Once again the news media serves up a shining example of the need for President Obama to sign a bill into law making birth control mandatory for hoodrats.
A Florida woman who was angry at her baby daddy took out her anger on her 5-month-old baby. The psycho stuffed the infant’s head inside a plastic grocery bag and snapped a photo of the frightened child. She then texted the photo to her baby daddy who was out of town.
When police slapped the cuffs on her, she claimed she was only joking.
This is the kind of tragedy that occurs when women, who have limited intelligence and borderline IQs, are allowed to procreate. The Chinese got it right: giving birth should be a privilege.
Anyone living in public housing should not have the right to procreate. Anyone who can’t pass a standardized test, which reflects basic common sense, should not be allowed to procreate.
My ideas may seem extreme, but if you can figure out how to register and comment on a blog, then I am not referring to you.
Enough is enough!
From the NY Daily News:
Authorities in Davie weren’t laughing, and charged 20-year-old Courtney Shanvice McBride with child neglect and child abuse, according to NBC 6 News.
“The photo showed the plastic bag completely covered the child’s face and head,” Capt. Dale Engle said, according to the Sun Sentinel.
McBride snapped a photo of the infant with a plastic bag from a Publix supermarket on the girl’s head on Sunday, police said. She also put the child inside a garbage can lined with a plastic bag.
She then sent the photo to the child’s father, who was out of town at the time, authorities said. The man’s sister reported the photo to police.
McBride told police she took the picture “quickly” and repeatedly said “it was a joke,” according to the affidavit. She also added that she never tied the bag onto the baby’s head.
She’s pathetic …. I almost agree with you Auntie
This is so sad! Our people HAVE to do better. I agree with you auntie!! Some people shouldn’t be able to reproduce smh! All over a man smh. Women like that make me sick.
Sandra I agree…what you say is a form of “Social Dawinism”…but in today’s society…it’s needed!
Sandra to some degree I agree with what you are saying, I say it all the time, there are just “some” people that should not be allowed to breed children period….
Glad the baby is ok!
Stories like this make me lightweight agree w/ you, Sandra. But those laws will never happen.
Zimmerman’s parents raised a murderer, should they be castrated as well?
Anyone living in public housing should not have the right to procreate.
but if you can figure out how to register and comment on a blog, then I am not referring to you.
u must not read no blogs but this one bc somma the stuff fonted on blogs??

Just saw on the news the other day where white parents starved their son and kept him locked in a closet
Shiiid if that law was in effect half of SR wouldn’t exist
I kid…
I think if someone was psycologically tested and deemed a hazard, then I would say yes child proof them! But I think thats as far as i will go on that…
Who determines who is “worthy” of having children?
We already know it would be the “all-white” panel.
Slippery slope Sandra, slippery slope.
This shyt rett here!
BUT IF YOU CAN REGISTER AND COMMENT ON A BLOG YOU’RE NOT TAWKIN’ TO THEM??? HAVE YOU SEEN SOME OF THE DUMB SHYT SOME OF YOUR POSTERS SAY???

I’m not doing this sht today. If no one in public housing should ever have kids I wouldn’t be here right now. Miss me with this mess, for real.
fuggin hood squirrels on the loose again…she needs to be spayed and neutered ole ignant heffa
I am glad the father had enough sense to call the police considering his taste in women. I just wish he’d beat the dog sh*t out of her first.
I’m quite sure some of the “registrants” on this blog live in public housing! That’s just contradictory all over the place!
@WUT
“I think if someone was psycologically tested and deemed a hazard, then I would say yes child proof them! But I think thats as far as i will go on that…”
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Lotta great people came from flucked up situations and some serial killers had “textbook” up bringing.
This would be nothing but ethnic genocide if was allowed to go through.

Mark my words.
The only reason some women have babies is to control a man so I’m not surprised she did that…what was she trying to make him do..come home??
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Who determines who is “worthy” of having children?
We already know it would be the “all-white” panel. Slippery slope Sandra, slippery slope.
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HAVE YOU SEEN SOME OF THE DUMB SHYT SOME OF YOUR POSTERS SAY???
who u tambout tho??
#Brown
@SANDRA ROSE
“Anyone living in public housing should not have the right to procreate. Anyone who can’t pass a standardized test, which reflects basic common sense, should not be allowed to procreate.”
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Why single out public housing?

And haven’t “standarized tests” been proven to be biases agaisnt the poor or people of a different culture?
God don’t make no mistakes no Sandra.
@Man
Lotta great people came from flucked up situations and some serial killers had “textbook” up bringing.
This would be nothing but ethnic genocide if was allowed to go through.
Mark my words.
These cases are not project specific cases, nor are they black only, and before someone comes for I know Sandra didn’t say that, I did. I don’t believe Susan Smith was living in the ‘jects nor was Andrea Yates, shouldn’t they have been sterilized Sandra? Or do they get a pass because they are both alabaster and not from the Pee Jay’s?
Good morning Aunite, I agree….and let me guess: She’s probably on some form of government assistance, yet NOT putting anything into the “system” just on a withdrawal basis only!!! SMH….no ma’am:-(
If she was white, would people be calling for the spaying of all trailer park residents? That’s what I thought. Self hatred is the worst hatred.
@ Fay – YOU TRYNA GET ME TO HAV’TA BEAT A BISH UP, HUH?! I’ll keep it to myself!
it’s time for MEN to be more selective in who they allow to have their children….
stupid hoes make me sick
Just like women need to be carefull who we have kids by men ya’ll need to do the same
Some niggas get caught up by a fat azz
@HERSHEY
“These cases are not project specific cases, nor are they black only, and before someone comes for I know Sandra didn’t say that, I did. I don’t believe Susan Smith was living in the ‘jects nor was Andrea Yates, shouldn’t they have been sterilized Sandra? Or do they get a pass because they are both alabaster and not from the Pee Jay’s?”
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You know they would have gotten a pass. On paper they seemed to “have it all together.”
I wonder how many kids Tiny and Monica would have had if they needed to pass Sandra’s “Pschological Tests?”

£ the commenter formally known as Hershey says:
These cases are not project specific cases, nor are they black only, and before someone comes for I know Sandra didn’t say that, I did. I don’t believe Susan Smith was living in the ‘jects nor was Andrea Yates, shouldn’t they have been sterilized Sandra? Or do they get a pass because they are both alabaster and not from the Pee Jay’s?
<— really Grey Goose & grape juice! Somebody got me HOOKED on that shyt!
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The Makeup Maven says:
@ Fay – YOU TRYNA GET ME TO HAV’TA BEAT A BISH UP, HUH?! I’ll keep it to myself!
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YSoSrs says:
If she was white, would people be calling for the spaying of all trailer park residents? That’s what I thought. Self hatred is the worst hatred.
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THIS!
Just like women need to be carefull who we have kids by men ya’ll need to do the same
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Men have no say so in whether a child is created.
That is soley the decisions of women and men are legally extorted to abide by their sole decision.

Some people, many people, should not have kids.
And how bout I not take procreation advice from a lesbun that will never have any children unless she can find a way to carry Rihanna’s baby.
I can’t believe I’m saying this but Sandra, I completely agree (smiling)!
but if you can figure out how to register and comment on a blog, then I am not referring to you – Sandra Rose
White, black, green, yellow, red or whatever I would say she needs to be spayed and neutered. Color means nothing to me in regards to a child’s abuse and death. I said the same thing about Andrea Yates, who was known to be severely depressed yet year after year she kept pushing out babies. After the first one she should have been sterilized and maybe one of her children would still be alive today.
IMO
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Who determines who is “worthy” of having children?
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Seriously. There are some white people in the surburbs who don’t have common sense but are book smart. They also commit heinous crimes on their children. Either way it’s sad and she deserves whatever punishment she receives.
free says:
it’s time for MEN to be more selective in who they allow to have their children….
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AND WOMEN NEED TO BE MORE SELECTIVE ON WHO THEY PROCREATE WITH TOO! 
@FREE
“it’s time for MEN to be more selective in who they
allow to have their children….HAVE SEX WITH ”_______________________________________________________________________________
I made some corrections since men don’t “allow” women to have children. It is soley their decision and theirs alone and the men is legally bound to their sole decision.

