The Sweetest Day

While perusing through my comments one day, I read a comment that mentioned the Sweetest Day holiday. Having never heard of such a holiday, I Googled it.

Sweetest Day is a holiday that began in the Northeast/Great Lakes region, specifically in Cleveland, Ohio in the 1800s.

The holiday falls on the third Saturday in October. Basically, it is similar to Valentine's Day: a day to love on your sweetie.

In the black community Sweetest Day is celebrated as a day to spoil and pamper husbands and boyfriends. It is the one day of the year when black women will consent to being submissive to their men.

On any other day, being "submissive" is a cuss word.

Imagine if every day was Sweetest Day in the black community.

There would be no more broken homes; women would mind their men and not talk back; children would have manners and respect for their elders.

If we can do better for one day, we can do better every day.

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  • iyonah

    Lol...

  • SaharabutnotKdry

    Lmao!
    Who hurt you Sandrita?

  • Sucker Free

    Auntie u tried it...lol

    Sweetest day is for anyone u want to show love to...and yes you should show your loved ones that you love them everyday

    This saturday is a Prince Tribute concert here in Cleveland...its gonna be lit for the Purple One ????

  • hi-liter

    Fictional Holiday.

  • Lovemelovebody

    Those burnt ass pancakes ???

  • Gamer?? Chick

    I don't celebrate that day I do sweet shyt all the time?

  • Zane

    Half of these ninjas ain't got ish to submit to , yet they want 100% from the woman.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

    Whelp ladies and gentlemen, it's been fun. I've been waiting on this open post so I can cuss this OLD heffa out. Ms Freeze Curl 2002 finna get served?? Gimme a minute, brb????

  • hottlanta

    I was having a Civil War, Harriett Tubman slave moment when she use the word "submissive". She is great to use the words "Sweetest Day" and submissive in the same sentence and make it sound loving. Oscar nomination at it's best.

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    I can't wait???!!

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Attack black people "Open Post"Sandra you are something else.

  • Smartypants

    I'm taking hubby on a brunch cruise. I cooked for him last night, too. Shoo. Crown me!

    Jk!

    If you don't have anybody spend $$$ on yourself!

  • hi-liter

    Donald Glover, Girlfriend and brand new baby. I bet he hasn't had a black girlfriend since he was in elementary school. I still fuuks with ATLANTA. The last episode was a trip.

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  • Smartypants

    Some people like them crispy. Not everybody wants limp pancakes. I love them with crisped edges!

  • Queen B

    I have a friend that lives in Michigan and he was telling me about this shît ? I spoil my man and treat him well everyday. When he's getting off work at 3am in the morning im up fixing his plate to feed him, take off his socks and clothes, and getting in the shower to bath him....EVERYDAY!!

  • Smartypants

    I'm fourfiveseconds from wilding. Coworker planned something but in doing everything.

    Who hiring?

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    Lol!! In my house we say "no light skin pancakes"!!!??

  • Zane

    First, the circumstances in the black community need to be examined before you come for black women. Black men must better themselves before they expect a woman to submit to them. The man is suppose to lead---provide. However, they lack those capabilities. I believe it's because black women don't expect them to.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    The man who lives with me better take that breakfast I cook for his ass EVERY day except when I am mad and keep it moving. Today he got cussed out and MAGICALLY..EYE got breakfast. Why cant every day be like that without me having to cuss his ass out?

  • A.P. Millz-CT

    Freeze Curl tho?? Lmaoooooooooooooo

  • Tammie Reed

    I'm from Cleveland,Ohio born and raised. its NOT just an African American holiday lol. It was for "everyone" and we celebrated it yearly. I don't do it anymore because ofcourse I'm down here in Atlanta but I do remember it well! Its still a big deal like Valentine's Day. They have cards printed and people get gifts and go out to dinner. Folks get in their feelings if you forget it too lol.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Ex (library man) is from Pittsburgh and they celebrate this. How I originally learned about this. After he told me what it was I was like but folks run around here and holler they dont celebrate Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter bc they are commericalized or "the white mans holiday" or blip blap boop and yet some celebrate this mess. I aint here for it.

  • Buttercup

    So how would lesbians like yourself help the black community?

  • Antigone Heart

    People should put their stock in their faith, not a date labeled by man on a calendar.

    The clout is in adhering to [martial] vows, unbridled faith, and not committing to social extravagances.

  • Low E. TUH!

    Imagine if every day was Sweetest Day in the black community.
    -
    TRIED THIS, DIDN'T WORK. I WAS RANDOM GIFTS SH

  • Zane

    ??

  • A.P. Millz-CT

    This chick said, "Imagine if every day was Sweetest Day in the black community.
    There would be no more broken homes; women would mind their men and not talk back; children would have manners and respect for their elders." Whaaatttt????? Sandra, what's wrong baby?? LOL I'm not even going to get blocked taday.

  • Buttercup

    Don't do it Miss Celie!

  • Teresa Uriel

    this is a good thing to do for a RIGHTEOUS man.

  • Str8tUpMenace

    A Black Woman

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    Te he he ???

  • SaharabutnotKdry

    Caaaleaarlyyy

  • Str8tUpMenace

    In the black community Sweetest Day is celebrated as a day to spoil and pamper husbands and boyfriends. It is the one day of the year when black women will consent to being submissive to their men.

    On any other day, being “submissive” is a cuss word.

    Imagine if every day was Sweetest Day in the black community.

    There would be no more broken homes; women would mind their men and not talk back; children would have manners and respect for their elders.
    ______________________________________

    Here you go with this foolishness

  • A.P. Millz-CT

    I can't even watch the show and look at his character the same after seeing knowing about this.. UGh But, I do love the show..

  • ………

    LMAO

  • Incog-knee-gress

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sweetest_Day
    I Googled too. It is a picture on there.

    "The 12 Cleveland committeemen who planned Cleveland's Sweetest Day, as published in The Cleveland Plain Dealer on October 8, 1922."

    Guess what color they are. This is the epitome of the white mans holiday. FOH.

