6 months after giving birth to her daughter, Maxwell Drew Johnson, singer-actress Jessica Simpson is pregnant again, reports US Weekly and Radar Online.
Radar Online, which is owned by the same media conglomerate that publishes the National Enquirer, quotes a source who says Simpson is 9 weeks along. “She’s trying to keep it a secret until she makes it safely through her first trimester.”
From US Weekly:
Christmas is still nearly four weeks away, but Jessica Simpson got her biggest — and totally unexpected! — present early: Another baby on the way! Seven months after giving birth to daughter Maxwell Drew Johnson, the star is once again expecting, the new issue of Us Weekly exclusively confirms.
“It definitely wasn’t planned. But yes, Jessica is pregnant again,” a source reveals to Us. The surprise baby-to-be is the second for the singer and Fashion Star mentor, 32, and fiance Eric Johnson. (A rep for Simpson had no comment.)
Engaged for the past two years, Simpson and former NFL pro Johnson, 33, welcomed Maxwell — a whopping 9 pound, 13 ounce bundle of joy! — on May 1 of this year.
The happy news comes two months after Simpson’s mother filed for divorce from her father who was outed as a gay man.
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Stop playing…wasn’t she still trying to lose the weight??
Good for her! I’m all for getting all the babies out of the way as close together as possible…..unlike myself. Congrats Jessica and baby daddy!
Ashley just broke up with her boyfriend. I will hold off believing until she confirms. Kiss tha Weight Watcher money bye-bye if true.
Jessica loves her some Weiner huh? Guess she’s making up for all those years she “abstained”. Good for her!
BTW Ms. Rose you confusing me with these fast and furious post. Don’t know where everybody @
I wish I could get a rich woman pregnant, so I can sit at home and watch tv all day.
Jessica Simpson got her biggest — and totally unexpected…
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Please dont come after me for this commment but…..
Folks need to get married and chit before bringing all these babies into the world….I know stuff happens but glorifying single parenthood is not the business…Its hard work! Sure famous folks make it look easy but its not…I know just because you are married does not gurantee that the relationship will last but at least attempt to start off on the right foot and hopefully by him putting a ring on it it displays the characteristics of him being at least a loyal parent in the long run… Just my 2 cents… carry on
Good for her!I wish i could pop out babies like that!
singer and Fashion Star mentor…
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Is that show still on? Did anybody ever see the actual clothing in Macy’s, Saks or H&M? Again, is that show still on?
cheeks8683 says:
Please dont come after me for this commment but…..
Folks need to get married and chit before bringing all these babies into the world….
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this was the first shyt i thought about.
Awwww, she gon have another lil fat chunky munk!!!
Go Jess!
U know they say as soon as u lose weight, u get pregnant. Tis why I stay fat, its birth control
I like Jessica Simpson and wish her the best with her new family.
free says:
cheeks8683 says:
Please dont come after me for this commment but…..
Folks need to get married and chit before bringing all these babies into the world….
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Chile these folks ain’t thinking bout marriage nowadays! They just having the babies first and the rest don’t matter!
U know they say as soon as u lose weight, u get pregnant. Tis why I stay fat, its birth control
LOL!
Cheeks- I agree. Marriage is no guarantee, but it seems people would rather make a baby than a marriage. Having a child connects you with someone forever, although marriage is SUPPOSED to be forever, you can divorce that person and move on never to see them again.
Angiegirl says:
U know they say as soon as u lose weight, u get pregnant. Tis why I stay fat, its birth control
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cheeks8683 says:
Please dont come after me for this commment but…..
Folks need to get married and chit before bringing all these babies into the world….
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Chile these folks ain’t thinking bout marriage nowadays! They just having the babies first and the rest don’t matter!
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*sigh* these celebrities have nannies and chit and folks are basing their decisions on what the world does…Get the fluck outta here with that bull chit! Morning roses :wave:
MsB says:
Angiegirl says:
U know they say as soon as u lose weight, u get pregnant. Tis why I stay fat, its birth control
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Oh my Jesus, my daughter has lost all of her pregnancy weight and is thinner than she was before she got pregnant! Lord let lil Diva get her BC next week. Thanks in advance!
:wave: hey cheeksssssssssss
Why can’t African American dolls be just as gorgeous as their counterparts. Anyone remember the Kenya doll? I LOVED that doll.
