A Highland Park teenager was shot to death execution style after he confessed to inappropriately touching his 3-year-old half sister. Detroit police say Jamar Pinkney Sr. barged into Jamar Pinkney Jr.’s home, where he lived with his mother, and beat the boy before ordering him to strip naked. He then led the frightened 15-year-old out into a field where he shot him to death.
Lazette Cherry, Jamar’s mother said she was only trying to teach her son discipline when she called his father and told him what the boy had done. “I called and told his father this isn’t something you sweep under the rug,” Cherry said Wednesday.
Pinkney Sr., who was separated from Cherry and lived with the 3-year-old and her mother, rushed to the home with a gun.
“He started beating him right here,” Cherry said from her living room. “I said, ‘No, please stop!’ “ She said Pinkney Sr. marched the boy naked out of the house — in full view of neighbors — and ordered him on his knees.
“He got on his knees and begged, ‘No, Daddy! No!’ and he pulled the trigger,” Cherry said from her home on North Street in Highland Park. “There wasn’t nothing that my son wouldn’t do for his father. He loved his father so much.”
Jamar was shot once in the back of the head. Pinkney then calmly drove away. He was arrested 3 hours later and charged with one count of first-degree murder, three counts of felonious assault and one count of felony firearm.
Cherry said the 3-year-old’s mother took the girl to a hospital to be examined Sunday. She said Jamar told her he never raped the child and kept his clothes on.
A physical exam showed no evidence of sexual trauma.
Pinkney is being held without bond.
He should not have killed him, he should have enrolled him in the Army!
“No evidence of sexual trauma”, but a mother is now without her son by the hands of his father. Sad.
Did he shoot him because he didn’t want the son to say his father had did it to him first? Something’s not right with this one…
This is similar to the GODFATHER film where Anthony Corleon killed his brother for betraying him, but later in life he regretted doing so.
Ummm wow is all I can say. Something doesn’t sound right about this, the dad already looks crazy. I just hope an innocent person didn’t loss their life.
@TOLESTT……you probably right on with that. He probably was getting rid of the evidence against him, because he was too quick to kill his own son.
i read about this this moring. how sad
he coulda just called the cops on the boy and let them to THEIR JOB. how can you shoot your own child in the head like that?

DAY-UM Jamar Sr…!!
So he fondled the little girl with her clothes on i presume or was he having dreams about it..
Any who I know we already talked about this in another post but this is a sad story and i think the father should rot in jail…..How could you kill your own child who would do anything for you….
This was premeditated (imo) why did you have to kill him after you beat your son up.Emotions or not this man is cold-blooded because if you can drive off in your car like nothing happened your a beast and should not be around other decent human beings.
@RYAN91…..you right, that man himself looks like a perv.
My friend sent me this story on email….dayum! I really had mixed feelings. I think the dad went too far, but at the same time we see so much sick ish happen to the kids….man I just don’t know. I just pray for healing for the family.
TolesT you may be on to something. This was way too extreme.
THE SON ADMITTED HE TOUCH THE CHILD INAPPROPRIATELY
A PHYSICAL EXAM DOESN’T REVEAL IF A CHILD HAS BEEN FONDLED OR TOUCHED-ONLY IF THERE WAS PENETRATION OR NOT
I STILL DON’T AGREE WITH WHAT THE FATHER DID
This whole story makes me sick to my stomach especially where the boy begged for his life. God helps us all.
So very sad….
This sounds like a disfunctional family! Lord help them! How can you take your own child’s life like that. We all get angry but we have to think before we act. And Mom should have been throwin’ down with Daddy, because he wouldn’t have talked my son out of his clothes and out of the house with a gun. We ALL would’ve have been throwing down.
i’ve worked with kids molested by family members..this child will be traumatized for the rest of her life because of what her brother did..if you heard the stories..’sigh” i may be the only person that agrees with what the father did…extreme or not
SMH. Thats a crying same. Too many demons floating around.
I need more details before I comment.
To be honest I have no way of knowing how I would react if anyone touched my daughter. I think he took it to far, but in all honesty who is to say what his state of mind was at that point.
I’m confused about the whole family dynamics unless I can’t read well. So the 3 yr old wasn’t Cherry’s or the deranged fathers? Who’s child was it?
Oh and that b@stard should rot in h3ll cause what was the point in stripping him naked? He’s sick
I knew there had to be more to this story. Not justifying it but it didn’t seem right that a dad would be so brutal for no reason.
Thanks SR FOR ALWAYS GETTING FACTS FIRST INSTEAD OF TAKING SOMETHING & RUNNING WITH IT.
I don’t know what I think…I have a little cousin that was raped at 18 months old by her 15y/o cousin. He served about 6 years and came out of prison not caring what he did. I think he deserved to be killed at 15 after what he did to my baby cousin. I have no remorse for anyone when they touch or molest children. No remorse!!!
He didn’t have to kill that child. He could have called the police or something.
Oh nevermind I got it! The public school systems I tell ya. So the crazy dad lived with the 3yr old and the son told his mom when he got back home. Yeah something ain’t right the dad was covering something up
2bme, you dont see anything wrong with a father taking his teenage son’s life? I’m all for punishing him but to kill your own child I will never agree.
missmiami – what else did you get out of this story that was new info? I didn’t get anything new. I guess because I read 3 different articles though.
I’ve said all I have to say in the other post but
to see what others think about this.
Now that I see a pic of daddy though….hmm
Touching inappropriately….
when and where did he have the opportunity to? Why were 2 children unsupervised? I want to jump to conclusions but I know nothing is ever that simple.
I have a feeling…he didnt do anything close to what we are thinking. The mother had to have over-reacted to get him to be that hype. Then again, the nigga was prolly crazy. IF THAT IS THE CASE….SHE KNEW THE DUDE WAS UNSTABLE AND SHOULDA KEPT HER MOUTH SHUT.
But, I”m sure this isn’t as black and white as I’m making it seem. Nonetheless, this is a tragic end to a horrible story.
@1
Falls the fuck owttt
The army? That don’t make no kinda sense
And sorry the dad is dead ass wrong and I hope he burns in the 8th chamber of hell for his unnatural selfish unfounded murder, innocent until proven guilty
This is a sad story because kids were involved. Although I understand I would want to shoot someone as well if they touched my child (in Obsessed Beyonce voice), but to shoot your own son is terrible. More and More kids are sexually abusing other kids, sign of the times.
WHO THE FUGG LOOKS AT THEIR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD AND BLOWS THEIR BRAINS OUT ON THE SPOT LIKE NOTHING???????????
THAT IS INSANE.
This is unbelievable…the 15 year old did not deserve to lose his life! What was this guy thinking??
you know, it’s more to this story than we will probably ever know. what if the boy thought this behavior was normal because his dad molested him as a child. and maybe that’s why he killed him, to prevent him from ever telling anyone?
DB says:
IF THAT IS THE CASE….SHE KNEW THE DUDE WAS UNSTABLE AND SHOULDA KEPT HER MOUTH SHUT.
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I was thinking the exact same thing…
@Charles
I agree, the Army only teaches them how to be more aggressive and voided of emotions.
I’m not sure what to think….and I know yall are going to look at me sideways…
I definitely do not deserve the boy should have been killed….that was wrong.
But Jesus he was 15 years OLD….what in the HELL possessed him to touch a 3 year old in ANY sexual manner…..GOD WHAT IS HAPPENING..!!??
That is so scarey!!……..He would have gone to jail and been labled a pedofile at such a young age….then at 18 his juvenille record would have been sealed and he would be free to do damage with a clean slate……..
I just don’t know what to think….
I’m sorry
Civilengineer..for one i am a child of molestation by a very close family member. for two i work with children who have been abused in the worst kind of ways with molestation being the weakest of the atrocities that these children have faced..so no if he did it, death was an easy way out for him and if you don’t like my opinion too bad..i’m not changing it..get over it
@JC
I was thinking the same thing, did this child learn this behaviour from his father? Its not uncommon to repeat the cycle. The dad was too quick to rush over to the house with a loaded weapon, he planned the attack. Made the boy walk outside naked in front of neighbors and executed him.
*pedophile*
AM I agree (shocker). I want to know if the 3yr old really admitted to her brother touching her. I want to know if the brother was molested himself? Just to many questions
Tolest you have a point!
@ 2bme…I’m not asking you to change your opinion, I actually wanted to understand it. Now that I know some more I can kind of see where you’re coming from and I’ll pray for you b/c I can tell you still carry that with you. I agree death is the easy way out, and I don’t think murder is EVER ok but I’m not in your shoes.
Redeemed777 Says:
He should not have killed him, he should have enrolled him in the Army!
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The Army doesn’t want pedophiles or any other criminals for that matter. Why did the mother even ask the son he he molested the girl? Is it something she knew him to do? This is very strange. Either way, I understand the father being infuriated. It had to have been a very traumatic experience for the child whether he penetrated her or not.
