I have a winner for my Sandrarose.com Pays Your Car Note Contest! The lucky winner is loyal reader Kandrea C.! Kandrea's May 2011 car payment will be paid in the amount of $434.71.

Thank you to everyone who participated in the contest! If Kandrea doesn't claim her prize by submitting her PayPal info within 24 hours, the prize will go to the next runner up.

Here is the contest question again:

In light of the fact that Muslim men have 2 or more wives who are obedient, fruitful and multiply; should American wives go back to being submissive if their husbands go back to being providers for their families?

And here is Kandrea's thoughtful answer:

While there are many women who have no problem with staying at home and being the sole household provider, I believe that women can be submissive to their men without giving up their independence so men can be providers. Women do not have to stay at home to be obedient, fruitful and multiply. In a marriage or relationship, one should be submissive to their partner as a form of respect to the other.

Partners have to be submissive to each other because not one person will be all knowledgeable in one aspect of the relationship. Husbands/fathers should feel obligated to provide for their families because they are the patriarch and foundation. Also this is not the age of “June Cleaver and Donna Reed” where women are supposed to spend their days cooking, cleaning, and joining women leagues. If we are going back to being submissive in the household, we might as well sleep in the same room in twin beds.

Share your world with someone who deserves to be in it

  • KAREN

    Congratulations Kandrea

  • AirForceGirl

    That is a pretty good (and thought out) answer! Way to go Kandrea!!! Get that money, honey!

  • prynsexxx

    Congratulations Keandra!

  • prynsexxx

    *Kandrea

    I apologize.

  • yvonne79

    Congratulations Kandrea! :clap:

  • free

    congrats!! i wanted to enter but my response was "hell no!" and i knew that was not going to win.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    BLAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    :hater:

  • prynsexxx

    @Luscious

    Why you mad, son? LOL

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Pryn I'm a :hater: cuz I couldnt get my car note paid!

  • prynsexxx

    *in my Biggie voice*

    :whistle:
    "cah note paid for. no cah payment"

    LOL

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    I need a damn sugar daddy!
    #nowtakingapplications

  • kingstonn

    I want my car note paid. :mad:

  • chase

    man o' man if only I could of won this contest my payment is a MUG...

    Congrats to the winner though!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Kingston I still got my eye on you

  • yallcrazy

    :party: Biggie Biggie Biggie can't you see sometimes your words just hypnotize me :whistle:

    Happy Friday Brown & Prynn!!!!!!!!!!!

    Congrats KandreaC.:partyhat:

  • yallcrazy

    I meant... :partyhat:

  • KrayZKat

    Congrats Kandrea!

  • http://twitter.com/_imOther_ Mamacita

    Congrats Kandrea! :yahoo:

    *sigh*
    @SANDRA When are you going to have a contest for folks outside of ATL?!? I have plenty of bills you can pay! :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    So.............. yall think Blu gon ever come back
    Maybe he'll change his name and put up a new gravi!

  • LadyJustice

    congrats kandrea :dance:

  • Anna

    Congrats Kandrea. Nice comment.

  • witeboi52

    @ Lolita

    What happened with Blu? :thinking:

  • mirsmommy

    Congrats Kandrea!!!!!!! :cheer:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    Whats Up Yall!

  • mirsmommy

    LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS says:

    I need a damn sugar daddy!
    #nowtakingapplications
    ____________________

    You ever hear of sugardaddy . com???????? I heard abput it on the radio. Look it up. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    witeboi you have to go back to the Mriah post and start at 165. Me and BBW thought we were related and it took a turn for the worse. Oh and Good Morning

  • mirsmommy

    *about

  • Feline Feminine

    Morning everyone! :newbie:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Witeboi he said he got in the guts of a couple of his cousins and couldnt understand why it was wrong :no:

  • 2cents

    @white

    It's all Lolita's fault.

