Sean ‘Puffy’ Combs Mourns Loss of ‘Best Friend’ Kim Porter – a Day After He Was Spotted Out with Girlfriend Cassie, Who Was Disliked by Kim

This is the dumbest post ever

Not doing this today .... You guys have a good one!!! ...... Puffy do the best you can with those children .... I know you love them ..... Ya'll have a good one .... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/42a9d3335215d25e2e38d2675ee8ea041306d174d04056715b140c58374d1175.gif

Well, this is what happens when people "assign" someone to a person. Diddy was not Kim Porter's husband. He was the father of her children. I saw more "condolences" to HIM than I did to her family and her CHILDREN. Every article I read said, "Diddy's ex, Kim Porter Found Dead" as if this woman wasn't someone's mother, daughter, sister and friend.
In DEATH, she's relegated to "Diddy's"... meanwhile, Diddy has been playing the break-up game with Cassie for 10 years. Y'ALL decided that she was Diddy's and then, when he didn't come outside and hold a press conference crying and acting like a HUSBAND should, y'all mad.
She had a lot of $hit going on and to live as Diddy's baby mama and die as Diddy's baby mama I'm SURE is not something she wanted her legacy to be. Damn, you live your whole life trying to be somebody and, even in death, you're just a baby mama.
Diddy is expected to not go out with his girlfriend because his ex passed away? It's possible to be sad about that and still live HIS life. Had Diddy passed, I'm sure she wasn't going to not be with the man she was in a relationship with in order to make other folk feel better.

This is starting to make me ill now...
Errrybody loved Kim so much now that she's dead. Where was all that love when she was alive??
Al? Diddy? She needed you then, not now.

Here we go with the mess!!!
R.I.P to Ms Porter I'm not even gonna entertain the post.

yeah, like, what else is there to say. we'll never know the true nature of Kim and Sean's relationship (and why do we NEED to know). let this woman rest. let that dude mourn and get on with making a life for his children, smh.

Some very valid points.

@Carrington: thank you for bringing clarity to the table!

I'm out of this post! Ugh!

So he goes from love of his life, soulmate to best friend - um-m-m Cassie's home.

I mean, isn't there anything interesting going on in the world of black celebrity?? damn.. Let's get a Rihanna post.- something! anything!

Why the shade about Cassie not liking her??? smh messy just messy

I read in Kimora’s tribute post that Kim’s Homegoing service was yesterday?

It's about the kids.

Everyone mourns in their own way. Let the family have some time and space. Are we surprised Cassie is here? No! She's been with the man so obviously she will be there in his time of need. This is obvious.

you know I was thinking about that too....like why have we not heard about RiRi in a hot minute......

seems like folks are forgetting that...smdh....my heart goes out to them babies....

I'm just amazed at how well known she was. Like she seemed to be a good friend of everybody. It's amazing to see so many speak highly of her and who she was to them. That's love!

Actually, she did wish Kim Happy Birthday. On Kim's IG page.

Let Kim Rest In Peace and her children needs comfort and healing right now. All of these messy story titles and comments in regards to Kim, Diddy, and Cassie are getting out of hand. It really shows what social media has come to which is sad. We definitely show the definition of divide and conquer and being creators of conspiracy theories. Only Kim, Diddy, Cassie, and God know the truth.

Exactly. It is so sad with the mess and foolery with some people. Some people act like they with these people. Only the people involved and God know the truth of everything. Her kids should be the top priority right now.

Thank you, thank you. You spoke the truth. The people who don’t know them personally have so much to say and have their conspiracy theories.

Sandra can be shady at times but she nailed this one this **** aint never loved nobody but Puff , he knows how the industry works but the real Puff left this earth a long time ago , I had a friend who actually met him and he said their is no firer in this man his soul is gone . everything is a ritual with these niggars you didn't even speak out there for 3 days , So nothing suprises me about this Vampire .....Rest In Power Goddess another Mother who sacrificed herself for these **** Ass **** , Not Me I am judging all these Rotten ass Imposters ..I am a self preservator everybody gone get it ...

