Chicago police officers rushed to R. Kelly’s posh Trump Tower apartment on Tuesday to investigate a report falsely claiming his harem of girlfriends were planning to commit suicide.
Kelly is facing 10 felony counts of aggravated criminal sexual abuse of three minors relating to incidents that allegedly occurred between 1998 and 2010. He has vehemently denied the charges.
The singer’s two live-in girlfriends, Azriel Clary, 21, and Joycelyn Savage, 23, defended him in a televised interview following his disastrous sit-down interview with Gayle King on CBS This Morning.
A police radio transmission posted on the Clyp audio sharing service on Tuesday stated an anonymous caller reported that Clary and four other unnamed women, “who are victims of R. Kelly,” were, “planning to carry out a suicide pact,” at his condominium in Trump Tower.
Chicago Police Department officials confirmed to People magazine that emergency responders conducted a welfare check at the apartment, and found the incident to have been a false alarm.
“Police received a call from an out of state anonymous caller stating that people at the location were going to carry out a suicide pact,” their statement read. “Police on scene conducting a wellness check and it is not a bonafide incident.”
The 52-year-old crooner’s lawyer Steve Greenberg was angered by the situation, telling People: “It is offensive that anyone gives this any credibility.”
The “I Believe I Can Fly” hitmaker’s private life came under scrutiny in 2017 after BuzzFeed News published allegations from Savage and Clary’s parents that he’d brainwashed their daughters into a “sex cult”.
He has since been arrested amid sexual abuse claims linked to the explosive Lifetime docu-series Surviving R. Kelly.
Before the release of the series, one of Kelly’s accusers, Lizzette Martinez, told People magazine he had a suicide pact with the women who live with him.
“I mean my anxiety is constantly through the roof because I hear the parents, I hear there’s a plan in place,” she said. “That he’s put it in place that if something goes down they’re all going to take pills and kill… I just can’t.”
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i KNEW this was a cult
he about to do thirty years for screwing chicks the moment they became legal.only thing proven is maybe a statutory offense
This a demon man …… this one got mo shyt going on …… and still ain’t humbled chile …… whewwww shyt https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/9ecfd6c11b7d795d2adbd22c695b938f5ef5fb31b8c59fae59946cfb30f1b334.gif
Good Morning Sandy, is it possible not to have any stories coming out of Chicago for the rest of the week? The R.Kelly and Jussie stories are just draining…..
So forget all of that. Are we not going to talk about all those white people paying for their dumb ass kids to get into Ivy League Colleges around the country??? FBI got they ass.
I really don’t care.
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I mention yesterday when I got out of the Army and I wanted to attend University of San Diego and I met all the requirements to come in as a transfer student. Grades, GPA and ACT was good and I thought I was in until they sent me that rejection letter. I was heated. But now everything is coming to the light….Parents and celebrities paying $$$$$ all the money in the world for their dumb kids while I had the grades and a career to backed me up….SMH….I don’t know why they paid this dude…Just make a LARGE DONATATION to the school and your dumb kids will be in like Flynn…..LOL
I think they are all going to off themselves.
Sooo SOMEBODY made a Prank call?
Turns out the call was from the National Human Trafficking Hotline.
#fakenews
Lord, who is dumb enough to go down this sinking ship with him?
Cry me a river who cares! Sandra can you do a post on Lisa Van Allen who said R. Kelly told her he was banging Aaliyah’s mom in the living room after Aliyah would go to bed. smdh chile….
I hope not…because it’s too much stuff going on in this world to be running around or behind some d*ck and a semi-broke dude….
So damn disgusting. Thanks for your service! It’s a shame that people who didn’t work for it or deserve the opportunity were afforded it because of money and high society, when individuals like you who clearly put the work in didn’t. But no worries it’s all coming to light. I’m sure you were blessed without that damn school!
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Girl they bringing down the house! The true definition of playing to pay.
My friend works at Upenn and Trumps kids went there… There’s been rumble’s that they brought their way in too… Chile the Provost at Penn holding their breath praying they wont be added to the indictment…
When I read her story last night…I was just DONE like a deep fried turkey at Thanksgiving….Man, these stories are coming out the wood works…Let me see if I can come up with a good lie and not get caught about me and R.Kelly….Let me see…I can’t say I was seeing in from 1991-1996 because I was in the Army…..Let me see what I can come up with…..LOL
Yes, Felicity Huffman paid someone to change her daughter’s SAT answers. You know she didn’t have faith that she was smart enough to get based on her merit.
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Hmmm Well he touch my hand at a concert does that count? lmao!
one of them parents again….
Cut it out!!!!!!!! It is to early in the morning! lmao!!!!!
Too early in the morning. ??
Let me find out Jussie still making false claims…LOL!!
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It’s sad that this one man has this much power over those ladies that they would even think about ending their young lives for this old fool. But, I read that black magic is involved which would explain such strong hold on them. It was said when he had them used the bathroom in buckets, some Jamaican woman would do a ritual.
I was thinking that too.
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OT:Did you ladies here about this story out of Florida? A white Latino teacher grabbed a black teens braids and pulled her across the classroom for touching her laptop.
https://youtu.be/PebmRuFMhmw.
I guess this meme has replaced that Samuel Jackson meme from django. ?
This is all the media and people want to focus on! R. Kelly is DONE!
NOW what kinds of programs and funding is being made possible for other victims of abuse with big donations from media and news outlets?
Will Oprah and Gayle start girls programs in underserved communities to stop other child predators and groomers?
Will Oprah do a show ON THE PERILS CLOUT-CHASING with a studio audience of previous clout-chasers – cautionary tales?
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Tomorrow is Jussie’s court hearing …with audio and cameras…we’ll definitely get a post
Uhhhhhh hmmmm as old and big as she is she could have defended herself unless she is learning disabled.
Hold up I thought Hispanics loved blacks the blacks even want more of them over here
Looks like the rock bounced back and hit your lil dude in the head. Bounced off his head and what we are looking at is him stumbling away. Ooorrr did somebody throw the rock from inside the house? Why does that yard have so many weeds and rocks in it anyway? WHO drew this?
He winked at me through the tv.
What’s the tea on the fake housewives of ATL reunion?
Just watched it; it was wrong. However, i dont like the way some of these kids are treating their teachers. There is no respect for them at all. Its like the kids are teasing some of these teachers as they would a peer.
I watched a video of a black boy snatching a wig off a black female teacher and ran around the room with it. The kids all thought it was funny. No type of respect at all.
GOOD MORNING…It’s oxtail night…must get out of here on time…NO R.KELLY TODAY….Here is some more important thing to talk about…
AMAZON DRIVER SHOT OVER HANDICAP PARK SPACE…
TEENAGER DROWN IN LAKE FLEEING POLICE IN LAUDERHILL…
TWO BLACK MEN LYNCHED IN OK TRIAL COMING UP….
LAKEITH SMITH GET 65 YRS FOR DEATH OF 16 YRS OLD KILLED BY POLICE…
More like white magic…..
Whassup with Brandy Lip-Syncing and falling??
Didn’t she get the memo that your mouth is supposed to move when you’re singing?
Saw this. I’ll start by saying I HATE when children are disruptive in class or anywhere. There is NO WAY MY child would have been doing this in the middle of class. Not saying the teacher was right. But I ain’t mad at her in THIS instance. I personally would have let the child continue to clown and called/left the room to get someone else to handle it. They don’t pay me enough to lose my job or my cool.
Shatterproof house in other words…….Interesting.
Some boy did this to a teacher when I was in school. Snatched her wig and ran. I was shocked then and never thought it was “funny”. Definitely despise how they act towards teachers now.
What happened? Where?
Don’t worry with all the disrespect and gunplay in schools now. All of them will be sitting home or in satellite locations getting an education online.
All of this just turned my stomach. ALL OF IT!
I saw that!! It was awful. I hope his parents don’t try to defend his actions.
New generation of kids, raised on reality TV and video games and mumble rap, and WSHH.
The minds of impressionable kids in todays digital age with smart phones are under attack. It is definately an INFO WAR.
Was he allowed back in that school?
I hope not either. I was so embarrassed for her. I’m sure she was heartbroken that one of her own kind, a child at that, could humiliate her like that.
I honestly can’t remember the outcome. I think it was like HIS senior year or summer break or something. He either didn’t get to walk or something. This was 93-94ish.
Wow! it’s to early to process all that heavy tragedy’s this morning. But I will say now that you mention Oxtails, I think I may be visiting the Caribbean spot tonight. ummmmm
Wow! it’s to early to process all that heavy tragedy’s this morning. But I will say now that you mention Oxtails, I think I may be visiting the Caribbean spot tonight. ummmmm
I saw it on mto. Get your kleenex ready. It’s pretty bad.
Totally amateur.
I saw it on mto. Get your kleenex ready. It’s pretty bad.
Totally amateur.
The anonymous tipster was lying and shame on them. Those girls are just like the other 150 before them. They will move on with their lives once all of this is said and done.
The anonymous tipster was lying and shame on them. Those girls are just like the other 150 before them. They will move on with their lives once all of this is said and done.
It’s not that serious. They are like the ones before them. They will eventually move on.
It’s not that serious. They are like the ones before them. They will eventually move on.
Jazz in the gardens miami
Jazz in the gardens miami
That’s what it’s going to come down to – online school- then the parents are going to complain about that but dont nobody want to put up with all of this foolishness.
That’s what it’s going to come down to – online school- then the parents are going to complain about that but dont nobody want to put up with all of this foolishness.
