Senator cancels event to teach women how to act like ladies

New York State Senator Marty Golden (R) has canceled a planned event to teach women how to present a more feminine appearance in the workplace.

The event called Posture Deportment and Feminine Presence was part of a Summer series on career development focusing on “business etiquette” and “social protocol skills.”

But critics chose to zoom in on Golden’s plan to teach women how to act like ladies.

The media sparked a furor among feminists by calling attention to Senator Golden’s plan to teach women “the art of feminine presence,” including tips on how to “sit, stand and walk like a model” and “walk up and down a stair” and shake hands more elegantly.

Golden defended the workshop as simply a way to help women gain an advantage in a tough jobs market, according to an article by Thinkprogress.com.

Golden cancelled the event after State Sen. Liz Krueger (D-Manhattan), and others criticized the event in the NY media.

“Rather than passing legislation such as the Fair Pay Act to assist women in the workplace, the Senate Republicans appear to be offering career advice on posture and how to act feminine,” said Krueger in a statement to the press.

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Bootcampgirl

“Rather than passing legislation such as the Fair Pay Act to assist women in the workplace, the Senate Republicans appear to be offering career advice on posture and how to act feminine,” said Krueger in a statement to the press.
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Say that shat again
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ayEuI-ZSDzo&feature=relmfu BK2ATLMAN

They need to have this workshop here in ATL, cause I know a ton of women could use it here..
amatrex

As much as I’d love to see women act and look more feminine in the work place, it’s not really important unless the job specifically requires it(Hooters waitresses, models, etc.)

As long as people can perform their jobs effectively and they’re respectful to everyone in the workplace, it shouldn’t matter whether the employee acts or appears feminine, masculine, or something in between.
cougar lover

Thass right, teach them pros, old azz yt man. Then accidentally fondle some breast, while you at it.
http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

what is this
LaceFace

I agree with the Fair Pay Act. Women do need to be paid equally for doing the same work as men, but I think this class would be beneficial for some. I cant tell you, how many times I’ve seen females walk into work looking like they just got off the pole, or will get on it after they clock out.

I had someone ask me “why do you dress up when you go to work?” and my reply was “I dress for the job I want, NOT for the job I have”, Plus you never know who is watching. “We” are judged by our personal appearance, so it shouldnt matter what the work enviornment is, but thats just my personal feelings on this issue.
Bootcampgirl

Ladies should know how to “act” accordingly, if you need a class at this stage in life, you’re flucked…IMO
FuturedocDonte
LaceFace

Bootcampgirl says:

Ladies should know how to “act” accordingly, if you need a class at this stage in life, you’re flucked…IMO
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:agree:
yallcrazy

I am 1/2 way with this though djm

Not all woman know how to carry themselves in office settings, boardrooms, on the golf courses, this is a fact that I have seen myself.

I use that to my advantage, so I get his point, but some things you either got or you don’t

He is reaching beyond his grasp IMO
yallcrazy

LaceFace says:

I agree with the Fair Pay Act. Women do need to be paid equally for doing the same work as men, but I think this class would be beneficial for some. I cant tell you, how many times I’ve seen females walk into work looking like they just got off the pole, or will get on it after they clock out.

I had someone ask me “why do you dress up when you go to work?” and my reply was “I dress for the job I want, NOT for the job I have”, Plus you never know who is watching. “We” are judged by our personal appearance, so it shouldnt matter what the work enviornment is, but thats just my personal feelings on this issue.
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with you & Boot!

Let them hoes dress like hoes yo! So that WE can get ahead.
If one feels it’s ok to dress like that, that tells you were their mind is
Bootcampgirl

yallcrazy says:

LaceFace says:

I agree with the Fair Pay Act. Women do need to be paid equally for doing the same work as men, but I think this class would be beneficial for some. I cant tell you, how many times I’ve seen females walk into work looking like they just got off the pole, or will get on it after they clock out.

I had someone ask me “why do you dress up when you go to work?” and my reply was “I dress for the job I want, NOT for the job I have”, Plus you never know who is watching. “We” are judged by our personal appearance, so it shouldnt matter what the work enviornment is, but thats just my personal feelings on this issue.
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with you & Boot!

Let them hoes dress like hoes yo! So that WE can get ahead.
If one feels it’s ok to dress like that, that tells you were their mind is
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Exactly, I work in a prison, my attire, khaki’s and sneaks or flats, no dresses, heels, open-toed shoes, skin tight clothing, nothing because, I am “acting” accordingly to my work environment. My co-worker on the other hand, wears shirts that show her midriff, running pants that are skin tight. She has been asked to go home and change…WE WORK IN A MALE PRISON, what the fluck are you thinking…
MZ_CARAM3L74

amatrex says:

As much as I’d love to see women act and look more feminine in the work place, it’s not really important unless the job specifically requires it(Hooters waitresses, models, etc.)
As long as people can perform their jobs effectively and they’re respectful to everyone in the workplace, it shouldn’t matter whether the employee acts or appears feminine, masculine, or something in between.
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you better
yallcrazy

<–also judges men and women on their handshake #realtalk

I work in a male dominated field too Boot, and I can't stand when chicks try to use "what they got" because I got it too (plus the brain) so gone on with that bullshatt
yallcrazy

MZ_CARAM3L74 says:

amatrex says:

As much as I’d love to see women act and look more feminine in the work place, it’s not really important unless the job specifically requires it(Hooters waitresses, models, etc.)
As long as people can perform their jobs effectively and they’re respectful to everyone in the workplace, it shouldn’t matter whether the employee acts or appears feminine, masculine, or something in between.
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you better
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I get where yall are coming from, but I disagree ONLY because meek business people won’t thrive in business.

