Another gay black male has succumbed to MRSA/staph infection. Yesterday, celebrity hairdresser and makeup artist Dariel Pulliam, who starred in TV’s ‘What Chilli Wants 2,’ passed away after a brief illness. According to his family, he was hospitalized for 2 weeks with a staph infection in his lungs, which likely caused pneumonia. He was 29.
The family is asking for donations to help offset the funeral costs. If you would like to help, please call (410) 800-0379 or (443) 629-3008.
I am writing this post to educate my readers about this MRSA scourge in the gay community. All of us in the gay community know of at least one friend who has succumbed to MRSA infection.
Like Pneumocystis pneumonia was in the 80s and 90s, Methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus (MRSA) is rapidly becoming the #1 killer of people with HIV today.
Last year I wrote a detailed Medical Minute post about MRSA/ staph infections HERE. The reason I’m writing about this super bug again is to bring awareness to this scourge that is gaining a strong foothold in the black gay community.
As I wrote in my earlier post, those who are most at risk for MRSA infections are babies whose immune systems aren’t fully developed yet, the elderly and those with weakened immune systems, such as HIV/AIDS patients.
With the advance of anti-viral medications over the last 15 years, HIV/AIDS is no longer considered the early death sentence that it once was. But unfortunately, due to the increase in MRSA cases, the tide is turning in the black gay community. For black people living with HIV today, MRSA/staph will soon be the #1 killer.
The reason you don’t hear much about MRSA/staph in the news is because it’s mainly killing young black gay males who continue to engage in high risk sexual behavior without using protection.
Poverty, neglect and denial are reasons why the black community accounts for the highest cases of HIV/AIDS infections today. The mere suggestion that black gays “wrap it up” brings on animosity and resistance.
MRSA causes soft tissue infections, but it can also spread to the lungs (leading to pneumonia) or to the bones and heart valves. Most MRSA skin infections are harmless and resolve within days. The infection generally starts out as small red bumps or tiny blisters, boils or spider bites on the legs and arms.
In the mid 1980s, MRSA was a hospital based bacteria. The bug was able to spread from patient to patient because nurses and doctors did not wash their hands between patients. Over the last 20 years, MRSA has leaped from the hospital setting into the surrounding communities.
Most of us are now colonized with MRSA/staph. MRSA/staph is not a threat to most healthy people. MRSA bacteria lives on our skin, but mainly in our nasal passages and throat.
Staph becomes a problem when it enters the blood stream through a break in the skin such as a cut or scratch. Once in the bloodstream, it is very difficult to treat because MRSA/staph is resistant to most antibiotics. In patients with HIV, it quickly spreads from the original site of infection to the lungs where it causes pneumonia, or to the internal organs.
Signs and Symptoms of MRSA include:
- Swelling, redness and tenderness of the skin around the wound
- Foul smelly, pus or drainage from wound
- Fever
- Shortness of breath
- Cough
- Chills
This has been your Medical Minute.
More Info On The Web
Skin Problems and Treatments: Understanding MRSA – WebMD
MRSA – Mayo Clinic
DISCLAIMER:
Any medical information published on this blog is not intended as a substitute for informed medical advice and you should not take any action before consulting with your personal physician or a health care provider.
Edited to correct Dariel’s age. Originally posted on April 6, 2011 @ 9:24am
Sandra, you are a messy somebody. Educating and throwing shade in the same sentence. Who said this man had HIV/AIDS. You are a lesbian, do YOU have AIDS. Be a fence Lord, be a fence.
“The family is asking for donations to help offset the funeral costs. If you would like to help, please call”
Why?!?!?
*goes back to read the rest*
Thank you for sharing this information on staph infections. I pray for Dariel’s family during this difficult time.
I don’t understand why people don’t have insurance? I’m not rich nor poor but I’ve always had health, dental, and life insurance. Why do these so-called famous people not have insurance and what do they do with all the money they make? If he was so famous why is his family collecting for his expenses? Its funny how “famous” people look down on regular people but when they die the poor ones are left asking for money to bury them?
I can see him playing for Prince
“Blouses”
R.I.P.
Staph don’t play….
lnp03 says:
Thank you for sharing this information on staph infections. I pray for Dariel’s family during this difficult time.
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Ditto to all that you said.
It bothers me when people do not have life insurance. I hate to see people pass away and then it is a financial strain on their family to bury them. We have to do a better job as a people with estate planning. Stop buying things that depreciate like expensive cars and rims, save and invest in things that will earn you money. IMO
Dawn Sheen says:
I don’t understand why people don’t have insurance? I’m not rich nor poor but I’ve always had health, dental, and life insurance. Why do these so-called famous people not have insurance and what do they do with all the money they make? If he was so famous why is his family collecting for his expenses? Its funny how “famous” people look down on regular people but when they die the poor ones are left asking for money to bury them?
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I treat Insurance like Condoms …rather Have it and not need it….then Need it and not have it….
Nice write up Sandra! Thanks!
I’ve had a boil before and that sh*t right there…the most painful thing ever! Luckily I didn’t have any issues and once it drained i was good. The big problem is people simply think it’s acne and try to pop it. This spreads the infection and can lead to death!
Stay healthy and informed folks!
Thank you for this Med minute- I learned something new here. And it bothers me too when folks who were making well over $100K a year, could not spare $5k for health insurance and a life insurance policy. WTF? “Guns & butter.” :eyeroll:
RIP to this young man.
Now Sandra- can I get a “Money Minute” post this fed budget situation? I’d truly appreciate it.
Dawn Sheen says:
I don’t understand why people don’t have insurance? I’m not rich nor poor but I’ve always had health, dental, and life insurance. Why do these so-called famous people not have insurance and what do they do with all the money they make? If he was so famous why is his family collecting for his expenses? Its funny how “famous” people look down on regular people but when they die the poor ones are left asking for money to bury them?
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I know what you are saying, but not all ppl are insurable. Why one would not have a pre paid funeral if knowing they are not insurable is another story.
Wow, thanks for the enlightenment. But I have a question…are you insinuating that he had HIV? Is it possible that he couldn’t have had HIV though? I have a friend who had a Staph infection and two days after he came from the hospital he committed suicide…I always wondered if the Staph infection had something to do with it in some weird way. RIP to him.
Mamacita says:
Nice write up Sandra! Thanks!
I’ve had a boil before and that sh*t right there…the most painful thing ever! Luckily I didn’t have any issues and once it drained i was good. The big problem is people simply think it’s acne and try to pop it. This spreads the infection and can lead to death!
Stay healthy and informed folks!
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I had 1 boil in my life….
they had to surgically lance it…and then i was
watching what came out….
Smh guess you’ll be a Treading Topic again on twitter.
*pushes my paperwork to the floor* i’m in shut down mode. fvck this work since y’all don’t care about my check
lovezoe says:
Sandra, you are a messy somebody. Educating and throwing shade in the same sentence.
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No one is throwing shade! This is a serious disease that is affecting our people and the media doesn’t give a damn. So keep your ignorant comments to yourself.
Ace says:
Dawn Sheen says:
I don’t understand why people don’t have insurance? I’m not rich nor poor but I’ve always had health, dental, and life insurance. Why do these so-called famous people not have insurance and what do they do with all the money they make? If he was so famous why is his family collecting for his expenses? Its funny how “famous” people look down on regular people but when they die the poor ones are left asking for money to bury them?
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I treat Insurance like Condoms …rather Have it and not need it….then Need it and not have it….
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Its a non-negotiable for me and always has been. it’s like people with pricy cars but no auto insurance. I just don’t get it. OAN I have a will…
@Dawn & Inp03 Exactly! My biggest problem is it wasn’t like he couldn’t afford it!
<<<<<smh You doing make up and hair for the star but YO A*S doean't have life insurance? How selfish!
Sometimes you have to go beyond thinking about yourself and think about the people that will be affected once you leave this earth. I have 2 insurance policies. Sh*t I want my people to be well compensated because I don't want them paying for ANYTHING out of their pockets!
lnp03 says:
Thank you for sharing this information on staph infections. I pray for Dariel’s family during this difficult time.
