One of rapper Offset’s baby mamas did the unexpected: she publicly complimented rapper Cardi B for shaping Offset into a better man. Shya L’Amour told TMZ she was surprised to hear the Migos rapper rhyme about being a father to his four children.
Shya said she was touched by the lyrics to the title track on the rapper’s new album Father of 4. The lyrics spoke about Offset’s bond with his eldest daughter, Kaiea.
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Kalea, you my first, first daughter
I missed the first years of your life, I’m sorry
Tell the truth, I ain’t really know if I was your father
Tell the truth, I really don’t even know your mama
Shya didn’t appreciate the lyrics at first because Offset’s busy schedule doesn’t leave much room for him to spend quality time with their daughter, Kaeia.
Shya took to Instagram Live to bash her baby daddy. But after she listened to the rest of the album, Shya said she has a newfound respect for the promiscuous rapper.
“When I first heard the lyrics, it was just like, it was hurtful,” Shya said.
“I was really talking out of emotion when I did that Live, so I apologize for that. But yeah it was hurtful. And I had no heads up or nothing, I didn’t get a call afterwards, I heard it at the same time the world did.”
Shya credited Cardi B for influencing Offset to change his ways.
“Since he’s been with her he’s definitely [changed],” she said. “I’ve seen a lot of growth.”
Offset found himself outside in the cold when Cardi dumped him after a blogger leaked text messages he exchanged with a groupie while arranging a 3-way orgy.
Offset humbled himself and begged Cardi to take him back.
During her brief period as a single mom, Cardi introduced the couple’s daughter, Kulture, on social media. Offset was hurt because he wanted to be the one to debut his favorite child to the world.
“The album cover was originally going to be the debut of Kulture’s face, but that obviously changed when Cardi decided to post a pic of Kulture right after she split from Offset,” according to Us Weekly.
After the couple reunited, Cardi convinced him to feature all four of his children – including sons Kody and Jordan – on the cover instead of just Kulture alone.
As a result of her efforts, Shya said she has found new respect for Cardi.
“She has a really good heart,” the single mom told TMZ.
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Who really cares what a baby mama who laid down with a dude she barely knew, has to say!
I thought he was going to say tell the truth I really don’t know your name, since it’s spelled 2 different ways in this write up. ?
I think she meant to say “richer” for the time being cuz none of this is gonna last. I hope she’s saving her chips.
Some women expect men to take care of ALL their kids and others don’t care.
I’m surprised he makes such good looking children.
I can clearly tells nobody cares. WE really don’t. I hope he’s growing up like most ppl do in their 20s for which nobody gets credit. swipe left.
It’s their mommas…they all look alike in the LSLH aspect and he lucked up with cuties…versus some “Ball” lookin kids
Yup, don’t care as long as they take care of theirs. Shameful. I never dated a man with children but I would never have entertained one who didn’t support and love his kids. What kind of man is that?!
Ball as in Lonzo and them? Not one of those boys is cute. Not one.
I hope she’s serious about breaking the cycle and raising her daughter to respect herself above all else.
More mothers need to stop encouraging babies to twerk and flirt with men for dollars…showing them to use what they got to get what they want. We need more scholars and less strippers
This is very true…if a man doesn’t have a good relationship with his mom or his kids it’s a red flag for me..
I’m not participating in this???? but I am!!! Offshore’s ugliness offsetted them babies good looks! All the baby mommas LSLH?? I’d presume, seems like he has a “type”
Girl, bye, you don’t get a cookie for that….
Right! I had one…they triflin!
My ex had a 3yr old son that he stopped doing for cause he and the mom had a bad break up and he was asked to stay away. I bugged him about reaching out to her daily. Finally one day he popped up over the BM house to talk to her. She brought the baby outside and they talked for over an hour while I sat in the car. They rekindled their relationship until the BM got married to a square type dude a few years later. At thag time my ex backed on outta the childs life again…cause he couldn’t control the situation. Shameful
Yup… He’s a self hating negro…. Surprisingly his momma is pretty and he favors her ?
Exactly
Oh plz offchip is just securing his future bag ? hes playing his role like a proud suga baby!!!! He know his clock is tickin..his music suck almost as worst cardi!! He cheated about 59/11 times before the label jumped in and warned him he would mess up a golden opportunity being with the new “It” industry puppet!!!! Nobody was even checkin for him until he attach himself to cardi!!! And If cardi didn’t become as famous as him or period he wouldve dusted her like he did his other klan of one hitter quitters….shes just making sure that if they do break up she’ll get his and cardi money!!!! ?? bish u aint slick lol!
Why didn’t offset know her? Did I miss something?
I suppose cause they weren’t in a “relationship” chile
Well Dirty D just bumped into her randomly raw dogged her and forgot about it until 9months later.
Right! Baffles me every time I see them together!!
Go Cardi…that’s what I like to hear ?
“She has a really good heart,” the single mom told TMZ.
….and she cut her a check
Open post. I don’t watch Wendall Williams but I was channel surfing today and her show was coming on and it said she was back so I watched 10 minutes of hot topics. She started lying again about still being with her no account husband and I said this is why I don’t watch this heifer. Back in October she said the Hunter’s are no longer a family. So yeah, she comes back lying and I quickly changed the channel.
“Since he’s been with her he’s definitely [changed],” she said. “I’ve seen a lot of growth.”
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Yes, those child checks are coming in regularly and there may be a little increase, since they are married.
If that’s better I’d hate to see worse
Damn How many kids do he have? Is he even 30 yet.
So she made him a better man because he got her pregnant and had no other choice but to be involved in all the other kids lives as well?? Is that how? Cuz the nigga still cheated on her so we know she ain’t talkin bout that part ?????
