Photo

Actor Danny Trejo revealed he is suffering from erectile dysfunction. The "Desperado" actor told London's The Sun that every man should go public about their experience with erectile dysfunction.

Photo

"Every man on earth has experienced this, and if you say no, you're lying and I'm calling you a liar," Trejo told the newspaper. He said even a macho 25-year-old man can experience erectile dysfunction.

The 75-year-old actor said that cultural norms keep men from discussing their unfortunate circumstance.

"Especially in the Latino community where I'm from, men don't talk about these things — because we're supposed to be the hunter-gatherer or some sh–," Trejo said. "Well I hate hunting."

What is Erectile Dysfunction?

Erectile Dysfunction (ED), also known as impotence, occurs when a man can't maintain an erection before or during sexual intercourse.

Men can experience temporary ED during times of stress, medical illness, depression, anxiety, or while under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

A diagnosis of ED is made when males experience an inability to develop or maintain an erection for 3 months.

What Causes Erectile Dysfunction?

In 80% of the cases there is a physical cause such as diabetes, hypertension, heart problems, neurological problems after surgery, smoking or drug and alcohol abuse.

Age is a factor in erectile dysfunction. Ed affects 5 percent of men over 40; 12 percent of men younger than 60; 22 percent of men in their 60s, and 30% of men 70 and older.

About 75% of men fail to seek treatment when they experience ED due to feelings of embarrassment or pride.

What Causes An Erection?

An erection occurs when the blood flow to the penis is increased in response to sexual arousal or direct stimulation. When a man is aroused, muscles in the penis relax and blood flow is increased through the arteries. Blood fills two chambers inside the penis and the penis grows rigid. After ejaculation, the muscles contract and the blood flows back into the body via the penile veins.

Treatment

Treatment for erectile dysfunction depends on the underlying cause. Doctors suggest exercising regularly and lifestyle changes such as eating a balanced diet and no smoking or using drugs or alcohol.

Medications such as Viagra and Cialis can be prescribed. Handheld vacuum erection devices are first-line treatments followed by injections of drugs to increase blood flow. Penile implants and vascular reconstructive surgeries are also beneficial in some cases.

This has been your Medical Minute.
 

More Info On the Web

Everything You Need to Know About Erectile Dysfunction | Healthline

Erectile Dysfunction | Mayo Clinic

Erectile Dysfunction (ED) | Medline Plus
 
DISCLAIMER

Any medical information published on this blog is for your general information only and is not intended as a substitute for informed medical advice. You should not take any action before consulting with your personal physician or a health care provider. Sandrarose.com and its affiliates cannot be held liable for any damages incurred by following information found on this blog.

Photos by Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic, Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic

  • GAPeach

    Oh well Uncle Machete, get yourself some Viagra, and get used to it.

  • Coy little wink

    Aww. Po thang. What dat mouf do tho

  • JNation

    Some guys suffer from ED because they are simply not into or aroused by their partner, male or female. It although you mention the health aspects, there are mental components too.

  • The Last Word

    The old man had too much wine. . . .

  • Navybeans95

    I thought Viagra was the cure for Ed....??

  • Topic Influencer

    We not at this juncture in our lives yet and hopefully at 36 its a long ways off. If it aint then well...what @coylittlewink:disqus said

  • Soda

    75? Do men ever stop desiring sex?

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld
  • stav

    If this is the case why would a guy be in a sexual situation with someone they know they're not into or aroused by?

  • Wreckognize Game

    I knew a 48 year old that has ED for his peewee. ?

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I know men in their 30's who dyck dont get hard...too many pills and liquor...had one that only got up when you went down on him after that he would go straight noodle...I had a Iyanla moment with him and told him he drinks too much and thats why it dont work...he got mad and left...saw him again last year he tried to get my number...I said "are you still having problems downstairs?"...my gf said I was rude but oh well...and dont get me started on niccas who pop viagra in their 30's cause Chile....

  • Wreckognize Game

    ?

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Who screws someone their not attracted too??? Unless their a trick or a john...

  • Wreckognize Game

    Hi my Savage Sister ??

  • Ms..N

    75 and he still thinking about sex! LOL most 75 yr old just happy to be alive and healthy! https://media1.giphy.com/media/RLQblftWOdp8mFe5KN/giphy.gif

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    LOL Wreck you have no idea...Yes I get straight to the point when it comes to sex I dont play...I had a man hide Viagra pills underneath my couch cushions when he stayed at my house on the weekends!!! He had the nerve to say they were Cool Mints smh...that nicca could have had a heart attack and died..how the hell would I have explained that to his Momma at the funeral???

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Lol nope

  • Gamer?? Chick
  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Monogamy is a leading cause of Ed for men u you have to switch things up ... I got a friend that’s younger than me saying he on his last lil bit left been with his chick from high school..smh

  • Jordan’s Memory

    That's what I said. I'm like damn aren't you suppose to have that problem at 75? OMG!