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Thank you sweetie. Where you been?
Dawn Sheen says:
Ace says:
Dawn Sheen says:
I don’t understand why people don’t have insurance? I’m not rich nor poor but I’ve always had health, dental, and life insurance. Why do these so-called famous people not have insurance and what do they do with all the money they make? If he was so famous why is his family collecting for his expenses? Its funny how “famous” people look down on regular people but when they die the poor ones are left asking for money to bury them?
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I treat Insurance like Condoms …rather Have it and not need it….then Need it and not have it….
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Its a non-negotiable for me and always has been. it’s like people with pricy cars but no auto insurance. I just don’t get it. OAN I have a will…
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I let my insurance lapse on the benz already once since i got it..
all good now tho…
I need to work on that “will”…before i didn’t have shit but now…i need to really think about it….
Very informative post Aunty!
Sandra Rose says:
lovezoe says:
Sandra, you are a messy somebody. Educating and throwing shade in the same sentence.
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No one is throwing shade! This is a serious disease that is affecting our people and the media doesn’t give a damn. So keep your ignorant comments to yourself.
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I said this over and over and over yesterday Sandra! People always running a muck and seeing what they wanna see reading is fundamental. I like when you shine light on issues ignored by the media especially within the gay community.
as a government epidemologist i am a little taken aback about the posting of this individual’s medical information on a PUBLIC website however i will say that you are right the trending of MRSA infections is EXTREMELY prevelant in black gay males at this time to the point where is is being studied by different health organizations…. I am more distressed by the fact he had no life insurance( IF is this true??) and will be making a donation while i did not know this young man personally how he lived as an adult is none of my business and i pray for his family in their time of sorrow ….
OFF TOPIC his hair was extremely beautiful….
Making a disease a “black gay diseases” is very malicious and unethical IMO. Being that anyone can be affected with MRSA it’s a very common disease not only in the black, white, gay str8 community.
Again, although some of the information is informative connecting it to a certain demograhpic is misleading.
However, hopefully people will read and take away something and learn.
lnp03 says:
Stop buying things that depreciate like expensive cars and rims, save and invest in things that will earn you money. IMO
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Yesterday an industry friend who knew Dariel personally text me with the comment that said:
That’s black people for you.
Thanks for the info Ms. Sandra!
He was such a beautiful guy, so sad. It just goes to show that all that Hollywood chit is not as glamorous as it seems. He was friends with many celebs and at the end of the day his family has to ask for donations to bury him, couldn’t his celeb friends all chip in and donate at least $1000? They don’t need those extra pair of Louboutins anyway.
don’t understand why people don’t have insurance? I’m not rich nor poor but I’ve always had health, dental, and life insurance. Why do these so-called famous people not have insurance and what do they do with all the money they make?
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I guess he’s only famous for making others look good. Maybe some of his celeb clients can help pay for his burial.
Sandra, for you to insinuate that he had HIV/AIDS is just sad. While it is nice to inform about illnesses, to use his death as platform for HIV is not appropriate.
My nephew got MRSA from his workout room in college and fortunately the surgeon was able to remove the affected areas.
Sandra if you research it MRSA has been common in a lot of gyms.
There have been a few school gyms shut down because the equipment was being cleaned properly
Mamacita says:
Nice write up Sandra! Thanks!
I’ve had a boil before and that sh*t right there…the most painful thing ever! Luckily I didn’t have any issues and once it drained i was good. The big problem is people simply think it’s acne and try to pop it. This spreads the infection and can lead to death!
Stay healthy and informed folks!
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Thank you sweetie.
@Candi
*hi-five*
I said that since Monday (swhich is why I didn’t come to work since it was gonna be so nice out that day.)
I refuse to work until I find out if I’m going to need a payday loan next week. Play with my check- I play with your productivity.
How you like dem apples, Boehner?!
@Sandra, I just did a google search in reference to HIV and Staph, everything you said is right. I would have never known about that or made that connection. Glad I read you blog, learn something new everyday. Now im starting to wonder if my friend committed suicide after he came from the hospital with the Staph because he found out he had HIV? may he rest in peace as well. (I’m not insinuating everyone who gets a Staph is HIV positive by the way).
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I need to work on that “will”…before i didn’t have **** but now…i need to really think about it….
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Even if you only have a little get a will. You can have it ammended later in life. Even if its just to state how you want your funeral planned. I have a kid so my guardian is listed in there as well as all assets I have so nobody has to look for anything when I die. I have it all tucked away in a safe deposit box. You don’t want your estate to end up in Probate court…
StillASassyOne says:
Now Sandra- can I get a “Money Minute” post this fed budget situation? I’d truly appreciate it.
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I sure will. Thanks for the suggestion.
While the post is very informative, it still gives a shady implication that he may have been suffering from HIV/AIDS. It’s wrong on so many levels. The man JUST passed away. I would expect something like this from some anti-homosexual person but I’m actually shocked that its coming from Sandra.
I don’t why people think he is a “celebrity” making 100,000. Did I miss something.
I didn’t do research or anything but most self-employed people I come across have issues with being insured due to the cost. However, I will say that one could seek life insurance through State Farm, Progressive, and etc.
I myself pay 24.00 a month for 50,000. IF I pass before my mom the last thing I want her to worry about his how she is going to pay for my funeral. She has a policy on me and I have another one through my job.
Hey Sandra and fam does Staph infection have any links to diabetes?????
lipstickbandit says:
…are you insinuating that he had HIV? Is it possible that he couldn’t have had HIV though?
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His friends are telling me that he was HIV positive. That has not been confirmed by anyone in the family, and it probably will not be confirmed due to the stigma that is still attached to HIV. When white celebrities die from HIV they use that to bring awareness to the disease. But black people continue to bury our heads in the sand.
I learned something new today
@lovezoe I agree w/your comment
@isc you know it
Peace and Blessings to Dariel’s family
I like post such as this one. All the educated people come out as well as the uneducated. We should all leave this post with open minds on both wellness check ups and financial check ups…
This is a very sad situation for this family, but what I don’t understand is why don’t we as a black community encourage life insurance!
My brother died right before his 21st bday in a car accident. I was 17yrs old. We could not bury my brother without help from our family and he was a Desert Storm Vet. I seen how it affected my mother, she was so drained from the whole process especially when the funeral home threatened to put my brother’s body on the porch if we didnt pay. I swore I would never put my family in that type of situation. So, at 17 yrs old I got life insurance on me and my one yr old son. Since then I have paid off two life insurance policies for both of us. Life insurance is not expensive maybe $10.00 a month…Don’t leave your family with the financial burnden of trying to bury you while dealing with loosing you. It is horrible on your family!
I don’t think sandy making it a “gay” or “black” thing i mean i can’t assume what his medical condition was but if he had been ken paves or something CNN and other media would have been all over it…. let’s see if BET does something since he was a regular on some of their best selling shows … I do think as people of color we need to take responsibility for educating and equipping our own youth on issues (health, wealth and otherwise) because no one else seems to give a damn…..
right bc all yt folks help each other out during times of need regarding funerals
damn blacks.
what does what someone else does with their money have to do with funeral costs? ok they have nice bags and cars. and? that doesn’t mean they have to help pay for someone else’s funeral. funerals don’t have to be elaborate affairs. if u can’t afford to have one…then don’t have one.
@Sandra
Thanks! And may sure to note that a Senator McCaskill has drafted a measure proposing that Congress & the Pres not be paid during a government shutdown either if the rest of fed workers cannot get paid….. Senate approved the bill and the damn House refuses to present it to get paid!
21 Senators with a real conscience actually push this bill to say: “if we can’t do our jobs as we should, we shouldn’t get paid either” but THAT bill miraculously won’t even get bought up. The fukking irony in it all….
therapist1911 says:
Making a disease a “black gay diseases” is very malicious and unethical IMO.
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Where did I say it was a black gay disease? Due to the fact that blacks are #1 in cases of HIV infection, MRSA/ staph is increasingly becoming the main cause of death among black gay people. I know many gays who have died from staph infection. Do your research.
