Actress Vivica A. Fox is still looking for a man one year after her very public breakup from Atlanta club promoter Omar "Slimm" White, whom she dated for a little over 2 years.

Fox tells Hollywood Live's Billy Bush and Kit Hoover that she's not opposed to taking applications from single men. But she said her ideal man has to have a job. "I am very happily single," says Fox, who put extra emphasis on the "very happily" part.

I'm gonna wait for Mr. Right to come along, and take my time this time. I'm enjoying having a little bit of just me time," said Fox, who has a preference for younger, virile hunky studs.

We wish Vivica well with her man search. At 48-years-old she's a little bit over the hill, and the competition for heterosexual men is fierce -- especially in Atlanta.




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    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Not this late n the damn day she not :nono:

    • Xena68

      Don't die single Viv

    • VDot

      younger, virile hunky studs
      _____________________________

      :hahaha: at this wording

    • Mamacita

      What she has done to her face is quite tragic :(

    • Bad Influence

      "do u want to play a little game?"

    • NaijaGal

      whatever happened to her ex-husband 6'9

    • CrazySexyAquarius

      At this point, shouldn't her requirements have narrowed down to just "alive and with a job?"

      Viv cant get too SPECIFIC these days. Her options are definitely....waning.

    • Gigi26

      What is that mop on her head tho? :blink:

      Viv played herself with that dude Slimm and she knows it...she gotta get with a dude that isn't in the limelight and is obviously not old enough to be her son. Ole cradle robbin ass

    • MsDivaRo

      Vivica looks a little swollen in the face and looks like she has created a whole new face for her self.

    • Mamacita

      :hahaha: :dead: @ #5

    • Gigi26

      “do u want to play a little game?”

      :ghost: GET THE HELL OUT NOW!!!!

    • Ty

      Hung it up Viv and focus on keeping your :boobs: straight cause that left was pointed due west a few years ago :coffee:

    • Bibi

      Why does everybody in hollywood look so...cheeky??

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Oh hell, she bought to have a reality show called this pussy still wet

    • MsDivaRo

      NaijaGal says:

      whatever happened to her ex-husband 6’9

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      He was sessy to me and very tall!

    • OutsidetheBox

      You coulda just said Free post.. :lol:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Bibi says:

      Why does everybody in hollywood look so…cheeky??

      :dead: I swear those are the right words for their azz too!

    • gbellab

      Aunt Viv needs to go the Marlo Hampton route and find her an old white man with money. A "brotha" with cash doesnt want her old behind.. sorry. Maybe 50 cent ruined it for her.

    • OutsidetheBox

      cheeky??
      __________
      Not the Britsih cheeky right? :hahaha:

      Implants and contouring. They like that look girl. :lol:

    • GAGIRL87

      Whatever happend to "Booty Call" Vivica Fox or hell EVEN "Set It Off" Vivica Fox speaking soley on that face of hers that has been butchered :no:

    • Ty

      the competition for heterosexual men is fierce — especially in Atlanta.
      __________
      :dead:

    • NaijaGal

      Bibi says:

      Why does everybody in hollywood look so…cheeky??
      ===================
      cause these hollywood folks don't wanna age anymore :(

    • Honycoatd

      Her face looks so fat... We all can state what we are looking for in a man or woman. But what are you doing to attract what you want is more important....

    • Black_jewel2

      NaijaGal says:

      whatever happened to her ex-husband 6’9
      ___________________________________________________

      I guessing that 'music career' they were selling never got off of the ground..

    • Ty

      *hang* damn it :cuss:

      @ Diva...do u think she went under the knife again :think:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      I remember watching "2 can play that game" thinking Viv was a bad chick. Was that not just 2 to 5 years ago? OTB and yall help me out, Im having a moment :hi: :kona:

    • MsDivaRo

      Honycoatd says:

      Her face looks so fat… We all can state what we are looking for in a man or woman. But what are you doing to attract what you want is more important….

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Already Hony!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      AT THIS POINT WHO CARES, IT'S NOT THAT SERIOUS :shrugs:

    • Bibi

      :lol: Looks like they smiling when they ain't :lol:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Whats so damn wrong with aging. We all know we have to die, wouldnt you want to die old, with wisdom and family all around that youve created. I dont get it!!!

