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Recent studies have shown there are only three Black men for every 5 Black women in America -- and that number is dwindling.

Mass incarceration, HIV/AIDS, and gun violence are partly to blame for the shrinking pool of available Black men in America.

America has recently seen the largest shift in Black men coming out as ghey or bisexual.

By coming out as ghey, Black men feel like they belong to a growing movement that offers career advancement and financial rewards.

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Coming out as bisexual was probably a business decision for retired rapper-turned-podcaster Joe Budden who, at age 41, has seen the last of his rap career.

Budden's big reveal on Thursday generated more headlines than his rap records.


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Lil Nas X, a mediocre rapper at best, is still relevant - but only because he came out as LGBT+.

When all else fails, blame single Black women for the dwindling supply of available Black men.

In an article titled "Ways Single Mothers Destroy their sons," the author explained that "Speaking negatively about their father" is the single most damaging thing a mom can do to her son.

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At least 20% of Black men are in long-term relationships with white or non-Black women.

ESSENCE magazine published 7 reasons why Black men stopped approaching Black women.

"We can't win! Black women are wonderful (we know this) but somehow many of our clients often believe that dating a sister is no longer 'in style' for Black men," a professional matchmaker told ESSENCE.

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Youtuber and dating expert Kevin Samuels counsels a 27-year-old woman who is eager to win back her "high value" ex-husband.

The woman's high-value husband divorced her after telling her to seek therapy.

That's always a bad sign when a spouse or significant other advises a woman to seek professional help for her mental problems.

But it gets worse.

Kevin gets the caller to admit she is currently married to a man 25 years her senior.

The caller says he's a good provider who bought her a home. However, she wants her ex-husband back because he's a high-value man who's 15 years her senior. She adds that her ex is better looking than her current husband.

Needless to say, Kevin has very little patience for today's "modern woman" - as he calls narcissistic sociopaths who only consider their own selfish needs.

I fast forwarded to the woman's call below. But you can watch the full video here.
 

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Kevin Samuels booted reality TV personality Shekinah Jo off his show after she appeared on camera in total darkness.

"You gotta come into the light," he told her. But she refused, saying she feared he would rate her a "negative three."

"Well if you're a negative three then that's what it is," Samuels said before Shekinah responded, "But I'm not a negative three. I would never let you and no one else put me down."

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The conversation grew heated when Samuels told Shekinah he wouldn't lie to spare her feelings.

"Hey, calm down cutie," said Shekinah, pictured right with former friend Tameka "Tiny" Harris.

"Kick rocks b****," Samuels said, before ending the session.

Samuels then said, "You always wanna say something but you don't wanna deal with it."

Speaking about women in general, Samuels said:

"I'm tired of women wanting somebody to lie to them... Women like her have been coddled and lied to so much that the truth is offensive. So all they can do is laugh at it because it hurts too much because they know they've been lied to...

This is what it's come to... You are what you are. You ladies don't seem to like rankings, but you rank men. You are what you are. Like it or not... Y''all want somebody to tell you you're all 10s."

Mr. Samuels has grown a large following of mostly lonely women whom he berates and downgrades for clicks and views.

Samuels is a 51-year-old man who rates himself a "high value" nine out of 10. He has drawn criticism for rating Beyonce an 8 and calling women "b**ches."
 

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YouTuber Kevin Samuels recently sat down with DJ Vlad of Vlad TV, where he explained his rating scale of biological women (1-8).

Samuels differentiated between women who are considered "hawt" and those women who men want to marry.

Samuels is best known for his radical dating advice, which pits him against traditional relationship experts who don't antagonize their audience base.

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His rating scale of beautiful women ranges from 1-8. Samuels claims the perfect woman (rated a 10) doesn't exist. He recently rated curvaceous rapper Megan Thee Stallion a six. Megan, 26, is pictured on Aug. 17, 2020.

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He rated industry socialite Lori Harvey an 8. Lori, 24, is pictured above in a photo dated May 18, 2020. By coincidence, he also rated semi-retired pop singer Beyonce an 8.

He is so hard on Black women that many of his followers assume he is a closeted homosexual -- despite his denials. The YouTuber has at least one child, a daughter, that he supports financially.

His relationship with the child's mother likely influences his hate for women.
 

 

 

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YouTuber Kevin Samuels has a ton of haters on the Internet. Mr. Samuels has a large following of mostly women who live for his relationship advice.

Samuels is a 50-year-old man who considers himself to be a good catch. He makes a living on YouTube grading women based on their looks and how many children they have.

Recently, Samuels went live on YouTube and displayed his computer home screen while chatting with a woman on Zoom.

The woman complained that a "guy" in the Zoom chat was making her nervous.

Then the screen briefly displayed the "guy" laying on a bed. Based on the decor of the man's room and the dim lighting, it's obvious that the person was not in Samuel's home.

The person in the bed was someone on the Zoom chat. Samuels assured the woman that "he's gone" from the chat.

But the video went viral anyway, fueling the rumors that Samuels is homosexual.

