Macy’s fires woman for refusing to allow transgender into women’s dressing room
A Macy’s department store in Texas is in the news today after the store’s manager fired a saleswoman for refusing to allow a man dressed as a woman to enter the women’s dressing room.
Natalie Johnson admits she watched the customerr from the start, and she made a beeline toward the shopper when he/she tried to enter the women’s dressing room.
Johnson told KSAT 12: “I had to just straight forward tell him, ‘You’re a man,’ and of course that really got him steamed.”
Citing her strict religious beliefs, Johnson told her manager she didn’t agree with Macy’s policy that allows transgender people to use the dressing rooms of their perceived gender.
“There are no transgenders in the world. A guy can dress up as a woman all he wants, that’s still not going to make you a woman,” Johnson said.
Johnson told KSAT 12 she filed a complaint with the federal employment commission, saying her views on religion prevent her from recognizing transgendered people.
Liberty Council, a conservative Christian organization dedicated to religious freedoms, sided with Johnson, arguing that Macy’s policy should be changed.
“Macy’s has essentially opened women’s dressing rooms to every man. The LGBT agenda has become the theater of the absurd.”
Macy’s, which declined to comment on the specific case, stood by the store’s policy, saying “At Macy’s, we recognize and appreciate the diversity of our customers and associates.”
So any pervert can dress up in women’s clothing and walk into the women’s dressing room? Where do they draw the line in their eagerness to appease one group by trampling on the rights of others?
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That’s some BO (Tracy Braxton voice)
I believe she has a lawsuit on her hand as woman if I walked into a bathroom and seen a transgender standing there I probably would be like hold up, hold up, hold up woa dere(roscoe dash voice)
If “she” still had a dck, “she” did not belong in the ladies dressing room.
I don’t agree with the rest of what the employee said though.
This will be interesting…
If you have a dyck, go to the rooms for dycks. Is this insensitive? #honestquestion
Macy’s should have a policy against her eyeglasses.
She is not working there to spread her beliefs. If their policy is to allow transgenders in then she is to abide. You don’t own the company lady..you don’t make the rules and you don’t get to change them as you see fit
For the person, either dressing room would have been awkward. I don’t know how else the situation will be remedied. I wonder how she feels about judging people, is that not against her religion?
Who run the world….. #GAYS
No offense but it seems that any little thing done to them is grounds for outrage.
Just because you wear woman’s clothes doesn’t make you a woman. Macy’s has those open dressing rooms where you see everybody. I don’t even like looking at other women in them so I KNOW I don’t want to see some man with his nuts and twigs tucked.
I totally agree with her. Just because a man dresses up like a woman, says that he was borned the wrong gender or feels that he is a woman trapped in a man’s body, too bad – God made you a man for a reason…A man is a man and a woman is a woman.
Macy’s won’t learn until someone gets raped. I am sick and tired of gays and whatever else they are calling themselves, having more rights than everyone else. I for one, refuse to be in a dressing room with a MAN who I do not know.
Macy’s has a return policy. Next time take the clothes home and try them on…
Forget Bey, I think this is the post that’s gone generate some heat today.
I agree with the saleswoman….this is some bullshat!
Chances are that someone is watching you on camera in the dressing room anyway
Yes..this will be interesting! I wondered if this was covered in training because it sounds like it wasn’t. She clearly saw a man and was attempting to do the right thing…
Was she aware of the Macy’s transgendered policy? If so she was wrong. I guess
I think she is right, the salesperson. The man should have used the men’s dressing room. If you choose to live as a woman that is between you and your choices but don’t subject others to be uncomfortable. We live in a cruel impressionable world. My thing is the kids, who are impressionable. My daughter is 7 and I spent half a day trying to respectfully explain to her that her grandmother is married to another woman. How do you explain why my mothers “wife” looks like a man, wears male clothing, yet is a woman? I asked my daughter why she would think ____ is a woman and she replied she has low hair and wears boy clothes. I think we live in a time were people want everything to be acceptable. There used to be right and wrong. Although there is nothing new under then sun, there was a time when even those who opted to dress as women or men did so privately and you never really heard of things like this. I take no joy in explaining to my child the ways of the world, to instill what is right or wrong while not teaching hate can be challenging. It is a prayerful process.
It was still a man…therefore he did not need to be in the WOMEN’S dressing room.
She was doing her job!
in a few years they will start making dressing rooms SPECIFICALLY for transgendered folks… mark my words…
I believe to each its own but if I a woman is in the dressing room or my daughter and a man walks in with a wig on I could give two fukks if he thanks he is a woman, he is not.
People kill me when they decide to be “differnt” which they are allowed to be but they still need to recognize that not everyone is go along with your decision.
ITA!
FeFe says:
in a few years they will start making dressing rooms SPECIFICALLY for transgendered folks… mark my words…
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Mmm..hmmm smh! &&when that happens I’m going to get my life together cause I know the end will be near!
@FeFe..
I agree…they will have transgendered dressing rooms in the future.
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And er’body else I forgot!!
One mo day till Friday!!
Growing up the ONLY THING we had to worry about IN THE PUBLIC SETTING Gender-wise was Female-n-Male… NOW Things are getting REAL TWISTED and QUITE ABSURD !!! END OF DAYZ is Vastly Approaching (Far TOO MUCH Foolishness Happening)
This is a tough one. If there was a policy in place and she didn’t follow it, she’s SOL. If Macy’s never educated their employees on the policy or informed them of the policy then she might have a case.
Right now her attorney needs to stop allowing her to give interviews. Her words might come back to bite her on the arse.
FeFe says:
in a few years they will start making dressing rooms SPECIFICALLY for transgendered folks… mark my words…
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I wouldn’t be surprised, they have gay high schools in some cities.
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I wouldn’t be surprised, they have gay high schools in some cities.
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Thats just sad!
christians, i swear. so judgmental. lady, go bible beat on ur own time. she deserved to be fired because she handled it poorly. it’s a quick fix going forward. the dressing rooms will now be labeled dressing rooms. line all them ****s up on the wall together, no men/women, etc. you’ll see.
when folks gone learn that YOU’RE NOT GOD. the bible is a farse. god took the time from his busy schedule 70000 years ago to write a MF best seller. I CANT. amen.
Anna says:
FeFe says:
in a few years they will start making dressing rooms SPECIFICALLY for transgendered folks… mark my words…
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I wouldn’t be surprised, they have gay high schools in some cities.
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Yeah, I did hear about one in New York a few years back…
Great gravi @LaTech Project Runway AllStars Jan.2012
On topic: So Macy’s selling Religion now.
She is in the wrong line of work. She clearly didnt see that raunchy ass sequin Sean John dress I got outta there.
@Dawn
OMG, Point….You’re gonna conjure up a visit from Redeemed….
Mark my words, y’all…
If the store police states that its ok then she doesn’t have the authority to tell a customer it isn’t. She was in the wrong regardless of her religious beliefs. And if she felt that strongly about it then she shouldn’t work at maceys. There’s plenty of places that have unisex bathrooms and dressing rooms now.
KY!!
I think they SHOULD have transgendered dressing rooms. That way we won’t have problems like this.
Hey OTB! Thanks for the info, I’ll definitely be tuning in!!
She is in the wrong line of work. She clearly didnt see that raunchy ass sequin Sean John dress I got outta there.
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How in the sunny side up of hell did I miss my sesi beast, OTB!!
What up, mami?!?
@point Yes Christians are extremely judgmental….I am not Christian or anything under the religious realm. I am a person and its something about going against your anatomy that disturbs me. I have no problem with homosexuality but when u dress like the opposite sex and force other to accept u I have a problem. Im sure the salesperson was told not to let me in the dressing room….so she didn’t!
me=men
*policy
What PHO said.
I’m confused she can get thrashed about her religious beliefs but not the transgender who obviously has beliefs of his own.
she doesnt own macys so ohwell to her, get another job where trannys dont shop
@E-love
@FeFe I don’t know why they don’t have one already…the situation is getting out of control
@KyCakes
Whaddup Though !!!
@point
Everybody isn’t RULED BY Religion… Some of us are Actually Educated and Just have COMMON SENSE regarding LIFE (In General)
Mother Jefferson says:
Chances are that someone is watching you on camera in the dressing room anyway
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Probably Willona from Good Times. (one of my fav episodes)
@NaijaGal Morning BABY
kahmmillion says:
I totally agree with her. Just because a man dresses up like a woman, says that he was borned the wrong gender or feels that he is a woman trapped in a man’s body, too bad – God made you a man for a reason…A man is a man and a woman is a woman.
Macy’s won’t learn until someone gets raped. I am sick and tired of gays and whatever else they are calling themselves, having more rights than everyone else. I for one, refuse to be in a dressing room with a MAN who I do not know.
ELove!!
So I guess any man can go get a cheap lacefront and walk into a dressing room and say I’m transgender. Just checking
@Ky
*smacks your cakes* 
<—not really.
@Lady L where did you get that gravi from?
