Vincent Herbert Tamar Braxton

Music executive Vincent Herbert, 47, and 39-year-old studio singer Tamar Braxton celebrated their 8th year wedding anniversary today (Nov. 27).

Notice how Braxton is exhibiting the classic closed position with both arms crossing the center of her body?

Also notice how she is shifting her body away from Herbert, almost as if she is turning her back to him.

Experts say the closed body position is the brain’s unconscious way of saying the person she is with is making her uncomfortable.

By crossing her arms she is placing a barrier in front of her to protect herself from harm.

Herbert appears to be desperately holding on to the past, while Braxton knows the past is long gone.

Probably the only thing keeping them together is their 3-year-old son, Logan, who needs both a mommy and daddy (at least until he is 7).

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  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    I even noticed this in the video she posted where she was singing and he tried to come up on her, she was more into those off key notes she was struggling to hit than him? I was like what’s going on here it felt forced and awkward. some ppl can act with a stranger and be more convincing. now I know couples have issues sometimes but they were giving me we sleep in different wings of the house vibes. I wish them the best but they BOTH have to want it.

  • Howard Alum ?

    I see faux locs are becoming a trend ? not bold enough to truly loc their hair….?

  • hotntot95

    Vince is just not attractive NOWHERE, I guess maybe he got it going on at the bank..anyway ..at least his mouff is closed for a change…

  • Howard Alum ?

    I agree…I don’t think she really wants to be married to him….but who will put up with her madness?

  • Howard Alum ?

    ??? dreadful

  • hotntot95

    I hate this trend…I personally feel like if u not a “Bob Marley” Rasta born and raised or u didn’t commit and grow them from the scalp…stawp…don’t do the fake dread thing…

  • SaltineCrackers

    Is Vince really 47? Wow.

  • CapricornIce

    There’s no amount of money in the world would I sleep, sex, kiss or marry Vince slobbering mouth ass.

  • Howard Alum ?

    I concur ?

  • SaltineCrackers

    Maybe he has a big dack?

  • CapricornIce

    #Ivoteno.

  • hotntot95

    Chile…I would have to close my eyes and envision someone else cause that would cause me to be sand paper dry…lol

  • SaltineCrackers

    LOL! You never know. She did say it was good before.

  • SaltineCrackers

    LOL damn

  • BLOODBLOOD

    Well

  • mark

    Just looks like she trying not to show her “purse”

  • IAmLegend

    When I look at him all I hear is “Feed Me!” from Little Shop of Horrors lol.

  • mark

    Lies. Honey u tried it. Have several seats. Lol. Hahaha

  • bella28498 .

    Plenty of women marry unattractive men for a comfortable life.

  • Futuredocdonte

    Is she wearing a snap chat filter in public

  • Zizzle

    Looks to me like she’s covering her crotch, but maybe that’s just where my eyes went.

  • Jamie Jay

    Never knew that dude was 47, man he got a baby face 4real.

  • imright

    looks like shes posing & serving face & hes hugging his wife??? but im no cna,blogger, body language expert

  • Judas & GOD

    So Sandra goes from politician to body language expect ??

  • Saharabutnotdry

    I had the same question … Until I saw the “beauty” that filter gives ain’t there ?

  • http://disqus.com/ yoliewinecorporation

    Vince looks so fat and sloppy. Tamar needs to lay off the botox.

  • Malcom Flex

    Sandra what about this story of a dumbass single mother protesting over some bum, dragging her one month old to a protest and the baby DIED!

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3975310/Hero-cop-tries-save-one-month-old-baby-Baltimore-protest.html

  • A D N

    She probably thought he was trying to steal her limelight…

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Her neck is tense. I see it also

  • A D N

    If he’s on blood thinners, he can’t get an erection like before…that’s for sure; then add age, without the little blue pill.

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    I though they were the same age??? That’s not a good sign

  • A D N

    Many marry unattractive men period lol.

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    I don’t like Vince anymore…

    Bitting your wife’s finger??? Oh no

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I’ll wait for more details. The story is so full of holes.

  • A D N

    I think the sloppy mouth turns me off period. There was a guy, who was well off, fairly attractive, one teenage kid, great job and home who was interested in me. When this man opened his mouth….honeyyyyyy…..whew….I just could not only date him or think about anything further. My sister told me bad breath was fixable lol. I couldn’t think that far when I smelled his smell. Poor thing. I think of him sometimes…lol.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Yes.

  • A D N

    She needs some good loving…not just that mouth action. I don’t think she fears him physically. If anything, he’s frustrated he can’t please her, and fear her stepping out, so he tries to control her mentally…which in some form, she needs to be controlled.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I agree. It’s disrespectful.

  • A D N

    Pointing your finger in a person’s face. What does it mean when someone does that?