You are very right.. my ex was very disrespectful towards his mother.. calling her bitches and sayin he hope she die… plus he would’nt even see his children.. but he would dote on me which is What i Found weird!! I just had enough cuz I knew I would want a family at some point and he was not the one to do that with
That’s better? Just a month a go he was cheating. He paid her because he can’t have any bad publicity right now since this album promo is about him being a father. ?
How did she made him better? She probably convinced him to feature all the kids because she knew there would be backlash for both of them.
So folks are allergic to using some type of birth control I see. Folks could save themselves a whole heap of trouble.
It should be a bigger red flag if a man doesn’t have a relationship with his father. After all, it takes men to raise men
How did she make gremlin better ? He’s a terrible cheater and I didn’t understand anything he said during his interview with the Breakfast Club. I’m from the south and have an accent but damn.
you’re literally talking about the average black female
Offset ain’t shat if someone had to tell this fool to put all four kids instead of just the one on the d@mn album cover. Tsk tsk.
This the same dude that had the court to seal his financial records in once child support case he was embattled in so the other baby mommas wouldn’t know his pay and take him to court for more money? This the good father? Chiii was his team knew that just having cardi and his daughter on the cover was going to be career suicide annnnnnd they aren’t dying to give him and cardi a more family image to make them more likable and a “power couple” I hate these labels are still trying to create Beyoncé and Jayz couple status it barely worked for them so it’s really not for anyone else. ?????
Darn shame how people play chess and checkers with a child’s life. Some people have no idea just how important proper parenthood is. There’s people old as Methuselah struggling with issues that stemmed from bad parenting.
Talk about it!
Riiiiiiiiiight!
It was a one night stand.
Meanwhile Puffy still playing the grieving husband on IG he posted a pic of him and Kim all cuddled up. I bet he has a lot of regrets and I doubt Cassie going back and he may end up with someone who just wants him for the money and come up. He ain’t NEVER posted kim so much sometimes it’s better to give ppl their flowers while they’re still living
The middle one is cute. It’s the oldest and youngest that are abhorrible looking.
Because he ain’t shiznit
I like Shya. Seems like a mature, sweet, level headed girl. Hopefully her music career takes off!
True… In the end he’s gonna have to deal with his son having resentment towards him as well. Karma will be to visit
He could’ve kept that microsoft 95 clip art album cover to himself.
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Gremlin hahahahahahah.
Somebody on here called him a Gremlin
Hahahahahahahahahhahhahahahahaha.
No she not. I made the mistake by going to her Instagram page. Besides, a check will make some folks level headed, but as soon as it’s stops coming, she’ll be popping off at the mouth like Kelly’s ex Drea.
one of my favorite gifs!
My sugar daddy game must be on point, because within the last two days, I’ve had two young (early 20s), male cashiers openly flirt with me.
The 1st one was at Walgreens. Standing there looking like a young Taye Diggs. Talking about, “I like it when you stop by.” I’m so clueless, it took a couple seconds before his comment even registered with me. But when he started staring in my eyes while he was bagging up my items, it made me extremely uncomfortable! I practically sprinted out the door.
The second incident happened today at Jewel. I’m in line paying for my groceries, and this tall, lean kid, looking an adult size Bow Wow, is staring at me from the other side of the store. He was assisting a woman in a wheelchair and simultaneously checking me out. As if to make his intentions clear, he came and stood behind the female cashier who was waiting on me, and said, “hello.” Then, he just stood there, smiling at me. Like he was trying to build up the courage to say more than hello. Again, I felt like a fish out of water.
I think this is going to be a crazy summer!
Good for her. Baby mama could have easily did a post and dragged Offset for filth. Could have went in and called Cardi all kinds of gutter bi$$he’s too.
It’s damn if you, damn if you don’t.
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Get that young dack!!! Yasss.
Lmao @ “windows 95 clip art album cover to himself.”??
Looking at it from your perspective …this is true also… conditioned thinking gets in my way sometimes…the family unit is so broken ..
Cardi B looks like she stinks https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/310a452af45f60e2eeb6d57c6175df80acd431117f1266cf91511bf474fcc4d2.gif in the top picture!
Exactly like thingamajig said if he didn’t think to put all his kids on his album he ain’t ?. He would’ve been roasted and she right next to him for allowing him to only feature his “favorite child” according to Sandra. She probably the only one he see because he with her mother. That’s how they do. And they love the kid whose mother they love the most.
I have been celibate for years! I work. Go to the gym. Go jogging. Go home. My friends thought I moved away.
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Me too! I also think Wendy forced herself to come back earlier from her cheating and abusive husband because she was missing all of the scandalous things that went on in the span of a week that occurred a week and a half ago with Jussie, RKelly and Robert Kraft. I felt Wendy was lying to everyone in that audience and that the applause was forced
That always make me laugh
NO..Why are you telling her this? It’s too much hard work…
Lissennnnnn….Me n my bestfriend was just having a convo about these young thangs outchea tryna pressup. Go for it! ?
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Those young dudes scare me!
Lol alright nah
That’s growth
What’d you see on her ig page to make you think otherwise about her??
Especially for our black girls. The tide is changing and we need to empower them to be all that they can be.
Exactly. It’s a part of life and hopefully you choose a partner that adds to your life and not take away from it.
1 ugly + 1 pretty = a beautiful baby
Don’t do it…these young folks ain’t right! Have all your bidness all out in the streets, using you up ?. They conniving?.
Light skins can be ugly too but my mother always said beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Well damn I hate to know/see what kinda low down dog he was before Cardi if this behavior now is a step UP, chile. Youngins ?
You better stop given these young men fever. …lol
Open post: Someone sent me this pic today. They captioned it “Will Smith’s response to the Kartrashians going in on Jordyn.