Hey yall
I think this is a good thing…Once you start having kids just go ahead and keep going cause waiting 10 or more years to have another baby has to be hard…all four of mine are 3yrs apart
Good morning all…..ummmm and Auntie, I found a mistake. Jessica Simpson is neither an actress nor a singer. That is all…..
Sincerely,
Hell_On_Heels
So soes this mean she has to pay back all that money weight watcher’s gave her lying ass to endorse them?
#sheknewshewaspreggoallthetime
It’s funny b/c its true after my divorce I lost 60+ lbs and 2 years later I ended up pregnant…smh
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Oh my Jesus, my daughter has lost all of her pregnancy weight and is thinner than she was before she got pregnant! Lord let lil Diva get her BC next week. Thanks in advance!
@Diva, with both of my kids I was more thinner after, than I was during and before my pregnancies
lovezoe says:
Why can’t African American dolls be just as gorgeous as their counterparts. Anyone remember the Kenya doll? I LOVED that doll.
I feel ya Zoe, I use to love that damn Kenya doll. I had a thing with buying my girls only black dolls, now I buy her Spanish dolls too. Leave it to my mom to buy her White dolls for XMas….
Why do people think that all Black Women are extremely mean..Am I the only one that feels this way?
So she waited like 5 weeks and 6 days…
Keesh says:
Hey yall
I think this is a good thing…Once you start having kids just go ahead and keep going cause waiting 10 or more years to have another baby has to be hard…all four of mine are 3yrs apart
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My aunt and uncle are having another one and their son together(her first, his fourth) but anyway he is the youngest and he is 12… I’m like 12 yrs later and you all decided to have another one? lol
Always wanted 2kids. Changed my mind after the 1st one. Got an active 15 mth old and am good. Everybody tell me am gonna change my mind once she’s a lil more independent.
I understand having children closer in age to get them out of the way, but there is no way (I) would open myself up to be pregnant and we have one that is still in diapers and on a bottle
My girls are 5 yrs apart and I’m good with that!
My two kids are 13 years apart! Lord what was I thinking!
I always thought I was going to just have 1.
Why do people think that all Black Women are extremely mean……………
IMO its a stereotypical statement and also very subjective. They basing it off what’s on TV or just THEIR personal experiences. My personal exp is that am usually surrounded by positive and uplifting and encouraging black women. Not to say I havent ecp mean ones but I won’t group ALL black women as being mean
There goes that Weight Watchers endorsement.
But Congrats to her!!!
I wanted to have babies back to back like that. To have them all around the same ages. They’re called Stair-Step Kids, I think
WorkInProgress says:
Always wanted 2kids. Changed my mind after the 1st one. Got an active 15 mth old and am good. Everybody tell me am gonna change my mind once she’s a lil more independent
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I have a very active 13 month old…and when I say I’m done…I mean it..lol
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morning roses
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Doctors Remove Nine-Inch Dildo from Man’s Intestines
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GellySammich says:
So she waited like 5 weeks and 6 days…
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Didn’t even wait for her 6 week check-up.
#nastybitch
Diva says:
My two kids are 13 years apart! Lord what was I thinking! I always thought I was going to just have 1.
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I had just 1. I told GOD if you get me thru this pain, I won’t come back
WorkInProgress says:
Always wanted 2kids. Changed my mind after the 1st one. Got an active 15 mth old and am good. Everybody tell me am gonna change my mind once she’s a lil more independent
Yeah, just hold off on saying no more kids. Give that baby someone to grow up with. Dont kill me yall but kids or people that dont have any siblings are weird and a little selfish…well the ones that I have come in to contact with.
Trendsetter says:
WorkInProgress says:
Always wanted 2kids. Changed my mind after the 1st one. Got an active 15 mth old and am good. Everybody tell me am gonna change my mind once she’s a lil more independent
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I have a very active 13 month old…and when I say I’m done…I mean it..lol
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MsB says: @Diva, with both of my kids I was more thinner after, than I was during and before my pregnancies
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^^^ this ^^^ damn pants falling off. i do miss more meals though because i’m too tired to eat at night.
My son was born on May 2 of this year and I can’t even think about getting pregnant again right now. Baby Boo gets so much of my attention. I wouldn’t want to burden my body or my mind with a pregnancy so soon.