    • pointhimout

      alright, yall lay off Vivica.

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      We wish Vivica well with her man search. At 48-years-old she’s a little bit over the hill, and the competition for heterosexual men is fierce — especially in Atlanta.

      :rofl:

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      Mamacita says:

      What she has done to her face is quite tragic
      October 9, 2012 at 4:07 pm

      ^^I think her problem is she is too aware...Viv does things to make sure her face doesnt wrinkle,,,The half smile,,,SHe doesnt want the lines to show, she doesnt want her nose to spread,,,Old Hollywood trick...It makes her look plastic,,,However when shes in character...She looks fine,,,Hear me out now,,,Seent a movie not too long ago,,,Junk Yard Dog,,,a 'gory' B movie, but I actually like low budget slasher flicks,,,Anyway,,,It was watchable,,,And mainly because Viv looked beautiful,,,Short hair style that didnt swallow her facial features,,,Shes an FBI agent,,,Serious role,,,Looking for a missing girl,,,No smiling,,,So she looked like normal old Viv,,,Its when shes trying to look cute without looking her age that it becomes a problem IMO...

    • Honycoatd

      The cheeky looks it just the new "in" thing like it was with the chinky eyes.

    • MzTisch

      Keesh says:

      Whats so damn wrong with aging. We all know we have to die, wouldnt you want to die old, with wisdom and family all around that youve created. I dont get it!!!

      ^^^^^^
      Reminds me of the movie "Death Becomes Her".

    • http://twitter.com/jetsetdeeva DeevaC

      Her face looks like something out of a scary movie...like that mask from Saw.

    • Gigi26

      We all can state what we are looking for in a man or woman. But what are you doing to attract what you want is more important….

      :yes:

    • MsDivaRo

      :offtopic: Kim & Kanye are house shopping in Miami...they gone move in together and make babies <-----I threw in the make babies part! haha

    • Honycoatd

      Flava Fay hi hunnie :hug:

      Brennadanna hi sweetie pie honee bunch :hug:

    • Bad Influence

      @Keesh, NO! the objective is to be laying in ur open coffin looking like Tamar....yeen know?

    • Bibi

      Reminds me of the movie “Death Becomes Her”.

      Love this movie :yes:

    • cheeks8683

      Plastic surgery makes everyone look the same... Like Who's from the Dr. Seuss books....

    • OutsidetheBox

      And that lady said she wasnt opposed to an offer. She aint hunting. :lol:

    • Bad Influence

      hey Fay :hug:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      She's 48?? I thought she was 45??

    • NaijaGal

      Thelma Frye ain't caught up in that hollywood life and she keeps a tv series job...Vivica is peddling wigs and straight to dvd (she should've broke her neck for 3 can play that game) and fried chicken plays

    • Bibi

      <---read today some pre op pics of Kim are on the horizon....

    • MzTisch

      Bibi says:

      Reminds me of the movie “Death Becomes Her”.

      Love this movie
      ^^^^^^^^^
      Me too. I watch it whenever it comes on..........

    • Bibi

      :hugs: @Fayla

    • OutsidetheBox

      Keesh that was like single digit 2000's...2001 to be exact. :dead:

    • Honycoatd

      So she waiting for him to come up to her??? what a way to leave the power of choice to someone else...

      I want and will get what I want.... just takes time and planning :coffee:

    • MzTisch

      NaijaGal says:

      Thelma Frye ain’t caught up in that hollywood life and she keeps a tv series job…Vivica is peddling wigs and straight to dvd (she should’ve broke her neck for 3 can play that game) and fried chicken plays

      ^^^^^^^^
      Thelma Frye? As in off of AMEN? Ctfu.......

    • MsDivaRo

      Is is me or does Vivica looking like Yolanda Adams?

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      ATL aint no joke when it comes to finding men baby. Several of my friends and a few family members transfered their section 8 down their in hopes of finding a man..(this is not a joke)a rich man at that...The only thing they found was a lot of gay friends :wink:

    • Bibi

      @Razzle

      45, 48 either way she's pushing 50 :shrugs:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      MSDIVA

      DON'T FORGET I PREDICTED IT HERE FIRST ON SR THAT THESE TWO WOULD GET MARRIED AND HAVE BABIES-LOL!

