Which smooth R&B singer accompanied his boys to a local strip club last week but refused any attention from the strippers?

According to my spy, the singer and his entourage hit up Club Onyx last Wednesday night. My spy says the singer and another man sat quietly and watched while his boys frolicked with the amply endowed strippers in VIP.

The crooner, who recently secured a divorce from his psycho ex-wife, waved away strippers who attempted to approach him. One stripper approached the singer anyway, put her hand on his shoulder and tried to engage him in conversation. But the singer asked her to remove her hand and told her, "No thank you. I'm good."

Which prompts the question: why was he in a strip club in the first place?

The stripper told friends that when she put her hand on the singer's shoulder, the man sitting next to him glared at her disapprovingly. She said the guy looked at her as if to say, 'why are you touching my man?'

Photo: Getty Images

  • j.c.

    oooh i know where to come for my mid-day mess! loves it

  • in2wishon

    messy....messy...messy

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    :popcorn:

  • Elle

    Call me naive but I don't think Ursher Baby is gay. Maybe he didn't fill like making it rain that day.

  • Chupilives

    :newbie: Hi SR fam I'm new around here. I've been "lurking" for a while now and am so excited to finally be able to post comments!! LOL Can anyone tell me how to upload a pic?

  • Anna

    Elle Says:

    Call me naive but I don’t think Ursher Baby is gay. Maybe he didn’t fill like making it rain that day.
    ~~~~~~~
    Thank You. If you're use to doing something your're not going to get excited like it's your first time.

  • CorporateHoodB-tch

    Maybe, the dancer was too skanky or stanky for his taste.
    :lol:
    Or, many men have business meetings at strip clubs and he was there on business only.

  • free

    i went with my guy friends to a strip club once, just because they wanted to go and i was riding with them. one of our friends worked for a news station and pulled the d*mn van up in the lot and took the magnet with the station's call letters off.

    i am female and it grossed me out. i thought it would be like it is on tv (hbo had a series once) but i think they went to the nastiest, grossest one. maybe he wasn't the driver so he just went along.

  • chase

    I see nothing wrong with what he did...that's how my hubby better act at a strip club!

  • KeyshDiiva

    Umm...are those gray facial hairs in his beard?!...I never got the gay vibe from Usher..I remember when I was in 8th grade and he was that dude lol

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ Corporate, I was going to say the same thing. Maybe they had bullet wounds and shyt all over them. Who knows?

  • cmj

    Maybe he just wanted to look and not touch. I have to agree with Elle and Anna, I don't think Usher roll like that :nono:

  • LilMissRed

    IA w/ some others here.. I dont that 'hes gay' vibe thing about Usher.. ppl go to the strip clubs all the time and NOT get table dances and to be honest.. umm eeeuuu who the heck wants some nasty 'skripper'(not a typo) touching them, much less shakin their funk-ness in their face/space anyways?? no telling what other services shes been doing eeeuuuuu

  • luvly1957

    here u go again Sandra everybody is GAY? Damn, can any man be straight around u... read ur Jennifer blog again pls.

  • mirsmommy

    It wouldn't surprise me if Ursher is :gay:

    :offtopic: @ Sandra, did you hear about TI supposedly getting sued for copywright infringement for his song, "What You Know?"

  • bklynchick

    @Chup welcome.....don't know how to load any photos

    Auntie that was just messy....but only u can do that LOL

    I don't think Usher is gay at all....

  • onlinefan

    don't believe that Usher is gay. try again.

  • miss_meka

    You need more people..I dont believe that.

  • Chupilives

    Maybe it wasn't his idea to go the strip club and he just went along with his boys. I've never gotten a gay vibe from Usher. Maybe he knows these chicks are after his "Papers" and shut that mess down from the door. I ain't mad at him at all.

  • chase

    Auntie reminds me of my mother...she swaers everyone is gay or on the dl...she even went as far to accuse me and my brothers being how u doin... cuz I said girl had a nice butt... I see nothing wrong is giving someone a genuine complement...

  • Cinderella

    Club Onyx is known for the hood strippers. I don't blame Usher for not spending money on females w/ stretch marks, tattoos, C-section scars, and burn marks.

  • keely107

    I concur, if thats how you feel mistah stay home!

  • pinky2083

    Oh wow Sandra... don't think so,

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    I am almost positive that the guy sitting next to him was his Executive Security, Elijah Shaw (one of the best in the business) Usher goes nowhere without him....Don't let Sandra fool ya'll, she knew who it was sitting next to Usher...lol

  • Elle

    I forgot to put :newbie: , thanks for the reminder Chup.

  • Bella

    Oh come on. Sandra you are beyond REACHING. Why must everything be gay or straight with you? So damn myopic.
    Just because a man doesn't want to engage in conversations with a stripper, that means he's gay? LMAO. Isn't watching enough?

    This is one of the dumbest posts on here. SMDH.

  • OutsidetheBox

    :popcorn: My, my, my! No pun intended (Johnny Gill, anyone?)

  • Chupilives

    Hi Elle *waving* I think I may have figured out how to upload a pic, but let me try it and see how it works first.

    On Topic: Hubby and I have an agreement that if I ever had the chance with Usher, he'd give me a pass (don't judge me LOL). His only free pass in life is Sanaa Lathan and he doesn't stand a chance in hell with her LOL

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    While I do believe Usher swings for the other team. He may just have not wanted to do anything that would put his name in blogs the following day.... guess that didn't work.

    Just cause one is gay doesn't mean they can't go to strip clubs... Ms. Rose you seem to live in them. Is the insider your "girlfriend"? :shrug:

  • va_shawty

    Which prompts the question: why was he in a strip club in the first place? Ummmmm. Helllllllo! Perhaps he just likes the music... :blink:

  • CHARBEE1

    1. If Ursh is gay I would not be surprised cause the industry is full of them.

    2. On the other hand I just don't see it being true.

  • starr

    I'm not one to get into who's gay and who isn't...cuz i really don't care but....I've always heard gay rumours about ursh. I remember around the "confessions" period...i heard all kinds of stuff...and i won't lie....some of em were blind items lol...but it was clear as day who htey were talking about.

  • keely107

    Thats like going to sit in the barber shop, cuz u like the convos that take place there, but dont get your hair cut!

  • pointhimout

    shit, i dont blame usher. thats how i feel. "get cho nasty ass off my lap, trick." there's nothing to see here people, nothing at all. he's usher. y would you think you can come up here with that FISHY snatch and think me, Usher, is gonna spend money on you? beat it.

  • Rod Boogie

    I do this sometimes and I am FAR from gay..
    Sometimes dudes just go to the strip club to kick it..
    The dancers are persistent as heck to try to get close
    to you even when you make it known you don't want a dance-
    why? because they are trying to get to the money!!

    The dude Ursher was with probably looked ate her like that because he probably already made it known he wasn't on it like that this particular night.

  • CHARBEE1

    :offtopic: Why the hell does Atlanta have a strip club called the "Dirty Rat" ?????????????? :wow:

  • lourie

    Sandra, I really don’t think this implies U being gay. A female coworker of mine recently spotted U and 1 or 2 other guys in a restaurant that all of us often frequent for lunch. She spoke to him and asked if she could take a pic with him. He told her that he cannot take pics with females but he would gladly give her an autograph which he did. So all of us think he’s refusing public contact with females due to the divorce proceedings from his “psycho wife”.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Blank stare @ Usher.

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    Let me tell you how it works. Usually guys with REAL money (like high level executives) they go to the strip club and they NEVER throw money around. They turn away all the strippers that they don't want, looking for that ONE stripper that they are attracted to. The Executive leaves and the security brings the stripper back to the luxury hotel suite and they get it in that way. Only wannabes throw one dollar bills around in the club.

  • Tink Tink

    Them girls busted at the Onyx.....

  • keely107

    @Charbee:

    Where is that? Been here all my life and neva heard of THAT one.

    @Security:

    Now THAT sounds feasible!

  • Rod Boogie

    Oh yeah- :noob:
    What's up SR Fam..

  • coaretained

    maybe she wasn't old enough for him :shrug:

  • qtipthecat

    Maybe he is not turned on by the skanky stripper type girls.....I'm just sayin......I dont get the gay vibe from him either.

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    @Charbee:

    I haven't done security for any famous people, but I can guarantee you that's how executives do it.

  • cmj

    :offtopic: @Elle, you have to use gravtar to change your picture. The link is listed above the comment section.

  • nali

    I agree W/@security but SAndra doesn't have anything else to report on but nonsense today!!