Do they let the cooch/body heal? Geesh
Creamy says:
Doctors Remove Nine-Inch Dildo from Man’s Intestines
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Girl that ain’t chit compared to the chit that comes through HERE!
For starters? A chess piece out some hoes vag…..
Jessica Simpson did her azz a Britney Spears and got knocked up quick as all get out after baby one huh? Well…hey. Shyt happens I suppose. Congrats.
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Cheeks- I agree. Marriage is no guarantee, but it seems people would rather make a baby than a marriage. Having a child connects you with someone forever, although marriage is SUPPOSED to be forever, you can divorce that person and move on never to see them again.
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Exactly! I just so over people just living in the moment. My mother as awesome as she is was a single mother…Everyday was not a holiday…Choose your spearm donor wisely is all I’m saying…
WorkInProgress says:
Why do people think that all Black Women are extremely mean……………
from the black lady behind the counter… then I understand *sigh*
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I hate that stereotype too until I go to the grocery store or a place of “service” and get
coco creamy says:
Diva says:
My two kids are 13 years apart! Lord what was I thinking! I always thought I was going to just have 1.
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I had just 1. I told GOD if you get me thru this pain, I won’t come back
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That pain was worst with the first one though! The second one wasn’t as bad because I more or less knew what to expect.
Yeah, just hold off on saying no more kids. Give that baby someone to grow up with. Dont kill me yall but kids or people that dont have any siblings are weird and a little selfish…well the ones that I have come in to contact with.
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I thought so too. She plays well with other kids for now. she has a total of 18 cousins 5 of whom are still toddlers so she’ll be ok…I
Her daddy the one that spoils her silly
prynsexxx says:
Creamy says:
Doctors Remove Nine-Inch Dildo from Man’s Intestines
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Girl that ain’t chit compared to the chit that comes through HERE!
For starters? A chess piece out some hoes vag…..
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OHH my goodness
What else you got?
WorkInProgress says:
Trendsetter says:
WorkInProgress says:
Always wanted 2kids. Changed my mind after the 1st one. Got an active 15 mth old and am good. Everybody tell me am gonna change my mind once she’s a lil more independent
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I have a very active 13 month old…and when I say I’m done…I mean it..lol
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i’ve learned the AMOUNT of work doesn’t really change, you just move from one TYPE of work to another, as they grow.
Keesh says:
Dont kill me yall but kids or people that dont have any siblings are weird and a little selfish…
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Same can be said for grown ass mama’s boys and “babies of the family”.
Yeap thats the name for them. My older sister and I are the same age for about 30 days out of the year and we are NOT twins..My mom got pregnant with me 3 months after my sister was born. That was the best thing she could have ever done. We are sooo close and always have been. We share the same friends and all. I also have another sister that is 2 yrs younger than me and I loved growing up with sisters…I dont need no damn friends baby and my friends know it!
@Cheeks – I agree!
I have no desire to raise a baby by myself on purpose. Nothing about it seems fun. I watch my two year old niece and I don’t see how people do it by themselves
I need a nap 2 hours in, but there’s no sleeping if she’s not sleep.
i’ve learned the AMOUNT of work doesn’t really change, you just move from one TYPE of work to another, as they grow.
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well said Free. VERY true
prynsexxx says:
Keesh says:
Dont kill me yall but kids or people that dont have any siblings are weird and a little selfish…
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Same can be said for grown ass mama’s boys and “babies of the family
Yes!! i refuse to breed “mamas boys” My boys know that they getting out at the age of 18 or graduation…which ever comes first. My Granny has mamas boys and my dad and all his brothers still live with her…SCARY!!!
If I had a dime for everytime I have heard a newly-pregnant
talmbout “ION need him” “He can gone on!” “I will take care of my baby by my damn self”
I’d have a good stash
I said that to say IONO why women have babies that aren’t wanted
IMO it’s not fair to the kid. Why do that to the kid? Especially if the dude doesn’t want you 
This is her fiance doing the kevin federline, dudes nowadays knows there is no money in alimony so hes securing his future by getting those child support checks
@DTTS
Keesh says: Yeap thats the name for them. My older sister and I are the same age for about 30 days out of the year and we are NOT twins..My mom got pregnant with me 3 months after my sister was born.