Sandra Rose says:
lipstickbandit says:
…are you insinuating that he had HIV? Is it possible that he couldn’t have had HIV though?
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His friends are telling me that he was HIV positive. That has not been confirmed by anyone in the family, and it probably will not be confirmed due to the stigma that is still attached to HIV. When white celebrities die from HIV they use that to bring awareness to the disease. But black people continue to bury our heads in the sand
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Wow, that is really sad…like I said this post has been very informative, I have a friend who has HIV and I will be sure to tell him about this in the even that he doesn’t already know. But I have another question, could it have been possible that they could have treated it and saved his life, by him having HIV? Like is it necessarily a death sentence for someone with HIV who gets a Staph infection or is there any hope for them?
Smh at comment #38. Horrible just horrible.
@Sheen
Not to be nosey..but did you will your stuff to parents…
or the more responsible in the fam?
i hate politics
I recently (this year) had an old high school friend pass away as a result of complications from AIDs. He had pneumonia. It was tragic. I didn’t even know he was positive. He came out of the closet after he graduated and exited the military.
I really DO NOT UNDERSTAND why this is still such a big issue within the black community and especially with the gay community. How hard is it to wear a condom?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? It really blows my mind, that in 2011, we’re still dealing with this AND it’s only getting worse…now it’s showing up in senior citizens…..they have one of the highest rates.
Sandra,
I disagree with you alot of the time, but I must commend you for this detailed message to the AA community! Rather we like it or not, it is what it is! Being messy is knowing something and not sharing it with people, knowing it could potentially save a life! Know one wants to accept the reality in this message, had he “NOT” had a pre-exisiting condition this could have very well been treated! So in a nutshell, don’t kill the messenger, receive the message! Have a blessed day everyone!!
Thanks for keeping us informed Auntie! Great post!
LUSCIOUS LOLITA says:
Sandra if you research it MRSA has been common in a lot of gyms.
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In my post, I clearly stated that MRSA has leaped from the hospitals into the surrounding communities. “Surrounding communities” includes gymnasiums, schools, day care centers, etc. In other words, it is everywhere. I also wrote that most of us are already colonized with MRSA. if you go to your doctor and get your nose swabbed and cultured, I can almost guarantee you that you will be positive for MRSA.
@Ace Man what?!?! That is the most disguting thing ever! I hope I NEVER have to deal with one of those again. Luckily I didn’t have to have it surgically popped or removed. Hot baths and icthimol (sp) did the trick for me. I don’t trust hopitals so I try to avoid them at all costs!
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@Sassy & Candi Right! I refuse to do any work until they let me know what’s going on. And the crazy part is the people at my job have said NOTHING to us about it. They’ll probably wait until friday or wait for us to show up on Monday and tell us to go home smh…
I was reading an article that said instead of them shutting down the government they need to give up their pay. President and congress! I bet they’ll come to a decision then!
bnatural says:
I recently (this year) had an old high school friend pass away as a result of complications from AIDs. He had pneumonia. It was tragic. I didn’t even know he was positive. He came out of the closet after he graduated and exited the military.
I really DO NOT UNDERSTAND why this is still such a big issue within the black community and especially with the gay community. How hard is it to wear a condom?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? It really blows my mind, that in 2011, we’re still dealing with this AND it’s only getting worse…now it’s showing up in senior citizens…..they have one of the highest rates.
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Senior citizens? Really that’s crazy.
I’m sure research would prove that there are others that have died from it as well that’s not black or gay.
So you don’t know anyone else that’s pass away from MRSA other than black and gays. They claimed HIV was a “gay” diseases. Which also is misleading. Because many drub abusers were affected and passed it on. That’s my point, when people make it a “specific” demographic disease it’s misleading and others believe they are safe from it.
Candi that is my favorite pic of you
therapist1911 says:
Smh at comment #38. Horrible just horrible.
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You do realize that this is a GOSSIP blog… I think Sandra has the right to tell the gossip that she hears… just sayin…
lipstickbandit says:
@Sandra, I just did a google search in reference to HIV and Staph, everything you said is right. I would have never known about that or made that connection. Glad I read you blog, learn something new everyday. Now im starting to wonder if my friend committed suicide after he came from the hospital with the Staph because he found out he had HIV? may he rest in peace as well. (I’m not insinuating everyone who gets a Staph is HIV positive by the way).
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Wow, you just won my heart by doing your own research!
I’m sorry to hear that your friend killed himself.
thanks brown! its my innocent look
u know they don’t care if their paychecks won’t be affected! i hate politics. i’m going to the private industry! *flips the house and senate over*
Sandra forgive me, I didnt read all of your post and I’m still a lil tired from being up 39 hrs!
I dont believe Sandra is implying that this is a Black only disease, Ppl from all walks of life get Staph check this article out
http://www.philly.com/philly/news/politics/20110405_Former_congressman_and_state_senator_John_Adler__51__dies.html
Great info sandra! But he was a celeb hair stylist….what did he do with money? I guess he spend it on cloths, hair, stilettos, pocket book, make -up. SAD. RIP
Nice write up Sandra! I can naturally read between your lines now
Dariel is gorgeous…I can’t even hate on him LOL The whole insurance thing is baffling to me. Alot of celebs and reg. people are living on borrowed money, but they won’t pay insurance premiums. If I can pay for 4 policies, just about anyone can. I just don’t get it. Shit I am worth more dead than alive.
Folks better get their minds right!
RIP Darrell. On Youtube he was so sweet when I asked allot of questions and I will always remember how sweet he was. Thank you so much!
@lipstickbandit
Yep…I often listen to the Michael Baisden radio show while I’m driving home from work or the gym. He’s very informative person as well. I was shocked when I found out about that information. It’s something that you wouldn’t think happens. I guess, senior citizens are less likely to believe they will contract a disease if they are having unprotected sex.
His show is really good, very funny too.
u don’t know what he spent his money on. he could have had a lot of doctor bills, helped out his family, who knows.
@Mamacita
We just finally got a messenge from Secretary Sebulius at 7 PM last night. And it ain’t even telling us sh*t that we don’t know. Just that: “oh yeah- this shutdown thing is looking REAL right now, so we’re working on a contingency plan. We’ll let you know something later.”
WTF?!
Okay then….you work on your “contingency,” I’ll work on mine….online shopping. This sh*t is REALLY blowing me!
MAMACITA
they haven’t said anything to us about it at the base I work at either! It’s just been water cooler convo but there have been no emails from any higher ups talking about it
SexxxyDimeDiva says:
Sandra,
I disagree with you alot of the time, but I must commend you for this detailed message to the AA community! Rather we like it or not, it is what it is! Being messy is knowing something and not sharing it with people, knowing it could potentially save a life! Know one wants to accept the reality in this message, had he “NOT” had a pre-exisiting condition this could have very well been treated! So in a nutshell, don’t kill the messenger, receive the message! Have a blessed day everyone!!
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Whether he has a pre existing condition or not doesn’t ensure he would have survived MRSA.
*puts in an application at stadium*
i might have to do something a lil strange for some change
People, please educate yourselves! Don’t rely on me to teach you. Yes, everyone can acquire MRSA/ staph infection, but MRSA/ staph is rapidly becoming the #1 cause of death among black gay males. You’re not hearing about it on the news because they are black gay males and the media doesn’t care about them.
Ace says:
@Sheen
Not to be nosey..but did you will your stuff to parents…
or the more responsible in the fam?
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There’s a difference between gaining knowledge and nosey you dear are learning so fire away.
Everything is left FBO my daughter. To pay into a trust until she is 18 which then is allocated for educational expenses which would cover all her expenses pending successful matriculation in school.
There is also a guardian ad Litem in place.
OAN she has a child rider life insurance policy which is valid until 25 should she pass.
Nola_D says:
therapist1911 says:
Smh at comment #38. Horrible just horrible.