  • Al-Ameera

    Ok I know I have asked this before but what is the backstory on Tameka...why is she so hated? I never even heard of her before this Usher fiasco

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    :welcome: @ Elle and Chup *blows noise maker and throws confetti*

  • cheeks8683

    nooooo not ush....man he just didn't want to be bothered that's all...isn't he with Grace anyway. Just wanted to look and handle it at home, he grown and he doesn't seem like the take-a-stripper home type

  • speaknoevil

    Hello Everyone, I am new! I have been keeping up with you guys for years now. I finally caught the registration and I am so excited. I just wanted to know if anyone knew how to add a picture for my name? BTW..Usher really irks my nerves.

  • Kimmy

    WHATEVER!!! :rolleyes:

    Usher is not gay!!! Sandra, please give this mess a rest. Apparently you do not have anything else to report on...but, what you are not going to do is make up stories about my baby!!! :mad:

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    Sorry, my last comment was meant for keely107.

  • ReadTheBlog

    :newpost:

  • CorporateHoodB-tch

    ms.kaylamomma says
    @ Corporate, I was going to say the same thing. Maybe they had bullet wounds and shyt all over them. Who knows?
    ____________________________

    :rofl: @ bullet wounds...that was the picture I had in my head.

  • http://dahoneyhive.blogspot.com ryand91

    Hmmm gay rumors have swared around Usher forever. But it's his personal business if he is. But Sandra according to you at least 90% of the men in the industry are homosexual or bisexual.

  • http://dahoneyhive.blogspot.com ryand91

    have swarmed**

  • Shawnil

    :newbie: hello all, I enjoy reading your comments everyday....I've been hearing rumors about Ursh for a while, but I think he is just a little freak, loving his new song with Nikki Minaj "Lil Freak"

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    @cheeks8683:

    If he didn't want to be bothered he wouldn't be at a strip club. The last thing he needed was pictures of him getting a lap dance at the club. Now, in the penthouse at the four seasons is a different story. That's how a grown man handles his "Nasty" business.

  • ReadTheBlog

    Chupi, my husband free pass is Oprah, casue we both want her $$$! :rofl:

  • http://thecubiclechick.com STLVixen

    Ursher knows how people get down. One lap dance and it will be all over SR the next day complete with cam pics and chest hair. He got to look which I am sure suited him fine.

  • Ms.Tee

    Can't knock her for trying, she was just tryna come up on a hefty piece of change:lolsign: what is the purpose of security if they don't stop people from getting in your personal space if you don't want to be bothered. Should have picked another hangout spot. I can only imagine how she felt after he shut her down:cry:

  • http://myspace.com/katgirl33 katgirl33

    Maybe he took one look @ Tiger and realized that all coochie ain't good coochie.....LMAO!

    Hey Family :)

  • nevesnanna

    a :newpost: please, that is relevant :yawn:

    and whatever stripper sent the info...get over it

  • cheeks8683

    Ursher knows how people get down. One lap dance and it will be all over SR the next day complete with cam pics and chest hair. He got to look which I am sure suited him fine.
    :cosign:

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ Chupi, is that you and your hubby in your gravatar? If so, fab pic. :smile:

  • CHARBEE1

    @ keely107:

    When my hubby & I came down there last September this chick told us she works there. I was like I am not going to a club called the Dirty Rat cause it has to be some nasty females that work there. Accoriding to her it's near the Swingers club.

  • ReadTheBlog

    *whipsering* Did she say chest hair? :rofl:

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    @Ms.Tee:

    I agree. He wanted to be bothered, it was just ol' girl didn't pass the hygiene test so she had to go.

  • candigirl

    :newbie:Hi everyone...new poster here...how do I change my picture? I saw a user ask earlier but saw no response

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    I concur with Sandra a not so blind item...

  • ReadTheBlog

    Sandra, I went to that Ideeli site. They love to spam your in box!

  • ReadTheBlog

    I'm going ot walk now - I hope when I come back there will be a new post!

  • Daisy

    :welcome: all the new ppl! Where you from reping/married/single/kids/who do you stan for if anybody in fun?

    *passing out welcome packages* :lol:

  • VIBABY

    She probably had a strong odor of badussy surrounding her....

  • Daisy

    @RTB YES that site sends plenty of daily emails :mad:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Daisy
    You are crazy providing e-orientation LMAO

  • CHARBEE1

    @ keely107

    It is on Fulton Industrial Rd.

  • Ms.Tee

    I'm not sure why he would be worried about being all over blogs for getting a lap dance in the strip club..Hell he is a male celebrity or not...isn't that what males do??? I;m just sayin

  • VIBABY

    Damn @Daisy...you need a check or something. The welcome committee has been too busy lately... maybe you should hire some help..lol

  • Ms.Tee

    Hello Daisy!!!
    I'm from Connecticut currently resideing in ATL and I'm repping the single life :yes:

  • Shawnil

    @Daisy: Thank you for the welcome. I'm from Indianapolis (Go Colts), single, and I'm a Bey stan, I know I'm going to get crucify for that in here, but I do love her and her hubby Jay

  • Daisy

    @MsT I am in the A as well. What side of town you live on?

    @VI are you on the finance comm? :rofl:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Sandra
    Mild suggestion is it possible to update your pics on your banners to more frequent photos you could even have the same people-just askin....

  • Daisy

    @Shawn I won't hold that against you..well maybe just a little :lol:

  • CHARBEE1

    @ Daisy:

    I am a married young woman with 3 children and 2 step children.
    Age: 37
    I stan hard for T. I. :lolol: :wink:

  • CHARBEE1

    @ Daisey oh looking to move to Ga by next June..

  • Elle

    Thanks @Daisy. I am from Indianapolis and recently relocated to ATL. Single and no children. I have been reading sr since 07 and finally up in here!!! :cheer1:

    I stan for Keith Sweat and there is almost never a post on him.

  • Daisy

    @Char :cheer: another TI STAN!!

  • Ms.Tee

    @ Daisy I'm on the Eastside Lithonia to be exact...oh I forgot I stan for Jay-Z and Mary J. Blige

  • FloridaChick813

    :popcorn:

    But Usher never gave me the :gay: vibe..

  • Daisy

    Look at all these ATLiens up in the spot now :dance:

  • VIBABY

    @Shawnil welcome and from one Bey stan to another *e-hug*. One thing... we dont show fear up in here,lol. :shotsfired: at anybody talking ish...lol

    @Daisy I was but I realized there was no finance on the finance committe...lol

  • Shawnil

    @Elle, hey fellow hoosier, my mom moved to ATL three years ago, so I"m back and forth between here and there.

  • Daisy

    @MsT oh ok I am on the southside by the airport but most of my friends live in Dekalb and that is where my church is located as well.

  • FloridaChick813

    Choco Says:

    @Daisy
    You are crazy providing e-orientation LMAO
    _____________________________

    LMFAO... Good one

  • Ms.Tee

    :offtopic: okay can someone tell me how to get this unattractive baby off my default pic

  • FloridaChick813

    Choco Says:

    @Sandra
    Mild suggestion is it possible to update your pics on your banners to more frequent photos you could even have the same people-just askin….
    _____________

    Get outta my head lady, I been wandering the same thing.. I LOVE the pic of Monica and her son, but i HATE those white sandals she is wearing... ((personal opinion.. PLEASE dont shoot)) :lolol:

  • Shawnil

    Thank you VIBABY, I hear you loud and clear

  • nevesnanna

    testing... trying to figure out why my comment is 'awaiting moderation' ... :waiting:

  • VIBABY

    Did @ Elle just say she is a stan for Keith sweat? lol Welcome, and thats different.... :)

  • gypsyeyes

    Ms. Tee what part of CT?
    I think that he was just there for ambience. Men are like that sometimes they just want it around. Besides, he's VIP she doesn't choose him he chooses her.

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    so I'm guessing we are not going to get another :newpost: today.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Florida
    I know it was the Monica pic that made me like I need new pictures...

  • KaraZ

    coaretained Says:
    maybe she wasn’t old enough for him
    --------------------------------------------------------------

    I am done.

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    What's up Daisy, I'm from Newport News, Va (can't say Bad Newz Va no more...Mike Vick @#$% it up for everybody). I live in Atlanta now. Jay Z used to be my boy but he's been making me a little uncomfortable lately.

  • Lemondrop

    coaretained Says:
    maybe she wasn’t old enough for him

    ***********************************
    I just caught that! ROTF

  • Tink Tink

    :newbie:
    @ Daisy
    Single male from SC, no kids...Stan for MJB & A.Keys(body)

  • Daisy

    @Beau still early give Auntie time

    Keith Sweats had some HITS my favs are Make you sweat, There you go telling me no again, I would never do anything to hurt you and right and a wrong way to love somebody oh I forgot Mary go round!

