I finally spoke to R&B singer Monica. She was very emotional as she announced the separation from her fiance, Rocko. This is the only statement that Monica will give. She asks that the media (and bloggers) respect her privacy during these trying times.

I know there were many rumors. And Sandra, I appreciate that you never dug into them for the sake of both our families. I am going to rest today & go back to work tomorrow. I am going to do what I have always done. Focus on my children, my family & my career. Rock was put under a lot of harsh scrutiny during our entire relationship and I'm sure that was not easy.

However at this point our focus is being great parents. He is a great father to his children and, continuing forward, that is my only concern. With every breath in our bodies we will make sure that they feel as little pain as possible And continue to have the lives they had before with no attention dedicated to our separation. I will not be speaking on the subject further unless it is with God whom I believe does everything with reason. I love my children and their father and I'm truly grateful for those that loved and supported us through the good and the bad throughout the years.

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    Sandra got the exclusive. You go chica!! **high 5** I hoped this wasn't true but... :sad:

  • nyvixen

    It will be painful at first, but Mo will be better off in the end. Keep your head up sis! You have a lot of supporters. You and your children will be in my prayers.

  • Lexus

    This too shall pass Mo. Been there done that and life couldn't be any better now.

  • CorporateHoodB-tch

    I am so hurt and :sad: that Rocko couldn't keep it in his pants to keep his beautiful family together.
    DAMN, DAMN, DAMN another family torn apart!!!!

  • dallas214

    I feel my sisters pain...But I know that she is a strong woman and has a God fearing family support system. If you are reading this Monica, "Keep standing my black queen"! The Lord will NEVER put more on you than you can handle.
    As a always, thank you for your honesty, your courage and your strength. Everything else has been going right for you and you know the devil is busy! You will be good! Stay prayed up! Love ya Mo!!

  • Danielle84

    Wow that statement sounded like somebody died lol.

  • Kitrina

    who will be the next thug in line

  • Grownman

    Monica,

    All things must come to an end someday, please use the experience to guide you fromn here on. Through the years you've shown class in moments of adversity, and your conduct in this situation is a prime example. Continue to live as you were living yesterday, becuase I know this will not change your outlook on life. You are the standard in R/B music in my opinion and most importantly a GREAT mother. I will continue to support you as i've always done. Stay blessed.

  • VIBABY

    Bless her heart.... sorry azz.

    She loves her kids and I am sure they will be taken care of.

  • http://youtube.com yesindeedio

    I thoughts and prayers are with Mo and the kids. I also pray that Rocko gets his life together. It's definitely in the best interest of his children. Regardless of whether they get back together or not, he needs to focus on being a better man and father. It's not fair to the children to be in single parent homes because of foolishness.

    I hope the wayward women can sleep at night knowing that these two boys will wake up in the morning without their father around. How would they feel if THEY were in Mo's shoes?

    Broads need to be considerate, whether someone is MARRIED or NOT. He had a good woman. Keep your head up Mo.

  • Ebony

    :coffee:

  • Krysi J

    WOW.... :sad: I'm in shock at how public forums,blogs,twitter,myspace, facebook is actually causing this much pain in people's lives. :eek:

  • Nina

    Interesting twist, but Mo will be fine.

  • Daisy

    I said earlier I wld wait to hear it from Monica. I wish her and the kids the best. She needs to make a mixtape right about now I bet it wld be FIYAH!

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    Monica be happy he dumped you girl. God just released you from a huge oppression. Don't look at that closed window, because you'll miss the open door behind you.

    I would say nahmean, but it seems inappropriate.

  • http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

    :(

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    Rocko broke up this woman's relationship. If he didn't decide to cheat then pursue another chic then this wouldn't have happened. I believe if he felt like he had a good woman, nothing would have come between that, and I mean NOTHING!! Side chics don't break up relationships/marriages, men do!!

  • dallas214

    Lets try and reframe from being a$$holes in this thread. This cant be easy. If you dont have anything nice to say then dont say it at all. Dont kick her while she is down. You wouldnt want people to do u like that.

  • ReadTheBlog

    Good, she can and will do better!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Awwww. Rocko you fuc.ked up #nahmean?

  • Shauny

    Keep your head up Mo. You knew your were better off after that #Salute video. Focus on your kids and career and the rest will follow.

  • intensemocha

    I hope the wayward women can sleep at night knowing that these two boys will wake up in the morning without their father around. How would they feel if THEY were in Mo’s shoes?

    Broads need to be considerate, whether someone is MARRIED or NOT. He had a good woman. Keep your head up Mo.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    BIATCH COME THE FUG ON-ARE YOU FUGGIN KIDDING ME RIGHT
    NOW?!?!

    HOPEFULLY ROCKO CAN SLEEP WITH WHAT THE FUG HE DID AND WHAT HE LOSSED-A SINGLE NO MAN HAVING LOW SELF-ESTEEM HAVING BIATCH COULD GIVE TWO RATZ AZZ ABOUT MONICA, HER KIDS, AND THEIR FAMILY-THAT'S WHY SHE FUGGIN HIM

    YALL DUMB HEFFAS GIVE THESE BIATCHES TOO MUCH SHINE, MAKE EM TOO FUGGIN IMPORTANT, OR LIKE THEIR PUZZY REALLY MATTER

    EVERY TIME YOU MENTION THE NEXT BIATCH-YOU GIVE HER NANO SECOND MORE ATTENTION THAN SHE DESERVE

    MONICA KEEP IT CLASSY LIKE YOU DOING TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN AND WE ALL KNOW YOU ALL BLASTING THAT NICCA CAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO DO WRONG BY YOUR CHILDREN'S FATHER WHICH IN THE END WOULD CAUSE YOUR CHILDREN HARM

    FUG A NUT RECEIVING HOE AND NEVER GIVE THAT BIATCH THE SATISFACTION THAT SHE CAUSED YOU PAIN-CAUSE SHE DIDN'T ROCKO DID AND LET THAT SHIAT EAT HIM UP FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE

    KEEP IT CLASSY MAMA & KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!

  • leapyearpisces

    If I lived to be one hundred years old, one thing I will NEVER, EVER understand is how can people find pleasure in causing others pain. One thing to sleep with that woman's man..that's already low...but to keep calling her and harass her to tell her about it....that's evil....

    hmmmmm......I wonder how the Devil's expansion plan of hell is going...cause ain't no way he has room down there....

  • ReadTheBlog

    Dallas, :rofl: :violin: Did you forget this was SR?

  • Al-Ameera

    Dang, didn't see this one coming.

    In my opinion they seemed totally mis-matched anyway but I noticed that Mo seems to have a "type" and he was definitely that "type".

  • ms.truth

    aww...i feel for her...but I wish women would stop having children to men they aren't married too!! :crying1:

  • ReadTheBlog

    Why did Charles mention this in January?

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    yesindeedio Says:
    I thoughts and prayers are with Mo and the kids. I also pray that Rocko gets his life together. It’s definitely in the best interest of his children. Regardless of whether they get back together or not, he needs to focus on being a better man and father. It’s not fair to the children to be in single parent homes because of foolishness.

    I hope the wayward women can sleep at night knowing that these two boys will wake up in the morning without their father around. How would they feel if THEY were in Mo’s shoes?

    Broads need to be considerate, whether someone is MARRIED or NOT. He had a good woman. Keep your head up Mo.
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    umm yesindeedio... those boys woke up without their father on a regular basis whatchu tombout?

  • intensemocha

    SHE WOULDN'T HAVE SHIAT TO CALL HER AND TELL HER ABOUT IF THAT NICCA WOULD HAVE KEPT IT AT HOME-YA DIG!

    AND HOW THE HELL SHE GET THE NUMBER?!?! THAT'S CONFIRMATION ENOUGH THE NICCA WAS FUGGIN WITH HER

    TRIFLING AZZ-HE DUMB AS A DOOR KNOB, PAY A PROSITUTE AT LEAST SHE KNOWS HER JOB IS TO PERFORM, LEAVE, AND STFU!

    OBVIOUSLY HE WAS TOO CHEAP AND AND CHOOSE A GHETTO CHICKEN WHO GETS OFF ON PUTTING PHILANDERERS ON BLAST TO BOOST HER SELF-ESTEEM

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    Sorry to hear that Mo esp after you rode with him after Charles put him on blast I wish you the best I will be buying your CD and giving some away on my site as well. Stay Blessed.

  • http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

    @Ms.kaylamomma ... Say it again please...

    Its funny how Rocko broke this one up but AK broke up swizz and Mashonda marraige..... double standards...So the girl he was cheating with is not at fault just him oh i c....

    Mo keep your head up.. always believe you deserve the best.....

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    Damn Intense!

  • Ebony

    Seperation is for people who are married, they broke up :coffee:

  • ReadTheBlog

    Can someone fill me in on how this went down?

  • Al-Ameera

    NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com Says:

    Sorry to hear that Mo esp after you rode with him after Charles put him on blast I wish you the best I will be buying your CD and giving some away on my site as well. Stay Blessed.
    *********************************
    Who is Charles and he put Rocko on blast?

  • ms.truth

    ReadTheBlog Says:

    Dallas, :rofl: :violin: Did you forget this was SR?

    --------------------------------------------------------------

    :cosign:

    :rofl:

  • ms.truth

    KaraZ Says:

    yesindeedio Says:
    I thoughts and prayers are with Mo and the kids. I also pray that Rocko gets his life together. It’s definitely in the best interest of his children. Regardless of whether they get back together or not, he needs to focus on being a better man and father. It’s not fair to the children to be in single parent homes because of foolishness.

    I hope the wayward women can sleep at night knowing that these two boys will wake up in the morning without their father around. How would they feel if THEY were in Mo’s shoes?

    Broads need to be considerate, whether someone is MARRIED or NOT. He had a good woman. Keep your head up Mo.
    ————————————————————

    umm yesindeedio… those boys woke up without their father on a regular basis whatchu tombout?

    ------------------------------------------------------------

    :rofl: so true!

  • http://youtube.com yesindeedio

    mocha. rocko is not absolved from anything. it takes two to tango. none of them should sleep: rocko or his harem.

    this post is about Mo and the boys. everyone has their own opinion and that's mine. that.is.all.

    good day. :|

  • ReadTheBlog

    never mind... Don't bother...

  • Al-Ameera

    Exactly @ RTB....I feel like I am missing a piece of the story here.

  • rjk8

    I thought a separation was when you were married. That nygga just got his clothes and play station 3 and left. There is no need to split assets. "I'm outta here."

  • ms.truth

    intensemocha...you are really INTENSE!

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    A LOVE THAT TEARS YOU DOWN AINT REALLY LOVE - MJB

    You have just unblocked your blessings. I know this is a tough time with the record about to drop. Take this negative and turn it into a positive.

    Blessings to yu I know breakups are hard.

  • mirsmommy

    intensemocha Says:

    SHE WOULDN’T HAVE SHIAT TO CALL HER AND TELL HER ABOUT IF THAT NICCA WOULD HAVE KEPT IT AT HOME-YA DIG!

    AND HOW THE HELL SHE GET THE NUMBER?!?! THAT’S CONFIRMATION ENOUGH THE NICCA WAS FUGGIN WITH HER

    TRIFLING AZZ-HE DUMB AS A DOOR KNOB, PAY A PROSITUTE AT LEAST SHE KNOWS HER JOB IS TO PERFORM, LEAVE, AND STFU!

    OBVIOUSLY HE WAS TOO CHEAP AND AND CHOOSE A GHETTO CHICKEN WHO GETS OFF ON PUTTING PHILANDERERS ON BLAST TO BOOST HER SELF-ESTEEM
    _______________________________________________________

    :rofl: but I :cosign: that. She ain't just pull Monica's number out the phone book.

  • crzasallgetout

    Can you possibly HATE someone on a blog??? LOL

  • ShoYaRight

    Stay strong Mo. You were great before him and will be great after.

    Oh, and thanks for "deading" the rumors. We can always depend on you to give it to us straight, no chaser.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Huh?!?!@ “Oh the children!!!!”

    I don’t see why this has to be a “death sentence” to the boys...if anything they learn a real woman does not stick around with a cheater so you better keep it in your pants....married or not. WTH.

    My sons know very well that a real woman will not stay…they tease their dad about it all the time (he tells them “things” to say to me) LOL

    If Rocko's mama wouldve left maybe he would value Mo more :yes:

  • intensemocha

    YALL HAVE NO IDEA IF THOSE KIDS WOKE UP TO THEIR FATHER EVERY DAY-HELL I ONLY SEEN HIM ON THE SHOW ONE DAMN TIME

    AGAIN CHICKS FANTASIZING AND SPECULATING-TEAM EXCUSE READY & CHEATED ON MOUNTING UP TO PLACE BLAME ELSEWHERE OTHER THAN WHERE IT TRULY SHOULD BE WITH HIS AZZ

    I WISH MY HUSBAND WOULD-I WOULD BASH HIS BRAINS OUT

    I DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT THE LOGISTICS-WHO SHE IS, HOW LONG, ETC. IT DON'T FUGGIN MATTER IMMA BUST HIS BRAINS OUT AND PUT HIS AZZ OUT

    SHE'LL KNOW HOW I GET DOWN WHEN HIS AZZ COME WITH HIS SHIAT IN TOW BLEEDING PROFUSELY FROM HIS FUGGIN HEAD

    HOW YOU DOIN!?!?