@2bme
I don’t agree with the execution, but I understand why you do…TRUST
yall have to understand…I have a 1 year old little gurl and a 8 and a half year old son
THIS IS TOO SCAREY………GOD PLEASE SPARE ME THIS TYPE OF PAIN!!
what was the point in stripping him naked? He’s sick
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probably to make him feel like the 3 year old he touched
Ashamed.
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“at the End of the day” (in C.B voice) nothing got resolved!
1.a little girl is damaged because she lost her innocence, her dad and a half brother
2. a Dad lost his son, his freedom and his mind
3. a mother of the son lost a child, and check
4. and the babies mom lost her man,and has to cope with this with her daughter as she grows
5. the neighbors witnessed something that they can never forget! the cycle is never ending..
This is just awful. I hope he rots in jail
Every article I read made it seem as though the father killed his son w/out cause. Not saying it was right but I didn’t know the supposed reason until now. Not sure how I would feel because men love their daughters.
TRAGIC! I don’t know what to say! I mean I can’t imagine! There is no winner in this situation! I don’t think he shoulda killed him……..killing him did not take back what happened to the little girl!
To read how he begged for his life just made me
I can’t even understand all of this. Was the lil girl his daughter? Where was her father? Did this mother NOT see the gun?
What type of bitsh would allow some1 to drag their child out the house naked?
RIP JR. He should’ve gotten help not killed.
Way too many crimes against children are happening. And there are too many missing facts in this story.
Reports are now being stated that there “was no sign of physical trauma to the girl”. After being examined at the hospital reports are stating that there were no signs of sexual trauma to the girl.
THIS IS TOO SCAREY………GOD PLEASE SPARE ME THIS TYPE OF PAIN
everyday!
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For real!!!!! Our children are growing up in a society filled with sex and drugs and violence! I am scared for my children! There are soooooo many things that can happen even with love support and guidence from parents! I
I’m not saying that she wasn’t touched. She may have been but I’m guessing that her hymen was intact.
The father acted in rage….
He probably also did this as a lesson for others (teenaged boys, etc.) that would think of doing the same thing as his son.
Its a shame he now has to sit in jail and ponder….”why didn’t I just get him help instead of killing him”….SMH
Sandra fill us in…you’re the medical expert.
Sorry I went there..but from a victims standpoint it’s hard to hold compassion..Especially for a child that small who doesn’t have a voice of her own and can’t fight back..even if she suppresses the ordeal it will manifest in different ways by the decisions she makes..sometimes continuing the cycle..locking her brother up would have made him a better criminal..there is no rehabilitation for a sex offender..and yes, molestation is just the beginning for most if not all of them
Sign of the times….
This is sooo sad. I agree there is more to this story that we don’t know. Granted I would be furious to the point of really hurting someone for hurting one of my babies but to kill your own flesh and blood, that is way to extreme.
I’ll be praying for this family
THIS IS SOME CRAZY SH!T MAN! I JUST GETS WORSE AND WORSE EVERY DAMN DAY!
BUT I TELL YOU WHAT….
MUTHAFCKER, YOU BUST UP IN MY HOUSE AND TRY TO TAKE MY BABY BECAUSE YOU’RE MAD….YOU GON HAVE TO KILL US ALL. I AIN’T PLAYIN. HE WOULD’VE HAD TO KILL ME FIRST.
WEAK AZZ MOMMMA LETTING HIM KILL THAT BOY. FATHER OR NOT. THROW HER AZZ IN THE JAIL TOO.
@2bme..Iunderstand what you’re saying. My sister and i were both victoms of incest by my older brother for years as we grew up. To this day, my mother acts like nothing happened and deals with the situation by “sweeping it under the rug”. He has 3children of his own, 1daughter and the way i see it, its only a matter of time before he starts touching her.
Typing to fast…sorry for the typos
It seems more like he acted in jealous rage to me. 2+2 does not equal 4 with this story. It sad on all counts…all praying people need to send some up right about now
You guys are commenting to fast for me to read all of them … so I don’t know if someone already said this …
where were the neighbors when the father marched the son out of the house naked. Sounds like the father was the crazy one.
Damn … Where was the mom? Why didn’t she call the police sooner? It’s hard for me to wrap my thoughts around this one.
This is an extremely sad situation…there has to be more to this story. What kind of parent could just blatantly murder their child?
did yall hear in memphis Tn, a class of 3rd graders were in the library and 9yr old girl proceeded to voluntarily give an 8yr old boy, “Becky” he raised his hand to tell the teacher and the teacher said to him, “if your not telling on your self dont tell on others” so he put his hand down and the little girl gave him “Becky” then mother of the son is Ticked off and is trying to get him transferred to another school because they suspended the girl but refuse to remover her from his class so she will still be around him when she comes back in a few days? wtf?!!
It pains me more because I see how black families turn and look the other way when they know uncle, or brothers are touching inappropriately and make excuses…”you know that’s uncle so-and-so, and he got issues” or make excuse for the girls saying “you know she fast anyway” It just hurts me cause I’ve seen so many peopl just make excuse for this mess.
Also… people keep saying there was no signs of trauma. Inappropriate touching does not mean he penetrated her.
He could’ve just touched her lil Ninney. Just touched it. not inserted it. He could’ve humped her. All this is speculation but I”m just saying.
there is no rehabilitation for a sex offender.
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I agree with this statement! Sex offenders will strike more than once when given a chance or an opprotunity!
Guess I should say families cause this isn’t just a black issue, but im referring to those that I relate more too.
CAN WE GET A MEDICAL MINUTE ON THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN STEP, AND HALF SIBLING???!!!iM SO TIRED OF PEOPLE GETTING THEM CONFUSED!!!!
OKAY AGAIN-THE BROTHER AND SISTER HAD DIFFERENT MOTHERS
THE FATHER STAYED WITH THE LITTLE GIRL AND THE MOTHER OF THAT CHILD
THE SON ONCE HE WAS CONFRONTED BY THE FATHER ADMITTED TO TOUCHING THE CHILD
FAMILY MEMBERS OF THE SON WERE PRESENT AND DID TRY TO INTERVENE BUT HE PULLED OUT A GUN-AND PROCEEDED TO TAKE HIM OUTSIDE AND SHOT HIM
HOWEVER, HE DID BEAT HIM UP AND STRIP HIM DURING THAT SOMEONE SHOULD HAVE CALLED THE COPS-WHO KNOWS IF THE OUTCOME WOULD HAVE BEEN DIFFERENT PROBABLY NOT
@divinebrown
i’m with you …throw that weak azz momma in jail too….
@ tori-v………….YES I HEARD THAT STORY TOO! That teacher woulda had SERIOUS issues after dealing with me! Also the little girl had to have seen that shat some where! Children these days are sooooo dayum grown and advanced they pick up everything!!! I felt bad because the mom said it was a couple of days before the little boy said anything! He must of felt horrible inside! SMMFH
@ Divinebrown
THANK YOU I KEEP SAYING THAT-HE DIDN’T PENETRATE OKAY DOESN’T MEAN HE DIDN’T TOUCH HER
Physical trauma doesn’t mean she wasn’t SEXUALLY ASSAULTED. There are several ways to SEXUALLY ASSAULT SOMEONE W/OUT LEAVING PHYSICAL SIGNS. i.e. touching and etc. I’m disgusted thinking about it.
Jesus take the wheel! I will withhold comment until I know more. But regardless he shouldn’t have gotten his life taken away. I just got through hearing about a 11 year old girl who got raped in Chicago’s englewood neighborhood.
for the families.
Shannon that’s the problem with most of “us” we always sweep things under the rug..you know how you go to a family gathering and it’s that one uncle the kids are not allowed to get next too..the one always either in his room or by the chair in the back? the one they say ‘ain’t right” but he’s really the molester in the household? my daughter’s half sister was molested by her older cousin and they wanted to ship him off somewhere, it wasn’t until i intervened and threatened their father(my daughter and her sister) that the cousin got locked up..come to find out they had known about him but didn’t want to tell anyone because it was family business..he had did it to some of the neighborhood girls..these people(I use the term loosely) all need to be in front of a firing squad IMO
Charlie214 Says:
What kind of parent could just blatantly murder their child?
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An angry father of a 3-year-old toddler who was molested. How many times have you heard people say, “just put me in a room with that child molester for 5 minutes.” Well, this dude got his 5 minutes. I’m not saying I agree with taking the law into your own hands, but I can see how that would make a man snap.
shannon04 Says:
It pains me more because I see how black families turn and look the other way when they know uncle, or brothers are touching inappropriately and make excuses…”you know that’s uncle so-and-so, and he got issues” or make excuse for the girls saying “you know she fast anyway”
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EXACTLY-FAMILY MEMBERS KNOW BUT THEY DON’T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT, BLACK FAMILIES RARELY REPORT OR CALL THE COPS ON OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS!
TolesT Says:
Did he shoot him because he didn’t want the son to say his father had did it to him first? Something’s not right with this one…
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WHOA!!!!!!!!!!
U might just be on to something..
Sandra u kno ur bogus for calling that boy a pedophile……….U really kill me……
Can’t take this post…
this is just so sad..what man does that to his own child?? we are trully living in the last days..God help us all!!
