I've seen the above photo of 80s rocker Marilyn, right, and his young lover posted on other blogs. But not once did it ever click that his lover is Gavin Rossdale who is married to singer Gwen Stefani.

I have never once plucked Gavin's gay card. But now I can see his feminine qualities.

British singer Boy George outed Gavin back in 1995 after Rossdale came to fame as a member of the group Bush.

But Rossdale has continuously denied his sexual relationship with Marilyn despite photographic evidence. Last month, Rossdale finally confirmed his relationship with the cross dressing singer.

...in a new interview with U.S. magazine Details, Rossdale finally confessed to the liaison.
He told how he had a fling with Marilyn, now 47, in the 1980s when he was just 17 years old.

And he said he had not admitted to the affair because of the media ‘glare’ when Bush were just forging a career in the U.S.

His admission has not pleased Marilyn, who told InTouch: 'I find it sad that when I spoke out about what we had, I was labelled a tattletale - and now, Gavin is using it to promote himself'. [link]

But what impact has Gavin's admission had on his wife and baby mama Gwen Stefani?

Gay men will tell you how difficult it is for them to give up that lifestyle. So is Gavin still sexually attracted to men?What if you found out your man was gay before you met him? Would you leave him? Or would you watch every man he comes into contact with and hope that he doesn't stray?

  • lakercrazy

    WTF!!! :grin: ERRBODY GAY OR BI NOW A DAYS :rolleyes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrBy3vXwZ_E Str8Cpt

    I still don't care :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLlY0UF9VDU dckimmie74

    This is old news :yawn:

  • meanNsurly

    Everybody has a lil gay in them.....or at least that is what I tell myself to make me feel "normal!"

    S/N: SR.com is being attacked by Gain!!!!

  • CFREE

    I don't think I would be able to be with a man if I found out he was sexualy active with a man at any point in his life. I don't have a problem with gay or bisexuality, its the deceit that lies between. People need to be honest about who they are.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrBy3vXwZ_E Str8Cpt

    Can we get a post on Bishop Eddie Long and his response to his accusers?
    Or your beloved T.I. going to jail for the umpteenth time?
    Sumthing... :shrug:

  • lexdiamonz

    why when a man has a same sex relationship it makes him gay but when a woman does it... it is cool

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @Lex

    because like I been saying forever it is normal for women to be lesbians. Everyone recognizes this and that's why it does't even raise an eyebrow.
    :coffee:

  • meanNsurly

    @Lexi: RIGHT!!!! The double standard in this society kills me! Its "gross and disgusting" when a man does it but when a woman does its "hot and cool!"

    And totally off topic.........I feel like washing some clothes!!

  • ySoSerious

    The better question would have been who cares. Other than Gwen of course. :coffee:

  • WUTWUZINDAT!?

    Sandra has totally filled my Gay detection quota...

    :newpost:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLlY0UF9VDU dckimmie74

    Str8Cpt says:

    Can we get a post on Bishop Eddie Long and his response to his accusers?
    Or your beloved T.I. going to jail for the umpteenth time?
    Sumthing…
    ___________________________

    :cosign:

  • AllNYC

    My guess is Gwen already knew about this. They seem like a really close couple.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLlY0UF9VDU dckimmie74

    Sandra....I'm sure you have intimate details about TI's preparation to go back to the same damn jail in Arkansas with some of the same inmates and guards. I'm sure Precious(TI sister) gave you the scoop. Is it true that Tiny trying to get back on the BET show now that Tip is locked up? What happened with Tiny's charges in LA yesterday? :coffee:

  • Cariblife

    These pics leaked a while back and I feel bad for Gwen, she looks like such a nice person and just seems to be a loser in relationships, first her other boyfriend left her and now her hubby is bisexual, then there was that rumor about him having that love child fully grown and all. SMDH.

  • MissHarlem

    @ MEAN you didnt feel like doing laundry its just the assault by wack azz GAIN that makes you feel like you need to do laundry

  • Cinderella

    @ Cariblife, Gavin does have an adult daughter he just met a few years ago.

  • meanNsurly

    Hey Miss!!!!! I like Gain though but its taking over!!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    :yawn:

  • ELove

    YT Females/Women have NEVER had problems with BEING Sexually Involved with GAY/Bi-Sexual Dudes (Real...) And just like everything else regarding YT... Black Females/Women are following their lead and getting Sexually-Involved with GAY-DL Dudes (SOME unwittingly & Others OUTRIGHT...)

    HOW MANY Females were just ALL-OUT KRAZY about George Michael when he was THE SHYT and THAT DUDE was alwayz GAY (In My EYES...) IT was so VERY OBVIOUS (Real...) When that FAITH album was out THE MAJORITY of the Females I knew SWORE He wasn't GAY because they ALL wanted to SEX HIM :rofl:

    Good Morning Everybody !!!

  • Cariblife

    All I'm saying is that this is alot of strain to put on a relationship. I mean unless she didn't already know about his "liaison"

  • ySoSerious

    :offtopic:

    I just saw on T M Z that Kim Kardashian is recording an album with The Dream. :blink:

  • Cariblife

    @YSo

    Nooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why?? But still noooooooo!!!!!!