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She from my city of Tampa and she is a rapper that’s how he probably met her! The whole city knew she was having a baby by him but the group wasn’t as big as they are now so I guess people didn’t really care…
A woman who is with a man who doesn’t take care of his kids isn’t ? and neither is he. And if they have kids together she shouldn’t expect him to take care of those either.
She always does
Yup! And they continue the dysfunction and it’s passed down for generations smh.
They both look like they haven’t bathed since they were born. Stinkin’ ninja and ninja-ette.
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Bye half pint..Ugh!
I guess…like he could’ve just said that…
?????Auntie spelled the little girls name 3 different ways lol
Yup. It was very off and so fake.
They Wouldn’t know a good man or father if he slapped them on the head. Lord have mercy.
Offset has a type.
Amen.
If they are watching you, that means you can choose. I would keep my eye out for the right type & get that young meat. I would lol
Honestly, I didn’t realize that he actually did and how much he did love Kim. I just can’t imagine why he couldn’t pull himself together and settle down with her in life.
He was nearly fifty years old and they had four children of their relationship. And he was running behind Cassie? Some things are just not right. Sometimes you sacrifice temptation and pleasure for the good of your family.
To have the focus, drive, discipline to be a near billionaire but not capable of marriage? I’m going to say because it needs to be said. Diddy has no business dating Cassie.
He was supposed to have married and made one solid home for his children and Kim should have been the one given they were raising four children, and, he was, in my opinion, obviously still with her.
Shya is an understanding and supportive woman like Mashonda.
I do believe both have good hearts, but they are also paid well for their positive word of mouth, IG posts, and blog press.
Not thirty. He has four that he claims.
OffCentered a bedda man? Since when? Hmmm…often times babymommas still has first dibs on the didk…lemme find out she still..nvm
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Wendy Williams is a domestic violece victim in denial. If her husband beats her like his mother said he does, then it’s mandatory that a social worker is assigned to her in the hospital. I bet they tried to help her get strong, press charges, and leave but like a lot of victims she chose to cover for him and stay. When people watch her show they are watching an abused woman covering up for her abusive husband.
Good for Cardi, insisting that dude include ALL of his kids. #thangsgrownwomendo (Take note Gabrielle Union)
I just wonder how the lil cutie is going to feel about this verse..
“Tell the truth, I ain’t really know if I was your father
Tell the truth, I really don’t even know your mama”
I mean dang, wait until I get a lil older and tell me this info FIRST–then tell the world.
How I’m pose to feel– social media knows I’m an accident that you had with a stranger— before I can even spell the words accident & stranger???
How appalling!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6b570621718a198973c5f86ff428c08c8f34d98d6bdea4837cce857f98bd9b19.gif
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I’ve been saying this. And someone trolled me saying he’s rich and famous he doesn’t need to use Cardi. That’s exactly what he’s doing. In five years, he’s going to be a “rich and famous” kept man.
Oh andddddd
Folks still out here having unprotected Russian roulette sex.
whywhywhywhywhy
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They want some of sugar daddy Prince tax check ?
Same
Not one.
Whaaaaat?? Well good for you!
The Balls have their mothers super strong boned face with a hint of their father’s color.
Jordan’s mama is a rebel… Lol
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In other words she wants to kiss up rob cardi to keep her cash flow flowing with no problems.?
LOL.
That’s a cutie pie little girl. These trifling azzz people (male and female) are out here just breeding. These babies deserve so much more than a child support check.
She looked even worst when she had those snaggle teeth.
A better man my arse!!! He was so much better that he cheated on his wife multiple times.. FOH… THESE GHETTO BIRDS count money as character. And he’s no dayum pharoah, no king, nothing Egyptian about him. Nasty azz dingaling swinging WRECKLESS cad!
A better man my arse!!! He was so much better that he cheated on his wife multiple times.. FOH… THESE GHETTO BIRDS count money as character. And he’s no dayum pharoah, no king, nothing Egyptian about him. Nasty azz dingaling swinging WRECKLESS cad!
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They should ??
Hey…. is that YOUR eye???
I know it’s a silly question… but hell…I won’t know if I don’t ask.
so silly…
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That’s what I’m afraid of.
Yes. That’s my eye.
Maybe Cardi did make him just a little better just like my girl Faith is adjusting Stevie’s crown. I love any woman that accepts all the kids when she gets the man. Grownup Shyt. ??
When I was their age, the game was different. These days, folks are treacherous and extremely conniving.
Lol. Thank you for so graciously answering my question.
Well… you have a beautiful eye. If the other one looks like that, then it’s no wonder you’re mesmerizing these young bucks
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I bought a box of condoms two weeks ago… to replace the unopened box, I bought two years ago! LMAO!
So what are you gonna do? Go back and holla or never shop there again?
Very different. If I ever popped up single again I’d be celibate & unbothered too.
? is crazy outchea.
Yeah, I know how that works. Honestly, if an older person is messing with a younger person, they should be doing something for them. At least, that’s the way I see it, but I’m not sure I want get involved with that scenario.
I shop there all the time. I’m going to continue to shop there. We’ll see what happens.
He was still with her but not COMMITTED sometimes I feel like that’s a contradiction of the word love. But everyone views love differently. Cassie was young when he took over her life I think as she got older and matured she realized she would be another kin him being with her but not committed and her not being able to date anyone else
I’m glad somebody asked…
I wish the best for you. I haven’t dated in a while either and trying to get back in the saddle. I understand.
True, but I have a 27 year old, and he crazy in the right way…. but I feel you…
I kept telling folks this. Cardi not his first rapper baby mama
I hope you have logged out for the day. ..lol
Yes, I have a matching set. LOL
This a he
It’s scary. I don’t want to invite the wrong person in to my life. I’m at peace and I want to stay that way. There’s also the threat of diseases. Being in healthcare makes you very cautious.
