R&B Diva Monica read our post about her new TV show and she emailed us with more details. Mo writes that she appreciates her real fans on Sandrarose.com, and she even sends love and understanding to her haters.
I don’t blame Mo for pointing her haters out. Unless you’re being paid to hate on another one of God’s children, what’s your excuse?
Hi Sandra. I have been working so hard lately that we haven’t spoken. Just to update u. The title of my show is STILL STANDING. Its about love, real life, tragedy, triumph, my family and my journey to become the woman that I would like to be spiritually and emotionally.
It airs Oct. 27th at 10 pm right after the B.E.T. Awards. I want to thank u and your readers for always being in my corner.I even thank these who are not because as I grow closer to Christ I realize that is a part of life and harbour no ill feelings toward them. My journey may help someone because we all fall short of his grace but it’s the way you pick yourself up and move forward that’s important. All my love to you and your mom.
Monica, Romelo and Lil Rocko. See u at the party (we hope
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Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
Thanks to RoJay of Monica Soul blog for the graphic!
I love Monica..it’s time for her to come back..why she’s worried about these internet bullies who would probably die at her feet if they saw her is beyond my comprehension…on a bad day they still don’t have an ounce of her talent..can’t wait for the new album
Bautiful, talented, blessed
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Can’t wait for the show so I can DVR it
!!!
Will be tuned n and buying the cd
Boot game is FIERCE by the way
“Unless, you’re getting paid to?” So is that why you are so nasty, Ms. Rose? Opinions are one thing, but the outright negativity and nastiness..(before y’all start stanning for SR, check out her comments on Amber Rose!) Ain’t no paycheck worth your soul. IMO that’s what you compromise everytime you throw dirt on someone for the sake of hits!
And these artists kill me lovin these same bloggers that spew hate and ignorance. I guess as long as it’s not aimed at them, it’s all good. SMDH
Took the words right outta my mouth @ Heavn_Sent.
That was Sandra’s disclaimer.
But, I have loved Monica’s music and style since Miss Thang, so this is one BET show I will check out. I’ll let the rest of ya’ll check out Tiny and Toya and Keshia mama and sister.
Took the words right outta my mouth @ Heavn_Sent.
That was Sandra’s disclaimer.
But, I have loved Monica’s music and style since Miss Thang, so this is one BET show I will check out. I’ll let the rest of ya’ll check out Tiny and Toya and Keyshia’s mama and sister.
Okay,
So if you are really reading these comments. I hope you put some ballads on your cd. I love the range of your voice.
Charles is going to come in here and spaze out.
No comment on you Sandra. Cause I guess in a way you are getting paid. Thought that was sweet of her to shout your mom out.
Are you going to the party? Don’t be tardy for the party. :party1:
I only had one ditto comment on the last Monica post and it was how beautiful the kids are. I am not a stan or a fan but because she took the time to send Sandra a email I will be watching her show, it seems more reality than the others.
I’ll be watching as well.
The hater she’s talking about is me
Bitch fuck you you may have a sclass and a 500k house but you still a hoodrat and that’s something you always weill be hope all the money u invested on this flop album was worth it cuz it won’t do SH it ont he charts and u can put that on ur illegenimate kids and ur debt aka Rocko
As you grow closer to christ, bitch please what the bible say about premarital sex?? Substance abuse??
No one will watch ur flop show on black evil televesion and no one will buy your album
POW
iscream Says:
Don’t be tardy for the party. :party1:
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You know how you have the hiccups and don’t realize they left until they come back? It took me 5 days to get “don’t be tardy for the party” out of my head. You brough it all back. LOL.
I think she will have a mixture of mid tempo n slow songs
Damn Charles!! You aint no joke huh?
Oo the tracklisting came out
1) still flopping
2) can we conversate
3) don’t spend it all feat rocko da don
4) crank dat kool aid wig
5) atls classiest feat diamond and rasheeda
6) quickweave and a lacefront
7) who gon check me boo?