    • Honycoatd

      slightly with a fatter face @ Divaness

    • OutsidetheBox

      Hey Fay! *steals some of that gum*

      A sister bout to eat ramen on these folks job :lol:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      MsDivaRo says:

      Is is me or does Vivica looking like Yolanda Adams?

      :nono: its not just you!

    • MsDivaRo

      MzTisch says:

      NaijaGal says:

      Thelma Frye ain’t caught up in that hollywood life and she keeps a tv series job…Vivica is peddling wigs and straight to dvd (she should’ve broke her neck for 3 can play that game) and fried chicken plays

      ^^^^^^^^
      Thelma Frye? As in off of AMEN? Ctfu…….
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      And Dee on Wayans Bro!!!!!

    • NaijaGal

      MzTisch says:

      Thelma Frye? As in off of AMEN? Ctfu…….
      =====================
      yes ma'am...she never traded in that roller set for tht remy...never tried to be a size 00 and I always see her on my tv...uh huh that's right

    • Honycoatd

      @ keesheeerrrrrr

      Transferring of section 8 :rofl: At least they are not homeless.

      Question: If a person is on food stamps do they also get section 8?

    • NaijaGal

      ATTENTION:

      TODAY IS THE LAST DAY TO REGISTER TO VOTE FOR THE NOVEMBER 6, 2012 ELECTION

      *this message was brought to you by an early voter*

    • Tyler Perry’s BRENDEN: Based On The Novel “Push” By Sapphire

      Ok so I watched the vid...They doing the most,,,Aint nuthin sexy nor appealing to Sistas bout this frilly lil White man :no: And he aint checkin for they asses either... Cant even remember her name 'Toni Braxtons sister'...Yeah I see she made a great impression on you *giggles*

    • OutsidetheBox

      I want and will get what I want…. just takes time and planning.

      ______________________________________________________________
      :tea: I aint even planning. Spinster fits me. :lol:

      My grandma married a man (by force), then divorced his ass to much dismay and shacked up with her white dude until he passed on. :lol:

    • MzTisch

      NaijaGal says:

      MzTisch says:

      Thelma Frye? As in off of AMEN? Ctfu…….
      =====================
      yes ma’am…she never traded in that roller set for tht remy…never tried to be a size 00 and I always see her on my tv…uh huh that’s right

      ^^^^^^
      I haven't seen her in a while. What have you seen her in lately? I'm not doubting you...just curious.

    • MsDivaRo

      INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

      MSDIVA

      DON’T FORGET I PREDICTED IT HERE FIRST ON SR THAT THESE TWO WOULD GET MARRIED AND HAVE BABIES-LOL!

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Yes Intense, I memba! She gone speed thangs up now since Reggie gone be a papi, u watch!

    • Bibi

      :lol: Section 8 transfer :lol:

      Wait..so u can just pick up and move to another state and they still pay ur bills??

    • OutsidetheBox

      Food benefits and HUD housing are two separate programs @Hony

    • Honycoatd

      @ OTB

      Do you have a full service kitchen at work?

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      Hi Hony :hi:

    • MsDivaRo

      :wave: Hey Fayla!

    • NaijaGal

      @MZTISCH, she was on Reed Between The Lines as Joan's assistant/secretary

    • OutsidetheBox

      Wait.. if'n yall being funny i aint answering these section 8 questions. Real inquiries only please. :lol:

      @Bibs they dont pay your bills..they pay rent. They will not fund your move. But yes HUD is country wide.

    • MzTisch

      Bibi says:

      Section 8 transfer

      Wait..so u can just pick up and move to another state and they still pay ur bills??

      ^^^^^^^
      Yup, I know here in Illinois you just have to be in a state for one year and then you can transfer. Alot of people were migrating to other states too because the benefits were better. Fukkas!

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Bad Influence says:

      @Keesh, NO! the objective is to be laying in ur open coffin looking like Tamar….yeen know?