  • Mimi Pardue

    I just love how a woman who has no use for real peen constantly tells womens who love peen how to keep peen. CHILE CHEESE! So if our mother's had bought our daddy's a fresh pair Reebok classics, a new Atari and gave him our food stamp book, there wouldn't be so many single mother's???? Enlighten me huntee

  • Howard Alum ?

    Lol, I ? that picture too.

  • Gamer?? Chick

    He comes off as the awkward black guy the black chicks probably clowned him wouldn't give home the time of day or raised around him. Either way I expected him to doesn't bother me just don't start tap dancing Donald.

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    There would be no more broken homes; women would mind their men and not
    talk back; children would have manners and respect for their elders.
    ------------------
    Being submissive does all of this? That sounds ridiculous. Almost as ridiculous as assuming black women aren't submissive.

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/7e8946a6681f47ecbd0eb53d5c7e914c9f83ac65a82c56c2f7b47a13999c3fb2.jpg

  • free

    is it true it's just for guys?

  • mainey

    Atlanta is my show! Cute family.

  • hi-liter

    "Except when I am mad"............................You suppose to turn the other cheek.

  • Sucker Free

    The crispy edges are the best part

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • hi-liter

    Yeah, great show.

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL
  • Sucker Free

    Or your parents or your kids

  • free

    DEAD!!! my mama made them small, dark, and hard. then i got my first mcdonalds pancake and told her i wanted my shyt to look like mcdonalds lol. suffice it to say, she never made me another pancake. had to get up and cook my own shyt.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    So if our mother's had bought our daddy's a fresh pair Reebok classics, a new Atari and gave him our food stamp book, there wouldn't be so many single mother's?
    _____________
    Comment of the damn DAY.

  • iSaiditFIRST

    THIS RIGHT HERE!!! YASSS!! PREACH!!!

  • SameoleJ

    Imagine if every day was Sweetest Day in the black community.

    yes, keep imagining!! TUH

  • hi-liter

    I agree. That's why I said he ain't had a black girlfriend since elementary school.

  • Sexy CJ
  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    I'm more concerned about the shirt he has on and about the stride of his walk captured in this picture. LOL

  • Sexy CJ
  • LuLu

    I'm becoming more and more convinced this is a person of another color running this blog. No WAY would a black woman repeatedly demean her own kind.....right?

  • Nophucksgvn

    Ctfu. My aunt says the same thing.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Sandra why all this bs shade aganist women of color? #SelfHateIsSad

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I'm submissive everyday ... he spoils me I spoil him ..... hell but I ain't cheap nor is my bew ... we love flowering each other with many things not just material either . I learned from my parents https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/cda4925ca1d357264787be9b5ccd589f4b0940cb9442847e1840c0a193a331e3.gif

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    HA!!!!

    Now stop trying to rationalize irrational shyt. That's not how this blog works!

  • hi-liter

    Yeah, he is different. I remember back a few years ago when it was said that he is au-natural and doesn't wear deodorant.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Let me say this: a woman can do everything 100% right and do everything her man told her to do and he will still cheat if he wanted to. Being submissive does not prevent anything. I hope people don't see the igronance Sandra writes and believe it. So sad.

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    Not Jed Clampett??

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    That could be an I smell walk. I can see that.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Imagine if every day was Sweetest Day in the black community.
    There would be no more broken homes; women would mind their men and not talk back; children would have manners and respect for their elders.
    If we can do better for one day, we can do better every day.
    ______________________________
    Up here sounding like the Beatles. The dead Beatles called Paul and Ringo. They want their song back.
    Imagine no possessions
    I wonder if you can
    No need for greed or hunger
    A brotherhood of man

    Imagine all the people
    Sharing all the world

  • https://www.styleseat.com/Bellaxpress Danay Helena

    I thought only ppl from the MidWest celebrated this...I know in Ohio it's really popular

  • SameoleJ

    I tried the submissive route.....

    Him: You should let me be the man and lead!
    Me: Where are we going/headed/striving for?
    Him: Huhn?
    Me: Welp that ends that trial basis.

  • SandrasNewFave

    Imagine a man who doesn't need haircut & breakfast money because he is rewarded and appreciates his woman's loyalty, intelligence and hard work. Imagine men who don't play video games and would rather spend time. Imagine men who only have one woman to praise and be praised by. Not spreading seed, lies and heartbreak. Trust & believe submission is reserved for men, not these tall boys.

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    Open post. He/She can do it and I'm here for it. I have about 30 minutes.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    A Rose on here did everything she could for an ex Rose and he still turned out to be a total POS. Man please.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Say this.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    dhfjsdfjshjshjhjkshjkhjsfsj Lmao. I am HOLLERING.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Can be the head and lead if your always being the ass. IJS

  • Buttercup

    You can't expect me to follow if you don't know how to lead.

  • SameoleJ

    And I ain't following you blindly!! You better have a course of action----pull up Google Maps and let that bish voice start giving directions!!

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Was fussing with me and another Rose bout old boy. She was serious about him and he was still a POS. That submissive shyt don't stop shyt. Man please.

  • SandrasNewFave

    Can't handle mine if you ain't handling yours. Humph!

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    I've heard of this. I will celebrate a Sweetest day as soon as they create a-salute-a-black-woman-as-a-queen-and-bow-down-to-mother-earth-and-not-deserved-to-be-cheated-on-and-treated-subservient-or-else-i'll-leave-her-for-a-white-woman Day....oh you say there is no such a thing? Welp, looks like I won't be doing no celebrating.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    All of this.

  • Jen_n_juice

    WIVES be submissive to your HUSBAND not a righteous man. .... just pray your husband is a righteous man

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Lol. This write up is hilarious. Pure comedy!

    Anyways, I love being submissive. Who among ye does not want to be submissive?

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    Yep, turn that cheek over on your pillow and get you some rest til he get some act right! Breakfast every day is a privilege! Better show some reciprocity & appreciation!

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    I'll let a man lead but as soon as he fawks up or shows me he's not about shyt... I become the lead and lead myself right out of that relationship.

  • hi-liter

    Ladies, do yall see this chit?

    Trump backers call for end to women's vote with #RepealThe19th

    Some of Donald Trump's supporters have taken to Twitter to call for a repeal of the 19th Amendment in response to a FiveThirtyEight electoral map that showed his Dem rival would win by a landslide if only women voted.