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You do realize that this is a GOSSIP blog… I think Sandra has the right to tell the gossip that she hears… just sayin…
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Yes and as a contributing member I can give my opinion on said gossip. …….just saying
therapist1911 says:
I don’t why people think he is a “celebrity” making 100,000. Did I miss something.
I didn’t do research or anything but most self-employed people I come across have issues with being insured due to the cost. However, I will say that one could seek life insurance through State Farm, Progressive, and etc.
I myself pay 24.00 a month for 50,000. IF I pass before my mom the last thing I want her to worry about his how she is going to pay for my funeral. She has a policy on me and I have another one through my job.
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Exactly…. ppl should be able to grieve and not worry about how to bury a person that has passed away
@BubblinBrown…..how is papa?
@Sandra…again I say your post is very informative and I do appreciate you taking a “Medical Minute” to highlight specific topics.
Jay Bee says:
Hey Sandra and fam does Staph infection have any links to diabetes?????
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Most of us have staph aureus bacteria living on our skin and in our noses. It doesn’t harm us because we are healthy. But people who have diseases that weaken their immune systems are at higher risk to get an infection. People with diabetes are in that category. But diabetes by itself does not cause staph infections. I hope that helps?
Dawn Sheen says:
I like post such as this one. All the educated people come out as well as the uneducated. We should all leave this post with open minds on both wellness check ups and financial check ups…
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Thank you mama
THE-RAPIST!
He’s stable which is good! Thanks for asking
I was in ATL for Sprig break(bout 3 weeks ago), went to some mall …i think Lenox…and outside of starbucks, I saw this dude. Me and my girl were tryin to figure out why he looked so damn familiar. And then I saw this post yesterday.
R.I.P…or as my students would say R.I.T.
@ Destinee: I’m so sorry to hear about your brother.
Dawn I think you might be wearin Sandra down!
You just might be able to get that hot pocket!
Plenty of people w/o HIV contract and die from Staph/MRSA infections as well
Thank you Sandra for the Medical Minute.
RIP to this young man.
My condolensces go out to his family and friends.
@Daisy…..THANK YOU
or as my students would say R.I.T
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StillASassyOne says:
@Sandra
Thanks! And may sure to note that a Senator McCaskill has drafted a measure proposing that Congress & the Pres not be paid during a government shutdown either if the rest of fed workers cannot get paid….
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You already know that measure won’t pass. Remember that when you to to the polls in 2012.
Hi Sandra…I love your post today. However, you indicated that at least one of us in the gay community knows someone who has succumb to a MRSA infection! Actually, I do not! And you may say that I knew someone but was not aware he/she had MRSA. I would like to say that I have been very fortunate to NOT know someone in the “community” who has passed away from anything. That’s truly a blessing. HOWEVER, I do know a child who contracted MRSA and almost passed away from it! So Sandra, I thank you for you insightfully written article on this possible deadly infectious disease that is taking out quite a few people. THANK YOU!
I always joke with my nephews that I am worth more dead than I am alive, I want to make sure nobody has to come out of their pocket to pay for any of my expenses so I have a policy with my job and another policy I took out on myself. I agree he was young and a lot of men and women don’t think about the what if’s but you should because its a burden on your family to try and come up with $8K’s for your funeral. Priorities people get them in order and stop trying to get the latest and greasest Gucci and Louis Vuitton until your main priorities are in order first…
Oh yeah…Good Morning everybody.
This is good information, Sandra. Not many gossip blogs take a minute to educate the reader. I’m on the Infection Control Committee at my job and I have seen it more times than I care to count.
Good information:
On another note – How the hell can you be 26 and your family need “assistance” with funeral cost? Do these “celebrities” think that they’re invincible while they’re running around living the glamourous life?
No disrespect, but, c’mon, son! I could see if you were 63 and insurance was just too much, but at 26, you should have been able to get a policy for $12 a month that would have paid off your funeral cost as well as left your mother with a nice little chunk of change after it’s all said and done.
#noinsurancebutI’msurehehadplentyofMAC&Gucci
LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN says:
Dawn I think you might be wearin Sandra down!
You just might be able to get that hot pocket!
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Nah, I raised that white flag after she sshot me down. Now I’ll just stick to loving her brain power!
@ Dawn Sheen:
People don’t get it twisted. Just because someone is on TV doing celebrity hair doesn’t mean they are making money. They are oftentimes more broke than an average person with a 9-5. These so called celebrity hair and makeup artists would look down on an average person because they are on TV, but trust and believe, most of them are struggling to pay the rent. It’s all glitz and glamour, but at the end of the day, that’s all it is…
“The family is asking for donations to help offset the funeral costs….”
I just hope the family is tryin to have a really big funeral that is out of their budget.
And no one should feel obligated to split the bill for someone’s funeral.
lipstickbandit says:
But I have another question, could it have been possible that they could have treated it and saved his life, by him having HIV? Like is it necessarily a death sentence for someone with HIV who gets a Staph infection or is there any hope for them?
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Great question. If you or I acquire a staph infection, our bodies will fight it off because we are healthy. We might never get MRSA again after that. But people with HIV are already immunocompromised. HIV patients get recurrent staph infections because the staph weakens their bodies each time they get it. The 2nd or third time they get MRSA is a death sentence for them.
MZN says:
@ Dawn Sheen:
People don’t get it twisted. Just because someone is on TV doing celebrity hair doesn’t mean they are making money. They are oftentimes more broke than an average person with a 9-5. These so called celebrity hair and makeup artists would look down on an average person because they are on TV, but trust and believe, most of them are struggling to pay the rent. It’s all glitz and glamour, but at the end of the day, that’s all it is…
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I know.. I work with broke “rich” folks everyday…
Well, there are caretain respiratory illnesses, and cancers that are particular to those suffering from AIDS/HIV.
I’m sure we’ll never know.
sexyphillygirl says:
Priorities people get them in order and stop trying to get the latest and greasest Gucci and Louis Vuitton until your main priorities are in order first…
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Get out of my head.
I think a lot of you are missing the point! Sandra NEVER said that black gay males are the ONLY ones affected by MRSA but that it is a big issues among them.
Sandra,
I disagree with you alot of the time, but I must commend you for this detailed message to the AA community! Rather we like it or not, it is what it is! Being messy is knowing something and not sharing it with people, knowing it could potentially save a life! Know one wants to accept the reality in this message, had he “NOT” had a pre-exisiting condition this could have very well been treated! So in a nutshell, don’t kill the messenger, receive the message! Have a blessed day everyone!!
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Thank you sweetie.
@Blu
It depends on where they’re going. I just looked at the “please call #” for donations and realized they were both Baltimore numbers- if these people stay away from using Vaughn Green or March’s, they may just have a chance. But those two services will charge pi $10K+ just to put the body in the damn casket. And EVERYBODY in Baltimore seems to use them.
Damn grave-robbers…..ask me how I know.
There is a special place in hell for people who use a persons’ death to be messy. My father died from MRSA and he did not have AIDS, for you to speculate and write this post the day after is death is evil.
Gerber offers life insurance for kids that can be increased as you enter adulthood. You are also offered options for additional coverage with car insurance that may cover accidental death and dismemberment (you loose a limb or an eye) with added payouts. If you have prepaid legal you can get a will with that coverage. Knowledge is power.
Thanks Sandra
SexxxyDimeDiva says:
Sandra,
I disagree with you alot of the time, but I must commend you for this detailed message to the AA community! Rather we like it or not, it is what it is! Being messy is knowing something and not sharing it with people, knowing it could potentially save a life! Know one wants to accept the reality in this message, had he “NOT” had a pre-exisiting condition this could have very well been treated! So in a nutshell, don’t kill the messenger, receive the message! Have a blessed day everyone!!
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Whether he has a pre existing condition or not doesn’t ensure he would have survived MRSA.
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I was once in a contained environment where “Staph” was widely transfered due to spider bites & uncleanliness, however most if not all were practically healthy and recovered w/o incident! So as I do not know his medical profile, I do know he was a very “young man” who under normal circumstances should have been healthy & full of life!
