fanMAIL: Does Seal have anger towards Black women?

I totally agree with loyal reader S S who writes in to ask “does [Seal have] anger towards black women?” It’s quite clear that Seal has unresolved issues by the way he manhandles baby Lou in public. He is never careful with that child. Where in the baby handbook does it say it’s okay to pick up a 1-year-old baby by her arm?

Loyal reader S S writes:

I really thought you were being overly critical of Seal and his daughter. I don’t like to accuse people of stuff like that unless I am certain. However, after careful consideration and more than one photograph he seems unusually angry, annoyed, and too aggressive with his handling of her. I don’t see the same aggression attached to his sons. It is disturbing to say the least and the look on his already scary face is heart breaking. Do you think it is because he has anger towards Black women? I sincerely hope he is not mistreating or abusing her. I will pray for that baby. If he treats her roughly she will think it normal when others do it as she gets older. Not fair.

Have a Fantastic Day!

StillASassyOne

Reaching 101
StillASassyOne

Forget Seal…I’m watching RHOA and you know who I think has issues with women- Cynthia’s fiance’, PETER!

I don’t like the way he talks to Cynthia like he is her parent and Nene like she’s some dude on the street and everybody must stop, drop and roll for his azz.

He better sit his geriatric azz down somewhere!
prettyinpink1218

Im confused…where does his handling of the baby show his hatred?? And maybe they hold their children like that in his culture, there are things that my grandmother did and gave us as little kids that definitely would not fly in today’s society
prettyinpink1218

StillSassy..Im not making an excuse but hes west indian and I know alot of west indians who talk to their women like that BUT they have the utmost love for them, he’s just on the possesive side
Dawn

In 2011 People should stop reading into chit! I bet that letter came from a sour apple bitter female whose made bad choices in men all her life…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7MJXRIqU7E&feature=related YSoSerious

One Seal’s face is not scary. And he doesn’t look angry and annoyed to me.

Two I think Seal is just used to handling boys. I doubt he has anything but love for that child. Why else is she always with him?

Would this question have been asked if Seal was married to a black woman?

Boo and hiss this post and your “loyal reader” are a miss.
West Coast Chick

This is called an extreme reach! The only black in that child is by way of him… I’m sure he sees more of his white wife in those children that he sees himself, being that they all look exactly like her… find something else to do, loyal reader
West Coast Chick

BTW: Ive never seen Seal look angry.. maybe puzzy whipped, but def not angry
lakercrazy

really???
StillASassyOne

@Pretty

I noticed his accent, and was about to ask if he’s Jamaican or something cause I know they can get possessive (I’ve had a Trini, a Jamaican, a Native American & now a Dominican) and any dude from an island gets “nasty” about their women. But Peter is like: “well dayum!!”

I hate how he talks to her. Just cause he’s “stressed.” If you hate your job, quit it. Hate your life- end it. But he shouldn’t use that as an excuse to take his emotions out on those around him!
lakercrazy

@west hey chica
qtipthecat

I agree with YSO. I don’t think this question would be asked if his wife wasn’t white. SMDH
pinky2083

:rollseyes:
ohpretty1

I take it your loyal reader is a victim of the Slap That B*tch Club.
pinky2083

That’s a little too much digging.
JadeAli

His mini doesn’t llok bothered. She’s looking down at the playground ride.

And Pretty..Peter def. has issues and Cynthia looks like she just will go for anything he says. Acting like he’s her daddy…
MzDimplez1123

SASO..I replied to your question in the rihanna post
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

I logged back on to this?
West Coast Chick

Ms Laker Babee
lakercrazy

@dimpz ok so ima do this chit again hey dimpz how u doing today i said hi in the riri post but u gets another one :lol
KweenKish11

WTH??? Why would he handle her like that? Little girls should be handled with care by “Daddy” so that they will accept nothing less from the men they date. However I am not sure if her being black (due to Seals bloodline) has anything to do with it.
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

Oh, and hi everyone!! I’ve been dippin in and out all day….
http://mobile.twitter.com/iamwonderchick2 LesBinLuv

Really Auntie…I mean, really?!?!?!

