I just received word that Antonia “Toya” Carter and her man, NFL star James Hardy have split up. And the break up may be over this little pink plastic gun that Toya recently posted on her Twitter page.

It’s amazing the things people find to talk about and blow all out of proportion! I’ve been fielding emails all week from readers about this pink gun that Toya said she received as a birthday gift.

However, word out of Toya’s camp today is that James is no longer “Toya’s man” — although the two remain good friends. This info comes from a very credible source. So, fellas, that means Toya is single and free to mingle!

Here’s what Hardy wrote on his Twitter page yesterday after apparently receiving flack from the NFL’s front office about the gun. I think a clause against purchasing or dealing in firearms is written into his contract:




  • trynabeme

    And this is news, because???????????????????????

  • kwall

    twitter, fb, myspace (insert other social networking site rat HERE)

    is the death of alot of things. relationships, family goings on, jobs….

    use with caution.

    the end.

  • Anna

    Looks like a real gun to me. “That’s not something I purchased her for her bday”. It’s a good thing he’s cute and has money. LOL.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Wow well sorry to hear that Toya but I’m happy as hell – I kid

  • missy

    I heard about this on the other site whose not on your blog roll……….so whose the special person who bought her the gun :waiting:

    I doubt they broke up over the gun but he is a football player and probably no one is willing to sacrifice their time off with one another .(dating a athlete is a long distance relationship that has to be built on trust so either your with it or not)

  • ReadTheBlog

    Why would she tell anyone she even owns a gun? I mean unless you’re a white republican with something to fear, why talk about it? I hope he doesn’t lose his job behind her diarreah of the mouth.

    Mouth almighty!

  • ReadTheBlog

    Question about Facebook. If I am friends with someone and I post on their page, and they respond, will it show on my page?

    And if it doesn’t, it will show on my page that I responded to their ‘status’ right?

  • pinky2083

    I want a pistol like that.

    She kinda crazy for posting that on her twitter page for the world to see, I woulda kept that info to myself.

    That’s weird about her and ol boy, she seemed all happy about him the other day when she was on her during the live chat. Oh well.

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    If they have broken up I am really sorry to hear it. Breakups are never easy. You didn’t really give the story behind the gun and I dang sure don’t plan on looking it up. That would be a very odd gift whoever gave it to her. Buying a pink one doesn’t make it any less dangerous. Not cute.

  • ReadTheBlog

    Oh well is right, PINKY. Betcha she didn’t even know she was dumped until now.

  • Shauny

    I saw this on Twitter yesterday and didn’t understand why she posted the pic of a gun anyway. I thought it was a bad move and her subsequent tweets about the gun only confirmed it.

    By the time I got home EVERY radio station was reporting in their 411 that Wayne brought her a Aston Martin and her boyfriend brought her a gun.

    I’ve also heard that the gus ISN’T plastic.

    Sandra says
    It’s amazing the things people find to talk about and blow all out of proportion!
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    you mean like singers/rappers worshipping the devil? :shrug:

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Whatever!!!!!!

    That made for TV relationship wasn’t real to begin with. I wonder how much she had to pay him to attend that party… & BTW

    You reported that Wayne brought her a car
    & how everybody is cool with one another. :wtf: don’t I ever see Wayne with these chicks after they push out the baby?

    @ Pinky what live chat was that? She didn’t seem excited about anything 2 me. More robotic. Yes, No, Maybe so.

  • pinky2083

    Lol @ RTB.

    @ Isc, I guess I shouldn’t say excited but she made it seem like everything was ok.

  • Shauny

    @rtb

    If someone posts to you on your wall or your status and you post back you should see what you typed as well as them.

    If you commented on their status though, it only appears in their comments section, not yours but you will still see it under their name in status updates.

    If you posted your comments on their wall, it will show on your wall too.

    I think I have that right. If I don’t feel free to chime in peeps

  • ReadTheBlog

    ISC, Lil Wayne doesn’t hang with the baby mommas because Gremlins don’t do well in light; you saw the movie, don’t act like you don’t know – 😆

    Speaking of gremlin, anyone seen Lauren and Wayne’s kid, yet?

  • missy

    @Read the blog & iscream

    :rofl:

    y’all really went in on tha poor child but y’all do have a point.Look at the pic of them in this post they don’t even look like they like each other to me they look like two people who bumped into each other at a party and apologizing.

  • ReadTheBlog

    Shauny, I think I understand. I think.