  • Ni Ni

    I am hollering ???

  • Topic Influencer

    wottice THIS? Im crine.

  • iWasteTime

    Is he a citizen?
    Medicaid part B covers it, he'll be ok

  • Ni Ni

    Right, men are pitiful.

  • oshh16

    ??

  • Ni Ni

    Nope

  • Soda

    Cool Mints, lol!

  • Jordan’s Memory

    I wouldn't mind having a man who couldn't get it up. I hate having sex. it's the devil! And I never have an orgasm through sexual intercourse anyway just through oral so why bother, Just give me some top quality head and I'm good to go! I know, I would make a terrible wife. lmao

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    them Ice breaker shits them mints...when I tell you I was pissed...he denied it literally until I threatened to take one and he damn near leapt off the couch to stop me...Chile these Philly men aint nothin...

  • B.Loveitt

    Not true we have 75+ deacon giving the church mothers STD'S/STI'S. Some elders have a sex life well past 65+.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Have that been proven in a study or you just saying that because as a man you need variety? Serious question...

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    That's a personal struggle... Men don't need to start disclosing that. Either it will rise or it won't the public don't need to know all that!

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Nah your not alone...my bestie is in the same situation...I fell bad for yall (about the no orgasm during sex) but think about it this way there are men out here who get off on eating the box (I know a few) once you find that its a match made in heaven!!!....

  • Blaque Mahogany

    He's like 90.

    I think premature ejaculation is just as bad.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Well let me say being a man who talk to other men we all know this

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Give me his number!!! lmao Just kidding. glad I'm not alone. Tell ur friend we gonna find us some good Dyck one day and I will problem loose my mind!!! lmao

  • Wreckognize Game

    I’m laughing because this was my last attempt at “dating” He had a peewee and ED and my bff thought that I was savage when I shut him down. I will be by myself, I had no time to be playing with him. Literally just playing

  • Jordan’s Memory

    hmmm interesting... So is this why they say all men cheat?

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Sis, it fits the narrative lol.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    You was prolly attracted in the beginning and lost it later

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Even when you're on top?

  • Dowoop

    The pblm is being 75 and have a wife/gf that's 35. You have a 75 yr old woman and I'm willing to bet she won't mind your ED as much

  • Topic Influencer

    It does thats why I am screaming. A limp hot dog that is limping along. *snort*

  • B.Loveitt

    Youngins are having a hard time not just due to illicit drug use and alcohol, actually usage of those makes more keep it up. You have 17yr. olds who can't get it up because they have become desensitized...sex is everywhere, they're watching porn on their mobiles, laptops etc. They "Badger their witness" everytime they get. For those who are sexually active can get it just about anytime and anywhere they want. Let's not forget about these 22+yr. olds screwing around w/boys as young as 11 yrs of age. When you can get a lot of something anytime you want it...you don't want it much. Mental and physically tampered with in their environments.

  • Pecan Rub

    All Pecan needs is those bare titties rubbing his skin.

  • Lisa Left Eye

    A lot of younger guys suffer with this problem too because they eat like sh*t and just rely on their cheeto dust covered fingers and a porno to get off. Men have adopted the ways of women in modern society--sitting at desks all day rather than being active, binge eating bon bons like peggy bundy and running their mouth on social media like a bunch of birds. It is diminishing their sexual prowess

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Nope! Unless I play with myself at the same time. smdh I'm tired of all that work! lol

  • B.Loveitt

    See a sex counselor. There's nothing wrong with it. My sister use to counsel. I went down that path for a minute but chose to go left...so to speak.

  • B.Loveitt

    Well lets see how can I say this?

    See what had happened was Miss- Ma'am...?

  • Satin Panther

    Oh that's cause you haven't met a man with talent with that long strong thats all. Vaginal orgasms are 100% better than clitorial orgasms, when they hit that "G Spot" and there is a such thing, it makes waterfalls...LOL *FLASHBACK* WHEW Lawd...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Closest gif I could find LOLOLOLOL!!! Chile I've been there I thought I had carpal tunnel messing with that limp dyck nicca...
    https://media1.giphy.com/media/HWlcu8kcEI3yo/giphy.gif

  • luVn_liFe…

    umhhh HE Truly coulda kept that to himself

  • Guest

    Lmao! I'm done for today!

  • MsChocCookie

    Once they hit 40 it’s a wrap...the Sha-Boi-Ky will never be the same.....????????

  • luVn_liFe…

    yes SATIN Panther!! I just need girth and wallah!

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Girl get a white boy...IDK if you mess with them but they are freaky as hell...the best man that ever went down on me was white...I ran from his fine azz...

  • luVn_liFe…

    lmaolmaoloololololoolololollmaomd!!

