Comedian Bill Cosby and Civil Rights leader Jesse Jackson have more secret children than Joe Jackson.
Jesse Jackson, who is no relation to Joe, admitted he fathered a daughter, Ashley, by a woman he carried on an affair with in 1999. The girl is now 12, and Jackson owes her mother, Karin Stanford, $11,694.50 in back child support, according to the ENQUIRER.
Stanford was a top aide with Jackson’s Rainbow PUSHCoalition until The ENQUIRER exposed the affair — and the love child — in 2001 (how many of you are thinking at least she’s black?)
After admitting paternity, Jackson paid the court ordered child support and visited Ashley (and Stanford) at their California home regularly over the past decade.
But something went wrong and their relationship soured. Now Stanford has filed court documents accusing Jackson of failing to pay child support from December 2010 until August 2011, including a monthly $400 fee.
“Karin has tried so many times to work with Jesse on their financial agreement,” a source told The ENQUIRER. “But he was only paying when he felt like it, so she’s taking him to court.”
Jackson, 70, has 5 grown children with his long-suffering wife, Jacqueline Brown-Jackson. Even though Jacqueline is well aware of her husband’s infidelities over the decades, she still remains faithfully married to him.
Damn!
Oooh chit!
You’re on it today Auntie.
sad
I had a dream Jesse would come up with the money.
I dont know what these women expect
If this man stepped out on his wife and family for a piece of azz, do you really expect him to be a respectable and hands on father 
He was an azzhole when yall hooked up. So keep PUSH-ing (praying until something happens) 
Pay the money, Jesse. This doesn’t look good.
tatted is that 100 calorie kettle corn?
(((GLO-RAY!!!))) says:
Pay the money, Jesse. This doesn’t look good.
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U know he has it…he is just an azzhole
@ Candi – Y yes it is…..have some!
I for one am not suprised by this story. Jesse has always been a shady individual in my eyes
So Jesse isn’t heeding President Obama’s request that he be an active father in his child’s life…shameful
Is Jesse the same person that called Sexy Barry a nig when he thought the mic was off?
Anyway…Jesse and Eddie Longstroke got them some ride or dies.
I have a close relative that works for Jesse Jackson and travels with him as well so I won’t mention much on this post until the topic changes however I will say he is a really laid back person when he’s not in the spotlight. You just never know what goes on behind closed doors.
@Candi
You know damn well those 100 cal packs are nasty as hell compared to the normal ones. Stop playing, Fandice!
Jesse, who is of no relation to Joe….
Sandra, u oughtta quit it. Man I need a laugh right now. I came to the right place.
It soured because, she probably has new dyck that don’t play that tapping back chit, and she was forced to cut him off, so he cut her off…
In my Jesse voice:
If she would have let me keep bussin it wide and laying it low
The kid would would not suffa and miss out no mo
But she cut me off, and now in the papers does me she bash
That’s why that bish will not see anymore of my cash
<—- REALLY HATES WHEN MEN & WOMEN DON'T DO SHATT FOR THEIR SEEDS!
I am truly a heartless bish. I’m sorry…. if your whore azz ran up had sex with my “KNOWN” married husband, I swear I’d make sure he never paid your azz a dime and threaten to have his azz floating somewhere if he tried.
So your azz would end up a “poorer” single mother than you should be and he’d probably be in jail for non-payment.
Bish- you was willing to settle for my husband’s dikk and just “time” when you got pregnant, settle for the same now that your bastard child is here.
No sympathy. On either.
and he had the nerve to call Obama a ninja..hmph….this right here is classic ninja type chit no matter the race
Jesse acting like every other nig right now.
Damn a Jesse Jackson will you post my dead beat a** ex husband. He owes me almost thee exact same amount of coins Sandy.
talk outside your neck jesse is a fraud always thought it and for him to be alum of my alma mater NC A&T I disclaim him all the way.
But that’s just me.
I don’t like philandering husbands or the tramps that fukk em.
They both can kick rocks….in Chinese slippers.
JMO says:
I have a close relative that works for Jesse Jackson and travels with him as well so I won’t mention much on this post until the topic changes however I will say he is a really laid back person when he’s not in the spotlight. You just never know what goes on behind closed doors.
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Did you get the scoop on the Gay guy accusing Jesse of sexually harassing him a few months ago?
Stanford was a top aide with Jackson’s Rainbow PUSHCoalition until The ENQUIRER exposed the affair — and the love child — in 2001 (how many of you are thinking at least she’s black?)
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I dont care if she’s black or white…still not a good look.
$11,694.50 What’s that like 2 months child support?!
Bish, get a job, before Mrs. Jackson comes up and bops your azz again! #loserbish
@ Dougie, but the child is innocent victim, so you wouldn’t want the beybey to eat because her mama is whore? IJA
Karin is dead wrong for letting him ejaculate in her in the first doggone place. I can’t even imagine.
*bats eyes* Hello Knowledge
<–after hrs drink
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Twin
Long suffering wife my azz she stuck to her role and didn’t have to
Baby Girl is cute
But that’s just me.
I don’t like philandering husbands or the tramps that fukk em.
They both can kick rocks….in Chinese slippers.
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tell’em how you really feel sassy
@SIS
ME TOO..
This why ladies and gents you look at someone’s character and not their color!!! This is the same mofo who try and tell black males about being a man. The nerve of you!!! Shame, Shame Jesse Jackson!!!
Hershey, sometimes the children suffer as a direct result of their parent’s behavior
#aintmyfault
#makebetterchoices
JMO says:
I have a close relative that works for Jesse Jackson and travels with him as well so I won’t mention much on this post until the topic changes however I will say he is a really laid back person when he’s not in the spotlight. You just never know what goes on behind closed doors.
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Um why would you put out that disclaimer surely you knew it would provoke more inquiries NO?
*grabs yallC and spins her around and places the mink over her*
How you doing ma?
Yall still crazy says:
$11,694.50 What’s that like 2 months child support?!
Bish, get a job, before Mrs. Jackson comes up and bops your azz again! #loserbish
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Details?
dckimmie says:
JMO says:
I have a close relative that works for Jesse Jackson and travels with him as well so I won’t mention much on this post until the topic changes however I will say he is a really laid back person when he’s not in the spotlight. You just never know what goes on behind closed doors.
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Did you get the scoop on the Gay guy accusing Jesse of sexually harassing him a few months ago?
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All these deadbeats in my opinion should be the ones over in Iraq and Afghanistan fighting these damn wars. We need some street justice in this bytch
1. Deadbeat Mom/Dad
bytches you are sentenced to 1 year in Iraq. Betchu dem muthafuggas been :crying1: to get back here and get caught up on dem payments
bytches. The entire family of the victim is allowed to shoot you down in the middle of the city and then brick yo ass if you still breathing
bytches. Cut they dyck off and sew they pussies shut. Cheating bastards.
2. You kill somebody
3. Adultery
Grown people should be held accountable NOT the kids. They are the innocent ones
His joker right here….
Every since MLK died we’ve been left with substitute teachers like a muthatfker…. Damn Jesse.
Wing Wing Wing @ Laface
I had a philandering husband and to this day I don’t blame them freaks that fukd him I blame his trifling azz
Choco aka Hippie says:
JMO says:
I have a close relative that works for Jesse Jackson and travels with him as well so I won’t mention much on this post until the topic changes however I will say he is a really laid back person when he’s not in the spotlight. You just never know what goes on behind closed doors.
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Um why would you put out that disclaimer surely you knew it would provoke more inquiries NO?
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Yea I know
@SASO.. If in the course of the situation named in #19 you also found out he was paying all the bills at the house he mortgaged, gave her a clothing allowance and her hairdresser just billed his arse then how does that change your argument.. Because most of the chicks I know fluckin with a married man withpaper, them bishes should file tazxes on the money their paid. IMO having baby just comes from pure greed or when they feel a cut off may be looming…
*Respectfully submitted, my face can’t catch laptops*
Lakes, how them fakers
I mean lakers doing and how you?
@ SIS – We can have a lengthy conversation on why we had shatt like that!
YepIsaidIt says:
Jesse acting like every other nig right now.
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:hugs: Lace
Heeey Knowledge
Lace
But am i the only one that giggled at the “no relation to Joe” part…like as in Jackson? haaaaaaa why was that stated?
I don’t like philandering husbands or the tramps that fukk em. .
Hmmmm. So what would the husband’s punishment be? Because it seems like the only person being punished is the child. Who had NO parts of being created. Poor baby.
Ohhhh I just figured out why @Change has that as the gravi
… I’m so slow … 
@CD, who in the hell is sponge bob??
@ Yall, true but if your man fathered a baby with another woman, you would let the baby suffer because of his actions?
#justasking
dougie i haven’t tried the 100 calorie packs but i get the regular kind, but the mini bags which are about 200 calories. i always waste regular size bags of popcorn.
Man anything concerning Jesse, children, wife and mistress should be of no surprise. I am always confused at delusional women
Tat, my dear it is always a honor and privliage you grace us with your outstanding grav. Damn shame the thoughts i have from your pic girl
twin :2dance: <—- that's my mama theme song
@JMO
You know
*holds on because I’m dizzy*
@ Knowledge. I’m good, how are you today? It’s freezing here…
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@yousaidit
Story has it that the Mrs. heard about them creeping and went to Operation Push and acted a damn fool and bopped her upside her head.
I’m sure if you google it, something will pop up…
Jmo, you got anything on this yo?
JMO says:
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I remember it being big on local news and then I didn’t hear anything else about it. The guy said Jesse made him rub cream on a rash between his legs and I died
ChocD aka C.D. says:
Come give me
Whew you got some stiff pentalites for mofos…
<— REALLY HATES PRYTI'S GRAVI!
@2KNOW
WE ARE BOTH GOOD… :rolleye: AND HOW ARE U SIR?!! FUK THE REST LAKERS ARE BEEEEESST!! 
Uh-oh!
JMO says:
Ohhhh I just figured out why @Change has that as the gravi … I’m so slow …
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Damn denise
@LAceface
@Hershey
The baby can eat….that bish don’t look disabled to me. Why can’t she feed the baby the same way she was feeding herself before she screwed the husband?
Sorry. Your baby (to husband and the tramp) ain’t my fukking problem.
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@PSP
I’d report her for a federal tax audit (you know you can only write-off so many “gifts” of value each year) and hire a forensic accoutant to find all of his money so I could siphon some of it off before I split.
I’m a thinker. Most folks don’t know pain like when it hits their pockets. I want to leave you looking stupid, feelings hurt, and pockets busted.
That’s me. Like Ivana Trump daid: “Don’t get mad….get EVERYTHING.” <— that's my thinking
My bad… *clears throat* Good morning everyone!
@yallC i’m a little under the weather but I’m mainitaing.
*holds tight to yallc and makes her sit on the couch and take in the SR room in the new mink*
So what would the husband’s punishment be? Because it seems like the only person being punished is the child
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Preach chick I’ve been cheated on by my ex husband and I do not fault the females they didn’t know anything of me and if they did HE SHOULD’VE PUT A STOP TO IT! Tha FUCK females always out to get one another and you’d think I’d be jaded not at all MADE ME WHO I AM TODAY
The Makeup Maven says:
<— REALLY HATES PRYTI'S GRAVI!
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why? I had to come outta that last post cuz i was getting annoyed and my avi was my final eff you
I Go There says:
JMO says:
Ohhhh I just figured out why @Change has that as the gravi … I’m so slow …
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Damn denise
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Shut up Will.I.AM
FUK THE REST LAKERS ARE BEEEEESST!!
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No ma’am we all know who the best is and them fakers….I mean lakers are not it
it’s all love lakes had to mess with you love.
Herrrooo Yep
ChocD aka C.D. says:
@JMO
You know
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Hershey, NOPE, but that’s me! and plus I have a loving heart.
I’m talmbout this bish up top. ION feel sorry for her or her kid NOPE not one bit.
Isn’t it in the bible,
how the sins of the father are passed down to the children or something like that?
Where is ‘deem? <—Twin you gave her that name
@2KNOW
@Vdot
That damn baby ain’t suffering! Please! Single mothers do it out here every day! That chick KNEW she had a possibility of being a single mother with no real recourse when she fukked him w/o protection.
She better get on like everybody else. He can give her child all the “time” the baby needs but nary a dime better leave OUR accounts.
The husband would suffer as well….at some point, the non payment will pile up and he’ll start having court dates. He’ll end up in child support jail fukking with me.
@ Dougie, so since her mom AND dad willingly fugged and made her, only the mom has to pay for her? But two people made her???
#childavocatenomatterhowdumbtheparentsare
@ChocD
Have you ever cheated on anyone just askin?
PrytiBrownIs says:
The Makeup Maven says:
<— REALLY HATES PRYTI'S GRAVI!
YOU STOOPID!
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why? I had to come outta that last post cuz i was getting annoyed and my avi was my final eff you
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@Choco
Its a different story if the chicks had no inkling of you. If they knew….and at ANY time continued on with the affair….oh…well then…fukk you and your bastard babies.
The sins of the parents are passed to the child.
question for the ladies in here something I have never understood if the man cheats why does the woman go after the other chick?
Dougie, I’m with you, eat how ya been eating!
She wasn’t worried about eating while screwing, yes the man is wrong, but why should either get a pass from me?
My thinking is ION hate you, but I damn sure don’t like you or care about you.
There is nothing to feel sorry about in this situation two people obviously loved one another his wife stood by his side (her problem) and a child was produced from LOVE all children are blessing in my eyes because Im spiritual like that! Jesse azz 70 years she better off taking life insurance out on him
oh that’s my mama was a real show? is that the show with Dr. Rev. Ruben Gregory (from Amen)? i watched an episode and he finally moved out his mama’s house and he hated it and eventually moved back
Knowledge
<–tight long one
Tylenol Cold works good, or old fashioned Nyquil
@ AndThenIHitMyDougie
Had to come out of lurk mode to say:
I don’t give a fukk bout a bish or her kid. That man better act like he doesn’t know her or her bastard child. If I catch him giving her money….idc if he is on child support, let MY money come up short and there will be a problem. I would rather his black arse go to jail that pay some chick that he cheated on me with and knock up.
