When will these women learn that, just like you can't turn a whore into a housewife, you can't turn an industry man into a husband?

Ladies, save yourself the future embarrassment and humiliation by just dating these industry guys. They are simply not husband material.

Why bother searching through his wallet or cell phone for that number from the thirsty sluts in the industry when you already know it's there?

Anyway, actress Garcelle Beuvais becomes the latest scorned wife to go public after finally believing the whispers that her agent husband, Mike Nilon was cheating on her. She put her thoughts down in an email blast and sent it everyone on her list -- including the NY Post's Page Six:

In an e-mail making the rounds at the agency with the subject line "Tiger Woods/Jesse James/Mike Nilon," the former "NYPD Blue" star wrote to Nilon's colleagues, "What do they have in common . . . I found out today that MY husband of almost 9 yrs has been having an affair for 5 yrs with some slut in Chicago. I am devastated!!!! And I have been duped!! Our boys don't deserve this!"


Source: HP

  • Soulstar81

    another one...

  • militaryspouse1

    Are there any more faithfull men out there? Wow...I know how that feels, very painfull. My heart goes out to her

  • lovezoe

    Not saying this man is not a cheat, BUT this story smell mighty fishy.

  • mrsgarcia703

    @lovezoe I agree.

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    This sh.it is getting ridiculous. Men, why can't you tell the woman you're with that you just aren't attracted to them anymore? Why do you have to take her through all this bullsh.it? He was with slut for 5 years?? That's a relationship not just some fuck. I'm thisclose to giving up on men.

  • stormywaters

    SMDH...I can only wonder who's next with a cheater story.

    In 5...4...3...2. :shotsfired1:

  • The Original MsG

    Not surprised at all.

  • The Original MsG

    Seems like men marry so they can cheat. :shrug:

  • bigtyme

    Wooooow... I understand she is upset but this makes her look crazy!

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    This is prolly fake.

  • mrsgarcia703

    stormywaters Says:

    SMDH…I can only wonder who’s next with a cheater story.

    In 5…4…3…2.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl:

  • Daisy

    Here's your one chance fancy don't let me down - Reba :lol:

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @Ms. Kaylamomma

    If we say all that we would be limiing ourselves to ONE woman. Can't put all your "eggs" in one basket.

  • Krysi J

    Damn...............

    "niccahs ain shyt but hoez and tricks, lick the pearl tongue niccah keep ya *ick, get da fukk out after I c*****m so I can hop in my coup and make a quick RUUuun"

    -Katrina Laverne

  • Silhouette

    If this story is true I just wish she would have waited a day or two before sending out emails. I understand she was upset but when you pause before you react you find that you do things differently.

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    and...why did she feel the need to send this around in an email?? She could have saved herself that embarrassment.

  • SugarPieHoneybunn

    Damn Fancy!!! That's messed up. She seems like such a nice lady. (from the show anyway, lol)

    I bet she is thinking, "I would have rather gotten cheated on by a damn black man. That's what I get for trying to be different."

    Anyway, I'm just talkin sh*t. I'm sure she really loved this ass. A 5 year affair?? He aint sh*t. What happened to hittin it and quitin it??

  • ohpretty1

    If the email really came from her...how childish. YES, it does make her look childish. Funny how the other woman is the slut and your husband isn't. That's another reason why many of them cheat - you will always blame the other woman. :coffee:

  • Mahogany03

    Well damn!! LOL @ Krysi J :lol:

  • Lovely One

    Why would she tell her business to Page Six? Thirsty much?

  • bigtyme

    i bet after doing all that, she doesn't leave him...

  • speakinmymind

    pretty doesn't equate to classy. if this is true, it was tacky and immature. as Silhouette said, she should have waited at least a day before acting on anything she was feeling.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @ Krysi

    Dancing in my seat. That's my mf'ing jam :dance: love her first CD. "Watch yo back" being my fav.

    @ topic

    There's nothing new to see here people keep it moving. Men have been cheating since the begining of time. The only thing that's new is the media is giving jumpoff's shine so more and more are coming out trying to get their 15 mins. It all started a few years ago with Monica Lewinsky. Now everyone wants their name in lights.

  • AllNYC

    Her behind ain't hardly embarrassed. Garcelle is not a bold face name and now she's on Page Six. I guess her full-time job of red carpet posing wasn't getting her any callbacks so now she has resorted to putting her personal business in the street.

  • speakinmymind

    i don't see what the big deal is about cheating...jussayin'
    cheating is not about what the wife isn't doing to satisfy her husband but has everything to do with the husband's inflated ego, low self-esteem and poor communication skills/connecting on a deep emotional level.

    and i hate when wives use the kids...i.e. "the boys don't deserve this." get to the root of the issue and don't deflect attention to other stuff trying to make the person feel guilty...it doesn't work.

    moving on...nothing to see here people.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @speak

    :preach:

  • Ms.Everything

    Damn I just said last week I love how long they have been married and how they look happy. Well.... at least she made the announcement and kept the tabloids from doing it for her. Although now she has no choice but to leave cause she can't stay after all this

  • intensemocha

    IF MASHONDA CAN RANT AND RAVE SO CAN GARCELLE...

    AT LEAST MAKE IT EQUAL OPPORTUNITY-PEOPLE FLIP FLOP WAAAAYY TOO MUCH FOR ME ON HERE

  • intensemocha

    AND 5 YEARS IS A LONG TIME TO BE DIDDLING THE SAME CHICK, HE CAUGHT SOME FEELINGS, AND I WONDER IF SHE IS BLACK OR WHITE? DOES IT MATTER NO NOT REALLY, JUST CURIOUS-LOL

  • Sweet-D

    I wonder if "sex addiction" is going to be his excuse since "sex addiction" is the new trend and crutch. Why can't they just admit that assholery is a more serious condition than "sex addiction"?