He deserved a Dictionary landing on the back of his head.
He deserved a Dictionary landing on the back of his head.
Im trying to gauge my reaction. If it had been my daughter. Remember Denzels movie ” …..Man on Fire….
Im trying to gauge my reaction. If it had been my daughter. Remember Denzels movie ” …..Man on Fire….
Here is the gag with Black magic …… those chains spells etc don’t work no more hence why all of this has fell apart …. in fact this man has been attracting dark (women) chicks for quite some time now …… he can’t attract anything else …. in fact the ones that are with him now are also demonic ….. this is the end result ….. this man did sexual magic since the beginning of his career ….. anything he has created with that dark magic …. will be removed ….. that includes his wealth …… his followers etc will also will be drained …….. Black magic never works in the end ……… And God ain’t here for the shyt ……. His whole foundation will fall because of it because it was built on deceit and treachery …….. I keep telling folks …. your sexual energy is the most powerful energy you can have …. Predators …. prey on sexual energy to manifest wealth power and luck …… his luck has ran out ….. he will be exposed to the max and it ain’t shyt he can do about it …… all he will do is deny deny deny …… Rkelly is a handler ….. but with handlers they tend to get direction from another handler ….. funny part that is … every single spiritual handler (because this is soul stealing, and soul wounding) is getting their azz handed right now and for eternity …. this man and many others will go from riches to rags … because of rape lies …. molestation ……. manipulation (black magic) and he will be useless to society …. shunned and should be …. Drops Mic !!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b9f58aa8153f682f499fbd5d73d735c3189908a0081c1f4c280639a6ec573c6a.gif
Here is the gag with Black magic …… those chains spells etc don’t work no more hence why all of this has fell apart …. in fact this man has been attracting dark (women) chicks for quite some time now …… he can’t attract anything else …. in fact the ones that are with him now are also demonic ….. this is the end result ….. this man did sexual magic since the beginning of his career ….. anything he has created with that dark magic …. will be removed ….. that includes his wealth …… his followers etc will also will be drained …….. Black magic never works in the end ……… And God ain’t here for the shyt ……. His whole foundation will fall because of it because it was built on deceit and treachery …….. I keep telling folks …. your sexual energy is the most powerful energy you can have …. Predators …. prey on sexual energy to manifest wealth power and luck …… his luck has ran out ….. he will be exposed to the max and it ain’t shyt he can do about it …… all he will do is deny deny deny …… Rkelly is a handler ….. but with handlers they tend to get direction from another handler ….. funny part that is … every single spiritual handler (because this is soul stealing, and soul wounding) is getting their azz handed right now and for eternity …. this man and many others will go from riches to rags … because of rape lies …. molestation ……. manipulation (black magic) and he will be useless to society …. shunned and should be …. Drops Mic !!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b9f58aa8153f682f499fbd5d73d735c3189908a0081c1f4c280639a6ec573c6a.gif
Oxtails w/gravy, fried cabbage and red beans and rice sound delious tonight. Thanks for the idea.
Oxtails w/gravy, fried cabbage and red beans and rice sound delious tonight. Thanks for the idea.
Right, it’s like they have no empathy, sympathy….nothing.
Right, it’s like they have no empathy, sympathy….nothing.
The Rkelly and Jussie news is boring… There has to be something else to blog about….
Check Jussie phone records.. He probably made the call ….
The Rkelly and Jussie news is boring… There has to be something else to blog about….
Check Jussie phone records.. He probably made the call ….
OH JAH! I saw that ish too! Not to mention that lil’ mo’foe danced!!! NO respect! If she had caught him and beat his azz, she’d be wrong, but how will he be reprimanded? A mere suspension, IF that? Why was he so damn bold in the 1st place? He’s snatched his granny’s wig like that already and his family laughed at the cook out – POS!
OH JAH! I saw that ish too! Not to mention that lil’ mo’foe danced!!! NO respect! If she had caught him and beat his azz, she’d be wrong, but how will he be reprimanded? A mere suspension, IF that? Why was he so damn bold in the 1st place? He’s snatched his granny’s wig like that already and his family laughed at the cook out – POS!
Putting your hands on a teacher should warrant a really stiff punishment. Not walking may not get the point across unless the parents enforced their own brand of discipline.
Putting your hands on a teacher should warrant a really stiff punishment. Not walking may not get the point across unless the parents enforced their own brand of discipline.
It was the worse LS I’ve ever seen.
It was the worse LS I’ve ever seen.
It was a different time back then. Way before technology evolved to THIS capacity.
It was a different time back then. Way before technology evolved to THIS capacity.
Yes I was..My daddy had to comfort me big time because I was crushed…And you know how a stern loving father does when it takes too long to get over something. He was like, “Baby you aren’t going to die because you didn’t get in a USD”. LOL…..Find somewhere else that would appreciate your skills and gift that you have. You have a big advantage over a lot of students, so it’s their lost.” End of story and I had a big Kool-Aid smile at the end. I miss my dad…Full of wisdom, life and knowledge.
Yes I was..My daddy had to comfort me big time because I was crushed…And you know how a stern loving father does when it takes too long to get over something. He was like, “Baby you aren’t going to die because you didn’t get in a USD”. LOL…..Find somewhere else that would appreciate your skills and gift that you have. You have a big advantage over a lot of students, so it’s their lost.” End of story and I had a big Kool-Aid smile at the end. I miss my dad…Full of wisdom, life and knowledge.
She better be glad she tried this with a Latino teacher..I know a couple of black teachers that would have whipped that girl’s fat ass. And accepted the consequences. These kids are so disrespectful. Why was she even out of her seat?
She better be glad she tried this with a Latino teacher..I know a couple of black teachers that would have whipped that girl’s fat ass. And accepted the consequences. These kids are so disrespectful. Why was she even out of her seat?
Yeah I know…And we might be livestreaming it here at work like everything else….LOL
Yeah I know…And we might be livestreaming it here at work like everything else….LOL
Stawp it!
I made some fried cabbage (with dill and fennel) and yellow rice Sunday. My GOODNESS!
This fool again. ? I’m tired bawse.
The Amazon guy was black 21 yrs old…shot in the back by a 65 yr old white man…now paralyze from waist down…just happen last Wed.in St Charles MO
Okay, it’s time for somebody to write a screenplay on this, we got enough material.
The R.Kelly and Jussie stories are just draining…..
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A for sure sign these men are Narc demons …….. energy stealers!!!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c1425c997ed3319b16098cad0d4bebaabde80cd22860d557863b4ff2c949aed9.gif
LMAO!!
Funky Dineva said something about her songs were kiddie and that’s what’s wrong with her fan base. He didn’t (from that single post I read) mention nothing about her falling.
Sick of Jussie and Robert these days.
Believe me…Somebody is already on it…If they Papa paid peeps off to keep their lips seal the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree…..BREAKING NEWS in my TMZ voice….LOL…it’s on the way
He will kill himself, before he goes to jail. I truly believe that.
He’s too narcissistic to off himself
Omg you think so?? I kinda agree with you.
Just doesn’t fit HIS narrative. LOL
Why is she lip singing …. da fawk ….. Brandy can blow live ….. so to lip sing now is just dumb ….. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/8da4d8422e27bbfc104edfcf9e97b4d2639b1c3ba2774d1e84418218e262a94d.gif
Heading to YouTube right now…
Wow, lol lol. You would feel like this if it was your daughter?
I agree….They won’t that spot light on them…And my daddy has always told me that you don’t have to be in the spot light all the time….LOL…I don’t mind being a back up singer or dancer…..LOL…
SCREAMS!!!! LMBO!!!
I think his dumbass would do it……….just to see who would show up at his fune.
^^^^^ let THAT sink in ^^^^^ LMAOOOOO
It was on shaderoom IG
Well, we are living in times where people get away with lying and folks believe those lies and help spread them before they know the truth, so you might just be able to pull it off.
NO…they are American black….she only help Africa girls…it’s the American way.
Ok. That’s better. Maybe I’ll go look for it there, because I can’t remember the last time I drifted over to MTO. LOL
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Lol. I would…If she was up in front of the class acting a fool; I surely would. I don’t upheld foolishness. And this is indeed a foolish act!
But I’m old school…you get straightened out at wherever you show out!!
The video’s also on this page:
https://www.aceshowbiz.com/news/view/00133791.html
Daddy is right !!!!!! Lawd!!!
I’ve read she has bad stage fright…
Right once the money dries up and he get evicted from the Trump Towers then they will have the courage to move on and sell their story and move back in the Trump Towers after his arse gets locked up. The End.
Programmed….. Parents have to break the connection, gotta unplug their kids.
Easier said than done, has to start early from the beggining.
I don’t care anymore at this point!
Oh my god I just watched it, WTF was she on? It really was like an amateur show which makes no sense because she’s been performing for decades now!
I had heard about it… but when I saw it, it was worse than I expected. I took one look and I was like…
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I cannot! lol
Agreed… Big ass disrespectful helfa
I never cared at any point. I’ll just pray that the girl’s will one day come to their senses.
Dude said he cheated for over 800 parents…I can’t wait for the entire list.
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OMG…I just saw it..couldn’t believe I was watching a “professional”! This was bad…..
I feel you, lol lol. Africans and Latinos are quickley shifting black americans out of position. From the low income to the Drs, Lawyers, Pharmicist, and Educators
Kellz? Parents? I though he only like lil girl’s. Bruh, are you in the right post?
