Earlier I posted two emails from loyal readers who put Kandi Burrus’ fiance on full blast.
Since then, a few of her friends reached out to tell me — and I quote: “All hail has broken loose! Kandi believes everything. She is on the war path.”
As you know, it was announced that the “No Scrubs” songwriter is the new addition to the cast of Bravo’s Real Housewives of Atlanta.
Earlier this week, I heard from an inside source who spoke very kindly of Kandi’s fiance “A.J.” She said A.J. is “very nice” and she couldn’t believe all the negative things my loyal reader had written about him. She asked if I would please speak to A.J. to get his side of the story. She said he’s not a dead beat dad and he is supportive of his 6 children.
She says A.J. is a legitimate business man who once owned a restaurant off of Washington Road and I-285. Both of his baby mamas worked with him at his restaurant — at the same time. She said he provides financial support for all of his children as far as she knows. “He claims his 6 kids,” she said.
But my other sources, who are close friends of Kandi’s, say my readers spoke the truth about him. One source told me Kandi was very upset and might call off the wedding to A.J.
The source said, “he’s not just a dog — he’s a dirty d*ck dog who will f*ck anything moving!”
Another source said she thinks one of A.J.’s baby mama’s is behind all these allegations about A.J. “He told her he’s getting married [to Kandi] and starting a family and he can’t continue to pay all her bills and pay for two families,” said the source. “He told her she had to get a job.”
It’s unfortunate that intelligent women like Kandi, who seem to have it all, consistently seek the wrong type of men who will end up hurting them eventually. Sadly, she hasn’t reached that point where she is able to break that pattern and meet a man who may not be so good looking or wealthy, but will love her for who she is.
The saddest part in all this is the revelation that Kandi’s $100K engagement ring was paid for out of her own pocket. Hopefully it isn’t too late to get her money back.
Hellz 2 Da NAW……pay for my own engagement ring, NEVER. NicCahs need to get it together and women need to set higher standards.
Whoever sent you that letter really want to get the word out. The also sent it to another blog that I frequent. Welcome to the world of Real Housewives of Atlanta Kandi. I’m sure she knew this scrutany was coming. It is one of the prices that must be paid for celebrity like it or not.
Ladies if you pay for your own engagement ring, he’s rankly not that into you!
What kind of desperado move is that?
I need a nap before I can get into this post fully.
gigglin @ dirty dyck dog … if THAT don’t sound like My Momma … Love you Naomi …. lol
The Black Britney Spears…SMH…some woman just don’t realize their worth…
“The saddest part in all this is the revelation that Kandi’s $100K engagement ring was paid for out of her own pocket. Hopefully it isn’t too late to get her money back”
oh helllls no! Sorry Kandi I love ya babe that was a DESPERATE decision if true. Love yourself babygirl, or he can’t love you the way you deserve to be loved.
The saddest part in all this is the revelation that Kandi’s $100K engagement ring was paid for out of her own pocket.
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ARE YOU SERIOUS??? …..desperate woman!!!
i’m glad that i’m a strong woman….*smh*
That’s a good question. Why haven’t you reached out to him to get his side of the story. Or even post the email you took the quotes from.
I’m still on the fence with this story. Why all of a sudden because of two random emails you posted is Kandi & her friends all of a sudden knowing he is a dirty dyck dog.
Kush bluntz and Rose’, Kush bluntz and Rose’ (Just watned to say that).
Anytime you paying for your own engagement ring HOUSTON THERE IS A PROBLEM!!!
Kandi knows better than that!!! Ain’t NO ni99a that serious…and to think I love that song by PeachCandy (Kandi and Rasheeda) “Man Up”!!! It was on my damn Myspace…how you gonna preach that ish and then go out and pay for your engagement ring???
Kandi take your own advice…tell ole boy to man up and send him on his way.
Pay for your own engagement ring??LOL…have women gone this low and stupid to marry a man????
If he is in fact no good, she knew it to begin with. Who the hell wants to marry a man with 6 kids, AND NO PREVIOUS RECORD OF A COMMITTMENT (failed or otherwise)? Unless the kids MOMMAS are dead – HELL TO THE NAW! It ain’t never gonna be that bad. LOL@ Dirty Dick, is he burining, too, because that’s usually what ‘Dirty Dick’ means.