  • Al-Ameera

    To be honest, living in the reality TV era for B-C-D list celebs, I don’t know what is real or fake or what the motive is behind it. What is Fancy doing these days and would this really have made news? Like is she relevant or is this scandal a way to make herself relevant again?

    It seems like infidelity is a road to stardom these days…that or being a rappers baby mama.

    I’m over it

  • glamdiva83

    She must of wasn't paying him 2 much attention 2 not notice he was having a affair especially for 5yrs thats long....its easy 2 find out when a man is doing wrong cuz they sloppy & careless w/they cheating...women know how 2 Cover tracks real good

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @intense

    *waving* heeyyyy hope the wedding planning going well. I asked for you yesterday.

    Anywho I read the chick is a white blond. :|

    & I agree this was more than some fly by night affair. He had a relationship with this other woman.

  • Kat

    Poor Garcelle...but I wonder why do these stars go to Twitter and blogs to vent? Some things are best kept at home.

  • SangriaSugar

    I don't think this is real. She doesn't look like the kind of person who would put all her business on front street like that! She is a mother first and foremost...so right there it should be about keeping it classy and not letting your kids see you act a fool.

    If she really felt duped then their marriage had been in trouble before he started cheating. After 9 years of marriage and 2 kids...she just NOW finding out her husband has been having an affair for 5 years :blink: That means she wasnt paying attention to the signs!! There are ALWAYS signs and whether or not you choose to notice/acknowledge them is the determining factor of how committed you are to your marital relationship.

  • Quitta

    Oh my. 2010 is officially the year of the jumpoffs. >:(

    Expecting alot of tell-all books this year (which I won't entertain). What a mess.

  • intensemocha

    YEP I CAN JUST IMAGINE IT-GARCELLE WANTS THE WORLD TO THINK HER HUSBAND CHEATED ON HER IN HOPES TO BOOST HER CAREER

    NOT-SHE'S SCORNED IF SHE SAID IT MORE THAN LIKELY IT'S TRUE -THIS HAS TO EMBARRASSING TO SAY THE LEAST FOR HER FAMILY, FRIENDS,ETC. TO KNOW THIS

    THIS WAS JUST HER KNEE-JERK REACTION TO EXPOSE HIM & EMBARRASS HIM

  • DeCori J

    I hate to say it, but she thought she was too good for blackmen. Thats what happens when people think like that!

  • intensemocha

    HOWDY @ ISCREAM

    GOING WELL, RECEPTION VENUE BOOKED, PHOTOGRAPHER & VIDEOGRAPHER HIRED, WEDDING DRESS ORDERED, BRIDESMAID & FLOWER GIRLS FITTING NEXT WEEK, MAMA'S WORKING ON CENTERPIECES NOW, ETC... SO MUCH STILL LEFT TO DO BUT I'M OFF TO A GOOD START

  • Ms.Everything

    @glamdiva that makes it seem like you think its her fault? Its not always easy to catch them not all men are that stupid and not all women believe in going through their husbands things. plus with his job he has to travel constantly and likely has all kinds of contacts both male and female. My husband worked nights and I worked days with three kids. Had the broad not been bold enough to call my house I would've never known but that doesn't make it my fault

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    :)

    Happy to hear that. Are you being a bridezilla? :lol: planning a wedding seems like it can be extremely stressful.

    Any married people here have any bridezilla stories. (I don't know why they took that show off the air)

  • gypsyeyes

    intensemocha Says:

    AND 5 YEARS IS A LONG TIME TO BE DIDDLING THE SAME CHICK, HE CAUGHT SOME FEELINGS, AND I WONDER IF SHE IS BLACK OR WHITE? DOES IT MATTER NO NOT REALLY, JUST CURIOUS-LOL
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I was curious about the same thing and have a letter. Wanna hear it here it goes.

    Dear Fancy-
    Please stay with MR YT because if you don't everyone will think that you are the nanny of those little YT children.

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    @iscream...they took bridezillas off?????? Noooooooo. I was wondering what was going on!

  • gypsyeyes

    What do you mean Bridezilla is off the air? Damnit I gotta get extended cable.

  • Al-Ameera

    :rof: @ gypseyeyes, can you please try to behave today!

  • chase

    Wowzer, sadly I'm not surprised at all.. Dudes seem to only think with one thing these days.... I guess some men are really as faithful as their options....

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    Garcelle you didn't just find out, I don't believe you. I think you found out about 4 years ago and hoped your twins would bring you closer to him and if that didn't work, at the very least guarantee your barely working self some money.
    I'm sure you'll bounce back Fancy you've had years to do so.

  • intensemocha

    @ISECREAM

    WELL IT DEPENDS ON WHAT DAY YOU ASK OR WHAT DETAIL I'M WORKING ON

    RECENTLY DECIDED ON THE BRIDESMAID'S DRESS AND MY MAID OF HONOR IS UPSET THAT THEY ALL ARE WEARING THE SAME DRESS, AND SHE WANTS TO WEAR A ONE STRAP GOWN TO BE DIFFERENT-I TOLD HER NOT WITH THOSE 42 DD'S!!!!

