PICS: Sean Combs ‘Reunites’ with Cassie After Passing of Kim Porter

Thats the way love goes....

I'm choosing to believe his girls are in the back seat of that car, because I don't want to believe that he would be so callous as to leave those babies alone for 2 seconds, the day after their mom dies.

Sean is a such a cad... HE CAN JUST RIDE OFF INTO OBLIVION FOR ALL I CARE AND TAKE CASSIE with him!

Typical man to lean on the one who gives them strength and love, yet don't see the value in the woman. Typical woman who will set everything aside to be there for the man during his time of need. Typical situation we saw coming. No surprise here. But hey, we all are typical sometime for the right cause.

He said he was on a path of destruction, young and dumb. He wasn’t even raising his son. Thank God’s they were doing great before she passed. He acknowledged both him and Puff as his dads. He will need both of them right now....

I hope and pray Momma Combs can step .... don’t know if Kim has a sister or not .... this is so tragic.

...but Sean understandably doesn’t want anymore children because he’s a middle aged man...

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Ms. Rose with the slowwww burn

But, don't you think she played a part in their relationship too? She had those twins after Sarah Chapman had her daughter and It's been reported they were friends!

This WHOLE situation just pulls at my heart for EVERYONE involved. Its really a wake up call that tomorrow isn't promised to U. This can happen to ANYONE. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/aa4439e0ec12c0034c619601b06ebba5323c6bbca3985c167ce19e8629eceebf.jpg

Sad, but true. The whole love triangle - no hexagon - with all these baby mamas and daddies is tragic. Those poor kids have probably never seen a healthy relationship; one that wasn't codependent, motivated by jealousy, and controlled by money. Now, here it is a day later, and Diddy is out with Cassie instead of taking care of his babies. Poor Kim isn't even buried yet!

'people tend to bond during tragedy'...uh, Cassie couldn't care less.

How about Diddy taking care of his OWN DAM$ KIDS!

I doubt it!

I agree with you to a point, but I've never heard anything negative about him being a "bad" parent. Who knows, the kids could be in the car, they could be with his mother, they could be doing a million things related to taking of arrangements...widen the frame of the photo and who knows what they're doing...

Well I guess he isn’t mourning that much! This right here is real disrespectful! Smfh. He just can’t be alone huh?

She spoke about all this in that Essence article I was shocked how calm & collected she was. But she put her kids first & her feelings last.??

Kim lived a fabulous lifestyle. Her and Diddy coparented so well that they didn’t even have courts involved. I have never heard of any of Puff’s BM saying he’s a bad dad or doesn’t support his children. Kim was even quoted in the same article you mentioned saying that Puff was her best friend and that they talked daily. They celebrated holidays as a family and they all seemed to be a happy blended family. He might not have been a good man to her but I don’t think she held any animosity towards him. Sometimes people are better off as friends instead of lovers.

I know folks wanna blame someone for her untimely death but you can’t blame Puff for this. That’s just wrong.

Well it could have been AIDS she wanted private in home treatment so the truth would not get out.this will send shockwaves if true

So true. I think they got him. I hope there are some strong women around for these kids. I don't know too much about Cassie, or the kids grandmothers or aunts, but wow, some females are needed for that nurturing they need.

At least show restraint for, I don't know, 48 HOURS!!!

I swear on everything I love, I said the exact same thing yesterday. She died from a broken heart. The only man she really loved was publicly professing his love for J-lo2 (Cassie). I don't think his boys will hold him accountable for treating Kim so badly, but once those twins are older, I got a good feeling that they will. All the money in the world won't stop them from asking him why their mom wasn't good enough and why did he keep leaving her for lighter women. They're very pretty girls , that look like him and their mom, with that pretty chocolate skin. That same skin he never was willing to fully commit to. Kim was the air beneath his wigs. I bet he's just realizing it now, that his true love is no longer around, to take him back in between break ups. He's going to realize that he should have married Kim and Cassie will always be the girlfriend/wife that tries to fill the "love he lost" shoes.

I agree. The problem is the adults make the choices, and kids suffer the consequences.

He took care of Kim ONLY because she didn't move on with someone else. Misa rolled out and got married and we see he cut her off forever financially. A control freak.

I don't think Puffy was into colorism. He and Kim had a photo shoot where they emphasize the beauty in their skin tone as beautiful, and how they were excited to bring some beautiful brown babies into the world. They loved highlighting their beautiful skin tone.

What is he doing wrong? Kim wasn't his woman, Cassie was.

His 'responsibility' is to his kids! A real man would walk away from the spotlight to take care of his babies. I venture to guess he can afford the loss of income. .

Okay so ya'll act like Diddy is out with some random who Kim had no knowlegde of and he is in St.Tropez kicking it. He could be at a scheduled doctor appointment that he had to go too. You all don't know how people mourn and you're projecting your thoughts/feelings onto someone else. Who doesn't go back to a familiar space in such a tragic time. We talking about a decade relationship between these two. This situation has hit me hard. Can't quite put my finger on why but I've been legit mouring and reflection since this was known

Shole did

Restraint from what?

Exactly!!!

Lmao. Folks and their conspiracy theories.

Baby you said everything in 1 paragraph! Yes he broke her heart...Diddy has done a lot of people wrong..Karma is a MF.

I agree color didn’t matter he’s just an Ass as a whole

I thought Kim did not allow other women to be in the presence of her children.

I get all that...but RIGHT NOW, his kids should be the priority. If APPLE can thrive without Steve Jobs, I'm sure that Diddy's businesses can spare him some time off...what he doesn't have WIFI on his private jets or a home office...prayers up that he 'Does the right thing'.

I understand Kim's the children's mother, and now she's gone, so Puffy has to become the custodian parent, but to get so riled up so soon over him being out in public with Cassie is beyond words because no one knows why he's away from the kids.

I would have to agree with you. I think she was hurting and has been for years. Heck it seems like she could not date anyone else because Diddy would not have it. I liked Kim way more than Cassie. Cassie was messing around with Diddy while him and Kim were still together after the twins. So I have no respect for her (Cassie) at all.

This is why women need other women...
Perhaps a girlfriend saying... no maam!
We are taking you to the hospital!
It breaks my heart that she likely died alone!

I was thinking the same

Aint no sickness come on her from nowhere but a hit pot, wake up dummies. Last days will get worse. Have fun with all your ideaologies and prescriptions they CANNOT SAVE YOU. People from the occult know, but they aint telling just laughing, for now. Then they will pay too with they foolish selves. Their children as well.

Dead at hexagon....

ON GOD I FEEL THIS WAY RIP THOUGH

Exactly that’s what I like about Kim shield ? her kids from daddy ladies. Keeps them grounded but one thing Puffy understands none of his babymothers argues ever. I know First babymother is ?

When you say a "hit pot" do you mean a crack pipe? This is a serious question because I seriously never heard of a hit pot.

Blocked !??hey bew ?

Why can't my question be serious? I really do not know what a hit pot is.

They are not mentioning that she traveled to Africa recently, so I'm thinking she caught something, and they are not talking about it. After a week, she should have been in the hosptial. Continued praying for the family. May She Rest in Peace.

He broke his leg or something isn't he still in physical therapy

Oh, got it. My bad. ?

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Kim wasn't having that! Now Cassie can finally go on that yearly holiday cruise that she was never allowed to go on at the end of each year, as opposed to sitting home alone posting emotional memes. ?

They are not mentioning how she was sued by a nanny for being a druggie...

First and foremost let's not forget, Diddy is not Kim's next of kin,her mom Sarah is. (If not deceased) Diddy is her ex. and the father of their churn. That's their connection. I am quite sure with upmost respect Diddy has reached out to Kim's parents/parent and they have probably allowed him to help with her arrangements, Or to do all of her arrangement

Thanks for the clarification! However, it doesn't matter because the kids are so close in age and they had to know the other was pregnant. Per Diddy, they all knew each other (Misa, Kim & Sarah) - he met them all the same year! We have to take responsibility for our own lives.

That is something that Puff would never allow to get out to the public.

Neither do I... Folk make "sayings" up everyday... But don't fret...fuggit!

She will be buried in Columbus, GA. next to her mom.

They r not also mentioning that elvis presley a druggie is getting the medal of freedom the nations highest honor from dump.

Smh at the paparazi following Diddy....inspite of what folks are saying or thinking. I'm wishing Diddy peace,love and strength in the midst of these difficult and trying hours. I also extend my condolences to the Porter family

It has gotten outta hand

A fabulous life filled with all the material things in the world don't mean isht if you don't have healthy and happy companionship in your life.

It's sad. But she chose to stay.

