According to an inside source who asked to remain anonymous, Steve Harvey’s ex-wife, Mary Harvey, turned herself in at the Beverly Hills Courthouse just a few moments ago. Apparently, she missed a court date with Steve in February so the judge issued a warrant. (See Attached).
It’s not all bad news for Mary, she’s currently taping a new reality show Executive Produced by Shanae Hall, the former wife of an NFL player-turned-author who penned the book “Why Do I Have To Think Like a Man?”
I can’t tell you what the reality TV show is about, but it will be similar to VH1’s “Basketball Wives”. More details coming soon!
Interesting. Sandra, you many want to blur out her SSN.
And the drama continues!!! Hell… Must everyone one air their dirty laundry these days… I’m so tired of these freaking REALITY SHOWS!!! Keep your business to yourself… But I guess they say Hell if I can get paid for my misery and problems, WHY NOT!!!

*sigh* Another reality show?
Auntie don’t tell me she is doing “Comedian Wives”
Sandra is about to get Mary hooked up with identity theft
LMAO @ Comedian wives starring her, Kevin Hart wife, and ummmmm yueah that’s all I got
How do you get arrested for missing a court date for non-criminal proceedings? They ruled in favor of Steve Harvey because she DIDNT show up. Now…how does that mean she should go to jail?
at least she is looking better if that’s a pretty current pic. Wonder if the show will be her alone
I DON’T BELIEVE THIS WOMAN IS AS BAD AS STEVE MAKES HER OUT TO BE, I DO BELIEVE THAT SHE IS A WOMAN SCORNED, BUT SHE PROBABLY HAS A REASON TO BE
HE DENIES HER ALLEGATIONS AS TO WHAT CAUSED THEIR DIVORCE, BUT I’VE NEVER HEARD HIM EXPLAIN WHY IN FACT HE WANTED A DIVORCE OR WHAT LED TO IT, NOR HOW HE BEGAN HIS NEW RELATIONSHIP
MAN’S GREATEST DEFENSE IS ALWAYS ONE OF TWO OPTIONS “SHE’S CRAZY OR SHE’S A WHORE”
IN THIS CASE IT’S THE CLASSIC “CRAZY” -MAYBE & DID YOU DRIVE HER TO IT OR WAS SHE THIS WAY WHEN YOU MET HER?!?! LOL-
@Divine I was thinking the same thing……
GLAD TO HEAR SHE IS TRYING TO MOVE ON WITH A SHOW AND GETTING SCRILLA FOR HERSELF. I HAD FOR WOMEN TO BE DONE WRONG AN THEN PINE OVER THE NICCA THAT DID THEM WRONG….HIS BAD, HE’S MISSING OUT & YOU’LL BE BLESSED. HATE TO SEE SHE GOT ARRESTED THO….ESPECIALLY FOR A NON-CRIMINAL COURT CASE!
STEVE LOOKS AS IF HIS BREATH STAYS ON DOOKIE ALERT & THAT HE KEEPS THAT WHITE SHYT ON THE SIDES OF HIS MOUTH!
@SAMYELL…for real!!!! There’s people that commit violent crimes and snort of hole in their septum that get probation. She skips court and gets a warrant….
Those cops raped that woman and just get fired with no jail time….she gets arrested?
it’s backwards to me.
@DivineBrown
STEVE HARVEY GOT THAT JUDGE ON LOCK
MONEY, POWER, RESPECT YA DIG??? THAT JUDGE & HER ARREST IS EXACTLY WHAT STEVE BELIEVES SHE DESERVES FOR CHALLENGING/DISRESPECTING THE “ALL MIGHTY ONE”
CLASSIC NARCISSIST BEHAVIOR-REWARD/PUNISHMENT
DO RIGHT BY ME OR I’LL PUNISH YOU
LMAO @ Comedian wives starring her, Kevin Hart wife, and ummmmm yueah that’s all I got
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SH former lacefront wig wearin self gets on my nerves & i think he’s fulla hot air..kinda “relationship expert” been married 3 times?
@Intensemocha I don’t think she’s that bad either. But the story about Steve stealing their son I hear was false. Her ex-assistant said she was instructed to put hte boy on a plane and not to contact Steve to let him know until 30 mins before landing. If true that makes her look bad
I wonder when she last spoke/saw her son
STEVE LOOKS AS IF HIS BREATH STAYS ON DOOKIE ALERT & THAT HE KEEPS THAT WHITE SHYT ON THE SIDES OF HIS MOUTH!

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@SandraRose: Auntie what’s up with posting all her personal info? I got her social,full name DOB and address.
i was all on Mary’s side when she 1st put out those youtube vids, then when the doc’s came out about her divorce settlement she got the side-eye like a mug! HOWEVER, that don’t mean steve aint dog her out with marjories “hot mouth” azz..
I don’t even like listening to his show. He’s lost his funny. Too busy being self-righetous and being an “expert” on all things releationship. Sidenote I wonder if the movie will be any good
@ mrsloveleigh
PROBABLY TRUE AND DEAD AZZ WRONG NO EXCUSE
BUT LOVE WILL MAKE YOU DO SOME CRAZY THINGS, IF SHE WAS TRYING TO PAY HIM BACK SHE PROBABLY DID ALOT OF THINGS SHE SHOULDN’T HAVE OUT OF HURT FOR HIM CHEATING (EMAILS FROM CURRENT WIFE) AND LEAVING HER FOR THE OTHER WOMAN
NOT CONDONING HER ACTIONS, SHE REALLY NEEDS TO GET HERSELF TOGETHER AND MOVE ON LIKE (TATTED DIVA) SAID
THE BEST REVENGE IS LOOKING GOOD AND LIVING WELL-AS LONG AS YOU PINE OVER THEM THEY KNOW YOU STILL CARE AND HAVE YOU EXACTL WHERE THEY WANT YOU FUGGED UP AND BY YOUR DAYUM SELF
@ FAYLA…………WHY IT GOTTA BE DEAD, MA???!
G’AFTERNOON, MOCHA LOCHA CHOCOLATA….YUUUUUUUM!
Auntie, uhm can’t u get in twouble for posting her persoal info? MaryRose dot com does not have the same ring to it
& she aint got the juice either
#pleaseblackitout
@Intense…What you said makes alot of sense. I listen to Steve Harvey regularly and he starts his show out preaching about where he’s come from and how God has blessed him, CRYING AND BREAKING DOWN. Part of me believed he was really saved. He’s admitted he DID HER all types of wrong, too.
He does have a God-complex, that’s very true.
exactly Mocha!! Nothing worse than a babymama (in this case ex-wife) who feels wronged. They will seriously make life difficult
That effin Dave Chapelle gravi………..lmaoooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!
I cant stand Steve Harvey….however I do like him as the host of Family Fued…
I think Steve is a male whore who should NOT be giving any advice on relationships…Just cause you been married and divorced 3 times foesnt make you an expert…IMO it makes you a FAILURE!!!
Tatted u said dookie alert & white shyt on the sides of his mouth & sooo know exactly whatchu tambout
#nomogood
Red tape is all
Divinebrown says:That effin Dave Chapelle gravi………..lmaoooooooooo!!!!
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I know Divine, I know. I so miss his show. That was the funniest thing on tv
@ Fayla….
@ Chiby…..WHO DAT BE IN YOUR GRAVI?