TaBew! guuuuuuhl i got turnt on the Peach Ciroc last night! :2dance: <—how i felt when i was drankin it wit OJ

i might finna have a prollum on my hands
YSoSrs says:
And how bout I not take procreation advice from a lesbun that will never have any children unless she can find a way to carry Rihanna’s baby.
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Told you that you weren’t the nicest one here
Last time the whitey had her daughter run to death, Sandra suggested parenting classes
Damnit MAN
Hello and chit
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@HERSHEY
“These cases are not project specific cases, nor are they black only, and before someone comes for I know Sandra didn’t say that, I did. I don’t believe Susan Smith was living in the ‘jects nor was Andrea Yates, shouldn’t they have been sterilized Sandra? Or do they get a pass because they are both alabaster and not from the Pee Jay’s?”
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You know they would have gotten a pass. On paper they seemed to “have it all together.”
I wonder how many kids Tiny and Monica would have had if they needed to pass Sandra’s “Pschological Tests?”
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Zee to the Oh…but these cases are for hood squirrels only not “the Chosen Ones” dayum good point
THIS IS SOME BULLISH
I agree 100%. If you are already on public assistance you should not be getting knocked up. You should be working to better your situation before bringing a child into the picture.
AND who are you, God?
SR, you’ve got to answer for all those thoughts on Judgement Day yo!
Hoodboogers. I bet dude still ain’t called. He sound like a bum nigga himself, why sister have to call?cThere are cops out of town to report abuse? Stop chasing bum niggas who don’t want to be a daddy. Who saw Teen Mom last night?
<— wants in on this! Grey Goose & grape juice!
My ideas may seem extreme, but if you can figure out how to register and comment on a blog, then I am not referring to you.
Enough is enough!
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Thank God the baby is ok.
NaijaGal says:
Last time the whitey had her daughter run to death, Sandra suggested parenting classes
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ok, trailer park+child abuse=classes
Black parents+child abuse=sterilization
yep that sounds right,
I’m convinced Mitt Romney is really Sandra Rose
:obama:
@lovezoe I missed…wanted to see the black folks…so why did the other sister have an abortion, did the momma make her???
Stop chasing bum niggas who don’t want to be a daddy.
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& Stop fukcing with them PERIOD
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Projects were created to assist, so what if human nature occured
Man, I just don’t care™ says: I made some corrections since men don’t “allow” women to have children. It is soley their decision and theirs alone and the men is legally bound to their sole decision.
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i halfway agree but, IN THIS F8CKED UP WORLD, you are basically guaranteeing yourself a child if you f8ck a broad raw. girls are having kids in junior high because they got a damn crush on some lil hollow chested kneegro.
women can’t seem to control themselves and are signing themselves up for 18-21 years of financial and emotional hardship, depression, and all that shyt they talk about once they abuse and kill their children.
knowing this, why are yall still f8cking with no condoms?
SON
Hello Creamy
@JMO
Bullsht is bullsht.
Instead of knee jerk reactions and gross stereotypes how about intelligent dialogue and real solutions? Not here and not on this issue it seems.
Hello All!!!
Hello Tatted!!
Fayla Bew!!!! Lovezoe!!!! IGO!!!
Naija making known previous points and shish!!!
I am
Anyone living in public housing should not have the right to procreate.
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Don’t most of them have the housing because they procreated? Or are you talking about the 2nd and third generations still living there?
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@FREE
“it’s time for MEN to be more selective in who they allow to have their children…. HAVE SEX WITH ”
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I made some corrections since men don’t “allow” women to have children. It is soley their decision and theirs alone and the men is legally bound to their sole
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If you dont want her as your wife then dont make her a mother, and that is soley up to you
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Just like women need to be carefull who we have kids by men ya’ll need to do the same
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Men have no say so in whether a child is created.
That is soley the decisions of women and men are legally extorted to abide by their sole decision.
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YEP…
@ Fay – Girl, I got “introduced” to the grey goose & grape juice and mind’ju, i’m not a clear likka drinka cuz my festivities will end with my pannies around one ankle, but drinking this, it’s awesome!
Peach ciroc & OJ??? Bish may have’ta run up on this! I’m thinking Peach ciroc & papaya juice! :slowlylickslipsfromtoptobottom:
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free says:
Man, I just don’t care™ says: I made some corrections since men don’t “allow” women to have children. It is soley their decision and theirs alone and the men is legally bound to their sole decision.
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i halfway agree but, IN THIS F8CKED UP WORLD, you are basically guaranteeing yourself a child if you f8ck a broad raw. girls are having kids in junior high because they got a damn crush on some lil hollow chested kneegro.
women can’t seem to control themselves and are signing themselves up for 18-21 years of financial and emotional hardship, depression, and all that shyt they talk about once they abuse and kill their children.
knowing this, why are yall still f8cking with no condoms?
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@Free
They do it cuz it feels good
(Some make decisions based on the present not the future)
*pours SMURFETTE some grey goose & grape juice*
@CREAMY

I do feel that some folks need to pass a damn psych test before having babies, but ummmm, just because one is on public housing, does not mean that they’re not good parents.
Plenty of rich azzwipes do dumb and crazy chit to their kids.
@ Ms.Fashion
SON
YSO comment 62 realist chit you fonted today
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Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Just like women need to be carefull who we have kids by men ya’ll need to do the same
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Men have no say so in whether a child is created.
That is soley the decisions of women and men are legally extorted to abide by their sole decision.
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I knew you were gonna say something like this a hit dog will holler
I want broke down lookin Keyshia Cole to go on SOMEPLACE looking at me like dat in her mugshot.
@YGO
You gone cosign that sht huh? Hrm.
Good Morning everyone :wave:
@naja- I missed that part? But I think she wanted the abortion. The one who had the baby chasing after a bum dude who will never be a father.
Yes, bs yes happen dont mean you got to chase a dude or use your child as a pawn to get his attention.
This makes me sooooo angry. There are people in the world who would love to be parents and can’t have children and this sleezebag does this to a helpless baby?
I hope they put her in a cell with Diabla!
Sandra u be saying sum chit
i know u cant be serious with sum of those statements made tho
but this trife azz hoe here, i cannot with the bs
trick azz bia 
I Go There says:
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Just like women need to be carefull who we have kids by men ya’ll need to do the same
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Men have no say so in whether a child is created.
That is soley the decisions of women and men are legally extorted to abide by their sole decision.
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YEP…
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REALLY??
TATTED comment 67

@cheeks- Dude was MAD disrespectful!! He came over texting, not even interested in his baby. He would have gotten put out!
I hope they put her in a cell with Diabla!
^^ ME TOO… SHE WILL WRAP THEM LEGS AROUND HER NECK.. U KNOW A JOKE!!
BIIOOOCH!
TaBew *chuch whisper* i got enough left to put in a
cup, but i BET i be sippin on that there for lunch today
mmmhm!
Ms Fash!!
hey sugalump!
GAGuhl
fab shoes as per usual
Men do have a say, where a condom.
@HARLEM
Bad parents are bad parents, period. To call for sterilization of a particular group because you can’t think of anything else to do…Lazy bullsht.
She look like hood booty to me…and i know plenty of men who have fell off in some hood booty before and got trapped..hood booty knows tricks to get a playa and next thing they know…they got a cape on playin captain save-a-ho…then the bear trap closes and they realize they were the prey the whole time…..
@LAKER
He just lost points with that yep.
@ Harlem –
HEEEEY BEW! 
*wonders if I should’ve let that info out…*
I can see where @Man is coming from b/c bearing or aborting a child is technically up to the woman…if a woman didn’t want to get pregnant she knows what she needs to do to make sure it never happens…but it’s def up to dudes to stop fcuking random broads and as @Creamy says if she’s not someone that you’d wife, you may not want to penetrate
lovezoe says:
Men do have a say, where a Your Own condoms.
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comment corrected
Ace says: She look like hood booty to me…and i know plenty of men who have fell off in some hood booty before and got trapped..hood booty knows tricks to get a playa and next thing they know…they got a cape on playin captain save-a-ho…then the bear trap closes and they realize they were the prey the whole time…..
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smdh but i guess you must be right cause they procreate like rats and bunnies.
UnpredictaBew
hey guhl!

