Soul singer Melanie Fiona is pregnant with her first child. Congrats to Mel and her suspect boyfriend, Jared Cotter. Dating effeminate men is becoming mandatory due to the lack of emotionally available masculine men in the black community. Mel is doing the right thing by having a child now as opposed to waiting until she’s Beyonce’s age (38). God said to be fruitful and multiply. He didn’t say the man has to be straight.
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Auntie how dark is your sun glasses bcuz u stay throwing shade, lol!!! I ain’t gone lie when I saw Melanie boyfriend on American Idol, I thought he was a very nice looking g*y guy, I would have never thought he was straight and now to see him with her, kinda got me wondering do women know, or assume, or even care if their man could possible be into men or they just want a relationship so bad that they would overlook the signs that their man could be into men. Oh well I hope we are wrong in thinking that way and I hope he is a straight man and I hope he will continue to be good to her and I hope he will be a good father to their child.
Hey announcement was soooo adorable and she look so happy
Oh I had no idea he was a singer, I remember him hosting that show on Fuse.
I love/hate his hungry caterpillar eyebrows.
*edit* Is that a Real Techniques makeup brush?… YES I have two sets Lol
Dang. Always shading. Congrats to the couple though.
congrats to Mel! :blessings:
(but why errbody man gotta be “suspect”?)
u cant stay off Bey vag 1 day
as opposed to waiting until she’s Beyonce’s age (38).
^^^^
Doc just asked me yesterday if my baby factory was for sure closing…was like girl… you still able.
So there you go. I’m same age as Bey.?
He didn’t say the man has to be straight.
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Bwhahahaha!!!
I like me some Melanie …. congrats Mel
so did Lira fck Wiz boney asz or nah?? ?
Lol. 38…..absolutely
Suspect boyfriend ???
Lol exactly never no love from Sandra.
I love her. Congrats Mel! Be happy
Cause in Sandra’s eyes everybody’s gay smh
She looks different here
I’m 36 and…well…we’ll see…
Lmmfpao she stay on bey sh@#
God said to be fruitful and multiply. He didn’t say the man has to be straight. <—— SANDRA
Betwix some of the comments from the last post and the statement above…I'll assume this is Ain't Shit Friday
I wonder if Sandra considers effeminate men to be those guys who are modern minded who will cook an clean an are in touch with there emotions an actually pull they’re weight around the house not expecting they’re women to do everything. Most masculine guys are lousy communicators.
You would assume correctly
Dating effeminate men is becoming mandatory due to the lack of emotionally available masculine men in the black community.
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I’ll be single before I date an effeminate man.
I doubt I will be. But hell I CAN. I is able. My eggs not powder yet?
I’m happy for her …. I think she said she went through a lot heartbreak …. awwww new baby <3 and man
Congrats Melanie!!!
That last line tho. So shady???
Can we define “effeminate man” for the blogs use. What are the terms? lmao Meaning, is cooking effeminate? Scrubbing the tub? Housework in general? How about stay at home dads?
Congratulations Melanie ur a beautiful woman with a beautiful voice nothing but blessings to you and him. Sandra why you always so negative towards people and exactly what did Beyonce do to u for all the hate u have towards her? Uplift and support each other not bring each other down
If the husband has his way I will be…hell I might be…?
YYEEEAAAAA. Congrats!
Some women just don’t care I think and that’s sad if they don’t but oh well more power to ya
She claim she don’t know him
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God said to be fruitful and multiply. He didn’t say the man has to be straight.
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Lawd I’m so dead!
Yay! Another baby born out of wedlock!
Nothing to congratulate for sure yet…I could still surf the crimson wave this month…
Where @Bull at? These local fuggas was free for 43 mimutes. Got first alert at 10. Second alert that they was captured came at 10:43??
RALEIGH, N.C. — Two inmates who jumped out of a transport van in Raleigh on Friday morning have been captured. Sky 5 video showed the men in handcuffs sitting on the ground.
The men escaped around 10 a.m. near Western Boulevard. They were shackled together and wearing white T-shirts and white pants
Hmmm… effeminate men, I think are more feminine in their demeanor than masculine. Hand gestures, stance, walking, talking, etc…all tend to be feminine. Usually men that are raised in all female households with little to no significant exposure to masculine energy.
There’s a difference between effeminate and metrosexual IMO.
lol
Congratulations!!!????
Now, Sandra will shade Mel’s man but not Funkee Shimmneva who shades her and popped mad mess about her? Maybe there is a money transaction involved between the two.
We getting another blog baby?
