Over the past couple of days I have received a lot of criticism from “concerned parents” who are upset that I posted the video of the two little girls cursing up a storm while their own mother urged them on.
They claim the little girls “didn’t consent” to the videotaping. As if they weren’t aware that they were being videotaped by their own mother for distribution on YouTube and other video outlets.
They demanded that I take the video down and sweep all evidence of the obvious child abuse under the rug,
This is how clueless and blind our own community is to the ongoing sexual exploitation of our own children by their own family members!
One loyal reader understood that what’s happening on myspace is a growing problem that no one seems to be addressing.
The reader emailed me a link to the mom’s Myspace account. Her name is Tasha, she’s only 23-years-old and she lives in Virginia.
Tasha has created at least 30 Myspace profiles to exploit her young daughters who use excessive profanity in videos posted on their Myspace pages. Tasha encourages her daughters to curse like sailors, dress provocatively and pose seductively in photos plastered all over their Myspace pages.
I’m posting Tasha’s photo in the hopes that someone in Virginia knows who she is and reports her to social services there.
On Friday (9/19) someone at Myspace deleted one of the little girl’s pages. But are they blind? They left intact at least 10 pages in her friend’s list that appeared to exploit young children.
How difficult is it to scroll down and take a look at the other profiles on her friend’s list? It’s appalling to see profile after profile of prepubescent girls posing in a sexually suggestive manner.
The profile of the little girl pictured above has her age listed as 21!
Earlier this year, MySpace announced new safety measures to protect children from online predators.
But I see no evidence of that on the 2nd most popular social networking site in the world. None of the profiles of the children in the little girl’s friend’s list were deleted.
One little girl, who poses suggestively with a hand on her hip, urges viewers to “please comment” on her pictures. Her Myspace page boasts “more photos added” in a a new album in her gallery. She couldn’t be more than 5-years-old.
I can’t even start on this heiffer
Truly disturbing im glad you put this woman on blast sandra and i hope CPS gets involved and smacks this woman, what is wrong with her, why would she want this for her children?
I am sad this useless piece of crap is from my homestate. It is ashame that she is allowed to breed. I urge anyone who knows her to call your local CPS and have them kids yanked away from her.
Ridiculous! I had my daughter at age 18 and I’ve never felt it cool or okay to allow encourage her to act in such a manner. The mother cannot use her age as an excuse for her own immaturity. The way the world is these days, you have to go outrageously out of your way to protect your children and this “chick” is going the opposite route. She is setting her children up to be blindsided. Of course its not their fault (gestures, language, etc) b/c they only learn what they are taught and what little girl doesn’t look up to her mother? At least initially… But the mother and any other adults who encourage this crap – even those who refrain from stepping in – should definitely not be allowed to have custody of any children. I pray God embraces these children b/c they need someone to care.
Personally, I’m inclined to believe, that people who know her think this mess is cute and won’t be reporting her.
To the young mothers out there:
Buying your children the latest name brands and teaching them the latest songs is not TAKING CARE of your children. Instilling values and morals, supporting their education, and encouraging them to be better than the norm is apart of taking care of your kids. Imagine what your greatest accomplishment in the world could be and then aim beyond that for your kids!
I was always told that if you validate your child, they won’t need to seek validation in the streets! Let them know they are somebody important and deserve the best.
well like i said on the other one that it took me all of 2 minutes to find that girls page. i have some research skills that are down right scary. if i can find her imagine the WHO else can? it had her name, picture, city and state. a real easy target for some pedophile to show up at her school…anything.
i also said that mess was all up in my SPIRIT. it just makes me seeth that some people are so STUPID. they just don’t get it.
it takes a village.
I guess Tasha’s dumbazz shpuldn’t be mad when she is a grandmama by 30 and her own children are cussing her out!
This woman obviously isn’t the brightest crayon in the box…and Sandra is right put this fool on blast b.cuz this is indeed child abuse. Some people have absolutely NO business attempting to raise children and this Tasha idiot is clearly one of those people.
Well if she feels that her daughters have any kinda talent, why not get them involved in some form of activities, like dancing, singing, playing musical instruments. I guess the mother want them to be the next video girls. Just silly!
TASHA IS A OLD WHOE!!