    The trending hashtag #RepealThe19th calls for an end to the amendment that granted women the right to vote.

    According to the FiveThirtyEight's maps, if just women voted, Democrat Hillary Clinton would win with 458 electoral votes to her rival's 80. If just men voted, the map shows Republican Donald Trump would win 350 electoral votes to Clinton's 188.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Ok! Child please.

  • SandrasNewFave

    Aaa ha ? Ha ha ha ???

  • SameoleJ

    And there it is!!

  • Buttercup

    He'd try to repeal the 13th as well. Sadly, some folks would love to see us back in chains.

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    I'm saying...some folks be out of their rabid azz mind. Make a holiday out of anything!

  • iscream

    I guess it's safe to say big business doesn't know about this day because I'm sure they would find a way to capitalize off of it.

  • Teresa Uriel

    LoL....yeah that verse is referring to husbands in the Truth (righteous husbands ) who are aware that God can KILL THEM for fornication & Adultery...this is what the Fear of the Lord is

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Not ONE thing

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    I can't take advice serious from someone who A) Is not in a relationship with a man and don't wanna be. B) Is not in any type of relationship at all.

  • SandrasNewFave

    Please speak that. I was tired of being the everything. It's nice to ride shotgun. Great to not figure it all out. Fantastic to suggest and fall back. Supreme to be respected for my role.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    ??

  • Teresa Uriel

    like Sam said above, it is a waste of time doing these things for a lustful nigga, or abusive nigga, or a Bum nigga

  • SandrasNewFave

    Of course. Keep it simple. Have anniversaries.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Some folks are just BROKEN peepa.

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    I can do bad by my damn self. I don't need any company in my misery.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Every woman with a family that I know, runs the ship.

  • Sucker Free

    No its just like valentines day...its for everyone

  • SameoleJ

    I am barely submissive to myself......talk myself out of shiat everyday.

    Right side side of brain wanna party and buy shoes

    Left side like- Naw, Bish we got bills and you have to go to work in the morning.
    Right side: you never submit to me
    Left side: If I did we would be homeless
    Right side: But we would have great shoes
    Left side: That is true

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Ok! Jumping from house to house like a flucking flee then marrying a.....nevermind

  • CaliVirgo

    Spoken like a true virgo?

  • LibraGirlonly

    Obviously you know nothing about the real teachings of Ancient Africans were the female is regarded in high esteem!!!' This American culture And teachings are badly distorted versions of Ancient Kemetic teachings but hey stay ignorant if you will.

  • SandrasNewFave
  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    You know how we do! :)

  • SameoleJ

    Plus I don't nobody drinking half my bottle!! Leave me and my wine A---LONE!!

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    Can you run round the corner and get me some donuts from Carolina whatever? I want 1 dozen donut holes. Then can you swing to Starbucks and get me a tall blonde with cream only?

  • Jen_n_juice

    It's a waste of time doing wife duties to any man who is not your husband (or nigga since you clearly like those). He can and will still leave you for the one God sent him

  • Teresa Uriel

    Christ and Paul were not in a relationship with women, but more than half the Bible is them giving the commandment on how to conduct yourself in a marriage...

    DO NOT do these good sweet things to a Lustful nigga, or Abusive nigga, or a Bum nigga!

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    If that's not enough...the woman is always the one doing the most when HE Friggin forgets! lolol

  • Lurk_Mode_Off

    I agree with this tho. You already kno being submissive a curse to black women. Lol. some should try it out. May mess around and keep a man. Lol

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Hell naw.
    What a tall blone is? Its Pumpkin Spice Latte season ANYWAY

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    The constant struggle.

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    ...and I hear this is the say that men look forward to because they look forward to the one day of a guaranteed blow job...hell out of here.

  • SandrasNewFave

    ????????

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    My father drives and Bew drives .... I help navigate same with my mother

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Christ was giving the word from God. The only person you should take advice from who has never done it.

  • CaliVirgo

    Chile we not really built to be submissive?

  • SameoleJ

    Right!! So what I look like having to deal with another person after all of this?!

  • RedBottomKittenHeels

    Being submissive isn't a problem when your mate is ACTUALLY LEADING and being a covering. Don't ask me to be submissive AND ask me for gas money (all the time) and not contribute to the house. Especially if you're able body with all your good senses.

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    We live in an age where men have an issue that their lady not only works but is capable of taking care of herself financially without needing to be saved. What is the guidance for those dudes?

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    No sirrrrr! If there is any smell of submission, we have to follow it up with "SIKE, I WAS JUST PLAYIN'!" lol

  • Libra80sBaby

    LMAOOOOOOOOOOO

  • SandrasNewFave

    This ain't doormat day. If you can't get it any other day, quit tripping now.

  • SameoleJ

    EXACTLY!!!

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Mad if she has her own and is able to say I don't need you. Mad if she don't have and needs him to do. Just can't win.

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Rright!!

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    LOL

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    I think we all need to leave and come back tomorrow. All the posts have drained me today

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Chile.....

  • Milani

    LOL!!!!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    It Tis! ?? :winky:

  • hotntot95

    If. I do ANYTHING extra outside of ukin u a it's because I've connected with you we have a bond...otherwise I don't see a problem with this...

  • iscream

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  • Incog-knee-gress

    Imma download a direct deposit change form and get my paycheck direct deposited to dude. Starting next pay period. I am about to be submissive Keya. Watch. Imma let this man lead me and my children into either greatness or if he fuxs up my money...the nearest homeless shelter. What you think?(dont tell my mama. she would beat me)

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Watt happened???
    I need to Ban anybody???
    I just got here ??

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I know I’m about to make some people BIG mad but these are my thoughts on submission.

    1. I think that most people disagree with it because they don’t understand it.
    2. Submission is supposed to be within the confines of marriage. It is a biblical principle. If you are not religious, then I understand you being indifferent. That being said, I do practice it in regular ole bf/gf relationships.
    3. If you cannot submit to your man, i.e., you do not trust him to LEAD, why are you with him? His ability to lead is not conditioned on his financial or educational success. A woman can be more successful than her man and still be submissive to him. It does not mean that he is beating you in the head or forcing you into servitude. It means that he is the head of your household, and that you trust him to have the best interest of you and your family as a guiding point at all times.