#want
Posche says:
Macy’s should have a policy against her eyeglasses.
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GM everyone
… and I agree with the salesperson however if its in the guidelines for Macys, she needs to abide by the rules or quit.
chocolate divalicious aka CD says:
I’m confused she can get thrashed about her religious beliefs but not the transgender who obviously has beliefs of his own.
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And here we have the million dollar question that sits in my mind constantly…
But this is a tough one because like many have said, Macy’s has a policy that she should adhere to and if she was aware of this policy then she doesn’t have a leg to stand on…my concern is how many CUSTOMERS (I
Macy’s) are aware of this and would be all good with it… 
I think I’ll lurk with this post…
OutsidetheBox says:
@Lady L where did you get that gravi from?
#want
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@Anna
I believe New York does have a gay high school. I know they started one not sure if its still open to only gays.
If you have a dyck, go to the rooms for dycks.
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This is the confusion I was tambout. I said awhile back can you imagine the confusion on the sales clerk’s face when Derek J takes his spare tire shaped broad shoulder-ed wide footed azz to the women’s shoe department? Or when he is shopping for blouses?
Order your ish online like real women do.
(logs BACK into NY and Company)
chocolate divalicious aka CD says:
So I guess any man can go get a cheap lacefront and walk into a dressing room and say I’m transgender. Just checking
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Whew chile! Get out of my HEAD! I guess my husband or any other random straight man can put on a wig and a skirt and make his way into the women’s dressing room with ease if they shop at Macy’s (dressing room
) … 
stop the madness!
If there is a separation of Church ans State, there should be a separation of Religion and Retail.
That was the store’s policy. Period. If she didn’t like it, she knew where the door was.
This ish is cra!
I have nothing against LBGT community, but this is ridiculous. One second they hollering about equality, but then they want special accomodations. Everything is a problem………smdh.
Also, I would have stopped him as well. He could have been a man dressing up in ladies clothing as a way to get into the dressing room to do some crazy ish. He could have been a sexual predator.
So
I went looking for the maliah picture and the post is :extinct: ?
Then i find this in another post:
Sandra Rose says: I removed the Maliah post because it was sending the wrong message to women (one woman in particular).
CTFU.
The MAN didn’t belong in the womens fitting room POINT BLANK they wrong as hail for firing that lady
naw see, i think she did as she should have. bc if it were me & i looked up & saw a shim in the dressing room i’m suing macy’s ass. this would open the door to any man dressing as a woman to get in the dressing rooms. fck macy’s for firing her. if she was so wrong wth don’t they have a transgender dressing room??? :coffee?
Luscious my dear….
LUSCIOUS!!
I’m generally very open minded about pretty much everything and anything…but a ton of MOMS take their KIDS (me included) into those dressing rooms with them…these days NO ONE can be trusted…I dont agree a transgender male should have a “right” to go into a womens dressing room but I also dont agree with bringing religion into it either. The most neutral way to address it is; ITS A SAFETY ISSUE
Some of these men who dress as women need a dressing room with a big azz mirror though.
Cause some of the shat they be wearing is fugged up. Like that dude who got tossed out of Pizza Hut. That dress he had on was fuggin dreadful.
They need a sales person to keep it real with them.
“That look is NOT working for you hun”
This is a touchy and difficult situation.
Like some say, on one hand you have the “she’s” that dress like “he’s” but want to be known as a “she” and
you have the “she’s” that dress like “he’s” but want to be acknowledged as a “he”.
Most people don’t know the difference, between, gay, transexual, and transgender.
I don’t know how I feel about it, but at lease she didn’t do like the chicks at the McDonald’s.
@OutsidetheBox
I seen that also are you the one Sandra was referring to
Sandra Rose says: I removed the Maliah post because it was sending the wrong message to women (one woman in particular).
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Okay so it was NOT my church momma arms comment. Good to know.
I swear folks DO NOT understand what doors can be opened up accommodating these muhfukkas who like to play dress up…it’s a dangerous world out there!
If the customer allowed the man into the lady’s dressing room, and a female customer got upset and decided to sue…….. What would Macy’s do?
I agree with everything this woman has done and said…
even tho i will say I only back her 50% on that “No transgender in the world” statement
If a nicca has his twig and berries…he just a boy wanting to be a girl and he need to be in the boys dressing room….not transgendered…just confused…
Now if a nicca has taking the steps and surgeries to remove the twig and berries then i consider him as being “transformed” and now would consider him “trans”-gendered in which with no twig and berries (s)he can use what ever dressing room (s)he wants….
Now there was no way for this cashier to know if he still had his twig and berries….so she used her sound judgment to deny access which as a employee of Macy’s she has the right to do…as I’m sure there is a small print that says
Macy’s reserves the right to refuse service to any customer for any reason.
and this would include the use of it dressing rooms especially if public safety is involved and letting a “suspected Man” in to a “open” ladies dressing room is a public safety concern.
And is that pic of Natalie Johnson up top? The fired employee?
Bigbadwolf says:
This is a touchy and difficult situation.
Like some say, on one hand you have the “she’s” that dress like “he’s” but want to be known as a “she” and
you have the “she’s” that dress like “he’s” but want to be acknowledged as a “he”.
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This always confuses me…but it ain’t my world…
It is going to be scary being a straight MALE soon, because these “trannies”, “gays” or whatever they are calling themselves, from my understanding, like straight men….they want to “turn them out”. Men are going to have to start doing genetic tests to make sure that the “woman” that they are with were actually born a “WOMAN” not one that is manufactured by greedy cosmetic surgeons, who will do anything for a buck.
If someone got attacked because of Macy’s policy, then it would bet THEIR ass, not hers.
It’s fine to stand up for what you believe in but you have to be prepared to accept any and all consequences for your actions. Hers was getting fired. And I don’t feel sorry for her.
YSoSerious says:
If there is a separation of Church ans State, there should be a separation of Religion and Retail.
That was the store’s policy. Period. If she didn’t like it, she knew where the door was.
I would let an offended customer sue Macy’s before I lost my job because of their policies.
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@KDUB
Maybe it was Brenden saying she had nice Waka Flaka child bearing hips
Hey Brown!
*hums Plies Becky* How you doing JMO?
I dont know what would be more confusing…
Seeing a guy dressed up as a lady in the Men Dressing area
Trying on Womens clothing or Being a lady seeing the same thing…
Ill be more confused as a dog in a room full of fire Hydrants
This is stupid. A nigga dressed like a woman ain’t interested in no pussy so where is the concern?
Was anyone else even in the dressing room?
She just gave ol boy a whole lot of shine for no reason.
ya’ll I be on the fence about issues like this because I know we live in a society where we are trying to be inclusive, but what about everyone else. As a woman walking into the dressing room I would feel very uncomfortable walking into a dressing room seeing a man walk out. I know that in my class they were discussing how we should have gender neutral restrooms and I was like
but I was scared to say anything because it seemed everyone was gungho about it
@ KDub says:
If you have a dyck, go to the rooms for dycks.
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This is the confusion I was tambout. I said awhile back can you imagine the confusion on the sales clerk’s face when Derek J takes his spare tire shaped broad shoulder-ed wide footed azz to the women’s shoe department? Or when he is shopping for blouses?
Order your ish online like real women do.
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Derick’s shoes always look like they are screaming bloody murder. They lean to the side just like when Precious wears her high heels.
If the customer allowed the man into the lady’s dressing room, and a female customer got upset and decided to sue…….. What would Macy’s do?
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I actually pointed this out in a previous post…
Fefeee!!
<—old girl's lawsuit papers
CFreeeee
KDub!!!
Order your ish online like real women do.
And there we have it. *heads to ebay*
KDub
Luscious
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KDub says:
Sandra Rose says: I removed the Maliah post because it was sending the wrong message to women (one woman in particular).
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Okay so it was NOT my church momma arms comment. Good to know.
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That ish made me crack a rib yesterday…last nite, whenever I saw ‘healthy arms’ I thought of you, KDub..
“christians, i swear. so judgmental.”
How is telling a man (even if he is dressed as a woman) that he’s a man judging? I swear folks do NOT know the definition of judging…
@Celli Cel cute gravi!
Luscious
BBW
OTB
CD
EB says:
If the customer allowed the man into the lady’s dressing room, and a female customer got upset and decided to sue…….. What would Macy’s do?
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They couldn’t fire her and if they did she would actually have a good lawsuit
How does a person know if a person is transgendered or in drag? I like to park in the expectant mothers parking space. I’m not pregnant, but what is a cop going to do? Pee test me?
kahmmillion says:
Derick’s shoes on three wheel motion….
Derick’s shoes always look like they are screaming bloody murder. They lean to the side just like when Precious wears her high heels.
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They need a sales person to keep it real with them.
“That look is NOT working for you hun”
Imagine linebacker looking Derek J using the ladies dressing room just because he’s wearing heels and a purse. I understand being sensitive to their needs but at some point common sense has to prevail.
Is that Miss J from ANTM?