Damn …… chile … wtf is going on ……. chile some of used to be favorite artist falling by the waistline chile….. it’s telling me a lot bout folks ….. Brandy lip singing……. chile wtf !!!! I ain’t with that fake shyt….. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6f810f9dcac935e19c5cd01c08f3297b7f95d43412be1355598b96703fee26e5.gif
He screws adults too…has trouble gettin it up for them but will do it with some stimulation
They continue to fck with this man, go fck with Weinstein.
All the people being murdered in Chicago and y’all worried about this bs. Smh
I can’t with this?
? tuh got it!!
Wow, ok…
OMG, my mouth is watering thinking about it.
Chile just terrible ….. just seen it wtf!!!!!!!!!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6eb92ebd13baca25777e5c3fc7a5e908f68aa091ae9f229dae060ae59489071f.gif
I’m over R.Kelly and his foolishness. Kill himself, go to jail I don’t care anymore.
She was a big girl. ..lol lol
Or one of those parents from one of those Ivy League colleges.
What did you mean about 800 parents? That’s what I’m wondering/asking. Yeah, I’m over the R. Kelly stuff too. I haven’t watched the docuseries nor any of the interviews.
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Cocaine makes you paranoid
It was so good. I had turkey chops to go with it as well.
Chile wtf happened Brandy use to slay live wtf see clip https://youtu.be/fh1I4i-tbVc and this was Live vocals!!!!!!
I think it’s the college entrance cheating scandal.
He was making that paper! 1.2mil off one family alone (assuming you’re referring to the black coach)
I thought so. Just didn’t know why it was here in the suicide thread.
DAMN!!!!
I can’t imagine how the kids feel who didn’t know that’s how they got into school. I do think the full house one’s kids knew full well though.
this was my JAM!!! lemme go see the clip.
I wonder if this was true & he did die would people be back on his side. Like how everyone is like “leave MJ alone, he’s dead” or “I don’t care what they say MJ did he’ll always have my support”. I’m just curious.
All of these false flags are just gonna ensure he is acquitted of all charges.
Smh, it’s like she just said eff it.?
Nah unlike MJ there is a pee tape in this case…lol
? Also maybe she has post partum depression ?
Someone in Funky’s comments brought that up and he said he was trying not to go in on her about it……lol….I hate to laugh cause I love Brandy but goodness……
Or how about the kids who got turned down for the school of their choice… and now they’re wondering if maybe they got rejected because somebody cheated to take their spot. Terrible.
MS. Thang said it best….y’all worried about this bs with all the crime that goes on Chicago…try making that as breaking news Chicago PD.
They will do better at jury selection this time.
A woman scorned is dangerous beast. Amber Heard played victim for the longest time until it was revealed recently that she , not Johnny Depp was the abuser. People crucified this guy. Not all women a re victims. RKelly victims were 14 and 15. theses old broads were willing participants in his charade.
Its f’d up all way around.
I saw your posting on MTO last night and I was rolling…LOL
Really?
If the kids didn’t know they weren’t smart enough to get into college on their own merit they must’ve been retarded. IJS they couldn’t have been doing well all along or even trying to put academics first because the parents went to that extreme.
He had a wife and children. He may like them young but He obviously will phook adults. I believe it simply because Aaliyah’s mom has been in such denial as if there is too much truth to be exposed…. like if she points the finger at him, he would have a “you wasn’t saying that last night” type of response lol. The world knows he married her 15 yr old, yet she is adamant nothing was going on with her child and R. Just weird.
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I’m not gone eein’ lie. I LOVED her 1st album. And the only other song I can really remember that I liked after that was “Full Moon”. Other than that……
Some of them did go to great lengths, and some was cheating on the SATs. My son prepping for that now in 8th grade.
I never believe Amber Heard. She seemed hell bent in punishing him for not wanting to be with her. Even Johnny mammy said she was no good!
Oprah will protect her friend.
Do you have anything leftover? I can bring something to eat as well. I wouldn’t show up empty handed….LOL
whole album still bangs ….. but chile these latest performances …. heart just ain’t in it chile ……. Give it up turn it loose chile …. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/51c6b3f7a6512ebaa1918af76267cbf3565dd650397e2957034187e652b8b8a3.gif
Yesterday I saw a video, that confirmed what I said…he makes them eat his feces. ??
People are dropping dimes, nickels and quaters.
Off topic: Shout out to everyone who gave me home remedy tips last Friday for my head cold. LawdT, my eyes were running like a fire hydrant in the summer like when we were kids and the nasal drip was off the chain not to mention both nostrils were plugged.
Someone mentioned drinking honey ginger tea, which I did that same night and woke up Saturday morning feeling 50% better. The nasal drip had slowed as well as the running water pipes from my eyes, but as I moved about all the symptoms began to increase again. One cup of tea was not enough. So I drank 3 more cups that day and Sunday same thing symptoms were better except the stuffy nose. I was fixin to go to the ER just for a damned stuffy nose because I was determined not to take any over-the-counter meds but I realized that’s all the ER would do.
Someone also said use some garlic. I was desperate so I put the honey ginger tea and a small clove of garlic in some water and let it sit in the microwave for about 4 hours and BAM! That was the winning combination. The honey ginger + garlic worked! Whew, thank da Lawd, I feel so much better. And I apologize if nobody still says “shout out”. LOL!!
If any of those kids have received college degrees they need to be striped if them!!!
Let it sit for 4 hours?? Why
Nope. No leftovers. But I can cook it again. LOL Don’t worry about bringing anything, it’s on the house. LOL
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I just wanted the juices from the garlic (I forgot to mention I cut the garlic clove into slices) to extract the juices and for the ginger and garlic to sort of intertwine and it worked extremely well. It was like it almost knocked it out overnight.
If you got in as a member of the rowing crew and the closet you got to it was the crew on your family’s private yacht, then you get knew.
Yesterday I saw a video of a boy in GA pull the teacher wig off in class and was dancing while someone was livestreaming it. and they say he got suspended but he needs to get expelled. My heart goes out to teachers these days. My daddy was a kindergarten teacher and a 5 yr old white boy called my daddy a bitch….He walked to the principal office and said he is done….LOL…He said he has been called everything else but that….LOL…It was funny…I would have laid hands on that boy..
She was like…stupid asss shoes. I knew I couldn’t walk in these mf’s…. She put em back on so slow ?
Man, you ladies dont play in the kitchen, lol lol. I love spicy food my moms parents are from lousianna, so she cooked a lot of beans and rice, and spicy cajun and and creole food. Even though my mom moved to Califorina before I was born. I grew up on black eyed peas and rice lima beans and rice and hot water corn bread. I love jamacain food, nigerian, ethopian, and thai food as well.
New post ? shyt going left in here
New post please!
Glad you’re feeling bedda
Was that a certain brand of tea, the ginger honey, or did you make it.Im a big tea drinker.
LAWD…Wendy Williams looks good…look like she put on 5lbs…can’t watch the whole show today…. Jung on nosy patrol today…
Yes, finally!!!
? right… On a soccor scholarship but doesn’t play
Now THAT is sickening. Why would ANYONE subject themselves to,such degrading behaviour????
From reading about the documentary, it seems the ladies would never go into of the details, so i figured it had to be something like that…very degrading to the point that they wouldn’t discuss it.
Ohhh k… I thought you were looking for the steam…glad it worked
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My aunt’s cold cure: apple cider vinegar, lemon juice, garlic and honey.
Heat in the microwave and eat with a spoon.
Yes, it was the “Haio” brand. Got it from an Asian market but some international grocery stores probably carry it too.
The females that go to Dubai do that and more!
I’ll remember your aunt’s cold cure too! What I’m so happy about and wanted to share was that I did not have to break down and take an OTC. Home remedies really do work.
Savage family trolling again.
Thanks!
I swear this yunggins are so talented
No, I didn’t heat it up. I just let it sit at room temperature. Then after 4 hours I steamed it 2 minutes in the microwave.
You’re welcome.
I have the best supervisor ya’ll. This man is so understanding of what I am going through with my mom’s health situation and I did not always have that. I thank God and give HIM all the glory and am so thankful for favor on this job while trying to look after my mom. I haven’t had a whole lot to feel cheerful about lately but am just thankful.
lol
Praise God….I’m thankful for my job as well. Close to home not a lot of traffic, they promote telework and have a flex schedule. I hope that your mom gets better my dear. I will keep your family in prayer. I know it’s hard but you can do it.
Thank you.
I understand! My mom took care of my grandmother while working…It wasn’t easy but she made it work
Ok ok gotcha
Scrolls back down to see some pettiness
All supervisors aren’t bad. Some are empathetic to what you are going through. Then yew got others who ain’t bout shidt…they will write cho asz right up outta there. I’ve had to deal wiff both. Just take care of your momz.
I read a story of what some had to do to get paid $40K. They get 10K when they first arrive, the rest after their sexual humiliation. The one telling the story didn’t finish her act so they wouldn’t pay her the rest. She was happy for the 10K but was it worth the memory of having the taste of doo doo in her mouth?!
A lot of our Presidents, alot of old school wealth has been doing this for decades.
Its interesting because a friend of mine from Africa told me Africa is the same way. In addition she said schools in African will say you were a student and back it up with a transcript for the right price for Africans in America.I am vet as well ROTC Scholarship
I’m happily married, but I’ve never wanted to go there and I love to travel to foreign land. A young fellow I use to work with that was Indian told me they hate blacks there and blacks are crazy to travel there. I’ve been turned off since. He told me so much more….
I saw his other man lover…Nice looking young man. UMMMHMMMM
Gooood point!