    P.S. A married friend of mine used to say, “The man is the head and the woman is the neck.” I like that

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    I don't drink that. Why are you criticizing my order? Hell I didn't ask your azz to pay for it. Blonde is light coffee by the way.

  • CaliVirgo

    Giiiiiirl?

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    I can agree with this to a point.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I ain't read the write up? She steal tawkin that shatt?!?! ???

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    That's not being submissive. It might be stupid but only time would tell.

  • SameoleJ

    I would beat you for ya momma!!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Yew gotta name ah percent!
    You agree 75%? 50%?
    ????

  • Buttercup

    Wayment, giving dude all of your money is what it takes to be submissive? No wonder my husband hasn't found me yet. Oh well, he can keep looking for someone who is NOT me.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    This didn't really have anything to do with her. Her write up amounted to black people don't love each other for real. That's why our kids are criminals...blah, blah, blah...

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    I'd drive down and F u up. Shhyyttt

  • LibraGirlonly

    We shall lead together!!!'

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Uhhh
    I'm ready...
    I'll ban em! ???

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    When she was taking role and the shot went to Tobias I was on the floor...I kept rewinding it all week. Didn't see this weeks episode thanks for reminding me lol

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/619deddabd3fd8f4e427b922b06d8b7b9c7f449a11b853afec5eee592cf28d24.jpg

  • SummerBaby

    I was talking about Sweetest Day a few days ago. This entire write up. ?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Not just that. Everything. Fukk it. Im tied boss.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    I 75% agree. Thank you lmao

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Recap pls??

  • Teresa Uriel

    true

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    It's real out here. Some of them are intimidated by what you can do for yourself. I'm not asking you to be here financially... I want you here supportive in whatever way is necessary at the time.

    You can't admit you own a house or have a nice car with some of these dudes.

  • Renee26

    In the black community Sweetest Day is celebrated as a day to spoil and pamper husbands and boyfriends. It is the one day of the year when black women will consent to being submissive to their men.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    FALSE...don't forget about Steak and BJ day lol

  • Teresa Uriel

    lol

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I gotta just get it? And bring it? Well okay.
    *all that dairy isnt good for your stomach but blonde it is. See if I CARE

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    You don't have to. I don't live that far away so I can take care of it, if needed.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    If black women would be submissive then we would the following:
    Not be single mothers
    Be respectful
    Our kids would be respectful

  • Evilpeoplearetheweakest

    Sandra Rose, we cant do better when reporters of society like you play the fences for profit. No mention on your blog about T.I.'s humble approach to Floyd Maywether's #AllLivesMatter comments.

    It's ok that you have your own perspective, but you shouldn't shy away from presenting all reality, as it is, while allowing people to form thier own opinions.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    If we end up in the homeless shelter that will tell too

  • CaliVirgo

    Go downstairs in the last post AND in the coconut oil post

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    You can't stay with me. FYI.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Thanks!! Appreciate it.

  • RedBottomKittenHeels

    A lot of times I hear men today talk about how the women need to be like their grandma's. Knee grow do you know that 9 times out of 10 your grandma didn't have a choice but to stay with your grandpa (who probably had a WHOLE family on the other side of town) because he was the bread winner and women were suppose to just stick it out.

    We talk about side chicks now...back then there was whole, entire side families...lol.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Will you take Dub11? *cracks UP*

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Blah, blah, blah...

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    I'd never let it get that far. Got a back up plan for the back up plan. And if my bonus kids wanted to come, I wrote them into the plan too.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    ???

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    Mama Dubb, I rarely have dairy. I need a little cream in my starbucks because it'll fawk my stomach up. I'll be on the toilet shortly thereafter. If it was Dunkin, I could go without. lol

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Right

  • Renee26

    He looks like he has bad BO to me....they can have him

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    The child can stay but her stupid ignant azz momma can not.

  • Teresa Uriel

    exactly!.....back then when women was being submissive, what did the men do?....they went out fornicating and committing adultery on their submissive wives.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    to me it just depends on what you like in your partnership... it just so happens I love for my man to lead and I cook and clean ... he helps me cook and clean as well ... just depends on what the individual like .... and you know damn well this kid ain't basing shyt on the bible .... my views are to wide for that foolishness <3

  • nicelyput32

    women would mind their men and not talk back;
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    ????

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I have a friend that ACTS like she lives at home and drives a used car??

    (The wrong) Men don't know how to act when they know you're independent ??????

  • Yoni

    , it is similar to Valentine’s Day: a day to love on your sweetie.

    In the black community Sweetest Day is celebrated as a day to spoil and pamper husbands and boyfriends

    _____________________

    Not true. It's a day to spoil the elderly and sick and shut-in. Your YT google is incorrect.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    I think her and TI are no longer friends. She kept posting "inside info" that Shakannah kept calling her with. ??

  • SameoleJ

    I agree with most that you said, my only addition is that submission is not to be given lightly and freely. It is the act of yielding to another, but not of just lying down and being lead the wrong way.

    Submission is to build as a unit and have the man lead what is being built. Most men, not all, view submission as a dictatorship and that is where they get resistance. In speaking Biblically, if he has not submitted to the Lord, he is not who you are to submit to.

  • RedBottomKittenHeels

    Right, I'm not saying all men are like that because a lot of them were hard workers, but come on women had NO RIGHTS back then.

  • Buttercup

    I agree with this.

  • Renee26

    I KNEW IT!!! He looks like he smells...Wiz Kalifa (sp) is another one with the look

  • Teresa Uriel

    true!

  • SandrasNewFave

    I'm with it minus the bf/gf usage. It should be reserved for marriage but hashed out before hand.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    She wrong Ahghane :facepalm:

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Truth

  • CaliVirgo

    ??

  • Incog-knee-gress

    And in the Adrienne Bailon post. Its a Rose real life "picture" in that one.

  • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

    On first dates I don't even talk about that kind of thing. I show up in my raggedy car and don't talk about where I live. I need to feel a guy out first to see if he can handle all of this *moves hand up and down body*

  • RedBottomKittenHeels

    Up north Sweetest Day is a black azz Valentine's Day...lol. Down south I don't think it's celebrated too much, if at all.

  • RedBottomKittenHeels

    Up north Sweetest Day is a black azz Valentine's Day...lol. Down south I don't think it's celebrated too much, if at all.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I said it should be used within the confines of marriage. But I am a firm believer that you don't just get married and suddenly change who you were and how you did things throughout your entire relationship. Like the day after your wedding you are just going to wake up and be a different person.

    Get what I'm saying?

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I said it should be used within the confines of marriage. But I am a firm believer that you don't just get married and suddenly change who you were and how you did things throughout your entire relationship. Like the day after your wedding you are just going to wake up and be a different person.

    Get what I'm saying?

  • Yoni

    A married friend of mine used to say, “The man is the head and the woman is the neck.”
    _____________
    Tis true. Because that head would be NOTHING without the neck.........Unless you're Benzino.

  • Yoni

    A married friend of mine used to say, “The man is the head and the woman is the neck.”
    _____________
    Tis true. Because that head would be NOTHING without the neck.........Unless you're Benzino.

  • iWasteTime

    A married friend of mine used to say, “The man is the head and the woman is the neck
    -----------------------
    Ahhh shat, she watched My Big Fat Greek Wedding too.
    I agree with what you said and the above quote.

  • iWasteTime

    A married friend of mine used to say, “The man is the head and the woman is the neck
    -----------------------
    Ahhh shat, she watched My Big Fat Greek Wedding too.
    I agree with what you said and the above quote.

  • jussaying

    for why is someone that considers themselves a lesbian forever trying to tell straight black women how they need to act in their hetero relationships? you even have experience dating a man? stay in your lane sheesh. no one who is straight here is proclaiming which lesbian needs to don a dong and which one needs to accept and take that plastic pounding all for the sake improving black families ??

  • jussaying

    for why is someone that considers themselves a lesbian forever trying to tell straight black women how they need to act in their hetero relationships? you even have experience dating a man? stay in your lane sheesh. no one who is straight here is proclaiming which lesbian needs to don a dong and which one needs to accept and take that plastic pounding all for the sake improving black families ??

  • Renee26

    So many women have deemed it acceptable for men to not step up...how could a woman be submissive in a relationship if she's pulling all the weight?? I man WORTH submitting to will be submitted to regardless off the color of their skin

  • Renee26

    So many women have deemed it acceptable for men to not step up...how could a woman be submissive in a relationship if she's pulling all the weight?? I man WORTH submitting to will be submitted to regardless off the color of their skin

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Like I said, it is SUPPOSED to be done within the confines of marriage. You are supposed to submit to your husband. Why would you marry someone that hasn't shown their ability to lead? Fortunately, the men I have dated, did not view it as a dictatorship.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Like I said, it is SUPPOSED to be done within the confines of marriage. You are supposed to submit to your husband. Why would you marry someone that hasn't shown their ability to lead? Fortunately, the men I have dated, did not view it as a dictatorship.

  • Renee26

    That's Steak and BJ day

  • Renee26

    That's Steak and BJ day

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Good dang on day, ma'am. Lol.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Good dang on day, ma'am. Lol.

  • Cricket404

    Growing up in Cleveland, Ohio, I thought Sweetest Day was a national holiday. Its not just for men, men pamper women too on this day. I remember receiving an ankle braclet one year from my beau. Schools provide flowers by special order for students to buy and distribute on this day.. It started as a way for local florist to sell flowers off season.

  • Cricket404

    Growing up in Cleveland, Ohio, I thought Sweetest Day was a national holiday. Its not just for men, men pamper women too on this day. I remember receiving an ankle braclet one year from my beau. Schools provide flowers by special order for students to buy and distribute on this day.. It started as a way for local florist to sell flowers off season.

  • RedBottomKittenHeels

    Sandra got time today and wants ALL THE TRAFFIC...lol. Boy the comments section has been fire emoji...LOL

  • RedBottomKittenHeels

    Sandra got time today and wants ALL THE TRAFFIC...lol. Boy the comments section has been fire emoji...LOL

  • Incog-knee-gress

    March 14th!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    March 14th!

  • Yoni

    I live UP NORTH and I don't look at it as such. MY MAMA is getting her weekly bouquet of flowers, a word search book and some nail polish (old folks love when you do their nails). Him? A cupcake....because I want one, and us booking MY bday trip. LOL

  • Yoni

    I live UP NORTH and I don't look at it as such. MY MAMA is getting her weekly bouquet of flowers, a word search book and some nail polish (old folks love when you do their nails). Him? A cupcake....because I want one, and us booking MY bday trip. LOL

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I perused IOB's IG account and they posted this as well.

    You're affiliated with one another.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I perused IOB's IG account and they posted this as well.

    You're affiliated with one another.

  • CaliVirgo

    Oh my??

  • CaliVirgo

    Oh my??

  • Genia

    Tuh! Exactly!! you better break it down for the young thorns

  • Genia

    Tuh! Exactly!! you better break it down for the young thorns

  • Yoni

    I'm leaving.

  • Yoni

    I'm leaving.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Yep my grandpappy got a bullet in the arse for cheating.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Yep my grandpappy got a bullet in the arse for cheating.

  • SameoleJ

    We are agreeing love, I simply added that he should be submissive to the Lord as well, when speaking Biblically.

    And yes, they should show you that they are able to lead, which is why I said it should not be given freely and lightly.

  • SameoleJ

    We are agreeing love, I simply added that he should be submissive to the Lord as well, when speaking Biblically.

    And yes, they should show you that they are able to lead, which is why I said it should not be given freely and lightly.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    +1 and where's your purse yoni so i can punt it out behind you like someone did to mine when I got put out the blog https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/f7401c5bf619f9ce38706b897da4a3c8359ec19ff77abcd4460251ff9b1135b4.gif

  • Neicey

    I dont understand the bathing part. Yes. Keep ya man pampered. But he wants u to bathe him? Like wash him. Or start the shower? Im justvasking.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    +1 and where's your purse yoni so i can punt it out behind you like someone did to mine when I got put out the blog https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/f7401c5bf619f9ce38706b897da4a3c8359ec19ff77abcd4460251ff9b1135b4.gif

  • Neicey

    I dont understand the bathing part. Yes. Keep ya man pampered. But he wants u to bathe him? Like wash him. Or start the shower? Im justvasking.