  • intensemocha

    WASN’T THE RIGHT FIT TO BEGIN WITH

    NO SOCIAL NETWORK IS GOING TO BREAK UP A SOLID RELATIONSHIP

  • missy

    @Readtheblog

    __________Flatline____ at your comments

  • Daisy

    :rofl: @Shaunys last sentence

    Have either of them confirmed via twitter that they broke up for real :coffee:

    :offtopic: I love AKeys new song! That is all

  • http://facebook.com/Im2thick4u 2thick4u

    Sad to see this relationship down the tubes but when u fucking up people lively hood…u gotta bounce!!!

    @RTB…when u post on a froend page…it will show on their page and state on ur oage that u posted on friends status/photo/video or whatever u did on there page.

    U can remove it from ur page though!!!

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Sandra

    Funny that you just got word but you changed the status of their photo from her man to her date the other day. :shrug:

    & if I was associated to someone about to hit the clinker on gun charges with a pending case in another state there is NO WAY IN HE77 I would be twitting pics of a gun. I mean really? If you wanna be a celeb get a PR team.

  • missy

    @daisy i see why you like Teyana Taylor she is real down to earth.I read some comments she made and she kinda reminds me of myself . (still not all the way on the bandwagon but she cool peeps)

    Oh and i like gremlin the movie it was funny and scary at the same time.

  • Daisy

    Shauny also did u see that Omarion spoke out about that devil worship topic as well? I guess everybody will have comments n the coming weeks

  • pointhimout

    funny, just the other day SR, u wrote they couldn’t keep their eyes off each other. i was like :rolleyes: cause I was never convinced. Anyways, wishing the best for all parties.

  • Shauny

    Shauny no, where did he do it at…tweet me so I can check it out.

    I guess he didn’t cave in to the masses since his career is irrelevant. Boy bye Floparion (shout out to Charles!)

  • Shauny

    *that should’ve said Daisy no, my bad

  • Daisy

    Shauny u already to know 2 check that other site lol

    Missy Yes Teyanas interview was FAB and her new promo pics are FIERCE hunni! Lol

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Speaking of the T. Taylor interview.

    Does she know that Sandra is the commenter, who is also the blogger who said she was gay? She worded that as if the blogger and person who made the comment was two different people. Now I see why Sandra made us get pictures.. Guess it didn’t matter. :confused:

  • dcwife1622

    2 days ago I posted I was disappointed in her posting the picture of the gun. Welcome to celebrity life Toya..everything you do is being watched. Posting the gun was in poor taste and a lot of her followers told her that. She said somebody even sent a letter to BET.

  • missy

    she probably thought Sandra was the commenter and not the blogger

    About her pics :whislte: :lolol:

  • dcwife1622

    I asked Sandra is she was a gun enthusiast like TI….

    :waiting:

  • missy

    :whistle:

  • dcwife1622

    I meant if…

  • dcwife1622

    Maybe this is a fake ass publicity stunt..Like Kim K. and Reggie Bush. If they write this into the fake reality Tiny and Toya story line i’m going to be pissed…..

  • Daisy

    I like Reggie n Kim n I neva thought they were a fake couple :shrug:

  • http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

    :lolol: @ dcwife comment #32 so sandra likes arsenal weapons too!

  • Divinebrown

    Awwww, it’s a cute lil weapon of destruction! *I really can’t talk because I have been tossing the thought around.* I want a burglar/serial rapist/stalker to regret bringing his arse up in my crib.

    @2thick….your comments are always so positive…lol

    Anyhoo…IF THEIR RELATIONSHIP WAS ALL THEY SAID IT WAS, THIS WOULD’VE BEEN WATER UNDER THE BRIDGE BY NOW.

    booooooooooooooooooo!!!!!

  • Krysi J

    I don’t blame him, shyt who da hell finna deal wit people baby daddy’s buying aston martin’s and thangs…its bad enough he been taking care of her all this time….the question is who can compete with that, and whats sad is Wayne probably do da shyt on purpose, just to make all her dudes look like lames….he know she stuck.

  • Divinebrown

    AND I AM DISAPPOINTED IN YOU ALL….no one pointed out that…

    THAT PICTURE OF THEM LOOKS SO FORCED AND UNNATURAL!!!! It’s not soft and intimate like they wanted it to look. BOOOOOO AGAIN TOYA! :wtf: is she lookin at? upperlip? in his nose?