The fact you seen him piss on someone, why would you even chance that. I don’t want no hot piss on me….not even mine. UHHHHHHSIGGGH DISGUSTING
This is getting dumber by the day. My God.
What in the HELL does this have to do with the R. Kelly story? I hate when people come into a post going all of subject. Damn!
I thought it was just me noticing that. It’s highly irritating.
God Bless you for being strong and taking care of your mom. I pray that all will go well with her health.
I help take care of my mom and it’s hard but I do it with love. My mom can’t walk and she has a bit of dementia. Yesterday, I tried to get her up two times to go to the porta pot by her bed before I left to go home and she said she didn’t have to go. So as I am waiting for my sibling to come relieve me, I see that her bed is wet. I had to get her up, bathe her, change her linen, put the soiled linen and pajamas in the washer but I had to do it with love because not helping my mother is not an option. So keep taking care of your mother and love her the same way God loves you. It’s tough but it’s a feeling you get in your heart knowing that you’re giving your mother all the love and care and nothing can replace that feeling.
Wait…who is making folks eat his feces…and u can’t EAT feces. It has e.coli in it. You will DIE.
he’s “gone” Jenie… between his Jekyll and Hyde split, Hyde has taken over, smh
I had two good supervisors and then I didn’t have one and then I got a wack job and nobody like him but he got flushed real quick. I have acting supervisor who is a friend but don’t know the position well and it’s kind of hard for her…But she didn’t have my back in a meeting and I was like NOPE…A supervisor is supposed to have their employee backs when everything is done right by the books….NOPE didn’t happen..>I have all this rework that I have to do..,.Not happy…Our legal team stated to everyone that I was in the right…The lead is doing some more investigation on my behalf…But it’s all good…I have O.T.
I’ve never heard that blacks are hated there, especially since black folks keep flocking over there…but blacks ARE the #1 hated race, so it’s not like it’s not believable….
Well said. Glad you have help too as far as siblings and God bless ya’ll as well.
Keep that head up and hoping your mommy gets better soon! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/d940082b4ed741a14b04db47f58c78873aff6da59c6244655c65391ef04a459b.gif
Thank you.
Thank you, dear. Appreciate that. Yeah, all my siblings (except one brother) come over every day of the week to care for her. Because one brother refuses to help we have to pick up the slack for him and do 2 days a week. How he sleeps at night is beyond me and something he’ll have to answer to God for. I just do what I know is the right thing to do by my mom.
I’m glad you have someone on your team. I pray for healing for your mom.
And yet you joined in an off subject comment below. ?
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That is all we can do is the right thing and pray/trust that God takes care of the rest.
Keep your head up babes and God got it
See now you gonna make me cry..awwww…thank you!!!
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Like my aunt used to say God got it, yes He does.
do it with love because not helping my mother is not an option.
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THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!! Bring her flowers occasionally too. They love that. Doesn’t have to be a birthday or “special day”. Do it just because.
They gonna get a hellava case of pink eye or worse
And God will.
Me too cause it takes some of the pressure off, thank you.
From the hidden baby? Might be
i hope this whole trafficking enterprise is finally exposed, internationally… let the chips fall where they may… politicians, entertainers, church leaders, billionaires, etc… bring ’em out!!!!!
I’d rather be a beggar down on skid row first. ?
Who??? The Rrra??
real wisdom.
??? You’re a wonderful daughter!!
I remember how mean one of my cousin was to my aunt when she was sick with dementia. But her day will come. I’m not going to even get into the details of her behavior.???
Lissen. Not saying you do, but you can’t worry about how he sleeps at night. THOSE the one’s that act a fool when (Almighty forbid) time comes. I can’t stand slack ass children who don’t help out when needed. But The Almighty got THEM, you just keep on doing what YOU do.
What site were you on?
the guy told them that a donation wouldn’t guarantee a spot for their lil dummies. that’s why he set up the fake charity, so they could “donate” to the charity (which was actually fronting as a charity for underprivileged kids!) thee nerve!
Before my grandmother passed away my mother and her siblings worked and still took shifts to care for their mother. So it absolutely can be done.
I seen a picture of him walking in to court and it sho nuff looked like it they way he was grabbing his coat & the cocky look he had.???
George Jefferson had that mean walk. ?
Lmao @ hot piss!
Don’t. Because things like elder abuse/mistreatment messes with me. I’m the type that will find her and have a field day on that ass…..just because.
You’re right. Will do. Thank you.
It will be …. messy this year and next …. Just messy …… grotesque …. inhumane chile ……
A fool !!!
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Yeah, messes with me too.
Downvote. .U must be new here.
Exactly, I brought her some flowers a few weeks ago and took care to keep them watered and they last almost 3 weeks.
Yeah I have a great boss and I hate it when he retires.
Yesterday in our team meeting one of my coworkers was discussing retiring and stated that you need to begin the process at least 2 years before your retirement date and my boss chimed and I was like damn.
Well I will enjoy these next two years and dread who will replace him.
sorry for your loss hun. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/e86501847072dcba783eea0bbb2c002d3ed3d888581b08556155899f7897582f.gif (still better to have HAD a good Dad whose love and guidance will always be with you, than to have an ever-present, yet useless sperm donor.)
LMAO!
Me too
“skid” row….haha
yuck, TMI!
Lol!
My supervisor is the very reason I’m leaving soon……because she said some foul sh!t to me when my mom had to have her toe amputated 48 hours after she wen to the doctor. No warning. No preparation. Just “we’re cutting your toe off Sunday.” It was on a Friday morning, when she thought she was just going to have it looked at. Supervisor wouldn’t let me leave. Threw shit up in my face about what I had to do for my mom (like she had been holding the shit in). Then directly said to me…..”It’s not MY fault your siblings don’t step in to help, YOU took this on!” BAYYY-BEEEEE When I say I raised up outta my seat on that bitch! She sent me home that day. Then The Almighty reigned vengeance down on that bitch literally a month to the day later. Hoe, we THINK you got cancer. We’re taking your insides out on Monday. She found out on a Thursday. At work…….. #karma
ROFL!
Wow! Who pissed in ur cereal this morning…all u had to do was scroll past meanie ?…
Praise the Almighty!! You’re blessed. I hope all goes well with you mom! ????
MOM’S BOYFRIEND CHARGED AFTER 9-YEAR OLD GIRL FOUND DEAD IN DUFFLE BAG FINALLY IDENTIFIED…..LOS ANGELES CA…. I see why back in the days if you had a female child…and met another man…grandparents kept that child…PEOPLE ARE EVIL!!!
the child’s parents didn’t file charges??????????
Or if you getting C’s and D’s in high school but you getting into and ivy league school you knew something was up.
Nursing homes are a night mare. I have a Cigar buddy and good friend who is an Federal Executive for CMS. The stories Ive been told about negligent deaths from minor infections, rapes, physical abuse, unsanitary living conditions, thefts and nursing homes finagaling and taking ownership of peoples homes and property to pay for care. I was shocked this stuff is common NOT rare occassions. How on earth has America allowed this to happen. Bless you for what you are doing.
Psalms 91:
A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee.
See…some people don’t learn empathy until it is their turn.
Them I feel sorry for…not these entitled kids whose parents have hundreds of thousands of dollars to pay to get them into school. More investigation needs to be done into the kids that graduated to see if they actually earned that degree.
I thought they charge both of them
So wait, did the mama report the child missing? Where was the boyfriend at when they were looking for the child?
Morning Roses!! So my Interview last week went well. I didnt get the positions I applied for, however. Which is ok with me cuz they offered me the supervisor position instead!!! All praises to The Most High, Yahweh!!!
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Bish still ain’t learn. Came back after 9 weeks……still the same person.
Yassss!!!!
It has also been revealed that Hunt spent more than a decade in prison on a torture and child abuse conviction from 2005. He is currently being held on a $2 million bond.
Lawd… I really shouldn’t have liked your post… Why you do the woman like that. You were going home one way or another… Either she let you go and you return another day or they just let you go Period. I personally don’t ask for permission. I send an email and leave. Can’t tell me no when I’m already gone.
You’re welcome.
Amen ??
Acv braggs from the mother and lemon juice is the truth. Drink the juice from a half squeezed lemon and a 1-2 tbl spoons of acv in 8oz of warm water. Keeps everything flushed and clean. I was having horrible breakouts, skin is looking all velvety after two weeks. ?? i have been doing this for years but inconsistently.
Why y’all President out here trying to pass Melania Bodyguard off as Melania ????
I can’t!
Congratulations! Send those vibes my way!
How did that mother not know this. I’m investigating ANYBODY I come into contact with. ANYBODY!
https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/0f0d9df2ff540a84353eb7e9bfb922f626c11d9d8bd1ab178acb22ae81b0580a.gif Yessss Gawd!!!!
Congratulations!!
Congrats!!
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You got this Boo!!
Bish didn’t do her homework huh
thank you Renee!!
Amen
Now she knows why Fantasia walks around barefoot!
Ha!
lmao!! your name!! thank you!
That is dope!
I have wonderful management too. Whole company on work life balance kick, for years! I mention something about family, they like WFH or see you Monday … lol. I give them my best too. The other day she was like oh you ain’t cliam that hour OT when you ran that report for me. Nope. I stayed home all winter break with my son. We good.
Probably looking right next to them
Do her like what? I just activated my black girl magic……..and it worked.
Some people act like a job is their everything and suppose to be yours too, nothing comes before work…real life ain’t set up that way for lots of folk, if it is great but don’t punish people if theirs isn’t.
Ikr!