  • Elle

    @VIBABY thanks and yelp, I love me some Keith and I am trying to go to that concert here in ATL. People are always shocked when I say that because I am 24.

  • VIBABY

    coaretained Says:
    maybe she wasn’t old enough for him

    ***********************************
    I just caught that! ROTF

    You know what, I JUST got it too..... lol

  • gypsyeyes

    Hey @securityone. Can we get a picture because we don't get many men in here so it's nice to look at some "man skin".

  • Ms.Tee

    I'm from Hartford

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @security one and Tink Tink, are you men or women? I just want to make sure I address you correctly.

  • FloridaChick813

    Choco Says:

    @Florida
    I know it was the Monica pic that made me like I need new pictures…
    _____________________

    :lolol:

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    gypsyeys said

    ...Besides, he’s VIP she doesn’t choose him he chooses her.
    ------------------------
    Well said, well said.

  • Daisy

    @Tink I :heart: AKeys

    @Security another male :yea: I loves me some Vick. VA is known for having some cuties let me find out you are one as well :coffee:

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    Thanx daisy

  • gypsyeyes

    @tink tink- :-o

  • Ms.Tee

    sorry Post 109 was for Ms. Gypsyeyes

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Well never mind Tink Tink, I read your comment too fast. You're a male...

  • CorporateHoodB-tch

    :offtopic:
    Listening to the remix of Snoop Dogg's new "I Wanna Rock Right Now".
    1. Too soon for a gattdamn remix..it just came out
    2. Why is Jay Z the lead on the remix? I would make muffuccas get in at the end of my song.
    3. Did Jay Z say "No more Biggie, I'm just the King now"...
    :wtf: have the streets approved this statement? How did I miss that?
    4. You can't win a battle with a dead man. For that reason Biggie still out ranks Jay-Z forever IMO...*drops mic*

  • ReadTheBlog

    Well I'm back from my walk and I am diappointed to say the least.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Gypsy
    Flirt much LOL

  • FloridaChick813

    securityone Says:

    What’s up Daisy, I’m from Newport News, Va (can’t say Bad Newz Va no more…Mike Vick @#$% it up for everybody). I live in Atlanta now. Jay Z used to be my boy but he’s been making me a little uncomfortable lately.
    ___________

    Pardon me for interupting.. LOL

    I lived in Va Beach for a few years, but im back home in Florida now.. Dont miss VA too much at all.. LOL

  • Daisy

    I missed that Tink said he was a male

  • VIBABY

    :surprise: @ Daisy

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    LOL @ Read you knew when you left there wouldn't be a new one...

  • gypsyeyes

    Ms.Tee that is where I live. I just moved back here from the A. All my family is here and my mom got sick before you ask me why I moved here. and besides that Atlanta aint what it used to be.

  • VIBABY

    :surprised: @ Daisy

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    I am a man...Oh yeah, if any of you see me in the strip club waving off strippers, it doesn't mean I'm gay...just choosin'...lol. By the way, how do you add a pic to your profile?

  • Daisy

    @Corprate are you in the A? Snoops song was just on the radio and I was JAMMING :dance:

    @VI leave me alone :lol:

  • Daisy

    To add a pic go to gravatar . com and use the email address you registered to with on SRose and keep in mind its is case sensative hope that helps *makes notes to add this to the welcome packet*

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Go to gravatar (.) com and use the same email that you used to register with Sandra. Choose the G rating and confirm @ all the new people trying to add a new pic.

  • VIBABY

    *giggle*

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Daisy
    That doesn't work I have tried that Sandra got that screaming baby defaulted somehow...

  • gypsyeyes

    @Choco- you know what old folks say, a closed mouth wont get fed.
    It's not considered flirting it's called...who am I fooling, what's up with that picture, huh?

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    ummm so are we allowed to ask for peoples twitter...just asking don't want to get :ban: I'm enjoying myself lol

  • speaknoevil

    I live in Columbus, Ohio and I am married with 2 boys. I am very friendly and I love love.
    I still do not know how to change my picture? Can anyone help?

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    FloridaChick813 Says

    I lived in Va Beach for a few years, but im back home in Florida now.. Dont miss VA too much at all.. LOL
    ---------
    I don't either...however, I do miss the Beach though, but not enough to go back.

  • mirsmommy

    CorporateHoodB-tch Says:

    Listening to the remix of Snoop Dogg’s new “I Wanna Rock Right Now”.

    3. Did Jay Z say “No more Biggie, I’m just the King now”…
    have the streets approved this statement? How did I miss that?
    4. You can’t win a battle with a dead man. For that reason Biggie still out ranks Jay-Z forever IMO…*drops mic*
    _________________________________________________________

    I haven't heard that remix yet, but then again, I rarely listen to the radio.

    And that ain't the first time Jay-Z's wack camel lookin a** said that he was better than B.I.G. :mad:

  • CorporateHoodB-tch

    @Daisy...yep I'm in the "A". I never been a huge Snoop fan. But oooooh weeee...this is the baddest song he has made in a while!
    Whatcha think about Jay Z on the remix?

  • gypsyeyes

    @choca-are you clearing your cookies in internet options, cuz I swear I change mine like every week.

  • Al-Ameera

    @ Daisy I think I am feeling some kinda way...I didn't get the welcome committee :sad:

  • Daisy

    @Beaut I am daisy5730 on twitter that is not against the :rules:

    @VI *pops hand I said stop it* :lol:

    @Corporate Snoop has had some HAWT songs over the yrs and he is great in interviews a real character!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Okay I just tried it again and let me see if it works...

  • Daisy

    @Al :hug: Sometimes I get busy and miss ppl dont take it personal (c) Monica :lol: Feel free to fill out your welcome package at this time

    @Corporate Jay is aiight I am partial to the old Jay when I was in college wildin out over the new Jay but he straight!

  • FloridaChick813

    Daisy Says:

    @Corprate are you in the A? Snoops song was just on the radio and I was JAMMING
    _______________

    It is a jammin song.. and Im not even a fan of snoop!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Gypsy no I don't that will help let me try that....

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ Corporate, all I can say is I was a little disappointed he messed with my Rob Base song. That was the jam back in the day. I don't like Snoop though.

  • Ms.Tee

    @ Gypsyeyes I must admit I LUV ATL I have been here since 03. I have NO family here except one cousin. I'm trying to get my mom to move here by the summer. it gets lonely cause I don't have many friends but my 3 friends are the best and their family welcomes me so I'll be fine

    Thanks to you all for the insite on the default info..going to try that out right now

  • Daisy

    @Choco it works but it took me a min to figure it out as well. You have to enter in the email addresses the same way its acse sensative.

  • VIBABY

    @Al-ameera I thought you were "old".

  • FloridaChick813

    securityone Says:

    FloridaChick813 Says

    I lived in Va Beach for a few years, but im back home in Florida now.. Dont miss VA too much at all.. LOL
    ———
    I don’t either…however, I do miss the Beach though, but not enough to go back.
    ______________

    :lolol: Me either.. But hey, I got the beach right here.. LOL..

  • CorporateHoodB-tch

    CorporateHoodB-tch Says:

    Listening to the remix of Snoop Dogg’s new “I Wanna Rock Right Now”.

    3. Did Jay Z say “No more Biggie, I’m just the King now”…
    have the streets approved this statement? How did I miss that?
    4. You can’t win a battle with a dead man. For that reason Biggie still out ranks Jay-Z forever IMO…*drops mic*
    _________________________________________________________

    I haven’t heard that remix yet, but then again, I rarely listen to the radio.

    And that ain’t the first time Jay-Z’s wack camel lookin a** said that he was better than B.I.G.

    _______________________________________________
    I'm gonna start a hip-hop petition for the camel to Cease and Desist calling himself better Biggie!!! :nono:

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    following you daisy.....my twitter name is BLAHH_BITCH :ashamed: LOLZZ

  • FloridaChick813

    Al-Ameera Says:

    @ Daisy I think I am feeling some kinda way…I didn’t get the welcome committee
    _________________

    Me either girl && I been here for months :crying:

    LOL

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ VIBaby, I thought so too.

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    BLAHH_BIT**

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Testing dammit

  • VIBABY

    Sorry @ Corporate....you cool and all but Biggie was not that dude to me...... *trying hard not to run because I can hear the Biggie fans comming* lol

  • FloridaChick813

    CorporateHoodB-tch Says:

    CorporateHoodB-tch Says:

    Listening to the remix of Snoop Dogg’s new “I Wanna Rock Right Now”.