@ Luciouis and all the other GUBMENT workers
i am on a base overseas and we were WAITING on the shutdown!!! hell free time off (unpaid or paid ) hell we will take it and our base commander was like oh yeah that is only for the people in the US we are under different funding for contingency operations BOY BYE i was already ready to chill!!!!!!!!!!
Did you all know that Boils are in bible, it talks about being curses…
@SASO….yes Vaughn Moore and MArch charge if you think about using their services.
i just CANNOT with that back and crack in nika’s gravie
So Staph infections will be the number 1 killa of the black gay community because most of the black gay community has HIV or AIDS??
Sandra-
Start requiring literacy tests for your readers please……
NOWHERE DID SANDRA SAY THAT ONLY BLACK, GAY FOLKS GET MRSA/STAPH AND DIE FROM IT!!!!! SHE SAID THAT IT IS SLOWLY KILLING MANY IN THAT COMMUNITY!!!!!!
She also said that many in that community contract pneumonia which comes from the infection as well, but nobody here is making a case that everybody who dies from pneumonia is gay and/or Black!!!
READ!! COMPREHEND!! REGURGITATE!! Get out of your own damn feelings and really PERUSE the knowledge!! DAMN!
Lexi what base are you at
My boss said because of who I’m funded by I’d still have to come in.
therapist1911 says:
I’m sure research would prove that there are others that have died from it as well that’s not black or gay.
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I’m not going to knock you for your lack of reading comprehension skills because at least you are trying to understand. So let me reiterate that this post is to let people know that MRSA is rapidly becoming the #1 cause of death among black gay males who are diagnosed with HIV. Yes, MRSA/ staph infections causes deaths among the general population, but deaths among the black gay population are increasingly higher compared to the general population. You’re not hearing that from the news media because MRSA is killing young black gay males who don’t look like them. I hope you understand?
@Lex
Oh you suck! You still getting paid regardless. Lucky azz…. I’m glad your paycheck isn’t in danger though- everybody shouldn’t have to be in financial peril at the same time.
@Sassy
So he needs to be cremated…and then have a memorial service somewhere. LOL. Jk, but they may wanna find a cheaper service.
I told my mama, if something happens to me, i want to be cremated, i want her to take a trip, and spread my ashes in the ocean. (Seeing as how I can’t swim and hadn’t traveled a lot, I think that would be a great resting place)
LUSCIOUS LOLITA says:
Sandra forgive me, I didnt read all of your post and I’m still a lil tired from being up 39 hrs!
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No problem, hun. Thank you for reading.
@Brown
Will you have to come in and STILL be paid, or are they treating you like essential personnel who’ll come in during the shutdown and just won’t get paid until AFTER the shutdown is over?
Oh…….I didn’t read clear @Sandra…I got it.
Good post by the way.
Carrington says:
sexyphillygirl says:
Priorities people get them in order and stop trying to get the latest and greasest Gucci and Louis Vuitton until your main priorities are in order first…
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Get out of my head.
lol, I just know what his family is going through, we had to come out of pocket for my grandmother and dad funeral, dad wasnt his fault he dementia and his wife didnt pay the policy but said she was and I couldnt get his SS # to get one but thank God me, my aunt and uncle had enough doe to come together and give him a proper burial. That set us back $7500 it was something that could have totally been avoided.
Check this out!
Former Congressman and state senator John Adler, 51, dies,
The report states Mr.Adler died from complications related to a staph endocarditis infection that he contracted last month, according to a statement from his family released by the law firm where he worked, Greenberg Traurig. He had had emergency heart surgery at the Hospital of the University of Pennsylvania.
you can find this article at philly newspaper it not only affects the black community but is worldwide
I’m not in my feelings. I choose to call a snake a snake. Sandra is using this mans PHOTO the day after his death to imply MRSA/Staph is rampent in the gay communtiy because of an immune systems weakened from AIDS. his death certicate hasn’t even been put out yet, she wants to do a MM fine, just don’t imply he died of a MRSA because of AIDS/HIV.
How the fluck do you think he family feels seeing his photo along with this post?
that Sandy is so informative at times…
hey fam
fine, shut this shyt down but just RUN ME MY MONEY! i can live off savings (for a month, that’s it :crying:) but i need it back!
i swear yo if we don’t get back pay…i mean i don’t know what i’ll do, probably just accept it, but that isn’t the point!
*smacks everyone near me*
Mr.BluPhi says:
@Sassy
So he needs to be cremated…and then have a memorial service somewhere. LOL. Jk, but they may wanna find a cheaper service.
I told my mama, if something happens to me, i want to be cremated, i want her to take a trip, and spread my ashes in the ocean. (Seeing as how I can’t swim and hadn’t traveled a lot, I think that would be a great resting place)
I actually agree with you ESPECIALLY if the family really cannot afford it, give the ashes to his mother if she is still living. Or have a graveside service but dont make yourself broke because funerals are not cheap even the cheap ones are at least $3G’s in Philly.
SMDH @ Sandra
Just more of the same unnecessarily messy sh*t from yesterday.
Unless you KNOW for sure this man had AIDS and that it contributed do his death or have solid proof that MRSA is mostly killing young gay men you can pass me with this bullchit.
And Dariel was absolutely gorgeous. R.I.P.
Mamacita says:
I think a lot of you are missing the point! Sandra NEVER said that black gay males are the ONLY ones affected by MRSA but that it is a big issues among them.
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Thanks hun.
Destinee says: My brother died right before his 21st bday in a car accident. I was 17yrs old. We could not bury my brother without help from our family and he was a Desert Storm Vet. I seen how it affected my mother, she was so drained from the whole process especially when the funeral home threatened to put my brother’s body on the porch if we didnt pay.
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until you have had to deal with the death of a loved one, you will not realize how important it is to have insurance. funeral homes are about them dollars and some will work with you but the grief and pressure bursts pipes! even old, poor blacks where i came from had funeral insurance. they paid $1-5 a month into a “society” that, when they died, hosted a lil get together w/sandwiches, had a funeral, and buried them, mostly in pauper’s graves.
a funeral plan does NOT include a plot. that’s extra. so, you need either life insurance (which can pay for anything) or funeral insurance and a plot. or you can cremate and be done with it.
Definition
By Mayo Clinic staff
Methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus (MRSA) infection is caused by a strain of staph bacteria that’s become resistant to the antibiotics commonly used to treat ordinary staph infections.
Most MRSA infections occur in people who have been in hospitals or other health care settings, such as nursing homes and dialysis centers. When it occurs in these settings, it’s known as health care-associated MRSA (HA-MRSA). HA-MRSA infections typically are associated with invasive procedures or devices, such as surgeries, intravenous tubing or artificial joints.
Another type of MRSA infection has occurred in the wider community — among healthy people. This form, community-associated MRSA (CA-MRSA), often begins as a painful skin boil. It’s spread by skin-to-skin contact. At-risk populations include groups such as high school wrestlers, child care workers and people who live in crowded conditions.
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I wonder why they don’t mention HIV/AIDS. Surely they don’t know more than Sandra. Oh that’s right, they are not trying to vilify a deceased man who had the audicity to die at a young age. We know there is only one way for gay young men to die.
StillASassyOne says:
@Blu
It depends on where they’re going. I just looked at the “please call #” for donations and realized they were both Baltimore numbers- if these people stay away from using Vaughn Green or March’s, they may just have a chance. But those two services will charge pi $10K+ just to put the body in the damn casket. And EVERYBODY in Baltimore seems to use them.
Damn grave-robbers…..ask me how I know.
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Wow. So they’re asking for donations just so they can pay for some grand, over-the-top funeral when $3k would suffice?
” …mainly killing young black gay males who continue to engage in high risk sexual behavior without using protection.”
I guess its this quote thats throwing ppl off.
Its VERY suggestive. #ImDone
Sandra Rose says:
therapist1911 says:
I’m sure research would prove that there are others that have died from it as well that’s not black or gay.