Same… Ion ask I tell em
Yesss!!! Sooo happy for you!! Congrats Cotton ? !!
Or didn’t care. Lock her up too.
and he sh*ts on them. sick sick man! SMH
Congrats!
For the time it took to type that out, they could have moved right pass and ignored my comment.
EVERY post here goes off topic like Dowoop alluded to, no need to be ugly but God bless them too.
Grandparents raise kids cause the parents were unfit… This one was unfit considering she failed to protect hers
See we told you that you got this. Congrats!!!!!
Thank you!!
Congrats to you!
Hell yeah
Yes you did!! I love coming to the garden and feeling the energy from you guys. Its always positive vibes among the rosebuds!!
THIS! THIS! AND SOME MORE OF THIS! Bay-bee! They KNOW I don’t mix home life and work life. NEVER take one into the other. Folks be WORRIED about this place when they leave. Not me. I come, do my work to get my coins and bounce. IDC about your meetings, emails, what you got going on at home, etc.
What’s the saying….I do just enough to not get fired because they pay me just enough to show up.
Thanks Solstice!! pre-she-ate it!!
Ugh!
Thank you Darlin’
glad you got some relief… that is such a miserable feeling, smh
Totally my prediction in the next 30 years they will be the main supervisors and managers of blacks
LOL
Congratulations ?
Wow prepping already? Y’all ain’t playin ?… My son didn’t prep but got pretty decent scores. He got a full ride scholarship and pre-accepted on academics alone before he took the test. I have a rule of nothing below a C is to be on a report card and IF there’s a C I better have seen some real struggling going on.
No….older people had their belief about outside daughters and new man…they didn’t trust them.
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Because they both have that resting bish face…
It is!
If you have questions, concerns, need encouragement, want opinions, prayers etc etc you can always find it here. I read the advice given you and am glad it worked out in your favor, congrats!!!
Congratulations u will do great!
So true and thank you!!
thank you
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thank you!
unwine youtube
You know this!!!!
They insides and breath smelly sHi&&ty
Not to mention all sorts of infections.
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Ms. Sassie I said the same thing, but that’s what that lady said. in the R’rrr documentary the women kept saying the unthinkable the unimaginable. What else could it be.
he don’t care if they die. Unwine youtube
Very sick! I wish I never listened to it. My stomach ain’t been right.
*singing* Congratulations to you! Congratulations to you! Con-grat-u-laytions. ???
Yep, when you have great management, you never mind going the extra mile.
Smh…
The momma was a sex offender her damn self
The momma is also a sex offender… The system failed this child
Congratulations!
You like the ID channel too huh?
D@mn Yon! didn’t see that last part coming…. took my breath away! (but, been there done that in a diff scenario with a POS supervisor).
work with a Sister whose mom had same scenario as yours. do you know her POS supv asked her “which toe”??????? …yet, she was the same bish who had to bring her baby to work and beg one of her contract managers (a Sister) to watch her baby while she met with the CEO. folks don’t believe their sh*t catches up w/them. my sitch was hostile environment and harrassment. then they wanna ask me if errthang is ok at home, do i need to ‘talk’ to somebody. i told dem bishes, thank God my home life is filled with love & support because working w/them was he!!. also told this one in particular that she need to worry about her own home life and stop tryna plant falsehoods because she was speaking that into her own life. wouldn’t you know not 2 weeks later, her son had a psychotic break and had to be ‘committed’ (really bad part was that it happened AT THE CO. PICNIC. fugg w/me… God gotchu!
THEN LEAVE! WTF wants to KEEP talking about R. Kelly?????!!!!!! This is the same story refried 10x’s over and YOU mad we ain’t on subject about THIS DUDE! She’s shining light on THIS post and yo pissy stank ass come in here mad! Girl, save THAT energy for yo deathbed. You gone need it!
(then still don’t)
THE ER WAS CLOSED..THE AMBULANCE WASN’T CLOSE…THIS IS HOW YOU DIE IN RURAL MS…..Shoemaker, who was pregnant with her second child, was only an eight-minute drive from Trace Regional Hospital in Houston when 911 was first dialed. But that didn’t matter since the hospital shuttered its emergency room in 2014.
The only ambulance in the county that night was almost a half-hour away.
More than an hour later, in a neighboring county, Shoemaker was pronounced dead.
Shoemaker had asthma. Her mother said she used inhalers, took pills and slept with a mask connected to a special breathing machine at night.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!
….and the one that upvoted the sh!t. I’m guessing one of R. Kelly’s chicks got a login.
Ole Chuck! LOL
Oh word?
Let me tell y’all how my ancestors work. I work in administration at a hospital. My co-worker and I (an older white lady that has been on the job for about 30 years) we are the ONLY 2 women in our position (I’ve been here 7 months).
So basically she has been going to our supervisor behind my back making false claims etc.
Well how about the day I find out she has been lying on me her daughter called my desk immediately after and told me her mother had fallen down the stairs and broke her wrist. Bi*ch been out of work for a month and NOBODY wants her to return especially the doctor’s and nursing staff. Also that same supervisor has been fired (out of the blue we still don’t know why). I have been told by staff that, I’m more professional, much younger and better at my job than she is so she’s threatened.
Don’t f*ck with me, I’m protected on the other side too?
I keep tryna tell em my ancestors have been riding with me since birth!
Thank you
LOL…thank you
In other news… Manafort is getting an extra 45 months… Big deal! The mofo shouldve gotten AT LEAST 20 years ???
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He want sympathy, pity. Nope, not gonna give it to him.
this gave me chills! folks don’t know when they’re messing with the WRONG one ’til it’s too late,smh.
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He’s to vain to do that. The girls maybe.
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There’s always that one miserable threaten bitch at the job that pulls this. Back in my younger days I would curse them out. Now I know how to play the game.
?? Won’t he do it!!??
she better dance like David danced! LOL!
You got me cracking up on this train. All the YT people like ?
I want that mother charged as well!!!????
Lord be some sense for all parties involvrd
“yo pissy stank ass”
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I’m not it makes me cry talking about it. I was in high school and couldn’t do anything. I told my other aunts and they told me to stay out they business.?
Yes he will!! Every time He shows up in my life, He shows OUT!!!
GIRRRRLLLLLL!!!!!! Not only that, within the month of us having the argument and her finding out her news. She would make lil comments here and there. She had an appt. for HER TOE to be looked at. Somebody said you have to go to the dr. She was like “I’ll be fine. It’s not like I’m missing any toes or anything.” Now, if I was the type of person to take everything to heart, I would have taken her comment personally. However, I just chuckled and said to myself….”Not for long.” Then boom, she got the news. AND not only that, HER mother had to have surgery around the same time. TUUUHHH!!! While her lil cohorts were surrounding her with “concern”, I sat at my desk and remained unbothered! YOUR TEARS DON’T SPEND WITH ME!
No way!
Its included in the tuition, were not making him go to the Saturday classes. The youngest we might have to bribe somebody…lol
I had a Boss like this. He was claiming my work and ideas was all his. I was on the verge of quitting.. Then one monday.. he was gone..
YAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Devils will NOT win!
Good Morning……..I am so sorry to hear about your mom. There was a time when I was where you are with my mom. The director of my department allowed me to take two months off when she was first diagnosed with dementia. When I did come back to work, I was allowed to come in at a later time which enabled me to get her situated in the mornings. It was good of him to do that because it will ease your mind somewhat because it will be one less thing for you to have to worry about. I was grateful for the time that I had with her without having to worry about going to work. Now on the flip side of my boss’ generosity, there was a sorry slacker in my dept., low man on the totem pole, that seemed to have a problem with me caring for my mother. He did any and everything WRONG that he wanted to do because of his connections. He fussed and complained, behind my back of course, about me caring for my mother until his supervisor went to the director and told him how tired she was of him because I did my work and there was no reason for him to even be in my business. And what kind of man are you to worry about someone caring for their mother? It is not affecting you or any of us at all. Long story short, the director called a meeting in my office and told him…..Do not concern yourself with what Andrea does. She does not do what you do. Because of his connections, not qualifications, he later became the director of my department and his petty and vindictive arse did not even have the minimum qualifications that they asked for. I am now happily retired I had enough of him. I didn’t have the age, but I had the years. I hope that you don’t have a snake or two like him biting at your back. But even if you do, take comfort in the fact that they will reap what they have sown. Every time that you looked, something was going wrong in my former tormenters life. You and your mom are in my prayers. Keep your head up.
Define: Gone
? leave that baby alone!
Yes chile… She in jail too
? that’s what they doooo!
All he worried about is lunch and trips and school just happens to be in the way of those things..lol
“AND not only that, HER mother had to have surgery around the same time.”
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i just had a moment of silence, out of respect for the universe. folks gonna learn about sowing & reaping! it’s law… it’s karma…. it’s whatever you want to call it, but what you put out and what you mean for evil, WILL come back to you. as the old folks say, just keep living. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/68bc52b2a4f54f3dc0d4dea29ec0c12c203c19b65d4d18beb2fbbd13d0be6a55.gif
BLOOP!! Love when karma turns them tables in dat azz quick, fast and in a hurry!!
Thank you. Yep, it was quite miserable. Feeling waaaay better!
don’t dew dis to me Wut… you know i’ll be sitting here CRINE & rocking ’cause it don’t take murch… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/adf60a6e2371eb61ed06e11e80488e695ce1b05aba500eece1116c5034cde3bf.gif
i HOLLERED!
BAYBEE!! Took the words right outta my MOUF
I’m nervous.
