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Deion Sanders‘ ex-wife Pilar Sanders says she’s penniless. The 41-year-old former reality TV star is appealing her divorce judgment in which she got nothing and owes Deion millions.

If you recall, Deion sued Pilar for abusive behavior and for defaming him in interviews. He was awarded $2.2 million and sole custody of his 2 sons, Shilo Sanders, 16, and Shedeur Sanders, 14.

deion sanders pilar sanders

The court also saw fit to grant the 48-year-old Pro Football Hall of Famer joint custody of their daughter Shelomi, now 12.

Deion never saw a penny of the $2 million his ex-wife owes him; since she refuses to work and she has no assets.

theJasmineBRAND.com — Pilar informs the court that she has been unemployed for over 15 years due to her being a homemaker for Deion and the children. She spends $0 in rent a month (she currently lives with her mother & sister), $9 for health insurance, $400 for child care, $200 for food and she isn’t making any money from work.

She explains she has had to take out a $15k loan for expenses, owes $3k to Target, $5k to Visa and $6k to Sam’s but can’t afford to pay any of those bills and has had to take loans from family through the years and can’t pay them back.


  • HIS4EVA

    oh Pilar, let it be. Dian aint parting with his coins. This must be draining emotionally. i mean by now i would have thrown myself on the mercy of the Lord and became born again. #tomuchstress

  • HIS4EVA

    P.S THANKS Sandra:)

  • Dakota H

    She needs to move on with her life and come back to earth and leave the luxury lifestyle behind that she was accustomed to.

  • HIS4EVA

    u know how many woman have cum back from devastation? when a man said you will be nothing without me. i agree let THAT lifestyle go… More is out there. show your kids that dad cant break u down.

  • Buttercup

    $400 for child care
    ============
    I hope she’s going to school, because if she’s paying for child care and not working….

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Growing up I had a huge crush on Deion Sanders. He needs to either invest in some rogaine, or contact Steve Harvey’s former lace front maker. He needs hair, his head is to big and oddly shaped for a baldy.

  • God’s child to the end

    This right here is what my grandma meant when she used to tell us “Never let your left hand know what your right hand doing.” She should have had her own income all those years with a separate account/safety deposit box.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Pilar you had 15 long long years to stash away some money, why didn’t you? You weren’t working his income was yours. You should’ve opened up a secret bank account in your maiden name , and put money away for a rainy day.

  • Well.well$well

    Why can’t she get a job? Someone would hire her. Even without experience…

  • Buttercup

    Or pulled a Shaunie O’Neal and bought some apartment communities.

  • BKLYNS MAMA

    damn…How you fck for coins and don’t get the coinsss…she should have talk to Shanie…. Shaqs wife….how she was stacking dem coins while married…

  • Buttercup

    Mama Butter and I were just talking about this. One of her friends just turned 60 and is newly divorced. Poor thing said she only had 20 cents to her name. Over 30 years of marriage and only 20 cents :brokenheart:

  • Buttercup

    We are >>>>here<<<<

  • T3

    Preeeaaaaccchh!!!

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Its not his head..its his face.. everything tooo close together the forehead to face ratio is off..

  • SandrasNewFave

    PIlar needs to quit milking the same cow. Do like Nicole Murphy, Shantel Jackson, Nivea, Lauren London, Christina Milian, Amber Rose, Blac Chyna , D Wade’s baby mama and half these instagram models- find a new sucker. There’s plenty out there and between being Deion’s ex, having a six pack, and few kids at home….she working with all the right stuff. #GoldDigger101

  • Well.well$well

    Deion Sanders is worth about 250 million. There’s no way in hell I would’ve been married to someone with that kind of money and not have something to show for myself..Married or not…

  • HIS4EVA

    lol
    bad poosie mngmt

  • PROPHETMAJOR

    So she hasn’t found the next NFL player to be with? Fuk she waiting on?

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    Never trust a nigga who had a curl WELL into the 90s.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    She should have taken note from Michael Jordan’s wife and done something with his money to educate herself while she was with him. Maybe Shaunie will give her a job; reality tv is ALWAYS hiring. Bring on Real Broke Ex-Wives of Dallas. On a side note, I really can’t stand Deion. He comes off as all kinds of hateful and spiteful to me like he didn’t have a real daddy growing up and now he is caught up in B*tch made mode all the time. I heard him a few times on the Steve Harvey morning radio show and he is so self absorbed. He is his biggest fan. Not cute at all.

  • Buttercup

    You’re preaching to the choir. Honey Dip and I aren’t married, but don’t ever for a second think his money ain’t mine :winky:

  • Melissa James

    I cant take sides but Dion Sanders seems like a jerk! All women should leave him alone basically boycott his ass.

  • Buttercup

    *guffaws*

  • Well.well$well

    Hello!

  • Jay

    Well maybe she should get a 9-5.

  • HIS4EVA

    mmhmm. i totally agree.
    i cant stand an arrogant azz man!
    not confident—arrogant

  • imright

    where does she live? im surprised shes not on one of the ‘Housewives’ franchises.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Something! Bird just sat on her ass looking cute, and now she’s broke and complaining. Shoot my hubby wealthy so am I , which means I’m making moves like a Lady of leisure not a bird. Pilar crapped out she needs to take the “L” and move on.

  • Genia W-m

    I saw how those kids came back home after being with her for a summer. She’s one of those bitter exes who brainwash their kids because she hates their father. Not the kids’ fault for the divorce. Not working yet racking up all those bills makes no sense.
    I wonder if Deion is still with Tracey Edmonds?

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    *Bullhorn*
    This my friend is the fate of ALOT of gold diggers…They spend their youth focused on getting a “Baller” and not on their own foundation. AS A RESULT tadaaaah… See the tables have turned on them and men are getting more court smart (even if they are STILL dyck dumb)…Somebody need to do a Where Are They Now…Gold Diggers Edition..let me call BET now…

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Why indeed…

  • Well.well$well

    It might not be a job she wants but I know could get what job somewhere..

  • harley_quinn2.0

    She’s a little older than the average thot.

  • AnonymousRose

    they are slowly changing the system when it comes to custody with rich black males, that has babies with Black women… 10 yrs from now all those trying to make babies with ballers that are rich gone be chit outta luck on that child support…. “white women y’all have no worry” it will not affect yall….

  • melissaisasnob

    http://www.celebritynetworth.com/richest-athletes/nfl/deion-sanders-net-worth/

    At 40 Million net worth he can give her about $100,000 a year. In the long run it is hurting him more by doing this to her. Sure she should get a job and/or go to college and learn from how she relied on him. But in the meantime he is keeping her too broke to keep or do anything with her children. It’s looks petty, mean, and selfish for him to do this to her. Is he a Christian? The Christian to do would be to bring about harmony. She did spend 15 years (is that right). We don’t know what was happening in that house. He may have not wanted her to work. Either way, he sounds like an asshole. Like he has shrivel up dyck syndrome.