So then, what are you doing here? Just working but not trying to get to the top?
Bootcampgirl

yallcrazy says:

<–also judges men and women on their handshake #realtalk
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Me too, don't want no limp fishes shaking my hand
LaceFace

Bootcampgirl says:

yallcrazy says:

LaceFace says:

I agree with the Fair Pay Act. Women do need to be paid equally for doing the same work as men, but I think this class would be beneficial for some. I cant tell you, how many times I’ve seen females walk into work looking like they just got off the pole, or will get on it after they clock out.

I had someone ask me “why do you dress up when you go to work?” and my reply was “I dress for the job I want, NOT for the job I have”, Plus you never know who is watching. “We” are judged by our personal appearance, so it shouldnt matter what the work enviornment is, but thats just my personal feelings on this issue.
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with you & Boot!

Let them hoes dress like hoes yo! So that WE can get ahead.
If one feels it’s ok to dress like that, that tells you were their mind is
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Exactly, I work in a prison, my attire, khaki’s and sneaks or flats, no dresses, heels, open-toed shoes, skin tight clothing, nothing because, I am “acting” accordingly to my work environment. My co-worker on the other hand, wears shirts that show her midriff, running pants that are skin tight. She has been asked to go home and change…WE WORK IN A MALE PRISON, what the fluck are you thinking…
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@ Boot I understand where your coming from because thats the enviornment you are in and its not appropriate for your female co-work to dress like that. Seems like shes looking for attention and when she gets the wrong kind, she’ll be looking like lookin!

@yall

you can lead a hoe to water, but you cant make her think
LaceFace

yallcrazy says:

I get where yall are coming from, but I disagree ONLY because meek business people won’t thrive in business.

So then, what are you doing here? Just working but not trying to get to the top?
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some are content with working the same job for 5, 10, 15, 20, 30 plus years. And to each it own, but I :agree: with you! I believe in progress and progression. I guess everyone plays a role, but my role is a BOSS
Bootcampgirl

@Lace-she’s on her way out the door soon, she is soooooo inappropriate for this environment. This bish cries on the floor in front of 120 inmates, is obsessed with one in particular…I hate for anyone to lose their job but
yallcrazy

LaceFace says:

yallcrazy says:

I get where yall are coming from, but I disagree ONLY because meek business people won’t thrive in business.

So then, what are you doing here? Just working but not trying to get to the top?
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some are content with working the same job for 5, 10, 15, 20, 30 plus years. And to each it own, but I :agree: with you! I believe in progress and progression. I guess everyone plays a role, but my role is a BOSS
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yallcrazy

Yes, limp fish hands

You better firmly grasp my hand, open your eyes, big, smile, and acknowledge my greatness dammit!
LaceFace

@ boot

is obsessed with one in particular
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i hope she wasnt having sex in the champagne room with him… THERES NO CRYING IN PRISON
Bella’s Master

My male friend wants to buy me a boob job. I work a professional 9-5 job, and already have to tone down my look to not look too sexy. i fear the boob job (though I’m not getting a big size), will interfere with my career growth.

Dont know what to do
yallcrazy

<–loves meeting new prospective business associates, because afterwards my boss will ask "so, how did they shake your hands?"

Me: Mr. x is ____, Mr.Z shook like a __, etc.
LaceFace

I’ve lost 7lbs doing Insanity…. So excited…. #TeamSkinnyGirl once I finish my last 30 days i’ll post a belly shot like NajiaGirl and Sassy

i miss tatted
http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

LaceFace says:

I’ve lost 7lbs doing Insanity…. So excited…. #TeamSkinnyGirl once I finish my last 30 days i’ll post a belly shot like NajiaGirl and Sassy

i miss tatted

how long u been doing it. that chit look like the damn debbil yo!
yallcrazy

Bella, good thinking.

I have a friend with really big (nice) boobs and she has credentials up the ass, BUT she can not get ahead

It’s not fair, but it’s the reality We are judged so much more & differently than males.

*whispers* maybe try on a bigger bra and stuff it and see how your “work clothes” fit and go from there #helpfulihope
LaceFace

Bella’s Master says:

My male friend wants to buy me a boob job. I work a professional 9-5 job, and already have to tone down my look to not look too sexy. i fear the boob job (though I’m not getting a big size), will interfere with my career growth.

