queens regardless of wealth and we know our self worth. To have all that money and be so poor inside must be awful.
Tiny you sound insecure and ignorant and I feel sorry for you
Thank you
All of this
all of this
It’s hard to walk away when you don’t know what true happiness is or your worth.
When you know that you deserve peace of mind and that is the ultimate prize in life you will bounce once anything upsets your wellbeing and energy
Some of “y’all” ?? Please! That doesn’t excuse his demeaning behavior or her being insecure
Hmmmm,I wonder if Tiny will still be talking this same nonsense once T.I knocks up one of his side chicks?
Point me to the part in that comment that says, “… and that excuses her being insecure – thereby, his demeaning behavior”… I’ll be here when you get back.
I said, “SOME of you women who call her out are hypocrites because you stay with a man who ain’t bring $HIT to the table but good d*ck!” Which, in essence, is what Tiny said so, point me to the lie.
It’s easy to sit behind your keyboard and PRETEND that you’re righteous and cut and dry in the REAL world… but we know SOME OF YALL ain’t no different than Tiny – for much less.
If your standards are low you’ll always hit the low target. As long as she aims low, he’ll treat her low.
She’s settled. She thinks she can’t do better than him.
Naw hun I think you missed the point! Regardless of what some of “y’all” are doing the topic at hand is Tiny and what SHE deals with. Her deflecting or even you deflecting and assuming what others go thru has nothing to do with the topic which is why she deals with the emotionally abusive and manipulative husband she is married to. There may be people who are dealing with less than men and that’s on them but that doesn’t take away from the fact that SHE is insecure and being publicly humiliated. She put her life on a tv show and she is constantly being humiliated publicly so the discussion is about her. And it’s such a sad thing for her to say that others are dealing with it to means it’s ok?? Naw that’s ignorant thinking and she obviously has low self esteem or self love. Some of US value peace of mind and love ourselves to know what behaviors are acceptable in a relationship.
“she believes he’s the best she can do”
She’s prioritized the money & fame/the industry instead of a relationship where a man treats her well.
Truth hurts?
Women talking abt she need to leave him & she insecure need to talk with any older black women who is still married to a successful black man. Then go to a single older black woman who is alone. Both those women gonna tell you the same thing and it’s very similar to what Tiny said.
The topic at hand isn’t what YOU’VE decided the topic at hand is. Tiny said what the topic is and her justification for why she deals with what she deals with – and then, she addressed people who ALSO stay and work it out with cheaters, but get on the internet acting self righteous, “it could NEVER be me!”
YOU’ve diagnosed Tiny’s Self-worth as non existent. She could have a marriage that allows her to do what she chooses as well and simply chooses not to put herself in situations that get that information out. There has been speculation and insinuation on THIS site for years that she’s allowed to sleep with women. So, how do you know that she’s unbothered because she’s getting with as many women as he is and the difference is that when SHE’s seen with a woman people see her and her girlfriend but, when they see HIM with a woman they see him and his GIRLFRIEND.
Ti almost did with what’s her name HOOPZ … it was almost a wrapped in the Clifford household
Maybe! As long as it ain’t a dude! ?
Don’t think she even believes in herself
If I had options I’d be damned if I stayed with a cheater…either nobody wants her ass and she stayed bc of it or she must really love that man…
T.I., Antoine Fuqua, and a host of others will be served their karma, and it will be pitiful!!! I have no criticism for Tiny, it happens!
Just because a person allows themselves to be abused, doesn’t acquit the perpetrator!
Usually, it is through health and loss! Diddy broke Kim Porter’s heart in a million pieces, a million times, and today, who’s crying now? Imagine the guilt he feels every time he looks at their kids, holidays, etc.!
I’ve seen karma with an uncle and the side-chick he cheated with while my aunt was on her deathbed dying from cancer! Eventually married side-chick, he was older, got sick, had a stroke, lost everything, trifling side-chick didn’t pay the taxes on his multiple properties, went through his (and aunt’s) savings with her hood rat boyfriend!
But wait a minute, she had Asthma or some respiratory problem, had an attack, went for her oxygen machine or mask, and the dog had chewed the cord, and she died, real story!
Uncle was back with family (thriving), when his oldest son, next of kin, who we really didn’t know, lived out of state, came and got him because he had a fat pension and disability, and stuck him in a room, and he just withered away and died within months! Karma is real!
Damn that’s a story now
Oh I didn’t know TI had meat like that. With his short self
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Girl, I was ready for chapter two. Unfortunately the perpetrators rarely make Karma linkages because it typically it doesn’t come back the same way. But Karma is kind, smart and that bish is important. Watch out.
She a cancer, course there’s still love there. And she ain’t goin nowhere.
But Tiny has her own money and her own fame, why would she need his to feel whole?
Dumb
Ass
Disease??!
Cancers are cool af. I mean, the perfect mate. They dont really trip and they are consistent.
Yeah ok. A lot of those women stay for the benefit and to spite the women waiting to take her place. The man knows it’s cheaper to keep her lol.
Exactly. He hangs out because he feels obligated.
No you need marriage for spiritual growth actually…
The most stupid response.. if you knew your worth you wouldn’t allow it.. so sad!!
I think given her appearance and the fact that he is a handsome dude they came to an understanding years ago.
Their house, their business. World leaders have mistresses.
Seriously Tiny?… But like how many times can he cheat? Where do you draw the line??
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I don’t mind married folks business; however, oftentimes I see where men like this leave a woman like “this” for one who has standards or at least a backbone. Look at Mashonda! swizz was having outside babies, cheating etc and he left her for a woman who wasn’t gonna put up with any of that. I’m convinced the only public figures that DONT cheat are Grant Hill and Ty Young (Mimi Faust gf)
Tiny has constantly let this man demean her and manipulate her. It’s on their show. Scripted or not she allows herself to be publicly humiliated. She justified why she allows someone to abuse her emotionally and then went on to assume people who have an opinion have the same low self esteem. It’s obvious she has low self esteem. She herself has spoken about it. Hence the surgeries and allowing her husband to demean her. Again like I said regardless of whether she likes women and has girlfriends, the so called love of her life has embarrassed her publicly and instead of accepting that she is being abused she deflects. Any one with common sense or who understands human psychology can see that
Tiny is a super loving mother. She wants her family together, I understand where she is coming from.