  • HIS4EVA

    tracey might give him a run for his money now. they cut from the same cloth

  • Cricket404

    Poor thing. I think he did her wrong, Deion is no saint. Married 15 years to a multimillionaire should mean something to the courts. What is she supposed to do? Get a bus pass and go to nursing school? I hate this for her, I know he causes her mental illness. He moves on and has another woman taking care of his children because she cant afford it Broadcasts this new woman who was also a video girl but was married to a docile man that funded her ideas. Deion is controlling! I’m willing to bet that if she wanted to work he would not let her. He’s a snake!

  • Brook York

    That’s what I’m saying. ..smh.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Why did I think that was Jigsaw in your avi ??

  • melissaisasnob

    That’s what I was saying on the 50 cent thread. Women better watch out. Most of the time men do not ask for custody but when they do they usually get it. If not all 50/50 and when it’s 50/50 hardly any money exchange hands. If I had a rich man’s baby he wouldn’t know about it for at least 4-5 years. Long enough that the court will say I have the bond with the child. Then again, I wouldn’t get pregnant on purpose.

  • millz

    Must be the money ???

  • HIS4EVA

    he’s def doing on purpose, like i made u and without me your nothing. i think one point he would bless her if she continued to “BLESS” him. DISGUSTING

  • Cricket404

    Deion is controlling, if she wanted to he probably would not let her.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I wanted to marry his greasy headed, gaudy jewelry wearing, self centered ass. Him and John Starks were my Athletic bae’s.

  • HIS4EVA

    UH UH THATS HIM?

  • Cricket404

    Shaq wasn’t controlling as Deion. Deion the type that will pay off the preacher before church on Sunday to get a sermon on obedient wives.

  • SummerBaby

    Why is she paying $400 in childcare & her youngest is 12?! ?

  • melissaisasnob

    That’s what I said. We don’t know if he mentally abused her and expected her to stay home and watch his children. He supposedly is worth 40 Million. He can give her something yearly.

  • AnonymousRose

    right, they don’t want that black money circulating in the black community, they given kids to daddy, daddy go find a white woman, teach your sons to get a white woman, that way black babies are not born as much, well not wealthy ones for that matter, just the poor black ones, but we dont count, we dont have millions…..SAD

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    My dad use to tell me “People treat you the way you allow them to treat you.” If he didn’t “let” her do anything and she didn’t like it she should have moved on a long time ago. She signed a prenup with a million dollar sign on bonus. I’m sorry she wasn’t smart enough to pick better back then but we all make our beds and have to sleep in them. I can’t stand him but, at the same time… she needs to consider this a hard ass lesson and move on. She should write a book or become a speaker to women who have been in her situation or something. I mean there is SOMETHING this woman could be doing by now instead of beating a dead horse. Insanity – when you keep doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    This is a perfect example of bad pussy management. Every woman she have a stash especially if you have kids :coffee: #grownfolksshyt

  • Cricket404

    He came for her as most do. Not her fault she’s gorgeous.

  • VV

    He will get his one day. He has always rubbed me the wrong way. His is arrogant. These kids with Pilar are already starting to resent him. She is no saint but he sure had a lot of control over her. He didn’t want her to work when they were married but know he expects her to do so and pay him millions. He couldn’t even keep Prime Prep together. He’s a snake. I work in the building were they officed for the school and they never had anything nice to say about this man. He treats people like property.

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    Why does she need childcare if she ain’t got no damn job, he has sole custody of the boys, and she only has the daughter 50% of the time??

  • SummerBaby

    I thought she was dating Slim the brother of Birdman. I think Deion did her wrong, but I don’t understand being with a man that knows how to get money & not learning a trick or two of your own. ?

  • Miany

    Who d wade baby mama with? Spill tea hun….Ion curr bout the break baby mama eother…only spill tea if it’s bout the original bm siovaughn (sp)

  • harley_quinn2.0

    From what I remember of their first reality show, she was cleaning that big arse house from top to bottom, cooking, and etc. I don’t think he allowed her to do much outside of the home. I think the marriage came apart around the time she did that football wives reality show. I don’t think he approved. Deion is very domineering.

  • SummerBaby

    True indeed ?

  • AnonymousRose

    “Is he a Christian? The Christian to do would be to bring about harmony”.

    ………………the world is full of christians Still no harmony, these folks call themselves Christians are Full of chyt

  • HIS4EVA

    and this the last i wanna hear about pilar begging. u just gave her some great ideas in there. #nomo! (birdmanvoice)

  • Cricket404

    She did, but she got caught up with the Black Hebrews which just subjected her to more brainwashing.

  • SandrasNewFave

    Ah naw naw naw, its the break baby’s mama. Her original baby daddy was Damon Wayans Jr.

  • SandrasNewFave

    I get that. But that ship has sailed. She needs to take that gorgeous elsewhere. Somebody wants it. She don’t have to stay begging Prime Time.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Were talking about a women that was married to a rich man for 15 years, and has nothing to show for it. She isn’t that bright apparently. She doesn’t even have a secret stash of luxury items to quietly auction off. So I’m not rooting for her she’s a fool. That ASSumed her looks would feed her for life. Welp she met her match in dick head Deion. Check and mate.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Speaking of athlete ex-wives, whatever happened to Siovaughn Wade?

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Baby girl 12 with plenty of older sibs and common sense, plus her mama don’t work. What child care?

  • Miany

    Oh ok..so break bm BEEN a groupie out here….Wade was just the come up.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Real dirty…Sicced some high power attorneys on her behind. No way she can afford to compete with that.

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    AGREED!

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    She got comfortable Summer :( Sitting at home for 15 yrs and didn’t even think to take a class or two or start a businesss *SMDH* Just cute and dumb

  • SandrasNewFave

    Precisely. I don’t even know her name. But I know who her baby daddies are. That’s good management skills.

  • Finding Forever…

    MUSSST BE THE MONEEEAAYY…THAT’S TURNIN THEM ON…WHAT A SONG, LOL… HAVE YOU SEEN THOSE FANGAS? JUST IMAGINE…OH NEVER MIND(see pic)? LOL…
    3 Kids + 14/15 Years of Marriage + 0 Employment Experience + 29 K in Debt = A DESTITUTE GROWN WOMAN, LIVING WITH HER MOM & SISTER WITHOUT A POT TO PISS IN OR A WINDOW TO THROW IT OUT OF…SAFE TO SAY SHE’S VERY SCARECROW LIKE–IF SHE O-N-L-Y HAD A BRAIN…At least she’s got looks, LOL…I GUESS–USE WHAT-CHA-GOT, TO GET WHAT-CHA -WANT!

  • SummerBaby

    What health insurance she got that only cost $9.00 a month? I need that hook up. She on ObamaCare? ?