8) irrelevant, irrelvancy
9) the flop is mine feat brandy
10) where’s monica at(on the billboard charts)
11) foreclosed on
Oo the tracklisting came out
1) still flopping
2) can we conversate
3) don’t spend it all feat rocko da don
4) crank dat kool aid wig
5) atls classiest feat diamond and rasheeda
6) quickweave and a lacefront
7) who gon check me boo?
8) irrelevant, irrelvancy
9) the flop is mine feat brandy
10) where’s monica at(on the billboard charts)
11) foreclosed on
I love Monica’s music but that was funny
Well IF Ms. Monica really does read the posts then I MUST clarify something …
WHEN I say negative things it’s NOT ABOUT you directly because I MORE THAN Respect your obvious talents !!! As you ALREADY KNOW it revolves around your Live-In LOSER who in My Humble-n-Honest Opinion is Soooooooooooo BENEATH YOU !!!
So ACTUALLY My negative comments are REALLY VALID Comments
Other than that — TEAM MONICA (Along with TEAM DAISY …)

wow..internet bully at it’s finest..say on the board what you would in someone’s face…but we know that will NEVER happen
DAMN YOU CHARLES!!!!!!
2 funny
I can’t.
Charles, normally I just shake my head at you, but you have me cracking up at my desk!
@18
And who are you?? I can do say what I Want are you mad?? Cuz im ok boo you have no idea who I am what I do or wha I look like
Charles you spend too much of your time being spiteful. Since you believe part of her email was about you are you going to Necole B her too? We get it, you don’t like 95% of the people SR post about.
Sandra so your excuse for your hate is that you’re being paid for it?….seriously
Keep grinding Monica, not everyone is going to like what you do but as long as YOU do then who cares. Work on putting out some hot material and like Isc said BALLADS!
I don’t blame Mo for pointing her haters out. Unless you’re being paid to hate on another one of God’s children, what’s your excuse?
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Huh? Sandra are you serious……so BEYONCE ain God’s child?
Did I say your name? No I didn’t..but your cattiness shows how needy you are for attention and that’s fine..don’t want to know you..don’t need to know you..and I could give a damm about what you look like..as for who I am..there is no punk in my veins sweetie..anything i write I can say in your face TRUST..can you do the same BOO? Don’t bother..we all know that answer
everyone has an opinion but you go out of you way to be nasty at every chance you get..you really hate the world(your life that much)
And ONE MORE thing Ms. Monica …
As OTHERS have already stated (NEED MORE BALLADS !!!)
It would be SUCH A WASTE for you not to have YOUR USUAL Kick-Azz & Killa Ballads … On the REAL, your voice just does something to a Brutha while listening to you singing THOSE Ballads (And get that weight up BOO !!!)
I know plenty of times I said I was through with EBT I try too watch Monica’s new show, it wont be priority no shad on her I just dont like that ghetto network
@shauny
True =)
And no there’s a special place in my heart for that drunk driving whore necole bitchie and so help me god I ever meet her in person =) esp if my cousins dormkia and shaquana are with me =)
Sandra I don’t get paid to hate but I do like to be real and state my opinion which you do, and hating on anyone is fine in my mind EVERYONE Is entitled to their opinion and you don’t have to like it! End of theeres lots of people who hate on sandra on twitter she ignores em, some respond to em why does it matter what someone else says, unlesss of course you desperatley seek validation from people who don’t know you from anything =)
She is such a F’in LADY! AND I LOVE HER SOO MUCH! Yes Charles, the hatin part was directed towards you! And Mo Imma always rep u on here! REAL fan since 95…. jwhit214 on Twitter….. Im sooo proud of Monica…09 Team Monica! STILL STANDING! Yall aint reading…Mo is back and more focused than ever…the real fans cant wait. We been waitin a min for the world to give acknowledge her God given talents….THanks Sandra…the fans appreciate u too
@elove hey boo
I knew I had some love coming my way after u been lusting after Lisa n Month lol
Charles u are one IGNORANT SON OF BITC… and it shows up and down this thread! And for those who are laughing at this ignorance, OH MY! Charles u should change ur name to CHARLENE cuz u actin like a str8 female. Hatin on WOMAN that u dont even KNOW! Now thats something to laugh about. U really need help. FYI, REAL MEN, gay or str8 dont hate on WOMEN! THats a bitc trait! TEAM MONICA!