AWWWWWWWW I HAVE A FELLOW “CAPPA” @ TATTED DIVA
DO THEY ACCUSE YOU OF YELLING ALL THE TIME??? LOL-I LIKE YOUR SIGNATURE CAPS
GET YO CAP ON (IS THERE AN EMOTION FOR CRIP WALK)
THIS WILL DO..
@Tatted
That’s Griselda Blanco….THE GODMOTHER!!!! She used to run Miami back in the 70’s and 80’s….
Mrsloveleigh….I KNOOOOOOWWWWWWW!!! He got that Lauryn Hill syndrome and couldn’t handle his own success and flipped out. He’s from Yellow Springs OH, about 20 minutes from my home. People say he’s a complete A$$$$$$ NOW. Won’t take pics and you bet not ask him to sign SHAT.
@ INTENSE….HELL YEAH….MY BOO ALWAYS SAY “QUIT YELLING WHEN I’M TEXTING HER! LOL – NOT CRIP WALK, CUZ NOW I’M DOING THAT SHYT @ MY DESK!
@ CHIBY – I THOUGHT THAT WAS THAT BISH! I HEARD THAT HOE WAS RUFFLESS (NOT RUTHLESS) IN HER DAY!

Mrsloveleigh….I KNOOOOOOWWWWWWW!!! He got that Lauryn Hill syndrome and couldn’t handle his own success and flipped out. He’s from Yellow Springs OH, about 20 minutes from my home. People say he’s a complete A$$$$$$ NOW. Won’t take pics and you bet not ask him to sign SHAT.
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Being a celbrity aint for everyone…I dont think Dave thought the Dave Chapelle Show was gonna blow up as big as it did…..and we dont know what childhood problems he might have….that chit probably got bigger and bigger as he got more famous…..
That nigg@ turned away from $50 million…..SOMETING gotta be wrong with this fool!!!
mrsloveleigh says:
@SandraRose: Auntie what’s up with posting all her personal info? I got her social,full name DOB and address.
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All personal information has been edited out of the documents.
Steve says he is an “expert” on men not relationships #justsaying I am not pro or anti Steve I only listen to his show on Wed so I can hear radio date #dontjudgeme
@Tatted
There is a documentary out about her called Cocaine Cowboys II…it talks about her life growing up…how she RAN Miami, then how she hooked up with this black dude from Oakland who she was fukking while she was locked up and she had him selling coke for her…She was down with Escobar and all them Columbian Drug Lords….
Divinebrown says:
How do you get arrested for missing a court date for non-criminal proceedings? They ruled in favor of Steve Harvey because she DIDNT show up. Now…how does that mean she should go to jail?
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I think it was a child custody hearing
lol @Sandra…
I really hope it’s not too late…it does not take long for information to get into the wrong hands…
@ CHIBY……
OOOOOOH, GOTTA CHECK THAT OUT! I’MMA SEE IF THEY HAVE IT ON NETFLIX! THANKS. I HEARD SHE WAS A BEAST OUT HERE TOO! THANKS MA. MISS THAT PURRRTY GRAVI YOU HAD UP YESTERDAY!
chibytex aka lil red riding hood says:
@Tatted
There is a documentary out about her called Cocaine Cowboys II…it talks about her life growing up…how she RAN Miami, then how she hooked up with this black dude from Oakland who she was fukking while she was locked up and she had him selling coke for her…She was down with Escobar and all them Columbian Drug Lords….
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@CHI…I totally agree. He’s from a small town. We met him once at the movies. THE EFFIN MOVIE THEATER!!!!! COMING out of the bathroom, no security! You could tell that he wasn’t caught up in his celebrity. AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was probably too much.
He said he didnt want the show to become “Hollywood” so that’s why he turned down the $$$$. YEA RIGHT NICCA….yo’ arse went batshyt. lmao!!!
I still got love for him, tho!
She was down with Escobar and all them Columbian Drug Lords….
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Escobar was that muuhhfukka! I watched a documentary on him years ago and he had so much fcking money he claims he could have paid off America’s national debt!
Tatted Diva says:
@ CHIBY……
MISS THAT PURRRTY GRAVI YOU HAD UP YESTERDAY!
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the king latifah one, either 
he had so much fcking money he claims he could have paid off America’s national debt!
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@ WCC – I JUST PULLED UP THE WIKIPEDIA ON HER….YUP, SHE’S STILL ALIVE & KICKIN…..SHE SPENT 20 YEARS IN PRISON, RELEASED & THEN DEPORTED BACK TO COLOMBIA!
THANKS CHIBY FOR THE INFO….GOTTA WATCH IT!
He said he didnt want the show to become “Hollywood” so that’s why he turned down the $$$$. YEA RIGHT NICCA….yo’ arse went batshyt. lmao!!!
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For some reason I actually believe him…many of those shows that start off authentically funny end up getting OWNED by the higher ups and the originator loses all creative ability…they bring in new writers and the whole feel of the show loses its luster…remember how they did In Living Color? Can you imagine how much they would have done to his show if he took that $50 mil? For some reason I think he would have had to literally sell his soul in the process of making that money…
Dave turned down the show bc they wanted total control & 4 him to wear dresses n chit & he wasn’t having that. He didn’t care how much $ they were offering him, it wasn’t enough 4 him to go against what he believed in & i really respect him for that. I think we’ve seen enuff blk men in dresses
Tatted Diva says:
@ WCC – I JUST PULLED UP THE WIKIPEDIA ON HER….YUP, SHE’S STILL ALIVE & KICKIN…..SHE SPENT 20 YEARS IN PRISON, RELEASED & THEN DEPORTED BACK TO COLOMBIA!
THANKS CHIBY FOR THE INFO….GOTTA WATCH IT!
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me too.. I wanna watch it
@ WCC – “in my best Tommy from Martin’s voice” COOOOOLE, YOU STOOPID!
Shanae Hall, the former wife of an NFL player-turned-author who penned the book “Why Do I Have To Think Like a Man?”
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is this book out yet? anyone read it? thoughts? good or bad?
@West Coast Chick….it’s it mandatory to show up to those? How does missing child custody hearings mean a warrant will be issued? I seems like it would just be considered Forfeiture of custody by default.
But dont get me to lying…I aint never been in no family court.
For some reason I actually believe him…many of those shows that start off authentically funny end up getting OWNED by the higher ups and the originator loses all creative ability…they bring in new writers and the whole feel of the show loses its luster…remember how they did In Living Color? Can you imagine how much they would have done to his show if he took that $50 mil? For some reason I think he would have had to literally sell his soul in the process of making that money…

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@Fayla
I agree…the best way to drag someone down after they’ve stood for something they believe in is to call them crazy and feed the media it’s necessary junk food…
I think she is still alive…i know she was released from prison recently and was sent back to Columbia…..I dont think she’s dead….
Escabar DID indeed pay of some of our debt….it was a whole scandal behind who was getting paid to “find” him or maybe NOT to find him…Plus all the cocaine he was shipping ito the US the govenmnet had to know what was going on!!!!
is this book out yet? anyone read it? thoughts? good or bad?
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Hi Frenchi! Yes it’s out, came out not long after SH’s 1st book, but no I’ve not read it..haven’t heard a thing about it either, good or bad
@ 37 if you “really” knew how crazy the industry is and what must be done to make that kind of money you would’ve walked away too. There is a reason why all these “power celebs” are having nervous breakdowns, shaving their heads, emotionally distressed, etc. Dave posted a video why he turned down the money. Money doesn’t make you happy, just comfortable.