Anywho – I agree with her – If you still got it swinging you’re a man baby!
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
This is stupid. A nigga dressed like a woman ain’t interested in no pussy so where is the concern?
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but how does one actually KNOW this for a fact?????
ChocD
Or was it? 
kahmmillion says:
It is going to be scary being a straight MALE soon, because these “trannies”, “gays” or whatever they are calling themselves, from my understanding, like straight men….they want to “turn them out”. Men are going to have to start doing genetic tests to make sure that the “woman” that they are with were actually born a “WOMAN” not one that is manufactured by greedy cosmetic surgeons, who will do anything for a buck.
^^^^^^^^^^
It’s already at that point. I was watching that “Sydney Starr” person on a talk show. I knew who she was from previous stories on blogs that I read. On the show the topic was “People who want to be reality stars”. She “announced” that she was born a male on the show and that she doesn’t automatically tell men that she was born a male.
The thing is if I didn’t know anything of her prior, I would have never guessed it. Sydney Starr is a gorgeous “female”.
@ELove
I do remember one of her male friends dying from AIDS and seeing his physical deteriorate. Put a face on the disease for me. She once tricked my mom into taking us to a bbq smack dab in the middle of the Gay Parade. They had that Crystal Waters song on a loop and me and my little bro were extremely uncomfortable the entire time we were there.
I have a gay aunt that stayed in the Ickes when I was younger. Thinking back, her house was the only place I remember seeing a gaggle of gay women and men just around. No one ever really made an issue about it though.
Mama!!!
YSO
Ky
& Errybody else!!
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aint read nan comment
Okay so it was NOT my church momma arms comment
“…they will have transgendered dressing rooms in the future.”
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And they will file a lawsuit claiming discrimination.
Sandra Rose says:
Imagine linebacker looking Derek J
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well i live in Europe and the dressing rooms here are unisex for the most part it is NO THING to see a man in his drawers trying on pants in the cubicle next to you,or walk out and check himself in the mirror while you buck naked in the dressing room.. LOL had to get USED to it but now it is no big thing….. hell my neighbor checks her mailbox TOPLESS in the summer !!!!!!!! and if a person is a trnasgender and goes into a female dressing room what does the CLERK have to do with stopping them that is not her JOB to JUDGE….. she supposed to be hanging up ish!!!!
@KYCAKES
seriously, this is ridiculous. macy’s wont get sued, but u can rest assure that many businesses will eventually not label any areas as men/women in the near future. who are you to be confrontational with someone all because of the bible. please stop it. that is between that person and their God. he’s dressed as a woman and goes to the mens room and now the men are offended. sm1 mentioned unisex. that’s not a bad idea either. it’s a different time. you may not agree with it, but you’re accomodating your customers.
I dont agree with malls have 15 parking spots at the start of each parking lot aisle for the handicapped, but they do. I just deal with it and keep it moving. It doesn’t ruin my day. I’d look like a fool arguing about that. She lost her job tryna to enforce her strong beliefs. #FAIL
This is stupid. A nigga dressed like a woman ain’t interested in no pussy so where is the concern?
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I agree. Transgendered means that they feel like they are in the wrong body, so he probably likes men, and feels like a woman.
I think it would be harder for him in the men’s restroom like I GO THERE said.
@Kahmillion
Trannies ain’t fluckin nair nigga that didn’t want to get flucked. Only women get “turned out” babe.
@FeFe (Comment #107)
THEY DON’T !!! @Man… is just BEING BLAND (As He alwayz is The Majority of The Time…)
@Luscions what did I do
We’ve missed you around these parts
FAYLA!!
@OutsidetheBox remember :rightclicksaveas: Maybe she thought you was gettin a lil to excited
I am with the fired employee on this one
This has gotten out of control !
It’s hard to be “different” as it is. We do not what transgendered people go through or think. If it is against your “religion/cult” to engage in such things that is fine. It’s all in how you do it. If you don’t like something that is o.k. but to berate, belittle, and tell someone they are “wrong” for whatever they are choosing to do is not your place.
No one ever stops to think who said if you had a penis you had to be stuck to wearing slacks, trousers..”men” attire? Who said just because you had a vagina you were stuck w/ pink, barrettes, and makeup?? who made these rules??
Its all about the “energy” you were born way. I was born with a vagina but I definitely have more masculine energy than feminine. Do I possess both yes, but one is more dominant than the other.
You should be able to wear the f/ck you want to wear and not be judged.
OutsidetheBox says:
So
I went looking for the maliah picture and the post is :extinct: ?
Then i find this in another post:
Sandra Rose says: I removed the Maliah post because it was sending the wrong message to women (one woman in particular).
CTFU.
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What happened in that post?
@Man… (Comment #118)
TOTALLY AGREE Dawg !!!
hey people i’m back again
On topic : all these body ‘alterations’ are going to cause more and more trouble and perverts will only have more ways to hurt people !
but why is that we have to make all these accommodations for a small group of people like I said I don’t want to see Derek J sashaying out of no dressing room while I am coming out and I think about my 84 year old gma should would have a fit. Off topic: can someone tell me why no one has told Derek J about fitting that elephant body in mouse clothes. We get on big woman all the time pretending to be skinny so why not get on him?
@FEFE
they don’t know what ANYONE goin do. Women rape other women an men rape other men too (Sandusky) so maybe they should let 1 person in the dressing room at a time.
I believe she did the right thing. He could have been a pervert dressed in womens clothing and waited for a woman to come in there, rape and kill her and then leave. If you have a dyck then get dressed in the man’s changing room.
It amazes me that people with strong beliefs in God are labeled as bible thumpers and people hollering quit putting yo religion off on others but a man in a fukkin lacefront and wedges can get sympathy for trying to enter a dressing room to try on some True Religions.
I pretty much doubt that during her orientation she was told oh yeah if a transgender comes in you let that person walk on through.
REAL straight men don’t have anything to worry about. It’s the ones that are in denial about their sexuality that get “turned out”.
Can’t NOBODY make you be attracted to something you are not attracted to on some level. Period.
Unless everyone here is just one “slip” away from playing for the other team, that is.
Fayla
SuthernBelle4 says:
but why is that we have to make all these accommodations for a small group of people
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Because those small group of people are very influential and they use money and intimidation to get their way.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@Kahmillion
Trannies ain’t fluckin nair nigga that didn’t want to get flucked. Only women get “turned out” babe.
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Its more of a safety issue in my opinion. There are men out there that can act like a woman & because of the rules
be allowed in a womens dressing room and potentially harm a woman.
gays have so many rights. that’s y u have to force them to come outta closets to take advantage of said rights.
I feel sorry that they feel that way and they have to live with those emotions everyday. I’m just happy being a woman, looking like a woman, and feeling like a woman, I love men but I would never want to be one.
@Change
People judge other people. Get over it.
chocolate says:
Maybe she thought you was gettin a lil to excited
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The woman I was referring to is someone dear to me who is not a member of this blog.
:rightclicksaveas:
I was trying to be helpful, suggesting emoticons and chit. Sheesh.
@The board: Im hunting new tunes? Whats in your car/Ipods?
@JMO-exactly thats what my point is, you can be whoever you want but there are some sick people out there that will dress up like a woman just to gain access to them to harm them. I know there are times when I am the only person in the changing room in Macys and no one is around the cashier will be putting clothes away etc. yes there are cameras but still you have to wonder…
Why he gotta be ‘sashaying’? Priceless!
YSoSerious says:
REAL straight men don’t have anything to worry about. It’s the ones that are in denial about their sexuality that get “turned out”.
Can’t NOBODY make you be attracted to something you are not attracted to on some level. Period.
Unless everyone here is just one “slip” away from playing for the other team, that is.
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I don’t understand why she can’t use the women’s change room. Hell, it’s 2011 why do we need gendered change rooms to begin with. Why can’t men use the same area too? As a straight woman, I wouldn’t care if a lesbian woman was changing in the stall next to me, so why should I care if a man or a man who thinks she’s a woman changes there too?
That trans woman should be grateful, she’s probably the only customer in Macy’s that got serviced by a sales associate that day anyways.
dressing rooms have doors.
Parents teach their children intolerance through their behavior. Kids don’t think anything is wrong until you tell them or show them it is.
It’s all in how you choose to communciate with your children
It was not her place if Macy has this guideline in place, if she is an employee you follow the rules. If following the rules does not coincide with your beliefs/intergity then leave. If you believe in GOD you know he will support your decision and open door accordingly. You do not have to mistreat/disrespect someone because of what you believe.
Honestly, can we have unisex fitting rooms and restrooms for folks who don’t mind coed situations?
One female, one male, and one for everybody else!
Any perv won’t have to cut a hole in the fitting room wall anymore. He can just walk in with women’s clothes on.