It’s a nice one out there for you
I hope he’s closer to my age! ?
I can’t imagine the turmoil he feels. To know he will never have a chance to make it right. He will have to make peace with himself about this one. I can see him staying single forever
Im going to have nightmares tonight??????.
That phucking thing scares the living $HIT out of me?
That damn gif!! Chile… Are those lyrics off the new album?
I guess that interview was a low key way of The Smiths taking Jordyn under their wing. I hope they make this the last week of this saga though. Really F them people.
On the REAL…..
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#metoo
Clout chasing at any cost. Bless her heart.
Watch out! These young boys are hip to the game of getting a woman to take care of them… Just saying https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b24b33ee632f9ed7c1183b91a081d592847200def383a712a368c6801e3b2207.gif
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They done added original 90210 to Hulu!!!!!!
Awe MAN. RIP Luke Perry???
Right!
LMAO! Keep them dollars close!
First the girl says she didn’t appreciate what he said about their daughter in his song. Then she says he’s a good man. Well, which one is it? That’s talking out of both sides of her mouth.
That’s hilarious!?
Me too. They mentioned it on the news but I still don’t understand what it is.
*Open Post*
Hey ya’ll…I remember back in the day, I was a sophomore in college & thought that I was grown with a capital G. One time, one of my classmates introduced me to her much older uncle who had come to visit her right? This man had like 5 kids by 4 diff women, but he had green eyes so of course that cancelled everything else right? #priorities
Sooo..he & I started kicking it & stuff, even introduced him to my family. My mom (RIP), was like “Girl, that man is too old, he has too many kids, and you are way too shallow. But can’t nobody tell you nuthin..so, gone head.”
I was like “Whateva mamma..stop hatin.” And I kept seeing the dude, bc..what do mammas know right? LOL.
Anyway, fast forward to me and dudes first Xmas together, all the baby moms agreed to let the kids come over to be with their dad. He had like 30-40 unlabeled presents under his tree… but when he finished doling gifts out…only ONE present was mine. Now, I’m watching his kids open present after present, after present. And I’m standing there with my ONE oddly wrapped box—looking stupid. He was like “Baby, I spent all my money on gifts for the kids, I hope you understand. ”
I just kinda nodded, but…in my mind I’m thinking, “Understand..hell naw ion understand–especially after I’ve spend my student loan $$ buying you all of YOUR gifts!”
Long story short..I broke up with dude as soon as the last baby mamma came to pick up her kid! I was mad as hell —& ran to my mamma’s house in tears.
My mamma was like “Aww baby, well, what was the gift that he gave you?”
I was like “A lil funky Lady Norelco electric razor. And he didn’t even buy batteries to go with it mamma. So I threw it in his face and left!!”
My mamma grabbed me and hugged me real close, and she was shaking..I mean she was trembling HARD. I thought she was shaking so hard bc she was crying. Chileee no..my mamma was shaking bc she was laughing her a$$ off! I mean snot was coming out of her nose and everythang. LOL, I was so hurt. And every Christmas after that–until she passed away—she would buy me a pack of AA batteries. It was our own lil private joke.
LOLOLOLOLL, I miss that woman soooo much.
#truestory
Aunties write up says it is.
They don’t take having babies seriously at all. It’s just a sad generation.
Dubsta!!!
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Hey girl hey!
Chicagowise is a dude
All the frogs women have to kiss. Some folks don’t get it. Mama knew. And it’s still hard out here dating. These new young folks gotta learn their own lessons. Like we did.
That’s what I thought!
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Gurlll…I was young, dumb..thought I new EVERYTHING. Back then, I met “the man of my dreams” every 3 months, lol. But yeah, mamma knew, and she let me learn.
I know you DO miss her. She sounds like she was sweet lady?
How is Hulu? I was thinking about it…
I love it. Netflix done fell off
So, do you still have cable or naw?
I’m thinking we should get rid of it…
Did you see the boy called 911 after he saw that Dammm thing…poor baby was so scared
Welp I know what I’m binge watching this weekend. I loved me some Luke and Jason. That ol stank hoe Kelly broke up their friendship sharing her cootie with all of 90210.??????
I hated him with buck tooth Brenda. I used to say if he was my man with his own place I would been ran away from home & move in with him.??
I have both but find myself watching Hulu more. I only watch Netflix when the upload a new season to one of their series I watch. I cancled cable last year. I also have Sling but don’t care for it. I may switch to Hulu live? I’ve had my fire stick since November but too lazy to jail break it.??
I think Kim was his true love. But he left her for j lo right after she had Christian. Then he impregnated Sarah right around the same time as Kim with the twins. now all he can do is look back and in the mirror…
Your Mom was PRICELESS…. she left you with your dignity… and accepted the fact that her baby was a grown woman!
Mommas just know!!!
Thanks for sharing!
ROFL…. OMG… I just choked on my water!
This story was hilarious!! I can’t stop laughing. Your mom sounded like such a beautiful soul, funny as heck too.
Your stories of you and your dad remind me of me and my mom. Ion even know your dad & I miss him from your stories. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3cd01ee9ba08e5052c98809dd182e243ba8b1b874f09052af3738f0cd154d17d.gif
Awe. I think about that crazy man at least once a day. My ace?
I still got cable. Without it we would miss mad sports.
Same for us. We got Prime on the smart TV and just never bothered with the Firestick
When she gets the man? Smh…didn’t he cheat on her too? Damn…is this what the world has come to?
Right…. hood, tatted, illiterate, uneducated, and flat out ignorant.
Some men come with kids. Either you gonna accept those kids or you ain’t. “When” you get him. Come across him. However its termed. When you decide THAT is the fool whose shit you willing to put up with. Up to each woman to decide what shit she putting up with. How long. On what terms. Or if she accepting the kids.