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    Co-sign that Deion is a snake; however, like attracts like in my opinion. She wasn’t the first wife, I think he was married for 10yrs before her. She witnessed his petty firsthand in the way he dissed and dismissed the previous Mrs. in order to put her in that spot. Having understood the type of slimy mofo she was laying with, you’d think she’d have prepared herself better for the potential demise of their marriage… -IJS

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Slim aka Lerch is so damn scary looking ugh!

  • melissaisasnob

    I don’t really like the term gold digger. The most disrespected person in America is the black woman (isn’t that what is said in Bey’s song). Is a football player not a gold digger when he is paid millions for playing football. Is some CEO not a gold digger when he is paid millions for charging everyone outrageous prices for electricity? Let a black woman want what white women have had for years (to stay at home with her children) and she is a gold digger. Or just stay at home and keep house for her man. It comes off distasteful because we see her “flaunting” her name brand purses and shoes and sunglasses. And you know what, she should get a job. She should get an education and pay someone, maybe even a white woman to keep her house. Then when he acts a fool she will not have employment gaps and she can keep her head above water. Maybe. I don’t know. Did people call Angela Bassett’s character in Waiting to Exhale a gold-digger? Didn’t she stay home with her children before her man ran off with a white woman? I do know there wouldn’t be a supply if there wasn’t a demand.

  • Miany

    I think she’s older and it’s wearing on her now…she would have to find an OLDER baller like 60 or so..he will put her on trophy status…younger ballers will likely fugg her and leave her penniless.

  • SummerBaby

    +1

  • HIS4EVA

    in denial or think her stuff is da bomb.my grandma used to say – Girl we all got the same thang!

  • Miany

    True!!! All she needed was a safety deposit box. Stop with all the shopping if he give u 5k to spend on rodeo drive a week, use 4 put 1 in the safety deposit box…oh baby I lost that necklace u gave me last month (shii chilling in the safety deposit box ready to be sold off to the highest bidder in the event of divorce.)

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Hail naw bwahhahhhh

  • millz
  • Cricket404

    Truth, but men lie. He saw her in a video and tracked her down and probably brainwashed her with his charm and money. She was his wife. Kobe married a video girl too, can you imagine him doing this to his wife?

  • HIS4EVA

    Let a black woman want what white women have had for years (to stay at home with her children) and she is a gold digger. – DEEP

  • Sexy CJ

    Pilar Sanders says she’s penniless. The 41-year-old former reality TV star is appealing her divorce judgment in which she got nothing and owes Deion millions.

    Pilar informs the court that she has had to take out a $15k loan for expenses, owes $3k to Target, $5k to Visa and $6k to Sam’s but can’t afford to pay any of those bills and has had to take loans from family through the years and can’t pay them back……….

  • Finding Forever…

    Somewhere living with her momma, too…I would guess…CLEARLLLYY both of them NEVVVEAA sought out the wisdom of Juanita/Shaunie…add Allison Mathis (Chris Bosh ex) & Royce Reed (Dwight Howard ex) to thee List-of-Fools-Screwed-Twice-by-an-Athlete list, LOL…

  • Sexy CJ

    ***********

  • HIS4EVA

    STOP!!!!!!!

  • Cricket404

    And he took her babies and brainwashed them like Master P and Dwayne Wade did their children. Black woman are the most disrespected woman on the planet!

  • Sexy CJ

    *********

  • Brook York

    I can imagine how nasty their arguments are…smh.

  • melissaisasnob

    She needs to go to school and learn how to write a book about this mean fool.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Wait, I’m not done:
    Home Shopping Network Face/Body/Host for athletic wear, hair products and cosmetics
    tv comercial model
    Some random on Empire
    Infomercial host
    come on.. let’s give her some real ideas. You never know what might help someone.

  • http://disqus.com/ yoliewinecorporation

    IMO I never could stand Dieon dude always thought her was the sh it. Goes to show always have a back up. Never know what’s on a negro mind especially when you a stay at home mom. I guess that’s how Dieon and Tracy Edmonds hooked up BabyFace ex wife

  • Finding Forever…

    Anything would HEEEELP at this point in time…

  • SummerBaby

    Exactly Toya Wright style.

  • Sexy CJ

    Deion Sanders sued Pilar for abusive behavior and for defaming him in interviews. He was awarded $2.2 million and sole custody of his 2 sons….. & joint custody of their daughter Shelomi……..

  • THE Queen

    cam baby mama gonna be just like this, except for the truth is won’t be no divorce cause he aint marrying her

  • Sexy CJ

    ########

  • SummerBaby

    I honestly feel bad for her. I hate to see a dude treat the mother of his kids like this.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Vanessa got Beans by the balls. She got him to abandon his people and put himself up for adoption. I loathe Beans and I hope when Dracula aka Vanessa is ready to leave her and her family bleed him dry.

  • SandrasNewFave

    True. But between getting a job, riding old dack, and begging Prime Time…I’d kick it at the country club.

  • HIS4EVA

    I agree these are all attainable. hell, if NENE no fashion salf can sell shi*, so can she. But sadly it seems like others are saying she is just a pretty face. NO SUBSTANCE.

  • http://disqus.com/ yoliewinecorporation

    He’s a lowdown jerk

  • melissaisasnob
  • SummerBaby

    Dead

  • HIS4EVA

    wus that for?

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    It’s how she went about getting him and what she expected before she had his children that make some people give her that term I think. It’s easy to defend a situation when you put race in it. What you described doesn’t make a white women not a gold digger if her intentions were to get with a rich man and live a lavish lifestyle with him forever without having to do much. Gold digger turned housewife does happen. I’m not sure if she was one or not when they met but she sure was quick to take that million to sign that prenup she didn’t read. That was just a poor choice. I think that is what did her in from jump.

  • Finding Forever…

    Almost $30 K in debt, she could have gone to a community college for less…ICDC still in open enrollment–GOOOOO BE GREAT, PILAR…

  • melissaisasnob

    Are you serious? If you are, it’s to seek financial aide for college. She has no income therefore she will have a 0 contribution and will qualify for a pell grant and student loans and can get a degree and get a job. You are never too old to go to school. Community college can be your friend.

  • HIS4EVA

    no not serious

  • melissaisasnob

    lol

  • HIS4EVA

    back at cha 😉

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    LMAO @ ICDC – they’re bout to close down.

    http://www.forgivenessdocuprep.com/icdc-secretly-closing/

  • shun king

    She good she is Birdman dick sucker now

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    She took a Million bucks and signed a prenup with out reading it? ? What an idiot! If she were smart she would’ve deposited that money ASAP and let it build. Then 15 years and 0 dollars later she wouldn’t be in this mess.

  • Finding Forever…

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    She use to do those work out videos with him. She spoke and had camera presence and moved around just fine.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Pilar if you’re reading this, yes we’re dragging but only because you were married to money long enough to know and do better.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Yup. She should have started a trust in put that money in trust investment account for her and her future kids with that money. It’s not like she needed to spend it from jump.