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I’m not going to knock you for your lack of reading comprehension skills because at least you are trying to understand. So let me reiterate that this post is to let people know that MRSA is rapidly becoming the #1 cause of death among black gay males who are diagnosed with HIV. Yes, MRSA/ staph infections causes deaths among the general population, but deaths among the black gay population are increasingly higher compared to the general population. You’re not hearing that from the news media because MRSA is killing young black gay males who don’t look like them. I hope you understand?
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HA HA HA….nice try. My reading comprehension skills are quite in tact….ASK Virginia State University, John Hopkins University and Trinity University.
You told me to do my research and find that black gay people are dying from MRSA. My reply was that if I do the research I would find others that are non black or non gay. No reading comprehension deficits here.
AGAIN I SAID YOUR INFORMATION WAS VERY INFORMATIVE AND APPRECIATED
@Candi
Me & you both. I’ve got enough savings to live for a month, but even if I use that and they DON’T backpay us- it’s REALLY going to hurt my pockets for other things I had planned this year.
And what’s even more tiring is that they have made it abundantly CLEAR that we will NOT get backpay!!
BUT….I just learned that we may be able to get unemployment…so I’m checking into that now.
@luscious
RAMSTEIN AIR BASE GERMANY
and sometimes i am tasked to Djuboti Africa if the mission requires word of advice be careful FEMALES going that way you aint SEEN sexual harrassment until you hit AFRICA !!!( sorry not stereotyping just my personal perspective) WTH i am SCARED to be alone in my own room down there
saso pass me along what u find out about unemployment, send to my gmail please
For those of you who are interested in learning more about various issues affecting us all.. volunteer! You will be surprised how much you learn and the phobias you overcome.
Mr.BluPhi says:
So Staph infections will be the number 1 killa of the black gay community because most of the black gay community has HIV or AIDS??
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I didn’t say that most of the gay community has HIV or AIDS. I’m saying the ones who do have HIV are at much higher risk of dying from staph infections..
StillASassyOne says:
@Lex
Oh you suck! You still getting paid regardless. Lucky azz…. I’m glad your paycheck isn’t in danger though- everybody shouldn’t have to be in financial peril at the same time
aint that some BS now if i didnt (need) aka WANT the time off they would be trying to furlough a sister LOL
@Sandra …see comment 119. Im trying to read, type, and monitor test takers at the same time. I understand everything you said. Great post.
QUITTING TIME
be blessed rosebuds
Luscious you must be Contingency OPS funded too !!!! they know damn well we aint gonna work for no pay they aint crazy!!! LOL
sexyphillygirl says:
Carrington says:
sexyphillygirl says:
lol, I just know what his family is going through, we had to come out of pocket for my grandmother and dad funeral, dad wasnt his fault he dementia and his wife didnt pay the policy but said she was and I couldnt get his SS # to get one but thank God me, my aunt and uncle had enough doe to come together and give him a proper burial. That set us back $7500 it was something that could have totally been avoided.
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I’ve already told my baby, “what I leave for you, is FOR you, don’t be trying to keep up with the Jones’ and use me as a justification.”
I enjoyed the good life, what’s left when I’m gone to the upper room is for you. Don’t be buying no $10K casket and no brand new outfit to put in no damn ground. Find something in my closet, get a cheap a$$ casket, bury me, and have a memorial – preferably at a restaurant.
Bring the family together and have a good time. Remember me like I lived – laughin’, talkin’ $hit and talkin’ about EVERY damn body. (Oh, and look in the back of my closet in that Johnston & Murphy shoe box and destroy all those DVD’s…. do not watch!… just honor my last wish and put them in the dumpster, or you will be haunted.)
Again…great post Sandra! Our generation
Reading is fundamental!
@Sandra
That’s IF they are using those services- we don’t know. And Vaughn Green & March’s services are not just grand, or over-the-top. Having a small, intimate gathering with a basic casket, and basic transport to the burial site, no frills start at a bit ABOVE $8k for them.
They’re probably asking for donations just for a basic burial and THAT’S what is sad. Honestly- I can’t name aplace in Bmore where you could get funeral services for under $6k. When we buried my brother, his service was basic and we had a LOT of donated services and using March’s, that sh*t STILL came to almost $11k. And they didn’t do much but put a blurb in the newspaper, get the casket, let us use their “chapel” for services for two hours, and transport the body. That little bit of stuff – $11k.
Sandra Rose says:
His friends are telling me that he was HIV positive. That has not been confirmed by anyone in the family, and it probably will not be confirmed due to the stigma that is still attached to HIV. When white celebrities die from HIV they use that to bring awareness to the disease. But black people continue to bury our heads in the sand.
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When is the last time we’ve heard of any celebrity dying from HIV/AIDS, black or white? And what white celeb willing came out and said they had HIV/AIDS EVER?

lmao @ Carrington-Love it and thats how it should be I told my nephews pay my bills off and live well and travel and think of me.
@Candi
I’m emailing it to you now.
My boss just put in his 1 month notice…
chit sucks …he is a good dude..
Sandra Rose says:
Wow. So they’re asking for donations just so they can pay for some grand, over-the-top funeral when $3k would suffice?
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3k???? Chile clearly you ain’t never planned a funeral. My brother’s funeral cost almost 6k 15 years ago and that was with us using a casket a couple of steps up from a pine box AND that doesn’t include a headstone. Funerals are super duper expensive.
therapist1911 says:
You told me to do my research and find that black gay people are dying from MRSA. My reply was that if I do the research I would find others that are non black or non gay. No reading comprehension deficits here.
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I have said numerous times that this post is about MRSA on the rise in the black gay community. If you Google the words “HIV and staph” you will see the connection quite clearly. I also linked to my previous Medical Minute post which mentions babies, the elderly and others who are at high risk for MRSA infection.
Can we get a MM on Wendy’s feet
A lot of you sound really ignorant in this thread
(Oh, and look in the back of my closet in that Johnston & Murphy shoe box and destroy all those DVD’s…. do not watch!… just honor my last wish and put them in the dumpster, or you will be haunted.)
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lmfaoooooooooooooooooooooooo
StillASassyOne says:
@Sandra
That’s IF they are using those services- we don’t know. And Vaughn Green & March’s services are not just grand, or over-the-top. Having a small, intimate gathering with a basic casket, and basic transport to the burial site, no frills start at a bit ABOVE $8k for them.
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That’s too much money for a funeral. I’m not paying more than $6k for a funeral, and I expect to get all the frills for that price.
Dawn Sheen says:
For those of you who are interested in learning more about various issues affecting us all.. volunteer! You will be surprised how much you learn and the phobias you overcome.
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Now DATS the truth! Once, I was unhappy at my job and my co-worker told me that she could call her husband to find me something. Well, he worked at the HIV clinic and I was like, “HELL no!!” – man, something in my spirit told me to take that position, so I quit and took it.
Most rewarding job I ever had in my life – sadly, it was for a non-profit, run by greedy, ignorant people, but that job sits at the top of my list as the one I loved the most – even though writing is my heart and I know that that’s what I’m here for, being the Director of Housing and Financial Services for HOPWA (Housing Opportunities for People With AIDS) changed my life – and outlook!
Sassy send it to me also
:outoflurkingforamoment: This post is a must read and should be passsed along. Women, be aware that this does not only relate to a certain demographic or gender. Because it is on the rise with black males, this is even more reason we should be concerned. After all, we are sleeping with these black males. Many are not being honest about thier sexual preference either. #teamwrapitupandsaveyourownlife
This is nothing to play with I no someone who had it and it was on top off the thigh and it went all the way down to the bone and hole you could see down in the hole. wash your hand people don’t touch you face and teach your kid everything is nasty everything nasty. I tell me kids stop touching shittttt….
@saso ok cause i’m not seeing anything on MD’s website about unemployment insurance, thang ain’t been updated since jan 2011
Wow you can’t win for losing. You do a nice update on something that is affecting our community and people can’t take it for what it is, they always got to twist your words. I did not in anyway take out of that, that you said this man had HIV. You said he died from a staph infection in his lungs, then went on to explain how staph infection is linked to HIV and how they both are affecting our black community. I wish more people could think outside the box and learn to think for themselves.
