Da Brat Gets a Makeover

Sandra Rose January 13, 2016

da brat

Openly lesbian rapper Da Brat got a makeover. The rapper who prefers baggy pants and bandana’s on her head posted this image on her Instagram page today.

The drag queen look is really catching on in Hollywood. Before you say a gay man beat Da Brat’s face to tha gods, you should know that the makeup artist is a female by the name of @Sophie.

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<—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

Cute!
*cues Funktified*
1/8

Shawntae has always been a beautiful woman.
Angela

Her face ? is beat just like she beat that girl at the bar in the head with the bottle.
HappyChappy

She looks oh so lovely
Angela

Sure has.
iWasteTime

She has not aged and is beautiful!
#NoMoreBraids
Milani

…a mess!!!
Sleepy One

Brat has always been beautiful
MzFutureLCSW

drag queen? Not at all. She looks quite fetching.
Milani

She hasn’t aged, not one bit…she looks good.
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Well done!
CookieMobster

She looks so beautiful.
1/8

Her hair is giving me a Whitney Houston/Tina Turner vibe.
JENNYJONES1

YES SHE WILL PULL A QUEEN LATIFAH ON YA AND STRAIGHT KILL IT…….JENNY JONES!!!
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

I think its a nice beat. Not to heavy. it looks good..
Traci404

She looks beautiful
thrift.store.jungle

brat has always been a beauty.
http://www.facebook.com/juanhustle @JuanHustle

She’s beautiful!
Too Many Colors

Shawntae been sexy for a long time. Years. Since the Tyrese video
Dee

Pretty
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

(stomps in and flops next to you and blows curl away from face)… dating again sucks…where DE fuk are the goot gatdayum men sis?!!!
Too Many Colors

My song is her and TBoz. “Ghetto Love”
PettyEyezPrime

She is purty. She been purty. Would you like, me on a…TYYYYYREEESE YEAH
KK

She is absolutely gorgeous.
nucynu25

Pretty
BKLYNS MAMA

Thank God…those Braids and thangs were horrible. #ohlipstickBRAT..ok
Canary Red™

More of Whitney “I’m Your Baby Tonight”
But honestly I thought that Demetria M. girl (post with her and Kandi in the hospital) last week was Da Brat and then days later here is Da Brat
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

slides next to you and lay my head on your shoulder..Hey nah!
SummerBaby

She’s so pretty!
MsVAllDay

She has always been a pretty girl. I like feminine Da Brat better than thug Da Brat.
yallcrazy

I’m so glad somebody finally told her to take them 1995 afro puffs out her head. They was aggravating me every time I seen her
MS PEACHES

That makeup looks heavy.
BKLYNS MAMA

Lawd they finna turn Brat into a lipstick lesbian…..slowly she gon be nicki,lol
BLACK LOVE

I remember Brat wearing some women clothes she had a nice shape and looked good..
yallcrazy

Lol!! Ole messy self
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

OKAY IVE WAITED 3 LOOONG MONTHS NOW IM READY TO DATE AGAIN..WHERE ARE THE GOOD MEN?!!
I decided to try a new route and did an online dating site. My pics are classy no azz or tit shots (I do show legs but thats it)…I swear I never KNEW dudes could font a wolf call! All most all that respond start out with “Hey sexy, or HOT DAYUM, or even “I straight up want to eat you.” LIKE WHAT THE FUK IS HAPPENING!!! ladies tell me the best online site to look for good guys..Im tired of the traditional way…
<—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

IONO sis but You probably gotta go through a few to find the best one
BKLYNS MAMA

and them damn braids with the rubber bands on the…LeSigh
1/8

That’s it! I was trying to place the era… I’m Your Baby Tonight! And your right, there is definitely a resemblance between Demetria and Shawntae’s new look!
mela.reign77

I don’t think she looks like a queen. In fact she looks really pretty. I would love to see this and more girly looks on her more often.
Renee26

She’s always been beautiful! Slay on Brat!
Milani

I been out the dating game since marrying the Mr. 12 yrs ago, but I hear people talking about:

Plenty of fish
Black people meet
Match.com

There’s probably some dating apps too for the phone, but I’m clueless as to which ones are good.
Renee26

Try dating outside your race. I did and it ended my 7 year drought of being single
PettyEyezPrime

Did you read some of last post? I’m ready to date too ?. Makidada
Paige

She looks good. Go Brat!!
Justlooking2SayIT

Get it girl. Maybe Mariah will take her back.

Kona

Just joking
Justlooking2SayIT

Wolf call. Dead
Too Many Colors

Ask your homegirls. ..ask their dudes to hook you up. My older Latina sister from another mother been DYING to hook me up with her dude (Who is my age. She likes em younger) homeboy. I mean months. We going out on Saturday for a day date.
PettyEyezPrime

Nobody suggested these to me. I’m also afraid of strangers. Dubb did say BlackNiggasMeet for me though?. Everyone suggested (you aren’t innocent either) I deal with Vincent Herbert 2.0
Justlooking2SayIT

Oh its a open post?