    HAVING SOUL FOOD-DIDN'T WANT THE TYPICAL PASTA, SALT POTATOES, SALAD MENU, BUT LORD WORKING WITH BLACK FOLKS SOMETIMES CAN BE CRAZY!!!! LOVE MY PEOPLE BUT I DON'T WANT MY RECEPTION HELD UP CAUSE WE ARE WAITING ON THE GREENS AND POTATOE SALAD TO ARRIVE!!! LOL

  • bigtyme

    iscream Says:

    Happy to hear that. Are you being a bridezilla? planning a wedding seems like it can be extremely stressful.

    Any married people here have any bridezilla stories. (I don’t know why they took that show off the air)
    ------
    i am usually a high strung person and i was so calm, nothing bothered me on my wedding day, including one of the groomsmen deciding he would go back to the hotel and get drunk and show up late...the original piano player not showing up or the limo company showing up w/ an old limo instead of the one we booked!

    i just insisted that my girls wear spanx (what? i didn't want lumps) and at the last minute (literally when folks were lining up) i told my best friend that my godson could not be in the wedding (he was whining and needed a nap)...

  • bigtyme

    intensemocha Says:

    @ISECREAM

    WELL IT DEPENDS ON WHAT DAY YOU ASK OR WHAT DETAIL I’M WORKING ON

    RECENTLY DECIDED ON THE BRIDESMAID’S DRESS AND MY MAID OF HONOR IS UPSET THAT THEY ALL ARE WEARING THE SAME DRESS, AND SHE WANTS TO WEAR A ONE STRAP GOWN TO BE DIFFERENT-I TOLD HER NOT WITH THOSE 42 DD’S!!!!
    -----
    all of my bridesmaids wore the same dresses including my maid of honor. the only person that complained was some random cousin!

  • pinksghetti

    I think I'll be more surprised when I find out a man didn't cheat on his wife, especially a rich and/or famous one. It will be like seeing Haley's comet.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    I assumed they took it off. When ever I turn to the station on Sunday (the day it usually aired) I see platinum wedding. As if I want to watch rich people spend more money then I make in a year on one day. Call it hate but that's how I feel.

    I miss Bridzilla... the worst itch of all time was that itch who cursed out the doorman. I think she was from SI. "I'm not apologizing to a freaking door man. He's a door man" then she made fun of someone in a wheelchair. Ugh I hated her arse. & she just kept saying poor people this & poor people that. I hope they loss everything in the recession.

  • MsGaMama_706

    I wonder, do men forget they're married sometimes??

    Marriage for SOME men means he's finally found that one woman he doesn't want to see with any other man so he wifes her to keep HER faithful!!!! All the while he's still running the streets and fukin whoever, whenever...shame

    It's sad that some women put up with this just to have someone to sleep with at night. I bet she stays, so why put your business out there hunny...the jokes on you boo!

  • intensemocha

    ^^^^^^

    I'M PRAYING THAT I CAN BE THAT CALM ON MY DAY

    I HAVE A RUNNING JOKE THAT EVERYTIME I FEEL MYSELF GETTING ANGRY THAT I WILL SAY "THE LORD'S PRAYER" AND HOPEFULLY I'LL BECOME SO CAUGHT UP ON TRYING TO REMEMBER THE WHOLE PRAYER THAT I'LL FORGET WHAT I'M ANGRY ABOUT-LOL

  • MsGaMama_706

    @iscream....did u see that one episode with that chick from columbus GA....that's my hometown, and she was a HOT MESS!! I was ashamed to claim my city after that.

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    bigtyme Says:

    intensemocha Says:

    @ISECREAM

    WELL IT DEPENDS ON WHAT DAY YOU ASK OR WHAT DETAIL I’M WORKING ON

    RECENTLY DECIDED ON THE BRIDESMAID’S DRESS AND MY MAID OF HONOR IS UPSET THAT THEY ALL ARE WEARING THE SAME DRESS, AND SHE WANTS TO WEAR A ONE STRAP GOWN TO BE DIFFERENT-I TOLD HER NOT WITH THOSE 42 DD’S!!!!
    —–
    all of my bridesmaids wore the same dresses including my maid of honor. the only person that complained was some random cousin!

    ----------

    I'm letting my bridesmaids choose their dress....they just have to be the same color. Everyone has different body types so I want everyone to look and feel good!

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    I miss Bridzilla… the worst itch of all time was that itch who cursed out the doorman. I think she was from SI. “I’m not apologizing to a freaking door man. He’s a door man” then she made fun of someone in a wheelchair. Ugh I hated her arse. & she just kept saying poor people this & poor people that. I hope they loss everything in the recession.

    ----------------

    I felt bad for her husband....the worst one HAD to be the female talking about she wanted a vagina cake or something like that. She thought she was queen bee and left her ex fiancee for his friend (that's who she was getting married).

  • intensemocha

    BELIEVE IT OR NOT-I AM TRYING TO BE AS NICE AS POSSIBLE-YOU EXPECT PEOPLE TO PAY SOO MUCH MONEY AND PARTICIPATE IN YOUR SPECIAL DAY, POSE FOR PICTURES, AND PUT THEIR LIVES ON HOLD FOR YOU FOR ONE WHOLE DAY

    SO I DON'T WANT TO PISS ANYONE OFF-PER SAY, BUT LIKE YOU SAID IT'S ALWAYS SOMEONE WHO AINT PAYING FOR SHIAT, OFFERING ADVICE, AFTER THE FACT, AT THE MOST INAPPROPRIATE TIME

    GOD PUHLEEZE, FOR THOSE 20 MIN OR LESS IT TAKES TO GET MARRIED HAVE MERCY ON ME AND LET EVERYONE SHOW UP ON TIME, LOOK NICE, AND DO WHAT THEY'RE SUPPOSE TO, ALL WHILE SMILING AND KEEPING THEIR DAMN MOUTH'S SHUT!!!THANK YOU PLEEAASSE!!!