  • Ebony

    umm yesindeedio… those boys woke up without their father on a regular basis whatchu tombout?
    ____________________________________________________

    #rockosalute :rofl:

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    leapyearpisces Says:
    If I lived to be one hundred years old, one thing I will NEVER, EVER understand is how can people find pleasure in causing others pain. One thing to sleep with that woman’s man..that’s already low…but to keep calling her and harass her to tell her about it….that’s evil….

    hmmmmm……I wonder how the Devil’s expansion plan of hell is going…cause ain’t no way he has room down there….
    ------------------------------------------------------------

    How do you know the other woman (women) didn't feel as entitled to him as Monica did? Maybe she felt Monica was interrupting her relationship with Rocko. I mean he wasn't married to her or nothing. :shrugs:

  • Al-Ameera

    Dead @ rjk8 :rofl:

    Basically it means she is going to take him back, that's why they said separation rather than just broke up. Separation implies their can be a reconcilliation

  • mirsmommy

    I :heart: Monica. Please keep ya head up.

  • chase

    Wowzers...... Smh at that mess... See when u put your business on front street mess like this happens. There is always some chick waiting in the wings wanting to mess up what someone else has. Then you have these weak minded shallow men that will fukk with anything...!!!!

    Keep your head up Mo, now if u stop feeling southern thugs (like u have said in the past) maybe you can find a real man... Thugs don't get you what you want..

  • leapyearpisces

    rjk8 Says:

    I thought a separation was when you were married. That nygga just got his clothes and play station 3 and left. There is no need to split assets. “I’m outta here.”

    :rofl: :rofl:

  • intensemocha

    MY MAN ASKED ME HAVE I EVER FOUGHT A CHICK OVER A DUDE

    I SAID HELL NAW BUT A FOUGHT A DUDE OVER A CHICK

    HE WAS LOOKING ALL CONFUSED AND SHIAT-I SAID LET A BIATCH RUN UP ON ME CAUSE OF YOU I'M A BEAT YOUR AZZ

    PLAIN AND SIMPLE-AND DARE HIM TO CALL THE COPS

    BY THE TIME I'M DONE-I'LL PULL A THIN LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE ON HIS AZZ AND HE'LL BE THE ONE BEHIND BARS WHEN I'M DONE

  • dallas214

    But yall know whats even more f'd up?? Y is the b$%#CH! callin Monica? These lil sideline ho's KILL ME! Its like jump offs are getting more and more bold each day! Seriously? If he will cheat on a Grammy Award winning, RICH, BEAUTIFUL, CELEBRITY....what makes u think he wont do it to yo round the way nobody a$$? Its like jump offs are proud of sleeping w/ men in relationships...that dnt make no sense!!

  • Al-Ameera

    KaraZ Says:

    How do you know the other woman (women) didn’t feel as entitled to him as Monica did? Maybe she felt Monica was interrupting her relationship with Rocko. I mean he wasn’t married to her or nothing
    **********************************
    That's exactly what I was thinking. You never know what this dude was telling her.

  • OutsidetheBox

    TEAM EXCUSE READY & CHEATED ON MOUNTING

    :blink:

    I gotta admit: Bish you got a way with words!

    :rofl:

    *reads it again*

    :rofl: DEADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!

  • Mother Jefferson

    wow Mo, stay strong!
    ...I hope she upgrades, Rocko looked old enough be her daddy! :nono:

  • Shauny

    Dang INSTENSE why you always gotta call folks out of their name. That girl ain't did nothing to you. #cutthatout

  • http://facebook.com/Im2thick4u 2thick4u

    May she rise again strong and wiser than ever!!

    I heard plenty of rumors and if they are true than she is better off without him!!!!

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    iscream Says:
    A LOVE THAT TEARS YOU DOWN AINT REALLY LOVE - MJB

    You have just unblocked your blessings. I know this is a tough time with the record about to drop. Take this negative and turn it into a positive.

    Blessings to yu I know breakups are hard.
    -------------------------------------------------------------

    I know that's right. God allowed this to happen for a reason, be happy that you're free, use the material for some fire azz songs.

  • Anna

    Now I hope her fans will follow and kick their no good for nothing thugs to the curb. Now this is a good look for Monica. Much respect for moving on and more respect for sharing with us nosey ppl. :lol:

  • VIBABY

    If a chick ever calls my damn house she better be listed as my hubbys next of kin. Somebody will have to make the life support decisions at the hospital. I wont be around. I will be to busy getting my story/alibi straight....... :coffee:

  • birdofbeauty09

    Aww sorry to hear about your relationship Mo! Obviously he's not the one for you.

    :rofl: @rjk8, that ish was too funny!

    Wait, I remember on her reality show they had a house built in Atlanta, was I wrong?

    I will say this, they were mismatched from the beginning. Monica is classy, and Rocko still wanted to live the street life...with kids. In hindsight people could see this one coming, but it still sucks )=:

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    dallas214 Says:
    But yall know whats even more f’d up?? Y is the b$%#CH! callin Monica? These lil sideline ho’s KILL ME! Its like jump offs are getting more and more bold each day! Seriously? If he will cheat on a Grammy Award winning, RICH, BEAUTIFUL, CELEBRITY….what makes u think he wont do it to yo round the way nobody a$$? Its like jump offs are proud of sleeping w/ men in relationships…that dnt make no sense!!
    ------------------------------------------------------------

    There can only be a sideline ho, when there's a clearly defined main woman. Baby momma is not a clearly defined main woman. One side claiming to be engaged is not a clearly defined main woman. A man going out in public places with other women for years at a time, is not clearly stating who the main woman is.

  • VIBABY

    I'm sorry, but the treal story here is someone other than Mo wants Rocko :surprised: blood cloooooot......

  • mirsmommy

    VIBABY Says:

    If a chick ever calls my damn house she better be listed as my hubbys next of kin. Somebody will have to make the life support decisions at the hospital. I wont be around. I will be to busy getting my story/alibi straight…….
    _____________________________________________________

    :rofl: I know that's right.

  • ohso

    RJK8 :nono: I am laughing my butt off...kids ready to eat but cant.stop.laughing.

  • crzasallgetout

    There can only be a sideline ho, when there’s a clearly defined main woman. Baby momma is not a clearly defined main woman. One side claiming to be engaged is not a clearly defined main woman. A man going out in public places with other women for years at a time, is not clearly stating who the main woman is.

    Come on. Monica was the main woman. Not wife but main one.I've never seen him with other women in pictures. Not that I've really seen him without MO. I'm not blaming the other women because it's his dumba$$ that ruined this but I don't think Mo would just claim dude as her fiancee if they hadn't come to some sort of agreement.

  • Grownman

    @intensemocha

    Your posts are quite disturbing. I'd feel sorry for your husband if he ever slipped up. You'd really hit him on the head with an object that would cause hime to bleed profusely? Walking away and getting your life togther would never cross your mind?

  • Kitrina

    I have a feeling Rocko showed Monica who he really was a long time ago. And how do we know Monica wasn't the #2 girl, wouldnt this Rocko nobody jump at the chance to marry her and possibly get an alimony check in case of divorce (a la Anita Bakers husband or even Al Reynolds)-what was stopping him

  • Anna

    Sorry didn't read the comments, if I repeat forgive me. Why did she say "he's a great father to his kids? I don't know the guy other than him being with Monica. Does he have other kids, did he make other kids while with her?

  • Krysi J

    gurl...what the hell are you talking BOUT?? Will you STFU already!! UGGGggghhhh!!

    Cheaters never change....cheaters change pace....their always figuring out new ways to get away with shyt, and they will continue to come home to you until their caught...its your decision to leave or stay....they're are just fine with having their cake and eating it too. He could stop fukking the bytch you can't stand on the side cold turkey, but please believe you'll hate every bytch in your city before he passes up new puzzy....please do yourself a favor and love a man who equally loves you back...its WHAT YOU DESERVE!..GOD SAID SO!!

  • Al-Ameera

    @ Karaz, oh so dude has been cheating?

    *sings* "And oooooh, if you were man, I'd treat you better than she ever caaaannnnn, she's gonna break your heart"

  • OutsidetheBox

    Whatttttt? So, If I date my man for a number of years and were just not ready yet (to get married) its okay or I dont get to cry when, or if, he cheats? :surprise:

    Thats bull. I DONT CARE WHO OTHER CHICK IS WAS AND WANNA FUCCING BE. SHE KNEW ROCKO HAD A LADY. PERIOD. POINT. BLANK.

  • OutsidetheBox

    VI you wildinnnnnnnn

  • PAGESINADIARY

    I AINT GONE LIE, I DIDNT SUPPORT IT CAUSE I DIDNT LIKE IT!!

  • crzasallgetout

    IM is A NUT!! You try to read past her post but she's some crazy you can't help but to read them. I'd hate to meet the guy she's about to marry. Her kind of crazy can't be hidden for too long. She's the kind of person that would push someone in front of an approaching train.

  • http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

    Hey Krysi

  • mirsmommy

    Now Rocko's dumb a** done traded his family, just cuz he wanted to buss a few nuts. SMH. And obviously the smut don't have no type of respect for herself or Rocko's lil funny lookin a** either. What was the point of her calling Mo??? She was already sleeping with Mo's man/fiance/baby daddy, she had to tell her about the ish, too? Jumpoffs been gettin outta pocket lately. :lol:

  • leapyearpisces

    How do you know the other woman (women) didn’t feel as entitled to him as Monica did? Maybe she felt Monica was interrupting her relationship with Rocko. I mean he wasn’t married to her or nothing.

    ************************************************************
    KaraZ,

    This is true.

  • Grownman

    @Karaz

    Are we really trying to turn this around on Monica? I hope you're not implying that Monica is part of the sideline ho's that he kept.

    When we two people build a home together and start a family and acknowledge each other in public, that's a a family to me.

  • crzasallgetout

    COSIGN #76!!!

  • cutiepie32

    Oh well i hope people respect there privacy and keep it pushing.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Thank you @GrownMan. Families can be me and my roomate from college if thats all I have. Who gets to define what is and isnt a family? Sheesh.

  • ms.truth

    soooo....was Monica's song "Sideline ho" about Rocko's jumpoffs?? If so, why she stay around so long? :shrug:

  • crzasallgetout

    @83 that's what I'm taking for Karaz comment. How is this Mo's fault?

  • Shauny

    Leaving work and yall wanna go all :popcorn: on me. I hope this topic is still going when I get home TTYL

  • ohso

    @mirsmommy :preach: I mean will 2010 be the year of the jumpoff also???

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  • Krysi J

    Thats bull. I DONT CARE WHO OTHER CHICK IS WAS AND WANNA FUCCING BE. SHE KNEW ROCKO HAD A LADY. PERIOD. POINT. BLANK.

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    but if Rocko don't acknowledge his lady and stay faithful boo, whats the point of claiming this title....what could a woman possibly be mad with a cheater for if she's taken the attitude that she is the "main lady"....how so?? There is no RANK in this game, there is only 1 dyck and however many females he has hit that are desperate enough to hold on to it.

  • Krysi J

    Hey Snooty *waving* Nice to have you back!! :grin:

  • mimi08

    Monica truly get on my nerves. I use to like her back in the day, but nowadays she's always playing a victim, talking about how she's a survivor.

    She went and got with that thug negro, and she knew full well what she was getting. How come we all could have predicted her so called marriage would end up in the crapper, and she claims to not know that. The truth is Monica, and women like her are attracted to them ghetto hood negros. And all she could see is that she wanted him. She didn't stop and access how good a husband he was capable of being, and how good a father he would be before having not one, but two children with him. Now once again, that's two more children in the world, BLACK MALES at that, with no damn father IN THE HOME. Trying to wrap it up in a nice bow by saying Rocko is a good father is just another load of crap to save face. How good a father could he be if he doesn't put his darn family first? I'm willing to bet he put some $2.00 trick ahead of his family. Good father my behind. A good father thinks about the well being of his family, and what's best for them. What's a good father? THe fact that he's going to come by and bring gifts, call and holla at them now and again, all while starting a new family with a new trick, and ultimately doing them the same. I'll bet to that woman, he'll be a good father as well. Shame. So sick of women like Monica, whose smart enough to know better, but accept less. I hear this story all too often. She could have, and should have kept it real, and made sure not to have any kids with that ghetto hood rat of a man. She knew her and rocko wasn't going to grow old together, keep it real.

    Just sad. Sad what black women accept as a man. And I gotta say, Monica has a bad history with men. When you are the common denominator in relationships, and none of them work out, might be time for you to self assess. Assess the guys you are picking, and seek therapy for yourself.

  • Kitrina

    Rocko will probably be back on the block his meal ticket is gone

  • OutsidetheBox

    @Krysi...that was in response to this..."There can only be a sideline ho, when there’s a clearly defined main woman."

    cumonsonnnnnnn you cant tell me you agree with that?

  • chase

    This chick has no loyalty to Mo... When I got cheated on I went to my dude not the chick, she don't owe me a damn thing.

  • ShoYaRight

    People say that reality shows play a role in breaking couples up and there may be some truth to that. if rocko wasn't featured on that tv show, would this had happen?

  • http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

    rjk8 Says:

    I thought a separation was when you were married. That nygga just got his clothes and play station 3 and left. There is no need to split assets. “I’m outta here.”

    DEAD @ the play station 3....lol!!!!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Rocko is snot (the green kind)...dont get it twisted...but ALL ppl have a responsibility to not be nasty trifiling hussies. She knew she wasnt the lady thats why she called Mo.

  • http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

    @Krysi Nice to be back school has been taking up all my time... I see your still here representing.... LOL
    How are you?

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    crzasallgetout Says:
    There can only be a sideline ho, when there’s a clearly defined main woman. Baby momma is not a clearly defined main woman. One side claiming to be engaged is not a clearly defined main woman. A man going out in public places with other women for years at a time, is not clearly stating who the main woman is.