MARIAH MAY TAKE HER BACK
Too Many Colors

Omg.? ?
Milani

LOL!!!
Bam Bam Li

She looks soooo young rofl. She’s always been really beautiful though.
PettyEyezPrime

My brother tried to set me up with his homeboy who just got home from jail. FML again ?
Let Your Soul Glow

Day dates are good first dates. ??
jussaying

Lmao does your brother hate you orrrr?
Bam Bam Li

Whhyyy ???
Too Many Colors

I don’t like strangers. Day date dude, I done seen him at homegirl house, her dude house, he came to her birthday party. So it’s not like he a total stranger. Which makes it nice. Last stranger I got was from…nvmd.
Too Many Colors

What? Bro on timeout
PettyEyezPrime

We got an open after last post turned into an open post.
https://sandrarose.com SandraRose

“OKAY IVE WAITED 3 LOOONG MONTHS NOW IM READY TO DATE AGAIN..WHERE ARE THE GOOD MEN?!! ”
————–

They’re married or gay.
Liah

So pretty LOVE he on the Ricky Smiley show.
Too Many Colors

He a nice guy. He kinda ugly though. I like em cute.

But. I’m just trying to eat my Cheesecake Factory Saturday. Das it.
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

Didn’t I hear you met him in a botanical garden? ?
Hot Caddy Girl

She looks good. Can she keep up the look though? Those baggy pants and bandanas are played out.
jussaying

Ugh I want some Cheesecake Factory.
Lulu

She’s attractive to him, her and you….
Too Many Colors

It was a very beautiful garden at one time. Now it’s overgrown and it resembles a jungle.
Too Many Colors

I will have either Steak Diane or Chicken Piccatta for you. And a slice of Kahlua cheesecake for ya. I’m not supposed to eat that. Egg allergy. Imma get it to go, so I can come home and eat it with my Benadryl
PettyEyezPrime

He said troublemakers need love too. I swear he be pimping me out to his friends. I always end up the cool girl friend though. He be trying it and me! Lol.
Too Many Colors

Pretty much.

Some are both
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

They are not on Tinder…there’s an app Porsha Williams promotes called Soul Swipe. I heard about it on IG. My cousin signed up for the one with all the questions, EHarmony.
PettyEyezPrime

Lol. Nevermi… You took a chance on love.
PettyEyezPrime

Chokes
Justlooking2SayIT

Hunti I know Mimi yiur girl, but Brat got dibs on her.
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

No crowd control. It happens to the best of places.
PettyEyezPrime

You’ve got jungle fever… this is what I heard
jussaying

Sigh I have to fast tonight for a medical procedure. I don’t know how anyone can be anorexic. The first thing I thought was food when my alarm went off at 4am. ??. & girl be careful. You gonna eff around end up looking like will smith in hitch.
Let Your Soul Glow

Well, you enjoy that cheesecake. Hopefully he’s not as ugly as his picture.
jussaying

Lmao what the heck. Not the kind that been in the booty house smh. I’d set him up with an unclockable if I were you ?
Justlooking2SayIT

Go out alone, dont take no broads with you. If you do, take the ugly one, if u want company. Maybe u asking for too much, a man with both legs and fresh breath.
Let Your Soul Glow

Low key, Brat has a banging body! She just covers it with baggy clothes.
jussaying

Lol Soul Swipe tho. Just make me think everyone on there sounding like Cameo or Charlie Wilson. They should call Tinder swipe for STDs.
PettyEyezPrime

He dated 1 of my ex best friends. Karma for that ass
jussaying

????
Too Many Colors

The kids were 38 hot at my ass on Christmas. ??My brother in law had gotten a whole variety cheesecake from Sam’s. We all were staying the night. So hell. I popped my Benadryl and got to eating me some. On the deck. Tryna hide. They told: my mama, my sister, and my daddy called, they told him too. “Make her STOP”??
Justlooking2SayIT

The red velvet cheese cake and firecracker salmin rolls are the best ever. Lawd
Let Your Soul Glow

Yep. Ask Mimi.
jussaying

Go join a co-Ed sports league, or like below go out by yourself to happy hours. Take a book with you or a sketchpad or a coloring book. People are nosy and they shall approach.
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

I have never had a great first date as an adult.
jussaying

YASSS firecracker salmon rolls are my ish.
Justlooking2SayIT

Are u the one that got family that will set up a robbery?
PettyEyezPrime

Try baller alert
Too Many Colors

I done seen him up close. He not my type. At all. But that meal is. Tuh.
Let Your Soul Glow