Dave turned down the show bc they wanted total control & 4 him to wear dresses n chit & he wasn’t having that. He didn’t care how much $ they were offering him, it wasn’t enough 4 him to go against what he believed in & i really respect him for that. I think we’ve seen enuff blk men in dresses
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He didnt sell out like cough Martin, Tyla Perry, and Ms. Eddie Murphy….I can respect that and just watch the re-runs of the Chapelle show…
@chiby
I heard when entering Escobar’s compound it took like thirty minutes to get to the main house by vehicle, that’s how much land he had control of…I always felt that he was in cahoots with the american government….dude is too much of a cocain legacy on a global level…
Feline Feminine says:
For some reason I actually believe him…many of those shows that start off authentically funny end up getting OWNED by the higher ups and the originator loses all creative ability…they bring in new writers and the whole feel of the show loses its luster…remember how they did In Living Color? Can you imagine how much they would have done to his show if he took that $50 mil? For some reason I think he would have had to literally sell his soul in the process of making that money…
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In Living Color was the best example. That show went to straighttttt shyt. I honestly dont think Dave was hurting for any $$$$$!! Not that he had 50 mill but he was far broke. If that’s the case, I’m glad The Chapelle show went out being the funniest shyt on TV. That’s how I want to remember it.
Feline Feminine says:
@Fayla
I agree…the best way to drag someone down after they’ve stood for something they believe in is to call them crazy and feed the media it’s necessary junk food…
u betta say THAT! most ppl think no one would turn down that kinda $, but not always so. Not everyone can be bought & sold. He proves that. & the media did a HELLUVA job discrediting him after he turned it down. But Dave will never be broke as long as he does stand-up, so 
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thanks fayla! this is the 1st i hear about it………
anyone else???????
If that’s the case, I’m glad The Chapelle show went out being the funniest shyt on TV. That’s how I want to remember it.
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I think that’s sincerely what he wanted too and I love him for it…he will never be remembered as a comedian who sold out for millions…his comedy will always be respected and hilariously funny for years to come…God will bless him to make a comeback soon enough…
Dave is Muslim.. there is no way on this earth he would dress up in a dress.. not for ANYTHING!
He didnt sell out like cough Martin, Tyla Perry, and Ms. Eddie Murphy….I can respect that and just watch the re-runs of the Chapelle show…
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Mmmhmm…Chi Dave said “I’m already rich BISH so take that 50 mil & give it 2 dem nuccas cool wit that dress chit, I’m aiight. I don’t need to be THAT RICH BISH!” LOL! Bruhva had to do what was best for him..
@chiby
I heard when entering Escobar’s compound it took like thirty minutes to get to the main house by vehicle, that’s how much land he had control of…I always felt that he was in cahoots with the american government….dude is too much of a cocain legacy on a global levelhe…
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This dude had his OWN prison bulit, by HIS people…the chit was on some resort type chit….And there was nothing nobody could do with out it….I watch a documentary on his kids…One hs sons fleed Columbia and
is scared to come back cause he thinks either the governent or one of his father’s enemies is STILL out to get him and his other siblings..Dude said they had som much money growing up they didnt even know HOW to spend it…..
That’s THAT chit right there!!!
I see why he chose to go by the name ‘Steve’.
West Coast Chick says:
Dave is Muslim.. there is no way on this earth he would dress up in a dress.. not for ANYTHING!
Muslims dont play that gay, feminine chit….
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I think Dave lives in Ohio or Kentucky, cant remember which, but he did mention that the cost of living is cheap wherever he is.. I saw on a documentary that Dave said some producers were telling him to wear a dress for a particular scene.. he declined and shortly after he went from the hottest comedian to ..a crazy man that’s hard to work with. But it didn’t work cuz Dave has plenty of fans.. he’s one of the best stand up comedians of our time
I think that’s sincerely what he wanted too and I love him for it…he will never be remembered as a comedian who sold out for millions…his comedy will always be respected and hilariously funny for years to come…God will bless him to make a comeback soon enough…
MWUAH!!!
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my sentiments exactly..Well folks it’s been fun, but I’m out this bish time to start my weekend
Dude said they had som much money growing up they didnt even know HOW to spend it…..
That’s THAT chit right there!!!
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Remember that scene in the movie ‘Blow’ when they were stacking boxes of cash in the house and ran out of rooms! smh…that’s definitely that chit right there!
chibytex aka lil red riding hood says:
West Coast Chick says:
Dave is Muslim.. there is no way on this earth he would dress up in a dress.. not for ANYTHING!
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Muslims dont play that gay, feminine chit….
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Right!
integrity.. Dave has integrity and self respect and he obviously cares about what his family thinks of him
wait….Ya’ll think Tyler Perry dressed/dresses up as Madea for money????
Please explain….
Remember that scene in the movie ‘Blow’ when they were stacking boxes of cash in the house and ran out of rooms! smh…that’s definitely that chit right there!
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God I could only imagine what type of life that’s like…but the problem with that chit is that its only temporary…..you will either end up in jail for the rest of your life or end up dead….aint no retired drug lords…
hey y’all
happy friday! 
Divinebrown says:
wait….Ya’ll think Tyler Perry dressed/dresses up as Madea for money????
Please explain….

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No I think Tyla dresses up in dresses cause he like it AND for money…..
wait….Ya’ll think Tyler Perry dressed/dresses up as Madea for money????
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I know you didn’t direct this to me, but I think he initially did it because he likes dressing in drag…jmo…but now that he’s fallen into the same category as Flip Wilson, Martin Lawrence, Jamie Fox, Eddie Murphy and other black comedians who dressed up like women for laughs, he can’t stop because hollywood controls him now…
God I could only imagine what type of life that’s like…but the problem with that chit is that its only temporary…..you will either end up in jail for the rest of your life or end up dead….aint no retired drug lords…
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Does anyone recall when protestors picketed outside of Tyler’s home becuz he wouldn’t pay medical benefits for the writers of his show
in tyler mind. he IS madea..
Choco aka Hippie says:
Does anyone recall when protestors picketed outside of Tyler’s home becuz he wouldn’t pay medical benefits for the writers of his show
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@Chiby
It not the best job but there are prolly still some old heads of Cartels and Mafia
@chib….I hate to say it but part of me does think TP is battling homosexuality with every fiber in his body. But wait, Has he ever outright said he WASNT GAY? Maybe he just hasnt confirmed his taste for men.
BREAKING NUDES.. YOU HEARD IT FIRST:
1. I farted thru my rent box
2. Old McDonal had a farm
3. I am sleepy as Mary Harvey’s bank account
4. I know who killed Kenny
5. I got them squat and tuck Mr. Cee osh kosh onsies goin gofr the 3 for $10. They come preprinted “Why Think like a man when dude looks like a lady?” Guaranteed to keep ur secret in place.
6. Its friday so I got cat fish nugget plates on sale as well.
Every time we have a black man act like a real black man “they” put him in a dress to further prove that black men will coon out for anything no Values wont stand up for anything. I remember when Wesley Snioes was the hardest Black Man in Hollywood put him in a dress and his whole everything changed.
They do it to make us think there really arent any real men out there. Making our yougins think its normal for a man to dress as a woman for fun. I remember if you would have ever got caught wearing some woman anything you was gone get “Man Handled” We are leting our Male and Female boundaries go and thats not a good look!