  • Finding Forever…

    REALLY? Well whata bout…DeVry, University of Phoenix, Strayer, Kaplan? If not there’s ALLLLWAAAYSS a trade school somewhere, LOL…

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    So,so sad. Please get your own, please!! That way YOU will have whether they do or not!!!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Damn! She had some many opportunities and didn’t utilize any. I can’t feel sorry for her at all, she didn’t look out for herself.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    I’m going home to kiss my husband all in the mouth, happily write that mortgage check for the month, give my pregnant belly a good oil rub and help my 10 year old daughter with her homework. Reading this sh*t all day makes me feel so blessed. Have a great weekend ya’ll!

  • http://www.tiffanyinthecity.wordpress.com/ Tiffanyinthecity

    She better get over it and go find her a rich African. She’s cute – she can bounce back from this an find a sponsor.

  • IamAllnatural

    What a sad situation. This is what happens when you’re grown & 100% dependent. She needs to go back to school & find a job.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    I’m gonna cut Siovaughn some slack….They grew up together, her mama took him in when his own mama was battling addiction. I’m not saying he should be forever indebted to her or her family but them folks did right by him. Now here’s where I have to ease off on the slack: She couldn’t get over the fact that they were no longer together as husband wife. She has multiple degrees. She could and still can do a lot if she gets the help to heal. Her inability to see life without him cost her the children. His arse wasn’t worth losing your kids.

  • Carrington

    A football player, CEO may not be considered a gold digger because they work and EARN those millions. A gold digger is when you only date men who can provide you with HIS gold, and you marry, and have children with, a man you wouldn’t give the time of day if his ass didn’t come with a million dollars or more.

  • Finding Forever…

    Do thee others get slack cuttage, too? LOL…Seriously, he really did play her but do unto others…you know the rest. He BETTA hope Gabby ALWAYS plays nice–you never know!

  • Rahab

    Reality TV is what got her in trouble on Football Wives having no sympathy for the other wives facing financial problems once their husbands stop playing in the NFL.

  • Finding Forever…

    She just needs a pil(l)ar of strength…you’ll get it…just stand on your own, stop relying on the unreliable & do it yourself–YOU’D MAKE BOSSY SOOO PROUD ;)…on a positive note.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    She should of been friends with Shaunie….or paid attention to her.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Only applies to Siovaughn.

  • Vagirl

    andy has houswives dallas now…they need so brown on that show…. find me a realty show or go across the pond and find be a lord or prince and live like a queen…

  • Hugga Bunch

    Shaunie should write a book.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Naive azz Pilar

  • SpideySense

    She didn’t stack for a rainy day and now it’s pouring!

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Wasn’t she smh

  • SpideySense

    Arrogance is my biggest pet peave. Part of the reason i can’t stand Floyd Mayweather and lost respect for Kanye

  • ramosyo

    I think what he did to her is wrong .. She was his wife she wasn’t that crazy when he was with her… She is beautiful hell yes I said it. This is just messed up. He has the $ to humiliate her

  • gail jones

    Exactly, this whole debacle has taken away from her beauty. I thought she was a goddess in “doin it”. Even though I know that she is older, I still think she would be more beautiful, if I didn’t think of this mess when I see her..

  • ReadingUfromTX

    Waylaminute…why she need childcare?! She aint working and she live with momma and em

    And what happened to her clothing/exercise line? I don’t feel sorry for her one bit. She lived in the lap of luxury for years and blew it. Time to re join the working class.

  • Nonya Bizness

    Where do I get some of that $9 Health Insurance? LOL

  • gail jones

    I did too! Lol!

  • gail jones

    Grandma a G!

  • SpideySense

    Zora Neale Hurston said it first in Their Eyes Were Watching God. Beyonce just said what someone else wrote, per usual.

  • ReadingUfromTX

    Yes Deion is a Royal fool

  • gail jones

    Shaunie is the professor “JUST IN CASE: 101”! !

  • gail jones

    Aight nigh!

  • ReadingUfromTX

    From my understanding from watching the show way back when (don’t judge me ha), she graduated from college with a fashion degree or something because she was trying to say she is not just a pretty face. Plus she started an exercise line.

    Anybody else recall this?

  • gail jones

    You stoooooooopid!

  • Ghettogirlpj

    Thank you. Take a page from Carmella Soprano. She took Tony’s money and but in investments all over town.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I would be devastated. Ayesha Curry has the right idea, while they’re all lovey dovey, girlfriend ain’t sleeping on her own success! Deion was a control freak, and she fell for it, shopping, private jets, that Amex Black Card, now she’s need some serious higher power intervention. Prayers for her!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Watch Shark Tank, develop a business plan, get a team together, get an idea, work it, use the resources and people you know who GAF, and keep it moving! We know your name, and that’s a big start!

  • Nay

    They both crazy. Although he is a lil lax with his sons, I do love Deion as a father tho. Seems like a lousy, controlling husband who has no problems making a woman pay for not playing by his rules.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    OK….that’s cheaper than what they take outta my check lol

  • Dakota H

    Lol money makes a person highly attractive regardless of how ugly he or she might be. ?

  • Jen_n_juice

    She’ll be on an episode of iyanla vanzant

  • Li

    HOW can she get a loan and not have a job or income?

  • SG

    LOL!!

  • justice4all04

    You stoopid LOL

  • SG

    Terrible! ???

  • Fendi

    Pilar worked before she met Deion. She was a model. She appeared in music videos as well before they married. IDK that he wanted her to work when they were married, which is part of the problem. She started a modeling agency when they were married, which was mentioned on their reality show. She also helped him sell exercise equipment shortly after having a baby. Talk about a post-pregnancy snap back. Pilar was FIT. (I’m sure she still is.) Pilar also starred in the lone season of Football Wives on VH1.

    This jerk had about 140 acres in Prosper, TX. There’s no reason why he couldn’t have built a home on the property for Pilar so she could be close to their children. The kids were featured on his reality show on OWN. The 2 younger kids were adversely affected by the way he treats their mother. This is what Deion does.

    He did worse to his two eldest children by his first wife. They had $2 million trust funds each. He withdrew the money from their trusts and left them with $300,000 each. It’s safe to say the trusts were never for them to begin with.

    I’m not sure if his school exists anymore, but he lost it or almost lost it. He sold that mansion and moved into a smaller home, which isn’t enough room for him and all of his children as well as the kids he cares for. He also had a near-death experience a couple years ago.

    Trust God, Pilar. The road may be rocky, but you can make it.

  • BLOODBLOOD

    B i t c h better get on the pole ??

  • SG

    I agree. He sucks. Arrogance seeps from his pores.