Cassie is making the same decision by getting pregnant.

How people know Cassie didn’t just show up at the rehab place because she knew Diddy would be there? But I did peep that slim gold band on her left ring finger in that photo, so I wonder what that is about? Maybe they are married? Who knows???

I also just tried to google to see if Cassie was ever in a picture with Diddy and his kids. Couldn’t find one. But Kim pops up in a lot of those photos, with him and all his kids, even the kids that are not hers. They were just together on November 2nd, so there is no denying they were close. What’s understood (among the people involved) does not always have to be said. I’m sure everyone is going through it. This is still very sad.

He was a druggie just like Michael and Whitney. Madonna is the only 80s idol who is still going strong despite her wrinkled looks.

He broke up with Cassie when she got knocked up!

Cassie was his pregnant ex-girlfriend 48 hours ago...now this?

Mufuggas be doing the most. All that dayum money and done ran outside ish to do. Smdh

Need to break his dingding!

He is an abusive man who controls women through power and money, especially when they have his children. He has mastered emotional, verbal, and financial control techniques like all abusers.

Never will she be stepmom... NEVER!

Diddy is bisexual...he's all kind of sexuall... Member him logging his 30+ hours of having sex... Looking all sweaty and worn out and Cassie passing pics of him laying on her chest...

Y'all been saying Cassie's pregnant since 2008.

Neither is my dog. Either you let it go or you deal with it. This is an example to women in her position of what happens when a narcissist sucks the life out of you. RIH!

Also Sean, as we're calling him now apparently, was the one excitedly saying in several interviews as recent as earlier this year he wants to have more kids indeed (and he even said of course with his girlfriend Cassie after some dumb interviewer asked him I believe it was Charlamagne if memory doesn't fail me) while Cassie mostly shrugs it off even if she says when it's time it'll be great when asked about being a mom in her own interviews. Y'all really LOVE to paint a certain picture to make these people appear miserable, yawn! And I thought you confirmed she was pregnant like almost half a year ago now as well, whatever happened to that "source" sis?! Lmfao y'all truly know NOTHING about these people and always claim to be in the know.

Misa also took him to court. I remember he was ordered to pay the highest child support ever in New York history if I'm correct.

Talk to Misa. She took him to court for child support and won!

IKR. Funny how outsiders can decipher all that from one photo. Y'all have too much time.

Actually, yes. The last thing his girls need is to see a picture of him with their mom's romantic rival the day after she dies. The fact that this picture of the two of them even exists says that he wasn't at all concerned about how it would make those girls feel.

Newsflash...it's the 'outsiders' that fund his lifestyle....ruin your image and see how many records you sell lol.

What in the world! I know he taught Usher how to be a man whore when he was young. You see where that got Usher.

Not sympathy
Baby sitting services.
He is NOW the PRIMARY CARE GIVER for
2 twin daughters and a teenage son

Why are you talking about dragging somebody you don't even know?

The fact that he became hooked on them and eventually died,does not take away anything from him,so no need to take this so personally.

Baby sitting services....that part..
...he's gonna continue to drop the ball in relationships bc women let him, money ain't everything....let me shut up...

You get mad every time I say that. The white lady down the street is a lawyer, and then she had back surgery. Now she's dead from a Fentanyl overdose. It's the same story all over America called the opioid crisis. Like it or not...Prince was a druggie. Stop flight...land...go to ER to bring him back to life. Dead two weeks later from what...Fentanyl.

Puffy groomed teenage Cassie huh

He always does. I hated admitting the fact that Michael Jackson was a druggie. But when I learned he had hundreds of needle scars all over his body...well that's the sign of a druggie. He was the best performer to ever life but he died a druggie. SMDH!

This will be Biggie part 2. Diddy is just disgusting. Sad because I didn't realize how bad he treated her until she died. He's a monster.

I'm just repeating what everyone else is saying. Cassie is invisible to me. I have no respect or concern for her.

Prince had NO SCARS on his body!

He is in NO WAY in comparison to MJ!

U IDIOT!!

That's good to know.

He paid 5 million for the home Kim lived in .Of course the girls will continue to live a fairytale life of luxury. He adored his girls. The kids dpent more time at his home than Kim's.

I just have a completely different theory of Ms. Porter's demise. But out of respect for the family I'll wait

? peace

Whitney didn't die of an accidental overdose. She died from drowning in the tub after going into cardiac arrest.

Mj was injected with propofol without being properly monitored & went into cardiac arrest.

HE WAS MURDERED!

Get your info correct before writing false info.

Whitney was loaded with drugs. Michael hired a doctor to inject him with propofol. He wanted the drug...needed it he said. . The doctor was incompetent but if he didn't give Mike his fix another doctor would have. Most of us drink tea or pop a non-addictive sleeping pill to sleep not hire someone to give us a surgical drug. WTH! He was a druggie.

Some will get violent if you do that

Oh ok the news media gave me the impression it was more recent. Still, we know there are viruses that can exist in a dormant state.

U would have to find me first... then I say...Bring It...

I remember reading it. It was shortly after he went “public” with Cassie. It may have been shade - I don’t know. I just think he went back and forth between her and Cassie. All of Diddy’s relationships and kids overlap LOL! There were rumors just a year ago that he had left Cassie and was going back to Kim. Again who knows??? She could have been a lot messier than just being sarcastic, that’s for sure.

Why lol

I don’t understand why coroner’s reports are public information rather than being protected under HIPPA. It is a medical record after all.

I wouldve sent him a sympathy card at that maybe and kept it movin...ya aint usin no more of my time old man...?

20 is still young and stupid for many young men...especially indulged ones.

Exactly. Also her private doctor was giving her saline solution, which can be bad on your heart. Lots of unanswered questions?

People who are getting treatment in time to keep their T-cells normal, and prevent the progression of HIV to AIDS thus avoiding or limiting opportunistic diseases from ravaging their bodies may be living longer however there are a lot of people who are in denial about having the disease or the need for treatment. There are civil and criminal penalties for knowingly infecting others but if the giver can petition that he/she had no prior diagnosis knowledge than may avoid criminal prosecution.

I've been watching Paternity Court and Maury Povich as of late. I see that people sleep together on the 1st day they meet, move in together at 2 weeks, and are pregnant after one month. People are throwing caution to the wind. In this scenario it appears that one man has multiple s/x partners while all the women have one common man who is Diddy.

If there's something obscure or damaging in the autopsy we'll NEVER hear about it.

I was headed to the grocery store yesterday to get some additional food to cook for Thanksgiving and it was about sunset and I looked up to the sky because I love to watch the sunset and I saw Kim's face in the sky and she had a happy smile on her face so I believe she's good and that she is in the place God prepared for her.

Yeah, I would have too - pregnant or not. But now Cassie gets to take her seat at the table. Oh, he'll be kinder and gentler this time around in the beginning but then he'll go back to dogging her out like he's done with all the men and women he has dated. IJS.

Tell 'em like it is and tell 'em like it ought to be. Sure you're right!

My question is Diddy’s hands clean in Kim’s death?! He and Cassie break up and Kim’s dead a few weeks later?! Asking for the devil ???????

What's a saline drip?! Why couldn't she just go to the hospital & receive the proper care.

I took a HIPPA class once
Once the person is dead....that’s it, no longer private. But the family can request certain things to stay private.

I’m smiling so hard

Sarah L. porter passed in 2014. So legally her next of kin would be the children. With Quincy being the eldest (27), the ball is in his court. Which would technically mean Diddy's court b/c he raised Quincy. So he'll allow his Dad (Diddy) to handle what needs to be done.

What in the world does saline solution have to do w/pneumonia? And why didn't this woman go to the hospital emergency room. Once they ran athe test, & concluded she had pneumonia, she would've been admitted.

Cassie does look a bit pregnant

Groomed her lil fast azz for his personal. In fact she has been bought and paid for. I can see the head lines soon " Cassie Kills Diddy in Desperate Attempt to Escape"...

Sad to have to handle that at age 27. Where is her biological father?

Wouldn't she have BEEN dead? What is or would be the motive now?

Whut??

This situation has hit a lot of folk HARD... BUT MY QUESTION TO ALL THESE OVERWHELMED MOURNERS: Where were you when she needed you as she suffered for the last "few" weeks thus dying alone???? Folk are something else and hella annoying cause others are trying to piece together the mystery while reflecting on HOW THINGS APPEARED! Most can agree that Kim was private and remained a lady. AND SHE ALSO HAD TO ESCAPE HER CHILDRENS FATHER LIKE A THEIF IN THE NIGHT packing her things and rolling out on him while he was away to avoid his confrontational controlling azz...

