Yandy Smith was suffered a severe panic attack while sitting on a plane before visiting her soulmate Mendeecees Harris in prison.
Mendeecees, 40, was sentenced to 8 years in prison on Dec. 1, 2015 for operating a drug trafficking ring.
The Love & Hip Hop NY star sent Yandy a touching message of support to calm her nerves after she messaged him saying was suffering high anxiety on a plane that just landed on the tarmac.
“Please pray for me. Having a lot of anxiety and feeling very overwhelmed,” she wrote to Mendeecees on Thursday. “Please go in your war room for me. Please. Feel like I cant [sic] do it all. It’s too much.”
Mendeecees messaged her back, telling Yandy that she was “strong and competent, beautiful, smart… u are our kids hero and also mines and a lot of people look up to u.”
He added:
“You are very inspiring… u embodied the definition of a strong black women.. u give the young and older women hope, when they looking at u.. u are powerful in so many ways worlds can’t describe.”
Yandy also received encouragement from her many followers on Instagram.
Take a deep breath, Yandy, and if things get too overwhelming, please seek professional help. We’re praying for you!
Update: Yandy got off the plane and made it inside the prison where she received hugs and encouragement from the inmates.
Is anything private anymore?
That has to be the worse picture and angle on Yandy… She looks awful ?
She’ll be ah’ight!
Wait inmates can text? I’m confused. LOL But on another note, I thought he was out? Thought I saw him on a recent episode of LHHNY…. maybe that was a while ago.
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SR ALWAYS finds the worse pics she can find of someone.
BTW I hope Yandy was the one that made her brother Juelz Santana get some new teeth…
Oh please, I bet the cameras was there. Phony.
Didn’t he get like 6 years? They have cellphones and flat screen tv in jail hun
Inmates have taken over dating apps. They have phones and email.
No shade. The photo was meant to convey her current mental health crisis.
and that it does
Who cares about their hood, ghetto, drug trafficking love. He is almost in year 4. I know what ManFeces getting for Christmas. A big of dacks. From his fellow inmates.
You cant help if she looks like a green eyed Muppet.
Of course he had encouraging words…..inmates ALWAYS have encouraging words. Don’t no man “love” you like one behind the wall.
This one is better https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/acd369b15e0063c9d2b867c4e221b3d3d20c85f78f043cb80aa8662a831df4bb.jpg
I remember when rah Ali said mandecces had a tiny?
Can we show some empathy for Yandy?
Where the dack???
I can’t with her, she talked about being “educated” and had not one but two kids by this loser? Then she whined about never wanting to be a single parent, yes dummy you did and you staged a fake wedding for cash! Mona should be ashamed.
She does look like a dolphin though.
Thank you because when he was out he sure talked to her like a dog!
Such a narcissistic person drama queen. You already know and benefits from his drugs money. Add more exposure by letting him come on Love and Hip Hop New York. I didn’t know what you was trying to do but that was a dumb move. A plus Mendeccee got some beautiful chocolate ? babies. They are more beautiful thank these mix children we tend to praise. Please don’t tell me all of them are beautiful lol ?. Also the fake wedding for TV ? you know dam well you cannot married because of restitution payment at least you are smart
My heart goes out to her and all of the black women who are nothing but “MULES” for our community!! Working yourself to death because the bm will not!
Tell all of the bm to have empathy for her
i’m not gonna clown this girl because i think i would feel overwhelmed too. too bad she got herself entangled with this dude in the first place. (i will say this though…. pay attention Yandy girl; maybe God tryna tell you something!) https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5a16feb7886870b58e876a7ffc6b264e7419e743bb55ec579123b82d4a427799.gif
wasn’t ready….. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/615d380290005c75f2b73b61063d678adb00cb683258e4273a2f5c12b8d5723d.gif
say this! words are their lay away plan payments, Lol!
Auntie, this is not a good picture.
That made me laugh. I cant help it ??