Good Post. I was informed of alot I didn’t know about.
@Brown
Sent.
Carrington says:
Most rewarding job I ever had in my life – sadly, it was for a non-profit, run by greedy, ignorant people, but that job sits at the top of my list as the one I loved the most – even though writing is my heart and I know that that’s what I’m here for, being the Director of Housing and Financial Services for HOPWA (Housing Opportunities for People With AIDS) changed my life – and outlook
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I volunteer like people go to the club or the mall. It is my favorite thing in the whole world other than being a mother! I work with people with Special Needs mostly. It is super fun to donate time and its not boring opportunities either. We helped at a fund raiser at the zoo. The event was at night. I’d never been to the zoo at night! Its so worth it when you see kids and adults who will never live normal lives take advantage of the things we take for granted! Like who knew you could use a zip line in a wheelchair? I lose a lot of my kids and adults but knowing that I play a vital role in their life makes it well worth it!
Mr.BluPhi says:
@Sandra …see comment 119. Im trying to read, type, and monitor test takers at the same time. I understand everything you said. Great post.
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Don’t worry bout monitoring….
I’m sure if they cheat ad look on the next students paper ..they still gonna get it wrong….(based on your stories)
@Candi
I’m on the phone with MD-DLLR now, trying to find out if we’re eligible for UI if we get furloughed and what the requirements are. Bishes got me on hold…per usual. :eyeorll:
@Sandra
It is apparent that you have not had to pay for many funerals then, because $6k won’t even pay for the hearse these days….
Did anyone mention that a lot of germs can be eliminated by washing your hands and cleaning up after youselves? Most studies say that MRSA is trasmitted by unsanitary conditions. Bleach and water go a long way.
Quit sharing towels and take your own to the gym, wear shower shoes, demand your healthcare provider wash their hands before touchign your, clean your door knobs and hard surfaces at home more often, AND YOUR CELL PHONES, TOO!
Ace says:
Mr.BluPhi says:
@Sandra …see comment 119. Im trying to read, type, and monitor test takers at the same time. I understand everything you said. Great post.
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Don’t worry bout monitoring….
I’m sure if they cheat ad look on the next students paper ..they still gonna get it wrong….(based on your stories)
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I say that ALL THE TIME. One time I said..word 4 word
“Now I dont know about yall, but IF I WAS TAKING THIS TEST, I WOULD bubble in “B” for number 4″
…..about 27% of my classes bubbled in something other then “B”..smh.
One student was like, “Man, I thought you was playing”….smh
@Sandra #Agreed! I’m done. Again informative post!
MRSA Infections Are Now Falling in People With HIV
Researchers in Atlanta report that cases of methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus (MRSA), an aggressive and difficult-to-treat bacterial infection, have dropped considerably since 2007. These data, published March 17 in the journal AIDS, could signal the beginnings of a reversal of a trend of sharp increases in the infection during the past decade, particularly among HIV-positive men who have sex with men (MSM).
MRSA outbreaks generally occur in one of two venues: Health care institutions, such as hospitals, or in the general community. Since the mid-1990s, cases of both health care–associated and community-acquired MRSA have been increasing, and some of the circulating strains have become more virulent and more resistant to antibiotics than their predecessors.
Scientists and health care providers have expressed alarm at the increase in diagnoses of MRSA in people with HIV during the past 10 years, a rise that coincides with—but greatly surpasses—increases in the general population. Their alarm has not only been about the increased spread of the infection, but also about the growing difficulty of treating it among HIV-positive people and about the frequency in which it returns after being treated.
A previous study of nine metropolitan areas in the United States found a drop in cases of health care–associated MRSA in the general population. Intrigued by those findings, Alicia Hidron, MD, and her colleagues from Emory University School of Medicine in Atlanta, set out to assess trends in MRSA diagnoses within HIV-positive participants in an Atlanta Veterans Affairs (VA) medical system cohort.
Of the greater than 3,000 people enrolled in the VA cohort, Hidron’s team gathered data on 226 MRSA community-acquired infections that occurred in 168 HIV-positive people between 2002 and 2009. The majority of the cases, 94 percent, were community-acquired. Among those diagnosed with MRSA—nearly all of whom were black men—the average CD4 count at the time of their MRSA infection was 350. Fifty of the cases occurred in people with CD4s under 50, and 46 cases occurred in people with CD4s over 50 but under 200. Just over half of the cases were among men who have sex with men (MSM), and 14 percent were in injection drug users (IDUs).
MRSA infections were more than twice as likely to occur in MSM and IDUs as in people with other HIV risk factors. People with CD4s under 50 were more than four times as likely to develop MRSA, and those with CD4s between 51 and 200 were about twice as likely to develop the infection. Conversely, people taking antiretroviral (ARV) therapy were nearly three times less likely to develop MRSA.
Hidron’s team found that MRSA cases rose dramatically—more than 17-fold—between 2002 and 2007 but then began falling just as quickly between 2007 and 2009—when cases dropped by about 65 percent.
Though the study could not isolate the causes of the drop in MRSA infections, the authors theorize that several explanations are possible. First, they acknowledge that previous studies have found that changes in sex and drug-using behaviors and networks are often the primary driver of community-acquired MRSA, and that could be a factor here.
They also acknowledge, however, the significant difference in the risk of MRSA in people taking ARVs, compared with those not on treatment, and in people with higher versus lower CD4s. “To our knowledge, this study is the first to suggest that [ARV therapy] may result in a reduced risk of MRSA infections,” they state.
A third explanation may be that if hospital-acquired infections are dropping—as documented in the other study—there may also be a lower overall spread of MRSA in the general population, leading to fewer cases in people with HIV.
The authors are encouraged by the steep drop in MRSA cases among their cohort, but they are calling for further studies to help understand why this occurred.
“wear shower shoes,”
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When I see ppl coming out the gym shower without shower shoes, I jus shake my head. You can buy some $5 flip flops at the local Dollar General.
Morning all! (wipes crust out of my eye)…..
I didn’t make it through all the posts but I wanted to touch on the life insurance issue. In the event you have a pre-existing condition such as HIV/AIDS, you will not be able to get a life insurance policy. The companies consider you a high risk and will not bother drafting a policy. How do I know you ask? When signing up for the 3rd policy outside of my employer, I was advised that I had to make an appointment with LabCorp to get a blood sample as the company providing the policy wanted to ensure I was healthy. I am not all insinuating THIS young man couldn’t get life insurance. I’m simply saying this is one of the reasons I know you wouldn’t be able to get a policy.
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I think this is an excellent, very informative post. I do think we could have done without this young man’s picture and the first paragraph of this post though, we knew how he died from the R.I.P. post.
@ YSoSerious, That post pretty much confirmed what Sandra has said above, the only difference was it was saying there has been a drop in the # of cases reported, which still doesn’t mean that it’s not an issue.
@TERRI B
It does support some of what Sandra said but not the what seems to be her main point; that MRSA is becoming the number one killer of gay black males.
I’m sure they’ll be more studies but I’ve haven’t yet found anything to completely support Sandra’s theory.
I do think she provided some good information but I disagree with her spin on it. It may make people less likely to take the good from the bad.
This is a great post Sandra! Somebody needed to say it and I’m thankful that you did. It’s time for us to take responsiblity for what’s happening in our community and to our families. Great job Sandra!
@Yso #173 comment…..THANK YOU
The documents we all need:
1) A will. Even if you only live in a studio apartment with three cats and some bills, folks need to know where things will go, and who will get whatever items you may deem special. Get it notarized!!!!!
2) A list of all accounts and bills. This includes banking and credit accounts and updated passwords. I know, I know, it might get misused. However, keeping it all in a locked fireproof security box can alleviate that worry. Make sure a trustworthy person knows where the key is, or at least the box location so it can be opened.
2) A living will. This includes assigning power of attorney if you are incapable of handling your affairs, and DNR (do not resuscitate) orders if you are in a situation where you cannot speak for yourself.