Girrrll...these comments... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/a8e239e0ce25646efbeb28e6de09695f9d6fd01ef171cca1587aa816703263ba.gif

Cassie does look pregnant but this story made me laugh. Sandra could make some of y’all believe anything. Diddy said he wanted more children on Wendy now all of a sudden he’s a “middle age man who doesn’t want any children”?How u just make up stuff like that?!

Thank you all up & down your comment!!

*whispers* I thought the same. That and/or drogas...

Didn’t know Cassie was “pregnant”, she’s looking like a middle aged Fillipina granny coming from the gym. The rest of my speculation, I’ll leave below...

With a saline IV drip wtf is that? How can this be? Maybe she was stubborn, refused to go. Didn't want to inconvenience her home life (w/the kids) by being in hospital.

Truth....

I don't think she cares sis. Meanwhile we still talking about her.

Oh ok thx

Didn’t Cassie go to Dubai with Puffy a few years ago and come home with her eyebrow cracked open...she blamed it on an ATV crash on a sand dune but it always reeked of a domestic to me...and she still has a scar. ?

Good info on the broken nose...didn’t hear about that one.

I don’t think saline is considered a true electrolyte tho. It’s used for cleaning wounds and stuff...but sodium chloride (saline) is only a part of a true electrolyte. Electrolytes are comprised of:

-sodium
-potassium
-calcium
-bicarbonate
-magnesium
-chloride
-phosphate

“Porter’s grandmother, owner of Royal Cafe in Columbus since 1964, spoke to her granddaughter the day before she died. She told me she felt better and that the doctor had been to her house and he gave her an antibiotic, said Lila Mae Star.“ https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wtvm.com/2018/11/17/family-heartbroken-after-untimely-death-columbus-native-kim-porter/%3foutputType=amp

The real question is why are u comfortable working for the Devil? ?

U better know it...that's what us gullible women do...hell, I did it...my dad did it to my mom...we love these type sorry az black men...I know I do...forreal, black mEn...DO BETTER....this doesn't apply to all... they know who they are...

Chile I don’t know????? Maybe Cassie was tired of being a first place loser. Maybe she wants to kill Diddy next. Revenge is a powerful thing.

But don’t you think it’s too soon to be parading Cassie around?! Poor woman is not even dust yet.

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Brilliant information! Kudos on the super sleuthing! ?

Her death hit me hard also... I cannot stop thinking about her and her children. I'm a bit of an insomniac over it. I feel so bad that she has passed away and I really don't know why...

Just like the d3vil, they want to destroy you...while nonchalantly looking on.

Sad, but nice to know the children still have family to depend on. Thank you for sharing.

Go head, Dr. Fodderwing!

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It has also been said that he snatched her bald and that is why she started wearing her hair with one side bald and hair on the other said. It started a trend that I don't think she meant to start. She had no choice but to try to make the best situation of her bald head. No amount of money or love will make me stay in an abusive relationship (physical or verbal). Eh Eh. Won't stop. Can't Stop. Not Doing It.

Ooohhh weeeee! I have every reason to take this as fact.

*be careful for what u wish for bc it may just come true*.

It was allll good til she found out the tax on wishes.

She isnt lying it is possible. When i went 2 Dubai i went on those tours in the sand dunes n it is a wild ride like never before. Stop thinking ever scar is azz whupping.

lol@ "Asking for the devil"

Exactly. Cassie been pregnant since me & u came out?But seriously this is the first time I’ve seen her & she looks pregnant. Or it could be from stress eating since they broke up. Who knows?!

First of all some of the comments are a shame! Second of all Cassie is said to be pregnant every other month!! Third of all just because she and Diddy broke up doesn’t mean they aren’t friends. During tragedies things change. They are close and he needs a shoulder to cry on! I’m sire his children are being comforted as well! He and Cassie were together not he and Kim!

Some people can love and NOT be married! Some men are not marriage material and some women aren’t! Some relationships work out better than some of these marriages do! Let people live and love how they want to! Of course his friend/ex girl/ or whatever she is will be there! They still have love for one another!

?? Some don’t understand what they have NEVER had.

Sadly a good portion of AA is ignorant and uninformed when it comes to Africa . Most still refer to the continent as a country. Shame on all of these ignorant fools .

You sound ignorant. "A superbug known to that continent almost exclusively". JFC. Dummy.

Yeah. Lollllzzz. Who was Keyser Söze?! Great flick.

Really. When r u leaving. I had a blast. My hotel was in the palms area. Give me your email right quick n l will forward you some pictures n give u some pointers. Best vacation ever. U r gonna have a ball

If I’m not mistaken Kim took him to court when Christian was young.

That's sad they found out on social media.

I have purposely kept quiet on this situation until I could find the right words as I grew up with Puffy, Biggie, Faith etc. No, I did not nor do I know any of these people personally. So when I say I grew up with them, I'm not trying to mislead, I am simply saying I as a fan, and a consumer was there when these people were BECOMING who they are today, so Kim Porter was a part of that, but all I am left to say is that while, I, like many have heard the many rumors, I'm not going to indulge in that, because my heart keep's going back to those twin girls, and how they have a sister the EXACT same age, who mom IS STILL ALIVE, who is still here. These girls (yes, I know there is Quincy and Christian but they are grown men, not that their mother''s death hurts any less for them), but these girls will have to look at Chance, and Sara everyday knowing that Sara is still here, and there mother is gone, THAT is what my heart ACHES for, and I pray that this does not isolate them from Chance as I know Kim wouldn't want that. What we all need to remember is that for the twins, ALL their IMMEDIATE maternal women are gone, their mother, their grandmother, and their great grandmother. Since Thursday, I have seen people send their well wishes out to the kids, but in the next sentence, speculating, assuming everything about these children mother death. Stop it. Let it go, because at the end of the day, ONLY GOD and Kim Porter know why he called for her, and she agreed. These girls don't need to see "half-condolences". Say RIP and keep it pushing because it's very FEW of us that are going to be able to relate (even if you lost a parent), because I doubt you lost a parent, but had a sibling the same age who still got their mom, and yours has gone on. I pray for those girls, and I pray even HARDER for their brothers, because THEY, NOT PUFF, will have to be their protection, comfort, and guides. Lord, I SINCERELY pray, look over these children. My mother is 66 years old, and you CAN still tell she was / is a motherless child (her mother died when she was 6). You are not the SAME once you lose your mother. NO MATTER THE AGE. Let's just will our energies to this woman''s kids, and leave it at that, and I mean that outhe of RESPECT. not trying to tell people what to do. XOXO.

Exactly what I said earlier. He used money and power to hold her hostage.

Come thru Fodderwing ?? ?

Yeah, he really is an inconsiderate pig for that. It’s in bad taste.

Well, I won't argue you, and I will just pray you are right. I am TRULY humbled by this situation. It still does not stop me from being empathetic and wishing you didn't have to grow up without your mother, or that these girls wouldn't have to go without theirs. Just because things in life make srong, doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. Blessings and hugs ALL THE WAY AROUND, for YOU and for Quincy, Christian, Jesse, and D'Lila.

Heard the same thing!

RESPECTFULLY, I think this is where you and I differ, and not to say I am right or that you are wrong. Feeling empathy for others, and acknowledging others pain does not mean you view them as a victim. There is no shame in SINCERELY feeling for others. It doesn't mean you pity them. It simply is saying that I ACKNOWLEDGE your pain, and I wish for your better days. Period! Who can be mad at that? But I understand you are of one viewpoint, and I am of another, and it takes both people who are like each of us to keep the world spinning. Can't have people that are too soft-hearted, NOR too hard-hearted. So, you have a goodnight, my lady....until the next post.

Dang. DGB, your revelations are as humbling as they are inspiring. I adore the fact you shared this about yourself. You’re pretty amazing. And an example of real life resilience anyone can benefit from.

Right

She''s DEFINITELY a survivor, and a strong lady. No doubt. I will give her that!