Ace says:
I agree with everything this woman has done and said…
even tho i will say I only back her 50% on that “No transgender in the world” statement
If a nicca has his twig and berries…he just a boy wanting to be a girl and he need to be in the boys dressing room….not transgendered…just confused…
Now if a nicca has taking the steps and surgeries to remove the twig and berries then i consider him as being “transformed” and now would consider him “trans”-gendered in which with no twig and berries (s)he can use what ever dressing room (s)he wants….
Now there was no way for this cashier to know if he still had his twig and berries….so she used her sound judgment to deny access which as a employee of Macy’s she has the right to do…as I’m sure there is a small print that says
Macy’s reserves the right to refuse service to any customer for any reason.
and this would include the use of it dressing rooms especially if public safety is involved and letting a “suspected Man” in to a “open” ladies dressing room is a public safety concern.
LOVE THIS!!! EDUCATED WAY to express your views…. I STILL stick to my view of why was this her business ??? I understand if other customers were there and she felt she was asked to intervene but if NOT she should have called her supervisor to handle it…at least she would have kept her job …
I just scrolled up and re-read OH OKAY she from TEXAS .. nevermind… CARRY ON!!!!!
@CD
It’s not about shim getting sympathy from me, at least. It’s about doing your job and keeping your own personal beliefs out of it.
I don’t believe in God or religion so would it be okay for me to let MY (non)belief affect what I did in the workplace?
@JMO
women can harm other women too and men harm other men,
That’s not a good excuse.
Just let one person in the dressing room at a time.
@Sandra
Oh yo boo told you to remove that big naked azz ASAP. I get it Sandra keep the homefront happy
Thanks Sandra! :brushshouldersoff:
*waves at Sandra’s friend*
@ Mamacita says:
“christians, i swear. so judgmental.”
How is telling a man (even if he is dressed as a woman) that he’s a man judging? I swear folks do NOT know the definition of judging…
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YSoSerious says:
REAL straight men don’t have anything to worry about. It’s the ones that are in denial about their sexuality that get “turned out”.
Can’t NOBODY make you be attracted to something you are not attracted to on some level. Period.
Unless everyone here is just one “slip” away from playing for the other team, that is.
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Agreed…
@ Man, I just don’t care™: So can I dress up as a man and waltz into the mens room with my magnifying glass the next time you’re taking a pee?
@change SAID: You should be able to wear the f/ck you want to wear and not be judged.
AND I Should be able to… WHEN I See a Female that is Just Sooo DAMN Desirable to Me, Walk up to HER (Start hearing that PORNO MUSIC Playing) And Go have Hott butt-Naked SEX with HER Though W/O BEING Labeled An ALL-OUT Man-WHORE & Slutty-Azz MALE (But That’s NOT GONNA HAPPEN !!!)
mrsloveleigh says:
She is not working there to spread her beliefs. If their policy is to allow transgenders in then she is to abide. You don’t own the company lady..you don’t make the rules and you don’t get to change them as you see fit
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@OTB, The Revelations f/ Trey Williams. Don’t Want to Know is a good song. You should check them out
Hey @Brown aka @LL
Hey Fayla
Sup Luscious
gays have so many rights. that’s y u have to force them to come outta closets to take advantage of said rights.
Whew chit now. Point got a point. *Harpo finger wag*
@Man
What is it that I need to get over? I was making a statement
go back to playing w/ your heels/height adjusters…whichever term makes you feel better in the morning
#nojudging
You do not have to mistreat/disrespect someone because of what you believe.
ITA. And I dont even get down with Change. Im resistant as hail.
@85 stop it I say. I’m the last same sex lover to think all guys are gay, but there a lot of “str8″ guys who love the same trannies/transgendered/fem boys they laugh at or talk about. what’s the term: BOY P USSY? right. we dont have enough time, but yeah.
so no tests needed. you like what you like. just that a lot more of yall like girlie boys than would ever admit. ni ggas dont be on the tranny stroll cruising for nothing while wifey/kids at home.
life’s no longer black and white. a lot of schit’s in the gray area now, idc what ur beliefs are or what ya granny told u.
She is not working there to spread her beliefs. If their policy is to allow transgenders in then she is to abide. You don’t own the company lady..you don’t make the rules and you don’t get to change them as you see fit
however I can say I wouldn’t want to undress in a ladies dressing room with a transgender it leaves to much room for women being open to abuse by a tranny or manny 
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Basically
Sandra Rose says:
@ Man, I just don’t care™: So can I dress up as a man and waltz into the mens room with my magnifying glass the next time you’re taking a pee?
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hell naw
@ELOVE
Wearing what you want and fcking whoever you wnat are not even remotely the same thing.
*swoons at Trey Williams voice/aura*
Cot damn.
@LaTech you always been mah girl!
Sandra Rose says:
@ Man, I just don’t care™: So can I dress up as a man and waltz into the mens room with my magnifying glass the next time you’re taking a pee?
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If you are dressed as a man and you looking at another mans dack while he is peeing you should be prepared for the repercussions
(that spelled right?)
The employees views are not apart of this discussion she may not recognize trans people but her employer does…so like many other people who dont agree with the guidelines of many businesses she should work somewhere else…
can someone tell me why no one has told Derek J about fitting that elephant body in mouse clothes. We get on big woman all the time pretending to be skinny so why not get on him?
Surely somebody who goes to him to get their hair did…reads this blog.
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I HAVE. I have written a letter to him on this blog and everything. I even signed it…your sister in Christ.
Yes you should Elove…that is my point…that action would only affect you and the person you are f/cking..
can I dress up as a man and waltz into the mens room with my magnifying glass the next time you’re taking a pee?
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@Sandra Rose
” So can I dress up as a man and waltz into the mens room with my magnifying glass the next time you’re taking a pee?”
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Sandra, women come in the mend restroom all the time. U wouldn’t even need to dress up and I would piss just the same.
It might mess up ur r/ship with ur ol lady cause it’d have u curious bout that lady pleaser I got.
@KyCakes, lol, don’t play like you ain’t never seen Derek J werkin them hips.
I ain’t said ‘nan word about no bible my concern is if I don’t feel comfortable that’s not fair like someone said early if a little old White lady was to see this and sue Macy’s then all hell would broke loose. Ya’ll can say im ‘ignant and what ever else but as a woman I should be able to walk in a dressing room and feel comfortable. Why can’t we just have three dress roomings: one for men, one for women, and a neutral one?
change says:
dressing rooms have doors.
Parents teach their children intolerance through their behavior. Kids don’t think anything is wrong until you tell them or show them it is.
It’s all in how you choose to communciate with your children
It was not her place if Macy has this guideline in place, if she is an employee you follow the rules. If following the rules does not coincide with your beliefs/intergity then leave. If you believe in GOD you know he will support your decision and open door accordingly. You do not have to mistreat/disrespect someone because of what you believe.
so if someone tells a mother to not take her little boy in the girls bathroom because it is for GIRLS this is okay ….no??? and is it okay because he is a little boy and we are worried about safety if we allow the little boy to go to a bathroom alone IMAGINE if this person had went to the male dressing room DRESSED like a woman maybe he was worried about his safety… probably would have been much worse…
Sandra Rose says:
@ Man, I just don’t care™: So can I dress up as a man and waltz into the mens room with my magnifying glass the next time you’re taking a pee?
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Thank you, dear Sandra, for making me re-crack a partially healed rib…
Fuggin
What right does this chick have to tell her employer how to run their business? In a customer oriented environment where you serve people your personal beliefs/faith systems/morals almost always take back seat. She can be religious all she wants, but at the end the day her paycheck is backed by funds from transgender people, gay people, racist people, etc. She needs to get over herself – get professional and keep it moving.
sexyphillygirl says:
@JMO-exactly thats what my point is, you can be whoever you want but there are some sick people out there that will dress up like a woman just to gain access to them to harm them. I know there are times when I am the only person in the changing room in Macys and no one is around the cashier will be putting clothes away etc. yes there are cameras but still you have to wonder…
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right!
MrUnapologetic says:
What right does this chick have to tell her employer how to run their business? In a customer oriented environment where you serve people your personal beliefs/faith systems/morals almost always take back seat. She can be religious all she wants, but at the end the day her paycheck is backed by funds from transgender people, gay people, racist people, etc. She needs to get over herself – get professional and keep it moving.
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Come into the light OTB….
@YSO
We we’re talking about Being Judged (The ACTION wasn’t RELEVANT Baby…)
@change
But AGAIN… IT will NEVER Happen Though (Real Life SHYT)
She is not working there to spread her beliefs
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Well she sure as hail won’t working there to take advantage of the employee discount neither.
Natalie looks HIT.
Hey Vero
@KDub I wish I could have read that letter
@Change
if u a chick that dress as a dude u get judged
if u a dude that dress as a chick u get judged
if u dress in trench coats and wear black all the time u get judged
if u wore a shirt that said u rape children u get judged
GET OVER IT! All that cryin and moanin u doin ain’t goin change nothin. Shut up or wear a dress.
Don’t worry bout my height adjusters either.
SuthernBelle4 says:
@KyCakes, lol, don’t play like you ain’t never seen Derek J werkin them hips.
at those gold pum-pum shorts that he wore…..