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i have friends like this. so close their mama started them at the same time in school so they were not twins but were in the same grade.
Ewww Irish twins
Welp me and my sis are 4 yrs apart, me and my brother are 9 years apart and me and my youngest brother? 16 years apart.
I don’t have any kids but I would want them spread out, gimmie some time to raise em and bounce back!
free says:
^^^ this ^^^ damn pants falling off. i do miss more meals though because i’m too tired to eat at night.
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Mine was attributed to breast feeding, the extra calorie burning saved me b/c lawd knows I’m not missing a meal
prynsexxx says: Uhm a long time ago, there was a “cap”, described as “blue in color” that was removed from an elderly lady.
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too early for this shyt
Keesh says:
prynsexxx says:
Keesh says:
Dont kill me yall but kids or people that dont have any siblings are weird and a little selfish…
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So yeah I’ve been called selfish sometimes, but never weird!
I am hitting a brick wall with Christmas shopping for the kiddos..
A satin blue bonnet in a poon!?
Keesh says:
My Granny has mamas boys and my dad and all his brothers still live with her…SCARY!!!
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You say SCARY, I say “WEIRD”.
Gigi26 says:
Ewww Irish twins
Welp me and my sis are 4 yrs apart, me and my brother are 9 years apart and me and my youngest brother? 16 years apart.
I don’t have any kids but I would want them spread out, gimmie some time to raise em and bounce back!
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my husband now has one in college and one in nursery, lol. that’s his fault though.
<———-only child
@lovezoe how old are the kids?
Morning peoples
Good for her i guess 
Keesh says: My Granny has mamas boys and my dad and all his brothers still live with her…SCARY!!!
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my mom tried to pick up and leave the state to get away from my brothers. why they quit their jobs and the day she left they jumped in the car with her?
<—only child until my adulthood
Now I have a 18 yr old sister (same dad) & her brother and sister (from her mom) are mine too!
So I claim 2 sis' & 1bro… I
them!
Diva says:
<———-only child
Uh Oh Diva, I bet you hell on wheels!!!
*adds to 74
My dad adopted them when he married their mom
Me and my stepmom had the same name
my husband now has one in college and one in nursery, lol. that’s his fault though.
My youngest brother was 2 when I left for college 
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@Diva, I hope your not a Scorpio too…
#DTTS
NOBODY said NOTHING about nothing SATIN nor a BONNET!
See how folks get shyt mixed up. I said a “CAP”…not a HAT! NOT A SATIN BONNET! A CAP as in a “CAP off of a bottle” of some sort. SHEESH! 
Fvk it. Game over. I quit and I ain’t telling yall nuthin else. Everybody say thanks to @DTTS.
G’morning Iheart *combing that baby’s hair*
my sisters and I are the same way Keess. 3 of us are all 3yrs apart and are tight as hell. I had my daughter 8/11 my sis had hers 9/30 and out younger sis is preggers. We always seem to be in sync in everything we do. my only 2 GF are from childhood and that’s enough
Now she can get fat again, folks messing with her weight…I’ll fix ya…I’ll just get pregnant again then I can eat all I want
Sassy 7 and 6 four days after Christmas. I got the baby, that’s easy. They have so much stuff already, don’t know where to start past dolls and trucks.
My siblings and I are all 8 years apart with me being the oldest. My little brother is 16 years younger than me.
Good morning everyone, congrats to her!
<—– Not the only child but I was spoiled and I am the favorite on both sides
:wave: iheart
DTTS
prynsexxx says:
#DTTS
NOBODY said NOTHING about nothing SATIN nor a BONNET! See how folks get shyt mixed up. I said a “CAP”…not a HAT! NOT A SATIN BONNET! A CAP as in a “CAP off of a bottle” of some sort. SHEESH!
Fvk it. Game over. I quit and I ain’t telling yall nuthin else. Everybody say thanks to @DTTS.
Please don’t stop Pryn. DTTS sawee. she not gonna make up her own insertable devices anymore
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Afiya says:
Now she can get fat again, folks messing with her weight…I’ll fix ya…I’ll just get pregnant again then I can eat all I want
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She knew what she was doing!!!! That gurl likes to eat!
off topic/give opinions
I have this friend that has been being a parent to a child that may/may not be his, ok, the chick is taking him to cs court now, and now he wants a dna test, but the chick has told others that she would never do a dna test, the court date is in Jan.