For my early workers, or late night clubbers like me. Here is the version of forever my lady in which AL was talking about Kim Porter, no lie, I stumbled upon this on about 2 weeks before she passed. If you want to REALLY know how much Al loved Kim Porter, listen to this 10 MINUTE UNEDITED version of Forever My Lady. For real peeps, Leap aint NEVER LED you guys wrong. You all BEST (that includes you AUNTIE), better download this extended, unedited version before the family PULLS it. Don't say Leap didn't warn you, because fugg trying to obtain this rare version for monetary gain, THIS, I PROMISE YOU (and I would not lie to you all), will be the PUREST of emotion you havery EVER felt in a song. Now, a year later when you can't get a hold of this RARE version of Forever My Lady, you CANNOT say it was because nobody put you on, because Leap tried to put you on. I will attach the link ONE MORE 'GIN'.
https://youtu.be/1CP2rayzcYk

Why hide the skins wounds, abrasions, or the fact that she was ‘wasting away’ smh?. Hollywood doctors are in humans. At what point does the doctor say ‘woman you need hospital care ASAP with machines and nurses to monitor your organs carshing’. No the doctor just saw money. She could’ve just go to Cedar fancy hospital they all go. Forget if it comes out or get leaked. Her babies would have a chance to still have their mom. It breaks my heart that she suffered such tremendous pain and died alone to protect Puffy. Screw that, what about my girls? That’s what she should’ve been thinking. She was a genuine soul

I’m going try and listen to this! I have always loved that first Jodeci album. When I found out Al B Sure wrote it about her, I kinda got choked up. If my spirit wills it, I will listen. I’m trying to stay in my happy place but not sure if this will help. Thank you lady ????

Strange things happen and people should look at the signs. I don't ever look at people because of their status or notoriety in this world. Every person is human, and soooo many people are or rather be unaware of the truth in this world. God never intended for us to die early in life. People make this up because of their lack of knowledge. This woman died early because the kingdom of darkness had the ability to place a sickness on her. I dont know who she worshipped, but lets say she claimed she was Christian. Her being Christian could not save her. What I'm saying for every person poor or rich, known or not. This world is controlled by the kingdom of darkness, there are many people poor or rich who know this. In knowing this people use darkness to control people and things, sadly it is how people complete evil without prosecution/ justice with out repercussions. This could be an example for some who know when somethings just not right. This is not speculation, this this fact, no healthy person stays sick and dies suddenly. Knowledge of this worlds powers is enlightening and scary for some.

Thx for breaking it down?. My thoughts went directly to how water softener systems work in that there is a chemical exchange of charges. Also brands like Pedialyte for children https://www.target.com/p/pedialyte-oral-electrolyte-solution-unflavored-1l/-/A-14528917?ref=tgt_adv_XS000000&AFID=google_pla_df&fndsrc=tgtao&CPNG=PLA_Baby%2BShopping_Local&adgroup=SC_Baby&LID=700000001170770pgs&network=g&device=m&location=9009153&gclsrc=aw.ds&ds_rl=1242884&ds_rl=1246978&ds_rl=1246978&ref=tgt_adv_XS000000&AFID=google_pla_df&CPNG=PLA_Baby+Shopping_Local&adgroup=SC_Baby&LID=700000001170770pgs&network=g&device=m&location=9009153&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIktPT7JPe3gIVkluGCh37PQdxEAQYASABEgKrZfD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds in which case it serves in a very similar method to what it appears Kim’s treatment consisted of, or Gatorade. Sometimes 2 plus 2 don’t always equal 4. Appreciate you giving context.

Exactly..

I'll comfort you Sean. Come to daddy..

You must want HIV. His name was included in the list of Aetna patients who received letters regarding their HIV prescription which was visible in the envelope mailed out last year. The complete list was on the deep dark web, and included a few other celebrities such as Aretha Franklin, Trina, Chris Brown, and Katt Williams.

I Cosigns You! And Thanks for the Good Read, I should not say it now,because of what's going on but I have always admired Kim, and could not stand Diddy for playing her the way he did, while parading Cassie, and countless others around for the world to see him smiling, and enjoying life to the fullness. And oh by the way Keep doing your thing enjoyed reading you, and beside that many love it when people like you with "Common Sense" shows up.
And another thing I agree with you on how people should be more Compassionate ect, but the trolls only think about themselves and the w!cked way they mind don't understand jack connected to real life , ignore the trolls , and keep up the good comments that make a person think, about real life issues.

Thanks for that.

That is something that I had heard , and forgotten, Diddy must be proud of himself for holding both women down while he climbed other trees right in front of their faces, and dared them to do anything about it. That has to be their fault for letting him get away with things like this.

Looks like the report could take up to four weeks https://gbi.georgia.gov/sites/gbi.georgia.gov/files/related_files/site_page/88332299Autopsy%20FAQs.pdf
I’ve been reading about her on gossip blogs for over ten years. Not to mention music videos of artists like Jodeci and Heavy D. She seemed like quite a lady flowing with grace. Unreal.

ALL their IMMEDIATE maternal women are gone, their mother, their grandmother, and their great grandmother.
^^^^^
Their maternal great grandmother, for whom one of the twins is named (Mrs. Lila Mae Star) is actually still with us. She spoke out and someone posted the link below. Good article. I'm still sad for them though.

So the 94 year old is still with us???? Ok, cool. I will GLADLY stand corrected on this one! Imma tr to find the link.

One thing I will comment on regarding him is he has always come off as a nuturing father. I remember this as far back when dead beat dads was a big deal. I feel like he helped to change the culture in that regard. And secondly his get out the vote movement “vote or die” is certainly iconoclastic within our culture and set up new models for getting out the vote. He did an excellent job in the midterm.

Yes he need you right now, Judge because he want be able to control Kim anymore Kim has her wings now, and she will be watching Diddy from the heaven s above. She will be her children and Family Beautiful Angel and Diddy , nor this old mean world can hurt her anymore. And as bad as this old world has gotten Judge Kim wouldn't want to come back to this old cruel world for nothing, Rest Sweet Kim. RIP.

I cosigns you on that, He did and has always helped with the Children, I will give him that. But I suppose tree jumping as he pleased helped him to take care of his Children, Kim, and still have some fun with Kim, with vacations, and outings as he pleased, along the way. And people like we know often times get along better not being married they can be best friends better without attachments. And I know that he has did a good job of keeping a good relationship with Al B Sure Son, and helping to raise him as his own son, which is admirable. I will give credit where credit is due.

Hey Diddy, and all your Players in and outside of
Entertainment, Toni Says it Best!!!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpaR3wzTlvo

DIDDY Hold your head up, Kim says "She Will Always Love You!!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3JWTaaS7LdU

I like your thinking. There are many couples who are not married that have lasted much longer than some married couples. Oprah and Stedman as well as Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn come to mind. Both couples have publicly stated they would not be together if they had married. I’m ok with people living their truth. If marriage isn’t in the cards it’s not my place to impose views based on any particular belief system. I find it interesting that I never hear folks complaining about the Mormons way of life down in Utah.

People with HIV can live a longer and healthier life than people with CANCER. Please educate yourself. You're an ignorant ho to even bring that up. Dumb trash like you should be killed.

When he allegedly beat his son’s coach with a dumbbell for shaming him in front of others for being the kid of a rich parent I was like wow. It wasn’t funny but it was funny even though it really isn’t funny. Point is he doesn’t seem to play that when it comes to his kids.

Don’t know his views but everybody isn’t into belief systems like religion which encourages marriage. Is it right for us to impose our belief system on others?

Even Marriage isn't always the answer either , and I do understand that.

What's with all the homosexual aggression and name calling? And what does the life span have to do with facts that I'm stating? In other words, yo nasty azz doesn't mind catching some isht as long as you can live an extended healthy life. lol But I'm the ignorant one. lol You sound like a gotdamn fool!

You bet!

Bent over with tears Looool.
Rat chasing cheese, OMG, LOL.

I know but I have been a little hard on Diddy because of his player ways, that didn't affect my life, but since I have always respected Kim, I supposed I went a little hard on Diddy, trying to give Diddy some praise, just saying.

I agree with you 100%... Diddy The DOG is and has been doing what TF he supposed to be doing as a father!... And... So what!... He STILL a arrogant narcissist who is definitely a player/ho!

Marriage isn't always religious. People marry to have and raise children in the best possible foundation for stability, security and prosperity. People marry to commit to, care for and nurture each other. Diddy, in my opinion, should have married one of his children's mothers especially since he continued to them except for Misa who wasn't having it.

That explains it then

fck u

Al B Sure literally abandoned Kim and Quincy. She got a job as a receptionist at UIptown to take care of her child. Years later there was forgiveness and Quincy and Kim had a positive friendship Al B who admitted deserting them and being grateful to Diddy for stepping up.

And coming from a huge family like mine, I know first hand about how dead beat dads can be, and how step dads do better by their step children than their real dads! No beef from me about whats right, and wrong on raising children!!

The more you respond, the worse you look. smh

Virtuous woman? There are plenty of married women with no high moral standards, so don't act like being married somehow places a woman in a higher class. I doubt that Kim wasted time thinking that Sean gave her everything she wanted except a ring that would make her an honest woman in the eyes of the world.