I would stay with his arse too…I wouldn’t leave him. I would stay with him and make him suffer every day. There is nothing better than revenge (Yeah, that’s a good show…Revenge). I would stay with his butt and make him pay for what he did. There would be no love, there would only be me making his arse feel like dog isht.
@2know
IMO becuz the women per say is weak in her own constitution she wants to believe that some other female seduced her man into wanting her and becuz flesh is tempting he couldn’t help himself thats MY Opinion cuz what I did was leave my husband without nary a conversation with his countless endeavors don’t need to I knew my husband well enough and I also knew that I married my husband not those females he owed me loyalty respect honor he took those vows with me not them
Yes, the barber shop in the house tv show
@Hershey
Hey….you gotta pay to play. You play….pay the fare. That’s just how it goes sometimes. It’s a lesson for the road.
Shocking. Not really.
I would stay with his arse too…I wouldn’t leave him. I would stay with him and make him suffer every day. There is nothing better than revenge (Yeah, that’s a good show…Revenge). I would stay with his butt and make him pay for what he did. There would be no love, there would only be me making his arse feel like dog isht.
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So becuz he cheated you would surrender your own happiness to get revenge for the rest of your life chit sounds wasteful why not just leave and move the fuk on just askin seems like a waste of quality in one’s own life
@Choco
NEVER
My motto has always been when I am I unhappy I have a conversation with my partner and if we cant work it out and it doesnt get better I chuck up the 
I dont believe in a third party in relationships on either part.
Choco aka Hippie says:
There is nothing to feel sorry about in this situation two people obviously loved one another his wife stood by his side (her problem) and a child was produced from LOVE all children are blessing in my eyes because Im spiritual like that!
He just got caught up. I’m sure he was slinging it with other bishes too (real talk). Love didn’t have no part in this one IMO.
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#itseasiertohateonsomebodyyoudontlove 
Knowledge, because the woman still wants the man
:COSIGN: 98
The Jackson family’s $$$ are drying up…They don’t have the respect and power they once had….BUT that still doesn’t excuse his lack of child support. This is what happens when you get pregnant PURPOSELY by a married man….SMDH
Its a different story if the chicks had no inkling of you. If they knew….and at ANY time continued on with the affair….oh…well then…fukk you and your bastard babies.
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Do you really expect for me to think that a total stranger would give two fuks about how I feel even if they knew of me – my husband knows of me and how I would feel that should be at the forefront of his mind NOT HERS
See?
I ain’t the only who thinks like this. Kahmillion and Yall agree too.
@Kahmillion
I kinda feel like that – fuk you and her too. I may lighten up on him seeing the child, but don’t touch my money. So when the kid grows up, he can ask his mama “why was my daddy never around and never helped you out?”
Her (the truth that never gets said): “because I slept with him knowing he was married with no regard for his wife and she threatened to leave him if he paid me. And he chose her over you and me.”
Tough sh*t, hoe.
I blame the jump off! Smh
Choco aka Hippie says:
I would stay with his arse too…I wouldn’t leave him. I would stay with him and make him suffer every day. There is nothing better than revenge (Yeah, that’s a good show…Revenge). I would stay with his butt and make him pay for what he did. There would be no love, there would only be me making his arse feel like dog isht.
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So becuz he cheated you would surrender your own happiness to get revenge for the rest of your life chit sounds wasteful why not just leave and move the fuk on just askin seems like a waste of quality in one’s own life
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If you stay and waste your years away, what have you accomplished? Really? I love me too much to be attached to a loser ION care how much moolah is involved either
@CHOCD
Neither do I but I have cheated on my ex husband before jus sayn everything is not black and white and yes I left him becuz it’s not a part of my character to cheat but every situation requires a different response depending on the individual and circumstances
@choco
Well, you are clearly a bigger and more haughty woman than me. Cause if I KNOW you knew…
Oh….baby. You barking up the wrong tree for child support. You and your baby will be eating Ramen noodles and penny candies for dinner waiting on some money to come up outta my house.
I’m not trying to be mean, but I ain’t being fake about how I would feel just to appease the “general opinion” on this blog either. I’d be resentful as hell towards that baby and his parents (both.)
I ain’t gotta lie about sh*t.
I blame the grown ass adults in cheating situations but my WHOLE HEARTED blame would be on my man. Your comittment is to me and if this yamp throws the pussy at you, you need to CHECK that hoe and if she keep coming at you, you come get me and I’ll CHOKE that hoe. If you are unhappy in a relationship why CHEAT just fuggin leave.
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I would stay with his arse too…I wouldn’t leave him. I would stay with him and make him suffer every day. There is nothing better than revenge (Yeah, that’s a good show…Revenge). I would stay with his butt and make him pay for what he did. There would be no love, there would only be me making his arse feel like dog isht.
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So becuz he cheated you would surrender your own happiness to get revenge for the rest of your life chit sounds wasteful why not just leave and move the fuk on just askin seems like a waste of quality in one’s own life
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I would get so much pleasure out of making his life unhappy, that I do not feel that I would be giving up my happiness. Sorry, I don’t let things slide…..If you hurt me, I will hurt you even more than you did me. I would bring random men home fuc (protected) them in the marital bed, have my lover over for dinner….just random ish like that….If he doesn’t like it, he can kick rocks….I mean, I would make him suffer. Who said I wouldn’t be having a good time doing me on the side? Just because I’m making his life hell, doesn’t mean that my life stops.
@ Dougie…HOw would you avoid him paying child support though? Here, they take child support out the parent’s check, like a garnishment, before they get their own money.
you need to CHECK that hoe and if she keep coming at you, you come get me and I’ll CHOKE that hoe.
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I like that
I blame the jump off! Smh
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Sad so IMO you are just like Jesse’s wife will stay with a cheating man knowingly cuz its not his fault????????
Cause the men dont be unhappy, per se. They just greedy.
If I get cheated on fck him and her. Period.
Who said I wouldn’t be having a good time doing me on the side? Just because I’m making his life hell, doesn’t mean that my life stops.
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Okay POW POW take all the shots you can I got better chit to do LIKE DOING ME and NOT ON THE SIDE
@ Choco I agree with you on this topic %1000 percent, women need to understand your man is MORE at fault then the next b*itch in the streets he knows YOU this other hoes could care less about you
Hello everybody
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ Dougie…HOw would you avoid him paying child support though? Here, they take child support out the parent’s check, like a garnishment, before they get their own money.
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And if he dont pay, they can garnish the wifes pay for it
Life lessons teach you alot. I have never been unloving to any outside babies DJM.
ION like this topic, let’s change it…
If I get cheated on fck him and her. Period.
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Basically I mean what the fuk else would you want to do swallow that pill and move on! You are better off without him TRUST
Chocolate
my bish
@ Choco I agree with you on this topic %1000 percent, women need to understand your man is MORE at fault then the next b*itch in the streets he knows YOU this other hoes could care less about you
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Waste of time blaming a bish I don’t know
In IL they don’t garnish the wife’s pay.
In WI they throw you in jail.
:hugs: GaGirl
@ Pryti…Do they garnish the wife in every state? I don’t think they do in Illinois but, any job he has, they’re gonna snatch what he owes. I know a guy owed back support and they hit his SECOND check on a job he hadn’t even had time to report yet. They don’t play about the CS once they put that order in.
I agree YSo. I dont let her off blameless, oh no no, but I dont dwell on her either. That ninja? He gets the ax!
@Dimpz
There’s ways around that. I’ve seen it with my own two eyes. They can only take money out of your checks if its paid directly to you under your social. Most “rich” folks do not have checks sent to them but to trusts, small inc.s, mgmt companies, etc which are put under separate EIN/Tax ID numbers as businesses.
Child support can garnish your personal wages if you have a regular azz job and your payouts are set up like that. In the case of most prominent men with REAL money….they’re not getting paid like that anyway.
#ReadsUpOnAllTheTricks
Hey Kimmie! :wave:
:hugs: @ Yep I am and thanks
Jesse’s oldest daughter has been MIA from her local talk show on WVON lately.
Yeah, I’m not giving any whore my time of day and dude would be catching his shatt as I throw it out…
OTB the cheating was greedy, but the getting caught was stupid…
twin i agree, would u like to play bidwist until the topic changes to sex or something?
@Dougie – You ain’t never lied. She short on cahs…Well go pick up the kids, I’ll fix some dinner, then you can take them back (cause it’s her week), ohh she need gas money to take them to school…Let her go to shed and steal gas from the lawnmower can like she did last summmer…
No tolerence for lazy, can’t managae your money bish…
@choco
Well, you are clearly a bigger and more haughty woman than me. Cause if I KNOW you knew…
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Yeah but you have been where I’ve been with your man cheating so you stay because of what? REAL QUESTION and you are going to marry a man who has already cheated on you I mean I’ve been there they don’t stop
MzDimplez1123 says:
Hey Kimmie! :wave:
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Hey Hunnie Bunnie
Were you cold this morning?
@PrytiBrown
Not in MD, they don’t. Can’t touch the spouse’s earnings at all.
WHAT? Garnish my check for your child?
what state is this…
@ Dougie…Oh. Well, I personally couldn’t punish the kid for it’s parents being wrong. I feel like him spending time with the kid is more involvement than money if they have a true bond. If I was that hurt over it and couldn’t get “past” it, I would just leave his ass and let him have whatever relationship he’s gonna have with his kid and move on with my life. I believe in Karma and me being heartless to a baby I KNOW would have bad effects. I honestly wouldn’t want a man that I could tell to walk away from his kid. To me, that means the next chick, could persuade him to walk away from mine.
I’ve been there too and that’s what I meant by life’s lessons…
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Twin, can we play spades because IONO how to play bid
Yeah,and what if the dude has several outside babies, ain’t enough money and time to go around.
ION feel sorry for these whores STILL…
@ KImmie….I was running all morning so I didn’t feel it. I’m about to go out in a minute though, I’ll probably cry then.
We must do lunch one day.
@Choco
I’d marry a man who stopped cheating if he’d marry me if I stopped. Any cheating in a marriage is unexcusable – in my opinion. Before that…as in a relationship you are, and as much as it hurts, ya’ll azzes are single as a dollar bill.
I don’t make folks out to be lifelong cheaters until after 25-26 (male and female.) In my opinion, before then, you have neither a clue about maintaining a REAL relationship, everything is games, and if you are just a few years out of college, you are sowing your wild oats.
I’ll be 26 in 3 weeks and I can freely admit I’ve done some scandalous, cheating sh*t all the way up until not long enough ago.
After a man/woman is 26….if they’re still cheating, running around, lose em.
Jesse was BEING MESSY by F-ing around on His Wife but The VAST MAJORITY of MEN w/ Money-n-Power (REGARDLESS Of COLOR or SEXUAL-ORIENTATION) DOES THIS !!! Yes DL DUDES be F-ing Their GAY Male Jumpoffs Too (The NJ Governor ANYONE…)
But THIS TRICK (Yes She’s A F-ing TRICK) becuz SHE KNOWS who Jesse Jackson IS Though and STILL INSISTED On Giving Him HER PUSS and Getting PREGNANT By Him !!! She WORSE becuz to all of OUR Knowledge She’s the ONLY ONE that went this far & Had a Child by This PUBLICLY-KNOWN Married Man
oh i don’t either but they be playin that on the golden girls :-/
let’s play uno or gold fish, that’s more my speed
@ E………She not the only one with a kid. She the only one went public for support.
ChocD aka C.D. says:
I blame the grown ass adults in cheating situations but my WHOLE HEARTED blame would be on my man. Your comittment is to me and if this yamp throws the pussy at you, you need to CHECK that hoe and if she keep coming at you, you come get me and I’ll CHOKE that hoe. If you are unhappy in a relationship why CHEAT just fuggin leave.
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I agree 100% I will choke slam a heffa messing with mine
I’ll be 26 in 3 weeks and I can freely admit I’ve done some scandalous, cheating sh*t all the way up until not long enough ago.
After a man/woman is 26….if they’re still cheating, running around, lose em.
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That’s kool I’ve just experienced different and IMO if they cheat while they in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship with you the marriage won’t change their stripes and MEN really don’t grow up until after 50 and when I say grow up I mean slow down!
And for real once I do scandalous chit to you I have NO RESPECT for you and you have obviously done some chit to me to make me feel this way JUST ME…
@MzDimplez1123
In GA they do. I know somebody right now :cursing: cuz her husband wouldnt work under his ss# while they were married so he wouldnt have to pay and they started garnishing her. Now theyre divorced and she still owes back c.s.
Making him suffer might feel good short term but it will end up hurting you more than him in the long term. A man can only take so much and a woman will fck around and get OJ’d playing games like that.
And I feel it would be giving him a power he didn’t deserve by letting him bring me down to his level. I’m not saying letting go would be easy but doing what’s best for yourself rarely is. That I know firsthand.
heeeey @Dougie my fellow Feb Aquarius
Uno Stack (old school hood version)
@Dimpz
I slightly agree… I don’t think he should abandon the child (that’s between the husband and the new mother), but no money better leave my accounts in support of his “love-child.”
That chick needs to work for her money the same way she worked for her child. The hoe stroll ALWAYS has vacancies.