Ninja please
She hit the jack pot on this one.
i am hollering! (…because i didn’t want to ask about the texting, but i
genuinely confused, but was gone act like i was down) .LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yes it is. At least that things eyes fits better with his complexion. I cant stand purple, grey, or blue contacts on dark skinned man or woman. I always think to myself, “do you know how ridiculous you look?”
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She knew what she was getting into.
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so the reality and regret of her decision is probably weighing heavily on her now. i’m not saying she’s not responsible for her predicament. she probably thought it wouldn’t happen to her. but, i do know what it’s like to make a bad choice and end up sitting somewhere looking stupid. be on the phone w/your mama tryna get her prayer group to go on a fast, ROFL!!!!!!!!!
Girl, nobody told you to get knocked up twice by a drug dealer and then MARRY him right before he does an 8 yr bid. Sorry not sorry. Fresh out of pity Chile.
oh the jailebirds ……. them jokers know how to write a good story to make you feel some kinda way …. Yandy bye !!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/42a9d3335215d25e2e38d2675ee8ea041306d174d04056715b140c58374d1175.gif
When they walk out that retractable fence wiff they brown paper bag, it’s ova!
Bye Coy!! Lmao ?
chile okay ….. Say it https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/a42bf6f397ae5de9d7fb4b0ba7a7c309d8753dd335f6857125b3d8256a9d9080.gif
Amen! I’m not gonna clown her either because i know if it wasn’t for the grace of god yandys situation cud be mine or someone i love. Idk where all these holier than thou ppl come from, but in my experience all it takes is a bit of naivete or longing for love to end up in these situations. I thank god everyday for getting me away from my habitual offender unphased !!
Cdfu….girrrrl yew love yo peeneses
You play way too much!!! ???????
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Yandy over there emailing herself and posting it. Nobody wants that jailbird.
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She aint married to that man. She basically had a “spiritual ceremony” There is no marriage license. Messiest part about she had a whole VH1 special about her fake wedding.
girl! my home girl had got with one, smh.
this nicca hustle game was so strong, he had time (and the nerve) to write to ME! letter full of Biblical quotes…. ‘we’ve all sinned and come short’ …..’judge not’ …..’God is love’ ….. KNEEGROW PLEEEZE!
I never even replied to that manipulation manuscript, LOL!!!!
Chiiile she look like young Brandi Norwood
Girl u know its true…
* milli vanilli voice
They didn’t really marry, lol.
Yea let’s do that she human too
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Wayment, Yandy put somebody in jail?
I thought she ended up filing the paperwork after people called her out. Like the following season. I’m not sure bc I don’t watch it
U remember how Yandy and Kimbella dumb azz was about to fight mendesses assistant??? Only bc the asst asked mendesses if he was ok? Yandy then fires the girl. She should have let the girl have him
I know exactly how she feels, anxiety is no joke, hope all is well Yandy!
you got knocked up twice by a convict?
LOL! What are you talking about? I said she was sending those emails to herself and pretending they were from him. Where you get that from? You tired boo?
you been deliverT?!
chile me too… won’t He do it! LOL!!!!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/811229b3cca99363f71fa3dcf661c8f53d4ea20860a14248ed0f3b4c5e823bdd.gif
Nope. I watch every ratchet piece of LHH insert city. She still aint married but she surely sports that ring like she is. Yandy is a whole mess her and her jail bird fiance
PTSD
ANXIETY DISORDERS period are NOT fun.
Lol she was stuck at an airline
“Holier than though people”? Many women don’t F with offenders, ESPECIALLY pharmaceutical offenders making deals with the Feds. Knowing this she still got pregnant AGAIN! SMH we’re not holier than though, most of us just have morals and standards.
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Yes, I’m tired of dis snow. I’m lost today. I forgot about Yandy and I don’t who she is talking about.
IM DONE ?
the people have decided…. they said NERP.
LOL!!!!
rofl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I would send you some warm air, but it’s only 55 here today so I can’t even help you!
Sandra know damn well …… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/78a2f23faf5ea1380b7a1c2f230a4c273347e4e64d700202d3e69fd17700506a.gif
You just realizing that Yan?
