You can add American Idol judge Jennifer Lopez to the long list of insecure women Alicia Keys, Gabrielle Union who lose their men the way they get them: by cheating.
In 2004, J-Lo fell in love with Latin lover singer Marc Anthony — while he was still married to Dayanarra Torres (the couple had 2 children). Marc filed for divorce from his wife that same year and within months he and Lopez were married.
Torres said her ex-husband’s cheating devastated her: “I cried until there were no tears left — until I was numb.”
Today, Just one month after celebrating their seventh wedding anniversary, J-Lo and Marc have called it quits.
“We have decided to end our marriage,” the couple said in a statement to E! News. “This was a very difficult decision. We have come to amicable conclusion on all matters. It is a painful time for all involved and we appreciate the respect of our privacy at this time.”
Source: E! News
I predict she will be with Puffy in 3 months
Oh I forgot about that
Diddy will be dumping Cassie in 5, 4, 3, 2….
Wait! alicia and swizz are no more?
Didnt know
@Secret…
welp…I don’t think anyone is shocked….they never had longevity written on them.
Poor Cassie and Kim
Say it again Sandra…when will these broads learn…How u get him…..is….
<—-Ditty dancing screaming.. Takedat…Takedat
Wish I could say I was surpised
and yes puff daddy, puffy, papa diddy puff, p.diddy, diddy never got over her.
can’t say i’m surprised. At the Grammy’s this year they were sending the show into commercial or something (i forgot) and Jennifer made a joke and her husband and he shot her this evil look. Since she has been on idol, I’ve read “blind items” they have suggested he was a controlling drunk.
Marc loved J Lo since he first laid eyes on her Rosie O tells the story very well hate to see them split.
Although I always loved J Lo w/Puffy the best I did like her and Marc
I wish them both the best
I STANS for me some J Lo LOVE her and she is a fellow Leo
SN Tonight is the last ep of Fri Night Lights and I am
#dontjudgeme
@laykeya….Dnt that little nigglet be changing names….lol
People have always speculated that Marc was controlling…
or maybe she’ll be back with ben affleck?
why yall want her and puff back together?
@ bnatural
You know its true lol
I dont think Im shocked by this news either, I really like the both of them though.
At least Jlo got some children out the deal…thats all she really wanted
@spongebob deep down inside people love a happy ending. and yes i’ve heard marc anthony is controlling. keyword Heard don’t stone me.
Wow, hate to hear this..wonders who is the culprit, him or her?
@Sponge Isnt Ben happily married to the other Jen. I always liked her and Puffy and she seems to be the “love” of his life the one who got away
Doubt that it happens but I have always held out hope for such 
chacha wat you still doing here. I tought you were taking lil princess to chuck e cheese.
I absolutely agree with you on this! I read on another site a few weeks ago he was cheating with either a backup dancer or singer.
What about all the duets? Oh well..
I actually thought her career was over just prior to Idol. But the media spin doctors revived her back to life. They said she was the most beautiful something something or the other. Any who, she has her legs back. She is standing on her own. Because honestly it seemed like she needed him and the babies to bring her up, just an outside assessment. Now it’s all gone to her head. That’s how it appears on my tv screen.
Marc Anthony strikes me as the stereotypical latin man. It takes a certain personality to handle that kind. Jennifer strikes me as the kind that no longer embraces that view. Hence a divorce was inevitable.
Ben don’t want JLO lol. They seem to be from two different planets. It wouldnt have lasted.
Diddy and Jen are from the same type of background. I am guessing why people want them together. But it wouldnt work. Her family may not accept him and he is a big time womanizer
@laykeya
Hey!! I’ve been meaning to get at you!
@nhere I’m not saying J.lo uses men but…Puffy new found singing career. Beb Aflack, America’s sweetheart. Marc Anthony, revival of isnging career and better voice. Not saying I’m mad at her.
@still why? What I do?
Well Jen cant be surprised if Marc did cheat after all its how she got him wasnt it?
I am not surprise at all. What surprises me is that they were maried for so long. It’s only a matter of time before she move on to a new relationship. Jennifer, is the type of chick who has to have a man in her life to make her feel complete. We have all see how fast she move on to the next relationship after each divorce, and boyfriends freak ups.
@ laykeya point well taken. Coming up off the backs of men..
@ Secret she has that because I’m ME syndrome.
Ben and his wife seem straight, JLo can get back with her ex husband the background dancer.
@Lay
You trying to move to/near Bmore right? I live in Bmore. I was wondering if you had found any options yet because I can give you some suggestions that are close enough to the city but still far enough away and “upper-class” not to be influenced by the “city residents” if you get my drift.
I doubt Jen and diddy will rekendle,it’s been too long and so much drama to begin with.