    Hey Lolita you feelin better bewski, oh and Happy Friday!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    Lucious I cant be your sugar daddy but I do have some sugar cane for you until you find one :coffee:

  • witeboi52

    @ Lolita

    good morning to you as well :kiss:

    @ ALboy

    :wtf:

  • CFREE

    CONGRATS :champ: :welcome: @FeFe :cheer:

    MORNING SR FOLK! :waves:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    WELCOME FELINE
    I'll let Al give you the welcome packet :popcorn:

  • mirsmommy

    Good Morn-ting folks. :waves:

  • CFREE

    @Blu come baaaack!!! :wail:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Feline :welcome:
    Where you from
    how you make your money
    kids
    male female
    head on the first date
    fav celeb
    are you a freak
    fav Sr member
    funniest thing you've read on SR
    Who would you most like to give it to!
    :coffee:

  • CFREE

    My grandma used to have that suga cane in the back yard :yahoo:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    2cents I went to the dr and he said it was bronchitis but he gave me good drugs so I feel alot better today! Oh and my box was empty just so you know!
    I did not tell Lil Teaser it was ok to fck your family!

    Al I'll gladly take that cane too

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Witeboi EXACTLY!

  • yallcrazy

    Welcome Feline Fem! :P

    On yesterday's topic:

    I think Blu will come back and claim "hacking".

    #butthatwhatiwoulddo

  • SamYell JacksEm is AWESOME

    Morning all!
    Damn Sandra I was counting on that money. Oh well, back to prostitutin :kona:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Cfree she didnt have any like I got trust :coffee:

  • CFREE

    :danban: :danban1: ITS FRIIIIIIIDAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!! :party:

  • 2cents

    @lolita did I understand correctly that blu is a teacher in my city

    #pleasedontletitbespringisd

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Leave it up to Al to add somethin new to the welcome packet

  • Feline Feminine

    Thanks for the warm welcome everyone!

    @Alboy

    Where you from -- The Midwest
    how you make your money -- Corporate Finance/Healthcare
    kids -- none yet
    male female -- female
    head on the first date -- hell naw!
    fav celeb -- Don't really have one
    are you a freak -- yes, most of the time it's in my own mind though...
    fav Sr member -- Dawn Sheen (she is HI-LARIOUS!)
    funniest thing you’ve read on SR -- The Mariah post yesterday with the incest convos...
    Who would you most like to give it to -- Hmmmm, I'll have to get back to you on that one...

  • yallcrazy

    Correction :)

    #emoconsgonewrong

    @Al, your e-packet's getting longer and longer... :rofl: no credit check...

  • SamYell JacksEm is AWESOME

    Brown, you should probably check your mail....

  • witeboi52

    @ Lolita

    you need me to send you sumthin???

    @ Al

    man i read them posts yall went hard on Blu I think he got :banned:

  • CFREE

    @ALBOY *samples yo suga cane* Nope, it wasnt like urs :grin:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Awesome my box is empty hun

    Witeboi what exactly are you tryna send me?????

  • witeboi52

    @ lolita

    Whateva you need baby girl:wink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Cfree I told you! :coffee:

  • SamYell JacksEm is AWESOME

    *puts something in Brown's box*

  • Bigbadwolf

    :hi: Good morning Fam, It's Freaky Friday! :yahoo: (Friday 13th)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Feline
    so you said you're a freak in your own mind, does that mean you're not as freaky in real life?????
    #needtoknowinfo

  • Ty

    Congrats Kandra...great answer :applause:

    When is the mortgage contest since Sandra is discriminating? Yes I am a :hater:

  • witeboi52

    Feline
    so you said you’re a freak in your own mind, does that mean you’re not as freaky in real life?????
    #needtoknowinfo

    :popcorn:

  • Bigbadwolf

    Feline says:
    funniest thing you’ve read on SR — The Mariah post yesterday with the incest convos…
    ________________________________

    That shyt was not funny :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    BBW!!!!!!!!!!
    Goooooood moanin!