    Please don't let this be another Paris Hilton type mess.

  • MissHarlem

    @ MEAN you may like GAIN but chit after this it might make you switch to another brand

    @ YSO she cant be half serious what she gonna sing about wack azz BJ or how much plastic she smells SAT DOWN

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrBy3vXwZ_E Str8Cpt

    George Michael was the ish!

    But the lyrics to "Father Figure" made me :blink:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    @ YSO she cant be half serious what she gonna sing about wack azz BJ or how much plastic she smells SAT DOWN

    :dead:

  • ySoSerious

    Good morning my ELove. :kiss:

    Some women think they can make an obviously gay man straight if they s e x him good enough. The power if the puzzy and all that. And I'm one of those women that don't mind a little androgyny in their men. Prince and David Bowie come to mind. Yum.

  • Mamacita

    :blink: And we care because...

    who the he!! is this anyway. ...

  • ySoSerious

    :rofl: @ Miss H

  • Shauny

    Damn Gwen, I don't know how supportive I could be about this but she must've already knew and don't care. I've heard this story before. She's a trusting woman if that's the case. I couldn't do that one though.

    @lex I don't understand the double standard of man/man versus woman/woman either.

  • MissHarlem

    @ COCOA Now you know she dont have anything else to sing about

  • candibfly

    i read this somewhere else a long time ago :coffee: and didn't care then :yawn: let me know when gwen is givin away some l.a.m.b shoes or sumn.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    I knew :coffee: Sandra girl smh at you this story broke weeks ago :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    I just saw on T M Z that Kim Kardashian is recording an album with The Dream.
    spitsoutcoffeonkeyboard

    :rofl: :blink:

  • jazzyiest

    OMG!!! This would piss me all the way off. I wonder if he'd ever told her this? I love Gweni but she's kind of weird too so she may have known about it and accepted it but I would REALLY like to hear her say something about it. WOW!!! :shocked:

  • jazzyiest

    @ Choco

    Girl STOP!!!!! Kim who is recording an album with who?!?!?!?!?!?

  • meanNsurly

    Kim K is recording a what?!? Unless she does a voice over on another sex tape I dont care!!!

    :dead: @ Harlem!!!!!! :kona:

  • lexdiamonz

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @Lex

    because like I been saying forever it is normal for women to be lesbians. Everyone recognizes this and that’s why it does’t even raise an eyebrow

    and y do we not feel the same about two brothers!! LOL!!!

    and @choco KK making an album u know the nightmare will be trying to "wife" her

    and i love love loved george michael but come on son who did not know he was gay remember the careless whisper video

  • ELove

    @lexi
    I'm NOT making this SHYT Up... I have FEMALE Cousins TO THIS DAY who can't stand me for telling them George Michael was GAY when that FAITH album was out... They were VIVIDLY UPSET that I said that about THEIR DREAM Guy they wanted to SEX (Real...) :rofl:

    And Yeah THAT "Careless Whisper" video... Hell HIS HAIR was STR8 Whipped better than THEIR HAIR could ever be !!! :shrug:

    @ySoSerious
    Morning to YOU My Sweetie-PIE :kiss:

  • all_canadian

    ELove... why say that all YT females (don't know what that stands for, but I know it means white) don't care if their men are gay? K, would you want me to label all black men or something to that effect? Just sayin.

  • ELove

    @all_canadian
    If I MEANT ALL I would've said it... I was speaking in GENERAL which usually means THE VAST MAJORITY (At Least from my perspective...)

    And ANYONE painting ALL BLACK MEN the same HAPPENS ALL THE TIME... EVEN Amongst OUR Black FEMALES (They ROUTINELY say ALL Black MEN...) Doesn't effect me because I KNOW I'm Unique and NOT A TYPICAL Male/Man regardless of RACE (Real...) :wink:

  • all_canadian

    I looked on urban dictionary and found out YT means WHITEY. Duh, all this time I was wondering what it meant and I guess it's pretty obvious.

    I know this isn't a big race discussion but just had to say that. You know, if you don't like being labeled as ALL BLACK MEN, you shouldn't do the reverse by saying

    "YT Females/Women have NEVER had problems with BEING Sexually Involved with GAY/Bi-Sexual Dudes (Real…) And just like everything else regarding YT… Black Females/Women are following their lead"

    So yeah, maybe some WHITE females have not had problems being with gay men (real) but it sounded like you were saying white women, in general, don't care if their man is gay. I just thought that was stereotyping.

    Don't want to make this into a big race thing but wanted to tell you that, carry on with your discussion...

  • http://mylifeinthesun782.blogspot.com Ms. Everything

    This is old and I'm sure Gwen knew about it, its not like she was new to the industry when they got together

  • pinksghetti

    I thought Gwen Stefani was a lesbian when she first hit the scene with "Just a Girl". Maybe I was jumping the gun but the part where she said "I'm just a girl..but I'd rather not be" had me giving her the side eye back then. I know what the song was about but was still surprised when I found out she dated men *shrug* so maybe they are to bisexuals who married.

  • Danielle84

    What if you found out your man was gay before you met him? Would you leave him?
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    Yes I would! :coffee:

  • Carrie Cruz

    Iam crushed :(