@ Divine
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Agree 100000000%
As a mother of a son I just can’t see it. Aint no way in heck he would’ve drug my baby out the house naked. There are other ways of dealing with shyt. Lets first get the facts then we’ll work out the rest.
Adults have their own BS and its so easy to take it out on the kids. SO EASY! That’s why I always try to take 10 before I go in. Because
That line of insanity is so easy to cross when you are angry. SO EASY!
My friends cousin.. She has 3 girls.. Her boyfriend was molesting the oldest two.. Gave the oldest one a STD.. The mom took the oldest one to the doc, found out she had an STD.. She tells her mama… But guess what??? Mama is STILL with the man.. WTF?????? ARE U F*CKING SERIOUS?????
The world is like this now, can you imagine the crap we all are going to have to deal with in say, 2020?
I mean no state, country is safe from violence, drugs, sex, etc. If someone knows of a country with the least amount of problems let me know. smh
@FLACHICK:
DIDNT THE MOMMA GET TREATED AS WELL? SMDH!
@tori-v
I heard about this story about this woman who use to let her boyfriend “eat her cookie” in front of her son and one day she felt some one done there doing something to her “cookie” and when she looked it was her son………
And the little children being fresh in school is nothing new I have heard about plenty stories about little children doing this……….A lot of these things that these kids do are learned behaviors because their guardians are doing things that they aren’t suppose to do in front of these kids.
HE SHOULD HAVE WHUPPED HIS AZZ AND LEFT IT AT THAT….
HE PROBABLY WOULDN’T GET ANY OR MUCH TIME FOR THAT….ALTHOUGH HE FEELS JUSTIFIED HE DIDN’T MAKE THE BEST DECISION FOR HIMSELF OR HIS DAUGHTER-HE’S NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO RAISE HIS DAUGHTER AND HE HAS TO LIVE WITH THE FACT HE KILLED HIS OWN SON
PUT A WHUPPIN ON HIM HE’LL NEVER FORGET-THAT WOULD’VE STRAIGHTENED HIM OUT, AND LORD KNOWS HE WAS OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW WHAT HE WAS DOING WAS WRONG WHEN HE DID IT, HE DID IT CAUSE HE THOUGHT SHE WAS TOO YOUNG TO TELL AND HE COULD GET AWAY WITH IT
Was the murdered 15yr old sexually abused as well?
Why not get the boy mental health help before you kill him? Is it possible that he really didn’t do anything to his half sister? I wonder what his relationships with each of their mothers was like.
@ FloridaChick813…….WTF?? She needs her azz whooped! I tellin ya……..like i said in the Shaniya Davis post…..I would be under the jail for phucking with me and mines! His azz would need a casket and a burial plot!
OMG…this is soooo horrible!
Just because there are no physical signs, it doesn’t make it okay. The mental trauma of this, on that little girl, will be astronomically difficult to bear.
I understand the dad’s anger, but shooting his son was the Devil’s work. *SMDH* Sometimes I wonder if the end is indeed nigh…
I understand the rage the father felt because it was his baby girl being molested of some sort and u would want to kill the mofo who hurts your child. Maybe he didnt look at it as a family member touching his child but as a person touching his child…should he feel less rage since it was a family member and not a stranger…
@FloridaChick813…I live in Louisiana and you’d be surprised how many times I’ve heard stories like that. I’ve seen a mom give her kids back to their father so that she could be with a man that molested her daughter.
Cinnamon Kisses- smh2.
I agree with Attorney mom: I need more information before making a comment. My heart goes out to the Father,The Mother and the family as a whole. I pray that God provides peace that surpasses understanding for all involved. May he turn this into something profound. I pray that the young man asked God’s forgiveness. I pray that the little girl is not affected by what will now be a part of her family’s history.
I pray that this family survives this with as much intact as they possibly can
Someone please explain to me which child was his? They said his half sister. The mother said he loved his father. Was the little girl his? (Not making excuses just curious)
@intense….girl, yes. Molestation does not mean penetration. Touching does not leave evidence.
I had a cousin that tried some stuff with me when I was in the 5th grade. When I told my parents, and my parents confronted his mother (who was my dads sister) She said she didn’t believe it.
Years later…this man had sex with one of his twins. HIS OWN CHILD. (big sick fat fck….gosh I can’t believe i’m talking about this)
@ISCREAM…that’s the kinda family I come from. My mother protected us from any and everything. When we needed whipped, she did it. That is embedded in me. Im not waiting all this time to have kids for someone to bust in my crib and take him. NOT MY FLESH AND BLOOD. I will have no problems beating the black off my kids. lol I got it and I have respect for authority.
@iscream
Both kids have the same father different mothers..
civil engineer, what part of the boot are you from?
I think he should have felt less rage because it was his son…his flesh and blood. I can’t wrap my mind around how he felt no emotion towards his son or how the boy’s mom stood by and watched. I guess when you snap all that goes out of the window.
@ICESCREAM
BOTH WERE HIS
THE SON WAS BY ANOTHER WOMAN AND HE LIVED WITH THE 3 YEAR OLD AND HER MOM
It really is a shame.. Not sure if the mama was treated or not.. I dont associate with her, so all I know is what I was told…
But im with Cinnamon Kisses — I be damned if I let someone mess with my child.. I’d bust hell wide open..
@missy-:>:(
makes me so angry~!
@j.c….I’m from Jigg City lol…Baton Rouge. You from here too?
When keeping it real goes WRONG
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I am very saddened that this father with execute his like he was a stranger
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Everyone involved in this situation should feel ashamed. This story doesn’t sound logical. He comes over and beats the boy senseless then makes him strip naked and execute him outside for all to see?!!!
What was the mom doing while he was beating him up? Did she only intervene when she saw the gun? Was the baby even touched inappropiately?
Just WOW!!!
yes, indeed. shreveport
I THINK SHARING YOUR STORIES HELPS OTHERS TO HEAL OR JUST TO BRING AWARENESS TO THE ISSUE AND MAYBE PREVENT SOMEONE ELSE FROM BEING HURT
KEEP SHARING……NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED ABOUT NOT YOUR FAULT FOR WHAT A PERV DID TO YOU
SHAME THE DEVIL AND TELL THE TRUTH….
@FloridaChick813……….FOR REAL! Who will protect OUR children if we do not??? I ask my-self all the time what if and guess what??? I am ready to do the time if someone harms my children!!
The little boy needed help, he did not need to die,
he needed to be counsled and talked to about sex.
not killed, or labeled, but helped…he is still a child…sorry…was a child. there is NO justification
Louisiana in the BUILDING!! :partytime:
The father could have been molesting both children, and did it to cover his own a**, or maybe this is not the first time the boy has ever touched a child.
It’s all sad either way. Why kill the kid?
Cinnamon Kisses Says:
@FloridaChick813……….FOR REAL! Who will protect OUR children if we do not??? I ask my-self all the time what if and guess what??? I am ready to do the time if someone harms my children!!
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I am sorry ya’ll but I have mixed feelings about this (well not really). I don’t know what frame of mind I will be in if someone hurts my baby girl like that, but I do know that no one is protected from a mother protecting her kids. I don’t give a phuk if it’s her dad, her cousin, my dad, whomever. I don’t know if they gonna die…but I don’t know if they won’t either.
Yesterday everybody was like “burn in hell” and “I will do this and do that” for Shaniyah’s molestor and killer/s. Now we putting stipulations…I only have vendetta’s on non-family members. Okay……
And I do think the story is kind of peculiar…based on the facts I have now RIP child molestor!
I do understand wanting to kill the person who hurts your child but when that person looks just like you and is calling you daddy how do you pull the trigger?
mirsmommy Says:
The father could have been molesting both children, and did it to cover his own a**, or maybe this is not the first time the boy has ever touched a child.
It’s all sad either way. Why kill the kid?
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*Now we have stipulation….”like I will only have a vendetta for non-family members that molest my kid”*
Sorry
@intense, SHAME THE DEVIL AND TELL THE TRUTH…. you aint never lied about that. It just goes to show that it can happen to any and everyone.
@Cinnamon kisses…..YOU BETTER IT!!!!! YOU BETTER TELL IT. BOY I WISH A MUTHASUCKA WOULD. My kids better not even have any teachers that like to even talk reckless to them. lmao!!!
Cinnamon Kisses Says:
@FloridaChick813……….FOR REAL! Who will protect OUR children if we do not??? I ask my-self all the time what if and guess what??? I am ready to do the time if someone harms my children!!
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My son is real disrespectful to my boyfriend.. Its really just jealousy tough, cause he’s never seen me with a man before besides his dad.. Anyways, sometimes my sweetie will be like “imma kick his a$$ one day” — but real sh!t, you aint gonna lay a hand on my child.. I will handle any discipline issues that need to be handeled.. POINT BLANK PERIOD.. NO QUESTIONS ASKED…
Cinnamon Kisses Says:
@FloridaChick813……….FOR REAL! Who will protect OUR children if we do not??? I ask my-self all the time what if and guess what??? I am ready to do the time if someone harms my children!!