I have a hard time understanding why the child has to suffer. People make stupid mistakes all the time that does not mean you have to suffer long time for them. HE WAS THE ONE MARRIED!!! does that excuse her NO..karma is a Bi**h. His loyalty was too his wife, if he slipped or whatever that does NOT excuse him from his duties as a father. He should have thought about that BEFORE he slept with her. Anything is possible…he could’ve been like this may be a trifling ***** so why don’t I use PROTECTION or how about I just don’t cheat on my WIFE.
YSoSrs says:
Making him suffer might feel good short term but it will end up hurting you more than him in the long term. A man can only take so much and a woman will fck around and get OJ’d playing games like that.
And I feel it would be giving him a power he didn’t deserve by letting him bring me down to his level. I’m not saying letting go would be easy but doing what’s best for yourself rarely is. That I know firsthand.
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Yall crazy if I fought every female my ex hubby ran around with I’d be either Dead or looking like the HULK right now! And don’t get me wrong I stayed with my ex hubby we had good and bad times but I came to a point where I felt like he wasn’t worth the effort
ain’t no way in hell my husband is gonna have a baby and NOT take care of it. if i choose to stay with the raw doggin, cheating azz nig nog, that’s MY decision but he WILL take care of any child he brings into this world as long as he is MY husband.
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ KImmie….I was running all morning so I didn’t feel it. I’m about to go out in a minute though, I’ll probably cry then.
We must do lunch one day.
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Hit me and let me know when you are available. I’ve been snacking all morning I was a little
I hate going out when it’s cold but I never bring my lunch!
cheating azz nig nog,
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free says:
ain’t no way in hell my husband is gonna have a baby and NOT take care of it. if i choose to stay with the raw doggin, cheating azz nig nog, that’s MY decision but he WILL take care of any child he brings into this world as long as he is MY husband.
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Gonna have to research this Child Support of spouse, I know that can take your tax refund. But how they getting your SSN, those are your wages.
:hugs: @DIMPZ
And
comment #141 especially
“I honestly wouldn’t want a man that I could tell to walk away from his kid. To me, that means the next chick, could persuade him to walk away from mine.”
Now tell me why you have my Jewlatto and Common all hugged up in yo Gravi? That lean beef they having is a damn joke.
@MzDimpz
I Mean You can’t even keep YO SHYT Private (ON THE LOW) becuz You’re What Though… TOO F-ing TRIFLING, MESSY, Ridiculously SIMPLE, BASIC and BEYOND STOOPID 
AGAIN, IT makes her WORST by even being in THAT Situation in a PUBLIC KNOWLEDGE Fashion IMO
@Pryti
Hey!!! Aquarius season is pretty much here!!
@Choco
Based off of other male friends (not just my relationship), I think the men who are going to stop literally get over the “new pu$$y” thing by a certain age if they are going to (that’s why I say 25-26.) If by then, they ain’t over it….then they may be a lost cause.
I adopted the 25-26 things after hearing it from men in my family and older family friends that most men who are actually worth sh*t won’t clean up until after that age. Now if any point after that…..they’re still tricking… I really do think they’re a lost cause.
If I ever suspect Mister is doing something…he’s gone. He knows it which is prolly why he stays up my azz constntly as his “insurance” that “you see me, right?”
That’s just my take on it. I don’t write all cheaters off because I am one and once I was ready to stop, I stopped. I grew up before 50!
@Choco
I’m not fighting any female that my man willingly fugged with but I will bash my man in the head with a skillet quick fast and in a hurry. I will without any hesitation beat the brakes off a bytch who knows that my man is a relationship and still continues to pursue him. Its a respect factor with me. My man loyalty is too me and if he steps out on me I will leave his ass but I will never allow a kid to suffer because of his actions.
@Change
Can I ask how the child would be suffering though?
I’ve been hearing for years the King family aren’t friends with jesse jackson. He’s not really an authority or role model. If the price is right, jesse’s on it.
caligirl says:
Gonna have to research this Child Support of spouse, I know that can take your tax refund. But how they getting your SSN, those are your wages.
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let me knw what you find out cuz i was shocked when she told me too.
free says:
ain’t no way in hell my husband is gonna have a baby and NOT take care of it. if i choose to stay with the raw doggin, cheating azz nig nog, that’s MY decision but he WILL take care of any child he brings into this world as long as he is MY husband.
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free says:
ain’t no way in hell my husband is gonna have a baby and NOT take care of it. if i choose to stay with the raw doggin, cheating azz nig nog, that’s MY decision but he WILL take care of any child he brings into this world as long as he is MY husband.
and muthafuggin 
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For those saying why the child has to suffer.
What if there are alot of children? SOmebody is gong to suffer! #aintmyfaulteither
So take care of all outside children and you and your wife (the ones that stay) are left broke… I don’t get that. Life doesn’t go that way.
They used to use the term ‘illegitamate child’ yrs ago and that was looked down upon, but now, this mess is just crazy. Whores want the world to know their whorish ways….
@Dougie yessss!!! Im excited about telling everybody its my 21st bday (dont judge me) I did it last year and random people bought me drinks #winning
You gotta be a STRONG woman and Comformtable with YOURself.
1. Married to a man that has a child during your marriage
2. Cool with the situation, planning parties and outings
3. Being cordial with baby mama
4. HONESTLY, I’m not that comfortable with myself
Keeping REAL!!!
Real life story, A friend of ours cheated on his wife, the side chic got pregnant, the wife was cool with the situation…next thing you know she getting moved out and new baby mama moving in. Litterally they passing over the threshold at the same time.
Can’t will not…GOODBYE
If I ever suspect Mister is doing something…he’s gone. He knows it which is prolly why he stays up my azz constntly as his “insurance” that “you see me, right?”
That’s just my take on it. I don’t write all cheaters off because I am one and once I was ready to stop, I stopped. I grew up before 50!
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ION what to say becuz I don’t want to come off as being negative so I can only speak on my experience but my ex hubby stayed up my azz if he rode to the store he wanted me to ride with him so that chit ain’t got nuthin to do with it in fact my ex hubby got better at hiding his cheating ways until he got sloppy and it still wasn’t anything I came across I knew and felt and told him not to continue lying to me – Females always mature faster than men! and 25-26 they are still babies IMO!
But I’m with you on alladat.
@Pryti
For real?
I’ma try that in a few weeks!
“Hey everybody! I just turned 21! Drinks on ya’ll azzes!!”
(Bet it won’t work for me just because I’m trying to get over though. :eyeroll: )
98 Choco aka Hippie says:
I would stay with his arse too…I wouldn’t leave him. I would stay with him and make him suffer every day. There is nothing better than revenge (Yeah, that’s a good show…Revenge). I would stay with his butt and make him pay for what he did. There would be no love, there would only be me making his arse feel like dog isht.
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So becuz he cheated you would surrender your own happiness to get revenge for the rest of your life chit sounds wasteful why not just leave and move the fuk on just askin seems like a waste of quality in one’s own life
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I’d take half his money, get a man half his age and vacation around the world like JLo and Casper. Living well is the best revenge. I’m not going to remain married, living in the same house, wondering should I spit in his food today, or put too much starch on his laundry.
Yall says:
For those saying why the child has to suffer.
What if there are alot of children? SOmebody is gong to suffer! #aintmyfaulteither
So take care of all outside children and you and your wife (the ones that stay) are left broke… I don’t get that. Life doesn’t go that way.
They used to use the term ‘illegitamate child’ yrs ago and that was looked down upon, but now, this mess is just crazy. Whores want the world to know their whorish ways…
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You muthafuggin play yo punk ass gone pay. POINT BLANK PERIOD. When you make the conscious decisions to cheat on your spouse/mate be prepared for the consequences. Aint nobody put a gun to yo head and said dyck that bytch down or pussy pop on that nigga dyck.
@Free
So on point with that I couldn’t look at my man if he didn’t own up to his responsibilities
Aint nobody put a gun to yo head and said dyck that bytch down or pussy pop on that nigga dyck.
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Yall still crazy says:
For those saying why the child has to suffer.
What if there are alot of children? SOmebody is gong to suffer! #aintmyfaulteither
So take care of all outside children and you and your wife (the ones that stay) are left broke… I don’t get that. Life doesn’t go that way.
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That’s why I never wanted a man with kids…. I would be stressed the fluck out. But I don’t see myself staying with someone that’s running around making babies.
I’d take half his money, get a man half his age and vacation around the world like JLo and Casper.
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Oh well I had a passionate affair with his cousin right under his nose left my ex hubby and continued my affair his cousin told him about the affair all this required no real effort on my part! I let the fukn chips fall where they may
@Y’all (Comment #173)
TIMES have Most Definitely Changed (And for The MF-ing Worst Though…)
WHORES nowadayz have NO SHAME AT ALL letting the Entire World KNOW that they are MF-ing WHORES !!!
@Choco
I see your point but I’m just not one of those people who pulls baggage around. I believe in “inncent until proven guilty.” It’s definitely good to be aware of the situation and what could happen, but if you make the decision to date somebody or forgive and date somebody again…you can’t go around like “well, last time!” and “but remember what you did to me before…” and “well, with all the other guys, they …..”
Everybody gets a clean slate until they fukk up again. Past transgressors as well. I ain’t one for holding anything over anybody’s head after I’ve forgiven because I’ve had it done to me and its horrible.
Can’t let one bad drive spoil the car.
Well, if the nig nog <—Free has so many kids he can't support me and mine and his too then I will find a nig nog <—Love this term that doesn't have so many outside obligations. If we can't be first we will not be last either.
Dougie,
Any child that does not have the benefit of two parents is suffering in some way.
A single mother has to come out of her pocket for EVERYTHING for the child she is suffering in someway. People fail to realize the MENTAL STATES OF YOUR PARENTS MATTER IN YOUR UPBRINGING.
Whether you are a professional slore or a leisure one NO WOMAN wants to raise a child alone.
I don’t understand how you feel the child would not be suffering. I don’t care if she slept with the married president. he has a responsibilty to the child. If he didn’t want it he should have kept his dick in his pants just as simple as that.
Not everyone has the fuck the world and the people in it attitude, and everyone story is different. We don’t know the details or not. If she “tricked” him whatever the fuck that means then he shouldn’t have even been in a comprising position with her PERIOD POINT BLANK. If he wasn’t there wouldn’t have happened.
@ELOVE
@ dckimmie
That’s why I never wanted a man with kids…. I would be stressed the fluck out. But I don’t see myself staying with someone that’s running around making babies.
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I did that mess once and it will NEVER EVER happen again. 1)I refuse to let MY money out the door and into another trick’s pocket; and 2) I do not want to take care of, babysit, hangout with, take to the nail salon, etc., another woman’s kid.
@CHOCD
When you’re put into a situation, that’s when you realize who and what you’re made of
@SISNLAW
@Change
I see your point…but sometimes, you just gotta play the hand you rolled the dice for.
She rolled with that and her hand gave her a baby where the married daddy won’t pay up.
Tough lesson to learn….. but I bet she’s learning it.
This is why the world is so fuck up no takes PERSONAL responsilbity for THEIR actions. The woman was NOT there alone. I don’t care again if she was a whore. She can not fuck by herself and get pregnant. It’s just that simple.
Hos stay #winning
It is safe for me to
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EXACTLY DOUGIE so how come he not paying the hand HE DEALT to HIMSELF!!!!
@DCKimmie
You and me both. I will NOT date a man with kids. Sorry. Just like men claim the “value” of a woman’s stock goes down if she has kids and a babydaddy, I feel the same way about men.
I’ll only date a man with kids if they are widowed, because I can see they’ll need hel and there probably won’t be much drama with the babymama/ex-wife because she is deceased.
@Choco
I see your point but I’m just not one of those people who pulls baggage around. I believe in “inncent until proven guilty.” It’s definitely good to be aware of the situation and what could happen, but if you make the decision to date somebody or forgive and date somebody again…you can’t go around like “well, last time!” and “but remember what you did to me before…” and “well, with all the other guys, they …..”
Everybody gets a clean slate until they fukk up again. Past transgressors as well. I ain’t one for holding anything over anybody’s head after I’ve forgiven because I’ve had it done to me and its horrible.
Can’t let one bad drive spoil the car.
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Right good outlook to have! Answer me this tho what message are you sending to your husband saying okay you cheated while we were bf gf but you best not cheat on me while were married do you really think he understands the difference at age 26-35?
@ CHANGE
that’s my dayum point! It takes two! Both are responsible for that baby
@Change
(before I start talking, just because you’re Tatted’s boothang)
BUT
What if the married guy has 4 outside children?
How’s that work?
Who gets the daddy time?
When does the single mother become accountable for her decisions? That’s her body that she put in harms way IMO.
If I make terrible decisions, my son is gonna pay the price. That’s why I think about him before I make ANY decisions.
Heeyyyy MY Peach !!!
@Change
dougie, yep i stay away from men with kids
@ Pryti 151….THAT’S grounds to make his life hell. I wouldn’t feel right having HIM cheat his kid but, if I gotta be leagally liable for it, especially that way, we got a problem.
My son was not planned (most kids arent) His father and I had known each other since we were 11 and 12. When we got older we messed around I got pregnant. However WE WERE NOT TOGETHER. By some of yall comments my son would be assed out!!! I’m glad he supports our son. Let yall tell it I was freaking around so I’m butt out!!! that’s crazy. I’m glad he was a REAL MAN, cause he could have said all types of things..that ain’t my kid, I aint taking care of him, any of those things. But he has been there for his kid and I have no complaints.
I know a lot of men with kids so I don’t discriminate I actually used to be like no dating men with kids but things are different now and I’ve learned you could miss a blessing with that outlook
AndThenIHitMyDougie says:
@Pryti
For real? I’ma try that in a few weeks!
“Hey everybody! I just turned 21! Drinks on ya’ll azzes!!”
