Video: Mothers, don’t teach your daughters to be strippers

Sandra Rose February 7, 2008

This is so wrong on every level.

Thanks to Fred at freddyo.com for the link!

GO GIANTS

i dont even know why we bother questioning this ish, the ignorant are obviously just gonna stay ignorant, there is nothing we can do about that, dont ever wonder why hoes are hoes…its sad to say the least, wont be my unborn…
GO GIANTS

…and i say that not b/c i dont care about our people & their fate, but b/c the world is just too far gone at this point.
TT

WTF is this world coming to???????????? Unless the other races are teaching this to their kids in private & on on YouTube, it seems like blacks are the only ones who think this mess is cute…………..
aprilshowers

Um are my ears decieving me or is she calling them “b*tches and ho&s”??!?!? My God…

Its so dissapointing to see things like this…WAKE UP PEOPLE. Please.

& GO VOTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
prettybrwngrl

we are in a sad..sad state as african americans.
kenyanhottie

This is shocking to say the least. First the video with the teens simulating some serious sex and then this? I had wondered why they ( the teenagers) were working it like experts, well now I know. The little girl in the pink can’t be more than 3!
To the dogs is where our morals have gone to….to the dogs!!
Msko90250

the parent’s need to get slap, for thinking that’s cute. See that’s why all these kids gones missing/play with.
ggouch

I remember those days when your mama and her sisters would call you in the den to show them the latest dance. The cabbage patch, the K-Swiss, the Woop etc.
THIS!!
Is ignorant on sooooooooooooo many levels!!!…Then you wonder why Cousin Kim’s new boyfriend is looking at your 10 year old child lustfully!
TT

@ Kenyanhottie,

I cant agree w/u more. I just recently visit my hometown & we to my BFF’s 8yr b-day party & I couldnt believe what how they were teaching the daughter as far as dancing…..just like this mess only worst. I grab my purse & left & I dont even have any kids…….
Msko90250

That’s right (ggouch)
Msko90250

Sorry! this day and time the generate is mess up. babies having babies that why they show the kids it’s okay.
http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

Oh lawd they got the little kids involved now..what is the world coming to??? and why is it only black folks doing this mess, why o why o why lawd.
spraggaswifey

@ggouch —I RIDING WITH YOU….THIS IS SO EMBARRASSING ON SO MANY LEVELS….THESE LIL GURLS PARENT/PARENTS SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF THEMSELVES AND MADE TO GO TO AN ACT RIGHT CLASS…THIS IS EXACTLY WHY THERE ARE SO MANY FAST TAIL GURLS THESE DAYS….THE BLACK COMMUNITY IS IN A STATE OF EMERGENCY….THIS IS JUST SO SAD….
hellava10

This is what happens when TayTay (mama) is 15 and Mama (really grandmother) is 29.
NYCUTIE

Little children LOVE Ciara and the only way she dances is like a stripper. The way that girl is dancing looks just like one of Ciara’s moves. It is the parents and the entertainers that influence these children.
free

obama, change this!!!
spraggaswifey

I JUST WANTED TO ADD THAT THIS IS WHY CHILDREN NEED AND HAVE PARENTS OR MATURE ADULTS TO TAKE CARE OF THEM……IT IS NOT THE MUSIC INDUSTRY’S JOB TO POLICE OUR CHILDREN….WHEN WE SEE VIDEOS WITH ALL OF THIS BOODIE POPPING DUTTY WINNING WE NEED TO NOT LET OR CHILDREN BE EXPOSED TO THIS….I’M SORRY BUT PARENTS NEED TO BE PARENTS AND REALIZE THAT IF THEY ARE RAISING THEIR CHILDREN THE WAY THEY SHOULD BE THEN THEY WOULDN’T LET THEIR CHILDREN BE EXPOSED TO THIS MESS….THIS TYPE OF BEHAVIOR SHOULDN’T BE ENCOURAGED….SAD…AGAIN, THE BLACK COMMUNITY IS IN A STATE OF EMERGENCY….@hellava10—-LOL
http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