  • brooklyn23

    I havent gotten an orgasm through intercourse either. I mean I get aroused and wet but no cigar. And I only got an orgasm 1 time from someone giving me head. I pretty much had to result to using my shower head on my clitoris, thats like the only way. But I dont have much of a libido, only sometimes if I smoke bud .Hmm ye would be nice to get a rich limp d€k dude

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Well from my observation and experience a man can like/love a women for who she is but still want to screw another chick it just sex not love that’s why you have your main piece and you side stable

  • Tlowe89

    I just had an experience with a guy who only got hard when receiving oral, it was horrible. I wanted to ask if he was gay, but didn’t want to be disrespectful.

  • Satin Panther

    Yass LuvN!! This guy I used to date, whom I considered the one that got away dyck was so pretty I told him "IT" should start a career in modeling..LOL

  • xenaD

    I agree sis!

  • Tlowe89

    I’m the same way. The idea of it makes me tired most of the time, and it feel like a chore one of which I should get paid for but not feel like a prostitute, lol. And I hate when it last more than 15 min

  • xenaD

    Get with a chick

  • Soda

    Side stable? What are you, a stallion? ?

  • Satin Panther

    Damn a man whose known for playing crazy macho villians and can't get it up? Can he at least "Jack The Bean Stalk?"

  • Tlowe89

    Omg I feel like your telling my story, same crap happened to me recently

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Log out Chile

  • Shamwow
  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Men pop viagra in their 30's damn ???? Whew shyt

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Ya should have if that was the first thing that came to mind

  • Neva RuthLess

    You don’t lie. A lot of white men seem to have an oral fetish.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    ????

  • Ni Ni

    No telling how many women he's screwed when it was working. His old azz bout done wore it out.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I literally aint got nothing for this post .... nothing ..... sound like his root all da way up to his sacral and solar plexus is blocked .... .... Good luck with that sir ..

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Certainly a blockage ... but let da doctors diagnose him and put him on some pill .... like everybody else ... smh

  • DeepThinker

    I’m sure this a very humbling experience for a sloring, promiscuous womanizing man.

  • SayWhatNow?

    My best friend hates sex too, and it caused problems in her marriage. I'm the total opposite, I don't like a man to give me oral all night, I'll pull him up after the first minute because ill take penetration over oral. But I NEVER have a orgasm unless I do it myself. I had two kids before a had my first orgasm!

  • Goddess™®?©?

    ???? I am in my house reading this shit and cracking up laughing out loud.

  • Renee26

    I know allllll about this! Men need to go ahead and ask their doctors for that prescription! I will never settle for not being satisfied in a relationship again... Fugg dat, he will get cheated on or left if he refuses to try.

  • luVn_liFe…

    lol

  • Shamwow
  • Renee26

    Yuck

  • Renee26

    ?

  • Renee26

    Sometimes before that

  • Renee26

    ?

  • Renee26

    ???

  • Renee26

    Yup... More so cause those pills are available now.

  • Vegas1989

    I knew someone that was selling Viagra at work and they was buying it like Pez candy....SMH...I knew a 23 yr old guy was taking it because he was on steroids and couldn't get a woody...SAD...Cute guy too....

  • Renee26

    Not for me... That man in the boat is the strongest...especially if it squirts too... Agreed that not every man knows how to hit that g-spot. Ironically it's he with the lil one that curved that hit the G right.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    For real...."How he die???"....."On top of me"...chi;e

  • Eileen

    "switch things up"? the devil is a lie if anything when you winging it everywhere it can cause erectile confusion cause ya dumb dick dont know physiologically speaking what system it is entering into. When a man is in a marriage to his wife their systems become accommadating to each other. The two definitely become one! That is what God means when he says one man one women!!

  • Renee26

    You should give directions... Or get it while on top. Or on your back with 1 knee bent and the other straight. He should lean on the bent leg.... You'll get it!

  • Renee26

    Gasps and clutches pearls ?

  • Eileen

    nasty...

  • SayWhatNow?

    I tried it all!

  • Renee26

    Sorry... At least you can please yourself. I had a gf who was a 45yr old divorcee who had never had an O.... I bought sis a bullet and changed her life.

    No woman should go without. The way I see it we should be the MAIN ones being pleased. God blessed us with 3 ways to get that O. Internally/ G-spot, External thru the Clit and the squirt hole (which is real)

  • Renee26

    Dang... Dat hoola hoop didn't work or did you not wait long enough?? It takes time ?

  • Renee26

    Whaaaaaat???!!

  • stav

    So why keep the relationship going if the attraction is lost, and definitely why put yourself in a sexual situation if the attraction has been lost...I'm sure there is no answer, because no one has provided a logical one yet!

  • GinJen

    Alot of men don't take their blood pressure medication because it causing erectile dysfunction. They would rather have a stroke or be on dialysis for life than to have erection problems.?