      :kona:

    • CrazySexyAquarius

      <--- loves Thelma Frye & Craig's Mama.

    • MsDivaRo

      Keesh says:

      MsDivaRo says:

      Is is me or does Vivica looking like Yolanda Adams?

      its not just you!

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      :woohoo:

    • Ty

      ATL aint no joke when it comes to finding men baby. Several of my friends and a few family members transfered their section 8 down their in hopes of finding a man
      _____________
      Chile don't say public housing or section 8 around these parts :nono: Aunties curls will melt :nono:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      :think:
      Doesnt' she have a daughter?

    • OutsidetheBox

      :yes: @Hony..its downstairs tho. :lol: We have two kitchens. Both...downstairs...microwave tho...there is a microwave bout 12 steps away. :lol: Along with our fridge. DJU we are hard working regulatory police. <_<

      Too bad the sink is on the other side.. dilemmmas. :lol:

    • MzTisch

      @Naija,

      She sure was! I forgot because unfortunately I found that show un-funny (is that a word?) so I only watched a handful of eps.

    • OutsidetheBox

      Anna Maria Horsford @friend :lol: Craig's mama.

    • Bibi

      @Otb

      I know they do rent but sort of grouped in they might be getting stamps, and other assistance...

      But hell now that I think about it I know someone who moved from NY to FL and did that..woman aint worked a real job ever in life but somehow managed to buy a house in Fl.... :huh:

      Why do I work again??

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      I see that Slimm's receding hairline was contagious and infected poor Vivica.

      :(

      **holds up black ribbon for a cure for alopecia**

    • MsDivaRo

      OutsidetheBox says:

      I want and will get what I want…. just takes time and planning.

      ______________________________________________________________
      I aint even planning. Spinster fits me.

      My grandma married a man (by force), then divorced his ass to much dismay and shacked up with her white dude until he passed on.
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      This reminds me of what my mom says in general for those that get a white man....if you gone get a white man...don't get a po azz white man! :ghost:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Bibi says:

      Section 8 transfer

      Wait..so u can just pick up and move to another state and they still pay ur bills??

      Yes! They have to remain in the State, City, county whatever exactly 1 yr before they can move. Then when they move, if they dont have a job, they get zero rent, foodstamps, welfare and if they are signed up for welfare they get a utility check for their small light and water bill. They wont pay their cable and phone bill though...Oh and give free child care...You didnt Know

    • Lucky704

      Hello everyone..At what point does the older women says I just want the pin and be free? Stop acting like you are looking for someone to start a fam with.

    • Honycoatd

      I thought if you did not have a job or not make enough money from your job that you get these programs.

      I know around my area they do not allow section 8 people to live here. They amended all the rules on people renting out their properties not to allow section 8. And there is like 1 woman and her family they have been trying to evict for months but the case keeps going in and out of court... it is sad tho.

    • OutsidetheBox

      I know they do rent but sort of grouped in they might be getting stamps, and other assistance…

      ________________________________________________________________________
      Sure...if youre low income youre low income...the thing with section 8 is that you dont have to be at a certain poverty level like food stamps and medicaid. These are all still separate programs that your income qualifies you for separately...you may fill out for food stamps and medicaid/medicare for instance...but HUD would be housed/applied for elsewhere.

      LIHEAP is a program that sometimes come along with housing benefits. You would get what they call a reimbursement check for utilities. Again it goes by the numbers.

    • Honycoatd

      They are lucky to get their rent paid for and can live in a nice house for free.

      All it takes is no job and to have children?

    • OutsidetheBox

      woman aint worked a real job ever in life but somehow managed to buy a house in Fl….
      _________________________________________________________________________

      Grinds my gears. I wonder if she did that program where they give you a percentage of what you pay in rent in an interest bearing account? :think:

      But that is usually reserved for the upward and onward type receipients, not the folks who dont want better. IDK. Florida is the LAND of fraud and fukkery.

    • OutsidetheBox

      **holds up black ribbon for a cure for alopecia**

      :dead: :dead: :ghost:

    • Bibi

      Alls I know is that in this here county there are an unbelievable amount of 20 somethings on disability and such...rent be like 8 bucks and whatnot...