Here’s the question. Should he buy the child Christmas presents? 1. The child has spent every holiday with him. 2. He always buys her things.
BUT now he is pissed that her mom is taking him to court, that he doesn’t want her around him. The child is 15 yrs old now.
Have at it Roses…
(I’ll tell yall what my opinion was-next post)
8 cheeks8683 says:
Please dont come after me for this commment but…..
Folks need to get married and chit before bringing all these babies into the world….I know stuff happens but glorifying single parenthood is not the business…Its hard work! Sure famous folks make it look easy but its not…I know just because you are married does not gurantee that the relationship will last but at least attempt to start off on the right foot and hopefully by him putting a ring on it it displays the characteristics of him being at least a loyal parent in the long run… Just my 2 cents… carry on
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When you are a billionaire, why get married? Ppl. get married to share incomes, benefits …… You don’t have to get married to share kids.
HELLO EVERYONE
PRYNN yes the clothes would be in the stores and in every store there would be an area for Fashion Star. My fav who didnt make it couldnt keep the clothes in H&M when he had his clothes in there. Macys, H&M and Saks all had window displays until the show was over. I hope it comes back.
my mama’s oldest and my daddy’s youngest but ion claim his kids :stankface:
Keesh says:
@Diva, I hope your not a Scorpio too…
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Keesh, I’m a PISCES baby! enough said…………
@Free,
Where are your brothers now?
prynsexxx says:
NOBODY said NOTHING about nothing SATIN nor a BONNET! NOT A SATIN BONNET! A CAP as in a “CAP off of a bottle” of some sort. SHEESH!
Fvk it. Game over. I quit and I ain’t telling yall nuthin else. Everybody say thanks to @DTTS.
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i thought it was a fugging HAT, lol. you know old people call them shyts caps. so for some reason, i was thinking of a fugging hat that old men wear, the flat ones. i know it’s probably not possible but i needed a laugh today.
i mean, she probably took the top off the milk and put it in her puss so she wouldn’t forget where it was.
:wave: hey Miss Harlem (in my Chris Tucker voice)
Gigi- You ever heard of Jehan salon or caprice house of weaves?
I thought you meant a cap
then that meant bonnet in my mind 
90 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:
off topic/give opinions
I have this friend that has been being a parent to a child that may/may not be his, ok, the chick is taking him to cs court now, and now he wants a dna test, but the chick has told others that she would never do a dna test, the court date is in Jan.
Here’s the question. Should he buy the child Christmas presents? 1. The child has spent every holiday with him. 2. He always buys her things.
BUT now he is pissed that her mom is taking him to court, that he doesn’t want her around him. The child is 15 yrs old now.
Have at it Roses…
(I’ll tell yall what my opinion was-next post)
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You don't stop loving a child because DNA say's "you are not the father".
<———–While we on the subject. Here's my lovebuggie
@lovezoe Im getting my 4 year old an innotab though he already kidnapped,my kindle. He gives me a list of 4 items he wants and thats what he gets. My lil niece loves hello kitty so i usualy get her an educational toy and throw in a hello kitty bear
Keesh says:
@Free,
Where are your brothers now?
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one went back and the other is here (same state as mom) but in his own place.
I told him to buy her what he would usually buy her and just go drop it off.
He doesn’t know if her mother even told her that he is taking her to cs court.
IONO!
@WIP, your lovebuggie is ADORABLE!
prynsexxx says:
Creamy says:
Doctors Remove Nine-Inch Dildo from Man’s Intestines
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Girl that ain’t chit compared to the chit that comes through HERE!
For starters? A chess piece out some hoes vag…..
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DTTS- I think the child is 15, too late to worry about a DNA test now. Yes, get the child presents they didn’t do anything wrong. I think it is sad women do this, BUT I DO think men should get a paternity test ASAP. It’s 500 dollars as opposed to 500 a month for the next 18 years.
sassyshe says:
@lovezoe Im getting my 4 year old an innotab though he already kidnapped,my kindle. He gives me a list of 4 items he wants and thats what he gets. My lil niece loves hello kitty so i usualy get her an educational toy and throw in a hello kitty bear
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my 2 year old has an innotab 2s. the only problem i have with it is the shyt is sloooowwwwww. it takes FOREVER to pull up anything. it really needs a faster processing time.
aWeeeee @Workinprogress toooo cute,
Sassy- One has a vreader another has a mobigo- They rather play with the iPad.