Lord I'm so tired of folks portraying marriage the be all to end all. Wish people would Stop projecting their thoughts and feelings of marriage off on folks. It's akin to pushing your religious beliefs off on others. That's what YOU believe. And it's okay. But why apply it to other folks situation bc that's what YOU would do or believe? It's not okay or fair

Didn't Al publicly say if anything ever happens to him, Puffy did it?

Diddys post is sad as well

Diddy's post is sad too. My heart just aches for them all. You don't know what you've got til it's gone... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/d182eb577f39e2e9dc5eec48c38c3256030468a55bc4fe6830f174779d8a7b64.jpg

Exactly

Homegirl pulled post from nowhere and tried to apply it to diddy?? im done

On Al’s unsung documentary, kim made an appearance and said she left al after he had a son with another at the same time she was pregnant with their son. Kim actually went through that twice in her life with both al and diddy

Facts!

True.

so sad. wished he had married her. truly sad

Thank you, so much I didn't know.

Now you know negroes aren’t interested in marriage, commitment, faithfulness and functional family units. Too many black men love having a harem of women and breeding bastards broken homes and generational dysfunction.

True, and I heard you!!

I don't think they were concerned about waiting til marriage until kids come. The females had an equal responsibility to prevent pregnancy.

Yes what is okay for one couple and person is totally different from another person.

You are right about each of us all being in different stages of mind, as far as love, marriage goes.

I know you’re a jewel ? I just don’t want to cry ? right now.

I see your point. I guess I get muffled when I see people who have taken the wrong turn in life and they blame past tragedies. You know the drug addicts who blame it on their parents divorcing. I think if you teach children young that everyone deals with tragedies...everyone. This is yours. The wonderful thing about having a parent who has passed is I always asked for my mother's guidance and protection. I believe she helped me more in heaven than she could have on earth.

He Will guide Us and
carry Us through what ever it is.

Same goes for men of ALL races! Please stop making black folks out to be any different. There are black men who are faithful and love and those who don’t. Same as any race or culture

Everyone isn’t meant to be married! Geez I’m sick of seeing people ask why they weren’t married. People can be soul mates and have soul ties and not be married!!

Diddy Soiled her..

Just hear this.... Kim Writing a Book....
Kim Porter tells all about the world of hip hop...BUT in pictures with her new book "The Rock N' Roll of Hip Hop". As the previous girlfriend of rap mogul Sean "Diddy" Combs Kim has had a birds eye view of the life and times of some of the worlds biggest hip hop stars. Partnering with her good friend photographer Cheryl Fox the book shares a private collection of never before seen images of some of hip hops finest! Kim recently stopped by the HipHollywood loft to tell us about this new project.

I wonder if this Book Kim is talking about may even be like "Super Head" tell all Just saying, just heard this from someone, about the Book coming out in 2019...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hbsxr33EHo

Hey Diddy, what is are was Kim talking about.
https://people.com/celebrity/kim-porter-says-she-was-betrayed-by-diddy/

One of my Nieces say why didn't you marry her man, shes wanting to punch your eyes out right now Diddy for not marrying her, and she will talk about it in her new book. They are saying Kim house had been broken into her home is there any truth to that Diddy.

My Niece says to high five you to high heaven., Where is his commitment, they don't have no standards, Their standards are so low you have to dig millions of feet under the ground, to find standard They know nothing about Commitment , are standard. All they know is getting what you want, and moving on to the next one.

My niece is driving , and she see a woman begging for money, but yet her dog is well groomed, this woman is a mess. She said a lady is begging for money, to help pay her rent, and the lady told my Niece do you want to see my bills, and the lady went to pull her bills out, and my Niece told her hell maw I don't want to see your bill, but do you want to see my college bill, cause I ain't giving you jack on your bill, but you can help me with my college bills.

Well thank goodness Diddy cleared all that up today with his heartfelt tribute to Kim.

Cassie been a thirst trap 4ever. No talent culture vulture. All she see in Diddy is dollars or millions.

Still talking to my Niece she's in Sams and the lines are to packed everybody , and their mama's are in there , and very long lines, so I asked her what was she looking for, and said Ox Tails I fell out LOL. and told her why not just go to a different store, and she said Auntee I was in a different store last nigh, and this big fat black as heffa had her her hand on the last package, and she was like ciiiiii i just drove this long way and her Paws was on the last package, and they was bad looking, and I looked at them
either and my Niece said I don't want that package either, they was thin, and something for a vegetarian OMG my niece is a mess.

Indeed

Not thank you. Were you not just downing on Dewayne Wade bm the other day for NOT getting chose?

Pick a side sis. This is for all the women who could marry. Maybe not THAT man, but A MAN...could still marry. If SHE wanted to. You said Aja was too much of a whore to do so.

Pick a side.

Ive had a kid in wedlock. One out of. Treat them the same. What's your point?

I’m thinking AIDS or drug overdose

Did you know Kim was writing a book?

Girl I honestly don’t know or think I want to be married. It is a lot of work! I grown accustom to my own isht. If I wanna paint the wall blue I can. If I want to fly somewhere to vacation, I can. If I don’t wanna cook for two nights in a row, I don’t. I’m not really sure I want to convey, confide, confer, confirm, consult or consider somebody else. My son, whose now 20, in college and the baby, my daughter is a Freshman in high school. I am almost an empty Nester and I did have my kids younger. Right now, I feel like OK now I can finally do some of the things that Mommy has wanted to do. I can finally pursue my goals and dreams and aspirations with fewer restrictions. Hell it’s work having a d@mn boyfriend! Chile I love that we can both take our behinds home when we get on each other’s nerves.

I was wondering how long before someone raised the Masonic conspiracy .

How do you know she was loyal?

Heard the rumors and not surprised about any of them. Hell Jean Claude looks sick as hell in those Tostitos commercials.Cheeks looking like they're melting.

And he allows it! He chose to be with her. She was trying to make a career for herself as an artist and Diddy has been with her for over 9 years. She’s also a woman of color as well. I have never seen her appropriate the culture or speak I’ll of anyone. She has a right to console her ex boyfriend and friend at that.

Some people don’t wanna be married ?????

Yeah whatever, be in denial if you like.

Yawns. The black race is literally over. Keep bringing up other races like they arent in order.

It is reported that she married Al B. Sure for one year. It is on Google.

Its not required to marry why does that matter?

Say what now? Cassie cant heal this hurt .Diddy confessed his unconditional love for Kim today. His Black Queen.

Its time his team checked him into UCLA medical for observation for stress .He didn't look so good strolling through Westwood Village just blocks away from UCLA medical plaza. He looked exhausted.

He is really hurting and grieving her transition really hard.
Kim Porter was his ?

now what about cashmeoutcassie?

Me either just heard that today!!

Good comment about your president trump.

https://www.dreshare.com/al-b-sure/

Yea i feel Kim will get the last laugh. Diddy had better watch hi his back Kim was truly loved.

That is something to think about, should be
personal like all your medical history.

Wonder how Cassie will feel if next year he is seen partying with another young thing?

True.

Men are pragmatic creatures. Diddy has two little girls to raise full time now. If he is getting back together with Cassie, ts not just love it's also practical for Cassie to be stepmom.

No I wasn’t! I was co-signing for gabby!!

Your delusional boo

Just how Kim must have felt...he's no good...and he will neva change

Okay I know, and personally i am hoping i wake up one morning , and this is a bad dream.

Umm. He adopted her firstborn. Bought her a 5 million dollar home. Lavished her kids with the best. Travel on private jets, vacations on his 75 million dollar hatch.

Wanna bet who Diidy leaves his Empire/Estate to upon his transition?
King Christian Combs him and Kim firstborn or

On-call -cashmmeoutcassie??? ???you need to just chill with the dumb ish.

This a Black Thang.....you wouldn't understand.

Don't deprive children of both parents for your selfish reasons.
^^^^^
Divorce happens. Y'all being ignorant. I swear y'all are

Black people marry every day but who would marry you ?you already come with built in negativity .

I think instinctively men are pragmatic. It is natural for him to seek a stepmom to help him raise his young daughters. He is a devoted and involved dad to all his children but Diddy has never had children live with him full time nor raised children full time on his own without dedicated full time custodial custody mother.

This will be an adjustment for him and I can see either Cassie being with him and being stepmom or Sara Chapman raising the three girls together.

People believe all kinds of offbeat, conspiratorial stuff. You'd be surprised.

I agree. Thank God for all the single mothers doing their thing raising their kids.... but for a child, having a [good] father in the household every morning when you wake up, and every night when you go to bed, is a really big deal.

Even prostitutes want to get married one day. Any females who say that they don’t are not being honest. They probably can’t find one to marry or the man they’re with have not proposed so they tell themselves that marriage is not a big deal. ?