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I wish anyone that is trying to better themselves the best of luck.
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Sandra’s sometimes hateful posts are no worse than some peoples comments about certain celebs in the comment section.
LOL @ your spite for NB. Whatever she did she cut you deep. Now Charles I know you don’t have any cousins named dormkia and shaquana. More like Molly and Heather.
E you went hard on Rocko. I can’t comment on him because outside of his one song and video I have no idea what he does for a living to say he’s beneath Monica. Is there some info I’m missing on him? Direct me to it please.
That’s like saying a boy works at the Signature on the 95th fl (you from the Chi) and his girlfriend works at the BK in the basement…is she beneath him?
Thank u Shauny…aside from what u SEE on tv and internet, people wanna make assumptions that he is beneath her. umm ok, so is Steadman beneath Oprah? Is Gabriel beneath Halle or Kendu beneath Mary J? Black people have gotten soo judgemental over the years. And we of all races shouldnt be like that considering how we were and still are judge by many….UGH! u aint never heard of rocko beatin Monica or any drama surrounding THEIR relationship. She says he loves her the right way. Instead of hating, be happy for her and find a ni99a that makes u feel that way. HOW U DOIN
i can’t wait for monica’s show. like I said, i have always been a fan. love u monica!
@dallas I agree with u about black folks shoot ppl n general being so judgemental now. I say try to help the person show them the right way vs pointing fingers we are all sinners n have fallen short I know I have n will again
wow..nothing to TYPE Charles..guess it doesn’t feel good to get attacked does it?Not the kind of attention you were seeking…WE ALL KNOW YOU’RE READING THIS…..don’t hurt the keyboard too badly tough guy
@31
Are you a flopica stan?? Im sorry flopica has 0 relevancy and no career to speak of and her last album didn’t go gold I can see why ud be upset and excited that she Might BE DROPPING A ALBUM WHICH UNDOUBTEDLY WILL FLOP
=)
yes daisy…I mean we all can be judgemental at times. Im guilty of it, but I dont PRACTICE judgemental behavior. And ur right when u say people in general…BUT what gets me, BLACK PEOPLE! We are so quick to judge EACH OTHER and TEAR EACH OTHER down… I just dont get that at all. Like I said after sooo many years (and still today) having to prove ourselves…it really gets under my skin.
Yes some may feel Monica needs to get married or whatever…First of all, why would u care how she living her life…but even still, pray for her and move on. Dont tear her down or judge her. She is human and God’s child first. People on these blogs think they can say whatever to these celebrities like they are numb to hurt feelings. I dont know, people like Charles are sad to me. Like TBoz said, who sits behind a computer and hate all day?
Yes Charles I am very much a MONICA STAN! Ive been riding with her since the begining and will continue to support her. F..K record sales! SHe can sing and all, but first and foremost Im a STAN for the person! She is a very positive and spiritual person. Always striving to be better and encouraging others to better themselves. AND she does this all while admitting to her faults! We are all on a quest towards self betterment, or should be for that matter. Monica is no exception. Nothing about her is fake or forced. So to answer ur question, Im very much a stan! Oh and BET must think she relevant to give her own show. Somebody must think she relevant…she still has a MAJOR DEAL after being in the game 15 years. TRy again dude…
@Shauny
My Affinity for Monica (And ANY Celebrity Girl THAT I LIKE…) is that NO GUY is good enough for her BUT ME and Rock-Head’s Loser-NESS is quite obvious TO ME…
BTW would HER Man have any Buzz-or-Cred whatsoever WITHOUT Monica by his side — IMO Hell-to-the-MFing-NAW
OH and in REAL-LIFE situations & scenarios:

WHAT a person’s work-title or job-category is doesn’t affect my judgement of them… WHAT they do AND How they act AND Their actions DEFINITELY WILL Though !!!
