Evelyn Lozada, star of VH1’s Basketball Wives posted this tweet last night on the microblogging website Twitter.com.
Lesbians who follow both Evelyn and singer Keri Hilson immediately seized upon this tweet as a public confession. Plus, there have been unsubstantiated rumors about Keri’s bisexuality in the past.
Lozada was quick to say she was only kidding. But was she really?
Here is the textbook definition of a Freudian Slip:
Freu*di*an slip
noun
a slip of the tongue or an unintentional error that is motivated by subconscious feelings
The key words are “subconscious feelings.”
I checked Keri Hilson’s Twitter page just now. And while there was no direct response to Evelyn’s “joke,” I did find this subliminal tweet from Keri. Was it meant for Evelyn?
Thanks to loyal reader Jason P. for the tip!
SO!
Seems like a joke to me
This is NOT news
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I did hear that Keri is a lesbun on the low-low. But Eve just looks mad and used up all the time.
I dont think its that serious @Sandra!
Lemme find out Ms Keri Baby likes that kitty though
Evelyn is so desperate for fame and attention. These realtiy shows are driving people insane. I’m waiting on her sex tape to leak, of her…her 38 y.o. daughter…shumthin
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!
I was about to say something but I will keep my comments to myself
@KERI HILSON
“You can lead a horse to the cleanest, purest, most beautiful stream of water, & they’ll STILL be reluctant to drink…*shrug*”
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Sounds like you can’t get the hoes to
to me! Give it time, don’t be forcin it on ’em! 
Whatever, I don’t even care
Hey fam
I thought that “crushes” meant you like their style or their swag… like my friend has this mini-crush thing for the different styles of rhianna’s hair (when its cute) or some chick on the cover of a workout magazine- because she likes the way she looks. Just my opinion though……
Evelyn would be a mean lesbian though……
Let’s see…I have a crush on Stacey Dash. Does that make me bisexual?
MKM
Hey boo!!!!!!!!!!!
@MS. KAYLAMOMMA
“Let’s see…I have a crush on Stacey Dash. Does that make me bisexual?”
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Just the fact that you female makes you a bisexual.
**Stacey been lookin a lil “Whitney-Houston-Crackish” to me.
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Maybe that’s why Evelyn can’t or won’t find a good man, she’s wears a strap on… Who knew
@Flo Old school Keri def. got down with Kitty. Hollywood Keri
She looked just like a “butch”…
Hi Attorney Mom….we meet again….How you been..miss you…
“Just the fact that you female makes you a bisexual.”
They would make some pretty children
@MAMACITA
“Just the fact that you female makes you a bisexual.”
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Bi-curious then!
Who cares if either one of them is a lesbian? Is this news? Besides, doesn’t Keri have a boyfriend?
Hi baby @ Flo, how’s it going? ::waves::
**sideeyes** @ Man. Stacey has more class than your Kardashian. Don’t hate! Stacey is aging beautiful unlike Kim. She looks about 50ish in the face.
“Bi-curious then!”
@Man
My friend took your advice and slept with old boy last night. :coffe:
She got up in the middle of the night and put $5 dollars on the night stand with a note that said Thank You I got my chit off.
He has been calling her all day
@MS. KAYLAMOMMA
“**sideeyes** @ Man. Stacey has more class than your Kardashian. Don’t hate! Stacey is aging beautiful unlike Kim. She looks about 50ish in the face.”
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¿¿¿
???
I know GOOD and WELL you ain’t just say Stacey Dash got more class than Kim K! Stacey azz been tooted more than Louis Armstrong’s trumpet for every “black man’s magazine” known to man!
Black Men
King
Vibe
Hoez
All that chit.
@CANDI APPLE
“My friend took your advice and slept with old boy last night. :coffe:
She got up in the middle of the night and put $5 dollars on the night stand with a note that said Thank You I got my chit off.
He has been calling her all day”
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I know that I am genius.