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I’m still
Sooo…Are we to automatically assume that a man in a dress is a sick freak pervert looking to rape unsuspecting ladies in dressing rooms?
I’ll be sure to tell Jesus that the next time I see him in his robes and sandals.
I know E-love we can only hope for Change…..
YSoSerious says:
Sooo…Are we to automatically assume that a man in a dress is a sick freak pervert looking to rape unsuspecting ladies in dressing rooms?
I’ll be sure to tell Jesus that the next time I see him in his robes and sandals.
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@OTB,
I’m glad you like him too.
@ ChocD
and 
at the lacefront and true religion jeans!
Choco!
@KyCakes I saw that pic, my homegirl said he looked like an Omega up top and a lady by the bottoms. I couldn’t take it
@K-Dub (Comment #183)
She LQQKS Like that Female (The Cheating-AZZ Preacher’s Wife) from “Which Way Is Up” w/ Richard Pryor… She ended up BEATING HIS AZZ and Making him get her Pregnant (To Get back at HER Husband)
In a perfect world everyone would be treated fairly, but we don’t not saying its right but it is what it is. I have lived in the midwest for about three years now, and I have lived in the whitest of the white towns. When I was Indiana they told Black students that there are places you can’t frequent at night and hell some places in the daytime, yes I was frustrated because of this but I also knew I didn’t want to get yolked up on nobody’s rope. Not saying that these situations relate just saying sometimes you can’t change people’s perceptions and you gotta take the good with the bad
if u have a dack u cant be in the same dressing room..
Hey @vero
@SuthernB…it was quick and to the point that just basically said
with that BOOLSHYT Derek. You know your feet look like squashed sausages in them shoes and they have NEVER made low riders for folks with muffin tops. Man..WOman..or child.
KDub says:
@SuthernB…it was quick and to the point that just basically said with that BOOLSHYT Derek. You know your feet look like squashed sausages in them shoes and they have NEVER made low riders for folks with muffin tops. Man..WOman..or child.
@man
**SIGH*** that’s all I got
Choco….
See…I share sumthin with you and that’s how you do me….
BOOOO…..
You put stalking on a pig and it’s still going to be a pig.
You can dress a dog up and tell him he is a werewolf and he will still be a dog with mental issues.
It’s not what you think you are, it is who God made you to be.
How confusing…born a man, think that you should have been born a woman, get a sex change, turn around and say you changed your mind and start dating a woman and saying that you are now a lesbian. What the hell!! How can anyone follow these logics? All this transgender, trannie, gay….it all just seem like some sort of mental condition.
Kind of extreme, but why is it ok for a man to lie to another man….get a sex change, tell that man that he is a woman, then the straight man finds out that his “g/f” was actually born a man and the law does nothing to the man that lied and said he was a girl. Yet, if a person is given a sexually transmitted disease they are punished by the law. If you lie to the police, on your taxes, sworn statements, etc., you are punished by the law, but you can take a man’s manhood (yeah, a straight man not knowing that he is laying with a man who is pretending to be a woman because chopped of his schlong is taking a man’s manhood from him) not a crime. This country.
@Ky
OKAY OKAY JEEZ 
You shared it with SR
@OutsidetheBox and Choco
Whats that emo yall using up there?
@KAHM
Okay…
@choco oh oh
:cry1: how u be? im hungry i want some egg rolls.. 
@Choco…
Hey Lakerbewski
This entire post is getting straight weird….
@Lakes
Hey babes
@Kycake
and NO 
@CHOCOD
its means cool
@IGO
Getting weird? It’s was weird from the jump.
@ky
hey mama
I’m not religious so I can’t back her on her religious point (although I do agree with it from a “what the sh*t REALLY is issue rather than religion), but she was right.
What going to HAPPEN is a man in a female’s attire will claim he’s Transgendered (cause who really checks) and assert his freedom to use the women’s dressing room or bathroom and end up sexually assaulting someone while in there.
And then whoever owns the store will get sued for not preventing it. I, for one, will not be trying on clothes at Macy’s anymore now that I know of this policy. Sorry.
If you have a penis….take your azz to the urinal or a men’s dressing room or take the sh*t home and try it on. Macy’s has a 60 day return policy, you have 2 months to figure out whether you can tuck your nuts under that dress with some duct tape or return it with no problem. Keep the receipt and move on with life…
@Choco
That should be the emo for blowed out yo mine that lil guy looks like he has smoked some good good.
And this whole “trampling on everyone else’s rights to accommodate a few” agenda of the gays is REALLY starting to work my damn nerves. I don’t give a damn about them getting married- that hurts nobody. But wanting to use female’s bathrooms/dressing rooms/gyno facilities is TOO DAMN MUCH and is starting to make me somewhat unsympathetic to the gay movement.
Don’t be surprised when the LGBT movement turns into “The Boy who Cried Wolf” for many folks and then an issue that may REALLY be pivotal and nned support won’t have it from the majority from being pissed off by smaller issues such as this. Gotta pick your battles wisely sometimes.
So I’m supposed to believe the man with the dress and wig on, wants to use the ladies dressing room, so he can ravage some unsuspecting woman…
Just because she felt uncomfortable seeing a man dressed up as a woman in the dressing room doesn’t mean that it’s right or that everyone else feels that way… Macy’s policy was that it was ok for him/her to be there which is why she’s unemployed right now…. #theend…. It was not this lady’s job to spread her personal value system at work…Her job was probably to check people out or sell people perfume or something…
YSoSerious says:
@IGO
Getting weird? It’s was weird from the jump
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TRUE….
DOUGIE!!
I agree with your last paragraph but I still say it wasn’t the employee’s place to do what she did no matter what she thought/believed.
Hello
Choco
AndThenIHitMyDougie says:
And this whole “trampling on everyone else’s rights to accommodate a few” agenda of the gays is REALLY starting to work my damn nerves. I don’t give a damn about them getting married- that hurts nobody. But wanting to use female’s bathrooms/dressing rooms/gyno facilities is TOO DAMN MUCH and is starting to make me somewhat unsympathetic to the gay movement.
Don’t be surprised when the LGBT movement turns into “The Boy who Cried Wolf” for many folks and then an issue that may REALLY be pivotal and nned support won’t have it from the majority from being pissed off by smaller issues such as this. Gotta pick your battles wisely sometimes.
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I dont agree but its your opinion… smh
Its : cool: @ChocD.
:Chocoisbatshyt:
Change said come into the light. So I put mah sunnies on…
Whats so weird @ EGO
This entire post reminds me of when JJ dressed up as a woman to get access to the womans dressing room to talk to Wilona on Good Times lmao
Hey you beautiful people!
I personally believe the tranny got offended and Macy’s got to firing simply because it was Rahj from What’s Happenin’ that raised all the hayle.
How do you raise hayle like that with Cracker Jack box glasses on? Those are offensive. What if the tranny made a case out of those glasses and got HER fired? Told HER that SHE had no business in the store period because of the glasses? Seriously?
Rahj handled this wrong, which is probably why she got turned loose. Macy’s is an “at will” employer. They can let you go for anything at anytime. She ain’t getting one thin dime. She better melt those glasses down.
Choco aka Hippie says:
Whats so weird @ EGO
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I dont know guess the topic
While I gives not one bit of shait about dude or shall I say
ole girl going to the changing room… its just a weird case of events.
I know the sales lady felt a certain way and I know other people did.
so I kinda dig it but it still leaves me thinking REALLY?
For all those hawking about her reason being totally religion- she was wrong for that, and I totally agree.
BUT…
Let common sense prevail here… let me use Atypical’s statement for an example:
“So I’m supposed to believe the man with the dress and wig on, wants to use the ladies dressing room, so he can ravage some unsuspecting woman..”
Gee, that’s so far-fetched, who would even suspect that?
Like who is supposed to believe that an apt complex maintenance man would rap, murder and kill one of the 7-year old tenants?
Like who is supposed to believe that some simple bish from Detroit would beat her 3-month old until he died to make him stop crying?
Like who is supposed to believe that a woman and her boyfriend while babysitting a friends kid would perform a sexual act on a baby and give the baby an STD?
Like who is supposed to believe a world-renowned Bishop would use his all-boys school to pick his prey and sexually use them?
Like who is supposed to believe a well-endeared owner of a charity for underprivileged would use his charity and his “youth-attendees” as a way to pick his fav young boys and sexually assault them for years?
Like who is supposed to believe all of this is as possible as a man wearing women’s clothing to gain access to a women’s dressing room and unsuspectedly rape/assault them or worse?
Does that answer your question, now?
KayCei – How it do what it do!
*sticks the mic in Atypical’s face*
Jeez Dougie, why you gotta break it down so hard.
They aint wont Bey to be great @Cali.
XOXO.
Imma pick that post for SR High Game Day later though.
@Kashmillion damn you even got me confused about my sexuality reading that post
OTB – What up baby girl
Hey Cali! Girl same ol’ same ol’ sugah..cain’t kill nuthin’ won’t nuthin die.