Damn I came back its
Everybody like who they like it is what it is
MizzDallas..you are so correct..but when you hate on EVERYONE..that’s a psychological issue that should be addressed immediately!
@mizzdallas
THAT shots-fired emotion is The S-H-I-T !!!
@ ELOVE…..
Please tell me how do u know all this?? Becuz if u know ROCKO and Monica personally…..then I’ll give u a pass.
If not….
you sound stupid. How is it quite obvious to you? What u see is a stage persona. U dont KNOW ROCKO! Chile please…u reachin…and sound very thirsty
@mizzdallas…
fist of all whats up! lol!! Second of all, yeah everybody is entitled to like who they like. Everybody has an opinion..but there is a differnce in having an opinion and talkin out ur a$$ like Charles and Elove…that sound real stupid to me
@dallas214
Please KEEP YOUR Stan-NESS in check… I DON’T give a PHUCK about her man AND I DON’T HAVE TO !!!
And what I SOUND LIKE is an individual who happens to REALLY LIKES Monica and JOKES about her Loser-Half… AS WELL AS other celebrity females who happen to have LOSERS as their chosen mates… Monica is NO DIFFERENT to me !!!
And YOUR
dallas214 Says:
Like TBoz said, who sits behind a computer and hate all day?
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Baby u obviously do care about HER man…chile u have such STRONG opinions about him. Do you have a man?
Sandra Im not finna play with u! I dont take what u say bout these people seriously. U just remind me of the Howard Stern of blogging…say shhh to get a reaction. Besides i see these Queen Collection banners on ur site…u gettin paid. THese other people…umm yeah ok…lol
O.K E, looking at how you post, I get your first point about the women you like.
I’m not defending Rocko but I still don’t get the second part but I guess we all view things differently. I barely see dude, don’t know much if anything about him other than he is the father of Monica’s children and engaged to her, he always has on sunglasses and a growling look on his face. I haven’t heard anything about his actions, behavior, etc to form an opinion of him.
Again, THANK YOU Shauny for having some intelligence. Need mo like ya!
And for the record it aint got shh to do with me being a stan. I just hate ignorance
Mizz please u know its bigger than who u like or don’t like we all have our opinions that’s not breaking news but most of us try to be respectable
@dallas214
THEN you must really Hate Yourself …
And For-the-Record — I’m NOT JOKING about that fact
@lmao at sandra
@elove….
If u feel im ignorant, thats cool. Hope that makes u feel better. But it still doesnt change the fact…nevamind. U wont get it. Its way abouve ur head. Besides Im starting to feel real childish goin back and forth with u. Good day
*above
Whew lawd. How did this turn into a
fest. Stop it yall
I never understood the staning that goes on. I don’t care what people say about a celeb to the point that I’m going to disrespect a fellow board member. That shyt is ignorant to me.
And sandra lol @ your comment.
@dallas214
FIRST OFF… YOU stepped ignorant TOWARDS me which IMO was totally un-called for and THAT was Childish-n-Immature ESPECIALLY when someone was joking to begin with on a Urban Gossip Blog Site
EVERYTHING HAS AN ORIGIN and this started WITH YOU (Not Me)
And My INTELLIGENCE runs deeper than YOU WILL EVER COMPREHEND
AND I was already having a WONDERFUL Day (Thank you very much) … And I hope the rest of your day is GOOD as well !!!
@iscream
well u know what, thats ur opinion and I respect that. However the stan comment, im sure was directed towards me. Like I said, it goes beyond being a stan. Someone couldve made a broad ignorant judgemental statement about yo mama and I wouldve reacted the same way. Let that go about the stan shh..thats tired.
Ice I stan for who I stan for w/o being disrespectful with me its all n fun. I have never even called anybody a hater that doesn’t like Rihanna Akeys Maxwell or TI lol
Yeah Daisy because you know how I feel about AK…lol
We can go at it without the name calling and getting personal. That’s always been my opinion on here.