  • SG

    This!! I hate what she is going through but when will women get it through their heads that his past behavior is a good indicator of what he will do to you??? Being beautiful, having the bomb poom poom, cooking and cleaning…..none of that means anything. And it ain’t gonna change him!!

  • SG

    Right. Where you at that you can’t be at home with the child. Better yet, she’s 12! She can stay at home by herself.

  • SG

    Scary ugly!

  • Victorious82

    Pilar didn’t play this right. If my ex had all that money, we gonna be friends. I don’t care how much I dislike him, I’ll play nice. She put that hate on his heart for her. She tried to strong arm the money from him and it blew up in her face. She played dirty and lost. Her bad. She needs to go sign up for a reality show, that’s about all she’s gonna be able to do. I’m sure Bravo will find a spot for her. I bet she’s crazier than Kenya, so that’ll be good tv.

  • Hmmm~?

    Deion ain’t worth anywhere near that much. Pilar lied about that to the court so she’d get more money. He’s worth about $40 mil.

  • Tammy GILBERT

    is she keith sweat ex wife?

  • Tammy GILBERT

    ask luda

  • barbeez

    How does he go to sleep knowing that the mother of his children is poor?

  • God’s child to the end

    May she rest in peace. And you are absolutely right! I never thought of her like that but my granddad ( rip) took good care of my grandma and she him. She always had a car, fly clothes for church on Sunday, cash in her bra and credit cards in her wallet. She was a “G”!

  • product of 79

    LOL draft day… he the O.G. Of stuntin

  • StoneColdLady

    Aren’t we forgetting that she got 1 million dollars with the prenup she agreed to?

  • StoneColdLady

    But according to the prenup that SHE agreed to she was to get 1 million dollars; she decided that she wanted to fight it. She could have used that million and opened a business, made some investments, make another fitness video, something

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!MORE WOMEN NEED TO HEAR THIS. In the words of Aretha Franklin, a rose is still a rose, baby girl, your’e still a flower…….without HIM YOUR LIFE GOES ON!!!!!!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    OKAY!!!!!!!!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Ivana Trump too. She’s the OG. Remember those famous words ” Don’t get mad get everything”.

  • jazmine

    Better get on line and see if one of those Arab rich freaks will have you ?

  • jazmine

    Better get on line and see if one of those Arab rich freaks will have you ?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    lol

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    lol true

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I listened to a blow by blow confessional with them as a couple, what she had to do to get him, and he knew she loved him, and wasn’t just after his money and fame on Christian programs, TBN. He fed her that stay-at-home wife, mom, I got you, us, don’t worry, found religion, just always do what I say! He’s a very weak and domineering man!

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    Dieon don’t give 2 fuccs about pilar existence lol. In fact, while the children might still see pilar a a human and their MOM, Dieon might see a pile of trash?. I’m sure pilar still see her children….on social media

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    Dieon only care about Dieon

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    Dieon only care about Dieon

  • whitty hutton

    He ain’t “brainwashed” her no more than she wanted to brainwashed. The correct term is goldigger…

  • whitty hutton

    He ain’t “brainwashed” her no more than she wanted to brainwashed. The correct term is goldigger…

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    Does she have to leave and forget her children she birthed behind also?

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    Does she have to leave and forget her children she birthed behind also?

  • whitty hutton

    Folks don’t want to hear the truth. Pilar is a gold digger.

  • whitty hutton

    Folks don’t want to hear the truth. Pilar is a gold digger.

  • Taz

    She needs to call Mona Scott 2 get an audition. Bish needs to get a job ASAP!

  • Taz

    She needs to call Mona Scott 2 get an audition. Bish needs to get a job ASAP!

  • gail jones

    Yes

  • product of 79

    Poor thing… Betta get dat butt UP Wally world or suttin ?

  • the guest

    Ayesha Curry is lucky because has a modern husband.

    A lot of these baller wives leave their marriages broke because there was no way to stash for a rainy day under the heel of demanding, controlling, and abusive husbands. Some of these type husbands never let their wives see cash only credit card and material things. It’s no way to live but some feel the lifestyle is a worthy trade off.

  • CosmoBeauty

    Micky D’s is always hiring! No excuse Pilar! Work ain’t honest but it pays the bills??!

  • Vixen

    She needs to find herself a sugar granddaddy….to keep living that lifestyle cause Deion coins in on lockdown.

  • Vonn

    Too many perms and jheri curls.

  • the guest

    He’s a classic abuser.

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    im afraid Dieon might make sure pilar manage to die in a “apparent drug overdose’ soon. Dieon will do everything his 250 millions dollars net worth allow to make sure u eliminate that woman existence to have people forgot there was ever a human being named pilar that bore him 3 children. Pilar best bet might be to run away. His powerful PR team and attorney will strike pilar with a gut punch in 1, 2, 3…

  • PK

    Get a damn job and shut the f up – so sick of these lazy ass women looking for a hand out. Women need to wake the hell up and see that ain’t no such thing as just being a homemaker – you need to make sure your ass has a SKILL or a degree so when your marriage is over you can get back on your own two feet.

  • Entertainment

    Agreed, just say I learned the hard way took me years to bounce back but I did …

  • freelancepimp .

    Pilar suffers from entitlement and thought she was going to get over just because she was a pretty woman. I mean it worked for Amber Rose, Kim Kardashian, Rihanna,,,,. The problem was while she was trying to Amber Rose Dion he got win and dropped her. Dionne wanted a beard (you know before beard meant cover for a gay man when it was considered like an accessory.) Once she started branching out on her own and being famous basically because of his name, it wasn’t what he or she signed up for. Dion is an egomaniac of the highest order. She wasn’t supposed to outshine him.

  • GuestSTAR

    Had she been a white woman, she woulda cleaned his clock in divorce court. Would’ve walked away with alimony and some property. With the exception of Juanita Jordan and maybe a couple others, black women always come out on the short end when divorcing wealthy black men, but the white women end up with millions, SMH.

  • DeNice82

    Lol!!!! You posted the link to apply for financial aid…. I’m weak!!! True she really should write a tell all boom, move to ATL and get on one of those reality shows. I’m sure Mona Scott would employ her and we’d all love to see this

  • DeNice82

    Yep, the HMo plan ,,,, I’m sure $9 is based off of some type of income

  • esh

    trust me, she is not broke. i knew her growing up and she was always one to out shine everyone. she might be down to like 10million in the account. whatever…….

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I agree with you, it’s not easy when you have a very controlling husband. I’ve been there, it made me physically ill, so she has my compassion and empathy! You’re right about the no cash thing, so true. I’ve seen it, and all they have are credit cards, that can be cut-off in a second. Ne-yo’s wife is making sure to not fall into Monyetta’s shoes because it does readily happen!

    But, like you said, they often feel the trade-offs are worth it! I saw Pilar and Deion tell their story with their then pastor, Paula White. He controlled her even before they married, he’s very twisted!