  • Teresa Uriel

    dam. LoL

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Agreed BUT what I was saying was...

    just kidding. Sometime I just want to debate and stuff. I'm res ta go.

  • nicelyput32

    You gone get banned???

  • LibraGirlonly

    Yeah he was a bit off the chain lol

  • jussaying

    lmao. you prob right.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    It's a whole thing in the Bible about a woman's worth and how to treat her. Why is that not posted on here? Smh.

  • KikiLovesKiwis

    Being submissive ain't gonna keep nobody that don't want to be kept.

    Black women can not be solely blamed for the issues within the black community, BOTH black men and women are to blame.

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    How did I miss that? And why the fukk did I follow your breadcrumbs to said post.

    I love you, but you ain't hitting on shyt!

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/e3aeffca2d908d619f59797ef35ec6135ab17d740eb7ee5f3ed9ed980ff823c5.gif

  • LibraGirlonly

    Nah that would be to intelligent.

  • SameoleJ

    I gotsa headache and can't truly debate today. Which is why I have been in and out all day. Sandy been saving her "get the folks up in arms" post for today, I see.

    Have to work a little late today, but I am also res ta go.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    You already knew I wasnt hitting on shat. I try to be consistent.

  • RedBottomKittenHeels

    I think we all got a grand daddy that either got a bullet wound, knife wound, hot grits burn mark...etc for their wondering dyck ways...lol.

  • OSHH

    Women back then endured and suffered a lot. God bless em but these nig gas now don't even want to provide like the men did do back then , at least they took of care of home while ho'ing.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Teresa Uriel

    that's why it's important to do these things only to righteous men; and I'm not talking bout sunday church men, but commandment keepers

  • LibraGirlonly

    Yep lol so true!!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Agreed.

  • RedBottomKittenHeels

    Listening to the stories of what was the "norm" back then..man. And you right, at least most of them back then was holding the house down.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    What did TI say about Floyd?

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    :shotsfired:

  • Renee26

    The MOST submissive women are often unhappy...you know the ones who do everything their man says, pushes her own thoughts and needs to the back of her mind as if they don't matter, requires her mans approval for everything, and fears him. They typically describe those women as victims of abuse, Physical, Mental, and Emotional.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Who saw Queen Sugar last night? I balled like a baby during the last scene when Hollywood cried cause Aunt Vie told him not to come back. I could tell that hurt him to the core and it was refreshing to see a black man cry for his ??. I think he is stand up guy for making sure the wife has health insurance.

  • Renee26

    Yes!

  • Alicia.Ashe

    I've never participated in anything having to do with sweetest day. Blah.

  • QTNA brought to you by KIC!

    Omg tore me up. I was happy to see them together in preview.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    ones who do everything their man says, pushes her own thoughts and needs to the back of her mind as if they don't matter, requires her mans approval for everything, and fears him.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    This is NOT submission.

  • Cunningham ?

    That show is HILARIOUS! Even got my mom bougie behind to watch it!

  • Zebra Stripes

    I want some warm freshly baked Macadamia cookies

  • Lisa daniels
  • QTNA brought to you by KIC!

    Thank you. That is Stepford Wives.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    No self-respecting Black woman who loves herself would demean her own kind.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    That sounds so good.

  • jussaying

    lmfao ???

  • OSHH

    Sure isn't that is some unhealthy control type mess

  • LibraGirlonly

    I thought I saw that. I'm glad because a good decent black man is hard to find on this earth.They are probably on Mars getting it ready for 2030. For real tho!!

  • Sexy CJ

    Imagine if every day was Sweetest Day in the black community.

    There would be no more broken homes; women would mind their men and not talk back; children would have manners and respect for their elders.............

    *ALL Black Families Are Not Like This In The Black Community...........#Know This.........#Facts........#Foundation Is Key........#Broaden Your Horizons..........#Check Yourself..........

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/fafc2b99d93131ba28613e7aef9b4073b1b8590a22ca0745bd81a2c559f9abb6.jpg

  • Lisa daniels
  • L.T.L. Since 2007
  • Teresa Uriel

    that woman has to make it known in prayer constantly, because it aint nothing for God to move that wicked nigga out of the way, through unexpected death, to free her from that abusive situation.

  • Lisa daniels
  • Queen B

    Lol yes im bathing him/washing him....its something that we have always done for years

  • QTNA brought to you by KIC!

    All of this ??

  • Teresa Uriel

    lol

  • Fleur Rebel

    ???????

  • JayCee087

    So black girls clowned him in elementary school for likely being nerdy and rejected him so he got a white girl and yall STILL mad????

    Black men can't win for losing. Damn ???

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Mine died with a limp.

  • QTNA brought to you by KIC!

    Bet not be mine.

  • Lisa daniels
  • Blaque Mahogany

    through unexpected death, to free her from that abusive situation.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    What? Child...how did you get there?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Its a mugshot. Folks take ish too far here these days. Lord JESUS I am still weak.

  • Mmm…Okay

    I submit to good leadership.

  • Teresa Uriel

    the Bible baby the Bible!...LoL

    "For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously."
    MALACHI 2:16

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Alright. Its 345pm. Gotta download and print this direct deposit change form so I can take it home and run a report before I go. I will be back later. I would say yall behave but damn it yall done acted out terrible today. *snorts*

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Here's a little tax advice for you to take to your new position. Your day is going to get better.

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/21bb43d9b5c4f652684744461abc61d7cc48fde56a0abb99586ce55b005f7b81.jpg

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Dubb..dubb..dubbbbbb...LOL

  • Lisa daniels

    I think the real sandra might be somewhere died and this person took over her life. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/27799956c5a306bdaa86038513d8b7ba9b6f83b38bf2e0cf0833ef0c6e956140.gif

  • Teresa Uriel

    are they snorting drugs or what?

