More details emerge in stabbing death of 2-year-old

Sasha Ray and Tyasia Jackson

13-year-old Tyasia Jackson will be tried as an adult in the stabbing death of her 2-year-old half sister. The teen made her first court appearance on Tuesday.

Sasha Ray was found in the back yard of her family’s condo by her parents who left her and her siblings in Tyasia’s care on Monday.

The toddler’s father, Shelton Ray, told Channel 2 Action News that his stepdaughter confessed to stabbing his youngest daughter in a phone call from jail around 11 p.m. Monday.

According to a report in London’s Daily Mail, Tyasia was caught with a boy inside the house while her parents were running errands.

Jackson family

Ray, (pictured above with his family) told a reporter that a neighbor went to the home and ordered the boy to leave after finding him hiding in a closet.

Tyasia may have been angry with the 2-year-old for pointing out the the boy’s hiding place to the neighbor.

Ray said after the neighbor left the home, Tyasia instructed her siblings to go upstairs — except for Sasha. The teen took Sasha toward the back door and stabbed her 7 times in the heart area. She then threw the child’s body off a balcony into the back yard.

Ray said Tyasia made up a false story to explain Sasha’s disappearance from the home.

“She called my wife and told her Sasha was missing. She actually tried to blame it on the neighbor. She said she thought the neighbor took Sasha with her,” Ray said.

Tyasia Jackson

Ray said Tyasia helped search for Sasha before he discovered the toddler’s mutilated body in the back yard.

“I picked her up and immediately came to the front and got in the car,” said Ray. “We were going to take her to the hospital and she died in my arms at the entrance of the community,” Ray said.

Sasha’s great-grandmother told Channel 2′s Richard Elliot the family had just moved into the condo in the Waldrop Station complex a month before.

She said the family was having a hard time finding money to pay for the girl’s funeral because Sasha’s mother doesn’t have any money and works part time. “It’s a shame,” the great-grandmother said

Ray told Channel 2 his daughter is in a better place.

“She’s gone on to glory now. Now it’s up to me to make it to where she is,” Ray said. “Like I tell all my children, they have to get themselves into heaven. I have to get myself into heaven.”

“She is in a better place than I am, and with that known, I know I’m good,” Ray said.

UPDATE: According to The Atlanta Journal Constitution, Funeral services for Sasha will be held Tuesday at Raleigh Rucker Funeral Home in Decatur.

An account has been set up in Sasha’s name to help the family with funeral costs. Donations can be made at any Wells Fargo Bank to the Sasha Lamaya Ray Memorial Fund.


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    101 Responses to “More details emerge in stabbing death of 2-year-old”

    1. 1
      San says:

      Soo sad and terrible. A life gone for…nothing.

    2. 2
      Xsjado says:

      I feel bad for the whole famil

    3. 3
      KrayZKat says:

      Dear Lord in heaven!

    4. 4
      Xsjado says:

      Let me try this again… Stupid phone.. I feel bad for the whole family. Rip little one, I pray your sister feels some kind of remorse for what she did. What is the world coming to?

    5. 5

      So sad! RIP Baby Girl :pray:
      I hope this young lady gets help.

      OAN… ION like when parents put all their kids on a young teen! But thats an argument for another day…

      <–doesnt trust the kiddies with another kid watching them!

    6. 6

      I am on the train right now and 3 of the sweetest young men just sand It Was Just My Imagination :whistle:

      They rocked!!! They are called 1Voice and they said they are on the Twitter and gmail if interested.

      GOD bless them!

    7. 7
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      belindammp says:

      This is a very sad story this family has lost 2 daughters, I will b
      :pray: for them

    9. 9
      Nicola says:

      Family photos can tell you a lot about people. Methinks there is a hell of a lot more to this story.

    10. 10
      luVn_liFe... says:

      @DTTS..
      We we’re having this discussion the other day when Sandra Posted this story.
      This is such a traggedy.The mother will Never forgive herself.
      I PraY every1 involved has some type of peace.
      This is truly heartbreaking..
      Sandra do u know if there’s some type of Fund set up for the funeral.I really would like to help as Much as I am able

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      zurishay says:

      The three young girls look like triplets. So sad. Potentially, all over a boy.