(Bet it won’t work for me just because I’m trying to get over though. )
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Honey i was getting over too!!! I wasnt tryna get drinks i’m just tryna stall this slide towars 30 for as long as possible lol My friends were outing me left and right tho….haters
@change
He is playing the hand he’s dealt… he will eventually be put in jail for non-payment so….. that’s his hand.
She’s: a single mother.
He’s: in jail.
Everybody wins.
@DOUGIE
I guess I’m more of the glass is half empty type cause I say past behavior predicts future behavior.
You said yourself that you’ve cheated before and if your man gives you a reason you will cheat again and rub it in his face. Seems to me that just because you don’t have a reason to cheat at one point in time, if you are always ready and willing doesn’t mean you are a cheater, period?
My son was not planned (most kids arent) His father and I had known each other since we were 11 and 12. When we got older we messed around I got pregnant. However WE WERE NOT TOGETHER. By some of yall comments my son would be assed out!!! I’m glad he supports our son. Let yall tell it I was freaking around so I’m butt out!!! that’s crazy. I’m glad he was a REAL MAN, cause he could have said all types of things..that ain’t my kid, I aint taking care of him, any of those things. But he has been there for his kid and I have no complaints.
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:woot:
@ Smurfette – Cut it out!
( In my Nene Leakes voice) close yo legs to married men
I’m talking about this bish up top that had sex with a married man…
I guess I’m more of the glass is half empty type cause I say past behavior predicts future behavior.
You said yourself that you’ve cheated before and if your man gives you a reason you will cheat again and rub it in his face. Seems to me that just because you don’t have a reason to cheat at one point in time, if you are always ready and willing doesn’t mean you are a cheater, period?
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Thats all Im saying IMO he will cheat again and be better at hiding it becuz that is what I’ve experienced and witnessed out of my man and other men
AndThenIHitMyDougie says:
She rolled with that and her hand gave her a baby where the married daddy won’t pay up.
Tough lesson to learn….. but I bet she’s learning it.
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Marred men keep your dangs in your pants and single women don’t ho with married men. I guess it can’t be the simple?
AndThenIHitMyDougie says:
She’s: a single mother.
He’s: in jail.
Everybody wins.
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Except the innocent child!
Just becuz a MARRIED MAN pursues YOU doesn’t mean YOU MUST HAVE SEX with Him and It DEFINITELY doesn’t mean YOU MUST HAVE HIS CHILD Though
She (The TRICK) is The MOST AT BLAME — IMO
ALL of THIS could’ve been AVOIDED by Her (The TRICK) having Some Reasonable MORALS-n-SELF RESPECT Though… I MEAN, WHO really wants to be HE OTHER WOMAN with a CHILD by a MARRIED MAN
change says:
This is why the world is so **** up no takes PERSONAL responsilbity for THEIR actions. The woman was NOT there alone. I don’t care again if she was a whore. She can not **** by herself and get pregnant. It’s just that simple
Ion give a fugg what the situation is let a bish nigga tell me he aint taking care of my kids I promise yall will be saying whateva happened to ChocD because I would be in somebody’s jail for manslaughter. Fugg with my kids and I will show you the true meaning of “all dressed up looking up at the church ceiling”
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@Change – Was he married?
I was married to a cheater…forgave him the 1st and 2nd time…BUT the 3rd…filed for a DIVORCE stat! I never cheated and I deserved better!
Get your own Gawd damn man….
I know in FL and SC the parent is responsible until the child is 23 because that is when the child is officially declared an adult if they are in college. They will garnish his check take his tax refund throw him jail etc. In some states its not even the woman that puts the man up for CS if she getting any type of welfare asst. then the state will put him up themselves.
I always find it’s easier to say what you would do when you’re not the one presented w/that situation!
She (The TRICK) is The MOST AT BLAME — IMO
ALL of THIS could’ve been AVOIDED by Her (The TRICK) having Some Reasonable MORALS-n-SELF RESPECT Though… I MEAN, WHO really wants to be HE OTHER WOMAN with a CHILD by a MARRIED MAN
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Thats unreasonable and a scapegoat I think it would’ve have sounded better for you to say Married MEN don’t need to be pursuing women how the fuk is this her fault CHIT IS UNREAL and speaks volumes MEN don’t want to accept responsiblity for their actions! SAD
@Elove – Typical male…
Why is her fault (Trick) His dyck didn’t just fall into her puzzzy? It takes two.
DISCLAIMER: Don’t condone cheating in committed realtionships.
@ YSO…I sowry, I meant to change it.
@ Kimmy….You tell me, except today, My fat ass eating now.
@WCC (Comment #214)
IT’S JUST THAT MF-ING SIMPLE Though
I can gurantee if yo spouse/mate came home and gave u that package (AIDS) yo ass would want him to pay for harming yo life so why the fugg should he be let the fugg off the hook for branging a child into this world.
I was married to a cheater…forgave him the 1st and 2nd time…BUT the 3rd…filed for a DIVORCE stat! I never cheated and I deserved better!
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@Keily
What if he was telling her that – like he’s unhappy in his marriage and needed someone then what – Married women have a problem with this woman but not a problem with him who is MARRIED
I’ve been pursuded by married men countless times, one just left my office. No no good will ever come from it. I’m not birthing no more babies, but I don’t like sharing; especially no DYCK!
MzD
It takes 2 to MATTRESS DANCE.
So glad God has more grace & mercy than mere humans!
@ELOVE and WCC
Its not that simple what makes more sense is for the man to not pursue other females because he is married but yall keep making excuses for the man
Yall I’m not saying that its going to be picture perfect. You think her rep ain’t damaged look at yall comments (<—-see what I did there
)He does not have the right not to financial and emotionally support the child. If he got 4 kids outside his home then he should keep his dack in his pants.
this next is not for you Yall
I hate hate hate hate the fact that women are held ACCOUNTABLE FOR EVERYTHING when it comes to kids. A WOMAN CAN NOT GET PREGNANT ON HER OWN!!!!! THIS IS A FACT. Just like she rolled her dice he rolled his. It is not easy raising a child single handly IT IS NOT, that is hard enough, her child being called a bastard and her a whore I'm sure doesn't not bring a smile to herself. Yet Jesse gets to parade around with this sorry ass excuse "a man will be a man if you let him" NO personal responsibilty and the woman is left to pick up the pieces. So she suppose to be without support because she made an error in judgement? So with that thinking there should be no rehabs, to make people better.
I’ve been pursuded by married men countless times, one just left my office.
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Right now you have sense I don’t do married men either but what is your opinion of the married coming for you?
@Choco
I think he would and should. After 26, you are old enough to know what you want and the possible consequences of not doing what you are supposed to do. I personally, wouldn’t stick with a guy cheating on me after 26 even if we aren’t married, but marriage definitely has more of a bond/contract than just “oh we’re fukking and really like each other.”
When Mister was cheating (and I was retaliating), I got tired of it and left. I coincidentally left right at the moment he decided to go back to church, get a mentor and turn his life around, but I left. It took me 2.5 years of him begging, crying, writing, asking people to send me mesaages and some more stuff before I even got back with him to let him BEGIN proving he ain’t about the bullsh*t anymore. I think some people change. Some mature, some just decide its not worth the risk, and some people have an event that forces their hand. His hand was forced and he may have matured…. I just decided the risk was too great.
At 22-23, I didn’t feel that way about it (neither did he.) At 25… I do. It’s maturity.
@Yso
I wouldn’t say I’m ready and willing!! (That’s mean.) I was just saying that I probably would…..depending on if he did some stupid sh*t. Me knowing me, I’d probably end up cheating and leaving though. I’d like to not say what I would do because I used to say “I’d never cheat” and I CLEARLY proved myself wrong, so I dunno.
BUT I am NOT a cheater, period! I resent that, dammit!
@ ChocD aka C.D. says:
I can gurantee if yo spouse/mate came home and gave u that package (AIDS) yo ass would want him to pay for harming yo life so why the fugg should he be let the fugg off the hook for branging a child into this world.
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Thank you.
Meant to say Right… pause now you have sense
ChocD aka C.D. says:
Come home and gave u that package (AIDS) yo ass would want him to pay.
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Don’t get me started on HIV, HERPES…All the lovely infections. Mouth all ate up looking like you been sucking on porcupine.
ChocD aka C.D. says:
change says:
This is why the world is so **** up no takes PERSONAL responsilbity for THEIR actions. The woman was NOT there alone. I don’t care again if she was a whore. She can not **** by herself and get pregnant. It’s just that simple
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Ion give a fugg what the situation is let a bish nigga tell me he aint taking care of my kids I promise yall will be saying whateva happened to ChocD because I would be in somebody’s jail for manslaughter. Fugg with my kids and I will show you the true meaning of “all dressed up looking up at the church ceiling”
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BUT this is what will happen. HE AIN’T GONNA BE ABLE TO SUPPORT HIS OWN HOME BECAUSE HE’LL BE TAKING CARE OF ALL OF HIS OUTSIDE CHILDREN VIA CHILD SUPPORT.
Yall must ain’t never been through no shatt like this….
In all my yrs, if he cheated, he’d do it again. (men aren’t wired the way that we are)
@Choco
I personally believe that it’s not the woman fault it’s both of theirs. I don’t give 2 rats asses how unhappy someone is ( man or woman) you should just be honest.
I think he would and should. After 26, you are old enough to know what you want and the possible consequences of not doing what you are supposed to do.
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Okay but take this from an older woman at 26 male or female you really don’t know chit not like you know at 36-40 MY OPINION ONLY
The Makeup Maven says:
So glad God has more grace & mercy than mere humans!
at some of these comments. JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL
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Girl who u telling
ELove says:
@WCC (Comment #214)
IT’S JUST THAT MF-ING SIMPLE Though
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exactly!!!
BOOM!! :karate
@ Choco…It irritates me when women don’t find their man at fault. HE’S the one stood before God, yo mama, yo dadday, yo GMa, the Priest, the Judge…..and said he would be faithful til death do him part. The broad he’s messing around with, although she’s wrong too, doesn’t owe you any loyalty. Unless she’s a part of your personal world too, a close friend, a relative or something like that.
@Keily
Kool
That”s always the men’s story..their sooo unhappy but can’t get a divorce right now…My ex told the last one he was waiting until I finished school so I could take care of myself…like I was so damn destitute…so I was glad to hear it ..got my MBA and got the hell out! Deuces!!!
Ms Choco
It’s NOT Unreasonable becuz ALL MARRIED MEN aren’t going to STOP Chasing New Puzzy… Sooooo to AVOID ANY Confusion LADIES, LADIES… STOP GETTING PREGNANT BY MARRIED MEN Don’t LOWER Your STANDARDS (Please and THANK YOU !!!)
@caligirl
AGAIN, Don’t LOWER YOUR STANDARDS for ANY No Good MARRIED MAN Ladies !!! 
There is NOTHING TYPICAL about what I’ve been saying Though… I haven’t held Jesse Jackson to ANY KIND of High Moral Standard (AT ALL…) IT ONLY became “IT TAKES TWO” when she decided to BECOME A TRICK and WILLING LET a MARRIED MAN Bust RAW up in HER PUSS
Keily!
You on your second marriage? 
BUT this is what will happen. HE AIN’T GONNA BE ABLE TO SUPPORT HIS OWN HOME BECAUSE HE’LL BE TAKING CARE OF ALL OF HIS OUTSIDE CHILDREN VIA CHILD SUPPORT.
Yall must ain’t never been through no shatt like this….
In all my yrs, if he cheated, he’d do it again. (men aren’t wired the way that we are)
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But who fault is it that he has so many outside children……………HIS. So why the fugg do I care if that nigga can only eat Ramen noodles for breakfast, lunch and dinner for the rest of his gotdamn life. You dont want outside children DONT CHEAT and if yo punk ass do have enough sense to put a fuggin skull cap on ya dyck!!!!!!
@ Choco…It irritates me when women don’t find their man at fault.
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Im shocked too I was hurt when my ex hubby did it and even mad at the females but I didn’t blame them maybe I’m strange but I mean dayum couldn’t be any female I don’t know her if I did diff story but he knows had bad that would hurt me and he is to protect me so it’s his FAULT regardless
Yall still crazy says:
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BUT this is what will happen. HE AIN’T GONNA BE ABLE TO SUPPORT HIS OWN HOME BECAUSE HE’LL BE TAKING CARE OF ALL OF HIS OUTSIDE CHILDREN VIA CHILD SUPPORT.
Yall must ain’t never been through no shatt like this….
In all my yrs, if he cheated, he’d do it again. (men aren’t wired the way that we are)
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I tell you what, my kids better come first. If the whore’s bastard kids are even getting a dollar….even a look, it makes sense he asks them people to lock him up. Because his ass would be like getting poked in the arse by Satan. I don’t play side bastard kids…..no kids!
Why should my kids suffer just because a trick can’t act like a lady and keep her pants on. Her bastard kids would suffer with no money, living in the projects, eating day old dried bread….He, on the other hand, would just be suffering.
The Makeup Maven says:
So glad God has more grace & mercy than mere humans!
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Ms Choco
I WILL NEVER Make Excuses for ANY NO GOOD NIGGA even if He’s MY BROTHER… So don’t LUMP ME in that Category Baby (I’m MUCH BETTER Than HAT Though)
@MzD
Huh? What? I’m still on the 1st marriage been in it for almost 8 years and don’t see it changing anytime soon.
In all my yrs, if he cheated, he’d do it again. (men aren’t wired the way that we are)
Cheating men rarely put anyone before themselves
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Indeed he will
Right now you have sense I don’t do married men either but what is your opinion of the married coming for you?
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I can only control my actions. We work together so I can’t avoid him. Does he sexual harass me? He treading…
Even when I was younger, I would go to lunch with married men. Soon as I realized they wanted more to eat than just a chic sandwich, I would sever ties.
ChocD aka C.D. says:
The Makeup Maven says:
So glad God has more grace & mercy than mere humans!
at some of these comments. JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL
I’M GRATEFUL!