  • suganspice68

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!

  • suganspice68

    IKR,LOL!

  • suganspice68

    Lol

  • Bashi22

    Change your diet eat consume mostly plant base. Reduce alcohol ? intake increase water ? intake. Live an active lifestyle that will send blood rushing through the veins and the penis veins.

  • Renee26

    It has to last for 3 months tho

  • Renee26

    For over 3 months at that ?

  • suganspice68

    Only until they are 6ft under

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • suganspice68

    Ewwwww!

  • Gamer?? Chick
  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Oh is THAT right?? ???

  • Renee26

    So serious... With a 2 minute man for 6 yrs... He was a prostate cancer survivor so I empathized. Fugg dat...not worth it. I'd rather be single having good sex

  • Renee26

    That skin ?

  • Meme

    And what on God's green earth he wanna do with an erction at 75 I ask ya ,?he should take up billiards or snooker or something

  • Chicagowise

    A lot of psychotropic drugs have the same effect.

  • Kimberly King

    Erectile dysfunction is mother nature's karma to men. They're so reckless with their dingalings and then out of nowhere it stops working. Lmao bloopity bloop bloop bloop

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • Satin Panther

    I Hear ya! Whatever floats your boat and coat your throat, but I didn't realize I was a squirter til I had a vag-gasm..We're all different. LOL

  • Stopfoolingurself

    You're playing with yourself too much. The more you play with yourself the harder it is to orgasm. I bet you have to turn your vibrator up to the highest level and watch porn to orgasm. Stop for a couple of months and have sex. If he knows what he's doing it should be much better.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Sometimes I think too murch porn can cuz erectile dysfunction. Some men be watching tew much nasty shidt and expect their potna tew perform in that same manner. If their potna won't perform alla that nasty shidt then their dix won't get hard.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Ridiculous smh

  • Coy little wink

    Lol. Don't sleep on the seniors hun...

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Well say for instance you married you can have a lot of business intertwine or kids..? Have you not been in a relationship before?

  • Alextra Ballard

    Being a diabetic doesn't help ither

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Hey now I definitely belive in that being partly true also.... but certain men can be very “driven” that’s why vast majority of the world men have multiple wives

  • Chicagowise

    Not true. I'm 50 and I still have to be mindful of my thoughts in public. If my elevator ain't going up, it's because I'm not "getting off" on your floor.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Chiile I know yew were fraustrated

  • Chicagowise

    LMAO! That last bit of your comment! ?

  • Alextra Ballard

    Lol

  • MrsSpice1

    Lmao ?!!!!!!

  • MsChocCookie

    You can not honestly say your Shaboiky works the same as it did in your 20s and 30s....that my dear is a thing of the past...Be honest it will never be that firm. just the facts of life....problem with men y’all can’t own up to Nuffin lol. Instead y’all as a whole pop the viagra, willing to chance a heart attack..., be honest this is grown folk talk!!!

  • Alextra Ballard

    Ewwww

  • hottlanta

    Sandy wasted her 4am Everest institute commercial medical minute on this one. We can clearly see he has a wrinkled face which means wrinkled balls n nuts. Which in the medical journal cant get right.

  • hottlanta

    Aint nothing coming out but gnats spider webs n dust.

  • hottlanta

    Aint no man got no business being diabetic at 35. They using that as an excuse now as the reason they cant perform.

  • Renee26

    LMAO

  • Renee26

    Yep, I had to dump my last friend because he popped some sort of pill that backfired on him. Normally he can get it back up really quick, I'm talkin four or five times a night. That fool took a pill the had him unable to get up at all...we worked at it for hours before I gave up. He didn't give up but I took my butt to sleep, and never spoke to him again.

  • Chicagowise

    Not every man in his 50s is suffering from ED. I'm sure as I get older, things may change, but as of today's date... my Shaboiky is as reliable as the day I first "discovered" it. ?

  • Renee26

    Fat boys chile

  • Renee26

    I relied on my bullet...but wanted some long lasting peen. I suffered ya hear me!!

  • Renee26

    Right... Just don't fake it... Faking it makes these fools think they know what they're doing when they really don't ?

  • Chicagowise

    I have had 5 seconds bottoms who pop their corks the minute you twist their caps! I threw one guy out before he could get dressed. He had the nerve to lie their in my bed trying to have a mundane conversation, while I'm standing there with Thor's hammer in my hand! ?

  • MsChocCookie

    You did not answer the question. I never said that it had to be ED I said after the age of 40 it’s never the same as in 20s and 30s....you didn’t answer the question.....are you saying your Sha boi. Ky is just as firm as your 20s and 30s lol....come on now...Denial is a MoFo....the male ego is terrible lol.....well if you don’t think it ain’t nobody gonna think it for you....won’t even give the young brothers their props, you had your time Smh ???? lol.