  • SaltineCrackers

    Nah you see Logan?…that peenis works.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    They are aggressively trying to intimidate someone by violating their personal space?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She already stepped out… allegedly.

  • Zizzle

    ‘Stand Your Ground’ Law: Florida Policy Linked To Increase In Homicides After Trayvon Martin Shooting – http://www.ibtimes.com/stand-your-ground-law-florida-policy-linked-increase-homicides-after-trayvon-martin-2446367

    Excerpt:

    In the shooting death of Martin, one juror said that all other jurors
    discussed the self-defense law before finding George Zimmerman not
    guilty of killing the 17-year –old unarmed black boy, The Miami Herald reported. Juror B37, who only wished to be referred to by her court ID, said that the jury ultimately made its decision based on the evidence and “because of the heat of the moment and the Stand Your Ground.”

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Vince Herbert is 47 with multiple health issues. It would be terrible if she is waiting for him to die to collect his life insurance.

  • Tammie Reed

    He looks like he snores hella loud, he’s definitely a mouth breather no thanks! LOL!

  • Tammie Reed

    You damn if you do, damn if you don’t! The attractive ones cheat, the ugly ones cheat, what are we to do! LOL!

  • Tammie Reed

    Cackles!!!! LOL!

  • Kesha

    How about you hear both sides

  • Malcom Flex

    Sounds like Mom endangered her child. BW need to sit down stay home with kids let the males handle shit, if it’s gonna be handled.

  • Malcom Flex

    It doesn’t take a long time to learn how to read body language. I’m good at it, too.

  • leilani dupree

    She looks miserable…I’ve enjoyed reading your articles since I found this site!

  • Passion

    Oh no, bad breath is a no, no!?

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Maybe he has a great personality. Looks aren’t everything. And beauty is in the eye of the beholder

  • Passion

    She lied!

  • missmiami305

    Tamar looks like she is being held against her will lol ???. Still luv her Love&War album.

  • Passion

    She is so over his azz!

  • SummerBaby

    Tamar looks like she’s being held captive.? Happy Anniversary!

  • hotntot95

    Tis is True..this beholder must be shallow…cause I must have both..??

  • A D N

    Exactly! I absolutely loathe intimidation (bullying) in any form. Females really think their actions are less threatening. Keep your intimidating behavior out of arguments because it opens doors for intimidating actions by men. Argue with a purpose of resolving conflict, not causing further conflict. We taunt men and then cry and wonder why we are left raising the child alone. Let me stop! I saw a female point her finger in a man’s face at the store the other day. Very disrespectful and threatening. Her actions caused more harm than good.

  • semaj24philly

    Smh I guess this was just something to post since it’s Sunday.Happy Anniversary!8yrs is a longtime.

  • Mrs Mary

    Vince is VERY insecure and the sad part is he doesn’t have the will power to lose the weight. How can you have millions and be overweight??? SMH but TAMAR is in shape. There is no way she is as vain as she is and loves this overweight man. She talked about her sister’s having a little weight gain in their bellies but yet she lays with a pig everynight SMH

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    I feel ya sista. Personality makes a man attractive to me. I’ve dated fine niggas and it was a mess ?

  • A D N

    Interesting. Well, I wonder what’s the reason for staying in a s*xually unfulfilling marriage? Is it marriage goals (til death do us part), or personal goals (I need to be a superstar lol?) I dated a man for many years and was extremely s*xually frustrated because of his inability to sometimes get an erection or the strength of the erection, all due to medication caused by life threatening blood clots. I know from personal experience that the man is equally frustrated and feels very threaten by the thought his woman satisfying her needs somewhere else. Now, sex isn’t everything, but it plays a huge role in the lives of couples who values sex, as well as need it. S*x is a great stress release! It is extremely important to me. Eventually I left, but not due to that issue, but dealing with his emotions (attitudes) and intimidating controlling ways, all caused by his fear of me leaving him. I learned men in a certain age range want to s*xually please their mate because it plays a part in their manhood.

  • A D N

    I guess LOL! Seriously, I get your point.

  • A D N

    Not as often or strong as she likes…that’s for sure. Sperm makes the baby…the peenis is the tool used, in many cases…

  • A D N

    LOL! Exactly. And when the ugly ones get a pretty lady, it boost their ego in some form lol…they cheat more…lol.

  • Rodmilla De Ghent

    look at her miserable face lol po lil tink tink

  • A D N

    His flaws highlights her so called perfections… She’s the insecure one. He is secure in that aspect, because he is comfortable with his looks, and doesn’t alter it according to what society (or Tamar) deems as beauty. His weight loss is based on his health issues, otherwise I don’t see him being too concerned what people thing or say.

  • A D N

    His flaws highlights her so called perfections… She’s the insecure one. He is secure in that aspect, because he is comfortable with his looks, and doesn’t alter it according to what society (or Tamar) deems as beauty. His weight loss is based on his health issues, otherwise I don’t see him being too concerned what people thing or say.