Kim was so beautiful in that pic with Dallas

We don’t know if Kim forgave them and they were on good terms or not before she died. Diddy and Al B Sure are not the first men who has done females wrong and they will not be the last. The focus should be on her kids not her past failed relationships. We cannot tell people how to grieve and what they should have done when someone was alive.

Seriously... Diddy and Kim were NOT together and hadn't been together for YEARS... It has been obvious though thru those years that he indeed LOVES her... and as grown ups, we all know that you can love someone and be there for someone and the relationship not work... and everyone is acting like Cassie and Diddy have been "creepin" behind Kim's back... and that CLEARLY wasn't the truth... Please please please let Kim and her family have some peace... and it shouldn't matter if Diddy and Cassie are seen together or not, they have been "SEEN" together and in a relationship for YEARS... and everyone needs all the love and support they can get in their trying times and I am sure that the love Cassie and Diddy have for each other is real too, and he probably needs her now too... and that doesn't mean he can't mourn Kim and express his love for her too... everyone knew he loved her and was there for her... Stop the madness...

You are so right. If he didn’t say something some people would have something to say. Most of the people commenting don’t know them personally but they are trying to give biographies of Kim, Diddy, and Cassie lives. It is ridiculous.

I agree with you. And, I don’t blame them at all for not reading the blogs and responding. The negativity and conspiracy theories are shocking and outrageous.

Even if that was the case, it shouldn’t have been in the title. Some things are better left unsaid.

It sure does which is sad. Some things should be left unsaid. It is disappointing.

Of course we're concerned about her children and family. I said that several posts ago.
Yet nothing changes the facts that her babies' fathers could have treated her better than they did.

Actually, she was quite a lady about it all because she could have been out there blasting them. To my knowledge, she never did.

These bums are killing me with the long overdo posts; should have recognized the queen when she was alive. Poor think died of a broken heart. RIP

If she didn’t blast them so what’s the need for anyone else to blast them. We should be following her example and setting the standard. We don’t know if her relationships with her children’s fathers got better over the years only Kim and them are aware of this. No one is perfect and we all have made mistakes and I’m sure if we look over our lives there are some things we could have done differently or better.

You are so right. We should all be grateful that we have another day of life and another chance to get things right. I am hoping people are keeping her twins in good spirits this is going to be a journey for them. Have a good day and a great week

?????I Agree with everything you said. We should all be grateful.

And 1 more thing... I am GLAD that he didn't post anything until 3 days later (or however many days)... EITHER DID HER KIDS...……………. they were probably somewhere MOURNING and not giving 2 F's about INSTAGRAM POSTS.... SERIOUSLY people... this was a sudden an unexpected death... the last thing I would be thinking about is what my Instagram followers THINK or posting a "tribute"... GTFOH!!!!!!!!!

You told no lies!
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Stop wondering about cassie's uterus go check out Kim's IG page its filled with positivity...

YES YES YES!!!

Time to move on. New post!

She blasted Puff and let Quincy blast Al. I'm not sure how folks missed all of that and now she is gone it was it never happened or IDR... in order to paint her as this silent doormat.

I enjoyed the pics of all 3 of them have of each other kids. Misa daughter and other son were all in the mix. Kim was down for ALL of the kids. All 3 moms are. Sarah posts all the kids. Misa posts the boys mostly but all the kids. It's beautiful

Grief doesn't really begin until that moment they are lowered into the grown. My god its like something you never felt before all at one time.

Worst part about dying is leaving your babies in the hands of people you disliked or did not trust. I hope this man and the people he surrounds himself with treat his daughters better than he treats women in general so time will tell.

Been saying this and got trolled for it. He is reconnecting with Cassie because his girls will need a stepmother. Men are instinctively pragmatic creatures. It is nature to provide for his children. He will naturally make sure they have a mother figure.

What's wrong with Cassie being by his side? Absolutely nothing, that was h/is girl for years, why is this even a issue? Idk. Diddy and Kim had their own special type of relationship. How do we know he didn't honor her in life? Oooh b/c he didn't post pic's of her everyday. People have to realize that celebrities are people that live their life in the public, THEY DON'T HAVE TO SHARE EVERYTHING WITH US??