*dolphin laughs, nervously*
AND DID! My ass in turn, went and spent 13 days in Hawaii! LOL
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
glad to see you ‘calmed down’ Marlika.. ROFL!!!!!!!!!!
just keep living.
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IN MY MAMA’S VOICE!!!!! #clearasday
PASS…….
GOOD! Uglee bitch!
Mutts!
I mean really!
…and the crazy part is he knows there are tapes of him doing that plus engaging in sex acts with underage girls but this fool still denying it.
Congrats God is good and sits up high.
My situation like this is in reverse. Old boss. Made our lives a living HELL bc she was afraid we were going to learn what SHE did and take her job. Fast forward to we have all now taken a buyout. The legit LAST person in our old department, took her buyout end of 2018. A department that was once 11 people a decade ago, is now down to JUST our old boss. Well fast forward to a few weeks ago. Went to go see some old homies up at the job.
Its now being reported she is doing everyone else old job. DOLO. Bc she is the last one there. And is now too old to really go anyplace else. She is about 65 now. So Godspeed to her dumb ass. Doing the work of 11 people at 65 yo. Shame on it
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WON’T HE DO IT!!!
He’s miserable and somebody is going to sat him all the way down……you’ll hear about HOW in the least expected way. Hope you’re enjoying your retirement.
Right.
This sounds like a lie, like Jussie’s case. Anything to keep Kelly in the bad light. Leave him alone if you are not coming After the parents, females and Other race of Child Molesters.
Shame and embarrassment. Peer pressure and humiliation among your peers is the worst for college age kids.
thank you
thank you!
I’m sure.
And paint her nails and spray smell good on her. I’m telling you, THEY LOVE THAT! It’s the little things that bring so much joy.
Yep still waiting on Oprah 2 ask priscilla about her being in the bed with elvis at 14.
So sad
Or her bff Harvey Weinstein. Shit, Oprah needs to expose Herself, like President Trump said he would do to her, if she run for President. She Didn’t Respond to that!!! Her dumb butt Knows how far to go.
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Best news all week! I feel like I got the damñ job. Congrats! ??
The legit LAST person in our old department, took her buyout end of 2018.
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DAMN! They still buying folks out? Wow! Ole 65 is lightweight miserhappy about what she ended up with……….just so she can complain about it.
Covered!
I’m laughing out loud at your comment about painting her nails. To get her out of the house my sister puts her in her wheelchair and off they go to the nail salon every two weeks two get her mani/pedi. She won’t let anyone else touch her beautiful nails.
Lissen, when I say “mom, your nails are so pretty”. She’ll say with all seriousness “thanks, I did them myself. Then she’ll say if my knee didn’t hurt so bad, I would do my toes too. LawdT I love that woman. She has me in stitches most of the time.
Say what! ?
Man this makes me feel so good!!! Thank you Boo!!
Your story and gif make me happy. Congratulations!
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He’s placing YOU there for a reason!
I really dont care about his cult. Those are grown women but R Kelly deserves all the smoke he’s getting for sleeping with underaged girls. Should’ve stopped sleeping with 14 year olds the first time he got away with it…??????????
thank you so much!
I receive and believe this!!
YAASSSS!!! My mama is on a walker and she love how they put her in the chair and slide her around that nail shop. LMAOOO Now of course we ain’t getting no toes (no pun) done, but her nails????!!!! You can’t tell her nothin’!
Glad you’re enjoying your retirement. Bless your heart for all the love and care you gave your mom. Dementia is hard in a loved one. Thankfully my mom still recognizes us she just has all the other symptoms of forgetfulness, sometimes anger, etc. My aunt just passed in February and she’ll ask me 10 times a day when is the last time I saw my aunt. And I’ll say mommy, remember she passed away? And she’ll say oh that’s right. Twenty minutes later, I wonder how my sister doing? You seen her lately. :o)
You’ll get the Good and He’ll get the Glory. Congratulations.
Okay that’s exactly what I tell people. Similar thing happened to a boss that was trying to destroy me. I’m covered over here. I keep trying to tell my soon to be ex-husband that everything bad he has done to me will bring a curse in his life.
I told him once I leave him everything for me will go right out of no where. He keeps laughing but know these bags gone be packed. And the thunder upon his life will began as soon as I walk out with my kids.
I totally agree!!! But call out Elvis, Jerry Lee Lewis- his cousin was 13, the sick Catholic priests and Others. These men should have Never Started sexing underage girls or boys. My view is, this Doesn’t have a race on it. Wrong Is Wrong!!! They All Deserved Time.
Jesus, people are so damñ miserable! So sorry to hear this story and glad you’re retired and living the good life.
This makes me think of this college admissions scandal. Mediocre people being goven opportunity after opportunity and the rest of us suffer for it. Smh.
How’s the Mr. and that raccoon treating you? Please say hello to your man for me. That stuffed weasel is on its way ?
Oh well if those women are willing to take their own life to follow Kelly to the grave, how is anybody supposed to stop that? It won’t be the first time a cult commutes mass suicide.
Oh! Didn’t you know? He waited until she was “of age” before touching her. ?
Yeah right—
I bet Chicago is like can we please just disappear or fade into the background. Every other day it’s a story about Kelly or Jussie in Chicago
Whew! ?
The Roo ran up and said ‘You can’t drop in whenever you feel like it”. LOL.
Your story, too, has made me smile this morning. Continued covering and blessings to you.
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Touching maybe, But Not Sex!!!
How you gonna dance but forget to sing the lyrics along wit it?
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I have health issues that sometimes put me out of work for a week or more if i have to have procedures/surgery. My former boss (retired December 2018) was soooo understanding of this. I’ve got a new boss beginning next month and pray she will be equally understanding.
God bless you and continue to favor you.
IKR!
Thank you so much because I AM enjoying it. I just did it in early November. That was what I was thankful for when Thanksgivings came. Lol, now I don’t have to feel like crying and throwing things when Sunday rolls around. Child, that meme of Fantasia shaking her head and flailing her hands and crying was me when Sunday night came. To not be obligated to get up is a blessing. I never did anything to him other than to treat him and everyone else nicely. His mom is his connection to every job he ever had. But given the way that he acted with me about caring for my mom, I hope that she has someone other than him to depend on because he is not going to be her ride or die. He is way too selfish for that. How unhappy do you have to be to put so much effort into trying to bring someone down who is doing the right thing and who has NEVER done anything to you but be nice? His day is coming. Karma is a…….you know the rest. Have a great day.
Yup! Every last one of them…Mexican, White, Black African Italian allem!
i truly feel that this man will commit suicide if he gets convicted
Don’t use the microwave sis. It’s no good for you. Boil your water on the stove if you can. They’re poisoning us up and down and the microwave is part of it.
My grandma and her sisters swear by a shot of lemon, honey and olive oil mixed together. The lemon has vitamin c, the honey is antibacterial and the olive oil soothes the throat. That and some whale and/or shark oil. It tastes so bad that the cold will leave just to get away from it.
Get well soon!
I feel you…I have recently started a job too and my Lead just kind told me to do the work and every now and then she will give me a few nuggets but as soon as I do something that’s not right, “well we can not do that, that is against policy or reg.” I’m trying my best to everything other than that “black” girl….but I’m starting to get irritated with this foolishness!
Oh! I thought you were microwaving it for hours! Silly me. The microwave is still bad though . . .
SEE…that mess made a grown man cry!
Shoot, he’s the one setting up the camera!
If they got scholarships they should have to repay the money. Just terrible
Her heart ain’t in it … Brandy out here just making a damn buck …… disappointing …. your heart gotta be in it in order for that gift (voice) she has to work for her …. heart just ain’t in it …. smh https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3b129c4a30dc33abe9a109ff1f57142dd02ffdc2df90d86778db909d7f4f4d41.gif
Yep. Pick that one bag of cotton then VAMOOSE!
Ohhh…poor woman. Then she just open her mouth, pour her heart into it and just Sing. Forget being cool.
Afterall, Whit couldn’t dance either.
Do what you’ve been doing alll your life…just Sing.
I hate a selfish man/person. His mother has most likely coddled him his entire life and he has no respect for her…….or perhaps, women in general. THAT’S the source right there…….his mama! November wasn’t too long ago. And November isn’t too far away. You’ll hear about him soon enough. That’s how the universe works. You do the same.
Or ask celine dion why did her husband mortgage his house when he met her when she was 12 years old.
It took her a good while to get back up.
I think she just ain’t in to it no more …… it has become a chore for her looks like and when it get like that with anything …. job etc …… ya fugg up !!
After dealing with your rage I hope you’d make the mature decision.
Man why Celine looks like she’s fukkin 75 yrs old? I heard some young thang causing her to age faster than a banana
I was thinking that this morning.
Those parents called it in, since they cant get a welfare check of their own.
Looked like she was putting her shoes back on. A real G woulda kept them off and kept it movin’.
NewNewwwwww……..Lol, you know the extra w’s are me screaming your name old school style. How are you and yours? Mister is doing alright and so is the raccoon. His little behind has been back but Mister went and found some type of repellent that STINKS to high heaven. It must work because I have not heard him scratching on the roof in a few days. I have my fingers crossed.
Old boy WAS looking for the weasel, Lol, I told him it was coming but it was on back order. He is satisfied with that. I hope that you and hubby are well and warm.