I agree Anna, but he has been caring for her for 15 yrs and not sure if she was his all along anyway so he doesn’t understand why the mom would do this.
In his mind, the mother just screwed up any help she was getting. Now if she won’t go take the girl to be tested the court will drop it and he has stated that he is done with the both of them. Sad for all IMB.
@doesnt talk, he might as well buy it cause regardless of what the dna test says by law,the child is his because he,has assumed responsibility for her for 15 yrs, hes only gonna get out of it if he can show mamma deceived him. You can only get out of legal responsibility for a child if its proven its not yours within the first 3-5 years unless you can prove fraud
@Lovezoe I usually get my girls 1 big toy this year a moped, & riding scooter for the youngest and the rest are just small lil’ things mostly educational… Have you looked into the new leapPad or mobigo?
DIVA you beat me
Only child ROCKS 
Zoe, I hope that his heart softens because I am thinking about the child not her
mother 
ION think she thought this on out
DTTS – I think he should still buy her xmas gifts. The momma might be triffling but no reason to take it out on the kid. He gotta remember he the only Daddy she knows. Paternity Fraud is running rampant. Michael Baisden covr’d this on his show yesterday asking if women (married or not) would get mad if the man asks for paternity test B4 signing the BC
sassyshe says:
@doesnt talk, he might as well buy it cause regardless of what the dna test says by law,the child is his because he,has assumed responsibility for her for 15 yrs, hes only gonna get out of it if he can show mamma deceived him. You can only get out of legal responsibility for a child if its proven its not yours within the first 3-5 years unless you can prove fraud
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In our state, it doesn’t work like that. His name is not on Anything whatsoever.
MissHarlem says:
DIVA you beat me Only child ROCKS
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Hey ma, yes we do!
@lovezoe thats a dilemma then. Girls are difficult to shop for
@free is it,the one with the wifi?
You ever heard of Jehan salon or caprice house of weaves?
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Nah, let me look em up…I haven’t been to too many salons out in DC, I went to Simplicity Salon and dude tried to charge me 400 for a sew in. I said the devil is a liar sooo…
@DTTS, I think he should go on and get the lil’ girl the present and he shouldn’t cut the child off b/c of her mom’s ignorance… But I can see why he would cut the mom off, if he has been there for the child etc… and now she wants CS and refuses a DNA test than he has every right to cut the mother off! jmo
I hope that his heart softens because I am thinking about the child not her mother
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That man is extremely hurt right now and prob needs time to process everything. Hopefully he calms down and continues to be there for the kid
@doesnt talk,then hes lucky but i dont think he should abandon the kid its not her fault
Anna says:
90 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:
off topic/give opinions
I have this friend that has been being a parent to a child that may/may not be his, ok, the chick is taking him to cs court now, and now he wants a dna test, but the chick has told others that she would never do a dna test, the court date is in Jan.
Here’s the question. Should he buy the child Christmas presents? 1. The child has spent every holiday with him. 2. He always buys her things.
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this happened to my brother but the child was a newborn. i took one look at the pic and said no way in hell. he brought the gifts, which were really like stroller and stuff, but kept them at my moms pending the test. the baby wasn't his and he took his shyt in for a refund.
now your person seems to want to take out his UNDERSTANDABLE anger on the child, who is at a VULNERABLE age. the test (if negative) will probably be devastating to the child also. with that in mind, GIVE THE CHILD THE GIFTS to show that he still cares (but he doesn't have to pay the child support any longer).
he should continue to spend holidays with the child and buy gifts if he cares for the child. this could make or break that child at this age. so, he will no longer be obligated but doing it from his heart. and the child will KNOW this.
i don't think the court will refuse a DNA test. i thought that was standard procedure now. once the child turns 16, they can probably get swabbed on their own.
Thanks Diva and Coco
her to pieces
He gotta remember he the only Daddy she knows.