      But they got the new Jordans :tea:

    • Bad Influence

      Man, I just don't care™ says:

      I see that Slimm’s receding hairline was contagious and infected poor Vivica.

      **holds up black ribbon for a cure for alopecia**

      BYE NIGGA! :ghost:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Honycoatd says:

      @ keesheeerrrrrr

      Transferring of section 8 At least they are not homeless.

      Question: If a person is on food stamps do they also get section 8?

      Those are the ones that get it...

    • OutsidetheBox

      I thought if you did not have a job or not make enough money from your job that you get these programs.
      ____________________________________________________________________
      Thats what lots of ppl think. :) doesnt make it true.

    • Bad Influence

      @OTB, so he just had a fuggin alopecia ribbon on deck huh? :rofl:

    • MsDivaRo

      Bibi says:

      Alls I know is that in this here county there are an unbelievable amount of 20 somethings on disability and such…rent be like 8 bucks and whatnot…

      But they got the new Jordans

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      iphone 5, wearing polo shirts, buying steak and lobster and drying an SUV with 22's. humph!

    • Bad Influence

      Ho'boygahhhhh if ur lurking :hug:

      *pours out some liquor*

      who am i gonna dance with? :(

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      OTB :hug: :nono: u must aint seent that post i made 'bout them noodas?

      Bibi Hony His Diva :hi: ladies!

    • NaijaGal

      Honycoatd says:

      They are lucky to get their rent paid for and can live in a nice house for free.

      All it takes is no job and to have children?
      =============================
      I think all in all nobody really wants a government assisted life though

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Bad Influence says:

      Ho’boygahhhhh if ur lurking :hug:

      *pours out some liquor*

      who am i gonna dance with?

      :crying:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      **holds up black ribbon for a cure for alopecia**

      This Nigga! :rofl:

    • Honycoatd

      I have a cousin here in Florida that after applying for Food stamps did not get it because they said her income is too high... which she is not working anymore and her rent is ridiculous, although, thankfully she gets a good amount of child support and have a little savings to cover it but she can't get food stamps even though her living expenses are high. Its sad... I told her to move but she says she does not want to mess up her credit. Any ideas on what she can do to help?

    • OutsidetheBox

      They are lucky to get their rent paid for and can live in a nice house for free.

      ___________________________________________________________________
      Hony you showing that white bread today <_< :lol: You just said that your 'hood doesnt allow section 8...thats because they have decided or seen that section 8 renters can be nasty (just like ppl who pay their own rent/mortgage) and have placed a total judgement on the whole program.

      All it takes is no job and to have children?
      _____________________________________________

      You dont have to have children. You can have and many, many do have a job.

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      :( I miss my cousin! :wail:

    • OutsidetheBox

      u must aint seent that post i made ’bout them noodas?

      ______________________________________________________

      Nope. Repost cause im too lazy to make em anyway. Im leaving at 530. Not a moment after. :lol:

    • WUT’S A YAKISOBA?

      :mad: The moment I go off lurkin... a good post comes up... Now we way deep into another topic... Work keeps fuking up my SR time!

    • OutsidetheBox

      I think all in all nobody really wants a government assisted life though

      ________________________________________________________________________
      Pretty much. I hate that folks really believe this right wing (imo) train of thought.

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      Reggie gone be a papi, u watch!
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      HOW DID I MISS THIS, I'VE BEEN SLIPPING TIME TO CATCH UP ON MY CELEBRITY NEWS :computer:

    • OutsidetheBox

      Now we way deep into another topic…

      ____________________________________
      What you wanna talk about? This one is exhausted. Like Viv. <_<

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      OOPS TO LAZY TO EVEN LOOK FOR THE RIGHT EMOTION LINK

      :pc: LOL!

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhs97yBYZ9rGSCt3MB gypsyeyes

      She looks like that melted candle that was posted yesterday. NO?

      Okay Bye Baby!

    • MzTisch

      OutsidetheBox says:

      They are lucky to get their rent paid for and can live in a nice house for free.