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      Sunkissed404 says:

      What in the world?!! I’m praying for the family. Reminds me of the movie “The Bad Seed”

    13. 13

      :cosign:
      I think money should be raised for the funeral, as well as for a decent lawyer for the young lady…This is so sad.
      I would contribute something…
      ===
      :nite: :eek: :hug:

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      Sandra Rose says:

      luVn_liFe says:

      We we’re having this discussion the other day when Sandra Posted this story.
      ________________

      I was thinking about this discussion and I remember when I was around 5 years old, my aunt left us in the care of her sadistic 12-year-old son. I vaguely remember him being physically abusive to my brothers and I. Pre-teens are not responsible enough or mature enough to handle the complex and frustrating task of monitoring small children. That’s why 12 year olds don’t run day care centers. :no:

    16. 16
      Sandra Rose says:

      zurishay says:

      So sad. Potentially, all over a boy.
      _________________

      She could not control her rage or disappointment over the neighbor telling the boy to leave. It’s possible that this girl is a psychopath who would have ended up killing someone later in life. In this case, she started early. :no:

    17. 17
      Sandra Rose says:

      <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

      I think money should be raised for the funeral, as well as for a decent lawyer for the young lady…This is so sad.
      I would contribute something…
      ________________

      Channel 2 says there are no accounts set up to collect donations. I would chip in too. :(

    18. 18
      Sandra Rose says:

      Thanks to Daisy on Twitter for this info (from the AJC):

      Funeral services for Sasha will be held Tuesday at Raleigh Rucker Funeral Home in Decatur. An account has been set up in Sasha’s name to help the family with funeral costs. Donations can be made at any Wells Fargo Bank to the Sasha Lamaya Ray Memorial Fund.

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      charleybrown says:

      This is truly sad. I agree with you Sandra, that 12 year old girl had no business watching all of those kids. That can be much for an adult, let alone a child. As a teacher, I have witnessed the anger that some of these children possess within. I have seen children get engulfed in rage over something insignificant and petty. I dont know if there is something in the water or what, but these kids today are turning into holy terrors. I truly fear what will become of them when they are adults.

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      charleybrown says:

      My bad 13 year old…….

    21. 21
      luVn_liFe... says:

      Thank You Daisy and SandraRose for posting the Fund Info.
      @SandraRose
      Lastnight this situation was On my mind,I thought how Nothing happened to us when we we’re Left alone with my sister when she was 11 and my Bro.Then somethong dawned on me,I have 3 brothers/3Sisters,when I was mayB 4,we were all being BabYsat by my sister.My 2nd Oldest brother being a child and daredevil he is..made us a roiund of chocolate milk,Laced the cups w/raid.I Kid u NOT.we all wound up hospitalized.My Oldest sister got the worst she was in the hospital for some daYs. SMH.I’m phone postin but I wanTed to share that w/U sandra :(

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      Black Daria Secret says:

      This is a sad situation.I use to babysit all the time for families when I was that age, even younger, and I didnt go around killing kids. Whether young or old this goes to show when people go off the deep end they will.

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      Avanti says:

      I’m curious if the teen showed any signs of aggression in the past. It seems strange that this could be her first time lashing out – to go so far with her anger. God bless everyone involved. I can’t imagine how the parents feel. A friend of mine used to live in that complex. There are lots of kids there but it was a decent, cute neighborhood. Hopefully the neighbors can come together and shower love on the family.

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      Crickett says:

      I’m so sad about this story. I have 2 teenage stepdaughters and their hormones rage.

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      iyonah says:

      This is sad and heartbreaking. Seems like there is more to the story. Praying for this family.

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      Tertra114 says:

      She was probably doing sh*t she ain’t have no damn business doing with that boy (suckin d*ck) and thats why she was so pissed about her parents finding out, but Hell it would have been better to just come clean, and ATLEAST the parents could understand that better (natural attraction & curiousity) then stabbing your own damn sister!

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      The Pearl! says:

      No one else asked it, so let me…is it possible that 13-year-old girl was molested by her step-daddy? I’ve heard of people being very forgiving immediately after a tragedy (like the father in this case). But this man got on the TV news and was all but SINGING — do you hear me??? — SINGING, talking about he’s good, fine, great, etc. It just made me feel some kinda way — as though he was overcompensating in order to throw the spotlight off of him. Something just doesn’t sit right with me about this dude. He’s just TOO-TOO chipper and whatnot. I’m telling you…there IS more to this story than meets the eye!

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      Gavsangel says:

      This is a very sad story!:(

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      Sunkissed404 says:

      @ The Pearl,

      You know what? You’re right! He does seem to throw this over his shoulder a little too easy for my own liking too. Just that fast, we all forgot how young the 13 year old is. I’m like you now…What could have happened in her past to push her to do such a thing? She seemed mighty fast for a 13 year old, but yes…Why? Good point!