    3. Did Jay Z say “No more Biggie, I’m just the King now”…
    have the streets approved this statement? How did I miss that?
    4. You can’t win a battle with a dead man. For that reason Biggie still out ranks Jay-Z forever IMO…*drops mic*
    _________________________________________________________

    I haven’t heard that remix yet, but then again, I rarely listen to the radio.

    And that ain’t the first time Jay-Z’s wack camel lookin a** said that he was better than B.I.G.

    _______________________________________________
    I’m gonna start a hip-hop petition for the camel to Cease and Desist calling himself better Biggie!!!
    ____________

    Pass it this way so I can sign

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Okay I'm done with this gravi thing I am not technically inclined so bump it

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Daisy
    I tried girl this ish raising my blood pressure LMAO

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    I love jayz....he is extremely arrogant but their aren't many celebs that's not full of themselves

  • gypsyeyes

    what is your age range? that is better than asking your age right? what part of hartford did you live or raised?

  • Vyolet20

    I'm about to update my gravi. Just wish my comments would post. They're both being moderated *shrugs*

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    Just checking to see if my pic posted.

  • Vyolet20

    @VI i agree with u about biggie. always been a pac fan anyway.

  • FloridaChick813

    @ securityone -

    AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what a cutie!!!!!!!!!

    He looks like a younger version of my son!!!

  • gypsyeyes

    That is cute as hail-securityone. Is that your son?

  • FloridaChick813

    Beautifuleve17 Says:

    I love jayz….he is extremely arrogant but their aren’t many celebs that’s not full of themselves
    ___________________

    Your right about that... H3ll, most men in general are full of themselves..

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    Thank you. That's my youngest son, Jordan. He's 6 now.

  • Ms.Tee

    okay once I confirm the pic....is there a confirmation or anything cause

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Your pic is up Ms. Tee :thumbsup:

  • CorporateHoodB-tch

    @ms.kaylamomma...I agree Snoop has top the charts with some hits that like too...but I wouldn't consider myself a fan of his.
    Maybe because I didn't appreciate his pimp image of coming to the award show holding 2 females on a dog leashes.
    :sorry: Back in the day, I read the book "Whoreson." Now I feel bad for prostitues...it kinda makes my skin crawl.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    :offtopic: We are coming to the Georgia World Congress Center next weekend for Cheersport. We are definitely going to the Aquarium but for all the ATLiens, what else is there to do?

  • gypsyeyes

    cute picture ms.tee!!!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Okay I am really feeling left out....
    @SecurityOne if you don't mind are you able to give me step by step of what you did I'm sick of my gravi and I don't know what I'm doing wrong...

  • Ms.Tee

    it's cool I'm 27. here it goes from the hood on up...lmao I grew up in the square, lived on Garden st most of my life after moving to East Hartford

    Where is my pic ugghh..lol guess I have to try again

  • gypsyeyes

    come on Choco-the new ppl worked out their pix, get it together sister. lol

  • Al-Ameera

    Ok I feel better now. I'm over it! LOL

    @ VIBaby, I've been reading for about a year plus but just registered about 2-3 weeks ago when it was open. Also, I am with you...Biggie just was ehhhh in my opinion. I can listen over and over and over and will NEVER see why people call him the greatest or anywhere near. Oh and I live is NY, people will want my blood for saying that, I may have to go into hiding.

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    Your right about that… H3ll, most men in general are full of themselves..
    ---------------------

    smh I totally agree

  • Ms.Tee

    I see it now...I was getting a bit frustrated...lol Now I feel like we are family..lol

  • gypsyeyes

    The square, that's where my family lived as children. Charter Oak myself and then to Blue Hills Ave. Did you clear your cookies through internet options? do that and refresh it should be there for you to see because we see it.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Gyspy
    You are wrong for that lmao I have been trying Im going back at it again...you made me feel like a dummy LMFAO

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    @Choco:

    I did step by step what daisy wrote in the comments. Which part are u having trouble with?

  • mgrimesii

    :partytime: YEAH!!! I can comment now.... I think he just didn't want to be bothered, he having trust issues from the whole insurance scam, oh darn sorry I mean "robbery" thing. His boys forced him to go come out and party..

  • FloridaChick813

    Beautifuleve17 Says:

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    Your right about that… H3ll, most men in general are full of themselves..
    ———————

    smh I totally agree
    __________

    sad thing is... they feel the same way about us.. :lolol:

  • Daisy

    @Florida :hug:

    @security based on your son you are keeping the cute men n VA theory alive! I keep saying I am going to move to VA sooner than later :lol:

    @VI you bet not let Shauny hear u say that about Biggie :nono:

    @choco sorry its not working for you!

  • mirsmommy

    :welcome: New Folks. :)

  • Ms.Tee

    Ms. Gypsy are we about to go down memory lane on SR...lamo My family is The Amos family form the square

  • http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

    Hello all!

    :welcome: New members!

    @ms.kayla...You're coming to ATL? :cheer: Are you looking for kid-friendly stuff to do?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Security
    I did it and I used the case sensitve let me scroll back up and see what exactly she said thx

  • Ms.Tee

    I'm a Biggie fan @ :heart: but I'm a bit under weather to put up a fight today..lmao but you are titled to your own opinion like we all are. I just got here not ready to be :ban: yet

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    mirsmommy Says:

    :welcome: New Folks. :)
    -----------------------------------------
    I just registered yesterday I'm so excited lol i dont know why...Ive been lurking for a while...i also enjoy the other site but i just feel like the conversations here are more grown up lol

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    Beautifuleve17 Says:

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    Your right about that… H3ll, most men in general are full of themselves..
    ———————

    smh I totally agree
    __________

    sad thing is… they feel the same way about us.. :lolol:
    -----------------------------------

    so true but their clueless so who cares lol

  • Quitta

    *just walkin in*

    Oh my my!! :welcome: all newbies *waves*

    They been saying this about Usher for a minute now. But I don't believe it.... yet. LOL

  • Ms.Tee

    Hello to all the old heads (no offense) the newbies (including myself) are feeling all the love

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Heyyy renegade, *waving* yes, kid friendly. We are going to the aquarium and Dave & Busters on Friday. But that leaves the rest of the weekend to do? I hate going to places and just sit around in a hotel.

  • mirsmommy

    Beautifuleve17 Says:

    mirsmommy Says:

    New Folks.
    —————————————–
    I just registered yesterday I’m so excited lol i dont know why…Ive been lurking for a while…i also enjoy the other site but i just feel like the conversations here are more grown up lol
    __________________________________________________________

    :yes: It is more of an adult atmosphere here. :lol:

  • mirsmommy

    Sandra, can we get a :newpost: You got me ready to drink a Red Bull at 3:24 in the afternoon. :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Okay I have tried it all and my gravi shows up on other sites just not this one so I don't know what's wrong...

  • Daisy

    @Mskay you have shopping, Stone mountain, atlantic station, world of coke, MLK stuff be sure to hit up ajc .com and check for events going on that weekend. I hate entertaing was so glad when my parents left the other weekend. Have fun though!

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ mirsmommy, she put up a new post :coffee:

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Quitta - Hey chick!!!

    @ Ms.kaylamomma - I never been to dave & busters.. They stay playing the commercials down here, but there are none in the area.. :wtf:

  • Daisy

    @Beaut check your twitter it said my request was pending

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    :crying:

  • Daisy

    @rene hey girl *waves*

  • Quitta

    Ms.Tee Says:

    Hello to all the old heads (no offense) the newbies (including myself) are feeling all the love
    ______
    That's great! You're gonna like it here Ms. Tee

  • FloridaChick813

    mirsmommy Says:

    Sandra, can we get a You got me ready to drink a Red Bull at 3:24 in the afternoon.
    _________________

    OOH THANK GOD!!!! I only have an hour left :yea:

  • Quitta

    @ FloridaChick, Hey hey my chica!!

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    Quitta Says:

    *just walkin in*

    Oh my my!! :welcome: all newbies *waves*
    -------------------------------------------
    hiiii lolz oh my i have no idea why I'm so happy today smh someone is going to piss me off :mad:

  • mirsmommy

    Ms.kaylamomma Says:

    @ mirsmommy, she put up a new post
    __________________________________________

    :lol: I saw it :rolleyes:

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    ok daisy but i must warn you....I'm only 21 so the tweets i receive are very juvenile

  • gypsyeyes

    yeah there is a new post but I don't comment on religion and politics so there is no reason for me to go there.