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Girl who u telling
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Girl, at all the mistakes I made in MY life, I would be charred right now!
I would LOVE to get married again…but I have serious TRUST issues!
change says:
The Makeup Maven says:
So glad God has more grace & mercy than mere humans!
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@ELOVE
I beg to differ from your statement it’s her fault so you did give Jesse a pass
Choco aka Hippie says:
@ELOVE and WCC
Its not that simple what makes more sense is for the man to not pursue other females because he is married but yall keep making excuses for the man
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I dont think its anyone’s fault, but as a woman, I dont want someelse’s man
I Dont…ion know bout other chicks, I can only speak for me…and if you get with somebody else’s guy, then what ever happens, happens…he was never your man to begin with, so expecting him to do shyt is psychotic. His loyalty lies with his wife. She should expect to raise that baby alone, OR find her own man 
@ Keily…OK, thats what I thought @ first.
#Don’tEatAndType
@Cali
you didn’t answer my question what is your impression of the married man that is coming for you I mean does he get a pass do you feel sorry for him seriously he’s married and pursuing you obviously a turn off for you but do you think he’s pathetic cuz I do!
@DOUGIE
Not trying to be mean, that’s just my take on it. I don’t know you better than you know you so…
@Choco
I agree….but you know to stop doing some dumb sh*t that ain’t finna benefit you wayyyyy before then. Same reason why many men decide to stop slanging drugs, leave the hood and other stuff way before 36-40. It’s the same situation. Either you’re going to grow up, have an event force your hand or decide it’s not worth the risk so you stop doing the stupid sh*t, or you’re going to keep doing it.
folks always say “once a cheater, always a cheater.” I never hear folks say: “once a drug dealer, always a drug dealer.” “Once a gang-banger, always a gang-banger.” “Once a dopehead, always a dopehead.”
Yall do realize, it’s all the same- bad habits that can be broken and are all tied into moral and character decisions?
I understand lots of women all over have been done wrong by many men, but I don’t believe it means anybody whould write them all off as the same. And like somebody told me….if you keep on having the same problem with different men……maybe, it’s you. That can happen with cheaters as well.
ELove says:
Ms Choco
I WILL NEVER Make Excuses for ANY NO GOOD NIGGA even if He’s MY BROTHER… So don’t LUMP ME in that Category Baby (I’m MUCH BETTER Than HAT Though)
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right! he’s a dirty dog, but that’s his wife cross to bare. Mrs. Jackson has to handle that. She signed up for his bullshit, not the chick up top with morals.
I dont think its anyone’s fault, but as a woman, I dont want someelse’s man I Dont…ion know bout other chicks, I can only speak for me…and if you get with somebody else’s guy, then what ever happens, happens…he was never your man to begin with, so expecting him to do shyt is psychotic. His loyalty lies with his wife. She should expect to raise that baby alone, OR find her own man
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She shouldn’t expect to raise her baby on her own she didn’t make that baby on her own that makes no sense to me! Finding her own man ain’t got chit to do with a child that is here and breathing that requires nuture and care!
I meant to say the chick up top with NO
morals
E-Love – IMO women with low self esteem or have a need to be wanted, will sleep with anyone. Jesse Jackson was MARRIED he should have never pursued her. Most women don’t pursue married men.
This goes by to Chiby (shoutout) keep your married life to yourself and not single person of opposite sex, it only opens doors for mayhem. The enemy will always find a way to destroy marriages and family. That’s all I’m saying.
KEEP HOPE ALIVE
So…We just saying fck Ciara huh?
If my husband cheated and it produced a child I’d kick his ass if he didn’t care for the child. Would I stay with him and make him miserbale? No, hell no and fugg that why waste my time?.
MzD
Lol it’s all good sometimes I can’t believe it has been almost 8 years. Got married right out of high school.
right! he’s a dirty dog, but that’s his wife cross to bare. Mrs. Jackson has to handle that. She signed up for his bull****, not the chick up top with morals.
How is his cheating his wife cross to bear she’s just numb and dumb but Im certain she didn’t get married saying oh I can’t wait for him to cheat and have a baby outside of our marriage
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Ms Choka
Most Females HEAR-n-SEE what They WANT TO… NOT What They NEED TO 
WELL You haven’t been reading MY Comments Correctly Then (NO Problem Though…)
I feel sorry for “outside” kids, I really do. I know an older, 60+, gy who stepped out on his wife repeatedly with a chick with a drug habit. The chick got pregnant and the state took the kid from her, his oh so Christian wife felt like it was better for this poor baby to go to the state than it was for them to open their home to this baby, keep in mind this woman is also a minister. Luckily, someone in the woman’s family did come forward and take the child but, I think it’s messed up that he would even let that go down when HIS ass is liable for the baby he made.
@WCC
Do you see some how you are still putting the blame on the females
YSoSrs says:
So…We just saying fck Ciara huh?
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pretty much!
gy = guy
Ms Choka
^^^ THEY WANT TO NOT WHAT THEY NEED TO #OL SUKA 
WELL You haven’t been reading MY Comments Correctly Then (NO Problem Though…) Most Females HEAR-n-SEE what They WANT TO… NOT What They NEED TO
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Point but a small one
Tatted!
Choco aka Hippie says:
I dont think its anyone’s fault, but as a woman, I dont want someelse’s man I Dont…ion know bout other chicks, I can only speak for me…and if you get with somebody else’s guy, then what ever happens, happens…he was never your man to begin with, so expecting him to do shyt is psychotic. His loyalty lies with his wife. She should expect to raise that baby alone, OR find her own man
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She shouldn’t expect to raise her baby on her own she didn’t make that baby on her own that makes no sense to me! Finding her own man ain’t got chit to do with a child that is here and breathing that requires nuture and care!
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I believe she should have been smart enough to know what sleeping with Mrs. Jackson’s man would get her. She was grown, yes? then as a grown azz woman, she shouldve had more respect for herself and her uterus, and sent Mr. Jackson’s old butt home to his wife. If I was Mrs. Jackson, I’d have her ass in court, fighting for custody. I mean, she already expressed poor judgement by having unprotected sex with Mrs Jackson’s husband, aint no telling what kind of mother she is.. her morals are absent.
This is one of the most interesting debates I have ever read on this site. I agree with Choco 100000% though.
Some of y’all mentioned you would not date a man with a child. I used to think the same after I dated one man (who did NOT keep his babymama in check) BUT I would give a different man an opportunity to prove he is different. Some, and I say this very lightly, SOME men are able to handle their babymamas and don’t have issues with them. Why should I pass up a good man? I cannot and will not, I can deal with playing stepmommy for a GOOD man.
ChocD aka C.D. says:
BUT this is what will happen. HE AIN’T GONNA BE ABLE TO SUPPORT HIS OWN HOME BECAUSE HE’LL BE TAKING CARE OF ALL OF HIS OUTSIDE CHILDREN VIA CHILD SUPPORT.
Yall must ain’t never been through no shatt like this….
In all my yrs, if he cheated, he’d do it again. (men aren’t wired the way that we are)
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But who fault is it that he has so many outside children……………HIS. So why the fugg do I care if that nigga can only eat Ramen noodles for breakfast, lunch and dinner for the rest of his gotdamn life. You dont want outside children DONT CHEAT and if yo punk ass do have enough sense to put a fuggin skull cap on ya dyck!!!!!!
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ESpecially if there’s more than one outside baby.
CD, but if you choose to stay with your husband (and that’s your choice) THEN IT’S BOTH OF YALL and your family eating ramen
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I know reformed drug dealers.
I know reformed cheaters (all are over 45 now).
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I agree that a child should not suffer, but that’s life, and what you are brought into and around becomes who you are IMO.
Every time I refresh I see her pic and I hate her gum to teeth ratio makes me think of my sister-in-law….
Most women don’t pursue married men.
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BINGO
This goes by to Chiby (shoutout) keep your married life to yourself and not single person of opposite sex, it only opens doors for mayhem. The enemy will always find a way to destroy marriages and family. That’s all I’m saying.
KEEP HOPE ALIVE
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K so umm what does all this ^^^ mean
@Choco – I never gave it any thought, he sometimes complains about his wife or talks about being overwhelmed with the kids. Men and women enjoy a friendly conversation with the opposite sex, I just try to keep the converations short and end them with, God Loves all of us and keep praying for your family.
She says he can pay for the baby, just no relationship. I said why not just get rights absolved? She said God or something another and that the baby will be 18 and grown and she will still be with her husband.
@caligirl SAID: E-Love – IMO women with low self esteem or have a need to be wanted, will sleep with anyone. Jesse Jackson was MARRIED he should have never pursued her. Most women don’t pursue married men.
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I can deal with playing stepmommy for a GOOD man.
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Preach my friend impresses me so much on how he is with his boyz I mean the man I see as a father is a turn on
Choco says:
…Right now you have sense I don’t do married men either but what is your opinion of the married coming for you?
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IMO, I am a married man magnet, they come for me daily. It’s a turn off and I hate it. I feel disrespected by their advances. Here’s the skinny of it to me. I don’t care how miserably married the man is, how much he doesn’t love his wife, how he’s only staying for the kids. Sure, he may wine you, dine you, he’s still just fugging you and to show some respect to you, he talks to you, buys you some things, pays a bill or two, because he has to keep you pacified and in his corner. The bottom line is this, at the end of the day, that miserably married man, who has fallen out of love with his wife, still goes home to his wife EVERY night, and you’re nothing more than a side piece who he’d ignore if you were in the presence of his wife. I love my hershey kissed skin more than I could ever love someone else’s husband.
#churchdismissed
MZD – Heey namesake
See why I feel bad for those kids?
@DIMPZ
That is the ultimate selfish behavior.
And to think, a few weeks ago everybody was up in arms about their out of wedlock kids being called bastards and less than children of God but now these same outside children deserve to be abandoned and/or impoverished because of decisions made by adults that they have no control over.
Choco aka Hippie says:
@WCC
Do you see some how you are still putting the blame on the females
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Its no one to blame. But as a woman, she should have known better than to sleep with someone’s husband, AND have uxprotected sex, which is gross.. considering all the things I do to my man, and vise versa…Im not sucking and fucking the next bytches nut off no man
ooops, sorry, I got off track
but I judt dont have any respect for chicks that fuk married men, have babies, sue for child support.. like thats cool. That’s so hoe shyt. Like where is your self respect???
I never gave it any thought, he sometimes complains about his wife or talks about being overwhelmed with the kids. Men and women enjoy a friendly conversation with the opposite sex, I just try to keep the converations short and end them with, God Loves all of us and keep praying for your family.
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That chill of you not to judge him cuz I would look at him like he’s a loser and needs a therapist!
Cocoabana says:
This is one of the most interesting debates I have ever read on this site. I agree with Choco 100000% though.
Some of y’all mentioned you would not date a man with a child. I used to think the same after I dated one man (who did NOT keep his babymama in check) BUT I would give a different man an opportunity to prove he is different. Some, and I say this very lightly, SOME men are able to handle their babymamas and don’t have issues with them. Why should I pass up a good man? I cannot and will not, I can deal with playing stepmommy for a GOOD man.
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I just don’t deal well with stress and I think a lot BM’s are stress. I’m married and I’ve been with my hubby for 18yrs. If anything ever happened with us I just don’t want someone with kids or I would prefer the kids were adults and doing there own thing.
When I say suffer…..
There is nothing like breaking a man….taking away his manhood, taking away all of his hopes, his spirit and his joy. This is what happens when I get dicked over by a man……..It doesn’t fly. Revenge (a very good show)…there is nothing like it. Just having him weeping like a little girl…
I’m totally with WCC on this.
I really cant see me giving a fuk about the outside kid and their upbringing. You knew what you were getting when you gallivanted around with a married man. Gotta make better decisions in the long run OR find an unattached dude and maybe start a REAL family with him.
Most husbands’ loyalty lies with the wife.
ooops, sorry, I got off track but I judt dont have any respect for chicks that fuk married men, have babies, sue for child support.. like thats cool. That’s so hoe shyt. Like where is your self respect???
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Okay maybe her self respect was not aborting her child I can only speculate – Im not for what she did but Im not blaming her either that bish ain’t force no wrinkly peen in her shabby vajayjay
Hershey says:
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IMO, I am a married man magnet, they come for me daily. It’s a turn off and I hate it. I feel disrespected by their advances.
I recently had this married man tell me he EXPECTED us to sleep together by now because he always gets what he wants
@Choco, there are many perks to dating a man with a child.
1. If his child is cute and YOU ain’t ugly, you know y’all (possible) child will be cute
2. Shows he will take care of his responsbilities (especially if he has full custody)
3. You ain’t got to pop out no little rugrats, cause he already got one!
@ YSO…That’s how I feel about it. I was really “throwed” by her being a minister and so cold. What part of Godliness is that?!
dckimmie says:
I just don’t want someone with kids or I would prefer the kids were adults and doing there own thing.
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I’m a lesbian and I don’t want a woman with kids either. Having to deal with the sperm contributor is nothing but a headache.
The best revenge for a CHEATER is leaving that punk bytch. For someone to sit back and willingly allow a deadbeat not to take care of their responsibilities says alot about your character as well as the cheater.
Most husbands’ loyalty lies with the wife.
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For real yall better wake the fuk up! Loyatly lies with the wife – to words that should’nt be in the same sentence Loyatly and lies now if the mofo was loyal there’d be no baby a wife who stays with her so called loyal husband stands to gain what his mistress does!
Dckimmie, them adult kids are a handful too
False false false. Im a BM. 3xs over. And I dont give nobody any hell. That got a God for that.
@ Cocoa I recently had this married man tell me he EXPECTED us to sleep together by now because he always gets what he wants
if he don’t take his murried azz somewhere’s and sit down, nucca buhbye!