^^^^THAT’s what I am trying to help him understand. & I already bought her a couple things, so I am working overtime trying to help him get his anger out and not mess up her Christmas (and her bday is real close to Christmas). I am not sure of the mom’s objective & I guess that is what’s puzzling! I mean does she want the dna to be wrong and then move on with life or what? #lostandtryingtohelp
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PLUS, I told him that wasn’t his baby 49 yrs ago!(but that’s another story for another day) BUT I have loved her and I even buy her things or send her money, so
It’s really unfair to her! When she calls me she doesn’t sound like she knows about the court case…
If this is true, congrats to her!
SON not being harsh but cmon son the love he has for that child doesnt vanish bc of the situation. As far as the mom I dont really comment on foolish women thinking so
IN any event :2dance: Mama was a Rolling Stone
free says:
Anna says:
90 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:
off topic/give opinions
I have this friend that has been being a parent to a child that may/may not be his, ok, the chick is taking him to cs court now, and now he wants a dna test, but the chick has told others that she would never do a dna test, the court date is in Jan.
Here’s the question. Should he buy the child Christmas presents? 1. The child has spent every holiday with him. 2. He always buys her things.
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this happened to my brother but the child was a newborn. i took one look at the pic and said no way in hell. he brought the gifts, which were really like stroller and stuff, but kept them at my moms pending the test. the baby wasn't his and he took his shyt in for a refund.
now your person seems to want to take out his UNDERSTANDABLE anger on the child, who is at a VULNERABLE age. the test (if negative) will probably be devastating to the child also. with that in mind, GIVE THE CHILD THE GIFTS to show that he still cares (but he doesn't have to pay the child support any longer).
he should continue to spend holidays with the child and buy gifts if he cares for the child. this could make or break that child at this age. so, he will no longer be obligated but doing it from his heart. and the child will KNOW this.
i don't think the court will refuse a DNA test. i thought that was standard procedure now. once the child turns 16, they can probably get swabbed on their own.
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Well Said!
Mawning!
DTTS – I think he should still buy her xmas gifts. The momma might be triffling but no reason to take it out on the kid. He gotta remember he the only Daddy she knows. Paternity Fraud is running rampant. Michael Baisden covr’d this on his show yesterday asking if women (married or not) would get mad if the man asks for paternity test B4 signing the BC
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I totally agree! If you aren’t married to the dude and there is no proof that his is the only peen you are getting I say run the test. Sorry to say the triflin few ruined it for the rest…What does it cost $200? better than the cost of child support per month. I had a friend of mine that was mad because the guy she got preggers by asked for one…First off she was messing with him while he was engaged to another chick and he was not seeing her except to hook up….Ummm, what’s the problem? He can’t be sure he was the only one, he was being smart.
sassyshe says: @free is it,the one with the wifi?
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yes, but the wifi only connects to v-tech for easier downloading (instead of going through a computer). it’s not like you can surf the web.
We are dealing with 2 different states here.
There has never been a child support order.
He has just done it on his own (no checks-just cash or money cards)
He has submitted his dna.
The ball is in her court now
BUT YEAH I agree with yall about the gifts
I know what I am getting for the stocking. We are not doing big this year, we are moving in about six months, so I don’t need more junk added. Hubby wants to get our son a scooter, I am like he has a bike he doesn’t use.
DTTS- Some states can compel her to submit to a DNA. He needs to talk to a lawyer. He doesn’t want to owe from the past 15 years, he may one to take the L and just pay for the next 3 years.
Nothing new here. Several chicks get knocked up soon after giving birth. Most don’t wait six weeks
cheeks8683 says: I had a friend of mine that was mad because the guy she got preggers by asked for one
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happened to my brother in the story above, around christmas too. the real baby daddy turned out to be some dude in the military who had just got married. his new wife was getting a step-newborn and baby-mama that christmas!
57 yrs ago I told him about GeneTree dot com
But nooooooooooooo
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MissHarlem says:
SON not being harsh but cmon son the love he has for that child doesnt vanish bc of the situation
ION see love though SON, real talk, I see him trying to be responsible, that’s just him, he’s one of the ones that always said he didn’t want children
BUT it’s also on him for not properly handling this situation in the beginning.