@still yes by next summer I’m trying to be out my cousin lives in a nice area(I Think) near towson.
Yeah- I was about to say- move to Towson, Timonium, Hunt Valley….all of those are areas North of Baltimore but still VERY nice and suburban so it’s close enough that you can get to the city in about 15-20 minutes, but still far enough that you are tucked away from it all. Just get on 83 North next time you come here and look for places in and around that 83 North corridor.
Those are VERY nice places out there and if I didn’t need to be so close to DC (cause going to that area would take me further away from DC), I would have been moved to that area. I currently live in NW Bmore County and have to move closer to DC for my job.
But Montgomery County, Damascus, Gaithersburg are WAAAAYYYYYYY too far if you want to be near you family. Those are areas I am considering and I’m hesitant to move there because it’ll take me so far from what I know. But anywhere past Howard County- you’ll be looking at more than 40 mins to even touch the outskirts of Bmore County and 2 hours in traffic. Trust me….I drive that 2 hr route EVERY DAY Mon-Fri. Don’t do it.
I don’t know what to say about these two. I guess she’ll move on to someone elses man now. I can’t imagine Diddy wants her anymore. She’s needing more and more makeup to look young these days.
@Still yes thanks because, umm yeah I got stuck in traffic one day when we were going to visit another cousin in DC. And I was a little more than upset, to say the least
Thje cousin in dc live near uptown near NW dc
Based on the blinds I’ve read…I’m not surprised. I wish them both the best however. Hope the children don’t suffer.
This doesn’t surprise me but I really really really hope Mr. Take That Take That doesn’t go sniffing around her again… hopefully he learned his lesson the first time.
I can’t see her getting back with any of her high profile exes though because they seem to have completely moved on
@Lay
No problem! I’m just glad that I can save you some of my frustration on the drive! Let me know what you find or if you need anymore help!
@Lay….Just to chime in.
Stillasassyone has some great suggesstions.
Owings Mills is a great location IMO. I currently live in VA but live in Owings Mills during the week. Owings Mills is about 20 min without traffic and about 30 to 45 minutes with traffic. If you looking for “great escape” from your distant cousins and you have children Scaggsville, Laurel and Columbia are really nice too, but comes with a price. I’m still trying to figure out if I’m gonna to commit to MD vs VA.
Best of Luck
Like JAME FOXX said JHO!
Weren’t there rumors going around that he was gay. Anywho I’m not surprised
I USE TO BE a J-Lo Embracer (Big-Time…) But her Choices in MEN have been absolutely TERRIBLE and Although I SAID WHEN SHE 1st got with Skeletor that HER SEXXY WILL BE DRAINED Significantly… I wasn’t Hoping for that to HAPPEN (But Ala IT DID !!!) :wails:
She’s a TIRED-AZZ Celebrity to Me NOW (And BUSTED!!!) It IS What It IS
S/N: Marc is a GREAT Singer, Extremely Famous and FEMALES are Goo-Goo over him so there is NO SHORTAGE of Quality-PUZZY in His Future (None AT ALL…) He’s STILL a Poot-Butt Azz TRICK to ME because HE was the Nail-in-The-Coffin that made Me STOP LUVING One of My All-Time Celebrity Girls (Punk B-I-T-C-H)
Can’t really say I’ am suck or surprise she was already dub this generation Elizabeth Taylor.
@secret
Uh diddy dumped cassia about 6-7 mos ago…
you reap what you sow.
I meant Cassie.
Cassie, Kelly Rowland are my gurl crushes!
That being said, no matter how much a bish wanna come up via marriage, if you don’t elevate yourself from within ish happens. When she was with ben… I knew ish wasn’t gonna last cause he was gonna get tired of e whole latina ting ting and go back to his Boston roots.
Of all the guys I think personality Puffy is the most compatible. But didn’t she leave him after that club shootout ? Didn’t she get tired of being hood right around then?
N happy Friday guys
Off topic
DAMN I WISH I WAS RIDING MY MAN REVERSE COWGIRL IN FRONT OF THE MIRROR SO I COULD SEE HIS D**K GO IN AAND OUT!!!
But I don’t see him for another 3 days
Grrr
@vero I’m feeling all sorts of thirsty
And this is exactly what happens when u play the role of a “mistress.” What goes around comes back around. Miss Torres is having her day. They all sing the same tunes (men/women) alike who step in or allow another 2 step in their marriage….no matter how long it takes, EVERY dog has their day. Despite marital issues, ie Separation u r still MARRIED. Close a chapter before u begin another. Alicia Keys mastered the art of singing a note but she never knew how 2 take notes. She & Swizz will b taught the lesson.
Again JLO? Her Halle be droppin men left and right.