    I hope she starts her own business (sun-glasses, a makeup store, accessories, a catering service, an estate landscaping business, a juice bar and yoga store with merchandise and classes), along with an eStore and Pop-up Retail in various cities! Add a non-profit arm, and help others while helping herself, Beads For Life, etc., Micro Loans, Child Literacy or help to eradicate hungry in the Us! Get some corporate sponsors, hire some people, recent college grads looking for opportunities. People love a good comeback story! I know it’s not easy, given what she’s been through, I would me MAD!

    Phase II. Launch a women’s empowerment series, or participate with existing expos to promote her book about overcoming adversity, how she’s coping or not! Hire a business manager and publicist to start!

    Deion has the money to drag her through the courts for years.

    She has a story to tell and share! Her success will help other women! Her health is at stake! In the natural realm it can seem dismal, but from the supernatural eye (Spiritually), it’s a done deal, she will rise up from this Victoriously!!!

  • JerseyMom

    I am so happy she was reunited with her children after almost a year. Her children look so much happier now they have reunited with their Mom, who was the MAIN parent raising them while the other parent chased fame, women and money.

    I am glad Pilar did not do anymore jail time as the blogs and celebrity gossip sites were anticipating pursuant to the information supplied by DS and his camp.

    My motto: Be a superstar in your home first. #dropsmic

  • Jessica

    Deion seems mean. How can a man treat the mother of his children so badly. Pilar should get a job, go back to school or remarry while she’s still beautiful.

  • Jessica

    Great advice. She can come back from this.

  • Jessica

    No. She can get herself together and have a relationship with her children. It’s time for her to “rise up”, or the stress of this will kill her.

  • Chauncey Brooks

    How come the Moorish Divine (another cult) has not created a Gofundme savings account for parishioner Pilar ? Seems like she struggling worse then illegal immigrants on government assistance and 88 generations of clothed negres in America (since 1619).

  • Dakota H

    I didn’t say forget the children I only was stating about her worrying about Deion and his money. All the time she was sitting at home like others stated she should have been trying to do other things such as schooling and business aspects. That’s why you always have a plan B and C b/c life can take some unpredictable turns left and right.

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    U probably didn’t read the divorce proceeds. Pilar wasn’t allowed to work. Dieon demanded that she only be a wife and mom. She had to turn down lil acting gigs she got. Pilar made a horrible mistake by marrying him. Abusive controlling people don’t just wake up like that. I’m sure he showed many signs. She overlooked everything to be an athlete wife smh

  • the guest

    Amen! We see this. We believe in her. I hope Pilar reads this blog and sees the gift you have given her with this abundant guidance. I hope she sees our understanding of her plight. Not everyone is falling for Dieon’s manipulation and slander. He did the three main Domestic Abuser tactics to punish his wife for wanting to be a whole human being–he took her away her married homemaker identity through divorce, he disenfranchised her, and the most evil thing abusive men do he took her children.

    I would say phase one to your business plan on behalf of Pilar Sanders, is a group of righteous women and men business people need to reach out and mentor her. What Dieon is doing is committing spiritual murder. Pilar’s life is at stake.

  • more

    The age old question of “what’s wrong with just wanting to be a house wife” this right here proves my point. Stop being stay at home wives

  • more

    A classic example of a dumb bish

  • more

    She looks amazing she better use that booty

  • more

    No sympathy for any woman who allows a man to run the household

  • more

    As long as there is p”” sy and weat men. This lifestyle of using a kid to secure a future will never end

  • more

    Agreed the bish though like many woman that staying at home and popping out children and raising them was the right thing to do. Now she learned cold reality

  • MehMeh

    NEVER liked him

  • Lovers & Friends

    Just get another reality show. Or write a book about what you are going through. Her spirit is broken. However she signed up for this when she sold herself for money.

  • the guest

    Luxury lifestyle? Dieon has attacked her base survival.

    He needs to give his ex wife a modest and comfortable home outright, a few thousand dollars per month living money, and he needs to give the children back to their mother.

    Dieon needs anger management and domestic abuse counseling. He’s an evil abusive man and should not be raising those kids full time.

  • StoneColdLady

    I agree great suggestions; but if I’m not mistaken she started all obese court 9 trying to upset tool perino did she signed granting her 1 million dollars

  • Crazy tee

    That is why when you marry him take the money and start businesses…..Have someone run the business when u can’t be there….I wish that was me, I would be running an empire….I probably would have left with the same if not more money then him….I’m always coming up with the next idea to generate more income….

  • Iceman

    Never bite the hand that feed u

  • Yardgirl

    YESSS!! Those kids came back brain washed like they were zombies that hated their father. If I had not seen it I would not have believed it. Next visit she did not want to send them back and he had to go to court. She is NUTS, beautiful but a NUT!!

  • Alisa

    It would be hard if she is blacklisted. Abusers like him are not happy until they hv destroyed your life. They will use every resource they hv to continue the abuse. You are nothing w/o me, I made you. He has the ability to smear her name to make her believe nothing she does will work against him. Who will believe her? Either she tried to hv some type of success w/o him. But also her beauty and fitness was her own she could get attention w/o him. He needs to feel like he is the star he cant hv anyone upstage him. Even with Tracy he cant stand her independence. I dont know how the relationship has lasted. Unless she gave him a chance to get back in the spotlight. With the reality show etc… A real man would hv never shamed her and destroyed her in the public eye. If it was her idea to leave he would mk sure she would pay. Its sad to see the turmoil in that family. He will try to hide any issues but if you know what to look for or if you hv ever dealt with emotional abusers you can see exactly what is going on.

  • Alisa

    You know thats so damn easy to say. Just like if it was physical abuse the 1st thing we hear is ” Aint no man laying hands on me” And why doesnt she do this or that. Typing it and thinking about a situation where you did it or saying its easy is unfair. Emotional abuse or living for years being told your nothing w/o me. Its not the lifestyle your addicted to and if it is she you think its easy to try to figure your way in this world when you hv been broken? Plus how do you recover when your ex has made you look like your damaged goods and everyone should stay away from. With his connections he can make her life miserable. Once you loose your name, your character your reputation its not easy to recover. Im not saying its not possible but its easier said than done.

  • Queen B

    So bih let me get this straight ? U know yo broke ass didnt get any money from the settlement/divorce and u still refused to go get a job?! Stay broke heaux

  • Queen B

    Exactly!!! ??

  • the guest

    Athough I am traditional and believer in traditional famiy, it is not advantageous to a woman to be a housewife. There is no greater gift to a child than stay at home mother. But the vulnerability of devoting life to motherhood is being taken advantage of by abusive husbands. Pilar had no chance in this fight from the start and he knew it. Dieon is a bully. The one thing Pilar devoted herself to Dieon took away. Her children. No woman should ever marry Dieon Sanders.