If she tells him about another man, he will propose within a month.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MS. KAYLAMOMMA
“**sideeyes** @ Man. Stacey has more class than your Kardashian. Don’t hate! Stacey is aging beautiful unlike Kim. She looks about 50ish in the face.”
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¿¿¿ ???
I know GOOD and WELL you ain’t just say Stacey Dash got more class than Kim K! Stacey azz been tooted more than Louis Armstrong’s trumpet for every “black man’s magazine” known to man!
Black Men
King
Vibe
Hoez
All that chit.
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Did Stacey pose for PLAYBOY
@MAMACITA
“¿¿¿ ???
I know GOOD and WELL you ain’t just say Stacey Dash got more class than Kim K! Stacey azz been tooted more than Louis Armstrong’s trumpet for every “black man’s magazine” known to man!
Black Men
King
Vibe
Hoez
All that chit.
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Did Stacey pose for PLAYBOY
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Despite Stacey’s valiant attempts and pleading, Playboy declined her and took Halle Berry instead. Wise decision.
whoa whoa what did I miss yesterday? @Man giving advice and what not? And guaranteeing proposals?!?
#needtomessagemanquick
And yes Stacy did pose for Playboy….
@Man, I just don’t care™ says:
I know that I am genius.
If she tells him about another man, he will propose within a month.
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Imma tell her.
@Man, can you name 5 movies Kim has been in? GO! #dontworryIwillwait
If she tells him about another man, he will propose within a month.
Someone delivered some flowers to my job last week, dont know who it was cause the card just read “just because your beautiful” and that was it. I took them home and now ol’ boy is all in my grill. Talkin about gettin married when we go to Vegas in Dec. BOY PLEASE!!!!!!!! I AINT STUNTIN YOU, NOR DO I WANT TO MARRY YOUR CRAZY A$$
Oh and sex tapes and reality shows don’t count! Go!
@MS. KAYLAMOMMA
“can you name 5 movies Kim has been in? GO! #dontworryIwillwait”
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Can you name ONE magazine that Stacey Dash had more close ups of her face than her azz?
@FLORIDA CHICK
“This is true!
Someone delivered some flowers to my job last week, dont know who it was cause the card just read “just because your beautiful” and that was it. I took them home and now ol’ boy is all in my grill. Talkin about gettin married when we go to Vegas in Dec. BOY PLEASE!!!!!!!! I AINT STUNTIN YOU, NOR DO I WANT TO MARRY YOUR CRAZY A$$ ”
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Can’t stand the thought of anotha nigga gettin OUR puss!
This post is inspiring hella dejavu
honeygrahm says:
whoa whoa what did I miss yesterday? @Man giving advice and what not? And guaranteeing proposals?!?
#needtomessagemanquick
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My friend is very creative. @Man told her ole boy was stringing her along for some cootie. Which turned out to be great advice.
@Man so it really is that serious? Like a dude can act all kinds of effed up and talking to this and that girl but as soon as you even show an inkling of moving on, he ready to do right?!?
@HONEYGRAHAM
“whoa whoa what did I miss yesterday? @Man giving advice and what not? And guaranteeing proposals?!?
#needtomessagemanquick”
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“My friend is very creative. @Man told her ole boy was stringing her along for some cootie. Which turned out to be great advice.”
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**ominous voice**
“Come into my fold young child HoneyGraham. I have much to teach you. You can begin by removing your clothes…”
::shaken, frightened voice::
I-I-I want the knife!!!!!
#disrobing
Pleeeeaaaasseee!
Oh yeah, forgot #pedophile
@HONEY GRAHAM
“so it really is that serious? Like a dude can act all kinds of effed up and talking to this and that girl but as soon as you even show an inkling of moving on, he ready to do right?!?”
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Not 100% but for the most part. It depends on if the dude really likes you and is just takin you for granted, or if he really doesn’t care.
Either way, just out of spite/competition/jealousy/possesiveness a nigga goin do what he gotta do to keep his puzz.
Of course, it still depends on the delivery as well. If it seems even the SLIGHTEST bit disingenious, it will completely backfire. Then he will know you are just trying to manipulate him.