    So um Witeboi, considerin I just has to dish out a couple thousand for this funeral how bout I send you my acct number, I take paypal also
    #helpful

  • mirsmommy

    I need something in my box, and I ain't tawkin bout mail. :coffee:

    #tmibutitstrue

  • Feline Feminine

    @Luscious

    Ha! Something like that, but my husband stays satisfied so it oozes out from time to time... :wink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Feline Welcome everybody pretty much cool but you been lurking so you know whats up.

  • CFREE

    FREAKY FRIDAY!!!!!!! :boobs: :lick: :hump: :)

  • Feline Feminine

    @BBW

    Yeah, it was more scary than anything... :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Feline can I introduce/interest you in some fruit roll ups or peaches????

  • Feline Feminine

    @Al

    Yeah, I've been lurking for a few months now...

  • CFREE

    mirsmommy says:

    I need something in my box, and I ain’t tawkin bout mail.

    #tmibutitstrue

    :cosign: :ashamed:

  • Bigbadwolf

    Luscious !!!!!!!!! How u feelin? Have u been sippin on the syzurp? ;)

  • Feline Feminine

    @luscious

    :lol:

  • CFREE

    @FeFe *twerk sum* I'm Cfree shakedanceextraordinaire pleased to meet ya

  • CFREE

    Luscious! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    I'm better BBW ands yes I sipped on the syzurp last night! :grin:

  • mirsmommy

    :welcome: Feline

    :hi:

  • Feline Feminine

    @cfree

    :boobs: right back atcha!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    *notices that Witeboi got :ghost: when I mentioned my acct number*

  • Feline Feminine

    @mirs

    Thank you! :hi:

  • mirsmommy

    Soooo, I see Kelly Rowland finally gotta hit record, huh???? :lol:

    #justtrynasparkaconvo :lol:

  • witeboi52

    @ lolita

    IM here thinking about fruit roll ups!!!

    as far as the paypal :whistle:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    Oh @ Feline they told me to tell you that it is very important that you put up a botty shot not my thing but its like a welcome in type thang I figured I would ask becuse some people can be really aggressive :coffee:

  • witeboi52

    Oh @ Feline they told me to tell you that it is very important that you put up a botty shot not my thing but its like a welcome in type thang I figured I would ask becuse some people can be really aggressive

    ----------------------------------------------------------------------
    :ido:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Meerkat
    I've discovered that I'm possibly still high from my cough syrup that has hydrocodone in it :grin:
    TODAY'S GONNA BE A GOOD DAY!

  • CFREE

    :whistle: ima b yo motivation.. go go go gooo dis my chit!! :yahoo:

  • prynsexxx

    Little boy BLU come blow your horn....(not your cuzin's or uncles "horn") but you know what I'm sayin'!

    I think his page was hacked by one of his 5th year 5th grade high school students. :shrug:

  • prynsexxx

    O'an :hi: to everybody.

  • Feline Feminine

    @Alboy

    :lol: I expected that request...can't make any promises :wink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    *notices that my box is still empty of what I've been looking for*

  • mirsmommy

    LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS says:

    Meerkat
    I’ve discovered that I’m possibly still high from my cough syrup that has hydrocodone in it
    TODAY’S GONNA BE A GOOD DAY!
    ________________________

    :rofl: Soooo are you saying you gon be Lil Wayne-ing today????? :lol:

  • mirsmommy

    :waves: Heyyyyy Pryn

    @Luscious LoLo, don't feel bad. I had a Red Bull, and I have wings. :lol:

  • CFREE

    :dead: @5th grade high skooler :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Yes Meerkat I am :thumbsup:

  • CFREE

    :hi: @Pryn

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    *notices that Witeboi is now whistling when referring to my acct info which means ignoring*

  • Pryncess

    :hailnaw: I didn't get a warm welcome packet?!?!?! :crying: :hater:

    Oh yeah, congrats Kandrea! :champ:

  • CFREE

    @LUSCIOUS, so u on sum lil Tunechi type chit 2day huh? :whistle: call u lil tunechi or young tunafish, 6foot 7foot 8foot :whistle:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    Good morning and chit.
    **booty pinches to the ladies**

  • mirsmommy

    :welcome: Pryncess

  • Bigbadwolf

    @ Pryncess :hi:

  • Bigbadwolf

    * Smack Man's ass* Thanks !

