This photo of Jay Z and Rihanna taken at the LA Reid Grammy after party on Sunday, speaks a thousand words. Let me tell you a little something about islanders: you do not embarrass them in front of mixed company – meaning, non-family members.

Island people are very noble and proud people – but they won’t hesitate to take you to the side and tear your ass out the frame for disrespecting them. What Jay Z did by “translating” for Rihanna while she was thanking her father in front of millions – was totally disrespectful. I’m sure Rihanna let Jay Z know just how she felt about his miserable attempt at a joke at her expense.

Yesterday I made the statement that some women in our community are messy for applying the wrong meaning to the hug given to Jay Z by Rihanna when she won her Grammy. The fact that most women missed the boat on the Jay Z spectacle on stage – and instead chose to gossip about a friendly hug, proves the mentality of most women in our culture.

It’s why women are our own worst enemies – and why most women who have achieved a certain level of success eliminate their messy female friends from their lives. Once again, the scandal was not in the hug, the true scandal was in the disgraceful way that Jay Z (a grown man who should have known better) disrespected a 19-year-old woman on national TV.

Thanks to loyal reader Michelle for the pic!