True. No such thing as a perfect relationship because there are no perfect people. Yet the ability to gain Wisdom is so we don't make the same mistakes over & over. We can learn that it's not ok for a guy to impregnate you and lie & cheat as long as they are paying your bills. As I said earlier, if the definition or standard for love is constantly lying to me...I don't want it.

"keepin' it real" has its consequences, lol

She was really pretty in that prom pic..

https://www.instagram.com/p/BqVuPbiDoiZ/?hl=en

was she ever married?

Exactly.

I thought either Cassie as a stepmom or Sara raising the three girls together because they are so close. The boys are all of adult age and on their own.

The lord works in mysterious ways. Kim’s girls in her passing will have what she wanted them to have in her life. A two parent home but with Puffy and Cassie. I imagine this kind of situation hurts. It’s similar to how after Princess Diana’s death, Charles married Camilla and the boys did grow up in a two parent home.

Puffy is 50 now and for whatever reason he likes Cassie the most to build a life with. I don’t care one bit for how he treated Kim. But I will undetand him marrying Cassie and their raising Kim’s twins together and give them that stability. It will be hard for many to accept but it’s the right thing to do.

P.S. I think Cassie looks like a combination of qualities from Misa, Kim, and Sara.

It was a homegoing PARTY at Diddy's house....

Puffy controlled Kim because obviously that's what she wanted and that's what she allowed. This woman wouldn't even move on with her life. She died alone because she wanted to. She knew that Sean would NEVER commit to her....so she just took from him what she could. He honored her...as she saw fit. This lady could have really branched out and did some things....sadly all she chose was to ever run behind Puffy and be a "baby mama" amongst others. Black love huh? That's the problem with the black community. No marriages, no foundations...just baby mamas, baby daddies, and a lot of misguided children in the process.

It's a two way street for sure but one day his daughters may be in a position to choose mistreatment and he will not not be happy with it. It's like Jayz calling women hoes until his daughter was born and he said he wouldn't stand for someone calling her that. That was my point.

BINGO!!!

how?

A sweet observation. Kim and Sara are the girly girls and Misa although very beautiful and ultra feminine was the one the boys could talk to. It just seems like that and it’s beautuful.

Read about it. Men were threatened and confronted. This was one of those situations that do happen. A man has that one woman he won’t commit to but won’t let move on and won’t let another man get close. Add money and power to the mix, he controlled her whether she wanted to or not.

I think at some point Kim gave up the fight to be free. She adapted to having her own space, a luxury lifestyle, and having him as a lover because they definitely remained intimate and definitely with Cassie’s knowledge.

Misa fought for freedom and right to move on and it was not easy rejecting Puffy as she spoke on it in an interview.

That's a reach, there is nothing that indicates Cassie's role in these girls lives will be extended. Grandma's moving to LA until the girls finish school and Cassie will continue to be what she has always been.

Exactly! Men don’t play. They FIND a stepmom to help keep that house and raise those kids.

Umm what? Re-read what you wrote because you ARE disagreeing with me on something that you can"t say or know, UNLESS you know every person that has dealt with grief? lol

Diddy's azz just feels guilty, due to all the whoring he did.

U so rite

I definitely see your point. His girls are going to have hell. A lot of things that you do in your lifetime can come back on your children. People forget that.

It amazes me how some people in the comments have created an entire narrative of Kim and Puff's relationship. No one person is ever at fault in any breakup. Trust me, Kim was no victim and I'm positive she wouldn't want to be remembered as such. Her death however is tragic and I do believe it's wonderful her life is being portrayed in such a positive and uplifting light. It's imperative her kids are left with that memory and I believe Puff, her family and friends will make sure that happens.

AGREED!

This is big time karma coming back full circle on him.

PERHAPS.

Kim loved Diddy more than she loved herself. Self love first. Her mental state was probably so burdened with, distrust, lies, betrayal, and all of Diddy's dirty deeds. He's more upset that he is no longer in control of her life. As*****.

Boy Bobby and Whitney looking rufffff in that pic...