For real, I wonder what makes women make stupid decision regarding picking sorry ass mates? Rihanna, Kandi, Whitney. Is there esteem that low, or are they that desperate to be with just any old nigga or what? Someone please explain it to me, cause I really don’t get it.
O Lawd Please don’t let this be true! You Paid for your own Ring!!!
Kandi Say it ai’t so !!!!!!!
KaraZ Says:
Ladies if you pay for your own engagement ring, he’s rankly not that into you!
What kind of desperado move is that?
I need a nap before I can get into this post fully.
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hehehehe. I’m gonna stick up for Kandi and say maybe her dude can’t afford a 100k ring and she just couldn’t do without it. Some people are flashy like that.
I thought you don’t want no “Scrubs”.
Sometomes I fell really bad for those in the public eye. Kandi is making the same choice hundreds of women make everyday.. I know at least 10 who have made choices similar to this…
Unfortunatley Kandi is doing it in the public eye where everyone can get on their soapbox and judge her. I wonder if our lives where under this same kind of microscope, how many of our decisions would we be judged on.
Just saying!!
I Wish I WOULD pay for my own ring.. Hayle nah..
ALOT of women FRONT.. They pay for their own sh*t!! SAD!! Leave the broke dudes ALONE!!! Stop searching for dudes that can’t do nothing but bed you! Stop pressuring dudes to marry you! The Atlanta dating scene is WACK but not wack enough to become a lesbian..
Sugga- As ALWAYS I fully agree with you
hehehehe. I’m gonna stick up for Kandi and say maybe her dude can’t afford a 100k ring and she just couldn’t do without it. Some people are flashy like that.
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But Bird, her mate should at least be equivalent to her at LEAST. Nobody’s asking man to do the whole 100, but NOTHING LESS than 50/50 Bruh! If we’re not on the same level financially, I just don’t see how we are on the same level period?
let’s keep it real unless he is a multi millionaire what can he possibly contribute to the household with him having 6 kids! The house hers…the ring hers…get a dildo and a teddy bear if it’s companionship in your bed that’s needed.
I co sign the Atlanta dating send is beyond WACK but I ain’t turning lesbo either..lol
@Bird
You know I had to take my siesta to actually deal with this here fcukery! Don’t stick up for this desperate grown ass woman who still hasn’t learned at her age to make better decisions. If your intended husband did not even bother to buy you a ring for you before you get married, he’s not going to bother to do shlt else for you when you’re married. If he can’t afford the $100K ring (which is ridamdiculous) then maybe you need to manage your expectations and go with a more affordable $5K – $10K ring instead and plan to upgrade it later or hell don’t deal with a broke ass if you know you’re accustomed to the more expensive things in life and someone who has sperminated other women 6 times is not going to have that kind of dough, unless he’s a Saudi sheikh or real money millionaire.
bish need to be on “desperate” housewives and not “real” housewives
Karaz..i’m real upset at “sperminated” right now hahahahahaha
How can yall get so worked up over a rumor that probably is 25% true at best…Is it just for entertainment…And as long as you are with someone who is trying to have SOMETHING in life and has goals that they are working toward accomplishing some kind of goals and they love you and treat you right then they shouldnt have to meet or exceed you financialy…Thats part of why the dating scene is so fckd up as a few of you have said…Too many people focusing on superficial Bullsh*t…I know yall are throwing these comments out because you have nothing better to do because I refuse to belelieve 25 black woman could be equally unintellient enough to believe every damn thing they read on a GOSSIP blog…Good day…
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Someone tell Kandi that she may want to look into Georgia Law concerning marrying a man with 6 kids. She maybe forking over her money for child support.
HOLDUP! Who are you to call us unintelligent? This is an entertainment blog and we are speaking on it(for entertainment purposes)..if you don’t like how we THINK, then leave..you’re the one taking things so damn seriously
Holla buttercup!! Kandi is desperate as all H*ll!! First, she is on that bum azz show then she is dating a dude with 6 kids hoping to have kids of her own.. What is really good with that chick? Why settle for a broke dude with 6 kids when you have NONE??
SUPERFICIAL??!!……………..Boo, even the BIBLE tells us the woman is the provider HUn. Woman aren’t even suppose to be working, we’re suppose to be doing house work and raising kids….but if we can step OUR game up, so can can SORRY AZZ MAN!
the *MAN* is the provider….but you KNOW THAT!