I hadn’t even heard…
I told you, you’re babymaking cycle is every 10 years, so you know that uterus should be occupied right now. Gon and give Dub10 a little brother! LOL!
I’d rather have a b@stard with a queen as opposed to a thug. I’d rather my baby get hit with glitter bombs than bullets.
Shat came to my WRAL alerts. I think the fact bc two schools were closed/locked down during hunt for these fuggtards, triggered my alert. Athens Dr. HS and Combs Elem. I am WEAK at the damn timetable tho. 43 minutes???
I haven’t said anything…I’m waiting to see if he notices the delay and asks because I’m petty ???
I want a spinach wrap BRB
??
Are you late yet or is it too early to tell?
I tole her this same ee-zact thing! *grabs my cleo turban and faints*
hey you!
I swear I come on here for the shade… No one does it better….hahaha
well brang me something back too…. she selfish… :cries:
Dating effeminate men is becoming mandatory due to the lack of emotionally available masculine men in the black community……
God said to be fruitful and multiply. He didn’t say the man has to be straight………
welp it’s officially 11am – I can now place my call to Jimmy Johns
Congrats!
Who’s this cat? Hmmmm
#7????
You should try the Veggie one yo!
I couldn’t do it…. Lawd knows I could not!
I don’t know what to get (I really don’t have much appetite yet, thinking ’bout Glen)
Me either because I’ll talk real crazy to his effeminate azz. ?
Also they’re entitled bishazzes who want everything done for them and wont lift a finger to help someone else. Also in their feelings all the time, emotional tending to have tantrums when they don’t get their way. Gossip way more than any female and are super jealous of anyone with their stuff together male or female. They also get mad when informed they need to bring more than dack to the table.
WHALE YEW TAIL ME!

I wonder was Glen like that?
Jenny, was Glen a ladies mayne, or nah?
*adjusts my Glen sweatsocks*
Ross seemed so n love w Lira…he deleted all her pix off his IG…&& she postin sad breakup songs…im so curious lol
:woot: :woot: :woot:
*holds on to your neck* Don’t go CarolAnne
its creepy
Right! Be mushing him in his head and ish
Be jumping at him and ish!
Oh lawd the shade in this post has me freezing…..lol.
UNunclockable
#couldbe 
SMACK EM!
all these dudes effeminate today…keep telling yall it’s the food we eating messing these kids hormones up in the womb
Who’s Glen? You alright???
Look up what the Veggie one has one it sis.

You’d think that it’s regular
Provolone cheese feels like meat
Show some RESPECT with you speak about Glen, please
Awe ashy face back as your gravi? She been back and I’m late?
I don’t have a problem with stay at home dads. I like men that can cook & help around the house. In fact I don’t think I’ve ever had one that couldn’t cook. ?
Hollering???
I can’t see Esmeralda
I see ‘chill pill’
My daddy best cook I damn know. I’m talking elaborate gourmet ish. And can bake too. All my uncles as well.
Congrats and her beau is attractive
First its was DaQuan??? I got to catch up.
I see Chimney Sweep
I do believe that food is a big contributor to a lot of this mess. My kids have a 3 yr old little brother & he always asking for a hamburger or pizza. I get so mad & he’s not my kid.
One that excessively worries about his edges
Bwahaha
Nah. It’s these weak azz women and men raising these kids. That’s the problem… and no Jeusus. Everything is ok. You want to wear a dress? Cool. You want to paint your nails? Cool. Smh.
Oh noooooooooooo
daQuan has NOTHING on Glen!!!

JUST REMEMBER DAT! *bams desk*
With her Unclockable Love!
Unclockable Love = You Will Do AnyfugginThing To Show Your Love. #noboundaries
My homegirl is always dating these types of guys…sigh
Nah, I was just thinking… it’s gonna get byke cold tomorrow, so I’m prob gonna want to light the fye place *trails off*
NOW if SR comes in her blaming Single Moms Ahgane
WE is blaming you *points at you overdramatically*

But what is s making them wamna wear dresses and paint they nails in the first place. Just cause momma doin it? Ion thank so..there have always been single moms widowed moms moms with husbands that travelled nope something else in the water here literally. Hormones jacked up.. These kids 3 and 4 years old tom bout they the opposire sex to hey didnt get that from tv not yet
whet? oh they must got that goodt govmint cheese!
Get out of here with that gravie chile rofl …. you brought it back lmao
(Jenie nem gonna getchu!) *cackles*
My last two relationships the guys were excellent cooks. They were both single fathers as well.