If you start off with “As a friend…” or “If you were my brother…” or some chit like that, and mention another dude that you are feeling. Trust me, Nigga will homicidal type mad. ‘TAIN’T NUTHIN WORSE THAN A HOE CONSIDERING YOU A ‘FRIEND’ OR A ‘BROTHER!’
Man, why are you answering my questions with a question? LOL! That’s what I thought. You aint serious! Good day.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@HONEYGRAHAM
“whoa whoa what did I miss yesterday? @Man giving advice and what not? And guaranteeing proposals?!?
#needtomessagemanquick”
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“My friend is very creative. @Man told her ole boy was stringing her along for some cootie. Which turned out to be great advice.”
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**ominous voice**
“Come into my fold young child HoneyGraham. I have much to teach you. You can begin by removing your clothes…”
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@ Man Oh wise one can you answer an age old question for me?….Why do men want hoez? I have an ex who is currently wifeing the town sleeze and for the life of me I can’t understand why? 
when I say sleeze, I mean proven fact that she has had trains ran on her and has gotten her butt drug down the street for burning dudes, and she has had one dud marry her and now she and my ex are living together and on the verge(sp) of marriage. I just don’t get it. I don have nearly as much mileage and I can’t even get a man. Please explain…
*sits indian style and waits patiently*
‘TAIN’T NUTHIN WORSE THAN A HOE CONSIDERING YOU A ‘FRIEND’ OR A ‘BROTHER!’
Same for women!!!!
Did y’all see that face the girl made on OchoCinco’s show when she put the words “homie” in his mouth in regards to the Black girl (her name escapes me)… too funny though.
She was crushed too! He still picked her though. Substance over (commercial) beauty.
@MS. KAYLAMOM
“Man, why are you answering my questions with a question? LOL! That’s what I thought. You aint serious! Good day.”
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You know what, you are right. How dare I question the illustrious career of Stacey “Toot-it-up” Dash? She has proven, without question, no one can display their azz as quickly and prominently as she can.
Kim can only aspire to reach the lofty status that Ms. Dash has achieved. I’m sure President Obama is fervently working out a way for Ms. Dash to visit the White House and get her congressional medal!
I rescind my earlier statement and disavow any remark questioning the integrity of “Ms. Toot-it-up!”
Someone delivered some flowers to my job last week, dont know who it was cause the card just read “just because your beautiful” and that was it. I took them home and now ol’ boy is all in my grill. Talkin about gettin married when we go to Vegas in Dec. BOY PLEASE!!!!!!!! I AINT STUNTIN YOU, NOR DO I WANT TO MARRY YOUR CRAZY A$$
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And that ish Man talking about calling a dude “friend,” I used that line and it worked
“Come into my fold young child HoneyGraham. I have much to teach you. You can begin by removing your clothes…”
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Squirt!
Man, you are stoopid!
@MOCHASMERE
“Oh wise one can you answer an age old question for me?….Why do men want hoez? I have an ex who is currently wifeing the town sleeze and for the life of me I can’t understand why? when I say sleeze, I mean proven fact that she has had trains ran on her and has gotten her butt drug down the street for burning dudes, and she has had one dud marry her and now she and my ex are living together and on the verge(sp) of marriage. I just don’t get it. I don have nearly as much mileage and I can’t even get a man. Please explain…
*sits indian style and waits patiently*”
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**removing robe from Mocha**
Mocha: “Do I have to be fully nude to gain this knowledge?”
Man: “Yes, my child. The only way to gain true knowledge is to allow yourself to be receptive and vulnerable. Thy clothes shall only inhibit the knowledge that I present to you.”
The answer is a not a simple one. As a general rule, men will not consider a relationship with a hoe. However, like every rule, there are exceptions. Even Superman succumbs to kryptonite. If a woman is deemed beautiful, smart, funny, etc. a man will overlook Grand Canyon sized blemishes.
Which is why women should go for men that want them, and not necessarily the man that they want.