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  • ELove

    ME and @iscream WERE ALWAYS skeptical about their so-called relationship… IT was FAKE-ER than that Damn Pink Gun 😆

    @RTB… GLAD to have you back commenting We NEED as many Live-AZZ Peeps up in here as possible 😆

    And Ms. Sandra HE’S An NFL PLAYER — Wide Receiver

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @ DB

    See Missy comment # 16 she did point it out. :rofl:

  • shannon04

    Sad to hear this if it did break them up. She should know by now that being on tv or in the public eye..whatever that you have to be very careful about the things you do. Just the fact that they were a couple and word got around about the gun, he had to quickly speak on it to clear the situation. Sad but maybe this is a lesson learned on her part. She should be as private as she was when she was on here posting one and two word answers…just my opinion

  • ELove

    ^^^
    SEE How being THAT WAY with SR-Peeps can bite YO AZZ …
    Karma comes in some many different WAYS (Live-n-Learn !!!) 😆

  • Daisy

    Testing

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    **crickets** zzzzzzzz and fart

  • missy

    @Elove

    :rofl:

    Isn’t that the truth when you act like your so private and then posting stuff that affect your life on your social network site you get a side eye from me and no love.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I see that I am not he only one that thinks that Duffle Bag Gremlin looks like a gremlin.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I just heard about the gang rape of a teen for 2 hours and people watched. WTF?

    Do you see how the devil is making humans insensitive to good and evil which reduces to animalistic nature unable to think, speak or live righteously according to God’s rules and universal laws. Wow to them that call right wrong and wrong right.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I meant “woe”, not “wow”.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Okay, based on Kandi’s description of the condition of AJ’s body (i.e., no trama), the accused (who was visibly injured) will not have to stand trial.

  • whatdoesitmatter

    @29,
    ey i’m still trying to figure out how to get a picture. how is it down?

  • whatdoesitmatter

    done not down

  • starr

    @ Daisy
    (i know i’m late)

    I always thought kim was more into reggie than he is into her. I personally never thought they were fake. Thats just the vibe i got from them

    @topic

    The couple times i’ve walked by the tv and seen toya and her man…i won’t lie…it didn’t look genuine. It didn’t seem real. Like some people already said about that pic of them up top…just doesn’t come across as genuine. Doesn’t seem natural. Wen you genuinely like someone, and that chemistry is there…you can’t fake it. Its hard to put into words…but i think some know what i mean. There relationship seemed made for tv…just my opinion

    As for toya

  • starr

    i forgot what i was gonna say bout toya…it wasn’t nuthin bad though…..oh well…it’ll come to me

  • dcwife1622

    @Daisy #36….
    I think Kim & Reggie are a real couple. I think the break up was fake. It was written into the Kardashians reality show storyline.

  • free

    you can’t take one of weezie’s broads and make them a housewife! old boy ain’t trying to lose no money over this broad, believe me. the commish is on these NFL players *sses. somebody from the NFL probably saw this stupid ish and told him to drop her like it’s hot.

  • KayCeiSoul

    That’s what I thought @ Free. James always had this “walking on thin ice” look on his face. He looked uncomfortable when Toya was being interviewed on the pre awards show the other day. He was standing in the back looking lost as ever.

  • bk2atl

    Okay, I’m confused…if he’s not a convicted felon, and he bought the gun for someone who is not a convicted felon, why would he get in trouble?? Could there actually be a clause (like Sandra said) in an NFL player’s contract that would bar them from purchasing/owning a hand gun for no other reason than they are in the NFL?? That doens’t sound right to me…

  • KaraZ

    Krysi J Says:
    I don’t blame him, shyt who da hell finna deal wit people baby daddy’s buying aston martin’s and thangs…its bad enough he been taking care of her all this time….the question is who can compete with that, and whats sad is Wayne probably do da shyt on purpose, just to make all her dudes look like lames….he know she stuck.
    ————————————————————–

    Yeah that Aston Martin was a straight, “my balls are bigger than yours and she will always lick them” move…

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Okay, I was trying to stay out of this convo because Toya had a crackhead mother bbbuuuuttt….

    Toya is not over Duffle Bag Gremlin. She wants to hangout with his baby mamas just so she can remind them that she is the ex-wife of Dreadlock Gremlin. That is a sign of extreme low self esteem. Get a life.

    I agree that the relationship with the baller was as fake as a $6 bill. The main problem with the relationship is that the baller is not Lil Wayne.

    Let’s put Toya on ignore until she gets it together.

  • missy

    Morning everyone :coffee:

  • KayCeiSoul

    @bk2atl, I believe he’s already been in some drama concerning a gun. All of these sports leagues will go hard on the players for bringing negative press their way. But as you explained, if he has no criminal history and she doesn’t either, then what’s the problem?

    I’m trying to figure out why the picture made it to Twitter. Twitter will end a career faster than Michael Jackson leaving the Jackson 5. James came with the damage control quickly. LOL.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Blk2atl, it is called a moral turpitude clause. In a nutshell, your behavior both on and off the field can’t embarrass the League.