Mariah ain’t never let her go. The Ga Dept of Corrections separated them for a while, but I’m sure they’ve been back to scissoring.
Justlooking2SayIT

I cant breathe. You need to call me
jussaying

LOL why you do that to them babies. They were watching you eat their dreams away smh.
Sexy CJ

Throw It Down Brat……….Gorgeous……
PettyEyezPrime

+1
Let Your Soul Glow

Wait, even DF?
Sexy CJ

**********
Justlooking2SayIT

Coloring book? Dead
Let Your Soul Glow

Okay, what do y’all consider “great”? Were these dates from hell or just blah dates?
jussaying

Lmao they make adult coloring books.
Justlooking2SayIT

Chile I ask for extra red cabbage and break them rolls up and make me salad.
thrift.store.jungle

oh no! maybe try joining a social group in your area for singles weekly/monthly meet-ups. perhaps fewer creeps would commit to that type of experience.
Too Many Colors

Me either. Why I’m switching it up. I’m like nigga meet me at 2 pm. Last first date was…nvmd.
Let Your Soul Glow

Well, let him down gently. AFTER you get your cheesecake.
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

Long story but yeah, even DF. Well it’s not a long story but still. We had a great 3rd date though.
Justlooking2SayIT

Meetup dot com interest of your choice.
Bible study
Let Your Soul Glow

Dang! It took to Date #3? Wow. But that’s a good reason to not make a snap judgment off 1 encounter.
PettyEyezPrime

No. My brother is super protective of who I’m with relationship wise . He feels a date or conversation can’t hurt. I just can’t build a life with them. #hislogic. My family will plan a robbery together. Then fight over what they get from it ?
Too Many Colors

Dead in the middle of chewing and the back door swung open. It was dark and late. Deck all shadowy. So I tried to cower in corner. Dub10 saw me tho. “You can’t eat that! ? Na-NAaaaaA!”
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

Encounter #1 wasn’t bad. It just wasn’t a real date ?
Dem Moore

Im 30 and I remember rat tat tat tat from when I was 8 or 9. Her skin is flawless and she looks like she in her 20’s.
Justlooking2SayIT

Had to google it, gonna have pass on that at the bar with your various color of pencils.
Too Many Colors

I’m here at new gig til 6pm today. Will do.
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

If I was single my idea of a great first date would be a museum and a meal. Low key stuff.
SummerBaby

Good luck! I’m sure you’ll meet someone soon
Torae

She’s always been gorgeous even when she is butch.
Justlooking2SayIT

She is a natural beauty

Porche jealous
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

Apparently it goes down in the DM’s too. Find one who you think is attractive and DM him ?
jussaying

LMAO. Ole telling arse child. Reminds me of my little cousin. She had decided to be s Girl Scout one year and my other cousin and I found the stash and got greedy. All huddled in the corner eating the thin mints up till she came screaming and crying at us. My grandma beat the crap out of us rofl
Let Your Soul Glow

Well, sit your epipen on the table lest you manage to die over ugly date cheesecake.
Emily post

She has always been an attractive woman. She looks like she is about to pull a man with a job and a 401k plan with that look????
MookieFly

Why it gotta be BlackNikkasMeet tho?? ???
Too Many Colors

When you find the men, take Marie with you.

http://abc11.com/news/criminal-summons-filed-against-nc-powerball-winner/1157924/
Too Many Colors

I’m crine??
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

She can’t. Marie will be in jail while Hot Sauce and the side trick ball out on her millions according to that link, smh.
https://www.sandrarose.com Django the God

Go to the gym.
leapyearpisces

In addition to POF (I know folks say its a “ratchet” site, but I have never had a bad experience, and I am far from ratchet, LOL), try OK Cupid!, and Zoosk. Now mind you with Zoosk if you want the full experience, you will need to pay a membership fee. I think the cheapest is 40.00) for one month, but I think it’s worth it-met some cool people. I saw something last week on TV about a site call SoulSwipe, but I personally haven’t tried that. Also remember if you SEE something YOU like, no harm in making the first move by saying hello or something. :-), I never approach men in real life because I am shy when it comes to that, but I learned that to get the best out of online dating you just can’t wait around to see what / who pops up in your inbox. :-). Hope this helps.
Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

Supposed to be therapeutic and less stressful so you don’t slug your coworkers.
Too Many Colors

Nope. If they find you on FB, IG, Twitter etc and DM you first…

Delete delete delete.

Trust me. They crazy.
Latisaj

She looks like the type that 2 hrs later she right back looking like lil Coolio. She’s never been into the sexy feminine look when will you people learn
Too Many Colors

Leap Year. Jesus.?.

It’s me.

Dub.