@Divine
I actually heard he claimed that he once lived a homosexual life when he was homeless and broke…but that God delivered him from it…I think those comments and that interview has been purged somewhere…but I do remember hearing that many years ago…
@WCC
It was a big deal Tyler had to clear his name over that chat
@AL
I get what you are saying but honestly I think Hollyweird knows that stuff sells – Big Momma with Martin – and Wesley wasn’t alone Patrick Swayze dressed as a female also…
@Feline….I don’t think Hollywood controls him completely. I think Madea is his money maker. I think it’s his fallback plan. He said a few years ago he wasnt doing Madea anymore and I think there’s been 2 movies since.
But, initially MADEA wasnt for $$$$$. I firmly believe that. He thinks he’s above Madea now.
Feline Feminine says:
wait….Ya’ll think Tyler Perry dressed/dresses up as Madea for money????
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I know you didn’t direct this to me, but I think he initially did it because he likes dressing in drag…jmo…but now that he’s fallen into the same category as Flip Wilson, Martin Lawrence, Jamie Fox, Eddie Murphy and other black comedians who dressed up like women for laughs, he can’t stop because hollywood controls him now…
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not to mention he’s flaming
@Divine
Yeah, he did say he was no longer going to do Madea, but Hollywood said differently. His Madea movies are his biggest cash cows, that’s why he continues to put them out. In my honest opinion I’m not sure why because his non-Madea movies are better…yes, he needs to work on his directing, but the storylines to his other movies are much better and watchable…
Divinebrown says:
@chib….I hate to say it but part of me does think TP is battling homosexuality with every fiber in his body. But wait, Has he ever outright said he WASNT GAY? Maybe he just hasnt confirmed his taste for men.
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Well on Oprah he stated that he pretty much said that he was confused….cause he was sexual abused by women and men….I think the reason why Tyla’s daddy abused him is cause Tyla was “different’ as a child…he say he was abused by his daddy, a neighbor, and decon at the church and lady that used to baby sit him….
I just wish he’d come on out the closet…we’d still accept him and go see his movies (well I dont like NONE of his Madea movies) and hell some black men may even be more comfortable coming out…if he came out
Feline Feminine says:
@Divine
I actually heard he claimed that he once lived a homosexual life when he was homeless and broke…but that God delivered him from it…I think those comments and that interview has been purged somewhere…but I do remember hearing that many years ago…
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WHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA???? Don’t be pulling my leg b/c you know I will google until carpal tunnel. lmao!!
This ain’t like when Tommy Hilfiger went on Oprah and said his clothes arent made for black folks, is it? You be done sent me on a wild goose chase. I’ma FACCCK CHECKIN MOFO. (YES FACKS!!!)
all you have to do is look at Tyler’s mouth to know for a FACT he is definitely ghey…
I know he wasnt alone Why dont you see All the white stars dressing in Drag??? Stallone every dress in drag? Arnold? Nah but every time you turn around we have a black man dressed as a woman. Then if we have one that stands up and says no then Oh he’s Crazy
@Divine
Yes, I heard this information long before he was doing movies…I’ve been following Tyler’s work since it was nothing but those stage plays on dvds you had to get at the flea market…I did not hear it directly myself, but someone told me that he stated this early on in his career…
I remember if you would have ever got caught wearing some woman anything you was gone get “Man Handled” We are leting our Male and Female boundaries go and thats not a good look!
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Hell yeah…my mama would BEAT the brakes off my brothers if they touched any of chit…she’d say I aint raising no muthafukking faggots in my house….take your ass outside and play with the boys”
Nowdays women think that chit is cool…i know my sister n law does…I remember us having Mother’s Day brunch and she made the comment that she didnt see anything wrong if her son turned out to be gay….I say well if I ever have a son and he’s turned out to be gay, i’m gonna have a problem….i’d still love him, but i dont know about accepting that chit like its cool!!! NOT MY SON!!!
@Divine
I actually heard he claimed that he once lived a homosexual life when he was homeless and broke…but that God delivered him from it…I think those comments and that interview has been purged somewhere…but I do remember hearing that many years ago…
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I think I remember hearing some chit like that too….He probably was prancing around the French Quarters sleeping with men for money…he aint gotta be shamed…
@CHIB YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THAT OPRAH INTERVIEW WAS A SEMI-COMING OUT WASNT IT? I was sooooo waiting on him to drop the bomb. But you are right, people would still support. I LOVE everything TP. But, I’m a movie nut sooo that ain’t saying much. I’ll see everything he puts out just to support.
@Feline…….LMAO!!!!!!!! PULL UP A CHAIR AND sit it DOWN!! *while you playin doe, it’s the way he talks that got me SIDE EYEIN the hail outta him!*
@chiby
Lol, your post makes me think of that movie Transamerica, where Felicity Huffman played the role of a pre-op male tranny…his mother was thoroughly hurt and disgusted by his lifestyle choice…she felt like she no longer had a son, and he told her she no longer had a son…that’s gotta hurt as a parent for real…
@Divine,
Just look at the way his lips curl…they look like some serious DSL’s…I do not mean that in a mean way, but he just looks like he partakes in a mean fell atio…
@AL
The Roc dressed as a tooth fairy… and Dustin Hoffman in Victor Victoria
CHIB YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THAT OPRAH INTERVIEW WAS A SEMI-COMING OUT WASNT IT? I was sooooo waiting on him to drop the bomb. But you are right, people would still support. I LOVE everything TP. But, I’m a movie nut sooo that ain’t saying much. I’ll see everything he puts out just to support.
I think he sort of came out of the closet…basically saying that yes I’ve slept with men and I’m still struggling with my sexuality, so if you see with a man in the near future, remember that I was molested by men and feel sorry for me and accept me. that’s what i got out of it…
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He probably was prancing around the French Quarters sleeping with men for money…he aint gotta be shamed…
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The Roc Is part Black thanks for confirming another victim for me and Dustin is not a manly man is he? Nope didnt think so. Look at any of the other “American Heros” bet you cant name any beside the brown ones that dress in Perry Wear
@AL
I just dont think it about degrading the black male image – those men have choices ya know. And I don’t recall Dustin not being a manly man. Robin Williams as Ms. Doubtfire
@Al
I actually agree with you whole-heartedly…but I’m sort of a conspiracy theorist…
@Al Boy
Robin Williams did it in Ms. Doubtfire…
Robin Williams is Gay!
@ Choco Okay I do though!
but I’m sort of a conspiracy theorist…
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I am too…I believe there is a conspiracy for everything that happens in this world….
JFK Assonation
MLK and Malcolm X Assonation
9/11
President Obama election
Birds and fish dying
Biggie and Tupac Assonation
I could go on and on….
Okay @ AL
@Alboy
How do you know??
Robin Williams is also not an all american hero…I wonder if Denzel was ever asked to dress in drag
@Feline……if you call that man’s lips DSL ONE MO TIME WHILE IM AT THIS DESK….IIIIIIIIII FEEEELLLLLL OOOOOOUUTTTTTTTTT!!! I’ma need you to pull it together calling TP flaming. *on the flo*
@Chib…I think you’re right. I was too busy blinking back tears trying to look like I wasnt crying watching Oprah. lmao! I do feel sorry for people that are molested. It’s like their innocence is robbed from them. I’ve seen so many boys molested that end up gay. That’s awful. So you are correct. Then the Boondocks episode that was supposedly based on factual info….omg.
@Divine
That Boondocks episode was HIGH-larious!!!!!