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      missmiami says:

      :grill: Happy Turkey Day roses even though I don’t really celebrate :shotsfired: I am at work

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      The Pearl! says:

      @Sunkissed — I’m just sayin’. I’ve seen all types of folks say Godly-type things after a tragedy…but he was all like … and we’re here for you [to the 13 year old] and we’ll do whatever we have to do to get you through … it was a bit over the top to me. I mean, NO visible signs of grief. Just strange. If I’m wrong, I apologize to that man, but somethin’ somethin’ just ain’t right here.

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      Miany says:

      Good Morning all This story is heartbreaking. I agree with The Pearl & Sunkissed, there must be more to this story. Either something that caused the rage in this 13 year old or some kind of prior sign that the child was unstable…
      @MissMiami GOod Morning! I’m working this turkey day as well. On a bright note, I got pulled over this morning and the cop let me go cuz it’s a holiday :grill:

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      QueenSJ says:

      People always like to say that there’s more to the story. Well of course there’s more to the story. You’re not saying new. Everything has a background and everybody has a story to tell.

      Also, I doubt babysitting was the cause of her rage. (As evident by Aunt Sandy’s update). For someone to do something as sick as this, as Intense said the other day, she could’ve committed theses acts while the parents were in another room or while everyone was asleep.

      Prayers and more prayers to all this pain.

      Blessings to those for the Holidays.

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      belindammp says:

      Happy Thanksgiving everybody
      :waves:

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      Sunkissed404 says:

      @ The Pearl -
      Way to read between the lines. I’m with you. I hope we’re wrong in our beliefs as well. Black people tend to take family secrets, etc. to the grave, because of fear. We have to do better and deal with our issues, if any present themselves, instead of sweeping them under a rug.

      @QueenSJ -
      Chiiile, I don’t know what you’re talking about. :rolleyes: I tried to interpret what you were saying, and got lost somewhere in the chatter. Anyway, I will address what you said first. Yes, we all know that there’s more to a story than what we see. I believe The Pearl and myself were referring to the story not being presented in the news in a way that makes us believe that this child just snapped and killed her sister over a little boy. The story is very disconnected, right now, because we don’t know more.

    36. 36
      luVn_liFe... says:

      :wave:
      Be Blessed ROSES! and duds”

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      lnp03 says:

      I think there is more to this story as well. The father’s reaction is a little calm for me. My thoughts and prayers are with this entire family.

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      Sandra Rose says:

      I agree with Sunkissed404 and The Pearl: something is not right with the father’s reaction. But I don’t see molestation. I think he’s feeling guilty over the fact that he and his wife left a 13-year-old to look after FOUR minor children. That would have been too much to ask of one adult, much less a kid. He and his wife were dead wrong to do dump their children on another child. As you can see, there were tragic consequences to their actions. :no:

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      Sunkissed404 says:

      @SandraRose You’re right. It may not be molestation, but his response definitely raised my eyebrow and many others. I made a comment on Twitter last night, and used Tyana Jackson as my hashtag. One of her friends/ fellow classmates responded to my tweet, and felt like sharing with me that she knew Tyana, and this was out of character for her, etc…Then she said that her friend Tyana’s last post on Facebook was “My sister died”. :no: After that, she sent me a screenshot of the little boy’s post on Facebook, who was over at Tyana’s house…My heart is heavy from reading it, because he’s blaming himself. I will forward you the Tweet. He says he was like a big brother to Sasha, and that he will stand by his girlfriend no matter what…that he hates he was ever over her house in the first place….I can’t. On Twitter I’m Nubian_QT

    40. 40
      Sandra Rose says:

      I agree with whoever said the parents should have known the 13-year-old had emotional issues. She did not just snap on Monday. The fact that the parents asked the neighbor to watch the house while they were gone proves my point. The cops should have cited the parents for abandoning their 5 children. Leaving 5 kids to fend for themselves was child abandonment.

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      Sandra Rose says:

      @ Sunkissed404: He was “like a big brother” to her? How old was he? He can’t be 13 because 13-year-olds can’t have Facebook pages.

    42. 42
      Sandra Rose says:

      I hope you’re all having a Happy Thanksgiving today. :)

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      Miany says:

      Happy Thanksgiving Sandra!
      I agree that the child may have had emotional issues. I feel like there had to be an earlier indication that the child was not stable. A child doesn’t just snap that way without showing any warning signs. If the parents were neglectful it was in that sense. I can’t agree with you about it being too much for a 13 y.o to baby sit siblings. I have been baby sitting my younger brother since I was 12 years old and he was 5 months old. I can’t fathom (then or now) harming him in anyway.