  • Ms.Tee

    @ Quitta I already do!!! I have not gotten any work done today SMH

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ Florida, I've been to the D&B in Jacksonville because its closer than driving to ATL. I hate that we don't have a D&B here either. They fight to much in Chuck E Cheese. I cringe everytime my child wants to go there because I know I'm getting ready to fight some bishes over dem damn tokens or somethin'. :mad:

  • Ms.Tee

    yeah I'm not into downing our President

  • mirsmommy

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    mirsmommy Says:

    Sandra, can we get a You got me ready to drink a Red Bull at 3:24 in the afternoon.
    _________________

    OOH THANK GOD!!!! I only have an hour left
    __________________________________________________________

    :lol: What you tryin to say??? You don't like my Post-Red Bull comments?? :-D

  • http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

    Hmm...well...The new World of Coke is fun. You get to try all the different cokes from around the world. Also, Stone Mountain Park is a good one too. I want take my little cousin cause they have fake snow that you can go tubing in.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    I try to stay away from those posts too @ gypsyeyes. I comment every once in awhile. By the way, how is the old lady doing?

  • http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

    @ms.Kayla...Hmm...well...The new World of Coke is fun. You get to try all the different cokes from around the world. Also, Stone Mountain Park is a good one too. I want take my little cousin cause they have fake snow that you can go tubing in.

  • mirsmommy

    gypsyeyes Says:

    yeah there is a new post but I don’t comment on religion and politics so there is no reason for me to go there.
    __________________________________________________________

    :cosign: That's an e-beef waiting. :lol:

  • http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

    **waving frantically** Hey Daisy!!!

  • FloridaChick813

    Ms.Tee Says:

    @ Quitta I already do!!! I have not gotten any work done today SMH
    __________

    Thats how I am somedays.. Depends on how good the post is.. LOL

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Thanks @ Renegade & Daisy for the info. :hugs:

  • FloridaChick813

    Ms.kaylamomma Says:

    @ Florida, I’ve been to the D&B in Jacksonville because its closer than driving to ATL. I hate that we don’t have a D&B here either. They fight to much in Chuck E Cheese. I cringe everytime my child wants to go there because I know I’m getting ready to fight some bishes over dem damn tokens or somethin’.
    ______________

    Girl who u tellin???? Everytime I get a bday party invitation (especially for a sunday afternoon) I have to decline.. That place is tooo damn crazy on the weekends.. We just GameWorks down here && Malibu.. But no Dave and Busters :rolleyes:

  • CivilEngineer

    :welcome: new folks!!

    I see I'm late to the :party:

  • Ms.Tee

    yea my addictions are SR and FB..I just can't seem to kick that habit of the 2

  • FloridaChick813

    mirsmommy Says:

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    mirsmommy Says:

    Sandra, can we get a You got me ready to drink a Red Bull at 3:24 in the afternoon.
    _________________

    OOH THANK GOD!!!! I only have an hour left
    __________________________________________________________

    What you tryin to say??? You don’t like my Post-Red Bull comments??
    ___________

    :lolol: Girl im just ready for this work day to be over with.. My belly is not feeling too great :|

  • gypsyeyes

    Corliss is good. You know what? White ppl are just different. They didn't go to the shelter. I went first thing this morning and the nurses aide was there. They moved this morning to their own apt so no more dinners with them for me. She is good though.

  • Daisy

    @Beaut Thanks for the warning I am getting up their at 33 but I am still in the know or so I say :lol:

    @Rene the fake snow park at stone mtn sounds fun

    @Choco count to 10 and be sure you are following all the steps with me it was an case sensative issue.

  • Ms.Tee

    @ CivilEngineer Don't be tardy for the party next time

  • Jewelry

    So sad that Black men's sexuality are always under scrutiny for no apparent reason. What is a** and t*ts to Usher? I mean, perhaps he just wanted to be out taking in the sights and sounds and did not want to be groped on or have to pay for a fishy lap dance...just sayin'

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Hey @ Civil, you're late.

  • Daisy

    @Civil you see we finally have some more men in the fam. I always like hearing the male point of view on issues.

  • Quitta

    Beautifuleve17 Says:

    Quitta Says:

    *just walkin in*

    Oh my my!! all newbies *waves*
    ——————————————-
    hiiii lolz oh my i have no idea why I’m so happy today smh someone is going to piss me off
    ____
    Nah don't think that way. :lolol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Daisy I did I just emailed Sandra to see how she has my email cuz this crap got me scratching my head : )

  • Vyolet20

    Hey @ civilengineer and everyone!

    My comments got "moderated" earlier, but i'm from cali.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ Florida, what part of Florida are you in?

  • gypsyeyes

    @floridachick-on your way home stop and get some selzer water with lemon. It calms the stomach quickly.
    I'm not into the Chuck E. Cheese thing but I have a 2 and 3 year old. 3 YO will be 4 on the 7th of Feb. So here we come Chucky. You know I wanna kick my own arse for having more kids.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    LOL at Gyspy you are crazy
    ____________________
    You know I wanna kick my own arse for having more kids.

  • Quitta

    Ms.Tee Says:

    @ Quitta I already do!!! I have not gotten any work done today SMH
    ___
    Shew Ms. Tee, I was >:( I wasn't able to chit chat today cause I was sooo busy. :lolol:

  • CivilEngineer

    :ashamed: SORRY!! I was at the barbershop...listening to old men giggle like little school girls.

    @Daisy...I see, I have some new e-boys (no homo) :lol:

  • FloridaChick813

    Daisy Says:

    @Civil you see we finally have some more men in the fam. I always like hearing the male point of view on issues.
    _______________

    Me too girl..

  • Ms.Tee

    I have seen enough real snow in my days...so the fake snow does nothing for me..I like not seeing snow at at all.. The Children Museum and The CNN Center are also good for the children/ site seeing

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Yea, my daughter is still scared of that rat or mouse or whateva it is @ Chuck e cheese. But I must say, they have the best wings and pizza. Mmmmmh!

  • http://Twitter.com/BLAHH_BITCH Beautifuleve17

    OK SR fam I'm gone nice e-meeting everyone.

  • FloridaChick813

    Ms.kaylamomma Says:

    @ Florida, what part of Florida are you in?
    ________________

    Im in Tampa.. Born and Raised :D

    ((however I did live in VA for a short time after high school))

    And u?

  • Quitta

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    Daisy Says:

    @Civil you see we finally have some more men in the fam. I always like hearing the male point of view on issues.
    _______________

    Me too girl..
    ___
    Me three :P

  • http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

    @gypsy...Do you have Monkey Joe's where you are. I take my little cousin there instead of Chuck E. Cheese...the parents in Chuck E Cheese are crazy and half of them are :koolaid:

  • gypsyeyes

    @choco-my son will be 18 this year and my daughter will be 16 in May. So yes, let the azz kicking comense.

  • FloridaChick813

    gypsyeyes Says:

    @floridachick-on your way home stop and get some selzer water with lemon. It calms the stomach quickly.
    I’m not into the Chuck E. Cheese thing but I have a 2 and 3 year old. 3 YO will be 4 on the 7th of Feb. So here we come Chucky. You know I wanna kick my own arse for having more kids.
    _____________

    Awwwwwww!!!! Well girl, skip me on the invite, I will e-mail her your baby a gift.. :lol: girl or boy??

    My son is 6, so he's pretty much outta Chuckee.. Now he's into Busch Gardens, so we try to go atleast once or twice a month..

  • CivilEngineer

    :cya: @Beautiful

    I'm headed to class folks. I'll probably lurk til tomorrow so yall be blessed and have a good one!

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    :cya: Beautifuleve

    @ Florida, I'm in Savannah, Ga

    @ renegade, I hope I'm not dipping cause I know you asked Gypsyeyes, but we just got a Monkey Joe's here and my daughter loves that place too. Their prices are high though.

  • gypsyeyes

    Well Rene- I don't normally do the party thing. Normally I bake and decorate a cake all fancy and family comes over for dinner. This year my son asked me to please let them have a party at Chuck E. Cheese but you know what, he doesn't even live here with us so why the h3ll am I taking his advice.
    Not only that my mom and her two sisters love Chuck E's so they have been clipping coupons out the paper in preparation.