Tasha (The Sandrarose.com member) I applaud your comments #4 & #6. They actually brought tears to my eyes because as you stated you had your child at 18 and most young girls are not mature enough to handle this responsibility at such a young age (as we can see from this young ladies –if we can call her that immaturity). Thanks for sending such beautiful & true message.
What is the first most popular social site on the net?
I dont have anything to add to what’s already been said…
wait .. yes i do .. I have my son’s (he’s 15) myspace password .. and I shut his page DOWN when i saw the language he was TYPING to his friends.
(wooooshaaaaa) … breathe .. 10.9.8.7.6.5.4.3.2.1
ok.. ok
Yall can say all i want to .. just THINKING about my son’s myspace gets me pissed to the highest level of pisstivity !!
I don’t see the problem..
These girls are the future… Future Luke Dancers, Vh1 contestants, video hoes, where do you think we get our Superheads from? These girls have a chance of one day being on Oprah. How many of you can say you’ve sucked a mean one and ended up chatting it up with Oprah. Shoot R. Kelly isn’t in jail don’t you think he’ll need some fresh azz to piss on. Shoot Tasha is looking to make money off her offspring. Can you say the same.
@ BayArea
Thanks. I graduated college last year all while working full time and being a single parent to a 7 year old. I love that my daughter sees that. Not to toot my own horn, just saying that kids can be provided a better example than this “mother” is providing. I hate that she has my name b/c she doesn’t carry it well.
This is so disturbing to me on so many levels.Like I said in the other post I don’t know why people plaster their children on myspace with the many pediphile looking at their children.I don’t get it, someone needs to enlighten me on that.
WOW so sad
to all the single moms out there stay STRONG. i had my first daughter at 17 and like my mom told me “you are only a statistic if you allow yourself to be.” one of my favorite memories is my pregnant mother working 2 jobs in order to send her oldest to carolina. so keep ya head up.
this is bothering me again. i still cannot FATHOM what in da h$# told this girl this was okay to post her kids pictures on myspace. still trying to figure it out….
I don’t hit women but I wish I could punch her in her fat ass lips………………Where are my cousins at……..
lol 4sho @ goat76. I’m a girl, I’ll be ya cousin.
SMH that she had to be from VA (I’m from Richmond, VA)
But seriously this is beyond sad….A 5 year old or any child DOES NOT NEED A MYSPACE ACCOUNT or anything else on the internet for that matter. Unfortunately I see cases like this all the time where mothers think its cute to have their kids cussing and fighting and whatever else nonsense you can think of. I know a mom who has 4 kids (she’s 27) and none of her kids can tell you their address if you asked them to, they talk as if they are still toddlers (the youngest is 6 years old) and they are always getting smart with somebody. And their mom cusses in front of them and at them….one time they asked for something to eat and she told them “didn’t you just eat at school earlier?” Mind you that was like maybe 5 or 6 hours ago when they ate and they said yea and she said “well then get the FCUK outta my face then.”
I ask what are some of us doing as mothers and grandmothers today? Do we not even care anymore? We just pop out baby after baby and don’t really care about how we raise them? I don’t understand.
Yeah, it is cause for DCFS to get involved……MySpace ain’t doing nothing…I believe, b/c the mother set up the sites, not the kids…..they can’t do shyt if the parent is the one doing it…..
…I think it’s a matter for DCFS to handle, not MySpace….actually, it makes sense that they leaving it up…so she can kick herself in the azz when the links eventually get sent to DCFS….can we say “evidence” family?
Good Morning Err’body!
No need to worry Sandra, looks like somebody already punched tasha in her lips. Thanks for the heads up on this obvious idiot.
Exactly @ IamdaQueen!! Her bottom lip do look kinda swole…
And they sorry ass daddy(s) need to be whooped too……..
DC/MD/VA…sup, ya’ll try’na take a ride down Richmond? Shyt, straight shot down 295? We’ll be there by noon, somebody needs an azz whoppin’!