I’m sorry I refuse to blame the media…If your child starts poppin droppin and lockin and you do not stop them thats all on you.
http://www.myspace.com/aaronmichaelofatm AaronMichael

I actually have to agree with you on this Sandra. This is wrong on so many levels. I had to stop the video after the little baby girl started breaking it down. I can’t watch or support anything of that nature.
GO GIANTS

aprilshowers
no i didnt call them Bs and Hs, i said; never wonder, to yourself, in life, why ho*s are ho*s, this is the reason…
ggouch

@ NYCUTIE Says:

Little children LOVE Ciara and the only way she dances is like a stripper. The way that girl is dancing looks just like one of Ciara’s moves. It is the parents and the entertainers that influence these children._______________________

NYCutie, I agree with you that the parents are to blame here. They are to blame live and in living cellphone color. I could be with you more…IF Ciara was a Disney or Nickelodean Star. She isn’t. Once we were provided with parental control devises through our remote controls, blamming the media and the entertainment industry became a cop out.

It starts at home. That is the rule that stands the test of time.
Caron02

Oh my dman…did the lady call the little girl a “yellow snake” – WTH?!?!?
GO GIANTS

@aprilshowers
oh, lol, you meant them on the video, lol, my bad, i didnt listen carefully the 1st time…sorry
istandbehindtheIam

From the sound feed in the video, I hear whoever is taping, calling one of the girls a “ho” and then when the older lady steps in and starts poppin’ and droppin’, I hear the taper calling someone a “bitch”. Quite frankly, whoever was taping and commenting sounds like a “bama”.

It’s a pity, those young ones weren’t shown how to open up a book to read.
Ms.IT

I am 23 years old and I would beat the shyt out of mines. If I danced like that my grandma would still try to whip my ass. I have friends that kids dance like this and they laugh at me calling me an old lady. I’m glad i have boys and they better not bring nothing to my house that look like this. Then they could have at least comb their hair. HOODRAT HOES is what they are.
http://www.myspace.com/prprincess1577 prprincess1577

This little girl looks like she is dancing exactly like the moves Ciara is teaching in her DVD that came with her latest CD. I know because my 12 yr. old daughter has it. I had no idea it was like when I bought it, but I stopped her from learning it when I saw. I’m not blaming this insanity on the artists, but they should be more mindful of the products they are selling geared towards children. I’m sure adults aren’t buying the Ciara DVD to learn how to dance.
prynsexxx

If they had any sort of anything about themselves, they should have had each one of those lil girls in the house under a sink washing and combing their heads. I can’t stand to see lil girls with their heads not combed. ANNNNNND a woman with a comb “stuck” in her head and its still not combed, ala, the lady in the red pants. I bet you not either one of those lil girls knows their multiplication or division. And the baby probably isn’t even potty trained.

My 12 (will be 13 in a couple of weeks) year old daughter, has 2, not 1 but 2 instruments in her bedroom, a keyboard and a f’n cello. She religously takes piano lessons EVERY saturday at 1230 and has so for 4 years now. Her all A’s and 2 B’s (adv. pre algebra, adv english, adv. science, social studies, symphonic orchestra and art) report card hangs proudly on the front of our refrigerator. I’m not saying thats for everybody, but I’m staying on top of mines.
prynsexxx

My bad…..I wasn’t finished.

It starts in the home. They were literally airing their dirty laundry. That shyt should have been taped indoors. The YT ppl do it all the time! We just don’t see it b/c they are INDOORS with that mess. Baby’s having babies is not the biz! COMB THOSE KIDS HEADS – uuugh – That drives me to no end! I get sooooooo disgusted with our race, that sometimes I literally sit and cry. What are we going to do blk ppl. “What us gone do?”
ms.peaches