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Chiiiilllle..my friend turned me on to it last night..Im hooked..Im going back to watch previous episodes..

  • barbeez

    Uhm! What did I just read?? Gonna have to disagree. Can't blame the plight of the black race on black women. How about those hard-headed black men, cheating, down low, procreating but not fathering their babies...shall I go on?

  • Kjibbers

    Someone go find Sandra Rose.

  • Teresa Uriel

    you right!...black men MUST step up and step out of that juvenile behavior

  • SandrasNewFave

    Yeah I feel you. In that respect you are right. And trust is earned with time and risk. You do have to hand over some control and see what he can do. You are right.

  • Kjibbers

    All men need to step out that juvenile behavior.

  • Teresa Uriel

    they will in due time

  • 70114

    Whatever works for you and yo man is all I will say.

  • Lisa daniels
  • Scromes1212

    This might be my favorite post every! Let's make this reality asap!

  • puppylove

    She posts from IOB, Fameolous, and Teatenders.

  • Teresa Uriel

    LoL...I know you a man

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    LOL! ???

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I like my pancakes lightly golden. ??

  • Lisa daniels
  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    "The MOST submissive women are often unhappy..."
    ---------------

    Not true. Studies have shown submissive women are happier than the women who can't find a man because they are Miss Independent.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    They actually use the same jargon as she does. That's not common.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    We finally agree on something.

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    No sorry. I was giving her a recap. I don't agree.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    See, it's not that hard to be in compliance.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Amen sista! I'm proud of you. ?

  • Lisa daniels
  • Sexy Lexy

    ALL of that food is burnt

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    That's because men cheat. It's in their nature. The moment you accept you can't fight what's in his nature, your life will be more loving and stress free.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Awww, that's nice. ?

  • Lisa daniels

    In the black community Sweetest Day is celebrated as a day to spoil and pamper husbands and boyfriends. It is the one day of the year when black women will consent to being submissive to their men.

    On any other day, being “submissive” is a cuss word.

    Imagine if every day was Sweetest Day in the black community.

    There would be no more broken homes; women would mind their men and not talk back; children would have manners and respect for their elders https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/f31df94bca2a3642f4b48fd0002f73b1533a25efadcb699fd17bacd802ed9a6a.gif

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    "Being submissive does all of this?"
    -----------------

    Yes ma'am. Try it and you will see. But first you have to find a strong King who is ready for a queen. Those are hard to find... since... you-know-who raised them.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I'm sorry you think it's foolishness. Please Google single parent homes by race.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    I love how Michah understood and told Hollywood I've got her. Excellent show acting cast everything.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Google single parent homes by race. We have to do better because what we are doing is not working.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    I've heard it's for them but have gotten things too. Lol

  • Scromes1212

    So true!

  • Scromes1212

    Exactly :)

  • Tammie Reed

    NO, not at all lol.

  • Tammie Reed

    No, not at all, its for someone who's special to you. Anybody really.

  • Scromes1212

    Most men I know in relationships and most women I know aren't. From these comments you would think it was the other way around. But it could be just based off the numbers. A good woman that wants a solid man is going to have to put up with some stuff and visa versa.

  • http://worldstarhiphop.com/ The Dutchess

    Submit to a real man not a f*ck boy

  • hottlanta

    Them old generational,traditional relationship lies from grandmamma and dem about how to get/keep a man has played out as well. Folks still having a fit that Kim got married. It had nothing to do with Kanye, she got MARRIED period. Whereas some of those pew sitters got ashy knees is praying for a man. Single homes are a product of divorce as much as having a child and never been married. Camille Cosby might as well be in the single mom bracket because Bill turned her home into a crime scene by bringing other women in there disrespecting her at the highest level. So there are a lot of single married women that is purposely overlooked that no one wants to discuss and the thots are winning.

  • hottlanta

    Flava-Fla been smell walking for years.

  • Zebra Stripes

    @Keya. I grew up in a family where every woman ran the ship. And I run the ship in every relationship.

  • Scromes1212

    But did you google single parent homes by race? Why are the numbers like that you think?

  • Str8tUpMenace

    *i'm crying*

  • shun king

    What's your definition of a real man?

  • darealQueenNefertiti

    I wouldn't mind doing this...

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Proverbs 31

  • JustB

    Too many women play that role everyday... Im old fashion and believe a man shouldn't be comfortable with excepting gifts or money from a woman... Expecially just because... They can keep that wack holiday

  • Jones

    They can't be young roses?

  • Allihave2say

    The hubby can get it.

  • Allihave2say

    Then don't celebrate those particular ones.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Exactly.

  • Genia

    if they wanna be

  • http://disqus.com/ yoliewinecorporation

    When I said I do that was his Sweetest Holiday IMO

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Girl come thru yes.

  • Allihave2say

    So in this equation having a man = happiness? If a woman is unhappy because she can't find a man her issue with happiness is within. She was born alone and will be buried alone. So if her happiness is contingent upon when she has a man (I guess caliber doesn't matter) she may never be happy unless she chooses to settle for Ned the Whino.

  • MistaO

    I'm convinced that most females today don't know what they want, then when they FINALLY figure it out at 45 to 50 years of age and try to start acting right, don't no real man want a old worn through broad. Just saying

  • MistaO

    Keep telling yourself that Renee and you might start to believe it deep down...not!

  • Keya #AndYouWillDeal

    Thank you

  • disqus_j6qjdLcExL

    An what does he do for you

  • MistaO

    Most Black females who claim to be lesbians really aren't. They just don't have, or couldn't keep a man or experienced some manner of s exual trama by a male or female. Fact, see how many of them have children, most multiple children.

  • https://www.facebook.com/CrysttalTHATChic?ref=hl Crysttal2u@yahoo.com

    TELL IT LIKE IT T.I. IS!!!!

  • disqus_j6qjdLcExL

    so you're saying to be loyal to the disloyal or else you're destined to be alone? lmao. are you married Sandra?