    Come on. Monica was the main woman. Not wife but main one.I’ve never seen him with other women in pictures. Not that I’ve really seen him without MO. I’m not blaming the other women because it’s his dumba$$ that ruined this but I don’t think Mo would just claim dude as her fiancee if they hadn’t come to some sort of agreement.
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    IMO since I've seen him out more with a different chick, holding hands and the whole bit, I don't know that Monica was the main chick. She was the more famous one, but if she was the main one, it was according to her.

  • OutsidetheBox

    @Chase. I just disagree...you dont have to have loyalty to Mo but what about the loyalty to yourself? To womanhood? To human nature?

  • ms.truth

    chase Says:

    This chick has no loyalty to Mo… When I got cheated on I went to my dude not the chick, she don’t owe me a damn thing.

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    If the chick knows that we are in a relationship, I'm getting him and her...females can be sooooo shady when it comes to a man. She shouldn't get off with anything less than a swollen eye!

  • http://hok.com ATL_Reese

    Man, I was hoping it wasnt true.. oh well, but a strong woman/mother will make it and shes turning to the right direction for guidance, God. None of our opinions matter, who knows what actually happen. Things happen for a reason and maybe it was a good thing. Theres always positive in the negative, ya kno.. I just a shame that these bruthas giving us a bad name.. I already had a interesting convo this week, when a female friend stated all men cheat. we all dont, but man, where the real MEN at that can turn down tempation. You gotta tell Satan no bruthas, dont let him score on you..

  • http://hok.com ATL_Reese

    *typo* I meant temptation

  • chase

    ShoYaRight Says:
    People say that reality shows play a role in breaking couples up and there may be some truth to that. if rocko wasn’t featured on that tv show, would this had happen?
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    That's what I was thinking but it was so boring I thought not to many people watched it...

  • crzasallgetout

    True the chick owes Mo nothing but dang Mo isn't the bad person either. I guess if you're just the girlfriend then it means nothing. BS you have to be a girlfriend before you are WIFE

  • pyt305

    Thanks for clearing up the break up...

    IMO take it as a blessing Monica cuz he worthless :)

  • chase

    OutsidetheBox Says:
    @Chase. I just disagree…you dont have to have loyalty to Mo but what about the loyalty to yourself? To womanhood? To human nature?
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    I agree with what you are saying I just think chicks want to go bash the other chick in the head when they should be focusing on the dude. I have seen to many street fights over dudes between chicks and it is just stupid to me..

  • crzasallgetout

    @KARAZ
    oh see that's a different story. But I still feel like Mo was the main chick and the "other" girl knew this. Hence her calling MO and playing on the phone.

  • leapyearpisces

    I guess it just boils down to the old saying that when someone shows you who they are believe them.... :shrugs: There's really nothing that I can say, that has not been said...I mean as long as their are horny, unfaithful men wanting to screw around on their signifigant other[girlfriend, wife, or fiance'], and women willing to participate,and women willing to tolerate the behavior of their man....what can you do? :shrugs: this will be a debate our grandchildren will be having.... it's just all rather unfortunate....on that note...you all have a good evening.....

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    I'm not saying it's Mo's fault he dumped her. I'm just saying it wasn't just her he was with for years. Yes he had some kids with her, but she wasn't the only chick he claimed publicly.

  • Krysi J

    @Krysi…that was in response to this…”There can only be a sideline ho, when there’s a clearly defined main woman.”
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    I don't believe in that main lady shyt, it clouds a lotta of female's judgement for the WORST! If the niccah don't respect you, find a man who will....don't just let a niccah know the minimum amount of self worth you are holding on to by staying with him. You think niccahs would take bytches back after they cheat....fukk no!...you think niccahs can't tell MFs are desperate to remain in their lives when they take them back without consequences...

    #pleasebelieveit
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    Rocko is snot (the green kind)…dont get it twisted…but ALL ppl have a responsibility to not be nasty trifiling hussies. She knew she wasnt the lady thats why she called Mo
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    that bytch deserves zero props for this break up...please don't give her the satisfaction. Rocko is the one to blame not the next bytch, or the old bytch, or the new bytch, or the 5th bytch, nor the trifling bytch either....ITS ROCKO...ROCKO!!

  • Cinderella

    @ Anna, Rocko has a teenage son. I know this going to be a hot topic on Atlanta radio tomorrow. I guess I'll listen to V-103 in the morning.

  • flsun99

    I hate this but Monica is going to be ok. She must now focus on her career & her children. I wish her nothing but success. I haven't really been a fan BUT I will make it a point to support her CD this time (because she seems to genuinely be a beautiful person inside & out) and the girl can really sing regardless of how I felt in the pass. I feel bad for her. Whatever the reason for her going thru this, I know God will reveal it to her. In the end, it will turn out just fine.

  • D.Marie

    Well I saw this one coming :coffee:

  • Cinderella

    She should have thrown in the towel when called her his "peoples" on 106 & Park a few years ago. Aint no way a man is calling me his "peoples".

  • chase

    ms.truth Says:
    chase Says:

    This chick has no loyalty to Mo… When I got cheated on I went to my dude not the chick, she don’t owe me a damn thing.

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    If the chick knows that we are in a relationship, I’m getting him and her…females can be sooooo shady when it comes to a man. She shouldn’t get off with anything less than a swollen eye!
    ---------------------------------

    Yeah I see where u are coming from, but lawd knows what the dude is telling both of us.... I remember growing up and fighting chicks over a dude and nothing came out of it. As time went on he either did it again or she did it again. If he did it once he will do it again and if she did it with my man she will do it with someone else's man...

    My mother stayed sleeping w/ men who were married or in a relationship and even when she got caught and confronted she continued to do it..

  • mirsmommy

    Cinderella Says:

    She should have thrown in the towel when called her his “peoples” on 106 & Park a few years ago. Aint no way a man is calling me his “peoples”.
    ______________________________________________________

    :-o Damn, so Mo was his "peoples", and Tiny was TI's "situation?"

    SMH.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    You turned ya back
    And back
    I came runnin'
    But the simple
    Music is my savior....

    Fact is
    That you
    Ain't want me
    I done enough
    Lyin' and cryin'
    To myself
    Nothin' left
    To do but move
    What else
    Can I do but leave?
    I believed that you would marry me
    But now I gotta breeze

    I be's with LT
    When you come
    To ya senses
    But then
    It's too late
    That's always
    How it be
    Catch me
    With the B's
    On the wheels
    Giuseppe on the heels
    Shoulda Marc Jacob
    Fe Fe bag me
    When you had me
    Next dude
    Will gladly
    Pick up
    Where you left off
    Ice me
    Wife me
    You ain't gon'
    Have me

    [Mary]
    Cryin', cryin', cryin'
    (Cryin', cryin', cryin')
    It's time to say
    Bye, bye, bye
    It's time I
    Do something
    For me
    GOOD LUCK MO MAKE USE THIS PAIN TO MAKE A GREAT CD

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    I can't wait to read the comments....BUT Monica keep ya head up.....like I said last nite we smile with tears in our eyes...but always keep it pushin...your strong...you will be fine.....like you said GOD does everything for a reason.....I have to say it....phuck Rocko.....he will realize what he had when your long gone. He phucked up....just keep pushin....I know how hard it is to leave someone you have kids with. :hug: you are beautiful inside and out.

  • ms.truth

    ok...this is making me want to listen to her cd, The Makings of Me....I LOVE that album!!

  • b-boy817

    Sandra the mobile site is cool..

  • dallas214

    @Karaz......PLEASE STOP WITH THE LIES...

    This main claimed Monica in public..Everybody knows that. Girl quit tryin to sell another story. He cheated, u prob have been cheated on before as well. ON TO THE NEXT

  • Candi Apple

    Monica, Keep pushing the pain will end.

    Rocko is a sad man and later in life he will see his error. But the error is his baggage. Monica you don't need to carry his baggage anymore. Just continue to work on yourself and allow yourself room to grow past the attractions you developed toward thugs. You don't need to save a man. Don't look in the projects for a replacement man.

    Now you don't need to worry about the jumpoffs calling you. Its him not them. The last thing you need is the jumpoff sending you a package you cant send back.

    I am glad you finally chose yourself.

  • birdofbeauty09

    When you are the common denominator in relationships, and none of them work out, might be time for you to self assess. Assess the guys you are picking, and seek therapy for yourself.
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    :cosign:
    Sometimes the truth hurts, but ultimately it will make you a better person...

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    crzasallgetout Says:
    @KARAZ
    oh see that’s a different story. But I still feel like Mo was the main chick and the “other” girl knew this. Hence her calling MO and playing on the phone.
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    You guys realize that you're only hearing Monica's side of the story right? They're 4(or 6 depending who you ask) sides in this story and we're only hearing one. :shrugs: He hasn't been Monica's exclusively for at least 3 years, Monica was aware of this.

  • ms.truth

    @KaraZ...where are you getting your info from?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Qm2_ppqtZk missy

    Monica don't cry girl.. Keep your head up...But you know he wasn't good for you all you were doing was trying to change him....Move on with your life..and find you a good man who will treat with the respect, love and passion that you deserve and it will be a 50/50 relationship not a 60/40..

    Stay in your faith and be good the Lord will give you a good man...Not a Nah Mean ..Salute!! dude.. :hug:

  • birdofbeauty09

    mirsmommy Says:
    Cinderella Says:

    She should have thrown in the towel when called her his “peoples” on 106 & Park a few years ago. Aint no way a man is calling me his “peoples”.
    ______________________________________________________

    Damn, so Mo was his “peoples”, and Tiny was TI’s “situation?”

    SMH.
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    OMG, why did Clifford and Tameka pop into my head while reading about Monica? #crazy!

    Candi Apple Says:
    Monica, Keep pushing the pain will end.

    Rocko is a sad man and later in life he will see his error. But the error is his baggage. Monica you don’t need to carry his baggage anymore. Just continue to work on yourself and allow yourself room to grow past the attractions you developed toward thugs. You don’t need to save a man. Don’t look in the projects for a replacement man.

    Now you don’t need to worry about the jumpoffs calling you. Its him not them. The last thing you need is the jumpoff sending you a package you cant send back.

    I am glad you finally chose yourself.
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    :cosign: on everything you said (mainly saving a man, and finding a replacement man).

    Thugs are cute when you're under 25, after that you need to find a man who has a job (with benefits), takes care of home, and treats you like a queen. #thatisall

  • WalkingKontradiction

    VIBABY Says:

    I’m sorry, but the treal story here is someone other than Mo wants Rocko blood cloooooot……
    ___________________________________________________

    :rofl :rofl: Now I'm DONE

  • Kitrina

    did Rocko ever put out an album?

  • mimi08

    I don't know why people are feeling sorry for Monica. She's just going to go do the same damn thing again. Hood mentality is deep. Until you change your mentality, you are doomed to repeat the same mistakes over and over again. She's attracted to them hood no good weak minded negros...She's just gonna go out and replace his azz with the exact same type. And for these women I have no sympathy.

    She said people were hard on rocko throughout their relationship. Oh i dunno, perhaps that was because they saw he was a waste of your time, and no good. You can't blame people cause they don't think your man is talented.

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    umm dallas214, since you're the self appointed keeper of what my eyes have seen, please tell me where I misplaced my charm bracelet. Thanka

    I know you might have a hard time believing it, but Rocko saw other women on a regular basis, it's not a secret.

    An you're right, I have been cheated on, but I got it together and left. I didn't go have yet another child, while my so called man showed off other women around town. Rocko did Monica the biggest favor by leaving her, she will be alright.

  • D.Marie

    Kitrina Says:

    did Rocko ever put out an album?
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    Did T.I. marry Tiny?

  • mirsmommy

    D.Marie Says:

    Kitrina Says:

    did Rocko ever put out an album?
    ————————————————————–
    Did T.I. marry Tiny?
    _______________________________________________

    :rofl: :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Qm2_ppqtZk missy

    @D.Marie :rofl: ...

  • pyt305

    I don’t know why people are feeling sorry for Monica. She’s just going to go do the same damn thing again. Hood mentality is deep. Until you change your mentality, you are doomed to repeat the same mistakes over and over again. She’s attracted to them hood no good weak minded negros…She’s just gonna go out and replace his azz with the exact same type. And for these women I have no sympathy.

    She said people were hard on rocko throughout their relationship. Oh i dunno, perhaps that was because they saw he was a waste of your time, and no good. You can’t blame people cause they don’t think your man is talented.
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    :cosign: on everything you said! Rocko has been doing her dirty for years!! While she have been his 'main chick' she knew all along there were other 'main chicks'

  • pyt305

    D.Marie Says:

    Kitrina Says:

    did Rocko ever put out an album?
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    Did T.I. marry Tiny?

    *************************************************

    :rofl: too funny!!

  • Candi Apple

    That Salute video killed me. Monica gave Rocko the room and platform to prove to the world he was a man. He had nothing to say All he could do was say Salute and then run to the back and smoke a Blunt off camara because according to him "He wasn't comfortable smoking on camara". He is a drug dealer who likes music cause he sure ain't no artist. He will be that way for the rest of his life. Monica that video displays his skills as a man. NONE he couldn't even pretend to have sense. He wanted to convay he was hood and couldn't speak sorry ass man.

    Monica tried to help and support this man remember when he was promoting his album Monica reached out to Sandra Rose to help promote his project. Trying to make him a man. You can't make a man he has to be one. The album went dust

  • http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

    He said "imma do me"

  • M_promp2

    Charles blasted this yesterday or today.......I question anybody's morals who befriends him/it. That is a horrible man/woman/thingy. She did not deserve to be done the way he did her.