He turned around to granddad and said, ‘look man, I just want some azz…’
so what have I missed
@Feline
Who is considered an All American Hero – I don’t have not one person that comes to mind except for the soldier fighting for our country with integrity
If Denzel was asked he had a choice to say yes or no?
chibytex aka lil red riding hood says:
but I’m sort of a conspiracy theorist…
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I am too…I believe there is a conspiracy for everything that happens in this world….
JFK Assonation
MLK and Malcolm X Assonation
9/11
President Obama election
Birds and fish dying
Biggie and Tupac Assonation
I could go on and on….
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Dang Chibytex.. we twin thinkers today.. mirroring my thoughts!
@Chib…I think you’re right. I was too busy blinking back tears trying to look like I wasnt crying watching Oprah. lmao! I do feel sorry for people that are molested. It’s like their innocence is robbed from them. I’ve seen so many boys molested that end up gay. That’s awful. So you are correct. Then the Boondocks episode that was supposedly based on factual info….omg.
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Being a victim of abuse myself, I understand what Tyla is/has been going through…I just wish he’d own it and come out and be honest with us and himself….To me he is still trying to play both sides….and that’s what makes me call him Tyla…. cause he lying and chit….
The oil spill #Conspiracy
@Feline……
THAT DAMN EPISODE OF BOONDOCKS……HADDDD.MEEEE.SCREAMIN!!!!!! They did your boy so wrong. I was inclined to think it was true based off TP’s reaction. But, I need to pull up a chair next to you. lol
So none of u mud ducks buying cat fish dinners today? My rents is due on the 5th, help a retired video vixen out…
@Choco
Yes, he definitely had a choice…but I think what Alboy is saying that the very masculine alpha male type actors typically do not do roles that call for them to dress in drag. He used Wesley Snipes as a great example…he was a masculine action hero and was doing a great deal of ‘Will Smith’ type roles for awhile, and then he turned around and played Noxema…
IDK either way, but I do think there can be more to add to the discussion…
@Chiby
I don’t think Tyler is playing both sides when you see him out and about it’s normally with Oprah or females casted in his recent project – I don’t think Tyler think he needs to admit it either way – For what and for who – I’m certain he knows which side of line he stands on
Choco aka Hippie says:
The oil spill #Conspiracy
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Females who wear mohawks even though they edges been gone… #Conspiracy
Feline Feminine says:
@Divine
That Boondocks episode was HIGH-larious!!!!!
He turned around to granddad and said, ‘look man, I just want some azz…’
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@Dawn
Awwwlll Hell…I’ll take a cat fish dinner…
Im not talking about real life hero Im talking about Tv/Movies. Come on now get for real
@ Chi I never saw him suckin a duck or nothin I just believe he is
And Denzel Did wear a dress! but has Jack Nicholson ever put one on? No all the “Real” Black men in Hollywood Have to dress as a woman. Period!
Tyler has dyk suking lips
Didn’t Will Smith kiss a guy in a film well he’s not a good example becuz he’s on both sides of the fence
Forest Whitaker, Dijmon Hinsou, Cuba Gooding, the cute guy I forget his name he starred in Madea’s Family Reunion the one beating his wife are strong black men and played the roles hell even Morgan Freeman – I think it basically boils down to an artist/actor and his creative choice
Choco aka Hippie says:
@Chiby
I don’t think Tyler is playing both sides when you see him out and about it’s normally with Oprah or females casted in his recent project – I don’t think Tyler think he needs to admit it either way – For what and for who – I’m certain he knows which side of line he stands on
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So you are saying his way of admitting it is by NOT admitting it…Sorta like what Kang Latfiah did…that’s a good point…
But I guess I just wish that he’d step up to the plate and admit it…cause hardly ever any black actors come out of the closet….I think if he did come ALL the way out…it would help a lot of confused ass men to stop being on the DL…..
@ Dawn whats up baby? I dont want any fish but here is $4 and a coupon for $2 off some Xtra washing Liquid
chibytex aka lil red riding hood says:
Being a victim of abuse myself, I understand what Tyla is/has been going through…I just wish he’d own it and come out and be honest with us and himself….To me he is still trying to play both sides….and that’s what makes me call him Tyla…. cause he lying and chit….
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HAHAHHAHAHAA!!! I wouldn’t say lying, per se. But maybe it’s a true internal conflict. Like not knowing what the heck he wants. Plus, the media outlets have painted African-Americans as homophobes, so that could be another part of it. Whatever the case, you’re right. OWN UP and come out. Write a script Antoine Fisher style, Tyler.
@AL
I still don’t know what character in a film I would consider the HERO – and I get what you are saying but it’s the character the actor will walk off the set and do something stupid to marr his HEROIC character so no such thing IMO and I am being for real
@Chiby
Tyler coming out won’t change the DL culture for the reasons you stated most blacks seem to be homophobes
@Choco
None of those men played action hero roles though…I’m talking about all-american action hero alpha male roles where bombs are going off and a cut muscular body is being displayed…
@Alboy
When did Denzel wear a dress?
Well we know Tyler dont want a fish dinner
Choco you talkin bout Blair Underwood??
Well we know Tyler dont want a fish dinner
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one of the best movies ever made Philadelphia had Tom Hanks and Antonio Banderas playing gay men.
@Feline
Well IDK that american hero chit I can’t apply it – I know what you mean but I don’t think that becuz they are not playing in those roles it means some underlying bs – That movie about Blood Diamonds was Dijmon considered a HERO in that film
one of the best movies ever made Philadelphia had Tom Hanks and Antonio Banderas playing gay men.
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But were they wearing dresses?
Cuba played a drag Queen in a movie
@Lolita
YESSSSSS lawd child I had a brain fart
WHAT WE TALKN BOUT?
mrsloveleigh says:
one of the best movies ever made Philadelphia had Tom Hanks and Antonio Banderas playing gay men.
I watch that movie everytime it comes on tv….Awesome acting by the ENTIRE cast….
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That movie about Blood Diamonds was Dijmon considered a HERO in that film
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I agree, but Leonardo was the leading actor…
I think Tyler pretty much admitted he was gay on Oprah when he publicly talked about being abused…He said everything short of “I am gay”. Homophobic people will say big deal even if he does come out
I think most of the men he in his movies are closeted guys too, Shemar Moore, Old Spice Man, Adam Rodriguez, the list goes on…
Cuba played a drag Queen in a movie
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What movie?
Tyler likes Fishsticks (c) the rickey smiley morning show
@Feline
It makes no sense to compare about who’s wearing dresses they all have a choice no one can force their hand – if they buckled and fold under pressure that’s Hollywood’s fault
@ Feline No they were not they had on Suits never a dress even as Gay men they were Masculine!
Adam Rodriguez
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*clutches pearls*!
@Feline
And Rightfully so – Leonarda has way more movies under his belt and probably a few awards
Boat Trip! he was a fake one but he did what? Wore a dress Basically the entire Movie!
Why would they be wearing dresses in a movie about Gay rights when TO WONG FOO was about Trannies – Big Momma he was undercover I mean to make them put on dresses becuz they are GAY is not a true depiction of the Gay Community
@ALBoy (Comment #92)
TOTALLY AGREE !!!
On Post TOPIC:
LQQKS at @mrsloveleigh Gravi… B-I-T-C-H-E-S
if they buckled and fold under pressure that’s Hollywood’s fault
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Exactly! I think that’s what we are getting at…Hollywood has an agenda on what images they want to promote…
Dijimon is not American is he? you wont see Africans doing it. Only those watered down african Americans
Wore a dress Basically the entire Movie!
