With the exception of a few artists who don’t play that, the majority of reality TV shows are centered around dysfunctional families. It makes for good TV and pulls high ratings because the public identifies so closely with the dysfunction on the small screen.

Fantasia continues the tradition of exposing the dysfunction in black families on her new reality show Fantasia For Real which premiered last night on VH1.

One loyal reader took immediate issue with the show’s portrayal of Fantasia’s self-indulgent brother “Teeny” who lives in Fanty’s pool house and doesn’t seem to have a steady source of income.

The email was edited for clarity.

I love your website because it not only keeps it real but makes people aware of the bs in our communities and i really would like you to post something about teeny aka joe fantasia’s brother. It’s not just that she is supporting him… i think it goes deeper than that why do black women support black men … let me rephrase that. Why are our black men letting black women take care of them as if they were a small child. I’m so confused ……. and it’s not just black women, it’s women in general that support them and enable them to be dead beat ass bums and daddy’s. Now i’m not saying that they’re aren’t men out there that make a good living and support their children and their families because they’re are plenty that do. i just can’t help but be disturbed after watching Fantasia for Real’s first episode..

Teeny should be ashamed of himself. He is almost 30 years old living in his sister’s pool house with no driver’s license but driving 2 very expensive cars just being a bum and living literally in a fantasy world!!! Oh, it was so wrong Sandra!! Even his girl commented on the fact that he needs to get it together. But i had to roll my eyes at her comment because, “thats her MAN” so obviously she isn’t too repulsed by it as she came across. But moving on….

It jsut makes me angry that this is the state of some of our black men. they want to be respected but don’t do a damn thing to earn the respect. I don’t know, maybe I’m out of line but I pray for Fantasia because she is not only a fellow dark skin woman in the industry (I’m dark skinned and I know it’s not easy for dark skinned women in the music biz) but she is really talented and obviously has a huge heart. It looks to me that Teeny will probably be on her payroll til’ she runs out of money. If i were her I would say ‘get the hell out my house! You’re not my man and I don’t have to take care of you.’ …

Thanx for taking the time to read my rant.

— Somebody who thinks Teeny is lame.

i would love it if you put his ass on blast because he’s a certain type of gold digger even though he’s not sleeping with Fantasia, he might as well be for real.

Oh, and the part that got me so angry is when he test drove a Ferrari talking about I’m gonna get me one real soon …….. and I thought to myself ‘you mean you’re gonna ask Fantasia to buy it for you,’ that’s just disgusting to me when the money could go to people who are actually in need.