  • KayCeiSoul

    @attorneymom – all day long, all day long! Toya is still way in over Wayne, kids and all. The emotion she displayed on the show regarding him told the story. It ain’t a Prince Charming in the world that can help her with that jones she has for Wayne. James could have only been a rebound. I wonder if that’s a root. He put a whammy bammy on dat a$$. LMAO!

  • missy

    He put a whammy bammy on dat a$$. LMAO!
    ________

    :rofl: ain’t he from new orleans or he got some special powers in his pants cause chicks running up to be his baby mama.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    LMAO @Kay

  • KayCeiSoul

    That’s all I’m trying to say Missy! Shyyyyyytt! Excuse my French but ewweeee! And she is so pretty. Matter of fact, ALL his thing things are pretty ladies. Either Wayne got a anaconda or a closet full of dolls and pins cause he’s a talented brother, but I can’t see this with Bettie Davis eyes.

  • wiggy2272003

    Yeah that Aston Martin was a straight, “my balls are bigger than yours and she will always lick them” move
    ———————————————————

    :dead:

  • free

    with all of the drama surrounding the NFL (it’s only a very few out of the damn near 2k people in the league but you can’t tell that to the haters), you don’t want to have drama associated with your name. as a player, it can affect your contract, your endorsements, and your fans.

    there is no law preventing him from doing anything for himself or for her but to have your boo showing off a weapon that you supposedly bought her (instead of keeping it on the hush) is BAD NEWS. the NFL does not want little kids bragging to their parents that james bought toya a cute gun and they want one too.

    not only does it show poor judgment on her part (putting their business out there) but it also shows poor judgment in his choice of associations. this is something the teams DO NOT FORGET.

    it’s not about criminal history; it’s legal, it’s moral, it’s allowable but it’s about preserving and protecting the integrity of the league.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Sidebar: Can we do a show about Black attorneys collecting overdue legal fees from their broke azz Black clients?

  • Anna

    Is the question more about why she wants and chose to display that she has a gun. Is she being stalked? Is someone threatening her? You don’t let anyone know you have a gun anymore than you let someone know that you have a million stacks, unless you plan to use the gun or get robbed of the money no need to broadcast it.

  • wiggy2272003

    :faint:

    Sorry yall my daughter showed me this smiley site with tons of them I want to see if they work on any site

  • wiggy2272003

    guess not

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    When people show you who they are, believe them. If it looks like a hoodrat, talks like a hoodrat and acts like a hoodrat, then god damn it’s a hoodrat.

  • missy

    @Kaycei..Either Wayne got a anaconda or a closet full of dolls and pins cause he’s a talented brother, but I can’t see this with Bettie Davis eyes.
    ___
    I think Wayne got both because some of them come back for seconds e.g.(nivea)

    Sidenote: is that gun even licensed?

  • free

    @anna #73, it’s call being IGNANT. she was showing it off.

    @karaz #61, yeah and you know james’ boys clowned his ass about it. and she was riding around in it in his face. smh.

  • Daisy

    @Missy we both changed our pics! CB is looking good

    @wiggy :rofl: @u trying to see if new smileys work 😆

    I thought yall were talking about something else by now :coffee:

    Morning TGIF!!!

  • KayCeiSoul

    @missy I think Wayne got both because some of them come back for seconds
    ************************
    Yup! Anaconda. :rofl:

  • missy

    @Daisy i can’t see my pic 🙁 I still see lloyd banks

    @Kay…I concur it can’t be nothing else but that (we finally solved the mystery of lil wayne :cheer: )

  • KayCeiSoul

    Where is The Lady Sandra with the new post? Folks is getting ansty. I can feel it in the force. :coffee:

  • KayCeiSoul

    *antsy. I’m dyslexic today.

  • Anna

    attorneymom Says:

    When people show you who they are, believe them. If it looks like a hoodrat, talks like a hoodrat and acts like a hoodrat, then god damn it’s a hoodrat.
    ~~~~~~~
    I miss Charles.

  • bk2atl

    Thanks for the explanations. I thought there was some type of “morality” clause, or whatever the correct terminology is, but wasn’t sure if something like buying the gun would violate those terms. Either way, I agree, it is not something to be shown off like a new ring.

  • Krysi J

    Goodmorning yall… :coffee:

  • ReadTheBlog

    Dead @ #70 FTFOLMAO!

  • pointhimout

    AM, i love how you can quote a scripture and then snap back to use god’s name in vain(sp), all in the same breath. funny.