3) Last wishes. Make it known how you want your remains to be handled in the event of your death. It is a hard topic to discuss, but worthy of it. For instance, I want to be cremated, and no viewing, as well as organ donation. I would rather funeral money go to my niece’s education or a charity in my name. My mother, on the other hand is against these things, and I feel strongly that my wishes should be carried out. Having others know what you want will prevent your final wishes from being ignored.
4) Insurance. Life insurance is essential. Just make sure you keep up with the beneficiary assignment. You may find that someone you were close to but now estranged from could end up with everything and cut and run. Also, it doesn’t hurt to prepay for your own funeral. A little at a time adds up, and will give everybody peace of mind.
Keep all this in one location, and file copies with your local City Hall records department.
Great post Sandra
I know someone who has had MSRA she got it from work. If you can get on here and lollygag then you can do some research on MSRA.
Hey all :wave:
And if you attend a gym make sure to wipe of the equipment thoroughly before using it. I have seen one too many people use a machine without wiping it down first.
yes, rozb, on the insurance, PLEASE UPDATE if you get divorced and/or remarried. it goes directly to who you LIST as a beneficiary so, just because you marry somebody’s ex (or divorce your spouse) doesn’t mean you automatically get it (or your new spouse). if the beneficiaries are not updated, the ex will get the money!
and i also agree with a PP on qualifying for life insurance. with job insurance, you get a certain minimum but many times you have to pass a physical to get any more than that. i think the new obamacare eliminates this provision but i’m not sure.
sorry, obamacare is health care.
Congratulations on the baby Kei! Jonah is sooooo handsome….
Thank you Yvonne
lmao at sandra funeral for $3k. that will get you cremated and put in a louis backpack, lol.
kei, i love your gravi. congrats.
Thank you Free
He reminds of something from Lord of the Rings or the movie with the blue people.
Destinee says:
This is a very sad situation for this family, but what I don’t understand is why don’t we as a black community encourage life insurance!
————————————————————————-Because we are to cheap to pay for it. We just think of it as another bill that is going to take money out of our pockets. Black people feel oh nothings gonna happen to me Im fine, I’m healthy etc. So instead of taking $10.00-25.00 a month and pay for life insurance we buy coach purse, get out hair done, nails, clothes, go to the club etc…I have insurance through my job, but I also have seperate insurance policies for my son and myself. If something ever happens to me I do not want my son struggling to bury me or vice versa.
Although this is an unfortunate incident that has occurred with this young man Dariel Pulliam, although no one can determine when someone will pass away, this hardship that his family now faces could have been avoided. Most parents assume they will pass away before their children so they don’t concern themselves with making sure their children are covered. It has been my experience from dealing with a multitude of individuals that purchasing Life Insurance and Health Insurance is always done when you really need it, however every insurance company has pre – existing condition clauses and will either charge a higher premium per month or not cover you all together. Losing a loved one or needing medical attention is never easy but it should not become a financial burden. Take the mature steps and act today to get covered as we tell all of our clients it’s always better to be Safe before Sorry!
It’s always best to purchase life and health insurance before any diagnosis of any type of infection, virus or disease. It’s also important to purchase Life Insurance at a young age preferably around the age of 25, that is when most people will fall off of their parents coverage.
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Thank you Auntie! I never knew about the connection between MRSA and HIV.
I was on his twitter page last night and I saw some of his pictures and one in particular was from Valentine Day he said his boyfriend did it for him… I bet his “industry boyfriend”
is somewhere shook and devasted… May he rest in peace but why should I help pay for his funeral cost???? Um I don’t think so
I would love to read a book written by you one day Ms. Sandra Rose!
It has been confirmed by a family member that Dariel was HIV positive. But the family doesn’t want to discuss it. (I could have spoken to his mom last night but I politely declined). I think black people should stop hiding HIV infection from the public so that we can enlighten other gay males and encourage them to use protection.
Kendra Knowles says:
I would love to read a book written by you one day Ms. Sandra Rose!
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Will you be my proofreader?
@ Sandra says
It has been confirmed by a family member that Dariel was HIV positive. But the family doesn’t want to discuss it. (I could have spoken to his mom last night but I politely declined). I think black people should stop hiding HIV infection from the public so that we can enlighten other gay males and encourage them to use protection
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I think so to. However the stigma that remains is sad. I had an HIV positive co-worker who was basically blackballed by most of our other workers. They were afraid to use the bathroom after her and have her touch their cups (sad I know).
They probably kept it quiet so that his business and reputation to suffer. May he RIP
Mamacita says:
“The family is asking for donations to help offset the funeral costs. If you would like to help, please call”
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I was asking the same also, Why?
Reminds me of the other day, someone sent my a link to their family website to donate monies so they could have a family reunion.
Anyway, back on topic…..SANDRA! this post was very factually informative to those who are ingnorant to the causes of staph & what excites this disease to the worst fatal stage. Yesterday when I read the post announcing his death, and it was stated he had been in the hospital and died of staph, my question was what was the underlying reason for him going in the hospital in the first place. The general public have no clue of what an immune system is or how it should function healthy manner. I’m weary of people who always catching a cold more than 3-4 times a year and think its okay or normal. NO its not, its a sign of a weak immune system. Risky lifestyle and poor diet and nutrition contribute to the breakdown of a weak immune system, therefore any other auto-immune diseases can be deadly. In most cases, someone without HIV/AIDS do recover from staph infections with medication protocols. So its very possible he had some kind of auto-immune disease to begin with prior to getting staph.
@ Audacious2 Thank you for everything you wrote
The difference in our community is that we don’t frequent the doctor enough to even find out if our immune system is compromised. Whites run to the doctor at the first sign that something is wrong. We can’t blame it on insurance because Atlanta has 180 free clinics. It’s important to educate ourselves about staph infections because it is killing HIV+ people now more than ever before.
GAGIRL87 says:
I bet his “industry boyfriend” is somewhere shook and devasted… May he rest in peace but why should I help pay for his funeral cost???? Um I don’t think so
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His boyfriend is a young kid who is still in school. Apparently, Dariel liked them very young. Here’s his pic http://plixi.com/p/71855384
free says:
lmao at sandra funeral for $3k. that will get you cremated and put in a louis backpack, lol.
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My niece already knows to cremate me when I’m gone. Don’t waste money on caskets and flowers.
yvonne79 says:
Congratulations on the baby Kei! Jonah is sooooo handsome….
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He is a cutie Kei!
@ rozb: Great points! All of that is taken care of when you move into a retirement complex or a retirement hi-rise.
It’s hard to get a life insurance policy for a preexisting condition. He may have been un-insurable. It’s hard to get one of you have ever had a stoke or heart attack. You can’t lie. They will find out after you’ve died and paid for the policy for years.
YSoSerious says:
It does support some of what Sandra said but not the what seems to be her main point; that MRSA is becoming the number one killer of gay black males.
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If you looked at the HIV stats then you would know why I said more gay black HIV+ males are dying. The reason it’s affecting them more is because they rank highest in # of HIV cases. Their life expectancy was higher due to the advance in anti-viral medications. But over the last 10 years I personally know 10 HIV+ males who died from staph infections in their lungs. That’s an alarming figure for one small community. But you won’t hear about it until white HIV+ men start dying from staph infections.
Sandra is right about MSRA. People without HIV can get it but it is usually not serious. My mother got it but it was clearing up even before her doctors appointment. She didn’t feel sick, she didn’t have a fever but she did have swollen node on her neck which is why she went to the Dr. And no she’s not HIV because our whole family has been tested. turns out she got it from one of her piano students whose parents told her he had it about 3 weeks before on his hand. She must have touched his hand and touched her forehead. Anyway the dr gave her antibiotics even though he thought is was clearing up (just in case) it was gone within 2 days of taking the pills.
@sandra the death certificate will be available soon. if people are that worried about how he died the info will be available.
^^^^^^and sometimes the death certificate can say inconclusive, etc, but I get what ur saying. His friend/ex posted an interesting tweet April 1 that eluded to not taking care of our health “can take you OUT.” And so it did. I feel really bad for this young man.