Harlem
CFree
@ FayFay – Drinking on lunch???
I CALLS THAT A “ATTAGIRL!” Remember on 9 to 5 they us’ta go drinking on lunch and they had the lush azz secretary that us’ta be drinking up the drinks when they were complaining and be like “atta girl!” 
Good Morning
Send what to Obama? We can’t expect the President of the United States to hear about every niggerish activity. There is a white woman in a trailor park doing the same thing right about now…tell that to Romney.
MIRS, Cfree & FoxE
Anyone living in public housing should not have the right to procreate
are you serious??????? that sounds crazy…
Never mind I just read that it was his sister that reported the photo..He is probably ignorant as all flucks too. Poor baby.
NaijaGal says: I can see where @Man is coming from b/c bearing or aborting a child is technically up to the woman…if a woman didn’t want to get pregnant she knows what she needs to do to make sure it never happens…but it’s def up to dudes to stop fcuking random broads and as @Creamy says if she’s not someone that you’d wife, you may not want to penetrate
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i agreed w/man many, many years ago about this but that was before the BABY EXPLOSION. no excuses for guys now.
@ACE
The fact that you had to “correct” that comment further proves that men need to be more selective. Why you fcking btches that might tamper with condoms in the first place?
Don’t know if someone upthread asked this question already BUT…. Sandra does the prime minister of YOUR country have laws like this
TiFan4Lyfe says:
The only reason some women have babies is to control a man so I’m not surprised she did that…what was she trying to make him do..come home??
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I say all the time that most children are pawns and this transcends socio-economic standing, marital status, race, etc.
Here we have another child that will be in the system, sad. Just leave the babies where they are when you KNOW you don’t want them.
@FREE
“i halfway agree but, IN THIS F8CKED UP WORLD, you are basically guaranteeing yourself a child if you f8ck a broad raw. girls are having kids in junior high because they got a damn crush on some lil hollow chested kneegro.
women can’t seem to control themselves and are signing themselves up for 18-21 years of financial and emotional hardship, depression, and all that shyt they talk about once they abuse and kill their children.
knowing this, why are yall still f8cking with no condoms?”
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Um. What does that have to do with a woman, AND A WOMAN ALONE, DECIDING to have a baby??????
If you DECIDED to do something, shouldn’t YOU be responsible for that decision????????????????? Why can’t I ever get a straight answer on this?
If I give you a GUN and YOU kills someone, aren’t YOU responsible for the murder????????????
If the government didn’t support women haveing these children by extorting men, we wouldn’t need to sterelize anyone because women wouldn’t have the goverment backing them up by having these kids in the first place.
@ Ace I know PLENTY of niggas myself whose gotten played some of them try to help the broads get motivated to go to school get a job etc before they realize these broads have NO attention of doing nothing but clubbing and shopiing at cititrends and collecting them TANF checks
@cheeks- Dude was MAD disrespectful!! He came over texting, not even interested in his baby. He would have gotten put out!
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When that fool walked through the front door after his friend who polietly spoke to the girl’s mom and he sat down and said nothing he would have been put out. Then when the mother was speaking to him and he was texting I was ready to grab his collar and pull him off the couch myself…When he stood her up I was ready to cry along with her. You could see how her her mother was seeing her daughter go through that…
And I meant to add that parenthood is REAL life, get these fairy tale visions out of your head.
I Go There says:
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Just like women need to be carefull who we have kids by men ya’ll need to do the same
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Men have no say so in whether a child is created.
That is soley the decisions of women and men are legally extorted to abide by their sole decision.
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YEP…
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NOPE!! Men do have a say, it’s called stopping by the drug store and getting a box of condoms.
Put that bad boy on before you skeet in Saquisha… problem solved
YSoSrs says:
@ACE
The fact that you had to “correct” that comment further proves that men need to be more selective. Why you fcking btches that might tamper with condoms in the first place?
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Cause we are Men
YSoSrs says:
@ACE
The fact that you had to “correct” that comment further proves that men need to be more selective. Why you fcking btches that might tamper with condoms in the first place?
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Ysoooooooo
Although I agree that everyone is not equiped to me a parent to say that ANYONE that lives in public housing shouldn’t be allowed to procreate is very extreme. That’s the equvilent of spewing racial slurs. Not everyone in the projects are hoodrats with 50 kids. There are still some Florida and James Evans led families there
*hurt her mother was seeing her daughter go through that
THIS POST IS PISSN ME AWWF!!
TAKE FUKN RESPONSIBILITY WERE U LET UR FUKN CUM DRIP.. SHE SUCH A FUKN HOE HOODRAT THEN THAT DONT MAKE U NO FUKN BETTER SINCE U STUCK UR FUKN DACK IN HER… FUK OUT OF HERE!! TRAP BOO AND FUKN BYE…
Oh yes. Men are the innocent victims and get “tricked” into impregnating these women that turn out not be sht. Of course. Poor y’all.
Tatt
@ Fayla thanks hun but those were @ neiman marcus and the price tag was cray so I left those right at the store
Faybew & Tatted
What it do???
YSoSrs says:
Oh yes. Men are the innocent victims and get “tricked” into impregnating these women that turn out not be sht. Of course. Poor y’all.
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Thank you for seeing it our way….
@Man if you give me a gun with the knowledge I was going to kill someone then YES you’ll be held responsible
@FREE
“i agreed w/man many, many years ago about this but that was before the BABY EXPLOSION. no excuses for guys now.”
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There is no “excuse” needed because a man has done nothing wrong. How can you blame the victim of extortion for being extorted???????????????????????????????????
And why doesn’t a woman use the umpteen different birth control methods designed for her……UNLESS she is planning on extorting a man using the goverment’s assistance????
NAIJA
WATCH 48HRS U AS GUILTY AS THE FUKN KILLER
Why you fcking btches that might tamper with condoms in the first place?
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You might not know, they might have sent their representative and maintained the facade long enough to make one think that they are that person. It’s not like most dudes that beat their women’s ass slapped the shyt out of them first date.
@ACE
Well if y’all chalk that up to being “men”, man the fck up and take responsibility for your own reckless actions.
@NAIJA
” if you give me a gun with the knowledge I was going to kill someone then YES you’ll be held responsible”
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You have proven MY point… “with the knowledge I was going to kill someone.”
We both know these dudes ain’t nuttin in women “with the knowledge that the female wants to get pregnant, have the child, and extort them for 18 years.”
Back atcha TATTED
Um, people do realize that condoms break right? Happened to me in college and I saw my life flash before my eyes
YSO exactly
FAYLA
heyyy
TATTED you should of bc Im feeling a type of way
LAKES
@YSO
“Well if y’all chalk that up to being “men”, man the fck up and take responsibility for your own reckless actions. ”
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Women need to woman up and take responsibility for THEIR DECISIONS!!
At worst it’s a “mistake” for a guy, AT THE LEAST IT’S A CONCIOUS DECISION FOR A FEMALE!!!
But of course they get to steal a man’s hard earned money for 18 years so they have a bit of an incentive to whore themselves in that way.
NAIJA
heyyyy
MIRS
<— really ratstacks crip walk
Cheeks- I think she had PPD. No way would someone come in my house disrespecting me. You speak when your feet hit the threshold or turn back around
If you DECIDED to do something, shouldn’t YOU be responsible for that decision????????????????? Why can’t I ever get a straight answer on this? -Man
You might not know, they might have sent their representative and maintained the facade long enough to make one think that they are that person. – Awesome
JMO says:
Um, people do realize that condoms break right? Happened to me in college and I saw my life flash before my eyes
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try having that chit happen when your losing your virginity…
#traumatizing…
AND then you always have the chicks that take the AB money and don’t go get it done & THEN they wonder why dude don’t want no parts of you or the kid. It’s fukced up BUT you did it to yourself.
Men don’t really have any rights on what in our bodies
So I can see where Man is coming from…
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*burp* I drank it all 
Tatted
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@YSO
“Well if y’all chalk that up to being “men”, man the fck up and take responsibility for your own reckless actions. ”
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Women need to woman up and take responsibility for THEIR DECISIONS!!
At worst it’s a “mistake” for a guy, AT THE LEAST IT’S A CONCIOUS DECISION FOR A FEMALE!!!
But of course they get to steal a man’s hard earned money for 18 years so they have a bit of an incentive to whore themselves in that way.
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@MOCHA
“NOPE!! Men do have a say, it’s called stopping by the drug store and getting a box of condoms.
Put that bad boy on before you skeet in Saquisha… problem solved”
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Yep…. OR the woman:
-decide not to have sex
-use one of the umpteen different birth control methods available to them
-could be held soley responsible for HER SOLE DECISION?????
I mean, why is that last one so far fetched??? I guess if I could legally steal someone else’s money I wouldnt’ want that to change either.
Men are “nutting” in women with the knowledge that birth control fails and condoms break.
Sex is a risk for EVERYONE involved so EVERYONE should shoulder some responsibility if sht doesn’t go the way they want.
HARLEM
Ace says:
JMO says:
Um, people do realize that condoms break right? Happened to me in college and I saw my life flash before my eyes
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try having that chit happen when your losing your virginity…
#traumatizing…
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Everyone just need to be accountable for every decision they make in life.
YSoSrs says:
Men are “nutting” in women with the knowledge that birth control fails and condoms break.
Sex is a risk for EVERYONE involved so EVERYONE should shoulder some responsibility if sht doesn’t go the way they want.
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Cheeks- I think she had PPD. No way would someone come in my house disrespecting me. You speak when your feet hit the threshold or turn back around
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What made me mad about the episode was that she totally out ranked him. When she cut her hair she looked like a hispanic Halle Berry, very beautiful…I noticed that she could never really look him in the eye when she was speaking to him and trying to defend herself…For the life of me I can’t understand why she would have such low self esteem…Its so very important to teach your daughters to love themselves….
@JMO
“How are you stealing money if you are supporting your own children?? You must be one of those dudes who say they “babysit” their own kids … dumb chit”
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How is NOT stealing if I didn’t have a say in creating the liablity in the first place????????????????????????????
If I told you that you HAD to pay me thousands of dollars every month but it “benefits your children” (that you never wanted) how is that NOT stealing???????????????????????????
Yall know what this is some BS…
Actually Men AND Women should take responsiblity in bringing a kid into this world. But lets keep it right here… this goes to the fact that some have picked the WRONG muthafker to have kids with…
Fellas: you didnt think that sweet ass and that low disposition would fk you over. OR you didnt think that night with the neighborhood freak would get you in this spot.
Ladies: Most of you didnt want to go for that good guy you wanted that thug or that dude that YOU though was about something… then you got pregnant and he left your azz high and dry.
Both sides play a huge roll in this BS… so the finger pointing is for nothing.
Passing thru for a min and had a whole rant but will throw a point out here.
this right here…This is the kind of tragedy that occurs when women, who have limited intelligence and borderline IQs, are allowed to procreate. The Chinese got it right: giving birth should be a privilege.
Anyone living in public housing should not have the right to procreate. Anyone who can’t pass a standardized test, which reflects basic common sense, should not be allowed to procreate.
My ideas may seem extreme, but if you can figure out how to register and comment on a blog, then I am not referring to you.
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So whom give these “celebs” with money and “higher intelligence” to procreate? I am a product of the hood and a mother that was (god rest her soul) wanted better for her children. Yes some women/men do stupid ish every day and common sense doesn’t play a factor. If you want to do something stupid you can and will and common sense isn’t going to play a factor. Did common sense play for you T.I. when got them guns,and did that god awful reality show? Funny how some regard common sense with knowledge and intelligence and yet some of the smartest ppl are those that without “book learning”
*jumps off box*
20?
Anyway, this heffa needs her ass 
If you never wanted children you shouldn’t be fcking. Problem solved.
And at first glimpse this title didn’t make sense because I thought that was Tiny from my phone.
No shade either, I did
NaijaGal says:
@Man if you give me a gun with the knowledge I was going to kill someone then YES you’ll be held responsible
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He must not watch the first 48 … Damn near every episode, someone is charged with murder for knowing that their friend was about to rob someone and being there and that person ended up dead
@JMO
“Men are “nutting” in women with the knowledge that birth control fails and condoms break.
Sex is a risk for EVERYONE involved so EVERYONE should shoulder some responsibility if sht doesn’t go the way they want.”
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BUT, WOMEN ALONE HAVE THE ABILITY TO RECTIFY THE MISTAKE!
If you want stuff to be 50/50, which it sounds like you are proposing, then men should have SOME OPTION after a WOMAN, AND A WOMAN ALONE, DECIDEDS to keep a baby a man DIDN’T WANT.
If they BOTH make a mistake, why doesn’t the guy get ANY say so but yet has his money STOLEN???????? WTF???
Like I said, if I could legally steal money, I wouldn’t want it to change either.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@JMO
“How are you stealing money if you are supporting your own children?? You must be one of those dudes who say they “babysit” their own kids … dumb chit”
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How is NOT stealing if I didn’t have a say in creating the liablity in the first place????????????????????????????
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You had a say when you started fukkin
Women need to woman up and take responsibility for THEIR DECISIONS!!
At worst it’s a “mistake” for a guy, AT THE LEAST IT’S A CONCIOUS DECISION FOR A FEMALE!!!
But of course they get to steal a man’s hard earned money for 18 years so they have a bit of an incentive to whore themselves in that way.