#tisall
West Coast Chick

I will agree that he shouldn’t hold a child by the arms… it does look inappropriate.. but not done with malice or anything.. actually, I’ve seen people lift their kids up like that a lot- I mean, he does have what looks to be an expensive camera on his other hand, so??
MzDimplez1123

LAKERLOSO!

How you do Mami?
StillASassyOne

@Jade Ali

I think she should have forced his hand about respecting Nene as her only friend in ATL when Peter was basically telling her that “hey, if we don’t get along, ya’ll can’t be friends.”

Peter was just BEGGING her azz to marry him. She said yes just 5 mins ago and he’s already tripping?! Chile, please…..
lakercrazy

@lesb so u just gon pop in and out just like that no wuv no nuthing
@dimpz im good ready for these 53 min to pass so i can get my fabuloso azz up out of here
SouthernPrincess

Speaking of Peter, I think he is so sexy!!!!
http://twitter.com/SayItaIntSoJoe8 Atypical

How can someone look at photograph and determine someone’s “mood”? Just because you see or read about celebrities on blogs doesn’t mean you “know” them….
Starr

For real Sandra? for real?

And there’s nothing scary about seal…She exposed her own prejudice
Mamacita

This is so stupid…this “loyal reader” should get a life.

So out of the 365 days in a year you see him handling his daughter 3 times and assume he has issues with black women. That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. GTFOH

What an idiot…
Eb

Bullsh!t
Mamacita

“It is disturbing to say the least and the look on his already scary face is heart breaking.”

Well his woman is a beautiful Super Model so it must not be that scary

and again
http://chachellasplayground.blogspot.com/?zx=979f097e05f327d8 ChaCha

SouthernPrincess says:

Speaking of Peter, I think he is so sexy!!!!

I think so too… And I wish my newly “good” friend would tell me to put my future Husband on the phone so that they can resolve some issues… I dont think any of this is the way Peter is portrayed.. I think Cynthia needs to grow back a bone and focus on the real deal..you wanna be friends with misery who loves company or you wanna get your shyt together and focus on the future ahead of you.

I think Peter is a cool dude but he is a MAN and I definitely dont think he is the type to push over. My husband would react the same way, I mean DAYUM am I fluckin Ne Ne or am I fluckin you

Is it me or did KIM get a little knuck if you buck on Phaedra :rpfl:
vero

Oh PLEASE!!!!!!!
He’s holding the baby correctly. It’s ok to hold a child by the arm as long as you’re firmly holding the underarm, so you don’t pull the arm out of its socket… not sure if I make sense.. french is my language.
This ‘loyal’ reader really needs to go and find something to do with her life
I’m an avid reader, not so much of a poster but this one post made me jump… grrrrrrrr
bye all!!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

at your loyal reader and Seal being angry – so I guess he would hate his mom and grandmother too from this pic
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7MJXRIqU7E&feature=related YSoSerious

I hope your “loyal reader” is still reading loyally after seeing how ignorant words look to others.
http://chachellasplayground.blogspot.com/?zx=979f097e05f327d8 ChaCha

Mamacita says:

This is so stupid…this “loyal reader” should get a life.

So out of the 365 days in a year you see him handling his daughter 3 times and assume he has issues with black women. That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. GTFOH

What an idiot
West Coast Chick

Mamacita says:

“It is disturbing to say the least and the look on his already scary face is heart breaking.”

Well his woman is a beautiful Super Model so it must not be that scary

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not to mention, that Seals voice is pure magic.. I love him as an artist and I love love love him and Hiedi as a couple
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7MJXRIqU7E&feature=related YSoSerious

insert “her” between ignorant and words. Please and thanks.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

I hope your “loyal reader” is still reading loyally after seeing how ignorant words look to others.
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and Seal has always been sexy to me but lately this bohemian I don’t bathe look is not the answer
http://chachellasplayground.blogspot.com/?zx=979f097e05f327d8 ChaCha

Choco says:
at your loyal reader and Seal being angry – so I guess he would hate his mom and grandmother too from this pic

GTFOHWTBS
StillASassyOne

@ChaCha & SouthernPrincess

I see ya’ll points but Peter did come off at her wrong 1st. My man has came at me about me paying attention to my friends moreso than him and me talking on the phone all day & night with them, but regardless of how he feels about it, when they’re around- he has the utmost respect for them. He’s civil, gentleman like and not COLD.