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    KaraZ :cosign: Monica is gonna be alright. That ninja did her a favor. MONICA LET THE NEXT HOE DEAL WITH HIS BULLSHYT. Let that hoe have the heartache. Me thinky monica needs to leave ATL....I know your family is there....BUT get away for a little while.

  • http://www.ReppingBeantown.com ReppingBeantown

    Damn! My heart goes out to her for real. I really don't understand what the hell is wrong with men now and days, especially black men. It's like they are allergic to sticking it through with a good woman, even though they have children with that person.Don't know about anyone else, but having children w/ someone is a BIG deal for me, call me old school.

    In his case, he has TWO little precious boys with her! I mean damn! don't he want to set an example for his children?? What's wrong with honoring a woman and walking her down the aisle, giving her the well needed respect and his children for that matter. You are not going to be able to keep up with different p**sies at night, you're gonna grow tired from it and when that times come n it will come. I sincerely hope Mo will find a good man by then, who is willing to provide her with the respect needed and that is all.
    >:(

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Qm2_ppqtZk missy

    Actually I got Rocko's album and I paid for it with a soda can and a rock ..POW!!!!!

  • D.Marie

    Why is Rocko even considered a rapper. He couldn't sale me a free download

  • dallas214

    LOL @ Rocko been doing her dirty for years....ok, soo yall know them personally....I digress

    Anyway, before u go pointing the damn finger at Monica, she aint SUPERHUMAN! Im sure there are things about urself u dont like and wish u could change. Have you ever made bad choices in men? Exactly....she aint perfect nor has she ever tried to be. She didnt even have to address the shh at all. But thats how real she is. And didnt even down the nicca in the process....youre are right about one thing tho, dont feel sorry for MOnica. PRAY for MONICA! Im sure she needs it now more than ever!

  • Anna

    pyt305 Says:

    D.Marie Says:

    Kitrina Says:

    did Rocko ever put out an album?
    ————————————————————–
    Did T.I. marry Tiny?

    *************************************************

    too funny!!
    ~~~~~~~
    :lol: Damn.

  • shannon04

    I agree with so much that has been said on this post, I don't even know where to start. I wish Monica the best and as many of us women have dealt with the same thing you eventually realize that it's not the end of the world and you will make it. It is hard at first but give yourself time to get yourself right (mind, emotions, heart etc). Stay prayerful and one thing that I did that made all the difference it to detach myself from things that keep me tied to the person that caused the pain. I know she has to have a decent relationship with him for the sake of the kids and I understand that, but be glad that you didn't marry him (you won't owe his ass a dime)........
    ---------------------------------------------------------

    @Candi Apple.... I felt this from the heart cause I finally chose me one day and it changed my life.

    (Candi Apple Says:
    Monica, Keep pushing the pain will end.

    Rocko is a sad man and later in life he will see his error. But the error is his baggage. Monica you don’t need to carry his baggage anymore. Just continue to work on yourself and allow yourself room to grow past the attractions you developed toward thugs. You don’t need to save a man. Don’t look in the projects for a replacement man.

    Now you don’t need to worry about the jumpoffs calling you. Its him not them. The last thing you need is the jumpoff sending you a package you cant send back.

    I am glad you finally chose yourself

  • SugarPieHoneybunn

    Intensemocha needs a head doctor and some medication ASAP!!!

    Im sure Monica knew this dude was a dog but she was in denial because of them kids and she didnt want to be in another failed relationship so she tried to make it work. i believe she is really trying to find some peace in her life but she has to realize that if her mate isnt looking for the same thing, it isnt going to work. He is just a young acting studio gangster that wanna hang out, screw hoes and try to find him a come up. He is not marriage material, that's why he aint never even thought about proposing. Them kids just give him a reason to come around and cock-block.

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    Dead atchu Missy. :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Qm2_ppqtZk missy

    @D.marie-girl if you did get that free download you would probably get a "NAH MEAN SALUTE" virus..and it will crash it with all the thugness...

  • D.Marie

    dallas214 Says:

    LOL @ Rocko been doing her dirty for years….ok, soo yall know them personally….I digress

    Anyway, before u go pointing the damn finger at Monica, she aint SUPERHUMAN! Im sure there are things about urself u dont like and wish u could change. Have you ever made bad choices in men? Exactly….she aint perfect nor has she ever tried to be. She didnt even have to address the shh at all. But thats how real she is. And didnt even down the nicca in the process….youre are right about one thing tho, dont feel sorry for MOnica. PRAY for MONICA! Im sure she needs it now more than ever!
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    O.K. Monica just let it go

  • Al-Ameera

    Oh lord, ya'll are really clowning tonight.

  • pyt305

    D.Marie Says:

    Why is Rocko even considered a rapper. He couldn’t sale me a free download

    ***********************************************
    :rofl: omg stop

  • D.Marie

    missy Says:

    @D.marie-girl if you did get that free download you would probably get a “NAH MEAN SALUTE” virus..and it will crash it with all the thugness…
    --------------------------------------------------------------
    :rofl: You ain't right

  • shannon04

    (Intensemocha) be giving it from another perspective and I understand where she's coming from. As women, we have to learn that when we choose to CONTINUE dealing with a guy even after we know that he is chrating or has cheated, we have to deal with everything that comes with that.
    I have too many friends that turn and look the other way and make excuse about giving the benefit of the doubt, or that they are forgiving people. I've been there and it was real bad for me but I woke up one day and realized that a person that doesn't love himself cant love you---and if he doesnt even have respect for himself and his body and just be out doing all types of stuff, that pretty much means that he doesn't have respect for you and it shows just who he is. Men usually don't change unless something drastic happens in their life that changes them... and even them most of them dont change. Women have to do a better job of taking care of themselves and not let any man have any control over your life or your happiness.

  • shannon04

    sorry for the typis...I meant cheating, excuses, then

  • shannon04

    omg....I have to get off this computer....I'm making all kinds of typos....have a good afternoon everyone...I'm gone.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Qm2_ppqtZk missy

    @D.marie-Thats the truff

    NAH MEAN

    SALUTE!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Anyone knows whats going to happen to his blog...

  • D.Marie

    missy Says:

    @D.marie-Thats the truff

    NAH MEAN

    SALUTE!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Anyone knows whats going to happen to his blog…
    --------------------------------------------------------------
    Rocko has a blog? :blink: He can spell? :blink:

  • Musiqal1

    I kinda knew this was going to happen ONLY BECAUSE I felt Rocko is kind of jealous of Monica, and her Career. She is in the limelight while he is in the shadow. His body language in pictures and even on her show suggested to me that he hated being in her shadow. I am glad she didn't jump into a marriage with him and end up having to divorce his sorry ass. I hope she finds a man that will love her the way she deserves to be loved one day.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Qm2_ppqtZk missy

    Yeah its THESALUTES dot BLOGSPOT dot COM (Sandra forgive me plz plz plz plz plz)

    It only has two posts though

  • Musiqal1

    Monica needs to push her album back so she can record some songs about this right here!

  • Candi Apple

    @shannon04 I am happy you thought of yourself first.

    I have a list of rules I made for children in my family. I call them rules to life which I feel are important and will apply to any situation

    1. Self Preservation
    2. Never let someone pass you the gun
    3. Depend on no one
    4. Always have a plan (even if you deviate you are on a path to something and ready for pitfalls)

    I have more but I digress

  • Daisy

    @Snooty :welcome: back AGAIN *waves*

    @Shannon The delivery is the problem more times than not

    Where is Scandolus1???

    :popcorn:

  • http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

    @Daisy... Hey you!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks

  • pointhimout

    whew, thank god, kids or no kids. monica, i salute you.

  • kwall

    i love mo. (in my miss sophia color purpa voice...) GAWDKNOWSIDO...but he called you his PEEPS yo...on national tv. i still remember cringing at that. i mean really. be glad you done rid yourself of him. co-parent those kids and move on.

    and if rock is reading this or any of HIS "peeps" he need to put that otha chick in her dayum place. calling the mother of his sons is not a good look and having her FRIENDS call her is really childish...all they azz need to find a mutha%$#@#! hobby/job/sumfin ta do. it's 2010. getcho game up and getcho head right. i hate bishes yo...

  • shannon04

    I just love love love this SRfam.

  • pointhimout

    kwall, stop it. too funny. hopefully it remains over and she truly move on with her kids, career, and life. he never seemed too into her on camera, and yeah, he could be cam shy or whatever, i get it.

    there have been several times where she referred to herself as his fiance, called him her husband (bet--pilot episode of her show when she was rushing to get shoes or something to him at a show in atlanta), and each time I would just shake my head at another sista settling her standards, but hoping to meeting an expectation by doing so. it never happened.

    unlike that other guy who is prolly on his blog celebrating and saying all sorts of things, i just wish women in general would stop settling for these type of relationships. you're ooozzing love and compassion yet he's so hard core there isn't any type connection or hint that he's even into you.

    black folks please stop playing house, raise your standards, and hold everyone that comes around you to that.

  • Daisy

    @Snooty I see you reping for our girl Akeys :yea:

    @Shannon ditto

    YT folks play house and have kids out of wedlock as well FYI

  • pointhimout

    ^^^yes they do, but you people have allowed that to be your way of life, YT hasn't.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    When Mo gives me the word, I'm putting the chick's job # on here so you guys can call her job and harass her like she harassed Mo. >:(

  • http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

    @Daisy You know it I hate double standards and hypocrisy...
    I would stan for her everyday and twice on sundays.....

  • D.Marie

    Sandra Rose Says:

    When Mo gives me the word, I’m putting the chick’s job # on here so you guys can call her job and harass her like she harassed Mo.
    --------------------------------------------------------------
    Well somebody else can call and harass her b/c I refuse to get mad over a peen that I don't ride...And what is that suppose to solve anyway? Oh yeah that's right nothing.

  • crystal404

    I am not going to say keep your head up Monica because i know you "WILL" get through this. I have been in this same situation where a chic have called my phone and taunt and cause me out. My response was if you really thought you had him then you wouldn't be calling my. A women sorry a girl (cause no women will never do that $hit)will not do no more than what the man will allow them to do. She must felt comfortable enough to call Monica because she felt he was going to leave Monica for her.

    Everyone keep talking trash about why they are not married, maybe it was Monica who didn't want to get married. Is there a difference now that he stepped out in the relationship? You have men just like Punk Tiger Woods who have a wife at home and still cheated on her. So having children without being married do not make a difference. Your spouse, fiance or husband is going to do it regardless if he doe's not respect the relationship. Not only did he expose their relationship with ridicule comments you expose your significant other to STD. Just like this chic made herself known i am sure she was willing to let him go raw dawg in hopes to trap him. To Rocko was this chic really worth your relationship you had with Monica?

  • pointhimout

    oh wow SR, she called monica from her job? not smart. needless to say i dont think the SR crowd will stoop to that level, however, Monica can contact her job and let her know she was harrassed, have phone records to prove this employee called her from the company phone repeatedly and she has no business with that company so a rep from that company had no reason to call and contact her for anything. wrong number my ass; she called repeatedly and gave out my number to her friends, all on your company's time and phone. should i call my lawyers, or will you handle this by the end of business today?

    on my dime, the jumpoff will be out of work by friday afternoon. but i'm not monica.

  • Daisy

    @Snooty :rofl: You are a FOOL but I LOVE it!

    @sandra *side eye & chile please* (in my ocho cinco voice)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Qm2_ppqtZk missy

    @D.marie- I was just going to type that\...well not exactly but the gist of what you said..

    And what will I tell the chick "Nah Mean"...."Salute" that might be more on the grammar she hears everyday if she laying up with Rocko....and she would never be mad..why stoop to the hood rat level she will love the attention..and the 5 secs of fame she may get..which will last as long as rocko's rap career.. :coffee:

  • pyt305

    Sandra Rose Says:

    When Mo gives me the word, I’m putting the chick’s job # on here so you guys can call her job and harass her like she harassed Mo.

    *************************************************

    Im not 16 anymore so that excludes me in the prank calling :coffee:

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Sandra rose said
    When Mo gives me the word, I’m putting the chick’s job # on here so you guys can call her job and harass her like she harassed Mo.

    BUT IN THE PREVIOUS MONICA POST SHE SAID...

    But Monica does have some legal recourse if a jump off is calling her number constantly harassing her. I just got off the phone with my attorney who told me to advise Mo to get a TPO against the woman immediately — if, in fact, someone is harassing her. In the state of Georgia, it is legal to record a phone call (as long as one party knows) and use that as evidence to obtain a TPO.
    *********************************************
    :-|

    I guess you'll be the one stooping to that jumpoff's level and calling cause I sure as hell won't be. I wouldn't call a bitsh if it was my own man. Aint no chick worth that much of my time and energy.

    Why don't you post ROCKO number so we can harass him being that he is the one who CHEATED... :coffee:

  • Candi Apple

    Sandra, Thats funny.

    But I pass I'm not into taking uneaten food off the table.

    I am sure she wont lack calls because of me. :evil:

  • birdofbeauty09

    pointhimout Says:
    kwall, stop it. too funny. hopefully it remains over and she truly move on with her kids, career, and life. he never seemed too into her on camera, and yeah, he could be cam shy or whatever, i get it.

    there have been several times where she referred to herself as his fiance, called him her husband (bet–pilot episode of her show when she was rushing to get shoes or something to him at a show in atlanta), and each time I would just shake my head at another sista settling her standards, but hoping to meeting an expectation by doing so. it never happened.

    unlike that other guy who is prolly on his blog celebrating and saying all sorts of things, i just wish women in general would stop settling for these type of relationships. you’re ooozzing love and compassion yet he’s so hard core there isn’t any type connection or hint that he’s even into you.

    black folks please stop playing house, raise your standards, and hold everyone that comes around you to that.
    ------------------------------------------------------------
    DAMN IT, Co-MOTHA-FUCKIN'-sign! or :cosign: LOL

    For the life of me, I can't understand how women "play house" with a man, and refer to yourself as "his wifey" that gets a side-eye from me.