Presses my face up to the screen
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

DF and I re connected via Fb. He made the first e move. We knew each other from high school though. He’s not cra… Yeah, Dub is right.
Too Many Colors

No you not ratchet. Sure ain’t ?
Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

I’ve been coloring for years. There is a lady who has created a whole line of adult coloring books…she’s a multi-millionaire based on her “mature” illustrations. Saw her on Sunday Morning.
jussaying

Lmao wait are those Nudy ones? They have adult ones with the intricate patterns. That’s cool tho I’m just now getting hip bc they’re all over groupon.
Fendi

She looks beautiful. She has always been beautiful, regardless of how she dresses.
LibraGirlonly

I really like this look. she shroud rock this more often.
Too Many Colors

I’m just talking initial contact. No a reconnect.

Listen to your inner stranger danger. ???
1/8

Within a matter of hours, six people were shot in the Chicagoland area and two of them are dead.

Two people were shot while driving on the Chicago Skyway that connects Chicago to Indiana, one of the victims is dead.

A grandmother and her grandson were shot near 79th and Laflin. The grandson is dead and the grandmother is in critical condition. The pair were sitting in a mini-van when someone opened fire.

Two thugs were shot multiple times when they tried to rob a south side T-Mobile store. The clerk who shot the would-be thieves, has a concealed carry permit, said police. Both suspects are in critical condition at a local hospital.

FYI: It’s 19 degrees outside, but it isn’t stopping these fools from killing each other.

UPDATE: THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE SHOT HAS RISEN TO EIGHT.
PettyEyezPrime

It go down in the DM. This our music now?some folks real life.
PettyEyezPrime

I know you want online but I know a few that met in the laundry mat
Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

~grabs my orange-filled sock and wallops you 1x on the head~

Homey don’t play nudie coloring books. What if Baby Freebush got ahold of that and took it to Show and Tell? But, you really may be on to something. If they have nudie cartoons…
http://www.beautyisland.weebly.com Indigo

Pretty woman really. funny as hec on Ricky Smiley…
Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

Crine. I. Can. Breeve. @Dubb is STOOpid! ???
PettyEyezPrime

Picture it, Red Lobster 2012. Eating biscuits, drinking wine and laughing. Dude proceeds to tell me about his troubles. THEN plays a voicemail from his sons mother. She said she was tired of being a mother and she needed a break. Come get his son and purposely left this message for HIM to have proof in court. I ate my food, finished the bottle of wine and became celibate. #truestory
Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

I saw one on one of the news shows where you could see where folks are and hook up for a quick “date”. ?

I’ll pass. I don’t want people to be able to see my comings and goings on a dating app.
Smith Jane

With SR’s commenters every post is an open post. They hijack every story with their mundane personal lives instead of keeping that shit on Facebook where ppl actually want to read and see it
Canary Red™

Whitney was at the height of her career with that album!
kco0l;s ChocolateBox

And VERY humble. But don’t piss her off.
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

I’ve heard that. I think I will!
1/8

Yes, she was. Whitney was my cousin, in my head. LOL! I cried for DAYS after her death.
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Slaps your fonting hand…
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Ok !ill take a look
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Someone said meet up. Com I’ll try that
leapyearpisces

LMAO!!!! I know girl I figure WTH!!!! I wasn’t too late to the party this time, and I am about to be off the grid after tonight after I get my coins….so… :-)… Hey Dub! You know what THIS year is??????
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

lol NOOO THANKS?
Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

All I could see and hear was Sophia Petrillo, you popping cheddar biscuits in your mouth with a stank look on your face like “negro puhleeze”, drinking the last of the wine out the bottle while chucking up deuces and walking out.

First date mistakes: talking about your ex(es)…and crying about them. ?
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

That’s good. I’m not afraid to go out by myself. I think I’ll do that this weekend
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Lol is it that bad outchere lol
https://www.sandrarose.com Django the God

If you can’t be picked up though, you might be in trouble.
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Thanks for the encouragement sandy! ?
jussaying

I find the best time to go out by yourself to meet other people is after work.
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Yes sis! Tell me how it goes Monday! Good luck
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Hug…giiirrrlll I want to find a simple hard working straight loyal man. Why is it so hard!
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Girl I tried one time and found that dude who only wanted to know what a sister like in bed smh and told me that’s all he wanted I was like thanks for your time… Bye bye
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

I’m onPOF! Lol wolves!
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

I’ll try but I’m already discouraged ?
jussaying

Chiraq for ya.
1/8

The grandson and grandmother were both shot in the head. The grandson is dead and grandma may not be far behind.
Auditor

Lol her makeup is not drag queenish. I’ve always thought Da Brat was beautiful without even trying. Go head.
Auditor

Ain’t none…men are just thirsty. When I lived in the big city I went on a date with a different dude every night. It was fun at first but then I got tired of saying the same ish over and over again. Went back to some old D instead lol.
Giana MAJOR

