How many times have you met a man who by all intents and purposes seems like your perfect match? It's love at first sight as you fall head over heels for him, only to realize later that he was the Devil's spawn?
This is happening more and more frequently as upwardly mobile, successful single ladies sacrifice starting a family to focus on their careers instead. By the time a successful, independent sista in her mid 30s decides to settle down with a man and start a family, she finds the pickings are very slim.
Among the down low men, the cheaters, the con artists and the play boys, there is a more sinister man lurking: the Sociopath.
You're probably thinking you can spot a psycho from a mile away, but you're wrong. These sociopath/borderline personalities are the dudes you see up in the clubs who look like walking Billboards. They're fine, suave, debonair, charming, and one look from them can melt your panties off.
But before you give him your number (or your panties); ask yourself: why is he single? Often times these men are sociopaths on the hunt for prey: and you are their perfect victim. They're not looking for a relationship, and they will tell you that right off the bat. So please listen to them.
I found the following tips on how to spot a Sociopath/Borderline personality on another blog. Ladies, study these tips so you don't fall victim to a sociopath who destroys you mentally and financially.
How to Know When You're Dating a Psychopath
1. Charisma and charm -- He's a smooth talker, always has an answer, he's quick witted and never misses a beat. He seems to be very exciting. If he's too good to be true, it's because he is!
2. Enormous ego -- He acts like the smartest, richest or most successful man in the club. He wears expensive clothes, shoes and jewelry (all bought by his last victim). He is handsome and charming and he knows it. He will brag on himself and often parties with his "boys" who back up his lies.