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Prycess how long you been here?
    did you annouce that you were new?

  • Pryncess

    Thank you @mirsmommy! Will you please explain how do to post a gravitar? Thanks in advance! :boobs:

    :welcome: Feline Feminine

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Pryncess I dont remember you but welcome to the jungle

  • mirsmommy

    Click on Gravatar (right above the comment box, and login using the email you used when you signed up for SR.

  • Feline Feminine

    :hi: @Pryncess

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Feline Pryncess
    Where you from
    how you make your money
    kids
    male female
    head on the first date
    fav celeb
    are you a freak
    fav Sr member
    funniest thing you’ve read on SR
    Who would you most like to give it to!
    How long you been lurkin?
    Facials or Pregnancies?
    :coffee:

  • Pryncess

    @ ALBoy since the new emoticons were rolled out. I did announce that I was a newbie. I have to sneak to read on and off soo, not many postings. But all of you are funty as hail! :thumbsup:

  • prynsexxx

    *kinda has a prollem with PRYNCESS vs. PRYNSEXXX"......

    #toocloseinspellingpleasechange

  • Pryncess

    hahahahhahaha I'll get to the welcome kit in a few.. :pc:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @BBW
    "* Smack Man’s ass* Thanks !"
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    Please greet me by:

    :jack:
    or
    :blow:

    thanks.
    :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    Wait so you make a big deal about not getting one then I take the time to retype all those questions again even add you a specail on e and you'll "Get to it in a Min" :no: Ungratful

  • Bigbadwolf

    @ Man
    Please greet me by:

    :eatme:

    :lick:

    :tittays:

    Thank u

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    chase says:

    man o’ man if only I could of won this contest my payment is a MUG…
    __________________

    Everyone had an equal chance to win. You can't win if you don't make an effort to enter.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Mamacita says:

    *sigh*
    @SANDRA When are you going to have a contest for folks outside of ATL?!? I have plenty of bills you can pay!
    _________________

    I got you next time! :yes:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    LUSCIOUS LOLITA says:

    So………….. yall think Blu gon ever come back
    Maybe he’ll change his name and put up a new gravi!
    __________________

    What happened to Blu? Never mind. I just saw the answer.

  • CFREE

    @BBW :lol: :yes:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    SamYell JacksEm is AWESOME says:

    Damn Sandra I was counting on that money. Oh well, back to prostitutin :kona:
    ________________

    Sorry sweetie. Maybe next time. :)

  • 2cents

    Everyone had an equal chance to win. You can’t win if you don’t make an effort to enter.
    _________________

    Not if you did not live within 25 miles of Atlanta

    #juststatingthefacts

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Sandra yesterday he announced that he had incestuous relations a couple times. Some of the members here decided to inform him that such behavior was/is unacceptable. :coffee:

  • Bigbadwolf

    Blu didn't have the heart. U see Man didn't go anywhere, Luscious has a different poem for encounter with the chick wit the dyck all the time :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    BBW
    I was tappin into my artistic side :grin:

  • kingstonn

    Reading really is FUNdamental. Sheesh.

  • Pryncess

    @ prynsexxx :peace: in da 'hood! :cheers:

    @ ALBoy I have a job that I'd like to keep. I'm very grateful :hug:

    @ LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS I feel like I've know you for 1k posts! :waves: you are :rofl:

  • prynsexxx

    Pryncess says:

    @ prynsexxx in da ‘hood!
    ____________________

    Hmph.....I'll think about it! :wink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8SdzwoIcwo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    I'm glad I could entertain you Pryncess

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @BBW
    "Blu didn’t have the heart. U see Man didn’t go anywhere, Luscious has a different poem for encounter with the chick wit the dyck all the time"
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    Being in that I wasn't with no "chick wit a dyck," I don't find those poems amusing at all.
    :coffee:

  • Pryncess

    Where you from: The womb

    how you make your money: Working...it!

    kids: 1

    male female: Female

    head on the first date: Sure, I'd love some!

    fav celeb: The one that shares their wealth with me.....none

    are you a freak: depends on who you ask.

    fav Sr member: ummm Sugarwalls is funny and Man I just don't care is ig'nant as hail...loves it!

    funniest thing you’ve read on SR: Every post where SR calls someone a concubine.