ESMERALDAAAAAAA

I can see her now! You done cropped her up for a Close Up :crying1:
I’m gonna bring back the Veggie ingredients BRB
Tears…. I gotta go tinkle…
WHALE at least we keeping Glen’s memory alive!

What’re they doing?????
#shesgonnagetme
Well a man cannot react like a woman all the time to bad or stressful situations but some of them have only seen mothers and grandmothers under pressure so they get emotional with testosterone with disastrous results sometimes they need a man around to tell him to suck it up sometimes…you aint gotta react to everything that’s feminine
The shade…… Lmao
Did you say it FEELS like meat?
Why?!
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JIMMY JOHN’S #6 VEGETARIAN
Layers of provolone cheese separated by real avocado spread,
sliced cucumber, lettuce, tomato, and mayo. (Truly a gourmet sub not for vegetarians only….peace dude!)
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LOL From their website.
I add seasonings, and oil/vinegar
Agreed!
I will also add to it!
I think this social-media-age has them bitching UP by typing ALL of their thoughts down (like a girl).
AGree or nah?
It’s SOOOOO TASTY
Stuffs face with my spinach wrap and pickle
This cat looking like “yeah I did it!” then he probably snickers like the Pillsbury dough boy at himself
Agree and begging for attention. males used to didnt need all that validation if some girls thought they was cool and they had a circle of homeboys that was enough they didnt need strangers co signing their existence
What’s going on my Beautiful and Handsome SR Family?!!!!
I hope he aint thank he hit the jackpot or nothing,,melanie is an excellent singer but she is not sexy she will not be pulling big bank like that
I had to read this 3 times to comprehend the shade… But when I did… I HOLLERED!!!! LMBO
I wish I knew…I think she likes to control them or sees they have potential of being a “mans man”
Chile …. smh
I said “WELL DAMN ????” After every sentence in this post
Should I grab his cell, call this chick up
Start some shh, then hang up?
Or I should I be a lady?
Ooh, maybe ’cause I wanna have his babies?
Oh yeah, yeah
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My song! Congrats!
Poor thang! She wasting precious time on these “projects”
okay… I’m byke… Listen, Peaches, I need you to keep up! Glen is the ladies man from Dead Man Walking (and he is dead now, literally). The blog draped in black in honor of Glen… now get to mourning!
UNCLOCKABLE BLIND MAN POST!!!
Yes I think so too. But when it comes to me, I care
WHALE JUST SHOOT his Kevin Federline dreams down, why don’tcha!
I’m ever so slightly late…but it could be anything…there is still time for Aunt Flo to visit and I will not be mad if she does. She could hurry up though ?
*speaking through clenched teeth* It does!
I try to tell her that, but I leave it alone
it’s bad, Doc… Sandra tryna suggest errbody man is a potential TransJenner ?
Kids are curious by nature. There have always been little girls that wanted to pretend to be little boys and vice versa. The difference is now that we encourage it.
And they may not be getting it from TV but they are getting it from their parents. No lie… I was in Walmart… and the woman was telling her mom how she refused to buy her toddler anything pink because of blah blah blah. I honestly don’t remember her retarded azz reason. Like what?
Congrats to them.
you know I did it for you Jenie!
ROFL!
she said ‘hi ashy’
Hold the lettuce, add spinach and red onion.
Black men stay blaming black women for everything now the creator is turning you black men feminine. He turning white men feminine because they are evil. Deal with your ish.
Oh I LOVE prov…..specially when its SMOKED! My goodness!
I saw unsung with Chante Moore and when she was talking about her split from Kenny Lattimore, it looked like she tried as hard as she could not to say it didn’t work because he was gay. Stevie Wonder could see Kenny is gay, I wonder why she didn’t. Congrats to Fiona!
Bye Ashy <<<< Literally rofl https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/f7401c5bf619f9ce38706b897da4a3c8359ec19ff77abcd4460251ff9b1135b4.gif
Is that a makeup brush photoshopped into her hand? Was she just touching HIM up for the pic?
Yes I’ve always thought Kenny Lattimore was g*y too! I think a lot of women see a sign or two and they even think it but don’t want to believe it and accept it. But I’m with U, congratz to Fiona and her new baby to be
Sandra, so you’re admitting Beyonce actually had Blue Ivy? Say it ain’t so Sandra, say it ain’t so!
#dead
ROFL!!!!!
