According to sports groupie, Stiletto Jill (via TMZ), "Vanessa Bryant was spotted at the Laker game last night (Valentine’s Day) minus the girls. She and Kobe even had their traditional tunnel kiss. The divorce has been filed but doesn’t become final until June. Meaning there’s still time for the two to officially reunite."
So maybe this talk about a divorce was just Vanessa's way of getting Kobe back in line? But she should know that threats and ultimatums don't work with cheating men. Especially cheating men who happen to be rich and powerful.
The only thing that works when dealing with a chronic cheater is to have patience. At some point, after Kobe turns 35, his testosterone will decrease and so will his sex drive. Until then, Vanessa should just deal with it and be happy that other women want what she has.