SMH @ the situation as a whole. Too bad the MALE ATTENTION these little girls are seeking is not coming from their father/fathers. Wonder where they are and how they feel when they see their LITTLE GIRLS acting out like this????:-(
Those concerned parents that sent emails blasting you should also get their azz kicked along with this poor excuse of a mother. Instead of waisting energy on you for doing something about it they should be contacting Myspace too. SMDH
WTF is wrong with her?! Does she like….WANT her children to be raped/molested….wtf is she making them act like this, putting they are 21 on their pages….wth? Sandra I see NOTHING wrong with you posting that video and information on your site. You are right, people NEED to be aware of situations like this so they can take action. Someone may have recognized the little girls last week and could have made a phone call. Sweeping the issue under the rug doesn’t make the problem go away. This lady needs to be SLAPPED…foreal.
Thats what happens when teens have babies… babies having babies…
they dont know how to teach their children the right way since they werent taught the right way.
This is beyond disgusting. I am going to send a message to the MS admin myself.
This has nothing to do with age. Age doesn’t make you mature. Sorry but I’ve met some very mature 17 and 18 yr olds as well as some immature 50 yr olds.
I had my child when I was 18 and I am raising him on my own. Thank you very much. I refuse to be a statistic. If I had a daughter, I would never pimp her out like this. People have to be more responsible for their kids. You can’t fault this on young parents having babies. As long as you take care of your business, that’s all that matters. My parents raised me well. I am a college educated, independent black woman who is raising a boy to be a man on her own. And I’m doing a good job if I do say so myself. My son is not spoiled nor materialistic and he makes straight A’s. He does not have a myspace account and will probably never have one until he gets grown. To me, its a waste of time. Children need to be more focused on their education.
I need some baby powder so I can slap her in the face:)
Mothers like this make me want to scream. Like some of you I had my daughter at 17. I went on to graduate at the top of my high school class. Get an Associates degree, a Bachelors with honors and I am currently working on my MBA. My daughter tells me all the time Mommy when I grow up I want an office just like you. She has already picked a high school and a college and she is 11. I bet this baby doesn’t even know what college is. I try to keep my daughter away from distractions. She plays soccer, ice skates, and we spend a lot of time reading. No mother that had a child as a teen should want the same for their child
the sad part is that big lipped tasha has probably been tipped off that she is up here and is reading all of our comments, and wondering WHY we are all so outraged. she probably high-fiving her homegirl like “yeeeah i am up there and they are all talking about ME”
b/c ignant azz folks like her just don’t/can’t get a clue overnight. like my mom used to say “you can’t buy common sense.”
i DID contact myspace (tom) via e-mail on friday night and it was taken down shortly after.
Damn Shame…
Black women- please stop putting all that sh!t in your kids hair! A few clips and color s cool, but GOD DAMN!
That baby’s head look like the paper plate you cover with the baby/bridal shower gift bows and wear as a hat.
Go Auntie! Thats why your site reigns over all others!
Keep doing what you doing Sandra.
Why would someone want YOU to take it down when it’s still up somewhere else.
My friend and I were talking about this video and this sort of thing the other day. She feels that it’s the family’s fault for not reporting it or reprimanding the mom. I say the way she acts is most likely indicative of the type of people she came from so if they are as ignorant as she is they are not going to say or do anything. People are worried about being labeled a snitch instead of making a stand to do something and get those kids and mom some help.
I see HunE and I were thinking the same thing .. but I wanted to stay on topic.
@kymy………..I didn’t want anybody to think I was pickin on a child…………My first reaction was……Gotdamn she got a pinata on her head……….
That’s on topic! We’re talking about the kids!
Sh!t, you may not need to worry about them being over-sexualized and worry about someone stealing them to put under their Christmas tree!
goat76 Says:
My first reaction was……Gotdamn she got a pinata on her head………
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I’m sure one day, someone WILL try to go up side her head with a broom handle!
Kym, HunE and goat! A pinata though? Lmao, y’all don’t know how much you make my day in the vanilla seas.
@HunE…………I can see that in her future………
I WILL REPORT HER ASS IN A HEARTBEAT,, TO BAD SHE HAS GLASSES ON IN THE PICTURE.
WHY ARE WE CONTACTING MYSPACE, SHOULDNT SOMEONE BE CALLING OFFICIALS SINCE I DONT KNOW HER MYSPACE PAGE DO U GUYS NO WHAT CITY IN VIRGINIA SHE LIVES IN?
this title is too funny! LMAO.. “Kiddie Pimp”