IF U GOT THAT SNAPER A MAN GONNA GET PISSD IF ANOTHER IS EVEN TRYING TO BE FRIENDLY OR TRYINT TO GET THE CAT THEN THEY WANT TO ACT RIGHT!!! SOME CHIT MY MAMA ALWAYS SAID TREAT A MAN LIKE BABY AND HE WILL WALK ALL OVER U BUT TREAT A MAN LIKE CHIT ONCE IN A WILE AND HE BE ON U LIKE FLIES ON CHIT!! PREACH MAMA PREACH
@LAKERCRAZY
“IF U GOT THAT SNAPER A MAN GONNA GET PISSD IF ANOTHER IS EVEN TRYING TO BE FRIENDLY OR TRYINT TO GET THE CAT THEN THEY WANT TO ACT RIGHT!!! SOME CHIT MY MAMA ALWAYS SAID TREAT A MAN LIKE BABY AND HE WILL WALK ALL OVER U BUT TREAT A MAN LIKE CHIT ONCE IN A WILE AND HE BE ON U LIKE FLIES ON CHIT!! PREACH MAMA PREACH”
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When a woman says they “love me” or some chit like that, I immediately like them less. :/
Yo mama said that chit @Laker.
Too true.
‘TAIN’T NUTHIN WORSE THAN A HOE CONSIDERING YOU A ‘FRIEND’ OR A ‘BROTHER!’
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@Man, ……you are truly something else.
@MAN I KNOW THAT IS SO TRUE BECAUSE MOST MEN LOVE THE CHASE AND IF U DONT HAVE THAT U MOVE ON THATS WHY WEN MEN GET TREATED LIKE CHIT THEY KEEP COMING BACK FOR THE CHASE!!
@OTB YES MAM MY MAMA IS A BAD MOTHA FLUKA SHE IS 39 AND LOOKS LIKE SHE IS 25 AND SHE HAS LEARNED THAT MEN LOVE TO BE TREATED LIKE CHIT SO THEY CAN CHASE U THATS WHAT THEY LIKE JUST ASK MAN
@LAKER CRAZY
“I KNOW THAT IS SO TRUE BECAUSE MOST MEN LOVE THE CHASE AND IF U DONT HAVE THAT U MOVE ON THATS WHY WEN MEN GET TREATED LIKE CHIT THEY KEEP COMING BACK FOR THE CHASE!!”
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I can’t stand no eazy hoe. Always “available” and “ready to go somewhere wit a nigga.” I mean DAYUM, ain’t you got SOMETHING else you doin? That’s a hoe you know ain’t goin nowhere so you can do what you want.
Which is why women should go for men that want them, and not necessarily the man that they want.
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Truer words have never been spoken.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MOCHASMERE
“Oh wise one can you answer an age old question for me?….Why do men want hoez? I have an ex who is currently wifeing the town sleeze and for the life of me I can’t understand why? when I say sleeze, I mean proven fact that she has had trains ran on her and has gotten her butt drug down the street for burning dudes, and she has had one dud marry her and now she and my ex are living together and on the verge(sp) of marriage. I just don’t get it. I don have nearly as much mileage and I can’t even get a man. Please explain…
*sits indian style and waits patiently*”
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**removing robe from Mocha**
Mocha: “Do I have to be fully nude to gain this knowledge?”
Man: “Yes, my child. The only way to gain true knowledge is to allow yourself to be receptive and vulnerable. Thy clothes shall only inhibit the knowledge that I present to you.”
The answer is a not a simple one. As a general rule, men will not consider a relationship with a hoe. However, like every rule, there are exceptions. Even Superman succumbs to kryptonite. If a woman is deemed beautiful, smart, funny, etc. a man will overlook Grand Canyon sized blemishes.
Which is why women should go for men that want them, and not necessarily the man that they want.