  • GinJen

    correct! so we have alot of psychotic, hypertensive, kidney failure having men walking around with hard d!cks.. because they refuse to take their meds

  • Alextra Ballard

    Yew are absolutely correct. I worked mental health for 20+ years,but it was the opposite with some psychotropic medication. We had a couple of clients on Thorazine... instead of ED they had erections for days. These were not 6 or 7in menziz. They were in so much pain. Nothing would help but surgery.

  • Chicagowise

    Yep!

  • Chicagowise

    Yep!

  • Alextra Ballard

    Lmaooo..chiiile everybidy has a "Mr. Buzz"

  • Alextra Ballard

    Lmaooo..chiiile everybidy has a "Mr. Buzz"

  • Chicagowise

    Ouch!

  • Chicagowise

    Ouch!

  • Renee26

    I had one of those...30 seconds or less then had the nerve to cry after he got his... Mf dry ya tears and get lost!

  • Renee26

    I had one of those...30 seconds or less then had the nerve to cry after he got his... Mf dry ya tears and get lost!

  • Alextra Ballard

    Yall can have Danny,him ain even close tew my type. Even with a functioning peen

  • Alextra Ballard

    Yall can have Danny,him ain even close tew my type. Even with a functioning peen

  • stav

    Marriage was not stated!

  • stav

    Marriage was not stated!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    And what your talking about is maybe two sexually inexperienced now people getting up in the hundreds now a days before they get married

  • Chicagowise

    LMAO! I like your aggressive interviewing style! ?

    At this time, everything on me, is just as firm as it was in my 20s. Again, as I continue to age, I'm sure things will change.

  • Chicagowise

    LMAO!

  • Chicagowise

    That's a complete waste of time.

  • Kim’s Original Face

    If erectile dysfunction had a face it would be his yikes!

  • Dahl

    I don’t feel like I need to know about the erectiles of a 75 year old man...?

  • Yui
  • Alextra Ballard

    Out of all the faces...

  • Alextra Ballard

    At seventy five,wut wud yew expect

  • Alextra Ballard

    Crackn up.......yew wrong!!!!

  • Alextra Ballard

    Thats exactly what the patient wud say when his peen ran nto shidt

  • Alextra Ballard

    Cdfuuu....girrrl stop!!!!

  • hottlanta

    Yall trying 2 get Sandy 2 impeach me.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Whats going on wiff these menziz in their 30's and 40' cant get a natural erection.

  • Satin Panther

    LOL..Renee...right! OMG. Now that's something I don't do! I've left a couple nuggaz with blue balls back in the day bcuz they didn't know wtf they were doing, they were sex ignorant or something. Or nuggaz that think they need to "beat the poosy up" like that chit feels good..umm no nugga that's abuse damn near rape!

  • Renee26

    Lol I'm so serious but in his defense he had a brain injury that caused him to change. Because when we first started kicking it he had plenty of stamina. But he had an accident and when we tried to rekindle what we had, I guess you can say the "spark" was gone

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    After my wife's grand-daddy died at age 83, the people cleaning up his apartment found his condoms stashed in his nightstand drawer. Apparently grand-daddy was still popular with the ladies at the senior living center, even into his 80's.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    You'd be surprised at the stuff that goes down in some these senior living /retirement communities. Men and women getting it in, well into their 70's and even their 80's.

  • nyla00

    ???

  • CookieMobster

    WELL..... My husband is getting old. He read an article that said if you get "morning wood" and not the Sandra Rose kind, then your heart was healthy. Lets just say that every morning I jokingly say "Daddy is your heart healthy this morning" and ever morning he says YES. ??? ? ? ?

  • CookieMobster

    DON'T judge me BUT I think he is gangsta sexy.....

  • hottlanta

    The thought of seeing him naked makes me wanna throw up.??

  • Heat2Hot

    I'm dealing with this right now. As the wife of a 72 year old Vietnam Vet with this condition it's challenging. He's an herbalist who won't take pills. Typical day at my house? Me: I'm sick of your witch doctor sh*t! Get some Viagara or I'm moving on!!!!"

  • hottlanta

    Not me. I dont never want to get 2 a place in my life l forget what the scent n the feel of a man banging me feels like.

  • Heat2Hot

    You're soooo lucky CookieMobster!!!

  • hottlanta

    He served his country n now you want him to serve you.

  • hottlanta

    Dang thor was my favorite saturday morning cartoon

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    This world want to share too much of the wrong information I don’t want to know about this man ED or any other man I’m not sleeping with

  • hottlanta

    I did the math so in 6 years u had only 32 hours of sex. You were celibate. Aint no shoes gonna b under my bed that cant perform.

  • HoneyHitchcock

    No, nope, nawh every man should not come clean about their experience with erecting dysfunction.

  • Heat2Hot

    No dear. I want us to serve each other. *ka-boom*

  • hottlanta

    U betta say it and own it. That is what lm talking bout.??