Nene heard Peter had a problem with her and instead of pushing it as soon as she saw him, she still was cordial and playful and spoke to him first and he basically gave her the okey-doke. Peter was dead azz wrong for being rude like that for no reason.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7MJXRIqU7E&feature=related YSoSerious

@WCC

I love his voice too.
(swoons)
thaspinaltruth

I think he loves his daughter, but she can get what is called “Nurses Maid”, if he isn’t careful with grabbing her arms, like in that first picture.
lakercrazy

don’t see were seal is angry and how the fuk this loyal retart know he is angry over some dang pics please bish fall bak its a dam picture
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Chiiit Peter more Cynthia needs some type of Black WOMAN BACKBONE- she let him so he will continue But whole up NO ONE SEE’s HOW HARD NENE Crushes on Peter
StillASassyOne

I understand you gotta know where you’re priorities lay, but don’t get the game f**ked up just because somebody you’re “married” to got a problem.

I’ve had one gf who got low & real “f**k ya’ll” like everytime she got a man and when everybody left her side and he was cheating on her and beating her, she couldn’t PAY to find a friend. You can draw a line without cutting people off or out and if you cannot do it-that only speaks to your faulty abilities to juggle the relationships in your life.

That’s my piece on it.
lakercrazy

@choco who the fuk is this peter yall speak of?
lakercrazy

@sassy
Nyedai

I’m sorry but that is a bit of a strech.
Daisy

Welcome all the newbies

I Seal and Heidi and their fam
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@Lakes
peter on RHOA of Atl Cynthia the model husband
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

YSoSerious says:

I hope your “loyal reader” is still reading loyally after seeing how ignorant words look to others.
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My loyal reader is wrong for pointing out the way Seal is aggressively manhandling a 1-year-old, but Peter is right to talk disrespectfully to his wife because he’s Jamaican?
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Your loyal reader is wrong for promoting a falacy such as Seal possibly has anger issues with black women becuz of how he holds his own MIXED not black/ raced daughter!
lakercrazy

@choco OOOOH OK THAT DAM SHOW
@SANDRA GIRL STOP TALKING IS ONE THING PLUS IM SURE ITS ALL FOR THE RATINGS BUT U SAYNG SEAL MIGHT HATE BLACK WOMAN FO REAL?? ***THINKS TO SELF MAYBE THIS IS HOW SANDRA GETS HER DAM RATINGS** GIRL DID U HAVE A LIL TOOO LONG OF A VACAY???
SouthernPrincess

Peter basically let Cynthia know, when I come home from work…thats our time…you’ve had all day to shoot the ish with your friends…when I am home show your man some love and attention….I DO NOT see the problem with that at all
SugarPieHoneybunn

Oh please. Your loyal reader just wishes she had a black man that would man-handle HER ASS.

Bitter, lonely females are their own worse enemy. Worrying about the wrong damn thing ALL the damn time.
http://chachellasplayground.blogspot.com/?zx=979f097e05f327d8 ChaCha

LAKERLOSO I LUBS THE SHIAT OUTTA YOU
lakercrazy

@CHACHA I WOVES U TOO
West Coast Chick

Something about Cynthia gets on my nerves.. I don’t like her or neenee.. therefore, I force myself to even watch the show.. I like Beverly Hills housewives better
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@WCC
I like Beverly Hills better as well and Cynthia and Nene keep me at a loss for words at times
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7MJXRIqU7E&feature=related YSoSerious

@Sandra

Your “loyal reader” is wrong for implying that Seal has anger issues toward black women and therefore his daughter based off the way he holds his own child and his “scary” face and the other random bullchit she came up with to justify her seeming prejudice toward this man.

I will not speak on this Peter person cause I don’t know who he is.
twindemplz02

Dang Sandra, reach much do you????

Hello SR FAM Happy Monday
StillASassyOne

@Suthern

Just because he walks his azz in the house does not mean she has to drop everything, turn her phone off and not even answer calls for five minutes. What if Cynthia has had a busy day too? And she hasn’t had a chance to tal to anybody?

Furthermore- I don’t care what happens once he walks through the door after work or how f**ked up business is going at his restaurant- there’s no need for him to deflect that sh*t to EVERYBODY around him, fiance’, fiances’ friends, or the damn mailman.