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I wouldn’t go as far as to say beautiful. For the hood, she would be condsidered okay looking, she has a big butt, so I’m pretty sure that wins brownie points, but the thing is he was just beggin me to see him when I go home in September. I told him no because I feel he has no respect for me. I tole him I didn;t thing it would be good for us to see each other and THEN he said something to me he has NEVER said in the 15 years I have known him – he told me that he loved me and that he always will. I responded with Take Care! I wouldn’t dare tell him that I loved him back even thought I really do…..
@Man, I will take my newfound knowledge and apply as taught. Thank you for your wise words. one more thing sensei, where are my panties?
@MOCHA
“I wouldn’t go as far as to say beautiful. For the hood, she would be condsidered okay looking, she has a big butt, so I’m pretty sure that wins brownie points, but the thing is he was just beggin me to see him when I go home in September. I told him no because I feel he has no respect for me. I tole him I didn;t thing it would be good for us to see each other and THEN he said something to me he has NEVER said in the 15 years I have known him – he told me that he loved me and that he always will. I responded with Take Care! I wouldn’t dare tell him that I loved him back even thought I really do…..”
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I see…. So, what would be your objective with this young man? You DO or you DON’T want a relationship with young man?
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MOCHA
“I wouldn’t go as far as to say beautiful. For the hood, she would be condsidered okay looking, she has a big butt, so I’m pretty sure that wins brownie points, but the thing is he was just beggin me to see him when I go home in September. I told him no because I feel he has no respect for me. I tole him I didn;t thing it would be good for us to see each other and THEN he said something to me he has NEVER said in the 15 years I have known him – he told me that he loved me and that he always will. I responded with Take Care! I wouldn’t dare tell him that I loved him back even thought I really do…..”
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I see…. So, what would be your objective with this young man? You DO or you DON’T want a relationship with young man?
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I would like to be in a relationship with him, but he is in a relationship with someone else. I’m not open to be the side piece and especially, the side piece the town door knob. We have a LONG history together. He is the guy I lost it to….
I see i’ve stumbled into Relationship Hour” with @Man…
#carryon
Which is why women should go for men that want them, and not necessarily the man that they want.
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I can’t stand no eazy hoe. Always “available” and “ready to go somewhere wit a nigga.” I mean DAYUM, ain’t you got SOMETHING else you doin? That’s a hoe you know ain’t goin nowhere so you can do what you want.
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@MOCHA
“I would like to be in a relationship with him, but he is in a relationship with someone else. I’m not open to be the side piece and especially, the side piece the town door knob. We have a LONG history together. He is the guy I lost it to….”
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I see…. Is he aware that he is the guy that you lost it to?
Ahem *”Relationship Hour”
@MAMACITA
“Ahem *’Relationship Hour'”
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Thank you for correcting that. Chit like that bothers me. Havin “loose quotation marks” roamin about and chit.
Evelyn and Keri both look older than they are but are still pretty/attractive all the same
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MOCHA
“I would like to be in a relationship with him, but he is in a relationship with someone else. I’m not open to be the side piece and especially, the side piece the town door knob. We have a LONG history together. He is the guy I lost it to….”
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I see…. Is he aware that he is the guy that you lost it to?
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Ummm yeah, He was well aware. Plus we come from a VERY small town. Your next door neighbor would know you were pregnant before you did, the town was so small.
Free I like that new gravi, bish! *poke*
:lolol: at random ‘s. I do that chit.
OutsidetheBox says:
Free I like that new gravi, bish! *poke*
at random ’s. I do that chit
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Thanks Pookie
I hope you poked me on my side too
:lolol:
….pause…No homo. I promise. *waving pinky finger*
@MOCHA
“Ummm yeah, He was well aware. Plus we come from a VERY small town. Your next door neighbor would know you were pregnant before you did, the town was so small.”
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I see.
So, this guy knew that he was your first, started dating the neighborhood slut yet, professes his love for you?
He is stringing you along. He isn’t interested in a relationship of any sort, with you nor the slot. I will step out on a limb and guess that he has no kids and maybe a “job” but not a “career.”