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Understoond. but who is going to protect the kids when your gone?
I know so many of you mean well but once a person becomes a sexual predator there is no help!It gets worse, it’s like a junkie needing a fix..never getting the monkey off of it’s back..for some it’s a rush..for others the comprehension that its wrong is not there..and then for even others they simply can’t help themselves it is a sickness a need..no rehab..no counseling..only death or incarceration..and if they get incarcerated you better pray they are there for life..once out they become worse then when they went in..and i’m NOT talking about level 1 offenders..the ones that are usually 18 year old boy with a 15 year old girlfriend..that’s plain bullshyt
I feel that the father should have calmed himself down before going over there. I understand how he make feel but you never should do things out of emotions.
I can understand wanting to kill or hurt somebody who hurts or molest’ your child.. But when the molestor is your other child… How do you decide what to do?!?!?
WooW! This is so
I can’t even say too much. I mean the little boy needed help not this.
IF THE LIL GIRL WASNT PENETRATED, THEN WHAT MADE THEM TAKE HER TO BE EXAMINED? WHAT MADE THE LIL BOY CONFESS AND WHO DID HE CONFESS TO? THIS WOMAN WHO IS NOT HIS MOTHER? THEN SHE CALLED THE FATHER AND SAID DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS, THEN THE FATHER SHOOTS THE LIL BOY? ITS TOO MANY HOLES IN THIS, I DONT EVEN KNOW HOW TO FEEL ABOUT THIS….ITS SAD AT ANY RATE.
My kids better not even have any teachers that like to even talk reckless to them. lmao!!!
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LMAO!!! DAMN RIGHT!!!!!! Mama gonna kick a$$!!!!! LOL
Ohhhhh okay thanks @missy @intense
sigh
Breaks my heart even more. My son has a half sister and they share the same father. I just don’t see it. We would’ve all been dead out this mf’er.
I can’t even respond to this anymore without taking it personal and wanting to fluck the mother up for handling this better. How could she let that man do that to her child. The means doesn’t justify the cause.
& at this point its speculation to me about if he actually touched her. Who admits to that & why? Its not like the little girl said it and then he admitted it. Maybe he was seeking out attention? Maybe he felt negectled by his dad bc of the living situation.
This story breaks my heart. I don’t know what made that man go over there with a gun to handle his own son. I wanna slap my son father just for GP after reading this shyt.
@DivineBrown……..I don’t play! My children are my world! One thing you dont do is phuck with my world! We need to love and protect our children….as you can see from the past few days of these horrible stories about children being molested and murdered some are not doing enough!
@2BME:
BUT WHAT MAKES A PERSON A “SEXUAL PREDATOR”, I MEAN WHAT DID HE DO TO HER? DOESNT A CHILD THAT YOUNG HAVE TO SEE THINGS LIKE THAT IN ORDER TO PERFORM THEM? ARENT MOST KIDS “CURIOUS” AROUND THAT AGE? (GENUINELY ASKING, IM JUST CONFUSED!)
Tried to ignore this post. Peeked in. Just too horrible for me today.. I asked for the NSFH(not safe for heart) warning.
Back out.My heart is heavy enough right now for the girl in NC, now these two…and thier mothers pain.
did the father not get the whole story before flying off the handle? did he think the boy raped his sister instead of touching her? not that the touching wasn’t bad, but to just kill him like that is extreme. and i think it will be pre meditatd murder if he came over there with that gun after getting the call from the mom. he had time to think about what he was going to do to the boy.
I feel so bad for the little girl in all of this. She’s violated in the worst way, she loses her brother in the worst way, & now have lost her father.
It is a horrible horrible thing the brother did/accused of (touch or otherwise) and it’s a sad siutation any way you look at it. BUT I do know this, I would NOT stand by and let someone harm my child in my presence (regardless). There is no way he (the Dad) would have beat my child, made him strip naked and got him out of that door without shooting me first!! Intervention of some kind should have been done before he led that boy outside with a gun!! I would have gotten him some help or even had him arrested, but I would not have allowed someone to come into MY home and beat/kill him.
@Cinnamon Kisses…
I am with you on that. Ryde or dye for my kid too!
I just pray that NONE of us have to be in this same situation. This $hit happens TOO much. In another situation a 1 yr old killed a 4 yr so the 4 yr old couldn’t tell his mom what the 14 yr old did (google Raul Renato Castro). Can’t say what I would do in this situation, but sometimes I do wish what someone would have done for me (at age 5). LIFE sucks sometimes.
2bme, I FEEL YOU ON WHAT YOU ARE SAYING, I TOO WAS MOLESTED(BY FAMILY MEMBERS) WHEN YOUNGER. I AM NOW THE MOTHER OF 4, 2 BOYS AND 2 GIRLS. MY FRIEND TELLS ME ALL THE TIME THAT I NEED HELP AND PRAYERS BECAUSE OF MY THOUGHTS. I AM A GUARDED MOTHER, THERE IS ALWAYS THAT FEAR IN THE BACK OF MY MIND THAT MY SONS WILL “TOUCH” OR WORSE WITH THEIR SISTERS. I THANK GOD THAT IT HAS NEVER MANIFESTED AS SUCH THOUGH. MOLESTATION FUCKS WITH YOUR MIND GREATLY. BECAUSE OF THIS I LOVE MY FAMILY FROM AFAR!
THERE SEEMS TO BE SOMETHING MISSING FROM THE ARTICLES THAT I HAVE READ. I AM MISSING SOMETHING. SOME OF YOU ARE SAYING THAT THE FATHER MAY HAVE MOLESTED THE SON, MAYBE, OR MAYBE SOMEONE ELSE MAY HAVE MOLESTED HIM, OR MAYBE HE IS MIMICING SOMETHING HE HAS SEEN IN THE PAST.
@ Cinnamon Kisses
Exactly!!!! Don’t f*ck wit my babies. I be ready to beat down little kids when they try to act reckless towards my baby, so I’ll definitely handle a damn adult that f*cks with them!!!!!!!
I must be missing something because I’m confused. The mother saw the father beating his son, dragged him out the house with gun in and hand, she heard her son pleading for his life, and she didn’t call the police? I’m all for punishing child abusers to the fullest extent of the law (even street justice) b/c I HATE anyone who would hurt a child, but this story smells kinda funny to me.
@EJLOVE……….I dunno good question. I
everyday that god keeps my children out of harms way because I dont ever want to be put in the position! I guess my family would….. my husband would probably be under the jail with me!
My question is what would he have done to a non immediate family memeber? Burned them alive?
Hmmm “Pinkney Sr., who was separated from Cherry and lived with the 3-year-old and her mother, rushed to the home with a gun”. Why does it sound like Baby Mama Drama, that went wrong??? The typical, I am going to call him to get him over here, because he was mine first and now he is with his new chick and they have a kid, and I am going to make a situation worst then what it really is just so he will rush over here??? While he was beating the crap out of his son, why didn’t she call the police? There are too many unanswered questions and the story has a few missing wholes in it. I am trying not to speculate, but I think she told him that he was doing more then just touching or made it out to be that he was doing more then just touching his daughter, which in turn, would lead him into a fit of rage.
be ready to beat down little kids when they try to act reckless towards my baby,
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LMAO………..Just the other day my little cousins were @ my house and one of em pushed my son…….i told her to keep her hands to her-self because I fights kids!! J/P
Like I said in the other post when we were alll talking about this…I understand the wrath and anger of the father. I don’t have children, but I will jack somebody the hell UP about my brother, sisters and little cousins who I think of as my sisters. If anyone ever harms them, the police better find them before I do.
BUT…
…I don’t think I could hear my own flesh and blood BEGGING me not to kill them. The father should have had SOME hesitation about executing his own son for the simple fact that THAT WAS HIS CHILD TOO!
@Keely i’m confused what do you mean a child that young? 15 years old in today’s society is old enough to know he shouldn’t be fondling a three year old or anyone else for that matter. Obviously something is wrong with him and if he was molested at an early age and was never treated(victim wise)you have the ending result of what we are discussing now
Some media outlets are saying that Pinkney Sr. turned himself into authorities Also he had no previous criminal history and had worked “for years” as a letter carrier for the United States Post Office.
His family has been an upstanding part of the communite for years. His attorney also stated that Sr is in shock and his mourning.
ok.. this must be the month of PEDOPHILES!!!!
in baltimore, a 15yr gay teen was found dead in a closet in his aunts house.
he was into a “forced” sexual relationship with a 38yr old murderer who was out of prison on a technicality. the boy had been raped, stabbed and gagged and stuffed in a closet.
@2BME:
OK, HE 15, THATS WHAT I GET FOR WORKING AND TRYING TO LURK. NUFF SAID, DIDNT READ THE WHOLE STORY.
The father looks sick and he looks as though he too could potentially have been an abuser before I can understand his rage I too am a victim of molestation but I can’t comprehend why he killed his son…I think he had something to hide himself what is the boy was alive and when questioned he said I did it becuz my dad did it to me-I hope they F-K him up in jail. He had no right to play GOD.