  • bigtyme

    ms.truth Says:

    I’m letting my bridesmaids choose their dress….they just have to be the same color. Everyone has different body types so I want everyone to look and feel good!
    -----
    most people said i did a good job choosing the dress...i chose one that actually looked good on everyone, but i thought about the bigger girl when i picked it...i have been at too many weddings where linebackers have on think strapless dresses and was laughing...i just could not do that to my friends!

  • intensemocha

    I HAVE EIGHT BRIDESMAIDS NOT MY CHOICE-MR. MAN HAS EIGHT FRIENDS/FAMILY HE HAS TO INCLUDE

    BUT I CAN SEE IT NOW, ALL THOSE DIFFERNT PERSONALITIES CHOOSING THEIR OWN DRESS

    I WOULD SEE, STRAPLESS, HALTER TOPS, SPLITS UP THE WAZOO, CHIFFON, SILK, SEQUINS ALL IN A SEE OF FUSCHIA!!!!!!!!

    NOT!!!!!!!

    @BIGTYME

    WHAT ARE YOUR COLORS?

    MINE ARE FUSCHIA, SILVER, AND WHITE

  • intensemocha

    OOPS- SEA OF FUSCHIA IS WHAT I MEANT

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    @intense and bigtyme...oh no, I have to approve the dress first. Just saves me time from having to figure out something that fits everyone.

  • speakinmymind

    i think she had to know something was up. ain't no man been hoeing around with the SAME woman for five years on the side and there was absolutely no spillover into his marriage. a random fukk here and there is believable but not a five-year continuous affair.

    @ INTENSEMOCHA
    congratulations on your engagement!!

  • sexywitwhatigot

    whaaaaaaaaaaat? they took bridezilla off? i love that show. and the girl from SI was a bish. what got me is when she said, 'i don't hang around ugly people'. girl, your whole entourage was ugly! especially that MOH. i watch platnium weddings too. putting my lil' budget to shame lol. one bride's dad built her chapel for a cool 1 million cause she couldn't find a venue. and they come across soooo humble. whateva!

  • intensemocha

    AWWW THANK U @SPEAKINMYMIND

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    LOL @ Intense I always breath or force myself to smile to the anger passes. But the prayer is a good angle. And why do our people always have to be late (myself inc. I'm going 2 be late to my own funeral)

    @bigtyme

    Lmao who took the place of the kid that needed a nap. I remember on bridezilla a kid fell in the lake and the bride was pissed because it took away from her day :lol:

    @msg

    Was that the black girl who ended up going to jail? The one who was so nasty to her future mother in law. If so yes and she is 2nd runner up to the chick from LI. She treated that boy's mom like a slave. Didn't she put on gloves and boxed her.. :|

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    @intense you can be that calm on the big day, all you have to do is have some mimosas with breakfast.

  • intensemocha

    @ISCREAM

    ME TOO (I'M GOING TO BE LATE TO MY OWN FUNERAL) MY FIANCE TELLS ME THAT ALL THE TIME

    ACTUALLY THAT'S HOW I KNEW HE WAS THE ONE, I WAS 4O MINUTES LATE TO OUR FIRST DATE AND HE KEPT CALLING ME ASKING ME WHERE I WAS-I TOLD HIM IF HE WANTED TO LEAVE HE COULD-HE JUST LAUGHED AND SAID HURRY UP I'M HERE AT THE RESTAURANT LOOKING STUPID WAITING FOR YOU

    WHEN I GOT THERE HE WASN'T EVEN MAD-HE EVEN TELLS ME THE MOVIE STARTS AN HOUR EARLIER JUST SO I'LL GET THERE ON TIME-LOL

  • bigtyme

    iscream Says:

    @bigtyme

    Lmao who took the place of the kid that needed a nap. I remember on bridezilla a kid fell in the lake and the bride was pissed because it took away from her day

    ------

    i had a bell ringer that rang a bell and said "the bride is coming" so i let him be the ringbearer and the bell ringer. it worked out fine...no one knew...he was too young anyway...i don't think kids under 4 should be in weddings...just my thought...

  • intensemocha

    @KARAZ

    GURL MY WEDDING IS AT 1 P.M.-I WOULD BE SOMEWHERE SLEEP, I'M NOT A BIG DRINKER

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @mstruth

    OMG I remember her. Wasn't she the one with the gun? Yes I remember her also. :lol:

    Yall better than me because I just plan to hop a plane to Vegas when its my time. Less hassle.

  • gypsyeyes

    intensemocha Says:

    I HAVE EIGHT BRIDESMAIDS NOT MY CHOICE-MR. MAN HAS EIGHT FRIENDS/FAMILY HE HAS TO INCLUDE

    BUT I CAN SEE IT NOW, ALL THOSE DIFFERNT PERSONALITIES CHOOSING THEIR OWN DRESS

    I WOULD SEE, STRAPLESS, HALTER TOPS, SPLITS UP THE WAZOO, CHIFFON, SILK, SEQUINS ALL IN A SEE OF FUSCHIA!!!!!!!!

    NOT!!!!!!!

    @BIGTYME

    WHAT ARE YOUR COLORS?