I was thinking this right when you posted it. I HATE HATE HATE that just because someone doesn’t mourn the way you mourn or act the way you THINK they should act in the face of tragedy means they aren’t hurting, or sad or grieving.

I didn’t cry at the hospital when my husband passed, but no one knows that I literally cried myself to sleep every night for 3 months, and that I still cry for him, and he’s been gone almost 6 years, and that I still see the grief counselor from time to time. And I only ever made one post on social media - a whole year later.

Let people be - DAYUM!

i wish people that dogged, disrespected, hurt, stepped on, used, and abused people just shut the hell up when they pass away. everybody in the world knows he didnt give a damn about that woman. i cannot stand liars. seems at this point, hes only trying to put a spotlight on himself and make this about himself.

LOL... I wasn't ready... focus mannnn focus LOLOL

Her sons Christmas movie on NetFlix is pretty good.

I thought it was cute. I liked it

Yes RIP Kim.

He is a good actor. The girl who plays Alex on Star favors Kim. I've always thought that.

With all due respect, marriage is not the end all be all. Nor does it define the value of a woman. With or without marriage, ive only seen positive memories from all that knew her. She blessed the earth with 4 beautiful humans and made an impact on so many ppl. Marriage doesn not change, lessen, nor improve any of these things. My goodness! Rest in peace beautiful QUEEN @ladykp. May God bless your loved ones during this difficult time.

On his IG, Al B. Sure posted a pic of himself with Kim, and Quincy and Ryan Destiny (Alex from Star), and he captioned it “Art imitating life.” He and Quincy are twins for sure, and you are correct that Ryan favors Kim.

Diddy(whom I partied with) & Kim made a BEAUTIFUL couple. Then produced some GOOD LOOKING CHOCOLATE OFFSPRING'S.

I got judged every which way from Sunday because they didn’t see me fall apart. Chile...people are a trip. ?

That notion is irking. Like the immediate speculation that Dallas Austin was lying about Drumline was about her. Found proof where he had said that YEARS ago.

Sorry. KP was the biggest hip hop muse EVER.

Did you ever party with Diddy and J-Lo?

She needs to learn when to just stay quiet.

I still see her as being materialitic. She wanted to step into the role of first lady. She was misa friend when she got with puff.

Its obvious he didnt think she was good enough. If she was more ambitious he wouldve married her. He was ready to marry jlo. Kim seemed to be waiting on him.

Would you want your children raised by the sidechick? Let me tell you, it's very dangerous. Have you ever heard of the term step monster. They are real!

I agree--Marriage is not everything. Hell, marriage ain't all it's believed or cracked up to be.

Sign,
A divorcer who wasn't with the SH!TS

Incorrect. Never married.

I seen it, that movie was straight garbage and hard to watch

He's not the legal next of kin, how did he get to make those executive decisions.

I pray that each new day you are strengthened and encouraged. Bless you.

Kim Porter was biracial that's why her light skinned son took after the light skin of the father; and the dark skinned children took after the father. Kim's genetics are 50/50 the greater in each child won.

WHY do yall fonts think you're schooling me? Go make your own comment thread. KIM PRESENTED AS BLACK.

I think they had some type of arrangement and I dont think Kim wanted to marry him which is y he has never married Cassie; I think he was waiting for Kim to come back around. Either way that video was beautiful and genuine...RIP Kim ??

If you don't want people to comment to you or in response to you, YOU CAN STOP POSTING, GET YOUR OWN SITE AND WRITE AS YOU WISH, IGNORE COMMENTS, BLOCK COMMENTERS, SIT IN YOUR BASEMENT BY YOURSELF AND BE HAPPY.

Men who look at women as property will never commit to one woman!! They consider women to not be their equal!

The fact that he constantly wears shades speaks volumes to me. I don't trust people that wear shades indoors. O'l shifty eyed selves. And take them off outdoors if you want me to engage in conversation with you. If you have nothing to hide, let me see them eyes so I can feel the vibration of what's going on behind them windows.

"I still remember the days when people still found kind things to say about the dearly departed, whether they knew them well or not, whether they were friends or enemies."