  • Queen B

    Then she’s an idiot!! Idgaf what my marriage agreement was I wudve been stacking my coins on the side and I wudve had a business n my mami name ??????

  • LiveMelove

    If you marry a millionaire and come out the situation with no stocks, no bonds, no businesses, no money saved in another country and you don’t want to get a job because you think you’re ABOVE everyone else….you basically have what you deserve because you weren’t smart enough to take advantage of the come up.

  • LiveMelove

    Pilar is a very mean person. Very snobby. I’ve been around Deion and fam. He’s a sweetheart that actually does cares about other people and is a business man. You can’t get mad at a man who guarding his coins and Empire from a trifling woman like Pilar. I don’t understand why these dumb women want to be “homemakers” any way. When you don’t make THE money you have no say…duh HE goes to work everyday. His body was taking hits. Not hers. It’s not controlling it’s called go get a JOB and nobody can tell you NO.

  • LiveMelove

    Don’t nobody believe in Pilar. Pilar don’t even believe in Pilar because she doesn’t even want to work for her damn self….so why should anyone care

  • LiveMelove

    Exactly. Only lazy women with no real ambition wants to live off another human being. Than they end up divorcing you with a woman with a career because he with Tracy, Baby face ex wife now and she’s gets her own money and she’s intelligent. These women better learn to be more than a pretty face because men get bored quick with those types

  • LiveMelove

    Pilar was beating on the children. They didn’t want to be with her.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    You almost have to have a home-based or consulting business while being a wife and mom. Higher income households are vulnerable too (jobs outsourced), and men can easily move on! Being married to a brute celebrity like Deion isn’t uncommon, some people are just controlling to toxic and devastating degrees, hence all the m u r d er – s u cides, or women losing custody of their kids. Look at what happened to Mary Harvey, while Steve enjoys a wonderful life with his current wife and family!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    You speak the complete truth, he will try everything to stop her! He has good ole’ TMZ and Harvey to help him, along with many other media outlets. He wants her completely destroyed, but he’s still NOT G O D! He may good pure evil and as dirty as it comes, but he’s not the master! A force greater than him or any of us can and will stop him, I’ve seen it firsthand, along with women who didn’t escape.

    If she affirms “No Weapon Formed Against Me Can Stand Nor Prosper,” and read that 91st Psalm faithfully, it will encourage her, and even if she doesn’t, she has already been delivered, renewed, and restored, it’s decreed and so it is written! We just don’t realize it until we move out of that old zone or step into an another space!

    One person can help her turn this all the way around, in spite of her crazed nemesis! G O D will give him some business!

    Prayers are going up for this woman, mom and human being!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    You’re right, it’s good we’re having this discussion because it’s not easy getting out. I think it’s even worse today because women are more accommodating to live with abuse, share men, and then we see black female celebrities treated like crap (Ciara, and others) or by themselves. So many women try to hold on to the nothingness that they have to be in a relationship or use marriage vows or children as an excuse to take it, when their sons and daughters will most likely pattern after parents. I like your Domestic Abuser Tactics (should be a campaign), we need to share this with our teen girls!

  • the guest

    Yes, you are telling the truth. It’s a blessing we are having this dialogue. I know the truth brought on here has blessed at least one life today.

  • the guest

    Amen. Amen. Amen. Hallelujah!

  • the guest

    Perfectly stated.

  • the guest

    @Rhyme and Reason

    Thank you for the courageous and inspiring insight you have given. It’s a blessing to have people like yourself who see through the smoke and mirrors and speaks the truth. Dieon Sanders is an abuser. Abusers are always nice to everyone except their target. That’s their way of covering up their abuse. My prayers are up for Pilar!

  • the guest

    Deion is evil. What he has done and is doing is pure demonic evil. His whole life is in spite and hatred and vengeance. I don’t put murder past him either.

  • Jackie

    I always wondered what happened the reason Deion wanted and was able to get complete custody of the children, once I heard him say shortly before it was announced that he would be divorcing her “If I wanted a reality star, I would have married one”, so I gather it has something to do with her wanting a career in television or a career period. I often wonder if they discussed this prior to marriage or did she just insist on doing television. At the end of the day, if this matter going on between the to has to to with this, I feel that he caught her asleep behind the wheel. Of course I don’t know what actually happened, but I hate to see him treat her this way and I often wonder if this will come back to bite him, after all he is dealing with the mother of his children, and they are watching!! Believe that, children are sponges. There is no one like mom!!

  • the guest

    “More accommodating to live with abuse, share men…”

    This is such a difficult time in society for women. There is no moral foundation or compass for relationships and it appears women have a choice between abuse or being alone. “Getting wifed” is regarded as winning a competition rather than marriage being what it is a natural and expected stafe in life for both women and men.

  • Blunt

    Pilar never thought in a million years shed end up like this. They appeared onTBN lying before the the Lord.

  • the guest

    People don’t understand that abusive men are controlling to a paralyzing extent. They want control. If a wife is employed that’s less control her abusuve husband has over her.

    Dieon and husbands likes him forbid their wives working and if the wife dare try to be more independent in the marriage the husbands punish them with divorce, displacement, slander, and worst of all threatening and taking the children. Then the husbands slander them as lazy and our society is conditioned to hate and fault women.

    Dieon Sanders doesn’t give a rat’s backside about women’s financial independence. Men like him will start dating financially successful women not cause they respect them but because they don’t have to spend their own money.

    The truest thing you said is Pilar made a terrible mistake marrying an abusive controlling man.

  • the guest

    Thank you so @Alisa and @RhymeandReason for being on this thread and speaking the truth on behalf of the voiceless.

  • the guest

    There are men who ransack homes to find financial documents or who will literally physically assault a wife who they find out is “stashing”. It’s not so easy for some wives to have secret financial lives.

  • the guest

    Tell it.

    Shaq is traditional. Dieon is abusive.

  • the guest

    “A real man would hv never shamed her and destroyed her in the public
    eye. If it was her idea to leave he would mk sure she would pay. He will try to hide any issues but
    if you know what to look for or if you hv ever dealt with emotional
    abusers you can see exactly what is going on.”

    @YoursTrulyAlisa:disqus Thank you for bringing this truth.

  • the guest

    It’s impossible to have a home based or any type of business or even go to school online with an abusive controlling husband who resents and sabotages any progress a wife makes.

  • free

    Cause they sign anything that a lawyer puts in their face. A YT woman will get her daddy’s attorney to review and negotiate.

  • Baron

    Everybody on TBN is a liar

  • Baron

    I vividly remember my mom telling my 3 older sisters to always have your own money. She always had a stash that my dad never knew about and they were married for 30+ years until his death. Please believe my daughters will also receive the same advice.

  • more

    This is why it’s dangerous for a woman to give her all to a man.