  • felinelurker

    Their video on IG looks like they were enjoying themselves

  • hotntot95

    Ikr…My boo is a big fella but he works out and we go together…the sloppy lazy look is a No for me…?

  • SaltineCrackers

    Lol

  • TheMisses

    Why are you wishing anything on this family? No marriage is good everyday! Some days we get on each other nerves. This family is blessed that they are still together, as a family. You should be embracing that instead of trying to start rumors or tear them down.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    At least his body didn’t stink. You should’ve threw him some listerine patches and altoids and called it a day! Lol

  • Sexy CJ

    2016 Soul Train Music Awards……..#The Hippest Trip In America…….

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/63d0d4a35b3866aa692fccf3c4547838ae37ae5fa1933fb6fefe0125a25b4c45.gif

  • Mrs Mary

    They are both insecure but he is more than her because of his weight. Its never play to be THAT overweight!!! He shoulda been on his weight loss journey..its not about what people think its about what’s HEALTHY!

  • Sexy CJ
  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Lol

  • Sexy CJ
  • Sexy CJ
  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Erykah soooo dope with her weird ass.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Damn Tamar looks miserable. So sad. Looking like she’s in serious bondage.

  • GuestSTAR

    I cannot imagine an insurance company underwriter approving an policy for him. He’s too big.

  • Petty Patty Cakes

    I bet she’d tone it down considerably for the right man/opportunity.

  • Keri

    Forced and continued damage control.

  • darealwifey

    Vince has been mentally and verbally abusive to Tamar for some time. You could see it on their show. I think it’s his way of controlling her because he is fearful of her leaving him. Tamar has her own issues, too, but no one deserves to be abused. I think she loves/loved him, but a person can only take so much controlling and abuse.

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    More than anything, I think Tamar just ugly is all.

  • A D N

    I agree with you on how weight can affect health. We all should strive toward healthy living and eating. However, from the perspective of how one feels emotionally (my point) when overweight is another issue. Some people who are overweight do not have low self esteem. They are comfortable in their skin, as well as extremely confident. They exude happiness. Everyone does not have the same reaction to the same situation. Vince doesn’t give me the thought that his weight affects his state of confidence and emotion. In addition, I don’t see him becoming affected by what people think of him, or how people tie his weight to his looks. Usually the people who lack confidence place too much value on others opinions as well as are themselves extremely judgmental.

  • Taz

    This is truly hilarious because I saw other pics and videos posted on her IG page and it looked as they were both happy and enjoying their time 2gether. But hey….. u gotta post something right… Right? Ok.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    She looks cute in this pic.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Both of them really…

  • i troll it like i see it

    I thought it sounded very irresponsible of her too, newborn out in the cold with mom at a protest? And the poor baby died.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Hey auntie, could you do a write up about the man threatening to expose Gucci Mane? He claims to have a 31 minute video. I’m curious to know what is on that video.

  • Tea??

    ???

  • 6uessimh8tn

    Girl I know she feels disgusted laying with him probably feels like she’s with a sugar daddy and just needs the money I just cannot imagine laying with nobody that fat even if I love them I will have to work with them on that weight it’s just looks disgusting I know when her mind she probably feels she could have done much better

  • 6uessimh8tn

    Girl I know she feels disgusted laying with him probably feels like she’s with a sugar daddy and just needs the money I just cannot imagine laying with nobody that fat even if I love them I will have to work with them on that weight it’s just looks disgusting I know when her mind she probably feels she could have done much better

  • PhillyFacts

    Looks is not everything some of the most beautiful people are wicked as can be; in his defense he seems like a really laid back, easy going individual.

  • PhillyFacts

    Looks is not everything some of the most beautiful people are wicked as can be; in his defense he seems like a really laid back, easy going individual.

  • 6uessimh8tn

    A 31 min video about what though ? Please don’t say gay please

  • 6uessimh8tn

    A 31 min video about what though ? Please don’t say gay please

  • 6uessimh8tn

    Yes he looks like one of them dogs with the watered mouth.

  • 6uessimh8tn

    Exactly

  • nich

    That’s exactly what this picture looks like.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Does their son have special needs?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    The man didn’t state what was in it. He merely just said he has a 31 minute video. In the diss song stay strapped by young jeezy, he states Gucci used to pop x pills then get in the shower with his homeboys. ????????????

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Man ?

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Studio singer ??? anyways I love her music.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Tamar needs to leave her face alone.

  • the guest

    You know what I have to say on this. Of course he popped x and got in the shower with his homeboys. We don’t need no video proof for what we already know deep in our heart.

    All those flash and flamboyant hip hop brothers have real love for their homeboys. Doesn’t mean they don’t love their beard gfs, fiancées, and baby mamas, they just like men too.