      ___________________________________________________________________
      Hony you showing that white bread today <_< You just said that your 'hood doesnt allow section 8…thats because they have decided or seen that section 8 renters can be nasty (just like ppl who pay their own rent/mortgage) and have placed a total judgement on the whole program.

      All it takes is no job and to have children?
      _____________________________________________

      You dont have to have children. You can have and many, many do have a job.

      ^^^^^^^^
      Sure don't. But, I know a few that uses other people kids to get it.

    • Bad Influence

      @Jackson, imma need u in my inbox tonight (that sounds dirty eh?) i needs 2 be discussing some shady shyt with u bew...mhm.

    • OutsidetheBox

      Alls I know is that in this here county there are an unbelievable amount of 20 somethings on disability and such

      _____________________________________________________________________
      And one day somebody will correlate the parenting, medicines and everything else they received but until then.. :shrug:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Yes here the housing is seperate from the benefits. To be qualified for the section 8 housing you have to have some type of income at first. Maybe a little 8 hr job working a few hours a week with a lot of kids. They way they will go by your income vs how many children you have to care for. They cant have a bad criminal record (and anyone on the lease cant either)If you dont have a job, they will put them in the housing projects and put their name on a waiting list for the section 8. Once the females move in they base their rent on the wages which they could be paying as low as $50 for a 5 bedroom, 3 bath new apartment or a nice ass home. I see it alllll the time!

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      <---Checking my inbox later too. :coffee:

    • Bad Influence

      @Dimpz, i didnt really get where Ho'boygah fit into all that crap at? iono.. come back :crying:

    • MzTisch

      OutsidetheBox says:

      Alls I know is that in this here county there are an unbelievable amount of 20 somethings on disability and such

      _____________________________________________________________________
      And one day somebody will correlate the parenting, medicines and everything else they received but until then..

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Straight up going to the office "playing crazy" to get a check. Smdh.

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      @ His.... me neither but, she's ok, not stressing it. I still miss huh! :wail:

    • Honycoatd

      OTB yes not in my development they are not allowing them anymore. At one of the meetings, it was discussed and a few of us did not mind but majority were against renting out to people on section 8. They did not even know she was on section 8 until one of those darn neighborhood watch board member folks caught up to her to sign a violation paper because she left her garbage can in the front of the house in which you can't do in my neighborhood and she told them, but probably after some questioning which I found to be rude.

      I don't mind people on section 8 or food stamps. I know it is not easy for some people and I don't expect things to get better for some either although I would want it to.

    • Xena68

      :newpost:

    • MzTisch

      What kills me are the ones who toot their arses up and nose down on you like they are the ish (some of my aunts)and you are less than.

      Like, bish I will be balling out of control too if my rent was $7 dollars.

    • OutsidetheBox

      Any ideas on what she can do to help?
      ____________________________________

      See Hony thats the perfect example of someone who has a need and is not being helped even though she has done her due, paid her taxes, been socially responsible (felons usually cant get more than foodstamps)..

      My advice, which sucks, would be to just wait it out and reapply when her income on paper will show that she cant make ends meet. Oh, and tell her stop telling them about her savings. :huh: *mumbles* THATS WHAT THEY WILL USE TO EAT WHILE SHE WAITING ON SOME HELP.

      But if her child support is really truly enough to live on considering rent, utilities, and medical expenses she may not get help :no:

      Folks forget they dont care about your car payment and things of that nature. Just the basics. Oh and childcare. Which is a basic imo.

    • OutsidetheBox

      Yall got me scared to even look at my phone tonight.

      And Yallcrazy was a total casualty of war. Totally unwarranted ban.

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      OutsidetheBox says:

      I think all in all nobody really wants a government assisted life though

      ________________________________________________________________________
      Pretty much. I hate that folks really believe this right wing (imo) train of thought.

      Quite the opposite, most feel it is a God given right!!!

    • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhs97yBYZ9rGSCt3MB gypsyeyes

      my aunt is in a 3 bedroom and her rent is $3.00 but she don't ever have no money because she said she had to pay rent.