  • more

    She wasted to much time on Deon so oh well at this point

  • more

    When you give your all to staying at home with a man you leave yourself vulnerable. It is a huge risk to stay at home and basically have a man earn all the income. ALL woman should work no matter how cool and loving a man is. I know that if i left any relationship i know i wont go hungry or have to beg for some cash to feed me or my child

  • the guest

    Your grandparents are beautiful. This is how marriage is supposed to be.

  • the guest

    Beautifully stated.

  • Love Lisa

    Y this comment made me laugh. Say it like u feel it.

  • stanley

    Lol He must of had a good lawyer for her to be married for 15 yrs and didn’t get any money ???

  • rodt

    you notice all the mofos that had jerry curls outside cube bald now

  • Guest who

    She can recover she may not have assets but she’s still a beautiful woman that can marry well. Sorry that may be her only recourse if she does not want a 9-5. White women do it all the time keep marrying rich men. Ask Kimora Lee if she was gonna marry a average man. Rich only

  • MsVet

    I hate to see these men with money do that to their children’s mother, he did it Steve Harvey, Dwayne Wade. They get the children and leave them with nothing since they have the money to get the top lawyers and make the Mother look like she’s the bad person when most times those women love their children.

  • the guest

    I respectfully beg to differ.

    It is noble and honorably self sacrificing to give oneself entirely to their family and family home.

    There are homemakers with doctorate degrees, successful home based businesses from Avon to six figure consulting, and those genius at family care and management on which a price can’t be placed.

    However, Homemakers married to mentally and emotionally and economically abusive men are not lazy, they are oppressed. They couldn’t self actualize and succeed if they want to and if they try they are threatened with debilitating divorce (divorce doesn’t have to be debilitating) and their children being taken away. This plight is specific to marriage to abusive controlling men who take advantage of the noble priceless job of homemaking.

    Tracy Edmonds is not superior, her first husband Babyface wasn’t abusive and controlling and even let her manage his business affairs in addition to her building her own businesses.

  • the guest

    He needs to move on from his spiteful and vindictive campaign of destruction against his former wife of 15 years. He needs to find peace within himself and be supportive of the woman who raised his children from other relationships and bore him three children. He needs to return their children to their mother and harmoniously co parent with her the same way his live in divorced lover has her children and is supported by her former husband.

    After 15 years of marriage, a wife does not have to succumb to poverty. There are marriage and divorce laws in this country that Dieon is breaking. She is in her right and is owed due process in seeking justice she is owed from the civil and family courts.

    While she is seeking justice she deserves, she should secure a stable middle class upscale lifestyle of her own but she should not stop seeking justice she is owed.

  • wshh administration

    Deion u is cold as ice
    Ur willing to sacrifice

  • Jozie723

    She was married to him for a long time. Gave him three beautiful children. I think he should have made sure she was taken care of. I think that’s what a real man does. Money is nothing but your children should live well no matter if they are with you or mom.

  • softness1

    She never explained why she can’t work…

  • Jozie723

    Taking care of your family is a job. Not an easy one either. People need to respect the role of a home maker more. Giving up your own dreams and goals for your family is the ultimate sacrifice.

  • God’s child to the end

    Amen

  • MistaO

    A lot of times these females are bad and set up their own mess. Most men would look after the ex wife. But if she did dirt, that’s another story

  • Guess Who

    I have never seen a wife EPICALLY FAIL with a divorce settlement from a football player! WOW! Well, can she talk? I am sure some call centers are willing to hire her, IJS.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Indeed, I know how difficult it can be. Often women are afraid to lie or mislead because of fits of rage or anger. It’s so easy to get hooked on the potential of what things could be, his good side that we get stuck, and before we know it, discarded and replaced. Through programming and conditioning, men like Deion accomplish their goals.

    People will criticize Pilar for not wanting to work now that her life has crumbled, but conditioning makes it hard, and the unfairness of it all. Plus, I’m sure he’s told anyone he could not to help or employ her. Her story will help other women, everything happens for a reason! Yeah, she could get a retail job, but the humiliation alone, I just can’t imagine. That was always his intention, to humiliate and degrade her whenever she tried to emancipate herself!

    I don’t judge her, we have to teach our young girls that men or boys do what we allow (that superstar, jock, bus driver, or thug will either move on or give-in to your reasonable requests), and it only gets worse when we try too hard, and compromise ourselves to such debilitating levels! Deion went from Pilar to Tracy Edmonds, and we can imagine he doesn’t treat her in the same manner, and she’s probably a lot like him, cold and self-absorbed!

    Women (2016) have to either find a way (put aside fear), and stash some cash, secretly, get a separate identity, mailing address, or PO Box, website, blog (about parenting, cooking, homemaking, beauty or fitness, etc that later can be monetized), credit in your maiden name (if possible), know where you can get the most for your jewelry, purchase gift cards when you can, and exchange them for cash, establish a relationship with a banker using a non-profit 501C3 (FIGHT for something to do), or end up living like Julia Roberts’ film sleeping with the enemy (a scary movie), or out on the streets with nothing, if that day comes!

  • more

    Thank you love

  • Rosalie Parker

    She has to get a job – the party’s over. Welcome to the real world. There of millions of people struggling but they do the best they can and go to work every day. If she can’t hook up with another rich man to afford her the lifestyle to which she is accustomed she has to get a 9 to 5.

  • millz

    You think so?

  • more

    Ok than don’t cray when u have nothing to show for your home making years

  • more

    Lmaooooo tell em how it’s done

  • Jozie723

    Happy well rounded children is the ultimate reward.

  • Mika

    Exactly. Been there done that. 24yo to darn near 30. I tried 2 be perfect in every way, but it wasn’t about that. He wanted to destroy everything about me. It took loosing my child and father within 6 months to awaken me.

    I was taught 2 never quit. I was taught 2 sacrifice yourself 2 the greater good. My parents were together over 40 yrs, so for me divorce was not an option. I suffered, and smiled through. No fun!

    My baby and my father via God’s grace saved me! I let it all go, and I can truly say I’m FREE. I have bad moments, but not days, and that is kool wit me.

    I realized my greatness and Im living in it. I miss my “mini me, and papa” everyday, but without the loses, I would hv most likely died.

    Real talk.

    Women and Men choose your partners seriously and strategically. No games. Be real, and open your eyes.

    A broken heart and soul is not easy to mend.

    Smooches.

  • Mika

    Bless you hunny. Bless you and your knowledge.

    No weapon! Its the truth and it is written.

    Bless you…

  • Oliver

    why should he be expected to take care of her financially, she has no money she needs 2 get a job, she got comfortable in living the life of luxury and now she has to face real world problems, the luxury life is over.

  • Oliver

    I agree 100% she’s not entitled to living a life of luxury

  • Oliver

    easy he lays down and closes his eyes, it’s not his job to financially support her. If she has no money she should get her ass a job that’s how it works in the real world, the life she was living was a fantasy world now she lives in the real world.