Lol been there and done that. It was OK…it would have been alright if he didn’t have a damn mental illness and couldn’t get right. Every thing that came out his mouth didn’t make sense or he would do the dumbest ish. That right there is the quickest way for me to talk ish to you. Just me give an intelligent man equal to my intelligence damn! I loved how he would cater to me and always ask how I was doing. Sex was good too, but I would ALWAYS have to initiate or else we was not f*cking. It had it’s pros and cons. If I could mix his sensitive, caring side into a more take charge, sensible/intelligent, non-mental illness man (lol) then he would be the perfect man.
Lordt!
Yup I dressed up like a boy and wanted to do what boys did from about 10-15. Then them hormones really kicked in and started dressing like a girl and noticing boys notice me lol. My mom thought I was gonna be gay or something she later told me in my early 20s…I’m like really mom lol.
So that mean she ain’t gon be up at 4 a.m no moe waiting for her local to come inside thinking he somewhere with a dancer ? Congrats girl with your fine self
The shade is real.lmao
Chile I don’t watch walking dead. See I have to keep updates on you. Next you will be telling me ole Ben Carson is kinda sexy?
He needs to spray paint that hairline…
Though.?
I’ve most def dated guys that I wish I could swap characteristics to have the perfect man.
Lol…hilarious
*whispers so Jenie won’t hear* (girl, we don’t watch it either)
He dated Trey Songz awhile ago lol…
Lmbo stop
that,s what she said about adam rodriquez, didn,t take pix together so ppl would not know they were an couple,and since he has,an child now its her turn.
LOL right! It’s just so overt at this point LOL ?
Stays in the mirror more than a woman does, whines about everything, does petty shyt & gossip more than women.
?I know one and you just described his bish ass to a tee..canNOT staaaand that mf ugh!!!!
???
…secretly competes with you on EVERYthang.
Dag, these women don’t have any self worth. Having a baby but not having a husband. Woman of today have totally lost their morals.
Hey Sun
*soft Jackson voice*
“That gravi is scary. You devil.”
lmaooooo…be like “Shutcho b*tchass up* MUSH
LMAO…Be like…take yo swishy arse in there and bake me some muffins…and used them pank muffin cups I bought you for your birthday. *TEARS*
VDot!!!!!!!
Hey Blue!
Have a great weekend!! *church hug*
Thx MzWhang!!! You too
And hurry the fudge up *jump*
End every statement with –> SAY SOMETHING *bites bottom lip and balls up fist* ???
lmao!!!! *kiss*
Congrats on the baby…that’s a blessing if the father is effeminate or not.
Yes, you are correct!
but what is wrong with waiting until you are older to have kids, sandra rose. some of us have been trying but cannot do it yet and if it takes me until i am 38 or even 45 what is the issue. that’s mean…..
She’s a survivor!!!
Yawls “Auntie” is one UGLY inside & especially Out pathetic beyotch who hates Attractive people, What’s so effeminate about this brother? Seek help UGLY ass “woman”
Because she’s a Ugly Unhappy ass person who loves to shade folks…Coochie licking Dyke
Lmmfpao you said it all and ur so right
Gurrrl these Coons kill me with all this auntie this & that shyt, cosigning this miserable BEYOTCH!
Beyonce, Barack..Sandra Rose is a Demon DYKE, no one will let IT lick their Asses so IT goes N on everyone…Bitch Bye
Yea why they call her auntie? Lol people on here scared to speak out against her for whatever reason but yes she is a very miserable person and you can see it clear as day just plain nasty and negative and her followers too
Bunch of miserable cult members, I like to read & hear about celebs But NOT to bash everyone as these freaks do, never understood how they even allowed this Thing to bash OUR Prez constantly..Is IT even a Citizen? I believe IT had to change it’s commenting format otherwise WE would not be able to speak as freely because IT could “ban” anyone who didn’t agree with IT.
I don’t understand it at all she doesn’t seem to like her own race at all and for her to be gay she sure doesn’t like other women especially black women. She’s only nice to Monica and that’s because Monica called her and set her straight on some stuff she was saying. But I guess she’s down with the cults just for this site and sells out her own people
They’re self loathing koolaide drankers..If this bitch is their “Auntie” just imagine what they Mama’s are like…nah mean? ANYONE calling this Troll Auntie is freaking delusional…Yawl can quit kissing her ass now…Quit HATING on each other, Ship this bitch back to the UK on the Queen Mary!
Oh I see.
What’s the name of that foundation that she uses? Ash Ivory?
YES! Extremely UGLY! ?
Even if Beyonce was “38” (as she claims). She’s still a damn good looking 38yr old; who looks a million times better than ms Harriet Tubman look a like. #ColdhardFACTS.
She is always nasty and negative cause she is UGLY as sin!
don’t hate on her ‘true match’ swagger!