Hello all
Actually to me Marc was Jennifer’s rebound, after the humiliation and painful split with Ben Affleck (who I believe was the (only) man she has ever truly loved and NOT P Diddy like some implied); She needed someone who adores her and could give her some kids.
Their marriage only lasted for that long because her career (before Idol) was a souvenir of the past so she had all the time to concentrate on her family.
You can clearly see that he loves her and she loves being loved by him! Maybe for a time, it was enough but not anymore!
Just after that civil suit from her busting sh0ts w/ Shine has been settled… Puff gets back his woman back (play along).
Good things are worth waiting for.. and the new man always makes a mistake u can capitalize off of. Maybe not today, tomorrow, or for seven years but eventually…
And we all know she dumped Puffed for career advancement reasons.
Now take that, take that
J lo has her new Idol career, and he didn’t want nannies raising their kids. She rebelled and – POOF – marriage over. Nobody should stay in a marriage if there is no give AND take on both sides.
Of course I’m just speculating…
From Comment #51 ON DOWN… Very Interesting Insight (Real…)
I was not aware that JLO was messing with him while he was still married….. now if this is true then indeed Karma is a bitch…. :slap:
Damn J-Ho can not keep a man….I think Puff is in the air too!
Marc Anthony is a M-A-N…memmer that time Ying Yang performed at the Latin Grammys or somethin like that…they tried to go dance with her & Marc was like
ROFLOL I love a man who ain’t afraid to be a man. Marc ain’t w/ all that foolishness! And lawd, he can saaang. He also was shuttin them reporters down so hard when they were asking bout that sextape her other ex husband is tryna release. Maybe he can’t handle all that.
J.Lo prob got tired of not being able to run stuff. I’mma need her to rethink this decision. Marc is a sexxxxy sumbody. He ain’t cute…but so frickin sexxxy. Shibbidy. I’m available Marc…I luhz a man who can put me in check…so hard to do but I love it anyway.
I ain’t mad at his lips and goatee in that pic, but please keep dem eyez covered..
Sucks for the kids. They broke a long time ago and got back together. An ex is an ex for a reason. Old habits die hard. Hopefully they can have an amicable relationship for the kids.
@Nubian
I agree with you! But i always just thought that Ben was the ideal of what Jlo felt she should be married to. I can understand… Once upon a time i did too ( its a Latin thing) Lke when you got these goon azz goons who chase beck’s tryin to show that they came up, same thing.
That being said, I have gone on to taste the mothuflucking colors of the rainbow. Black, white, puerto rican, Chinese, Russian, Swedish ERRRTHANG. I loves it.
J Lo has loved every man she was with in her own including Puffy
If you are separated and have filed papers (esp a celeb that can take yrs) you are FREE to move on a date IMO. In a perfect world ppl wld/shld wait for the ink to dry on the divorce papers but neither ppl or the world are perfect. That chapter has been closed you are just waiting on the legal aspect to become finalzed IF you have truly filed papers. Is Amistad going to learn his lesson cause Kimmora wasn’t div? I always see these comments directed at the women vs men
*falls out at the fact Daisy don called Kimora’s boo Amistad*
“Give us free.” oh lawd!
@NHere: He has Steve Buscemi eyes.
I blame Jada Pinkett-Smith
Jennifer is the modern day version of Elizabeth Taylor. She loves the idea of being in love but either falls for men who cannot love her back the way she needs or men who she can’t satisfy. Either way, I am rooting for her. Maybe she should try being on her own for a little while instead of jumping from man to man.
datsmdubya2u says:
I blame Jada Pinkett-Smith
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LOL! Then you got to blame Will too. cause you know how people say they get down.
Diddy somewhere singing I Need a Girl
@Cali girl Thanks also.
@Caligirl
Owings Mills is a great suggestion! I live in Owings Mills now and I love it, but you just gotta make sure you live on the New Town side and not the “Old Owings Mills” side right off of Reisterstown. Also- I think Damascus, Columbia & Laurel are a good fit because they’re close enough being in Howard County but still far enough to not be affected by the inner city. Actually… I’m looking for a new place in Laurel now… *sigh*
Hey ho!!:peace:
Now I wonder why no one ever calls Jennifer Lopez “crazy” and say that she “can’t keep a man” as they do Halle Berry? JLo has had at least 4 husbands, 10 boyfriends. If anyone “can’t keep a man” that would be chicka.
HotTamale says:
Now I wonder why no one ever calls Jennifer Lopez “crazy” and say that she “can’t keep a man” as they do Halle Berry? JLo has had at least 4 husbands, 10 boyfriends. If anyone “can’t keep a man” that would be chicka.
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I will do it:
Jennifer Lopez is “CRAZY” and just can’t keep a man for nothing!!!
WTH is the problem?!!! I guess she is just all beauty… No brains on how to make a relationship work!!!
i was kinda rootin’ for them! oh well