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unconditionally. So, she is getting my gifts from me and mine 
I just need to do more convincing on him. *sigh*
Now her and one other somebody has taught me how to
@WIP me and my sisters were pregnant at the same time. It was me and my older sister 1st time and my younger sister 2nd time..They are all close
lovezoe says: DTTS- Some states can compel her to submit to a DNA. He needs to talk to a lawyer. He doesn’t want to owe from the past 15 years, he may one to take the L and just pay for the next 3 years.
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can she get him for the past 15 if she never filed? he definitely needs to speak to an attorney first. once the child turns 18 -or- graduates high school, he’s through. wonder why mama is acting a fool now?
@Lovezoe
Caprice weaves look aight and her prices are pretty good but I noticed a lot of her do’s are basic and real greased up (could be with preference so I can’t knock it). Not bad i’ll say.
Jehan, didn’t have too many pics and I couldn’t see a wide range of his work to make a decision.
Where are you looking to get it done? Jehan is in Bmore and I don’t go out there so I can’t really say.
lovezoe says:
DTTS- Some states can compel her to submit to a DNA. He needs to talk to a lawyer. He doesn’t want to owe from the past 15 years, he may one to take the L and just pay for the next 3 years.
It doesn’t work like that in our state. It begins when she began the petition (or whatever you call it) which was this past summer. OH and NONE of his money is “accountable” SO THAT’s why I really don’t know what she is thinking about!
@free thanks ill just get him the one without.
@lovezoe if lil man is not too old the non electric scooters are cheap and hell love it.
Yes, that $20 scooter is worth it!
Gigi- I was just scouting the area. I just want a full weave with a closure.
–Doesn’t Talk To Strangers says: It’s really unfair to her! When she calls me she doesn’t sound like she knows about the court case…
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tell him there are men all over the world going through this and he has come sooooo far. so much damage will be done if he lets his anger get the best of him. he is soooo close to the foolishness being over.
I will update yall, not being funny
tell him there are men all over the world going through this and he has come sooooo far. so much damage will be done if he lets his anger get the best of him. he is soooo close to the foolishness being over.
I like that Free!
That conveys exactly how I’m thinking. I think I will put your words in a text so that he can see/read.
I think he’s more offended than anything
WorkInProgress says:
Yeah, just hold off on saying no more kids. Give that baby someone to grow up with. Dont kill me yall but kids or people that dont have any siblings are weird and a little selfish…well the ones that I have come in to contact with.
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My first born must think she’s an only child.
Gigi- I was just scouting the area. I just want a full weave with a closure.
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I see! My girl in NY is the only one that’s done my weaves with a closure but Reniece is good with those so that may be your best bet Zoe
I don’t trust kitchen stylists with those 
We still talking bout babies?
<–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:
tell him there are men all over the world going through this and he has come sooooo far. so much damage will be done if he lets his anger get the best of him. he is soooo close to the foolishness being over.
I like that Free!
That conveys exactly how I’m thinking. I think I will put your words in a text so that he can see/read.
I think he’s more offended than anything
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i totally understand because i've seen it happen with guys in my life.
Anna says:
WorkInProgress says:
Yeah, just hold off on saying no more kids. Give that baby someone to grow up with. Dont kill me yall but kids or people that dont have any siblings are weird and a little selfish…well the ones that I have come in to contact with.
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I am not WEIRD!
SON gotcha
cheeks8683 says: I had a friend of mine that was mad because the guy she got preggers by asked for one
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happened to my brother in the story above, around christmas too. the real baby daddy turned out to be some dude in the military who had just got married. his new wife was getting a step-newborn and baby-mama that christmas!
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cheeks8683 says:
Please dont come after me for this commment but…..
Folks need to get married and chit before bringing all these babies into the world….I know stuff happens but glorifying single parenthood is not the business…Its hard work! Sure famous folks make it look easy but its not…I know just because you are married does not gurantee that the relationship will last but at least attempt to start off on the right foot and hopefully by him putting a ring on it it displays the characteristics of him being at least a loyal parent in the long run… Just my 2 cents… carry on
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yeah I agree, to bad it doesen’t happen that way….
uVn_liFe… says:
U know they say as soon as u lose weight, u get pregnant. Tis why I stay fat, its birth control
LOL!
November 28, 2012 at 9:55 am
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HAHHHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAA
She is uglier now! Her features are not up to par! I bet she smell like bologna but wet dog is fragrance!
Congrats!