Al B Sures unsung mentioned that song was about her, Kim was even on that episode to back it up...

I agree with that. And (to basically say the same thing in reverse)... if a woman wasn't somebody I considered wife material, I certainly wouldn't want her to be the mother of my children.

She absolutely wanted to be married and was disappointed that Diddy did not marry her.

We want black men and black women to do better and do whats best for black children., which is being in a functional committed marriage which offers emotional, financial, and physical protection. Come on black people why is this so difficult to grasp?

I never wanted to be married. Was bullied and shamed into it. By Christians. Dead honest truth. Talked about it here many times. Turned down 2 dudes pre-marriage and one post marriage.

Some marry. And it's still not enough.

It's a gossip site. And my comment was not only gossip related, but informing a commentor on information that most would consider informative given his comment. You on the other hand are simply butting in on some mess that doesn't involve you, nor does it have to do with gossip. Go play comment referee elsewhere.

Some married couples are more dysfunctional than those that co parent... let people live how they choose and you do you ?????

I am connected with my best friend of over 20 years. He is one of my soul mates. They come in many forms... they come as parents, pets, friends. Just because I’m married doesn’t mean I can’t have soul ties with other loving souls. My mind has been made up sorry you can’t grasp the concept tho

Exactly! Black folks seem to have been brainwashed about the benefits of marriage. That hoodrat mentality is sickening. Marriage helps build generational wealth and stability.

Your point is still invalid. Cassie is there at this moment consoling him. The dumb ish is you assuming who he is leaving his fortune too and how he values people. I am black but I’m also educated and cultured... so I get why you don’t understand the point that I was making .... she is there to console him during a tragedy point blank... have a good day or st least try considering you as immature and hateful toward someone who doesn’t even know you exist ??

I posted below that I don’t necessarily want to be married. I’ve been engaged, I broke the engagement. And I am a hell of a catch! I have absolutely no problems meeting quality successful men. ????? I don’t know that I want to make compromises at this point in my life but that doesn’t mean I don’t like companionship. ?

That’s just the truth

Sorry, but that sounds like fake news to me. Do you have any evidence or proof of this?

She is an attention seeking paid escort.

The truth is that the exception is that there are married couples who raise children that are more dysfunctional than those that breed out of wedlock?

Exactly.

I did hear that rumor about Aretha Franklin. It wasn't cancer she died from.

Black people are still getting married. When folks make the best decision to maybe skip it bc they are not up to par and avoid it...its frowned on. When folks get themselves in some MESS trying to abide by ANCIENT "societal norms"...its forgiven. WHY? Why not be honest from the JUMP. Puff has ALWAYS maintained he is a piece of SHAT. Like if someone TELLS you that...what is wrong with it? Yall gonna answer me tonight.

Furthermore, marriage is more than about societal norms. It’s about the legal and financial protections provided by the government.

We have already reviewed that here. This can be handled from power of attorney and wills. Gives you the same rights. And hayle. You can claim SPIRITUALLY married and get some of the same stuff. Bc its hard for them to challenge religion. Furthermore (your word not mine)...Some states still out here recognizing common law.

Lets get it. What else you got???

My dad was married twice. He put his name on the birth certificate of a kid that wasnt even his. It belonged to my mother. If anyone was a rolling stone it was her. SHE moved on first. He was there in the hospital and BEGGED to sign the birth certificate. They were friends since 4. Married at 16/18. Married for 20. Then apart. He was a stepper upper like Puff. Out here taking care of a kid that wasnt even HIS biologically. Lets go. I got time.

Im not on any emotions and any one here will say I am facts based 98% of the time. Depends on your state btw.

Taking care of a young black boy sans marriage OR blood...is more important that marrying the mother of 3 bio....when you BEEN committed by...taking care of kid 1? He committed to Kim before they had ANY kids together.

You can go on the dark net. Stuff like that is exposed there because it's difficult to trace. Nobody really exposes stuff on the internet anymore. Just be careful on there cause it's not a playground like the internet. It can be dangerous.

Gotta be married to ONE forever is the rule of this blog. Hey I DONT FEEL like this. But its MANY here who are saying this. IN THIS THREAD. If it doesnt work out...THAT IS NOT OKAY. I promise I didnt say it. Its many others who are saying this.

Sandra, you watching this Jonestown/Jim Jones special? Horrific!

This applies to Kim and Puff how? Puff dad was killed. His dad was married to his mom.

Wait she is 23????? I got a 23 yo. She was born in 1995??? Is this a JOKE?

Dang it..I forget that! I need to really remember folks chillun is on here too. It sure would explain alot of these comments....on various posts.

Because poor men or men of less means have a equal chance to reproduce in a monogamous societies as opposed to a polygamous society.

^^^^^^^^^^
Our ancestors were polygamous. And still are. There are Men in Africa RIGHT NOW STILL... still with as many families as they can AFFORD. Where is the outrage of that?

I really hope there is a post tomorrow about Diddy declaring his undying love for Kim. He posted about how monumental their love was and how they were much more than soul mates...but my question is, if you can be all that to a man and STILL not be able to get him to love honor and respect you as a wife and partner in life, what the hell do men want?

???!!!!
https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4b9e31ea1a3348e503b2e829a75e99b636db1b06a1f4decbde45ecae3321e7c8.gif

Exactly.

This mess didn’t move me at all. Super black love my ass.

This men are selfish attention seeking bastards. If they loved her so much, why couldn’t they respect her? One man (Al) left her to raise a whole human by herself but know she is forever his lady?! He’s got a lot of nerve!

To hell with the song, why wasn’t he a dad to their son? Why did another man step into that spot?

Im old enough to clearly recall this event, but I only recall it as a news event (that I admittedly 'looked away' from even while returning time and time again to grab the Time mag off my dad's nightstand). What i didn't grasp then was the depth of the personal stories of the survivors. It's breathtaking and heartbreaking! Now I get why I always got a 'real' vibe from Jackie Speier - she has lived (after nearly dying!). God deliver us from self proclaimed 'saviors' ...smh.

I am not in the clique here. I appreciate the blog and forum. I share comments in earnest and respect the comment of others. I don’t disagree for the sake to disagree.

I’ve said not one thing about anger or animosity. I’ve not said not one thing about Cassie’s motives to get back together with or to comfort Diddy. I do not think it’s not merely coincidence that out of all of his family and friends he is comforted by his most recent ex. This is a man who is always calculating and thinking ahead. His girls will need a stepmother.

My comment was really not one due reprisal other than it was not made by a clique member. I made an observation that men are pragmatic creatures. “Many women around” is not the same as a committed stepmother and nuclear family.

Ultimately, Diddy may consider to marry and give his girls what he has never given them, a committed married two parent home especially now that their mother, rock, and foundation has unexpectedly passed away.

Puff has been clear for years.

Marriage Wasn’t in the Cards
In an interview for Essence’s December 2006 issue, Combs shared that he had no plans to marry Porter. “I know she deserves to get married, but I’m just not ready,” he said. “It’s not a reflection on how much I love Kim. It’s that I’m just learning how to be a good boyfriend. When I’m finished with this step, I’ll move on to the next.”

https://people.com/music/sean-diddy-combs-kim-porter-relationship-timeline/

https://madamenoire.com/532512/love-contract/

No. Hes the typical black men who dont believe in marriage and family, instead of being a player into his 60s with a bunch of bastards by multiple women. Then when his peen doesnt stand up and his health begins to fail he will marry some young dumb girl.

Again, polygamy breeds violent societies because the few wealthy men are hogging all the women, which makes the poor men upset and revolt. Look how violent africa is compared to the monagamy european countries. Look at ho violent black america is compare to white america. Black men and black women dont value monogamy, instead we have casual intimacy create bastards and our community reflect our behavior. Africa would be more stable is monogamy was strictly implemented. Look at the middle east. Dudes strap bombs on themselves because their are no women around for them to marry and they are promised virgins in the after life. Black men and black women need to practice monagamy if we want compete with other nations and save or children and eliminate the threat of STDS.

This has nothing to do with just black men. You find men of all races to be that way. Women and I mean women of all races need to value themselves more! You can’t place blame on a man when a woman is anconsenting adult as well! You are a troll who constantly belittles the black man and the black community! Your points are invalid

There you go again belittling black men!! The typical black man IS married to black women! Your trolling and constantly throwing shade to black men and the black community! Troll

He or she is a troll constantly demeaning black men! Probably a white man on here causing friction! Every post they belittle black men

I looked at some of her others post and she said she was 23.

