After the break I posted an example of some of the ignorance I receive in my email Inbox on a daily basis.
As an openly gay man, I take offense to your constant “blaming” of Black men for Women in our community contracting HIV/AIDS. Black women are notoriously the most homophobic group in our community and the most judgmental.
Why do I say this? I helped promote independent Male Rap artist for the last 4 to 5 years, and a very large majority of them accepted me 100%. And they trust me with their information from a business prospective, and work with me side by side. But I can’t tell you the amount of “women” that unfollowed me on twitter after stating i’m gay. It’s too many to count. Honesty isn’t something Black women want, They want men to lie to them about their sexuality so they can feel like their “Pu$$y” is the best thang on earth. They love having that false comfort.
And Black women don’t trust their gut! If you believe a man is gay, why do they still date him? You need to bash the women that date gay men on purpose, even when there’s proof. They the ones that’s infecting themselves with HIV, they willing participants.
I hope you post my response on your blog. You need to inspire your readers to date men who are “Truly” heterosexual, and use their female senses more.
They know the difference between a Gay man and Straight man. There are very few – and I mean very very few – men out there that can hide it 100%. If they stupid enough to date a Gay man, then that’s what they deserve. Hey, they can do worse? At least they have a Man with good taste in Fashion and intelligent lol..
Good Day.
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A. McNeal
[Email edited for length and clarity]
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