I don't share that experience. I remember the days when people would call each other and gossip on the phone about the departed, good or bad. THEN, they'd go to the funeral, and after it was over, go home and make some more calls to gossip, but this time about the funeral, people at the funeral, and how the deceased looked in the coffin, good or bad.

She’s gorgeous both ways. But has anyone notices her skin color from her youth until now is a huge difference from caramel to chocolate? I wonder if something has been wrong. She was clearly caramel light as a child. How did she get chocolate?

I honestly think Sean Combs is just disrespectful! There are so many ways you can put your words that are tasteful that wouldn’t be disrespectful to your current relationship. BUT.. I guess he’s never really gave af about Cassie’s feelings because he knows she’ll always be there. ?????

Yep...I see that

I found that whole chain of fools funny AF Puffy moping after a hispanic who rejected him and the hispanic chick moping over the white male who dissed her. Her people didn't want her having black/mixed kids. Ben's people didn't want him having hispanic mixed kids.

This post is so messy! He has been with Cassie for over 9 years! Of course he is gonna be consoled by close friends and family including his ex!!

Kim didn’t want to be with him after he cheated on her the third and forth time. She mentions she left him in an interview and just wanted to coparent and be friends

Al b Sure did the same thing to her with her first son! So it was a cycle for her. She attracted these men for some reason

Why? She knew Kim and her kids. Why wouldn’t she ?????

Agreed people are putting so much emphasis on marriage when there are people who coparent better than married couples

Thank you!!

Man please, phuck diddy. We know he will "live his life" he's being doing that for a while now while everybody else falls, his demonic azz still stands

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Cassie already knows these kids and I'm sure she knows how to treat them. Diddy would've been dropped her if she treated his kids wrong.

She is not

Fab that N?ggàh

This sins of the father rains on the children's heads

I caught that too I noticed nobody posted until AFTER he did including Cassie. Also he posted pictures of the pictures are her memorial and it was picture of her but also pictures of him and her I was like damn why is pictures of him and her up like they were married and like it’s his memorial she’s the one that died puff always came off as wanting to be the center of attention and self absorb ppl like that do stuff and don’t even know how selfish they being the memorial wasn’t about him or their relationship it was about HER and her life ?????

Soon as I saw the pic I said Bobby look high as a kite!!

You are right. She knew herself how he was but continued to let him misuse her.

I am pretty sure Kimora would have know.

Cassie dumped him. And Cassie clearly knew her place he created 3 kids with 2 women, while they were together.

I have never watched an episode of Stars. My co-workers say its really good.

And that first pic is clearly photoshopped. ?????

saw a picture of her mom holding her and the mom does look almost white or was white hard to tell really. and she was very beautiful. maybe her dad was very dark skin

true that

Here is the ORIGINAL picture with the photographer's name on it.

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Well everyone, especially every man Kim was in a relationship with was posting a tribute online to her and all we heard from Diddy was how he was pleasantly surprised to hear from Casket. He could have easily redirected the reporters comment to state that he only wants to focus on Kim. When he saw everyone else online he had to show out. I can't wait for this Cinderella Funeral Procession. It's unnecessary but Diddy is the same dude who was in all his artists' videos. Naturally he'll be over the top so that he can take all the attention and credit.

And an eye exam is yours. At MOST that woman is of Tina Knowles variety. Furthermore, I was aware of Ms. Sandra Porter's appearance when I made my comment.

I really don't waste my time Internet fighting, so useless ! but I received an email where you made an attempt to come for me being smart about an obvious misunderstanding... First of all... I'm REFERRING to THE VERY PHOTOSHOPPED picture of Puffy and Cassie if you need me to be more specific! The photo of PUFF AND CASSIE!!! No one is talking about the pic with him and Kim... So fall back! Anyone with sense can see that it is altered because the original pic and video was already trending with them getting in the car.... Again??, #SHAMEFUL... RIP Kim P. Happy ? holidays...

I was responding to the OP who wrote: "And that first pic is clearly photoshopped."

The first pic is of Kim and Sean. So you're all indignant over the wrong pic.

Yessss!!! Omg! You are so right! And him dancing and all in the artists videos is the same thing that came to mind when he got to carrying on I said he bout to make this all about him

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