Yes there are problematic kids who come from a household with two parents and there are households with married couples that are more dysfunctional than those who are divorced or co parenting

Oh really have you spoken with him about his relationships?

Naw it wasn’t and I have checked the stats

I’m sure it was made clear many times! Kim was the reason he and Misa broke up and he left her for JLO when she was pregnant with his child. She went back to him again!! And had the same thing happen! Actions speak louder than words and women have to respect themselves as well

This neva ruthless person is a troll who constantly demeans black men

Again he has immense wealth but operates as the average poor african american by creating children with multiple partners, which creates chaos and confusion.

Only around 33% of black men are married. Give it up hon i have about 15 minutes left of my shift, im about to log out go home and go to bed. Goodnight.

And black men need to learn how to build buildings, invent medicines, protect, provide and raise their children. We need to start there. Man is the head. Woman is the center.

Black men ARE doing that!! Maybe you need to come out the slums hun! There are plenty of black successful politicians, doctors, lawyers, scientist, who are married and great fathers! Change your environment!!

Okay I looked at the articles I’ll start with People. He said that he knows that she deserves marriage but he’s just not ready yet, did he tell the woman he was NEVER going to be ready, before she just got tired of waiting and gave up? But not after having three kids for him, and aging into her late thirties where it is much harder as a woman to date and marry good, quality men. I know people are going to roll up with their anecdotal stories about how they met their five star husband as a black woman in America, with three kids in tow, at age 35, but they would be the exception not the rule.
The madame Noire arrival irritated me. He compared himself to Goldie Hawk and Kurt Russell who have been in a committed, exclusive relationship for decades, raising their kids and her two children from her first marriage together. How is that the same as him bouncing from Kim Porter to whoever floats his boat, having kids outside the relationship? Goldie and Russell live together as a family in their home although unmarried, clearly they are deeply committed, it just doesn’t seem the same as Puffy and his all his women and kids situation.

Naw your a troll here to belittle people of color

Sometimes forever doesn't work out, and that's ok. But what's not ok, is this man leaving all of these women, to raise children alone. This is an epedemic in the black community, and most think its normal. Even if he didn't marry, at least commit to giving your kids, a healthy two parent household. plenty of people do it, like Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell.

Then what the f—- are you disagreeing with folks for if you know the stats?

Facts!!!!

Yeah so? Im an adult. Is there a problem?

Africa civilize before the evil european

Don't play dumb because you know what I meant.

Because at 23 you say silly things like white men are better mates for black women when white males are the most unstable pacified animals on the planet.

I'm hearing some crazy stories about Diddy. No doubt besides booty holes, he's into the occult. Head over to Youtube cause it's lit.

He wants his puzz for free and he found enough women with low self-esteem who would give him the arrangement he wants.

When his peen stops standing (which it probably already has) he’ll be satisfied with his artificial little blue pill induced erection.

Of course I know professional black men exist. I speak as a collective black men are failures when it comes to manhood in a patriarchal world, they don’t measure up.

Yes I currently work at JCPenney callcenter. It’s temporary I ship out January 15 for Air Force basic training. I’m so excited.

Nah I’m just a young black woman tired of the BS.

I can’t deny the violent history of white males. I also won’t deny their high standards of manhood when it comes to protecting and providing for their women and children. They conquered and built the planet for white women to enjoy. Black men just don’t move the same.

Truth hurts! ??
I remember having a debate with a older man about the reason AA are in the predicament we’re in. His perspective was: it’s all the woman’s fault because we ultimately make the decision to let a knuckle head get us pregnant. I couldn’t/refused out if my own ignorance to see it that way. Now that I have a bit more discernment and life experiences under my belt. I totally understand.
These are OUR babies, as women we have to love and cherish our eggs more than we love/lust these niccas! Stop making our kids BASTARDS and not only make these men step up to the plate but get our ISH together too! They don’t want to hear that though.... AA have made dysfunction the “right” thing because so many households are comprised this way.

Here we go with the usual response. That’s false because I don’t allow black men to hurt me. I just sit back and watch what they do to women around me.

Besides even if you had been hurt, still doesn’t change the facts. People can get defensive if they want, facts still remain the same.

Grown? you are 23 supposedly.

table homes to raise functional children into adults and again the elimination of STDS that could wipe an entire community or nation out.
^^^^^^^^^^
Who did HIV start with? Us or gay white men? Listen I can follow some of what you saying. Other parts of it just dont add up baby girl. Period.

Looks that way. Honestly I do feel bad for Kim Porter, seems like she deserved better.

I think he was married at some point to all of them, even Marla Maples. I'm glad that there are people in here calling Diddy out. I'm also happy that people are calling this dysfunction out, that black people think is normal.

Lol! Married & cheating...yeah, that's some kind of commitment.

You are not even a quarter of a century old. 23 yo. What can you possibly be tired of? Real talk

Funny you say this the day she passed I talked about him having to be custodial parent and ignorant stans were riding me like hell acting wacky. Had to repeat 3 times he'd never been custodial parent and now he may have to be. Kim was custodial parent the kids lived with her and visited him.

It's both the man needs to not bareback a chick use a damn condom. The chick needs to have a sponge or take the pill Plus dude wrapping it up.

If an accident happens take a plan B pill or terminate fact is most blacks are pro-life hate abortion but hate kids, too, funny how that is but the males don't take care of the unplanned for kids (most) leaving the females custodial parent.

True

Good luck with that ???

Not true! Stop using your experiences as a basis for a whole race! White men as a collective are failures boo! They have raped and ravaged entire nations, created systematic racism and shoot up schools and churches

Stats .... boo read your original comment then YOU come back! Your clearly deflecting

Black men been doing that! Wow have you taken an African or black studies class ? Maybe read a book! Start with “from slavery to freedom” black men been doing all that! Whether they get credit is another thing!

Andre Harrell said he chased her for like 3 years to no avail before she let her guard down. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/688c346230fc87f7c6d44d3b135a2610a90856d06338365e1fa54a591d0c7366.jpg

His children seem well adapted

Why do you need a marriage certificate to validate your social status? Why can’t we stand on our own self worth and value. When we are doing it right it speaks for itself. Words aren’t needed. Oprah- need I say more?

A name is one thing but what about culture? Men carry the name and women carry the culture. The fact is these children are being raised differently because they have different mothers. That is not a family unit. I will not argue about this.

Black dysfunction and poverty ain’t it chief.

I still see the dysfunction of my people. I’m tired of seeing where black people are headed which is no where.

HIV? Girrrll I’m dropping knowledge and you missing the jewels. Bottom line is monagamy would fix 85% of the Black community. What if at 18 men and women were married virgins and were under a contract to stay married unless violence etc? We would have functional homes again.

Ok and you still fail to mention male responsibility, sis. Men have to get it together. If a male is sticking his raw peen in the vagina that is a PLANNED PREGNANCY he WANTS TO GET HER PREG. What a lot of people don't like to admit is some males get women preg on purpose, not to create a child out of love but to hold her down, halt them, have a connection to her or for her resources. Or just make her suffer cause he's a punk getting a nut.

Its common for college black girls to get knocked up by their jealous, left behind boyfriends If black males could be honest they'd admit, many knock chicks up on purpose with an evil intent, but black women get the brunt of the birth control and out of wedlock diss.

Lastly BP need to just stop being hypocrites about pregnancy termination if you can't feed a baby don't make a baby Michael Jackson told ya that 30 years ago

It sure isn’t but it isn’t as bad as you make it! Have you looked at other countries?? Black Americans don’t have the poverty and dysfunction as countries like Yemen, Countries in Central America and others....

I agreed with you and fully understood. Someone targeted me for making a similar observation. To me it’s common sense, there will be an adjustment for a 50 year old man who has never lived with or taken care of his own children full time. He is dependent on and took for granted the mothers living forever. His freedom to live as a bachelor is based on strong custodial mothers. I also think his getting back with Cassie is predictable as he is weighing his options for a stepmom. His whole world is upside down with two minor children to raise. It will not look good for his public image if a 50 year old man’s mother primarily raises his girls.

Thank you.

It’s not right how he treated Kim Porter.

Taking care of her financially does not cancel out his wrong.

But it’s better than being wronged and on the street.

Exactly.

???????????????

Not a dam thing?

Very possible, are was in somebody way
Are someone wanted to hurt Diddy. We will never know but the possibilities are wide. And none of us know if one of his men friends is out to get him. Back in the day Diddy did many
People in who was on his Label.

Many of them sure are sc rewed all the way up, and many of them goes both ways, and it has been said that he was ghey.

ff2018: Claiming one who is not even HIS biologically.

No that just proves that Al B Sure is a POS babymaker.

I am sure his son despises him.