Shauny n u know I can’t wait for AKs new BLOG I love all things AKs lol
Did u see so u think u can dance.
@DALLAS214
And do you know me cuz u assuming a lot, I can say what I want when I want and no faceless avatar Is gonna do sh*t about it!
Who gon check me boo??
I haven’t watched it yet Daisy. I have it recorded though. I’m glad I taped the series because I didn’t know it started showing 2xs a week now. Was there someone good on there?
40 dallas214 Says:
Yes Charles I am very much a MONICA STAN!
62 dallas214 Says:
Like I said, it goes beyond being a stan.
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SMH.. When does staning turn into stalker
29 dallas214 Says:
She is such a F’in LADY! AND I LOVE HER SOO MUCH! Yes Charles, the hatin part was directed towards you! And Mo Imma always rep u on here! REAL fan since 95…. jwhit214 on Twitter
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Please see the Miley post above. Thank you
Shauny check the Miley post lol can’t retype all that thanks
*my 2.5 cents worth…
when i came up here and stated wtf is going on these days.. round these parts…about name calling and the all out disrespectful nature of about 98% of the posts last week….some made me feel like it was all in my mind and i was sensitive in nature…so i am sitting here eating
and saying “THAT is that ish i was tambout…”
on topic: yeah for you monica! i would feel if tiny and toya can have themselves a show, cafeteria and frankie, and any of the other folks who have become EBT staples…then getcho self a piece of that pie to hun. i’ll watch. can’t be more of a trainwreck than some of these comments…
okay back to my regularly scheduled programming…
*kwall leaves and goes back to lurking again…POOF!
im literally
with this
and all these new emoticons; i.e.
yall got to slow down, pretty soon im gonna have to write these down to keep up
im a reality show junkie so im gonna watch monica, im mad i missed the last 2 episodes of neffie n frankie and its not on demand yet. i hope they dont do a 2nd season! but in any case ILL BE WATCHIN…
@iscream..
if this how u see it, thats cool. it is what it is.
If I saw the blog about Monica’s new show I don’t think I participated much in the conversation. Anywho, I read her recent article in S2S and I must say I am impressed. Monica has grown a great deal if that interview was any indication. And the family pic was OFF THE CHAIN. I don’t know if her and Rocko have grown into the role or it was the photographer’s idea, but the conservative family pic was a good look for them. Rock looked good, makeup and all. And Monica kept the gorgeous baby boys subtley hood with the fly cuts.
Anywhow, I’m really looking forward to Mo’s show and I’m kinda expecting to see a Mary J-like transformation in her. Even if I don’t I think it’s time I stop judging her for past missteps. I’m also feeling her for reaching out to Miss Sandra with the exclusive which is in essence reaching out to us, Sandra’s intimate community. Good look Mo. I’m feeling you girl.
Kwall I co signed what u said about the name calling
Mason TWO icons per post or Sandra will warn or ban you FYI
Sorry about the diatribe. I’m just really feeling her grown woman steez right now.
BET will give anyone a show…
One day I hope that “we do better” and provide QUALITY programming. Monica is talented but I dont care about her everyday doings, just like I dont care about Frankies, Neffe’s, Tiny’s, or Toya’s. None of those women are role models and neither is Monica. So here’s to another show that promotes having kids without husbands. No wonder so many of my teenage students are pregnant…
Way to go BET
iscream Says:
Okay,
So if you are really reading these comments. I hope you put some ballads on your cd. I love the range of your voice.
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Ha! Have you ever said that on here before? Interestingly, in the S2S article Monica said she likes blogs, despite the hate, because she gets to hear what people want from her and that’s ballads. I was like, “really?”, because the songs I have liked have been uptempo.
thanx daisy, lol. i thought it animated my story on my new lingo i learned from yall.
78Bird Says:
iscream Says:
Okay,
So if you are really reading these comments. I hope you put some ballads on your cd. I love the range of your voice.