Hey Dougie! I agree with your points though, despite Rahj & the glasses, I would feel very uncomfortable if a man was using the same dressing rooms as me. Very.
This is too much and not enough. Smh. People can go on out here and chop their bodies up into bite size pieces in order to be a woman/man if they want to. I don’t care. It wouldn’t be me. And nothing in my mind will ever equate a man being born as a man as a woman. EVER. And I’m not about to play crazy with these folks either. Shyt.
Born an male = male.
Born a female = female.
Now if you desire the opposite sex, then do you. But all this cube steaking and shyt is getting ridiculous.
THE WORLD IS SO ARSE BACKWARDS
FORCE FEEDING THEIR LIFESTYLES DOWN OTHER FOLKS THROATS
HAVING MORALS OR STATING YOUR BELIEFS IS NOW FROWNED UPON, AND WE ARE ALL SUPPOSE TO SING KUMBAYA AND SUPPORT & EMBRACE PRETTY SOON PUBLIC RAW DOGGING AMONGST WHOEVER FEELS MOVED TO PARTICIPATE, BEASTIALITY, INCEST MARRIAGES, & SEX WITH MINORS
THE LINES ARE SO BLURRED-EVERYTHING IS ALLOWED AS LONG AS YOU CAN ASSEMBLE ENOUGH PEOPLE TOGETHER TO SUPPORT IT
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH RAISING YOUR CHILDREN WITH MORALS AND VALUES, ESPECIALLY MAKING A DISTINCTION BETWEEN WHAT IS RIGHT AND WHAT IS WRONG, REGARDLESS OF WHAT SOCIETY, MEDIA, GOVERNMENT MAY SAY
THEY MAY HAVE THE RIGHT TO DRESS UP AS WOMEN, MARRY ONE ANOTHER, ETC. BUT AS AN INDIVIDUAL YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT NOT TO SUPPORT OR CONDONE IT
AND THAT’S MY RIGHT, BOTTOM LINE
FORCE FEEDING THEIR LIFESTYLES DOWN OTHER FOLKS THROATS…..
AS AN INDIVIDUAL YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT NOT TO SUPPORT OR CONDONE IT….
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AND NOW THAT A POSSIBLE RAPIST/PEDOPHILE WHO HAS SEEN THIS STORY AND NOW KNOWS THAT THEIR POLICY ALLOWS TRANSGENDERS ARE ALLOWED IN WOMEN’S DRESSING ROOMS
HEY THEY JUST MIGHT TRY IT, CRIMINALS ARE ALWAYS TRYING NEW TACTICS
I’ve had BOTH experiences. I have experienced a man dressed up as a woman in a movie theatre bathroom……and it was scary as phugg. I went into the ladies room during the middle of a very popular movie. There was no people roaming the outside halls, and nobody else in the bathroom but….shim. Okay. I go into the bathroom and this person is standing in front of the mirror, but acting strangely. I decide to do my business and get the phugg out. As I go to wash my hands, the person standing in front of the mirror is giving off strange vibes, and I tell myself that I have to glance at the person on the sly. I do so, and BEHOLD! It is a man in drag! I was SOOOO phuggin scared. I kept telling myself to stay calm so that I will not end up a statistic as a slasher victim (Dressed To Kill). I remain calm and get out in one piece.
In another situation, a gay man tried to molest my son in an empty bathroom at McDonalds.
Keci and Instense – Well said
I co-sign
When it comes to infriggin on other folks and children. You back the heck off. Folks took being politically correct into…I’m gonna do what I want and THEN hide behind a movement.
@MrsMom – That is horrible, how did you stop the incident with your son?
@ caligirl says:
@Kashmillion damn you even got me confused about my sexuality reading that post
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Hell, I was confused myself and I typed it. lol. But, they are confused their dam selves, but they want to shove it down your throat and force you to believe what they believe. I for one, do not think that anal leakage is not ok. They need to think about the nurses who are going to have to take care of them when the elasticity wears out in their arses after they have been busting it wide open for many many years.
@cal MrsMommy says:
In another situation, a gay man tried to molest my son in an empty bathroom at McDonalds.
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caligirl says:
@MrsMom – That is horrible, how did you stop the incident with your son?
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As a matter of fact, I was in Cali when this happened. There had been numereous accounts of children being killed or molested in public bathrooms, some at the beach. Authorities recommended that a guardian stand outside the door, speaking to the child at intervals. So, the person knew I was ready to spring into action at any moment my son did not respond or sound right to me. He later told me that this man kept peeking over the bathroom stall at him. He finally told him “Didn’t your mother teach you any manner?” And the man left with his friend, who was outside with me TRYING TO DIVERT MY ATTENTION.
I dont know guess the topic
While I gives not one bit of shait about dude or shall I say
ole girl going to the changing room… its just a weird case of events.
I know the sales lady felt a certain way and I know other people did.
so I kinda dig it but it still leaves me thinking REALLY?
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INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:
THE WORLD IS SO ARSE BACKWARDS
FORCE FEEDING THEIR LIFESTYLES DOWN OTHER FOLKS THROATS
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Are you kidding me?
That is an ignorant comment…Thats the same thing white people used to say to us about being black…ugh black people blow my mind with the kind of blind hate they spew…I bet its not something being shoved down your throat when you hangin with your best gay guy friend…
Ugh nevermind on to the next post>>>> Yeah im mad at the level of ignorance in this post…
And Dougie…all of those examples are true but are we supposed to live in fear because of a small portion of people that are monsters? NO because if thats the case then every muslim that walks around in a burka is a terrorist and i should run when i see them cause they just might blow me up…If i thought like that I would never leave my home…
“Didn’t your mother teach you any manner?” And the man left with his friend, who was outside with me TRYING TO DIVERT MY ATTENTION.
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Did you report them?
kahmmillion says:
@cal MrsMommy says:
In another situation, a gay man tried to molest my son in an empty bathroom at McDonalds.
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That’s why I don’t let kids go to the bathroom alone. If it’s a boy…I wait until everyone leaves the ladies room and take him in there. It it’s a girl…she definately goes with me. That’s insane. I would have mollywopped his arse across that damn floor. Cause you know, there is noone stronger than a mama bear protecting her cubs.
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Kahmillion: He was visiting his older cousins and wanted to be a big boy. I had always taken him to the ladies room with me, but he was adament that he was going to the boys room by himself: but I stood guard like the authorities recommended.
kahmmillion says:
@ caligirl says:
@Kashmillion damn you even got me confused about my sexuality reading that post
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Hell, I was confused myself and I typed it. lol. But, they are confused their dam selves, but they want to shove it down your throat and force you to believe what they believe. I for one, do not think that anal leakage is not ok. They need to think about the nurses who are going to have to take care of them when the elasticity wears out in their arses after they have been busting it wide open for many many years.
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See this is what i mean when i say ignorant…
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Choco aka Hippie says:
“Didn’t your mother teach you any manner?” And the man left with his friend, who was outside with me TRYING TO DIVERT MY ATTENTION.
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Did you report them?
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Choco: My precious son did not tell me anything about it until I was tucking him into bed. You can imagine the horror I felt, because one of them was trying to divert my attention as I periodically opened the door and asked my son if he were alright.
So, by the time I found out, it was too late. I was just lucky that I had a kid that had no problem speaking up for himself. Many kids won’t do this.
I DON’T HAVE TO ARGUE OR SOLIDIFY MY BELIEFS TO ANYONE, HOW I WAS RAISED, WHAT I BELIEVE, AND WHAT I WILL PASS ON TO MY CHILDREN IS “MY” BUSINESS
NOTICE “MY” WHAT YOU DO WITH YOURS IS “YOUR” BUSINESS
YOU OR NOBODY ELSE CAN TELL ME WHAT TO BELIEVE AND OR WHAT TO TEACH MY CHILD EITHER
YOUR RIGHT TO SUPPORT TRANSGENDERS-MARCH ON
AND MINE TO TELL MY CHILDREN THAT MEN DRESSED UP AS WOMEN HAVE SOME EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES AND SHOULD SEEK TREATMENT, MAY GOD BLESS THEM & WE’LL PRAY FOR THEIR HEALING
AT THE END OF THE DAY, MY BELIEF AINT STOPPING THEM AND VICE VERSA, NO HARM NO FOUL
@Kash – I so done with you
please :coffin:
But what you are saying abut anal…is true. My family member is a mortician and I was suprised about the stories about the size of folks bootie holes.
mrsloveleigh says:
She is not working there to spread her beliefs. If their policy is to allow transgenders in then she is to abide. You don’t own the company lady..you don’t make the rules and you don’t get to change them as you see fit
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Macy Dont Pay for Her For Her Opinon No matter right or Wrong!