  • FloridaChick813

    CivilEngineer Says:

    SORRY!! I was at the barbershop…listening to old men giggle like little school girls.
    _____________

    :lolol:

    When I take my son, all the men are EXTRA friendly.. I hate taking him myself.. Men can be soooo persistant.. Especially when there is competition.. :rolleyes: LOL

  • Quitta

    :offtopic: Well not really... Has anyone heard that song by Usher "there goes my baby"? It's playing right now and I kinda like it. Does anyone else like it or not? :shrugs:

  • mirsmommy

    Where in the hell is Missy & Krysi J???? *paging Missy & Krysi J* Come to the Ursher is Gay post!!! :lol:

  • FloridaChick813

    gypsyeyes Says:

    @floridachick-on your way home stop and get some selzer water with lemon. It calms the stomach quickly.
    I’m not into the Chuck E. Cheese thing but I have a 2 and 3 year old. 3 YO will be 4 on the 7th of Feb. So here we come Chucky. You know I wanna kick my own arse for having more kids.
    ______________

    Thanks lady!!!!!!!! I need something.. Just gettin over a food poisoning and its no fun :|

  • Quitta

    Beautifuleve17 Says:

    OK SR fam I’m gone nice e-meeting everyone.
    ___
    Same here. :cya:

  • FloridaChick813

    gypsyeyes Says:

    @choco-my son will be 18 this year and my daughter will be 16 in May. So yes, let the azz kicking comense.
    ___________

    Oohh dang!!! Your kids were grown and you started all over... Whoooo!!!!!

    But thats kinda what I feel is gonna happen to me.. My son will be grown, or damn near it when I have another one.

  • FloridaChick813

    Bye beautifuleve & Civil!!!!
    *
    *
    *
    gypsyeyes Says:

    Well Rene- I don’t normally do the party thing. Normally I bake and decorate a cake all fancy and family comes over for dinner. This year my son asked me to please let them have a party at Chuck E. Cheese but you know what, he doesn’t even live here with us so why the h3ll am I taking his advice.
    Not only that my mom and her two sisters love Chuck E’s so they have been clipping coupons out the paper in preparation.
    _____________

    You def. have to take the coupons!!!!!!! :thumbsup:

  • OutsidetheBox

    :newbie: Florida/"It's complicated"/5 kids/stan for Bey, heidi Klum, the "O", Jeezy, Webbie, and women, infants & children.

    Its nice to be here.

  • Quitta

    CivilEngineer Says: I’m headed to class folks. I’ll probably lurk til tomorrow so yall be blessed and have a good one!
    ____
    :cya: CE You be blessed too.

  • Quitta

    Hey Outside *waves*

  • FloridaChick813

    Quitta Says:

    Well not really… Has anyone heard that song by Usher “there goes my baby”? It’s playing right now and I kinda like it. Does anyone else like it or not?
    __________

    I havent heard it yet.. But I just heard his song the other night with Plies called Daddys' home or some ish like that, and I like it.. I guess cause when my boo walks in the door, thats what I always think to myself..

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Gypsy
    Its all good boo my daughter is 23 and my son is 12 and I still have a feeling I'm not done yet...it's in GOD hands so consider yourself blessed boo...

  • Tink Tink

    Back to work :sad: ...I'll be back tomorrow....Thanks to the Welcoming Committee!!!

  • gypsyeyes

    OH NO Florida!!! Don't get it twisted, the coupons are for them. They play the games and eat the pizza themselves. I will not be getting assistance for my mom as she is going for her entertainment only. It would be embarassing but I'm used to their behavior.

  • FloridaChick813

    mirsmommy Says:

    Where in the hell is Missy & Krysi J???? *paging Missy & Krysi J* Come to the Ursher is Gay post!!!
    ____________

    It has been quiet without them

    I miss the human karaoke machine Krysi J!!!!!! She is always down to party lol :dance:

  • Quitta

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    gypsyeyes Says:

    @choco-my son will be 18 this year and my daughter will be 16 in May. So yes, let the azz kicking comense.
    ___________

    Oohh dang!!! Your kids were grown and you started all over… Whoooo!!!!!

    But thats kinda what I feel is gonna happen to me.. My son will be grown, or damn near it when I have another one.
    _____
    My son is 9. I'm trying within a couple of years because I don't want my son to be grown when I decide to have another kid.

  • gypsyeyes

    I do feel blessed but GIRRRRRLLLL!!! That last one is giving me a run for my money. I mean the things that come out of her 2 year old mouth is crazy. I thought about dropping her off in front of a church but I don't want to do that to those innocent christian ppl.
    I love her to death but as gawd as my witness....

  • FloridaChick813

    @ OutsidetheBox - Where in Fla???
    *
    *
    *
    gypsyeyes Says:

    OH NO Florida!!! Don’t get it twisted, the coupons are for them. They play the games and eat the pizza themselves. I will not be getting assistance for my mom as she is going for her entertainment only. It would be embarassing but I’m used to their behavior.
    _____________________

    :rofl: Okay, so now she's sounding like my Aunt..

  • http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

    @gypsy...sounds like you're gonna be up in Chuck E Cheese...I'm sorry..The last time I went to a child's B-day part there..the kid was terrified of that big azz rat

  • Quitta

    Florida -I havent heard it yet.. But I just heard his song the other night with Plies called Daddys’ home or some ish like that, and I like it.. I guess cause when my boo walks in the door, thats what I always think to myself..
    ____
    Awwww. That's too cute. :love:

  • FloridaChick813

    Bye Tink Tink -

    Although im a bit confused @ the picture

  • FloridaChick813

    Quitta Says:

    My son is 9. I’m trying within a couple of years because I don’t want my son to be grown when I decide to have another kid.
    ________________

    Thats how I feel.. Specially if the next one is a little girl, he's gonna be TOO over protective.. lol.. But like Choco said, Its all in God's hands.. Honestly though, I just hope im blessed with atleast one more child.. I was only 19 when I had my son, and I didnt really get to enjoy and appreciate him being a baby..

  • chase

    Shout out to all those who lived in the Virginia Beach area at one time!!! I am stuck here now and oh how I want to go back to NY!!!!

    Connecticut stand up.. I worked in Stamford for 2 years...

  • OutsidetheBox

    *waves* Hey Quitta

  • FloridaChick813

    @ chase -

    I was miserable in VA.. Good luck to you.. LOL

    Where you at in the area??

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    LOL @ Gyspy and dropping her off at church...

    @Chase do you know a guy named Van in the VA Beach area?

  • chase

    I'm in town center...over by the pembroke mall... been here for a year and NY is calling my name everyday...

  • Daisy

    @quitta that other site had that Usher song and another new one that JD produced that were HAWT (might have been called Fooling Around)! There goes my baby has an MJ vibe to it and is very nice :clap: I always said Usher still had some hits left in him he just needed to focus again, those 2 songs alone made me ready for his cd to drop!

  • chase

    @ Choco Sadly I don't know anyone except for a few people and they either work w/ my hubby or my son's friends mother... No Van that I can think of...

  • FloridaChick813

    @ chase.. I was kinda close to Pembroke Mall. I lived near Bayside high school
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    Anyways folks, hope you all have a blessed evening..

    Good night

  • gypsyeyes

    :offtopic: Help me try yo decipher my dream.
    I dreamed about the ex-husband last night. The dream was that he left the new wife and took their 1 year old and me, him and the kids were taking a flight to Germany. He was in the military and I used to always dream of him at this Army base. He was showing me all the letters that I had written to him and we had a real open talk about being together in my dream.
    *Important things that need to be known*
    We've been divorced for 9 years. I don't like him, I talked to him NYE for the first time in almost 2 years and did I mention that I don't like him. He's holding onto a lot of baggage. We had to go to family counseling about 3 years ago. But it was just for him and I for like 6 months.
    *ok Go.

  • crzasallgetout

    Anyone in here watch Intervention?

  • chase

    @ FloridaChick813 Oh o.k. I know where that is..have a good night!

  • chase

    I watched it the kid from city high was on it...

  • Ms.Tee

    @ Chase thanks for the CT love

  • dani818

    @Chupilives :newbie: So how did you upload the photo?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Gypsy
    I just think becuz you spoke to him recently he's on your mind-however he could be divorcing or coming to visit soon...

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ gypsyeyes, **thinking**

  • Ms.Tee

    hope to chat with you all tomarrow..guess I'll work for the last 1/2 hr...lol

  • crzasallgetout

    @chase
    Dude was a mean drunk!! I was so shocked to hear that Claudette dumped him for the other dude. I think that's what really put him over the edge. Also did you get gay vibes from him?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Chase
    Oh okay hope you get to expand your group of friends with good kind people....

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @crzasallgetout
    Girl that is so odd becuz I was like why is his male friend always around him and driving him around and then the way he treats his current girlfriend glad it wasn't only me thinking like that

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ the new people. :welcome: Go to gravatar (.) com and use the same email that you used to register with Sandra. Choose the G rating and confirm

  • Lexus

    :offtopic: Just saw some pictures of Fannie and Cook at a North Carolina club hugged up.