  • Notdownwiththesheeple

    I know plenty of black men who were spoiled rotten by their mothers as a child. Everything they wanted to eat drink and play with they had it. Never did they do the dishes or clean a room The girls just had to fix themselves from A to Z.
    Now these spoiled little brats became big brats still looking for that mother figure to give them everything they desire. As soon as you become the submissive idiot surrogate mom he will leave your ass as soon as he has some financial success. I don't have to even give names for ya'll to understand.

    PS: and they can't deal with setbacks well because they never heard the word no and are a mess in controlling their emotions.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Do I have to be married to see what men do with my own eyes?

  • Quitedeliteful

    Watchoo talking 'bout, Sandra?!?!?!? Sweetest Day seems like a nice idea but why women gotta be submissive??? Why can't we just be loving, kind and cooperative to each other??? Submissive is an old school concept that needs to die a quick death!!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You mean "die a quick death" like the black family?

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

    ??????

  • Quitedeliteful

    True... our families are in trouble. Too many women have to be mother and father but still... who wants to be submissive??? The women I know who are 'submissive' to their husbands are not happy at all. I have some friends from other countries who have no choice but to be submissive and they are miserable!!! Give me freedom!!! LOL!!!!

  • Lisa daniels
  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I should have known better than to read this while eating! Gone on, Ms. Rose! ?

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    The part about not talking back, is killing me!

  • klwbaby

    so sandra, u keep saying its in a man nature to cheat, so the wife/girlfriend should just stay with him and hope and pray he doesn't bring home a disease??

  • God is working on me!

    What world did this person who wrote this blog come from. Please stop referring to all black in your 3rd grade writing post. It would make sense if they wrote "Some" black women, because they do not know all black women and should stop speaking as if they Do know how all black women speak and think. Its really disgusting. Being submissive in a marriage is the only way it will work. You can't have two final answers. Being submissive in a marriage is hard work it's not easy. That is something a man and woman should know and discuss they will practice before they walk down the isle. Other than that it will not work. You can can't just spring on the other person this is what you want or that is not what you want during the marriage. And Sweetharts day have nothing to do with submission let's get that straight. Sometimes a man need to know... how you care, you deserve each other, how much he means to you and you your family... just how special he is. That's all. This has nothing to do with race, but I guess to some any chance to bash black women is a time for the sun to come out.

  • MsJosie667

    Accurate af, lol

  • Petty Patty Cakes

    Nothing's wrong. This is normal for her

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thanks for reading, hun.

  • Lurk_Mode_Off

    Cool

  • Lurk_Mode_Off

    Cool

  • Lurk_Mode_Off

    Cool

  • Queen B

    The same thing ?

  • Michelle

    ???

  • http://totallifechanges.com/PurTEA VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Submissive isn't a slave mentality . That's where it gets twisted. I would be submissive if a man knew the true definition which meant He goes to God to make all the decisions and we work together and I trust him. The key is work together. We work side by side but men think that means rule , reign and Lord over the women and that is not happening. No way , no how.

  • http://worldstarhiphop.com/ The Dutchess

    Well I think the man should be worthy of submission not some guy your dating but your husband He should be the provider & a respectable, decent ,trustworthy man that has morals & values That's all , nothing too difficult

  • @djangothegod
  • Milani

    Killa Cam <3

  • Kjibbers

    I think some of it has to do with ego.

  • VeyoncèSupreme

    Sorry women been paying they own bills.....? Black women are strong af because we have to be not too many black men know how to respect treat and handle a black woman. When a man is submissive to me he gets my submission...point blank. That 1800s bow down bs is played out. Most men need to grow tf up and stop making baby mamas vs making wives. U don't have a ring on it you not getting my 100%....don't blame the woman for broken homes blame these weak coward nympho men.....that run from responsibilities.

  • sunni_daze

    Still never heard of it.

  • sunni_daze

    You don't have to be submissive to get your bills paid. Besides black men will run over a submissive black women and still cheat and make babies, while their submissive woman sits home and waits and baby sits those babies he made while cheating.

  • Saved.Sista’.Shirell

    If we can do better for one day, we can do better every day.

  • Saved.Sista’.Shirell

    PREACH.

  • TOO REAL

    There would be no more broken homes; women would mind their men and not talk back; children would have manners and respect for their elders.
    Really half of those homes don't have men in them. I believe and have raised my daughter to know that you don't need a man to validate your self worth or to take care of you but if you find one along the way great, as long as he's bring the same or better to the table. A man will respect and stand by a woman who can stand on her own.

  • ThisHarryHere

    You can't baby sit your own babies dumb donald...

  • Renee26

    The women who come into my DV shelter have proven different

  • Renee26

    True....they need strength to walk away from the toxic. A good man appreciates what his woman has to offer just as much as she appreciates him. There's mutual respect and trust in that type of connection. A man who is worthy of being submitted to will not want his mate to submit in every single area of her being.

  • Carmen Harrison Johnson

    #HILARIOUS Made me LAUGH OUT LOUD!!!!

  • Liah

    I like this idea!

  • Renee26

    Lol...she does still have some freedoms. She can at least start business ventures even if her husband ends up shutting them down with his controlling ways. When he restricts her creative ability we can all see a bit of her happiness fade.

  • Renee26

    Sure it is...they are submitting/conforming to their mate who is their higher authority. What he says is the end all and be all.

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  • Nycholle Curry

    I can not stop laughing at this meme especially the picture on the bottom right. Why couldn't all of that food be on a plate instead of a damn cookie tray?! I can't!! smh, but lol.

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  • Blaque Mahogany

    That's not what submission means in the context of marriage. That definition is found in the Bible, not Webster's dictionary.

  • Angela Flowers

    You can't comprehend dumb Harry. She is obviously talking about babysitting kids that the husband made while cheating with another woman...

  • 6ue$$imh8n

    Right !!!

  • 6ue$$imh8n

    People ask "why are you single"
    My answer "cause I'm not stupid"

  • ThisHarryHere

    That's not what she said hoe

  • Angela Flowers

    Sighs...read between the lines dirty harry.

  • Angela Flowers

    "black men will still cheat and make babies, while their woman baby sits those babies he made while cheating".

  • Chile_Pleeze

    Sandra on her reverse vitaligo kick again