And why you chose that picture auntie ??
That plane would b landing on a beach had it been me.
EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.
SOME OF YOU STINK OF ANGER AND SELF HATRED. She married a drug dealer. An EX drug dealer and she can not have anxiety? Ya sound foolish.
Y’all really in here acting like she didn’t get pregnant once knowing he was a drug dealer. And not a small time dealer…a whole trafficker. Then get pregnant again, in the midst of a whole criminal case were he was accused of sleeping with a teenager. To finally fake marry him after he gets convicted and sentenced to 8 yrs. All the while maintaining this self righteous, holier than thou, elitist (bc she’s educated) attitude. He’s not a political prisoner, hes not unjustly incarcerated. She CHOSE this life….and she will deal. Or get abfake damn divorce bc it’s not that dam serious.
I’m wrapped up and had some coffee but the coffee didn’t help. Thanks, I just want to be in the sun. I can’t do cold. I went to go buy me some vitamin D tablets.
Is she? …. oh …… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c1425c997ed3319b16098cad0d4bebaabde80cd22860d557863b4ff2c949aed9.gif
mm hmm… sure
preach!
https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/8da0bedc26c35965f0f676414814d376cee43dfb4747b077a8dcc194ee90108f.png …at that picture
where you at hun?!
it snowed in dc today; i aint get to work til 12pm, LOL!!!!!!!!!! (and i’m leaving before it gets dark at 5) https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5a16feb7886870b58e876a7ffc6b264e7419e743bb55ec579123b82d4a427799.gif
Misery, (MO). St. Lunatics (St. Louis)
Lol ?? PRAISE HIM !!!!! *speaking in tongues fhskrkggjrjdbdbd * ??????
LOL.
Admittedly 1 baby shud be enough to open ones eyes, but in general i stand by what i said
iont even know her story hun, i was only identifying with the regret i know she got to be feeling…. i got a low tolerance for negative consequences, so i try to keep it cute (and legal), LOL! i don’t deal with folk who don’t get a w-2 for their ‘work’ but i’ve still taken up with some characters who brought drama into my life, and i regretted it. it’s a horrible feeling to know that you “chose” to go down the wrong path… all i was saying.
I can see it being like 4 1/2-5 inches. I hope they weren’t fighting over a micropenis
okay!! you KNOW that man didn’t write that response!
i would have anxiety, bubble guts, and probably be ball-headed… i ain’t built for it. my nerves already bad. i don’t need them problems, LOL!
I’ll give him a cool 6 1/4 with 3in grith
I’m just saying if anyone is dealing with anxiety it’s Mandeces. Everytime his 5 foot self steps into the shower with his baby fine hair and shower water dripping down his slightly muscled body. Bet he’s A nervous wreck.
yall got snow that far south??? lawd…. i hope this doesn’t mean we’re in for a harsh winter. please Lord… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/40856033303d04950fead1121c6be6c0bd1dd252110cb05af14c38f525dcbbac.gif
Thats all the dack you gonna assign to him sis? Im yelling
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Pray for you, I’m Midwest.
those tongues though… ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nah foolish would be choosing to put myself in that situation…repeatedly. Self hatred would be not realizing that me and my children deserve better. I’m a happy, well adjusted, self loved individual.
P.S. He’s only an EX drug dealer bc he got caught and sentenced to prison.
Nah foolish would be choosing to put myself in that situation…repeatedly. Self hatred would be not realizing that me and my children deserve better. I’m a happy, well adjusted, self loved individual.
P.S. He’s only an EX drug dealer bc he got caught and sentenced to prison.
i swear i hate yall, LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i swear i hate yall, LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hollers!
Hollers!
Whew chile…the ghetto
Whew chile…the ghetto
You ain’t lying……My mom would be having stroke hissy fits if I dated a felon, jailbird and I’m grown.
You ain’t lying……My mom would be having stroke hissy fits if I dated a felon, jailbird and I’m grown.
“U are inspiring…..” to the the average hoodrat. I had to finish that for her smh
“U are inspiring…..” to the the average hoodrat. I had to finish that for her smh
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Not a fake divorce too?