  • Malificent

    Facts! Or they can’t orgasm because they’re used to jerking off.

  • Malificent

    I know. I didn’t realize that people still get it in at that age. I thought by year 7 of marriage they’re tired of that person.

  • Miss Thang

    I refuse to be with a man who watches too much porn.

  • dontgetblocked

    I had a boyfriend and he took a medication...and he went limp. Needless to say...we got his azz right the hell of that medication. We was not having that...no way.

  • Topic Influencer

    A WHOLE ENTIRE WORD

  • Topic Influencer

    A horrible wife...but You would make a perfect lesbian tho. Maybe? IDK. I feel sad about this. We gotta find you some happy. Dick was put on this earth for me and FOR YOU TOO.

  • Topic Influencer

    No woman should go without. The way I see it we should be the MAIN ones being pleased. God blessed us with 3 ways to get that O. Internally/ G-spot, External thru the Clit and the squirt hole (which is real)
    ^^^^^ https://media0.giphy.com/media/fnK0jeA8vIh2QLq3IZ/giphy.gif

  • Logan Roberts

    Welp.

  • Seldomseen

    Lmao

  • Seldomseen

    Glad he was using protection

  • Lola Regena

    ?????

  • Eileen

    It is called being faithful disciplined and committed it is not called being whoreish and a hound dog!

  • Eileen

    AMEN

  • Jacqueline Byrd

    Me too CookieMobster I really think Danny Trejo is a sexy man.

  • Renee26

    LMAO... I love you Hots!!!

  • CardiB’sAbs

    I see this is the year of oversharing.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    lol Yeah maybe!

  • hottlanta

    I love u too. Love your honesty n guts. One guy told me he was a prostrate cancer survivor l turned him down. Bravo to you for being brave enuf 2 go thru it.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Hmmm maybe I will try that. But I hate sex tho.. lol

  • Kimberly King

    You didn't wanna fool around with another guy on the side ? Lol

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Maybe I need to buy me a bullet. I had one many moons ago, don't know what happened to it but it was the only thing that made me squirt. I didn't know what the hell was happening to me but I didn't want it to stop! lol

  • Jordan’s Memory

    A rich limp dyck dude? LMAO Yasssss!!!! We will be together forever!!!!

  • tintin

    are you 35??? you still wanna get that dack at this age?? I"m assuming you're 68 mininum.

    Am i still gonna have to be performing in my 60s?

    Good God.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    LMAO Well I'm tired of waiting dammit!!!! I guess I gotta figure out how to make my own waterfalls.

  • tintin

    i agree. why does a 75 year old man still want it to work. go read a book and sit on the porch or something.

  • tintin

    i agree. and because they jack off so much it becomes porn dack. so even if they wanna perform it's a soft disgusting erection.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Yasss that curve dyck is dangerous but men I have been with seem like they can hang on long enough for me to get there. smdh just lazy! lol Oh and I total agree the clit packs a punch if you do it right, it can raddle everything in ur body.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    I am guilty as charged. I fake it so they can hurry up and get the hell off of me!!!!!!!

  • tintin

    After reading this thank God we have holes. I would never want a d!ck

    As women get older, we may take longer to get juiced up but luckily there is lube to help with that.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Dayummm lol

  • Jordan’s Memory

    As in with a woman?

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Yep smdh idk maybe because I just hate sex. I like intimacy I like foreplay and oral but when it comes to the penis inside of my vagina after may 4 strokes I'm just done I want it to stop! Weird I know...

  • Jordan’s Memory

    It definitely a time issue because I think I am the type where you really gotta put in work maintain a consistent stroke for me to get there, and needless to say most men not all but most just trying to get there's.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    lol I just posted about 4 or 5 strokes in I'm ready for it to stop!

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Yes Maim!

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Already have woman are the best! but I have no problem getting there with oral, it's just I never had an orgasm through sexual intercourse with a man.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    lmao why would you run from some good head? I have never been with one but I always wanted too. I guess the opportunity hasn't presented itself yet.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Well you know they started that shyt. Black men had to start doing it to keep up! lol

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    LOL...I ran because it was too much!!! I may be in the minority about this but when you have sex with someone for the first time I dont believe in pulling all the "tricks" out the bag...Some tricks or fetishes need to be saved...anyway my punk azz stopped seeing him not once but twice after...we tried to reconnect earlier this year but I lost him to Tinder...

  • Jordan’s Memory

    LMAO!!!!!

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Dayummm! I feel ya. you definitely don't want to give him the as the prostitutes say "all around the world special" in the beginning. lol but I am mad at you for letting him go now he out here making someone else squirt. I wish I could find him. lmao

  • MsSapphire9800

    I can't wait till my husband enter that stage....shyt I am tired of rolling over...interupting my good sleep.