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I can’t with your retarded ass today….
IGO comment 144 RIGHT ON *black fist in air*
BOTH ARE RESPONSIBLE .. TAKES UR PUZZY AND HIS DAM DACK SO TWO!! TIS ALL!! BAD DECISIONS..
Well we could use some form of stipulations/policies I mean some folks in the DMV can stay on welfare for their entire lifetime
Adina Howard Jr., is that you?!
But of course they get to steal a man’s hard earned money for 18 years so they have a bit of an incentive to whore themselves in that way.
#AHEM #NOBITCHAZNNESS
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@JMO
“@Man if you give me a gun with the knowledge I was going to kill someone then YES you’ll be held responsible
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He must not watch the first 48 … Damn near every episode, someone is charged with murder for knowing that their friend was about to rob someone and being there and that person ended up dead”
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You must not UNDERSTAND the “First 48.”
There’s a reason a gun manufacture has NEVER been charged with murder despite the only use of a gun is to shoot and therefore damamge/destroy something. That’s it’s only purpose, so by default, anytime you sell one, you are technically “assisting in any crime” that gun commuts.
UNLESS we hold people accountable that DECIDE to commit the crimes themselves!
In your scenario the people KNEW a crime was going to be commited. If dudes KNEW a chick would PURPOSELY get pregnant, they wouldn’t have sex. You are just blaming the victim of a deception.
hmmmm. That is one of the curses that comes along with having good D. Leave the wrong one without it, and they develop a nonsensical lack of constraint. that chick is also crazy, hehehe..
Choco aka Hippie says:
Well we could use some form of stipulations/policies I mean some folks in the DMV can stay on welfare for their entire lifetime
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Welfare reform was created, so that the program can only be utilized for five years by the recipient.
Additionally, in order to qualify for section 8, recipients cannot have a criminal record for drugs or DV.
The system just isn’t being policed properly….
MissH
with your beautiful self…how you be and thangs
@Man
Im really shocked that you are speaking in this manner that all I can say I didn’t know you really thought that unsound – I mean I thought a lot of stupid chit you said was for entertainment and you just being your sarcastic lil self but for you to really knowingly have unprotected sex with a female and she ends up pregnant and YOU honestly believe you have no responsibility is really making me see how you truly have very little regard for females – we’re not your mother sooooooo we didn’t bring you here soooooooooo!
This is sad on so many levels. Disgusting trash. Both her and her baby father because HIS SIS had to call the cops, meaning if he was not going to take any action. Hmm wonder how she got access to the pic in the first place. God bless her heart because if she can take pics like that, she damn sure can go through with the actual actions that she took said pics of.
@JMO
“You had a say when you started fukkin ”
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Ok, so you are saying that if a man is 1005 “responsible” and a condom breaks or birth control fails,
the woman, and her alone, DECIDES to have the baby, it’s ok for the man to have his money stolen for 18 years? Is that what you are saying?