    MINE ARE FUSCHIA, SILVER, AND WHITE
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    And that is the reason we went to the court house and club hopped afterwards. you think that's why we are divorced :rofl: I was 21 and he was 20 and was in the military.
    If I could do it all over(with another man of course) I would want a small intimate affair.
    But definitley like the colors. I love fuscia and it probably going to be cute at your INTENSE wedding.
    Congratutions(in my best Vesta voice)

  • tintin1979

    and... she can complain all she wants but at the end of the day it's all about money. so these women know what they get themselves into with powerful men, it's up to them, if they want to do anything about it.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Awww @ intense future hubby. I know what u mean, I know what u mean. :D

  • tintin1979

    it's funny too that she's with a white man and they ain't no different from the black ones. we'll never win.

  • crzasallgetout

    When I got married I didn't have hardly any stress because my dress company SUCKED. I had a wedding planner that did everything for me. People were shocked when I said the ceremony would start at 5 and IT DID!! The ceremony lasted a good 10 minutes if that. But people being black and ghetto went to the reception early and didn't come to the ceremony. Yet they complained that people weren't there yet. We even had cocktail hour to buy time, NICCas

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    @iscream...yes!!! she thought someone was going to show out at the wedding and no one was stuntin her messy behind.

  • intensemocha

    cute at your INTENSE wedding.

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    AWWW LUV THIS!!!

    THANKS FOR BEING KIND....LOL

    MEN ARE WEARING WHITE TUXES, FUSCHIA VEST AND TIE, HUBBY ALL WHITE, BRIDESMAIDS, FUSCHIA & RHINESTONE ACCESSORIES, FLOWER GIRLS, FUSCHIA SATIN DRESSES WHITE SASH AROUND THE WAIST, CHURCH ALL WHITE, RECEPTION WHITE LINEN, FUSCHIA NAPKINS, CENTERPIECES ARE SILVER CARRIAGES AND GAZEBO DECORATED WITH FUSCHIA AND WHITE FLOWERS, SILVER CANDELABRAS (?) (SPELLING) ON BOTH HEAD TABLES ALONG WITH CENTERPIECES

    OKAY-I'LL STOP I SWEAR I HAVE WEDDING ON THE BRAIN 24/7-OH WELL HOPEFULLY THIS WILL BE MY FIRST AND LAST, I'M RELISHING EVERY MOMENT

  • gypsyeyes

    @iscream…yes!!! she thought someone was going to show out at the wedding and no one was stuntin her messy behind.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    That chick was ignant and I was embarassed by her behavior the whole show. Why black folks gotta be extra on camera. Not saying that other races aren't but I'm black folks so I speak on what I know. The chick with the wheelchair thing was cold and heartless because that was her aunt in the wheelchair.

  • crzasallgetout

    @intense
    We had a gazebo for our table. I love your colors. Ours was pink and chocolate. Our centerpieces were Eifel tower vases and bubble vases(every other table) filled with coffee beans and pink roses on the top. Our linens were brown with a pink overlay with gold charger plates. Our menu was something totally out of the norm because we wanted something different. I know about the wedding on the brain 24/7 but once it gets closer the better. Well for me at least.

  • crzasallgetout

    @gypsy
    LOL I forgot that was her aunt. SHe was a B! I think the saddest one was the lady that had to clean up in her WEDDING DRESS!! BTW her makeup was horrendous

  • pointhimout

    Until I'm blue in the face, I will continue to say this; I dont care how happily married you are (enter laugh here), eventually, one or both parties will cheat. It may not be in a year, it may not be in 10 years, but eventually, one or both will cheat.

    We've all been there and felt the pain of having it done to us, or saw the pain it caused when we did it to someone else. Again, I have to ask, why get married? I say just date and be merry.

  • intensemocha

    crzasallgetout Says:

    @intense
    We had a gazebo for our table. I love your colors. Ours was pink and chocolate. Our centerpieces were Eifel tower vases and bubble vases(every other table) filled with coffee beans and pink roses on the top. Our linens were brown with a pink overlay with gold charger plates. Our menu was something totally out of the norm because we wanted something different. I know about the wedding on the brain 24/7 but once it gets closer the better.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    LUV IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I SWEAR THOSE COLORS ARE SOOO NICE-MY BY DAY IS ON VALENTINES DAY AND I STARTED TO INCORPORATE THAT INTO MY WEDDING-CHOCOLATE THAT IS

    BUT OPTED FOR FUSCHIA SINCE IT'S BEEN MY FAVORITE COLOR FOR AS LONG AS I CAN REMEMBER

    I TOLD THE PHOTOGRAPHER WHOSE A FAMILY FRIEND,WHEN HE ASKED WHAT ARE YOUR COLORS? I SAID THE SAME COLOR MY HAIR WAS WHEN I MET YOU-FUSCHIA!!!! HE LAUGHED HIS HEAD OFF-I WAS 14
    AT THE TIME

    I BET YOUR PICTURES ARE AMAZING!!!!!!WHAT COLORS WERE THE GIRLS GOWNS? CHOCOLATE????? IF SO OH MY GOD, I BET IT WAS BEAUTIFUL

    OKAY, BREATH DEEP AND SLOW, I GET SO EXCITED -I USE TO WATCH BRIDEZILLA, I STILL WATCH PLATINUM WEDDINGS, CHOOSE THE DRESS, RICH BRIDE/POOR BRIDE, NOT SURE WHAT SHOWS I'LL WATCH AFTER THE WEDDING, BUT I'LL BE GLAD NOT TO BE SO BUSY

  • intensemocha

    why get married? I say just date and be merry
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    MY RED WAGON TO PULL, AND I'M GOING TO PULL THAT BABY TILL THE WHEELS FALL OFF

    IT'S LIKE THE WEATHER OUTSIDE-YOU CAN CHOOSE TO STAY INSIDE AND NOT BE SUBJECTED TO THE WEATHER OR YOU CAN GRAB YOUR UMBRELLA AND TAKE A CHANCE

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    @point...when you just date, the merriness tend to only be temporary.