Not a fake divorce too?
You know what you doing auntie ???
You know what you doing auntie ???
we’re not identifying with the cause, but the effect. there are a myriad of potential causes for anxiety. whatever may cause it, it is not a ‘good’ feeling. i empathize with her feeling anxiety in her particular situation because i have staggered at less serious challenges. (i worked myself into a frenzy a couple of week ago when my tire sensor light came on… turned out to be the drop in temperature. i was anticipating having to replace a couple of tires, but they rotated them, changed out a sensor in one tire, charged me a whole $3 and sent me on my way. why did i still end up sick that week????)
we’re not identifying with the cause, but the effect. there are a myriad of potential causes for anxiety. whatever may cause it, it is not a ‘good’ feeling. i empathize with her feeling anxiety in her particular situation because i have staggered at less serious challenges. (i worked myself into a frenzy a couple of week ago when my tire sensor light came on… turned out to be the drop in temperature. i was anticipating having to replace a couple of tires, but they rotated them, changed out a sensor in one tire, charged me a whole $3 and sent me on my way. why did i still end up sick that week????)
Who else kinda busted out laughing at that pic before reading the post?
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Who else kinda busted out laughing at that pic before reading the post?
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everybody…. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5406a067d89d1924f4f9967857b7ca15a701e44524df7514659efb170810c224.gif
everybody…. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5406a067d89d1924f4f9967857b7ca15a701e44524df7514659efb170810c224.gif
Yandy is definitely not my fave on the franchise but anxiety and panic attacks are no joke….I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
Yandy is definitely not my fave on the franchise but anxiety and panic attacks are no joke….I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
That’s her real eye color. Her baby boy has the same ones.
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Did she suffer a panic attack due to that improperly laid wig. She better hold her head before that wig slips too far back. I know Yandi girl, you got a lot on your mind LOL!
We don’t have any sun. It was in the 80’s last week.
WTF releases an intimate text message exchange to social media. Ugh! the thirst is really real
Why did she have a panic attack tho? What set it off? The plane had already landed, so it wasn’t that…what’s REALLY going on?
Can you read? I stated I can relate to the axiety!
Yeah, that’s how I feel too.
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80’s is good but I need some sun. I will look like Casper the friendly ghost.
My husband gets them….he’s on meds….
*snickers*
We had sun too. Just none this week. I need sun too. I’m pasty as they come. Makes no sense.
I wonder is she is at LEAST sleeping with other men while that fool is locked up.
I have a close family member who has them. I understand.
Ok……?
I want to visit my mother-in-law in Florida. I love the south and I miss being down there.
I did not know she was still around
I suffered a panic attack looking at that ish
The new season of LAHHNY starts in bout 2 weeks sooooo yeah……
Right!
I’m about 10 miles from the Florida line. We’re having a cold snap, but I’m hoping it passes soon. I don’t have time for this.
Wow I’ve never known someone to deal with this so didn’t realize how big of an issue this really can be.
Hold up am i that oblivious when i say i thought those are her eyes coz i i looked on her insta and her son has same colour????
What’s up with that wig sliding backwards? What happened to her hairline, I ain’t neva seen her hair look this bad! She look lost and spaced out!
Poor thing, I hope she’s doing well!
She looks terrible…uproot them demons girl…it will be aight…
Very socially debilitating. Hard to explain the feeling and sensations when they hit you, almost out of body like experience. Meds really help.
brats doll
LMMFAO!!
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Self hatred? She must not love HERSELF…she’s the one that married a dude knowing he was going to jail. Come on now.
Yes. Preferably Valium for me ?
Lmao ?!
So, was this “attack” filmed for a certain franchise show? And what’s going on in that first pic, that awful wig, that ugly lipstick, yikes ?
*weeps*
Sandra Lenora Bea Rose?!?! ? Not the d@mn “update” with photos?! ??????!!
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I’m floored.
This annoying bytch….
I feel your pain.
I don’t know what’s real with this phony woman. She’s always staging things.