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By choice – ain’t no way I’m buying Hollywood has that much control and if they do you have sold yourself out – NOT HOLLYWOOD again it’s about choices –
Boat Trip! he was a fake one but he did what? Wore a dress Basically the entire Movie
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ALBoy says:
@ Feline No they were not they had on Suits never a dress even as Gay men they were Masculine!
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BOOM! And there it is…i dont have a problem with Gay men per say…I have a problem with men trying to be WOMEN…..I dont understand the whole transgender chit….I mean how in the fukk do you know that you were born with the wrong body…chit seems demonic to me…God gave you a penis cause that’s what he wanted you to have….now howeve you choose to use it is your business…but dont be trying to change what he intended for you to have….
@Feline
I don’t think Hollywood is putting that much thought into – they are after what makes money PERIOD – I’m not saying Hollyweird isn’t superficial but the ones that sell out are the culprits
Cuba played a drag Queen in a movie
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not really a drag queen but he did cross dress a lil in Boat Trip. Wesley Snipes dressed for Wong Foo. Ving Rhames in Holiday Heart, Kurt Russell in Tango and Cash, Dustin Hoffman in Tootsie, Tim Curry in Rocky Horror Picture Show, John Travolta in Hairspray and you know white folks love him
not really a drag queen but he did cross dress a lil in Boat Trip. Wesley Snipes dressed for Wong Foo. Ving Rhames in Holiday Heart, Kurt Russell in Tango and Cash, Dustin Hoffman in Tootsie, Tim Curry in Rocky Horror Picture Show, John Travolta in Hairspray and you know white folks love him
and Thanks… they have a choice
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Exactly! I think that’s what we are getting at…Hollywood has an agenda on what images they want to promote…
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Yes and that’s why I was disappointed with the Hangover 2….I didnt like how they threw the shims in the movie and then say “its nothing, forget it” then turn around and marry his wife the next fukking day….that chit did NOT sit well with me…
I mean the movie was funny and all but it was too raunchy…even for me!!!
Feline Feminine says:
Adam Rodriguez
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*clutches pearls*!
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36 no girlfriend, no kids, no baby mama drama, no wife, a good friend of Tyler Perry. You do the math!
@Choco
I hear you, but like I said earlier I’m somewhat of a conspiracy theorist, and I do not believe all is as simple and cut and dry as it may seem…
@Feline
I gotcha I’m somewhat of conspiracy theorist as well…
@ Choco Okay I said I do I believe they do. We always hear about how much how much Hollywood affects women and what they do to their bodies but they dont have that same pull in men Oh Okay got it!
36 no girlfriend, no kids, no baby mama drama, no wife, a good friend of Tyler Perry. You do the math!
If it walk like a duck, talk like a duck, then…….
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@chiby
That chit was HIGH-larious! I laughed my azz off for the entire two hours…but I agree that tranny stuff was very disturbing. Shoot, after that night he should have gotten tested and sterilized…
But those ladyboys over in Thailand are very real…I watched a documentary years ago about them and there was one man who left his wife and family here in America to shack up with a ladyboy in Bangkok…
LOL at AL and “watered down African Americans”
even though it is a true statement
FEFE
I think I was traumatized by seein that
@ Choco Okay I said I do I believe they do. We always hear about how much how much Hollywood affects women and what they do to their bodies but they dont have that same pull in men Oh Okay got it!
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I think Hollywood is forcing the homosexual agendas down our throats to get us to accept it and not think anything of it… I’m not so sure its working
I know I have dibbled and dabbled both sides of the fence, but a man can NOT do it…. that chit makes him GAY!!!! Point blank, period!!
pull in men Oh Okay got it!
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No cuz I think you contradicted yourself the men wearing dresses for a movie role has more control over the women who obsess about plastic surgery and a vast majority of them are not actors
@ Lucious I cant look at your lips with out thinkin about Peaches muscle spasm and DNA all over the Place
Girl, I knew something wasn’t right with her deep azz voice when she was sitting down talking to them…
But those ladyboys over in Thailand are very real…I watched a documentary years ago about them and there was one man who left his wife and family here in America to shack up with a ladyboy in Bangkok…
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I heard its like that in Brazil too…
How can you leave your entire family for a fukking shim…..
Tha fluck ya’ll talking about
I didnt contradict myself Im talkin about Actors and actresses come on bruh I know you know what Im saying
think Hollywood is forcing the homosexual agendas down our throats to get us to accept it and not think anything of it… I’m not so sure its working
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So Hollywood is forcing the idea of Vampirism down our throats as well –
OH BY THE WAY I HAVE FAILED TO MENTION THAT BROWN
….. YOUR GRAVI HAS INSPIRED ME………STAY TUNED
Oh really Al
@AL
I hear what you are saying and I’m certain you hear what I am saying – I can’t agree with you on it though it rubs me the wrong way to think that Hollywood has the much control over Black Men in Hollywood –
@Cha cha!
promises promises Cha Cha
And Anyway Im too free spirited to ever think something or someone has control over me – I can’t give anyone that pass
So Hollywood is forcing the idea of Vampirism down our throats as well –
I think they are…. they are getting young folks to believe in supernatural bull chit….and that perhaps there are wolves and vampires and chit in the world… Just like aliens… although I do believe aliens exsist… 
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@chiby
He was fat ugly and disgusting too…he said that he slept with the ladyboy one time and he came so hard he felt like he could shoot bullets through the headboard with his dikk…I almost threw up because it made me realize how many other men like that shyt…the ladyboy was very pretty too…he/she looked like a 15 year old girl…
Choco aka Hippie says:
think Hollywood is forcing the homosexual agendas down our throats to get us to accept it and not think anything of it… I’m not so sure its working
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It’s working. The gays have taken over the industry. All the awards show hosts are gay and it’s an unspoken requirement that all American Idol male winners are gay
@choco
Those hollywood folks have secret societies and organizations and chit…you don’t get paid millions for acting in a movie for nothing…the influence is real
@AL
I hear what you are saying and I’m certain you hear what I am saying – I can’t agree with you on it though it rubs me the wrong way to think that Hollywood has the much control over Black Men in Hollywood –
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They do…back in the 90’s the only actors out there where ‘gangster’ actors…you had to be in a movie killing another black brother to move on the next big movie…..think about Boyz in the hood, Menace II Society etc…
And if you are black and if you dont want to follow the agenda Hollywood has set for us, then take your ass down to the welfare….
@Chiby
I believe in the Supernatural and all things unexplained but I can’t attribute it all to Hollywood
Okay – Maybe
FE FE FEEL ME UP
SUP CHIBY…cute gravi
AL… Im glad you like it… I thought it was pretty funny
BROWN
dont do me like that…. I aint say when…but I said
and what were you thinking of that got your mouth all juicy and shyt like that 
@ Feline Feminine: I was in a house in Miami in the 80s and the home owner (who was married) was having sex with a male street kid in the bedroom. I thought the headboard was going to crash through the wall into the living room where I was sitting! I could only imagine that sex wasn’t that intense with his wife.