Thank you and she was beautiful. She was a minister too, and even though she’s gone, she’s still here.
Trash
Black culture….needs to do better. Let’s get back to family and foundation. That’s why isht is sooo messed up now. That’s all I am saying. It’s just the same cycle of bullshyt.
Why the hell folks so down on Cardi for accepting this cat? Every woman has a list of shit she putting up with. Cheating. A broke ninja. An uneducated dude when she got 3 degrees. A dude with 1 kid. A dude with 6. A man with hips. A man with one eye. Masika and Alexis. Felt like Fetty eye wasn’t a deal breaker and procreated with him. Vanessa accepted Kobe back home after he smashed a cave demon up an already bloody ass. Worry about wtf you putting up with. Its something. Something. Worry about you. Gn. Going to put up with snoring and covers stealing and a fool who talks about work in his sleep.
“I’m at peace and I want to stay that way. “(Amen). “There’s also the threat of diseases.”( Too true).
Families have stepkids. And have had them for a long time. Families in the ghetto also have married parents. They ARE a fam. These people are married. And were married prior to having a baby. And have stepped up to take care of ALL the kids present. If they were shacking it would be an issue. They married and it’s STILL an issue. What y’all want from folks?
Girl, I laughed so hard! Lil funky lady Norelco took me all the way out. Your mama sounded like she was a true Gem of a lady. I think everyone reading that will smile on the inside and outside. Thanks for sharing!!!
Sounds like she got a little hush money….. she changed her tune real quick!
One thing Cardi is bringing something to the table. I notice majority of these black women only bring they ass mouth and a nasty attitude to the table with a few illegitimate kids also and think a man posed to treat them like gold
Lol at your profile name and pic
Lol
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Awwww whang, this story is so sweet. I’m misty.
Exactly!! I pray for all women that have a man because you’re putting up with something. The only question becomes, is he worth it to you.
I have to agree – they may be married, but it’s on paper only for HIM. And no – I will NEVER accept that ALL men come w/bullsh!t. Nope. They don’t. BOYS do.
I think the situation becomes bullshyt when the man or woman has children with a baby momma or baby daddy. It was never a family situation. Thats where a lot of the drama and comes in at because the man may not even know the kid or the kids mother. They where just hooking up and now they have to learn about each other as they learn co parent. Those situations are damn circus. I once dated a great guy who had 2 lovely kids with 2 women. One woman had 4 kids prior to meeting him and would need a lot of help with everything even with the 4 kids that weren’t his. Of course, I had to leave that fool because all that chaos was too much.
Community PEEN @it’s UGLIEST! And chick must’ve been slid some bills, bc Off ain’t exhibited a THING for anyone to say he’s better! Whuh…..a tongue hanging out while she performs weeks after trying his DARN-DEST to arrange a threesome?!?! Please. He trash.
EXACTLY! Ain’t nobody got TIME for all DAT!
Ok – I need prayer. I seriously for a minute thought he was…..nvm….
LOL!!! Great story!
It’s the women. The bird saw an opening….
Yes she is
?????@ hips! Chile u is on one tonight. But it’s all the truth!
That was Sweet, Funny, and Heartfelt all in One! ?. Nothing like a good lesson learned that you can easily move on from.
Always. We have to look at our surroundings to see our loved ones sometimes. Ex. a simple license plate might be their birthday.
I was hoping he’d pull through.
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No words!
You right!
It really is.
Nah, she’s due child support for too many years to have to bite her tongue. I’m not a fan of Migos, but I did listen to Offset’s album and despite how I might rate it (sonically) it was impressive. It feels honest.
That was awesome! God bless!
I wonder what the TV show, Riverdale, is gonna do now that he’s gone? He was the father of the main character.
A man with hips! Hahaha.. Been there done that, had to kick him to the curb. I can’t stand a man wit more hips than I .. Never again lmao! But yea, you right we do put up wit some bs from these men. Smh
Took me out at hips, I be back later.????
I cried laughing and cried at the same time. Love you Dr. WHANG
I got a dear friend and added her hulu to my firestick. Bless her heart and she voted my netflix. Now I need a HBO account.
I will NEVER forget that Girlfriends episode. Dude with hips. ?And like I said. Mine talks in his sleep about work. Asking me at 3 am have the doors been leveled yet (does commercial glass installation). He could be calling me Taneshia and we could be fighting, with me planning his demise instead. So I will take leveling doors for $500 Alex.
Every person on this earth comes with bullshit. No perfect flawless person on this planet
Yeah bc he sounded like he was out here fukking without a care as well. Situation as up top. He ain’t know the baby mama and didn’t care to know the ins and outs to know her. Was just there to smash. It’s a two way street. All parties involved. That’s sad for the kids. The adults nobody cares about. They gotta own it in end.
Awwwww…..?
Mommas man. Irreplaceable. I’m sorry for your loss but so glad you have such wonderful memories of her.
Share anytime! ??
No ?
Some horror character this Asian Dude created for a show that some troll saw then decided it would be a good character to use to scare little kids into killing themselves or killing their parents. Like slender man. Some sick people in this world
Truth.
Cardi’s not my cup of tea but she seems like she’s the type of friend who would be just as good to you as a sister. I think she has a good heart.
For her to insist that all of the children be in the pic shows character. You won’t know that unless you’ve directly dealt with a nasty souled woman who abhors, or at the very least, disregards her man’s children.
I have. SMH.
One eye….#Facts
Don’t ask me to elaborate. ?????
Just take my word for it.
How bout I got a man that looks like an African king with a face that is so beautiful, he just might be the finest Black man on the planet. BUTTTTT…..He has a beer gut that looks like he’s 14 months pregnant. But he takes care of me though. Deez bytches will compromise ALL integrity for “Dat Life”.