@ MANNIE
WHAT’S IGNORANT IS YOUR ATTITUDE THAT TRANSGENDERS CAN EXERCISE THEIR RIGHTS AND I CAN’T
Mannie the ignorance around here sometimes is depressing, but what can you do
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:
I DON’T HAVE TO ARGUE OR SOLIDIFY MY BELIEFS TO ANYONE, HOW I WAS RAISED, WHAT I BELIEVE, AND WHAT I WILL PASS ON TO MY CHILDREN IS “MY” BUSINESS
NOTICE “MY” WHAT YOU DO WITH YOURS IS “YOUR” BUSINESS
YOU OR NOBODY ELSE CAN TELL ME WHAT TO BELIEVE AND OR WHAT TO TEACH MY CHILD EITHER
YOUR RIGHT TO SUPPORT TRANSGENDERS-MARCH ON
AND MINE TO TELL MY CHILDREN THAT MEN DRESSED UP AS WOMEN HAVE SOME EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES AND SHOULD SEEK TREATMENT, MAY GOD BLESS THEM & WE’LL PRAY FOR THEIR HEALING
AT THE END OF THE DAY, MY BELIEF AINT STOPPING THEM AND VICE VERSA, NO HARM NO FOUL
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YOu are correct that your beliefs are yours but think about it this way…A white person can talk bad about blacks to there kids instilling in them a blind hatred..So i dont see how you can say no harm no foul…that kind of thinking allows a circle of biggotry to continue…
Yes i compared the struggle of black to that of gays because a struggle is a struggle to those going through it…
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:
I DON’T HAVE TO ARGUE OR SOLIDIFY MY BELIEFS TO ANYONE, HOW I WAS RAISED, WHAT I BELIEVE, AND WHAT I WILL PASS ON TO MY CHILDREN IS “MY” BUSINESS
NOTICE “MY” WHAT YOU DO WITH YOURS IS “YOUR” BUSINESS
YOU OR NOBODY ELSE CAN TELL ME WHAT TO BELIEVE AND OR WHAT TO TEACH MY CHILD EITHER
YOUR RIGHT TO SUPPORT TRANSGENDERS-MARCH ON
AND MINE TO TELL MY CHILDREN THAT MEN DRESSED UP AS WOMEN HAVE SOME EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES AND SHOULD SEEK TREATMENT, MAY GOD BLESS THEM & WE’LL PRAY FOR THEIR HEALING
AT THE END OF THE DAY, MY BELIEF AINT STOPPING THEM AND VICE VERSA, NO HARM NO FOUL
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INTENSEMOCHA: I’ve done some studying in psychology, and the issue does start in the brain. It’s sorta like people with body dysmorphia, who look like famine victims but believe they are morbidly obese.
There are even cases of people trying to cut off arms and legs because they view them as hinderances. I can’t remember the name of this disorder.
I wish that there was a medical solution instead of doctors making money cutting off body parts, or chemicalizing them to make them into something they are not.
I bet its not something being shoved down your throat when you hangin with your best gay guy friend…
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ANOTHER IGNORANT STATEMENT, JUST BECAUSE YOU DON’T SUPPORT OR CONDONE SOMEONE’S LIFESTYLE DOESN’T MEAN THAT YOU RUN/HIDE/ISOLATE YOURSELF FROM THEM
THEY EXIST AND I EXIST, HELL BUT I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH MAKING MY BELIEFS VERY CLEAR
A GAY FRIEND IS NOT AN ISSUE IF I HAD ONE, BUT I DON’T
IT’S THE MORALS/VALUES I’M TEACHING MY CHILDREN
I HAVE GAY FAMILY MEMBERS AND THEY CHOOSE TO LIVE THEIR LIFE ACCORDING TO THEIR VALUES, BUT THEY ALSO ARE AWARE OF MINE-
WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS TAKING MY BELIEFS PERSONALLY, IF A WHITE PERSON DOESN’T LIKE BLACKS I’M NOT OFFENDED, IT’S THEIR RIGHT
AS LONG AS THEY DON’T INFRINGE UPON MINE
BIG DIFFERENCE SWEETIE, THERE WILL ALWAYS BE THOSE WHO HAVE DIFFERENCE OF OPINIONS TOLERANCE AND ACCEPTANCE ARE TWO TOTALLY DIFFERENT THINGS
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:
@ MANNIE
WHAT’S IGNORANT IS YOUR ATTITUDE THAT TRANSGENDERS CAN EXERCISE THEIR RIGHTS AND I CAN’T
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Okay i have never said that you cant exercise your rights. And lets get some definitions going…A transgendered person has gone through surgery and hormone replacement which would by medical standards make them a woman…a drag queen is a man in a dress…If my medical and governement standards a person can be identified as a woman then they should be able to use the facilities set aside for women…now a drag queen he nees to go to the mens area because he is a man in a dress…
Now back to your rights that i said you cant exercise…what would those rights be?
@manni – Mannie says:
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@Kashmillion damn you even got me confused about my sexuality reading that post
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I’m far FROM BEING CONFUSED about my sexuality. I was only joking, as Kash, was tryin to get so many points across. However, at the end of the day…Grown folks can make their own decisions. But leaves babies, young chiledren and the mentally disabled the fluck alone.
IT’S NOT ILLEGAL TO DISLIKE BLACKS OR GAYS
IT’S ILLEGAL TO INFRINGE UPON THEIR CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS
THERE ARE WHITES WHO STILL ENCOURAGE RACISM, BUT I CAN’T MAKE THEM STOP MY JOB IS TO INFORM MY CHILD THEY EXIST AND THE BEST WAY TO HANDLE HERSELF IF SHE EVER EXPERIENCES IT
IT’S NOT A KUMBAYA WORLD LIKE WE ALL WOULD LIKE TO THINK, I DON’T HAVE TO AGREE WITH TRANSGENDERS OR THEIR LIFESTYLE AND I WON’T APOLOGIZE FOR MY BELIEFS
caligirl says:
@manni – Mannie says:
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@Kashmillion damn you even got me confused about my sexuality reading that post
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I’m far FROM BEING CONFUSED about my sexuality. I was only joking, as Kash, was tryin to get so many points across. However, at the end of the day…Grown folks can make their own decisions. But leaves babies, young chiledren and the mentally disabled the fluck alone.
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Sorry should have edited my post what i wrote wasnt directed to you
@Mannie That’s like me walking around telling everyone I’m white when CLEARLY I’m not. I can bleach my skin all I want but it won’t make me white. Look at MJ!
So why is this not that case for the transgendered?
Hello everybody. Long time lurker..infrequent poster.
I wonder what would’ve happened were it a woman dressed as a man, going into the men’s dressing room? hmmm.
I agree with the saleswoman.
And also, if I’d been in that dressing room and an (obvious) male walked in..wig or no…I’d make a big rukus. We had that situation here at my job…a transgender wanted the key to the female rest room. Rather than give it to her/him…one of my co-workers just walked away. It was quite the issue around here for awhile.
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:
IT’S NOT ILLEGAL TO DISLIKE BLACKS OR GAYS
IT’S ILLEGAL TO INFRINGE UPON THEIR CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS
THERE ARE WHITES WHO STILL ENCOURAGE RACISM, BUT I CAN’T MAKE THEM STOP MY JOB IS TO INFORM MY CHILD THEY EXIST AND THE BEST WAY TO HANDLE HERSELF IF SHE EVER EXPERIENCES IT
IT’S NOT A KUMBAYA WORLD LIKE WE ALL WOULD LIKE TO THINK, I DON’T HAVE TO AGREE WITH TRANSGENDERS OR THEIR LIFESTYLE AND I WON’T APOLOGIZE FOR MY BELIEFS
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Just gonna agree to disagree…
People no longer have morals, the structure has been broken down for us to accept anything. “Do What Thou Wilt” is becoming the message in society.
@Mrs.Mommy – I was taking my son to the bathroom with me until he was about 8. I didn’t care if other women were in there…If someone gave me the sideye, I would just say I KNOW HE IS SAFE WITH ME, as there face turned red.
SandraRose made the comment last week (I think) that men are mostly perps, and I kinda-sorta agree.
As far as gay men go, they seem not to have any boundaries, and they are not about to understand the horror and fear this inflicts on women and children (Unisex changing rooms/bathrooms). Gay men are used to sizing one another up, and getting it on whenever and wherever the situation presents itself. Bathrooms, bathhouses, and such are places that they do and have seek out sex with. Many like children (nambla.org), and advocate for their right to have intimate relationships with young boys.
MANNIE
IF YOU SCROLL BACK UP AND READ AND THEN DIGEST/COMPREHEND ANY OF MY POST
I’VE NEVER STATED AN OPINION ABOUT TRANSGENDERS BEING ALLOWED IN THE DRESSING ROOM OR IF THE SALES REP WAS RIGHT OR WRONG????!!!!!!!