    I've had friends look at me funny when I told them that I wasn't having children until i'm married. Like I told them, the choices you make, YOU have to live with them, but for myself, i'm going to be married.

    Thank you for that post because I needed that! LOL

  • D.Marie

    missy Says:

    @D.marie- I was just going to type that\…well not exactly but the gist of what you said..
    --------------------------------------------------------------
    Great minds think alike :grin:

  • kwall

    When Mo gives me the word, I’m putting the chick’s job # on here so you guys can call her job and harass her like she harassed Mo
    --------------------------------------
    if this girl has EVER called you from her job mo please have her job served to her azz on a platter. you or your attorney (phaedra...is she your atty?) call her employer...and inform them in a nice, calm way, that xxxx has been calling you on THEIR phone line making harassing and threatening calls and if the phone calls do not stop from that line that you are going to bring up charges on her and them for not monitoring her outgoing calls closer. in other words for allowing her to do it.

    a friend of mine did that to some stoopid azz trick who was calling her over her husband and the calls were coming from A CALL CENTER. the other bish was called into HR almost as soon as she got off the phone with them and she packed up her desk AS to the dayum AP. her badge was de-activated and they helped her out with a big azz BYE BYE :wave: the HR Director called her back and told her that the "problem was now gone" from their place of bid-ness...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Qm2_ppqtZk missy

    @pointthimout 178 and Kwall 187... :cosign: Monica take that advice...

    She can Have rocko but a job she will lack..

    @D.marie-Yesss Great minds think a like... :yes: *e-high 5's*

  • Al-Ameera

    Oh lord not the work number. That is just childish. If he has been cheating I don't know why it's a big deal now

  • kwall

    She can Have rocko but a job she will lack...
    ----------------------------------------
    once they pull her internet usage and her outgoing phone log it might be a wrap. and the georgia unemployment rate is real hellish right now i hear.

    so let her and rocko have each other. let them go to the unemployment office TO-GEVA. then call her after you know she done got the ax and be like..."i hope it was GOOD BISH". and after that don't call her again. ever. in life. lose her number. and change yours.

  • ms.truth

    187....I love when stuff like that happen to triflin females!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Qm2_ppqtZk missy

    @Kwall :preach: :rofl:

  • WalkingKontradiction

    :rofl: @ D.Marie

    I thought the same thing!

  • Candi Apple

    Sandra can play acting role as said attorney. I believe that jumpoff place herself into Rocko's bag when she began harrassing Monica. So, Monica if you want to completely throw the trash out make sure you don't forget the stuff that fell on the floor.

    I just cant help you carry your baggage by participating.

  • Al-Ameera

    And what would that prove but that Monica is bitter and that the Rocko and the Jumpoff won.

    If Mo is really done then move on, be happy and sucessful and that would be the best revenge not calling the girls job.

  • KrayZKat

    mimi08,

    You make soooo much sense! Sometimes we have to learn the hard way. I sure did and won't do it again, EVER!

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    aw poor monica, its a shame when someone steps off in fidelity. at least she wasnt married and dont have to give hal of HER hard earned money.

  • SangriaSugar

    rjk8 Says:

    I thought a separation was when you were married. That nygga just got his clothes and play station 3 and left. There is no need to split assets. “I’m outta here.”

    ______________________________

    :rofl: DEAD!!!

  • Quitta

    *just walkin in*

    Wow she confirmed it huh? Like I said before, she deserves better. Keep your head up Mo.

    That lip smacking, to the countryary, solute'ing speaking mufugger can takes his lame azz somewhere else.

  • Candi Apple

    Right now Monica is bitter she can't help it. Her feelings are destroyed and what she thought was a family is gone. He may not have givin hisself to her but she gave herself to him. So right now she is going to go after whomever she believes assisted in the destruction of her family. I hope she realizes auickly that Rocko destroyed her family all by hisself. All of those girls would never have a chance if he didn't allow the room for the attacks against her. And any woman who says bad things about a Man's Woman is because he told her those things. "she don't cook", "she won't let me see the kids", "I don't want her", etc.

  • Quitta

    D Marie - Rocko has a blog? :blink: He can spell? :blink:
    _____
    That nucca can't even speak his way out of a paper bag. Nah mean. :rolleyes:

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    monica will be fine. i never like rocko, and glad shes not with him anymore. hopefully she will find a good man.

  • Al-Ameera

    @ Candi, I get that Mo is feeling some kinda way BUT I still don't know why chics go after the same types and wonder why they get the same results. Just foolish.

  • D.Marie

    Al-Ameera Says:

    @ Candi, I get that Mo is feeling some kinda way BUT I still don’t know why chics go after the same types and wonder why they get the same results. Just foolish.
    --------------------------------------------------------------
    :cosign: from C-Murder to Rocko

  • kwall

    just because she made bad choices in love does not mean it hurts any less yall. i think a large majority of us has made a bad choice at least ONCE. hopefully she can like i say move on past this. she has buried a boyfriend, one is incarcerated for a very long time, and now THIS clown. like i said they need to co-parent those boys to the best of their ability and move on. but at the rate rock is going... having heffas calling and disrespecting monica...he is working real hard at her not even speaking to his arse. which would be tragic for those kids. he needs at this point to make that up to her the best way he can...and concentrate on being a dad...and after that...coming up with a song with more than 3 lyrics...(umma do me...)

  • omina-homina

    Sad, but didn't she treat him to a night at a strip club one year for his birthday? She attended - invited temptation...

    Anyway, wipe the slate clean and start all over (I know, easier said than done).

  • Candi Apple

    @Al-Ameera I agree.

    She did set herself up with the delusion that he was a man. I'm just saying that girl repeatedly called that woman and gave monica's number to her friends to repeatedly call her. So she should get apart of Monica's raft. #justsayin

  • netta0281

    Please know that monica will be just fine, they been together for 10 plus years and they will get back together...Lets focus on March 23 still standing hit the air ways #teammonica

  • Al-Ameera

    @ Kwall, I know but what is calling the girl going to prove? Take some resposibility and learn from your mistakes. Don't stoop to some hood rat ghetto mess

  • Anna

    omina-homina Says:

    Sad, but didn’t she treat him to a night at a strip club one year for his birthday? She attended - invited temptation…

    Anyway, wipe the slate clean and start all over (I know, easier said than done).
    ~
    You can't wipe the slate clean when the heart is broken. They can love from afar and call it "what was". No amount of counseling can repair all things, the mind never forgets. Sometimes we try very hard to hold on to ppl that were never meant for us to begin with. What we think may be the love of our life is not our soulmate. At least they never married and she doesn't have to also go through the pain of divorce and paying him alimony. :lol:

  • Anna

    Al-Ameera Says:

    @ Kwall, I know but what is calling the girl going to prove? Take some resposibility and learn from your mistakes. Don’t stoop to some hood rat ghetto mess
    ~~~~~~
    Living well is the best revenge. :lol: No need to call the jumpoff, she could have been anybody or several. What's are Motto in here, "get rid of the man and all the jumpoffs will follow". Get mad at the man, not the jumpoff. A jumpoff, is just that, a jumpoff. If a man does not respect his woman/wife enough to put a jumpoff in her lane(not that there should be one)he is not a man. Men need to realize that it takes two to make or break a family up. It takes two ppl in a relationship to make it work. It take two ppl(said man and his jumpoff)to break it up. Why is being a jumpoff being sought as "glamorous"? Not cool, nor cute, but I am sure their mamas are proud of them. Some jumpoffs are getting paid these days.

  • RINOLA

    Hey P.M. Crew!!!

    Why does this comes as a surprise to anyone?

  • cheeks8683

    hey pm clique!!! Its official, American Idol has cast the worst season ever!!! The only way I will watch an episode is if Micheal Jackson himself rose from the dead for one last performance before returning to the other side...that is all...

  • Anna

    cheeks8683 Says:

    hey pm clique!!! Its official, American Idol has cast the worst season ever!!! The only way I will watch an episode is if Micheal Jackson himself rose from the dead for one last performance before returning to the other side…that is all…
    ~~~~
    Hey cheeks. AI is trying to hype them up and say this is the best crew they ever picked. They are trying to down size the seating arrangements with the changing of judges. I only watched the last few yrs. to figure out what was in Paula's cup. :lol: That Dreadlock white Crystal girl is from my hometown.

  • Candi Apple

    I think its not about the jumpoff being his jumpoff its about the jumpoff who called her all night along with her friends. Honestly Monica is damaged enough (rather she knew he was a piece of sh*t or not). The jumpoff had nerve and audacity to add to the pain so let her help ease the pain. Damn bad enough that girl had to deal with a cheating salute type of man everyday but she had to make an emotional choice to let him go.

    The last thing she should needs to deal with is some trick calling her all night harrassing her. That jumpoff felt like it was ok to degrade this woman all night long. She deserves her full share of punishment too. If she don't get fired she would not suffer the consiquences of her actions and her behavior will continue. Now If Monica calls her job and informs her employee of what took place during work hours she will "get fired". Perhaps the next time this will teach her not to go after an innocent bystander in your whore like ways. That was Monica's family and those are monica's kids. How dare she do such a thing. #thatsall

  • FloridaChick813

    Hey everybody!!!!!!!

    Im :pray: for you Monica!

    Relationships gone wrong are never easy, no matter how hard you try to sound positive. I can hear her heart breaking with every word.

  • cheeks8683

    @ anna hey girl! I think Crystal is actally decent out of the bunch. I think she will win this year

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    Anybody watching Real Housewives Orange County Reunion Show?

  • Anna

    Candi Apple Says:

    I think its not about the jumpoff being his jumpoff its about the jumpoff who called her all night along with her friends. Honestly Monica is damaged enough (rather she knew he was a piece of sh*t or not). The jumpoff had nerve and audacity to add to the pain so let her help ease the pain. Damn bad enough that girl had to deal with a cheating salute type of man everyday but she had to make an emotional choice to let him go.

    The last thing she should needs to deal with is some trick calling her all night harrassing her. That jumpoff felt like it was ok to degrade this woman all night long. She deserves her full share of punishment too. If she don’t get fired she would not suffer the consiquences of her actions and her behavior will continue. Now If Monica calls her job and informs her employee of what took place during work hours she will “get fired”. Perhaps the next time this will teach her not to go after an innocent bystander in your whore like ways. That was Monica’s family and those are monica’s kids. How dare she do such a thing. #thatsall
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    You said a mouth full. But I do get it. If a jumpoff is calling you from her J O B on company time, yes by all means blast her azz. :lol:
    :offtopic: We have a city worker here who is fighting to get her job back after making a personal call while working. She was on the company phone trying to make a deal to purchase a "Hummer". It was a 47 minute call. :wtf: She was probably tying up a line from incoming calls.(Glad she was not a 911 operater). FYI, she is claiming that it's discrimination because she is black, whatever. She had previous writeups. Will my tax dollars be paying for her new Hummer after the law suit?

  • Anna

    Ms.kaylamomma Says:

    Anybody watching Real Housewives Orange County Reunion Show?
    ~
    Thanks for the 411. I changed the channel. I was letting the tv watch me. :lol:

  • Anna

    cheeks8683 Says:

    @ anna hey girl! I think Crystal is actally decent out of the bunch. I think she will win this year
    ~~~~~~~
    Hubby and I were talking about her earlier, he doesn't know who she is and found out there was a local on AI this yr. I filled him in on her background. I do think she is good, but don't want play favs. But it is what it is. She is different. The look, the talent and she is a white girl. :lol:

  • Candi Apple

    Not a mouth full just an introduction to carpal tunnel. Does Sandra Rose have charachter limitation?

  • Anna

    Candi Apple Says:

    Not a mouth full just an introduction to carpal tunnel. Does Sandra Rose have charachter limitation?
    ~~~~~
    No limits. I did not mean it that way. I meant you were telling it like it is. It gave me a different out look. :lol: Thanks for your comment.

  • Anna

    Anna Says:

    Ms.kaylamomma Says:

    Anybody watching Real Housewives Orange County Reunion Show?
    ~~~~~~~
    Vicki needs something. Not sure what it is. Maybe stay out of the sun, don't drink and is she a smoker. She looks like she needs a scarf around her neck instead of diamonds. How old is she?

  • Anna

    To add. Why does Slade, look like the majority of the time only his left eye blinks? :lol:

  • Candi Apple

    Aww anna That was my attempt at a joke. Should have added the rofl emoticon. Damn my bad. Sometimes I forget that we typing. I have a dry wit. Sometimes I can make a flat out joke most of the time its a hit or miss. LOL

    I keep my friends laughing but they tell me don't joke to new people

  • trynabeme

    Soooooooo I'm chillin' on FB when all of a sudden NB post an update talkin' 'bout dis ish! O_O

    So I HAD ta come thru....

    Mo, keep ya head up & God Bless!

  • cheeks8683

    I read on another blog which shall remain nameless that the jump off was calling monica along with her friends giggling and ish amoung other things....Now if this is indeed true and the side chick was calling monica how classless is that? She needs to let Rocko go because he obviously has poor decision making skills if he his fooling around with silly broads who have nothing else better to due then to call and harass grown folk *smh*...Or better yet she might wanna check the local high school because only girls do that ish.. I can't stand it when females do that ish!!!! How old are we???