So whom give these “celebs” with money and “higher intelligence” to procreate? I am a product of the hood and a mother that was (god rest her soul) wanted better for her children. Yes some women/men do stupid ish every day and common sense doesn’t play a factor. If you want to do something stupid you can and will and common sense isn’t going to play a factor. Did common sense play for you T.I. when got them guns,and did that god awful reality show? Funny how some regard common sense with knowledge and intelligence and yet some of the smartest ppl are those that without “book learning”
*jumps off box*
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You better

The system just isn’t being policed properly….
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True but some folks need to have incentive them damnselves!
-could be held soley responsible for HER SOLE DECISION?????
That’s about all you can do.
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Put it on paper! Get a lawyer.
I CAN’T STAND when I hear
say “ION need you! My baby don’t need you!”
Hello everyone!!!! I am new here!!!!
But this story is so damn sad…she is going to lose her child chasing someone who dnt her…
She looks transgender. Thank Goodness the sister called the police, that’s the bright point to the story, because some people wouldn’t have called at all, not taking stuff like this seriously. So I have the positive in the man’s sister.
@JMO
“Speaking of, my friend just found out she’s preggo again and she takes her birth control pill faithfully. If you’re having sex, just know the outcome could be a child despite any preventative methods. point. blank. period”
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The possibilty of pregnancy ISN’T THE PROBLEM.
The problem is once a pregnancy is created, THE MAN IS LEGALLY EXTORTED BY THE WOMAN’S SOLE DECISION!
If TWO people make the baby, why does only ONE person have any say so once the baby is created??????????? Why can’t any one logically explain this to me????
@Man I can agree with you that the decision is pretty much up to the woman to keep or abort a baby but when you sleep with a woman, regardless of protection you KNOW there is a possibility she will get pregnant…sometimes God makes it happen even if you have a condom and she’s taking bc…the only 100% way you can not get pregnant is abstinence and if you’re not willing to practice that until you get your wife or equivalent don’t complain when you knock someone up cause you KNEW there was that possibility
ok for the man to have his money stolen for 18 years?
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Got damn you lead a rough as life – dont have any kids I shutter at the thought of discipline when they steal your money at 5 days old becuz you helped get them here and now you have to nuture and care for them but they way you see it babies are thieves SMFH!
One of my brothers decided when he was in his 20s that he didn’t want children. His life is too hectic, he was working for the TBI at the time, he’s now a true Federali
but he’s a whore, flat whore. Kids were never in his future, so he got snipped and clipped, thus preventing the “theft” of his money…if men don’t want their hard earned money stolen, take precautions, don’t fukk or get clipped so you can have a lifetime fukkfest <<< my Bubby's words
@ Man…I see where you are coming from. My cousin is married to this whore I mean female and while he was serving his duty in Iraq she got pregnant by somebody else (he thought the baby was his becuz he did come home for 2 weeks). He was at the birth and signed the birth certificate and to make a long story short he just found out the baby wasn’t his and the judge told him he still had to pay child support becuz his wife told the judge she don’t know who the father is and the judge said somebody has to pay for it
@YALL CRAZY
“could be held soley responsible for HER SOLE DECISION?????
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Put it on paper! Get a lawyer. That’s about all you can do.”
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You can’t do that either. Again, it is legal extortion. A lawyer can’t do ANYTHING. EVEN IF THE BABY IS PROVEN NOT TO BE YOURS! That’s a fact.
If you are married, and you PROVE you didn’t father the baby, you still have your money LEGALLY STOLEN because the law is that any baby conceived during a marriage is assumed to be the husbands’ REGARDLESS OF DNA!
It’s pure ridiculous.
*Backs the hell up outta this post*
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@JMO
“@Man if you give me a gun with the knowledge I was going to kill someone then YES you’ll be held responsible
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He must not watch the first 48 … Damn near every episode, someone is charged with murder for knowing that their friend was about to rob someone and being there and that person ended up dead”
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You must not UNDERSTAND the “First 48.”
There’s a reason a gun manufacture has NEVER been charged with murder despite the only use of a gun is to shoot and therefore damamge/destroy something. That’s it’s only purpose, so by default, anytime you sell one, you are technically “assisting in any crime” that gun commuts.
UNLESS we hold people accountable that DECIDE to commit the crimes themselves!
In your scenario the people KNEW a crime was going to be commited. If dudes KNEW a chick would PURPOSELY get pregnant, they wouldn’t have sex. You are just blaming the victim of a deception.
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Men & Women should both be held accountable if the DECIDE to have sex
In your scenario, the people KNEW a baby could be born if they had sex.
Same chit …
NAIJA good cant complain gonna be another easy day
Umm… I do undestand Man’s rationale in this Its out there but I get where he’s coming from.
But hey it is what it is…
I think that people need to stop the BS
and Realize that them and them alone picked that fked up person to lay down with let alone have kids with.
And most knew they were fked up to begin with they just overlooked it and went along with it anyway…now they cant stand that person.
shaits funny.
Choco aka Hippie says:
Well we could use some form of stipulations/policies I mean some folks in the DMV can stay on welfare for their entire lifetime
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Oh I know some personally
Not every woman wants to have a baby for the child support.
To tell a woman to have an abortion for the completely selfish reason that YOU don’t want to pay for it…ESPECIALLY if that’s all you’re doing and the woman is raising the child without a real father in their life…GTFOH.
let us pray!… lets take it case by case
sign this waiver
@MS. YA YA
“I see where you are coming from. My cousin is married to this whore I mean female and while he was serving his duty in Iraq she got pregnant by somebody else (he thought the baby was his becuz he did come home for 2 weeks). He was at the birth and signed the birth certificate and to make a long story short he just found out the baby wasn’t his and the judge told him he still had to pay child support becuz his wife told the judge she don’t know who the father is and the judge said somebody has to pay for it ”
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EX-FLUCKING-ATLY!!!
There got a dude in jail right now because he refused to pay for another’s man child!
But in some European countries all babies are DNA tested at birth. They found that women lied about the paternity between 6 and 10%.