I feel you @ dckimmie. Of course I would prefer a man with no children, what woman wouldn’t?
@SANDRA
Good thing Rihanna doesn’t have any kids then.
But isn’t a husband being disloyal to his wife by even messing around? His loyalty seems, in my opinion, to be to himself.
Somebody said that on here!
The best revenge is to let her have his ass.
The best revenge for a CHEATER is leaving that punk bytch.
Said it LOUD and SAY IT PROUD! Leaving that nicca will always be a sore spot in his SOUL 
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Hershey says:
It soured because, she probably has new dyck that don’t play that tapping back chit
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That’s exactly what I thought! She probably has a younger version of Jesse who is blowing her back out properly and she needs Jesse’s cash to buy him a car!
@Choco
Loyalty and fidelity sre two different things. You can be loyal as a muhfugga and unfaithful at the same time.
Most husbands’ (cheaters or not) loyalty lies with their wives.
As…the slutbag above is seeing.
Enjoying the debate
Oh damn…
yall on the bad dudes again.
I dont have a preference @Cocoa.
I can know so much about a man by his parenting skills or lack thereof.
My preference may be men from large families or just not selfish ass dudes.
Sandra Rose says:
dckimmie says:
I just don’t want someone with kids or I would prefer the kids were adults and doing there own thing.
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I’m a lesbian and I don’t want a woman with kids either. Having to deal with the sperm contributor is nothing but a headache.
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I respect that. If a man told me he didn’t want a woman with kids I’m ok with that
@ Sandra
she’s trying to be Jlo, and buy her new bew a car? 
IGo *sticks the mic in your face*
1. If his child is cute and YOU ain’t ugly, you know y’all (possible) child will be cute
2. Shows he will take care of his responsbilities (especially if he has full custody)
3. You ain’t got to pop out no little rugrats, cause he already got one!
SOOOO TRUE cuz the worse is to find a mate that wants kids and yours are 14 and 25 
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ANYONE WHO SPENDS THEIR TIME MAKING SOMEONE ELSES LIFE MISERABLE ON PURPOSE IS NOTHING BUT MISERY THEMSELVES.
There is a shit load of PRODUCTIVE things you could be doing.
Why would you waste your time staying with a man to break him down? You may be getting a little contentment, but it will only make you unhappy in the long run.
@ OTB….I’d be a new girlfriend’s dream! I only talk to them dudes when ABSOLUTELY necessary.
:stop: I take that back. I told the first one to lose my number and don’t even call me if he’s on his deathbed.
@DIMPZ
I think so. When it comes to marriage, loyalty and legal obligations are not the same thing.
Igo getcho azz back in here, and speak on it!
@Igo
It’s because it’s easiest to talk about. I usually stay away from the “bad dude” debates because sometimes as women, we want to put all the blame on the dude like we ain’t play nary a part of it.
I done read this blog for years….some of the folks who be in here regularly bantering about dog-azzed men are just as bad as the menm if not worse. But its interesting to see double-standards in a new forum though.
Look ….the bottom line is one is in a committed monogamus realtionship don’t cheat. Why is they so GOTDAMN hard?
If the person you loves f&&& up and you are man or women enough weather the strom. More power to you.
If you have baby by a married man, don’t expect him to be there taking out the trash, changing diapers, or there on Christmas Day opening gifts.
@Cocoa @dckimmie
I can SEE Both of Y’all Perspectives Quite Clearly (REAL) But TRUST ME on This One… ALL BMs are Stressful (EVEN The ONES that under CONTROL) Becuz The ONES that are Under-Control are THAT WAY for ONE REASON Though
They’re STILL Holding out Some HOPE that Y’all will GET BACK TOGETHER
OutsidetheBox says:
I dont have a preference @Cocoa.
I can know so much about a man by his parenting skills or lack thereof.
My preference may be men from large families or just not selfish ass dudes.
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I just thought about Arnold Scwarzaneggar (SP?) SIDE PIECE WHO HAS BEEN LIVING THE LIFE and Maria stayed smh
That’s my motto CD.
The worst thing you can do to anyone that hurts you is to hurt them by leaving them the hell alone. You win. End of story.
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I cared too much about ME and any future unborn babies to lay down with a married man EVER!
And if I can make choices, so can the next woman. What did the mistress think the outcome would be?
Where is the accountability?
CD!
Hershey says:
Igo getcho azz back in here, and speak on it!
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What yall want me to speak on…cause you might not like it
JMO says:
What the heyul did I miss????
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Not much
MzDimplez1123 says:
But isn’t a husband being disloyal to his wife by even messing around? His loyalty seems, in my opinion, to be to himself.
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right! sad sad sad! but that’s what his wife signed up for
At least he doesnt beat her 
Ty says:
Enjoying the debate
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Dont cha wanna recap for me please??
@Dougie
Please keep a loyal cheating unfaithful husband the fuk away from me and mine! I don’t need that type of loyalty in my life!
right! sad sad sad! but that’s what his wife signed up for At least he doesnt beat her
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Yo azz tryn to be funny and chit
ChocD aka C.D. says:
JMO says:
What the heyul did I miss????
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Not much
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It ain’t funny!!
… The day I decide to do work and see what happens??
Yall wasn’t talkin about jack chit yesterday
I only talk to them dudes when ABSOLUTELY necessary
Kita!
I KNOW that ninja. I aint got nothing to talk to him about. Good luck to yall in yall endeavor 
Yall still crazy says:
Dckimmie, them adult kids are a handful too
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I’m sure they are.
I just pray me and hubby keep it together until one of us die 
But I don’t have a problem with being alone. I make my own dough and I’ve had enough sex to last me a lifetime 
@IGO
Don’t be afeared. Surely you can see that we are all about love and acceptance here at SR.
I Go There says:
Hershey says:
Igo getcho azz back in here, and speak on it!
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What yall want me to speak on…cause you might not like it
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William, you missed it too huh??
@ELOVE
You cray my son lives with his DAD and his girlfriend that bish don’t register on my radar and I don’t have any ill regard for her Im MOM and she’s not NO DRAMA There!
@choco
Then you just got ot be careful not to take too closely to one, that’s all.
I think folks attract what they want. You want something different, change a lil something about you.
AndThenIHitMyDougie says:
@Igo
It’s because it’s easiest to talk about. I usually stay away from the “bad dude” debates because sometimes as women, we want to put all the blame on the dude like we ain’t play nary a part of it.
I done read this blog for years….some of the folks who be in here regularly bantering about dog-azzed men are just as bad as the menm if not worse. But its interesting to see double-standards in a new forum though.
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And thats why I was about to get outta here….
Ive seen it myself. Women are quick to say “oh I cheated because he cheated” or some shait like that… What i get from that is YOU wanted to cheat you just use that as your valid reason to. Guys get the bad wrap cause lets face it we do some fked up shait but we still dont have nothing on shait women do. NEVER… but hey this yall BBQ. so cook on.
I make my own dough and I’ve had enough sex to last me a lifetime
<<<my legs 
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I make my bread as well but um are you near 40 cuz my azz can’t get enough of sex and I used to have a lot of it and tired of it now I just wanna hump all damn day
@ WCC…I should
you for atleast he doesn’t beat her. 
@ OTB…His kid didn’t even know I knew his ass, she introduced me to him once when she was about 5. Literally said, Mommy, this is my Daddy. Daddy, this is my Mommy. I felt kinda bad, tried to be a better person after that. He done fukked up again since and I told his ass I wouldn’t water him down if he was on fire in front of me and I had a waterhose.
AndThenIHitMyDougie says:
I think folks attract what they want. You want something different, change a lil something about you.
ELove says:
@Cocoa @dckimmie
I can SEE Both of Y’all Perspectives Quite Clearly (REAL) But TRUST ME on This One… ALL BMs are Stressful (EVEN The ONES that under CONTROL) Becuz The ONES that are Under-Control are THAT WAY for ONE REASON Though
They’re STILL Holding out Some HOPE that Y’all will GET BACK TOGETHER
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YSoSrs says:
@IGO
Don’t be afeared. Surely you can see that we are all about love and acceptance here at SR
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Yeah Okay…
:clap; @ 352
Please don’t feel some kind of way if you had a baby by a lying azz cheating married man. I’m sure God will forgive him……..
ALL BMs are Stressful (EVEN The ONES that under CONTROL) Becuz The ONES that are Under-Control are THAT WAY for ONE REASON Though
They’re STILL Holding out Some HOPE that Y’all will GET BACK TOGETHER
What bullchit manual did you pull that out of.
BM 101: if she cutting up, ASK YOUR DUDE FIRST. 99% of the time he is responsible for it.
@choco
Then you just got ot be careful not to take too closely to one, that’s all.
I think folks attract what they want. You want something different, change a lil something about you.
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Im kool being me in my years not much is changing not even my underwear Im careful you be careful also :hugs:
AndThenIHitMyDougie says:
I’m totally with WCC on this.
I really cant see me giving a fuk about the outside kid and their upbringing. You knew what you were getting when you gallivanted around with a married man. Gotta make better decisions in the long run OR find an unattached dude and maybe start a REAL family with him.
Most husbands’ loyalty lies with the wife.
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exactly!
men cheat, but 9 times out of 10, theyre going BACK home to the wife. Jesse, fuked her, got her pregnant, and left her to raise that baby alone…cuz he’s going home to his wife. A smart woman with morals would have seen that train wreck coming and dodged that bullet.
or self respect should have prevented her from being even remotely attracted to Mrs. Jackson’s husband
I Go There says:
lets face it we do some fked up shait but we still dont have nothing on shait women do. NEVER…
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Never will y’all men EVER have shit on what women have done
BM 101: if she cutting up, ASK YOUR DUDE FIRST. 99% of the time he is responsible for it.
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Yep some Dad’s wanna be on that bullchit when you straight talking
Igo speak on the subject from a male perspective
<—–Knows she's not a stressful BM. I feel bad for the chicks that have them now. IONO though, maybe I shouldn't because they could be better ppl now but, I dont' care enough to know or find out.
change says:
ANYONE WHO SPENDS THEIR TIME MAKING SOMEONE ELSES LIFE MISERABLE ON PURPOSE IS NOTHING BUT MISERY THEMSELVES.
There is a **** load of PRODUCTIVE things you could be doing.
AND NOT JUST BECAUSE!
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RECAP
A woman that sleeps with a married man deserves whatever she gets, even if that means living on the street with her kid(s).
And a man that cheats on his wife deserves to suffer for as long as he is still married and maybe even beyond. And he better not do sht for the woman he cheated with or her bastard baby.
#Love&Acceptance
I Go There says:
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And thats why I was about to get outta here….
Ive seen it myself. Women are quick to say “oh I cheated because he cheated” or some shait like that… What i get from that is YOU wanted to cheat you just use that as your valid reason to. Guys get the bad wrap cause lets face it we do some fked up shait but we still dont have nothing on shait women do. NEVER… but hey this yall BBQ. so cook on.
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:fistbump:
I don’t do that you cheat so I cheat bull chit so I agree with whoever said that. Why stoop to his level? Men AND women do some dumb chit but there ARE good men out there.
Ain’t nothing like the feeling you get from moving on and giving that dude the permanent silent treatment
I’ve done some sh*t that will NEVER get mentioned EVER as long as I’m alive.
EVER.
NEVER.
On my deathbed…. I hope I don’t even remember it to have to deny it.
Men can do some wrong sh*t.. but women…..just…. SMH. No getting around that.
exactly!
men cheat, but 9 times out of 10, theyre going BACK home to the wife.
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This chit is not a reward at all please don’t bring you cheating azz back home to me I DO NOT WANT YOU fuk a husband some broads so engrained into believing that a husband validates you – You really think im impressed with a cheating husband who runs back to wifey
ELove says:
@Cocoa @dckimmie
I can SEE Both of Y’all Perspectives Quite Clearly (REAL) But TRUST ME on This One… ALL BMs are Stressful (EVEN The ONES that under CONTROL) Becuz The ONES that are Under-Control are THAT WAY for ONE REASON Though
They’re STILL Holding out Some HOPE that Y’all will GET BACK TOGETHER
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at the entire post
YSoSrs says:
RECAP
A woman that sleeps with a married man deserves whatever she gets, even if that means living on the street with her kid(s).
And a man that cheats on his wife deserves to suffer for as long as he is still married and maybe even beyond. And he better not do sht for the woman he cheated with or her bastard baby.
#Love&Acceptance
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I cheated cuz I wanted to! I didn’t cheat to get revenge my puss would be a dark hole tryn to keep up with him but fuk what ya heard I starting cheating cuz of him I don’t care what any of you SAY!
Okay ya’ll…making a lunch run. BBS.
@ JMO…..Yes they do! The kids should suffer for their parents hoeish ways.
The Makeup Maven says:
change says:
ANYONE WHO SPENDS THEIR TIME MAKING SOMEONE ELSES LIFE MISERABLE ON PURPOSE IS NOTHING BUT MISERY THEMSELVES.
There is a **** load of PRODUCTIVE things you could be doing.
AND NOT JUST BECAUSE!
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A cheating man going back to his wife doesn’t make him loyal; it makes him smart.
#CheaperToKeepHer
Choco aka Hippie says:
I make my own dough and I’ve had enough sex to last me a lifetime
<<<my legs 
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I make my bread as well but um are you near 40 cuz my azz can’t get enough of sex and I used to have a lot of it and tired of it now I just wanna hump all damn day
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Yep. I'm 36 and I've been with my hubby for 18yrs. I have stories for days and I have a very high libido…but SR is not the place to share
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ WCC…I should you for atleast he doesn’t beat her.
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MzDimplez1123 says:
@ JMO…..Yes they do! The kids should suffer for their parents hoeish ways.
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Thats sad.