The sad thing about all of this is that it’s nothing new, the F***** up part about this is that they put this for the world to see just how ignorant of a mother she is!! I remember back in the day just like Ggouch was saying you would teach your folks the latest dance or be clowing around in the house but it was never anything like this, I would love 2 find that mother & beat the dog **** outta her I have 2 boys & a girl she happens to be the oldest I never dropped outta school to have her (I was actually 23), tried to raise them right & if it was somthing I didn’t know or couldn’t handle there grandmother stepped in, like Bernie Mac said there aren’t any Big Mommas anymore!!! This subject is very touching for me cause I hate seeing things like that while you have others that think it’s cute!! I know some of us can’t stand Soulja Boy but at last he came out with a song(dance) kids could do & wouldn’t be questioned about it!! There are some songs out here for the kids & the majority are not, It will be some nights me & the kids will turn it on the video channel & we would all dance together but it may be 2 or 3 songs on there that is suitable, you can’t protect your kids from evrything but you can damn sure teach them the difference between right & wrong!!!
ms.peaches

@Prynsexxx It isn’t a laughing matter but some of the thing you said had me dying!! But you are absolutley right mothers don’t spend enough time with there girls teach them how 2 be a lady!! do there hair!!! get them involved in a after school activity for goodness sakes thats all we saying!! & Pryn when your daughter grows up Im sure she will settle for nothing less cause you already instilled that in her early, I have a 9 year old & she too is involved in her school, she’s a bit of a tomboy right now but were working on that(lol) but as long as she keep her head in the books she can be whatever she wants & won’t have to resort going to the local strip club cause thats all she knows!!!!
Angel_Minded

*SMDH** I have relatives that act the exact same way. So sad. The crazy thing, is that when people like Bill Cosby try to address these issues, everybody always hates on him! Like there’s no truth to what he’s saying. This video is a prime example of EVERYTHING that he says.

Part of the problem is that there are too many young mothers, that don’t know how to ‘parent,’ right or just don’t have great values. Sometimes, I love black people…other times…I’m just speechless
http://TheBeatniksCelebrityGossip.com Seattle Slim

African-American culture has become a culture of apathy. Because of said apathy, this will continue to go on. Unfortunately there is so much work to be done, bringing attention to it isn’t enough. There is much work to be done. Much mentoring and much more holding people accountable.
karaz

Its amazing they force you to have licenses to drive cars, evn some states require you to own animals, but any fool with a womb is allowed to procreate
carliss

I can’t see…help…what’s going on!!!! Somebody clue me in so I can dog thier azzez out!!!
Dt2

ok, are we being to political they just love Ciara…but the lil baby is too CUTE….Get it Girl!!!!
sanaa312

When we see a 2 year old try to do the dance Ciara does its cute. But when your 12 year old daughter who is going through puberty does it there is a problem. Kids do what they see on TV and most of the time their mother is sitting there watching it with them and egging them on and proud when the do the “snake roll”. Future strippers of America…
free

prynsexx (@ #27/28), i thought i was the only one who noticed those heads! they need soul train, afro sheen and ultra sheen.
terika83

I don’t know about the older lady who joined in later, but this little girl is CLEARLY mocking your “best friend in your own head”…yes…CIARA….those are her dance moves…any kid can learn them from watching her videos, and the little baby was simply mocking the older girl.
Bsoul

Why doesn’t CHILDRENS SERVICES have a copy of this?
Msko90250

Ciara, need to slow her roll then, if you have lil girls coping that s@@@. I bet when those girls get older and you ask then “what they want to be when you grow up. The 1st thing will be MODEL, DANCES etc,
tizzle

ok Sandra I totally agree with you on this one. That is just sad and patheic. And then I hear an adult woman cursing in the background no way but to each it’s own.
MistaO

One word: DISGUSTING!

I’m sorry, but this BITCH of a “mother” needs to have her ass arrested. Just plain disgusting. Oh, disgusting, this bitch is ill.

“We” are in deep, deep trouble. And I thought it couldn’t get any worse. Wow!
scorpio

Our Ancestors have been let down so many times. We are completely lost.
Bsoul

This is one household–it shouldn’t be considered the norm for African Americans. Sure, there are others out there who whore their kids’ childhood away too, but it’s not the norm.