    44. 44
      Sunkissed404 says:

      @Sandra – Yes. The link to his page is ==> https://www.facebook.com/keyon.p.brown

    45. 45
      LSLH says:

      Halle Berries in nem over there cuttin up and fightin and chit. The two guys were fightin and cussin in French…. :rofl:

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      Starr says:

      I use to watch my sister and cousin when I was that age, and younger. Alot of my friends did as well, and no one ever got hurt.

      I read an article where the neighbor gave her account, and appearantly the little girl pointed out the boy in the closet. Maybe there is more to the story, but it remains unknown, and I’d rather not assume, i’m sure it would be all be out eventually.

      My take with kids these days, is that they are capable of anything. I think alot of people underestimate just how cunning and underhanded and deceitful kids can be.

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      JJSPLAYHOUSE says:

      One news outlet said the mother was at work. The neighboer called the mother and said that there was a boy in the house and the mother supposingly told the neighbor to get the boy out of the house. But why is the father sooooo calm about this???? Am I the only one confused about that?

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      The Pearl! says:

      All I know is while watching the news clips of this 13-year-old girl being led off to jail, I cried for her. She doesn’t look evil, she looks like a baby — anyone’s baby — and my heart broke for her…and at one point, the policewoman reached out and sort of touched the hand of the girl, Tyasia, like she was consoling her, as if to say, I’m here for you, baby. I rewound a couple of times because it touched me, that even at a time like this, someone was able to humanize this child and see that she is but a mere girl. The fact that the news is showing her face and telling her name (because she’s being tried as an “adult”) is a hard pill to swallow. The reason everyone is saying “there’s more to the story” is because we cannot possibly know everything at the glance we’re getting in the media, and of course we speculate because we have a need to feel as if “this couldn’t happen in my home.” That’s all.

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      A.J. says:

      Good Morning Thorns!! Lady Rose
      I hope everyone had a pleasant holiday and stuff.

      The father should feel guilty (mother too) leaving a child in charge of other children. That’s a no-no; the times have changed and people (a lot of them on this very here blog) need to get with the program!! These teenagers today do not think rational at all. Its mainly because the parents are not around or both have to work so the children are essentially taking care of themselves.
      :shrugs: I do not care what anyone says, the law states the 13-year old is a minor. Its unfortunate that this minor will be charged as an adult; the parents should be charged also imo!

      I hope you fine folks have a great day!

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      prynsexxx says:

      *haven’t read ALL of the comments*

      HOWEVER, I will say this, Sandra I did read where you said this girl may have snapped before Monday. That could very well be true, but you also said, INITIALLY, that she probably snapped b/c she was left to watch her siblings and she’s so young and xyz. Let me tell you something about 13 year old LITTLE GIRLS, when they get THAT age, some, not all, tend to start smelling themselves, A LOT! D!ck tends to make ppl (old and young alike) act a damn fool. Now the story comes out that she was mad that the little girl pointed out the boy’s hiding spot, then yes I can see that child snapping and doing something like this. Hell at that age MY OWN DAUGHTER had to have the police called on her AND I had her admitted to the “ward” b/c she FLIPPED out. Why, b/c she was smelling herself. So for you to say that it was because of her having to watch her siblings? Negative. It was OBVIOUSLY over some ****. PERIOD!

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      Ace says:

      :bday: Dimpz!!

      even though she wont see this….

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      MsB says:

      prynsexxx says:

      . Let me tell you something about 13 year old LITTLE GIRLS, when they get THAT age, some, not all, tend to start smelling themselves, A LOT! D!ck tends to make ppl (old and young alike) act a damn fool.
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      :cosign:
      I was about to say the same thing.. my little cousin, I’ll say she is about 12 and she started smelling herself, sneaking lil boys in the house, fighting her mother (and I mean FIGHTING), her mother had to sleep with her keys in her bra, she had to be admitted to a children’s home b/c she flipped out on her mom, dad & his GF. They had to call the police on her as well.. smh

    53. 53

      Emotional issues my rear end :nono: This child was possessed :tea: folk better quit ignoring the fact that spirits are real :coffee: and If I were the family I would get the hell on from that crib and find me somewhere else to stay :no:

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      KayCeiSoul says:

      :cosign: jeniefrumdabloc!!!

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      KayCeiSoul says:

      Another thing that makes me think….