Babeee!……You talk about hard, me and my mom were close. I made sure that I took her out to lunch after her weekly Dr’s appointments. In the end, she didn’t even know me. The last thing she said to me after months of not speaking a word was you look beautiful and a few days after that, she was gone. I can sympathize with anyone who has that to face. I pray that God will give you and your family the strength, as he did me, to endure whatever may come. It is such a sad situation. I just keep wondering why? It just seems like such a pointless disease. You have it hard enough just trying to survive and then THIS. Well God only knows why. Be blessed and know that I understand and I will keep you in my prayers. If I see you on Sandrarose, I’ll holler. You won’t be by yourself.
Every parent did not tell their child to go have sex with this man. He’s getting just what the hell he deserves. As far as other races of molesters, I don’t see how that excuses R. Kelly. Especially considering that there are many Black women and Black parents who survived his abuse/of their daughters. These people shouldn’t get justice because of what’s being done/not being done to abusers of other races. SMH
Yea I am still waiting on another good album from her….got my fingers crossed.
He did that is why everyone in now finding tapes from 20 years ago…they should have gotten him then
Just a visualization, and a whoo-saaa. Then hit them where it hurts with publicty and a legal team.
Honesty, I have a hard time backing my sisters when I’ve seen and know what a lot of them have done and are doing, you play with fire you might get burnt!
I only travel to country’s I can get paid for my tech skills unless my family is there. That’s a manufacturer country that says something isn’t right for me!
LEAVE THIS MAN ALONE! GET SOME OTHER BUSINESS! DAYUM!
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Many Blessings to you and your mother ??
Shyt it is rough on the body sexually when u go from sexing shady acres playing playing chess 2 the college dorm n skateboards.
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Imagine how confused I am, 5 hours after you posted this. I’m scrolling, scrolling, passed hundreds of comments and I’m wondering if there’s ANY on topic…
Real Divas handle the pressure.
I think you’ve hit it on the head. The fire is gone.
Unless maybe she’s struggling with depression or some other illness.
Yeah I have thought this even before his interview with Gayle, but after I was sure. I hope it does not come to pass
It’s Not Excusing Anyone!!! That’s what I am stating including others. Anyone who has Harmed A Child should be Held Accountable, Anyone. Parents Didn’t have to tell their children to have sex, But they Are Responsible for their children safety and well-being, Period.
I know that’s right!! LOL
Don’t give them what they want. I play meditation music at my desk for healing and positive energy trust it works!
Trust your ancestors they are there to help us on the other side you don’t have to lift a finger or say a word in this life if you wish not to?
It will all work out in your favor??
They’re doing too much! We see with our own eyes how they do black men. Notice how they focused on him being illiterate on SNL! They love using black people to tear other black people down.
They stay in the office lying on folks. It’s sad when one of your own does it as well.
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Do you work in a school?
Tell me, I need some pointers!
That’s right Claire!
She’s paper thin and looks like she’s using Elmer;’s Glue for foundation.
They look sooo cute, but are Beasts l0l!!
A friend of mine has a daughter who has lived there for two years. She likes it!
Parents on CBS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aJG12zpsDZc
They have gotten several welfare checks on those girls. At this point they are attention hungry. Why put that out in the media. They might could’ve gotten their daughters back home a year ago if they weren’t steady embarrassing them all the time. Savage family recording that girl when she came home asking her about 3somes she might have had. And put it on YouTube
My parents went and said they enjoyed it.
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Morning……..Wow, just wow! I didn’t know that when we were discussing my co-worker/ slash mama’s boy that was giving me trouble about caring for my mom, that you had a similar situation going on. Some folks have got NO empathy at all. How is your mom coping? That had to have scared her to no end. I prayed to God to give her peace and wellness in this situation. Your Supervisor had a lot of nerve to throw it in your face about your siblings not helping. How the hell does she know that? Even if it were true, it was not her place to say it. I would have been hard-pressed not to slap the taste out of her mouth on principle alone. As I told the slacker after he became my boss, that I firmly believe in God fighting my battles. I told him when people wrong me, I don’t do revenge. I turn it over to God and let him handle it especially when I have never done anything to that person. I let him know that anyone could TRY to do to me all that they thought that they were big enough to do. But that God ain’t dead and he sees you. After that lol, he tried to stay out of my way because with his mom being an evangelist, he knew what time it was when I put the word on him.
Going forward, If she survives, I wonder if her own health scare will have an effect on how she treats other people that have health situations in their lives? I hope that she learns from this. Stay strong and have a good day. Oh Jesus, I just saw where you said that she didn’t change. Well then, whatever happens next is on her.
Ooh no! Thank God!!! Lol
My mother is doing well. She was initially shocked as we both were when we heard the news. But she was fine after that. She’s a strong woman. She’s literally “the sweetest thing I’ve ever known.” It was my fault that my supervisor knew my siblings don’t help. My slip up. My frustration. Should have known better. And that’s my thing, you’re right, she should have never said anything about it. Not ONCE, as a supervisor, did she say “I’m sorry you’re going through this. Why don’t you look into getting FMLA to accommodate your situation.” Not ONCE! She got personal. So from that day forward (August) it has been my mission to get from under her. I have been at this job for 15 years, so finding something comparable is a challenge. But, things are in the works. I come in, keep my head down and do the just enough. I won’t do extra. Just send your continued prayers that The Almighty sees favor and I get something better.
My church member went too. I’m going the first opportunity I have.
I am still on the fence
Morning Sweetie…….I am glad that she is doing well. Let’s hear it for strong women and sweet moms! Mine was a sweetie too. I, myself, had to be hella strong when the ending situation came with my mom. I have one sister that is older than me by 8 years and no brothers. When I tell you that God will protect you from evil when you don’t even know it’s there, I am living proof of that. God revealed after my mother passed, the evil that is my sister. I treated her like a good sister should and she treated me like trash behind my back. God revealed it and I HAD TO CUT ALL TIES with her in 2007. I was told that if I had done to her the things that she had done to me, because of jealousy, that she couldn’t have handled it. So I know about so-called “family” and having to be strong.
I know that it is hard for you to have to do things without any help but you will receive your blessings because your heart is in the right place and God sees all. Sometimes when you vent about something personal with people in conversation, you NEVER expect it to be used against you at a later date. Your supervisor was wrong on so many levels to get personal. A hater like her, will never be helpful to your plight. I can see why you are trying to leave. As long as she is there, you will always feel some type of way when you see her. I will pray that God places you in a better position. And if he thinks that for whatever reason you need to stay there, I will pray that he at least removes her so that you can get to retirement with no more BS. You gonna be alright you’ll see. Enjoy the rest of your day.
Parents are responsible for their kids behavior this is true but they can only be as responsible as they are aware of what the damn child is doing. My mother couldn’t stop me from running around and screwing grown ass men at 15 if she didn’t know that’s what I was doing. She was my mother, not an all knowing oracle!
WHOOOO ARE YOU AND WHERE DID YOU COME FROM!!!!!!!???????
OH EEEMMM GEEEEEE!!!!!!!!
Long story short.
My mom had five children. She has three children left. Her two oldest children (my older sister and brother) have gone on. It’s me, my sister and brother left. We’re all three years apart. I’m the youngest. My sister (who is the oldest – by six years) and I have NOT spoken since 2010 (or earlier, I can’t remember how long it’s been – I sleep GOOD at night). She is (when you count the two oldest) by definition the “middle child”. The one time that we did “speak”, so much came out as to why she had been “mad”. I thought after that it was resolved. Come to find out, she thought about some more stuff and been mad ever since. But during our talk she would bring up things from when we were KID’S! KIIIIIDDD’S! She made me aware that “you can’t play and joke with everybody”. Because for the most part……MOST FOLKS don’t get the joke and take it to heart. I didn’t know that there were that many uptight serious folks out here. Said all of that to say, YOU are a highlight to me right now. I am a firm believer of The Almighty placing folks in your path at the right moment. Nothing is by chance. Nothing is by coincidence. In reading your post, I was kinda side-eyeing it like “do I know this person?” LOL Needless to say, thank you for your encouraging words, because EVERYTHING YOU have said in this post……..is and has been confirmation (and affirmation) for me! Thank you, again!
I love to travel. Only the Arctic and Iceland are off my list.
You are quite welcome. Anything that I can do to help….I’m here. I also sleep well. I am the type of person that if I can help you I will. Even if the only way is in sharing my similar story with you so that you know you aren’t alone. SOMEBODY besides God understands. I never hurt if I can help it. All of my sister’s 5 children except the one that I raised has abandoned me. When I stopped conversing with their mother for her evilness, they stopped conversing with me. Which is fine because I am a firm believer that I am gonna get a financial blessing because I do like helping people and I would like to do it on a grander scale. I was the type of auntie that was there for them for EVERYTHING and I shared everything with them and their mother. Now imagine how they are going to be looking when I get my blessings and they get nothing. Lol, too bad, so sad. You know God must have put us together to talk because I kid you not, that sister of mine was bringing up things that we didn’t have when we were kids. I thought to myself…why does that matter now? We weren’t cold or hungry to my recollection. Be thankful for the many things that you have now. I’m not gonna lie, I was shocked that at her age, she would be thinking about what her friends had that we didn’t. It was strange because so many years had passed. I am sure that we had some things that maybe her friends didn’t. So effing what! Get over it. That jealousy shaped her into someone that I don’t care to know or associate with. God REALLY saved me from her. You have no idea the depths of her evilness. He really had to give me peace with the situation. Let me make you laugh. The first time that I got married, it wasn’t because I was so in love. It was because I saw that as my only way to escape babysitting BeBe’s kid’s with no pay. Even in college, I couldn’t do what I wanted to do because I had to get HER kids. Cured me from wanting any of my own that’s for sure. I never regretted it. I feel like I dodged a bullet. Now I am as giddy as a schoolgirl. Holler at me anytime.