LOL!!
She so fake. I’m over her… been over her when all his bum was on the show and on the reunion they basically called her and deeceess out on all their bs. They couldn’t come up with anymore lies because they were cornered.
Phony as a 3 dollar bill.
Yeah it’s New York’s time to air….manufactured crisis galore
Clonopin is on standby ?
This big coochie face mf…
Not 5ft ?
Yup
Lmao ??
Well damn ?
terrible
Bwahahahahahahaha!!!!
Bwahahahahahahaha!!!!
She look like how Brandy gonna look in a few years. ?
she is so unfortunate looking, the light eyes dont help her AT ALL !!! she prolly had a panic attack because shes not used to being there??? i heard she barely visits writes or accepts his collect calls??
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LHH NY episode. He’s been in there how long now? And she had an attack now.
He has a phone in there?
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Omg, I snorted while laughing…loudly at work. ???
The HELL you say!! Auntie Norwood big cuzzo Norwood maybe but brandi been killin it on star this season….nothing like this green eyed coffe bag 5head muppet ass poser…..
She looks like the guitarist from The Muppets.
SO ???????????????? @ these Oogly A$$ pics of Yandy!!!
so they the ones in jail but they have to console her. I hope she put something on those womens books.
I can’t believe it is 2019 just about and women are still wasting away beautiful lives and years believing in a jailhouse rock.
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I’m sure that prison ‘wife’ life gets real tired, especially if you have babies at home.
She need to just let him go like Phaedra did ??????????
8 years is too long, she’s not gonna be able to do it.
Attention seeking… smh
Strong people carry ALOT of weight! When we need help, others do not know how to help us because we are usually the ones with all the answers. Everyone depends on the strong ones not realizing that if the strong one breaks down then everyone looses. Make it a priority to learn how to say no sometimes. Start cutting off dead weights and stop watering dead grass. This is your season to put you first because if you do not, no one else will…
I have had a panic attack before and I thought I was going to die because I couldn’t breathe, it was one of the scariest feeling I ever had, and best believe I did NOT and would NOT have had the time or the energy to type an entire message to someone while having it. Yandy is so fukkin lame to me now. I use to ride for her back in the Chrissy and Jim days but she has officially been bitten by the reality star bug and now she will do or say anything for attention. Yandy Pleasssseee quit the show you are out of storylines hun. Matter of fact just cancel the damn show!
Truth!!
Well said…
thats what she fought for.
They have been together for years & have children. He is not a “boyfriend” in her life.
And everyone needs to stop acting like they have “Relationship Goals”.
I concur.
I’m just saying people are attacking her like they have Relationship Goals.
If she had been the one in prison I wonder if he would have waited on her like she is for him? I doubt it, only one I’ve heard that did this was Papoose for Remy Ma and actually married her for real.
He’s been in about 3 years. That looks like an e-mail. A lot of prisoners on good behavior are allowed internet privileges, and use e-mail to communicate with loved ones since they are not allowed tons of phone time.
Yep! She’s going to end up wasting all her best years on him, then he’ll get out and they’ll end up breaking up within a year! I hope women in the same situation will wake up and put themselves first instead of the D!
You need to stop. He is a boyfriend. They are NOT married He can walk away at any time. Who cares how may years they been together? Ain’t nobody said anything about relationship goals except you. This must be what YOU aspire to be. A baby mama, with a man in prison. That is ALL Yandy is.
Thanks hun
well we all have panic attacks once in a while…..so I hope she gets better and all…but just take time for herself and her kids…dats all I got
Was this the only picture option?? Sandra, you crack me up.
what does it mean when they say [sic]
Is it me or was Yandy darker that that ?
That they quote it knowing something is spelled wrong
If she should just saddown somewhere for 5 minutes…
Yasss Yandy you better pay homage to Angela Davis
Every woman that has ever dated a dope boy knows it don’t last long and is going to end 1 of 2 ways. Jail or the grave
Actually,you are speaking of and for yourself.
Multiple college degrees. Zero babies out of wedlock.