Why whenever Brat wears makeup and let’s her hair down people refer to it as a makeover?
Imperfectly_perfect

My hubby is white…black women be sleeping on these white dudes. My hubby is the best man I ever had! And he loves the heck out of us! There’s no side chick drama, nothing! Everything is kosher. I was a stay at home mom to our twins for years. Now that dem babies are in school, I had the option of staying home or working. I work?
Auditor

Chile…
Canary Red™

LOL and I could sing just like her (in my head too)! Greatest Love All – l belted it out baby – well more like screeched it out! lol But in my mind I was blowing! Until I looked at the horror on my sisters faces when I finished the song (eyes closed) in our homemade talent shows.
leapyearpisces

Kisses ( I don’t know how to do the emoticons)….
justice4all04

She is a very pretty woman when she has her make up and hair done!!
PettyEyezPrime

Because you want him to be straight! DEAD. When you find out where to look, send a memo. Might have to meet people by association.
PettyEyezPrime

I was like??. I already had agreed to Red Lobster. Anything else was pushing it too far anyway. He pushed it all the way. I was just trying to go to Antigua where he was from. Ruined it for meh.
thaye

Brat tat-tat-tat is beautiful!!!!!
Li

She looks a lot better. For sure. Maybe she’s trying to be a legit actress after being on Empire?
Luv Pitties

A friend of mine is on match and she is meeting guys left and right. It’s scary though because they are really weird, they want to come to her house within a few days of chatting?. Most of them are married, go figure. I’ve given up on meeting men it’s all one big crapshoot. Those sites bring out creeps. I used to be on Zoosk, don’t waste your time there.
Luv Pitties

I screamed when I scrolled down and saw this pic ????
Saharabutnotdry

Gorgeous !
Saharabutnotdry

None ! Men go on them to fouck , too many easy girls make it hard for the good ones , it’s BOGO sale up in this mofo.
Saharabutnotdry

Try Home Depot !!!! I heard it works.
I met mine half drunk smoking a cigarette at an Italian restaurant ( giggles)..
Saharabutnotdry

An idea ( be open now ) ;
Take a baked pie to your firehouse ??.
Saharabutnotdry

Beaucoup??
<—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

WHALE don’t rush then, just take your time
che’lint

me too!
Saharabutnotdry

@Champagnepapi ?
Rolly

Brat is so so pretty ??
Saharabutnotdry

I live in the Chi too , bloody cold day !
1/8

LMAO! I’m imagining the looks on your sisters’ faces! ?
SmithyPooh

Da Brat is a true beauty.
Teide_luv

They were talking about soul swipe on the radio one time. Some people called in and said it was cool. Just a idea. Good luck. I miss your stories btw.
Let Your Soul Glow

Oh. Em. Gee. Well, damn. On a first date. Wow. Well, at least you saw exactly what the deal was before you wasted any time and got invested. #silverlining
Bonny

I ? Da Brat.
Bonny

I have the same with a black man. Try again.
morenYAHdelsur

Barbara Brat!!! ?
PettyEyezPrime

DEAD. I know a few firefighters. Dated 1. He slight crazy. They be sexy though. Most anyway.
PettyEyezPrime

They have farmers only dating site? You are going to have some stories to tell after your search in all these places
Saharabutnotdry

Hubby is one , the drunk smoking outside hhhhhh but yeah , they are overall nice , humble and crave family life . Just try plz
JustB

So she just wanted to see what she looks like with makeup? Brat dont force it please…dont jump on the makeup/coffin train…u can be pretty without it
PettyEyezPrime

Yes. Wanted to have a baby with me immediately. We still cool. He still want his baby. Has a 17 yo. He is foine. Super cocky. Rides a motorcycle. He is very sweet and the girls stay in his face or all over his social media. If he font “Word” they like it. Then comment. Thirsty birds.
DoubtingBelief

But she never said that you couldn’t find the same with a black man. It’s simply about being open to dating outside of our race.
Imperfectly_perfect

Hold up lil momma…my being married to a white man is not saying black men are no good. I still & always will love black men. My choice was an individual one. A choice not based on anything or anyone. So u can check ur attitude at the door.?
Saharabutnotdry

Like mine , dehydrated bishes do it live , now they know I’m an angry drunk and had episodes , he barely gets any comments from the birds .
Give it a shot , nothing to lose , keggel is my friend lol
1/8

American Crime Story is fantastic! The rape-kit scene was gritty and the examiner’s voice was dead- on!
<—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

You should write in a Complaint Letter to SR
Justlooking2SayIT

Yeah complain.
Justlooking2SayIT

I love her do, its beautiful
MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

OMG, I know right? Guess what though? There is this thing out called ignoring what doesn’t interest you. It’s been around forever and it really works. You should try it, you might like it. As a matter of fact, I’m going to do it right now.
B.Loveitt

The sad part is we are the only ones promoting anything is better than a black man. Others are not trying to relinquish their sons and daughters to black folks unless they are some rich public figure.