  • Quitta

    Florida- Thats how I feel.. Specially if the next one is a little girl, he’s gonna be TOO over protective.. lol.. But like Choco said, Its all in God’s hands.. Honestly though, I just hope im blessed with atleast one more child.. I was only 19 when I had my son, and I didnt really get to enjoy and appreciate him being a baby..
    _____
    Oh my fast azz was 18. :lolol: Oh I :heart: it when he was an infant. I hope the both of us are blessed with one hun. It's a joy. But I don't want a girl though. :nono: LOL

  • crzasallgetout

    @choco
    I noticed his hand gestures and when he stood up to listen to the letters I was questioning him again. I don't think he really loves his gf.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ gypsyeyes, Yea, I don't know, I sawwwyy. I always thought dreams meant the opposite.

  • mirsmommy

    Quitta Says:

    Florida- Thats how I feel.. Specially if the next one is a little girl, he’s gonna be TOO over protective.. lol.. But like Choco said, Its all in God’s hands.. Honestly though, I just hope im blessed with atleast one more child.. I was only 19 when I had my son, and I didnt really get to enjoy and appreciate him being a baby..
    _____
    Oh my fast azz was 18. Oh I it when he was an infant. I hope the both of us are blessed with one hun. It’s a joy. But I don’t want a girl though. LOL
    ________________________________________________________

    :lol: Why don't you want a girl??? I want a little girl, but I know I'm doomed if I do have one. :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Off topic I just updated my blog since weeks ago...

    I want twins but only if I'm wealthy and don't have to work...I hated working while being pregnant

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    I saw those too @ Lexus :wink: @ a gay club.

  • chase

    @ crzasallgetout... Yeah he was, I did not get any gay vibes from him... But my gaydar is off big time..lol

    @ Choco I'm trying...lol

  • Quitta

    Daisy Says:

    @quitta that other site had that Usher song and another new one that JD produced that were HAWT (might have been called Fooling Around)! There goes my baby has an MJ vibe to it and is very nice I always said Usher still had some hits left in him he just needed to focus again, those 2 songs alone made me ready for his cd to drop!
    _________
    Oh, I gotta hear the other song then cuz I'm not sold yet Daisy. :shrugs:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    I love my daughter but girls are harder than boyz my son was a momma's boy and my daugher was a daddy's girl

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    A blind item with a pic huh? Anywho, not all men are feeling strippers. Maybe his boys dragged him out.

  • Quitta

    Nite nite Florida. :cya:

  • crzasallgetout

    I don't call people gay very often but something wasn't right with him.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    crzasallgetout
    Girl he's not even close with his daughter I have a feeling his girlfriend will end up leaving anyway-I felt bad for the family tho they were in a lot of pain...

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Daisy, if you're lurking, Michael Vick is going to be on Rickey Smiley's mornin' show tomorrow. I can't wait. Mmmmmm! :hump:

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    Daisy

    I swear we are kindred spirits. I too thought that the new Usher song would fit Michael Jackson to a tee. I really like that song BUT I'm still not convinced because I heard another new song that I didn't like. I'm still going to hold out for the Usher of old.

  • mirsmommy

    Choco Says:

    Off topic I just updated my blog since weeks ago…

    I want twins but only if I’m wealthy and don’t have to work…I hated working while being pregnant
    _________________________________________________________

    When I was pregnant, I was HOPING and PRAYING for twins, a boy and a girl. I had a boy, and whew, am I glad it was only one baby, and not two. Cuz, when my son became mobile, it was no damn stoppin him, even to this day. All his a** does is run!!!! And talk trash. :lol:

  • chase

    I am dying for a little girl.. If I could get pregnant again w/ the guarantee of it being a girl as well as the guarantee that I will lose all the baby weight fast ... I'd get knocked up right now! Lol.... But I am sure she would put me through he!! cuz I was a bad teenager, real bad so I would have my worked cut out for me

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @MirsMommy
    What's funny is I still want twins knowing damn well it would be difficult for me to carry them however I have had their names picked out for the past decade...I just keep praying that GOD will bless me with a fortune and I can live a life of luxury and helping others...

  • Chupilives

    Of course on the day I finally get to register on SR they want to swamp me with work so I can't post LOL Hi Kaylamomma that is me and hubby in my pic. We took that back in 06 in D.R. when he was on leave from Afghanistan.

  • Quitta

    mirsmommy - Why don’t you want a girl??? I want a little girl, but I know I’m doomed if I do have one.
    ____
    See you just said it :lolol:. You'll be doomed if you do have one. Honey that's how I feel, I'm doomed. :lolol: But seriously, as long as I am blessed with a healthy child I'm happy. I guess cause I was a tomboy growing up (turned sunflower now. LOL) I feel I would be better at handling a boy instead of a girl.

  • Daisy

    @Bird and Quitta the song JD did sounds like Confessions part III even has Usher talking in the beg. and everything. AM wanted your .02 on the Misa post I hope you commented for her sake :coffee:

    @Choco I am OBSESSED w/having TWINS always have been!

    I want both a girl/boy but if I had to choose I would go with a girl. I want to do dance, proms, wedding, girl stuff etc! I want to see what my daughter would look like!

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    @Chase,

    You live in VA Beach?

  • Quitta

    You don't have any kids yet mirsmommy?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    I would have to agree what more important is a healthy baby but it never hurts to ask : )

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    Gypsie...are you certain you don't still have a flame, though small, for your ex? Will you clarify for me.."I don't like him"?

    I am no Whoo-Doo Practisioner, But it may very well be your subconcious possibly telling you to open yourself up to him. HE may have a need that only you can help with. Not in the role of your significant, but perhaps he needs to blend the families. Perhaps to him, dispite the riff. You represent Structure and/or solidarity and he needs that to rub off in his current situation. OR even just for his piece of mind.

  • Daisy

    @Chup is that all your hair? #justasking #nojudgement

  • Quitta

    Oh I just scrolled up mirsmommy. You just answered my question hun. LOL

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Daisy
    Well I pray you are blessed with twins...

  • mirsmommy

    Quitta Says:

    mirsmommy - Why don’t you want a girl??? I want a little girl, but I know I’m doomed if I do have one.
    ____
    See you just said it :lolol:. You’ll be doomed if you do have one. Honey that’s how I feel, I’m doomed. But seriously, as long as I am blessed with a healthy child I’m happy. I guess cause I was a tomboy growing up (turned sunflower now. LOL) I feel I would be better at handling a boy instead of a girl.
    _________________________________________________________

    :lol: I couldn't agree with you more. I was a tomboy, too, and turned into a beautiful rose. :lol: I even have the nerve to be scared of bugs now, when back in the days, I would be out catchin bugs, and diggin in the dirt for worms to throw on people. :lol: Yes I was bad.

    I have a 3 year old boy, and an 8 year old stepson, and oooh wee, they are bad as hell!!!

  • chase

    @ securityone...Guity....been here for a year!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Ggouch
    You know what people have accused me of being in love with my ex cuz we are close but I'm not in love with him anymore I known him for so long so I know what it is it's funny tho cuz people interpret it for something else and we have been separated/divorced for 12 years...so I believe her when she says she don't like him she's prolly being cool cuz acting any other way is unecessary

  • Quitta

    Daisy Says:

    @Bird and Quitta the song JD did sounds like Confessions part III even has Usher talking in the beg. and everything.
    ____
    Okay imma check it out when I get the chance :thumbsup:

  • Chupilives

    Hi Daisy thanks for the welcome. I'm from New York "Brooklyn Standup" (sorry but I couldn't help myself LOL) I stan for Usher obviously, Beyonce, Jay-Z, Mary and Ne-Yo (which I may be the only one because I never see anyone post anything about him). I'm married with no children, but hopefully soon. I've been a "lurker" for a long time and finally feel like I got an invite to the :party:

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    Tink Tink Says:
    @ Daisy
    Single male from SC, no kids…Stan for MJB & A.Keys(body
    __________________________________
    Are you trying to get your BLACK PLANET on up in her Tink Tink. (scratching head...wondering...Tink Tink?)

  • chase

    Welcome Chupilives.... good to see a fellow New Yorker on here...

  • http://www.thesifirm.com securityone

    chase Says:

    been here for a year!
    ----
    I'm from Newport News, but I had to get out.

  • speaknoevil

    Thanks Sandra for helping me :)

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    @ Choco. My ex and I are like brother and sister. I don't see him in that romantic light anymore. We both have moved on to new relationships...but I still check up on him and he still checks up on me. We always think about each other at the same time it seems. HE can run across my mind and within moments he is ringing my phone and vice versa. That is my dude!!