JD says:
Send what to Obama? We can’t expect the President of the United States to hear about every ****ish activity. There is a white woman in a trailor park doing the same thing right about now…tell that to Romney.
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Real Talk.
Dear Sandra,
What you have posted here is devestating news, and so is your general attitude and beliefs about the current intellectual and psychological state of those who live in the “hood”. Language is important, and the fact that such a degrading terminolgy, such as ‘hoodrat,’ are commonly employed by our own people to describe those who reside in impoverished, underserved, disenfranchised communities that were created to do exactly what it has done to some of our people is truly a case of internalized racism. What this women did is horrific to put it mildly, but to attribute her behavior to her race or socioeconomic status is ridiculous. Fair is fair, but you did not report on the white woman who killed all three of her bi-racial children, nor did you write about the retired vetern Mr. Chamberlain’s death due to over zealous police officers, yet, I do believe you penned something on Ms. R. Boyd.
To state that laws should be passed to prevent so-called undesirables of society is facist, plain and simple, and is both a slippery and irresponsible slope you are on as a blogger of color. Stormfront and other racist blogs, as well as those who adhere to these Social Darwinistic beliefs love to see Black people tear each other apart. Instead of saying, steralization and passing of tests, you should have used this story as a platform to stress the importance of education, black women’s self-esteem, the difficulties of single parent child rearing, why we as people should be more discerning in selecting a mate to bring another human being into existence, and the importance of actually being married first before having children if only for lega/financial protection afforded by engaging in the institutional act of marriage.
People like you Sandra Rose, regardless of so-called ‘race’ or ethnicity seem to forget what makes Black Americans different from other minority groups. One underrated factor is no true culture, or more clearly no roots. Our roots have been given to us from another’s tongue. Yes, the so-called “white” tongue. And I don’t mean individual “white people”, I’m speaking of the collective meaning of what “whiteness” means and how that translates to access to resources, freedom to be judged as an individual and not a group, consistant validation of the rightness or ‘normalness’ of whiteness via media since the falsely termed ‘founding’ of this country. I notice that you seem to reserve your harshest admonishments towards blacks and judge whites less harshly. Your post harkens back to a time when the country did experiment on blacks for all types of medical investigations. Just recently in the South, there were Black women who were steralized without their knowledge. This is an encroachment on personal freedoms as a citizen of these United States.
Sandra and anyone else reading this, please consider these theoretical principles, or ideas put forth to explain a phenomena, as well as personal responsibilty when judging the current state of Blackness and Black people, particularly with regards to those living below the poverty line.
Some food for thought:
Charles W. Mills the author of The Racial Contract (1997)work is grounded in social contract theory and it places significant emphasis on the following claims: 1) By and large, white supremacy has been a constant globally and locally for many years, and 2) Uncompromisingly,
white supremacy should be viewed as a political system that can be legitimately theorized as an entity that is founded upon a “contract” exclusively among whites, thus becoming a “Racial Contract” (Mills, 1997).
Some African American scholars believe that the current sociocultural situation African Americans face is significantly impacted by the “racist” and “oppressive” social system of America (Hacker, 1995; Mills, 1997, Wilson, 1998). Asante (1991) postulates that African
Americans receive an education that removes them from their respective culture and traditions and are forced to absorb Eurocentric customs and values. Also, as an oppressed they are placed at the margins of Western culture. This type of sociocultural proselytizing leads to African Americans becoming a more dislocated people. Unfortunately, African Americans, collectively,are unable to become proactive about their educational and social liberation due to their ambiguous interpretation of their cultural identity. Many of them become either frustrated or disillusioned (systematically via institutional dogma) throughout their educational experiences.As a result, such experiences leave numerous African Americans ill-equipped to both understand
their current situation as an oppressed people and to bring about the necessary changes that will improve their sociocultural condition.
From the very beginning of their educational experiences, African Americans have been ideologically conditioned via public education to view both their realities and the world from a Eurocentric perspective. The Eurocentric worldview (White Supremacy and the dogma of the Western way of knowing) that is imposed upon African Americans has historically served to disempower various segments of the African American community. As a result, African Americans have been duped into thinking that the best way to navigate the socioeconomic and
political terrain of American society is to submit unquestioningly to the hegemony that embodies American culture. (part of which is playing out stereotypes (self-fulfilling prophecy), referring to each other in derogatory terms historically used to dehumanize and devalue black life—-This is why it was so easy for people to try to paint Treyvon Martin as a thug, b/c we do it to ourselves due to swallowing the opressors poisonous thoughts and striving to obtain what the opressor values instead of what is honorable to value.)
Francis Cress Welsing (1991) postulates that mainstream Europeans are so intensely obsessed with their numerical minority position in the world that they distort the “minority”status of the actual numerical majority; thus presenting themselves as the majority of the world.The planet is a colored planet, yet, despite the numerical disparity, White superiority reins supreme throughout the Western Hemisphere that is manifested via inordinate sociopolitical power.
Marimba Ani (2000)concurring with Welsing states that via the study of world history presented from an Eurocentric perspective, it is likely to presume that one would be inclined to believe that mainstream
Europeans possess both the dominant culture and the only culture worthy of substantial study.Clearly, this demonstrates that Eurocentric ideology is both a potent and dominating force that
dramatically impacts the character development of non-European peoples.
Amos Wilson (1998) suggests that the educational and economic destinies of African Americans are intricately associated with the biased institutions erected in a society that is engulfed with a racist attitude towards non-White people. In the following passage, Wilson(1998) provides a critical perspective regarding the American social system:
It is of utmost importance to keep in mind that an economic system is fundamentally a social system, a system of social relations. An economic system cannot exist prior to or apart from a system of social relations. The products, goods, and services which characterize a social system, their allocation, distribution, use, ownership, symbolic
value, and associations with social status power and privilege, are socially determined and ultimately derive from the nature of social relations which define that system. When the members of a society accept the social relations which characterize its economic system, they become subject to the power differentials and arrangements those relations create and sustain. These socially created and sustained power differentials and arrangements tend over time (and due to concerted propaganda and other efforts put forth by those who benefit most from the system) to appear to the members of that society to
be autonomous and “natural.” (pp. 307-308) THIS IS WHAT YOU ARE DOING SANDRA. SPEAKING NOT WITH YOUR MOUTH BUT THE OPPRESSORS MOUTH when you state such extreme acts are needed for populations that have been traditionally marginalized. These problems are not a result of genetics, as your comment tangentially eludes to biolgical reductionsim, which is dangerous at minimal seeing how it keeps racist in business and happy owing to the belief we are inherently inferior, and does nothing to empower the black collective or black individual. The African American educational community (And we are ALL part of that community) must understand the relationship that exists between the social and economic structures in American society if they are to successfully contend with the hegemonic structures that continue to stunt their collective educational and economic growth. Such understanding will empower African Americans to become major stakeholders both sociopolitically and geopolitically on the national and global scene.
So, let’s try to keep these things in mind when we cast stones at someone who could have been a family member, a loved one, or one’s self.
I didn’t read all the comments I’m just going on what Sandra said in her post.
You can not determine who should be a parent based on an IQ test. The power of love and nurturing goes further than IQ or economical status. Living in a housing project should not make one exempt from parent hood. What happened here is isolated and this woman clearly has a problem that the President himself has no control of. I’m sick of everytime a ‘black’ person does something stupid President Obama is supposed to be on alert. He is the President of America and not the president of the NAACP. If all his predecessors were doing things based on race only we would be in a jungle fighting over carcasses on the ground.
I take offense that you say that women that are in housing projects shouldn’t procreate because I wouldn’t be here and neither would a lot of people.
Money doesn’t make a good parent it just affords them to showcase their money in appearance to everyone else. This woman has bad judgement and clearly is misguided. Please don’t generalize her behavior.
Thanks,
Gypsy
@Man take it up with the government who is looking out for an innocent 3rd party who didn’t ask for you to release in their mother
There is a
up if yall tired of 
Choco aka Hippie says:
The system just isn’t being policed properly….
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True but some folks need to have incentive them damnselves!
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And I agree…Situations like this are products of generational curses.
Before reform, there truly was no incentive, because folk could stay on welfare their whole lives.
I never understood how someone could be raised with no dreams or goals. Then, I met my neighbor…
This Woman is proud of the fact she’s on the gov’t tit. She raised her daughters to game the system; one of her kids is on every type of assistance imaginable, but is in a different car every season, jewelry and name brand clothes. Now her five years is up and she’s struggling. Why? Because she didn’t take the time, while getting assistance, to better herself and make sure that she could care for her kids w/o the handouts.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@JMO
“You had a say when you started fukkin ”
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Ok, so you are saying that if a man is 1005 “responsible” and a condom breaks or birth control fails,
the woman, and her alone, DECIDES to have the baby, it’s ok for the man to have his money stolen for 18 years? Is that what you are saying?