  • brooklyn23

    And what would make it better is if he's old like that billionaire Anna Nicole landed I would be lit

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Chile idk but I would be mad as hell if I was his wife. I would have to give his old ass some sleep medicine in his dinner every night so he could leave me the fyck alone!!!!!!!!!!!! lmao

  • Jordan’s Memory

    I read some where that the STD rate is very high in the Senior Living Homes. smdh Just nasty. I worked at a nursing home and every time this old man got hos retirement check at the beginning of the month he would use it on a Prostitute. Then I find out a copy of nursing got fired because he was paying them for sex too. WTH!!!!! That's probably where those std's came from.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    ikr hell that's all I need.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    LMAO you mean!!!! That Ninja was like 110 yrs old. smdh

  • Jordan’s Memory

    I wonder if that's my problem. I masturbate quite a bit. could that be why I hate having sex?

  • Coy little wink

    And some finger action ?

  • Satin Panther

    It's all good boo, all you need is some practice! All ya gotta do is invest in a nice but affordable rabbit vibrator which teases the clitoris as well as a vibrating dild0 that way your getting stimulated in both areas and you'll get some result I guaranteed it..LOL

  • BlackNicheRims

    My great aunt used to say, " A hole outlasts a pole anyday". I didn't know then, but I know now.

  • Fire & Ice

    Very aggressive ???

  • tintin

    of course. omg stop

  • Renee26

    Yes, that's it. It takes me time to get the internal one too. The external can happen a lot quicker

  • Renee26

    ? hugs yew

  • SweetTEE

    No ma'am. They STILL want sex even w a semi. Trust what I tell you. It's a pride/ego/insecurity thing.Let your dude take some high blood pressure meds or have a nerve issue & ED be a side effect- watch things change. And let that cialis or viagra not work? And you know you aint gone get juicy either bc his attitude and limp thing combined will turn you off. ED will make an attractive, secure man lose his mind.

  • Renee26

    IKTR!! My ex broke mine... He was jealous ? mf snapped it in half

  • Renee26

    Hell yeah... I was tryna be good. I regretted it after the fact

  • Renee26

    It's ok... You down for a sista wife? I'm lookin for a nice couple to settle down with... Jk

  • SweetTEE

    The meds are no better. You better stick with the natural ish and it not work. Those pills and shots are expensive af and dont even work most of the time depending on the reason for the ed.

  • Kimberly King

    Oh I definitely would have been f*cking other men lmao

  • Ms..N

    Lol Papa still was a rolling stone!!

  • oshh16

    That sounds very drying, uh I couldn't do it.

  • Renee26

    Dats why I said moving forward I will be cheatin or leavin... Fugg dat!

  • Peppermint Patty

    Your aunt is a wise woman.

  • Tlowe89

    Lmao I would feel horrible for asking that, probably because I’ve known this person for 2 decades, and recently things, well shifted, and when they did I was severely disappointed, lol. And I feel if I asked I would lose him as a friend above all

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Gotta be honest with folks .... if that was an honest question in your mind about him ya should have asked ..... I feel ya ...... being open and honest can save your life from hardships

  • MsSapphire9800

    Damn you made it some scary...lol

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond
  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Right?! I'm not trying to still be doing the do every damn day once I get further up in age. Once in a while, yes.
    https://media0.giphy.com/media/WssEOYBV9NIty/giphy.gif

  • BlackNicheRims

    Thank You...I love my Aunts They dropped a lot of knowledge bombs on us growing up. I thought they were man eaters! Lol.

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    It's so dead in my office today and when I read your comment, I laughed waaay too damn hard!

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Ga dammit yall killin me in here today! https://media1.giphy.com/media/lszAB3TzFtRaU/giphy.gif

  • Kimberly King

    And then they wanna try and play you and act like it's YOU who can't get them hard or keep them hard. Ninja puhlease

    I remember when I was in college and I met a HVAC guy who worked on campus. Muscular, chocolate and fine as hell. He was 45 and I believe I was around 22 or 23 when I met him. Anyway, his friend couldn't even stay up while I was giving him head. He blamed me talking about it couldn't stay up because my head was too sloppy! Lmao I kicked his idiotic ass out. A week later he apologized and ADMITTED he had been diagnosed with ED. I asked him how did it happen and he said he believed it was because he jacked off and f*cked a lot during his younger years. Pathetic

  • Kimberly King

    Bless your heart !!! Orgasms through penetration are much better and more powerful than orgasms from clit stimulation. Hopefully you run into the right man who can make you cum on his d*ck! It's so worth it ! I'm actually the opposite of you. I prefer penis over head. Men are terrible at giving head. Women are much better.

  • Kimberly King

    Yes ! Girth over length any single day of the week !