      What type of punishment did she anticipate from her parents after being caught for her to do something so detrimental? Who else was she trying to hurt or get back at besides the baby? That may have drove her to the point of no return as well.

      Was she an abused child? A troubled child? Something about this story isn’t included in the write up. This doesn’t just come from “nowhere”. This girl was obviously touched. She is sure to spend the rest of her days in prison. :yes:

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      KayCeiSoul says:

      These teenagers today do not think rational at all.

      *******************************

      :preach:

      Which is the very reason why a teenager babysitting my child will NEVER happen, okkkaaayyyy?? :coffee:

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      iyonah says:

      What type of punishment did she anticipate from her parents after being caught for her to do something so detrimental? Who else was she trying to hurt or get back at besides the baby? That may have drove her to the point of no return as well.

      Was she an abused child? A troubled child? Something about this story isn’t included in the write up. This doesn’t just come from “nowhere”. This girl was obviously touched. She is sure to spend the rest of her days in prison
      ^^^
      I agree with this.. Good am all :waves:
      So who else is at work like me :tea:

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      Kay these folks better wake up :tea: we are in a spiritual war, and they are trying to take our babies :coffee: Be careful what ya kids listen too as in music and what they watch. You be surprised how many demons are in the music. Totally demonic !

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      69 says:

      What’s sad is the fact that at 12 years old, little girls start taking pipe that early on that chit fcks with their minds. At 12 years I was a horny mofo myself. This is why it’s imperative that you keep teens active. I :pray: that when I have a child it’s a boy. I’ll buy his little ass a blow up doll ans let him hump it until he can’t breath. :no:

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      69 says:

      You be surprised how many demons are in the music. Totally demonic !
      ————-
      Yep. Starting with Rihanna :yes:

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      MsB says:

      You be surprised how many demons are in the music. Totally demonic !
      ~~~~~~~~~
      :yes: That’s why I DON’T have any of that type of music in my house or car… I use my Ipod and we listen to kiddey songs or they are watching mickey and minnie mouse DVD’s and the likes…. :tea:

    62. 62

      Im speechless because pictures can be so telling and this 13 yo looks very mature – all the kids that were left in her care and the fact that she is going thru puberty could attribute to this – I just wish it never unfolded!

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      Morning Roses!!
      I hope erryBody had a great Turkey Day . . .
      Black Friday Shopping sucked big tyme this year,I think this is my last yr of blk Fri.Shopping. :|

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      MsB says:

      Morning Luvn

      I got lucky this year all the big items(tablet, moped, etc) that I was going to buy my girls, My parents and my fiance’s parents bought them already :happy: so I didn’t have to go out in that mess… But I will be partaking in Cyber Monday to shop my butt off for clothes and shoes :wave: <—- The extra money I saved

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      Msb hate to break it to ya but ole Mickey is demonic too :tea: this ish goes deeper then folks know ! Mind control. Unfortunately we are surrounded by it. Keep ya kids covered in prayer !

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      A.J. says:

      I agree with whoever said the parents should have known the 13-year-old had emotional issues. She did not just snap on Monday. The fact that the parents asked the neighbor to watch the house while they were gone proves my point. The cops should have cited the parents for abandoning their 5 children. Leaving 5 kids to fend for themselves was child abandonment.
      ____________________________

      :applause: :cosign:

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      datsmdubya2u says:

      Black Friday is for sheep…

      Putting hard earned money into the pockets of 1% for cheap
      crap made in China by slave labor..

      In some countries people have to riot for clean water and food

      Here in the good ole US of A? We fight of cellphones and flat screen TVs
      Ppl pulling guns on each other? A melee in Georgia over prepaid cell phones. People leaving their kids in the car to go chase so called bargains that aren’t bargains at all. Most people are unable to get the so call “deals” and end up buying stuff at regular price just to say they bought something.

      If you can’t afford it during the rest of the year you can’t afford it on black friday.

      Stay home spend time with your family consumerism is worth all of that

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      Ni ni says:

      Things are gonna get worse yall. We are hearing so many stories about effed up teens and its all over @zz and materialism. I have a friend who has a son who constantly tells her hes gonna kill her and how much he hates her. Shes bought him every game, shoes, clothes and he still hates her. We( society) are going to pay for what we have.allowed to get into these kids. Those nasty music videos should have been stopped years ago so sex is being shoved at these kids and they are going crazy to do it and at younger ages.