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Money isn’t stolen if its supporting your own kids!! What type of bullchit is that?
If you feel that you wouldn’t be apart of the decision, don’t fukk! Plain and simple.
@JMO
“Men & Women should both be held accountable if the DECIDE to have sex
In your scenario, the people KNEW a baby could be born if they had sex.
Same chit …”
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Right, they BOTH took the risk of pregnancy. We agree to that.
Now, the female is pregant, and SHE, AND SHE ALONE HAS OPTIONS. The man is LEGALLY OBLIGATED TO HER DECISION EVEN THOUGH THEY BOTH TOOK THE RISK. Right?
You understand that part don’t you?
Do you agree with this line of thinking?????? If so, can you name another scenario where TWO people take on equal risk, yet one person is systematically and legally FORCED to adhere to the decision of the other????
@ Man the judge even made him add the child to his insurance!!!! Some women be getting over. I took care of my child and worked as many jobs as it took and still got my Masters…My son didn’t want for nothing and still don’t
Ace, what is that waiver for?
Oh I know some personally
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Ditto!
When I got pregnant as a teen I was wise enough to know then it was my decision and if it didn’t work out with me and my ex hubby he knew I was filing for child support – that took place 10 years later while I was trying to get my divorce from him – Some women file child support becuz they are accustomed to a certain lifestyle and so are their children so yeah pay that wee bit amount of support and get over it!
@JMO
“Money isn’t stolen if its supporting your own kids!! What type of bullchit is that?
If you feel that you wouldn’t be apart of the decision, don’t fukk! Plain and simple.”
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If you are a man, YOU AREN’T PART OF THE DECISION! That’s not what I “feel” that’s an indisputable FACT! WTF???
And I have NO SAY SO in it in the first place, how is it NOT STOLEN! If I stole your money and said “don’t worry it’s for your benefit in the long run” yet, you have no proof of such, you mean to tell me that’s ok???????????????????
GTFOH! I call it what it is, stolen money.
Cause being told what to do with your MONEY and being told what to do with your BODY are two completely different things.
How about women that have a baby against the man’s wishes sign legally binding papers waiving any right to seek child support ever. Would that make you deadbeats happy?
yet one person is systematically and legally FORCED to adhere to the decision of the other????
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To me that solution is easy if a man truly doesn’t want a pregnancy be strategic about it and talk her out of it instead of poking your lips out!
Ms. YaYa says:
@ Man…I see where you are coming from. My cousin is married to this whore I mean female and while he was serving his duty in Iraq she got pregnant by somebody else (he thought the baby was his becuz he did come home for 2 weeks). He was at the birth and signed the birth certificate and to make a long story short he just found out the baby wasn’t his and the judge told him he still had to pay child support becuz his wife told the judge she don’t know who the father is and the judge said somebody has to pay for it
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THAT”S F’ED AALLLLL THE WAY UP!!!
As women we should realize that the moment we decide to have children there maybe a chance that we have to care for that child on our own. being married does not assure you will have support finacially or parental wise. You pushed that baby out it is your sole responsibilty to care for that child.
@MS. YA YA
” the judge even made him add the child to his insurance!!!! Some women be getting over. I took care of my child and worked as many jobs as it took and still got my Masters…My son didn’t want for nothing and still don’t ”
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What kill me is women sit there and clowning niggas that “don’t do nothing for they kids” WHEN THEY KNEW THE NIGGA AIN’T WANT NO KIDS IN THE FIRST PLACE!
Like they supposed to be happy you decided to legally extort them and chit.
Different Calibur of Females
@CHOCO
“yet one person is systematically and legally FORCED to adhere to the decision of the other????
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To me that solution is easy if a man truly doesn’t want a pregnancy be strategic about it and talk her out of it instead of poking your lips out!”
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Yeah, we try that all day! But it still aint’ no guarantee.
@Man I agree with you 100%
@ Ms. Toot… I know. She was living on easy street while he was in Iraq getting extra money from Uncle Sam because of the little boy and she named him after my cousin…SMDH
she named him after my cousin…SMDH
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Perhaps that’s who is father is js
Yeah, we try that all day! But it still aint’ no guarantee.
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Then stop dealing with hoodrats – cuz a grown woman would be able to have adult conversation about the outcome!
Sandra always have somethig to say about women in public housing.Not all ppl in public housing live offthe system alot of them work, so to judge with such a statement is crazy. The Dead horse in my first post was for Sandra cause this is not her first time with this ….
JMO says:
Ace, what is that waiver for?
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Waiver states that
-Letter of Sexual Consent
-the signee will take sole responsibility and support for any child(s) conceived prior, during or after this party. DNA testing is mandatory for any child assumed to be conceived
-Any and all additional support provided by me is (optional)
-use of my name, likeness or history cannot be used in conjunction with any products(including child(s)) of this party.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@JMO
“Money isn’t stolen if its supporting your own kids!! What type of bullchit is that?
If you feel that you wouldn’t be apart of the decision, don’t fukk! Plain and simple.”
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If you are a man, YOU AREN’T PART OF THE DECISION! That’s not what I “feel” that’s an indisputable FACT! WTF???
And I have NO SAY SO in it in the first place, how is it NOT STOLEN! If I stole your money and said “don’t worry it’s for your benefit in the long run” yet, you have no proof of such, you mean to tell me that’s ok???????????????????
GTFOH! I call it what it is, stolen money.
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Your problem is that you’ve come across some ratchett azz women… and if you think child support is stolen money, I feel sorry for your children
<— smh
@JMO
“Your problem is that you’ve come across some ratchett azz women… and if you think child support is stolen money, I feel sorry for your children <— smh"
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You know what they say about "Azzumptions!"
I haven't EVER had dealings with ratchet women… and hope never to.
I'm just a rational person and you can't bullchit me and call it chocolate.
People don't like things forced on them. Point blank. If you are so "for the children" maybe you should be FORCEED to adopt one since you took on the risk of living in America that is one of the results from that risk. Every American MAY be FORCED to financially support an orphan for 18 years. BUT, they shouldn't resent it, because you know, they a child and an orphan and they "appreciate" it and chit.
Yeah… I wonder how many women would support this???
@JMO
“and if you think child support is stolen money, I feel sorry for your children <— smh"
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… but I feel sorry for the next God fearing, hard working, loyal and honest guy you will steal from.
@Man, its not that I’m so “for the children”; If you know the possible outcomes and don’t agree with them, why risk it in the first place? That isn’t bullchit, thats common sense.
Oh GOD. We still on this????
Ace says:
JMO says:
Ace, what is that waiver for?
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Waiver states that
-Letter of Sexual Consent
-the signee will take sole responsibility and support for any child(s) conceived prior, during or after this party. DNA testing is mandatory for any child assumed to be conceived
-Any and all additional support provided by me is (optional)
-use of my name, likeness or history cannot be used in conjunction with any products(including child(s)) of this party.
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and you think you gettin puzzay after that??
The Makeup Maven says:
Oh GOD. We still on this????
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There is a nicki minaj post above us…is you want to get off the bus…
i kid i kid
Maven
Anyone living in public housing should not have the right to procreate. Anyone who can’t pass a standardized test, which reflects basic common sense, should not be allowed to procreate.
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JMO says:
Ace says:
JMO says:
Ace, what is that waiver for?
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Waiver states that
-Letter of Sexual Consent
-the signee will take sole responsibility and support for any child(s) conceived prior, during or after this party. DNA testing is mandatory for any child assumed to be conceived
-Any and all additional support provided by me is (optional)
-use of my name, likeness or history cannot be used in conjunction with any products(including child(s)) of this party.
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and you think you gettin puzzay after that??
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AY it weeds out the hood booty who trying to get a check…
Only RESPONSIBLE PARTY GOERS HERE…..and waiver is there just in case some irresponsible chit goes down after i promise you rainbows and to right your name in the stars…
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@JMO
“and if you think child support is stolen money, I feel sorry for your children <— smh"
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… but I feel sorry for the next God fearing, hard working, loyal and honest guy you will steal from.
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men should use better judgement and not stick it in just any whole… it shouldnt ever be that serious…just sayin
Ace says:
JMO says:
Ace says:
JMO says:
Ace, what is that waiver for?
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Waiver states that
-Letter of Sexual Consent
-the signee will take sole responsibility and support for any child(s) conceived prior, during or after this party. DNA testing is mandatory for any child assumed to be conceived
-Any and all additional support provided by me is (optional)
-use of my name, likeness or history cannot be used in conjunction with any products(including child(s)) of this party.
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and you think you gettin puzzay after that??
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AY it weeds out the hood booty who trying to get a check…
Only RESPONSIBLE PARTY GOERS HERE…..and waiver is there just in case some irresponsible chit goes down after i promise you rainbows and to right your name in the stars…
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MizzLee_Lee says:
I agree with you auntie!! Some people shouldn’t be able to reproduce smh! All over a man smh. Women like that make me sick.
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These are the chicks who think sex equates to love. They think that if a man sexes them he must love them. These are the broads who have babies hoping that a baby will make a man love them.
TiFan4Lyfe says:
The only reason some women have babies is to control a man so I’m not surprised she did that…what was she trying to make him do..come home??
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@ Choco…they had a blood test…He is NOT the father *in my Maury voice*
@JMO
“its not that I’m so “for the children”; If you know the possible outcomes and don’t agree with them, why risk it in the first place? That isn’t bullchit, thats common sense.”
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I see that I’m talking over your head.
#1 We agree that BOTH parties take the risk. We agree to that. How stupid of them both. Again, we agree, BOTH PARTIES TAKE RISK BY HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX. No dispute there.
#2 BUT, since BOTH parties, take the risk, don’t you believe BOTH PARTIES SHOULD HAVE AN EQUAL SAY FOR THE CONSEQUENCES OF THE RISK???
That second part you continuously ignore. I guess it’s because you don’t have a valid argument to dispute it.
How surprising that you aren’t “for the children.” Surprising indeed.