PEOPLE SAY THEY WILL DO THIS OR THAT BUT AS A PARENT, YOU WILL THINK ABOUT WHO WILL CARE FOR YOUR CHILD IF YOU KILL THE ACCUSED?
AS A RESPONSIBLE PARENT YOU HAVE TO EXERCISE CONTSTRAINT AND DO WHAT’S BEST IN THE LONG RUN FOR YOUR CHILD BY FIRST GETTING YOUR CHILD MEDICAL ATTENTION, COUNSELING, AND ALLOW THE AUTHORITIES TO DO THEIR JOB
KILLING THE PERPETRATOR-WILL ONLY MAKE YOU A MURDERER AND LEAVE YOUR CHILD WITHOUT YOU! AND AS A PARENT I WOULDN’T WANT TO DO THAT FOR FEAR OF PUTTING MY CHILD THROUGH FURTHER TRAUMA
Before i had my son i have always said “someone touch my children wrong its a done deal, i will beat the brakes off ANYONE who toches my children” and i stand by that to this day now that i have my 7 month son…I fully understand beating the shit out of him..but to kill him when there is no evidence sexual trauma? thats crazy….BUT if there was i would also understand because i would kill anyone who touches my baby…fam or not……
@ Cinnamon Kisses
I’m tellin you…. My baby is 3, and my stepson is 8, and they will hold their own. Shoot, the 3 year old be sometimes handling my 8 year old.
, but I be ready to handle them Bebe’s kids that think they gon get over on my babies. 
tori-v Says:
ok.. this must be the month of PEDOPHILES!!!!
in baltimore, a 15yr gay teen was found dead in a closet in his aunts house.
he was into a “forced” sexual relationship with a 38yr old murderer who was out of prison on a technicality. the boy had been raped, stabbed and gagged and stuffed in a closet.
all of these horrible people… should suffer!
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:surprised: What?!?!?!? OMG….I’m getting my bible outta my purse, ang getting ready to
I mean I know it was wrong but Dayum
3 YEARS OLD!!!??
and she has the same blood running thru her veins…different mother or not, they share the same father….how could HE at 15 YEARS OF AGE, AT THAT, touch his OWN sister!!!………………Lawd, I just don’t know what I would do
I couldn’t kill my son, but GOD knows I would come so close….and I wouldn’t be able to look at him another day in my life and even the thought of that is so so PAINFUL….JESUS!
I have niece’s and to be clear I will hurt someone. Kids are so innocent and it disturbs me when someone takes that away. We live our adult lives getting over our childhood….
This boy was 15 and knew better…I cant say I don’t agree to the dad killing him because had this 15 yr old did this to sum1 else 3 yr old he wouldve been dead, hurt or in jail….to me once someone starts molesting little kids, there is no cure for that. Had the dad just whipped him or called the cops, it wouldnt have solved anything because he wouldve done it again IMO
i’ve known about abuse my whole life it seems.. I know plenty of people that have been molested or sexually assaulted at a young age..most of the time when the predator gets caught it is not their first time doing something like that……………..we don’t have the full story just yet, the father could have more info on what his son has been doing
all in all it’s a very sad situation and I wouldn’t wish this on anyone
i tell you what. it would of sounded like the 4th of july in that ma’fcker if that was my son. cause sh*t would of sure been flying. i don’t care what he was “accused” of. he was innocent until proven guilty…PERIOD. that dad would of had a cap in his @ss the minute sh*t started sounding crazy in that house. all that taking his clothes off crap would of never even went down. much less him getting shot in the head.
I don’t think the Dad liked his son very much because you don’t just shoot your child because they did something wrong no matter how horrible that things is.
Can the father plea a temporary insanity to killing the boy?
IDK if I wouldve killed him but I know deep down inside I could never forgive him…I wouldnt even want him back in my house…in a situation like this No1 wins…smh @ in the world we are living in!
@ wiggy
Me too. :crying1:
@mirsmommy- well scoot ova becaue im bout to kneel with you

@intense…….I feel ya…….but idk how I could allow someone to do something to my child and just let it be!
I’m like most of you..I am completely crazy about my child i don’t care who you are..i once went up against my grandmother because she came out of pocket with my daughter..sure i apologized later but right then the only blood i saw wasn’t a bloodline but the blood that was about to be shed because she crossed a line..so yes i can completely understand why that father snapped on his son..blood ain’t always thicker than water..hell i even went up against my daughter’s tae kwon do teacher knowing damn well he could have whooped my ass..didn’t care..it’s called adrenaline and complete tunnel vision..it is not that easy to rationalize when your own is hurt
But I mean come on y’all that boy looked exactly like his father….And his mother said that “There wasn’t nothing that my son wouldn’t do for his father. He loved his father so much.”
So why would the boy do something that he think that would hurt his father….a man who he loved so much…..i think if this boy loved his father as much as his mother said than they boy would have killed himself if anything if he knew he hurt his father…this man let his rage overcome his compassion..because how could you not snap out when someone was practically begging for their life.
I agree with those who said that there are some holes in this story.
danjas, see that’s what I don’t understand. I complete get parents protecting their children, even with their own life. That’s what a parent is supposed to do, BUT to go and kill the boy and the mother just stand there talking about, “No, please stop!” and then watch him march the boy into a field and shoot him? There is def more to the story that meets the eye.
Wow! this is something that is really twisted in either way!!! I am serious we are living in the last days and people are to stupid to see it.
Now my opinion is what type of parenting is involved? There are so many ways sh!t is fvcked up in our society and we just deny to acknowledge it.
I a going to say this NO WOMAN is able to raise a boy by herself. You may think so but NO! Get mad and justify it all you want. I am a man and I know that I didn’t have the same fear of my mom over my dad, even though my pop hardly ever beat me and my mom always did. Man respect their mothers because they are their mothers,but it is not the same as fearing the repercussions of your pop.
Now, I am not saying it is the womens fault because it’s not but just quit pretending as you can do it on your own. Males need Male figures that can teach them how to be a man. The same way females need women.
I know a bunch of chicks that have kids, yes they love them BUT they don’t know how to discipline them because they are not willing to change their lifestyle. I know too many parents that smoke weed in front of the kids, curse, and do all kind of sh!t in front of them, but justify it with “He/She know better than to do it” No, they don’t! in front of you, Yes but not when you are not around.
Also parents that feel, I am your mother/father and not your friend. That is the dumbest sh!t you can say. A kid won’t tell their parents sh!t but their friends everything so you do the math.
I am a single father, been raising my own son. Pretty much the majority of people don’t believe it if they know me because I am so not the typical father type but one thing I know is that I want my son to have all the tools and resources to be successful which includes a healthy relationship with women, a good family, be upstanding and not a push over, have good credit, know how to save money, have a good education, have fun in life, etc. All the things that I never had. The only way I can reach him is by letting him know that no matter what come to me first and I walk you through it. If you are your kids role model they will try and imitate everything you do and they would never want to disappoint you. HOwever if they just look at you as a authority figure, they could careless what you think and want. Just how you slack up behind your bosses back, thats what they do.
Anyways, I really contribute this to bad relationships and parenting. Obviously the boy had some problems but ususally kids will show signs one way or another, it is up to the parents to catch them and act on them
@ Tori V,
I can’t take too much more of these child molesters stories you keep finding. I know you mean well.
My eyes still have tears in them for the NC girl and this post. I can’t…
@64 Divine….I agree to the 1000th power!!
If you are not coming to help…you damn sure ain’t coming to hurt!! Not only was the boy’s mom there, but other relatives were there also! Outcome would not have been this in my household, but when God’s Will will be done..I guess it will be done!!
I am serious we are living in the last days and people are to stupid to see it.

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Lord Jesus,
I ask that you bless this family and put your angels around them and guide them. I ask that you forgive the father for he was a victim of anger and rage. I ask that you protect and heal the 3 year old little girl and bind all spirits that may attach on to her because of this. I ask that you cover the mother and guide her through this tragic event that she could have prevented. I ask that you bless Jamar’s soul and allow peace to follow his spirit. Lord, I ask that you protect all households from evil spirits that dwells on this earth.
If two or more shall gather and agree
In Jesus Name I Pray
Amen.
We are living in the last days, notice how the time passes in a blink of an eye. October 2011.
i agree @ 162
While he rushing over with his gun i will be at the door with mine telling him “r u ready to die tonight? because u are not getting past me alive or unscathed!” we gonna be boxing like FIGHT NIGHT ROUND FOUR!
@Kdillon
To answer your question yes he can plea that and I bet his attorney will try and enter that as his plea…He still shouldn’t have done GOD’s work-that man is not innocent and doesn’t look it-After he beat the boy with knots on his head it should’ve been enough-he was possessed with a DEMON look at his ugly face!
This is soooo sad…
@Ms.kaylamomma- ok ok i know :sorry:
im feel myself getting a lil depressed anyway..
some people are
@Kdillon
What’s the significant of Oct 2011 I know from the Mayan calendar end of day are Dec 22, 2012-enlighten me please…just asking
thats so damn crazy. you shot and killed your own son and left him for dead like you did something special? dude kill yo self, really.