YSoSrs says:
A cheating man going back to his wife doesn’t make him loyal; it makes him smart.
#CheaperToKeepHer
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REAL Spill as my retarded ass FBing lil bro says.
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OAN:
My WHIPFINITY JUST DELIVERED!
And it smells ssssoooooooooooooooooo good that I wanna eat it
It smells like rainbow sherbert
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Igo, give us your male opinion pls.
dckimmie says:
Choco aka Hippie says:
I make my own dough and I’ve had enough sex to last me a lifetime
<<<my legs 
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I make my bread as well but um are you near 40 cuz my azz can’t get enough of sex and I used to have a lot of it and tired of it now I just wanna hump all damn day
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Yep. I'm 36 and I've been with my hubby for 18yrs. I have stories for days and I have a very high libido…but SR is not the place to share
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@ JMO…I didn’t say it, just confirmed it was said for you.
There is a **** load of PRODUCTIVE things you could be doing.
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Well Said….
Going back to work
Where is Yso’s recap?
<— HATES JMO CAUSE YOU CATCH EVERY COT DAYUM THANG!
@Jmo Ion agree with that shait at all, the child is innocent. It took a two people to make and takes two to raise it. Whether the raising be strictly financial or visit and money, it takes two. One of my girlfriend’s husband’s had a daughter during their marriage. She stayed with him because “She loves her husband more than she hates his daughter’s mother” BUT she rides shotgun er’time he picks the child up, she said “he slipped up once, but won’t be nan nother beyebey being made on my watch”
#idonthavethatkindofloveinme
@ YallC….Don’t eat that.
You probably could though. 
@ KImmie……Good thing I know you outside of SR.
@JMO
Yep.
#Love&Acceptance
The REAL spill.
OutsidetheBox says:
ALL BMs are Stressful (EVEN The ONES that under CONTROL) Becuz The ONES that are Under-Control are THAT WAY for ONE REASON Though
They’re STILL Holding out Some HOPE that Y’all will GET BACK TOGETHER
What bullchit manual did you pull that out of.
BM 101: if she cutting up, ASK YOUR DUDE FIRST. 99% of the time he is responsible for it.
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Choco aka Hippie says:
exactly!
men cheat, but 9 times out of 10, theyre going BACK home to the wife.
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This chit is not a reward at all please don’t bring you cheating azz back home to me I DO NOT WANT YOU fuk a husband some broads so engrained into believing that a husband validates you – You really think im impressed with a cheating husband who runs back to wifey
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not saying its right, but its usually the case
Vanessa Bryant
Pilar Saunders
Beyonce
Tiny TI’s wife
ect
ect
plenty of women take their man back after cheating…it is what it is
@DCKimmie
Its so much worse for me in my 40’s I used to not really think about it but its like mandatory for me to HAVE a COUPLE of O’s daily not that I am but my body says so
I don’t do that you cheat so I cheat bull chit so I agree with whoever said that. Why stoop to his level? Men AND women do some dumb chit but there ARE good men out there
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You know why they stoop to that lever because they are in some ways just as fked up as the men they attract.
They way I look at it is this If a dude cheats in a relationship then its something within that relationship that wasnt right. Now Ive heard women put the blame on a guy but sorry ladies you played some part in that if only a lil. Call it what you want…
Now the chic that he cheats with: hey she knew the score but she played anyway gotta take the L when it comes.
As a single man I get approached by married women on occasion…. sometimes it tempting but to be honest with yall… Married women are too easy of a conquest. Too simple.
JMO says:
Ty says:
Enjoying the debate
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Dont cha wanna recap for me please??
I dont even think Kdub could wrap this shyt up
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***jots down JMO email address**** Momma bout to have a lil fun
Maybe I’ll send you some kiddie porn to see how quick the feds kick yo door in
plenty of women take their man back after cheating…it is what it is
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Uh I know I was one of them but that chit didn’t stop and I did
@YALL
#369
I’m no KDub but I tried.
Hershey says:
@Jmo Ion agree with that shait at all, the child is innocent. It took a two people to make and takes two to raise it. Whether the raising be strictly financial or visit and money, it takes two. One of my girlfriend’s husband’s had a daughter during their marriage. She stayed with him because “She loves her husband more than she hates his daughter’s mother” BUT she rides shotgun er’time he picks the child up, she said “he slipped up once, but won’t be nan nother beyebey being made on my watch”
#idonthavethatkindofloveinme
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:fistbump:
and I know that has to be stressful on her to have to do that.
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ YallC….Don’t eat that.
You probably could though. 
@ KImmie……Good thing I know you outside of SR.
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@Kita… Ooohh you know I could write a book. I’d put Zane to shame
You know I have a bad habit of sharing toooo much 
Choco aka Hippie says:
exactly!
men cheat, but 9 times out of 10, theyre going BACK home to the wife.
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This chit is not a reward at all please don’t bring you cheating azz back home to me I DO NOT WANT YOU fuk a husband some broads so engrained into believing that a husband validates you – You really think im impressed with a cheating husband who runs back to wifey
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but at the end of the day, its up to the wife and husband. thats why I say his loyalty lies with his wife.. he will side with her, band against you with her, ect, and its up to HER to put up with it or not..just sayin
@ WCC….How dare you imply that Jay and Bey have a marriage that is less than perfect?! They are #WINNING and on TOP OF THE WORLD CRAIG! I never took you to be a hater Bew!
*Insert sarcasm all through that shyt*
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ YallC….Don’t eat that.
You probably could though. 
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But, I already licked it
ChocD aka C.D. says:
***jots down JMO email address**** Momma bout to have a lil fun
Maybe I’ll send you some kiddie porn to see how quick the feds kick yo door in
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@OTB
QUIT Being SO QUICK to talk Bull-SHYT w/o KNOWING what I mean By STRESS Though
A MAN shouldn’t have to APPEASE a BM just to have/keep PEACE but Guess What… That’s EXACTLY what they have to do and That’s STRESSFUL for a Grown-AZZ Man who is SUPPOSEDLY dealing with a Grown-AZZ Female
but at the end of the day, its up to the wife and husband. thats why I say his loyalty lies with his wife.. he will side with her, band against you with her, ect, and its up to HER to put up with it or not..just sayin
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Lets just say in some cases I wouldn’t ban together with my hubby over him cheating yall got chit JACKED! What the fuk do I look like?????
and yes I do tatted!!!
eerrr thang
Takes hand off of send button and asks JMO “what color”
@WCC…But isn’t that the WIFE and not HIM being loyal? Lil Buddy just running back to where he KNOWS he has backup.
That jumpoff don’t owe him SHAIT!
@ KIm….And that’s why I fukks with you.
@ JMO, the daughter lives in Florida, they live in Fort Drum New York, currently the distance is making life wonderful for my friend he and his daughter talk a few times during the week and no visits until she flies to NY for half of the summer :swing: she’s happy as hell right now
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ WCC….How dare you imply that Jay and Bey have a marriage that is less than perfect?! They are #WINNING and on TOP OF THE WORLD CRAIG! I never took you to be a hater Bew!
*Insert sarcasm all through that shyt*
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you know what, I saw that special with Mariah Carey and Nivk Cannon after they have dembabies
and I gotta say, I respect Mariah a whole lot more cuz she kept it real and was like, sometimes, shyt aint all that cool( but not in those esact words) 
AndThenIHitMyDougie says:
at Yso’s recap!
Cause that is ACTUALLY how this post has went!
Okay ya’ll…making a lunch run. BBS.
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Bring me some skittles *kicks feet back up*
Choco
I dont know why you rolling your eyes at me… Im just saying.
@WCC
I wouldn’t call that loyalty though. I’d call that being practical.
New pussy can’t cook, clean, or stand the smell of your skid marked draws. Taking the old pussy’s side is the only option sometimes.
Chit is dumb I attracted a cheater cuz Im fucked and Im a cheater NOTTTTTTTTTTT!
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ JMO…I didn’t say it, just confirmed it was said for you.
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Yea I know you didn’t say it. That definitely didn’t sound like something you would say
@ ELOve….I disagree. My BD doesn’t have to do shyt to appease me but provide for his kid. He should do that anyway so, i’m don’t feel i’m asking for anything special or extra.
@ YallC…I said you probably could! LOL
ChocD aka C.D. says:
Takes hand off of send button and asks JMO “what color”
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Girrlll, I swear you are fuggin hilarious!!!
JMO of course its not absolute. You the 1%.
But I am a BM. Speaking from experience, I have not nor will not cut up. You dont send chsup? IDGAF. You dont come visit your seeds? IDGAF. I can only control me.
I just wanted to dispel that notion. All my friends have kids as well and I just stand be my position that men do lie. Thats all.
My brother-in-law’s brother wouldn’t stop cheating on his wife….he went out and had 3 children on her and she took it like a champ. So, guess what she did,
she went out and she had an affair, then she came home preggers and her husband had to raise her daughter and act like he liked it because she put up with too much of his stuff. Right now, he is basically suffering. She dogs him so bad.
@EGO
I just think that some of your comments are off like sayin some girls cheat becuz deep down they are just as fukd up as the men – that’s dumb to me I didn’t cheat cuz I was fukd up like him simple as that and Im not a fukd up individual
MzDimplez1123 says:
@WCC…But isn’t that the WIFE and not HIM being loyal? Lil Buddy just running back to where he KNOWS he has backup.
That jumpoff don’t owe him SHAIT!
@ KIm….And that’s why I fukks with you.
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he’s not being faithful.. but when the time premits…and it will, he will ban against that jump off with his wife.. hand n hand
there seems to be no loyalty in the relationship on his part, but thats really for his wife to determine about her marriage. But he will turn on those chickens for his wife, if she accepts him back
@YALL
Can I have your mink tent if’n you die from licking that Whipfinity stuff?
<–Gots all BM's in check & their kids love me (& I'd do anything in my power for them rugrats)
That's how you hurt em, through their babies
djm
Appeasement?
I think you thinking about hit it or quit it BMs. And maybe you are more right in that case. But I stand firm, women like me, who have been in that relationship and more than likely left on our own accord,
.
Choco aka Hippie says:
Chit is dumb I attracted a cheater cuz Im ****ed and Im a cheater NOTTTTTTTTTTT!
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I didnt say that… I said in some ways you have your issues. AND just because you didnt cheat and he did doesnt mean that you have some things you needed to work on with yourself.
AND Im sorry but if you cheated it wasnt because of him…. It was because of you. Now he may have open the flood gates but you decided to do that on your own.
@ YSO #418, that’s what I said, not quite like that though.
@ JMO…I can be mean sometimes! I can, I REALLY can!
@MzDimpZ
for BEING That Way Though (Much Respect…) 
YOU Being the EXCEPTION doesn’t mean it isn’t TRUE Baby !!! And
twin email me ur reviews once u’ve tried it for at least 2 weeks
Hershey says:
@ JMO, the daughter lives in Florida, they live in Fort Drum New York, currently the distance is making life wonderful for my friend he and his daughter talk a few times during the week and no visits until she flies to NY for half of the summer :swing: she’s happy as hell right now
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Damn!
I had issues with my bf bm for yearssss!! She’s only in a good mood when she has a new man, other than that, its a mess… Letting him see his son ONLY if I wasn’t around even though we’ve been together for years but she moving in with men after a couple of months
… whew chile, I’m not even gonna go there today 
If this doesn’t work out w/me & the bf, I don’t think I can do the kids thing anymore however I’ll never say never because there are great guys out there with kids
#life
@DIMPZ
What can I say. I have a way with words.
Choco aka Hippie says:
@EGO
I just think that some of your comments are off like sayin some girls cheat becuz deep down they are just as fukd up as the men – that’s dumb to me I didn’t cheat cuz I was fukd up like him simple as that and Im not a fukd up individual
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Shait I didnt stutter… some girls do cheat because they are fked up.
Hell If ALL YALL IN HERE can call men fked up for cheating…. THEN Shouldnt it be the same for women that do it?
YSoSrs says:
@WCC
I wouldn’t call that loyalty though. I’d call that being practical.
New pussy can’t cook, clean, or stand the smell of your skid marked draws. Taking the old pussy’s side is the only option sometimes.
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@ WCC….I get what you’re saying but, I still feel like she’s the one displaying the loyalty. Agree to disagree?
I think you thinking about hit it or quit it BMs. And maybe you are more right in that case. But I stand firm, women like me, who have been in that relationship and more than likely left on our own accord,
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Ion play no games when it come to the kiddies. You do your part and I will most definitely do mine.
he’s not being faithful.. but when the time premits…and it will, he will ban against that jump off with his wife.. hand n hand
there seems to be no loyalty in the relationship on his part, but thats really for his wife to determine about her marriage. But he will turn on those chickens for his wife, if she accepts him back
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Well good for him and her a losing team – what jumpoff gives to fuks about a married man only up until her bills are not getting paid
@EGO
I cheated becuz I wanted to I stated that but his cheating pushed me out there! As far as me working on things we all have to do that including my ex hubby so he cheated becuz he wanted to right not becuz of me or what I wasn’t doing
Yall still crazy says:
<–Gots all BM's in check & their kids love me (& I'd do anything in my power for them rugrats)
That's how you hurt em, through their babies
djm
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:fistbump: Being nice goes a long way!! My bf bm didnt fugg w/me UNTIL her azz needed me and it was her son that called me
<— smh
@Dimpz … You can not!!
Choco aka Hippie says:
but at the end of the day, its up to the wife and husband. thats why I say his loyalty lies with his wife.. he will side with her, band against you with her, ect, and its up to HER to put up with it or not..just sayin
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Lets just say in some cases I wouldn’t ban together with my hubby over him cheating yall got chit JACKED! What the fuk do I look like?????