  • ajonesy

    no gretchen didnt just say SHANIQUA ... wtf

  • ajonesy

    @ trynabeme

    was that me? are u on my list or something? lmao

  • Anna

    Candi Apple Says:

    Aww anna That was my attempt at a joke. Should have added the rofl emoticon. Damn my bad. Sometimes I forget that we typing. I have a dry wit. Sometimes I can make a flat out joke most of the time its a hit or miss. LOL

    I keep my friends laughing but they tell me don’t joke to new people
    ~~~~~~
    :lol: My hubby is just now getting my lame jokes as he begins to spend more time with my daddy. He told me, "now I see where you get your jokes from. :lol: Some things are sometimes just inside family jokes. Or just jokes that they don't know that we are really laughing at them but not with them :lol:

  • Quitta

    Oo I forgot the reunion for Orange County was on.

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    I know her heart is broken right now, but this too shall pass. The relationship was not a waste because it produced two precious children. Monica appears to be in such a place right now that she doesn't even fit with him anymore. She is a strong, accomplished, mature woman. She deserves a man that will cherish her and I know she will have that. She is still young and has plenty of time to find Mr. Right. He's out there. Love and hugs to her. I pray that God gives her peace right now.

  • Daisy

    what up PM crew (that is if anybody is still around) Had homework to do 2night. I saw some of the OC reunion show. I like Vicki's hustle but she loves to throw stones then be the victim. She thinks its ok for her to talk junk to the men but the men cant say anything back.

  • cutiepie32

    Still Standing in stores March 23,2010 make sure ya'll go out and cop that.

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    I am sooo glad everyone who has not been through this is sooooooooo quick to call out the next mofo. I swear some folks life are just theeeee best.... credit and all!!!! :woot:

    :rolleyes: Last time i checked Monica and everyone else on this board are human.........soooo humans make mistakes(monica making the wrong choice in a man is what i am talking about)....... i get sooooooooooo dayum tired of people sayin......... well she should have done this and done that....RIIIGHHHTTT... when people are going through it...just listen instead of tryin to throw stones witcho holy azz!!!! uggggggggggghhhh

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    Annnnnnnnnnnd it's just like a mofo to say ohhh my man would never and he would not take it there because he loves me and puts me first and pays my bills and put me through school and when we go put to eat he pays and when this and that.......blah...blah.. LMAO......right!!!!!!!!!!

  • Nthabi

    :coffee:

    .

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    *go out to eat*

  • yellamama

    Now Monica can find a handsome man with class instead of this one who was a mouth-breather with a constant frown on his face. Rocko alwyas looked weird standing next to Monica. On to better things....Monica is young, rich, and beautiful with two handsome boys...the possibilities are endless for her!

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    I'm so proud of Mo. :(

  • Anna

    Sandra Rose Says:

    I’m so proud of Mo
    ~~~~~~~~~~
    Ditto. I think most of us got tired of him stepping on her toes. A parent can be a parent w/out being in the home. It's all of us males or females that have to learn to co parent. Kids need their parents in ther lives. Sometimes even if it's a bad parent. A bad parent allows a chid to know "I don't want to be like you".

  • whatdoesitmatter

    I'm sure they'll work it out just fine, whether together or not. She's a mother and a good one from what I saw on the show. Her job is to do what's best for her kids whether she likes it or not. There's no doubt she won't bash him or drag him through the mud because she loves her boys. Plus she doesn't need to. Her babies will peep their father's hold card all on their own and it'll be their chose to fool with him or not.

    One monkey don't stop no show.

  • mgrimesii

    Well Monica you can come on home to me I gotcha.

  • NubianJ

    I don't understand all the praise Mo's getting. She was with a ain't shit nigga because she's a ain't shit broad. She knew that nigga wasn't worth the shit on the bottom of her shoe but she took him in. Now she's hurt? Sorry but you cause your own pain and misery. On top of that you got two kids with this fool. Women y'all need to stop breeding with these buffoons because he told you he love you especially if he showed you what he was about. It shouldn't be this complicated but women are always in denile........

  • http://twitter.com/ChaiLife Yadda Yadda

    @ Intense

    Usually you are a bit too much for me to handle, but on this topic I 100% agree with you.

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  • lexdiamonz

    Monica always seems to date "beneath" her i mean it must be true that black women love bad i.e. (wanksta) dudes because i could never picture them to he seems borderline illiterate, face facts one you play house with a nicca and accept that type lifestyle HE WILL NEVER COMMIT old saying why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free speaks volume monica you dont need him let the welfare feed him he gave you 2 beautiful babies and you are STILL a role model now put all those feelings in an album and put these R&B (rap and bullshit) hoes in their place

  • Tasha

    Hang in there Monica. This guy has alot to learn obviously. Stay strong and love your kids which is all that matters and keep on pushin..ole boy has really messed up big time..

  • free

    as much as i clown mo, something about this saddens me.

  • free

    leapyearpisces Says: One thing to sleep with that woman’s man..that’s already low…but to keep calling her and harass her to tell her about it….that’s evil….

    ***************************************

    no ma'am. that's called DOING HER A FAVOR.

  • gypsyeyes

    All that I have to say about this is that reality TV gives ppl a chance to see their relationships from the outside.We see that these relationships don't work after it has been exposed to America but it's really being exposed to the couple. They get to see for themselves what everyone else is seeing and saying to them. I'm sure that she has heard from ppl that he isn't right for her or that she is too good for him. We don't want to listen when we love someone. We also don't want to hear that our loved one is having an affair. This was an outlet for exposure. I'm not saying that I agree with realtiy TV but allows them to see what we see.I'm sure that she saw herself as the family oriented person and didn't see him much on these episodes being involved. I wish you the best Mo. There should never be an "I told you so" from anyone because you had to see it for yourself. I was that age when I had to go through it alone with two kids I just didn't have the resources that you have. This too shall pass.

  • free

    Cinderella Says: She should have thrown in the towel when called her his “peoples” on 106 & Park a few years ago. Aint no way a man is calling me his “peoples”.

    *********************************************

    basically. that really stood out. now i'm starting to believe the person who said maybe monica wasn't the main chick (she was the MEAL chick).

  • free

    pyt305 Says:

    Sandra Rose Says:

    When Mo gives me the word, I’m putting the chick’s job # on here so you guys can call her job and harass her like she harassed Mo.

    *************************************************

    Im not 16 anymore so that excludes me in the prank calling

    *************************************************

    basically. the "chick battles" are so dumb. meanwhile, rocko will be kicking it and laughing from the sidelines.

  • browniz106

    Congrats to Sandra for the exclusive!!!

    Monica...Hang in there my sistah. God has a purpose for everything he does.

  • Danielle84

    crzasallgetout Says:

    IM is A NUT!! You try to read past her post but she’s some crazy you can’t help but to read them. I’d hate to meet the guy she’s about to marry. Her kind of crazy can’t be hidden for too long. She’s the kind of person that would push someone in front of an approaching train.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl: You are hilarious!

  • QuettaV

    Krysi J Says:

    that bytch deserves zero props for this break up…please don’t give her the satisfaction. Rocko is the one to blame not the next bytch, or the old bytch, or the new bytch, or the 5th bytch, nor the trifling bytch either….ITS ROCKO…ROCKO!!

    ____________________________________________________________

    T'M DEAD AND WILL NOT RISE!!!!!! SOMEONE PLEASE PLAN MY FUNERAL. I WANT QUITTA TO SING PRECIOUS LORD.

  • Kat

    I always thought Monica could do better than Rocko anyway. Hopefully she is done with the thugs now and will find her a classy man that will love her and her children the way she is supposed to be loved. Keep your head up Mo. Time heals all wounds. And I bet the jumpoff ain't got nothing on Mo! That's how it seems to work...they cheat with women that is much beneath the "wifey".

  • biglegs36

    Rocko, your jumpoff/sideline or whom ever she was. Will no longer want you, now that you and MO are done. For what, ain't no excitement in screwing a brokedown nicca who just broke up with his CELEB girlfriend. See bythes like the thrill of the drama! He is no longer in a relationship so the drama is gone. Now who is she going to call? So see Rocko, you really didn't hurt nobody but yourself! Salute!

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  • LilMissRed

    WOWSERS!!! @ some of the comments.

    THAT.IS.All.

    [[EXITS]]

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    Mo keep your head up and please don't stoop to this chick's level. Some of us felt you deserved much better than Rocko. Pleas econtinue to handle yourself with class because he is he is the one that brought this chick into your life so even though she's callin playin he is the one to blame! So please continue to be the great mother that you are and focus on your kids and career!

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    SMH...See what happens you when you act like there's no tomorrow?

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    Tiny take note........

  • anti-PC

    I love her shirt!

  • MIZZ.I_REP_ATL

    I'M ALL LATE!!!! I agree with the person that says her statement sounds as if sumone died. TRUE! I appreciate Mo for coming forward, and wanting to make her fans/media/bloggers aware of the situation before it got out of hand thru these bloggers. But to me, I feel as if she owed no explanation to any1. Her words/the issue are still going to be misconstrued by her coming forward or not.

    --Anyway, GOODMORNTING ALL!!!!

  • intensemocha

    I DON'T CARE WHAT YALL THINK-CRAZY MY ARSE

    I'VE NEVER SEEN THE INSIDE OF A JAIL CELL OR POLICE CAR YA DIG, RAISED A GROWN SON WHOSE NEVER ENDURED THE ABOVE EITHER, GRADUATED FROM COLLEGE, AND I'VE BEEN EMPLOYED SINCE I WAS 14, AND I GO TO CHURCH EERRRY SUNDAY, SING IN THE CHOIR TOO.

    JUST CAUSE YALL WEAK HEFFAS RUNNING AROUND CHASING THE JUMP OFF AND ARGUING WITH A HOE-THAT'S YALL BUSINESS

    BUT I KNOW FOR SHO-IF YOU BASH A NICCA IN THE HEAD A HOE WILL THINK TWICE BEFORE SHE STEP TO YA

    I POST MY SHIAT AND DON'T EVEN CARE WHAT YALL THINK-AT THE END OF THE DAY WHEN I GO HOME NARNE ONE OF YALL IS THERE WITH ME YA DIG?!?!

    YEAH I'M 100% SANE TILL YOU TRY TO FUG WITH ME THEN I'M 1000% INSANE AND 90 DEGREES TO THE LEFT-YEP DAMN SURE IS

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    I hope Monica takes a page out of Elin's (Tiger's wife) book and stands by her man. We all make mistakes.

    Wish them luck.

  • Krysi J

    Goodmorning....Hope everyone is well, happy FRIDAY :grin:

    :ontopic:

    To those who state we are all human, this is true....we know right from wrong, and nobody can deny that they knew from the start the type of dude they were dealing with because their were signs from jump...weather you chose to ignore them or not....like lets say ex girlfriends still calling the phone claiming to be friends, all kinda of female company day in and day out whom he considers homegirls, or phone calls he trys to take in the corner of the house, texting in silence while you watch tv, coming in your house all times of the night not just on saturdays after he goes out with friends....or the "im too tired, Im just gon chill at my crib tonight", and of course the straight up evidence you found and chose to ignore or FORGIVE him over prematurely. Yes ladies we are human, but making the same mistakes becomes redundant...and excuses get lame.....just LOVE YOURSELF, more than any MAN, good or bad and you'll never settle for less again. Thats all Im saying....when you learn your lesson the first time...don't repeat the course, get ya grades up, and pass the CLASS before you FLUNK OUT. SMH....niccahs just ain worth it....they get away with fukking murder now a days already...pre-marital sex, children out of wedlock, your heart without committment, open access to your home, vehicle, and family without marriage, DAMN...can't they at least be faithful??? I guess we brought it on ourselves...with desperations, some woman just can't take being without a man, no matter how bad he treats her. its not cool :sad: I'm tired of it...I don't want anybody i can't have to myself...I share enough with the world.

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    AND I GO TO CHURCH EERRRY SUNDAY, SING IN THE CHOIR TOO

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    :blink: :blink:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    @KRYSI: I FEEL YA MAMA!!!!

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    That daggone Pandora is JAMMIN'. Haven't heard this Jagged Edge song in forever....

    Baby you can leave, you can leave, you can leave
    Cause I've been tired of you, even you tired of me
    Don't forget one thing, thing
    Drop, drop those keys
    Cause I'm not trying to hold you back
    So go ahead with all of that
    And if you really wanna go, you can go
    You already know there's the door, there's the door
    It's too bad if you're not for sure, not for sure
    Cause I ain't wanna do it like this
    But I'm losing every ounce of self-control

    You're just too scandalous
    You couldn't handle this
    Give me back my rings
    Give me back my things
    It's over
    You kept listening to them haters
    So here's your walking papers

    This is over
    Give me my things back
    You can keep the headaches
    Just give me my keys back
    You ain't gotta lie no more
    We ain't seeing eye to eye, no more
    Just give me my cds
    You can keep the movies
    Ain't no need to call me
    I'm movin' on completely

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  • Krysi J

    And This girlfriend boyfriend crap does not compare to actual marriage....Im not being hypocritical when I agree with the Bible that states "thou shalt not commit adultry" Marriage is recognized in the Bible and given merrit, reLATIONShips are not! So, unfortunately we women take the risk of being hurt by doing everything in a marriage without the ceremony but we look like fools claiming the title of wife if we still check the status of single on our W2's...you can't be mad at another bytch for wanting your problems....hell is it really a loss, to kick a loser to the curb??? NOW IF YOU ARE MARRIED....then you have the right to make decisions based on your wedding VOWS and whatever you endure is entirely up to you.....I also feel that a woman who sleeps with a MARRIED man is nothing more than a female with low self esteem and no morals...but thats just me, I don't expect everyone to agree with that. When everybody's single hell....its all fair game, that what females forget, WHY THE HELL you beef with a bytch about a SINGLE MAN??...you're not the wife until you are MARRIED. shyt SWALLOW that...it iz what it iz.