2bme Says:
I’m like most of you..I am completely crazy about my child i don’t care who you are..i once went up against my grandmother because she came out of pocket with my daughter..sure i apologized later but right then the only blood i saw wasn’t a bloodline but the blood that was about to be shed because she crossed a line..so yes i can completely understand why that father snapped on his son..blood ain’t always thicker than water..hell i even went up against my daughter’s tae kwon do teacher knowing damn well he could have whooped my ass..didn’t care..it’s called adrenaline and complete tunnel vision..it is not that easy to rationalize when your own is hurt
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damn i mean 163….but 162 does have a good point…
@Kdillon
That prayer was beautiful I truly felt it-thank you we all needed to read that…
Cinnamon Kisses Says:
@intense…….I feel ya…….but idk how I could allow someone to do something to my child and just let it be
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I AGREE…..MOST OF US WOULDN’T
@Dbalq comment 173 i agree with with (not everything but most)
Also parents that feel, I am your mother/father and not your friend. That is the dumbest sh!t you can say. A kid won’t tell their parents sh!t but their friends everything so you do the math.
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Im not a parent but i think their is a fine line of being your childs friend and being their company….If you get what i’m saying….But i agree with what you are saying parents should be more welcoming to listening to their kids and less judgmental.
This is why we need to be careful of what our children see and do! Who we let into our homes and lifes! That little boy coulda been touched or something coulda happened to him and he choose to act out! Maybe he was wanting attention?!
I don’t think the father was molesting either child. I think the older boy made the little girl give him head or touch his pee pee and he felt guilty about it.
That is why us mothers MUST not tell fathers everything. My mother hid a lot of the stuff I did from my dad and I in turn hide stuff from my husband. This was not worth that 15 year old’s life. He should have been whoooped and then counseled by a licensed psychiatrist.
MzSharon…you better tell it. You can’t even discipline the kids when my dad is around. Let alone anything else. Now, they have blood on their hands. Try it and watch all heck break loose. lol
@kdillon…Amen
@ dblaq
I agree with the boys fearing the dads more than the moms. My boys know I mean business, and I’ll pass out the whoopings, but when Daddy gets on their a**es, they get shut down.
Plus the part where you mentioned the cursing. I be cursing people out while on the road, roadrage, and had the nerve to say that my 3 year old knows better. Well he sure let it be known what he knew. While with his Pop-Pop, he was cussing cars out like a sailor!!!
SANDRRRRRRRAAAAAAAA GIVE US A JAZZE PHA POST STAT!!
OR A RIHANNA PIC WITH THE ROOTS GROWED OUT REAL BAD
THIS IS TOO HEAVY FOR ME TODAY. I’m pms’ing and I”m absorbing all of this negativity like a sponge. Somebody gone get effed up in traffic on the way home.
ldorisca Says:
I don’t think the father was molesting either child. I think the older boy made the little girl give him head or touch his pee pee and he felt guilty about it.
That is why us mothers MUST not tell fathers everything. My mother hid a lot of the stuff I did from my dad and I in turn hide stuff from my husband. This was not worth that 15 year old’s life. He should have been whoooped and then counseled by a licensed psychiatrist.
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YOU ARE RIGHT AS WOMEN WE HANDLE THINGS MUCH DIFFERENTLY THAN MEN, AND AS A WOMAN AND KNOWING HER MAN SHE SHOULD HAVE HAD AN IDEA OF HOW HE WOULD HAVE TAKEN THIS NEWS
MY GRANDMOTHER DID THE SAME THING-SOME THINGS SHE TOLD AND SOME THINGS SHE HANDLED HERSELF-SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER OFF REPORTING IT TO THE AUTHORITIES AND ALLOWING THEM TO INVESTIGATE BEFORE TELLING THE FATHER-ANYTHING
BUT MOST LIKELY ALL SHE CARED ABOUT WAS HER CHILD-SHE WANTED SOMETHING TO HAPPEN TO HIS SON BECAUSE HER CHILD HAS BEEN HURT BUT I DOUBT SHE THOUGHT IT WOULD BE THIS SERIOUS, SHE HAS TO LIVE WITH THIS TOO…
While with his Pop-Pop, he was cussing cars out like a sailor!!!
*raises hand* I am guilty of that too! My dad sometimes keeps my son and my dad had to run an errand and he took my son and they were in line and he said a cuss word all kinds of loud in-front of a bunch yt people! My dad said all he could do was shake his head! SMH I am working on it though! lol
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@DBLAQ
SO IF A MAN’S NOT LIVING IN THE HOUSEHOLD WITH THE CHILD, HE’S NOT A CAPABLE OF BEING A FATHER TO HIS CHILD?
Cinnamon Kisses Says:
While with his Pop-Pop, he was cussing cars out like a sailor!!!
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*raises hand* I am guilty of that too! My dad sometimes keeps my son and my dad had to run an errand and he took my son and they were in line and he said a cuss word all kinds of loud in-front of a bunch yt people! My dad said all he could do was shake his head! SMH I am working on it though! lol
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All Hubby could do was say, I told you to stop cursing in front of him.
Speaking honestly: I am not sure how I feel about this. Just yesterday, a lot of posters screamed for the death in regards to Shaniya’s molester.
Questions:
1). Was the assult on his sister just this one time?
2). Has he touched other children?
3). Would it have only been that one time?
4). Was he touched as a child? If yes, does it justify his actions?
5). Can we say that he would not have eventually grown up and have become the same monster that molested lil Shaniya
6). Are different there degree’s of molestation deserving of different degrees of forgivness.
7). Was his confession to his mother voluntary?
8). Was his confession to his mother a sign that this would not have happend again.
He was 15 and molesting a 3 year old – unacceptable! Even if he was experimenting, surely there was someone closer in age he could have been experimenting with.
Why is the momma trynna defend her sons’ perverted actions, now that the boy is dead, when she was so quick to tell his father on him? B*tches need to come to grips with the bad ass kids that they are raising! Furthermore, she knew his daddy was capable of puttin them thangs on someone so that’s why she called him – now she all heartbroken – b*tch please!
As for the father, I can’t blame him for wanting punish the kid, but killing him was a bit extreme. He should have just beat the sh*t out of him until his face looked like that of the woman who got her face ripped off by the monkey.
@DB:
I feel ya, I took a break and read the news article, and now I am so outdone! This after the 5 y/o, plus the 13 y/o in the closet. I cant! Just sad, I need some laughter snd soon.
One thing that ran through my mind is…….WHERE DID THIS BOY SEE THE STUFF HE DID? I know kids are fast as hail these days and learn shyt that should not be….I guess he coulda picked it up anywhere!
@KEELY….IN OTHER NEWS….
IM FINNA BE IN THE A, pimpin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YEAAAAAA!!!
BLACK FRIDAY BISSSHHHHEESS!!! Can you tell I’m geeked? YOU GOIN OUT OF TOWN?
@DB:
Nope uma be right here!!! Where the party at, cuz I KNOW yall having one!
@intensemocha — that is not what I was saying, what I was saying is that a lot of women feel that they don’t need the father and they can do it on their own. A man can very much be in their kids life and not live with them, but they have to be in their life in the first place. Yes it is the men’s fault just as much. Me and my sons mother hated eachother with a passion but it never stopped me being there for my kid. The thing with me that it was ALWAYS about my son’s welfare. I would NOT argue with her in front of him, even if it was on the phone. I would NEVER say bad things about her to my son because she is his mother and he loves her, me bashing her would only hurt him. I would always tell her, that if another man lived with her that he would have to follow those rules, but he had no right to put his hands on him that’s what I am here for. He could punish him, by taking stuff away, ground him or whatever but hands on him was a no – no.
There are so many things that I could point out that are wrong how people raise their kids, and I am not saying that I am a perfect parent but one thing is I know, you have to respect kids as kids. Keep that grown shit to the grown people. When I say be a friend, you can still be a friend and go to person without compromising your authority as a parent. Everybody responds differently because all people are unique just because time out worked for you doesn’t mean it worked for someone else. You have to make it a point to understand you kids. I know everything my son does without him knowing, I catch him doing things before they get out of hand, he knows that he can’t run sh!t by me. He does what all boys do but he understands. He understands why good grades in school are important. I don’t have stay on him about doing good grades, he does it on his own because he wants to. A lot of things he does, he does because he understands and wants to do them. He spends time with his little brother because his dad doesn’t, he spends his own money to take him to the movies, takes him to the mall because he understands that he needs a male figure.
I mean this is a topic that we can go on and on about. But when kids act bad, it can be put back to parenting. If you spoil your kids, you raise bad kids! Kids need discipline, they need to know consequence and consistency. Don’t beat the sh!t out of him for something one day but then the next time its ok even though it was the same thing.
If the boy did something to his little sister, something seriously had to be wrong in their household. Also for him to be 15 years old, he needed counseling and not murder
Don’t mess with me, my kids, and my money. That is the theme I live and would die by. This father did not like his son or love him as much as he did the daughter because if he did he would not of killed the boy.