  • chase

    @ securityone I feel ya, there is nothing here if your not military... I am so ready to go but hubby's job is here so I am stuck... I went shopping in Newport News on Sunday, over by the Walmart on Jefferson Ave...

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @GGouch
    Same here me and my ex are connected and I love the security in that and he has his girl and I'm with my man-soooo why did you accuse Gyspy of having feeling for her ex LOL I kid you know i had to play devil's advocate : )

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Chase
    Girl I do feel for you cuz that place is only poppin in the summertime but find solace in knowing GOD has you where he wants you : )

  • gypsyeyes

    GGouch- Well there hasn't been a spark for him since 2003.We did the whole song and dance with each other on the back and forth for a minute after the divorce. It weighs heavy on my heart alot that he has so much hostility towards me. I don't know why though because we were good until he married the new wife.I welcomed her and invited them as a couple to different events for the kids. I fell in love with her kids and then when I got pregnant with Lea he went slap crazy. Everything changed after that. I tried to be friends with him but he refused. He didn't acknowledge my baby at all until his mother called him to her house to talk to him about it. Now he loves the babies but has nothing to say to me. I get a check and that is it. When he gets the teens he would blow the horn or call their cells. Maybe I should call him to have a heart to heart.

  • Quitta

    mirsmommy - I couldn’t agree with you more. I was a tomboy, too, and turned into a beautiful rose. I even have the nerve to be scared of bugs now, when back in the days, I would be out catchin bugs, and diggin in the dirt for worms to throw on people. Yes I was bad.

    I have a 3 year old boy, and an 8 year old stepson, and oooh wee, they are bad as hell!!!
    ______
    Mirs, you just explained me too. That's exactly how i was. Hehe.

    Are you serious? Two if them? Get on ya damn nerves don't they. I know my one does. LOL.

    Wait, if I do recall, aren't you a Cancer?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Gypsy
    Girl my ex hubby didn't like it at first when he found I was pregnant but girl when my son got here he would watch him for me so I think he's hurt that you have kids with your hubby it sort've pushes him out of first place in his mind you should call him the fact that you dreamt of him in the first place says something so call him if he wanna cut up tell you are making this gesture becuz you care if that don't work let his wife handled it LOL

  • chase

    @ Choco u are so right, guess that is why I am always on SR...lol

    I can't wait for the pool to open back up in my building at least I can take my youngest there in the summer and chill w/ the other mom's...

  • mirsmommy

    Quitta Says:

    mirsmommy - I couldn’t agree with you more. I was a tomboy, too, and turned into a beautiful rose. I even have the nerve to be scared of bugs now, when back in the days, I would be out catchin bugs, and diggin in the dirt for worms to throw on people. Yes I was bad.

    I have a 3 year old boy, and an 8 year old stepson, and oooh wee, they are bad as hell!!!
    ______
    Mirs, you just explained me too. That’s exactly how i was. Hehe.

    Are you serious? Two if them? Get on ya damn nerves don’t they. I know my one does. LOL.

    Wait, if I do recall, aren’t you a Cancer?
    __________________________________________________________

    Girl, they drive me crazy!!!! And don't let me start yellin. Between them two, and the puppy, they all basically laugh, and turn around and continue what the hell they were doing. :mad: They don't take me seriously til I give them the "look" follow up with the slow Michael Myers walk. :lol:

    And yes, I am a Cancer :danban:

  • Quitta

    Okay it's time to punch out. :thumbsup: SR Fam, newbies, yall have a good nite!!

  • chase

    Its crazy cuz when hubby told me about the move I was elated and now being here I am so over this place....

  • OutsidetheBox

    @FloridaChick...I'm in Gainesville.

    And...you're gone now. I always was a day late and a dollar short 8-)

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Chase
    Truthfully i like the blogs in that I'm connected with people in different parts of the world and I can learn from different folks experiences so don't feel bad about being on SR I dont : )

  • mirsmommy

    Everytime I see this :danban: dance, MC Hammer's "Can't Touch This" comes into my head. I swear :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Chase
    Girl this is when you use your creativity and start doing things that interest you-write a book, start a journal, tap into your creative side and you will love the downtime of getting to know you better-I went thru getting to know me when I left my exhubby and moved out alone and had a lot of times on my hands so glad I ventured more deeply into me girl I even taught myself how to paint and now I'm good at it...

  • gypsyeyes

    Gonna call the ex-hubby tonight. But also side note: I didn't remarry but my 'baby daddy' are also best friends although we aren't together.

  • huxlande

    hey you guys im new. hi! i would just like to say that i do think that usher might be bisexual at least because according to Karrine Steffans vixen diary she stated that he and his bodygaurd or whatever shared an intimate moment in front of her *snickers*

  • chase

    A Choco... I keep saying I am gonna write a book on my life but I always talk myself out of it... I need to stop doing that and get myself together... I know my purpose on earth is for something better than what I am giving right now, If only I could get motivated... I definitely feel you though!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Okay Gyspy boo to each their own chick I didn't marry my son's father after my ex hubby that's another reason that nicca think he's numero uno I still carry his last name...girl I'm 39 and marriage is nowhere on my mind ---someday I will again

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Chase
    It's coming girl all you gotta do is starting typing paragraphs I messed up and starting writing my book in a book and had to type all 200 hundred pages and it was over a period of years but I really love what I wrote girl and now I'm in my final stages just get focused and remove the clutter from your head and that book of yours will pour out like water...

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    Gypsie, it's time to for a healing.

    Choco, LMAO!! girl you had me poised for battle..scrolling back up to repost!! girl!!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Ggouch
    See girl already to start boxing LMAO I knew I would get you tho : )

  • chase

    @ Choco thanks for the advice I was gonna do exactly what you did but I am glad you mentioned that.... I surly don't want to be stuck doing that..lol.. Congrats to you! I am really going to pray on this and get it together...

    Well time for me to get going!

    See you all tomorrow...

  • gypsyeyes

    Well ppls gotta put dinner on and wash and braid two heads and prepare to do homework and study, plus my son who's in atlanta wrote a paper that I must proof read via email. So I'll be a little busy tonight.
    PM CLIQUE hold it down

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Take care and god bless SR FAM...

  • Anna

    gypsyeyes Says:

    Well ppls gotta put dinner on and wash and braid two heads and prepare to do homework and study, plus my son who’s in atlanta wrote a paper that I must proof read via email. So I’ll be a little busy tonight.
    PM CLIQUE hold it down
    ~~~~~~~~~
    Some of you in here make me exhausted just reading all the things you still have to do before going to bed.

  • Daisy

    Thinking I am going to have to ask Chup is she or her hubby Dominican tomorrow! Hey Papi :lol:

  • netta0281

    HI

  • BellaBarbie

    @Daisy. I'm from the Midwest. Unmarried. Two teenagers. And, a school teacher among many other things:)I stan for Beyonce and Jay Z all day everyday! Oh and I like Sean Garrett too.
    Now back to the topic at hand...I don't blame Usher for waving them nasty heffaz off. He knows that they are snitches. Give him some credit. Just like one of them made sure Auntie got the 411 on this. Just imagine if he would have allowed her to give him a lap dance. That ish would have been on CNN. Our men better wise up.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Nowhere in this post did I type the word 'Usher'. There's a reason why they call it a Blind Item. :coffee:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    gypsyeyes Says:

    Well ppls gotta put dinner on and wash and braid two heads and prepare to do homework and study, plus my son who’s in atlanta wrote a paper that I must proof read via email. So I’ll be a little busy tonight.
    PM CLIQUE hold it down

    ********************************************************

    gypsyeyes, I can honestly say you're much better than me. :)

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    CorporateHoodB-tch Says:

    2. Why is Jay Z the lead on the remix? I would make muffuccas get in at the end of my song.

    Because he killed it... :coffee:

    & I am a huge Biggie fan. That was a play on words. Maybe he is tired of people always comparing him to a dead man. :shrug:

  • Krysi J

    any friend would look at a MF crazy when you TOUCH their friend without an invitation??? I WOULD.....i mean hell he obviously has seen and probably HIT half of the strippers in the A.....if he just came to chill....let'em. Strippers in ATL think people with BREAD owe them something.....get the hell oN with THAT!

  • Krysi J

    It doesn't matter that he was in a STRIP club and not paying any attention to RAN THRU AZZ STRIPPERs!! He might have been treating his boys to a good time. Always accusing MF of shyt cuz dey ain make it rain on yall plastic azzez... I HATE DEM HOEZ!!!