Ask Monica & Mia X

Hi guys… i apologize for my tardiness. My interviews ran long. I am very excited to talk to you guys and i appreciate all those who have supported me.
Thanks sandra for allowing me to link to my people and before we begin, there was a huge LIE told on me today that made me chose this topic. For those who saw that ridiculous letter, i hope you laughed as hard as i did.First of all i dont go to Saks much because i have a personal shopper, i spend most my time with my children and focusing on making a solid ballad filled album. so the story was pathetic. however i did find it really sweet that she thinks so highly of her man that she THOUGHT i wanted him and sadly i dont remember EITHER of them. i am very happy at home contrary to popular belief and would never be randomly talking to men and exchanging numbers. Maybe this guy thought this lie would make him look like a real big dog but let the whole Sandrarose family say FAIL at once..lol. lets begin. im open to all your questions. i will be on while Mia is having computer trouble

@lady justice brandy reached out to me through twitter, she is really a sweet person at heart. she asked could we do another song and i told her absolutely… the hard part is making sure that its better than the first, and that would be SO hard. lol

dallas 214, your right i love my people very much, and we DONT know the single yet. We are going to have a song playing meeting in about a week to secure some things… its got to be right

@iscream…. NO NO NO. my typing to you guys is not because of the letter. sandra and i spoke to each other about me doing this once a month a while back. and today she called to tell me about the letter so that we could share a chuckle and i told her now is the time. i love that blogging is an open forum for us but i dont like the fact that a lie can be told and sold with no responsibility from the other party. so this is a cool way for the truth to always be told.. but by no means am i angry

kcicero, i would love to do a record with john. he very talented. as for this album i worked with missy, b.cox, polow da don, stargate, neyo, carlos, esther dean and many great writers that have taken my poems and real life experiences and made songs out of them. some were just great songs that i heard and loved

@sharnell. my apologies. as for your story. i despise a deceitful person but i can tell you that i have learned to sit back and allow peoples bad karma to bite them in the butt as you see it did in your story .i used to try and avenge everything that people did to me but i learned that vengeance isnt mine and if i have done whats right i will come out of the pain with a smile… thats why you always see me smiling. thats why i treat people the way i want to be treated.

@bird, im totally with you. im a soldier and since i had my children my views on alot of things have changed . I believe that change is part of your growth, and im not ashamed of that at all. People call me hood and everything else under the sun but i know who i am and whos i am

@divinebrown, great question. the lable loved the makings of me and has since been very upfront and honest about the fact that they simply chose the wrong first single. jermaine dupri and i both told them to go with a strong emotion filled record for me because thats what my fan base loves and appreciates from me. after testing the record which is something almost all record companies do they decided to go against our wishes and the fans showed them we were right. i harbor no ill feelings towards my lable .They love and truly support me . the mistake was NOT intentional ,they wanted me to try something new. but sometimes if it aint broke…what are you trying to fix. so back to soulful ballads and mid-tempos i go. lol.

oh thanks netta for posting my twitter comments… thy are from my heart

@daisy AMEN…people are quick to count you out but god has the final say. my phone hasnt stopped ringing since the BET Awards and i only have god to thank for that and friends who still believe in me as well. i went there strictly in support of my friend and never knew how people would respond. im grateful for the opportunity and thankful at the same time

@cutiechica, rocko and i laugh hard at that rumor. we actually know who started it and have chosen to ignore them because she feels she has a right to be mad. long story but attention is what she wanted so we dont give it. she devoted alot of time to spreading the rumor and then bragged about it. she also used someone elses computer to send letters to websites and was to stupid to know the stuff would be in theyre computer history. lies, lies , lies but i cam assure u hes suuuuuuuuuper straight. lol. and thats for real

and shauny im glad to know most of the real women saw through that super SILLY story today. we all need a good laugh and that story was one. my ribs still ache from laughing at how hot she must think her man is

@danni, your story was sad because she probably has realized that your friendship is one she should have valued but i would NEVER let her back into my life to deep. i am very into peoples character and we do things as youth that we wouldnt as adults but when people show me theyre true colors i chose to forgive and dont forget, an occasional lunch or nite out is okay. but no deep secrets for her