    This should be no shock anymore because it’s the way it is and has always been. These young groupie chics trying to get married to industry need to assume their man is on the DL.

  • joel adams

    It’s hard to tell what Tamar is feeling because her face is so…..
    How would you sit Sandra with 560 pounds of arms holding you?
    You a mess lol

  • the guest

    The world is so cruel to women. No one expects men to suffer in unfulfillment like this to prove their worth and goodness as a person.

    A man can even commit the ultimate sin of abandoning his kids to do what he wants and society won’t judge hm. But a woman is every sin in the book if she wants happiness.

    Tamar would not be a bad mother nor a bad wife nor a bad woman if she were to be happy and fulfilled in this lifetime. She’s not attracted to Vince and he’s holding her hostage with guilt and shame and money. I don’t believe in divorce but this woman looks like she’s suffering.

    She can’t see that she and lil Vince will be just fine.

  • darealwifey

    True. In fact, if a woman gained weight, stopped having sex, wasn’t good in bed or whatever, the woman would be blamed if the man stepped out on her. For a woman, there is no outlet without looking like a “gold-digger,” a “hoe” or just some ratchet hoodrat that don’t know how to be a wife.

  • Daisy

    why the heck would you ask that as if it would matters

  • Mrs Mary

    You must be overweight. You are not inside of Vinces head so we are both speculating on this. However its not that overweight people are “depressed” or “unhappy” ALL THE TIME or care what others think. My point is they DO NOT LIKE THE WAY THEY SEE THEMSELVES, but pretend they do!!! PERIOD!

  • Mrs Mary

    The fact that Vince can’t close his mouth is a MAJOR turnoff! I don’t know how she does it & I know his breath stank!

  • Mrs Mary

    Do YOU have special needs or just ignant?

  • Dr. P

    She can’t breathe…open mouth breathers tend to have putrid breath…she simply can’t breathe.

  • Cremé De La Cremé

    naaaaaaaa they good. She love him, and he do everything for her.Love them. Every couple go through bs. The media makes it more than it is like they dont have bs goin on at home, lol. love you Auntie.

  • missmiami305

    This makes me think about Monique. For years she pretended to love her look. Even made a career off of “skinny bitches are evil” or something like that.

  • bella28498 .

    Agreed

  • IBJuliet

    As selfish as she is, I can see her waiting for that to actually happen. She’s not going anywhere.

  • O.O

    Very interesting . Why until at least 7?

  • O.O

    Very interesting . Why until at least 7?

  • Ms..N

    Lol I was thinking the same thing..!

  • Ms..N

    Lol I was thinking the same thing..!

  • O.O

    Yep

  • O.O

    Yep

  • O.O

    Nothing about Tamar’s behavior points to secure .

  • O.O

    Nothing about Tamar’s behavior points to secure .

  • O.O

    Hmmm that’s a thought .

  • Candance

    I agree. Every couple goes though this and then it passes. I can imagine being in the media makes it 10 times harder!!! We need a day of no cameras!

  • KLow

    can i put something in Vince’s mouth.

  • A D N

    I am not defending the weight vs healthy perspective. Actually, again, my point is if we are looking at whom of the two (Vince/Tamar) appears to be the most secure, then Vince, who doesn’t speak about how his weight/looks make him feel, would be considered the most secure. However, using your logic, neither are you inside Vince’s head to determine he is unhappy about his weight, since your point is they DO NOT LIKE THE WAY THEY SEE THEMSELVES…but pretend they do!!! PERIOD!

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    I don’t understand why dudes damn near 50 still trying to dress 20.

  • Judas & GOD

    Lol

  • Judas & GOD

    Lol

  • MsFree

    You really do be reaching. Are you just that miserable in your life?

  • Brown fields

    I heard that he controls her and her money.

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    He didn’t complain about anything… Not like the Mary J and K-Ci days….

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Someome is being ignorant and it is time to walk away

  • Kesha

    You don’t even kno the story behind him biting

  • Jayde da Blade

    Ion no. But when a dude crushing on u and u no good n well u not attracted to him but something else like money or power you end up a miserable sugarbaby.
    Tamar is case in points.

  • the guest

    Exactly.

  • the guest

    A great personality is great. But you can look at Tamar and see she needs to be whisked away by a fine man like on the cover of a romance novel and smashed to the high heavens even if for just one night. And Vince needs to give her permission. lol. But seriously though. This woman is a celebrity and she’s looking sad and unfulfilled….in public.

  • darealwifey

    I haven’t heard that, but I believe it because of what I have seen of them.

  • Mrs.Mickle

    So at one point your husband or boyfriend tried to gnaw off one of your fingers??

  • TheMove

    Tay is looking like Traci and Towanda on this picture. Hope that the Herberts’ can work through any issues they may have.