#metoo
BAYBEH………. THIS whole comment got me!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/0b7ccd6d83bfd14ea86f1b36c96b6111449bf8b3bfa1ac0d7096fa2667b59bef.gif
Gotta accept dat gut. I mean don’t HAVE to. But if you don’t, some other woman will and have a winner. Gotta know what it is you willing to take. Mine dont drink period lol but gotta biggish kinda stomach bc he a big brawny country dude. But hell he don’t say nothing about my tiger stripes and my child birthing stomach. So I let him live lmao
Sick of these holier than thou broads here. Refuse to believe everyone up here got “their own personal JESUS” at the house. Someone below gonna say not every man comes with something wrong with him. Lies! Not only that.. your ass got something wrong with YEW TEW sis. We all DO
Yep. A good man don’t necessarily come with grade A aesthetics. My husband has a gut. And I’ll tell ANYBODY:
That’s MY gut… get bike ??
Good morning! Came across some Teyana Taylor on apple music…that bish can BLOW! She has some good music. I forgot she was an actual singer bc of all those extra thirsty for attention reality tv stunts that only the talentless pull.
Lololol
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And you should if they try it! That’s Cardi uglass husband up there. She want to fight hoes etc over him, folks should totally let her do her. Whew…The judgement.
In other news… That Woman who was SUPPOSEDLY killed by a panhandler must NOT have known WHO she was married to
https://www.baltimoresun.com/news/maryland/crime/bs-md-ci-keith-smith-bank-robberies-20190304-story.html?fbclid=IwAR37t2yqwH9-x7ftWKvMQ3ky3WpDSD_94rqvL9JHBVVrHTx7SuGjty5uL7g
Maybe Gabby can’t take something from “not OUR cup of tea”.
We is posed too bee treated like gold. ?
Damn that was funny ash
Please elaborate for me lol
Lmao
Whoa! What a loser. And lol @ the daughter’s new disguised look.
Some single Mom must have gotten over on you. You seem bitter.??
? Shut the mutha@*&$# door!!!?
Did she know this mofo had HIV?
Gotta do a background check now a days.
Wow! ? just phawking wow! ?
Girrrrllll…say it louder for the bishes in the back…
Yes she surprised me as well. If I didn’t come across her song “ you’re gonna love me” I would have never thought to give her a chance. Her personality and appearance annoy the hell out of me. Her main downfall is being sign to Kanyes.
Background checks for everyone should be a requirement especially for someone who had as much to offer as she did.
And never marry down.
Mary J said the next man she gets with has to have more money than her. She said she aunts taking care of no mans again!! Bet she’ll do a background check next time!
She probably knew. I mean…she was fairly accomplished in life. Why would she pick up scraps unless she really wanted too?
Background checks AND due diligence! 90 day rule is out the door nowadays…
???????????? Yes Ma’am! That is the song I first came across and it is the jam. She is mad annoying! I hate her style and antics but she is talented.
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A background check won’t reveal their finances though…
HUH!! you on the wrong board. Be gone
Damn, that’s crazy!.. I bet he was fck’n his step daughter too!
A man with hips..
oh i hate a man with hips. PDIddy got hips
Yes it can. ? There’s ways of checking things like credit & finances. She has the resources to do it and if you know peoples in places you can get anything.?
Diddy
Vince (tamars ex)
Tyler Perry
Tristan Thompson
Like Star Jones said when she married big gay ass Al Reynolds: “We know everything we NEED TO KNOW ABOUT EACH OTHER”. Goes back to what folks are willing to damn it deal with. It aint work out for that lady and those cases are sad.
Lord have mercy.
Well I worked at a BG check company…you can’t check someone’s credit without their consent…its illegal. So I’m speaking about legal activity…
It’s his real daughter. Real bio daughter. It was the wife’s step daughter. He was raising her as a single father.
Ugggh…she had to convince him to include all his children. What a loser. Also, he’s just doing what she asks because she’s his flavor of the day. If his own damn kids don’t move him to consciousness, trust and believe the woman he just recently cheated on ain’t just all of a sudden woke him up. I’m not saying it’s impossible, just don’t be so easily convinced.
What chu’ talkin’ bout Willis? Are you serious?
Saw this yesterday and folks on Twitter, when the news reporter dropped this tidbit about him being a bank robber, were like how you know? Did you actually check or are you making this up? To the reporter. Like…I caint. Yes. His ass was an HIV + robbah.
I know right. I saw that on the news a couple of days ago. That mess is crazy.
Thanks for the link to the background story on that piece shyt. He was an evil growth. I wonder if his wife knew he was HIV positive and if she caught it from him. This maggot ain’t eva getting out of prison again – thank goodness and I’ll bet anything that he was having sex with his daughter. Uggh.
Well I done broke laws then. *shrug*
Yep…lots of women in Hollywood and all walks of life are married to gay men ?
and if you know peoples in places you can get anything.
^^^^^^^^
I can find out where your neighbors work, how much they make and how many kids they got.
LOL!!!
Lolol. Me too. But not this one…yet
Upvote ×100
Someone told me true compatibility is willingly being able to suffer one another’s faults. Made sense to me.
Oh ok… They keep switching back and forth calling her his step daughter one min then his daughter the next… I didn’t kno wth!… But thanks for clarifying!
That, I just cannot do.
To me too in the huge grand scheme of things.
well with a background in criminal justice and friends/ family that are cops I been doing it with no problem. When you work at certain places you can accidentally put in the wrong name when doing a search.? it happens ?????
Even the current one. I gotta be able to get shit in your name if need be bc hell my own credit aint been no crystal stair lmao. Bc of Great Lakes student loan folks, and bc previous marriage to a stupid.