Dont know what to do
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Your first reaction is generally the best…. BUT I’LL TAKE IT. Im over here looking like 5th grader. Alls I need is a cami and im out the door. Team A cup
http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

Bella’s Master says:

My male friend wants to buy me a boob job. I work a professional 9-5 job, and already have to tone down my look to not look too sexy. i fear the boob job (though I’m not getting a big size), will interfere with my career growth.

Dont know what to do

my question is do YOU want the implants?
yallcrazy

Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

LaceFace says:

I’ve lost 7lbs doing Insanity…. So excited…. #TeamSkinnyGirl once I finish my last 30 days i’ll post a belly shot like NajiaGirl and Sassy

i miss tatted

how long u been doing it. that chit look like the damn debbil yo!
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What is Insanity?

I’mma be starving myself (only way I know how to lose 10 lbs in a wk) shortly for a trip djm
LaceFace

Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

LaceFace says:

I’ve lost 7lbs doing Insanity…. So excited…. #TeamSkinnyGirl once I finish my last 30 days i’ll post a belly shot like NajiaGirl and Sassy

i miss tatted

how long u been doing it. that chit look like the damn debbil yo!
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I’ve been doing it for 35 days now. I thought it was gonna be tougher because of the commericals, but its not so bad, especially when you have someone else there motivating you. It started off with me and my three sisters, then droped to me and one sister, then I was all by myself. But Im very please with the results im seeing so far.
yallcrazy

:boobies:
yallcrazy
Bella’s Master

@yall I was going to start conditioning them to see me with bigger boobs by buying some of those chicken cutlets thingys!!

@laceface Team A cup here too. And only rarely do i wish I was a bigger size. And that bigger size is more like a Full B. Will never go to a C since I’m a size zero as it is.

Just want to look more womanly
MZ_CARAM3L74

yallcrazy says:

It’s not fair, but it’s the reality We are judged so much more & differently than males.
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too bad our looks are more important than our skills in the work place.
yallcrazy

LaceFace says:

Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

LaceFace says:

I’ve lost 7lbs doing Insanity…. So excited…. #TeamSkinnyGirl once I finish my last 30 days i’ll post a belly shot like NajiaGirl and Sassy

i miss tatted

how long u been doing it. that chit look like the damn debbil yo!
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I’ve been doing it for 35 days now. I thought it was gonna be tougher because of the commericals, but its not so bad, especially when you have someone else there motivating you. It started off with me and my three sisters, then droped to me and one sister, then I was all by myself. But Im very please with the results im seeing so far.
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Like the commercial –> And then there was ONE

Go visit them and just start dropping ish and bending down to pick it up #thensay”noticehoweasyididthat”
LaceFace

@Yall

Insanity is a intense 60 day workout program. If you do it everyday (except) Sundays and diet, you can loose up to 30 lbs. If you check the infomericals you see it. I pray I loose 7 more.
Bella’s Master

<<< Bella's A cups

<<<< Bella's soon to be C cups?!
yallcrazy

Bella, just do some chest exercises yo! Put your two hands (grasping each other) in front of your chest (like a bball rim) and squeeze until you feel the muscles… Do like 10 sets of 10 a day and see the results.

You can form them a little more and you might be satisfied with that. And that’s all that Matters in the end anyways
yallcrazy

Ok Lace #searchingforinsanitynow
LaceFace

Bella’s Master says:

@yall I was going to start conditioning them to see me with bigger boobs by buying some of those chicken cutlets thingys!!

@laceface Team A cup here too. And only rarely do i wish I was a bigger size. And that bigger size is more like a Full B. Will never go to a C since I’m a size zero as it is.

Just want to look more womanly
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Bella

i want a B cup. I want to know how much it cost. I kinda want a brazillian butt lift?!? i think thats what its called. Where they suck the fat from the stomach and put it in your butt. I dont have much left, but I have some around the LUB handles that can be taken care of.

@yall

YESSSSS i walk around with my shirt off and a sports bra and be like… Like this dont you… Naugg not fo you
http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

the great moment when u stop by the store & see this FINE azz Wale looking brother. u’re looking pretty laid back, nice summer dress, no make-up, hair not “did” but as u’re driving away he mouths to you “U FINE AS PHUCK*
yeah that
LaceFace

yallcrazy says:

Bella, just do some chest exercises yo! Put your two hands (grasping each other) in front of your chest (like a bball rim) and squeeze until you feel the muscles… Do like 10 sets of 10 a day and see the results.
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that didnt work what am I squeezing? im lost
LaceFace

fay fay

heyyyy fay fay!!! i have on cinnamon whip today
http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

Lace! i know u smellin FAB darling! how are u?

btw do u have any children? usually when we give birth our increase. especially when we breastfeed
LaceFace

fay fay

I have a 2 year old. My boobs got big, but NOT they way I wanted them to. I wanted to have the crease in the center of my chest, but insted of growing in, they grew out. So they were big on the side
Bella’s Master

@lace and the brazilian butt lift

I got lucky on that one.

Now let me get to these chest exercises!