Something is missing out of this story, it is very sad and I will continue to pray for the entire family.
i agree with the majority of people in saying that there is something seriously missing from this story. i havent read ALL the comments but i have read some (and i apologize if this has already been said) but i believe the father may have been molested as well. to overact in such a manner towards his own son. its crazy cause i say it all the time and pray that the lord gives me enough strength to not want to kill someone who would touch my children or any child for that manner. but i know deep inside that i havent learned that much forgiveness yet. the thought of a child being molested or even touched makes me so very sick…but to kill your own son? that man had to have been touched before…anger such as the type he displayed means he did not have forgiveness as well.
If the boy did something to his little sister, something seriously had to be wrong in their household
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BINGO!!! He either saw something or something of the same nature was done to him!!! Kids do what they see!!!
Cinnamon Kisses Says:
One thing that ran through my mind is…….WHERE DID THIS BOY SEE THE STUFF HE DID?
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He didn’t have to see anything. Pedophiles are born, not made. That’s why you can’t change them.
There are countries where action such as this would be punished by death immediately. Not by law enforcement but by the head of the household i.e. the father.
How does a parent take sides in a situiation like this? Again I am not sure how I feel about this…but I do know that I am not quit ready to Villify the father before he has had the chance to speak on his own behalf.
I will continue to pray for this family as a whole.
Can I Poll the Posters?
1). The Father’s actions would be JUSTIFIED if it had been a stranger of the same Age Y/N
OR
2). The father’s actions are UNJUSTIFIED because it was his own son Y/N
@ggouch,
1. Y
2. Y
@ggouch The father’s actions are UNJUSTIFIED because it was his on son. Truthfully, if someone had done harm to my baby, I would want to kill them too. But damn, you still have to be rational. That man must have had mental issues to begin with.
the little boy admitted based on other reports he did inappropriately touch & perform acts on the little girl so that’s no longer a question if everything is accurate.
let’s keep in mind the ADULT pedophiles you hear about were once kids, and normally if you can perform such a sick act you’re mentally disturbed. this can not be cured by sending him to the army, whooping him, etc. majority of rapist can not be helped by therapist.
the act of the father was extreme that’s without question, but if someone ever touched a child of mine – i can’t say i would not display the same reaction. this little girl is scarred for life. yes she is 3, and may not understand what’s going on but that will stick with her. i’m not trying to rationalize what he did, because it wasn’t rational. he may have acted in rage – i don’t know the full story…so i’ll leave it at that.
@ Ggouch 1..Yes of course…people just see him as crazy cause it was his OWN son, hell it was his OWN daughter as well. Men are different from women….and even though I wouldn’t be able to kill my son with a gun, doesn’t mean I wouldn’t accidently do some serious harm in the process because of anger.
a 15 year old touching a 3 YEAR OLD??!!???
I just think people are COMPLETELY overlooking the age difference here…..this boy needed to be IN JAIL!
Sandra Rose Says:
Cinnamon Kisses Says:
One thing that ran through my mind is…….WHERE DID THIS BOY SEE THE STUFF HE DID?
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He didn’t have to see anything. Pedophiles are born, not made. That’s why you can’t change them.

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Pedophiles are not born like being gay. Pedophiles are indeed made. They are that way because the same was done to them.
This story is wrong. I saw the news broadcast from the field where it happened. The father’s girlfriend told the father the boy “touched” his half sister. This was not the boy’s mother. He tried to call the lil girls mom to tell her he took care of it and called the wrong baby momma instead. Yes, he called the boy’s mom. The news broadcast is on youtube. Look at it. That shiet was so effin wrong.
Stop speadin’ ya seeds all over the damn place. This story is confusing and should have never happened. This baby momma here and this baby momma there. Dumb azzes.
Cinnamon Kisses Says:
@EJLOVE……….I dunno good question. I everyday that god keeps my children out of harms way because I dont ever want to be put in the position! I guess my family would….. my husband would probably be under the jail with me!
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Lol I understand, I do, but Im just feeling that @ 15 he was no peddy…I hate to say but maybe he was just curious. Many Kids are. he was wrong and he needed to be talked to, sent to counsling and watched, not killed. he was only 15 years old, starting Puberty…lots of things happen to the body at that time, so I don’t think he was a peddy…I think it was wrong to kill the boy.
@ gouch,
1) Yes, but he still would go to jail
2) Oh heck yes. He obviously had no love for his child who begged him for his life. Something is wrong there.
I dont agree with the father killing the son but I wont call the boy innocent by far, he still humped on his 3 year old sister and he definately knew better!!!!If somebody was molesting my child I wouldnt want them to keep that kind of information from me.His father had every right to know about the molestation.I think JR wanting to get help just for the fact that he confessed to his mother.I just wonder was this the first person he molested???
Dang….i missed alot today
There is too many questioned to be answered in the story….the main one being was this lil gurl molested?. I’m sure more details are gonna come out…or should come out as this story carrys on. Now this lil gurl is prob gonna go under tests, n watnot. Not all of these tests of physical btw
And boi does this mother have alot to deal with now
I was in my aunts court room (shes a judge) and this father had molested his daughter for years and she finally told on him. The B***ard had the nerve to say that he forgave the daughter for telling on him.The mother was still with the molester and gave her daughter away. My aunt let the molester and her momma both have it that day.Its some sick people…..
@M_promp2
I don’t think all Pedophiles are made. Not everyone that is molested as kids grow up to molest. The percentage is probably higher but not 100%. I can’t say I agree or disagree with the fathers actions but I can sorta understand it. This little boy was 15!! He knew it was wrong to touch a 3 YEAR OLD. Like someone said people are forgetting she was 3! Experimenting is playing little games(mommy and daddy) with someone YOUR AGE not a toddler. What he did wasn’t totally different and wrong. Pedophiles were 15 once.
I just read the article intense posted in another post. And while i have many questions….I do think he needs to pay for what he did. Take him out the housed naked? And he beat while he was inside the house? And he killed him execution style…if he’d prob beat him to death or just pretty badly….i may have a diff opinion but i don’t know…. If bridge harris had to do time…so should he
@ 2bme
I identify with all of your post. I am 31 and I still suffer from the same issues you pointed out. And the fact that a 3 YEAR OLD GIRL had to have such an exam at a doctors office that are supposed to be for grown women (OB/GYN exam) is enough to traumatize her for life. I know it was for me and no she is not too young to remember. I still do. I pray for her mental well being. Everyone one else I could careless about because, including the 15 year old, had choices in the matter…she DID NOT!
And furthermore if someone is 15 and is doing ish like this it is too late for them, they are already programed as to their sickness and predisposition for repeating this behaviour. Just because someone is/might have been a victim of sexual abuse does not negate the fact that they are a Sexual Abuser. Point Blank.
As the mother of three sons and witnessing this happening to a young cousin of mine…via her half-brothers…all I can say is…wow…and my prayers are with them…and the father. I TRULY understand beating the brakes off his ass…but the shooting…can’t see my husband having the strength or insane frame of mind to shoot…maaaan…too sad.
I was in my aunts court room (shes a judge) and this father had molested his daughter for years and she finally told on him. The B***ard had the nerve to say that he forgave the daughter for telling on him.The mother was still with the molester and gave her daughter away. My aunt let the molester and her momma both have it that day.Its some sick people…..
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don’t yall know shyt like this right here is the reason why this 3 year old would have grown up WISHING death on her 15 year old brother!! This has forever changed her life….anybody trying to say this lil gurl will not remember what happened to her because she is 3 iz dead azz wrong! I can tell you something that happened to me at 3 years of age like it happened yesterday because of the TRAUMA it caused! The BOY WAS WRONG, the DADDY was wrong…it was just a fukked up situation the NONE of us could say what we would do until we were actually in it.
I understand his immediate reaction but you dont execute your child. HOW could he look in a face that looks just like yours and pull a trigger? Ppl keep talking about “oh so now you dont hurt the person who hurt your child if its a relative.” That boy wasnt just a relative he was his son. My uncles,cousins, and brother didnt sit in my damn body for 40+ weeks refusing to come out. You put your children in the same boat as your other relatives now? That is the question I want answered. God help the mother because there is no way he would have shot my child without shooting me first.
All, I’m saying is..If my brother molested me, I honestly believe my mom would kill him or come close to it. Your emotions don’t play.
As a clinical psychologist who works with youth sex offenders, I feel that something is missing in this story. Was CPS called? If so, why wasn’t the youth taken into custody? I’m wondering about what was going on with the father. I’m also wondering why the mom did not call the police when her ex-husband began to beat her son. Also, when her son was stripped naked, did she then call the police? So many questions…
texarican mamacita Says:
And furthermore if someone is 15 and is doing ish like this it is too late for them, they are already programed as to their sickness and predisposition for repeating this behaviour. Just because someone is/might have been a victim of sexual abuse does not negate the fact that they are a Sexual Abuser. Point Blank.