Thank You Ms Sandra! Talk to her please! You better open your eyes just because its not affecting you does not mean it wont affect you!
think about Boyz in the hood, Menace II Society etc…
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If Im not mistaken John Singleton a black man wrote and or produced both movies so Hollywood made Singleton tell about life in the hood – so now everyone got damn person is a walking ANDROID with no thoughts of their own – I mean cuz that’s where it sounds like this debate is headed
Every movie Will Smith is in is damn near an end of the world movie, some futuristic chit or an alien movie…you dont think there is something to that…
He knows some chit we dont….Him, Tom Cruise and Matt Damon (I fukking stan for Matt Damon though)
@Sandra
I believe it..when you have a fetish like that it makes the climax that much more intense…
@AL
My eyes are open my daughter is a lesbian so I don’t know what you think Im not privy to – I have a mind of my own perhaps if most folks started using their own mind as opposed to being followers Hollywood nor anyone else for that matter would be so influential…
@ Choco no they didnt but when he tried to step away from those type movies and do something else he made the Where are they now list ASAP! If THEY dont want to see it it wont happen!
@Chiby
and I said I believe in all things Supernatural and unexplained but Im not walking around and letting all that chit influence me or my spirit
I don’t look up to any MAN I go to GOD for my knowledge they could all know something just like I could
so now everyone got damn person is a walking ANDROID with no thoughts of their own – I mean cuz that’s where it sounds like this debate is headed
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No, no, no…that’s not what the case is at all…but you have to understand that when you are IN IT, when you are directly IN the situation, the influence is that much stronger and your decisions are that much harder to make…if you wanna play you gotta pay…and many people are weak-minded enough to go along for the ride…it all comes with some kind of price and many people come under the spell of the glitz, glamour, lights, money, etc….
Cha Cha I’d rather not say what I was thinkin but or to whome I was doin it to since this is a MFCKIN FAMILY ORIENTED BLOG!
If Im not mistaken John Singleton a black man wrote and or produced both movies so Hollywood made Singleton tell about life in the hood – so now everyone got damn person is a walking ANDROID with no thoughts of their own – I mean cuz that’s where it sounds like this debate is headed
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That’s not what I’m saying….i’m saying that those movies were part of angenda….whether they were written, directed or produced by a black man…At the time in the media there was ALOT of black on black crime…gangsta rap and gangs and chit…
IMO sterotyping all BLACK men as a gangstas was on the Hollywood Agenda back in the 90’s…..just like right now Tyla perry fits right into the Hollywood gay agenda….back in the 80’s Spike fit the agenda for Black Awareness….
Come on Al – I agree Hollywood has power no doubt but Spike Lee did his types of films without Hollywood backing him all the way he started his own trail blaze
And Hollywood is a business you make Films that bring in major box earnings MADEA – yeah they will push that becuz of money not becuz you black or white or wear a dress or not
Im not sure why your daughter being a lesbian has anything to do with anything but okay
Im saying stop living with blinders on as it relates to the topic at hand. Hollywood decides a lot its always been that way.
@Sandra
I believe it..when you have a fetish like that it makes the climax that much more intense…

____________________like bumping uglies, or anal sex
Thanks ChaCha for the gravi shout-out!!
people are weak-minded enough to go along for the ride…it all comes with some kind of price and many people come under the spell of the glitz, glamour, lights, money, etc….
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My point its about choices if you weak then get the fuk out of dodge cuz Hollywood doesn’t give two chits about you if you are not bringing in money you aint chit
Okay Man Whatever! I swear you cant talk to some people!
s/n my “ugly” isnt ugly
@chiby
that is a very pretty gravie…
My point its about choices if you weak then get the fuk out of dodge cuz Hollywood doesn’t give two chits about you if you are not bringing in money you aint chit
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True again, but I am talking about Hollywood’s influence, not the individual who is unassuming and innocent and likely doesn’t even see what happened to them until after the fact…
@ALboy
Becuz you told me to wake up as if I don’t have any knowledge of the gay community. Now back to Hollywood – I don’t give them that control over my thought and I won’t ever – so for me to say they decide indirectly or directly on what Im going to watch is HOGWASH I have a choice! The point is very simple to me – you make a decision good or bad make a choice! Don’t forget this America not some third world country where choices are limited
@Luscious
Mine isn’t either…my ugly is gawjus!
Choco
I see what you are saying but IMO Hollywood is the illumanti…cause they control what we watch and what we listend too…but then they turn around and put all the blame on us….Hollywood is the devil
@Feline
Okay you guyz are saying Hollywood is an influence and then HIP HOP is an influence as well correct?
Thanks feline….
@Choco
Are you aware of how much information is transmitted into our brains subliminally?
Hollywood probably is the Illuminati – and with that knowledge wouldn’t you be more apt to not let them influence you
I never said anything about the Gay community Just straight men dressin like woman
pay attention Please!
@Choco
HIP HOP is an influence as well correct?
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Yes, it ABSOUTELY is…especially on our youth…
FeFe
lookin at a pic of mine right now
@FELINE
Yes I do and becuz of this Im filtering and censoring on my own – Cuz society is not!
and with that knowledge wouldn’t you be more apt to not let them influence you
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How can we “not let” something when we don’t even know when or how it is coming…that’s the art of it all…
@AL
This conversation touched on gays trannies and some more – you pay attn : P
Feline
Okay you guyz are saying Hollywood is an influence and then HIP HOP is an influence as well correct?
____________________Hollywood killed hiphop…there are only few survivors left…and even they are on life support…
Choco I get that Hollywood doesnt influence YOU personally, but overall they Run the World…Its more about have influence, not neccessarily control….
How can we “not let” something when we don’t even know when or how it is coming…that’s the art of it all…
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Im sorta confused by the question but this is my response – I don’t like Rihanna’s music I don’t listen to it – simple
Yall might as well go ahead and
And it you are aware of the subliminals in this world you would be able to recognize them no?
Its more about have influence, not neccessarily control….
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Correct again but if you are not one of strong will and conviction Hollywood is the least of your worries
Hollywood probably is the Illuminati – and with that knowledge wouldn’t you be more apt to not let them influence you
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But dont you see they do influence us…back in the day I would have never came on a blog and discussed my sexuality…it because NOW its accepted and its ok…Hollywood has opened up the conversation about sexuality and all that…..
Hollywood glamorized cocaine usage and distribution in the 80s with Scarface..you had a whole generation of muthafukkers that either went to jail or died trying to be fukking Tony Montana…and you know how the 90’s went down…how many of our black men are in jail cause they thought Doughboy was the chit…..
@Choco
The definition of subliminal according to dictionary.com is:
existing or operating below the threshold of consciousness; being or employing stimuli insufficiently intense to produce a discrete sensation but often being or designed to be intense enough to influence the mental process or the behavior of the individual.
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Again, you may not listen to Rihanna if you don’t like her…but I guarantee there’s something else you like that sends you a subliminal message…subliminal messages run rampant in the marketing world…so what makes you think this art has not been mastered to be placed upon a group of people who are unassuming and unaware of what is going on in their subconscious?
Im sorta confused by the question but this is my response – I don’t like Rihanna’s music I don’t listen to it – simple
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But your kids will listen…i cant stand Nikki Garbaj but my EIGHT year old tep daughter adores her… I cant stand the infleunce that bish is putting on lil girls….
Again, you may not listen to Rihanna if you don’t like her…but I guarantee there’s something else you like that sends you a subliminal message…subliminal messages run rampant in the marketing world…so what makes you think this art has not been mastered to be placed upon a group of people who are unassuming and unaware of what is going on in their subconscious?