I’m sick of that bullshyt comment to date outside your race. We are so self defeating.

I feel you Bonny that BS Imperfectly perfect shared was nothing but pure shade!
B.Loveitt

The sad part is we are the only ones promoting anything is better than a black man. Others are not trying to relinquish their sons and daughters to black folks unless they are some rich public figure.

I’m sick of that bullshyt comment to date outside your race. We are so self defeating.

I feel you Bonny that BS Imperfectly perfect shared was nothing but pure shade!
SG

She’s beautiful! ??
SG

She’s beautiful! ??
CarlA

That’s a really beautiful look in her. I love it!
CarlA

That’s a really beautiful look in her. I love it!
jusbecsuse

Beautiful
jusbecsuse

Beautiful
B.Loveitt

She didn’t say that but she sure as hell implied it.

“My hubby is the best man I ever had! And he loves the heck out of us! There’s no side chick drama, nothing! Everything is kosher. I was a stay at home mom to our twins.”

Why would one need to stress that as if it was only found because she was with a white man. Why not I married a white dude and I’m good?

Believe what you want but if black women aren’t getting married because black men don’t want black women and the rich ones only want white women who in the flying freak got the divorce rate over more than 50%???

Do we not see how the media, and our mentality has us phucked up and busted???

That was pure shade at its finest and she knows it if not she wouldn’t be saying “I still will always love Black men.”

I’m equal opportunity but that’s some BS that simply wasn’t cool.
B.Loveitt

She didn’t say that but she sure as hell implied it.

“My hubby is the best man I ever had! And he loves the heck out of us! There’s no side chick drama, nothing! Everything is kosher. I was a stay at home mom to our twins.”

Why would one need to stress that as if it was only found because she was with a white man. Why not I married a white dude and I’m good?

Believe what you want but if black women aren’t getting married because black men don’t want black women and the rich ones only want white women who in the flying freak got the divorce rate over more than 50%???

Do we not see how the media, and our mentality has us phucked up and busted???

That was pure shade at its finest and she knows it if not she wouldn’t be saying “I still will always love Black men.”

I’m equal opportunity but that’s some BS that simply wasn’t cool.
B.Loveitt

You sound as bad as white folks who say “I have black friends.” We are not the white folks mascot.

When you list all this wonderful stuff that you got it sounds as if you believe and want others to believe it happened because you switched and married a white man? You don’t have to point blank say anything to imply. Ask some of those black men you still and will always love if they came across this statement what would they think, especially in a comment section on a blog?

I’ll give a white women this though they do have more discretion then us Sister. Many of them have played their positions for 20/30 + years as whatever married man’s side chick. Don’t ever get it twisted they have whole families on the other side of town, some wives have not a clue while some wives are quite aware but deals.

You don’t know what he’s doing while you’re w/the twins? We can all live in fairytale land but in reality we don’t know what our s/o’s might do, never say never? Any woman or person period regardless of what race wouldn’t open themselves up to such a foolish statement.
B.Loveitt

You sound as bad as white folks who say “I have black friends.” We are not the white folks mascot.

When you list all this wonderful stuff that you got it sounds as if you believe and want others to believe it happened because you switched and married a white man? You don’t have to point blank say anything to imply. Ask some of those black men you still and will always love if they came across this statement what would they think, especially in a comment section on a blog?

I’ll give a white women this though they do have more discretion then us Sister. Many of them have played their positions for 20/30 + years as whatever married man’s side chick. Don’t ever get it twisted they have whole families on the other side of town, some wives have not a clue while some wives are quite aware but deals.

You don’t know what he’s doing while you’re w/the twins? We can all live in fairytale land but in reality we don’t know what our s/o’s might do, never say never? Any woman or person period regardless of what race wouldn’t open themselves up to such a foolish statement.
elaine9245

True. The attention span is short on here but you have to ignore it. Plus the off topic comments are sometimes funny. Kind of humorous this site is mostly known for that and not the posts.
elaine9245

True. The attention span is short on here but you have to ignore it. Plus the off topic comments are sometimes funny. Kind of humorous this site is mostly known for that and not the posts.
elaine9245

It’s a cute look.
elaine9245

It’s a cute look.
Oh Tommie

I’m not checking for any dudes (cough cough)..but the laundromat? I need you to have a washer and dryer in your spot! Only way we’re meeting there is if we decided to wash our comforters in the jumbo machine at the same time.
Oh Tommie

I’m not checking for any dudes (cough cough)..but the laundromat? I need you to have a washer and dryer in your spot! Only way we’re meeting there is if we decided to wash our comforters in the jumbo machine at the same time.
Imperfectly_perfect