  • MIZZ.I_REP_ATL

    Go Head KrysiJ, I feel YA GIRL!!!!
    "but making the same mistakes becomes redundant…and excuses get lame…..just LOVE YOURSELF, more than any MAN, good or bad and you’ll never settle for less again. Thats all Im saying….when you learn your lesson the first time…don’t repeat the course, get ya grades up, and pass the CLASS before you FLUNK OUT...."---I like this. (Dumb H*oes take notes!!!!)
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    I feel the same way and my friends don't understand my decisions because unlike me, they can't LIVE w/out a man and feel satisfied if he/she treats her right or not. They think in the long wrong there mate will change and agree to marriage to find out ain't ish change. I refuse to live the way my friends do and to have ur kids to experience the pain, the kids suffer just as much as the adults and they dumb asses don't even realize it. Sorry girl, but u SAID THAT!

  • geezy

    I ain't buying this propaganda. This smells like a publicity stunt for her new album! This is not the first time he has cheated prolly and I am sure she is not surprised. She knows the type of man she has so she knows hoes and issues are the cost of doing business with a THUG!

  • Krysi J

    females put themselves in the dark with that shyt..."oh Im the main lady he do this for me, he do that for me, she don't get shyt"....why not see it for what it iz?..."Im better than her, she's a just a fukk" NOOOOoooo, he's fukking her and U.... #thatisall. See shyt for what it iz and stop tryna sugarcoat everything a niccah do dirty...that way you won't feel so stupid when you except all that SHYT and a niccah still break ya heart.

  • http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

    Man, I just don't care™ Says:

    I hope Monica takes a page out of Elin’s (Tiger’s wife) book and stands by her man. We all make mistakes.

    Wish them luck.

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    why would mo stand by her man? thats not her husband she is not obligated to him at all!

    anyhoo!

    intensemocha: AND I GO TO CHURCH EERRRY SUNDAY, SING IN THE CHOIR TOO.

    All of this and you still need jesus!

  • Krysi J

    @Yavonne, I LOOOOOOOoooooove that song...OMG!!

  • Krysi J

    I feel the same way and my friends don’t understand my decisions because unlike me, they can’t LIVE w/out a man and feel satisfied if he/she treats her right or not. They think in the long wrong there mate will change and agree to marriage to find out ain’t ish change. I refuse to live the way my friends do and to have ur kids to experience the pain, the kids suffer just as much as the adults and they dumb asses don’t even realize it. Sorry girl, but u SAID THAT!
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    GURL....we are >>>>>>>>>>here<<<<<<<<<<<< on SO many levels

  • Kat

    "Angry Black Female" starring Intensemocha. :grin:

  • nevesnanna

    I haven't read all the comments, so if this was already said..forgive me...but has anyone stopped to think that maybe ROCKO had something to do with the 'jumpoff' calling Monica? Maybe this was HIS way out. Maybe he just didn't have the balls to WALK on his own...someone by hapchance isn't just going to get a hold of Monica's cell phone number. Maybe he got sloppy, fell asleep and didn't lock his phone OR maybe he set the whole thing up himself. If...and I don't know the extent of her relationship..but maybe she just wouldn't let go. The internet opens up a new world for these 'celebs' and your business wasn't easily that accessible, nor could someone so easily put you on blast and embarrass you.

    You can't give advice to nobody about nothing when your house ain't in order. SORRY. But I can sing 'leave him girl' and 'be strong girl' and 'everything to me' anthems all day, but what sense does it make when your situation is raggedy.

    Some women just need to say FUGG it...and deal with the only man that won't disappoint you. GOD.

  • EssenceofU

    Wow, a lot happened in 24 hours huh?

    Monica, keep pressing forward and don't even listen to the naysayers. As my mama told me, a man can only do what you allow! It's that simple. You can give your love to the fullest but if its not returned, let it go. It's the hardest thing you'll ever do but it can be done. As someone said earlier, being happy is the best revenge. Don't worry about the man or the women, your pain will cease, the love you see in your boys eyes will ease it day by day. Seek God's guidance and he will get you through it. Remember your words in the song "whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger", so true! You and your babies will prevail, Trust!

  • Krysi J

    intensemocha: AND I GO TO CHURCH EERRRY SUNDAY, SING IN THE CHOIR TOO.

    All of this and you still need jesus!

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    JEEEEEEEEEEEEEESUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUssssssssss!!! :rofl:

    :rofl:

  • EssenceofU

    Mo', and I will be picking up your cd on the 23rd! Just sit back and get ready for all those blessings you about to receive!

  • Krysi J

    Some women just need to say FUGG it…and deal with the only man that won’t disappoint you. GOD.
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    Point.Blank.Period.

    Let him have it..you'll be in a better situation before you know it.

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    KRYSI PREPARE THE ROYAL BAGGAGE CAUSE I'M BOUT TO GONE UP YONDER!!!!! I AM SOOOO DEAD AND GONE! YOU CAN SING AT MY FUNERAL!!! I WANT TO BE BURIED IN MY NEFERTITI COSTUME!

    MIZZDALLAS YOU HAVE MADE MY DAY!!!!

  • intensemocha

    WHO DO YOU THINK HAS KEPT ME OUT OF JAIL THIS LONG BOO

    SWEETIE YOU KNOW I DON'T EVEN FUG WITH YOU AND YOU STAY SNIFFIN MY ARSE

    HONESTLY I THINK YOU HAVE A CRUSH ON ME, BUT SORRY TO TELL YOU I AM STRICTLY DICKLY AND I'M NOT A CHEATER

    SORRY TO DISAPPOINT YOU :(

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @Mizz Dallas
    "I hope Monica takes a page out of Elin’s (Tiger’s wife) book and stands by her man. We all make mistakes.

    Wish them luck.

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    why would mo stand by her man? thats not her husband she is not obligated to him at all!

    anyhoo!
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    Why would her being "married" or not be relevant?

    Anyway, she clearly thought he loved her and she loved him. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone deserves second chances. Maybe you feel differently but I respect that.

  • MS.G

    Good morning all...just something quick...I for one don't feel sorry for her at all...God has shown and is still blessing Monica with devine favor...I feel sorry for Rocko...smh...it's obvious that he doesn't love himself...so why expect him to love Monica.
    @Krysi J....honey ur absolutely correct...men get caught and never own up to there mistakes...they just walk right back in the door like nothing ever happened. I also really can't be mad at the chick...I think she's petty but what-r-u-gonna-do! Apparently she got the girls number out of his phone...i'm also sure that Rocko and Lil Ms.Five&dime have had many agruements about Mo...come on now...she used up all her energy to call this girl...honestly, I think this has been going on for awhile and Monica finally got fed up...I'm saying...remember when her Rocko went to dinner on her reality show...and his phone start jumping...ain't nobody peep that look she gave him but me...
    Keep ur head Mo like ur nose is bleeding...

  • nevesnanna

    ...and now that I think about it...why do people feel as though they need to put out a statement with regard to breaking up with a boyfriend? Even though some say "fiance"...that word is overused and overrated. You not gonna be my fiance for ten years...S-O-R-R-Y. But WHOTFCares? I saw Elin's name on here somewhere and I don't even remember her GIVING A STATEMENT and her shyt was WAY more ridiculous than breaking up with a VH1HITWONDER rapper. DGMW..I like Monica. She's one of the only female artists that can actually SANG...but come on girl. You personify class and not only do you deserve BETTER...you can DO BETTER.

  • Kitrina

    why does Charles think he has the tea on the whole situation and what straight man says tea in his posts?

  • Sheena215

    I NEVER SAW MONICA IN CONCERT AND I HAVE NEVER MET HER BUT I HAVE SOOOO MUCH RESPECT FOR HER SHE IS A GREAT WOMAN OF GOD. SHE SEEMS VERY EDUCATED, SMART, BUSINESS SAVY, AND MOST OF ALL A GREAT MOTHER AND A GREAT WOMAN OF GOD. I DONT MEAN TO MAKE IT SOUND LIKE IM SWEATING HER OR ANYTHING BUT I JUST LOVE WHEN OUR PEOPLE HAVE SOME SENSE, CLASS, MORALS, VALUES ABOUT THEM KNOWING THEIR WORTH IN CHIRST JESUS. MONICA IS DEFINITELY A ROLE MODEL FOR YOUNG GIRLS EVERYWHERE. WATCHING HER SHOW I ALWAYS SAW HER ACTING CLASSY AND I LOVED THE EPISODE WHEN SHE SANG WITH HER MOTHER IN CHURCH. YOU GO GIRL AND I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST AND I KNOW THAT GOD WILL SEND YOU SOMEONE ELSE, A MAN OF GOD AND SOMEONE WHO IS IN HIS WILL FOR YOU. YOUR FAN SHEENA215

  • The Original MsG

    Well, when it's all said and done Monica has to move forward for her children and self.

    I hope Rocko realizes that he will reap what he sows. Matter of fact, all black men that put extracurricular sex before their relatioships/families will.

  • Kitrina

    what a 2 year fiance, it don't take 2 years to plan a wedding they ain't Charles and Diana, and I bet they didn't take 2 years

  • laterthannever

    "YEAH I’M 100% SANE TILL YOU TRY TO FUG WITH ME THEN I’M 1000% INSANE AND 90 DEGREES TO THE LEFT-YEP DAMN SURE IS"

    I have to agree with you on this one. Call it crazy, call it wrong, but I would walk away from my man without hesitation - but I might have to step over him because he'd probably be out cold on the ground. I've got good aim.

    I'm glad to hear Monica is in LA. She needs some sunshine and superficial b.s. as a temporary distraction. She doesn't need to postpone her release, simply re-release 60 days later with 4 bonus tracks. There's nothing better than a sad/angry/strong love song! That's the kind of song her voice was made for. Similar to Keyshia Cole. Some voices are made to sing about pain.

  • Krysi J

    KRYSI PREPARE THE ROYAL BAGGAGE
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    :rofl: !!!......... :rofl: I love when he says that!!! Coming to America still the shyt!

  • Krysi J

    Anyway, she clearly thought he loved her and she loved him. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone deserves second chances. Maybe you feel differently but I respect that.

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    Yea I feel differently...cuz I sure az hell don't wanna MARRY a man who can't even be faithful in a RELATIONSHIP.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KRYSI
    "Anyway, she clearly thought he loved her and she loved him. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone deserves second chances. Maybe you feel differently but I respect that."

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    "Yea I feel differently…cuz I sure az hell don’t wanna MARRY a man who can’t even be faithful in a RELATIONSHIP."
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    Ok, I can understand that. At the same time, everyone has their flaws.

    Some people don't give up on someone after years of being together because they found out about one of their flaws. I hope Monica is one of those people. They clearly cared for each other a great deal at some point.

  • Krysi J

    CHEATING is a big azz flaw. And dudes don't except that kinda flaw off na'an chick...especially not the kind they probably didn't want to be with in the first place.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KRYSI
    "CHEATING is a big azz flaw. And dudes don’t except that kinda flaw off na’an chick…especially not the kind they probably didn’t want to be with in the first place."
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    Hey, if we could CHOOSE we would ALL want for our significant other's flaws to be "minor." We don't have that option though.

    I won't contest that men don't view it differently because they do. At the same time men and women are NOT identical so why would anyone expect for men and women to be treated in an "identical" manner to each other?

    That's beside the point tho, the question is whether or not Monica feels she should throw away her umpteen year relationship because of a mistake. I hope she realizes that sometimes chit happens and sometimes it's not worth starting over. Maybe it's just me tho.

  • BamaBeauty

    It takes a strong woman to walk away....this doesnt just happen overnight. She already knew his time was coming. Monica, on to the next....

    More fuel for more love songs...God is so clever!

  • Krysi J

    Hey, if we could CHOOSE we would ALL want for our significant other’s flaws to be “minor.” We don’t have that option though.

    I won’t contest that men don’t view it differently because they do. At the same time men and women are NOT identical so why would anyone expect for men and women to be treated in an “identical” manner to each other?

    That’s beside the point tho, the question is whether or not Monica feels she should throw away her umpteen year relationship because of a mistake. I hope she realizes that sometimes chit happens and sometimes it’s not worth starting over. Maybe it’s just me tho.

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    :eek:

    hey....its your life and your shared man boo...you and whoever can enjoy...just don't let him leave you first, because usually the man doesn't look for you to come back....they end up wifing the bytch who takes nothing off them.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KRYSI
    "Hey, if we could CHOOSE we would ALL want for our significant other’s flaws to be “minor.” We don’t have that option though.

    I won’t contest that men don’t view it differently because they do. At the same time men and women are NOT identical so why would anyone expect for men and women to be treated in an “identical” manner to each other?

    That’s beside the point tho, the question is whether or not Monica feels she should throw away her umpteen year relationship because of a mistake. I hope she realizes that sometimes chit happens and sometimes it’s not worth starting over. Maybe it’s just me tho.

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    hey….its your life and your shared man boo…you and whoever can enjoy…just don’t let him leave you first, because usually the man doesn’t look for you to come back….they end up wifing the bytch who takes nothing off them."
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    ¿¿¿ da hell ???