  • Kimberly King

    Lmaooooo

  • Kimberly King

    Good ! Lmao now if I'm married and he's financing the hell out of me and my lifestyle I'm not going anywhere. However, I will have a young 20 something year old man on speed dial so I can cum all over his d*ck whenever I need to lol

  • Chicagowise

    LMAO

  • tintin

    LMAO. HAHAHHA.
    you saw him the first thing you wanted to know if that thang is working cause you ain`t got time to waste. FUNNNYYYY

    What was his answer please, did he say it's working properly now?

  • tintin

    who you telling??? i love a fat one.

  • KLove

    You know what used to cause ED with me....when I used to be out tryna cheat on my girl...and she steady blowin my phone up while im in the act....once i stopped tryna cheat...problem solved...no more ED LOL

  • KLove

    maaaaan...i always said, if my joint stops working...they may as well take me on up to the Upper Room fam.....FOH.

  • KLove

    at 75...imma be tryna pay some young gal's GA power bill....my joint needs to work cuz i need a return on my investment

  • ClaireHuxtable
  • ClaireHuxtable
  • ClaireHuxtable

    LOL! *My Ex-hubby's karma should be kicking in right about now*

  • ClaireHuxtable

    or be d3ad.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Hard-hearted Hannah. Get it?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    U wait until I post ^this in the Fellowship hall of the MLK Ave. AME church!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    "I think premature ejaculation is just as bad."
    Don't git me started!!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    more like a donkey.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Was the expiration date on them 1986?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Funny. :-) No, from my understanding it seemed like his stash had been bought pretty recently.

  • hottlanta

    They gonna cluth their pearls n throw their hands up in the air n say yes lawd. Lilhots blew my fantasy today when she showed my forever boyfriend larry blackmon of cameo wearing his word up famous red cup. They had the old photo against the senior citizen red cup photo with the caption toooo much candy. I was dead dead dead.????

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I aint mad at him.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Word Up?

  • MistaO

    Yep and many of yalls holes more like tunnels with worn out bed sheets hanging up for lips?

  • mzwhang90210

    You say go sit in the back yard, rub ya chin...& and spit every 35 minutes???

  • BlackNicheRims

    I don’t know anything about that. Perhaps you should stay off the track? Or choose better women

  • Heat2Hot

    LOL Claire! That cartoon is exactly what l see him doing 50 times a day!!!! LOL!!!!

  • Heat2Hot

    tintin, l can't answer your question about whether you'll still be performing in your 60's because I'm not you. That's number one. Number two? I'm not in my 60's. I'm 53. Number three. Just pray that you live to be my age and can sit home retired having fun on Sandra Rose everyday clicking on every ad on this site shopping your asz off. *ka-pow*

  • Heat2Hot

    SweetTee, we're both retired professionals. We can afford pills or shots. That's not the issue.

  • B.Loveitt

    No as in seeing a counselor! Some people trip about it.

  • ?AndGodCreatedWoman?

    LMAO!!! My mother once infuriated a cheating partner with

    "I can look up...longer than you can look down."

  • ?? Kari ?????????

    I’m betting his isn’t working because it’s 75 years old....?

  • The Last Word

    You've suggested a moral dimension to what is essentially a biological imperative. As a general proposition among mammalsand certainly among primates, males seek as many partners as possible while females submit to the dominant male. Yes, we have greater control of our impulses, and yes, we dont have the one male/many females scenario evident in higher primate groups (at least not exactly), but to deny the fact that most men face an urge altogether unfamiliar to most women is to deny the obvious. We want as many partners as possible, while women want the best partner.

  • The Last Word

    Not every women knows how to give head, and it can be irritating as hell.

    Not saying you personally, but lots of woman think their shit is sterling when its not.

  • The Last Word

    Inertia is the most powerful force in the universe. People stay in bad jobs, relationships, etc. because change takes effort.

  • Kimberly King

    Sounds like a personal problem. Maybe you should tell them how you want your head.

    If you're not saying me personally, then why even say that? Not to mention he admitted it wasn't me, but it was that condition he had. And not to toot my own horn, I never have to give head for more than 5-7 minutes because they finish. Some have even finished quicker.

  • The Last Word

    Maybe you should apply that logic to yourself. Sounds like dude was lying to you to spare your feelings.

  • Kimberly King

    You wish. Don't get mad at me because these chicks can't suck on your little penis the way you want. I actually met his ex wife months after canceling him. She verified it! Lmao! If I didn't hold myself to such a high standard, I'd be a bomb high class hoe / porn star. Everybody would want a piece of the Queen ! Now you can stay mad.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    He just stood there like I asked him his credit score...my gf pulled me away and started cracking up...his brother came up to me later that night and said I was wrong but oh well...I dont want no lockjaw from going down on a man who cant keep it up...

  • tintin

    ?????? u are funnyy

  • B.Loveitt

    I tell ya! ?

  • B.Loveitt

    Get 'em grandaddy!

  • B.Loveitt

    ?