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Ha! Have you ever said that on here before?
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Actually I have. I may crack jokes every now and then. But I’ve never taken away from the fact that the girl can SANG!
Alana Says:
BET will give anyone a show…
Monica is talented but I dont care about her everyday doings, just like I dont care about Frankies, Neffe’s, Tiny’s, or Toya’s. None of those women are role models and neither is Monica.
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I wouldn’t call Frankie and Neffe roles models, but I do think there is someone out there who can relate to their struggles. If not in real life at least on the show they are dealing with some of their issues while showing they still have a ways to go like all of us. As for Monica, Tiny and Toya, I don’t think there is anything wrong with these ladies capitalizing on the “reality” craze which has become a viable genre of entertainment with bonifide stars whether we like it or not. At least Tiny and Toya’s show is not trifling and they do have a story to tell.
and why does her brother always remind me of the crpyt keeper…weird!
lol @ masonmom. it did animate you tho ma! i was feeling it. auntie gave us emoti’s way back when…so that is how most of us remember the codes… but she revoked the hail outta them cause we got crunk on them. you would go to a post and all you would see would be emoti’s. lol.
even FUNNIER was the day when she revoked them…and the posts were FILLED with these codes that did not work anymore.
:revoked:
:you’ve been fired:
:they don’t work anymore:
lol too funny! well let me hold back on the emoti’s so they not revoked cuz of me!
I so rememba that LOL
Again I ask WHEN has BET ever given us scripted tv? They r bootleg n I don’t want them to lol Like I said earlier I
they do right by the game IF they get it
i am soooo in love wit The Game and so happy that mel n derwin FINALLY got married. it killed me when they were apart. i couldnt stand janae and dont want to believe its derwin’s baby! jason is so funny wit his cheap self!
Mason I am still n denial about that being Derwins baby n I’m so scared BET will jack up the show if they get their hands on it lol
Thanks for the update SR.
Monica if your still reading, I look forward to your album and the show. Please ignore Charles, he is the resident NEGATIVE commentor on SR. I appreciate that throughout you career you have always been REAL. Growth occurs over time and the topics you cover, relate to the everyday life of MANY! I can name songs on each album that hit home, so ballads and uptempo JOINTS are appreciated. All the best with the show and your life!
I tried to stay out of this but…..
First of all, Monica actually has real talent. Unlike the “baddest chick” in the game, she doesn’t have to show her azz and roll around on the floor like a whore to distract from the fact that her voice is shot from singing wack azz songs. Give the Monica the mic and she can blow.
Memo to Monica: When you take family portraits for magazines and blogs, be prepared for the scrutiny. If you are good enough to lay up with and have babies but not good enough to marry, there is a problem. Playing house is not a good look so brace yourself for the negative comments.
And understand that when you put rainbow colored weaves in your hair, be prepared for the hoodrat references.
We must understand that there are consequences that come with choices we make in our lives.
thank you attorneymom! whenever i see monica, i think of greenbriar mall.
take that stupid *ss rag off your head! a rag is for inside the house unless you a damn blood, crip or mexican. she might as well put some slippers (or “house shoes” as they are called here) on too. if they are designer slippers, sandra will probably feature them on her blog.
i hope the new album contains the songs from her previous show. there was one she sung in the studio that i really liked.
@90..not greenbriar mall..
dead..just dead…LMAO!
i have all monica’s cds her and brandy
i say they do another duet.
OBAMA WON THE NOBEL PEACE PRIZE!
Whats up Bird?!?!?! I co sign what u said….
Lol at Sandra # 48 Love it
charles um the one for you……..somewhere in ur deranged personality please go see mental physicians asap…..you really want attention from monica for some odd reason you dick sucking faggot…..and the only one calls monica flopica are brandy fans…..no disrespect to brandy but both off yall needs to dust urself off and try again….how about you don’t ever try….u are vomit to me you low life blogging all day homo….get a job sucking dick or something lol