He’s just enjoying the scenery right now.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MOCHA
“Ummm yeah, He was well aware. Plus we come from a VERY small town. Your next door neighbor would know you were pregnant before you did, the town was so small.”
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I see.
So, this guy knew that he was your first, started dating the neighborhood slut yet, professes his love for you?
He is stringing you along. He isn’t interested in a relationship of any sort, with you nor the slot. I will step out on a limb and guess that he has no kids and maybe a “job” but not a “career.”
He’s just enjoying the scenery right now.
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That’s not quite it. We have a LOOOOONG history. I’m mean 15yrs worth of history. We lost touch for a few years and recently reconnected on facebook. We started emailing back and forth and made plans to see each other when I came home. I changed my mind, because I know what it would lead to and even though his GF is not my favorite person in the world
(for other reasons), I would not want that karma hanging over my head.
And even though I’m not the prettiest person, I do think I deserve to have my own boyfriend and not have to share with someone else.
It would be improssible for me to give you all the details for you to fully understand. He does have kids (2), one of them is by the second runner up for the slore of the year award. The second is with his ex-wife.
He does have a job, but he wants to cut hair, he recently got his barber license…
@Mocha
I still think he is stringing you along. Why in da h3ll would he want to “see” you when he is damn near married? He has a string of women with whom he has detached himself (including you)
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“kids (2), one of them is by the second runner up for the slore of the year award. The second is with his ex-wife”.
He is a player not a committer. If you started anything with him you would deal with all his mess. Move on. His history speaks for itself.
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OutsidetheBox says:
….pause…No homo. I promise. *waving pinky finger*
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Gravi check
@mochacashmere *butting*
Why did you lose touch?
Mamacita says:
@mochacashmere *butting* Why did you lose touch?
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Initially because we had an unplanned situation come about and if I didn’t deal with the situation on his terms he would leave me high and dry. i told him that I wasn’t doing it and, we stopped talking to each other. God had other plans and decided to take care of it his way. After I went through that, I moved from the state and I hadn’t talked to him until he contacted me on F.B.
Ok, so how long ago was this?
Keri is either gay or bi. My gaydar is never wrong.
I moved from the state 4 years ago.
@ mochacashmere says:
“And even though I’m not the prettiest person, I do think I deserve to have my own boyfriend and not have to share with someone else.”
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You are too available for him. I think you should chill by yourself for a while. The comment above (prettiest part) is not the best way to think of yourself. Some guys will pick up on that and take advantage. Just trying to help.
borderlineamazing says:
Keri is either gay or bi. My gaydar is never wrong.
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Mine either.
I wouldn’t go back to that situation. He’s telling you he loves you and is trying to meet up with you when he has a gf that he may MARRY. It just doens’t seem like something you want to get into. The best thing to do is cut off communication and move on. even if there is history it obviously hasn’t worked for a reason and him popping up is just him trying to see if he can still hit that IMO.
‘TAIN’T NUTHIN WORSE THAN A HOE CONSIDERING YOU A ‘FRIEND’ OR A ‘BROTHER!’
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True. That’s called Friend Zone. Once a chick puts a man in the friend zone, he can forget about gettin’ any.
Ms.kaylamomma says:
Let’s see…I have a crush on Stacey Dash. Does that make me bisexual?
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Yes it does.
Has anyone seen Lesbin?
Sandra Rose says:
‘TAIN’T NUTHIN WORSE THAN A HOE CONSIDERING YOU A ‘FRIEND’ OR A ‘BROTHER!’
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True. That’s called Friend Zone. Once a chick puts a man in the friend zone, he can forget about gettin’ any
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How YOU know Sandra? You’ve sat on that one legged stool before?
@Moch
If you start something with him again you will eventually regret it. Don’t do it. 4 Years is a long time and he has not grown.
But I see you are determined to hear take a chance you never know. But I wont say that.
He is not good for you. Move on its for your benefit. Look back years from now and see the #hoe situation and laugh
I emailed her @Sandra. She took a little hiatus. Hopefully she will miss us soon.