I made it to work at 7:45 today y’all…its amazing ?
You make a valid point when you said that Star Jones said when she married big gay ass Al Reynolds: “We know everything we NEED TO KNOW ABOUT EACH OTHER”. I’m a grown woman and I have made mistakes but I haven’t made the kind of mistake Star made or Jacquelyn made by marrying that trash (may she rest in peace). But it reminds me of how women can be so vulnerable and in denial to the truth.
Yesterday, I caught 10 minutes of Wendall Williams show (yes, shem is back). And she made herself a hot topic and she said she knows what the word on the street is about her and Kevin. This is the thing that people may have missed. The streets ain’t lying because Wendall never denied it. What shem did was deflect away from the truth or answering by saying “we’ve been married for 28 years and as long as I’m still wearing my wedding ring everything is good”. Ummm, how many stories have we read about people in the industry still wearing wedding rings when they were actually separated or going through a divorce? Again, this is why I don’t watch this man bish.
May she rest in eternal peace.
Okkkkuuurrrt ?
Still don’t mean they not f—ing. LOL He was in jail for 12 yrs behind those bank robberies. He might have come out and started a “relationship” with his daughter. Stranger things have happened.
Most have had lapses in judgement, ignored intuition, red flags etc but hopefully those are things one learns from to become better at loving yourself and having some type of standards. Some ish I cannot and will not except/tolerate esp my age.
Am I the only one who still thinks that that photo of him and the kids on the album cover is a really really bad photoshop job?
Most women on this blog are black but don’t think Cardi is black. So you must want to get dragged ?
Yeah she got the side eye for that crap. That man gonna end up killing her dumb behind. She needs to be honest with herself. She knows that Negro ain’t No good.
As Aunt Ester used to say “ The truth shall set you free”
How much they make? Do tell…
Chile!… I hope NOT!… LOL!
smh
Right. Nobody can convince me that he didn’t whoop her ass and that’s how the shoulder got injured. If he whooped up on her more than once then he will do it again. Even his own mama said she’s seen him kicking her.
I did until they showed the BTS footage … lol
This right here.
“Some ish I cannot and will not except/tolerate esp my age.”
Agreed. I’m too old for it and I’m not here for it.
This right here.
“Some ish I cannot and will not except/tolerate esp my age.”
Agreed. I’m too old for it and I’m not here for it.
It is horrible!
It is horrible!
Sad. This reminds me so much of the Makeva Jenkins case from 2017.
http://sandrarose.com/2017/07/florida-mom-killed-posting-finances-facebook-friends-suspect-husband/
Lots of similarities, including the fact that in both cases she had her finances together and he was basically a bum & a freeloader. From the very beginning people on this site suspected Makeva’s husband… and sure enough, he got arrested for her murder.
cute kids. basic album cover.
OMG thank you for sharing. These little memories when you’ve had a good mama are the best ever! I look at how Toya teases Reginae about that old man with all them kids LOL!!!
I think he’s doing all this for more money and fame. It don’t seem sincere. Look how he got the other little girl on the floor. What kind of Dad would put one daughter on the floor in any picture, with him Sitting in chair. I know it sound petty but it ste a lot.
That whole verse is disrespectful. He could have told his daughter that 1 on 1, not to the world.. why embarrass her mom like that.
And why is the little girl sitting on the floor with that pretty dress on?
I would let him keep his child support, take my daughter and go find her a new daddy.
Pure Facts.
That was too cute of a story. My your loving mother RIH…
I’m suspecting she didn’t know about his criminal background… which is unfortunate, because there are companies online that can do background checks for like $50-60.
That 50 bucks can save a person’s life.
You can search most court websites for free…
True. But you might not always know what state/county/jurisdiction he lived in 5,10,15 years ago… so you might search certain court websites and miss the one you really need to be searching. It’s worth it to pay the $50 and have the professionals do a thorough nationwide search.
If I hadn’t seen the behind the scenes I would of thought so too. But they really dressed everybody up and put them on set with their dad. And they came up with that horrible album cover.
Didn’t even think about that, but you’re so right.
?? I ADORE this! Your mommy is amazing..??
These smart ass women love to date these no good prisioners. Which makes them not very smart. They usually just want someone they can love, will marry them quickly and depend on them.
My adopted mother had a degree living very comfortably and only dated prisoners because they use to tell her what she wanted to hear and they would marry her quickly. She’s been in a relationship with 3 of them and married two of them.
The sad part about it all is she dated a Pharmacist he had no kids, he adored and loved her. He was a very sweet man. She left him because unlike the prisoners she dated he wanted to wait a little longer for marriage. He use to treat her like gold too. And he use to take care of her me and my younger sister.
She knew most women don’t care you would be surprised. I lived with a woman like that. My adopted mother educated and smart loved prisoners. Because they some crooks and tell them what they want to hear and come off as really sweet.
Chile…so it was the street/sweet talk?
Yeah I can see that. Some women like to date troubled men, so they feel they’re rescuing them. Some men are the same way. They’re always dating women with issues…. makes them feel like the “knight in shining armor”. SMH.
Its a news database. It tells you everything.
Cardi is not black and how you figure most women on this site are black women? Plenty of homosexuals are masquerading as black women and man hating lesbians masquerading as heterosexual black women.that why they insult me so much…just your name make me wonder what you are!
Its just my opinion…most commenters are black women or pretending to be. I posted a pic of myself I guess you missed it. You gave Cardi a compliment then insulted black women as you usually do. What is your real problem why not carry your hate elsewhere?
Because regardless of what this man does he’s crucified. If he sat his oldest daughter on his lap the internet thuggs would have something to say. I can careless about Offset, but people turn a nice thing into something bad.