Same here. I lived abroad and we travel every year. My next trips are Africa and Thailand.
OH MY WORLD! My WORLD! My WORLD!!!!!!!
Same. Same. Same! Sorta. Her son(s) (one is “away”) still talks to me. There is no rift between us and our children. My daughter still talks to her and her son still talks to me. However, most of the family side eye’s her on a lot of things. My mother wants so badly for us to come together, but I had to tell her, I don’t have the problem with her, she has a problem with me. Things will NEVER be 100 between us. I can fix most things when it comes to you, but THIS, I can’t do. I don’t chase women, friend, family or foe. It’s not in me. She suffers from what is it, delusion (illusion) of grandeur? Is that what I’m trying to say? She has hardly any friend’s. I still have ALL of my day 1’s. ALLUM! She is the “middle child” to the max.
Can I say this to you tho’……when you said ” I am a firm believer that I am gonna get a financial blessing” and “Now imagine how they are going to be looking when I get my blessings and they get nothing. Lol, too bad, so sad.”
THAT^^^^^^ is not for YOU to worry about. Don’t block YOUR blessings by thinking someone else isn’t going to get theirs! Get THAT type of thinking out of your head. I don’t find blessings in the “financial aspect”. I pray for wealth every day…..but I don’t worry about money, if THAT makes any sense. For two years, I’ve been asking to transfer from under my supervisor. Never once have I asked for a pay RAISE! Not ONCE! I’ve always gave them the option of me accepting a “lateral” move. I even allowed them to offer me a drop in my pay grade……but I won’t allow them to give me a pay cut. There’s a difference. When money isn’t a factor in your life, your blessings will be more clear. Between two jobs (the second one is by choice) I work seven days a week. My 2nd job pays me less than what I make at my full-time job…….but guess which one I love more! That 2nd one. Weird, huh? I’m with you on everything you said. I ask The Almighty daily, to put me in a position where I can elevate MORE people. And watch how your blessings will flow. They will sustain you. It’s a blessing to be a blessing. But having the mindset of how folks are going to react to YOUR blessings, again, is not for YOU to worry about. You want people around you that will genuinely be happy for you. Not people who will envy you. THAT energy is toxic. Said all of THAT to say……….it’s coming for everybody that has put it out in the universe. Anything that you speak from you, is of you. Words mean things. Only speak great things from you. Only think positive things. The mind is powerful. If you knew how powerful your thoughts were, you’d never think a negative thought again. Let’s do this!
Crazier by the second….
So true!!! But if your parent found out while You were underage, she would be Responsible for acting accordingly. I would as a mother, bet that.
There is a lot of wisdom in what you say. I am not really worrying about their reactions though. I just know how they are. But when I said they get nothing, I didn’t mean that God was not going to give them anything nor was I wishing that he didn’t. He blesses the just and the unjust. I just meant that they wouldn’t be getting anything from me the auntie that did everything for them. Only because they stopped talking to me years ago and we have had zero contact. That situation is one that I turned over to God to fight for me. I don’t do revenge. Definitely not trying to block my blessings or anyone else’s for that matter. It is not odd that you like the 2nd job more. Could it be a case of one paying the bills and the other one feeding the soul? I saw where you went to Hawaii and I thought how cool is it that she has been where I dream of going. I know that it was beautiful. One day, one day.
I just read an article on “The Land of No Men”. It’s an all female Kenyan village. Where will you stop?
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I understood what you meant when you said they would “get nothing”. I understood it to mean that you weren’t going to share in your gift giving. I get it. And even still, I would give. Little. But I would give. You are so right on “revenge”. I don’t either. I just go on about my way. The best revenge is to live your life accordingly. The 2nd job is, IDK, not feeding the soul. I can’t really put my finger on it. The 2nd job is what I call my “she money”. LOL Yes I went to Hawaii. Just because. It was nice. It was even nicer to get to see and spend a little bit of time with one of my brother’s. Although the only time spent was when he showed up to the airport. That was it! LOL I make it my duty to go somewhere at least twice a year. I wasn’t born to work and pay bills all my life. All this work and nothing to gain from it? I have to sow and pour into me for the people around me to grow as well. You’re retired, you better get there………soon. LOL
I think this was featured and I saw it. Let me go revisit.
Good morning………I would LOVE to go to Hawaii, but I have a little problem with flying. Lol, I DON’T WANT TO DO IT. I have been on a cruise and we had planned on doing another one. Do they have cruises that go to Hawaii? I never paid it any attention. I am in the South, so it was easier for me to grab a cruise to the Bahamas. Not so sure how that might work if they have one to Hawaii. It is on my bucket list.
You know you are so right about sowing into yourself so that you can be able to continue to be a blessing to others. Let me make you laugh. A few years back, I was helping this young lady that suffered with epileptic seizures as well as being mildly retarded. At least three times a week, she would meet me on the walkway as I came to work. On the weekends, I would take her to get her groceries and clothes shopping if she wanted to. This went on for some time and it was wearing on me a little bit because I still had to deal with my own stuff, you know what I mean? So I had a conversation with God and I said Lord, you know I don’t mind helping her or anyone one else. But if you let her run me crazy, I’m not gonna be any good to help anybody else. So if I could just get maybe two weeks off from her I’ll be alright. That was my prayer. Well for two days coming to work, she wasn’t meeting me as I walked up the sidewalk and I thought God had answered my prayers.
Child, on that third day walking up the sidewalk to work, who was waiting on me, meeting me? I just stopped and looked up at the sky and I said Lord, you know I love you but you was wrong for this. I prayed for a two week break and I got two days. I started laughing and said well, Lord I guess all you heard was the two huh? I had to laugh at myself with that one. I talk to God all the time like he is an old friend, so I knew that he knew I wasn’t trying to be disrespectful to him. At that point, I was just so worn out with her and everything else, I just had to make a joke out of it. Long story short, I sucked up my two day vacation, put a smile on my face and kept helping her. Sometimes, child, sometimes.
This made me smile! When he sends us a duty, we can’t complain. We have to do it. He said “here is your 2”. Two weeks is a two years to HIM! LOL And yes, I do believe that they have cruises that go to Hawaii. I’ve been on enough cruises. I don’t plan on another. I get EXTREMELY sick.
Every time that I think about that situation, I laugh. My “2” days was like two weeks to him I guess. It was a struggle at times for me with her because I worked in the courthouse and I had to juggle my work with her visits. I was surprised that they allowed her to come in and stay all day like that. Sometimes when she had a seizure, she wouldn’t exactly know what she was doing and a couple of times she relieved herself in the corner of the lobby. So yeah, I was looking for a TWO WEEK break. God said “take these two days and deal with it”. I said yes Sir! I wasn’t her counselor or anything. I was just her friend because so many tried to take advantage of her that I had to help her.
I never get sick on a cruise because I stay filled up with Dramamine. Have you tried that? Sea sickness is such a miserable feeling. You feel like saying “Lawd, take me now”!
I was just her friend because so many tried to take advantage of her
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And THIS is why she was put in your life. HE chose you. People are put in your life for a reason. She needed you and you probably unknowingly needed her, if only for a little while. Bless you.
Dramamine. The patch. Green apples. ALL OF IT! It’s a no-go. I can never make it through a whole dinner. But when I go to bed and wake up the next morning…….I’m a new woman! Maybe because I know I’m getting off that ship to go get me some conch salad. LOL
Well, dealing with her taught me to have A LOT more patience. That is one thing that came out of our association. I had good patience before in dealing with people. NOW after dealing with her, I have the patience of Job. I honestly do like helping where I can. If I can get my back to act right, I am considering volunteering at maybe the senior citizens assoc. maybe meals on wheels or helping to prepare the food. I am told that I cook very well. That could be an avenue. When I was working, I used to donate to meals on wheels, maybe now I can do both. But first, I am not going to obligate myself to do anything. I am going to suck up some of this retirement and party. I’ll throw some drinks down in your honor.
So sorry that nothing works for your seasickness. Lol, I have to give you credit though for still going on the cruise even though you know you are going to get sick. That conch salad must be hell to brave sickness. I ain’t mad. I have had conch fritters and just regular conch cooked in a slow cooker until really tender and doused with hot sauce. I haven’t had the salad. If you don’t mind, what is in the salad? Curious tastebuds want to know.
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I read somewhere before…..”The mentally challenged are placed in (some) people’s lives to teach them patience.” I’ve learned to be patient. Yes, drink up for me. LOL
I love conch and conch fritters. The conch salad is like the freshest thing in the world to me. They make it fresh (out the shell/water) right in front of you. The recipe is as follows:
Conch (or cooked shrimp)
tomato
green pepper
onion
orange
lemon
lime
olive oil (my tweak)
Nature’s seasoning (salt & pepper)
Mel’s Seasoning (hot salt)
Mix. Marinate. Enjoy.
Good Morning Yoni………OMG, that conch salad sounds so good! My guilty pleasure is garlic crabs. With me being in Georgia, right on the coast, fresh seafood is PLENTIFUL. I can get my garlic crabs year round. They boil the crabs with real garlic and whatever other seasonings they use. They they melt butter and real garlic in a sloe cooker and let it cook
I went to an all-you-can-eat crab leg dinner on Friday. I’m STILL thinking about it. LOL
Baybeee…….Won’t those crabs do it for you, if they are done right? Girl, don’t make me go to my spot today for my crabs. That could be my lunch!
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