Tell it, aint' that the truth. This man Clive Davis???
This ciiiiit is very suspect, and scary as all get out!!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sQESdDbolWQ

Tell it Whirl just go on and tell It. And many women are weak, and many are strong.

Both is the magic word, and real word.

Why does the write up start out good but ends up with some crazy type of mess??

Because they can probably make more money being a celebrity/celebrity's kid than they ever could with a degree.

Yeh he's gonna have to man up and do the right thing, be the custodial parent. You're right he's the father it'll be bad for his image if he doesn't raise his girls. He's 50 time to grow up and ditch the party hearty molly poly lifestyle.

It seems difficult for some to grasp the concept that many women are no longer seeking validation or a social standing via a marriage certificate. Black women are so focused into pouring our time into everyone else that many can’t even name their favorite things anymore yet can tell you the favorite thing of everyone else’s load they are carrying. Get married/Don’t get married just live your truth without giving others permission to project their truth upon any one individual.

Damn! Harsh but true.

Naw this thread is ENLIGHTENING! we're talking about a closeted topic: what happens to black out of wedlock minor kids when mama passes on!!

Dats called LIP SERVICE. If she was his black queen his black azz would have married her plain and simple.

Seems like a very complex situation with a lot of moving parts, I hope everyone involved and affected gets what they need and deserve. I don’t think anything is wrong with healthy debate. Happy Monday Rose Garden, I am off for the entire week.

Yea I read this the other day too... I do believe that Kim was ALWAYS there for Diddy The Dog no matter what or who he is with... I believe she STILL could've been sleeping with him until her death too.... She was just that type of woman for him...

I hear you, marriage is good, but not all marriages work out. I am for marriage, but if not marriage show some dam respect for your baby mama's, that you bump off and on all the time, and tell each of them you love them, when you don't have a %&&*^ clue what Love really is. Love don't always last either. I am for Marriage, and marriage is best in the eyes of God, and family. But something is wrong with the picture if you are always ready to bed hop, but not go the alter with three are more baby mamas and got children by these women.
PS
Diddy is a tree jumper, and want to be a player to both women and men that is why he has never said I do, let him explain that to his daughters , and son's. And I too am proud , and happy that Granny, grampa are married!!!

If Cassie wasn't there I'd side eye it.

lmao

ME TOO.

We keep loosing people to drugs, she needed intensive rehab and therapy, long term. The children will suffer deeply because she never got the help she truly needed.She tried Holistic cleansing ,and natural therapy. The entertainment world is so vain and shallow, every one just ignored it, didnt want to speak on it, just like right now.

https://www.ibtimes.com/kim-porter-cocaine-use-nanny-dawn-grago-accuses-pdiddys-ex-girlfriend-exposing-daughters-drugs.

04/11/2013.
"Kim Porter, an ex-girlfriend of rap mogul P.Diddy, is being accused of using drugs around their twin daughters.

Porter’s former nanny Dawn Drago worked for her from 2011 to 2012. TMZ obtained a copy of the lawsuit filed by Drago, which also states that twins Jessie and D’ Lilah, who are 6-years-old, were covered in ‘white powder’ once when she drove them to school.

Jessie and D’Lilah got into "a bag containing the powder, along with clear capsules, filled with another powdery substance in a bag in the back seat."

Porter later claimed it was medicine when she was confronted by the nanny, who also says that she found cocaine in the house. "

OK, so just go marry a white man and be happy. You don't need to be downing black men.

I think that Diddy didn't wife up Kim Porter was simply bcuz she was brown skinned and the industry pressured him into having a light skinned woman on his arm which is why he kept Cassie around. Hollywood is making sure all the black men in entertainment end up with white or light skin women. In an interview Dawn said that when they were in the group Dirty Money, Jimmy Iovine and the record label asked Diddy why he didn't have light skin girls in his group and basically called them black and ugly to their damn face. So color I believe had a lot to do with the fact he never ended up with Kim.

This ish right here. Woo Chile. ALl the way outta da closet. Get Likka in this Nikka and he is ALL out front street. He had ninjas in their mad nervous sahn. HAHAH!

Yea... I also was thinking of drugs because a lot of the pics I've been seeing of her lately looks like she could've been on something... Plus it takes drugs to deal with all of Diddy Dogs arrogance... narcissism... and doggish ways with a smile on your face for years and years... I knew with all that she put up with she had to be on something... Smdh

I've watched about two or three documentaries on him. Not sure how so many were easily misled.

lolol wellllll.... she never moved on like misa and sarah. hell, i don't see sarah with no dude either.

It doesn't matter. Money isn't everything about being a parent/father.
That's such a shallow definition of parenthood.

Plenty aren't as well.

Love cant be had between step and half sibs? Yall a trip

As women we want so desperately to believe it when a guy[notice I didn't say men] says, "I LOVE YOU".
It's about time we accepted the fact that guys will lie repeatedly to get s3x. He can look you d3ad in the eyes too!

If it's s3x you both want then at least be honest about your intentions. No crying when you get pregnant, you get herps and he leaves. It was in the fine print of the contract...in invisible ink.

Ladies, I think we may have to be more cautious, think hard and then only release our emotions After he has had a chance to earn them.
He is not in a relationship with you if you don't have a ring and a wedding date set.
P.S. Keep in mind that I also know a guy who cheated on his wedding day.

So now he is responsible for another man walking away? Which is more important. A dad walking away or a man stepping up bc another man didnt. Stop making it about anything other than the kid. Y'all so bitter, and yes men can be bitter...yall are consumed by other folks faults vs the joys the second person holds

lol

LOL

i definitely have soul ties with my 2 best friends. we sooooo connected in so many ways it's unreal. my wife is my soulmate in that she provides the perfect balance to who i am as a person. literally the calm to my raging seas. soul ties comes in many diff forms so i'm glad you mentioned that

Yes I noticed that...

THAT'S ALL???? trump is so bad overall that nobody cares about an outside baby. plus i guess everybody knows that melania hates him so it's not going to devastate the family.

And that person is blocked .... toxic ,......

I think people are much more aware, than they were back then.

Yes he sure did, and with many of these entertainers, there's somebody who know exactly what is going on.

WOW! I never heard this story...

But many many do and it’s a choice. MANY successful people did it go to college. Instead of student loans they chose business and home loans and are self sufficient

You just refuse to understand. Stop being emotional. This isn’t about love. This about order structure bloodline and legacy, something black people can’t grasp.

Broke azz ninjas do that too..so?

Its a narrow minded ideology and let them have that.

ALL OF THEE ABOVE.

WHICH is why African American culture needs to change.

The reason I didn’t mention the mans responsibility is because at the end of the day, a woman’s only options if the man chooses to be an absentee parent is:
? raise the kid in your own
? beg/petition the child for child support
Unfortunately, we can’t MAKE A make be a active parent, especially in a relationship with no commitment. With all due respect Malcom, fucc shifting blame. We women must Step up to the plate and love our womb enough to not let these males make OUR EGGS into a statistic. A nicca can’t make us open our legs - we chose to.
Not absolving the males at all, just challenging the women to care more about ourselves than a ?
?????

Its was made quiet and burried really quickly. Remember no one knew Micheal Jackson was abusing all types of medications, even though he had several public incidents, the same with Prince. Having a private doctor with no affilation to any hospital a" celeb doctor" that comes to your home and travels with you helps keep your secrets "SECRET".

I certainly understand. I am one of them. Just wondering if that was her position because Puffy publicly voiced his thoughts on marriage.

That is a mean remark.

Why are people so Offended by the question I asked? Isn't that a normal question?

Thanks. I was curious about her business lol. Someone else replied she married Al B Sure!

thanks for the reference.

Well whom would you suggest she married? Which baby daddy? Or a same sex partner? You dont know enough about her personal life to ask that. Of course you can. This lady is gone. Some women after divorce or a relationship doesnt work out opt to co parent for life. Marriage is not that important as lomg as they are happy.

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when these type of driven professional females adopt kids they spend little time with them because of their work demands

Huuuh *clutches pearls* i thought we were buddies? But ok then since were there same goes to you !

My question wasn't angled by my opinion on marriage. But your response is. I asked because I was curious if she just wasn't interested in marriage (as I am not also). See how your misinterpretation and offensive nature to the ideal of marriage led to your response? That's why I asked you why is the term or conversation about marriage so offensive to you? I didn't approach the question in a manner of what I thought about marriage one way or another. Besides aren't we on a blog? Isn't this a topic on Kim and Puff and Cassie? That's why I asked about her interest in marriage.

I saw the news when it happened. I'll never forget the news video footage of the deceased babies. ?

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