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      Bird says:

      My feelings have not changed on this situation. In fact they are strengthened. Something is up with this father. First he’s doing the Holy Ghost dance about his 2 year old being in a better place and talking about how he’s going to fight for the 13 year old. Now he is torpedoing her defense by putting her business in the street talking about she confessed over the phone. I know the news outlets love him. He stays having diarrhea of the mouth.

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      DeevaC says:

      @nini i can honestly say if my child threatened to kill me, their sibling or anyone else for that matter i would have them evaluated and if everything came back normal i would have them temp. put in custody of cps or put in jail for a weekend. see kids need to learn that “no one will love you like you mother/father will” (as my mom would say). i had a friend when i was a kid who told her mom she was going to call cps on her for spankings, she told her “you go right ahead, and see how they will treat you when they take you away”. they need to learn there is consequences to their actions and they can be charged as adults…they need to be forced to look ahead into their future.

      i’m not sure this little girl needs to be charged as an adult. i hope they go through all avenues before doing so, she seems mentally disturbed and may need therapy and meds. i have so many questions….does she show remorse? does she understand what she has done? does she understand why she is being punished? etc.

      on another note…does anyone have any advice or know where i can get a vitamin d tonic? something that i can use to quickly boost my levels?

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      DeevaC says:

      @aj i agree with you…but at the same time, i don’t think the parents thought she was capable of killing. she could have been known to have tantrums, maybe even fought with her siblings.

      i know i may be in the minority, but i don’t believe she should spend the rest of her life in jail. she is still a child and it is possible with medication and therapy that she could be reformed. i don’t know, it just breaks my heart when you hear about children who commit crimes spending their whole lives in jail. i watch lock’d up and often times the inmates who were teens regret their actions but don’t get parole.

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      Anna says:

      DeevaC says:

      i know i may be in the minority, but i don’t believe she should spend the rest of her life in jail. she is still a child and it is possible with medication and therapy that she could be reformed. i don’t know, it just breaks my heart when you hear about children who commit crimes spending their whole lives in jail. i watch lock’d up and often times the inmates who were teens regret their actions but don’t get parole.
      ~~~~~~
      I agree. She should not spend the rest of her life in jail. All 13 yr. olds are not the same. I got upset w/my Grand because I thought she knew better not to spill her cup of milk on the carpet. It was my fault for not puttng the sippy top on it. Who leaves a 13 yr. old w/a house full of kids? My Grand is two, and she tries my paitence. I have to put myself in a time out. A 13 yr. old reacts w/out thinking.

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      Ni ni says:

      @DeevaC, the boy is on medication, has been sent off to homes for troubled kids, he hears voices, lies to the school about his mom. He gets professional help but it aint helping. I think he has some spiritual things going on and tried to get her to go to church or talk to my mom who can pray with her, but she wont. I feel bad for her, her health is bad from being stressed with him and the younger son is starting the same foolishness. As for this young lady, she stabbed the baby 7 times and something is terribly wrong with her. People like this will snap again on down the line and the response will be well why was she released. She needs to be locked up if not in jail, a mental institution.

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      iyonah says:

      @Bird..I agree. More to the story.

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      DeevaC says:

      @nini if his medication isn’t helping him, he needs to be institutionalized. this isn’t a spiritual thing, mental illness may very well run in your friend’s family. at least if he is put in a hospital they can figure out what types of medication and which combinations will work for him, and if none will he can just stay in a place where he can’t hurt others or himself. same with her other child…although if the older child is being rewarded for his behavior (as in he has all the newest games, shoes, etc…even if it is unintentional rewarding) her other children will see this and think “thats how i get what i want”.

      every case is different, not everyone will snap again. lets assume this young lady is put in an institution, and is given therapy and medication. if she maintains good behavior, no frequent bouts of acting out, violent episodes or erratic behavior by the age of 25 she should be released to live in some sort of facility or home that will not only provide her with her medication but assure the state that she will receive it everyday. like others have said i’m sure there is more to the story, and even if there isn’t i still can’t write her off until it is proven that she can not be reformed.

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      @ Sunkissed404: He was “like a big brother” to her? How old was he? He can’t be 13 because 13-year-olds can’t have Facebook pages.
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      @sandra you know how many kids these days LIE about their age? I have an aunt who’s 5 years my jr. She lies about her age all up and down FB, Instagram, Twitter. At one point she was “dating” someone who I know, that is three years older than me. I know this person from church back from when we all were in highschool and he should know better than to “date” someone that young especially living in Kansas with all them daamn statutory rape cases negros catch….BUT she constantly LIES about her age. She gets out of hand with her mom, bucks at her, threatens her, all because she feels she know everything her momma don’t know nothing and she getting d!ck downs. Her mom (my moms “step mom” a la common law) adds fuel to the fire by getting mad and snaps at folks when a family member corrects her to help her out (she has health issues). She gives this child everything she wants. Aint no helping that child. Only until she goes to juco (grades ain’t good enough for a university…guess why) and sees herself that everyone else was right and that life ain’t just about d!ck, she’s going to do the same things. I’m just glad no one was left in her care to even test if she was mature enough to babysit. :( . Like I said my heart goes to this little girl and the entire family. Only time will tell when everything is out what will happen.