Kandi (I know you’re reading)
Girl you can’t say I didn’t try to stick up for ya sis. They shot me down girl.
NYCUTIE Says:
ALOT of women FRONT.. They pay for their own sh*t!! SAD!! Leave the broke dudes ALONE!!!
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Hey hey hey, my baby is broke and he is still good peoples. By that I mean he makes less money than me, but he bought me a beautiful engagement ring on his budget (actually he got a loan from the boss man) and I LOVE it. I would not dream of going out and buying my own ring and no man that I would be interested in would want me to. But don’t knock the broke brothas. Well maybe if they got six kids, but if they’re childless like my boo give a brotha a chance.
Krysi J Says:
SUPERFICIAL??!!……………..Boo, even the BIBLE tells us the woman is the provider HUn. Woman aren’t even suppose to be working, we’re suppose to be doing house work and raising kids….but if we can step OUR game up, so can can SORRY AZZ MAN!
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PREACH!!!! I told you we agree more than not. Nobody agrees with me on that. NO ONE. Quiet as it’s kept my black butt got laid off and next Friday is my last day. My “broke” boo ain’t got no problem taking care of me which he has been doing. I have not paid for groceries in 3 months and we don’t even live together. I LOVE providers.
Bird Says:
Kandi (I know you’re reading)
Girl you can’t say I didn’t try to stick up for ya sis. They shot me down girl.
NYCUTIE Says:
ALOT of women FRONT.. They pay for their own sh*t!! SAD!! Leave the broke dudes ALONE!!!
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Hey hey hey, my baby is broke and he is still good peoples. By that I mean he makes less money than me, but he bought me a beautiful engagement ring on his budget (actually he got a loan from the boss man) and I LOVE it. I would not dream of going out and buying my own ring and no man that I would be interested in would want me to. But don’t knock the broke brothas. Well maybe if they got six kids, but if they’re childless like my boo give a brotha a chance.
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To each its own Bird! I couldn’t date/marry a man that made less money than me cause it would eventually cause friction in the relationship. I am speaking from experience! Wish you & your fiance’ well
First of all,Krysi J …………..
I never said anything about being with a sorry man…I said if the man has goals and is working toward something in life he shouldnt have to match or exceed what you have financialy…Unless you’re broke and have nothing to match or exceed…And the bible was written in biblical days not in 2009…Today most couples have to work together…Im with a good provider and all the men in my family are providers but Im still wise enough to know that a man shouldnt be judged by the AMOUNT of money in his wallett but by his drive and determination…That’s why I’m enjoying the life I have today…One that some of u would love to enjoy…Because my man appreciates me loving him for him not for his bank account balance..But since u have no lives and probably no man…you sit up on Sandra Rose complaining about whats going on in other peoples lives whether you have any evidence of it being true or not! And trust me…I have no intention of invading the world of the ignorant again…I havent visited this site in months and I see nothing has changed…The only reason I came on here 2day and read the comments and commented on this post is because Im know first hand that most of this post is false! BUT …IGNORANCE IS BLISS…
There are many women like kandi-who feel as long as a dog/man is willing to marry them then that’s all that really matters-so she can throw up the “I’m Married Banner” or say “My Husband”
and of course, their first job as first lady is to do PR for their husband past indiscretions and fault all of the baby mama’s cause somehow they weren’t right and now all of a sudden she is.
But I digress, cause everytime I speak against marrying no good, philandering, hoez-the hens come running behind me clucking waving their marriage license and claiming i’m just jealous.
Nope-not at all just zero tolerance for bullshiat
NYCUTIE
My mama told me to never date a man who makes less than me, but I think she would like my boo if she were still here because he takes really good care of me and he is a strong manly man. She liked that. We can work on the money part later if he wants to. He’s been avoiding moving into managment because he says he doesn’t want the responsibility, but if we are fortunate to kick out a baby I bet he will change his tune about that. I was doing fine without him and he was doing fine without me so us coming together is all for the good. So far money has been a total non issue for us, but like I said, we don’t live together. We’ll see how things go when we finally take the shackin plunge next month.
I’m a little late in this discussion but I thought it was first reported that he was into “pharmacutical” sales and was usings businesses to throw that fact off. Now he’s broke and can’t afford to buy Kandi a nice engagement ring? Which is it.
