By now you know that reality TV personality Kim Kardashian was given the old heave ho by star NFL running back Reggie Bush. It seems Reggie now finds that life is a bowl of cherries after winning the Super Bowl. And being with a needy woman who keeps track of his every movement is the pits!

Rumors swirled that Reggie Bush was flirting with the ladies at Robin Thicke’s birthday bash in NYC last week. Supposedly, Kim K warned Reggie that she was monitoring all the blogs and she wasn’t happy with the rumors that she was seeing. So word is that Reggie fired back with a series of text messages advising Kim that he was now a single man.

they say Reggie gave Kim the ultimate man-whore excuse: “it’s not you, it’s me’.”

“Reggie dumped Kim by text while she was in Miami,” a pal of the Keeping Up With the Kardashians star tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively. “He actually sent her three text messages that said he needed time and space and ‘it’s not you, it’s me’.”

Ladies, any time a man tells you those words, that means it really is over and he has moved on. Do yourself a favor and don’t lower yourself to begging and pleading — or even contacting him under the pretense of calling to see how he’s doing — because men HATE needy women. That’s not exactly a quality that attracted him to you in the first place. Being needy is never sexy!