First of all u sound real stupid for misconstruing my statement & u just come off as bitter and abused by various men in the past. My brothers, nephews & cousins are black. And I STILL love black men. I give credit where credit is due, black men are beautiful! I made an individual choice to marry a white man. Which was my prerogative. Not based on ANYTHING, ANYONE or any particular RACE. Just so u know, I’ve had wonderful relationships with black men & some not so wonderful. Because I pointed out the good in my marriage does not mean problems don’t exist in the white race or in other interracial relationships. No race is perfect. My hubby & I don’t have relationship issues. I don’t sit home worrying about what my husband is doing, with whom. There is no need. Maybe you should have a seat and tuck that bitterness back in ur pocket. I don’t even know u but ur ugliness shines through…

I’m not wasting my time responding to your bitter a*s again. Send me your address so I can have you a shirt made that says “bitter b*tch”…
Desi

She’s always been beautiful to me. Butched out or not.
sunni_daze

Da Brat has always been pretty.
Canary Red™

LMAO 25% they were horrified…of course I was like yall just jealous yall just jealous baby!!!!
One of my oldest sisters just knew she could sing (better than us), so she took it to the next level my entering the Miss Black Expo Pageant. Baby she had graduated from the homemade talent shows that had an audience of 5. My sis was ready for real judges and a live audience of more than 5.
She practiced and she practiced. So one day after practicing she left her tape YES tape in the stereo in our room. I kindly shut the door and rewound the tape, pressed play….because remember I could sing. So I was belting again LOL, she busted through the shut door and took her tape out the stereo and yelled DONT ‘BE’ SINGING MY SONG….LMAO…again just jealous cause I was blowing LOL.
TeeTee

BEAUTIFUL!
Sriracha In My Bag

She’s really pretty, butch or femme
Imperfectly_perfect

Really?!?…just to hit on a point or two…I mentioned that I “still love black men” simply because people like u see my relationship as “turning away” or “giving up black men”. I’ve always dated men of different races. Just the same as dating black men. I’ve never dated black men exclusively. But that’s ME. GTFOH with that BS… Ur reading into some sh*t that isn’t even there. If you want to know what I’m thinking or if you’re confused on what I was saying, ask me. One brain can’t or shouldn’t think for 2 people. Rest your fingers & have a seat?
Rachel Scott

She so pretty this way!!
seriouslyWtf

about time. Grown arse was walking around lookin a hot mess! Too old for that. Them days are gone. congratulations
1/8

That’s hilarious! LMAO! sounds like you guys had a lot of fun!

We never had talent shows, but we used to do our version of the Soul Train line.

According to my parents, I sucked up all the rhythm and soul in the family, because my siblings can’t sing or dance! LMAO!

I tried to teach my siblings how to do The Rock and they looked like geriatric patients with broken hips!
middleagerant42

This is very cute on her I would have gave her a wig with a different curl pattern but anything is better than that Mohawk cornrows look.
middleagerant42

That’s awsome. I think be with who makes you happy. I have been married for 17yrs next month and my husband is not the cheat type and is good to us. I’m black and he is black but when I was dating I prayed for love. It didn’t matter what color the packaging came in but God sent me a blackman. At that point I didn’t care what color skin the man had as long as his heart and mind were right.
~~eb

This makes no sense! We are not 15 days into the year, Shot & Killed: 23; Shot & Wounded: 124; Total Shot: 147 WTH!!!!!
1/8

Yep! Chicago is a mess and most people don’t have the guts to discuss what’s really going on.
Imperfectly_perfect

Exactly! And my husband has his heart & mind toward God, that’s why there are no cheating issues between us. I’m just blessed to have a faithful, loving, kind man to spend my life with.
Canary Red™

LOL!!!!! too funny!

My mother made sure we liked and loved each other we all were together ALL the time. Rarely were our school or neighborhood friends involved in our lives not until we got much older. So it was either come up with something fun to do inside the house or the backyard or die of boredom.
We loved music and music videos we would try to imitate it.
http://www.2hilarious.com/ 2Hilarious

She looks different and beautiful.
JustCoastWitHa

She looks cute !!
1/8

OMG! This conversation just made me remember when my siblings and I used to imitate talk show hosts! That used to be a lot of fun!
SpideySense

You read way more into what she said than is actually there IMO. Why so mad? Why suggest that her man is off doing bad things while she’s at home? You seem kind of angry and for no real reason
SpideySense

I feel you. Not gonna call her a bitter b but she is definitely projecting her feelings on you and your situation. Seems real angry for no reason. Live your life and enjoy your family. It’s a blessing.