    "(My) shared man" How in the world did you come to that conclusion???? Naw boo, Ima a dude and don't have CHIT to do with no nucca.

    Anyway, more than likely Monica will take him back. Chit happens, Monica's old enough to know that.

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    spoken like a serial cheater

  • Krysi J

    “(My) shared man” How in the world did you come to that conclusion???? Naw boo, Ima a dude and don’t have CHIT to do with no nucca.

    Anyway, more than likely Monica will take him back. Chit happens, Monica’s old enough to know that.

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    aw hell, no wonder we're having this damn conversation...no woman in their right mind......OK, now this makes total sense. ITS your world sweetie, men usually do whatever they want anyway.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KRYSI
    "aw hell, no wonder we’re having this damn conversation…no woman in their right mind……OK, now this makes total sense. ITS your world sweetie, men usually do whatever they want anyway."
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    Come on now, everybody does what they want. Men and women. All I'm saying is that Monica doesn't need to act too rash here.

    She know she still love that dude and he made a mistake. Accept it and move on.

  • Mrs. Wimberly

    I love Monica....he was a loser anyway. I always thought she was too good for him.

    Keep your head up Mo!

  • Krysi J

    She know she still love that dude and he made a mistake. Accept it and move on.
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    actually im glad to have a man's point of view....can I ask why it iz men expect women to just "accept it and move on", why men don't show their women respect, and do me have the ability to love someone truthfully as much as a woman will love them?? The love women have for their men would never allow them to cheat and YES i know their are women who cheat, but those are usually women who either know nothing about love, or have been broken in a previous relationship.......why is it men continue to take their women thru this shyt, without any significant excuse except for that tired azz "Im a man" shyt!!....*clears throat* if you have the time to answer of course.

  • Krysi J

    *they're*

    uggghhhhh...i've been fukking up GRAMMAR all day!!!

  • onlinefan

    both of them have new material coming out - so after seeing some people posting that this might be a publicity stunt i have to wonder....who would advise them to fake a break up to sell records?

    it might increase for monica for sympathy sales, but it would do nothing for the salute.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KRYSI
    "actually im glad to have a man’s point of view….can I ask why it iz men expect women to just “accept it and move on”, why men don’t show their women respect, and do me have the ability to love someone truthfully as much as a woman will love them?? The love women have for their men would never allow them to cheat and YES i know their are women who cheat, but those are usually women who either know nothing about love, or have been broken in a previous relationship…….why is it men continue to take their women thru this shyt, without any significant excuse except for that tired azz “Im a man” shyt!!….*clears throat* if you have the time to answer of course."
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    For a couple of reasons. Now, are you asking to try to gain understanding, or are you asking to dispute what I say?

  • Krysi J

    For a couple of reasons. Now, are you asking to try to gain understanding, or are you asking to dispute what I say?

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    No, Im asking to try and understand....cuz that excuse of being a man is too tired to except...originality please.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KRYSI
    "No, Im asking to try and understand….cuz that excuse of being a man is too tired to except…originality please."
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    If you ask the same question and continuously get the same answer, do you think MAYBE there is SOME truth to it?? I mean EVERY DUDE has the SAME LIE? Think about that for a second.

    We can't even coordinate for our boys to lie and cover our azz with our women but we can ALL get on the same page for that lie? C'mon Krysi!

    And NO that isn't the ONLY reason but yes, that plays into it (THAT = because we are men). We are scientifically hornier than women, can't get pregnant AND won't have a social stigma for sleeping around. The BIGGER question is "why not?"

    There are SO many reasons. Have you heard the expression "Don't put all your eggs in one basket?" Sometimes you are just trying to see if you can bed another woman. Sometimes the oppurtunity for sex just presents itself.

    The bottom line is that we TRULY don't understand how much it hurts yall because we TRULY aren't trying to hurt you. In our eyes it was JUST sex and didn't mean anything and we GENIUNELY BELIEVE AND MEAN THAT!

    And before you ask NO women can't do the same thing. Women DON'T VIEW IT AS JUST SEX so we already know if a woman sleeps with someone else more than likely she had REAL feelings for that person.

  • http://www.AVCTravel.com/MishaMiller mzsexsislim

    LMBO @ rjk8 Says:

    I thought a separation was when you were married. That nygga just got his clothes and play station 3 and left. There is no need to split assets. “I’m outta here
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    u must REALLY know HIM! cause that was bout EXACTLY wth he did if that, he is SO arogant that he may have said he would buy it all NEW... (SN) his live stream said he got a MILLIANNNNNNNNNNNN (salute) ROFL... also to who said they didnt see it coming.. Well think again..

    For 1 he been need to realize that he didnt have the average chic.. n the are in the same game, so of course what he does will get back to her! Hell I have only lived in da "A" for 2 yrs now and whenever u mention his name to some one the 1st think they say "is oh he mess with, my homegirl,cousin friend (LMAO) etc...

    Also Mo is tryn to make her come back, and she dont have time for the XTRA @ ALL, (TRUST THAT).... she is bout her music, children, god n FAM...

    In my personal opinion it may not just be about the sideline HOE...he gave these (crakers TMI on the live stream about what he does..)n she is not about to let stupid $hit ruin her.. her fans mean more to her than an NICCA!!!!!!

  • saucy1

    If you ask the same question and continuously get the same answer, do you think MAYBE there is SOME truth to it?? I mean EVERY DUDE has the SAME LIE? Think about that for a second.

    We can’t even coordinate for our boys to lie and cover our azz with our women but we can ALL get on the same page for that lie? C’mon Krysi!

    And NO that isn’t the ONLY reason but yes, that plays into it (THAT = because we are men). We are scientifically hornier than women, can’t get pregnant AND won’t have a social stigma for sleeping around. The BIGGER question is “why not?”

    There are SO many reasons. Have you heard the expression “Don’t put all your eggs in one basket?” Sometimes you are just trying to see if you can bed another woman. Sometimes the oppurtunity for sex just presents itself.

    The bottom line is that we TRULY don’t understand how much it hurts yall because we TRULY aren’t trying to hurt you. In our eyes it was JUST sex and didn’t mean anything and we GENIUNELY BELIEVE AND MEAN THAT!

    And before you ask NO women can’t do the same thing. Women DON’T VIEW IT AS JUST SEX so we already know if a woman sleeps with someone else more than likely she had REAL feelings for that person.
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    BULLSHYT....ALL OF WHAT YOU JUST WROTE IS BULLSHYT

    Hopefully NO woman in her right mind buys this shyt. You cannot justify a man's reasons for cheating.

  • toosexy

    @intensemocha

    BIATCH COME THE FUG ON-ARE YOU FUGGIN KIDDING ME RIGHT
    NOW?!?!

    HOPEFULLY ROCKO CAN SLEEP WITH WHAT THE FUG HE DID AND WHAT HE LOSSED-A SINGLE NO MAN HAVING LOW SELF-ESTEEM HAVING BIATCH COULD GIVE TWO RATZ AZZ ABOUT MONICA, HER KIDS, AND THEIR FAMILY-THAT’S WHY SHE FUGGIN HIM

    YALL DUMB HEFFAS GIVE THESE BIATCHES TOO MUCH SHINE, MAKE EM TOO FUGGIN IMPORTANT, OR LIKE THEIR PUZZY REALLY MATTER

    EVERY TIME YOU MENTION THE NEXT BIATCH-YOU GIVE HER NANO SECOND MORE ATTENTION THAN SHE DESERVE

    MONICA KEEP IT CLASSY LIKE YOU DOING TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN AND WE ALL KNOW YOU ALL BLASTING THAT NICCA CAUSE YOU DON’T WANT TO DO WRONG BY YOUR CHILDREN’S FATHER WHICH IN THE END WOULD CAUSE YOUR CHILDREN HARM

    FUG A NUT RECEIVING HOE AND NEVER GIVE THAT BIATCH THE SATISFACTION THAT SHE CAUSED YOU PAIN-CAUSE SHE DIDN’T ROCKO DID AND LET THAT SHIAT EAT HIM UP FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE

    KEEP IT CLASSY MAMA & KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!

    WHAT THE HELL?

  • Krysi J

    The bottom line is that we TRULY don’t understand how much it hurts yall because we TRULY aren’t trying to hurt you. In our eyes it was JUST sex and didn’t mean anything and we GENIUNELY BELIEVE AND MEAN THAT!

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    what is the purpose for cheating on a woman OVER and OVER again.........or WITH THE SAME WOMAN then huh?? Cuz that sounds like a man torn between 2 different people to me and I would like to know the reason for that!!!???

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KRYSI
    "what is the purpose for cheating on a woman OVER and OVER again………or WITH THE SAME WOMAN then huh?? Cuz that sounds like a man torn between 2 different people to me and I would like to know the reason for that!!!???"
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    Ok, if we cheating over and over, then:

    A: we don't love you but like you enough to make you our "main" chick

    B: we CAN and we know you will take us back.

    C: the OTHER women provide something our main woman can't.

    If it's with the sSAME woman than we may have feeling for her or her sex is just really good/she a freak.

  • Krysi J

    Ok, if we cheating over and over, then:

    A: we don’t love you but like you enough to make you our “main” chick

    B: we CAN and we know you will take us back.

    C: the OTHER women provide something our main woman can’t.

    If it’s with the sSAME woman than we may have feeling for her or her sex is just really good/she a freak.

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    thanks for the confirmation that MONICA and women like her did and DO the right thing by kicking creeps that live by this shyt to the curb!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Krysi J

    and why would you even MAKE somebody your so called "main" lady, which is a bS title when you know you don't love her and don't plan to be faithful???!!! Why do yall lead people on like that?? And why do you suddenly decide to break people's hearts when you get tired of the routine??

    B: we CAN and we know you will take us back.
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    this I know, and Im sure its the reason why you wife the type of chick that won't take that shyt off of you...if you really like/love her that iz....meaning you have the will power to do right by someone you want, so AGAIN, why lead someone ON instead of leaving them to find someone better suited for them?

    C: the OTHER women provide something our main woman can’t.

    If it’s with the sSAME woman than we may have feeling for her or her sex is just really good/she a freak.

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    so would you rather the woman with good sex for a wife, or the poor lil unsuspecting so called "main" lady who doesn't satisfy you sexually.....and if you chose the main lady......how would you NOT CHEAT ON HER IF YOU ARE NOT GETTING GOOD SEX????!! AGAIN why do you lead people ON??

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KRYSI
    "so would you rather the woman with good sex for a wife, or the poor lil unsuspecting so called “main” lady who doesn’t satisfy you sexually…..and if you chose the main lady……how would you NOT CHEAT ON HER IF YOU ARE NOT GETTING GOOD SEX????!! AGAIN why do you lead people ON??"
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    I would rather the GOOD woman, regardless of her sexual prowess for my wife. It wouldn't be a problem if she wasn't good in bed she could learn. Better yet, we BOTH could learn some things.

    Why are you saying that I am leading people on? Or was that just rhetorical?

    All I'm saying is that men and women DO view sex differently. That's just the way it is. Women just think what we say is a bunch of bullshyt because THEY don't think that way. When a woman says "Oh I'm just like blah blah blah because women are like that" we BELIEVE you. That's the difference.

  • Krysi J

    Why are you saying that I am leading people on? Or was that just rhetorical?

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    rhetorical

    When a woman says “Oh I’m just like blah blah blah because women are like that” we BELIEVE you. That’s the difference.
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    not if we cheat you don't

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KRYSI
    "not if we cheat you don’t"
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    Babe, if a woman cheats, the relationship was already over because:

    A: She was in love with the other person and NOT in love with you anymore

    B: She sleeps around and you can't have a relationship with her because she is a liar and promiscuous

    Women generally don't sleep with someone just because they can and when they do it never "means nothing."

    Of course, should a man WANT a woman that is able to give her self away and have it "mean nothing?"

  • Peachizz

    When was this.. I was late.. No Monica/Rocko???? Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!

  • MzTee

    Monica will get through this. She has her faith, her children, her family and her true blue friends. She also has her music which will keep her busy and allow her to connect with her fans.

    Each day the pain will lessen and she'll wake up one day and be over the situation.

    This is just one step on the path of her journey to be the best Monica she can be.

  • ohpretty1

    Why are we having this pity party for Monica? I like her music and all but she simply isn't smart when it comes to the men. If #1, had the same qualities and treated you the same as the next, and so on...it's not the men, IT'S YOU. If you've been 'engaged' (you bought your ring) over 1.5 years yet having children, building homes, five years have passed and still no wedding, it's a joke and the joke is on you. Stop blaming the other chick and blame Rocko and Monica.

  • MissMarie

    :rolleyes: @Man, I just don't care: should a woman WANT a man that is able to give himself away and have it “mean nothing?” or "just sex?"
    @Krysi: You are 100% right. Ladies we need to wake up and stop accepting any and everything from a man that is not willing to put in the same work into a relationship and or marriage. It all boils down to morals and respect. If he cheats in a relationship then more than highly he will cheat in the marriage.

  • Krysi J

    B: She sleeps around and you can’t have a relationship with her because she is a liar and promiscuous

    Women generally don’t sleep with someone just because they can and when they do it never “means nothing.”

    Of course, should a man WANT a woman that is able to give her self away and have it “mean nothing?”

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    So you are seriously suggesting that women should except every bogus excuse men have for cheating on and yet men have the right as lets see "MEN" because that seems to be the only excuse to cut a female loose because of "premiscuos" behavior...and I noticed how when referring to the actions of a man its "cheating" but when you referred to the actions of a woman it became "promiscuos"..........yall gotta lotta nerve. As I said from the JUMP....Its your world boo, do whatever you want, MEN USUALLY DO!