I can't decide if this is an insult to all black women, or encouragement to sistas who have options available to us.
Loyal reader GregW wrote:
Sandra why do some darker skin black women always hate on LSLH? And why do women who are 20 50 100lbs+ overweight always hate on women who are not overweight. If that's most black men's preference then get over it. Don't waste time on someone who does not want you. Focus on the men that are into you. Maybe if they got an education, were more positve, supportive, dated men who are in to them and not who they are into, lost some weight and took better care of their hair (see Michelle Obama) they might get a husband (or in your case a wife).
Advice to all black women. Stop hating on your sisters and tighten your game up. Not many men of ANY RACE wants an angry bitter overweight nappy headed woman. Ladies, step your game up and be more realistic about your expectations and you will find your prince. Otherwise you'll end up alone or like Erica Badu (multiple baby dadies). Its not rocket science.