@HERSHEY
I don’t believe Susan Smith was living in the ‘jects nor was Andrea Yates
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I doubt that they would be able to pass standardized tests either.
@ YSoSrs and Fayla,
Believe it or not, blacks aren’t the only race of people who live in housing projects.
sdsthomas says:
I can’t believe I’m saying this but Sandra, I completely agree (smiling)!
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Thanks hun. Are you new around here? If so,
making birth control mandatory for hoodrats
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S/N: Rhi-Rhi should RID HERSELF of The Blonde-DOO Immediately
WOW THERE MUST BE SOME MISTAKE, SHE’S TOO BEAUTIFUL TO HAVE DONE SOMETHING THIS CRUEL..
MsToot says:
I agree 100%. If you are already on public assistance you should not be getting knocked up. You should be working to better your situation before bringing a child into the picture.
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@WEST COAST CHICK
“men should use better judgement and not stick it in just any whole… it shouldnt ever be that serious…just sayin”
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That too, but I guess having equal rights just couldn’t possibly be an option. I mean, we won’t even consider that. Let’s just tell them to be careful who they fluck cause we going just continue on with this legallized extortion.
That’s what you’re saying right? Don’t have a “just” system, just be careful with who you fluck?
Did you read post 176? I guess it’s just shame on him for being deceived by his WIFE while he was PROTECTING THE COUNTRY to come back and have the country he was protecting allow a woman to legally extort him. I know that you agree with this right?
@ Anna: I’m saying they can have kids when they move out of public housing AND pass a standard test that reflects BASIC intelligence. We should demand that for anyone who wants to bring kids into this world. Something has to be done.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@JMO
“its not that I’m so “for the children”; If you know the possible outcomes and don’t agree with them, why risk it in the first place? That isn’t bullchit, thats common sense.”
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I see that I’m talking over your head.
#1 We agree that BOTH parties take the risk. We agree to that. How stupid of them both. Again, we agree, BOTH PARTIES TAKE RISK BY HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX. No dispute there.
#2 BUT, since BOTH parties, take the risk, don’t you believe BOTH PARTIES SHOULD HAVE AN EQUAL SAY FOR THE CONSEQUENCES OF THE RISK???
That second part you continuously ignore. I guess it’s because you don’t have a valid argument to dispute it.
How surprising that you aren’t “for the children.” Surprising indeed.

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Didn’t I answer this? Yes! I believe that both parties should have an equal say but I also know that it doesn’t work like that for a number of people. If it were me, my husband would have an equal say but thats JMO.
Honestly, all this should be discussed before sex anyway but we all know that doesnt happen. At the end of the day, stop fukkin people youre not sure about
@JMO
“Didn’t I answer this? Yes! I believe that both parties should have an equal say ”
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That’s all i’m saying! Why is it so hard for someone to say this????
Right now there ISN’T equal say. We can talk forever about how things SHOULD BE. How everyone should be great people and talk about chit and make love to people they care about and then love and honor that person for ever.
OR, we could get our heads out of the clouds and be real. People always have and always will have unprotected sex no matter the consequences. That’s a fact. Period.
So why not have JUST AND FAIR laws that reflect REALITY?????? Is that too much to ask??? Apparently it is. But like I said, if I got to steal someone’s money for free with the gov’t backing me up with the threat of jail, I’d do it too.
YSoSrs says:
@ACE
The fact that you had to “correct” that comment further proves that men need to be more selective.
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I don’t know if you ladies are aware of this, but Nature controls the number of men in every population for a reason. A man’s role is very specific: he plants the seed and provides protection. The woman is responsible for bringing forth life and nurturing the child. Men only plant the seeds. Their control is very limited since they don’t carry the babies. You are expecting way too much from men.
mrsloveleigh says:
to say that ANYONE that lives in public housing shouldn’t be allowed to procreate is very extreme.
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I don’t think so. If you live in public housing, you are a burden on society. You have no right to burden society further by having kids. When you improve your situation and prove that you can be a productive member of society (with some common sense), then you can have kids.
Sandra Rose says:
YSoSrs says:
@ACE
The fact that you had to “correct” that comment further proves that men need to be more selective.
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I don’t know if you ladies are aware of this, but Nature controls the number of men in every population for a reason. A man’s role is very specific: he plants the seed and provides protection. The woman is responsible for bringing forth life and nurturing the child. Men only plant the seeds. Their control is very limited since they don’t carry the babies. You are expecting way too much from men.
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Where does responsibility play a role?? How can a man protect if he’s not around?
Agree 100%
@SANDRA
“I don’t know if you ladies are aware of this, but Nature controls the number of men in every population for a reason. A man’s role is very specific: he plants the seed and provides protection. The woman is responsible for bringing forth life and nurturing the child. Men only plant the seeds. Their control is very limited since they don’t carry the babies. You are expecting way too much from men.”
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I didn’t even want to get into this.
Anyone living in public housing should not have the right to procreate. Anyone who can’t pass a standardized test, which reflects basic common sense, should not be allowed to procreate.(kinda true) good thing this is America & this will never be a law, but this is true! Sad, but true!
This sounds like some ignorant rhetoric from fat azz Rush limbaugh and Hitler. U should be embarrassed
*out of lurk mode*
Touchy subject but I am leaning more towards Man’s side of the argument. Now, when I hear of a man with 7 kids with different women, he will get the mean side-eye from me. That’s a given.
But women too, can be very trifling in their efforts to USE children to get or keep a man, then wreak havoc on that man, when their fairy tale fantasy goes to hell. And some times child support does not come into play as long as he is still f*ckin them. But when the pipe laying stops (and he goes to play house with the next chick) all hell breaks lose!! Women are aware of their power and unfortunately some abuse it.
So in conclusion, MEN SHOULD WRAP IT UP and women should TAKE BIRTH CONTROL so that both parties have more of a say!
I’m saying they can have kids when they move out of public housing AND pass a standard test that reflects BASIC intelligence. We should demand that for anyone who wants to bring kids into this world. Something has to be done.
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I’m leaning toward Sandra with this one because I deal with the children of the women who continue to procreate and not raise their children. I am so tired of seeing people wait for their public assistance while I get up and go to work every single day. I don’t wait for a handout and I will not use a child to hold a man. If he doesn’t want to be kept, let his a$$ go! I will not be with a person who thinks it’s okay to live off the system. We both go to work in this household and pay the bills. I am dealing with a parent right now that has 16 kids and she doesn’t send them to school on a regular basis. She has the audacity to CLAIM she is ill and there are times her children can’t come to school…but you can lay up and make 16 BABIES!?!?!? They need to confiscate her uterus and fallopian tubes. I hate that people can have children in the U.S. and expect tax payers to support them. That is all.