IF this story is true (which I’m not sure) I tend to think that he couldn’t afford the ring that she wanted and she added on or brought it herself. Hopefully if these stories are true she wakes up before the wedding happens.
Poetry, Poetry, Poetry…..nobody is knocking a man with all of the qualities you are speaking on, but boo…there comes a time when Goals and drive don’t pay bills? NicCahs will sit up under you and SELL YOU DREAMS as long as you let them then drop u for the next bytch wit a credit card and a good job. There is nothing wrong with asking for NO MORE than what you have to offer 50/50. I didn’t say he had to make more money then me, and I didn’t say he had to make the same amount….but when I ask him for his half on the bills…..HE NEEDS TO COME WITH IT, period. Women volunteer themselves to raise DEEZ MEN like children…talking about GOALS and DRIVE….and the niccah ain accomplished shyt?? This dude has 6 kids?? Be serious?? This ain nothing like what YOU are talking about if its true that is. I know about being a back bone and weathering a storm with someone who loves you…but who about to sit up in a house going to work everyday, while a man tells you about goals, that is being DESPERATE for a man regardless of the sircumstances to hell with SUPERFICIAL BS. There is nothing wrong with wanting a man on the same page as you, shyt thats the only kind of man Im even compatiable with.
@ Bird sorry for the job loss
Hope you’ll still be online giving us the goods.
& I think the difference btw a woman dating a man who makes less than she does is experience.
When you are young (er) you have more options. So you only date guys who make more, who look good, who has the nicest, fastest cars.
Once you become a “woman” you know at the end of the day none of that shyt matters.
He could have the job making 200K today in this economy lose his job tomorrow.
well, i never wish anything on anyone, well not at first. i dont wish anything ill on the dude, but sounds like he has unfinished business that he really should handle. i dont knock him for having 6 kids from previous relationships, but if he’s not supporting them and think he bout to parlay in kandi’s pad with no worries, he is a dead beat. i’m just waiting for the episode when he drags his kids to her comfy home like it’s his ish. aint that a bitch? back to my point though–i know some guys who have several kids, married and actually help support their kids, new wife and all.
we’re getting this info from a third party. i dont believe she’s going to call of her wedding over hear say. we’re all human; when you start hearing ish like this, ya red flag go up, but the wake up call will be an incident that happens in Kandi’s life; it can’t just be what she heard or people saying. she has to experience it and go thru it, if she decides to stick this out.
in dude’s defense, i’d be crushed if my fiance got rid of me over hear say, rather than letting me prove I am the man I claim to be. she’s gotta know about all these damn kids staking out her house on weekends–rambling thru Riley’s ish, breaking her toys. hahahaha. stop it i say.
her own ring==she’s not the first. it’s nothing i would do as a man, but that’s just me. but you’re marrying a celebrity, shes’ used to certain ish. that’s just the bottom line. you can play insecure and cry about not being able to get it, or you can let her do her…
i still wish kandi the best. i’ll cut the dude some slack, unless it’s proven he’s truly a dead beat. black guys really are slim pickings, so I’m compelled to believe black women are SETTLING for less. Yeah, they are. she’s good to accept the proposal of some guy with that many kids; and you gotta move into MY CRIB??? yeah man, Kandi and women like her are good. Many times I be like ‘does she (general) want a man THAT bad?’ kandi is another woman who, when it comes to the average man, can probably ask ‘what do i need you for?’ and like most losers, they won’t be able to answer…not verbally anyways…
#29, Kandi has a daughter, but I feel what you’re saying. I’m still reading comments. Me being a man, I will say that a female gotta have what I have or not far from it. Fa real. Yeah, all that text book bs sounds good, however, the reality is, if you with somebody making 6 figures and you still at 30grand, when “I move you move,” they can’t. Money is a factor and is very important.
The six kids would’ve been a turn off from the jump. We would not have had anything else to talk about. Trust me. A woman with one kid gets a pass; 2 kids, all we can be is friends. I can get p u s s y anywhere, minus the baby daddy nonesense or other drama.
No, you’re not dragging that phuckery into my life.
I have to agree with Poetry777 with her first comment #26. You can’t believe everything you read and hear these days. There are so many media outlets that feed from each other. It’s all entertainment!