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      Hope you all had a grand thanks giving. And I pray nobody got molly whopped on blackfriday. That chit is for the birds.

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      iyonah says:

      Wondering how long it will be before the truth comes out about the drug and sexual abuse. I feel so bad for the children, all the signs were there and no one stood up and helped.

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      76

      DeevaC says:

      @nini if his medication isn’t helping him, he needs to be institutionalized. this isn’t a spiritual thing, mental illness may very well run in your friend’s family.
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      Everythring is spiritual :tea: Mental illness is a generational curse

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      FuturedocDonte says:

      Morning Everyone :waves: hope y’all enjoyed your holiday

      Auntie vacation is over :mad: can we get a post on what they found on Casey Anthony computer… Nancy grace is someone going thee heyull off

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      free says:

      Sandra Rose says: But I don’t see molestation. I think he’s feeling guilty over the fact that he and his wife left a 13-year-old to look after FOUR minor children.

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      me either. i DO see a woman having boo-coo babies with this man and leaving the girl in charge. it’s hard being a step-child when your mother has moved on and maybe the girl wasn’t getting the love the little ones got. maybe her step-father doted on them and stayed away from her because she is not his daughter and people are quick to make assumptions. maybe her mother was super tough with her because she’s running behind these lil boys. 13 is a crazy age. seems like she had a lot of hatred and “thoughts” built up. would love to see her diary if she had one.

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      Miany says:

      Good Morning all! :hi:
      @future doc good morning..I agree on the need for a new post. I would prefer a happy post. Can’t take all this talk of babies dying.Still praying for this family, these children and all the children growing up in this society.

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      free says:

      Ni ni says: We( society) are going to pay for what we have.allowed to get into these kids.

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      ^ this ^

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      free says:

      LSLH says: Halle Berries in nem over there cuttin up and fightin and chit. The two guys were fightin and cussin in French….

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      i haven’t read it yet but you know gabe goes in when halle tries to f*ck with his custody. i heard he got the hard end of the bargain though, lol. whoooo, i know that oscar-winning-victim/passive agressive maniac is loving it!

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      lovezoe says:

      Morning peeps! So I watched Catfish. That Sunny chick was so gullible. Sad.

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      free says:

      The Pearl! says: The fact that the news is showing her face and telling her name (because she’s being tried as an “adult”) is a hard pill to swallow.

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      when you do bad shyt, this is what happens.

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      FuturedocDonte says:

      Halle must got that good good…. :coffee:

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      free says:

      Starr says: My take with kids these days, is that they are capable of anything. I think alot of people underestimate just how cunning and underhanded and deceitful kids can be.

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      sigh, yep. people are going to forget about the shock, fear, and pain of the stabbed-up toddler because this lil chick has a baby face.

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      Donna del Gatto says:

      sorry, I have NO sympathy for this demonic seed. I don’t care how Sandra or others try to spin it and say that she was “overwhelmed” with emotion and anger. A parent should not leave their children with a 13 year old because she may:

      1. be on the phone or something and not watching the children
      2. be distracted by tv or the internet and not watching the children
      3. letting the children get away with whatever because she doesn’t feel like watching them
      4. a variation of all of the above

      however, a parent should NOT have to worry or have concern that their 13 year old may stab or murder one of their siblings!

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      free says:

      zurishay says: The three young girls look like triplets. So sad. Potentially, all over a boy

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      they are 2, 3, 4, 5, and 13.

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      Miany says:

      Donna del Gatto says:

      sorry, I have NO sympathy for this demonic seed. I don’t care how Sandra or others try to spin it and say that she was “overwhelmed” with emotion and anger. A parent should not leave their children with a 13 year old because she may:

      1. be on the phone or something and not watching the children
      2. be distracted by tv or the internet and not watching the children
      3. letting the children get away with whatever because she doesn’t feel like watching them
      4. a variation of all of the above

      however, a parent should NOT have to worry or have concern that their 13 year old may stab or murder one of their siblings!