I ONLY MADE STATEMENTS IN REGARDS TO MY BELIEFS AND MY RIGHT TO TEACH THOSE TO MY CHILDREN
SOME TIMES FOLKS BE SO AMPED UP FOR AN ARGUMENT THEY DON’T EVEN REALISE WHEN THERE IS NONE
WE ARE HAVING A DISCUSSION, YOU ADDRESSED ME REGARDING MY POST AND I RESPONDED TO YOU
WE CAN CONTINUE, BUT YOUR SARCASM IS IMMATURE AND TO ME INDICATES YOU REALLY DON’T HAVE ANYTHING ELSE TO SAY SPECIFICALLY REGARDING MY POSTS
@ Mannie says:
kahmmillion says:
@ caligirl says:
@Kashmillion damn you even got me confused about my sexuality reading that post
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Hell, I was confused myself and I typed it. lol. But, they are confused their dam selves, but they want to shove it down your throat and force you to believe what they believe. I for one, do not think that anal leakage is not ok. They need to think about the nurses who are going to have to take care of them when the elasticity wears out in their arses after they have been busting it wide open for many many years.
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See this is what i mean when i say ignorant…
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You can call it ignorant if you want…I call it FACT….you will learn when you have to start wearing diapers.
@mannie – It’s all good.
equals some dap 
Do any ya’ll remember the little girl Sherrice Iverson that was raped and murdered in a Las Vegas casino restroom in 1997? For this reason, I have NEVER allowed my children to go into a restroom alone. Including my sons until they were around 9ish/10ish. So, I disagree with the transgender MAN being in the changing room, because children use these changing rooms too. No I’m not saying that they have the propensity to molest, just that a man’s changing room is where ALL men change, not with women.
Mamacita says:
@Mannie That’s like me walking around telling everyone I’m white when CLEARLY I’m not. I can bleach my skin all I want but it won’t make me white. Look at MJ!
So why is this not that case for the transgendered?
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I agree that a drag queen is something diffrent thats clearly a man in a dress…but a trangendered person by definition has has gender reassignment surgery…Making them legally a woman
Hershey says:
Do any ya’ll remember the little girl Sherrice Iverson that was raped and murdered in a Las Vegas casino restroom in 1997? For this reason, I have NEVER allowed my children to go into a restroom alone. Including my sons until they were around 9ish/10ish. So, I disagree with the transgender MAN being in the changing room, because children use these changing rooms too. No I’m not saying that they have the propensity to molest, just that a man’s changing room is where ALL men change, not with women.
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EXACTLY Hershey. Like I said before, there were a rash of public bathroom murders involving children across the United States. And one had happened at the BEACH at a public bathroom in Cali. The authorities recommended that guardians stand outside the bathroom and TALK to the children while they are in there.
cutting body parts off so they can’t molest is fine by me…
@ MrsMommy says:
kahmmillion says:
@cal MrsMommy says:
In another situation, a gay man tried to molest my son in an empty bathroom at McDonalds.
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That’s why I don’t let kids go to the bathroom alone. If it’s a boy…I wait until everyone leaves the ladies room and take him in there. It it’s a girl…she definately goes with me. That’s insane. I would have mollywopped his arse across that damn floor. Cause you know, there is noone stronger than a mama bear protecting her cubs.
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Kahmillion: He was visiting his older cousins and wanted to be a big boy. I had always taken him to the ladies room with me, but he was adament that he was going to the boys room by himself: but I stood guard like the authorities recommended.
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I’m happy you were there though.
Awww, bless his little heart trying to be a big boy.
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You can call it ignorant if you want…I call it FACT….you will learn when you have to start wearing diapers.
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No diapers here sweet heart i am a supporter not gay i have a close cousin that is my bestfriend in the world like a brother and i have seen him battle with people that judge him based off who he loves…I am simply saying dont judge a group people based off a small percentage of that population…
My question is should sales reps look at the persons genitals to determine if the person is transgendered or a drag queen? Upon one look you can tell a male is dressed as a women, surgery or not. Where is the line drawn? As a consumer I expect only women in a female dressing room unless stated Unisex outside the door, its not fair to the people who are actually their gender to share a facility such as a dressing room with the opposite sex. There are unisex bathrooms which are okay because you have the choice to use the facility, but when my choices are taken away I have a problem.
I agree that a drag queen is something diffrent thats clearly a man in a dress…but a trangendered person by definition has has gender reassignment surgery…Making them legally a woman
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Nobody knows this on site. How are people supposed to know who is WHAT? The law is telling us that we do not have the right to know or to confront. How is one to know that the person diguised as a woman is not up to something. Nobody wants to be bothered with this ****. We’re already freaked out about sht as it is.
@ INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:
THE WORLD IS SO ARSE BACKWARDS
FORCE FEEDING THEIR LIFESTYLES DOWN OTHER FOLKS THROATS
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Agree!
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@ caligirl says:
@Kash – I so done with you please :coffin:
But what you are saying abut anal…is true. My family member is a mortician and I was suprised about the stories about the size of folks bootie holes.
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I know….my sis is a nurse and she tells me about the kinds of things that they come into the ER with rammed into their rectums. She tells me about the men not being able to hold their bowels….people call you ignorant until they start ishting all over themselves.
I can be called whatever, but I for one, will not be forced to believe something I do not.
Just because a man slices his jimmy off does not make him a woman. If you weren’t born a woman, you are NOT a woman.
So can I dress up as a man and waltz into the mens room with my magnifying glass the next time you’re taking a pee? .
I’ll be sure to tell Jesus that the next time I see him in his robes and sandals. .
@mannie – my cousin is gay to and I love him to more than the sun love the moon. Do I approve of his lif style…my response…it’s ain’t none of my business.
So now we know redeemed works at Macys
gypsyeyes says:
So now we know redeemed works at Macys
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LMAO
@ Gypsy and Mannie lemme find out Redeemed walking the floors of Macy’s preaching and chit
wow interesting, but not really. what if ur the mom and ur baby has male/female parts…now what?
HOLD UP… Did SOMEBODY Actually SAY THIS but a trangendered person by definition has has gender reassignment surgery…Making them legally a woman
@change (I’m Going to BORROW Your Sentiment from EARLIER !!!)
the ignorance around here sometimes is depressing, but what can you do
Becuz THAT COMMENT ABOVE is the Absolute DUMBEST SHYT I’ve EVER HEARD…
This is a CLEAR EXAMPLE WHY Legality should never REPLACE Morality when it comes to CONSCIOUS THOUGHT and COMMON SENSE !!! (REAL) I’ll End just by SAYING THIS:
FAKE TITTIES aren’t REAL TITTIES and A FAKE PUZZY will Never Ever Equate to A WOMAN that was Born With A REAL PUZZY !!!
FAKE TITTIES aren’t REAL TITTIES and A FAKE PUZZY will Never Ever Equate to A WOMAN that was Born With A REAL PUZZY !!!
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And this statement isn’t IGNORANT? Listen, that’s real JERRY SPRINGER talk, bew……..
@MrsMommy
DISPUTE That Statement Then let’s SEE just how IGNORANT it Actually Is though… You trying to come Sideways Don’t MOVE ME (In The Least…) SHYT Talking doesn’t Intimidate Intelligent Individuals (Word)
@OutsidetheBox
Thanks!!!
I think she did the RIGHT thing. It is ok to recognize with someone does the RIGHT thing. What if other women were in there with their young daughters? Somethings are not appropriate. Just because an individual isnt comortable in their own skin as a man does not mean he can compromise peoples norms and choose what he wants to do. Apparently he still looked like a man otherwise the employee would not have stopped him! I dont want to be uncomfortable doing the right thing for you to feel comfortable doing Whatever you want to! Just because you are transgender doesnt mean you make the rules! Get with the program. Macy’s just went down a notch in my book! Bad call Macy’s!!!!!!
@ Mannie—- Transgender is the state of one’s gender identity. It does not necessarily mean they are going through a sex change or hormones… (only since you are giving definitions)
I couldn’t make it through everyone’s comment, but yeah, Macy’s has done a big no no! Before I could finish the post, I thought the same thing: “So any pervert can dress up in women’s clothing and walk into the women’s dressing room? Where do they draw the line in their eagerness to appease one group by trampling on the rights of others?”, I just couldn’t finish saying it, because I was really trying to wrap my thoughts.
They should have fired her. It was not her place to tell him/her anything. If there was an issue, she should have gotten the manager on duty and stepped out of the way.
@Gyp
and 
Your Redeemed comment SLAYED me LOL LOL
I agree with the worker.. I have no problem with the lifestyle but try ya clothes on in the mens room.. you was born a man yal azzz gonna dye a man.. stop with this entitlement shiiiiiit the devil isa a liar and on another note just live ya left but dont impose it on others and what happens if a sandusky goes in to the fitting room then MACYs will lose
Wow @ this post & the comments. Ignorance. And the generalizations and stereotypes are never-ending. *sigh*
Anyway.
This happened in my city, and I’m surprised as he!!.
At my job (a smaller retail store), we just have unisex fitting rooms. We never have to worry about what gender a person is and where we should decide to put them. ALSO, it’s never an issue with the customers either (other than the old white ladies).