    • OutsidetheBox

      as low as $50 for a 5 bedroom, 3 bath new apartment or a nice ass home. I see it alllll the time!
      _______________________________________________________________________

      This chit pisses me off. And im usually so tolerant. :lol: I want mine paid. :cry:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Wait!!! YallCrazy gone!!! :steer: Im bout to go get ha......damn who gonna insult me now *hangshead*

    • OutsidetheBox

      Gyp leave me alone! :rofl:

      Is her check only 100? :lol:

      And yes they will judge you for being broke..after they paid their $12 rent. :lol:

    • Honycoatd

      Gypsy why are you making me laugh... :lol:

      @ OTB
      I think she did say they asked if she had savings and how much. But she really needs the help unless she moves in which she does not want to ruin her credit to break a lease.

      Its sad that they don't take account of everything you have to pay to determine if you need it or not.

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      gypsyeyes says:

      my aunt is in a 3 bedroom and her rent is $3.00 but she don’t ever have no money because she said she had to pay rent.

      Well damn

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      @ Shaun...I dont know anything, i was just messin with PB since she said you and not me.

    • Honycoatd

      If my mortgage was just 3 dollars I would be balling for the rest of my life if I still made what I do and my ex husband's help... I would really be able to feed a few children around the world.

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      OutsidetheBox says:

      Any ideas on what she can do to help?
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      See Hony thats the perfect example of someone who has a need and is not being helped even though she has done her due, paid her taxes, been socially responsible (felons usually cant get more than foodstamps)..

      My advice, which sucks, would be to just wait it out and reapply when her income on paper will show that she cant make ends meet. Oh, and tell her stop telling them about her savings. *mumbles* THATS WHAT THEY WILL USE TO EAT WHILE SHE WAITING ON SOME HELP.

      But if her child support is really truly enough to live on considering rent, utilities, and medical expenses she may not get help

      Folks forget they dont care about your car payment and things of that nature. Just the basics. Oh and childcare. Which is a basic imo.

      THis is sooo true, my sissy said she dont tell them about nothing...but light water rent food. Dont tell em about no bank acct. no loans, no car...nothing. the basics. She said tell em about hospital bills to make it look like you need more money for rent and stamps

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      My cousin whos rent is currently zero got mad at me when I didnt loan her any money and said "the brokest people are people with jobs" I just walked away

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      :mad:

    • Honycoatd

      I don't think government assistance is great... they ask way too much for the little help they give.

      I have another question since we are talking about the government... A great friend of mine did give some wonderful points that I have been thinking about and just wanna start up another discussion.

      Well my bonus baby (egg donor) has requested she I could send pictures of my baby to her a few times a year and also allow her to contact my home so that her children can speak with my baby in order for them to build a bond as they are growing.... what do you all think about that?

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Talking bout yo baby daddy ol lady?

    • Honycoatd

      Grrr my mind is multi-tasking and making mistakes.

      Question is what do you think about this:

      Well my bonus baby's egg donor has requested if I could send pictures of my baby to her a few times a year and also allow her to contact my home so that her children can speak with my baby in order for them to build a bond as they are growing…. what do you all think about that?

    • Xena68

      Keesh & Hony there's a :newpost: if you two care to join :lol:

    • OutsidetheBox

      :thinking: Why they need to bond? With that said..I believe in knowing all your family..just curious why she is still apart of her life?

    • Honycoatd

      Oh no Keesheeerrr.... My bonus baby is a possible relative of mine but I am not sure. WEll I have had her since she was almost 5 weeks old and now she is 3 1/2. Her birth mother have not willingly given her up and I have been fighting for rights for the last 2 yrs and finally I am making a head way and she has compassion in her heart and want to ask me to do favors for her which I am trying to figure out what is best for my baby and will benefit her as she gets older.

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      O my Hony. Thats a hard one....I get choked up about stuff like this. Is she willing to give you full custody now or has she promised she would?

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      I mean whos to say if she you do that she would start catching feeling for her own child which is understandable being a mother. I would only do it, if she agrees to never pursue me the custody of the child. The flip side you must understand that your baby will grow up and start having feeling of her/his own and would probably want to go live with them at one point ( you know how teenagers get). This is a hard one!

    • Pablo Escobar

      Let me help her out a little. High quality men look for beauty and youth in women. Im sorry but Mr right is looking at 20 year olds..