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I have a master’s degree in Integrated Marketing Communications and I took a whole class on subliminal messages and how effctive they are in marketing… the chit is real…
@Chiby and Feline
– IM NOT BUILT LIKE THAT
Again Ladies for me it’s simple – Im not going for the propoganda I married a drug dealer I know about the 80’s but I won’t put it solely on Hollywood – They do influence but damn I guess anyone can influence me to do anything – even something I dont’ want to do but I will anyway
And Im not saying Im unaffected by subliminal chit but I will also confirm that my brain operates in a different fashion I go to GOD when I have true life questions – so with that being said GOD influences me before and over everything else – Maybe that’s the problem folks need to get closer to GOD
@CHIBY
And there we go back to the old true saying Parents need to be more involved in their childrens lives and that I am my kids listen to Rihanna and other artist but my children also know how their mother feels about certain lyrics or artist and if I need to break it down to them I will – Im raising my children not the PSP not Hollywood not the IPOD not the teachers
@choco
And Im not saying Im unaffected by subliminal chit but I will also confirm that my brain operates in a different fashion I go to GOD when I have true life questions – so with that being said GOD influences me before and over everything else – Maybe that’s the problem folks need to get closer to GOD
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I completely agree with you, but like I stated earlier and like chiby said, our youth is always the most impressionable group of people on the planet and they are our future each time around…that says alot…
I know it’s real and maybe that’s my best defense to it (subliminal)
always the most impressionable group of people on the planet and they are our future each time around…that says alot…
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That’s when true parenting comes in – I stay in my children’s ears about politic’s news, natural disasters we have discussions and conversations some parents don’t make time for that
and yes there will always be good parents out there who raise their kids properly and have positive influence in their lives…but look at the number of children out there who do not have this direction….look at how many brothers, sisters, cousins, and friends they have in the same predicament…and look at how they grow up and have kids….
And Im not saying Im unaffected by subliminal chit but I will also confirm that my brain operates in a different fashion I go to GOD when I have true life questions – so with that being said GOD influences me before and over everything else – Maybe that’s the problem folks need to get closer to GOD
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Im talking about the way the news protrays black people…its the way Hollywood is all about plastic surgery and botox and OUTTER beauty, the way hiphop only talks about cash, cars, and coochie, the way homosexuality is so blantant now…. Hollywood has subliminally brainwashed the world to follow their agenda…maybe not Choco cause you have a strong relationship with God, but most dont and most are being misled…
Well all, it’s been great chatting with you guys this lovely friday afternoon…but I’m about to go to the salon and get ready for the weekend…take care ladies!
maybe not Choco cause you have a strong relationship with God, but most dont and most are being misled…
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Well that’s GOD purpose for getting them back on the path to him – He will mos def show you where you are lacking as far is he concerned
@Choco
See we can have “deep” discussions in here too…I love that about this blog….there are alot of intelligent people on this blog…even though we fukk around everyday…
chibytex aka lil red riding hood says: …
Choco I get that Hollywood doesnt influence YOU personally, but overall they Run the World
ll do anything for me. Who run the world? GIRLS
And Chiby
Allow me to admit this – I didn’t always have a strong relationship with GOD it was a journey I had to go on and I realized GOD was bringing me closer to him through my own trials and tribulations – Would you believe when I was younger and even in my early 20’s I didn’t believe in GOD #REAL but my life took turns for the worse and it was GOD that I would pray to – he answers everytime
@Choco
You say that you dont listen/like rhianna right in your house…well what if your daughter came home with koolaid ass red hair….
You gonna be like “where the hell did you get that from? We dont even listen to or look at any of her videos in this house….your daughter will be like Uhmm well when I went over my friends house she had a magazine with her on the cover and so I deciced to dye my hair too….
Some chit you just cant control….
@Chiby
The deep in SR and the crazy fun we have in here and the fact it’s like an extended family is why I love Sandra Rose also she is doing GOD’s work and I wonder if she realizes it – by allowing us this forum to voice opinions on many topics pertaining to life
<–doing the stanky leg real slow and nasty
My persuasion can build a nation. Endless power. A love that we can devour. You'

ll do anything for me. Who run the world? GIRLS
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You say that you dont listen/like rhianna right in your house…well what if your daughter came home with koolaid ass red hair….
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I can’t control it but I’m close with my kids so surprising Mommy like that would be a lil foolish and breach of our trust – they can come to me with anything just let me know what’s going on – my son wanted his ear pierced me and his DAD were agaisn’t it – but my son really wanted it and I was on my way to Atlantic City – I told him no his DAD told him no then I felt bad cuz my son is a good kid – I gave in and it’s really cute moral of the story – he knew to check with his parents first and becuz he did we may have went back and forth but he ended up getting it #COMPROMISE
And Chiby
Allow me to admit this – I didn’t always have a strong relationship with GOD it was a journey I had to go on and I realized GOD was bringing me closer to him through my own trials and tribulations – Would you believe when I was younger and even in my early 20?s I didn’t believe in GOD #REAL but my life took turns for the worse and it was GOD that I would pray to – he answers everytime
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I still have my struggles with him…although he has never forsaken me, i’m not understanding why he wont allow me to work and to contribute to my household…. i know there is a lesson in all this, but I have yet to get it…its going on 2 and half years now….
But I only really pray for direction cause at the end of the day that’s all you can control…so maybe God is directing me to sit at mhome….
The deep in SR and the crazy fun we have in here and the fact it’s like an extended family is why I love Sandra Rose also she is doing GOD’s work and I wonder if she realizes it – by allowing us this forum to voice opinions on many topics pertaining to life
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Even when we talk sex up in here I think its a lesson….alot of people may be afraid to say the things we do…we may be helping people become who they really are….
CHOCO….. SEE THAT IS WHY YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A M.I.L.F
@Chiby
Sometimes don’t question GOD I was out of work for 2.5 years started temping and slowly built myself back up and standing even better than I was before – Perhaps you could use this time to work on some skeletons or painful memories you may have from your childhood I remember when I was off – it was a lot of soul searching
I agree I’ve learned some new sex things on here as well
:hugs: @ CHA thanks bew
@Choco
I guess that’s the point…I have to stop questioning him…I’m trying to get my hubby on the same page…cause yes its a stuggle on one income, but we havent missed a beat….Thanks to God…
Girl all I do is think and dream…I dream about oepning up my own travel agency…i dream about opening my own catering business…I guess i’m still waiting on God to tell me what to do or bring someone into my life to help me get on the right path….
I know that working for the white man aint it for me….I cant do it….
@Chiby
Well use this time to research opening a new business start catering on a small scale there is a lot you can do right now if you are serious about opening your own business and – GOD always provides one way or the other – you and hubby will be just fine
Also start writing some of your ideas down in a journal and see the outline you build from the idea
Choco aka Hippie says:
@Chiby
Well use this time to research opening a new business start catering on a small scale there is a lot you can do right now if you are serious about opening your own business and – GOD always provides one way or the other – you and hubby will be just fine
Also start writing some of your ideas down in a journal and see the outline you build from the idea
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I used to write all the time before Imoved to Chicago…I dont know why I stopped…i used to write poetry and short stories…. I think when I moved here I just lost the mojo I had in Houston…I guess its cause I left my support system…I gotta find me again….
My friends be like what happened to the 2004 you….I’m like I dunno, she up and went and got married and had a baby….. LOL!
@Chiby
I go thru creative lapses from time to time almost like writers block
No time like the present to get back to you then
Choco aka Hippie says:
@Chiby
The deep in SR and the crazy fun we have in here and the fact it’s like an extended family is why I love Sandra Rose also she is doing GOD’s work and I wonder if she realizes it – by allowing us this forum to voice opinions on many topics pertaining to life
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Thanks Choco, I’ll take that as a compliment.