Judging from the responses here, alone, it’s unacceptable and should be looked at for what it is, an aberration.
Mrsdawsondn

lil hoodrats in training. ANd I’m sorry I completely disagree with ppl saying it’s cute to see the 2 year old doing it but a bit too much for the 12 yaer old. Ain’t nothing cute about teachin no baby to be a target for molestation whether they be 2, 9, 11, 14 it ain’t cute. Like I said them mama’s is creating some lil Hoodrats in training and the evidence is in the appearance. Period.
Mrsdawsondn

And like it or not that’s exactly what they are…. Targets for molestation. Some perv is probably jacking off to this foolishness as we see it.
D4lyfe773

Thats a shame for anyone to teach a child how to be a stripper. I danced for 2 years and I never would want to hand that career down to any child. Im so happy I stopped. Its very degrading to anyone that does it.
Sharonda

Well little girls know 3 things when they watching tv:Beyonce’, Ciara, and video hoes.They look at tv and emulate what they see.You see her in her Freakum Dress real soon while getting bodied in the club while someone does an Akon on her.Well, welcome to today’s generation (Even though I’m 21 and I don’t do barely of the things most do in my age range)
Deeladi

This is no surprise seeing as every hip hop record is about glorifying a stripper, a woman (and I use that turn loosely) that takes her clothes off for money. We are a people with a bottom feeder mentality. This shouldn’t be a surprise to anyone.

I’m very doubtful if anyone in that video knows their ABCs.
Coo Coo Bananas

Why teach them when Ciara is? Seems like she already has it on lock.
fashionismylife

This is a mess, the kids are only doing the things their parent consider cute, and on top of that you can hear the grown woman filming the video calling them b*tches and H*es… This is terrible..I bet if you could see the person filming, she probably missing a tooth or to and her hair is all over her head looking a hot dopefiend mess, because nobody in their right mind would put their young girls on video dancing and degrading them by using such foul language to them if they didn’t have some type of problem…she’s definitely on drugs!!!
BaBiEDoLL

Omg Im Speechless! I Thought I Was Trippin But I Knew I Heard Her Call Them Kids Bishes N O’s Wow Thats Crazy!! Im 25 & My Momma Aint Ever Called Me Either Of Them Names(Not to my face anyway). Thats They First Video Camera And They Taping Anything And Just Wanna Be On YouTube… But OMG WTF Did She Think PPL Was Going To Say?? LoL @ Shes Definately On Drugs! I Agree!!!
Keish4bville

AND EVERYONE WAS PISSED WITH WHAT BILL COSBY SAID!!!

I’M SO TEAM BILL… THIS IS THE BS HE WAS TALKING ABOUT I TOO BLAME THE IGNORANT BLACK PARENTS!!!
Fatkat

Some parents see this as fun, but if you listen the parent doesn’t seem to have as much of a brain as a child. This parent will think it’s ok when her child comes home in about a year or two pregnant, and the first things shes going to do is take her to the aid office. Her mother doesn’t want her to be anything in life. What is the best way a parent can keep their child from doing and being better than them? The answer is help lead them down the wrong path.
sexyma078

TT and others whos say its Just BLACKS Please REMEMBER KIM KARDASHIANS LITTLE SISTER ON THE POLE IN THEIR PARENTS ROOM BEING TAPED by their brothers best friend….i do not agree with this…it even sound like a person (who sounds like a grandmother) call one of the girls not dancing the B word but it kills me when people act like this is just a black thing… LIKE AIDS TRIFLING HAS NO COLOR
Mika79

Lil’ PooPoo…is that gonna be that baby’s stage name?
treon

This is so sad to see…and as a woman it hurts my heart that the mother, cousin,aunt…somebody in the family were referring to the little girls as the B word. And we wonder our daughters, sisters, cousins, and friends accepts anything from anybody. We have to train a child in the way that they should go…children have to have guidance, but first the parents on this video need some. Somebody need to start it off by slapping them and giving them a REALITY CHECK…

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