      ^^^ I agree with this wholeheartedly but, the reality of it is these new age kids are NOT the same as previous generations. The best we can do is keep close eyes over our own children and instill fear in them. The kids these days fear nothing. Not the lord, not their parents and not the law.

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      Morning you guys!

      @zoe I missed that one but I saw the one where the chick that I think was a stripper in maryland (magic changing weave like k michelle, black eyeliner on her lips, and pink errthang) and she was talking to this dude named “scorpio” online and he was faking his profile, lied about his kids, and his body (snickers). That was so sad how she was able to say she loved him when she didnt know much about him or even asking questions. His ricky rosay built azz need to be punched in the nose for pulling a stunt like that though. :shotsfired:

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      :wave:
      Morning Roses . . . .
      Wer the Hayle is SandraRose with a new post . . there is :tea: that needs to be poured :blink:

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      KayCeiSoul says:

      free says:

      Sandra Rose says: But I don’t see molestation. I think he’s feeling guilty over the fact that he and his wife left a 13-year-old to look after FOUR minor children.

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      me either. i DO see a woman having boo-coo babies with this man and leaving the girl in charge. it’s hard being a step-child when your mother has moved on and maybe the girl wasn’t getting the love the little ones got. maybe her step-father doted on them and stayed away from her because she is not his daughter and people are quick to make assumptions. maybe her mother was super tough with her because she’s running behind these lil boys. 13 is a crazy age. seems like she had a lot of hatred and “thoughts” built up. would love to see her diary if she had one.

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      Good Morning Roses! :waves:

      I agree wholeheartedly Free. :coffee:

      See, I didn’t snap when I was a teenager like this girl did, however, my mother was remarried and had another child with my stepdad when I was 7 years old. I ended up being the live-in babysitter and felt like Cinderella throughout my teenage years.

      I vowed to NEVER do this to my kids if I had a baby later in life, like now. I would never leave my baby-to-be in the care of my teenagers – mainly because that isn’t their responsibility. Women need to understand that the other kids can be relyed on here and there for help and assistance while you are HOME, but they really need to think about running out of the house to do anything while leaving babies with teenagers. The number of kids they left on that girl was all wrong. She was wrong for what she did – I am not taking up for her, but why should she be made to watch your kids, siblings or not? Pack them all up or one parent go and the other one stay at home. This whole thing was totally avoidable. There are some deep rooted issues of resentment and hatred that this child is dealing with.

      Maybe now the two of them will think about what the responsibilities of parenting really consist of. :coffee:

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      lovezoe says:

      Razzle- we saw that one too. ATL and Maryland ARE NOT far. No reason you haven’t met dude in a year. No reason. Chicks are coming up missing and they believing anything a dude saying.

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      free says:

      KayCeiSoul says: See, I didn’t snap when I was a teenager like this girl did, however, my mother was remarried and had another child with my stepdad when I was 7 years old. I ended up being the live-in babysitter and felt like Cinderella throughout my teenage years.

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      did you see the damn ages though? 2, 3, 4, and 5. hell she was just doing what she saw her mother doing.

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      @Zoe-it’s as simple as you can be anyone you want on the internet. And I dont understand why people dont take a friend or two with them if they go to meet someone you meet online. Better safe then sorry. And better be smart about it and not naive either. Dont have your nose all open when you only know this person from online. Had a cousin who met someone online. Within a year they were married. A year later they divorced. Dude looked and dressed like A Pimp Named SlickBack in his 60′s. :no: He was just about the trife life too. No job, wouldn’t work. Wouldn’t help round the house. Same, but I’m glad my cousin is happy now!

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      KayCeiSoul says:

      @ Free – right! I tend to go harder on these mothers because they are the childs first line of defense, no matter whether there’s a father in the home or not. She should have known better than that. Stairsteps are fine, but you have to be able to take care of them.

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      Bigbadwolf says:

      This is a sad story all around. I truly feel like something was wrong with the girl. When I was 13 I was actually being paid to babysit my neighbor’s kids. They were 3, 5, and 7. The boys were bad azz hell but the little girl was a sweet heart. Would put them in time out like the parents wanted and kept it moving. I watched them 3 days a week and sometimes on weekends. I had my days when I didn’t want to be bothered and tried to have my company being a hot azz and got caught (reason why I was fired and had my first son 2 years later) I never thought about physically harming them especially not my own sibling. I had 3 sisters in my house and had to watch them, which is why I was offered the job. She really needs prayer. Everyone’s breaking point is different.

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