  • VIBABY

    @Point We all havent been there so I dont know anything about the pain you speak of. #Satdown somewhere with that shyt.....

    @INTENSE You pull that bytch until the wheels fall off and then you drag it! :lolol: Congrats!

    *sigh* I love weddings even though we didnt have one. Too young and too broke back then. Now we are just too cheap. :)

  • AWESOME ARSENAL

    @iscream
    the girl that had the boxing match with her husbands' mom was from Madison, WI. I saw that show with my wife and she was trippin because they used to be Jahova Witnesses when they were younger and she went the same union hall. i felt sorry for the dude because i already know what his life is gonna be like and if he decides to leave or fight back the system is gonna eat his slow ass up, but that's another post. but yeah, my wife called up her sisters on speaker phone and they clowned ole girl the entire show. lol

  • AWESOME ARSENAL

    and that dirty broad spilled all that candy in the car on the floor and still served it to people. smdh

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @ ms truth

    Aint that the truth :lol:

    @crz comment 81

    Yessss that lady who made her dress smh. She looked like she was ready to f that big mouth witch up! Her father had to step in and save the day. (Which is the reason she is such a witch in the first place.) & remember when she flipped out about her hair.. Or destoyed her flowers :evil:

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    @iscream...that comment made me think about the hideous looking girl that had someone make her dress and then it didn't fit right, and she didn't want to pay for the dress and tried to steal it!! :rofl: I think she was special.

  • cheeks8683

    Awwww I love happy conversations :). I went to like 6 weddings last year...LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL!. I want a fall wedding and I want crimson as one of the colors. I know I'm gonna catch some flack because crimson is the color of the rival team (OU) I graduated from OSU. I just love a deep red, perhaps I will have a wine/champagne color with it...ahhh wishful thinking..Congrats intense!

  • bigtyme

    my mom thinks most of those people who are on bridezilla and rich bride/poor bride will end up divorced. not b/c of the amount of money they spend on the money (b/c people love to say when you spend a whole bunch of money, you will be divorced), but b/c the men will eventually tire of all the drama the ladies bring.

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    @cheeks...I'm having somewhat of a fall wedding in September. It tends to still be hot here during that time though.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    I'm ashamed because I know all the episodes yall are talking about. :lol:

    @mstruth was she the one whose wedding was outside and it started raining. I remember that episode of someone trying not to pay.

    @Awsome A

    Lmao & then didn't she get mad when they ate the candy before they were suppose to. I couldn't believe she picked that candy up off the car floor and put in in the bag while the camera was rolling.

  • cheeks8683

    @ ms. truth...The only reason I would not do a summer one is because I like to faint when I get overheated and stressed lol! I think a winter wedding would be nice too but I would not want it to get all mixed up with the holidays

  • Soulstar81

    @ INTENSE

    IT’S LIKE THE WEATHER OUTSIDE-YOU CAN CHOOSE TO STAY INSIDE AND NOT BE SUBJECTED TO THE WEATHER OR YOU CAN GRAB YOUR UMBRELLA AND TAKE A CHANCE

    I love this saying...I definately know how you feel about wedding planning, you sound very excited. I'm getting married in 8 days. All of your planning and hard work will definitely be worth it. Congrats and I hope you have a lovely day!!

  • speakinmymind

    @ SoulStar81

    you have to time to comment and ur gettin' married in 8 days?!? i was runnin' round like a :chickenhead: 8 days before my wedding! :lolol:

    but i can say that 11+ years later, we are still falling deeper and deeper in love everyday. you think you know everything about a person when you get married, but it's really the "unfolding" that occurs during the marriage that deepens the love, respect and admiration you have for each other. God bless you ladies and remember your vows! you never know what "worse" is going to be and sometimes you have to be the bigger person even when you feel wronged.

    i could go on and on but you get the drift. always remember why you married him in the first place and keep a sense of humor about EVERYTHING! it will see you through even the most trying of times.

  • crzasallgetout

    @ Intense
    Thanks.
    My girls dresses were all chocolate. I had two JR. Bridesmaid that wore chocolate but had pink sashes. I thought it was going to be pink overload or pepto bismal but it wasn't. I should've went with grey and yellow because we saw a tux with those colors and it was gorgeous.

    I watched all of those shows faithfully. Not so much now and it's been 6 months. I know I would get mad and say "I should've done that" if I did.

    I told the photographer that I really wanted pictures of the decor more than anything. haha Sad I know. But I just thought that with dresses they are almost all the same and unless you are butt naked no one will remember it a year from now.

  • intensemocha

    THANKS FOR THE WELL WISHES AND CONGRATS TO ALL THE SOON TO BE BRIDES!!!!!!!! 8 DAYS OH MY GOD!!! BEST WISHES!

    @INTENSE You pull that bytch until the wheels fall off and then you drag it! Congrats!

    @VIBABY

    FO SHO! AND THANX!!!