But hell- I ain’t gotta marry him or deal with that. Moody azz negro. Pop a pamprin and shut the hell up!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

I agree with Sass tho don’t come inside wiping your feet on everyone else cuz someone cut your azz off while driving home-Check that chit at the door
Daisy

I like RHOA better than RHOBH but I do like Kyle and Lisa the best. Camielle annoys me. I agree Peter was stressed about his now closed resturant and taking it out on Cynthia but this is all scripted reality anyway as we all know
http://mobile.twitter.com/iamwonderchick2 LesBinLuv

Laker babyyyyy……hhheeeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy beewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!
SouthernPrincess

I’m not saying she should drop everything because Peter comes home….I am saying that anyone in a relationship should not be on the phone all day and night with their friends especially if their mate is there and desiring quality time.
Also from what I gathered from the show Peter didnt have a problem with their friendship, his issue was with Cynthia being on the phone ALL NIGHT basically and then the added issue of planning a wedding and being a business owner can definitely take its toll

And I didnt know his resturant closed that sucks
http://chachellasplayground.blogspot.com/?zx=979f097e05f327d8 ChaCha

@ SASO, but how would you feel if when you did walk in the door and you were hella stressed and your significant others attention was being witheld by his homeboy? This would cause you to feel even more upset, and overwhelmed and perhaps bitter as well. I wouldnt expect them to drop everything but I WOULD expect the person on the other end to respect my relationship and understand that my time and attention has to be focused elsewhere. they havent gotten married yet and to me he is addressing certain issues that bother him now, as she is, which to me would be best before they tied the knot.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Simple solution to Peter and Cynthia
Peter walks in see’s the look on her future hubby’s face which should say it all- politely tells NeNe she will phone her later…

Hangs up phone and yells at Peter WTF is wrong with you
http://chachellasplayground.blogspot.com/?zx=979f097e05f327d8 ChaCha

Choco says:

Simple solution to Peter and Cynthia
Peter walks in see’s the look on her future hubby’s face which should say it all- politely tells NeNe she will phone her later…

Hangs up phone and yells at Peter WTF is wrong with you

JUST THAT SIMPLE
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

I don’t watch RHOA any more, but I agree with Peter. You teach a woman how you want to be treated. If Cynthia knows that he doesn’t want her chatting on the phone when he comes home, then she’s being disrespectful by remaining on the phone. That’s the problem with black women of today. They’re hardheaded. This is the reason why black men leave for greener pastures.
http://chachellasplayground.blogspot.com/?zx=979f097e05f327d8 ChaCha

I was in agreeance with you Sandrita up until that last part… I cant speak from a males perspective or point of view so I wont go there….with
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That’s the problem with black women of today. They’re hardheaded. This is the reason why black men leave for greener pastures.

I do however believe in respecting a MAN and allowing him to be a MAN. I also know now two marriages deep to pick and choose your arguments in your relationship and to NEVER EVER share your business with people that are not on the same like path or with the same values that you hold. I dont ever bad mouth my husband to nobody, when I have a problem I talk to him, and we cant work it out I take it to the Lord in prayer. This works for <— ME.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

ChaCha says:

I do however believe in respecting a MAN and allowing him to be a MAN. I also know now two marriages deep to pick and choose your arguments in your relationship and to NEVER EVER share your business with people that are not on the same like path or with the same values that you hold. I dont ever bad mouth my husband to nobody, when I have a problem I talk to him, and we cant work it out I take it to the Lord in prayer. This works for <— ME.
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You're obviously one of the good, clean, wholesome women that Eddie Murphy was searching for in 'Coming To America'
http://chachellasplayground.blogspot.com/?zx=979f097e05f327d8 ChaCha

Sandra Rose says:

You’re obviously one of the good, clean, wholesome women that Eddie Murphy was searching for in ‘Coming To America’

WHATEVA YOU LIKE
http://vimeo.com/17630990 LaTechGrad02

Evening Fam….

at Sandra and the Coming to America reference….Queen to be…….
PAHairston

Hello All. Sandra, Sandra, Sandra. Come on now, look at this man. He’s massive. He has enough bulk and strength to pick his little girl up by one arm and not harm her at all! Men used to do it all the time, back in the day, when more black men were around their kids TO pick them up. Peace.