And yes, black women shouldn’t feel confined to just black men. If they can step out so can we. And my fiance is black – just to clarify.
kekeb

Brat always been cute. Her voice is just annoying
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Thanks Teid luv!
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Say word?!! Lol I’m almost tempted to do that!
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Girl you are so right! I heard that there are women that are selling themselves on the site too smh
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Thanks luv putty I heard about zoosk too I have a friend who got suckered. He played like he really liked her and got the cookie and dissappeared
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Pep… It’s sad
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

LOL I ain’t going back to my old D no matter what! I turns out bad lol
Auditor

I feel you…so do I but I’ve realized we just meant to be. Can’t lay up with the next negra and I’m having realistic dreams bout his ass. Got so bad I was seeing his name EVERY got damn where..and his name is nowhere near being common. One day I asked the Lord are we supposed to be together and here come his ass calling not a minuter later. Yea it’s meant to be for better or worse…lol
Imperfectly_perfect

Thank you!?
Imperfectly_perfect

Exactly…for no reason at all?
Imperfectly_perfect

Take your time…by you not giving up the goods is weeding out a lot of jokes.
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

Yeah that’s already the case. Lol dudes talk sex I shut them down they move on
Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

That’s beautiful! Me and mine aren’t lol
Imperfectly_perfect

I know. I can tell…i learn a lot about people from what they say?
LiveMelove

This was way too much ^ why were you really mad?
B.Loveitt

So why do waste your time for something you feel is too much? Did Sandra tell you “You must read all comments, or leave?”

Why are you incapable of scrolling on by…that’s the real question?
B.Loveitt

That’s yours and that was mine. Like I said if you want people to feel you’re not implying that you might want to change it. IMO You don’t have to but don’t be surprised by the side eye.
SpideySense

The tough thing about social media is that you only see what’s written. You can’t hear someone’s tone, see their body language or anything else that helps covey a message. It’s sometimes hard to know what’s behind someone’s comments because we are working with limited information. So many trolls on here make disparaging remarks belittling our black men, so I see why you may have jumped to their defense the way you did. I don’t think she meant it in the way that you took it but I see how you got there.

I do appreciate that we can disagree civilly. Makes me feel better about humanity. Have a great day B and enjoy your holiday weekend.
Tea???

Da brat has her moments where she looks really good I remember that video she did with Tyrese lol I just hope she gives up the 2001 super baggy jeans timbs and huge XXL shirts lol studs have came a long way fashion wise I know she spent some time locked up but she needs to upgrade her fashion
Teide_luv

Np ?
Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

WHAT SAY YE?
B.Loveitt

How shady would I be if someone said I can’t find any man with no kids. Somebody said date outside your race. Then I run up and say I did my husband is white I’m so happy. I have twins a stay at home mom, no child support, no baby mama drama, side kick issues. His first kid was myour 1st kid.

Who’s says I’m happily married than list negative crap they donto delnuwiithu
Mrs. Sunshine

She is so pretty. Keep this look DaBrat!!!
B.Loveitt

Another comment from you? After this book I write like you did to me I’m done!

You don’t like that my comment implied your husband is cheating (I was saying you’re not exempt from any martial issues just like the others w/side chick drama) yet you can’t see why I didn’t like what you implied? Who in the hell said you sit at home worried? If you did he wouldn’t be the best man you ever had. It’s common sense nobody knows what anybody is doing every waking moment -> again not exempt from anything but that comment implied that you did, doesn’t matter that you didnt mean it that way, it came off that way you are hilarious! Have you not figured out that everything that offend me and others I had a comment for are you too dumb to figure it out or pretending you don’t know what’s offensive about you’re even comment? Even tho I don’t like you I don’t believe for one minute you’re dumb. But cool you will remember me and this conversation because it will be on a much bigger platform. Take your misappropriated, projecting feelings on me to those who’ve said YOU TURNED AWAY FROM BLACK MEN. My dad’s Cuban and I date outside my race, that’s what I meant by “equal opportunity”in my initial comment. So how could I say that to you?

You didn’t mean for it to be shady but it was. I dont need to be in your presence no matter how you said it, it had a negative connotation SLIM SHADY. I never called you out your name either, who’s ugly inside is shinning so bright? I’m not the only ONE who felt that way but I’m the one who commented.

The fact that take issue w/me taking up for my peeps says a lot about “us” as people. All these beautiful black men in your fam that you love are judge for just being ask President Obama. All of you calling me angry I’ll be that! Have you not seen what’s been going on around us? Why does #Blacklivesmatter even exist or do you all prefer #Alllivesmatter because being pro black makes you bitter and abused? If I’m A BITTER ABUSED BYTCH for being pro black -> you’re the “PRESIDENT OF THE BITTER & ABUSED BYTCH CLUB.” Now put your bitter bits in your pocket and put that T-shirt and wear it with pride! GTFOH. Now you have a happy marriage.

Cheers