This why folks don’t try to change. It is damned if you do and damned if you don’t. Keep growing Offset and Cardi cause who I was at 21 is not who I am today. You will continue to grow, evolve, make mistakes grow from those mistakes etc. People think cause you’re a celebrity you’re just supposed to get life right. I bet if we could be a fly on ya’ll wall you would be singing a different tone.
Ok Shya, so basically the check cleared ?. And Retardi B didn’t “change” him if he’s cheated & still cheating on her. Duh.
??? ship em to me and stop playin!! I’ll put em to use. ?
I did sis ?
Sweet.
Honestly, I’m happy Offset put that in his music. More women need to be shamed for this type of behavior. The child is a byproduct of her mothers action. If baby ma’s felt so strongly about what her daughter deserved then she wouldn’t have forgoned the birth control to have a baby with the first nucca with a couple of bucks. Shaming tactics is how we kept black folk on the straight and narrow. We don’t need illegitimacy to become a social norm – oh, wait ?
So is her next album going to be about his cheating, the break up and them coming back together stronger than ever? I’m smelling shades of Lemonade and 4:22.
good for them…moving on
Lol
To stay relevant
Hate?you mean my opinion and millions of black men opinion in the USA
Post your pic again
Most of the comments below have nothing to do with these two lol
And I QUOTE “This is an open post where you can discuss any subject matter. This post will not be censored or moderated. “
What is your ACTUAL start time?
You not lying.. I DEF am not the same person I was when I was 21 either. Hell, not the same person I was when I was 31 for that matter. Everything you said up top is TRUTH.
they feel they’re rescuing them. Some men are the same way. They’re always dating women with issues…. makes them feel like the “knight in shining armor”.
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My male best friend actually said this to me. He dated a chick that is KNOWN to smoke crack and be a straight up LOON! He said “I knew she needed me…” But BRUH, YOOOOOUUUUUU sleeping on a floor and don’t have a car. Who needs who MORE?
You think that’s all that matter is sex?
9 ?
Never in the history will a black womens tell a man he can keep the child support
Lol u snooze you lose
Yes hate or hateful opinion. Do you have anything positive to say about black women?
Oh wow! You were EARLY EARLY?!?!?!
Were they going for a game of thrones vibe? Its rather dark…
Lol
Yes boo so I’m out this shake joint at 4:13 pm EST https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/d19f02a4fbf81f05fd9c26bb25a734af4c017e6460a75000de8891c1c50c4341.gif
Looks like a down syndrome couple
That’s not true, a lot of ppl don’t know they dads because they moms picked up and moved on and act like the dad never existed. I know more woman that do that than the child support mess. I don’t know anyone that took the time to file child support. Only my homeboys babymoms.
Yes. Get back into the dating game, but don’t give up the goods, the right one will come along. Don’t give your celibacy to a loser. I was celibate after my last relationship (2 years too). I am now in a healthy relationship with a Man my age.
I agree but if he truley loved his daughter, he would not do that. That will scar her. And it does not help that he has her sitting in the floor in a pretty dress.
The new batch expires in 2023. If I haven’t used them by 2022, I’ll send them to you. LOL
There you go again with judging how the world is by what you see within your circle
I THINK IT’S EXTREMELY BIG OF HER TO SAY THIS ABOUT HIM…AND IT REALLY DOES MATTER
It’s been about two years for me, too. My friends think I’m crazy, but I needed a break from ALL distractions. Now, I’m thinking about getting out there again. Thanks for the words of encouragement.
It’s been about about 8 weeks since the last cheating scandal and people are already praising how much he has changed? Real change and growth take a lot more time than that.
But you doing the same.. I’m letting you know not all woman care about child support. Just the thots you know.
https://twitter.com/mitchellreports/status/1103075208133570560
Thank you for that, it means alot!!
LOL exactly. I tell ya, I’ll never forget it.
LOL, thank you!
Thank you!!!
Thank you Malai, she was indeed.
Thank you Panther!
LOLOL thank you Bishop!! Love you byke!!
Thank you!
LOL thank you.
Aww Vonn, I laughed/cried writing & remembering. Thanks.
Thank you!!!!! I missed your font, good to see it!!
LOL, I’ll have to look up Toya/Reginae. Thank you!!
Miss Sweetie Pies son.
Stop being so nosey ..and schooch over.. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/8c8a05453709288d04f286e3b799f41a9deae0668b12e6761a6f076dc2e1df27.gif
I laughed all the way through this post. Thank you for sharing. And condolences to your wonderful mom.
Thank you sooo much Auntie. And thank you for letting me share it here!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/ea2169f1fc2feb1da6b64f5e04a14d8292b0bb0463039dcdbb699c0a61686c9b.gif
Get back at me in a yr and see where this post goes. I seriously doubt he will stay faithful
Shiiit…i have friends who have dropped child support or never filed. The main reason they see how sorry the father is and don’t want visitation set up. Your comment is ridiculous and why black women are belittled the way they are.
I always miss you Whang!!!
Child support and visitation are two separate issues but do a little research on the amount of child support collected each year by state.. in mind it was 72 million in one year alone
Damn, he was gonna debut Kulture and not his other 3 kids on his album cover? Damn. How hurtful would that have been to his other kids? I’m glad Cardi talked some sense into him in that regard.
Lmao…see you start a story then say, Ole nevermind…lol
Do some research on Texas babe.
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Like two doves we sing and dance.
Exactly!
Child support and Visitation are handled together in Texas, Dear! I’ve met many females, not just black females, who have opted not to file child support on the Father and Leave him be! No point in forcing a male to do anything. If it doesn’t come naturally, Oh well! But in Texas when filling for divorce or government assistance, If you don’t already have a case open with the attorney general, They will open one for you!
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Oh wow – so you’re really not a higher-level thinker, huh? It’s all literal for you….sad.
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