According to MTO.com, Samuels was divorced from a woman in 2005 and he is (or was) paying child support for a daughter.

That doesn't mean he's straight, but it doesn't confirm all the rumors that he is homosexual either. And even if he was, that doesn't diminish him as a man.

Watch the video below:

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A third woman allegedly had a romantic fling with self-described dating and relationship "expert" Derrick Jaxn is an Atlanta surgeon.

A Twitter gossipmonger claims the woman is a surgeon who was allegedly knocked up by Jaxn, but she had an abortion -- allegedly.

The @hbcuhive account tweeted:

"So Derrick Jaxn lied again Y'all. His current mistress said they just had sex on March 18th 2021( she also got pregnant but aborted it) and he just told us he has been faithful for the last 6 months! WOW.

"Y'all Derrick Jaxn has a current mistress who is a doctor in Atlanta and was recording videos in front of her house! He also got this mistress pregnant! According to the mistress this is her house in the background and she just saw him last week!"

Hold on, it gets worse: Jaxn allegedly sent the woman masturbation videos -- and she kept the receipts. He allegedly filed a restraining order against the doctor.

Jaxn was dragged by males on social media last week after rumors of his infidelities were first reported by pugnacious YouTube vlogger Tasha K.

Jaxn humbled himself in front of his wife, Da'Naia Jackson, after cheating allegations surfaced on social media.

He took responsibility for his infidelities, saying:

"It's important that I let you know I don't stand by those actions. I don't want to encourage anybody to do that. Secondly, I know I can't build a platform preaching certain things, preaching against certain things, and then, in my real life, live contrary to that."

 

 

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Dating and relationship "expert" Derrick Jaxn humbled himself in front of his wife after cheating allegations surfaced on social media.

Jaxn, who made a career out of criticizing men and doling out relationship advice to lonely women, was caught out there being unfaithful to his long-suffering wife, Da'Naia Jackson.

Mischievous YouTube vlogger Tasha K first reported the cheating rumors after a woman named Candice De Medeiros alleged earlier this month she had an affair with Jaxn.

Medeiros said she assumed Jaxn and his wife had separated. Obviously she got that impression from Jaxn himself, who has dubbed himself a "Self-Love Ambassador."

In a new video, Jaxn said he had an honest discussion with his wife about the rumors and allegations -- and apparently she's okay with it as long as the checks keep rolling in.

They appear together in the video, holding hands as he explains the error of his ways.

"I want to be clear," he says, "I'm not talking about just casually kicking it, maybe a lunch or something like that. I'm talking about as serious as sex, sexual flirtation, and meeting up and those type of things."

He added:

"It's important that I let you know I don't stand by those actions. I don't want to encourage anybody to do that. Secondly, I know I can't build a platform preaching certain things, preaching against certain things, and then, in my real life, live contrary to that."

Jaxn and his wife are pictured on the cover of his book, Heal Together: Without Hurting Each Other.
 

300 sandwiches

Stephanie Smith, an otherwise intelligent black woman, is making headlines in the blogoshphere for pressuring her white boyfriend into proposing to her.

Stephanie promised to make 300 sandwiches for her boyfriend Eric if he put a ring on her finger. Stephanie is aware that her stunt reeks of desperation, but she's making those 300 sandwiches anyway.

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The Game and Tiffney Cambridge

Rapper The Game knows a thing or two about infidelity. He's been down that road despite being in a committed relationship. The Game and his fiancée, Tiffney Cambridge, star in an upcoming TV reality show titled 'Marrying The Game'. His cheating ways are the reasons why the show isn't titled 'Married to The Game'.

"I’m not going to throw myself under the bus... but every man cheats," said The Game in an interview with Power 105?s The Breakfast Club.

"The truth is every man cheats: fat men, skinny men, basketball player, guy who can’t play, nerds, smart men. It doesn’t matter," he added.

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Fernanda Meier and Emanuel Boseman The NY Post's Tim Donnelly has written another heartwarming story about finding love amid the wreckage of Hurricane Sandy.

"Emanuel Boseman was panicked. He was stranded in a tiny 50-square-foot second-floor storage unit in Coney Island as Sandy pushed ocean waters into the building, completely flooding the first floor.

He stared at his cellphone, which was getting spotty service, and nervously debated dialing his ex-girlfriend Fernanda Meier.

He didn’t know who else to call, but they hadn’t spoken in months. Would she even take his call?"

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NFL legend Deion Sanders likes 'em young. Bossip spoke to Deion's latest conquest, Aleea Stanton, who happens to be the daughter of Angela Stanton, the woman who made all those wild accusations about Phaedra Parks.

Aleea Stanton, who was 18 when she met Sanders, tells Bossip she met the former football star through Twitter.com in 2011.

“I got a DM on Twitter from a guy saying, ‘Hey I’ve got a friend that wants to meet you.' I said, ‘Ok, cool who is it? He says ‘Deion Sanders,' and I said ‘Who???’”

Aleea said she had to Google Prime Time to see who he was.

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