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Our laws are too lenient on pervs. They can serve their time get out register as a sex offender but do the same crime. Look at the case in Cleveland where 11 bodies were found. I think this guy went to jail on bugulary charges and not the rape because there was not enough evidence. He served 15 yrs but fell through the cracks. Everyone has a sexual registered list in the area, this man did not have to be on the list so the neighbors had nothing to keep an eye on him for. The percentage is very high when a perv gets out of jail he will not only strike again but look at all the little girls who get killed because our system says he paid is debt to society. They should never be let out of jail because they are beyond rehabilitable(not sure if that’s a word). A pit bull who gets his first taste of blood fighting is no good for anyone and must be destroyed, should be the same for pervs.
You should never act with your emotions even though it is hard to do, however you tend to do sh!t you will regret later, a fraction of second can change your life forever, especially when it comes to a 15 year old son. I despise a pedophile, rapist and anybody that causes harm to innocent people, but in this case and as a father, you would have to step back and reorganize. Then again you don’t know their household
However, I believe that humans can be turned into anything, if you apply the proper training. Look at the Nazi’s, you can’t tell me that they didn’t know what they did was wrong, somebody justified so they followed it. Look at the Waco people that followed David Koresh. The human mind in my opinion is very unstable. A 15 year old boy their minds are easy to be changed and influenced. that’s why I say parenting is such a big issue because as a kid you are like sponge you absorb all kinds of sh!t. I used to be reckless, a bully, with no conscious but as I got older and start dealing with different people I learned a lot about myself.
It’s intersting to me that the boy confessed, maybe the felt guilt. Most pervs don’t do this. They threaten or run and hide. I wish we knew his exact words to his mother, because that is very interesting to me.
Molestation and rape are UNACCEPTABLE. Hypothetically, I know I that if I was in arm’s reach of my child’s rapist, I would do SERIOUS DAMAGE. Purposely, I would not kill them because I would want to be there for my child and I would want the perp to feel ALL the pain there is to feel, like in the Last House on the Left.
Okay, MUNCH & INTENSE I need to borrow the CAPS LOCK FOR A MIN
SANDRA ROSE,
YOU POSTED THIS STORY AND IT REALLY BOTHERED ME. I GOOGLED THE STORY AND NO WHERE, NOT EVEN THE LINKED ARTICLE YOU POSTED STATED THAT, THAT LITTLE GIRL WAS HIS SISTER!
Where did that twist come from and why?
You need to edit this post to match what the story actually states.
This is from the article you posted.
Jamar Pinkney Sr., 37, irate over hearing his 15-year-old son Jamar Pinkney Jr. had sexual contact with a 3-year-old girl made the teen strip at gunpoint, marched him to a vacant lot and shot him to death despite pleas from the boy and his mother, a relative said.
The boy’s mother, Lazette Cherry, told the Detroit Free Press that her son told her he had improper sexual contact with the girl.
“Jamar Pinkney Sr., 37, irate over hearing his 15-year-old son Jamar Pinkney Jr. had sexual contact with a 3-year-old girl made the teen strip at gunpoint, marched him to a vacant lot and shot him to death despite pleas from the boy and his mother, a relative said.”
“I called and told his father. This isn’t something you sweep under the rug,” she said. Cherry said the elder Pinkney arrived at the home with a gun, ordered his son to strip and marched him outside despite her protests.
“He got on his knees and begged, `No, Daddy, No,’ and he pulled the trigger,” Cherry said.
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Doesn’t say anything about it being his sister OR that she went to the hospital and was found not molested.
@ Iscream not only that but foxnewsdetroit.com is reporting that “his girlfriend accused the boy and that is why he went over there.” This is why you dont take the law into your own hands! Too many damn stories! I’m not saying whats true and whats not but God help him if he killed his son over what his girlfriend said alone.
@VI
Thats y i originally said…there is just too many questions in this story. It doesn’t make any sense
@Isc
Son Killed, Father in Police Custody
Updated: Thursday, 19 Nov 2009, 10:57 AM EST
Published : Monday, 16 Nov 2009, 10:35 PM EST
By ROOP RAJ
myFOXDetroit.com
HIGHLAND PARK, Mich. (myFOXDetroit.com) – The story first broke on Tuesday evening. Now, we’re learning more about a father accused of shooting and killing his own teenage son.
“I don’t know what to tell you. It’s rough,” said Thelmon Cherry. The grandfather of 15-year-old Jamar Pinkney, Junior stood just a few feet away from where his grandson was shot and killed in front of his family, including his own grandmother, who watched the boy’s father just seconds after the shooting.
“He politely just walked to his car like nothing happened, got in it, then he pulled up in front of my house, rolled his window down… looked at me and drove away,” said Leola Cherry, the victim’s grandmother.
This all apparently started when the father’s girlfriend accused Jamar Junior of acting inappropriately with her three-year-old child.
“Got him all upset that he came over here to chastise his son for whatever had happened, and he beat on him already and snatched his clothes all off and then shot him,” Thelmon Cherry said.
Jamar’s mother got a phone call from the suspect, Jamar Senior, but she believes he meant to call his girlfriend instead.
“After he did it, he called my phone… He didn’t realize he was calling my phone. He said, ‘Baby, I took care of this,” said Lazette Cherry, the victim’s mother.
Jamar Junior begged for his life as did other family members watching nearby.
“He put the gun to his head and he shot him,” Lazette Cherry said.
Jamar’s family hopes his father, the suspect now in police custody in the murder, hears this message:
“He (isn’t) going to forget this for a long time,” said Thelmon Cherry.
“God will handle you… You’re going to pay for this,” said Lazette Cherry.
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Well i found this article
And i heard another paper in detroit is reporting the same thing
Sorry bout posting the article…but somthing bout this story just don’t make sense to me.
@isc & starr
I was saying that when people first post this in the other post that I read articles and they never said she was his sister…..
there are to many conflicting stories on this for real… but it is still a sad story…
I’m really interested in this story. Cuz i just read another article that said he confessed. which is it.
@missy
there are lots of conflicting story…hopefully the truth will come out in a few days
@starr
Yea hopefully the truth will come out soon…….
starr Says:
I’m really interested in this story. Cuz i just read another article that said he confessed. which is it
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Highland Park Judge Bridgette Officer arraigned the 37-year-old on the charges Wednesday afternoon in 30th District Court. Jamar Pinkney Sr. pleaded guilty at the arraignment.
The mother did an interview with the Detroit freepress thats were she said that he confessed to her and that it was his half sister
kaylau Says:
“I don’t think the Dad liked his son very much because you don’t just shoot your child because they did something wrong no matter how horrible that things is.”
–true, now he will be sitting in prison for awhile–at least I hope so and guess what, the mother of the three-year old will move on and find another man to be with and be in that child’s life. I only hope the mother choose wisely and not become involved with someone who may be a molester as well, who will defend the little girl? Sad.
dblaq says:
“If you spoil your kids, you raise bad kids!”
–I learned this the hard way.
@crzasallgetout, I see exactly what you mean. I didn’t mean that “all” ppl who are molested become pedophiles, but it is very common knowledge that some do. Text book excerpt:
The effects of child sexual abuse include depression,[5] post-traumatic stress disorder,[6] anxiety,[7] propensity to re-victimization in adulthood,[8] and physical injury to the child, among other problems.
Additionally, there is no proof that he did anything.
@star, that is the exact news report I saw on youtube. I saw those words coming out of the mother and grandparents mouths. Story posted is not correct. He listened to his girlfriend’s accusation. What a spineless p**sy whipped punk. When the other inmates find out what he did, why and that it wasn’t true, they are gonna deal with him properly.
Anna..our laws are too lenient because half of those making the laws are breaking them..there are thousands of perverts in high positions..you really think they would make a law of execution in case they got caught?only in America will we put a pervert in protective custody..only in America is there a statute of limitation on rape where some states will void the case after a year if the crime has not been reported during that timeframe..what a fcukin country we live in!
@Ann
It sounds like there gonna use that prime of passion arguement….. He’s just prepping his defense or plea dea.
Okay he confessed. But what prompt him to confess…was he accused and then confess….cuz people don’t just volunteer info like that
This story seems like it is missing so many major pieces. It was wrong for a child to touch his sister but does that make it okay for him to be beat down, stripped and executed by his own father. When my little brother was 14yrs old he told my mother and I that he could’t change my niece’s diaper or give her a bath because boys aren’t supposed to touch little girls. We had to explain to him the differences between being inappropriate and taking care of a child. My brother wasn’t dumb or anything he just thought like a child (unlike most grown azz teenagers these days).
I say all this to say maybe the childs was confused about his actions. Maybe the mother didn’t really ask the details of her son confession. As a mother I need to know everything. I need the hows, whats, whens, and wheres. Maybe the mother didn’t request all this information before she decided to call the father to “show him some discipline” as she stated. But now she will never have the opportunity to ask.
Im not making excuses for violating a child because that is one the most horrible crimes one could commit. It just seems like there is more to this particular story. Regardless of what the truth is execution couldn’t have possibly been the best course of action for your own child.