  • AWESOME ARSENAL

    @iscream
    my wife watched that show all the time but i couldn't because i refuse to believe that the stress of a wedding has all those women acting like that. you know those women are pure hell all year round and seeing women act like that irks me to the utmost. best believe i'ma make sure my boys don't go out like that. and yeah, ole girl got locked up because she was on probation at the time and left the state or something like that but she had the nerve to lie to the police when they pulled her over.

  • crzasallgetout

    @SPEAK
    worse came with us the day before the wedding. LOL we had to go back to counseling because I was about to kill him. :) I can't deal with his stubborn ways and that day just was too much. The pastor cracked me about showing up the next day.

    We(hubby and I) had a bet that he'd cry when I walked down. I won BUT I was crying as well but not for the reasons he thinks. I was crying because hardly anyone showed up. But those Biatches came to eat!!

  • crzasallgetout

    @IM
    when is the date? I know you mentioned it before but I forgot.

  • Soulstar81

    @ speak

    LOL!! Yes, we've finsished planning everything, dresses, jewelry, seating charts, programs, etc. So as of today, everything is in the hands of the wedding planner, my mom and my future mother in law. I'm only contacted if it's an emergency. I was hoping I would have everything done at least 2 weeks before the wedding so I could have time to sit down and breathe a little before the wedding. I want peace and I want to be in a calm and happy place on my day!! NO Stress!!

  • Daisy

    Bridezilla did NOt get taken off air the season ended that's all. They should be back again n the fall after wedding season

    I always said I wld pick a color but let my few (2 more than likel) pick their own dresses. I want a small destination island wedding no more than 50 guest if that. Small simple and at sunset!

  • crzasallgetout

    @soul
    are you on any wedding blogs like WBC(wedding by color)?

  • Daisy

    @Point I would rather marry than burn :lol: I dont think anybody should ever get married that 1) doesnt want to 2) isnt ready! If its not your cup of tea be honest to your mate and be true to yourself

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @daisy thanks *whew* thought they took it off.

    *sideye* I asked you that question hours ago on twitter :lol:

    & yes I know your eyes are bigger than mine.

  • SugarPieHoneybunn

    AWWWW!!!!! This has been such a POSITIVE post today!!! (well the comments are)

    I love it!!!

    Congrats MISS MOCHA!!!!

    Have a great weekend EVERYONE!!! Today is a good day...

  • intensemocha

    @IM
    when is the date? I know you mentioned it before but I forgot.
    ----------------
    AUGUST 14, 2010!

    I was crying because hardly anyone showed up. But those Biatches came to eat!!

    LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

    speakinmymind Says:

    @ SoulStar81

    you have to time to comment and ur gettin’ married in 8 days?!? i was runnin’ round like a 8 days before my wedding!

    but i can say that 11+ years later, we are still falling deeper and deeper in love everyday. you think you know everything about a person when you get married, but it’s really the “unfolding” that occurs during the marriage that deepens the love, respect and admiration you have for each other. God bless you ladies and remember your vows! you never know what “worse” is going to be and sometimes you have to be the bigger person even when you feel wronged.

    i could go on and on but you get the drift. always remember why you married him in the first place and keep a sense of humor about EVERYTHING! it will see you through even the most trying of times
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    THANKS FOR THE ADVICE I KNOW MANY OF DAYS THIS WILL COME IN HANDY

    -----------------------------

  • Daisy

    @Iscream check your twitter I ans you HOURS ago on there as well so you can keep your *side eye* I told you I stopped watching Bridezilla because it became to fake and over the top. I want them to bring back Whose Wedding is it anyway. I cant wait for say yes to the dress to come back on TLC either. I watch Platinum weddings as well but I really only like to the the black couples on that show for some reason and they usally only have 1.

  • intensemocha

    CONGRATS SOULSTAR81

    LET US KNOW HOW EVERYTHING GOES-I KNOW IT WILL BE BEAUTIFUL!

    Congrats MISS MOCHA!!!!

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    THANK YOU!

  • free

    Ms.Everything Says: Its not always easy to catch them not all men are that stupid.

    *******************************************

    yes they are. and 5 years? somebody was sleeping at the wheel.

    congrats on all the brides to be. i had a great wedding but, looking back, i shulda just went to the damn courthouse. i got all kindsa ish i don't use--lil makeup purses and shirts that say "bride" (that will never fit me again), white bejeweled slippers and flip-flops, gifts still in the closet, extra keepsakes. i was into pink at the time and i have all kinds of pink junk in a drawer. it all seemed cute at the time but i never even did my photo album. the pics are still in the boxes and the canvas print is propped up against a wall. it was nice for the few minutes it lasted but i should have went on a 3-week honeymoon instead.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @sugapie

    Same to you. & I said the same thing. This was a really feel good post. :)

    @ Daisy

    :D

  • intensemocha

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    LOL-I'VE CONSIDERED THAT SEVERAL TIMES JUST THE COURTHOUSE, TRIP TO VEGAS, OR EXTENDED HONEYMOON

    MY MAMA WOULD LITERALLY KILL ME!!!!!SHE'S DONE SO MANY WEDDINGS AT OUR CHURCH AND HER BABY IS GETTING MARRIED, COULD YOU IMAGINE, HMMM I DON'T EVEN WANT TO THINK ABOUT THE WRATH SHE WOULD BRING UPON ME

    LOL-BUT I'VE DEFINITELY CONSIDERED THOSE OPTIONS

  • Soulstar81

    Thanks everyone!!

    @ crzasallgetout Says:
    @soul
    are you on any wedding blogs like WBC(wedding by color)?