@SANDRA
“‘TAIN’T NUTHIN WORSE THAN A HOE CONSIDERING YOU A ‘FRIEND’ OR A ‘BROTHER!’
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True. That’s called Friend Zone. Once a chick puts a man in the friend zone, he can forget about gettin’ any.
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**jumpin outta the boring “clothes” thread…**
**jumpin outta the boring “clothes” thread…**
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Initially because we had an unplanned situation come about and if I didn’t deal with the situation on his terms he would leave me high and dry. i told him that I wasn’t doing it and, we stopped talking to each other. God had other plans and decided to take care of it his way. After I went through that, I moved from the state and I hadn’t talked to him until he contacted me on F.B.
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I think I have a clue about what this is about…….
Sorry, but…..he wasn’t chit then and he aint chit now! For him to even say he is going to leave you cut and dry, if you didn’t do things his way? Why would you want him anyway? I let my ex play with my emotions for years…because of the history we have. Let the hoodrat have him. You are too pretty to tolerate his foolishness. You have a gorgeous smile, NO HOMO. Seems like he is going nowhere fast, and it seems like you doing your thing. Sounds like he trying to keep you on reserve. Don’t make him a PRIORITY, when you are just an OPTION to him.
@mochacashmere
My apologies if I offended you. I didn’t mean to go hard. I have just been there. I lost my V to him too, first love, first everything. I have known him since I was 15, I’m 30 now. We moved in together at 18 or 19. At the time, he was making that gwop. (Street Pharmacist). I didn’t have to work. I was spoiled and in love. This cat gets an ego (he’s cheating and I don’t know it), and all of a sudden I’m not good enough anymore. So we take a “break”. He moves (all I had was my clothes, he took everything to build a new life with her) to another state with this woman…has two kids with her within two years (had two already when we got together). The first two or three years, we still messed around…dealt with all the drama..then finally let go. We always have kept in touch over the years..
Now, I have found someone that I am in love with and got my chit together…he wants back in. No, sir! I’m good.
Which is why women should go for men that want them, and not necessarily the man that they want.
Truer words have never been spoken!
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It has always been my philosophy that men love to be treated poorly. The less interested you seem in them the more they run behind you. Sometimes its scary to me just how easy it is to figure them out. One guy told me that I think like a man; I don’t know if I agree with that, but I do think logically.
Candi Apple says:
Which is why women should go for men that want them, and not necessarily the man that they want.
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Truer words have never been spoken.
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@mochacashmere
If I may give my opinion, I think you should leave it alone. Four years is a long time and it seems that he hasn’t grown, but maybe you have. Women generally have a tendency to look at things through rose-tinted glasses. Chances are if you two ever get back together things won’t be any better than they were before and the fact that he already has somebody only makes it worse. I would suggest that you move on and do well; that’s what irks an ex more than anything, the fact that you are doing so good and they are not a contributing factor in any way.
Tyzgurl says:
@mochacashmere
My apologies if I offended you. I didn’t mean to go hard. I have just been there. I lost my V to him too, first love, first everything. I have known him since I was 15, I’m 30 now. We moved in together at 18 or 19. At the time, he was making that gwop. (Street Pharmacist). I didn’t have to work. I was spoiled and in love. This cat gets an ego (he’s cheating and I don’t know it), and all of a sudden I’m not good enough anymore. So we take a “break”. He moves (all I had was my clothes, he took everything to build a new life with her) to another state with this woman…has two kids with her within two years (had two already when we got together). The first two or three years, we still messed around…dealt with all the drama..then finally let go. We always have kept in touch over the years..
Now, I have found someone that I am in love with and got my chit together…he wants back in. No, sir! I’m good.
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Oh no you didn’t offend me at all. It’s funny our situations almost mirror each other. I was doing fine until he popped up on F.B., talking to him and thinking back on old times brought up feeling that were better left dead and buried.
Plus add in the fact that I have been single and celibate for the past four years has me not thinking clearly.
@ Everyone – Thanks for the advice!