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right, but we saw Vanessa Bryant do it on live televsion. Some women will and still do it and stay for years to come, like Mrs Jackson
Im not sayin its right, Im sayin its VERY common
@ JMO….Your situation sounds like mine and I feel the exact same way. Too much BS and it bothers me more because I know I don’t do dumbshyt like that so it is possible to act like you’ve got some sense and a damned life.
@ Candi, i’ve been using it for a few months, it’s light and moisturizes your hair well without a buildup. I braided my sister’s hair with it and when I took it down 6 weeks later, her hair was still moisturized. Not greasy or oily but, shiny and not remotely dry.
Can we move to another post peeps this chit is loading extra slow
@OTB
Whether YOU choose to Believe THIS (Or NOT…) But NO FEMALE that has A CHILD BY A MAN wants to be treated LIKE Any OLE REGULAR-Type FEMALE BY THAT MAN
SOME females have Emotionally Moved On and Don’t DESIRE THAT MAN Ever again IN LIFE —-> THOSE are The EXCEPTIONS !!!
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ WCC….I get what you’re saying but, I still feel like she’s the one displaying the loyalty. Agree to disagree?
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Oh yea, you can be REAALLLL mean :rollseyes:
@EGO
Some broads are fukd up but I took it personally since I did cheat on my husband and I wasn’t fuk up just fed up
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ WCC….I get what you’re saying but, I still feel like she’s the one displaying the loyalty. Agree to disagree?
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no, I wouldnt do it, but she did, like a lot of women do…Im on your side
she should leave him 
but at the end of the day, theyre married, and she needs to decide for her own marriage 
<—exception.
Yso, Yes, in my e-will the mink tent is all yours. You just have to give Knowledge some up on the roof every now and then. #iamnotpettylikethatyo Deal. Cool.
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I’z real smooth now yall!
I’m gonna do like Dougie and take my pic today so that I can see the difference.
:shoutout: FAYLA THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
@Y’all
KILLING THEM With KINDNESS is a Seriously DEADLY Weapon Though
@WCC
Apparently Vanessa tired of his cheating ways along with Pilar and Deion now Ms Jackson that’s on her!
@EGO
I cheated becuz I wanted to I stated that but his cheating pushed me out there! As far as me working on things we all have to do that including my ex hubby so he cheated becuz he wanted to right not becuz of me or what I wasn’t doing
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No he may have cheated because maybe just maybe the relationship wasnt right or going the way he wanted…. OR lets just call a spade a spade… He had issues with staying true to a woman. and thats on him… And sure it may have pushed you… but he could have been at home and something could have pushed you too… IJS
SO HAPPY that my older children step mom is a cool broad and for my yougest son father I ignore him and his skank.
#teamwinwinovahere
oooh thanks dimpz! i think i’m gonna order some. now can u fly to md and teach me out to french braid?
Shut up JMO!
@ ELove… #446 is so not true. I LOVE being treated like any ole female by my BD. Means he stays his ass in his lane and out of mine.
@ELOVE
Not all mothers are like that if I don’t want you Im not concerned about who else does
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ JMO….Your situation sounds like mine and I feel the exact same way. Too much BS and it bothers me more because I know I don’t do dumbshyt like that so it is possible to act like you’ve got some sense and a damned life.
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Exactly!! I knew what I was getting into and I never had problems with the woman. Both of them should raise their son and I don’t have to be a part of that. They go to basketball games for him and everything but thats what parents do. I’m not that hounding girlfriend
that takes too much damn energy …
His son would ask me to come and I would just pass but now we’re all at a good point. I go (no point intended) and the bm brings her new boo of the month
@OTB
… 
<—– ALREADY Knew THIS about YOU Though
I feel that everything a person does is ultimately based on the experiences they have had in life, be they good or bad.
And we’re ALL fcked up in some way, shape, or form. Just being born into this world guarantees that. We all end up just trying to find some that is less fcked up, more fcked up, or just as fcked as we are to share this so called life with.
BM 101: if she cutting up, ASK YOUR DUDE FIRST. 99% of the time he is responsible for it.
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Truer words have never been spoken
I’m going to MD! What the weather ill Candi?
Choco aka Hippie says:
@EGO
Some broads are fukd up but I took it personally since I did cheat on my husband and I wasn’t fuk up just fed up
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Hey if thats your truth then so be it… We call me fked up when they go out and cheat (Ive seen it on here countless times) Why not say it about a woman… no matter what made her decide to do it.
But NO FEMALE that has A CHILD BY A MAN wants to be treated LIKE Any OLE REGULAR-Type FEMALE BY THAT MAN
Whats a regular type female? Definition. I dont need them dudes to treat me any kind of special way. Call me what you want. I aint the judge or jury.
And I dont think im the exception with that. I just think Im a mature realist. People change. I am def. not who I was when I made my kids or was in that relationship.
No he may have cheated because maybe just maybe the relationship wasnt right or going the way he wanted…. OR lets just call a spade a spade… He had issues with staying true to a woman. and thats on him… And sure it may have pushed you… but he could have been at home and something could have pushed you too… IJS
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Call a spade a spade and he wat home and he was the one who pushed me nothing more nothing less Im loyal by nature so he knows he destroyed his family LITERALLY!
ChocD aka C.D. says:
SO HAPPY that my older children step mom is a cool broad and for my yougest son father I ignore him and his skank.
#teamwinwinovahere
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Not a cool broad though
MzDimpz and Ms Choco
SEE Comment #450 Though (Please and THANK YOU…)
YSoSrs says:
I feel that everything a person does is ultimately based on the experiences they have had in life, be they good or bad.
And we’re ALL fcked up in some way, shape, or form. Just being born into this world guarantees that. We all end up just trying to find some that is less fcked up, more fcked up, or just as fcked as we are to share this so called life with
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Thank you… Well said.
West Coast Chick says:
Choco aka Hippie says:
but at the end of the day, its up to the wife and husband. thats why I say his loyalty lies with his wife.. he will side with her, band against you with her, ect, and its up to HER to put up with it or not..just sayin
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Lets just say in some cases I wouldn’t ban together with my hubby over him cheating yall got chit JACKED! What the fuk do I look like?????
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right, but we saw Vanessa Bryant do it on live televsion. Some women will and still do it and stay for years to come, like Mrs Jackson
Im not sayin its right, Im sayin its VERY common
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I think Vanessa is a special case and she had a plan. I really think she accepted that shyt because she was two steps ahead of his azz. She knew once her marraige hit 10yrs she was set for life. She knew Kobe was still creeping but waited a month after their 10yr anniversary to file for divorce.
*I wont even get into Kobe. I dont like his azz on the court let alone his personal life*
#respectherhustle
YSoSrs says:
I feel that everything a person does is ultimately based on the experiences they have had in life, be they good or bad.
And we’re ALL fcked up in some way, shape, or form. Just being born into this world guarantees that. We all end up just trying to find some that is less fcked up, more fcked up, or just as fcked as we are to share this so called life with.
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Move it along, move it along …. there’s nothing more to see here people
JMO says:
Damn!
I had issues with my bf bm for yearssss!! She’s only in a good mood when she has a new man, other than that, its a mess…
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Been there done that, trust me I know. I’m a very good BM, got the Mother’s Day cards from them to prove it
seriously 
we get along very well, mainly because I don’t give a good fugg and a bad fugg what and who they do in their life. Take care of our kids, spend time with them and call me if need be.
@EGO
You can call some women fukd up just not this woman
I Go There says:
YSoSrs says:
I feel that everything a person does is ultimately based on the experiences they have had in life, be they good or bad.
And we’re ALL fcked up in some way, shape, or form. Just being born into this world guarantees that. We all end up just trying to find some that is less fcked up, more fcked up, or just as fcked as we are to share this so called life with
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Thank you… Well said.
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Such a damn copy cat
@Hershey … :fistbump:
@IGO
I have my moments. Few and far between, but I have them.
Choco aka Hippie says:
@WCC
Apparently Vanessa tired of his cheating ways along with Pilar and Deion now Ms Jackson that’s on her!
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right! cheating is just one thing..some woman have drug addicted men, abusive men, broke men, ect. I have no idea why they stay in certain situations. But at the end of the day, they have to decide whats best for their marriage
@ELOVE
Okay
Choco aka Hippie says:
@EGO
You can call some women fukd up just not this woman
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Ladies: ALL YOU HEFFAS FKED UP
Except Choco….
@ELOVE
Sounds to me like you need to hang around a better class of woman.
Imma need my BDs ladues to get right. They aint thanking me for not giving a chit about them and they man.
@WCC
Cheating and marriage aren’t realistic! If you cheating there is no marriage IMO
JMO says:
I Go There says:
YSoSrs says:
I feel that everything a person does is ultimately based on the experiences they have had in life, be they good or bad.
And we’re ALL fcked up in some way, shape, or form. Just being born into this world guarantees that. We all end up just trying to find some that is less fcked up, more fcked up, or just as fcked as we are to share this so called life with
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Thank you… Well said.
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Such a damn copy cat
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Stop your hating Denise.
Ladies: ALL YOU HEFFAS FKED UP
Except Choco….
Yall making me wanna start some chit just so I can have a story for the blog.
We can call it experimentation. 
What post we moving to this one slowwwwwwwwwwwww?
YSoSrs says:
@IGO
I have my moments. Few and far between, but I have them.
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Oh I notice…
Ladies: ALL YOU HEFFAS FKED UP
Why do I feel like he wanted to reverse that comment to CHOCO YOU FUKD except the heffas 
Except Choco….
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Denise eh?
WHICH POST WE MOVING TO
Ty says:
West Coast Chick says:
Choco aka Hippie says:
but at the end of the day, its up to the wife and husband. thats why I say his loyalty lies with his wife.. he will side with her, band against you with her, ect, and its up to HER to put up with it or not..just sayin
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Lets just say in some cases I wouldn’t ban together with my hubby over him cheating yall got chit JACKED! What the fuk do I look like?????
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right, but we saw Vanessa Bryant do it on live televsion. Some women will and still do it and stay for years to come, like Mrs Jackson
Im not sayin its right, Im sayin its VERY common
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I think Vanessa is a special case and she had a plan. I really think she accepted that shyt because she was two steps ahead of his azz. She knew once her marraige hit 10yrs she was set for life. She knew Kobe was still creeping but waited a month after their 10yr anniversary to file for divorce.
*I wont even get into Kobe. I dont like his azz on the court let alone his personal life*
#respectherhustle
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Vanessa Bryant is just a celebrity example that we can all know about. Regular woman do it alot too. Some woman stay in abusive relationships. I know this lady, my friends mother who stayed with her husband for 30 years.. within that 30 years, he was addicted to drugs, beat her, all kinds of shyt.. but they live in a big house, retired, just normal people, with a story to tell
Im not sayin it’s right, but it happens more than you’d think
@ OTB….You know any units that look like your gravi? I love that look! I’m taking my hair down this weekend. I’ve had it up for about a month, barely long enough to me but, my invisible part isn’t not looking cute to me anymore.
@OTB
It seems we have 4 to choose from but I vote for the Swizzy one. The gay one might get people pressure up again.
YSoSrs says:
Denise eh?
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:stop: it ann
I’m married and I WILL always blame the hubby for cheating. One thing I won’t do is make excuses for a woman who knows he is married. I wouldn’t waste time or energy on her but I think people give these women too many passes.
I don’t care who skipped down the isle and took vows, it takes two to tangle and she makes a part of that two. Too many women walking around thinking they don’t share blame in it…not true! I hold BOTH folks equally responsible for willing interfering in a marriage. The both played equal parts in the affair, why does on sin outweigh the next? Standing before God in a church making vows, trumps a person who vows to God alone to be a rightful human being? NOPE…NOT GOING! I don’t have to walk down an aisle and take vows to God to respect a marriage.
My not screwing a married man has nothing to do with the people themselves but I respect what GOD joined together! My cousin was with this married man for YEARS, fathered a child with him and is STILL with him 20+. This man reconciled with the wife and bought a new home and she accepted the daughter. My cousin’s daughter would spend weekends at the wife’s home. My cousin daughter attends the same school as the wife and hubby’s youngest daughter.
They lived a good 10 minutes from each other and My cousin was still screwing the husband. My aunt has family photos on her wall in her house that the husband is included in. They have taken about 4 different “family” photos with him. The husband’s mom showed up at several of our family events. The wife finally gave him the boot and got on with life.
Now don’t tell me at some point during those years of KNOWING she doesn’t share in the blame. She’s constantly on face book expressing her happiness with her relationship. I guess she finally got him in the end. I really hope she is happy because in life, you have to be careful who and what you wish for.
@YSO
I DON’T have DRAMA from FEMALES in MY Life becuz I’ve REMOVED THEM (Drama-Filled Females) from MY LIFE (Real) The CLASS of Females I associate with are TOP-NOTCH and They are ALL Real WOMEN (Worthy of RESPECT…)
And Can YOU say the SAME regarding Females you Willingly Associate Yourself With
The only women I hang around with are my sisters. I tend to prefer the company of men. Much easier to get along with.
Choco aka Hippie says:
@WCC
Cheating and marriage aren’t realistic! If you cheating there is no marriage IMO
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that’s true. but they still have that legal bind, and thats some serious stuff when money is involved
@YSO
And YES… WE ARE Though !!!
@WCC
MORE Woman/Men have been KILLED Over “still have that legal bind, and thats some serious stuff when money is involved” than Actual Pure LUST/LOVE Though JMO
ELove says:
@Cocoa @dckimmie
I can SEE Both of Y’all Perspectives Quite Clearly (REAL) But TRUST ME on This One… ALL BMs are Stressful (EVEN The ONES that under CONTROL) Becuz The ONES that are Under-Control are THAT WAY for ONE REASON Though
They’re STILL Holding out Some HOPE that Y’all will GET BACK TOGETHER
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this right here is the TRUTH!!!