    Who would you most like to give it to! Iono...too many of these dudes have a :homoswitch:

    How long you been lurkin? A year maybe...could never catch open registration.

    Facials or Pregnancies? :huh: :wtf:

  • Destinee

    @Kandrea :applause: Very well said.... but since you have a little extra cash, Party @ ur house!

    :party:

  • Amy

    :newbie:, too. Hello Feline, Good morning everyone!!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Prycess Facials vs Pregnancies is a very complex debate that has been on going for centuries/a few posts you simply pick one.

  • Destinee

    @ Pryncess, you will fit right in!

  • Pryncess

    @ AlBoy Ok, I choose Pregnancies. Now Amy nees a welcome pack!

    Hi Amy, :welcome:

  • Pryncess

    @ Destinee, Thanks!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Feline Pryncess Amy :welcome:
    Where you from
    how you make your money
    kids
    male female
    head on the first date
    fav celeb
    are you a freak
    fav Sr member
    funniest thing you’ve read on SR
    Who would you most like to give it to!
    How long you been lurkin?
    Facials or Pregnancies?
    What Celeb would you say you resemble?
    Whats the freakiest thing you have ever done?
    :coffee:

  • CFREE

    AMY!!! welcome to the trap house! Its goin down! :danban1:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Destinee thats a pretty Gravi you have there I see you lookin like Shug avery 2011 not a joke I thought Shug was Fine :shrug:

  • CFREE

    Oh yeah @Pryncess & AMY, im cfree shakedanceextraordinaire pleased to meet ya, now throw sum tips in da jar :claps: <<<azz clap for the newbies ;)

  • CFREE

    U SHOL IS UGLY!!! :rofl: ALBOY U STOOOPID

  • CFREE

    btW @Destinee that was not directed at u sug, but that movie line is classic! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    Destinee is Pretty to me its not a joke :no:

  • Pryncess

    LMAOOOFF @ AlBoy crossing out our names and adding another. *messy*

    Hey @ CFREE *throwstipsinjar* :cheer:

  • Amy

    @AL
    -Little Rock, AR
    -State of AR employee
    -1
    -Really!?!?! A male named Amy??
    -LOL!! :hailnaw: Not even receiving it!!
    -I don't have a fav celeb but I love FASHION!!!
    -Yes, for MISTER!!
    -All y'all are hilarious! Been coming to this site for a while now. Love to read the comments.
    -Sandra's personal feelings about celebs always crack me up.
    -Tyrese or Dwight Howard, I feel some kind of way about them both
    -:thinking:
    -Most definitely facials!!
    -2011 Monique
    -WOW!!!

    How do I change my gravi??

  • CFREE

    @AMY :waiting:

  • CFREE

    TYRESE & DWIGHT HOWARD! :yahoo: AMY WE R >>HERE<< :hump:

  • Amy

    HEYYY @ CFREE!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    @ Amy Welcome go to gravater log in with the same email/password you signed up with and you should be straight! Oh You must put up the customary Booty tooted up pick they make you do it :shrug:

  • Pryncess

    I used to want ll cool j(he gets no caps), but... :homoswitch:

  • CFREE

    PRYNCESS, only the 80's early 90's cool James :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @AL
    :shocked:
    I don't think an azzshot is required for everyone.. :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA ALBoy

    I figured everybody gets the same treatment you know I got to keep my Exotic Boo Count Right! :yes:

  • Pryncess

    CFREE, yesss!