    I was on the Knot nonstop. I love the blog, the magazine and the newsletter. I love, love, love the Knot. It made my life a lot easier and it definately helped to relieve some of the stress early on when I couldn't find a venue.

  • Soulstar81

    * definitely *

  • intensemocha

    I'M ON THE KNOT-WORKING ON OUR WEDDING WEBSITE-IT'S GREAT

    HOPING TO DO MOST OF MY RSVPS THERE!

    I LOVE IT TOO!

  • VIBABY

    @Free If you got married at the courhouse (like we did) you would *deep sigh* at every wedding like I do. (Still after 11 years) I never want to go through it, but I can only imgaine how cute I would have been :lolol: Atleast you know.

  • Soulstar81

    @ IM

    I promise once the rsvp's come in, it (the knot) will save your life. it makes it so easy to keep up with your budget and your rsvp list and your seating chart and I can keep going. Love the Knot. Will be signing up for The Nest and The Bump when the time comes. We created a website and gave our guests the option to rsvp online. We had originally thought our guest count would be around 175-200 people...note even close. 244 people rsvp'd.

  • crzasallgetout

    I tried the know but couldn't get the hang of it. I did post pictures afterwards though.

    RSVPS are a must. Most people said we wouldn't get them back but we did and all but 8 people actually didn't show that said they would. The reception was full. I got married in September and I'm still getting magazines and emails. haha

    @free
    Tell me about the stuff you don't need after the day is gone. haha. My hubby found some martini glasses that I bought for the moussee that we didn't use. haha. I still have programs, menu cards, and fans that need to be trashed. As for wedding gifts my brother in laws wife gave us 2 panini makers and I've never made a panini in my life. I guess I registered for them. I was just clicking that day

  • intensemocha

    @SOULSTAR81

    WOW-SAY IT AINT SO???? 244

    WE ARE INVITING 200, BUT I'M HOPING NO MORE THAN 175 ACTUALLY COME.

    CURRENTLY THE SEATING CHART OPTION ON MY VERSION OF THE KNOT-SAYS COMING SOON, BUT ISN'T AVAILABLE RIGHT NOW

    LET ME KNOW IF THERE IS A WAY AROUND THIS!!!!

    RSVP IS A MUST-THE NATZI USHERS FROM MY CHURCH ARE GOING TO BE AT THE DOOR OF MY RECEPTION MAKING SURE NO CRASHERS GET IN-NOT THAT I'M UBER IMPORTANT

    BUT I HEARD PEOPLE GO AROUND AND CRASH WEDDINGS JUST TO EAT, AND SOMEONE STATED EARLIER THAT PEOPLE DIDN'T COME TO THE WEDDING BUT CAME TO EAT-THAT IS JUST RUDE AND TACKY IN MY OPINION BUT I KNOW IT COULD HAPPEN TO ME AS WELL, I HOPE NOT THOUGH

  • Soulstar81

    @ IM
    We invited 210 people. All of the vendors said we would only have 60%-70% of the invitees show up, so we planned for 200 guests. The vendors were wrong. I know it's kind of bad, but towards the end, we were kind of happy when someone sent back an rsvp and "regretfully declined." My family is huge, so I guess I'm not too surprised. I had a cousin I forgot to send an invitation to and he rsvp'd online. I was like what??? He never comes to any family functions.

    I'm not sure about the seating chart, I will ask my mom. She handled the seating chart arrangements after the rsvp's came in.

  • Soulstar81

    And I meant to say we planned for about 175 guests.

  • intensemocha

    THANKS I APPRECIATE IT-

    I'M GETTING GIDDY THINKING ABOUT YOUR DAY BEING SO CLOSE

    IT'S SO CONTAGEOUS-HAPPINESS THAT IS..LOL EVEN FOR ME

  • Soulstar81

    Thank you!! I'm a little anxious myself. But I can't wait. And I'm definately ready to get to Hawaii. Have you decided where you're going for your honeymoon?

  • intensemocha

    WE'RE PLANNING A CRUISE TO THE BAHAMAS, BUT NOT UNTIL SEPTEMBER, GIVES US TIME TO RECOUPERATE FROM ALL THE FESTIVITIES AND REST UP BEFORE THE HONEYMOON

    WE'RE USING CARNIVAL CRUISES-

    HAWAII SOUNDS LIKE FUN-

  • intensemocha

    AND FINISH PAYING FOR IT$$$$$$$$$$$$$$LOL

  • Soulstar81

    AND FINISH PAYING FOR IT$$$$$$$$$$$$$$LOL

    LOL!! I will not be carrying any expenses from this wedding into 2011. Will be paying it off asap. We are very blessed that our parents are helping pay for a lot of the wedding.

    I'm leaving work now and won't be back for 2 weeks!!! Have a great weekend and have fun planning. The next time I show up on SR, I will be a married woman!!!

    :party:

  • intensemocha

    YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!

  • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Soulstar81 Says:

    The next time I show up on SR, I will be a married woman!!!

    **********************************************

    Congrats girl! :yea:

  • vetta

    "We(hubby and I) had a bet that he’d cry when I walked down. I won BUT I was crying as well but not for the reasons he thinks. I was crying because hardly anyone showed up. But those Biatches came to eat!!"

    --LMAO, although I know it wasn't funny to you at the time. Congrats to all the ladies commenting in this post who are getting married soon!!

  • Daisy

    Well looks like we will have a few less women putting their hands up when Single ladies comes on :lol:

    CONGRATS to ALL :heart: